WEBVTT - Second Date Update: I've Dated My Date Before

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, up date. If someone sets you up on

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<v Speaker 1>a blind date, what are the worst possible case scenarios

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<v Speaker 1>that could come of it? Like, in the first five

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<v Speaker 1>minutes they ask for a job interview at your company.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know you would like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I thought of worse things in my head

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<v Speaker 2>than that.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even get you. Yeah, driving the getaway car

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<v Speaker 1>and they do the bank heist.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, how are they.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's say they were really.

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<v Speaker 2>Hot, I mean fast driver.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's exciting. Maybe you realize halfway through dinner your

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<v Speaker 1>date is just three children standing on top of each

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<v Speaker 1>other in a trench coat. It happens more than you think. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys want to go play Fortnite? Yeah, best case

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<v Speaker 1>scenario for jose. But one of our listeners, Janelle, said

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<v Speaker 1>she had the worst possible thing happened after she was

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<v Speaker 1>set up on a date by her friend to us today, Wait.

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<v Speaker 2>You know worse than the three children on stacked on

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<v Speaker 2>top of each other.

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<v Speaker 3>It's worse than that.

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<v Speaker 1>Five toddlers, baby, dude.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we're gonna stop being at your page.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let's stop guessing. Why don't you tell us the

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<v Speaker 1>story you said a friend set you up on a

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<v Speaker 1>blind date.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so one of my friends at work, she was

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<v Speaker 3>a happy hour and there's this cute guy. Okay, she's

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<v Speaker 3>being there and she wanted me to hang out.

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<v Speaker 2>Like a waiter at the happy hour place. Is that

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<v Speaker 2>what you're saying?

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<v Speaker 3>No, he hangs out there.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh brook. Her biggest fantasy is like making away with

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<v Speaker 1>one of the staff with the help.

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<v Speaker 2>Fantasy or reality job.

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<v Speaker 1>Well yeah, okay, who was she trying to set you

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<v Speaker 1>up with?

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<v Speaker 3>This guy named David? She's like, he's a real cutie,

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<v Speaker 3>so why don't you come up here and try your hands?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, this is like a spontaneous date that she set

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<v Speaker 1>up while she was out somewhere already.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so I get up there and one got cute

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<v Speaker 3>of course, and we get there and it's not busy

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<v Speaker 3>at all. So once I walk inside the door, I

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<v Speaker 3>immediately lock eyes with It's gotta be David. And guess

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<v Speaker 3>what what? I know David already because he has experiment

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<v Speaker 3>three years ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so she knows your type because it is your

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<v Speaker 2>type because you've dated him before.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh no, is that good or bad?

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<v Speaker 3>Awkward? Because he kind of just disappeared on me three

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<v Speaker 3>years ago he texted me like and just you know,

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<v Speaker 3>gave him my walking paper be it text ox.

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<v Speaker 1>Was goodbye, We're done. Yeah, at least he messaged you.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of guys wouldn't even have to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>I love how that's still a positive. Like how long

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<v Speaker 2>did you guys hang out for three years ago?

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<v Speaker 3>Just for a few months. It wasn't long at all,

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<v Speaker 3>but just kind of by you know, wow.

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<v Speaker 1>My god, So how did your friends find out that

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<v Speaker 1>this was your ex?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I just kind of blurted it out.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, I dated him before my O, what.

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<v Speaker 2>Did they say?

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody was just embarrassed for me and was He kind

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<v Speaker 3>of pulled me to the side, and he's apologetic. He

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<v Speaker 3>said he wanted to explain to me the reason, but

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't want an explanation.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, oh about why he kind of goes to do

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<v Speaker 2>it for maybe there was a good explanation.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Well kind of just let me know that he

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't ready for what I was looking for at that time.

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<v Speaker 1>He was busy studying to be a doctor to say

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<v Speaker 1>babies lives something worse than that.

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<v Speaker 2>No, Yeah, I think he had other ideas of what

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<v Speaker 2>he wanted to do with his time.

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<v Speaker 1>Or who probably must don't lie about that stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>But did he do the thing where he comes crawling

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<v Speaker 2>back because now he's seen that there isn't anything better

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<v Speaker 2>in the dating world.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't say that, But what I can say is,

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<v Speaker 3>after a few dreams we talked about making out, I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk about thinking about making out.

