WEBVTT - Best Bits: Listener Q&A With Morgan and Amy 0:00:01.080 --> 0:00:04.680 Best Bits of the week with Morgan Listener Q and A. 0:00:09.039 --> 0:00:11.799 Here we are listener Q and A time. Amy is 0:00:11.840 --> 0:00:14.480 still with me, she hasn't left yet, but we got 0:00:14.520 --> 0:00:16.640 some shout outs to start with you ready for these? 0:00:16.640 --> 0:00:20.240 These make you feel good shout out from Karen Unmedicated. 0:00:20.280 --> 0:00:22.560 Amy is so funny and I love her defending lunch. 0:00:22.880 --> 0:00:23.520 Oh thanks. 0:00:23.880 --> 0:00:25.880 We got Emily who says she loves what you bring 0:00:25.920 --> 0:00:30.000 to the show and you're a genuine Jim, genuine Jim Jim. 0:00:29.960 --> 0:00:32.040 That genuine, genuine Jim. 0:00:32.159 --> 0:00:36.400 Thank you. And then Amy Lynne said, great job with 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:39.080 these weekend podcasts. They're getting better and better. And she 0:00:39.159 --> 0:00:40.879 had a fun question for you that I'm leaving at 0:00:40.880 --> 0:00:42.640 the very end of this because I also kind of 0:00:42.640 --> 0:00:45.839 want to know. And then Jennifer said, I appreciate you 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:49.200 ladies being honest with your life journeys, struggles and strengths. 0:00:49.760 --> 0:00:51.640 So oh well, those make you. 0:00:51.640 --> 0:00:55.120 Feel good to start, Yeah, especially the Unmedicated one, because 0:00:55.200 --> 0:00:59.680 I have felt a little bit. Actually I felt nervous, 0:00:59.720 --> 0:01:02.160 but I really honestly have felt good. But then I 0:01:02.200 --> 0:01:05.479 wonder if my version of good is okay. 0:01:05.240 --> 0:01:07.319 Well, if it's your if you feel good and it's 0:01:07.360 --> 0:01:08.960 your version then you keep probing with it. 0:01:09.080 --> 0:01:11.640 I know, I just don't know it's translating because you know, 0:01:11.880 --> 0:01:13.800 like right now you can't see, but I shake a 0:01:13.800 --> 0:01:16.640 lot more when I'm not on my you know, ADHD 0:01:16.840 --> 0:01:19.640 stuff Like I'm constantly like shaking or twitching or. 0:01:20.280 --> 0:01:21.720 Well, hey, this is why you need one of the 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:24.720 fidget rings. You can start playing with them and that'll help. 0:01:25.000 --> 0:01:27.119 It's okay, you're doing great and I'm proud of you. 0:01:27.680 --> 0:01:28.000 All right. 0:01:28.040 --> 0:01:32.760 We got starting off Julie in North Carolina celebrity interview 0:01:33.000 --> 0:01:36.080 where we've maybe blacked out from nerves or starstruck. 0:01:38.240 --> 0:01:42.560 I've never blacked out from nerves at all. When I 0:01:42.600 --> 0:01:47.240 saw Reese Witherspoon one time backstage at the CMA's or something, I. 0:01:47.360 --> 0:01:50.360 Regret just because you were kind of geeking out. 0:01:50.840 --> 0:01:53.320 Yeah, I definitely was like, hi, like I've I mean, 0:01:53.560 --> 0:01:54.240 I guess I don't. 0:01:55.560 --> 0:01:57.440 I'm not even bear. I don't know. Maybe I was 0:01:57.440 --> 0:01:58.320 a little embarrassed, like. 0:01:58.320 --> 0:02:00.960 If I were to be able to watch me doing that, 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:04.000 you know, like hovering above just to see, I'd probably 0:02:04.080 --> 0:02:05.240 be embarrassed for myself. 