Speaker 1: Second date of day broke.
Speaker 2: How many times have you been in a concert and thought,
Speaker 2: forget the band, I want to get backstage with that
Speaker 2: security guard.
Speaker 1: Really use that flashlight.
Speaker 3: I did have a security guard usher me into a
Speaker 3: concert for free once.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he like, let me jump in the van and
Speaker 4: go into the back.
Speaker 3: I guess I really pathetic in the parking lot because
Speaker 3: my boyfriend left me there because he had a ticket
Speaker 3: and I did it.
Speaker 5: Van.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you just had to be yourself basically. That's
Speaker 2: what one of our listeners says happened to her the
Speaker 2: other night. Her name is Claire, and apparently she met
Speaker 2: a concert security guard. Claire, it's an honor and a
Speaker 2: privilege to have you on this morning show.
Speaker 5: Welcome, Hi, good morning.
Speaker 1: Have a van for you to hop in as well.
Speaker 3: Every good security guard she'd have a van, you know.
Speaker 1: Tell us about the security guard. Who is he?
Speaker 5: And SAME's Kevin?
Speaker 3: Okay, did you meet him at a concert or is
Speaker 3: this just what he does for work?
Speaker 5: He was working and I was at the concert.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, did he catch your eye immediately or how.
Speaker 1: Did that happen?
Speaker 5: Well, he came up to me actually to ask me
Speaker 5: to get off a chair. That I was on.
Speaker 4: To reprimand that was.
Speaker 1: Going to be some romantic line.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 5: No, but he did catch my eye. I thought he
Speaker 5: was really cute. I was kind of tipsy and probably
Speaker 5: being a little annoying, but I was like, you know,
Speaker 5: he was like, this is a safety hazard. I was like,
Speaker 5: I'm just trying to get a better view.
Speaker 1: I'm sure, please, you're a safety.
Speaker 4: He asked him to lift you up so you could see.
Speaker 4: Is that what you just said?
Speaker 5: No, I should have that would have been good. I
Speaker 5: was like, let me stand here so I can see.
Speaker 1: He asked you to get down from the chair.
Speaker 5: Yeah, So he eventually brought me down, But I mean
Speaker 5: I thought he was pretty cute, and so I actually
Speaker 5: like took like a cocktail napkin and like wrote my
Speaker 5: number down on it. Oh my god, and I like
Speaker 5: put it in his shirt pocket and was like if
Speaker 5: you need to yell at me or like teach me
Speaker 5: any more about concert, Stacey later like me, I m
Speaker 5: putting it in his shirt.
Speaker 1: That's like a little bit of like here you go.
Speaker 5: Yes, Yeah.
Speaker 4: I actually I can't believe he actually called you.
Speaker 3: Because I mean, like you're not cute or anything. How
Speaker 3: many drunk people. Does he come across then I am, Yeah.
Speaker 1: So he reached out.
Speaker 5: Yeah. The next day, actually he texted me and we
Speaker 5: were kind of laughing at it. I had saved him
Speaker 5: as concert police in my phone. That's why I was
Speaker 5: like calling him all night.
Speaker 4: Wait, you were drunk dialing him that night?
Speaker 5: No, just like at the show. It's like, okay, concert please.
Speaker 1: It's your cute pet name for him.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I get it.
Speaker 4: I get it.
Speaker 1: And what did he call you?
Speaker 4: Annoying short girl?
Speaker 5: But you know, I apologize for whatever, being drunk and
Speaker 5: how I acted. You know. We had a good laugh
Speaker 5: about it and then we yeah, and so we eventually
Speaker 5: like decided to meet up for dinner and have like
Speaker 5: an official date.
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, are nervous?
Speaker 6: Are you?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 4: Oh, is he going to be as cute as I remember?
Speaker 5: I mean a little bit. You never know how it's
Speaker 5: going to be after and it's.
Speaker 4: Like dark, the music's loud, you've been drinking.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So where did you guys end up going for
Speaker 1: a date.
Speaker 5: We've got We've got Italian, which is like my favorite,
Speaker 5: so perfect.
Speaker 4: What'd you think when you saw him?
Speaker 5: Yeah? I still thought he was cute, but I was like, oh, well,
Speaker 5: I wish you're wearing your security uniform because you look
Speaker 5: so cute on it, Like you look good in that,
Speaker 5: and I mean he laughed whatever, like it was fine.
Speaker 5: We had it was a good We started off.
Speaker 1: Well, a really good flirter. So at least it sounds
Speaker 1: like you put the vibe out on your end for sure.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I try good. So we ended up like
Speaker 5: we decided we just wanted to try a bunch of
Speaker 5: stuff that we just split a bunch of food on
Speaker 5: the menu, which was fun and like yeah, and the
Speaker 5: food was good. We were having a good time, like
Speaker 5: we were having fun.
