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Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decisions. Hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: welcome to yet another motherfucking episode of Horrid Blake. This

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Speaker 1: is the or horrible decisions. If you don't have an accent,

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Speaker 1: if you don't speak, if you don't speak did I

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Speaker 1: don't know what I'm gonna speak after this year? It's

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Speaker 1: gonna be a blend. Wait where else where are you going?

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Speaker 1: Be honest with you, I don't know. Going to Italy?

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'll go to meeting us for a weekend. Okay,

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Speaker 1: real quick? How would you say horrible decisions in Italian Italiano? Wait?

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Speaker 1: Hold on, let me think about how you asked about that.

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Speaker 1: It's so horrible. Oh that was good. That was good. No,

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Speaker 1: you do it the same. I can't do it that way. No, okay, wait,

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Speaker 1: what's the what's the other countries? Are you going to? Hell?

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Speaker 1: Bro after? I keep going? No, where, don't want to hear?

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Speaker 1: We gotta do that. I'm gonna go to France you

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Speaker 1: already have that? Yes, um, and go to the UK

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Speaker 1: for a bait. Now do a little London thing. Horrible

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Speaker 1: decisions decisions? How would you do London? I suck at

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Speaker 1: a brit accent? Like fun and you go there a lot.

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Speaker 1: I've been there quite a few times, but I don't

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Speaker 1: be knowing, Hello, are you attracted to it? Like track

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Speaker 1: it Toway a British accent, So there's different British accents, right,

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Speaker 1: you know. I don't like I don't like the in it.

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Speaker 1: I don't like nobody to say any what. I don't

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Speaker 1: like that in it ship. This is why I don't

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Speaker 1: watch shop Boy. I don't like I'm super good on

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Speaker 1: all of that. I don't feel likeze how much. I

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Speaker 1: don't like access, and this is why I haven't been

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Speaker 1: able to the fuck a fucking soccer player, of fucking

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Speaker 1: baseball player, anybody with real money like cool NBA guaranteed

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Speaker 1: checks because why I don't NFL players, But the real

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Speaker 1: athletes with the big long checks are overseas and I

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Speaker 1: can't do the accent. So I like accents because I

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Speaker 1: don't know, maybe because I grew up with hearing one

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Speaker 1: in the house. I think it's like really attractive, makes

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Speaker 1: me feel like they're worldly. And I also don't have

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Speaker 1: worldly I don't have very fond opinions of America. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I feel like when someone else is from somewhere like

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Speaker 1: you can save me. Maybe we can get abortions where

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Speaker 1: you're from. I do. I would like to know. I

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Speaker 1: gotta ask my homegirl, like what those abortion rights look

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Speaker 1: like in London. I mean, I know Ireland, like it

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Speaker 1: just became okay something like that. Look, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: but I know we gotta get the funk up out

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Speaker 1: of here because this sucking Handmaid's Tale. And so that's

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Speaker 1: where we're at. Ye, it's for sure, you know, bro,

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Speaker 1: if they have enough Blackxicans. You know, I love going

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Speaker 1: to Mexico. I can move there easy, a little Mexico

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Speaker 1: city lived between there, and maybe like you know, get

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Speaker 1: a little second home in to loom because sell them.

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Speaker 1: I made it that. Yeah, I don't know. I um,

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Speaker 1: I am looking so in therapy, the conversation was the

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Speaker 1: same way I schedule everything for work, I should schedule

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Speaker 1: my trips. So I know you've you've been planning this

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Speaker 1: UM in Europe and I'm just like, okay. So I'm thinking,

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Speaker 1: I know Medina's going to South Africa for UM New

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Speaker 1: Year's and I love, but I kind of want to

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Speaker 1: go to Ghana and normally they have what is it

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Speaker 1: affronation or and so I kind of want to go there,

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Speaker 1: and I know it'll be expensive, but the idea of

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Speaker 1: having relaxation, Like even right now, I'm actually so glad.

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Speaker 1: I was. I was about to call to Snick over

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Speaker 1: to fuck me, and my period came on like eight

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Speaker 1: days early, and so I was really really happy that

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Speaker 1: I didn't call him to come over because then I

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Speaker 1: want to have had to cancel. But then this other

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Speaker 1: nig is coming into town. And he's coming into town,

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Speaker 1: and what's the time you can do between dicks? Why

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Speaker 1: I can hold you, but I'm still going out? What time? No?

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Speaker 1: This this cou she is you need a little bit more,

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Speaker 1: I'll just be busy. I mean a little I mean

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Speaker 1: a little bit mobile if you want to. You had

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Speaker 1: the chance to fun two niggas, You've only got two days.

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Speaker 1: I've done that before, like like like there was a

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Speaker 1: problem and he doesn't know this, but whatever, I don't

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Speaker 1: care about that nigga. I sucked a celebrity name. I

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Speaker 1: think I told you I fu a celebrity nigga rapper

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Speaker 1: that I never felt before a celebrity nigga rapper. Should

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Speaker 1: I should say that? Right? Well, I don't have to

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Speaker 1: say that. No, it wasn't Eminem, wasn't Jack Cartlaw, Okay,

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Speaker 1: but I this nig could have been a surprise nigga,

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Speaker 1: Like Logic it was. That's my assistant jokes says that

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Speaker 1: that man, that man right there, and I know we're

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Speaker 1: by racials. I just don't. I don't know if I

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Speaker 1: believe it. I saw the documentary, but I don't know

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Speaker 1: the documentary. He got a whole little like series on

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Speaker 1: YouTube about his life, so everything it's not the mama,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Well, damn, I don't only know I'm

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Speaker 1: really black because you know we're looking at him. I

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Speaker 1: know y'all are looking at me as well. And so

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Speaker 1: if y'all make question my blackness because of my wide

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Speaker 1: ass mom that's been on this pod. No, my daddy

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Speaker 1: didn't want to pay more child, he done so Buch,

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Speaker 1: I know my daddy what I'm saying. And Logic also

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Speaker 1: doesn't say nigga and the way he doesn't know, and

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Speaker 1: I think it's because one he doesn't give a name.

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Speaker 1: I don't think he knows. I don't think you know

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Speaker 1: what's daddy is. That might be what it is, because

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Speaker 1: like nigga is that to me? Like when they're like

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Speaker 1: they could be giving Blake Griffin something like that. You

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, but he don't even give that.

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you. I don't trust Gingers is

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Speaker 1: by racials. Gingers Ginger, Oh, I don't know. I've seen

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Speaker 1: black people with hair like that, you know, especially with

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Speaker 1: the freckles and ship. Maybe haven't no Blake Griffins and nigga.

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Speaker 1: He's a light skinned nigga like myself. But nonetheless, well

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Speaker 1: if I were, you've seen him around white women though, yeah, yes,

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Speaker 1: one black girl he sucked though none. I do know

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Speaker 1: one and she's brown skin. But other than that, I've

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Speaker 1: seen him with white women. You know what, Maybe you

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Speaker 1: go for what you know. That's actually when I know

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Speaker 1: a nigga fuck white bitches. Bro. If you an athlete

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Speaker 1: and I know no bitches there fucked you, it's because

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Speaker 1: you don't fuck. Who's the guy I like with the earring? Uh? Butler,

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Speaker 1: he definitely white girl. But that's what I'm saying, Like, wait,

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Speaker 1: did you even see the pictures? Well he turned off

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Speaker 1: his comments. Uh, jailis j Ellis. Can I be honest? Uh?

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Speaker 1: Can I tell him? On the flight back from Mexico,

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Speaker 1: how can we be honest about interracial Okay, okay, so

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Speaker 1: go ahead, let's talk about it. So did I tell

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Speaker 1: you how I saw him? We never talked about you

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Speaker 1: seeing j Ellis on a flight, no ever. Okay, probably

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Speaker 1: because I was talking about the moment, but also I

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Speaker 1: friends with Sharonis and like whatever. Yes, I talked to

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Speaker 1: you about black men dating white women. So something happened

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Speaker 1: I was coming back. I recognized him. I don't know

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Speaker 1: and I know he wasn't checking for me. He was

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Speaker 1: with his his girl and his kid. But I wonder

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Speaker 1: if he was like girl, Oh, yes he does, because

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Speaker 1: remember when he reposted the video about his and it

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Speaker 1: And so everyone was tagging me in the Sharoni's one.

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Speaker 1: So there's because we do look alike when they morphed

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Speaker 1: our face. But anyway, when they made Sharona look like

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Speaker 1: He was going off and not to tell his business rightfully,

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Speaker 1: And then we got on the plane. Uh, everybody was

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Speaker 1: I was like kind of thinking to myself, like, you know,

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Speaker 1: I wonder what it's like when you go off like that,

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Speaker 1: because black people always want to be careful when they

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Speaker 1: you're you're in first class, and the wife is white,

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Speaker 1: and you still get treated bad. It was Mexico, But

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Speaker 1: I wonder, like, does that make you feel more This

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Speaker 1: back to l A. Bro. Does this make you feel

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Speaker 1: We've been together for however long, and I actually have

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Speaker 1: how the conversation that wanted to bring up with us

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Speaker 1: being even by racial So I'm not sure if you're

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Speaker 1: you're you're aware, But alc Uh is now engaged to

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Speaker 1: a white man. So is the new Supreme Court justice,

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Speaker 1: So is Kamala Harris. So a lot of the black

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Speaker 1: women in very prominent positions. Um, we even see Eve now,

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Speaker 1: who is one of our rap queens. I don't think

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Speaker 1: you've counts. Eve was one of the first rappers that like,

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Speaker 1: even before training, the accounts is like these are these

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Speaker 1: are prominent dominent women, but we believe speak for us

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Speaker 1: that are black voices for us, but date white men.

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Speaker 1: So I would like to know then if you feel

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Speaker 1: would say two things. One, the Obama's are an amazing

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Speaker 1: example of what black loves look looks like because you

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Speaker 1: have a mixed president who was with a black woman

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Speaker 1: black babies like they were a great example. However, I

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Speaker 1: always say this, a lot of people meet from work.

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Speaker 1: I would be curious to know if AOC and all

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Speaker 1: of these other women you names, I don't remember. You

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Speaker 1: just said, but if they met politics, did Kamala meet

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Speaker 1: her man in at work in politics? Because man happens.

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Speaker 1: Ain't a lot of niggas there, Okay, okay, badly they're

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Speaker 1: slim pickings if there's only five black men when you

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Speaker 1: talking about Ricky Marty. It's like y'all heard about Ricky Martin.

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Speaker 1: Here's the thing about what makes this Ricky Martin, which

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Speaker 1: was him, Like I said, the long haired nigger from Hanson, Taylor,

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Speaker 1: men ever since. Justin Timberlake. I took all his posters

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Speaker 1: That's like loyal royalty Beyonce and Missy Elliott? Are you do?

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Speaker 1: hold you. I think I would fund Queen Lasifah yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know what would you would you? Would you fuck

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Speaker 1: I would. I ain't gonna hold you. Could I eat

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Speaker 1: Frish woman that's like, whoopee, bitches, you eating whoops pussy? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: You thought way too hard. You're not eating Whoopie's pussy

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Speaker 1: black voice that I appreciate. Bitch, fuck you thought? What

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Speaker 1: about Gail Nickas? Hey, Gail, remember how Snoop talk you

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Speaker 1: out of pocket for that? All right? Gil? Did you

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Speaker 1: she was she cooked the PENNI what did she cook? What? What?

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Speaker 1: It's a better me? Why don't you? Bitch? I lived

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Speaker 1: in the Bronx, Bitch, I ain't gonna hold you had

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Speaker 1: a roommate that was Dominican, went to some restaurants, bad me, bitch.

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Speaker 1: I know y'all heard the accents earlier. Bitch. I know

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Speaker 1: how to say bad meat because that's what I like.

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Speaker 1: And I know I've been dating a Muslin for the

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Speaker 1: last motherfucking two years. That mean this year I want

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Speaker 1: some better me. I want some pig. I like that ship.

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Speaker 1: you don't eat cat fish? I mean, so you don't

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Speaker 1: so you don't eat shrimp. No, so you don't like crab.

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Speaker 1: You only you know bottom mass feeders. That's all that

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Speaker 1: is is roaches. They bottom feeders. You eat lobster, You

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Speaker 1: eat lobster. Bitch, We all eat ship bottom feeders, down

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Speaker 1: ship eaters, bottom feeders, shit eaters, like medina. Anyways, this episode, guys,

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Speaker 1: we're getting into some home mail. This first one is

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Speaker 1: called Orgasms plus Attachment. If you guys have been listening

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Speaker 1: to this podcast, Weezy and I have both been in

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Speaker 1: I B L E Decisions at gmail dot com. We

420
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Speaker 1: need some mode. We need some mode because you're obviously

421
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Speaker 1: I can't. Definitely, Guys, you listen to this pot right now,

422
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:43,960
Speaker 1: right exhaust you listening to this ship. We ain't gonna

423
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 1: tell y'all sex clubs anymore, and where to find them.

