1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sorority Life with 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia Judice. 3 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 2: Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler. 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 3: Okay, everyone, welcome back to Dirty Rush. And today we're 5 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 3: talking to some anonymous sorority girls that we have here. 6 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 3: Would anyone like to say their actual name or do 7 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 3: we want to keep it anonymous. 8 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 4: I'll say my name. 9 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 2: I'm Kiddy. 10 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 5: Oh, I'm gonna go with. 11 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 3: No. 12 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 5: I'm the producer. 13 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 2: She's so I think I'll say my name. 14 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:42,080 Speaker 4: I'm Lauren, I'm Gracie. 15 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 6: I can say a fake name. 16 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:53,200 Speaker 2: We're gonna be like no, and then I'd be like, Okay, 17 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 2: explain why. 18 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 5: Here's why we're being so mysterious. 19 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:59,279 Speaker 3: Okay, So we are gonna be talking about some myths 20 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 3: and like all the tea around sororities and being like 21 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:07,400 Speaker 3: actually real with all of you. And so some people 22 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 3: are saying anonymous just because they got a lot to say. 23 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 7: It's very interesting because even like thirty years later, I 24 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 7: still always want to protect my sorority. Yeah, you definitely 25 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 7: feel that. In my in my school, I'm always like 26 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 7: better not say no. 27 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 2: For sure. 28 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 3: It is I feel like it's such a special thing, 29 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 3: like sororities can they can get like bad people can 30 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 3: have bad ideas about them. But also like it was 31 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 3: such a great thing for me and such a good 32 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 3: time in my life, and like even the crazy stories, 33 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:37,320 Speaker 3: like I love them. 34 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 2: It just like it makes college that much more memorable. 35 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:42,240 Speaker 5: We had an interesting question when we were preparing. 36 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 7: Okay, so there's six of us here, would anyone say 37 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:46,759 Speaker 7: they're sororities? 38 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 5: Password publicly? I wouldn't. 39 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 4: Wait what password? 40 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 2: I didn't have a password? 41 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 5: Mean, you don't have a password, the secret word? You 42 00:01:57,840 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 5: don't have a secret password? 43 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 4: No for what, like to get in. 44 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 5: The door, to get in this chapter room door. 45 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 2: Oh, and like. 46 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 8: We had Greek names, so like everyone was assigned a 47 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 8: Greek name and you had to say that when you 48 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 8: got into chapter and that's how you like got in 49 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 8: the door. 50 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 4: A handshake. 51 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:19,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I'll my Greek name. 52 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 2: I just put my fingerprint and then I walked through 53 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 2: the door. 54 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 7: Your finger the chapter room door. You had to put 55 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 7: your fingerprint in the chapter room door. 56 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:30,080 Speaker 2: Well, our chapter room was our fro. 57 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:34,360 Speaker 7: It was like, so two of us, who will remain nameless, 58 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 7: are in the same sorority here, and we will say 59 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 7: the password to each other. 60 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 5: And give each other the handshake. But we wouldn't say 61 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 5: it to. 62 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 2: You guys, like you wouldn't tell me when we're off air. 63 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 7: No, that's kind, but I would say it to the 64 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 7: other person that was like, I get that. 65 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 4: If I had one, I would have to keep it sacred. 66 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:55,360 Speaker 4: I get it. 67 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 5: I don't really doesn't have one. 68 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 4: I think because technology. 69 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 2: Some times have changed, clearly changed. 70 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 5: Okay, Daisy hit us with the more questions. 