0:02:05.320 --> 0:02:07.560 But also in the moment, it's like, well whatever, when. 0:02:09.040 --> 0:02:11.560 When Doy you don't always get to see Reeze Witherspoon 0:02:11.639 --> 0:02:13.440 coming out of a door right when you're walking by. 0:02:13.800 --> 0:02:15.480 And it was backstage, very intimate. Its like there was 0:02:15.520 --> 0:02:17.440 tons of people and then out opens this door and 0:02:17.440 --> 0:02:19.959 then out walks Witherspoon. You're like you have to say hi, 0:02:20.520 --> 0:02:21.760 and that you're like a big fan. 0:02:22.280 --> 0:02:22.960 So I did that. 0:02:23.000 --> 0:02:25.280 I guess I don't regret it, but I mean I 0:02:25.280 --> 0:02:27.800 didn't pass out, but I think I overreacted. 0:02:28.240 --> 0:02:31.119 That's okay. Geeking out, I think is better than the other, 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:33.360 which is like you go totally crazy or you just 0:02:33.400 --> 0:02:35.600 like freeze up. Yeah, you know, so at least it's 0:02:35.600 --> 0:02:38.400 still genuine. I had that kind of similar moment with 0:02:38.480 --> 0:02:39.959 Lance Bass at Iheartfest. 0:02:40.360 --> 0:02:41.160 Oh yeah, I remember that. 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:42.760 I gotta meet him, and I think what came out 0:02:42.800 --> 0:02:46.080 of my mouth was I love everything you guys have done. Yeah, 0:02:46.120 --> 0:02:47.840 and that's not a horrible thing to say, but it 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:51.600 just wasn't It wasn't very poised. It was just kind 0:02:51.600 --> 0:02:54.560 of like word vomit. So I do feel that that 0:02:54.680 --> 0:02:58.880 was Lance Bass. But the one where I had major, 0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:02.639 major nerves. The first big interview I ever did was 0:03:02.680 --> 0:03:05.600 with Garth Brooks and it was in Wichita. I got 0:03:05.600 --> 0:03:07.760 sent to his press conference. He was doing like six 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:10.919 shows in Wichita, and this was the first major major 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:14.560 star and I wasn't planning on talking to him doing anything. 0:03:14.560 --> 0:03:16.240 I was just there for the press conference for social 0:03:16.320 --> 0:03:18.239 media and he looks at me, he goes, are you 0:03:18.280 --> 0:03:22.239 gonna ask me any questions? And I was like, ah, yeah. 0:03:22.400 --> 0:03:25.360 So I just like pulled my boots on and I 0:03:25.400 --> 0:03:27.640 was like, Okay, here we go. And I interviewed Garth Brooks. 0:03:27.720 --> 0:03:29.920 But I was so nervous because it was Garth Brooks 0:03:29.960 --> 0:03:32.239 and I wasn't at all prepared. I didn't have anything. 0:03:32.360 --> 0:03:36.120 Like he just was willing to talk to every single outlet. 0:03:35.760 --> 0:03:38.000 And I was like, tell you is yeah, Okay, here 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:38.360 we go. 0:03:38.840 --> 0:03:40.880 And I was new. I was so green. I had 0:03:40.880 --> 0:03:43.720 no idea what was happening. So that one was crazy. 0:03:43.920 --> 0:03:45.600 I think after I have no idea what I said, 0:03:45.960 --> 0:03:48.240 no idea, and he just like kind of walked with 0:03:48.280 --> 0:03:50.000 me through it like a dad and a daughter. 0:03:50.000 --> 0:03:51.640 Also, it was probably a good person to get for 0:03:51.640 --> 0:03:53.200 the first time because he will walk you through it, 0:03:53.240 --> 0:03:53.560 you know. 0:03:53.640 --> 0:03:56.800 Yeah, because he's so good at it. Danielle in Kentucky, 0:03:57.480 --> 0:04:00.880 not Daniella. Daniel in Kent. He wants to know your 0:04:01.000 --> 0:04:02.960 top five traits you're looking for and a guy. 0:04:04.280 --> 0:04:06.360 Oh funny. 