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Speaker 1: My fiance and I are getting married, but I hate

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Speaker 2: Oh that's that sounds like a pretty big problem.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you are marrying the family, so I might

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Speaker 1: want to reassess. But I got engaged last fall. My

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Speaker 1: fiance and I are high school sweethearts who've been together

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Speaker 1: It got our first full time jobs, and then he

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Speaker 1: proposed I've been stressing and researching ever since then about

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Speaker 1: the relationship. I can't seem to find an affordable option.

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Speaker 1: We came close to booking a full wedding for twenty

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Speaker 1: five thousand dollars, but the price tag made our stomachs drop.

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Speaker 3: Had twenty five k's a lot fit.

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Speaker 1: We couldn't justify spending that much on a few hours.

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Speaker 1: More months passed without any better alternatives, and I finally

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Speaker 1: find an elopement place that does one hour ceremonies slash photos,

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Speaker 1: and we settled on that. I wonder how much was

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Speaker 1: I had a week off work coming up in the

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Speaker 1: plan a big celebration later. By the way, this comes

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Speaker 1: slash Okay story time subreddit. So my parents insisted on

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Speaker 1: the aisle. I was fine with that and opened it

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Speaker 1: up to us and our parents. So it's going to

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Speaker 1: be a small ceremony. Yeah, figured we should do a

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Speaker 1: for everyone flying out. My fiance is close to his

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Speaker 1: family and really wanted his siblings there as well, so

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Speaker 1: we opened it up to just immediate family. The elopement

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Speaker 1: allows a max of twelve guests, which added up perfectly

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Speaker 1: for immediate family to be able to come. Sent out

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Speaker 1: last minutes texts and basically said, hey, we're doing something

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Speaker 1: small plus small dinner afterwards if you're able to come.

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Speaker 1: We were well aware it was extremely short notice for

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Speaker 1: everyone one month and that people wouldn't be able to

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Speaker 1: make it. My son and the family got into action.

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Speaker 1: They booked everything. My sister has two toddlers plus a

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Speaker 1: her out. That's nice, Yeah, to help out.

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Speaker 2: For the broken girl. Yeah, you didn't have to put

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Speaker 2: her on blast like that, but I guess. I guess

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Speaker 2: you had to also do that to let people know

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you got you gotta show the altruism and

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Speaker 1: made it work out so that she could come. Essentially,

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Speaker 1: my family said what the hell? Oh, more like, oh,

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Speaker 1: what the hell?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what the hell?

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Speaker 1: Okay, No, what the hell? Okay, we'll be there and

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Speaker 1: we are excited. My fiance side lost their freaking mind. Oh,

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Speaker 1: they are accusing me of being pregnant.

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Speaker 3: What an accusation?

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Speaker 1: Trying to lock him down, trying to get on his insurance.

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Speaker 1: I have my own insurance. I'm not pregnant, which we

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Speaker 1: so I'm not trying to lock him down. Is that there's.

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Speaker 3: Already been locked It makes no sense.

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Speaker 1: They are all very well off and have fairly flexible

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Speaker 1: saying that we are stressing them out, you're stressing me out. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's already. It's stress. This is unreasonable, et cetera. We

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Speaker 1: understand that, yes, it is unreasonable to ask to come

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Speaker 1: out of short notice, but it's supposed to be a Oh,

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Speaker 1: but it's not supposed to be a terrible event this way,

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Speaker 1: but it's not supposed to be a terrible event. I

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Speaker 1: hope your wedding is not. Maybe that's like a event.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I feel like this is like that's like a

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Speaker 3: Like where they're like, oh, it's not too terribly large event,

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Speaker 1: So this morning he woke up to paragraphs of messages

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Speaker 1: Then he received a call from his mom in which

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Speaker 1: doesn't have. I'm not forcing this wedding idea on him.

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Speaker 1: We agreed to it mutually, and that he made his

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Speaker 2: Him because they're like, you're not doing your wedding right. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: You guys are tooling love. I guess his mom is

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Speaker 1: have asked what His grandpa said, no, because he booked

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Speaker 1: it's a rec center. Yeah, maybe he doesn't own it,

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Speaker 1: but it's like the rec center he plays basketball or something.

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Speaker 3: He might run the rec center.

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Speaker 1: His grandpa said no just because she didn't feel like it.

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Speaker 1: His dad can make it, his brother can make it.

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Speaker 1: So I can explain more if I'm missing any major

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Speaker 1: was happy his family can book but just don't like

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Speaker 1: your idea and won't stop letting him know. My family

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Speaker 2: The good Eggs have already committed. Yeah, and these people

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Speaker 3: Wow, that's too small. Well make it bigger.

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Speaker 1: I feel like, just like you've self selected your eggs,

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Speaker 1: you know, like you got you got the spoiled, rotten

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Speaker 3: Leave those stinky eggs and let them stink.

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Speaker 1: Out, let them do eggs explode wedding like in the

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Speaker 3: I've never left an egg in the sun long enough

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Speaker 3: We'll get on that.

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Speaker 1: We'll report, we will leave no egg.

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Speaker 3: There is a thing called in one thousand year egg.

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Speaker 3: Have you not guys? Oh the century eggs? About it?

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Speaker 3: Read the story, we'll talk about.

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Speaker 1: Okay, there's a lower pault up something super interesting.

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Speaker 3: I forgot. I forgot this is the ADHD stream and

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Speaker 3: I forgot, like, yeah, we were doing like so hi,

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Speaker 1: Before Keon interrupted, I was going to do a t

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Speaker 1: because this will not be the ADHD stream. So for everyone,

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Speaker 1: he's just joining basically o P planning a very small

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Speaker 1: side of the family is like, what are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Is she is she pregnant? Is she trying to get

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Speaker 2: They're really going off off the deep end over just

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Speaker 2: like not wanting the wedding venue to be what it is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, like, but also the grandpa did off of

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Speaker 2: I think at this point you just elope without the

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Speaker 1: Thing, discard the eggs, leave them out in the sun

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Speaker 1: for a thousand years. I will be out, So I

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Speaker 1: will be out money for the ceremony, dinner, deposit, and cake.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to plan a huge wedding because it's

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Speaker 1: I'll stay out of your life. Then, whoa, whoa. I

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Speaker 1: stress him out more. Any advice. And there is a thick,

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Speaker 1: I think it's probably delicious.

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Speaker 3: That's what the thousand years fermented.

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Speaker 1: Yes, he's a delicacy. He would learn more about that

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Speaker 3: Well, I think clearly there's an issue out.

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Speaker 3: Got problems with they are problems with the Yeah, they're like, oh,

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Speaker 1: trying to steal your congratulations. Well, it's like not not

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Speaker 1: to mention they've been together for eight years. I say

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Speaker 2: You know, you know that that if you if you've

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Speaker 2: got problems, you've got problems, let them be known instead of,

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Speaker 2: know moment here always until the objection, you know, yes,

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Speaker 3: So I advice would be to not entertain any of that.

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Speaker 1: I think there's something deeper. I do think I imagine

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Speaker 1: the husband's being very affected by it, right, like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's it's it's no fun thing to have your whole

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Speaker 1: I think you probably need to just like get a

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Speaker 1: but just to understand why your entire family is going bananas.

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Speaker 3: You want to get to the bottom of that.

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Speaker 1: Because this, from the outside, this feels crazy. I feel

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like a root a rumor was spread, or like

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Speaker 3: The just been letting it fester for eight years.

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Speaker 3: I will look it up. And you knew I didn't know.

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Speaker 3: This is the story of the day.

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Speaker 1: You said you did it all right. He's received three

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Speaker 1: They're all very excited. Mother in law is sending messages

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Speaker 1: for all your advice. I was feeling so lost because

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Speaker 1: Fand it on business. Yes, that's I wonder how big

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Speaker 1: current plans as expensive and inconsiderate. So it's expensive and

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Speaker 1: inconsiderate to invite you to a small wedding. But it's

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Speaker 3: You're missing.

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Speaker 2: One thing is that none of those people who would

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Speaker 1: That's true. So she is the queen. It's her wedding,

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Speaker 1: it's her wedding, it's her wedding, it's she's been my

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Speaker 4: She's been waiting my dreams for him, for him, for him.

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Speaker 4: But my dreams, my dreams, my dream wedding. I have

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Speaker 1: And it's our girlfriends expensive and considerate. She ignores the

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Speaker 1: fact that moving it to the date and location she

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Speaker 1: a tight time frame, and the tightest time frame that

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Speaker 1: you can always enjoy us in every is Our lives,

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Speaker 1: every weekday at three pm PSD right here on YouTube,

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Speaker 1: just half our profile. There's another relevant update here. But

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Speaker 1: let's discuss a little bit more. Do you think op,

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Speaker 1: he's making the right dissuge a decision with it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like you don't want to just what just because

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Speaker 2: It's like the whole point of doing it was because

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Speaker 1: So, assuming that we don't get any like hidden information

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Like I feel like if it was

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Speaker 2: they've they've tried to exercise this degree of control where

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Speaker 2: maybe they looked past it because it maybe it didn't

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Speaker 1: Like this is the first time, because she said, I've

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Speaker 1: so this is like the first time. My suspicion is

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Speaker 1: and she's like, this isn't celebrating my boy. Yeah better, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he deserves his dream wedd He deserves a ride in

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Speaker 1: all right, Ma, you're gonna pay? Are you pay the

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Speaker 1: twenty five K? I don't know. And they're just doing

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Speaker 3: I think it's short notice, we can't make it, and

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Speaker 1: They want to be there to celebrate the love. Maybe

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Speaker 1: I can understand that, but it's also doesn't give them

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Speaker 2: Doing, well, not very celebrate the love, not to be like,

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Speaker 2: oh is she pregnant and is she trying to steal

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Speaker 1: I think maybe what they're also feeling is like the

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Speaker 1: why is it happening? Did you not tell us? Is

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Speaker 1: maybe op is like the only thing that you could

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Speaker 3: But all you can do is tell him, tell them why,

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Speaker 3: and then be like you either respect it or you don't.

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Speaker 1: But well, I wonder, so Op told her parents and

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Speaker 3: Oh, he communicated it in a way that made it sound.

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Speaker 1: Like sound bad.

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Speaker 3: Have this wedding in a month, Yeah, and it's gonna

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It's just you guys can make it

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Speaker 3: Is your wife controlling you? I want to control you instead.

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Speaker 1: But we got a little bit more of this story

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Speaker 1: But melis six's eight one says heavy helicopter parents vibes

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Speaker 1: welcome back. I just came back from a meditation retreat

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Speaker 3: Wait, I thought you were kidding.

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Speaker 1: No, no, like well likes He's like, i'll tell you,

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you that it's too messy to explain. I'll

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Speaker 1: tell you a little bit. But fiance asked sister in

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Speaker 1: she's concerned about fiance and that we need couples therapy

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Speaker 1: and that I'm trying to drive them apart Slash two.

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Speaker 1: Controlling sistern law such mother in law have created a

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Speaker 1: So that's that's the thing. So we're being excluded and

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Speaker 1: like this whole one month thing was all a ploy

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Speaker 3: That's the end.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I think some people just can't wrap their heads around

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Speaker 1: I think if I was to say anything like obviously,

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Speaker 1: the family is acting of incredibly wrongly. They I don't

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Speaker 1: also important. But you know, if you've done all you've

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Speaker 1: you can to communicate, it's like, hey, we're just doing

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Speaker 1: a small wedding. We're trying to make it really intimate.

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Speaker 1: We're just planning it out as soon as possible, Like

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Speaker 1: you know, that's all you can do.

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Speaker 3: We're just having a little low key, low key eloping, a.

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Speaker 1: Low key elopen. But we'll have to do it for

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Speaker 1: you guys. Is there anything that you think OP could

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Speaker 1: have done differently to make this less crazy? Is there

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Speaker 1: anything that you think OP should do now, uh, to

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Speaker 1: deal with the craziness.

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Speaker 3: I would love to know done just not telling anybody? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I would be I mean that's the weddings are so

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Speaker 3: secret weddings.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, secret weddings honestly are the move. Weddings are I

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Speaker 1: feel like, are just just a little drama, just a lope,

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Speaker 1: just a lope, just a lope.

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Speaker 2: One thing I've learned from reading wedding stories it's that

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Speaker 2: don't have are full of drama.

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Speaker 1: But we got another story for you coming up. But yes,

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Speaker 1: really quick, I was in the Mexican jungle doing a

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Speaker 1: meditation retreat. I have never meditated before and started meditating

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Speaker 1: like six hours a day, and honestly, it was pretty fun.

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Speaker 1: And there's this thing called Also we're working out some

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Speaker 1: technical issues right now, so I might yammer for a

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Speaker 1: little bit longer. But there's these things called the genres.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure if you've heard of those, but they're

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Speaker 1: basically these altered states that you can get into by

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Speaker 1: concentrating on pleasure and happiness. And there's eight of them.

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Speaker 1: If you want it, like, if you want to more

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Speaker 1: context on them, it's called not you look at this

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Speaker 1: article Nadia dot x y z slash uh Prince ex Sam,

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Speaker 1: how close are you to removing your ribs? Not very close? No,

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Speaker 1: now I don't need to and now I don't need to.

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Speaker 1: focus on like a pleasurable memory, and the first genre

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Speaker 1: is essentially a full body orgasm. It's like it is,

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Speaker 1: it is in I thought, I am like a skeptical person.

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Speaker 1: You guys know, I studied engineering in college. Like I'm

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Speaker 1: not like a woo woo person at all. But literally

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Speaker 1: I focused on a memory and my entire body was gyrating.

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Speaker 1: It was nuts. So it was like it was like

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Speaker 1: I was I was literally convulsing. It was, I mean,

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Speaker 1: it was it was a big oh yeah, but like

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Speaker 1: that's a big oh you know, like I feel like,

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Speaker 1: you know, like the guys who were like, you know,

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Speaker 1: and it's like like a few few seconds and so.

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Speaker 3: You were having a pig gasm.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it was a big It was literally it

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Speaker 1: was a pig gasm.

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Speaker 3: Are you holding onto that now or like it's like

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Speaker 3: that's the best thing I've ever had.

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Speaker 1: Well no, because I have it on tap, I can

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Speaker 1: like no no no no no no no no no

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Speaker 1: no no.

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Speaker 3: No no no no no no powerful not for this stream,

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Speaker 3: not for this stream. Let's read dons and not do that. Yeah, hey,

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Speaker 3: what about the century Egg. We'll get to that. How

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Speaker 3: do we do that after we finished the mega Yay, Okay,

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Speaker 3: we keep talking about the centry egg and water Horse

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Speaker 3: and all that es, but we need to read stories. Okay,

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Speaker 3: what a donation?

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Speaker 1: Going to read some donos.

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Speaker 3: Gonna be a little small, this one first, going refreshed.

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Speaker 1: It's not like a wet dream, you don't like actually

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Speaker 1: there's no emission or anything. But it's just like like

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Speaker 1: the only thing that I could compare it to in

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Speaker 1: terms of intensity is an orgasm. Like that's the only

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Speaker 1: frame of rep.

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Speaker 3: Just start sweating. We are you looking like the d

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Speaker 3: from Stranger Things? Do you know that meme? No?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Just will wait, let me see if do it?

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Speaker 1: You can do it? Yeah? That all right?

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Speaker 3: Read the doors. After that one, read the dodes.

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Speaker 2: Mount Avs Girl, thanks for the ten dollars. Greetings from Montana.

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Speaker 2: Just wanted to say hi and happy Thursday everyone. Well,

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Speaker 2: happy Thursday, Montana. Uh, Josephine Madolo Burquis, thank you for

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Speaker 2: the five dollars.

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Speaker 3: Daddy Sam, we have missed you. You look really hot

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Speaker 3: in glasses.

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Speaker 2: Zaddi Kean, please keep giving me thirst trap edit material,

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Speaker 2: Poppy Dakota cute as always.

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Speaker 3: I hope you recovered from yesterday's story.

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Speaker 2: Everyone better like the stream, RI will high five your

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Speaker 2: face with a chair, A nice Josephie flip switch they

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Speaker 2: should the twenty five dollars, Hi, y'all, and then a

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Speaker 2: little like emoji happy to catch another live, We're happy

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Speaker 2: to flip switch or flipped flip switched. Ramsey is thank

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Speaker 2: you for the five dollars. I just wanted to say

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Speaker 2: thank you. I found your videos almost exactly one year

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Speaker 2: ago after a really really messed up breakup of my

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Speaker 2: eight year relationship. I couldn't stand the silence in my home,

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Speaker 2: and your voice has helped me through that. In a

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Speaker 2: better place now, no worries.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Hey, I'm glad you're in a better place now. Ramsees

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Speaker 2: you deserve to be in a better Yes, yeah you do.

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Speaker 3: That's sick. I'm glad we got to help you. Cheryl,

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Speaker 3: thank you for the five dollars. Little heart emoji to

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Speaker 3: dimple king.

