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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, will be

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Speaker 1: joined by the Earn Your Leisure podcast host that's Rashad

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Speaker 1: Belal and Troy Millings. They're going to tell us about

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Speaker 1: Invest's twenty twenty four that's taking place in Atlanta August

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Speaker 1: twenty third through the twenty fifth. Steve Harvey, of course,

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Speaker 1: is a special guest this year as always, and we'll

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Speaker 1: tell you who else will be there.

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Speaker 2: That's all coming up at the top of the hour.

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Speaker 1: But right now it is time to ask the CLO

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Speaker 1: our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 2: Here we go, Steve Melody in Phoenix.

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Speaker 1: Right, So, my daughter's dad is black and I'm white,

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Speaker 1: got it. My parents have met him, but I've never

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Speaker 1: met his mom. He flew home so his mom could

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Speaker 1: meet the baby, but I had to work. I haven't

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Speaker 1: even seen his mom on FaceTime. Do you think she

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Speaker 1: knows I'm white?

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Speaker 3: Hell, she sees a baby. No, probably not. You'd have

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Speaker 3: heard about that body, probably not. Probably not. But it's

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Speaker 3: gonna be okay. It's gonna be okay. You know, I

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Speaker 3: don't think you have nothing to worry about her concern yourself.

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Speaker 3: You wasn't concerned about him being black when y'all had

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Speaker 3: your daughter, So don't worry about it. I mean, why,

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Speaker 3: I mean, and I'm pretty sure that you know I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna just say something. Once the grandkid is involved, it

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Speaker 3: kind of you know, yeah, it kind of cushions the blow,

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Speaker 3: so to speak. But there may not be a blow

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Speaker 3: at all. So why why interject this anxiety over something

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Speaker 3: you don't even know? Does she know? I'm white? I

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Speaker 3: don't know what difference would make you?

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Speaker 4: You white been hidden? You ain't the first white woman

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Speaker 4: that's been hidden. They had this black guy hired white

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Speaker 4: women all the time.

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Speaker 3: They do that a lot. Well, you're not gonna be

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Speaker 3: the first white lady to come over some black people

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Speaker 3: house and suffer from anxiety. My cousin bought a white

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Speaker 3: girl to the house. And the only problem was she

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Speaker 3: changed the baby dip on the dining room table that

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Speaker 3: said all the black women off. So that was a

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Speaker 3: bad Yeah, that was a bad jump off, said all

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Speaker 3: the black women against her right away. She didn't gain

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Speaker 3: no friends. I didn't see nothing wrong with it. That

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Speaker 3: ain't decided table. I ate on no way, So I

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Speaker 3: didn't really care, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on, moving on to Destiny in Hartford, thelo Destiny

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Speaker 1: says my accent I dated before I met my husband

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Speaker 1: was in a bad car accident. I was devastated when

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Speaker 1: I got the news. My husband didn't like how I responded,

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Speaker 1: and he yelled at me. How am I wrong for

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Speaker 1: being sad after hearing that my ex almost died?

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, be sad over there somewhere. She was,

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Speaker 3: okay that she's sad, but yeah, you can you be sad.

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Speaker 3: We cat that over the call one of your girlfriends.

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Speaker 3: Gona drank tea and be sad over there, you know,

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Speaker 3: and be sad or why I'm paying rent.

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Speaker 4: I do.

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Speaker 3: That's how a man accident was personally.

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Speaker 2: That's how it goes. That's how it goes.

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Speaker 3: Slipped, he tore his foot off and now he's you

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Speaker 3: know whatever and ain't got nothing to do with me. Wow,

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Speaker 3: what you finnah do? Or stop all this crying up

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Speaker 3: in the hi though?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Because what it makes you think that she still has

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Speaker 1: feelings for him is that I don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to hear because I'm not gonna share that,

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Speaker 3: and then I'm not finna hold you see hear what

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Speaker 3: I'm doing because you know, if my girl upset, I

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Speaker 3: hold her and console her.

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Speaker 2: I'm not finna do that because she's crying over another man.

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Speaker 3: I'm not finna do that. I don't know what she

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Speaker 3: wanted me to do or something like that, but I

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Speaker 3: understand where he coming from. I understand exactly where he's

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Speaker 3: coming from. And most me, what did you say, shure.

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Speaker 2: They're not even together anymore?