71 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 2: Okay, well here we go. 72 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 3: So I know we've talked a lot in like past 73 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:14,240 Speaker 3: episodes about how it's expensive to be in a sorority. 74 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:17,080 Speaker 3: Do you guys think sororities are paid friends? 75 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, wait, say that again so I can 76 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 7: really take that in. You're paying to have friends. 77 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 3: Do you think sorority in a sorority or paying to 78 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 3: have friends? 79 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 5: No? 80 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 8: No, what an interesting take. I wouldn't say so either. 81 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 8: You're paying for the full experience. You have formals, all 82 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 8: these events, and it's like, I don't know. 83 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 5: My sorority was paying to live there and have food. 84 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:42,839 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, payduce to live in the house. I think 85 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 8: it goes so far beyond having friends. I don't think 86 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 8: that's the reason you're paying. 87 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 4: I wouldn't say it. 88 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 6: I think for me, like my freshman year at least, 89 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 6: I wanted to find a community, and so I felt 90 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 6: like sure, paying for my friends was like an. 91 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 2: Easy way to do that. 92 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 6: But also like living in the house too, like our 93 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 6: rent in the house is cheaper than any rent in 94 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 6: my college town. That is, I was like financially the 95 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 6: smarter decision. 96 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 8: To make I feel like so many people have that 97 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 8: have said that same thing. 98 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 2: It's cheaper to live in how. 99 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 3: Which was yours because you were at Ole miss which 100 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 3: is like, yeah, school. 101 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:19,279 Speaker 1: I don't exactly remember, be honest, my parents paid for it, 102 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 1: but so like pre so are Like I said in 103 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 1: the other episode, our house flooded my freshman year. 104 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 4: So our old house, the dudes were very like really low. 105 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 4: I think they were like nineteen hundred. 106 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:38,480 Speaker 1: But then and that was three meals a day, and 107 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 1: you used the house like at all hours, like you 108 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 1: could have it at all. 109 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 4: We weren't living. 110 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 2: There, but to be you could to be. 111 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:47,039 Speaker 1: Fed three times a day, which was way cheaper than 112 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 1: the meal plans that you paid for sure anyway, but 113 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 1: then once we got the new house, I'm pretty sure 114 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 1: it was like in the three thousands per semester. 115 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 2: Like if you lived in or was that no, just 116 00:04:57,160 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 2: really cheap? 117 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, just to like, yeah, okay, good, I'm glad. 118 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 2: I'm not. 119 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 5: I thought that was where we're gonna live for one 120 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 5: thousand dollars a month. 121 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 1: I think it was like four hundred dollars a month 122 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:10,159 Speaker 1: to live at the house, no bills. It was just 123 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:11,279 Speaker 1: like four hundred dollars spot. 124 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 2: And then there's three grand like on top of that. 125 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 3: Yeah okay, yeah, so it makes more sense to live 126 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 3: in Yeah, okay. This kind of leads into our next question. 127 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 3: So are you still friends with all your sisters everyone? 128 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:23,160 Speaker 2: Yes? 129 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 7: Yes, And I'm fifty over fifty years old, and I 130 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 7: would say, right now, I could call twenty five people 131 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:32,040 Speaker 7: in ten minutes. 132 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 2: That's amazing. I'm different. I'm not. You're not okay. 133 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 9: Yeah, I have like two maybe super close friends for 134 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 9: my sorority. Still, I mean I feel like I could, 135 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 9: if I was in a bine call any of them. 136 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 2: Not that's loose. 137 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 9: Not any of them, I would say, probably a handful. 138 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 2: Yeah I am not. 139 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:52,559 Speaker 5: That's so interesting. 140 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 10: Yeah. 141 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 7: We did a calculation the other day if we threw 142 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 7: a party of just like six years of my sorority. 143 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 7: We got to one hundred and fifty people in like 144 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 7: like literally ten minutes. 145 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:05,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how I feel. 146 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:08,159 Speaker 1: My I just got married a couple months ago, and 147 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 1: all my bridesmaids were my sorority sisters, including my own 148 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 1: blood sister who was then joined my sorority. And then 149 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:16,719 Speaker 1: I had a house party because there were so many 150 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 1: of us, I couldn't have seventeen bridesmaids. 151 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 4: I was going to be the number and I just 152 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:21,840 Speaker 4: felt like that was a little crazy. 153 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:24,239 Speaker 1: So I did a house party and the other girls 154 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 1: besides Daisy and like three others were my sorority sisters. 155 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 5: Yeah what about you, Daisy Me. 156 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like so. 157 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:37,479 Speaker 3: At San diegoce I my roommate freshman year, Christy, I 158 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 3: was in Alpha FIE, she was in Pie PI, and 159 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 3: we both like found our groups like within, like she 160 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 3: had our group in Pi FI. I had my group 161 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 3: in Alpha PI, and then we kind of like morphed 162 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 3: everyone together. So like most of my friends, all my 163 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 3: friends like outside of college were in Alpha or Pi FI. 164 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 3: And then I have like a couple friends that I 165 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 3: did like stuff at school with, but like, for the 166 00:06:57,600 --> 00:06:59,039 Speaker 3: most part, I'm the closest with them. 167 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 2: I would say, we. 168 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 7: Got that at my school Kappa d G PI FI 169 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 7: and everyone's still friends. 170 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:08,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, where did you go to school? By? 171 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 7: Okay, so much for being anonymous. 172 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 10: I would like. 173 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 4: Not to exploit you, but I have to know. 174 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 2: We should like have the logos of the schools like 175 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 2: pop up. Okay. 176 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 3: Do girls fight over boys when you're in a sorority? 177 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 10: Yes? 178 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, No I never experienced that. 179 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's like like girls like, I mean, girls 180 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 3: can be shady and they're like they're like, oh, you're 181 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 3: like hanging out with that guy? 182 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 2: Will like I'm like hooking up with him. 183 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 4: I never had that. 184 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 7: We call it like claims, Like people would make claims 185 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 7: on a boy. Yeah, and then if another sorority sister, 186 00:07:57,480 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 7: like even months after those two end, did if another 187 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 7: sorty sister started to date or like that boy, Yeah, 188 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 7: a little dramatic. 189 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't. 190 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 6: I don't know if I find it that dramatic, Like 191 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 6: I would never you know, start things with like a 192 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 6: guy that my soorty sister had been with. 193 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 5: Oh, I was so many boys. I wasna I went. 194 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 8: To a school that was sixty percent girls and forty 195 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 8: percent boys, so it was slim Pickett. 196 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 2: You gotta fight. Everybody was fighting for themselves. 197 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 8: But I mean seriously, like I feel like every week 198 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 8: there was a new just draw draw between girls because 199 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 8: it was like, don't kiss someone that your sorority sister. 200 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 8: I'd guess, but that's impossible. 201 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:58,319 Speaker 10: Whatever. 202 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 3: I remember being like, if like older girls in my sorority, 203 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:08,040 Speaker 3: if like someone in my pledge class like started like 204 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 3: talking to their and like you comment, as a freshman, 205 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 3: you don't know anything, but like say, like a girl 206 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:17,560 Speaker 3: starts talking to an upper classman's like ex boyfriend or 207 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 3: something like that and start hooking up with them, like 208 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 3: it's like crazy, and it's like you should not do that, 209 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:26,680 Speaker 3: like you like, and it's almost like then like that 210 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 3: friend group like will like not like attack you, but 211 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 3: like you know what I mean, they're they're like sowing. 