Speaker 2: It's an Italian restaurant. So did you try the lady
Speaker 2: in the tramp move? Did you try to set it off?
Speaker 5: At least we did it. We actually did not do that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, they got maybe the yeah, different things.
Speaker 3: But I mean, besides the food, share the food, Like,
Speaker 3: what were some of the highlights for you with him?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 5: We just stood around and he told me about other
Speaker 5: drunk girls he's met at concerts. Made me feel better
Speaker 5: about myself. I would not be worse.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you didn't make the top five worst girls. So
Speaker 1: we're in the thank.
Speaker 5: Goodness and it was going really well, but everything kind
Speaker 5: of changed at the end when the bill came. Why
Speaker 5: so Kevin noticed on it there were like some discrepancies,
Speaker 5: like some stuff on the bill. It didn't seem right. Yeah,
Speaker 5: we like slit a salad, but then they charged those
Speaker 5: for two salads instead, So I mean it was justified.
Speaker 5: Like he wasn't being like a total Karen, but you know,
Speaker 5: he has to talk to a manager and stuff about it,
Speaker 5: I assume. Yeah, so he had to go into the
Speaker 5: back and like talk to someone, and it did take
Speaker 5: like a little while, like it was, you know, it good,
Speaker 5: like ten or fifteen minutes or so.
Speaker 4: That's kind of weird.
Speaker 1: I feel like you beat somebody up now.
Speaker 3: I mean, typically your server would just be like, oh
Speaker 3: my god, I'm so sorry, let me change.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: And so after that, like you just kind of change
Speaker 5: for the rest of the night, he just kind of
Speaker 5: fell off, like.
Speaker 4: It ruined his whole night.
Speaker 5: It kind of felt like it did, like he just
Speaker 5: didn't seem the same. And then after that he hasn't
Speaker 5: really been talking to me. At first. I was like,
Speaker 5: maybe he just felt like that was a weird ending,
Speaker 5: so he just wanted to give me a couple of
Speaker 5: days or he just felt weird about it. But that's
Speaker 5: been like over a week, and so I'm like, was
Speaker 5: there something else? Was there another issue I didn't know about, Jeffrey.
Speaker 3: You've been in a lot of back rooms at Italian restaurants.
Speaker 4: What goes down back there?
Speaker 1: Well, usually I'm paying extra for.
Speaker 4: What off menu?
Speaker 3: Pinpoint the moment that everything changed, right, But it doesn't
Speaker 3: sound like it's your fault.
Speaker 4: Whatever it is exactly, I mean, awkward on a date.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so maybe I just left him with a bad
Speaker 3: taste and that's why he hasn't Maybe, Yeah.
Speaker 2: That were there any other weird moments from the date
Speaker 2: besides the bill, not.
Speaker 5: That I can think of. Everything else was pretty normal,
Speaker 5: you know, I was having fun. I didn't really clock
Speaker 5: anything like. He didn't seem weird to me, but I
Speaker 5: don't know. His mood just totally changed after the bill problem.
Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna come back.
Speaker 2: We're gonna call Kevin for you, and we're gonna try
Speaker 2: and get you a second date up date right after this.
Speaker 5: All right, Hey, awesome, thank you.
Speaker 1: Whenever we do.
Speaker 2: These calls and there's a problem with the bill, usually
Speaker 2: that's an issue over who should pay, does the guy
Speaker 2: handle it? Should the girl offer? Which exit door? Should
Speaker 2: we dine and dash out of? Those are the types
Speaker 2: of things that go through your mind. But with Claire
Speaker 2: and her date, Kevin, they had a different problem. They
Speaker 2: noticed that they were getting overcharged on their bill, and
Speaker 2: that's why Kevin to the back to talk to a
Speaker 2: manager about it for a while a few minutes, and
Speaker 2: while Claire thought that was totally justified, kind of ruined
Speaker 2: his mood for the rest of the night, and that
Speaker 2: could be why he hasn't reached out yet for another date.
Speaker 3: Maybe he's mad that they didn't give him a free dessert.
Speaker 3: I mean usually when they mess up the bill, you
Speaker 3: get a free dessert.
Speaker 2: He's like, yeah, you know what I'm saying, Is that right, Claire? No,
Speaker 2: no free dessert at the Italian Place?
Speaker 5: No free dessert.
Speaker 4: Hear the bottom of it.
Speaker 1: We don't even need to call him.
Speaker 2: Or maybe he found an even smaller, even more obnoxious
Speaker 2: girl at another concert that he was doing security yet
Speaker 2: and that's his type. He wants his Thumbelina.
Speaker 3: Who has a stand on the tallest chair to see anything. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I mean I feel you, though. Concerts suck for short people.
Speaker 4: Thank you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's got to be some sort of logical explanation
Speaker 2: for this.
Speaker 1: We're gonna call him right now. You ready to do this?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I'm ready?
Speaker 1: All right, here we go.
Speaker 5: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hey is this Kevin?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is Kevin this? Sorry? Did I catch you
Speaker 1: in the bathroom or something? It's a little bit echoey.
Speaker 1: Oh no, I was actually cooking something. But that's that's fine.
Speaker 1: Interesting what you're cooking.
Speaker 6: I'm making some pastah.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's a nice morning pasta.
Speaker 6: I love Italian.
Speaker 1: It's a prep for work.
Speaker 4: So you are so friendly.
Speaker 3: I don't know that we've ever just launched into a
Speaker 3: full conversation with somebody.
Speaker 1: You haven't even asked who we are yet. You know
Speaker 1: we're a radio. I feel like he's gonnavite us over before.
Speaker 2: Okay, we're doing a segment called a second Date Update
Speaker 2: where we're trying to help out one of our listeners.
Speaker 2: You took out to actually an Italian place the other
Speaker 2: night named Claire.
Speaker 5: Claire rings a bell. Yeah, I think so.
Speaker 4: Didn't you have a really nice night with her? Because
Speaker 4: her description sound like you guys really connected.
Speaker 6: Well, if I'm not mistaking, is this a girl that
Speaker 6: I met at the concert because I work as a
Speaker 6: security at some concerts and I do.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right. It sounds like you're going out with
Speaker 2: a lot of different women. If you can't tell I'm not.
Speaker 6: I'm not gonna lie, I'm I'm single, so dating.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Claire's the one that kept calling you concert police
Speaker 3: like apparently that was her, like funny nickname for you.
Speaker 2: I mean, it is my job, okay, Well, our job
Speaker 2: is to call people like you and try to figure
Speaker 2: out why you're not going out with some of our listeners.
Speaker 1: That's what Claire is wondering.
Speaker 6: Well, okay, so if I'm not mistaking, I remember we
Speaker 6: went out to dinner.
Speaker 1: We went and had it tobby in and yeah, no,
Speaker 1: you don't have to run us through the whole story.
Speaker 1: We've actually heard it before.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I think if we just need the part where like
Speaker 3: you're not calling her back anymore and she's confused because
Speaker 3: it seems like you guys had a good connection.
Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, I'm trying to wreak up a little bit.
Speaker 1: So I remember that when.
Speaker 6: The bill came, I went to the backstock to the manager,
Speaker 6: and then when I'm coming back, I see something weird.
Speaker 6: You know how they put this olive oil kind of dishes.
Speaker 1: There, Yeah, for your bread.
Speaker 5: So she was putting.
Speaker 6: Her fingers inside the bowl and rubbing the olive oil
Speaker 6: on her.
Speaker 3: On her Okay.
Speaker 6: So she was dipping her fingers in it and then
Speaker 6: rubbing it against her shirt and then a little bit
Speaker 6: on like on her belly.
Speaker 4: And then wait are you talking about?
Speaker 3: You saw Claire or just some random woman in the
Speaker 3: restaurant rubbing olive oil all herself.
Speaker 6: I saw clear. I mean I thought it from a
Speaker 6: par I saw from a.
Speaker 3: Par that would stain her shirt worst.
Speaker 6: Yeah, well she was going inside her shirt.
Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, the only thing I could see is
Speaker 3: like if you have like dry skin with crack knuckles.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Kevin, You're you're saying that a girl rubbing
Speaker 2: oil all over herself is a bad thing, because I
Speaker 2: think most guys would be into that.
Speaker 6: I didn't think it was bad. I thought it was weird.
Speaker 6: I don't know what she thought that was going to
Speaker 6: happen afterwards. I don't know if she thought that was
Speaker 6: like an upper dsiak or something.
Speaker 1: No, why wouldn't you ask her if you think you
Speaker 1: saw that?
Speaker 4: She deserves the right to explain.
Speaker 6: Now, mat Me ask you, how do you bring that
Speaker 6: up to a girl? You know, sit down and after like,
Speaker 6: why are you rubbing oil by taking.
Speaker 1: Your shirt off and being like a ply right here man?
Speaker 1: Or you just going to kiss her neck and go ooh?
Speaker 1: Is that a little bit of Islamic vineagrette?
Speaker 6: I I didn't want to sound like a creep, because
Speaker 6: you know how girls are always you.
Speaker 1: Know that's true. Okay, I was watching you from across
Speaker 1: the restaurant. Yeah, was that oil?
Speaker 4: I think like, what were you doing with oil? Is
Speaker 4: a fair.
Speaker 2: Question, And I can understand if you were uncomfortable asking
Speaker 2: her in the moment, But now that it's been a while,
Speaker 2: you can ask her over the phone, because she's actually
Speaker 2: been listening on the other line this entire time, wanting
Speaker 2: to talk to you.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Period, Yeah, I'm possibly rubbing herself down.
Speaker 1: Claire you there?
Speaker 5: Hi, Kevin?
Speaker 6: Oh god hate.
Speaker 2: In all seriousness, I doubt she was even doing that,
Speaker 2: But Claire, I don't know.
Speaker 4: Oil slip Claire over here?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Claire, what was going on? Okay?
Speaker 5: What was going on?
Speaker 1: What were you? Were you actually rubbing the oil?
Speaker 5: First of all, I had no idea you saw that,
Speaker 5: so you.
Speaker 4: Do know what he's talking about.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Claire, please explain in.
Speaker 5: Very very what's a thing? There's just so oil like
Speaker 5: you rub it on your chest that helps keep everything perky,
Speaker 5: like I don't want saggy breast when I'm older. Like wait,
Speaker 5: like it's a TikTok hack I've adopted, but I'd like
Speaker 5: it's a thing. It gets the blood flog it keeps
Speaker 5: you moisturized. Not like, don't you do that? It's totally normal.
Speaker 1: He wasn't there.
Speaker 4: You're at a restaurant, girl. You're not putting your hand down.
Speaker 5: Your bread in the oil before your finger wasn't like
Speaker 5: I was pouring the bottle on me.
Speaker 3: I just been laughing a little like, Okay, I have
Speaker 3: face all of oil before, but like it's from a
Speaker 3: beauty brand.
Speaker 4: It's not I.
Speaker 1: Don't meant for that.
Speaker 3: Yes, it's just really it's like refined. I would assume
Speaker 3: the different way, or at least I pay for it.
Speaker 1: As if it's refined to do, you're going to have
Speaker 1: to excuse Brook.
Speaker 2: This is the part of the show where she tells
Speaker 2: our listeners how to live their lives.
Speaker 4: Do you think it's normal for her to stick her hands.
Speaker 5: Out I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't know what's normal. People do their own things,
Speaker 2: their own different ways. They tried beauty acts they do
Speaker 2: and don't work.
Speaker 6: Can I ask a question now, yeah, yeah, of course
Speaker 6: going there. I mean, now that you explained it, I
Speaker 6: actually really like you, and I'm fire for not calling
Speaker 6: back out with me again on a second.
Speaker 3: Day, she said.
Speaker 2: And now the guy's like, yeah, Claire, did this whole
Speaker 2: experience change your mind with him not communicating with you earlier?
Speaker 5: I mean maybe, yeah, a little, like I thought we
Speaker 5: were having a good time. I'm an open person, obviously.
Speaker 1: Like obviously, yeah.
Speaker 5: I would have talked to him about it if he
Speaker 5: had asked me about a moment, like, I'm not embarrassed
Speaker 5: about it, but now I think it's a little weird
Speaker 5: he's coming around, Claire.
Speaker 3: If the tables were turned and you you're walking to
Speaker 3: the table and you see some dude putting oil on
Speaker 3: his body, you would be a little man we use
Speaker 3: butter Okay.
Speaker 5: I would have said something though, like he didn't do that,
Speaker 5: Like I would have confronted. I would have asked a question.
Speaker 4: I can see that.
Speaker 5: I can see that I wouldn't stopped communicating.
Speaker 6: It was the first state, and I don't know if
Speaker 6: you were to have been okay with that or not.
Speaker 6: So now I know maybe on a second date we
Speaker 6: could Oh oh.
Speaker 1: He wants to be the one to apply the oil
Speaker 1: onto you?
Speaker 5: He Oh is that?
Speaker 4: What is that? The meaning you too?
Speaker 1: Well, that's what I'm visualizing.
Speaker 5: Oh right, now it's getting weird. You're making it weird.
Speaker 5: It's says olive oil. It's TikTok hack Okay, all.
Speaker 2: Right, Well, at this point, Claire, Kevin has already said
Speaker 2: yes to another day, He's apologized for not being more communicative.
Speaker 2: And third, you don't even have to pay for this
Speaker 2: next one because it's on us oo.
Speaker 5: I mean I can get from the visuals I get
Speaker 5: thought it was kind of weird and how some people
Speaker 5: might not want to approach that. Yeah, I'll give you
Speaker 5: a second chance.
Speaker 4: An Italian.
Speaker 5: Then, I don't know.
Speaker 2: He did say that there's a lot of concert girls,
Speaker 2: so you just got to get in line first, Claire's
Speaker 2: but if you oil yourself up, you can slide faster
Speaker 2: to the front of the line.
Speaker 1: Security's not tackling you.
Speaker 4: Then, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning