1 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: Best Bits of the week with Morgan Listener Q and A. 2 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:11,799 Speaker 1: Here we are listener Q and A time. Amy is 3 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:14,480 Speaker 1: still with me, she hasn't left yet, but we got 4 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:16,640 Speaker 1: some shout outs to start with you ready for these? 5 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:20,240 Speaker 1: These make you feel good shout out from Karen Unmedicated. 6 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: Amy is so funny and I love her defending lunch. 7 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 2: Oh thanks. 8 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: We got Emily who says she loves what you bring 9 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 1: to the show and you're a genuine Jim, genuine Jim Jim. 10 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 2: That genuine, genuine Jim. 11 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: Thank you. And then Amy Lynne said, great job with 12 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:39,080 Speaker 1: these weekend podcasts. They're getting better and better. And she 13 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 1: had a fun question for you that I'm leaving at 14 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 1: the very end of this because I also kind of 15 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:45,839 Speaker 1: want to know. And then Jennifer said, I appreciate you 16 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:49,200 Speaker 1: ladies being honest with your life journeys, struggles and strengths. 17 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 2: So oh well, those make you. 18 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 3: Feel good to start, Yeah, especially the Unmedicated one, because 19 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 3: I have felt a little bit. Actually I felt nervous, 20 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 3: but I really honestly have felt good. But then I 21 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:05,479 Speaker 3: wonder if my version of good is okay. 22 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:07,319 Speaker 1: Well, if it's your if you feel good and it's 23 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:08,960 Speaker 1: your version then you keep probing with it. 24 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 3: I know, I just don't know it's translating because you know, 25 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 3: like right now you can't see, but I shake a 26 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 3: lot more when I'm not on my you know, ADHD 27 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 3: stuff Like I'm constantly like shaking or twitching or. 28 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 1: Well, hey, this is why you need one of the 29 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: fidget rings. You can start playing with them and that'll help. 30 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:27,119 Speaker 1: It's okay, you're doing great and I'm proud of you. 31 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 3: All right. 32 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 1: We got starting off Julie in North Carolina celebrity interview 33 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 1: where we've maybe blacked out from nerves or starstruck. 34 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 3: I've never blacked out from nerves at all. When I 35 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 3: saw Reese Witherspoon one time backstage at the CMA's or something, I. 36 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 1: Regret just because you were kind of geeking out. 37 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I definitely was like, hi, like I've I mean, 38 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 3: I guess I don't. 39 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 2: I'm not even bear. I don't know. Maybe I was 40 00:01:57,440 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 2: a little embarrassed, like. 41 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 3: If I were to be able to watch me doing that, 42 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 3: you know, like hovering above just to see, I'd probably 43 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 3: be embarrassed for myself. 44 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 2: But also in the moment, it's like, well whatever, when. 45 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 3: When Doy you don't always get to see Reeze Witherspoon 46 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 3: coming out of a door right when you're walking by. 47 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 3: And it was backstage, very intimate. Its like there was 48 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 3: tons of people and then out opens this door and 49 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:19,959 Speaker 3: then out walks Witherspoon. You're like you have to say hi, 50 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 3: and that you're like a big fan. 51 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 2: So I did that. 52 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 3: I guess I don't regret it, but I mean I 53 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 3: didn't pass out, but I think I overreacted. 54 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:31,119 Speaker 1: That's okay. Geeking out, I think is better than the other, 55 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 1: which is like you go totally crazy or you just 56 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: like freeze up. Yeah, you know, so at least it's 57 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 1: still genuine. I had that kind of similar moment with 58 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:39,959 Speaker 1: Lance Bass at Iheartfest. 59 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I remember that. 60 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: I gotta meet him, and I think what came out 61 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:46,080 Speaker 1: of my mouth was I love everything you guys have done. Yeah, 62 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 1: and that's not a horrible thing to say, but it 63 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 1: just wasn't It wasn't very poised. It was just kind 64 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: of like word vomit. So I do feel that that 65 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 1: was Lance Bass. But the one where I had major, 66 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 1: major nerves. The first big interview I ever did was 67 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: with Garth Brooks and it was in Wichita. I got 68 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 1: sent to his press conference. He was doing like six 69 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:10,919 Speaker 1: shows in Wichita, and this was the first major major 70 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 1: star and I wasn't planning on talking to him doing anything. 71 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:16,240 Speaker 1: I was just there for the press conference for social 72 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:18,239 Speaker 1: media and he looks at me, he goes, are you 73 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:22,239 Speaker 1: gonna ask me any questions? And I was like, ah, yeah. 74 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 1: So I just like pulled my boots on and I 75 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:27,640 Speaker 1: was like, Okay, here we go. And I interviewed Garth Brooks. 76 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:29,920 Speaker 1: But I was so nervous because it was Garth Brooks 77 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:32,239 Speaker 1: and I wasn't at all prepared. I didn't have anything. 78 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: Like he just was willing to talk to every single outlet. 79 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 2: And I was like, tell you is yeah, Okay, here 80 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 2: we go. 81 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 1: And I was new. I was so green. I had 82 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 1: no idea what was happening. So that one was crazy. 83 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 1: I think after I have no idea what I said, 84 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: no idea, and he just like kind of walked with 85 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 1: me through it like a dad and a daughter. 86 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 3: Also, it was probably a good person to get for 87 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 3: the first time because he will walk you through it, 88 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 3: you know. 89 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, because he's so good at it. Danielle in Kentucky, 90 00:03:57,480 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: not Daniella. Daniel in Kent. He wants to know your 91 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 1: top five traits you're looking for and a guy. 92 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 2: Oh funny. 93 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: Keep in mind I haven't prepared o. 94 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 2: But like I mean. 95 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:18,359 Speaker 3: Breezy, like you know, I don't think, sorry, let me 96 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:21,239 Speaker 3: think like gray, like living in the gray, like able 97 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 3: to bend not you know, like. 98 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:31,719 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Okay, you but. 99 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 3: Easy going it's different than easy going. I guess it's 100 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 3: easy going, but I don't want you to just be like, 101 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:41,839 Speaker 3: go with the flow all the time. It's more like 102 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:46,040 Speaker 3: I want you to have firmstances, but also if things 103 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 3: need to pivot or change, it's not so difficult. And 104 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 3: then Bendy's a great word, and it's like you can evolve. 105 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 3: So it's it's it's easygoing sort of fits. But I 106 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:02,360 Speaker 3: feel like it's different than that too. That's fair, But 107 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 3: I probably should have said easygoing over bendy. 108 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:07,359 Speaker 1: No, I like bendy. We'll stick with it. It just. 109 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 2: Like not so black and white. 110 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:14,039 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, more gray, Okay, we like it. 111 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 3: Funny that likes the outdoors, likes kids. 112 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 2: Uh, but I don't know. I here's the thing. 113 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:32,040 Speaker 3: I don't know that I want kids more younger than 114 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 3: I have okay, because one of my friends is like, Amy, 115 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 3: why are you not going to go out with them? 116 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 3: I was like, here's three young kids or four? Four 117 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 3: young kids? I think, because yeah, you have two young kids. 118 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:44,719 Speaker 2: And I'm like, yeah, but they're fourteen, almost fourteen, and 119 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 2: almost seventeen. 120 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 1: That's very different. 121 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 2: Than like, you know, four year old, eight year old 122 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 2: and nine year old. I don't know that. 123 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 3: I'm so maybe more somebody with teens like that. What 124 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 3: else I think there's I mean, obviously the you know, 125 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 3: I feel like these are givens, like you should say 126 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 3: that you feel like you can trust them, that there's 127 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 3: open communication. Maybe we have farveists for past five okay, well, 128 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 3: but these are some of the obvious you know, yeah, 129 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:15,160 Speaker 3: so what are but what are? 130 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: Okay? 131 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 3: I'm just sharing what everyone should expect for themselves as 132 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 3: someone that is a good communion career and you can 133 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 3: trust yes and take that take. 134 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,920 Speaker 1: Away the obvious ones, which I do that with Ben. 135 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 2: By the way, like Ben and I have grown a lot. 136 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:29,480 Speaker 3: He's a lot more in the gray than he used 137 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:33,840 Speaker 3: to be, and I totally trust him and I think 138 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 3: that's why we co parent well too. 139 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 2: It's almost like. 140 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 3: We've worked on a lot of the stuff that we 141 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 3: needed to work on. So I'm like, well, probably I 142 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 3: wonder if sometimes we could have just made it work. 143 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:47,600 Speaker 2: But do late now? 144 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 1: Well, you know, you know people that get divorced and 145 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 1: get back together. I don't know. Everything is by situations. 146 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 1: Sometimes you have to fall apart to come back together. True, 147 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 1: So if that's what's meant to happen, then this had 148 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 1: to happen too, I know. So did I say? 149 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 2: I'm all? I did because I have more? 150 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 1: You said, no, Okay, take away all of the things 151 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:11,120 Speaker 1: that are normal and that like most people look for 152 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 1: what are like five kind of unique. 153 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 3: I feel like the bandy is whany you get the funny. 154 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 2: Not everybody is looking for someone that's funny. 155 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 1: Okay. 156 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 2: I really want more. 157 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 3: Laughter in my life these days. I would really appreciate 158 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 3: it if they were super handy, Like I like someone 159 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 3: that knows how to fix something. My dad was very handy, 160 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 3: So I don't know what's going on with that, but 161 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 3: I find that really attractive. Like I dated a guy 162 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 3: in college that could fix anything, and we were we 163 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 3: were in our young twenties, you know, well, and he 164 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 3: knew how to do all kinds of things, and I 165 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 3: just was so attracted that and because my dad could 166 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 3: do it. 167 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 1: Even if they can't do it, they're willing to figure 168 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 1: it out. That's also attractive. If they're like, yeah, no, 169 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: I'll figure it out. 170 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 3: Ye. But they figure it out, and they actually figure 171 00:07:57,280 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 3: it out. It's not like they're just trying to be 172 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 3: stubborn and be like no, no, no oh, I don't need 173 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 3: to hire anybody. 174 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 2: I got this, and then it ends up a hot mess. 175 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 1: No, it's like an attractive like, yeah, let me try 176 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 1: and figure this out. 177 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that. 178 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 1: So Bindi and Handy. 179 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 3: Yeah they're open to Yeah. Well we've talked about willing 180 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 3: to evolve and grow and. 181 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 1: Yes that's important. 182 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 2: Therapy like that's and that. Yeah. 183 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 3: Common interest was like friends like doing they're downb for 184 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 3: like group activities and having lots of fun with friends. Okay, 185 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 3: that could also sound bad. Bindy and group activity, Daniel. 186 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 1: I think we've also made Amy habs our like introspective character. 187 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 2: And that's what I'm saying. 188 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:40,959 Speaker 1: You know, I do, I do know what you mean. 189 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:43,440 Speaker 1: I think those are great quality things. But I'm sorry 190 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 1: for putting you on so made you think about it. 191 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:48,559 Speaker 1: We got Sierra in California. Who wants to know how 192 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:51,080 Speaker 1: you spend your time with when your kids are with 193 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 1: their dad, Like. 194 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 2: I try to get more work done. 195 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:57,440 Speaker 3: I also watched this when I watch a lot of 196 00:08:57,440 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 3: my shows because when I have the kids, I don't 197 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 3: I hike with friends because I don't in all hike. 198 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:08,200 Speaker 3: Like there's a certain place I like to hike where 199 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 3: you can't take dogs on the trails. You can only 200 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 3: take it on the road. And so when the kids 201 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 3: are gone, the dog is also gone. Because the dog 202 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 3: is every other part goes with them, right, So I 203 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 3: get to hike up in the trails on my weeks off. 204 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:25,079 Speaker 1: Have you go into any of the waterfalls around here? 205 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:27,560 Speaker 3: No? But I love It's on my list. Yeah, you 206 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 3: told me about some good ones to go to, and 207 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 3: I have. I just keep going to the places that 208 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:32,560 Speaker 3: are easy. 209 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:32,680 Speaker 2: To get to. 210 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:34,680 Speaker 1: Well, it's also hard if you doing it on weekday, 211 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: Like those are definitely a weekend activity. 212 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, which I probably should do that. 213 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:41,800 Speaker 3: Well, Like this Friday night on the kids and I've 214 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 3: got like some girlfriends coming over to watch. 215 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 2: That movie Parachute. 216 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:46,440 Speaker 1: I never heard of that one. 217 00:09:47,320 --> 00:09:49,559 Speaker 3: It just came out recently, but it's about body image 218 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:53,600 Speaker 3: and two of the girls coming or therapists. I think 219 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:58,560 Speaker 3: they are just very interested in watching it. Brittany Snow, 220 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:01,719 Speaker 3: I think it produced it. It's loosely maybe based on 221 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 3: some of her experiences with her eating disorder and body 222 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 3: image stuff. But it's called parachute. So that's how we 223 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 3: spending with time. 224 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:12,839 Speaker 2: I hope we get tay food. 225 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 1: I don't know yet, Oh fun, are you on a 226 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:16,680 Speaker 1: Tai food kick right now? No? 227 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 3: But I've eve been craving it and I'm hoping that 228 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:21,600 Speaker 3: when I throw it out there that everyone's be like, oh, yeah, 229 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 3: Tye food. But if not, I could just get it 230 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 3: for myself. 231 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:26,599 Speaker 2: But when your order you can do that. 232 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 1: It's easier to get. 233 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 3: It from one place. Or maybe we'll just cook and 234 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 3: make things. But I don't know. 235 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 2: I spend a lot of time with my cat Maggie. Yeah, 236 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:40,319 Speaker 2: she's so adorable. She is so pretty lame. 237 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 1: No, that's not lame. I like all the things you're doing. 238 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:45,320 Speaker 1: You're in a very fun season and you're doing pine 239 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 1: needles too. 240 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:49,160 Speaker 2: And now I'm gonna work on my part. So if 241 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 2: you need. 242 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 1: Help with that, lemon, know I've gotten really good. I've 243 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 1: quite the green thub. 244 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 2: Now, oh, I know like you've got it down, but I. 245 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 1: Did not four years ago when I first started, I 246 00:10:56,440 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 1: did not. I have no idea what I was doing. 247 00:10:57,920 --> 00:10:59,959 Speaker 3: So I've got some trees that need to come up 248 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 3: and then new ones need to go down. And I 249 00:11:02,160 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 3: did have a lawn company quote me. And when I 250 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:06,480 Speaker 3: got the quote, I'm like, what, I feel like I 251 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 3: could do. 252 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 1: This, Like you got to pull them out and put 253 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 1: new ones in? 254 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:11,320 Speaker 2: Yeah? 255 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 1: How big you are the trees? 256 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:17,520 Speaker 2: I don't They're not huge? Are they about like bushes? 257 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 1: Oh? No, we can do that. 258 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 2: We can, are you sure? 259 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 1: Yeah? 260 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 2: I guess it depends on how deep the roots go. 261 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:25,200 Speaker 1: But you may have to take a picture. Let me 262 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:25,560 Speaker 1: see how. 263 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 3: Actually I have a picture because I just send it 264 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 3: to the our people. I'll send it to you. 265 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I think we could. Okay, just let me 266 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 1: know we can. We can figure it out. All right, 267 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:35,199 Speaker 1: We're gonna take a quick break. We'll be right back. 268 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:41,840 Speaker 1: Lindsay from Virginia and Kinsey from Vancouver both asked this, 269 00:11:42,120 --> 00:11:46,480 Speaker 1: what is something we're looking forward to most this summer? 270 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:50,520 Speaker 1: And I can give you seconds to think if you 271 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:52,400 Speaker 1: need it too, because I have something just because I 272 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: already saw. 273 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:54,320 Speaker 2: It might get my tonsils out. 274 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 1: You're looking forward to that, No, but. 275 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 3: I've had some issues with them for a while, and 276 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 3: it's like I finally have the time that I might 277 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:06,840 Speaker 3: do it. Like I finally went into the year nose 278 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:09,559 Speaker 3: and throat doctor, and yeah, figured it out. So I 279 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 3: think this might actually be the summer during some of 280 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 3: our time off because I've had these throat issues for years. 281 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:19,439 Speaker 3: But because of our job, it's difficult to have that downtime. 282 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:21,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta have read every time. 283 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 2: And talking and lah. 284 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:28,840 Speaker 1: So yeah, I have a crazy story about tonsil surgery. 285 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 1: My oldest sister woke up when she was getting her 286 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 1: tonsils out hill and it was not So I have 287 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:38,440 Speaker 1: like trauma tonsil surgery because of the things she's told 288 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 1: me that happened during it. But that was a really 289 00:12:40,840 --> 00:12:43,400 Speaker 1: long time ago. Yeah, so I don't think medicine is 290 00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 1: where that was. 291 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:48,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it will be. I think it'll be good. 292 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 3: I mean, and just like fun things. I mean, my 293 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 3: daughter's me working a lot of summer camps. She's signed 294 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 3: up for almost every single camp so much so I 295 00:12:56,960 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 3: don't know when we're going to take a trip, Like 296 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 3: if we do something because she wanted to work so much, 297 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 3: which will be great, And I told her, like, you can, 298 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 3: you don't have to work certain weeks, like and we 299 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:08,959 Speaker 3: can go do something. She's like, I want to try 300 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 3: to work as much as I can this summer. And 301 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:13,560 Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, So I don't want to take that 302 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:13,959 Speaker 3: from her. 303 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 2: I don't know. 304 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 3: I think, oh, oh, I'll tell you, okay, tonsils. But also, 305 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:21,679 Speaker 3: my niece is going to come live with me for 306 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:23,080 Speaker 3: six weeks. 307 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:23,959 Speaker 2: Oh fun. 308 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 1: She wants to explore Nashville. 309 00:13:25,679 --> 00:13:28,560 Speaker 3: Or is yeah, she has to do an internship and 310 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:32,560 Speaker 3: so she's going to intern for me for six weeks. 311 00:13:32,559 --> 00:13:35,960 Speaker 3: Like she goes to University of Colorado and so she 312 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:39,679 Speaker 3: lives in Boulder and or is it Colorido University? I 313 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 3: think's University of Colorado, And I guess she's a business major. 314 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:47,520 Speaker 2: She's got to do an internship. I have a business 315 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 2: I'll like it. 316 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 3: She was so nervous to ask me to, Like she 317 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:53,560 Speaker 3: texts me this really long text like you can say no, 318 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 3: it's fine, and I was like, what are you kidding? 319 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:57,080 Speaker 3: Like I would love to have you, Like she's gonna 320 00:13:57,120 --> 00:14:02,160 Speaker 3: help with podcast stuff and some social thing and I'm 321 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:05,160 Speaker 3: introducing her to a couple of other friends in town 322 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 3: that have like other types of businesses, not in you know, media, 323 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 3: just so she can have different experiences and so if 324 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:17,320 Speaker 3: they want to use her for a little bit, because 325 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 3: it's not like I'll have things for her all day, 326 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 3: but she's going to live with me, and then you know, 327 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:23,120 Speaker 3: maybe one day she can go shadow them and see 328 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:28,080 Speaker 3: what's going on there and maybe offer feedback to them. 329 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:30,360 Speaker 3: Like I told her, I was like, you should really 330 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 3: give your input as a young person, like how you 331 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 3: think something should be done, or what you think could 332 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 3: be good for companies at your age. Just exercising that 333 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:43,720 Speaker 3: part of her brain and speaking up. And I love 334 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 3: that about her. I think she really will, so I'm 335 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:48,120 Speaker 3: excited to get her insight as a young person. 336 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:49,480 Speaker 1: Oh that'll be so fun. 337 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:51,320 Speaker 3: And I think it'll be fun for my kids to 338 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:54,600 Speaker 3: have their cousin living with them for you know, she 339 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 3: just turned twenty one too, so that's really good. You 340 00:14:57,680 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 3: can like go to Bartaco and go to Margarita. 341 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 1: Ooh, which'll be weird, crazy but fun. 342 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. 343 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:07,360 Speaker 1: H mine is my sister is getting married in July. Yeah, 344 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:10,080 Speaker 1: and I'm really thrilled about that made of honor. I'm 345 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 1: gonna come with them made of honor speed. It's going 346 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 1: to be a crazy time. And I have her bachelorette 347 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:18,800 Speaker 1: coming up. But Amy, I have five weddings this year, 348 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:23,040 Speaker 1: three of which I am in. Oh my gosh, I 349 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 1: want to like kind of curl up in a ball. 350 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 1: I'm loving it. I'm so excited for all the love 351 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 1: and all my people getting married, and it's crazy. We 352 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:32,000 Speaker 1: are in crazy times right now. I'm having a twenty 353 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 1: seven dresses moment. 354 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 2: So that I mean, can you read can you wear 355 00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 2: the same dress to some of them? Or can you do? Well? 356 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:42,960 Speaker 3: How what are they being like with the dresses? Did 357 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:44,080 Speaker 3: they pick them out or do you get to pick 358 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 3: it out yourself? It just has to be a certain color. 359 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, we get to pick them out, so at least 360 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:49,000 Speaker 1: we get it, like decide what they are. 361 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:51,520 Speaker 3: I was on Rent the Runway the other day and 362 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 3: they have bridesmaids dresses, so you can rent okay, and 363 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:55,720 Speaker 3: you look at that one based on color. 364 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really exciting. It's just a lot happening. Like 365 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:00,960 Speaker 1: my whole year this year is all wait, anytime you 366 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 1: see me away, I'm doing something related to the wedding, 367 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 1: whether it's a bachel rep trip or wedding or bridal 368 00:16:05,640 --> 00:16:09,200 Speaker 1: shower anything. So it's that kind of year, all right. 369 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 1: What is one piece of advice you would give to 370 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 1: someone who went through a divorce from Angela? 371 00:16:14,320 --> 00:16:16,360 Speaker 3: I guess it just depends on if you have kids 372 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 3: or not kids, because I think that that's the big 373 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 3: thing or your circumstance. Like everything that's coming to my 374 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:25,400 Speaker 3: mind is so specific or coming to my mind is 375 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 3: so specific to my relationship with Ben, who is someone 376 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:31,120 Speaker 3: that's been in my life since I was nine years old, 377 00:16:31,200 --> 00:16:34,440 Speaker 3: and I am close to his parents, and so I'm 378 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 3: doing things differently like. 379 00:16:35,800 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 2: I been and I still talk. 380 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 3: I still communicate with his parents regularly, like they'll always 381 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 3: be my life. Because for some people, my advice might 382 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 3: be cut it off all communication, there's no reason you 383 00:16:45,840 --> 00:16:49,080 Speaker 3: don't need to talk. It depends on what the circumstances are, 384 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:52,200 Speaker 3: because that might absolutely be what my advice would be, 385 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 3: cut it off and move on, or it might be 386 00:16:56,800 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 3: what can you do to have a healthy relationship chip 387 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:07,400 Speaker 3: and communicate well, especially if there's kids involved and set boundaries. 388 00:17:07,440 --> 00:17:10,360 Speaker 3: I guess that would be my advice. Not knowing your circumstance. 389 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 3: Establish what your boundaries are early on and stick with them, 390 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:18,240 Speaker 3: but also be BINDI because boundaries may need to shift 391 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:20,399 Speaker 3: and change depending. 392 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 2: On things that evolve. You know. 393 00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:27,680 Speaker 3: I feel like, you know, if the other person gets 394 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:31,200 Speaker 3: into a relationship, you know that might need to change 395 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:33,240 Speaker 3: because like Ben and I communicate a certain way. Well, 396 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 3: if he gets married again, we probably will communicate less, 397 00:17:38,600 --> 00:17:40,400 Speaker 3: just out of respect for other people. 398 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 2: But also it's weird. 399 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:45,480 Speaker 3: Because you know, again I still I'm not going to 400 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:48,000 Speaker 3: never I'm just just going to cut off communication with 401 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:52,439 Speaker 3: his parents and well we'll still communicate obviously because of 402 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:54,520 Speaker 3: the kids. But you know, like I think there's certain 403 00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:56,960 Speaker 3: things when Ben and I first got divorced that we would. 404 00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:58,919 Speaker 2: Talk about and we would talk a lot more. 405 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 3: But as time has gone by and he's dated and 406 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:06,199 Speaker 3: is dating, like that has to change out of respect 407 00:18:06,240 --> 00:18:06,879 Speaker 3: for other people. 408 00:18:08,040 --> 00:18:09,800 Speaker 2: So that was it. 409 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:12,159 Speaker 3: That's a boundary, right, So that's a boundary we didn't 410 00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:14,199 Speaker 3: have in place before that now is a boundary that 411 00:18:14,280 --> 00:18:15,120 Speaker 3: I will respect. 412 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:16,880 Speaker 1: I think that's great. 413 00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 3: My advice is be open to boundaries, have boundaries, but 414 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:25,879 Speaker 3: also know the boundaries need to shift. I love it 415 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:27,720 Speaker 3: because that sort of can apply to everybody. 416 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:30,560 Speaker 1: Great advice. I also have realized that bindi is the 417 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:30,960 Speaker 1: word for. 418 00:18:30,920 --> 00:18:33,959 Speaker 2: Best bits this weekend. Bendy, We'll be right back. 419 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:38,399 Speaker 1: We've got two more questions, all right, you may not 420 00:18:38,440 --> 00:18:39,960 Speaker 1: want to answer either one of these two, so you 421 00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:42,600 Speaker 1: can plead the fifth on both of them, because I 422 00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:45,120 Speaker 1: again have not prepared you. But Chelsea and Florida would 423 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 1: like to know what you said to Lunchbox after he 424 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 1: went outside during the whole post show ballad situation. Wait 425 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 1: what when you followed after Lunchbox during the post show 426 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:56,640 Speaker 1: with all the palette situation that happened. Yeah, she wants 427 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:59,280 Speaker 1: to know, Like, how'd you calm him down? What happened 428 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 1: in the hall? Oh? 429 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:01,720 Speaker 3: I mean I just had to like get I was 430 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:06,480 Speaker 3: like Lunchboks stop, like this is I don't know. There's 431 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:08,480 Speaker 3: certain things I can't say because it's not my story, right, 432 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:12,440 Speaker 3: but I'll just say that I encouraged him. 433 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:15,200 Speaker 2: I reminded him this isn't really about this. 434 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:19,320 Speaker 3: So you need to take some deep breaths and you 435 00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:22,119 Speaker 3: need to pull it together because this is unacceptable. Like 436 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 3: a lot of people were doing things that were unacceptable, right, 437 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:27,120 Speaker 3: But I mean I was out he knew he shouldn't 438 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:32,879 Speaker 3: be yelling and he was worked up, so I was 439 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 3: just trying to remind him this is not the place 440 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:41,520 Speaker 3: or the time and there's things to process, yes, but 441 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:43,920 Speaker 3: not here now in this way. 442 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:47,000 Speaker 1: Well there you go. I'm not gonna push it anymore 443 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:48,400 Speaker 1: because I don't want you to say anything you don't 444 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:50,480 Speaker 1: want to say, so thank you for sharing. 445 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:52,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, but there was a lot of like me talking 446 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:54,800 Speaker 3: like this, lunchbox, lunchbox, did you have your mom voice? 447 00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:56,919 Speaker 2: Yes, lunchbox, listen to me. 448 00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:01,040 Speaker 3: Breathe, Let's just breathe, let's just breathe. I did a 449 00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 3: lot of this, like we can breathe right now. Do 450 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:04,480 Speaker 3: you want to breathe? 451 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:07,880 Speaker 1: Mom? Maybe coming in Okay, So Amylan the one who 452 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:11,240 Speaker 1: gave the compliment earlier. She's actually in Saudi Arabia, which 453 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:13,879 Speaker 1: is so awesome that she's listening out there. But she 454 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:16,320 Speaker 1: wants to know the reason. We're gonna fat, We're gonna 455 00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:19,399 Speaker 1: We're gonna rewind quite a bit. You recall when you 456 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:22,320 Speaker 1: smashed Eddie's TV. You'd come on the air and you're like, 457 00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 1: I really need to smash something, and at the time 458 00:20:26,040 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 1: you didn't want to talk about that reason. Why do 459 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:30,200 Speaker 1: you happen to remember why you wanted to smash the TV, 460 00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:31,640 Speaker 1: and if so, do you want to talk about it? 461 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:33,360 Speaker 2: Of course? 462 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 3: I remember I liked hitting things. I had a lot 463 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:37,960 Speaker 3: going on. It felt good so well, I imagine that 464 00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:40,119 Speaker 3: I don't know that I would get that much satisfaction 465 00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 3: out of it now. 466 00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 2: It felt good at the time. 467 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:46,160 Speaker 1: That was during the time I believe you were going 468 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:47,800 Speaker 1: through your divorces. Just nobody knew yet. 469 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 2: We had not decided we were getting divorced yet at 470 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:50,600 Speaker 2: that point. 471 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:54,160 Speaker 1: Now, okay, so but there was stuff happening, Yeah, got it. 472 00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:56,040 Speaker 3: And I walked out. I think it was around the 473 00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:58,040 Speaker 3: time where I walked out into my pool with all 474 00:20:58,080 --> 00:20:58,639 Speaker 3: my clothes on. 475 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 1: Okaday, around the same time. Got it. 476 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:03,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, that was weird. 477 00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:06,040 Speaker 3: I don't never do that now, but I just like 478 00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 3: just it was almost like I was a zombie and 479 00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:10,240 Speaker 3: I just like thro opened the door and I just 480 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:13,640 Speaker 3: started walking out and my my face like people they 481 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:15,840 Speaker 3: all witnessed it. They're like, I think my son was 482 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:19,880 Speaker 3: like what just happened? And I'm like, I don't know, 483 00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:23,520 Speaker 3: And I think it just like woke everybody up to 484 00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:26,160 Speaker 3: where we're like, okay, let's something's up. 485 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 2: Let's pay attention. 486 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:33,160 Speaker 3: Here because again other people's stories. So I would say 487 00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:36,040 Speaker 3: at that point in time, there were three very major 488 00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:38,879 Speaker 3: Even if one of those things had been happening to 489 00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:41,240 Speaker 3: somebody at that moment, just one. 490 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:44,680 Speaker 2: It would be a lot like look at the draw. 491 00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:49,200 Speaker 3: I had three things happening at once, and I didn't 492 00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:52,119 Speaker 3: have the tools. Some of the tools, I didn't have 493 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:54,359 Speaker 3: the capacity. I just wasn't prepared. It was almost like 494 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:59,080 Speaker 3: I don't know, I couldn't figure it out. But I 495 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:02,359 Speaker 3: never any of the things I was experiencing minus my 496 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 3: dad being sick, because I have had a sick mom 497 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:08,199 Speaker 3: and I lost my mom, so I'd been through death before. 498 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:10,919 Speaker 3: But the other two things I had never experienced in 499 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:11,359 Speaker 3: my life. 500 00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:14,399 Speaker 1: And it sounds like too correct me I from wrong. 501 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:17,320 Speaker 1: But like when you're when you go through something, your 502 00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:22,119 Speaker 1: nervous system is kicking in into like flight, freeze, survival, 503 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:23,879 Speaker 1: like so many different modes to try and figure out 504 00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:26,000 Speaker 1: how to get through something. And it sounds like your 505 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 1: body was literally responding to what was happening and you 506 00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:31,080 Speaker 1: just had to like get energy out of it however 507 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:33,640 Speaker 1: it needed to come out. And that just happened to be, Yeah, 508 00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:34,520 Speaker 1: what it was for you. 509 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:36,360 Speaker 3: I feel like my therapist was trying to just make 510 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:38,440 Speaker 3: me feel better and help me feel a little sane 511 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:39,880 Speaker 3: because I felt crazy. 512 00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:42,280 Speaker 2: But she's like, no, look at you. 513 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:45,000 Speaker 3: You walking into the water and submerging yourself and then 514 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:48,160 Speaker 3: emerging from it and feeling better. That was what your 515 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:50,440 Speaker 3: body needed in that moment, and it was taking care 516 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:54,640 Speaker 3: of itself like you needed that, like to go underwater. 517 00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:59,200 Speaker 3: And there was something that happened to me physically when 518 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:00,960 Speaker 3: I did it to where and I did come up, 519 00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:04,760 Speaker 3: I felt better, sort of like smashing the TV. Although 520 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:07,800 Speaker 3: smashing the TV was a very controlled, intentional, we'd planned 521 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:10,960 Speaker 3: it type thing, and it felt good. Walking into the 522 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:13,879 Speaker 3: pool with all my clothes on was not planned at all, 523 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:16,680 Speaker 3: but it was safe, like I wasn't harmed in the process. 524 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 3: So I don't recommend just unplanned walking around with a 525 00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 3: bat or sledgehamer smashing things, because those are two very 526 00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:30,480 Speaker 3: different things. But you know, I think that in a 527 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:33,400 Speaker 3: controlled way, something similar I would do at times would 528 00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:37,800 Speaker 3: go outside and throw ice cubes at the ground. Okay, 529 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 3: there are there are rage rooms now too, I know, 530 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:43,920 Speaker 3: but it's cheaper and easier and more convenience. That's definitely 531 00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 3: like just slam things down, or you can get those 532 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:50,439 Speaker 3: like squish balls. They're on Amazon and you can like 533 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 3: literally like slam them down on the ground or throw 534 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:55,120 Speaker 3: them across the room, or like stretch. 535 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 2: Them and you can beat them up. But stuff like that. 536 00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:01,720 Speaker 2: I don't eve remember their original. 537 00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:03,919 Speaker 1: Question, laughing the way that you described that, not the 538 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:05,800 Speaker 1: act of actually doing it, the way that you were 539 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:07,959 Speaker 1: describing how you would use it. 540 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't care what was the original question though, 541 00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:11,280 Speaker 3: because it's okay. 542 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:14,040 Speaker 1: It was about like the reason behind why you needed 543 00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:17,080 Speaker 1: to smash Eddie's TV, which I think you answered it. Yeah, yeah, 544 00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 1: that was why. 545 00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:19,000 Speaker 3: There was just a lot going on and it felt 546 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,240 Speaker 3: really good. But I think right, and I was very 547 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:23,840 Speaker 3: interested in that. I was like, good, that sounds like 548 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 3: so much fun. But if Eddie were to bring an 549 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:27,840 Speaker 3: old TV up here right now, I'd be like, I'm good. 550 00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:30,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a season of your life. 551 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:31,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, somebody else can do it. 552 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,399 Speaker 1: Okay. Well that was all for us, Amy, thanks for 553 00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:35,560 Speaker 1: joining to the people where they can find you. 554 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:36,199 Speaker 2: Hear you all. 555 00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:38,880 Speaker 3: Thanks to having me at Radio Amy on Socials and 556 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,400 Speaker 3: my podcast is four Things with Amy Brown. 557 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:43,520 Speaker 1: We love that. 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