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Speaker 1: This is the EDS with Eddie Judge and Edwin Ado Yave.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to the Eds. My name is Eddie Judge,

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Speaker 1: I have my co host, and we have a guest

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Speaker 1: that's been on our show before. His name is Sean Turillo.

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Speaker 1: Hei guys, welcome back. Sean. We are gonna continue our

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Speaker 1: episodes of white Swap with the house husbands. Were really

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Speaker 1: interested to hear on your side. I got to see

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Speaker 1: the show this last week when it aired, and it

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Speaker 1: was it was a lot of fun to watch Angie

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Speaker 1: struggle with such an opposite lifestyle that she lives, and

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Speaker 1: you know, it was even more fun to watch how

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Speaker 1: you guys live in that beautiful home and your dynamics

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Speaker 1: as a family and your great relationship with your daughter,

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Speaker 1: and how cool this whole experience was. I mean, I honestly, Sean,

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Speaker 1: I enjoyed watching it. I enjoyed watching you. You were

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Speaker 1: so cool, so relaxed, so like in control.

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Speaker 2: And thank you.

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Speaker 1: I know that they edit stuff out that you know

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Speaker 1: should and shouldn't be on show, but they made you

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Speaker 1: life good brother.

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Speaker 2: Well thanks, yeah, I appreciate it. Yeah they did a

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Speaker 2: good job.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I was really entertained. So let's get started.

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Speaker 2: Sure.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Sean, what what actually made you say yes to

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Speaker 3: the show? You and angew it actually made you guys

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Speaker 3: say yes?

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Speaker 2: You know, for us, it was kind of a no brainer,

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Speaker 2: you know when they asked us to do the show.

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Speaker 2: You know, obviously they got in touch with Angie and said, hey,

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Speaker 2: we've got this opportunity, and you're one of the first

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Speaker 2: people that we thought of. And you know, just like

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Speaker 2: anything else, we're usually game to do whatever. So you know,

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Speaker 2: it was plus, you know, just a curiosity to kind

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Speaker 2: of learn how, you know, somebody else lives their life

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Speaker 2: and to see if there's any uh, you know, juxtapositions

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Speaker 2: in terms of what the way they do things versus

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Speaker 2: the way we do things. And you know, we're we're

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Speaker 2: lifelong learners, so we're always we're always into kind of

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Speaker 2: you know, we're up for the task and we're always

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Speaker 2: into kind of learning new things.

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Speaker 1: So that's rightesome, that is awesome. You know. We had

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Speaker 1: Joe Gorga on the show last last week or two

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Speaker 1: weeks ago, and remember and it was so much fun

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Speaker 1: hearing him talk about the whole experience. One of the

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Speaker 1: biggest questions we had, you know, because the interesting dynamic

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Speaker 1: here is you and Angie have that awesome relationship where

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Speaker 1: you guys can do a lot of things together. You

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Speaker 1: obviously have a business together. Joe and Melissa spend a

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Speaker 1: lot of time together and they have great dynamics in

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Speaker 1: their relationships. And I think I have the same thing

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Speaker 1: with my wife, but I would I don't think i'd

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Speaker 1: ever wife swap, not even for four days. I don't

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Speaker 1: know if I could deal with that, you know.

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Speaker 2: I think it all depends on who you get. We

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Speaker 2: ended up plucking out, so, you know, but I think

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Speaker 2: it could go the opposite direction too. Gosh.

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Speaker 1: I can't imagine, like if you would have had the

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Speaker 1: complete opposite of or let's say Angie on steroids, right,

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Speaker 1: Because what I learned about Angie is she's very well organized.

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Speaker 1: You know, she gets shit done. Obviously. It resembles a

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Speaker 1: lot of what makes you guys successful. That she doesn't

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Speaker 1: let anything sit right yeah.

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Speaker 1: And and to think, okay, what what if? Because one

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Speaker 1: of the biggest questions I don't know if you remember this,

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Speaker 1: d one, but we asked Joe like, what was the

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Speaker 1: first thing that went to buying? And I thought, what

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Speaker 1: if she's going to some billionaire's house and she's just

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Speaker 1: going to be, you know, flying across the ocean to

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 2: Right? You know that I did wonder that myself, and

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Speaker 2: I was like, well, you know, if if she does

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Speaker 1: No warranty right right? Sold as is yep, yep.

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Speaker 4: Who's more nervous about the switch?

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Speaker 2: You know, I don't think either of us were that

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Speaker 1: Well, I can't imagine what was going through her head

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Speaker 2: How about that toilet, that.

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Speaker 1: Toilet, the outside bathtub, I mean that is roughing it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's brutal.

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Speaker 1: Now, I have a big question for you. If the

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Speaker 1: do you think you would have handled her situation?

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Speaker 4: Toilet?

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Speaker 2: You know, I grew up kind of an outdoorsman. You know,

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Speaker 2: So you know, I'm no stranger to roughing it a

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Speaker 2: still go. I mean, we've got a nice motor home

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Speaker 2: I think the biggest thing, that the biggest challenge I

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Speaker 1: I mean even the toilets in the RV are luxury

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't have to see anything, you know. You know,

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Speaker 2: it's just it disappears, you know, there's it kind of

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Speaker 1: How funny how funny. Yeah, so I did. Really, another

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Speaker 1: thing I wanted to mention is I did enjoy watching

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Speaker 1: the dynamics between you and your daughter and Angie. You know,

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Speaker 1: what I learned from the show is that Angie spends

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Speaker 1: a lot of time just doing stuff, getting stuff done,

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Speaker 1: which takes away from time together as a family, right,

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Speaker 1: But the fact that you are there to take up,

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Speaker 1: And I just found it so awesome that you guys

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Speaker 1: And she's so cool, She's just like so chill. She

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you. Yeah, I mean, obviously she's my favorite

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Speaker 2: we we have a lot in common. You know, Edwin

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Speaker 2: knows she's she's a on the National Equestrian Jumping Circuit

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Speaker 2: I get to relive my childhood through her eyes, albeit

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Speaker 2: a different discipline. But you know, we we just have

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Speaker 2: tons of fun together. We we joke around a lot.

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Speaker 2: We have a blast, you know. But you know, as

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Speaker 2: far as Angie goes, like, you know, she she does

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Speaker 2: stay busy. But you know, I'm just gonna paint the picture.

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Speaker 2: When Angie's you know, wiping off the count her she's

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Speaker 2: done in like five seconds. When she does something, it

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Speaker 2: takes her like ten minutes because you know, she's talking

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Speaker 2: know kind of like her mind's kind of going and

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Speaker 1: That's hilarious because my wife would do the same thing,

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Speaker 1: and she would justify it as multitasking. She gives me

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Speaker 2: Right, I'm the same way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I've read many studies and articles about this

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Speaker 1: whole multitasking bullshit. I think it is bullshit, because, like

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Speaker 1: you said, you just made a perfect point. You might

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Speaker 1: take you an hour to wipe the car.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, exactly exactly.

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Speaker 1: So that's funny. That's funny. Let's talk about you, your

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Speaker 1: temporary wife, Lindsay Lindsay, right, Yeah, I really I.

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Speaker 4: Really liked there.

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Speaker 1: I think I thought, you know, I saw a very

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Speaker 1: down to earth like, humble person coming into your lifestyle

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Speaker 1: and not necessarily judging, but looking at all these amazing

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 1: What do you think was going through her head when

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Speaker 2: You know, she was super cool, you know, just she's

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Speaker 2: I think she warmed up and you know, being on camera,

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Speaker 2: But you know, she is such a nice person. They're

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Speaker 2: they're just such a great family and we couldn't have

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Speaker 2: had a great time. I think she kind of saw

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Speaker 2: well you know, not as not necessary. You know, it's

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Speaker 2: just like, okay, you know, these guys are are really

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Speaker 2: it takes a lot of work to provide for their

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Speaker 2: you know. So I think she saw a lot of

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Speaker 2: there's five bottles of pellegrino on the table right now,

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Speaker 2: No, they have a they have a pretty cool small business.

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Speaker 2: It's tough for me too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it was a great experience, don't get

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Speaker 2: She pulled me out of retirement.

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Speaker 2: I got to do it. You know, it's something that

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Speaker 2: She was genuinely concerned about both of us. You know,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's hilarious and funny because I have some friends

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Speaker 2: Well, it's nice that we have people to keep an

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Speaker 2: So you know, that was that was one of the

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Speaker 2: if they're not out of the gard They just don't

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00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:23,880
Speaker 2: taste like anything. So it was good to just get

439
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:26,600
Speaker 2: this natural product out of the ground and you know,

440
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:29,240
Speaker 2: have it taste the way it should taste. And you

441
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:30,640
Speaker 2: know it was it was great.

442
00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:35,200
Speaker 1: And then you're absolutely right if you can taste it,

443
00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:39,520
Speaker 1: you once, you'll never forget that. My wife and I

444
00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:41,959
Speaker 1: were at our big Bear house over the weekend and

445
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:43,720
Speaker 1: we just took the dog for a walk, and we

446
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:46,480
Speaker 1: walked by this house that had this tree with all

447
00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:49,120
Speaker 1: these apples on it, and they looked, you know, regular

448
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:51,840
Speaker 1: sized apples. So I said, you know, I'm gonna grab one.

449
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 1: And I think she did a little video clip for Instagram,

450
00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:56,679
Speaker 1: because nothing happens in my household that doesn't make it

451
00:23:56,720 --> 00:24:03,040
Speaker 1: on Instagram, right. So I pulled the apple, you know,

452
00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 1: cleaned it off with my shirt and all that, took

453
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 1: a bite and holy cow, it tasted so damn good.

454
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:11,480
Speaker 2: Yeah.

455
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:14,440
Speaker 1: I like apples, but like lately they have tasted more

456
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 1: like water than apples. Yeah, and it's it's amazing what

457
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:21,399
Speaker 1: natural nature really can't provide without all these chemicals.

458
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:27,119
Speaker 2: Yep, it's just you know, it's completely different.

459
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:29,840
Speaker 1: So are you guys keeping up with the garden?

460
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:33,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, we kept it up and you know, starting to

461
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:35,679
Speaker 2: get cold here. I had to clean it out last week.

462
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 2: But you know, we we kept it going through the

463
00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:43,439
Speaker 2: summer and we had plenty to to utilize everything that

464
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:46,760
Speaker 2: we planted and and you know, we basically used it all.

465
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:48,160
Speaker 1: So oh cool.

466
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 2: That was great.

467
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,680
Speaker 3: Sean. By the way, where did you you know you

468
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 3: you have obviously the cosmetology hair salon background, right, yeah,

469
00:24:56,800 --> 00:25:00,040
Speaker 3: and then you have this outdoor background that normally is

470
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 3: and they normally don't go together, right right, Horses cosmetatic

471
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 3: like that normally doesn't.

472
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:08,440
Speaker 4: Go together, right, Yeah, they don't. What do they think

473
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 4: that from you?

474
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,680
Speaker 2: Well? You know, I mean it was one of those

475
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:16,160
Speaker 2: things where you know, I was always still kind of artistic,

476
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:18,480
Speaker 2: like I love the paint, you know, and I loved

477
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:23,040
Speaker 2: you know, fashion, you know, to a degree. You know,

478
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 2: I cared about, uh, you know, the way I looked

479
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:31,880
Speaker 2: stuff like that. But and I always had that growing up.

480
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:34,199
Speaker 2: I probably picked that up from my mom because she

481
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 2: always looks perfect, you know what I mean. It's like

482
00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:40,440
Speaker 2: I've never seen her without makeup or done up, and

483
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:42,879
Speaker 2: you know, I think that rupped off. But you know,

484
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 2: it definitely doesn't go together. And the crazy thing is

485
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:49,439
Speaker 2: is when I was like nineteen, I started dating a

486
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:51,880
Speaker 2: hairdresser and she's like, man, you should think about doing

487
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 2: this because I was raised in construction, and you know

488
00:25:56,280 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 2: if after a year year and a half, I thought,

489
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:03,360
Speaker 2: you know, this could be cool, you know what I mean.

490
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 2: I saw a documentary on somebody that this is this

491
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:09,679
Speaker 2: guy that was working on supermodels and stuff like that.

492
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 2: I'm like Okay, that could be really good, you know.

493
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:16,880
Speaker 2: So Mitchell, well, yeah, his name happened to be John

494
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 2: sa Hog. He was an editorial stylist back in the day.

495
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 2: And you know, I went signed up for school and

496
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 2: I knew. I knew the first day this is this

497
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:29,440
Speaker 2: was my thing.

498
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 1: So that's awesome.

499
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, And you know, you do you deal with the stereotypes,

500
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:39,119
Speaker 2: you know, working in that business, you know. But the

501
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 2: strange thing is is, you know, from day one, I

502
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 2: always had a girlfriend or something like that. But you

503
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 2: still deal with it, and you know, you get to

504
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:48,560
Speaker 2: the point where you don't really care. You know, I'd

505
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:52,679
Speaker 2: rather I'd rather do that than mix cement, you know

506
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:56,199
Speaker 2: what I mean, so for a living, So you know,

507
00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:58,920
Speaker 2: I really didn't care what people thought, you know. I

508
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 2: just I feel so lucky, you know, over the last

509
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 2: thirty years, thirty two years, that I've been able to

510
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 2: wake up and love what I do.

511
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 1: One of the things I do to keep myself humble

512
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:22,520
Speaker 1: is I haven't done it in a while, but I

513
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:24,719
Speaker 1: go back to the neighborhoods where I grew up and

514
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 1: they're nowhere near where what neighborhood we live in now, right,

515
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:34,920
Speaker 1: So it helps me kind of stay humble and realize

516
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 1: that I've struggled and this is where I used to live,

517
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 1: and I look at the apartment where I grew up.

518
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 1: It's literally as big as my office, right, It's crazy. Yeah,

519
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 1: So having that balance you know, of I mean, I

520
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:53,240
Speaker 1: won't I've never done it, but I can't imagine working

521
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:56,880
Speaker 1: and hauling horses around is easy work. I'm sure it's

522
00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 1: a lot of hard work. So unless you have you know,

523
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,920
Speaker 1: seventeen staff members doing it all for you, you really

524
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 1: don't get the gist of what that culture is about.

525
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 1: And the experience of being around horses is about right, right.

526
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:17,240
Speaker 1: So I love that balance you have where you still

527
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:20,240
Speaker 1: kind of ref it, but you also enjoy the luxuries

528
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:23,719
Speaker 1: of life, and I believe that helps us stay humble

529
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 1: right to understand and not just see, but feel what

530
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:30,200
Speaker 1: it's like not having anything.

531
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,959
Speaker 2: You know, it's true, you know, and you see, you know,

532
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:37,959
Speaker 2: you hear it all the time. You know. It's like

533
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 2: people with new money can be a nightmare because they

534
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 2: forget about you know, they try to block out the

535
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 2: past and then some of the trials and some of

536
00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 2: the things that tested them, you know, through their early

537
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 2: life or whatever. But you know, for me, I much

538
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 2: like you, I do the same thing. I go visit

539
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 2: my old house, I drive through my old neighborhood, I

540
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 2: go look at my old church, stuff like that, And

541
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 2: I think it really does just kind of bring you

542
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 2: back to center, right, and I think it brings you

543
00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 2: back to a place of gratitude for sure. You know,

544
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:17,960
Speaker 2: from day one, you know, I've always had to work

545
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 2: for what I have. You know, my parents, you know,

546
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 2: were entrepreneurs. There were ebbs and flows, and sometimes there

547
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 2: was a little bit more, and then sometimes there wasn't anything.

548
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 2: So you know, I knew if I if I wanted

549
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 2: a new bike or a new skateboard or some new shoes,

550
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 2: that I had to go out and figure out a

551
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 2: way to do it, you know what I mean. So,

552
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 2: and to this day, if there's a penny on the ground,

553
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 2: I won't walk over it. I pick it up and

554
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 2: I kiss it and I put it in my pocket.

555
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, my own wife always says, you know, we don't

556
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 1: live in in the ghetto anymore. A penny is a penny, man,

557
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 1: even if it was a half a dam Yeah, that's dirty.

558
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 2: Don't pick it up now. I'm picking it up and

559
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:06,600
Speaker 2: I'm kissing it and I'm putting it in my pocket.

560
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 1: Because you know what the value of copper is right now?

561
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, right, right, amazing how that stuff changes, Right.

562
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: Hey, Edwin, how do you stay humble?

563
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 4: I mean I think the same thing.

564
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:22,040
Speaker 3: So I'd love looking at like going back, and uh,

565
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:24,240
Speaker 3: you know, I still hang out with like all my

566
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 3: buddies that I grew up with. In fact, I just

567
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 3: took them to the Dodger game for the Championship series.