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Speaker 1: I'm a king now you've.

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Speaker 3: Always been smile Sam a little dimple dimples.

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Speaker 1: Well but Dakota, Dakota's got like the legit dimples.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've got the genetic ones. Yeah, yeah, I've got

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Speaker 2: genetic dimples.

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Speaker 1: You might have heard of it.

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Speaker 2: Uh, Sarah Francis, thanks for the five dollars YouTube sent

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Speaker 2: me a review of the year, and so far I

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Speaker 2: have listened to over nine thousand minutes of Okay storytime.

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Speaker 1: Love you guys, rookie numbers.

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Speaker 3: Come on, nine hundred thousand. Thank you for the devotion.

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Speaker 1: How many minutes are we releasing?

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Speaker 3: How many minutes are out there?

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Speaker 1: How many?

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Speaker 3: What are the cumulative minutes?

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Speaker 1: Oh dude, so many, so many, but no, we appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Make it big, Make it big,

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Speaker 1: my boy.

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Speaker 3: I cannot read. Make it to big. Make it big, Laura,

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Speaker 3: like I say, Martinez high Sam, you still can't see you.

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Speaker 3: It's going to give it to me.

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Speaker 1: Member for two months, Heidi Vincent, remember two months. I

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Speaker 1: love watching your lives. We love watching you watch our lives.

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Speaker 3: I left my sword downstairs. I brought us a new sword.

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Speaker 3: Go get it for the member.

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Speaker 1: Hurry up.

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Speaker 3: Well, I should read this one first, Read this one first,

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Speaker 3: and then go get it. Dakota, is that a hunter

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Speaker 3: her hunter necklace? You better believe it. You better believe it.

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Speaker 3: What is your name? Mela sixty eight fifteen? You better

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Speaker 3: believe I got my hunter's license.

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Speaker 1: I'm dangerous all right?

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Speaker 3: All right, now hurry up, go get the sword.

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Speaker 1: Vix Mix, thanks for the five gifted Okay, storytime memberships

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Speaker 1: making the community a little bit biggar. We love to

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Speaker 1: see it. Ivy Bean, thanks for the two dollars and

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Speaker 1: also being a little axe member. If Daddy Coda is nibbling,

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Speaker 1: I'm an egg.

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Speaker 3: We'll have Coda look at that too.

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Speaker 1: Andrea h Welcome to the Knights. What do we say

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Speaker 1: to the new Knights?

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Speaker 3: Huzza, huzza, she read that one quickly.

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Speaker 2: Dakota, Uh, Ivy Bean, If Daddy Coda is nibbling, I'm

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Speaker 2: an egg?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 3: Oh Joe, oh behave oh beehive all right.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Jessica Chopping, thanks for the four bucker. Runey is

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Speaker 1: Taylor Renee. Thanks for the two bucks message redacted. What

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Speaker 1: did you say?

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Speaker 3: Message?

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Speaker 1: Uh? And that's member for six months. By the end

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Speaker 1: of the day, it's op's wedding.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 1: Their opinions are the only thing that matters. If the

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Speaker 1: family is so entitled, y'all don't exactly how could you.

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Speaker 2: Ever be like a butt head about someone's wedding, especially

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Speaker 2: when they're like your son.

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Speaker 1: Yeah? No, I I agree, and I really don't think

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Speaker 1: this is on op The only thing that I could

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Speaker 1: say is like, if you're trying to minimize any kind

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Speaker 1: of drama in your life and you're having an unusual wedding,

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Speaker 1: I think it's super important to be as communicative as

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Speaker 1: possible because crazy people might take crazy opinions. If they

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Speaker 1: think they're being slight.

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Speaker 3: They jump to conclusion. They jump the conclusions they do.

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Speaker 1: People jump if they're jumping like this beforehand, do you

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Speaker 1: want them jumping at your wedding? I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes I like my wedding to jump and bump.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you wanted to be a little I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know anything about wedding.

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Speaker 1: What's your dream wedding?

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Speaker 3: My dream wedding.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, actually.

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Speaker 3: It's not necessarily a dream wedding, but I thought this

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Speaker 3: would be like a really hey do hey, I don't

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Speaker 3: want to be that guy. Yeah's time for the story.

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Speaker 3: Just keep reading the donos first, Okay, Okay, I love yours.

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Speaker 3: I love it, but someone I love the ADHD guys.

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Speaker 1: But we do it really really quick, really quick.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna boil it down and really really quick.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So go get para on opposite ends of an island,

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Speaker 2: and then you have to find each other and then

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Speaker 2: you get married where like you do.

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Speaker 1: Like you get married wherever you on the opposite ends

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Speaker 1: of the island.

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Speaker 3: But it's like, yeah, you like you like get in

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Speaker 3: like opposite ends of the island.

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Speaker 2: You like go through like a little like you like

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Speaker 2: try to find each other on the islands, and then

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Speaker 2: whenever wherever you find each other, you just like just

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Speaker 2: like get married. I guess there's just an idea. I

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Speaker 2: don't know's I I don't know how to skydive.

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Speaker 3: That's my idea. I like to parachute in.

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Speaker 1: Uh, Lindsey says Sam Be like I can come on

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Speaker 1: command now. Hey guys, you want to see something cool.

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Speaker 2: Again?

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Speaker 3: Ready? Oh oh? I was thinking about the next next donation.

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Speaker 3: Please before we ruined the chat. Okay, okay, okay, worry Taylor.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for the two bucks. First time here, every day

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Speaker 1: listener on Spotify, Love you, I love whtt people just

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Speaker 1: like discover the lives for the first time. Welcome in, Yeah, welcome.

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Speaker 3: No visual humor, No visual humor, peop.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the party, Laurie, thanks to the five bucks.

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Speaker 1: Love the videos guys, Much love from Pennsylvania or from

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Speaker 1: Paw or from Paul.

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Speaker 3: From much love from Paul. He's sitting right next to you.

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Speaker 3: Don't like to type, so I say much love from Paul.

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Speaker 1: Nikki Lee, thanks for the two bucks, my first live

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Speaker 1: but listening a lot. Love you guys and Caitlin van Campen.

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Speaker 1: Remember for three months eighty HD stream, you guys have

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Speaker 1: helped me realize I was in a relationship with a

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Speaker 1: narcissist and I've been in therapy after leaving. Much love

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Speaker 1: to y'all. Well, I'm glad that hopefully that you left

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Speaker 1: and things are are beautiful to night you as a

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Speaker 1: free person.

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Speaker 3: You are free from your narcissistic ex.

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Speaker 1: And then Chris tinfall hat member for nine months. Maybe no,

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Speaker 1: I can't believe it. It's been three fourths of a

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Speaker 1: year already, y'all have grown so much in that time.

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Speaker 1: I love the new regular and guests, especially Dakota Keyak.

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Speaker 3: You come on, Chris Tin fatah for that. Sam, Now

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Speaker 3: you can do it? Uh what do your mind thing?

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Speaker 1: Oh? No, never mind, No, but it's it's to be clear,

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Speaker 1: it's much more than just like full body the pleasure.

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Speaker 1: You also can like access different uh mental states.

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Speaker 3: So you get like vegan powers from Scott Pilgrim.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you essentially do.

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Speaker 3: It's it was you were a vegan. Now you will begone. Yeah, guys,

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Speaker 3: yeah you all know that all right? You know what

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Speaker 3: I want though? This next story on a century egg

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Speaker 3: finish the mega Okay.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I like that. That's our reward.

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Speaker 2: A yay.

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Speaker 3: You like my Pavlov's dog, you guys, treats and I'll

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Speaker 3: ring a bell. Yeah, I like treats. One second. This

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Speaker 1: They are making love and reach climax. Don't ask me

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Speaker 1: how I know that, baby girl twenty four.

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Speaker 2: Wait, actually I know what you're talking about. What when

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Speaker 2: like the salmons are spawning in the you know how

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Speaker 2: they like to swim up river?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, to like make get them on track, guys, and

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Speaker 3: then it's just like well.

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Speaker 2: And then when they when they released their see what

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Speaker 2: I mean, they're they're splooge.

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Speaker 3: They go, he's making sound effects. You're not seeing up.

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Speaker 3: The next one is my in laws treated me. Yes, yes, right,

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Speaker 3: you're ready. Something was really dude. Every time the last

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Speaker 3: been very just off. We we we we we wear

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Speaker 3: suits and everything. Just yeah, we wore suits and we

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Speaker 3: broke everything. We broke everything we broke.

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Speaker 1: Let's break into this story. Let's do it. Ready, we

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