212 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 7: Back now because like I said, it's been thirty years, 213 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 7: but I remember I kissed a boy that my big 214 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:40,440 Speaker 7: sister in the sorority dated. 215 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, and I don't think she was too happy about it. 216 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 5: And now I'm totally still totally friends with her. 217 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,120 Speaker 7: I don't even think if like we called her right now, 218 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 7: she'd even be able to name who the boy was Yeah. 219 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:51,680 Speaker 5: I mean I remember because it was a little bit 220 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 5: more dramatic for me. 221 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 4: We have a friend and she the upper classman thing. 222 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:02,360 Speaker 2: She yes. I was like, who are we talking about? 223 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 1: She was like terrified to talk to this guy because 224 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:10,240 Speaker 1: an upper classman. I guess they claimed him. Yeah, it's 225 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 1: literally how she described it. They were like, you're not 226 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:14,959 Speaker 1: going to talk to him. He's he's ours and he's 227 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 1: older than you, and you need to stick stay in 228 00:10:16,840 --> 00:10:17,240 Speaker 1: your lane. 229 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, and now they're dating. 230 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 3: But now in college it was like no, And then like, 231 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 3: way is. 232 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:28,320 Speaker 7: The only thing that I think get a little sticky 233 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:30,080 Speaker 7: in the sorority can. 234 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 5: Get a little sticky. 235 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 2: Extended past college. 236 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 9: There was a situation in my sorority that our president 237 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 9: at the time came to college with her high school boyfriend. 238 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 2: He also joined a fraternity. 239 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 9: She went on a semester travel abroad, and while she 240 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 9: was gone, he hooked up with somebody from our sorority, 241 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 9: but she didn't know, and they got married very young, 242 00:10:57,080 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 9: and she was convinced that she that they lost the 243 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:08,480 Speaker 9: virginity together and like in their marriage she found out that. 244 00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 2: This is giving like tell me lies, you guys seen that. 245 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:13,959 Speaker 9: Yeah, in their marriage that he had cheated lost his virginity, 246 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 9: is just somebody else in the same crority. 247 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 6: I think the most important part of that, like the cheating. 248 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 6: I mean, that's really. 249 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 9: Nice stuff, but like that's and that's so that's extended 250 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 9: past college, so it gets it gets sticky. 251 00:11:26,800 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 2: Wow. 252 00:11:27,640 --> 00:11:31,560 Speaker 3: Wow, Okay, let's move on to the next fun Are 253 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 3: mixers and like pre parties as wild as movies and 254 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 3: TV make them seem? 255 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:43,559 Speaker 2: Not not like in. 256 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 1: The movies where like people are jumping off the roof 257 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:47,120 Speaker 1: and stuff like. 258 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:50,959 Speaker 2: I mean, no people at mine like jumped off the roof. 259 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:56,319 Speaker 1: Honestly would Maybe I feel like the acting is kind 260 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:59,320 Speaker 1: of fake where it just seems so out of touch. 261 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 3: It's all so like I don't know about you guys, 262 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:03,680 Speaker 3: but like when we would go to like fraternity parties 263 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 3: and say, it'd be like, okay, Alpha Fi, we have 264 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 3: a pre party with sigap. Then we would go like 265 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 3: with to Cingette, but no one ever had solo cups. 266 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 3: Like everyone would drink out of plastic vodka handles and 267 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:20,880 Speaker 3: then have a like Steven Up like chaser from like 268 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 3: Trader Joe's, and it would be vodka. 269 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 2: The gods and everyone would just be slugging it. 270 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:29,880 Speaker 1: Out of the same bottle past Sumer haircuts. 