568
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 3: It was like six of us and and then we

569
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:33,800
Speaker 3: ran into three other guys that we grew up with,

570
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:37,720
Speaker 3: and just you know, those childhood friends, I mean, to me,

571
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:40,600
Speaker 3: the the For whatever reason, I was telling them this

572
00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 3: the other day, some of my best experiences were with them.

573
00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 3: And I think as a child, because you really had

574
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 3: no worries back then, even though it was this humble

575
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 3: beginnings for me, Like I didn't have to worry about work.

576
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 3: I just was out there playing, having a good time

577
00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:02,680
Speaker 3: with the with the boys. Yeah, but stuff like that,

578
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 3: Like for me, the humility has always been sort of

579
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 3: for I've always felt like it could all be taken away. Yeah,

580
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 3: in a second, one bad move and it's all gone.

581
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,800
Speaker 3: And I think That's why I've never taken it for granted,

582
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 3: you know, yep, and knowing what that other side tastes

583
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 3: like as well, Right, I want one bad movie, You'll

584
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 3: go back to that lifestyle.

585
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 1: So, you know, funny funny thing is, I've always told

586
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 1: myself I've been there. If I lose it all and

587
00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 1: i have to start over, it's not a big deal

588
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 1: because I've done it before. And this was, you know,

589
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 1: most of my mentality growing up the last thirty years,

590
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 1: trying to make you know, something of myself. And today

591
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't want to start over. Fuck that,

592
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to go backwards anymore.

593
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 2: The good part is you know where you you know

594
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 2: that you can you know, and I think, you know,

595
00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 2: three of us guys here like we know we could

596
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 2: what if we had to, although we don't. But I

597
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 2: think a scarier place is preservation mode. You know, you

598
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 2: don't want to be so scared to take risks that

599
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 2: you know you're you're not in creative mind and building

600
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 2: something right, So but you know, it is great to

601
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:19,880
Speaker 2: know that we could do it if we had to.

602
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:24,000
Speaker 3: One of the things that I've appreciated over the years

603
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:26,440
Speaker 3: has been, you know, when I first met Teddy, I

604
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 3: lived in the big house. It was probably six thousand

605
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 3: square feet, and I started staying at Teddy's condo, which

606
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 3: was like eight hundred square feet, right, And I found it,

607
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 3: like I enjoyed going from a big house to a

608
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 3: smaller condo. It's just something about waking up and just

609
00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 3: being able to just go to the kitchen, like, yeah,

610
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 3: it's pretty cool.

611
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:49,240
Speaker 4: Right.

612
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 3: And similarly, now, like the girl I'm dating, same things,

613
00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 3: she lives in a nice little condo and it's nice

614
00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:00,760
Speaker 3: to just be able to just go and everything's right,

615
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 3: right it versus a big house. It simplifies things, right,

616
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 3: simplifies things to be said about it. I feel a

617
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 3: lot of peace, yeah, in in that.

618
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:18,840
Speaker 1: So that's I got a funny story for you guys.

619
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 1: The last couple of years when we bought a house

620
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 1: in Big Bear. It's a small little house, probably twenty

621
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 1: five hundred square feet, four bedrooms, and we've redone it.

622
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 1: And that's because Tammer just loves that's kind of like

623
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:34,240
Speaker 1: her escape, you know, just to redo the house inside

624
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 1: it out, and she just loves it. So we did

625
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:38,160
Speaker 1: a great job with this house and now we've made

626
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 1: it our own. It's very cozy. It feels like at home,

627
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 1: and you know, we get when we have guests over,

628
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:45,840
Speaker 1: they love the what she's done to it. So it

629
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:48,960
Speaker 1: feels good that her creativity is you know, appreciated.

630
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 4: Right.

631
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 1: So, now that we're done with that phase, we're like, well,

632
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 1: should we get a bigger house out here in Big Bear?

633
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 1: And the first thing I'm thinking, like, I'm the one

634
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: that has to clean this damn yard. Yeah, And this

635
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 1: last week, because of the season we're in, I had to.

636
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 1: I mean it's not a lot of work, but I

637
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:08,840
Speaker 1: had to blow all the leaves and acorns off the

638
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 1: deck and just clean the damn yard. But normally I

639
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:16,280
Speaker 1: do that when we get there and then it's done.

640
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 1: This last week, I was doing it every other day

641
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 1: because it was coming down that hard and I'm like,

642
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 1: I'm done with these trees. Were taking them out right.

643
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 1: But my thought was like, do I really want to

644
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 1: live up here? Because this is a lot of freaking work.

645
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 1: And then we went to a Octoberfest celebration, which is fun.

646
00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:40,440
Speaker 1: It's so unique up there because it's such a different environment.

647
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 1: And we met a young couple that were friends of

648
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 1: friends that live here in Madera and their parents own

649
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:50,879
Speaker 1: one of the biggest houses that's near the slopes. There's

650
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:54,719
Speaker 1: a street called Switzerland that's right by the slopes. Right

651
00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 1: The actual street is a shithold. There's potholes everywhere. But

652
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:01,799
Speaker 1: when we first moved up there, you know, we're kind

653
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 1: of looking around, walking around, and we walked by this

654
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:07,480
Speaker 1: neighborhood and there's like five or six giant homes like

655
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 1: ten thousand square foot two acres, like you can see

656
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 1: it from the street, and you're like, who the hell

657
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:16,200
Speaker 1: buys or owns a house that big, eight bedrooms, you know,

658
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:19,919
Speaker 1: it's like giant. So they invited us over and sure enough,

659
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 1: it's that big, giant house that's for sale. It's eight bedrooms,

660
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 1: it's tall, tall, like twenty five thirty foot ceilings. It

661
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:30,480
Speaker 1: was incredible to see. But what was the first thing

662
00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 1: that I thought? Can you imagine the maintenance on this

663
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:34,439
Speaker 1: fucking house?

664
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, no, thank you.

665
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:39,760
Speaker 1: I don't want it.

666
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:42,160
Speaker 2: It's a lot. It's never ending when you get into

667
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:43,239
Speaker 2: that range, you know.

668
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:48,759
Speaker 1: And again I also appreciate and understand. You know, if

669
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 1: you have that kind of money, you probably not blowing

670
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:52,919
Speaker 1: your own down.

671
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:54,759
Speaker 2: You know, you're probably right.

672
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:58,279
Speaker 1: But and it's not that I can't afford it. I

673
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:01,319
Speaker 1: just I like doing that stuff because it makes me

674
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:04,760
Speaker 1: feel young, right. It makes me feel like I can

675
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 1: when I get stiff because I haven't moved, or I

676
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:09,799
Speaker 1: haven't exercise or I haven't worked out. You guys know

677
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:12,760
Speaker 1: that feeling. You feel stagnant, you feel sick, you feel

678
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:15,759
Speaker 1: like you're getting old. So I like to move and

679
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 1: do things. And that's the main reason why I do

680
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:21,360
Speaker 1: my own kind of lawn keeping at the house in

681
00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 1: Big Beer. First of all, there's not a lot to do.

682
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 1: It's just blow leaves, right and during the winter, you know,

683
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:30,359
Speaker 1: I have gone out there and blowing the snow off

684
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:33,480
Speaker 1: the driveway. It took me two hours. But it makes

685
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 1: me feel young. It makes me feel like as long

686
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:39,200
Speaker 1: as I could still dig a hole or ditch with

687
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 1: that shovelin, I think I'm doing pretty good health wise.

688
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 3: Right.

689
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:44,600
Speaker 2: Well, I'm with you on that, you know, And it's

690
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:47,400
Speaker 2: certainly not that you couldn't hire somebody to do it,

691
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 2: but you know, if you can do it, and you

692
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:54,280
Speaker 2: can make time to do it, you feel you feel

693
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:58,920
Speaker 2: responsible and capable, right, Like it makes sense, like if

694
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 2: you have the ability to fix something in your yard

695
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:06,760
Speaker 2: or on your house. You feel capable, you know. So,

696
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 2: so I'm with you on that. I try. I try

697
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:10,839
Speaker 2: to only hire out what I have to, right.

698
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:13,879
Speaker 3: I think the keyword there, Sean, is if you can.

699
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:19,560
Speaker 3: Yeah for me, I watch those reels of like people

700
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 3: trying to do handyman shit and they always get hurt.

701
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:25,120
Speaker 3: They'll fall from the ladder or some shit just happens.

702
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:29,360
Speaker 3: I'm like, that would be me do some handyman stuff.

703
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 4: I would get hurt.

704
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 2: Well, when you get at my advanced stage, you know,

705
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 2: you definitely want to stay away from a ladder if

706
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 2: it's over ten feet, you know for sure.

707
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:38,240
Speaker 4: Yeah.

708
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: I used to have no problem climbing trees when I

709
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:43,240
Speaker 1: was a kid, and I didn't even think about the fall.

710
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 1: But now when I go up a big ladder like that,

711
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 1: I'm like, maybe I should hire somebody.

712
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:50,279
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, when you hit the ground, it's going to

713
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:54,080
Speaker 2: be a little bit different these you know, Sean, So,

714
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:57,239
Speaker 2: did you after just going back to the show, is

715
00:37:57,239 --> 00:38:00,640
Speaker 2: there anything that you experienced on the show that you're

716
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:02,320
Speaker 2: gonna implement now.

717
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:06,160
Speaker 4: With with the wife swap?

718
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, the household, Well, I'm definitely gonna keep that garden up.

719
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:13,759
Speaker 2: There's no doubt about that. But you know, I think

720
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 2: in addition to that, you know, it's just me and

721
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:19,880
Speaker 2: Angie coming together and seeing that you know, she doesn't

722
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 2: have to create so much busy work for herself. You know.

723
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:25,359
Speaker 2: I think sometimes like at the end of the day,

724
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:28,839
Speaker 2: you know, so so me and Electra like to sit

725
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:31,880
Speaker 2: down and watch a movie or a series, you know,

726
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:33,839
Speaker 2: at the end of the day, and it's just kind

727
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 2: of our way to chill. But more importantly, it's really

728
00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:42,839
Speaker 2: the only time I get to have Electra sitting right

729
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 2: next to me, and I love that, you know what

730
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:47,720
Speaker 2: I mean. And it's like, even though we're watching something,

731
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 2: you know, we'll have a conversation about you know, a

732
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 2: scene or whatever. I'll tease her about something or you know,

733
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 2: if there's you know, right now, she's really into like

734
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 2: Cobra Kai and Stranger Things. And it's like when we're

735
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:05,840
Speaker 2: watching that, I'm like, I'm like, so, so, who do

736
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 2: you have a crush on? You know, so I can

737
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 2: start doing things like that, you know what I mean.

738
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:14,080
Speaker 2: And you know, it's just really a special time for

739
00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:17,320
Speaker 2: me because she's right next to me. I get to hugger,

740
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 2: I get to have my arm around her stuff like that. So, yeah,

741
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:21,799
Speaker 2: it's such a.

742
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 3: Good point Sean, by the way, in regards to busy work,

743
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:29,840
Speaker 3: like I've found myself prior to all the stuff with

744
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:34,720
Speaker 3: Teddy's situation, in our situation, I was always creating busy

745
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:38,040
Speaker 3: work for myself. And one of the things that I've

746
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:41,239
Speaker 3: learned from going through this situation is I stopped with

747
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 3: the busy work and I've found myself with a lot

748
00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 3: more time to enjoy stuff right right. It's interesting that

749
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:50,600
Speaker 3: you said that, because it's a very true thing, like

750
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:52,880
Speaker 3: you just start creating busy work and you're just busy,

751
00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:56,160
Speaker 3: Like I literally would look for stuff to do or

752
00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 3: look for wrong things, like I've got to check on

753
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 3: this because some be going wrong herest part and I've

754
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:06,560
Speaker 3: just kind of let go. And it's probably so much peace.

755
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:10,080
Speaker 2: No, it really does. And you know, and I think

756
00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:13,160
Speaker 2: the other we get, the more more knowledge we gain

757
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:17,400
Speaker 2: in terms of like this situation in general, not having

758
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 2: the busy work. It's like, you know, there's always something

759
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 2: that can be done or whatever, but do you need

760
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 2: to does it have to be done right now? And

761
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 2: is my special time with my daughter more important than

762
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 2: sweeping the garage or whatever. And I you know, what

763
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:37,880
Speaker 2: I hope Angie kind of finds or has found, you know,

764
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:41,440
Speaker 2: is is that you don't have to be doing shit

765
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 2: twenty four to seven, right, like, come and have a

766
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 2: seat with us, you know, and experience what I experience,

767
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:53,880
Speaker 2: you know. And she's definitely been a little bit better,

768
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:56,759
Speaker 2: you know, obviously you know she's airing right now, so

769
00:40:56,800 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 2: she's on the phone still with but you know, it's

770
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:02,880
Speaker 2: like I think it used to drive her, not its

771
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:04,799
Speaker 2: when she used to see us sitting there, you know,

772
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:08,319
Speaker 2: kind of doing this thing, and it's like, look, this

773
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:10,799
Speaker 2: is special to me. I'm not changing it. You know.

774
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:13,239
Speaker 2: You can call me lazy whatever you want, but I'm

775
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:16,319
Speaker 2: doing it still. Yeah, so I'll get I'll get my

776
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 2: shit done, you know.

777
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 1: Because it takes us five seconds, you know, five minutes.

778
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:24,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, you do that five minutes. Yeah.

779
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 1: Well, I appreciate the scene where I think you guys

780
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 1: were on the couch and you're invited to come watch

781
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:34,719
Speaker 1: TV with you and she looks back. Angie looks back

782
00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 1: and goes, I got a good d laundry, and I

783
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 1: gotta do this and I gotta do that, Like, oh

784
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:42,840
Speaker 1: my god, what a great scene.

785
00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:46,680
Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, you know, it's funny because that scene, you know,

786
00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:49,520
Speaker 2: she's spraying off the counter and I'd done up five

787
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 2: minutes before that. It's like, all right, whatever, that happens

788
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:56,839
Speaker 2: a lot, you know, it's just like, dude, I just

789
00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:57,239
Speaker 2: did that.

790
00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

791
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:00,279
Speaker 2: Yeah.

792
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 1: One of the things that I remember was said on

793
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,960
Speaker 1: the show was that she wanted to at the end

794
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:17,560
Speaker 1: of this experience, wanted to wanted you guys to really

795
00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:21,279
Speaker 1: miss her and and and appreciate how much she does

796
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 1: for you. And how how accurate or or how how

797
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 1: was that after she had, you know, been to the

798
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:36,640
Speaker 1: farm and came back. How was that effective in her thought?

799
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:39,279
Speaker 1: Or did she completely decide, you know what, that's not

800
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 1: what I want my kids or my family to do.

801
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:46,239
Speaker 1: It's miss me while I'm gone. Does that make sense?

802
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:47,479
Speaker 1: Does that question make sense?

803
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, so, you know, I mean, here, here's the thing.

804
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:57,040
Speaker 2: Here's the thing about this, this this whole process was

805
00:42:57,040 --> 00:42:58,919
Speaker 2: like it was pretty fast. I think it was over

806
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:02,320
Speaker 2: three or four days is yeah, and we were grinding

807
00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 2: the whole time, you know what I mean. So, so

808
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:12,000
Speaker 2: like it seemed like it was so quick there really

809
00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 2: wasn't enough time to to think about like oh I

810
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 2: miss Angie or anything like that, you know, I think so,

811
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 2: I think it was a little bit too fast.

812
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 1: Now.

813
00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:24,760
Speaker 2: Had it been like you know the old wife swap

814
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:26,880
Speaker 2: days where they go for like a couple of weeks,

815
00:43:27,440 --> 00:43:30,040
Speaker 2: I think that would have given us a big enough

816
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:33,840
Speaker 2: break to actually, Okay, we need mom back now, because

817
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:37,440
Speaker 2: you know, although I think I would have had a

818
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:41,720
Speaker 2: great experience either way. You know, there's something about getting

819
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:44,520
Speaker 2: back into your routine and it's like, Oh, can't wait

820
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 2: for Angie to get back and I can go and

821
00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:48,640
Speaker 2: do my thing, you know what I mean.

822
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:54,839
Speaker 1: So, was there one or two or three things that

823
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 1: in the short period of time you were apart that

824
00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 1: you wish, like you realize, oh, I do miss this

825
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:05,080
Speaker 1: about her other than her presence, right, you know, what

826
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 1: was that one thing, if any, that you remember, like

827
00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:09,399
Speaker 1: I wish Angie was here?

828
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:12,960
Speaker 2: No, I mean, you know you mentioned the biggest thing,

829
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:17,360
Speaker 2: and I think her presence, you know, is always missed.

830
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 2: You know, her humor, Lindsay Lindsay, although I think she's

831
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 2: got a great sense of humor, I think she was

832
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:27,560
Speaker 2: just kind of a deer in headlights in the process,

833
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:30,920
Speaker 2: So you didn't see a lot of that but you

834
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:33,799
Speaker 2: know the sense of humor and and just you know,

835
00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 2: I think Elector would tell you she would miss eavesdropping

836
00:44:37,719 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 2: on the conversations that she's having with Mary or or

837
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:45,800
Speaker 2: Heather one of those girls, because I think that's always

838
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:49,120
Speaker 2: fun for Electra to kind of want to be a

839
00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:49,839
Speaker 2: part of you.

840
00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:51,360
Speaker 1: Know, that's funny.

841
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 3: What was it like meeting the family? The Flake family?

842
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 3: You guys had a watch party, right, What was that like?

843
00:44:57,120 --> 00:44:58,880
Speaker 2: We did? Yeah, we had a watch party.

844
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:00,760
Speaker 1: Was that the first time I met the husband?

845
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:03,480
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, that was the first time I'd met the

846
00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 2: husband and kids, and it was awesome. Like, you know,

847
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:09,400
Speaker 2: when Angie came back, she just she just fell in

848
00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 2: love with the kids, and she loved Tanner, you know,

849
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:16,920
Speaker 2: just such a great guy, just a you know, just

850
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:20,960
Speaker 2: a good old boy. Yeah, and you know, she really

851
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 2: really fell in love with those guys. And when she

852
00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 2: told me that they were going to come and do

853
00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 2: this watch party, I was like, and spend the night

854
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 2: at our house. I was like, oh, that's you know,

855
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 2: for a minute, they're actually going to spend the night, Okay,

856
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:37,799
Speaker 2: all right, cool, I get that. And then you know,

857
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 2: they got here and they're just a warm just They've

858
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:46,839
Speaker 2: got a very healthy, dynamic family dynamic. They all work

859
00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:51,000
Speaker 2: together daily and and it shows in their relationship, you know.

860
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:54,480
Speaker 2: So we had a blast. It was fun to have

861
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 2: him here, and I have him here over and over again.

862
00:45:57,840 --> 00:46:03,279
Speaker 1: That's so cool. I remember unseen where I think you

863
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:05,960
Speaker 1: had to do with the rules. And Angie took them

864
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 1: all out to dinner because she couldn't eat at home anymore.

865
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:12,120
Speaker 2: She didn't want any more ox tail.

866
00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:15,880
Speaker 1: You didn't want any more oxtail? Yeah, no thanks, And

867
00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:19,040
Speaker 1: then she gave the kids ice cream or an ice

868
00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:21,359
Speaker 1: cream Sunday or something like that, and they're like, it's

869
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:25,239
Speaker 1: not good for us, but it was so good, right,

870
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:28,800
Speaker 1: And they're young, they're little kids like thinking like that already,

871
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:31,400
Speaker 1: Like I am not putting chunk in my body, I

872
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:34,160
Speaker 1: mean exactly. You know they're going to be pretty healthy.

873
00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:36,839
Speaker 2: Yeah. They truly live off the land. You know. If

874
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:39,200
Speaker 2: you can cool, you can kill it, pick it out

875
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 2: of the ground, or pull it off a tree. That's

876
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 2: what they do. You know.

877
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:44,319
Speaker 4: So did you.

878
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 1: Were you surprised or confirmed when you saw them, you know,

879
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:52,400
Speaker 1: the family over did you understand Lindsay a little bit

880
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:54,360
Speaker 1: better now that you saw the family dynamics when you

881
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:55,440
Speaker 1: guys did that watch party?

882
00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 2: No, you could definitely, you know, I definitely had a

883
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 2: better understand you know, I think I had my head

884
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 2: wrapped around it. But when you see them together, you

885
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:10,680
Speaker 2: can you know there's just something special there that they

886
00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:13,359
Speaker 2: really have together. And like I said, I think it's

887
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:15,959
Speaker 2: you know, it's one of those things where they wake

888
00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:19,560
Speaker 2: up together and then they do everything throughout the day

889
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:24,280
Speaker 2: together and you know, it really just it definitely builds

890
00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 2: like a lot of I don't know, I think there's

891
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:29,879
Speaker 2: a lot of love and a lot of character, and

892
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:32,720
Speaker 2: you know, they they they're a great family.

893
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:34,280
Speaker 4: Did you do the watch party at your house?

894
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:35,759
Speaker 2: We did? Yeah.

895
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 4: We make them take off their shoes.

896
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 2: You know. You know what's funny is they do that anyway.

897
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:42,399
Speaker 2: We don't make you know, if we're gonna have people over,

898
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:45,400
Speaker 2: we don't. We never tell people to do that, you know.

899
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 2: But the boy they walk in, they drop their shoes,

900
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:52,440
Speaker 2: and you know, they're so polite, well mannered and just

901
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:53,360
Speaker 2: great people.

902
00:47:53,760 --> 00:48:00,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I could see how strong the family can be

903
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:03,719
Speaker 1: when they're going through what they're going through. Not that

904
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:06,319
Speaker 1: they have to, but by choice, right, they made a

905
00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:09,640
Speaker 1: choice to do this together because we all have a choice.

906
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:13,520
Speaker 1: And the thing that stuck out was they have a

907
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 1: choice to just simplify their life and make their family

908
00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:22,160
Speaker 1: core unit the most important thing, because one thing I

909
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 1: learned about having a gym is when you experience something

910
00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:30,480
Speaker 1: hard like a spartan race or even in the CrossFit world,

911
00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:34,000
Speaker 1: right when you experience something really really tough in life

912
00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 1: like picking up something heavy, or for that matter, if

913
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:40,200
Speaker 1: you go hunting and you kill a big giant animal,

914
00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:44,799
Speaker 1: you bond with that person and you have this life experience.

915
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 1: And that's what this family has been doing together to

916
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 1: build that core strength of their family. Right right, they

917
00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:56,279
Speaker 1: could easily make a right turn and live off their

918
00:48:56,840 --> 00:48:59,879
Speaker 1: business and go spend a bunch of money on how

919
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:02,719
Speaker 1: and struggle like most of America live on debt and

920
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 1: all that, But that's not the same. That doesn't build

921
00:49:06,680 --> 00:49:09,840
Speaker 1: the core unit of the relationship that you need to

922
00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:13,319
Speaker 1: be a strong family. Like I doubt they'll ever get

923
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:16,760
Speaker 1: divorced because they're so strong, And I doubt the kids

924
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:19,280
Speaker 1: will ever stop talking to them or hate them because

925
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 1: they made them go through this. You know that the

926
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 1: strength and experience they had together as a family, I

927
00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:29,200
Speaker 1: think is gonna build for the rest of their lives.

928
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 1: They're gonna they're gonna kids, are gonna get older, They're

929
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:33,480
Speaker 1: gonna look back and like, yeah, I grew up in

930
00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:36,680
Speaker 1: a farm kind of you know, living off the land,

931
00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:40,040
Speaker 1: and now I'm a you know, financial executive making a

932
00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:43,000
Speaker 1: ton of money, But I appreciate where I came from, right.

933
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, I agree. I think I think

934
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 2: the bond is definitely different when you're with your family

935
00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:53,920
Speaker 2: twenty four to seven. You know, it's like, you know,

936
00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:56,080
Speaker 2: you live in the routine that we live in, and

937
00:49:56,200 --> 00:50:00,200
Speaker 2: you know, I drop Electra office school, and you know

938
00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 2: what am I missing? You know what kind of like

939
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:05,840
Speaker 2: little subtleties am I missing when she's at school, Like,

940
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:08,600
Speaker 2: you know, these guys get to maybe be a part

941
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 2: of or overhear maybe you know, they're boys talking about

942
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:15,400
Speaker 2: a girl or you know, or things like that. You

943
00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:17,960
Speaker 2: know that that I'm going to miss, you know, when

944
00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 2: she's at school talking about boys with her girlfriends, right, Like,

945
00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 2: I'm not going to be able to overhear and engage

946
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:27,320
Speaker 2: in those conversations. So you know, there is something special

947
00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:29,600
Speaker 2: and I think, you know, people that choose to kind

948
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 2: of live that way you know, if all those children

949
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:34,439
Speaker 2: don't do it, at least a couple of them will,

950
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:40,080
Speaker 2: and it carries on this strong family bond, you know,

951
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:41,160
Speaker 2: for generations.

952
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:44,440
Speaker 1: I think I believe too. I believe one hundred percent.

953
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:49,640
Speaker 1: I Like one situation that comes to mind right now

954
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:52,279
Speaker 1: is kind of what Edwin is going through. And he

955
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:54,800
Speaker 1: has to split his time, you know, with the kids,

956
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:59,960
Speaker 1: and I know that affects the time you miss right when,

957
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:02,719
Speaker 1: like when you're not with the kids, even though it's

958
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:05,880
Speaker 1: kind of nice to have that freedom to go do

959
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:09,799
Speaker 1: what you're doing with yourself, you know, to to try

960
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:12,719
Speaker 1: to get through this hard part of your life. Do

961
00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:15,319
Speaker 1: you miss those times? And how do you make up

962
00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 1: for those times when you're not with the kids.

963
00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:18,920
Speaker 4: Well, it hasn't happened.

964
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 3: I mean it was going to happen, and then with

965
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:24,920
Speaker 3: the situation that happened, everything was sort of changed. Now

966
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:28,759
Speaker 3: I pretty much see them every day because I come

967
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:33,040
Speaker 3: I typically come home around five thirty and then I

968
00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:37,480
Speaker 3: take Cruise to football practice, and when I come back,

969
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 3: I get to hang out with the kids. Oh it's

970
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:42,600
Speaker 3: almost like I'm here from like five thirty to nine,

971
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:45,719
Speaker 3: and then I go back home. So I'm seeing them

972
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:48,759
Speaker 3: every day. So but I know before that, you know,

973
00:51:48,800 --> 00:51:52,440
Speaker 3: we were planning the whole seven days in s out.

974
00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:56,920
Speaker 3: We never got to that part, so I still haven't

975
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:59,400
Speaker 3: really you know, but like that said, like I was

976
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 3: able to go away for a weekend. You know, I'm

977
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:03,520
Speaker 3: still able to do like those kind of things, but I.

978
00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:04,960
Speaker 4: Used to do that before.

979
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:08,799
Speaker 3: So as far as like time schedule with the kids, like,

980
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:13,280
Speaker 3: none of that is really changed yet, although as Steady

981
00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:17,200
Speaker 3: gets better, we'll probably you know, start going that route again.

982
00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:20,239
Speaker 4: But obviously right now, the main thing is making sure

983
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:20,920
Speaker 4: she's healthy.

984
00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:21,840
Speaker 1: Right.

985
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:25,600
Speaker 3: But yeah, and Sean, I had a question for you,

986
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 3: just kind of back to what you said earlier about

987
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:32,960
Speaker 3: housewives being a little tougher for you. Then I'm sorry

988
00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:37,359
Speaker 3: how a wife swap being tougher than the housewives because

989
00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:40,160
Speaker 3: in housewives you're not sort of the main character.

990
00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:43,359
Speaker 4: You don't have as much dialogue. It's part of that.

991
00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:46,120
Speaker 3: And part of the question is my own experience was

992
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 3: you know, when I was on Housewives, I was so

993
00:52:48,680 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 3: worried about what I didn't want to say the wrong thing,

994
00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:52,279
Speaker 3: so I.

995
00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:54,440
Speaker 4: Just chose to stay quiet because.

996
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:57,160
Speaker 3: I'm like, man, if I say something wrong, my business

997
00:52:57,200 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 3: is gonna you know, go downhill or people off, and

998
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:03,480
Speaker 3: what if I pissed some of the wives off that

999
00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:07,440
Speaker 3: work that that work with where their husbands work with me.

1000
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:09,719
Speaker 3: You know, I was in my head in that, so

1001
00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:12,279
Speaker 3: I just chose to stay quiet. Was that one of

1002
00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:14,200
Speaker 3: the reasons why I was sort of tough? Like did

1003
00:53:14,280 --> 00:53:15,920
Speaker 3: you have to like second guess what you were going

1004
00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:17,400
Speaker 3: to say? Were you're in your head like that or

1005
00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:22,200
Speaker 3: was that well you pretty just open with the whole. Hey,

1006
00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:24,839
Speaker 3: I'm I'm I'm the star of the show here.

1007
00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 4: I got to speak up and I got to do

1008
00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:29,600
Speaker 4: some stuff, you know, I got to perform, perform.

1009
00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 2: You know. It's interesting, you know when you choose to

1010
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:36,960
Speaker 2: to kind of dive into this TV thing, like like

1011
00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:40,279
Speaker 2: initially you think, you know, I do I have to

1012
00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:42,840
Speaker 2: be careful, but you know I thought for myself, like

1013
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:47,840
Speaker 2: you know, first season of Housewives, I was like, I

1014
00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:48,839
Speaker 2: just got to be me.

1015
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:49,560
Speaker 1: You know.

1016
00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:51,000
Speaker 2: And I think at the end of the day, you

1017
00:53:51,040 --> 00:53:54,040
Speaker 2: get criticism, right, so you're damned if you do, and

1018
00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 2: you're damned if you don't. And you know, and I

1019
00:53:58,040 --> 00:54:01,000
Speaker 2: just told Angie, like we have disagreement that we're just

1020
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:03,360
Speaker 2: going to be authentic no matter what you know, so

1021
00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:07,120
Speaker 2: and you know not to say that you don't second

1022
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:10,360
Speaker 2: guess yourself in a certain scene or whatever. But you know,

1023
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:14,520
Speaker 2: screw it. You know, we're in this information age where

1024
00:54:14,640 --> 00:54:17,120
Speaker 2: you know, even if if you do say something or

1025
00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 2: maybe behave in a certain way, I mean, shit, within

1026
00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:24,560
Speaker 2: twenty four to forty eight hours, they're onto the next

1027
00:54:24,640 --> 00:54:28,120
Speaker 2: dramatic thing. So you know, for me, I was just like,

1028
00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:30,560
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna be me. You know, that's it. Like

1029
00:54:30,600 --> 00:54:32,919
Speaker 2: what you see is what you get. If you like it, great,

1030
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:34,399
Speaker 2: If you don't, I'm too old to care.

1031
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:39,120
Speaker 1: You know. That takes a lot of pressure off, for sure.

1032
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:41,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, it does. I just you just got to do

1033
00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:41,719
Speaker 2: your thing.

1034
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 1: And that's funny you say that, because that was the

1035
00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:47,279
Speaker 1: exact same mentality I had going into filming the show

1036
00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 1: the first time, The Housewife show. Yeah, and I normally

1037
00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:56,200
Speaker 1: I don't learn very quick when it comes to relationships.

1038
00:54:56,239 --> 00:54:59,960
Speaker 1: I don't know why, but there's sometimes I learned really

1039
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:03,600
Speaker 1: really fast, and in this particular instance, I learned really

1040
00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 1: really quick that it doesn't matter what I say, you know,

1041
00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 1: going back to Edwin's point, like I don't want to

1042
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:14,759
Speaker 1: say the wrong thing because it might affect me. What

1043
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:18,520
Speaker 1: I learned is it's how it's edited. So you could

1044
00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:20,960
Speaker 1: say the right thing at the right time to be

1045
00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:25,759
Speaker 1: the perfect guy, but somehow they willk you. I don't

1046
00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:28,560
Speaker 1: know how, but they have a good way of just

1047
00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:30,799
Speaker 1: making you look like an asthma. So I said, all right,

1048
00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 1: I'm shutting up and I'm staying out of it.

1049
00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:36,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, you're not going to win this, this whole

1050
00:55:36,560 --> 00:55:39,759
Speaker 2: online stuff. It's like, you know, you could, you could

1051
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:43,239
Speaker 2: say the right thing ten out of ten times, and

1052
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:46,360
Speaker 2: you're still going to have trolls that just decide that

1053
00:55:46,400 --> 00:55:50,759
Speaker 2: they can't stand you, right, and it's like whatever, you know.

1054
00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:52,000
Speaker 2: You know.

1055
00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:56,440
Speaker 1: A funny thing is I've recently made a hard decision

1056
00:55:56,760 --> 00:56:00,520
Speaker 1: that two things. I started taking time off of Instagram,

1057
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:02,479
Speaker 1: and for some reason, I don't know why, I felt

1058
00:56:02,480 --> 00:56:07,279
Speaker 1: compelled to post that I'm taking a break okay in

1059
00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:09,319
Speaker 1: case you guys you know, miss me for a week.

1060
00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:10,640
Speaker 4: Oh god, I don't know.

1061
00:56:10,760 --> 00:56:13,359
Speaker 1: Why do I have to ask permission? But the other

1062
00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:18,840
Speaker 1: thing is I started really using the whole blocking tool

1063
00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:22,440
Speaker 1: before they I didn't use it because it was about

1064
00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:25,719
Speaker 1: having numbers, you know, followers and all that. When you

1065
00:56:25,719 --> 00:56:27,800
Speaker 1: block them, it reduces it, and it was just stupid

1066
00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:30,160
Speaker 1: shit to think about. Like, I don't need numbers. It's

1067
00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:33,520
Speaker 1: all about engagement, right, And so I can't tell you

1068
00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:36,799
Speaker 1: how gratifying it is to just block these idiots, these

1069
00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:39,720
Speaker 1: trolls you're talking about. I mean, it feels so good.

1070
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:40,440
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1071
00:56:40,480 --> 00:56:42,960
Speaker 1: And even if they are not saying anything about me,

1072
00:56:43,040 --> 00:56:45,719
Speaker 1: maybe they're saying something about my guests. Like when we

1073
00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:47,800
Speaker 1: do our podcast and you know, we have you on

1074
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:49,879
Speaker 1: the show and somebody says, oh, he's gay.

1075
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:51,320
Speaker 2: Yeah block.

1076
00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:53,680
Speaker 1: You know, I don't need any of this negative shit,

1077
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:57,440
Speaker 1: because that's exactly how I live my life, right, you know,

1078
00:56:57,520 --> 00:57:00,960
Speaker 1: when I'm around people that are negative answer is and

1079
00:57:01,440 --> 00:57:03,520
Speaker 1: just hate everybody else. I don't want to be around

1080
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:06,040
Speaker 1: that absolutely blocked.

1081
00:57:06,600 --> 00:57:09,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I do it too. I do the same thing.

1082
00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:12,520
Speaker 2: It's just like, you know, but what's interesting though, is

1083
00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:15,120
Speaker 2: like you know, you'll click on a person who has

1084
00:57:15,160 --> 00:57:19,440
Speaker 2: something negative to say, zero followers, zero post It's like,

1085
00:57:19,640 --> 00:57:20,440
Speaker 2: who's trolling?

1086
00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:20,720
Speaker 3: You know.

1087
00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:23,000
Speaker 2: It's like if you're gonna, you know, put your money

1088
00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:25,240
Speaker 2: where your mouth is, Like if you feel this way

1089
00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 2: about me, show me who you are. Yeah, you know

1090
00:57:27,520 --> 00:57:29,720
Speaker 2: what I mean. But you know a lot of these

1091
00:57:29,760 --> 00:57:31,760
Speaker 2: people It's like, who knows, maybe it's one of the

1092
00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:34,600
Speaker 2: other housewives that has a troll account, you know what

1093
00:57:34,600 --> 00:57:34,919
Speaker 2: I mean.

1094
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:38,520
Speaker 1: And you know that's more common. That's coin now, you know.

1095
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:41,320
Speaker 1: And it all started in New Jersey and it's made

1096
00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:44,160
Speaker 1: its way to California and the east the West coast.

1097
00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:47,320
Speaker 1: But it is it is true that these guys, you know,

1098
00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:51,960
Speaker 1: will create these fake accounts just just just to harass you, right.

1099
00:57:51,880 --> 00:57:56,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, bananas. I don't understand that mentality. You know,

1100
00:57:56,600 --> 00:57:58,440
Speaker 2: if I have something to say to somebody, I'll just

1101
00:57:58,480 --> 00:58:03,800
Speaker 2: call them. Yeah, you know what I mean. Yeah, it's bizarre.

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00:58:04,040 --> 00:58:06,680
Speaker 3: As we wrap up, Sean, if you were allowed to

1103
00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:11,240
Speaker 3: choose a wife from the Housewives, which one would you

1104
00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:12,160
Speaker 3: do a swap with?

1105
00:58:13,280 --> 00:58:17,080
Speaker 1: And we don't count Are you talking Salt Lake.

1106
00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:19,520
Speaker 4: Any enfranchises?

1107
00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:22,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, except because you know we're friends.

1108
00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:30,240
Speaker 2: So gosh, you know that is something that I've never

1109
00:58:30,360 --> 00:58:37,040
Speaker 2: thought about, But you know, I will say that, you know,

1110
00:58:37,200 --> 00:58:41,520
Speaker 2: somebody like Meani Leaks or somebody like that would be

1111
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:46,520
Speaker 2: a riot, I think to my house or yeah it

1112
00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:49,960
Speaker 2: could be it could be awesome, or it could be

1113
00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:54,520
Speaker 2: an absolute disaster, But somebody like that would be I

1114
00:58:54,520 --> 00:58:58,080
Speaker 2: think hilarious to kind of have in my house and

1115
00:58:58,200 --> 00:59:01,200
Speaker 2: kind of hit her in the gym and you know,

1116
00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:04,520
Speaker 2: get the leaf flower out, clean up the yard, the

1117
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:06,400
Speaker 2: you know, just stuff like that.

1118
00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 1: I could see the finding that. I could totally see

1119
00:59:09,160 --> 00:59:13,800
Speaker 1: that that could be fun. Now, last question, and I

1120
00:59:13,800 --> 00:59:16,880
Speaker 1: will let you go. Would you do White Sweat again?

1121
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:20,680
Speaker 2: Oh? Definitely, you know, I think it was such a

1122
00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:24,240
Speaker 2: great experience and I think even in a worst case scenario,

1123
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:27,360
Speaker 2: you're going to learn something. So I would absolutely do it.

1124
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:29,360
Speaker 2: We had a great, great time doing it.

1125
00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:35,000
Speaker 1: And yeah, absolutely, Well maybe if we can produce a

1126
00:59:35,040 --> 00:59:39,240
Speaker 1: girlfriend swap show, Edwin, would you do something like that? Sure?

1127
00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:44,560
Speaker 3: It actually does sound pretty fun. I mean it's the

1128
00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:48,480
Speaker 3: experience sounds pretty gnarly. It sounds pretty cool. Yeah, experience

1129
00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:52,160
Speaker 3: that you know, just someone that's totally opposite of what

1130
00:59:52,280 --> 00:59:53,080
Speaker 3: you are. You know.

1131
00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:55,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I wonder what it would be like.

1132
00:59:55,560 --> 00:59:58,160
Speaker 3: If it's not as opposite, if it's kind of similar.

1133
00:59:58,800 --> 01:00:02,120
Speaker 3: You know, for instance, Uh, they swap you with dark

1134
01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:06,600
Speaker 3: Kemsley or something. Yeah, you know, uh, and she comes

1135
01:00:06,640 --> 01:00:07,920
Speaker 3: into your house, it's the same, you know.

1136
01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:13,080
Speaker 2: Well, you know, when I saw the Gorgas episode last night,

1137
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:16,040
Speaker 2: it was like, you know, if they swapped us with

1138
01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:19,280
Speaker 2: those guys, Like it's pretty much the same, right, like

1139
01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:23,280
Speaker 2: your organization the tight you know, So I don't know

1140
01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:25,240
Speaker 2: if there would be a lot of story there. You know,

1141
01:00:25,840 --> 01:00:28,320
Speaker 2: you have to you have to have a juxtaposition to

1142
01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:32,160
Speaker 2: create that uh that story, you know.

1143
01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:36,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, Yeah, you're absolutely right. And and I do

1144
01:00:36,520 --> 01:00:39,480
Speaker 1: see that and appreciate that of the producer as the

1145
01:00:39,520 --> 01:00:43,200
Speaker 1: producers make those decisions, because otherwise it'd be like watching

1146
01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:45,400
Speaker 1: paint dry. And I always say that about myself, like

1147
01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 1: I'm not good TV because I don't like drama and

1148
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:51,680
Speaker 1: I don't know how to manifest drama. My wife's really

1149
01:00:51,680 --> 01:00:55,280
Speaker 1: good about it, but I don't know how to do

1150
01:00:55,320 --> 01:00:56,080
Speaker 1: any of that shit.

1151
01:00:56,280 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 3: So yeah, the drama, and it would be the personalities,

1152
01:00:59,640 --> 01:01:02,080
Speaker 3: right if you you know, you might live the same

1153
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:07,240
Speaker 3: way right now, you might have a totally different personality.

1154
01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:09,760
Speaker 2: You know, that's true. That's true. Yeah, point, I.

1155
01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:11,840
Speaker 3: Could see like I think, I don't know why I'm

1156
01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:14,400
Speaker 3: thinking to reap, but I could see Boston Sean around

1157
01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:17,280
Speaker 3: like do this, We're gonna go do this and shot quin.

1158
01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:20,480
Speaker 2: Uh no, yeah, we probably wouldn't last five minutes together.

1159
01:01:21,080 --> 01:01:21,960
Speaker 2: Now that you.