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<v Speaker 2>Who brought that up?

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<v Speaker 3>I did? He was kind of one of my best

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<v Speaker 3>makeout partners.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, you're totally disappointed that it was David when

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<v Speaker 2>you showed up to the bar.

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<v Speaker 1>You can make out, though, but you've gone from like

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot believe I got set up with this horrible

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<v Speaker 1>x of mind to talking about you're the best makeout

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever had.

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<v Speaker 3>Then calling us to call him again.

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<v Speaker 4>It isn't funny?

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<v Speaker 3>How light is.

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<v Speaker 2>What happened that night?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well, guys, I'm going to shock you with this one.

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<v Speaker 3>We made out.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't say.

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<v Speaker 2>You went back to his place?

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<v Speaker 3>No? No, No, he fit me home in an uber

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<v Speaker 3>like I was on cloud night.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, you want the uber?

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<v Speaker 3>Was he like?

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<v Speaker 2>See she's getting I thought this was your talk.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop asking to make out with me and go home.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good point. We're saying, congrats, did you want

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<v Speaker 1>to leave with him or no. Of course I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to leave with him. Okay, but he was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be responsible.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you really think at the end of the night

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<v Speaker 2>you would hear from him again?

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<v Speaker 3>I was hoping.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you were.

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<v Speaker 4>Some people grow you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you tried to contact him after that night happened?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? You have?

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<v Speaker 2>How many times and at what time of day?

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<v Speaker 3>The whole history has a repeats itself.

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<v Speaker 4>Apparently I didn't learn my lessons because he's not responding again.

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<v Speaker 2>Back to this, Why do you think us calling him

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<v Speaker 2>is going to make a difference because we're not heard.

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<v Speaker 3>Bro, I think he'll be honest, Like I learned something

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<v Speaker 3>from this.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you're still willing to give this guy a chance

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<v Speaker 1>after he ditched you, not once, but twice.

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<v Speaker 2>This will end the cycle that toxic.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't trust the gen Z on what's toxic and not

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<v Speaker 1>ration about gen Zer.

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<v Speaker 2>But don't trust Alexis.

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<v Speaker 1>She just takes it four boys before we started. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, We're gonna try this. We're gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>this for you, Janelle. We're gonna call David, who's technically

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<v Speaker 1>one of your exes, and see if he's willing to

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<v Speaker 1>give it another shot with you. I hope he remember

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<v Speaker 1>to what's happening. We're doing it with our second date

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<v Speaker 1>update right after this hold on second date update. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're just joining us, this is definitely an unusual one

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<v Speaker 1>for second date because we're kind of reaching out to

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<v Speaker 1>Janelle's ex boyfriend David.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think there's a kind of about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's the return of the Dave because they dated.

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<v Speaker 1>They dated three years ago when he suddenly ditched her

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<v Speaker 1>over text message. So fast forward today, at a random

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<v Speaker 1>happy hour they accident, we got set up on a

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<v Speaker 1>blind date, which of course was very awkward when it

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<v Speaker 1>first started, but after an apology and a lot of drinks,

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<v Speaker 1>they were in a much better place. Yes, even ended

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<v Speaker 1>up making out again that night, which I.

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<v Speaker 2>Mean in your ex is at a bar, who isn't

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<v Speaker 2>going to make out with him? It's how you say?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi. Ye, Now Dave is being shady once again, shocking,

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<v Speaker 1>so we need to call him and figure out once

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<v Speaker 1>and for all what's going on? Brooke, what are your

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<v Speaker 1>thoughts on this situation?

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<v Speaker 2>I just think you know already what's going on, but

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<v Speaker 2>I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's the chase.

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<v Speaker 2>It's why doesn't he want you like that is totally understandable.

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<v Speaker 3>A member, now unless I ask how about that?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? Well, the two times that he told you know.

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<v Speaker 2>The thing is she wants an answer that he hasn't

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<v Speaker 2>given her yet.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, okay, maybe a radio show calling will help give

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<v Speaker 1>him some clarity and realize that you're the one for him.

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<v Speaker 2>What I still think there's something there? You're hoping he

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<v Speaker 2>grew up? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the dating world has really messed you up. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, there's some optimism in the room. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>give David a call see if he answers. I'm down

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<v Speaker 1>the number right now. Hello, Hey, we're looking to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to David. Yeah, this is hey David. Brace yourself because

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<v Speaker 1>you're on the radio right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey David, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>What is this allowed? Allowed? That's all required. It's part

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<v Speaker 1>of our show. As long as I tell you that

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<v Speaker 1>you're on the radio, then it's legal.

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<v Speaker 2>Not funny. It's very easy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay with them. Yeah, we'll be stuff if you swear.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a segment that we do called the second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update, where we try to help one of our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners reconnect with somebody that they had like a romantic

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<v Speaker 1>spark with Okay, okay, and this is a woman that

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<v Speaker 1>you actually have a lot of history with, but you

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<v Speaker 1>met up with her again recently at a happy hour

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<v Speaker 1>named Janelle.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh why does she want?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh so that was like, what does she want? I'm

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<v Speaker 2>so excited.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean the short answer is like, what she wants

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<v Speaker 1>is to see you again.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, yeah, I don't know about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh well, Oh were you excited to see Janelle when

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<v Speaker 2>she walked into the bar?

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<v Speaker 4>No, that was super awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, hold on, hold on. In her defense, she

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh no, I've dated him, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>like it was awkward for her too. Yeah, that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>It was awkward for the people in the room too,

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<v Speaker 1>when they all found out that you guys had been

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<v Speaker 1>together before. Yeah. So yeah, okay, I mean totally understandable.

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<v Speaker 1>But Janelle said that after you guys hung out for

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit, after you had a few you drinks,

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<v Speaker 1>things seem to settle in more. And you even apologize

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<v Speaker 1>to her.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, I mean, like, I don't like that I

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<v Speaker 4>semi ghosted her. It's not like who I am, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't mean to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's kind of what you're doing again because.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, he doesn't like that he's doing it again. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it just doesn't make him feel good, but he will

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<v Speaker 1>do it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean like, look, I know I told her

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<v Speaker 4>I had grown, but like I don't want to date.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, you don't want to date or you don't want.

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<v Speaker 4>To date her just in general honestly. Oh yeah, I

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<v Speaker 4>mean she I know she wants to like settle down

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<v Speaker 4>and have kids, and like we talked about that, but

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<v Speaker 4>I don't. I don't want to do that. I don't

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<v Speaker 4>I want to be single. I don't want to disappoint

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<v Speaker 4>her or anything.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that is like such a hard thing for

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<v Speaker 2>women to accept, and I don't like I think that

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<v Speaker 2>you're totally valid for saying that, but like so many

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<v Speaker 2>times women can be like, well.

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<v Speaker 4>But if you do it with me, I can see

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<v Speaker 4>us having plans on a Friday night and then a

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<v Speaker 4>buddy calls me up and is like, hey, when I

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<v Speaker 4>go hang out, and honest to god, I would ditch her.

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<v Speaker 4>It's an unfortunate circumstance. It's like I won't make her

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<v Speaker 4>a priority.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's because it's mature that you know that,

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<v Speaker 1>and you can like say that.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's not mature that the.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't care like whatever judgment call you want

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<v Speaker 4>to put on it. It's who I am and I

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<v Speaker 4>admit it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, somebody says who they are, you gotta believe them absolutely,

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<v Speaker 2>at least you're saying it.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people just ghost. Well he was doing he was.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I was going to I was going to

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<v Speaker 4>text her, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, that classic text love that thing. I'm sorry to

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<v Speaker 1>ruin your plans to text her and ditch her, but

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<v Speaker 1>we need to tell you she's actually on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>right now wanting to talk to you. Different energy than

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<v Speaker 1>I thought.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi.

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<v Speaker 3>How are you.

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<v Speaker 1>Jane to know you heard what he was saying? Right?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I mean, but what could be so bad? David

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<v Speaker 3>like me?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait? Wait, are you not listening to him?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, if you wanted to hang out with your

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<v Speaker 3>friends while we were hanging out, all you have to

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<v Speaker 3>do is say so you can do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh God, don't seriously like you don't mean that. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it will be no issue.