271 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 4: They would pour both so you'd like and dump it 272 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:36,079 Speaker 4: into your mouth at the same time. 273 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 274 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:39,320 Speaker 7: I will say I went back to s AE as 275 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 7: an old person, you know, like during a fraternity party 276 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:47,679 Speaker 7: on a football game day, and I was actually like disturbed. 277 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 7: I was like it was so wild and they were 278 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:54,440 Speaker 7: doing all that sharing and all. 279 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:56,559 Speaker 5: I could think about was the germ like mono. 280 00:12:56,840 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 7: Yeah, like yeah catching and it was so hot and 281 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:02,839 Speaker 7: there's so many people that I was actually like a person, 282 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 7: was like I actually cannot do this. Yeah yeah, But 283 00:13:05,960 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 7: I think as a twenty year old I would have 284 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 7: been like, this is amazing. 285 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 3: It's also like you're away from like you don't have 286 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 3: any rules. You feel kind of invincible and you can 287 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:18,720 Speaker 3: go out and party whenever you want and you walk 288 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 3: in and it's like, I don't know about you, guys, 289 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 3: but it was dark. There were lights, there were like 290 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 3: people were DJing, Like, honestly, how many frack guys are DJs? 291 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:33,000 Speaker 2: Because chair expired so bad? 292 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 5: Oh my god, these are great questions. Keep going, this 293 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 5: is good, they get. 294 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 2: Good, Okay, oh, this is okay. 295 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:43,440 Speaker 3: Do sorority girls actually have to earn invites to the 296 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 3: best parties. 297 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:48,320 Speaker 6: No, well, I'm the social chair of my sorority. 298 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 2: Oh so you go in everywhere. 299 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:52,840 Speaker 6: I'm I'm making sure that we get the good parties. 300 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 6: And it's also kind of like as dramatic as it seems, like, 301 00:13:57,280 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 6: I want the entirety of my sorty to attend these 302 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:01,760 Speaker 6: events that we can continue having like a good relationship. 303 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:03,960 Speaker 5: What about a day party? What about a day party? 304 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:08,400 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, that's kind of like the like frat guys 305 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:11,320 Speaker 6: themselves will seek out one person. So it's kind of like, yeah, 306 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:13,440 Speaker 6: if us as a sorority, we're going to maintain these 307 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 6: great friendships or more with these guys, then that's how 308 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 6: you can kind of like get yourself into like a 309 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 6: date party. 310 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 7: I'm trying to remember, like South Seas do they start? 311 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 7: So how does that work? Is that essial just a darty? 312 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 6: So we just i mean like social. 313 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 1: Party, but like anyone can show up, Like if that's 314 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 1: what the question. 315 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 5: Is is get into South Seas. 316 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 2: No, it's not for us. 317 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 3: It's like yeah, for me, it was like my sorority, 318 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:42,040 Speaker 3: so like Alpha Fie, like we could get into like 319 00:14:42,040 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 3: like the three like frats that like we mainly like 320 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 3: hung out with, we could go in there. But if 321 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:49,520 Speaker 3: like another girl like walked up and they were like 322 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:52,480 Speaker 3: not in a sorority, or if they were in like 323 00:14:52,520 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 3: a different sorority and didn't have like a relationship with 324 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:56,760 Speaker 3: that frat, they'd be like, show me your group me. 325 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:03,560 Speaker 7: That's how you to prove And the scroll you just 326 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 7: said show me or show me or get me. 327 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 2: So it's like, do you know what group me? So 328 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 2: it's like an app where like you can add everyone. 329 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:13,280 Speaker 3: So like if we were all on the same sorority, 330 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 3: I would add all of you guys, and then we 331 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 3: would do like alpha pi like times like s AE, 332 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:20,760 Speaker 3: and then we'd all be in the same one. So 333 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 3: then if I showed up and I was like, okay, 334 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 3: I'm Daisy, I'm an Alpha fi, they would scroll on 335 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 3: it to make sure that it's like real and not 336 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 3: a screenshot and make sure that it's you. And then 337 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 3: like if Gracie showed up with me and she wasn't 338 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 3: an alpha fie, like say she was like not in 339 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 3: a sorority, they'd be like, no, like, she can't come. 340 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:40,360 Speaker 2: If I was visiting you, if you were visiting me. 341 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 3: Then it's like different than I like put in that 342 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:45,360 Speaker 3: I have a friend visiting me or honestly, I mean 343 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:48,440 Speaker 3: it's not horrible, but like it was and the guys 344 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 3: are like, oh, like you're hot, like they'll let you in. 345 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 7: So how did I get into South Seas Because it 346 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 7: wasn't there a guest list? 347 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 5: I feel like my name was on a list or something. 348 00:15:57,120 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 6: What we do is we have like physical wristbands in 349 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 6: apps sometimes, but that's just maybe because like now there's 350 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 6: a lot more people that will try and go to 351 00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 6: the fraternitys and it's not like a if you're hot 352 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 6: or not thing. It's like a safety thing of like 353 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:11,520 Speaker 6: there could be people around Berkeley that are just like 354 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 6: lurking trying to get into presses that like don't go there, 355 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 6: and that's like a safety concern. So now we have 356 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 6: like wristbands and like we have an app to where 357 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 6: we can like add people if they're visiting ours. 358 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 1: Was literally you walk up, you show your Sunniti and 359 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:25,600 Speaker 1: you walk in. 360 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 4: Oh wow, like there and your Suniti didn't say your 361 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 4: sorority on it. They did not. There was no none 362 00:16:31,520 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 4: of that. 363 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 1: But that's for that's for like Okay, Sigma Nu had 364 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:40,480 Speaker 1: what was there? They had like this one yearly big party, 365 00:16:40,520 --> 00:16:44,000 Speaker 1: like there was no no rules for like anyone could come. 366 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 1: It was the fratorney. Even guys from other fraterneys would 367 00:16:46,600 --> 00:16:48,680 Speaker 1: sometimes come. They had like a friend that was in 368 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 1: Sigma Nu. They'd be like all right, I'm gonna go. Yeah, 369 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:54,520 Speaker 1: But like date parties where it's just Katie and just 370 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 1: SIGNU or just Katie just Sigma. 371 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:58,800 Speaker 4: Kai, you have to prove it. 372 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 2: But like that's it would be like it's. 373 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 8: Just regular parties. Anyone could walk in. Yeah, they didn't 374 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:07,479 Speaker 8: check a student ID, they didn't check a group me nothing, 375 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 8: Like if you were a girl, you could just walk in. 376 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:13,320 Speaker 8: But then, like you were saying, with formals or date parties, 377 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 8: then there's a list or there's a wristband that you 378 00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:18,639 Speaker 8: need to have. But any old fraternity party, especially a 379 00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 8: tailgate or something, anyone can get in. 380 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:21,160 Speaker 7: Yeah. 381 00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:23,160 Speaker 2: No, San Diego. 382 00:17:23,760 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 4: I don't know what it's like now the big city thing. 383 00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:29,040 Speaker 1: Like I mean I was in Oxford, Mississippi, Like there's 384 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 1: nothing there besides the college, so I could kind of 385 00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 1: see that not being a safety concern. But if you're 386 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:36,760 Speaker 1: in like a bigger city, you need to like control. 387 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:40,320 Speaker 3: Is kind of like it's like not close, like if 388 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:42,639 Speaker 3: you think of like downtown San Diego and stuff like that. 389 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:45,720 Speaker 2: It's like it's like in its own little kind. 390 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:47,360 Speaker 3: Of world, you know what I mean. And the only 391 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 3: one that like the only people that try to get 392 00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:50,600 Speaker 3: to the parties are like college students. 393 00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 5: Like any old people listening that still don't know what 394 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:56,200 Speaker 5: a group me is, I'm totally with you. They still 395 00:17:56,680 --> 00:18:01,440 Speaker 5: it's just like, yeah, it's like group chats. 396 00:18:01,480 --> 00:18:04,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a bunch of trip chots. 397 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 3: Like an easy way to start, like a text start 398 00:18:05,359 --> 00:18:06,840 Speaker 3: without giving your number kind of. 399 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:09,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, you can only. 400 00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 5: Say it's fine, person. I don't think anyone over forty 401 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:14,320 Speaker 5: is understanding that. But that's fine. 402 00:18:14,359 --> 00:18:15,600 Speaker 2: I'm over thirty and I'm getting it. 403 00:18:15,760 --> 00:18:33,919 Speaker 3: So next question, are there ceremonies for things like engagements, 404 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 3: et cetera. Is the candle pass tradition real or just 405 00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:38,479 Speaker 3: a room it is? 406 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 2: It's real. 407 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:44,640 Speaker 8: Every single week my chapter would go like thirty or 408 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 8: forty minutes longer than it should have because we had 409 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 8: a candle pass, because there were a lot of ring 410 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:53,200 Speaker 8: before spring girls in the stort wait when the candle spring, 411 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:55,359 Speaker 8: Like you get engaged before you. 412 00:18:57,000 --> 00:18:59,520 Speaker 2: Oh no, wait, that's actually this. 413 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:00,840 Speaker 5: Is like the actually engaged. 414 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:07,919 Speaker 4: So they get engaged the secret, Yeah, it's they get engaged, 415 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 4: but they keep it a secret. 416 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:10,840 Speaker 1: And then they have a candle and they put the 417 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:14,480 Speaker 1: ring on the candle and they pass it around and 418 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:17,919 Speaker 1: then you sing a song and then at the very end, 419 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:21,359 Speaker 1: the candle ends up with the bride and it's. 420 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:25,240 Speaker 5: Like, oh my god. They tell their entire love. 421 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 8: Story for like way too long. 422 00:19:29,440 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 10: Year. 423 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:32,840 Speaker 4: So that is crazy. 424 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:34,879 Speaker 5: One pinning in four years. 425 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 6: I don't do that. 426 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 7: What is a pinning like you're or this pinning is 427 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:45,880 Speaker 7: like you're it's a step before getting engaged. So it's 428 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:49,159 Speaker 7: the same candle and the candle's going around and you 429 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 7: don't know who it is, and then it stops. 430 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:51,639 Speaker 5: I don't remember how. 431 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:54,320 Speaker 7: There was some sort of singing and then that person 432 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 7: who's maybe the friend, blows out the candle so the 433 00:19:57,560 --> 00:20:00,520 Speaker 7: person knows they're getting pinned. And then all the boys 434 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 7: come in in suits and then but it's just a pinning. 435 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:06,919 Speaker 7: I think they give them. It's very old timy. They 436 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:11,160 Speaker 7: give their fraternity pin to the girl. And then it's 437 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:13,880 Speaker 7: like engaged to be engaged. 438 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 1: So they're hinting like you're gonna engage. 439 00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 5: It's like it's like a spring. 440 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:21,800 Speaker 3: Honestly, thinking of like frat boys, Like all of my 441 00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 3: like frat guy friends who I'm still friends with, love 442 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:28,359 Speaker 3: them all to death, but like they were total frat 443 00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:29,119 Speaker 3: boys in college. 444 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:33,160 Speaker 2: Like I like, you cannot marry any of them. Maybe 445 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:34,920 Speaker 2: it's like maybe they. 446 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:37,719 Speaker 3: Would never do that, like they would well, they just 447 00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 3: like there's no way they possibly could. 448 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:45,400 Speaker 2: They're they're they were just like animals. I'm sorry, it's true. 449 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 2: There's a school in Minnesota. 450 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 3: It's a private school and if you get engaged before 451 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:53,080 Speaker 3: you graduate, you get school free. 452 00:20:54,560 --> 00:21:01,160 Speaker 2: Noel, Yeah, it's called I'm pretty sure. 453 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:05,120 Speaker 7: I'm like, actually, Google, give us another question, will you? 454 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:06,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh, let's due. 455 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 3: Do you think Bama rushed TikTok mates already see more 456 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:12,680 Speaker 3: extreme than they really are? 457 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, not for ole miss. 458 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:18,480 Speaker 3: Not for all miss. Well that makes sense because they're 459 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:21,160 Speaker 3: both in the South. Yeah, I seem like the TikTok. 460 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,520 Speaker 3: I think like social media has opened up like a 461 00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 3: whole other aspect to it where other people can like 462 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:28,600 Speaker 3: watch it too. But even my friends I remember in 463 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 3: our group chat, we like sent like our sorority Alpha 464 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:34,360 Speaker 3: Fie at sandy or say like they do all those 465 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:36,919 Speaker 3: dances before and they like scent it. And I was like, 466 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:39,480 Speaker 3: all my friends were dancers, and I was like, you guys, 467 00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:41,200 Speaker 3: i'd be that girl with just her arm showing in 468 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:45,439 Speaker 3: the back holding the sign. Then like my friends were like, oh, 469 00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 3: we'd be in the front dancing, like eating. 470 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:49,440 Speaker 2: That shit up, you know what I mean. So, I 471 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:51,000 Speaker 2: don't know, it's definitely changed. 472 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:54,040 Speaker 7: Yeah, And we need to get like a grandma in 473 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:57,560 Speaker 7: here du from you know, when they were in school 474 00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:00,879 Speaker 7: in the sixties or seventies, because it'll be interesting too. 475 00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:03,480 Speaker 8: Imagine showing them one of those tiktoks. 476 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:05,960 Speaker 4: They'd be like, what the hell's this. 477 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:08,600 Speaker 5: Petition that? 478 00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:10,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, my grand was in his story in the sixties 479 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:12,359 Speaker 6: and she had said to me recently being like, so 480 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:14,680 Speaker 6: what is work week? And why do I keep seeing 481 00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:15,679 Speaker 6: you on the Instagram? 482 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:16,400 Speaker 2: What's happening? 483 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 6: And I'm like, I don't even know. 484 00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:20,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, we need to do a grammar episode. We'll do that. 485 00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:22,680 Speaker 2: Yes, I need to gramas. If you want to be 486 00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:23,520 Speaker 2: on the podcall in. 487 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:24,040 Speaker 5: Yeah. 488 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 3: Next question, do sororities secretly keep hotless during rush? Like 489 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:32,080 Speaker 3: meaning like do they keep tabs of like girls that 490 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:32,480 Speaker 3: they like. 491 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:34,119 Speaker 2: Want in the sorority of course. 492 00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:36,000 Speaker 8: Yes, yeah, I feel like that's no secret. 493 00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:38,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think social media plays a part in it, 494 00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:41,080 Speaker 1: Like we were saying for sure, where they see online 495 00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:44,879 Speaker 1: a girl that has like the in her bio that 496 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:47,520 Speaker 1: she's going to go to the school, and I feel 497 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:49,159 Speaker 1: like they kind of like keep tabs. 498 00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:52,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, like someone joins the Facebook pages and is like scouting. 499 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:53,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 500 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:58,679 Speaker 3: Do alumni ever pull strings to control who gets a bid? 501 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:04,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely, I know other sororities. It was like it 502 00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 1: was kind of crazy. 503 00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:06,200 Speaker 4: I don't know if it was like this for y'all. 504 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:08,879 Speaker 4: Was Rush Week like super drama for y'all. 505 00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:11,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, just so tiring. 506 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,159 Speaker 1: So for us, like every day there was like a 507 00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:16,960 Speaker 1: rumor there was something about this house was doing this, 508 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:20,680 Speaker 1: this house was doing that, And I remember alumni being 509 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:23,320 Speaker 1: a huge part of one of the rumors. Actually every 510 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:28,320 Speaker 1: year that this house's alumni was keeping this girl whose grades. 511 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:30,600 Speaker 4: Were below the requirements and. 512 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,960 Speaker 1: They or they have these like crazy past things that 513 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:34,760 Speaker 1: they've done that they like shouldn't be put it. 514 00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:36,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was crazy, guys. 515 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:40,200 Speaker 3: We have so many more juicy questions that people ask 516 00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:43,159 Speaker 3: and so come back for the next episode because we 517 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:46,120 Speaker 3: are going to do a part two. We didn't even 518 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 3: get halfway through the question, so come back for that 519 00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:50,200 Speaker 3: and thanks for being here. 520 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:50,960 Speaker 2: Love you guys.