1160
01:01:22,000 --> 01:01:27,480
Speaker 1: Mentioned it, Now, let me ask you this because obviously

1161
01:01:27,840 --> 01:01:30,920
Speaker 1: I don't know about you, Edwin, but that the whole

1162
01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:34,440
Speaker 1: Bravo network has been about how you know, I'm gay

1163
01:01:34,560 --> 01:01:37,200
Speaker 1: and and Sean's gay, and you know the guys that

1164
01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:39,360
Speaker 1: take care of themselves on TV are gay, right, and

1165
01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:43,880
Speaker 1: it's mostly a gay network. So would you wife swap

1166
01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:44,760
Speaker 1: with the gay couple?

1167
01:01:45,920 --> 01:01:49,080
Speaker 4: What what I want? Swamp with the gay couple?

1168
01:01:49,320 --> 01:01:50,400
Speaker 1: A gay married couple.

1169
01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:54,040
Speaker 4: That'd be interesting.

1170
01:01:59,280 --> 01:02:05,440
Speaker 1: Idea. I better get my fifteen percent commission show because

1171
01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:06,320
Speaker 1: that would be funny.

1172
01:02:06,400 --> 01:02:08,400
Speaker 4: That very funny. Yeah.

1173
01:02:08,600 --> 01:02:11,280
Speaker 1: I mean, I've had enough gay friends in my life

1174
01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:14,560
Speaker 1: that they're just so much fun. They're so funny to

1175
01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:18,160
Speaker 1: be around, and they're just so easy going, right, I

1176
01:02:18,160 --> 01:02:21,920
Speaker 1: think it would be a whot like maybe take them

1177
01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:25,040
Speaker 1: to a biker bar to see how they act, or

1178
01:02:25,040 --> 01:02:26,800
Speaker 1: they take us to a gay bar, or see how

1179
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:31,280
Speaker 1: we act. Like He's funny, right, you should be a producer.

1180
01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:33,320
Speaker 4: This is some good ideas.

1181
01:02:34,240 --> 01:02:37,400
Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you? Anyways, do you have any questions

1182
01:02:37,440 --> 01:02:38,960
Speaker 1: for us Shaw and anything else you want to say

1183
01:02:38,960 --> 01:02:39,560
Speaker 1: about the show?

1184
01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:42,640
Speaker 2: No, I just just what a great experience it was.

1185
01:02:42,680 --> 01:02:45,360
Speaker 2: Thanks for having me on. I really like you guys,

1186
01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:49,360
Speaker 2: and you know I feel I feel like family, you know,

1187
01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:51,919
Speaker 2: and I just appreciate you guys having me on.

1188
01:02:52,360 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 1: Oh, it's always great having you on.

1189
01:02:54,840 --> 01:02:55,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you.

1190
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:58,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, we've had some great guests and you're on top there, like,

1191
01:02:58,600 --> 01:03:00,880
Speaker 1: it's so much fun chat with you, and you know,

1192
01:03:01,080 --> 01:03:03,960
Speaker 1: we were fortunate to meet you in person in San

1193
01:03:03,960 --> 01:03:06,160
Speaker 1: Francisco and spend some quality time with you.

1194
01:03:06,280 --> 01:03:07,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was fun.

1195
01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:07,680
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1196
01:03:08,200 --> 01:03:10,520
Speaker 1: I think that's where you really get to know the

1197
01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:14,760
Speaker 1: person versus what you see on TV. Right sure, So are.

1198
01:03:14,600 --> 01:03:15,440
Speaker 4: You going to Brabo Khan?

1199
01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:18,880
Speaker 2: By the way, we're trying to figure that out. We're

1200
01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:22,360
Speaker 2: kind of having a hard time finding a place for

1201
01:03:22,440 --> 01:03:24,240
Speaker 2: Elector to stay right now. So I think it's going

1202
01:03:24,320 --> 01:03:26,320
Speaker 2: to be a last minute decision for me whether I

1203
01:03:26,360 --> 01:03:30,080
Speaker 2: go or not. So we'll see, we'll see. Yet to

1204
01:03:30,080 --> 01:03:30,840
Speaker 2: be determined.

1205
01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:34,240
Speaker 1: All right, Well, if you go, we look forward to

1206
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:34,680
Speaker 1: seeing you.

1207
01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:36,920
Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you, appreciate it.

1208
01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:41,000
Speaker 1: Thanks again, Take care, guys, let's see everyone.

1209
01:03:41,120 --> 01:03:41,520
Speaker 2: Thank you.

1210
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:44,080
Speaker 1: That was fun. That was a lot of fun. I

1211
01:03:44,240 --> 01:03:46,920
Speaker 1: really enjoy Sean. He's such a cool guy. Just I

1212
01:03:47,520 --> 01:03:50,520
Speaker 1: just like his personality and you know, the way he

1213
01:03:50,560 --> 01:03:51,360
Speaker 1: handles himself.

1214
01:03:51,920 --> 01:03:54,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, and he's one of my favorite guys. As well.

1215
01:03:54,840 --> 01:03:57,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's just so cool, genuine Yeah.

1216
01:03:57,480 --> 01:04:01,080
Speaker 3: Parent we've again hung out in San Francisco with him,

1217
01:04:01,120 --> 01:04:03,280
Speaker 3: hung out in Vegas with them. Yeah, and one of

1218
01:04:03,280 --> 01:04:04,800
Speaker 3: my favorite guys from the shows.

1219
01:04:05,200 --> 01:04:07,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think that was a good point you

1220
01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:10,400
Speaker 1: brought up, Like what if it's the same, Like if

1221
01:04:10,440 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 1: you swap with somebody with the same lifestyle and the

1222
01:04:13,640 --> 01:04:17,840
Speaker 1: same kind of life issues and challenges and goals, Like

1223
01:04:17,920 --> 01:04:19,240
Speaker 1: how different would that be?

1224
01:04:19,960 --> 01:04:23,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, the personality is everything, right, I mean, it's it's

1225
01:04:23,360 --> 01:04:26,680
Speaker 3: some personalities match and some don't, you know, And I

1226
01:04:26,760 --> 01:04:28,479
Speaker 3: think that's what that's what makes it fun.

1227
01:04:28,640 --> 01:04:30,600
Speaker 1: Right, Well, if you get a chance that when you

1228
01:04:30,720 --> 01:04:34,120
Speaker 1: got to watch the show, it's it's going to rare

1229
01:04:34,280 --> 01:04:37,920
Speaker 1: that I actually find a show that I'm actually enjoying watching,

1230
01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:40,360
Speaker 1: you know, and how I watch it is not one

1231
01:04:40,360 --> 01:04:43,760
Speaker 1: of them. But this show is a lot of fun.

1232
01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:47,160
Speaker 1: And I really you got to watch Joe Gorga and

1233
01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:50,320
Speaker 1: Melissa and there swap. I think it's going to be

1234
01:04:50,480 --> 01:04:54,600
Speaker 1: very entertaining because we all know Joe, you could have

1235
01:04:54,680 --> 01:04:57,400
Speaker 1: his own TV show. He's so much fun for sure.

1236
01:04:57,800 --> 01:05:00,760
Speaker 1: And yeah, let's let's touch base. Do you watch it

1237
01:05:00,880 --> 01:05:03,560
Speaker 1: and maybe we'll bring it up in our next podcast

1238
01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:05,800
Speaker 1: and talk about it, because I really am enjoying it.

1239
01:05:05,800 --> 01:05:08,360
Speaker 1: It's it's I'm gonna watch it.

1240
01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:09,520
Speaker 4: It seems a lot of fun.

1241
01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:15,120
Speaker 1: Awesome. What's always great seeing you brother have a great day.

1242
01:05:15,240 --> 01:05:17,200
Speaker 1: I know you got a big ye po thing going

1243
01:05:17,920 --> 01:05:20,200
Speaker 1: and that's always fun. A lot of pressure.

1244
01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:23,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, it should be a fun day. And we're going

1245
01:05:23,880 --> 01:05:25,040
Speaker 3: to World Series today, so.

1246
01:05:25,320 --> 01:05:28,480
Speaker 1: Oh cool, the whole the whole group orches your forum.

1247
01:05:28,880 --> 01:05:30,520
Speaker 3: Uh no, I'm actually gonna take my brother and some

1248
01:05:30,600 --> 01:05:31,960
Speaker 3: executives from the from the company.

1249
01:05:32,200 --> 01:05:33,160
Speaker 1: Oh very cool.

1250
01:05:33,280 --> 01:05:34,600
Speaker 4: So hopefully drink them again.

1251
01:05:36,600 --> 01:05:37,400
Speaker 1: We'll have a good time.

1252
01:05:37,440 --> 01:05:39,120
Speaker 4: Brother, brother, We'll talk to you