0:04:08.680 --> 0:04:10.960 Keep in mind I haven't prepared o. 0:04:11.720 --> 0:04:13.600 But like I mean. 0:04:13.520 --> 0:04:18.359 Breezy, like you know, I don't think, sorry, let me 0:04:18.400 --> 0:04:21.239 think like gray, like living in the gray, like able 0:04:21.240 --> 0:04:25.600 to bend not you know, like. 0:04:27.920 --> 0:04:31.719 You know what I mean? Okay, you but. 0:04:33.480 --> 0:04:37.040 Easy going it's different than easy going. I guess it's 0:04:37.080 --> 0:04:38.960 easy going, but I don't want you to just be like, 0:04:39.040 --> 0:04:41.839 go with the flow all the time. It's more like 0:04:41.880 --> 0:04:46.040 I want you to have firmstances, but also if things 0:04:46.120 --> 0:04:52.240 need to pivot or change, it's not so difficult. And 0:04:52.279 --> 0:04:55.000 then Bendy's a great word, and it's like you can evolve. 0:04:55.640 --> 0:04:59.240 So it's it's it's easygoing sort of fits. But I 0:04:59.240 --> 0:05:02.360 feel like it's different than that too. That's fair, But 0:05:02.640 --> 0:05:04.920 I probably should have said easygoing over bendy. 0:05:05.360 --> 0:05:07.359 No, I like bendy. We'll stick with it. It just. 0:05:09.720 --> 0:05:11.000 Like not so black and white. 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:14.039 Okay, yeah, more gray, Okay, we like it. 0:05:14.200 --> 0:05:21.320 Funny that likes the outdoors, likes kids. 0:05:22.240 --> 0:05:26.719 Uh, but I don't know. I here's the thing. 0:05:27.880 --> 0:05:32.040 I don't know that I want kids more younger than 0:05:32.080 --> 0:05:35.520 I have okay, because one of my friends is like, Amy, 0:05:35.520 --> 0:05:36.560 why are you not going to go out with them? 0:05:36.600 --> 0:05:38.560 I was like, here's three young kids or four? Four 0:05:38.600 --> 0:05:41.200 young kids? I think, because yeah, you have two young kids. 0:05:41.279 --> 0:05:44.719 And I'm like, yeah, but they're fourteen, almost fourteen, and 0:05:44.720 --> 0:05:45.520 almost seventeen. 0:05:45.600 --> 0:05:47.080 That's very different. 0:05:47.000 --> 0:05:50.240 Than like, you know, four year old, eight year old 0:05:50.240 --> 0:05:51.560 and nine year old. I don't know that. 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:57.880 I'm so maybe more somebody with teens like that. What 0:05:58.000 --> 0:06:01.440 else I think there's I mean, obviously the you know, 0:06:02.880 --> 0:06:04.560 I feel like these are givens, like you should say 0:06:04.600 --> 0:06:06.520 that you feel like you can trust them, that there's 0:06:07.120 --> 0:06:11.760 open communication. Maybe we have farveists for past five okay, well, 0:06:11.760 --> 0:06:14.200 but these are some of the obvious you know, yeah, 0:06:14.320 --> 0:06:15.160 so what are but what are? 0:06:15.240 --> 0:06:15.520 Okay? 0:06:15.680 --> 0:06:18.080 I'm just sharing what everyone should expect for themselves as 0:06:18.200 --> 0:06:20.360 someone that is a good communion career and you can 0:06:20.360 --> 0:06:22.120 trust yes and take that take. 0:06:22.000 --> 0:06:24.920 Away the obvious ones, which I do that with Ben. 0:06:24.920 --> 0:06:27.320 By the way, like Ben and I have grown a lot. 0:06:27.400 --> 0:06:29.480 He's a lot more in the gray than he used 0:06:29.520 --> 0:06:33.840 to be, and I totally trust him and I think 0:06:33.880 --> 0:06:35.320 that's why we co parent well too. 0:06:35.440 --> 0:06:36.240 It's almost like. 0:06:38.279 --> 0:06:40.120 We've worked on a lot of the stuff that we 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:43.640 needed to work on. So I'm like, well, probably I 0:06:43.680 --> 0:06:45.680 wonder if sometimes we could have just made it work. 0:06:45.720 --> 0:06:47.600 But do late now? 0:06:48.920 --> 0:06:51.320 Well, you know, you know people that get divorced and 0:06:51.320 --> 0:06:54.800 get back together. I don't know. Everything is by situations. 0:06:54.800 --> 0:06:57.000 Sometimes you have to fall apart to come back together. True, 0:06:57.480 --> 0:07:00.240 So if that's what's meant to happen, then this had 0:07:00.240 --> 0:07:04.360 to happen too, I know. So did I say? 0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:05.760 I'm all? I did because I have more? 0:07:05.839 --> 0:07:08.360 You said, no, Okay, take away all of the things 0:07:08.720 --> 0:07:11.120 that are normal and that like most people look for 0:07:11.200 --> 0:07:12.600 what are like five kind of unique. 0:07:12.800 --> 0:07:15.920 I feel like the bandy is whany you get the funny. 0:07:15.960 --> 0:07:18.120 Not everybody is looking for someone that's funny. 0:07:18.200 --> 0:07:18.480 Okay. 0:07:18.560 --> 0:07:20.080 I really want more. 0:07:19.920 --> 0:07:24.480 Laughter in my life these days. I would really appreciate 0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:27.280 it if they were super handy, Like I like someone 0:07:27.320 --> 0:07:32.000 that knows how to fix something. My dad was very handy, 0:07:32.040 --> 0:07:33.720 So I don't know what's going on with that, but 0:07:34.280 --> 0:07:37.920 I find that really attractive. Like I dated a guy 0:07:38.000 --> 0:07:41.920 in college that could fix anything, and we were we 0:07:41.920 --> 0:07:44.920 were in our young twenties, you know, well, and he 0:07:45.040 --> 0:07:47.440 knew how to do all kinds of things, and I 0:07:47.480 --> 0:07:49.760 just was so attracted that and because my dad could 0:07:49.800 --> 0:07:50.080 do it. 0:07:50.360 --> 0:07:52.640 Even if they can't do it, they're willing to figure 0:07:52.640 --> 0:07:54.640 it out. That's also attractive. If they're like, yeah, no, 0:07:54.680 --> 0:07:55.200 I'll figure it out. 0:07:55.280 --> 0:07:57.280 Ye. But they figure it out, and they actually figure 0:07:57.280 --> 0:07:58.640 it out. It's not like they're just trying to be 0:07:58.640 --> 0:08:00.400 stubborn and be like no, no, no oh, I don't need 0:08:00.440 --> 0:08:01.000 to hire anybody. 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:02.560 I got this, and then it ends up a hot mess. 0:08:02.640 --> 0:08:04.680 No, it's like an attractive like, yeah, let me try 0:08:04.680 --> 0:08:05.360 and figure this out. 0:08:05.520 --> 0:08:07.600 Yeah, I love that. 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:10.160 So Bindi and Handy. 0:08:10.280 --> 0:08:14.320 Yeah they're open to Yeah. Well we've talked about willing 0:08:14.320 --> 0:08:15.640 to evolve and grow and. 0:08:15.600 --> 0:08:16.480 Yes that's important. 0:08:16.520 --> 0:08:22.280 Therapy like that's and that. Yeah. 0:08:22.560 --> 0:08:25.600 Common interest was like friends like doing they're downb for 0:08:25.720 --> 0:08:31.160 like group activities and having lots of fun with friends. Okay, 0:08:31.320 --> 0:08:34.520 that could also sound bad. Bindy and group activity, Daniel. 0:08:34.559 --> 0:08:37.800 I think we've also made Amy habs our like introspective character. 0:08:37.880 --> 0:08:39.040 And that's what I'm saying. 0:08:39.200 --> 0:08:40.959 You know, I do, I do know what you mean. 0:08:41.080 --> 0:08:43.440 I think those are great quality things. But I'm sorry 0:08:43.480 --> 0:08:45.920 for putting you on so made you think about it. 0:08:46.120 --> 0:08:48.559 We got Sierra in California. Who wants to know how 0:08:48.600 --> 0:08:51.080 you spend your time with when your kids are with 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:53.280 their dad, Like. 0:08:53.280 --> 0:08:54.800 I try to get more work done. 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:57.440 I also watched this when I watch a lot of 0:08:57.440 --> 0:08:59.720 my shows because when I have the kids, I don't 0:09:02.240 --> 0:09:05.840 I hike with friends because I don't in all hike. 0:09:06.000 --> 0:09:08.200 Like there's a certain place I like to hike where 0:09:08.200 --> 0:09:09.760 you can't take dogs on the trails. You can only 0:09:09.800 --> 0:09:12.280 take it on the road. And so when the kids 0:09:12.320 --> 0:09:15.440 are gone, the dog is also gone. Because the dog 0:09:15.520 --> 0:09:19.800 is every other part goes with them, right, So I 0:09:19.840 --> 0:09:23.280 get to hike up in the trails on my weeks off. 0:09:23.320 --> 0:09:25.079 Have you go into any of the waterfalls around here? 0:09:25.280 --> 0:09:27.560 No? But I love It's on my list. Yeah, you 0:09:27.559 --> 0:09:29.200 told me about some good ones to go to, and 0:09:29.240 --> 0:09:31.920 I have. I just keep going to the places that 0:09:31.960 --> 0:09:32.560 are easy. 0:09:32.360 --> 0:09:32.680 To get to. 0:09:33.000 --> 0:09:34.680 Well, it's also hard if you doing it on weekday, 0:09:34.720 --> 0:09:36.800 Like those are definitely a weekend activity. 0:09:37.160 --> 0:09:38.400 Yeah, which I probably should do that. 0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:41.800 Well, Like this Friday night on the kids and I've 0:09:41.800 --> 0:09:44.000 got like some girlfriends coming over to watch. 0:09:43.800 --> 0:09:44.920 That movie Parachute. 0:09:45.559 --> 0:09:46.440 I never heard of that one. 0:09:47.320 --> 0:09:49.559 It just came out recently, but it's about body image 0:09:49.760 --> 0:09:53.600 and two of the girls coming or therapists. I think 0:09:53.640 --> 0:09:58.560 they are just very interested in watching it. Brittany Snow, 0:09:58.679 --> 0:10:01.719 I think it produced it. It's loosely maybe based on 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:05.720 some of her experiences with her eating disorder and body 0:10:05.760 --> 0:10:10.520 image stuff. But it's called parachute. So that's how we 0:10:10.600 --> 0:10:11.440 spending with time. 0:10:11.720 --> 0:10:12.839 I hope we get tay food. 0:10:12.880 --> 0:10:15.600 I don't know yet, Oh fun, are you on a 0:10:15.720 --> 0:10:16.680 Tai food kick right now? No? 0:10:16.720 --> 0:10:18.840 But I've eve been craving it and I'm hoping that 0:10:18.920 --> 0:10:21.600 when I throw it out there that everyone's be like, oh, yeah, 0:10:21.600 --> 0:10:24.240 Tye food. But if not, I could just get it 0:10:24.280 --> 0:10:24.840 for myself. 0:10:25.520 --> 0:10:26.599 But when your order you can do that. 0:10:26.640 --> 0:10:27.800 It's easier to get. 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:31.160 It from one place. Or maybe we'll just cook and 0:10:31.200 --> 0:10:33.400 make things. But I don't know. 0:10:34.120 --> 0:10:37.480 I spend a lot of time with my cat Maggie. Yeah, 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:40.319 she's so adorable. She is so pretty lame. 0:10:40.600 --> 0:10:42.880 No, that's not lame. I like all the things you're doing. 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:45.320 You're in a very fun season and you're doing pine 0:10:45.320 --> 0:10:45.720 needles too. 0:10:45.760 --> 0:10:49.160 And now I'm gonna work on my part. So if 0:10:49.160 --> 0:10:49.560 you need. 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:51.040 Help with that, lemon, know I've gotten really good. I've 0:10:51.120 --> 0:10:51.880 quite the green thub. 0:10:51.920 --> 0:10:54.400 Now, oh, I know like you've got it down, but I. 0:10:54.320 --> 0:10:56.400 Did not four years ago when I first started, I 0:10:56.440 --> 0:10:57.760 did not. I have no idea what I was doing. 0:10:57.920 --> 0:10:59.959 So I've got some trees that need to come up 0:11:00.400 --> 0:11:02.160 and then new ones need to go down. And I 0:11:02.160 --> 0:11:04.520 did have a lawn company quote me. And when I 0:11:04.520 --> 0:11:06.480 got the quote, I'm like, what, I feel like I 0:11:06.520 --> 0:11:06.880 could do. 0:11:06.840 --> 0:11:09.640 This, Like you got to pull them out and put 0:11:09.679 --> 0:11:10.280 new ones in? 0:11:10.880 --> 0:11:11.320 Yeah? 0:11:11.640 --> 0:11:12.640 How big you are the trees? 0:11:14.400 --> 0:11:17.520 I don't They're not huge? Are they about like bushes? 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:19.800 Oh? No, we can do that. 0:11:20.040 --> 0:11:20.920 We can, are you sure? 0:11:21.040 --> 0:11:21.280 Yeah? 0:11:21.360 --> 0:11:23.200 I guess it depends on how deep the roots go. 0:11:23.880 --> 0:11:25.200 But you may have to take a picture. Let me 0:11:25.240 --> 0:11:25.560 see how. 0:11:25.600 --> 0:11:27.360 Actually I have a picture because I just send it 0:11:27.400 --> 0:11:28.400 to the our people. I'll send it to you. 0:11:28.480 --> 0:11:31.720 Okay, yeah, I think we could. Okay, just let me 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:33.600 know we can. We can figure it out. All right, 0:11:33.600 --> 0:11:35.199 We're gonna take a quick break. We'll be right back. 0:11:38.320 --> 0:11:41.840 Lindsay from Virginia and Kinsey from Vancouver both asked this, 0:11:42.120 --> 0:11:46.480 what is something we're looking forward to most this summer? 0:11:49.040 --> 0:11:50.520 And I can give you seconds to think if you 0:11:50.520 --> 0:11:52.400 need it too, because I have something just because I 0:11:52.400 --> 0:11:53.040 already saw. 0:11:52.880 --> 0:11:54.320 It might get my tonsils out. 0:11:55.160 --> 0:11:57.040 You're looking forward to that, No, but. 0:11:59.160 --> 0:12:01.280 I've had some issues with them for a while, and 0:12:01.280 --> 0:12:04.400 it's like I finally have the time that I might 0:12:04.480 --> 0:12:06.840 do it. Like I finally went into the year nose 0:12:06.880 --> 0:12:09.559 and throat doctor, and yeah, figured it out. So I 0:12:09.600 --> 0:12:11.880 think this might actually be the summer during some of 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:16.120 our time off because I've had these throat issues for years. 0:12:16.280 --> 0:12:19.439 But because of our job, it's difficult to have that downtime. 0:12:19.520 --> 0:12:21.199 Yeah, you gotta have read every time. 0:12:21.520 --> 0:12:22.600 And talking and lah. 0:12:23.600 --> 0:12:28.840 So yeah, I have a crazy story about tonsil surgery. 0:12:29.080 --> 0:12:30.920 My oldest sister woke up when she was getting her 0:12:30.960 --> 0:12:33.600 tonsils out hill and it was not So I have 0:12:33.760 --> 0:12:38.440 like trauma tonsil surgery because of the things she's told 0:12:38.440 --> 0:12:40.800 me that happened during it. But that was a really 0:12:40.840 --> 0:12:43.400 long time ago. Yeah, so I don't think medicine is 0:12:43.400 --> 0:12:43.960 where that was. 0:12:44.160 --> 0:12:48.200 Yeah, I think it will be. I think it'll be good. 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:50.280 I mean, and just like fun things. I mean, my 0:12:50.360 --> 0:12:53.160 daughter's me working a lot of summer camps. She's signed 0:12:53.240 --> 0:12:56.920 up for almost every single camp so much so I 0:12:56.960 --> 0:12:59.000 don't know when we're going to take a trip, Like 0:12:59.080 --> 0:13:01.880 if we do something because she wanted to work so much, 0:13:02.160 --> 0:13:04.760 which will be great, And I told her, like, you can, 0:13:04.840 --> 0:13:06.800 you don't have to work certain weeks, like and we 0:13:06.800 --> 0:13:08.959 can go do something. She's like, I want to try 0:13:09.000 --> 0:13:11.040 to work as much as I can this summer. And 0:13:11.080 --> 0:13:13.560 I'm like, okay, So I don't want to take that 0:13:13.600 --> 0:13:13.959 from her. 0:13:14.240 --> 0:13:14.640 I don't know. 0:13:14.679 --> 0:13:18.400 I think, oh, oh, I'll tell you, okay, tonsils. But also, 0:13:19.280 --> 0:13:21.679 my niece is going to come live with me for 0:13:22.320 --> 0:13:23.080 six weeks. 0:13:23.320 --> 0:13:23.959 Oh fun. 0:13:24.360 --> 0:13:25.600 She wants to explore Nashville. 0:13:25.679 --> 0:13:28.560 Or is yeah, she has to do an internship and 0:13:28.640 --> 0:13:32.560 so she's going to intern for me for six weeks. 0:13:32.559 --> 0:13:35.960 Like she goes to University of Colorado and so she 0:13:36.000 --> 0:13:39.679 lives in Boulder and or is it Colorido University? I 0:13:39.679 --> 0:13:44.480 think's University of Colorado, And I guess she's a business major. 0:13:45.520 --> 0:13:47.520 She's got to do an internship. I have a business 0:13:48.080 --> 0:13:48.640 I'll like it. 0:13:49.280 --> 0:13:51.120 She was so nervous to ask me to, Like she 0:13:51.200 --> 0:13:53.560 texts me this really long text like you can say no, 0:13:53.640 --> 0:13:55.640 it's fine, and I was like, what are you kidding? 0:13:55.679 --> 0:13:57.080 Like I would love to have you, Like she's gonna 0:13:57.120 --> 0:14:02.160 help with podcast stuff and some social thing and I'm 0:14:02.160 --> 0:14:05.160 introducing her to a couple of other friends in town 0:14:05.200 --> 0:14:10.040 that have like other types of businesses, not in you know, media, 0:14:10.120 --> 0:14:14.880 just so she can have different experiences and so if 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:17.320 they want to use her for a little bit, because 0:14:17.320 --> 0:14:19.040 it's not like I'll have things for her all day, 0:14:19.080 --> 0:14:21.080 but she's going to live with me, and then you know, 0:14:21.080 --> 0:14:23.120 maybe one day she can go shadow them and see 0:14:23.800 --> 0:14:28.080 what's going on there and maybe offer feedback to them. 0:14:28.360 --> 0:14:30.360 Like I told her, I was like, you should really 0:14:30.800 --> 0:14:34.520 give your input as a young person, like how you 0:14:34.560 --> 0:14:36.600 think something should be done, or what you think could 0:14:36.600 --> 0:14:40.560 be good for companies at your age. Just exercising that 0:14:40.600 --> 0:14:43.720 part of her brain and speaking up. And I love 0:14:43.760 --> 0:14:46.040 that about her. I think she really will, so I'm 0:14:46.080 --> 0:14:48.120 excited to get her insight as a young person. 0:14:48.280 --> 0:14:49.480 Oh that'll be so fun. 0:14:49.880 --> 0:14:51.320 And I think it'll be fun for my kids to 0:14:51.360 --> 0:14:54.600 have their cousin living with them for you know, she 0:14:54.720 --> 0:14:57.680 just turned twenty one too, so that's really good. You 0:14:57.680 --> 0:15:00.320 can like go to Bartaco and go to Margarita. 0:15:00.120 --> 0:15:02.840 Ooh, which'll be weird, crazy but fun. 0:15:02.920 --> 0:15:03.640 Yeah. 0:15:03.560 --> 0:15:07.360 H mine is my sister is getting married in July. Yeah, 0:15:07.400 --> 0:15:10.080 and I'm really thrilled about that made of honor. I'm 0:15:10.120 --> 0:15:11.560 gonna come with them made of honor speed. It's going 0:15:11.600 --> 0:15:14.560 to be a crazy time. And I have her bachelorette 0:15:14.600 --> 0:15:18.800 coming up. But Amy, I have five weddings this year, 0:15:19.720 --> 0:15:23.040 three of which I am in. Oh my gosh, I 0:15:23.080 --> 0:15:24.640 want to like kind of curl up in a ball. 0:15:25.040 --> 0:15:26.960 I'm loving it. I'm so excited for all the love 0:15:27.000 --> 0:15:29.760 and all my people getting married, and it's crazy. We 0:15:29.800 --> 0:15:32.000 are in crazy times right now. I'm having a twenty 0:15:32.040 --> 0:15:33.200 seven dresses moment. 0:15:33.920 --> 0:15:36.960 So that I mean, can you read can you wear 0:15:37.000 --> 0:15:40.840 the same dress to some of them? Or can you do? Well? 0:15:41.160 --> 0:15:42.960 How what are they being like with the dresses? Did 0:15:42.960 --> 0:15:44.080 they pick them out or do you get to pick 0:15:44.080 --> 0:15:45.640 it out yourself? It just has to be a certain color. 0:15:45.760 --> 0:15:47.720 Yeah, we get to pick them out, so at least 0:15:47.760 --> 0:15:49.000 we get it, like decide what they are. 0:15:49.520 --> 0:15:51.520 I was on Rent the Runway the other day and 0:15:51.560 --> 0:15:54.480 they have bridesmaids dresses, so you can rent okay, and 0:15:54.520 --> 0:15:55.720 you look at that one based on color. 0:15:56.280 --> 0:15:58.680 Yeah, it's really exciting. It's just a lot happening. Like 0:15:58.720 --> 0:16:00.960 my whole year this year is all wait, anytime you 0:16:01.000 --> 0:16:02.920 see me away, I'm doing something related to the wedding, 0:16:02.920 --> 0:16:05.640 whether it's a bachel rep trip or wedding or bridal 0:16:05.640 --> 0:16:09.200 shower anything. So it's that kind of year, all right. 0:16:09.280 --> 0:16:10.920 What is one piece of advice you would give to 0:16:11.000 --> 0:16:13.840 someone who went through a divorce from Angela? 0:16:14.320 --> 0:16:16.360 I guess it just depends on if you have kids 0:16:16.440 --> 0:16:20.440 or not kids, because I think that that's the big 0:16:20.440 --> 0:16:22.680 thing or your circumstance. Like everything that's coming to my 0:16:22.680 --> 0:16:25.400 mind is so specific or coming to my mind is 0:16:25.440 --> 0:16:29.320 so specific to my relationship with Ben, who is someone 0:16:29.360 --> 0:16:31.120 that's been in my life since I was nine years old, 0:16:31.200 --> 0:16:34.440 and I am close to his parents, and so I'm 0:16:34.480 --> 0:16:35.800 doing things differently like. 0:16:35.800 --> 0:16:37.440 I been and I still talk. 0:16:37.760 --> 0:16:40.960 I still communicate with his parents regularly, like they'll always 0:16:41.000 --> 0:16:43.240 be my life. Because for some people, my advice might 0:16:43.280 --> 0:16:45.840 be cut it off all communication, there's no reason you 0:16:45.840 --> 0:16:49.080 don't need to talk. It depends on what the circumstances are, 0:16:49.120 --> 0:16:52.200 because that might absolutely be what my advice would be, 0:16:52.280 --> 0:16:55.640 cut it off and move on, or it might be 0:16:56.800 --> 0:17:00.480 what can you do to have a healthy relationship chip 0:17:01.560 --> 0:17:07.400 and communicate well, especially if there's kids involved and set boundaries. 0:17:07.440 --> 0:17:10.360 I guess that would be my advice. Not knowing your circumstance. 0:17:11.119 --> 0:17:14.320 Establish what your boundaries are early on and stick with them, 0:17:14.359 --> 0:17:18.240 but also be BINDI because boundaries may need to shift 0:17:18.240 --> 0:17:20.399 and change depending. 0:17:20.000 --> 0:17:24.119 On things that evolve. You know. 0:17:25.280 --> 0:17:27.680 I feel like, you know, if the other person gets 0:17:27.680 --> 0:17:31.200 into a relationship, you know that might need to change 0:17:31.200 --> 0:17:33.240 because like Ben and I communicate a certain way. Well, 0:17:33.280 --> 0:17:37.840 if he gets married again, we probably will communicate less, 0:17:38.600 --> 0:17:40.400 just out of respect for other people. 0:17:41.280 --> 0:17:42.320 But also it's weird. 0:17:42.119 --> 0:17:45.480 Because you know, again I still I'm not going to 0:17:45.720 --> 0:17:48.000 never I'm just just going to cut off communication with 0:17:48.040 --> 0:17:52.439