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Speaker 3: What I mean?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Almost? And if he had died, it would be okay.

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Speaker 3: I almost hit the powerball lottery last month. But here

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Speaker 3: I am back at work again.

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Speaker 2: All right. Moving on to.

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Speaker 3: Teresia, y'all won't kill herself. I'll be sitting there going,

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Speaker 3: who are you talking about? Robert?

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Speaker 1: Robert Robert, Yes, he's a human being.

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Speaker 3: Still, I don't understand about how I feel about Robert

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Speaker 3: that you could have came in with the ultimate bat.

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Speaker 3: Robert could have man imitate you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, just wrong, all right, we're moving on.

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Speaker 2: We're moving on.

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Speaker 4: And uh.

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Speaker 1: Augusta says, I had sex a few times with a

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Speaker 1: guy that lives in my complex. I saw him with

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Speaker 1: another girl, so I waved and blew my horn so

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Speaker 1: he would know I saw him. He called and said

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Speaker 1: that was his girlfriend, and I was wrong.

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Speaker 2: For that. How am I wrong for what I did?

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Speaker 3: Blowing your damn horn? Fuck? Yeah, but I need to

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Speaker 3: see you? What is d All you did was sleep

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Speaker 3: with a man in your complex. You don't know nothing

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Speaker 3: else about him?

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Speaker 2: Man had let it all.

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Speaker 3: Got to stop sleeping with these dudes and think that's

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Speaker 3: gonna be there. That's that's that's the blue ribbon. Now.

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Speaker 3: I slept with him here. He needed to see me.

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Speaker 3: He saw you and you here, Uh huh. He don't

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Speaker 3: do that no more. That was my girlfriend. What you doing?

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Speaker 2: What are you doing?

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Speaker 3: Your damn porn? A couple of boy a cup of

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Speaker 3: sugar paper, that's all that is? He Hey, let me

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Speaker 3: tell you something. Look over the act like I ain't

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Speaker 3: never seen you before, going to me, going on over there?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: Last one, last one, Steve. This is from Donald in

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Speaker 1: West Philly. Donald writes, I had dinner with a woman

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Speaker 1: that I pursued for a while. The whole dinner she

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Speaker 1: talked about carbs and calories, so I lost my appetite.

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Speaker 3: She said she.

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Speaker 1: Would pick the restaurant the next day if we go

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Speaker 1: out again. How do I get her to hush and

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Speaker 1: enjoy dinner?

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, y'all just met. You know, she'd look

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Speaker 3: probably nervous, you know, trying to make you think she

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Speaker 3: more fit than she really is. And here talking about

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Speaker 3: carbs and calibies. She won't to pick the restaurant, you know,

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Speaker 3: and all this. It just could be some nervous conversation. Man,

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Speaker 3: But why would you? Why would you if if you

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Speaker 3: pursued her for a long time, just could be a

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Speaker 3: valuable catch? What you mad? Because she's talking about cabs

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Speaker 3: and calories? Fault?

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Speaker 2: I guess was he bored?

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Speaker 3: Well, you know what, start start talk about something else.

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Speaker 2: He just let her dominate the conversation.

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Speaker 3: Huh yeah, change the subject to.

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Speaker 2: You know, what would you have done?

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Speaker 3: What would you said? Well, I'm gonna let you talk

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Speaker 3: about all the cars and calories you want. Then we

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Speaker 3: can get into how you want to burn them. You know,

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Speaker 3: we can have that conversation. I get it around to

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Speaker 3: where it need to be.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, all right, I.

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Speaker 3: Like it right here, you talking about the cabs and

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Speaker 3: calories all you want to. Eventually we're gonna have to

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Speaker 3: get around how we're gonna burn it. And now we

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Speaker 3: be all right here. You see, he don't he don't

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Speaker 3: know the game. No, he young, he won't to hear up,

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Speaker 3: get to the conversation, but he don't know how to

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Speaker 3: use the existing conversation to create the desired conversation. Okay, man,

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Speaker 3: I don't know nothing. These young dudes, they don't know nut.

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Speaker 1: All right, thank god we have you to school us.

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Speaker 2: Coming up at the.

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Speaker 1: Top of the hour, we'll talk to the Earn Your

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Speaker 1: Leisure podcast hosts Rashad Balal.

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Speaker 2: And Troy Millings. Right after this, you're listening to Harvey

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Speaker 2: Morning Show.