424
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:50,800
Speaker 1: You have to find them your own. Okay, if people

425
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Speaker 1: ask you for three seme yet in your d m

426
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Speaker 1: oh no, I've said enough. I'm not fucking fans. But also,

427
00:23:57,359 --> 00:24:00,320
Speaker 1: if you want a threesome, We're not give you that

428
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:05,119
Speaker 1: advice anymore. Listen to what Kiki said last week Lewis

429
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Speaker 1: with Susia b k Like, bro, there's enough content on

430
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:14,159
Speaker 1: this mother fucking podcast on how to have a threesome.

431
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:16,919
Speaker 1: I shared a couple of weeks ago about how the

432
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Speaker 1: funk to be a unicorn on vacation. Like, ladies, it's

433
00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 1: not that fucking hard, even what your friends. This is

434
00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 1: how much people, I didn't even realize this happened. Last

435
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:30,440
Speaker 1: night was so much. My flight got canceled. I went

436
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:35,120
Speaker 1: to some music festivals in Chicago, and I heard everybody's

437
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:38,240
Speaker 1: like canceled yesterday from New York. Uh So I stayed

438
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Speaker 1: at SOHO. I'll shout out to all the black people

439
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 1: that work there. They all listen to horrible decisions. Amazing.

440
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 1: All of them listen to horrible decisions, like I don't

441
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 1: think I saw in Chicago all of them. I was like, yo, okay,

442
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 1: y'all just like book us and I can get a

443
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 1: free membership because I heard us how to do anyway.

444
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,080
Speaker 1: So bro, it's the point where I got upgraded to

445
00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:59,480
Speaker 1: a huge room just because a girl listens to a decisions.

446
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:02,080
Speaker 1: So I couldn't complain, but I will complain about this

447
00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 1: one thing. Um. It was dope to meet all those people,

448
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:10,440
Speaker 1: of course, but I'm eating alone, okay, and this girl

449
00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 1: comes up to say, what's up about horrible decisions? I'm like, cool,

450
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 1: we talk whatever a mid bite of a burger, and

451
00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:19,280
Speaker 1: she's like, I know you're eating, but I just have

452
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 1: to ask you something. She didn't even ask me for

453
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:26,399
Speaker 1: a picture. She asked me about three cent advice, you

454
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 1: know what? And I said, girl, how long even listen

455
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,680
Speaker 1: to her decisions? She's like, like four years? Y'all be lying?

456
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 1: There's no lying. We didn't told y'all how to fund

457
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:42,960
Speaker 1: two people, two niggas, two bitches, A man, a woman,

458
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:47,000
Speaker 1: A couple of them, him, a SHEI, A her? Or

459
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 1: what out we've talked to on how to fund yourself.

460
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:52,920
Speaker 1: I'm sick of it, so I make sure to pick

461
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 1: out ones that we're not asking for fucking three cents.

462
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 1: So this one is quite interesting because I think it's

463
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,359
Speaker 1: very much where I recently was in my relationship and

464
00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 1: where you may be as well with your I'm gonna

465
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:11,360
Speaker 1: call him your babysitter, your dog sitter right now, see

466
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:14,439
Speaker 1: what I mean. Hi, weez and Mandy. First off, want

467
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:17,920
Speaker 1: to say that I love your unapologetic energy. It's inspiring.

468
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 1: It makes my heart too fold to see women express

469
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:25,719
Speaker 1: their authentic selves. I watched you and Weezy's pod episode

470
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:30,479
Speaker 1: about fantasy confessions and date night ideas, and the beginning

471
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 1: conversation conversation completely resonated. I had to reach out to you, Mandy,

472
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:39,160
Speaker 1: because the day prior I was researching and reading about

473
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:42,639
Speaker 1: orgasms and attachment. And y'all have to start off here

474
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: because if you don't know, we is a fucking email.

475
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 1: I guess you could say I'm going through you. No,

476
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 1: I added that one in it. This is why I

477
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 1: said we're gonna start off here first. I guess you

478
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 1: could say I'm going through the same thing where I

479
00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:57,680
Speaker 1: was dating someone and they did something to betray me.

480
00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:00,880
Speaker 1: We talked about it. I had compassion, Shin, and I'm

481
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 1: trying my best to lead with forgiveness while recognizing and

482
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:07,440
Speaker 1: not forgetting about my value and worth. But I still

483
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:10,600
Speaker 1: have the desire to remain friends. You all know how

484
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 1: that failed miserably for me, as well as explore sexual

485
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 1: experiences with this person. I like the idea of exploring

486
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:23,680
Speaker 1: together because the sex is fucking bomb and there's a

487
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 1: sexual trust foundation already there. I'm sure we will hear

488
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:31,479
Speaker 1: on the next spot. By the way, this is an

489
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:35,119
Speaker 1: old She talked about how my beers went. We clearly

490
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 1: got back together and now we broke up since then.

491
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 1: But her question is, do you think you can really

492
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:47,159
Speaker 1: separate the two separate having an orgasm and receiving the

493
00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 1: chemical that releases within the brain that causes the attachment.

494
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:55,360
Speaker 1: There's history there, there's love there. Do you really think

495
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,959
Speaker 1: it's possible to have sex with an ex, explore together,

496
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 1: but move forward with not having a relationship attachment asking

497
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 1: because in my opinion, the answer is no. But that's

498
00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: just in my situation. I realized that every situation is different.

499
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:14,639
Speaker 1: But I could literally feel the oxytocin release within my

500
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 1: entire body, which then caused me to really question that

501
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:21,120
Speaker 1: this is something that will benefit me moving on while

502
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:25,200
Speaker 1: I'm really enjoying exploring and indulging and experiences and fantasies together.

503
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:28,920
Speaker 1: What do you say? He said oxytocin because I was

504
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:31,679
Speaker 1: like I was, I'm kind of tired, and I literally

505
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 1: like say oxycon not oxycoton. It's not oxycoton. It is

506
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 1: not oxycotton. Ma'am um. I want to show you guys

507
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: or play you guys something really quickly. So Old Bay

508
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 1: and I don't have sex. I don't want to suck

509
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 1: that nicket. But you can look Ana ask you only

510
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:52,479
Speaker 1: because in terms of love, if you guys have been

511
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:55,920
Speaker 1: listening to this podcast, the amount of times y'all say,

512
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 1: y'all have you had someone called lover boy who you

513
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: did say, there was a potential for y'all to link

514
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 1: in Europe, you guys have been able to maintain. How

515
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 1: have you been ab I was just gonna say, okay,

516
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 1: there we got there's time. They just broke up. They're

517
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 1: trying to do it. You had just broke up, you

518
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 1: were trying to do it. It doesn't work when there's

519
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 1: too much time because you haven't gotten over when there's

520
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 1: not enough time, right, But here's really done. Okay. So

521
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 1: Nina went to the park with another dog and Nigga's

522
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:31,960
Speaker 1: are dumb. Live video photos have sound, and he says

523
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 1: he pictured the Nina with this cute ass dog and

524
00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, I noticeable, There's no way there ain't a

525
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 1: bitches dog. Wait? Wait, wait, so you knew it was

526
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:44,480
Speaker 1: a live photo, so you wait? Is this the one

527
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:52,120
Speaker 1: house hold on? Wait? Wait, look at the girl's hand.

528
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:58,120
Speaker 1: That ain't bro. That could be a girl, some random

529
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 1: dog woman? You sit? Who wait? You saved all the

530
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 1: pictures of Nina and another dog in the part I

531
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 1: didn't save them. That's impressed it in the I message,

532
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 1: But as I was saying, you knew they were live,

533
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: so you wanted to hear the background noise would be

534
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 1: But I don't care. But what if that was just

535
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 1: a bitch at the dog park? Yeah? This Nigga anxious.

536
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 1: But I tell y'all, Steve Jobs got all y'all funked up.

537
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 1: Y'all are all getting caught by cheating. I don't even

538
00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 1: know if I shared this on this spot, but where

539
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:37,680
Speaker 1: I knew I was in love and dating a liar.

540
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 1: This nigga sent me a fucking picture when he was sick,

541
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 1: not the day in time, okay, bitch. It was a

542
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:50,960
Speaker 1: whole I v in this nigga's arm, so I was

543
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 1: really nerve. Oh bitch. I was like, oh my god,

544
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:56,040
Speaker 1: let me send you some soup. Oh my god, are

545
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 1: you okay? He's like, yeah, I'm good, I'm getting some

546
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 1: some liquids. Shot to me all that bullshit. I said,

547
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 1: I don't know why, let me say this picture the

548
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:12,040
Speaker 1: picture was from one. So I waited, still told him

549
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:14,600
Speaker 1: I would send him soup. No. We sat in person

550
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 1: and I said, hey, I need you to lot to

551
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:24,000
Speaker 1: be better because this ain't working the picture. Giving that

552
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 1: the picture you sent me is from one, why did

553
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 1: he live? You ready? He looked at me dead in

554
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 1: my face and was like, oh, I sent you the

555
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 1: wrong picture. I said, we're not doing this. We're not

556
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 1: doing this. And while I love this man dearly, we

557
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 1: talked about this with contint young. I don't think niggas

558
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:49,720
Speaker 1: want the freedom literally talk to me, literally, be honest

559
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:53,680
Speaker 1: with me, and if you're gone, they don't know the good.

560
00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 1: This is like I literally desid I know I love

561
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 1: this thing of y'all. 'all don't understand, ladies. If you're listening,

562
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 1: if you're fucking listening, you know you don't know know this.

563
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 1: So this was right before we broke up. This was this,

564
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 1: This was how this was recent. Let me tell you, ladies,

565
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 1: I don't know if and I've been in therapy, so

566
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:21,640
Speaker 1: maybe this is what that is. But fellas and ladies,

567
00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk to both, y'all. Sometimes we love so much,

568
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:30,440
Speaker 1: we know when you lying and we choose to ignore it.

569
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 1: And I love this nigga so fucking much. I sat

570
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 1: across from him eat a motherfucking Italian. I had my

571
00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 1: oysters and I had my octopus. He had his fucking

572
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 1: parmesan chicken with spaghetti. It was delicious. I kept it

573
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 1: for for leftovers the next thing. And I looked at

574
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 1: him and I said, I fucking love you. Can you

575
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 1: lie to me better? Because as much as I love you,

576
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 1: I hate that you don't even know how to lie

577
00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 1: to me and me feel like I'm not cared about

578
00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 1: bro like you're nigga, guess a goof like you're lying

579
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,920
Speaker 1: to me and his women. We know y'all be thinking,

580
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 1: we don't know nigga, we know, and sometimes we're so

581
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 1: in lust and so in love that sometimes we don't

582
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 1: want to confront you. Now, I don't like confrontation, so

583
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 1: I've I've wanted him to believe I believed him. I

584
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 1: didn't this time. I sat in front of you and

585
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 1: motherfucker showed you you'll be lying, and you still lie.

586
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:31,960
Speaker 1: I'm good. We need to know what that. He don't

587
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:34,240
Speaker 1: know what to say. But with this particular thing, he's

588
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 1: not my niggas, I don't care. Did you ask him

589
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 1: who the bitch's voice was in the back? Did you

590
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 1: tell him you called a bitches voice in the back

591
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 1: of those two things? Nina's been around my knicks. Okay, honey,

592
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:48,960
Speaker 1: that's my Chad. He's a part time dean. Now. I've

593
00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 1: give him baby daddy. I don't want to make him

594
00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:57,320
Speaker 1: feel like one. I need him to watch and too.

595
00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 1: I don't want him to feel like I'm clocking him

596
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 1: like that, like what I'm saying. But it's funny because

597
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 1: he must have known how I asked it, because I

598
00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, let me see her da da da,

599
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 1: and he ain't answer. I was like, all right, call me,

600
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:10,320
Speaker 1: you can't. He did call me like hours later, I'm like,

601
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 1: so the visual. I was like, what do you mean

602
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 1: to do yesterday? And he was like, we went to

603
00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:16,400
Speaker 1: the dog parks. I was like, oh, whose dog? Was it?

604
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:18,200
Speaker 1: My home girl? Because he was like he mustn't you know.

605
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:20,440
Speaker 1: He was like, somebody told me he figured it out.

606
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 1: Somebody doesn't horrible decisions and found me. He'd be really scared.

607
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:26,279
Speaker 1: Now he's like, my home girl. Um, she just got

608
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:28,279
Speaker 1: the dog, you know, she just doesn't want to have

609
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:32,799
Speaker 1: it around other dogs because the shots and stuff. Our

610
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: child getting picked. I say, but he took me on

611
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 1: a bait with the girl. Mhm. He told me. He

612
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:42,959
Speaker 1: was like, um talking about how they went to dinner

613
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 1: blah blah blah, Like just you and I talked about

614
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 1: I know this is just a dog. So for those

615
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:50,359
Speaker 1: of you all listening, let's let's maybe turn this into

616
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:53,759
Speaker 1: child because the dog is a little child. Did y'all

617
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:56,359
Speaker 1: talk about bringing the dog around your other partners and ship?

618
00:34:58,280 --> 00:34:59,960
Speaker 1: Because I ain't got away Ben talk to him for

619
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 1: a long time. Just got cool. I feel bad, like

620
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:06,000
Speaker 1: when I be sucking other niggas of the house and

621
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 1: body being I know body noticed another niggas body was

622
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 1: was a kitten when he met my soulmate and we've

623
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 1: been together for the last two years. My nigga helped

624
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:20,040
Speaker 1: me move into this apartment. I've not had other niggas

625
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:23,880
Speaker 1: in my apartment until recently. And I'm like, I know,

626
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 1: I know my cat judging me. Oh, Nina just wants

627
00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:29,839
Speaker 1: to be played with. But dogs are O mean, dogs

628
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 1: are different than cats. But I would had one nigga

629
00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:35,400
Speaker 1: shine like, and I really peeped it. You've been around that.

630
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:37,399
Speaker 1: She's a very sweet dog. She wants to just cut

631
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 1: it with you. That's just the type of dog. Whatever.

632
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:43,840
Speaker 1: But I wish And I was like, what it's like babies,

633
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:45,480
Speaker 1: You know when babies get a weird vibe and people

634
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:47,880
Speaker 1: say babies don't oh, And I told him and he

635
00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 1: was like, oh, she ain't sucking. Let me. He must

636
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:50,960
Speaker 1: have around her bunch of niggas. I said, I do,

637
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 1: and she like all of them. You told him that,

638
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 1: So did you fuck him? Because the energy was off?

639
00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:00,160
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just like I didn't like the

640
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:02,320
Speaker 1: company you must have around all your niggas I do,

641
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 1: and what and what about? But no, I think, um,

642
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 1: you know, once this whole thing happened with me, being

643
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:12,880
Speaker 1: gone this weekend and her and the dog and that,

644
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:15,280
Speaker 1: Like I realized I really don't care, and I'm actually

645
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 1: really glad I don't care. I wanted to get to

646
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:19,399
Speaker 1: this point, you know what I'm saying, like to where

647
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,360
Speaker 1: I almost felt like I did a fucking cord cutting

648
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: when I found out that he was like bringing Nina

649
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:28,719
Speaker 1: around girls because one I ought to be real, I

650
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 1: don't trust that, like he's gonna put her in a

651
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:33,439
Speaker 1: bad situation. I know I sound like I'm talking about

652
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 1: a kid you are talking about, but yeah, like why

653
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 1: have the jealousy? You know what I'm saying, Like why

654
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 1: saying Weber in the house? Valid? Valid? A little daddy.

655
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:44,759
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what though, Now he gotta start paying

656
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 1: for ship. Nina has a check up on Friday. He

657
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:51,920
Speaker 1: needs to pay for that. The groomer isn't soho one

658
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 1: fifty He put his card down and he'll be paying

659
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:56,840
Speaker 1: for it. Like no, now this is stuff you need

660
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:58,920
Speaker 1: to pay for you really? So are you Gonnada? Like

661
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 1: a baby? What Monk Claire Jacket and little listen for

662
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:04,759
Speaker 1: the wintertime I sent him? The only goes like you

663
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:08,800
Speaker 1: can get her that, Oh you're treating him like a nigga.

664
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 1: I have the baby, got the child. Most of the time.

665
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 1: You need to be the bank valid. That's what my

666
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 1: mom means to think. That's why we went to corporate

667
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:28,400
Speaker 1: child sport. All right. Last one, this one is titled

668
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 1: Manifesting Daddy. There's a story plus an update in this one,

669
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 1: so keep along with with the stories. Okay, Hi, Mandy

670
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:42,399
Speaker 1: and Wheezy. I tried sending this a few weeks ago,

671
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 1: but spelled horrible wrong and the emails so I never

672
00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 1: went through. Yes, bitch, it's w h O r E

673
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 1: I b l E. Y'all be one to play a

674
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 1: is that I? It is? I b l E like

675
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 1: horrible literally horrible spelled with ho. You're not a horror,

676
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 1: that's able, You're horrible, You're horrble. So here's the backstory.

677
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:06,480
Speaker 1: I'm twenty four years old, Oh baby, you young, and

678
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:09,360
Speaker 1: have always had the fantasy of hooking up with an

679
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:15,359
Speaker 1: older man, a dad specifically, I feel like daddy could

680
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 1: be sixteen these niggs best and I think she's talking

681
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,920
Speaker 1: forties has to be, she said a dad, So I

682
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 1: feel like maybe she thinks someone who could be her

683
00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:28,320
Speaker 1: dad for forty plus. Okay, I nanny for a beautiful

684
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 1: family for almost two years until the parents got an

685
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:35,359
Speaker 1: ugly divorce and they ended up letting me go. From

686
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 1: the moment I walked into the door to interview to

687
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:41,600
Speaker 1: be their babysitter, I had fantasy the fucking of hooking

688
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 1: up with the father. I could always tell he was

689
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 1: attracted to me. He would never hesitate to come out

690
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:51,400
Speaker 1: of the room shirtless and in his swim trunks, compliment

691
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:55,320
Speaker 1: my hair, makeup and outfits, and would always ask me

692
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:59,319
Speaker 1: about my boyfriend and if I was still with him.

693
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:04,719
Speaker 1: This is so sick. I was always respectful and professional

694
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 1: while I worked for their family, but couldn't help but

695
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 1: flirt back here and there when I was getting the

696
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:15,719
Speaker 1: vibes from the dad. After about five months of no

697
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:19,480
Speaker 1: contact with the family, I decided to follow the dad

698
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 1: on Instagram. He accepted right away and asked me to

699
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 1: tell him everything about my life and how I've been,

700
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 1: and liked all of my hottest pictures. Recently, he has

701
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:35,600
Speaker 1: been NonStop liking my Instagram stories and leaving flirty comments

702
00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:38,040
Speaker 1: in my d M s, even going as far as

703
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 1: telling me that I'm hot a f and that we

704
00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:44,439
Speaker 1: should quote unquote link up, but hasn't put in any

705
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 1: initiative to invite me over and take me out. Obviously,

706
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 1: he wants me, and I want to shoot my shot,

707
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 1: but I don't want to take it too far, too fast,

708
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,239
Speaker 1: and make him think I'm just young and easy to

709
00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:59,880
Speaker 1: hook up with. I am fully confident that I can.

710
00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:03,680
Speaker 1: This happened in the ways that I feel I manifested.

711
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:08,239
Speaker 1: They're divorced in an attraction to me. Wow, bro, if

712
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:10,759
Speaker 1: you I just wanted to hurry the funk up and

713
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,080
Speaker 1: make a move. Here's a quick update before we get

714
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 1: into the question. Literally the day that I tried sending

715
00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:19,759
Speaker 1: the story to you guys, the dad responded to a

716
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 1: story that I posted on Instagram and told me that

717
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:24,880
Speaker 1: I was hot a f and that he wants to

718
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:28,319
Speaker 1: take me out. Since then, we've hung out a few

719
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:32,399
Speaker 1: times and have been having the best sex I've ever

720
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 1: had in my life. It's like we're both living out

721
00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:40,320
Speaker 1: our porn fantasies of fucking the babysitter. Here's the question, weezy,

722
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:44,160
Speaker 1: there's still one. Yes, there is. We are super open

723
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:47,640
Speaker 1: about everything, and he mentioned to me that he wants

724
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:53,359
Speaker 1: to role play with me as his personal trainer. Since

725
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:57,719
Speaker 1: I'm a trainer in real life. I am super open

726
00:40:57,800 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 1: to this, but we are still getting comfortable with each other,

727
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:03,759
Speaker 1: and this is something that I wanted to surprise him

728
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:06,319
Speaker 1: with a little later down the line. I have role

729
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:09,959
Speaker 1: played before, but never as a trainer, and I don't

730
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:12,640
Speaker 1: know how to introduce this. This is the bedroom and

731
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 1: it's not your typical role play scenario. Any tips, Okay,

732
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you what. I'm kind of into that

733
00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:24,439
Speaker 1: idea because she's a trainer. Right. So there's a place

734
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:26,439
Speaker 1: called the Stretch Lab. Have you ever heard this place?

735
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:28,719
Speaker 1: Never heard of that in my life. Well, this is

736
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:30,919
Speaker 1: why I said here. We got this last one, y'all.

737
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:33,360
Speaker 1: You see how Weezy knew how to give him motherfucking

738
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:36,239
Speaker 1: the personal play out I'm talking to in l A

739
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:39,719
Speaker 1: got me a gift certificate to go to Stretch Lab

740
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 1: and he'd been going there for a minute and one day,

741
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:45,799
Speaker 1: I think it was after sex. But I've been working

742
00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 1: out a lot, probably cause I know I'm going on

743
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:50,879
Speaker 1: these girls working a lot, and I was like, really

744
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:53,239
Speaker 1: fucked up, and he knew it and he was and

745
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:55,880
Speaker 1: I hadn't even been a stretch lab yet. Okay, he

746
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 1: lays me down, puts my knee into my chest, turns

747
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:02,440
Speaker 1: me over on this ottoman and like puts me on

748
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 1: my stomach, puts my leg into me. No, like just

749
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:09,759
Speaker 1: full on stretching, telling me to push my foot against him,

750
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 1: into his chest. And he's looking at and I was

751
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 1: like trying not to get warny, and I'm still not

752
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:14,719
Speaker 1: at the stretch lab and it's just him doing what

753
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:17,440
Speaker 1: he knows for going for years. So like I'm on

754
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:20,440
Speaker 1: my back, I'm looking at him and like he's widening

755
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 1: my legs. I have panties on, but you can see

756
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 1: my pussy and it's funny because like I know, he's

757
00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:28,719
Speaker 1: taking it serious and I'm not panties on and he's

758
00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:30,239
Speaker 1: putting I don't have panties on right now, so I

759
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 1: can't do it. But he takes my leg all the

760
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 1: way to the other side and he's like push it

761
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:35,960
Speaker 1: back to me and he's like counting, and I'm like,

762
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:39,440
Speaker 1: we're also warny. So then I go to the stretch lab.

763
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:41,759
Speaker 1: It's on Beverly, but they got one in New York.

764
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 1: Apparently they got him everywhere. Okay, so the guy that

765
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:49,640
Speaker 1: fucking is doing it is gay, and I still man,

766
00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 1: he still wanted to. I couldn't even help it. It

767
00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:55,239
Speaker 1: was like getting a really good massage. Okay. He made

768
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:57,719
Speaker 1: me interlock my fingers like this, put them in the

769
00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 1: back of my head. I'm like a breathing in and

770
00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 1: out like with a open mouth, and he's like pushing

771
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:06,719
Speaker 1: my elbows back and now my tiddies are popping out. Also,

772
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 1: I wore short so it was a lot of skin

773
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:10,880
Speaker 1: to skin contact. He had to get on the table

774
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:14,840
Speaker 1: to pull my legs apart for I was so horny.

775
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 1: And there's other beds there that he was attractive. He

776
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:21,319
Speaker 1: want my type. He was maybe five, and you still

777
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:25,600
Speaker 1: got wet, little Latino man um. But there's other there's

778
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:27,480
Speaker 1: eight beds around you. It's not like private room. This

779
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 1: is very professional. Like you have to wear grip socks

780
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:32,879
Speaker 1: because you might slip and you could, you know, pull something.

781
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 1: Then I had to like get off of it, put

782
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:37,359
Speaker 1: my leg down while he pushed into my ass. Bro

783
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:39,359
Speaker 1: I was texting this nigga in the middle of ship

784
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:43,400
Speaker 1: like I am so I cannot waite to leave and bitch,

785
00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:45,320
Speaker 1: I'm so horny, and he just keeps talking to me

786
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 1: and he's like, what do you do for work? I

787
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:49,920
Speaker 1: don't want to talk what I want to I wanted

788
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 1: to suck his I didn't even think he was cute,

789
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 1: that's how good she was. I say that to say,

790
00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 1: if you're gonna do the personal trainer fantasy, whatever you

791
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:02,959
Speaker 1: know about stretching, stretch and I used to talk about

792
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 1: that with my ex. And this is probably what I

793
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:11,400
Speaker 1: missed most is that after he sucked the dog shit

794
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 1: out of me, like this would be like a morning

795
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 1: thing we did. It was never a night thing. But

796
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:19,040
Speaker 1: when he would suck me so crazy in the morning,

797
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 1: he would literally spend another five minutes stretching me, like

798
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 1: literally pulling my leg, putting it up to my chest,

799
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:33,279
Speaker 1: stretching my arms, doing a little literally. I felt like

800
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:37,560
Speaker 1: I was a fucking athlete fucking half court stretching before

801
00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:42,000
Speaker 1: the final. And he would stretch me to where I'm like, damn,

802
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:43,880
Speaker 1: you know you just sucked the dog shit out of

803
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 1: me because we brought out the toys, so I felt

804
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:47,960
Speaker 1: like I just sucked three people, but it was really

805
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 1: just you and two dildos and you fucking stretched me.

806
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 1: It's so stretching where you have this where you don't

807
00:44:58,080 --> 00:45:00,400
Speaker 1: know how you can play into a trainer fantasy. I

808
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:03,960
Speaker 1: think you guys should actually work out at home. Oh like,

809
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 1: don't even like go on a date, like literally working stretching.

810
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:11,399
Speaker 1: The stretching is not working out. No, it's not work

811
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 1: out at home. You get sweaty, because sweaty isn't smelly,

812
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 1: like if you're clean and sweat it's it's not you

813
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 1: know what I mean. It's like that musk. Like I

814
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:23,160
Speaker 1: like it when I get like that, especially when I'm

815
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:27,360
Speaker 1: like running windy bitch. Musially, I'd just be like, I

816
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:29,200
Speaker 1: don't know, and then you're all like open and ship

817
00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:32,600
Speaker 1: and you get a rush from working out. I don't

818
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 1: know what y'all can do at home. Put a video

819
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 1: on what was the shawn t sanity? What's on this?

820
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:41,520
Speaker 1: Play that on? I think it's easier again role playing.

821
00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 1: Its real quick too, because we we did some homemails

822
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:47,080
Speaker 1: this episode. I know we got off on a tangent.

823
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:53,120
Speaker 1: But if you have a role play story of a nonpradition,

824
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:57,319
Speaker 1: non traditional role play scenario, that's what I want to hear.

825
00:45:57,600 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 1: We know the nerves, we know the car, we know

826
00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:02,480
Speaker 1: the right bird, we know all that ship. This was

827
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:04,840
Speaker 1: one where you just gave a whole fucking scenario, and

828
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:07,640
Speaker 1: I agree the stretching is dope. If you have a

829
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 1: non traditional role playing story, please send it in to

830
00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com. That's w H O

831
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 1: R E I B L E Decisions at gmail dot com.

832
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:22,880
Speaker 1: Send those two us. We also as well want to

833
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:28,480
Speaker 1: thank every single person who came out to Envision Festival

834
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 1: in Brooklyn. Thank you guys so very much for supporting us.

835
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:38,399
Speaker 1: The hor Hive was strong and in charge, Baby strong

836
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:40,680
Speaker 1: en in charge. I ain't gonna hold you in terms

837
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:47,279
Speaker 1: of just our fans showing up and yes, y'all wear

838
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:49,839
Speaker 1: horse sets in Little school Girl off its you. I'll

839
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Speaker 1: make it known that y'all are horrors and I love it.

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Speaker 1: I think I love the cult like following that we

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Speaker 1: I was going through the emails to find these home mails.

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Speaker 1: We had another I don't know if you saw it.

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Speaker 1: We had another fucking wedding invite. Oh I did see it,

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Speaker 1: and if we if you guys are are horrible Decisions

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Speaker 1: fans on Patreon. We know that was just a wedding,

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Speaker 1: but we recently, y'all, we recently just had another Horrible

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Speaker 1: Decisions wedding invite. People are meeting each other through our Patreon,

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Speaker 1: through our discord, through our community, and that just makes

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Speaker 1: me happy. Like for literally, as I'm looking through us,

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Speaker 1: I'll say, bitch, we had a fucking wedding invite, and

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Speaker 1: I'm just like wow, Like where I'm promising your love,

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Speaker 1: Like we're not gonna guarantee love over here when you're

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Speaker 1: gonna be a horror. But I do believe that homes

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Speaker 1: should be together, these niggasis hos. So if y'all are listening,

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Speaker 1: women and if you're a HO, this is the community

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Speaker 1: for you to join. So join us again at patreon

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Speaker 1: dot com, back slash hortor Decisions turn our Patreon. Um again.

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Speaker 1: If you guys are watching us on the YouTube, UM,

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Speaker 1: this is a different set. We are at Full Court Studios,

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Speaker 1: so you guys have the opportunity. This is an entire

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Speaker 1: media content hub, so all the furniture is interchangeable, All

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Speaker 1: of the sets are interchangeable. We have up to four sets,

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Speaker 1: two rooms here at Full Course Studios. Here in Brooklyn,

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Speaker 1: New York, right off the L train Grand Street stop.

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Speaker 1: So come and funk with us again. If y'all are

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Speaker 1: watching on YouTube and you see a different set, we

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Speaker 1: are also at w TF Media Studios in Soho. Um.

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Speaker 1: You guys can listen to me here on Horrible Decisions

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Speaker 1: or on See the Thing Is podcast every Tuesday and

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Speaker 1: every Friday, wherever you listen to your favorite pods we

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Speaker 1: need do you have anything up by the way, at

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Speaker 1: the end of the month, Day my playlist, Babe on

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Speaker 1: TV catch me hosteing um a day show Day my playlist.

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Speaker 1: It comes out at the end of the monk. Thank

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Speaker 1: you guys for tuning anti another episode of four Positions.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. That's what it was. I mean, a lot

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Speaker 1: of uh kettles and pots. However, I mean my take

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Speaker 1: on it was, of course, just the accountability part at

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Speaker 1: the end of the day. Yeah, I guess we could

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Speaker 1: sit here and sit on the fact that we've all

884
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:30,399
Speaker 1: fell for niggas that wasn't shipped. But to me, at

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Speaker 1: some point you have to be able to see who

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Speaker 1: the person is when when they show you them. And

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Speaker 1: first off, you were never the only one or the

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Speaker 1: main one. Me me the baby mom and other women

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00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 1: were also in the picture. Um, and then outside of that,

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Speaker 1: he left you while you were pregnant. But did you

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Speaker 1: ever think that man could degrade you on Instagram live

892
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Speaker 1: and put your baby on there and keep you you

893
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Speaker 1: while you were pregnant? And according to the family, you

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Speaker 1: also did she was already p the baby. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: you also didn't even show up for the baby shower.

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Speaker 1: You didn't show up for me or the baby before

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Speaker 1: the baby was here. Baby. So I just feel like,

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Speaker 1: no to me. Like, that's the thing. We all date

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Speaker 1: men with the lens of the idea of them or

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Speaker 1: the potential of them, without really just acknowledging who the

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Speaker 1: funk they are right in front of our eyes. But

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Speaker 1: what is she supposed to so like? And here's the

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Speaker 1: other thing. Understand, he left her when she was pregnant.

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Speaker 1: He didn't show up to the baby shower. Okay, she

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Speaker 1: has the baby. He's like, yoll move in with me.

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Speaker 1: It's your first kid. I'm gonna help you out. Who's

907
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Speaker 1: gonna say no to that? Your emotions are crazy. I've

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Speaker 1: never had a baby, You've never had a baby. We've

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Speaker 1: only had friends with babies. Right, they're all fucked up

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Speaker 1: with hormones. And you're telling me I'm gonna say no

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Speaker 1: to the father of my child inviting me in his

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Speaker 1: home and possibly making it work. And granted she probably

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Speaker 1: is in love with him, Like, no, dude, you're gonna

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Speaker 1: recamp the happy memories. What are you gonna do start

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Speaker 1: fucking with another nigga? No, you want to feel that

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Speaker 1: can unity and that father said, and that feeling is

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Speaker 1: crazy because girl, the first baby mama that you've been

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Speaker 1: back and forth foot she prayed it right now again,

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Speaker 1: So you don't move them with this figure and he's

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Speaker 1: expecting another child with the woman that she's supposed to do.

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Speaker 1: She's supposed to be a grown ass woman. She wasn't

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Speaker 1: supposed to sell her home in l A to move

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Speaker 1: half across the country where she knows nobody, has no friends.

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Speaker 1: She said that that's why I took her so long

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Speaker 1: to even leave the house. Like to me, no, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: it's a grown ass woman. This being hasn't showed up

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Speaker 1: for you. So for you to put all of all

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Speaker 1: of your hope into this man who hasn't been able

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Speaker 1: to show up for you since at some point, you

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Speaker 1: gotta you gotta fault yourself. I think that you can't

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Speaker 1: say that when someone's just had a baby. I think

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Speaker 1: you could say that for someone that like it's just

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Speaker 1: with the and they've been in love. Like we've said this,

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Speaker 1: and this is the problem of Danny. She probably thought

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Speaker 1: that baby was gonna get them back together. A lot

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Speaker 1: of people keep a baby, have a baby and hope

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Speaker 1: that it makes a bond stronger or yes, but or

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Speaker 1: a man can show up differently. You can't see of

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Speaker 1: a girl that just had her first child the same.

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Speaker 1: It's the same way, and I'm gonna say it, it's

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Speaker 1: the same ship. I said about Summer Walker and her

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Speaker 1: Raggedy Ass album. Yeah, you sat here and argued with

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Speaker 1: all the other baby mamas thinking that you was gonna

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Speaker 1: be different. Danny thought because she was a yellow bone,

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Speaker 1: she was gonna be treated different than that. But and

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Speaker 1: and trust me, and I saw this tweet from Crystal

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Speaker 1: that I really liked. It was like, y'all really got

948
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Speaker 1: me sticking up for this. He want me because I'm

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Speaker 1: yellow bitch, because that's how trash the baby is. But

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Speaker 1: you're saying that we know this, but he ain't gonna

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Speaker 1: stay blah blah, Mandy. She she was twenty four, like

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Speaker 1: I think she's now or six, Like, do you really like,

953
00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:50,600
Speaker 1: can you really say that? But that's what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: like can we and by we I mean people that

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Speaker 1: say you should know better? Can we really say that

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Speaker 1: if you've already been through a shitty situation and with

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00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:03,520
Speaker 1: a nigga like the girl is young, I just don't

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Speaker 1: And I really feel like he exploited her. I feel

959
00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:08,319
Speaker 1: like what he did was fucked up. I just don't

960
00:53:08,400 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 1: like using that young excuse for someone who's twenty six,

961
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Speaker 1: because we still have niggas in their thirties and forties

962
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Speaker 1: who's still like to me, No, there's a lot more

963
00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:20,719
Speaker 1: resources now, there's a lot of people telling you what

964
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:23,960
Speaker 1: to do, what not to do. There's you've sat here

965
00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:26,520
Speaker 1: and been dragged by the internet. You've seen how bad

966
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Speaker 1: this man has treated you over the years. It's been

967
00:53:29,360 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 1: in your face. And she literally said she was like,

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Speaker 1: I feel so bad that I didn't listen to the Internet.

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00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:37,400
Speaker 1: The fact that you have to be like, damn Internet,

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00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:41,000
Speaker 1: you was right, everyone was telling you. You chose to

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Speaker 1: ignore all the red flags. We just spoke about how

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Speaker 1: everybody was posting the red flags, bitch. Thep ships was

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00:53:47,160 --> 00:53:50,640
Speaker 1: flaming hot. They wasn't even off off white. They wasn't

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Speaker 1: even hot pink. They was read the whole time like

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Speaker 1: so to me, No, at you're eighteen year an adult.

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Speaker 1: You're twenty, you're twenty one, you're twenty two, you're twenty five,

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Speaker 1: you're twenty six, you're thirty, you're thirty one. I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna just call someone in their twenties, late twenties, mid

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Speaker 1: twenties young. Oh my god, this is not like she's

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Speaker 1: the high tw