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<v Speaker 2>No, this is like I'm a cool girl, walk all

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<v Speaker 2>over me. I don't do that.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to be understanding.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't have to be understanding with someone who will

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<v Speaker 2>make you also a priority.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, thank you? Who respects you?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean you want to be understanding, understand that, like,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want this?

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<v Speaker 3>What exactly don't you want?

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<v Speaker 2>There?

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<v Speaker 1>There? It's crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. You want to be in a serious

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<v Speaker 4>relationship and I'm looking for a very much more casual thing.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think you get it.

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<v Speaker 3>I have a lot of thoughts, clothes I can put on.

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<v Speaker 2>Cat that's a good spin. That's a good spin.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, I don't know if you like who I am.

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<v Speaker 4>I really don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh what, You're an awesome person. What is there not

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<v Speaker 3>to like about you?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to do that though, I don't want

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<v Speaker 4>to look. I buy my phenails and I eat them

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<v Speaker 4>all rights, and I put the big ones. I keep

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<v Speaker 4>the big ones in a little box.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, what.

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<v Speaker 2>The flexibility it takes to be able to do that.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll just work on healthier coping mechanisms. Like that's all huh.

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<v Speaker 1>Tying to get rid of her.

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<v Speaker 3>There's so many other things that you can chew on.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I will. I feel like he's politely as possible

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<v Speaker 1>trying to steer you away from a bad situation.

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<v Speaker 2>But I wasn't. To her credit, I don't know. When

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<v Speaker 2>we talked to her, she didn't say she wanted a

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<v Speaker 2>big relationship with you. She literally said, I just want

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<v Speaker 2>a couple more dates.

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<v Speaker 4>Hanging out, Like, yeah, no, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you.

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<v Speaker 3>Will nail eating baby or anything with you.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think you get me like I'm super lazy. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>like I pee in the backyard instead of going upstairs

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<v Speaker 4>to go pee.

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<v Speaker 1>In the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 3>Part of my nothing wrong with that.

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<v Speaker 2>What my gosh, Jane, pick up your self respect, it's

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<v Speaker 2>on the floor.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not a quitter. I am not a quitter.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Janelle is still into this after the toe biting

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<v Speaker 1>and the backyard defecating. We love to send you guys

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<v Speaker 1>on another day that we would pay for, and he

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<v Speaker 1>probably did you halfway through for his friends. I know

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<v Speaker 1>the answer is yes from Janelle already, so we needed

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<v Speaker 1>to get an answer from you, David. Would you be

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<v Speaker 1>willing to see her one more time?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 1>You know you're great. Seriously, you're great.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not you with me.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't watch that classic. Well, Janell, I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>but it looks like we're not going to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to set you up a again with your ex boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>That is the universal that's that's the title of Janelle's

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<v Speaker 1>entire dating life.

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<v Speaker 2>Brooking Jeffrey in the morning, Oh man, I have a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of hope going, did you? I mean, before we

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<v Speaker 2>even called him, I didn't have hope.

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<v Speaker 1>What rekindling an old relationship worked for j Lo and

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<v Speaker 1>ben Affleck didn't They look absolutely miserable whenever they're around

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<v Speaker 1>each other, and both of their careers are tanking at

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<v Speaker 1>an astronomical rate. Together Jeffrey, but they found the Duncan

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<v Speaker 1>Donuts commercial together broke It is.

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<v Speaker 2>Literally the only good thing that happened. And that was

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<v Speaker 2>mostly because Matt Damon was I was.

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<v Speaker 1>Just gonna say that they could have had their Matt

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<v Speaker 1>Damon Duncan Donuts commercial moment watch someone wasn't willing to

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<v Speaker 1>give it a chance.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, what a stickler. He is his own ideal.

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<v Speaker 1>So you lost me the analogy. So she needs to

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<v Speaker 1>date Matt Damon.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, we'll go with.

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<v Speaker 1>That conclusion that the that's a good thing. Reach to

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<v Speaker 1>reach out to him next, and we can reach out

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<v Speaker 1>to anybody that you want us to. You just have

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<v Speaker 1>to call us and we'll call that person. Not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back and go check out all of our second

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<v Speaker 1>dates wherever you get your podcast out

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<v Speaker 2>Broken, Jeffery Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning