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Speaker 2: No, no, no, that's not what it is.

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Speaker 3: That's what you said.

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Speaker 2: It's not that people have choices, is that when you

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Speaker 5: Give me the fucking auxiliary. This is fucking crazy. I

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Speaker 1: I said, I'm sick of this ship.

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Speaker 6: No worrying T time, T time, T.

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Speaker 7: Time, like I got a cup of this ship trying

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Speaker 7: like Gulf had a quarter to six. I love the

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Speaker 7: fuck on a regular bitch, famous host name, but they

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Speaker 7: stay on my dick, hurt your new join us, embarrassed

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Speaker 7: the ship you talk.

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Speaker 8: To their costs from therapist ship.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, like you love is American ship.

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Speaker 2: Oh believe the choice Scared of the six, Scared of

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Speaker 2: the six. It wasn't necessarily that people have choices that

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Speaker 2: people were coming at you for right, Why are you laughing?

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Speaker 2: It's of the fact.

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Speaker 3: They know I'm about to kill you.

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Speaker 2: That's fine, we'll figure that out.

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Speaker 3: We'll see.

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Speaker 2: It's of the fact that you're making it seem like

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Speaker 2: there are some people who are employed, right, who are

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Speaker 1: I made it seem like that. Yes, yes, I made

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Speaker 10: No, wait, you you painted as if everybody has a

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Speaker 6: Yes, obviously we all have choices.

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Speaker 1: Exactly right there, Yes we could right there.

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Speaker 3: Everybody has a choice.

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Speaker 1: Stop right there.

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Speaker 9: Let's say, are ramifications mall.

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Speaker 6: I didn't say nothing that whole discussion, just there are choices.

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Speaker 3: You have a choice.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Harry, I'll agree with you that there's choices that

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Speaker 3: Quit it you do something?

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Speaker 1: You think people don't quit their jobs every day?

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Speaker 4: I mean, sometimes you have to power through under circumstances.

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Speaker 2: Because.

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Speaker 10: I mean we did, we quit our seven fielding figure

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Speaker 6: Seven figure job. We did it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, people risk in that.

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Speaker 1: Come on, yeah, people quit their jobs. It happens. People

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Speaker 1: quit seven eight figure jobs. It happens.

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Speaker 6: That's my point.

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Speaker 1: People walk away from one hundred million.

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Speaker 6: Dollars to go to another seven figure jobs.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter average, it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 6: Making seven it doesn't matter. Answer, it doesn't.

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Speaker 1: Matter, It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 6: It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: It also just sounds so black and white because.

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Speaker 1: The only isp know. The only nuances people feeling like,

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Speaker 4: It's also to Eden's point, if you're providing for people,

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Speaker 1: My statement was somebody allegedly was in a situation where

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Speaker 3: Are you fucking kidding me?

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Speaker 9: Like?

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Speaker 3: Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: Club?

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Speaker 10: And also they made her eat a banana out of

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Speaker 5: So on the way to the box, you can just

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Speaker 1: I don't eat this banana out of this pussy, Like,

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Speaker 1: This is clearly a case of agendas versus agendas. I

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Speaker 3: And agenda lit Lizzo is pushing what's agenda?

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Speaker 1: It is whatever agenda she's pushing whatever you big girls, empowerment, whatever,

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Speaker 5: I just think it's funny she was being considered for

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Speaker 1: I feel like you guys are very offended by that. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: Lizzo should not be considered for the super Bowl.

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Speaker 2: Not I don't think she was considered like as like

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Speaker 2: But but first of all, the way those three.

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Speaker 5: So cold Play, Bruno, Mars Met and then there's Lizzo. Yeah, listen,

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Speaker 9: Name three Lizzo songs.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I mean that's name three reason songs we're not doing.

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Speaker 2: I'm not doing that.

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Speaker 1: That's why.

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Speaker 5: That's why it's not on the super Bowl exactly. That's

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Speaker 5: a TD won't put them there. Everyone knows talking. Just

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Speaker 2: It happened, exactly.

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Speaker 5: Absolutely, people are so lazy.

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Speaker 2: Also, no, I don't think Lizzo's as big as Bruno, Mar's,

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Speaker 1: She's bigger, all right.

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Speaker 2: I mean that was kind of that was coming. Come on,

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Speaker 5: I understand Mall's point. I think people took his point

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Speaker 5: but that's in all jobs. There is pressures to do

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Speaker 10: What was the other choice that you need to has

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Speaker 6: Black and white.

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Speaker 9: You are very black, you're very.

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Speaker 10: Black and white, and life is not black and white.

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Speaker 10: As much as you would like for it to be,

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Speaker 3: Life is what you make it.

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Speaker 9: I'm missed sometimes.

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Speaker 5: I think it's like a box of chocolates.

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Speaker 3: Life is what you make.

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Speaker 5: You never know what you're gonna get, is what I

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Speaker 5: wor gump, listen.

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Speaker 3: Don't come up with that again.

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Speaker 4: You know what when it says it's labeled like back then,

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Speaker 9: They call you think they let him get that offer

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Speaker 9: Yeah, like if it.

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Speaker 4: Like okay, buddy.

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Speaker 5: Not with that attitude like either sold for X or

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Speaker 2: Yeah exactly.

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Speaker 9: That's what resonates.

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Speaker 5: But his cancer dwelling mother said it wasn't really. It

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Speaker 1: His mom got he draked it.

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Speaker 3: His mom got that old. His mom his mom pinned debt.

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Speaker 5: And a box of chocolate. You can really see which

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Speaker 5: one you're gonna get, not every time. That's why she

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Speaker 5: had cancer.

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Speaker 5: That's what we were here to do.

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Speaker 9: That's what we should do for V time.

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Speaker 5: We all we all have to sing it the same

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 5: We could just all want no, but you gotta say

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Speaker 5: If you were working for Lizzo, would you have eaten

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Speaker 1: Vegan? That is vegan, vegan extra eating, no banana, no strippers, pussy.

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Speaker 6: It's actually a sex club, all.

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Speaker 4: Right, But what if she squeezes it out with the

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Speaker 10: Never or when she squeezes it out, her pussy holds

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Speaker 6: Pop sou that's talent.

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Speaker 1: It is talent, but I would never hear I wouldn't

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Speaker 9: It's like trying to try that cherry tie with your tongue.

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Speaker 2: I can do that. I ever tried that.

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Speaker 9: I've done it.

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Speaker 3: Look me in my eyes again, asked me if you

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Speaker 1: Ever tried tongue talk about No, I have never tried

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Speaker 6: That's not impressive to hispanic man ship.

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Speaker 2: Neither, that's not impressive to a girl.

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Speaker 1: You think a girl was impressed if you could do that,

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Speaker 6: Wait, so you did it?

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Speaker 5: Just take it out of your shirley temple and try

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Speaker 4: Yeah, what do you take it out of you some

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Speaker 9: That was hard for you to come out through a cherry.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, bugging ya try before.

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Speaker 3: I never tried.

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Speaker 5: I can assure you.

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Speaker 9: Promise cherry stem in my mouth.

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Speaker 1: I really promise you anything.

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Speaker 5: I promise.

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Speaker 2: I've never tried promise you.

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Speaker 3: I promise you.

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Speaker 1: I've never done that.

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Speaker 1: All right, what the day we're here to?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Because we have a lot of voicemails that we haven't

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Speaker 1: And they're crazy lives and hopefully we have some some

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Speaker 1: hidden gems in here somewhere. Hitting jams, uncut jams, is.

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Speaker 5: That the movie?

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Speaker 2: Is that a thing?

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Speaker 5: Is that in the movie?

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Speaker 3: That's how she was saying it on her press one.

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Speaker 1: Oh cut Jams.

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Speaker 2: Wow, that was jime.

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Speaker 8: She was.

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Speaker 5: She was the craziest catfish of all time.

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Speaker 9: She looks nuts and she went she when she will

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Speaker 3: She looked amazing about nice weight on.

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Speaker 6: Her stop telling her business.

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Speaker 9: She lives nearby see her all the time. She looks rough.

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Speaker 3: But she's obviously going through something.

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Speaker 5: Who she dated Kanye West?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's going through something, all right.

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Speaker 1: First one, what's up y'all?

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Speaker 9: So I got a problem.

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Speaker 11: Uh, I'm extremely scared of spiders, and I live in

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, it's just visually, I'm like, yo, is it

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Speaker 1: And I just say, can I just can I just

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Speaker 1: say what this gentleman? Is?

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Speaker 9: No? No, no, Well it doesn't help. His name is Cosmo.

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Speaker 1: Relax, He's a fairy.

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Speaker 2: He's a fairy. Here.

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Speaker 11: First time I see a spider in the house, my

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Speaker 2: And I was just wondering, she's gonna somebody else, that's

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Speaker 9: I know.

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Speaker 11: If Mall was a roommate of mine, then he would,

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Speaker 11: you know, kill him for me?

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Speaker 1: Paul, would you do that for Cosmo?

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Speaker 3: If I was Cosmo?

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Speaker 1: If we listen to that again, Cosmo, if I was

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Speaker 1: for you, I would kill a spider and kill you.

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Speaker 1: How about that the spider first, not just kill him first?

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Speaker 1: Like what the fuck is why you woke me up?

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Speaker 5: A vision Mall getting woken up by a roommate and

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Speaker 5: then like putting his robe on like Cosmo again, sick again.

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Speaker 1: Like what do you want?

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Speaker 3: It's a spider in the bathroom.

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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, I wonder how his girl?

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Speaker 11: Then I was just wondering. I was just wondering if

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Speaker 11: that's hip hop. I know, if mal was a roommate

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Speaker 8: You know.

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Speaker 11: I don't know if Rory would. I asked the marathon

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Speaker 11: Instagram live. She said she's not scared of spiders. Julian

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Speaker 11: definitely would not kill the spider for me.

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Speaker 2: Probably.

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Speaker 1: Why do you see that's so definitively.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he probably.

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Speaker 9: Would you kill this, Julie, I don't have a ractophobia.

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Speaker 1: I'll kill a spider.

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Speaker 3: No, he wouldn't kill a spider.

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Speaker 9: I just said I would you do it?

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Speaker 1: Julian would put it in a cup and then free

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Speaker 5: Again, he would take it to a local decapitated a

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Speaker 5: pigeon and our what you put He.

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Speaker 6: Killed the fucking little lizard we had.

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Speaker 5: That is true. You did kill Ico.

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Speaker 9: Geico killed the insurance company.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you did.

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Speaker 5: What do we name him again?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Larry Larry.

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Speaker 5: He was dead when he got here, though, you named

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Speaker 5: it carcass Larry the Geico?

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Speaker 9: All right, well, I tried.

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Speaker 10: Well, I don't have a wreckmophobia, so personally, I'm not

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Speaker 10: going to kill the spider for you. I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 2: But I don't think you do all that.

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Speaker 5: This is why men have an anger.

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Speaker 4: I don't think guy, Yeah, I don't wait, let's finish

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Speaker 4: this and then you can do that.

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Speaker 9: Wait there's more Yeah.

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Speaker 11: And uh you know ed and might just make it dance.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, just you know.

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Speaker 5: You're a good DJ.

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Speaker 11: So scared the spiders that your girlfriend needs to kill him?

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Speaker 1: Uh, Cosmo noe. It is definitely not hip hop to

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Speaker 1: be that scared of a spider. To have to wake

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Speaker 2: Well, if it's a.

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Speaker 6: Huge spider somebody else, you can't be man.

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Speaker 5: We all have phobias. But he also has to be

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Speaker 5: cool with During an argument she may watch, she may

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Speaker 5: say to him, at least my bitch asses are scared

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Speaker 5: of spider.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta get that off.

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Speaker 5: That's gonna that's gonna hurt you in an argument one day.

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Speaker 3: She's definitely gonna weaponize that against you.

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Speaker 2: Also, that's so exaggerated, but like they're they're not even

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Speaker 9: There's a co there's six common house spiders in the

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Speaker 2: He lives like like fucking Australia or some ship.

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Speaker 5: I'm not then at that point I'm with him everything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, like what kind of spider is it?

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Speaker 5: The spider that the candles, little house spiders.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because they got the jumping spider around.

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Speaker 1: They got the spiders that you try to kill it,

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Speaker 1: and then all the babies on his back and the

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Speaker 1: babes run off his back. It's crazy. Yeah, that's what

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Speaker 1: you got to get the blow torch for that.

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Speaker 2: For sure.

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Speaker 5: You have to murder a village.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you have to get the blow You got

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Speaker 2: to burn the whole.

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Speaker 9: I want to make fun of him, but like a rack,

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Speaker 9: the phobia is real.

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Speaker 4: If you have a phobia, that's something that has a

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Speaker 9: It's not per se like yes, it's.

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Speaker 5: There's nothing wrong with that. He just needs to be

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Speaker 2: Not sure, But don't you grow out of your phobias?

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Speaker 1: No, you can.

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Speaker 4: You can, you can on them, but you can't like

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Speaker 4: it's still it's in you.

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Speaker 1: It's a part. I grew out of the phobia I had.

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Speaker 1: I was homophobia. I was claus phobia.

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Speaker 5: Phobia.

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Speaker 1: That hasn't keep putting that.

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Speaker 3: You know, it's disrespectful to like my gay friends that hear.

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Speaker 2: This, but they know they're not homophobic.

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Speaker 1: I know, but just you know the people that don't

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Speaker 1: know me, They might be like, really, he's homophobius.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, they definitely don't think that.

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Speaker 5: Where WOULDY get that that idea?

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Speaker 1: From?

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Speaker 5: Hell?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Real bad?

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Speaker 5: When I was a kid, Well, where did it manifest itself?

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Speaker 2: The covators?

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Speaker 3: Elevators?

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Speaker 1: I used to get really scared, like once the train

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Speaker 2: Really, yeah, that's bad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's when it we used to get. But now

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 6: I feel like in New York that's something you got

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Speaker 6: to grow out of quick, for sure for survival.

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Speaker 1: Well, no, I had to go out of that quick

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Speaker 1: because I used to stay at my cousin's house every

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Speaker 1: I was so scared of elevators. I would walk up

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Speaker 1: twenty three flights just wow as a kid.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, something happened though, like in a closet.

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Speaker 3: Like no, I got stuck in the elevator once and I.

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Speaker 1: Just was okay, God, how long like not maybe six man, but.

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Speaker 6: I mean as a kid, that's a long time.

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Speaker 10: And then well they say that the care for phobia's

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Speaker 10: is like you have to be you have to be

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm saying, like, you grow out of it.

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Speaker 10: I'm afraid of snakes. I'm never signing up to be

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Speaker 10: I don't really, I don't give a fuck. I do

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Speaker 10: not keep it a garden any type.

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Speaker 1: It's so weird for people to be scared of things

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Speaker 1: like that because you don't see those.

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Speaker 2: Unless she's from Syracuse.

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Speaker 9: Jake phobia is a o feed do o phobia.

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Speaker 5: It's a weird word, a videophobia everything snakes on a plane.

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Speaker 1: No, it's a great baby.

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Speaker 6: I could watch fear. Fear Factor used to be one

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Speaker 10: I used to love when they used to eat, make

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Speaker 10: them eat, like the balls of like the bulls and

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Speaker 10: shit like that. But they start bullying offins with snakes

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Speaker 10: and I stopped watching.

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Speaker 5: And then he became a podcaster.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, congratulations, What about all that?

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Speaker 5: You actually something?

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Speaker 9: What about flying and you guys ever scared of flying

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Speaker 9: at one point in your life?

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Speaker 2: No, I'm not.

457
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Speaker 9: I've heard people say, don't worry.

458
00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:23,320
Speaker 4: I've heard people say once they have kids and they

459
00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:26,399
Speaker 4: have a family, then that fear gets triggered because you

460
00:17:26,440 --> 00:17:31,359
Speaker 4: start thinking of circumstances not about you, but if you

461
00:17:31,359 --> 00:17:33,160
Speaker 4: were to go down, you start thinking about your family

462
00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:35,520
Speaker 4: and your kids and ship is that No, don't care.

463
00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:38,439
Speaker 5: I mean that has crossed my mind. But I was

464
00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:39,440
Speaker 5: still gonna get on a plane.

465
00:17:39,720 --> 00:17:42,239
Speaker 6: Yeah, like praying the flight goes down.

466
00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:43,840
Speaker 1: Like I used to be scared of heights, I'm not

467
00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:46,639
Speaker 1: scared of heights anymore. Like a lot of things that

468
00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:48,040
Speaker 1: I used to be as a child used to be

469
00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:50,520
Speaker 1: like scared, I'm just not as as an adult. I'm

470
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Speaker 1: just like it was so stupid that I was even

471
00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:53,400
Speaker 1: scared at one point.

472
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Speaker 2: You guys ever go skydiving?

473
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Speaker 1: Yeah?

474
00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:56,680
Speaker 5: I tried, but it was too windy.

475
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Speaker 2: No, that sucks.

476
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Speaker 1: I definitely scott diving.

477
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Speaker 3: I don't know if I might go Scott.

478
00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:04,520
Speaker 6: Like with like to survive it, like for fun?

479
00:18:05,119 --> 00:18:08,320
Speaker 2: For fun? Do you Scott dive for like for real?

480
00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:10,399
Speaker 2: Like depressed jump out of.

481
00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:11,560
Speaker 3: A plane in a real situation?

482
00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:16,120
Speaker 1: What else? What else do you do that? Like it

483
00:18:16,119 --> 00:18:17,359
Speaker 1: has to be for fun, Like.

484
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Speaker 5: I told the story on this pod when I went

485
00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:23,639
Speaker 5: to go skydiving and it was too windy, and I

486
00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:25,240
Speaker 5: told my dad about it and he was like, you're

487
00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:28,520
Speaker 5: really gonna have another man attached to your back? That's

488
00:18:28,720 --> 00:18:30,879
Speaker 5: dad ship to say, Like out of all of that,

489
00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:34,480
Speaker 5: anything about jumping out of a plane. Cool, fine, that's rational,

490
00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:36,280
Speaker 5: but like why man strapped?

491
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Speaker 1: Like that's such a dad answer, Julian, do you have

492
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Speaker 1: any phobias?

493
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Speaker 5: We should go skydiving for content?

494
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Speaker 9: I don't think so you should.

495
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Speaker 2: I feel like that.

496
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Speaker 1: I would love to, let's do it.

497
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Speaker 9: I'm more than down, but I'm also.

498
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Speaker 4: I want to do it somewhere except like no offense.

499
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Speaker 4: I don't want to skydive over in New Jersey.

500
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Speaker 6: I'm with you.

501
00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:57,959
Speaker 1: Because we went got out of over the French Alps.

502
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Speaker 9: Yeah, that'd being dope Swiss.

503
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Speaker 5: Rich and we tried in Long Island and I I

504
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Speaker 5: was kind of like, I should do this somewhere else

505
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Speaker 5: when I want.

506
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Speaker 1: I'm glad.

507
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Speaker 9: I really wanted to, but no one wanted to go.

508
00:19:08,560 --> 00:19:09,520
Speaker 9: And I was gonna do Loan.

509
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Speaker 3: The Hudson, the Nole River.

510
00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:15,439
Speaker 1: That'd be sick. In Egypt.

511
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Speaker 2: Yeah, that would be kind of sick.

512
00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:16,959
Speaker 1: I would do that.

513
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Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I should do it on tour if

514
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Speaker 9: we're in somewhere five.

515
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Speaker 2: Why would you do it? I'm curious, why wouldn't you

516
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Speaker 2: do it?

517
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Speaker 1: I'm just not into sky six anyone is well, there's fine,

518
00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:31,080
Speaker 1: there's some people want to do it. I just never

519
00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:32,679
Speaker 1: had no I never thought about doing that.

520
00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:34,359
Speaker 9: Bungee jumping I would never do.

521
00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:35,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm good on that.

522
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Speaker 6: I feel like there's so many.

523
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Speaker 9: Ways that go wrong. I'm not putting my life in

524
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Speaker 9: like the uh, in the hands of an elastic band.

525
00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:44,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you're putting your hand.

526
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Speaker 1: There's elastic bands on the para, So jumping out of

527
00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:47,960
Speaker 1: a plane, to me, it wakes way more.

528
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Speaker 9: So at least there's a there's a trainer on you.

529
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Speaker 4: There's like there's a professional like there, there's a backup shoots,

530
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Speaker 4: there's like other things. You're it's just your dolo and

531
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Speaker 4: there's a rope and you're going over a bridge.

532
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Speaker 6: That Yeah, I don't like how the rope.

533
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Speaker 10: I'm afraid the rope's gonna swing and I'm just gonna

534
00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:02,919
Speaker 10: fall knock into a tree.

535
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Speaker 6: I know that's a rational but like I'm just.

536
00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:07,760
Speaker 5: But also like when we're on tour, we get into

537
00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:10,120
Speaker 5: an aluminum tube that goes five hundred miles per hour.

538
00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:12,160
Speaker 2: That happens.

539
00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:13,440
Speaker 9: That happens all the time.

540
00:20:13,520 --> 00:20:16,400
Speaker 5: So bungee jumping happens every day too, not.

541
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Speaker 1: As many flights.

542
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Speaker 2: I don't know, all.

543
00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:22,520
Speaker 5: Right, Google that there's just amount of people.

544
00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:25,440
Speaker 1: Take off and land every day.

545
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Speaker 5: You don't how many vacation spots around the world that

546
00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:30,000
Speaker 5: there's bungee jumping Monday through Sunday.

547
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Speaker 1: That's it.

548
00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:32,680
Speaker 5: And the ship is full every day.

549
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Speaker 2: Sick.

550
00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:35,800
Speaker 5: A plane's full every day.

551
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Speaker 6: Yeah, but on a plane, like.

552
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Speaker 1: At least if I how many people bungee jump a day,

553
00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:44,760
Speaker 1: it's called bungee jump mondays.

554
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Speaker 9: Try to brand that for sure.

555
00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:50,280
Speaker 2: It's just still like it's I don't know, it's weird.

556
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Speaker 2: I would be afraid of hitting the ground easily if

557
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Speaker 2: I was budget jumping.

558
00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:55,800
Speaker 6: They appear she was that can hold you and then

559
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Speaker 6: you shouldn't Like it's.

560
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Speaker 1: Actually what are you trying to say about it?

561
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Speaker 2: Are you chunk me big?

562
00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:00,879
Speaker 6: No?

563
00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:05,479
Speaker 1: No, But I thought they have how crazy that is?

564
00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:13,520
Speaker 1: They got parashestick a hold? Yeah, they got they got

565
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Speaker 1: three exp.

566
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Speaker 5: I was just asking like, why were you afraid over

567
00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:22,240
Speaker 5: five million people globally do bunge jumping.

568
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Speaker 9: Not a day a year? What is it in what

569
00:21:25,640 --> 00:21:26,160
Speaker 9: time frame?

570
00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:26,840
Speaker 2: Not planes?

571
00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:30,280
Speaker 5: Whoever got has these stats is the weirdest. Yeah, who's

572
00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:31,480
Speaker 5: pulling for bungee jumping?

573
00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:32,840
Speaker 9: I guess you just.

574
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Speaker 1: Call every bungee jump fucking company in just like, how

575
00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:37,800
Speaker 1: many jumpers did you have today? Fights?

576
00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:40,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, but people flying day is a little approximately one

577
00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:42,600
Speaker 4: hundred thousand flights a day. Yeah, I'm gonna go with

578
00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:44,520
Speaker 4: that over a fucking bungee jumping idiot.

579
00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:49,720
Speaker 5: Five millions damn idiots in a year. Jesus No, but

580
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:51,720
Speaker 5: that's count like little fucking cessnas and ship.

581
00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:54,880
Speaker 9: There's only one person that jumps per bungee jump.

582
00:21:57,040 --> 00:22:00,080
Speaker 5: That's counting, Like drones, that's counting on.

583
00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 9: Do you guys ever have a when you were younger

584
00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:03,760
Speaker 9: or even now?

585
00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,640
Speaker 4: Like they say, the second most common fear to death

586
00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:08,639
Speaker 4: is public speaking. Were you guys ever afraid to make

587
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:10,399
Speaker 4: a speech or anything like that?

588
00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:12,399
Speaker 3: That's something I was never scared to do.

589
00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:13,760
Speaker 6: I was even really good at that.

590
00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 5: I didn't like it, but I didn't fear it.

591
00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:19,439
Speaker 2: I was always such a fucking.

592
00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:22,640
Speaker 9: This doesn't count though, Funny, what do you mean? It's

593
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:26,120
Speaker 9: a private like I'm saying, like the scene, like we're

594
00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:28,080
Speaker 9: amongst each other, we're all comfortable with each other. Yes,

595
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:29,439
Speaker 9: this goes out to a bunch of people, but like

596
00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:31,639
Speaker 9: we're in a very space.

597
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:33,560
Speaker 5: I always my only fear when we had to do

598
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,080
Speaker 5: like the public speaking ship in school. Was my friends

599
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:37,600
Speaker 5: fucking with me when it was my turn.

600
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:39,119
Speaker 1: I was my favorite.

601
00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:42,040
Speaker 5: Oh of course all did it. But that was my fear,

602
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,440
Speaker 5: like I'm not I'm gonna fail this because my friends

603
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:45,239
Speaker 5: are going to be in the back rod.

604
00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:47,879
Speaker 1: Somebody's gonna do something stupid make me laugh like I

605
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:49,040
Speaker 1: was one of them teachers, pet people.

606
00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:51,399
Speaker 6: I was always really good at speaking, like I put on.

607
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:51,840
Speaker 2: A whole show.

608
00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:53,680
Speaker 5: Oh you definitely look like you said, Oh you forgot

609
00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:54,840
Speaker 5: to check the homework.

610
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:58,000
Speaker 6: If I did it. If I did it, for sure,

611
00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:01,639
Speaker 6: for sure, and then we get pissed when somebody did

612
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:02,639
Speaker 6: it and I didn't do homework.

613
00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:04,200
Speaker 1: Were you guys ever afraid of the dark?

614
00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 9: Yes?

615
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:05,680
Speaker 7: I was.

616
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:07,880
Speaker 6: Yeah, I just stopped being afraid of the dark maybe

617
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:08,480
Speaker 6: two years ago.

618
00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 1: No, you think darkness is.

619
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 2: Your I would never.

620
00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:15,800
Speaker 6: I was terrified. I wouldn't sleep alone either.

621
00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:19,760
Speaker 10: I stopped being afraid to sleep alone at like twenty four.

622
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:22,920
Speaker 5: White, you still have the thing with the X because

623
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:24,959
Speaker 5: you just won't sleep alone alone.

624
00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:28,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why you mainly adopted the darkness.

625
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 1: I was born in it molded.

626
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 5: But why did you sound like MLK there?

627
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:42,000
Speaker 1: Okay, you didn't know that that is like Okay, they

628
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 1: assassinated him. He didn't do that math.

629
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Speaker 10: So for audio listeners, right now we're looking at a

630
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Speaker 10: chart full of the most popular phobias that people have.

631
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Speaker 9: And what about needles?

632
00:23:57,240 --> 00:23:57,640
Speaker 5: Zombies?

633
00:23:59,560 --> 00:23:59,879
Speaker 6: Needles?

634
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 2: Still, do you guys get a frame when you guys

635
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:02,680
Speaker 2: got any shot done?

636
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:05,200
Speaker 9: I don't minded only covid M.

637
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:08,080
Speaker 5: I'll be honest. I really did like the O G

638
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:11,119
Speaker 5: COVID tests. I had a phobia. I hated oh the

639
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:13,359
Speaker 5: long Yeah, the new the new ones was cool, but

640
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:15,200
Speaker 5: the ones when they like scraped your thoughts.

641
00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 4: When I was a kid, I didn't lose many of

642
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 4: my teeth naturally, so I since a young age. They

643
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:24,400
Speaker 4: would go in and do that when they numb your mouth,

644
00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:27,119
Speaker 4: when I've gotten so many teeth pulled out, I was

645
00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:29,120
Speaker 4: just never afraid because even that needle was like that.

646
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 4: I was like a ten year old, was like this

647
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:32,639
Speaker 4: is this is normal?

648
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:37,040
Speaker 5: Yeah. My mom swore I had diabetes at every moment

649
00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 5: of my childhood, Like anytime I was thirsty, She's like,

650
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:41,880
Speaker 5: that's a symptom. And I would always have to get

651
00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:44,320
Speaker 5: my finger pricked and put the blood in her little machine.

652
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:47,480
Speaker 5: Things like needles were never tattoos.

653
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:50,800
Speaker 1: I just don't understand how you're scared of needles.

654
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:52,919
Speaker 2: It's just because they hurt the object.

655
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 5: I could see it.

656
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:56,880
Speaker 6: Yeah, shirts, well mine came from I have a fear

657
00:24:56,880 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 6: of pain, and with needles comes pain. So it was connect.

658
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 1: But it's not even really pain with a needle though,

659
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:05,879
Speaker 1: that's that's just a preak. It's a quick pinch.

660
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:08,800
Speaker 5: Like who you ever got a tennis shot in your ass?

661
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:12,120
Speaker 6: Why is your technis going to your ass?

662
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:13,680
Speaker 3: Not in my ass and my shoulder.

663
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:15,439
Speaker 6: And tennis shot goes in my shoulder?

664
00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 5: Not what's what when you cut yourself on rusty ship?

665
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:18,760
Speaker 2: The shot your ass?

666
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 5: Chlamydia ahead that they used to do that, that's not

667
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 5: what happened. They gave me the pills they used to do.

668
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:26,680
Speaker 9: They used to do a shot in the ass for

669
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 9: either Connery or chlamydia.

670
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 5: And well they just gave me pillsrysphilis.

671
00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 9: I think it goes in your ass, that's I.

672
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:35,119
Speaker 5: Think that might so maybe it was when my syphilis

673
00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:35,480
Speaker 5: was acting.

674
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:38,640
Speaker 6: That just goes in your shoulders.

675
00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:41,680
Speaker 5: No, I got it in my like it was more

676
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:44,680
Speaker 5: like my It was like my ass leg and thigh.

677
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 2: It was your thigh.

678
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:46,880
Speaker 5: It was like over there.

679
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:52,360
Speaker 1: Again. He found a new reason for you to pull

680
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:55,480
Speaker 1: the body of Christ pulled out your trousers and let

681
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Speaker 1: me give you this shot.

682
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Speaker 2: The whole.

683
00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 5: Priest give you a technic shot is fucking crazy. How

684
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 5: did that prees get a needle?

685
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 3: Oh man, that's.

686
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:11,680
Speaker 5: Because it numbs your whole fucking leg and you can

687
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 5: barely walk.

688
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 1: But being scared of needles is just I think that's

689
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:17,199
Speaker 1: some ship you just as a kid pick up and

690
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 1: as an adult you just keep with you. Like, but

691
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:20,679
Speaker 1: that's the stupid to be scared of a needle, Like

692
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:23,920
Speaker 1: it's a pinch for like two seconds.

693
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 10: People, and you are afraid of a fucking elevator, but

694
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 10: everybody else is thinking a pinch.

695
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 3: Being afraid of a pinch is crazy.

696
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 6: Being afraid of an elevator is crazy.

697
00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:34,720
Speaker 1: No, it's not you in a fucking metal can, in

698
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 1: a in a fucking shaft.

699
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,200
Speaker 6: And there's plenty of dirty needles out here in.

700
00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:40,719
Speaker 1: The world from a doctor. Didn't come across dirty at

701
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:43,640
Speaker 1: the doctor's office, Like what they just took it off

702
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,600
Speaker 1: the back, Like the fuck? No blood?

703
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 2: What about blood that you guys other people's blood in

704
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 2: my mom?

705
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:53,959
Speaker 1: Not really, you're scared of no blood cuz I'm just crips,

706
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,320
Speaker 1: not scared of no crips cause not being scared of blood.

707
00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 3: I just think that's stuff that again.

708
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:02,400
Speaker 2: I really can't look at blood and like they'll freak

709
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 2: out again.

710
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:04,920
Speaker 1: That's weird, you get nauseous. Yeah, it's weird.

711
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 5: I don't really think I have very many phobias at

712
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 5: all now that we're running through all strangers zombie strangers

713
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:10,920
Speaker 5: for sure, and people I.

714
00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 2: Know people Rory's phobias, people social interactions.

715
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 5: It's sing along in nine thirty on Fridays.

716
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 2: Oh you really, you're not excited for this thermal?

717
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 5: It's the one day we don't come in here and

718
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:23,480
Speaker 5: I could like maybe sleeping.

719
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:24,480
Speaker 2: Yikes.

720
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:27,920
Speaker 6: The fact that of this chart, public speaking is the.

721
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 9: Most popular, I get it always so well.

722
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 1: Because people are, you know, insecure, and people are not confident.

723
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:36,679
Speaker 9: Right of other people thinking of I mean, were reading ads.

724
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 5: That's true. Yeah, scary. I get my heart starts pounding

725
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:42,359
Speaker 5: anytime I see better help. It just goes crazy.

726
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:44,240
Speaker 10: Was that your fear of public speaking when you didn't

727
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 10: want to talk at your album release, your single.

728
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 9: No, he seems fine, didn't want to talk?

729
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 6: That was his public speaking?

730
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:52,240
Speaker 5: All right, guys, I know they didn't want to speak

731
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:56,400
Speaker 5: forty five minutes. How many more times we just No,

732
00:27:56,520 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 5: it's not a fear. We perform like we performed for

733
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 5: like three thousand people. I didn't. Yeah, say, talking to

734
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 5: ten people that I know was not a big deal.

735
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 11: Yeah.

736
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:09,720
Speaker 1: Now I understand drowning, But is it should to be

737
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 1: drowning or just water?

738
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 2: Like it's the fear of the fear of drowned water

739
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:14,880
Speaker 2: because you have a couple.

740
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:18,160
Speaker 1: I think everybody's scared of drowning. Yeah, I'm scared of No.

741
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 10: But you can have a you can be afraid of

742
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 10: something and you can have a phobia of something that's

743
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:23,479
Speaker 10: a little different.

744
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:25,320
Speaker 3: Drowning is a phobia.

745
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,160
Speaker 10: No, What I'm saying is some people can have a fear.

746
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 10: We all have a fear of drowning, right, nobody wants

747
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 10: to drown Some people can't be around water because they're

748
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,359
Speaker 10: so terrified, Like they're afraid that if they go anywhere

749
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 10: near water, they're gonna drowne.

750
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 5: That's why they smell where they sit down, smell shower.

751
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 6: That makes sense.

752
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 5: I kind of have a fear of the ocean to

753
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:47,479
Speaker 5: some degree. I do, like I'll go snorkeling, but like,

754
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 5: I'm not going like deep sea snorkeling, Like take me

755
00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 5: to the the reef where you take the children, Like,

756
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 5: I'll go look at Dory in them. I'm not going

757
00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 5: out to hang out with the orcapod the sharks.

758
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 6: Yeah. No, I don't think people should play with the

759
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 6: ocean at all, clowns.

760
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 1: I understand people being scared of ocean though that I'm.

761
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:06,480
Speaker 6: Terrified at ocean. Yeah, I'm not playing.

762
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 9: What about clowns that I can't understand?

763
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 5: Would I be weird on this vacation to go snorkeling

764
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 5: by myself?

765
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:14,360
Speaker 2: No, don't let lie.

766
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 5: Is that weird?

767
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 6: I think that'd be very peaceful for you.

768
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 2: Weird cloth.

769
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 5: He is not going to want to do that.

770
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 3: Weird bro.

771
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 5: She's scared of the answer.

772
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 3: She was weird.

773
00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 1: It's not weird, it's not it's weird to go snorkeling

774
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:29,160
Speaker 1: by yourself on vacation. You can do.

775
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 5: It's the Bahamas, like I would love to.

776
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 3: First of all, it's weird to go on vacation by yourself.

777
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 6: He's not.

778
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 2: I'm not going he's not.

779
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 1: But that's why, that's why going snorkeling by yourself will

780
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 1: be weird because usually people are together when they go snorking.

781
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 2: Doing a vacation by yourself is weird?

782
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 3: Yes, not.

783
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 1: Vacation.

784
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 9: You wouldn't do me. I've been dying to go on

785
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 9: solo stations like bro, just staycation now saying that.

786
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 5: I've been looking up nannies. I might disappear, Bahamas might

787
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 5: be a solo one for me, skip over another island.

788
00:29:56,600 --> 00:30:00,080
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, good luck with that.

789
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:00,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, good luck with that.

790
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 3: You know how that.

791
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 5: Works, just talking ship.

792
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 1: My phobia is what would happen exactly exactly.

793
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 9: Fear of ass whooping, Yes, clowns is crazy.

794
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 2: Zombies like you guys really ever believe.

795
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 5: That's know, that's weird because they're not real.

796
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:16,240
Speaker 3: But zombies. Who's scared of a fucking zombie?

797
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 2: What about ghosts?

798
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 6: We're not all from Harlem.

799
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 1: We don't care where you're from.

800
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:22,960
Speaker 2: Zombies and zombies, That's what I'm saying.

801
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 6: We're not all from Harlem. When you're so.

802
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:26,920
Speaker 1: Scared of they're not doing nothing.

803
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 5: They don't even brainzy Like, let's let's get to our

804
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 5: next voicemail.

805
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:35,959
Speaker 9: This is tragging, all right? Uh, there you go.

806
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 6: This is Taylor from Jersey.

807
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 5: Hey Taylor, the fantas stop came to the show. Is

808
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 5: this the girl that tried to fuck the marass on stage?

809
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:48,720
Speaker 5: Holy sh it, sounds like it sounds like her name

810
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 5: was Taylor.

811
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 4: This Mike, she said, she came to this this is

812
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 4: the real tea time she was she was with the ships.

813
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 9: Ye, she was trying to give it up that she

814
00:30:58,080 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 9: was the Mason to take her to Cabo did.

815
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 6: Just that, shittory. I promise you.

816
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:04,959
Speaker 5: That girl will blow your back up. Taylor was crazy.

817
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 6: Well, I mean, her dick won't go soft, so I

818
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 6: would assume.

819
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:11,360
Speaker 5: So didn't she tell you that on stage?

820
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:14,600
Speaker 6: All right, Taylor, that's why you need to come to

821
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 6: our live shows. Guys.

822
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 12: I love you guys. Keep doing what you're doing. But anyway,

823
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 12: I'm just looking for some advice now. I've been having

824
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 12: some issues maintaining like long term friendships for some time.

825
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 1: And I know, I know you.

826
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 6: Guys talk about this all the time.

827
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 12: I was a red flag if you can't keep friends.

828
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 6: Fuck y'all.

829
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:35,480
Speaker 12: But whatever, I figured I would call so I can

830
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 12: get some advice to y'all know it all how to

831
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 12: fix this. But I've noticed that for a long time.

832
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:45,920
Speaker 12: I'm just really much I'm very much to a giver right.

833
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 5: Definitely the tailor.

834
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 12: I wasn't really paying attention to reciprocity for a while.

835
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 12: You know, wherever you guys want to go, I'll go whatever.

836
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 12: I'm just for it when i'm fuck with you, with

837
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 12: you heavy, so I'm not paying attention to what you're

838
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 12: doing for me because I just I'm like, I fuck

839
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 12: with you, I give whatever. So I've noticed that when

840
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 12: the fallouts come, they're usually around when people it's time

841
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 12: for people to show up for me, and like I'm

842
00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 12: livid and like they don't even really give a shit

843
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:19,720
Speaker 12: that they didn't show up for me, and it becomes

844
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 12: just a big thing. So basically it's like some last

845
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 12: minute shit, Like damn, I realize now that they weren't

846
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 12: really my friend as much as always theirs, you know,

847
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:33,560
Speaker 12: So how do I kind of navigate between still being

848
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:36,479
Speaker 12: myself but then also making sure somebody takes care of

849
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 12: me at the same time in that way?

850
00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 5: Well, Taylor, if this is the same tailor, I think

851
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 5: probably the big red flag is she probably tries to

852
00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:47,240
Speaker 5: fuck all her friends and that's why they don't. They're

853
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 5: not just friends. I know a sniper when I see one,

854
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 5: and Taylor was a fucking sniper. She's American sniper. Was

855
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 5: that guy's name again?

856
00:32:56,360 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 2: America Summer, Bradley Coopmark Wahlberg, neither, everybody, Just shut the

857
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 2: fuck up, right.

858
00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 5: She was Bobly's swagger with it. But really I don't

859
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 5: know what to tell Taylor because I feel like she's

860
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 5: maybe not looking at the common denominator here, which would

861
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 5: be her. So you should start with why do I

862
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 5: keep losing friends? Number one?

863
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,480
Speaker 6: Which means that you might be picking the wrong friends

864
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:19,960
Speaker 6: as well.

865
00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 5: And number two. You have to draw that boundary immediately,

866
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 5: like I'm not always just going to show up for you.

867
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 5: You don't ever show up for me. I'm not saying

868
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 5: we should go favor for a favor, but if I

869
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 5: need you, it'd be nice to know that you were there,

870
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 5: because I prove that I have before. And if you're not,

871
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 5: then that's not your friend, Taylor. Well, it sound simpler

872
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 5: than it is.

873
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 1: It's not your friend because they don't show up for you,

874
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 1: or because sometimes people were like, what's showing up for you?

875
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 3: Well, that varies for but that's what I'm saying.

876
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 1: So if my friend is like in a jam and

877
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 1: needs money or something, and I'm just not in a

878
00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:55,400
Speaker 1: position to do it at that moment.

879
00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 3: Does that mean I didn't show up for him?

880
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 2: No?

881
00:33:57,680 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 1: No, you do.

882
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 4: You have relationships to them all to feel like kind

883
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 4: of like a one way street. Like it's in the

884
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 4: sense that no matter how big or small, the favor

885
00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 4: is like you're always the one answering their cause and

886
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:10,280
Speaker 4: doing something on their behalf rather than the other way around,

887
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 4: even if it's something like mine or nothing.

888
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:13,560
Speaker 9: Like I've had.

889
00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 1: I have a few relationships where it could feel like that,

890
00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:22,879
Speaker 1: but we always have like a conversation to where we

891
00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 1: clear that up and it's it always is like, yo,

892
00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:28,799
Speaker 1: one of my boys might just have like you know,

893
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:31,279
Speaker 1: he has kids, so it's like he's like you don't

894
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 1: really have time to really just you know, kick it,

895
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 1: or if text and you don't respond or call, you

896
00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 1: don't call back, like, but we always have that conversation

897
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:41,759
Speaker 1: where we catch up and get everything out on the table, like, Yo,

898
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:43,440
Speaker 1: this is what I've been dealing with, d D D DA,

899
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:46,319
Speaker 1: So it doesn't it doesn't linger for too long to

900
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,960
Speaker 1: wait it could turn into something like well, I would

901
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 1: be questioning our friendship. But it's kind of like like damn,

902
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:54,359
Speaker 1: Like I hit you and you ain't hit me back.

903
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 1: It's like two weeks I called you, you ain't called me back.

904
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:59,479
Speaker 1: Like it's like okay, But then when you do speak,

905
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 1: it's like, Yo, dis being happening. This been with the kids?

906
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 1: Oh girlfriend, it's like say no more. You get to

907
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 1: a point where you just understand where adults like, we're

908
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:11,240
Speaker 1: adults and things happen. We all have our own lives,

909
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:13,759
Speaker 1: we all have our own problems, and everybody's just trying

910
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 1: to navigate. I think it's important as friends to also

911
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:20,439
Speaker 1: give grace to each other and understand that even if

912
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,400
Speaker 1: it's your friend and it's somebody that you love and

913
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 1: care about, your friends don't always open up to you

914
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:27,719
Speaker 1: and tell you what's going on and what they're dealing with.

915
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: Sure you know what I'm saying. So you might be like, oh,

916
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:34,160
Speaker 1: this person's not being a good friend. That person's entire

917
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 1: life may be going up in smoke right now, and

918
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 1: they just like I know everybody because I do that

919
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 1: sometimes I'm like, everybody has issues. I always think about that.

920
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:45,760
Speaker 1: I always think about everybody's in their own lives before

921
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 1: I come to them with anything that I may be

922
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:52,320
Speaker 1: dealing with, Like everybody has something, whether it's major or small.

923
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 1: Everybody's dealing with something, So you have to go into

924
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:58,759
Speaker 1: your friendships knowing that and then also understand that a

925
00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:01,319
Speaker 1: lot of people don't just want to talk to their

926
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:02,960
Speaker 1: friends about what's going on. They want to try to

927
00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:06,799
Speaker 1: handle it themselves. I don't think that's necessarily healthy all

928
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 1: the time, but you know, you can understand why people

929
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 1: are like, yo, I want to let me I'm an adult,

930
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:11,959
Speaker 1: I'm grown.

931
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 3: Let me handle my business.

932
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 1: Let me just take time to get my shit together

933
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 1: without you know, having to reach out and ask friends

934
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:19,480
Speaker 1: for help.

935
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:20,359
Speaker 3: Or you know, things like that.

936
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:22,759
Speaker 1: But you know, just give give your friends grace, man,

937
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 1: because they just everybody's dealing with this shit. So I'm

938
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:28,959
Speaker 1: not you know, maybe they're not being a good friend,

939
00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:32,880
Speaker 1: but maybe quite possibly they are just they they're just

940
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 1: dealing with a lot of shit too.

941
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:38,880
Speaker 5: Most of those one side of relationships usually come from

942
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 5: time being the only obligation you really have to them,

943
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:45,799
Speaker 5: Like I have that with family members and friends that

944
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 5: I've had since first grade type shit. Yeah, and I

945
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:52,840
Speaker 5: feel it is a one way street. This wouldn't happen

946
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 5: if we didn't have twenty years with each other and

947
00:36:57,680 --> 00:37:01,280
Speaker 5: that's where the obligation comes, which is shitty and probably

948
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 5: not correct, but that time obligation makes you live with

949
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 5: those one side of relationships because you feel like you

950
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 5: you know on this person ever, so you're going to

951
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 5: show up for them at any time. But that shit

952
00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:14,720
Speaker 5: is super unhealthy. Yeah, that rarely happens with newer friends

953
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:16,880
Speaker 5: in your life because you know you're older and mature

954
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 5: and like, you know, maybe don't owe someone a one

955
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 5: side of relationship or feel like you or guilt trip

956
00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 5: you into that type of shit. So it sounds like

957
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:28,359
Speaker 5: that one sided shit, I'm sure it's only with long

958
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 5: term friendships.

959
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 10: Also, make make sure that like everybody has different love

960
00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 10: languages and people forget that that applies to friendships too,

961
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:39,359
Speaker 10: which you might not feel like is your friends showing

962
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:42,360
Speaker 10: up for you because you might need physical affection, or

963
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 10: you might be there, need them to be there in person,

964
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:47,239
Speaker 10: or like whatever you need. They might be feeling like

965
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 10: they're giving to you, but not in that way. I

966
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 10: have a homegirl that got really upset with me because

967
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:53,440
Speaker 10: you know, I couldn't make it to one of her

968
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:55,640
Speaker 10: baby showers, but I sent money and she was like,

969
00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:57,440
Speaker 10: well the money means nothing to me, I'd rather you

970
00:37:57,480 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 10: be here than the money. With me personally, I'm like, well,

971
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:01,759
Speaker 10: I feel like the money means something. I feel like

972
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 10: that's more important than me being there. So different people

973
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 10: put different value on different things. So this is why

974
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 10: you have to really know your friends and know what

975
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 10: they're looking for.

976
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:10,800
Speaker 6: In a friendship.

977
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 10: There needs to be a lot of communication. The same

978
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:15,680
Speaker 10: way we will sit there and communicate and send long

979
00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 10: text messages and have long phone calls with our significant

980
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 10: others or people we want to be our significant others,

981
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:23,360
Speaker 10: we need to put that same amount of effort into friendships.

982
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:25,279
Speaker 10: And also you saying that you're a giver. If you're

983
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:27,879
Speaker 10: a giver, givers tend to attract takers, and until you

984
00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 10: heal yourself and become very self aware and realize why

985
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:33,240
Speaker 10: and realize why you're giving, because a lot of times

986
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:35,480
Speaker 10: givers come from a place of they need to feel

987
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 10: accepted and they need to feel loved, so they're giving

988
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 10: and giving and giving not out of the kindness of

989
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 10: their heart, but for validation. You need to address why

990
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:44,400
Speaker 10: you're so much of a giver and are so willing

991
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:46,840
Speaker 10: to accept nothing in return, and then you might attract

992
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:47,360
Speaker 10: better people.

993
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 9: Honestly, that's true.

994
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:52,720
Speaker 5: One thing on Taylor's love language is definitely physical touch Corey.

995
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 1: But that tailor, I pray, I pray it's not hope,

996
00:38:57,600 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 1: it's not like how about that like, I hope that's

997
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:02,280
Speaker 1: a whole fruit woman likes not you know that tailor.

998
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 6: It sounds like lesbians do be giving and be mad

999
00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 6: at their friends.

1000
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:07,560
Speaker 5: Is that a lesbian thing?

1001
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 3: Lesbians are?

1002
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 6: What givers?

1003
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 1: They?

1004
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:11,280
Speaker 6: Well, they all think they're givers.

1005
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 9: Why not a lesbian is think.

1006
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:16,800
Speaker 3: She's a giver? Women think the givers.

1007
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:19,760
Speaker 6: All know, a lot of women know that they're not givers.

1008
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:21,360
Speaker 6: All lesbians think that they're givers.

1009
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 2: All they do, you know, all lesby default?

1010
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:29,359
Speaker 9: Oh god, I know mad takers universe that poll the taker.

1011
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:31,520
Speaker 3: She was giving me a bar just now that I

1012
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:32,319
Speaker 3: never heard that before.

1013
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:34,359
Speaker 6: I said, they think that they're givers, not that they're

1014
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:35,879
Speaker 6: all givers. They think that.

1015
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 5: They're But what what is the It was a sexual that, y'all.

1016
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 6: It flew right over y'all. Y'd just keep going.

1017
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:43,840
Speaker 5: So now you know how men feel. We give, we're givers.

1018
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:48,240
Speaker 6: Providers give nothing but dress, headaches and STDs provide.

1019
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 2: Damn, damn, what kind of men you be with?

1020
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 5: Where you think we got the s CD from Earl Clan,

1021
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:55,239
Speaker 5: It's not these days.

1022
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 6: You never know Taylor good lamb.

1023
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:01,919
Speaker 5: Stick am we have another voice.

1024
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 9: Let's say if the relationship doesn't work out and you

1025
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:08,759
Speaker 9: need to move on, how about that?

1026
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:15,680
Speaker 13: Hey, guys, this is Jazz Jazz Jersey been debating for

1027
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:18,200
Speaker 13: quite some time whether or not I should lead this

1028
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:23,359
Speaker 13: voicemail Tim personal, but decided I should after I heard

1029
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 13: Tamara's talk about her still having sex with her ex,

1030
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 13: something that I did.

1031
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:30,319
Speaker 5: And like that one.

1032
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:36,360
Speaker 13: So I broke up with my fiance after seven years

1033
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 13: of being together. And my question was how long am

1034
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 13: I supposed to wait until I move on? And my

1035
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 13: second or follow up question, So that is, since I

1036
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 13: was in a relationship for seven years, a lot of

1037
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:57,560
Speaker 13: my relationships changed with people, so I lost a lot

1038
00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:00,919
Speaker 13: of friends, kind of not feeling the friends I have now.

1039
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:03,000
Speaker 13: So I'm just wondering, like, how about how will you

1040
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:04,760
Speaker 13: make new friends?

1041
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 6: Guys?

1042
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 13: And the maus please stop sucking your ex.

1043
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:11,919
Speaker 5: She was just talking about jazz.

1044
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 1: Let me let me let me tell you something that's

1045
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:16,520
Speaker 1: not going to happen. Themarus is not going to stop sucking.

1046
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 1: That's not going to happen. There's one thing, let me

1047
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 1: tell you you think is gonna.

1048
00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 2: Something that.

1049
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 5: Like if she's gonna suck herx retweet, if she's gonna follow.

1050
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:39,840
Speaker 1: Well, Jazz, I think that's a question that you have

1051
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,560
Speaker 1: to I don't know how long you have to wait

1052
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:47,320
Speaker 1: until you start dating somebody else, Like that's that's something

1053
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:50,319
Speaker 1: that you have to answer yourself. She's move on, move on?

1054
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 6: She wants to fun someone.

1055
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:54,480
Speaker 5: That's where's I don't really understand her question. Move on

1056
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:57,439
Speaker 5: is subjective to whatever. She can just go fuck someone else.

1057
00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 5: That doesn't mean she's moved on.

1058
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, she can go tonight.

1059
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 4: It is not like that when people try to put

1060
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 4: definitive timelines and stuff like that, like there is no

1061
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:09,719
Speaker 4: it's a matter of your emotional state rather than like

1062
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:12,319
Speaker 4: by tomorrow, by next year. I want to you don't

1063
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 4: know that. I hate when people try to put time

1064
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 4: on things like that.

1065
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:19,920
Speaker 1: Yeah you gotta. I mean, you know, being with somebody

1066
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 1: and engaged for seven years is a long time. It's

1067
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:26,920
Speaker 1: that's not something that you just get over and move past.

1068
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 1: Whether it was an amicable, amicable split or if it

1069
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:35,359
Speaker 1: was something that was just like toxic, unhealthy. I think

1070
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 1: that that takes a lot of time to move on.

1071
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 6: Agreed, But uh, but it's.

1072
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:45,720
Speaker 2: But if you're damn if.

1073
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 1: You're just looking at meet people and have fun and

1074
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:50,360
Speaker 1: you know, I think that you know, what are the

1075
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 1: things that Jazz is into? She didn't say, maybe jazz,

1076
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:57,400
Speaker 1: you know, at the gym maybe or whatever. I don't know,

1077
00:42:57,440 --> 00:43:00,279
Speaker 1: at the jazz club. It could be at museum. I

1078
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:03,440
Speaker 1: don't know whatever she's into. Like, you meet people wherever

1079
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:05,440
Speaker 1: you frequent and hang out at you know what I mean.

1080
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:08,799
Speaker 1: I don't know what her profession is. Maybe at work, Instagram.

1081
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 1: I wouldn't recommend that.

1082
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 5: But making friends in your adult life is very difficult.

1083
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:14,880
Speaker 1: It's difficult.

1084
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 3: It's difficult, but that's what I'm saying.

1085
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 1: It has to be. It has to be people that

1086
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:19,800
Speaker 1: align with what you already have going on.

1087
00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 5: It's much it's much easier to date in your thirties

1088
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:28,000
Speaker 5: than it is to find friends, absolutely, because even like

1089
00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:30,960
Speaker 5: things are set up for people to date, whether it

1090
00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:33,920
Speaker 5: be dating apps, whether it be Instagram, whether that's a

1091
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:36,880
Speaker 5: regular thing to go on an app. I feel like

1092
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 5: someone would feel super creepy if there was like a

1093
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 5: friend's app which I'm sure. I'm sure there is.

1094
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 9: Bumble has a best friend.

1095
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:46,760
Speaker 6: For a lot of people met their friends, I'm bumble bff.

1096
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 5: Really yeah, and I'm not judging them. I think that's great.

1097
00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:50,359
Speaker 9: I could just met a girl from there that she's

1098
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 9: friends with.

1099
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:54,200
Speaker 5: Now I could see people thinking they'd be viewed really

1100
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:57,000
Speaker 5: weird and like a fucking loser if they're like on

1101
00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:59,279
Speaker 5: an app trying to find friends, which is fucked up

1102
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 5: because it's the same things fine trying to find a partner,

1103
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 5: they go hand in hand and something.

1104
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, it has to be a friendship relationship at first.

1105
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:06,319
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1106
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 10: I see a lot of weird looking for friends now,

1107
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:11,279
Speaker 10: Like around my age, like a lot of girls are

1108
00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:12,879
Speaker 10: like kind. I feel like we're kind of going into

1109
00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:15,880
Speaker 10: like our second wind of life, so we're looking for

1110
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 10: people who fit not just our aesthetic, but like fit

1111
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:21,600
Speaker 10: our lives now. Like the friends that I had in

1112
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:24,319
Speaker 10: my early twenties are not the friends they don't.

1113
00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:26,600
Speaker 6: We have two completely different lives now.

1114
00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:29,640
Speaker 10: So I feel like with every every time you read

1115
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:32,799
Speaker 10: like you reinvent yourself, you're gonna need new friends to

1116
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:35,280
Speaker 10: fit into that. And I don't think that it's weird

1117
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,719
Speaker 10: to go looking for friends at all. But like Maul said,

1118
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 10: I would just what do you like to do? What

1119
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:40,960
Speaker 10: do you need friends for?

1120
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:41,239
Speaker 8: Like?

1121
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 10: What would you whatever you're doing in your life, where

1122
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 10: would you like to have a friend accompany you? That's

1123
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:47,640
Speaker 10: where you should be kind of looking for friends. But

1124
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:49,360
Speaker 10: in my life, personally, I can only speak for me.

1125
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:51,880
Speaker 10: Friends have always come to me. The people who are

1126
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:54,160
Speaker 10: supposed to be in my life, friends, relationships, whatever, they

1127
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:56,920
Speaker 10: come to me. Anytime I try to force it.

1128
00:44:57,239 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 6: I'm sorry.

1129
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:01,279
Speaker 5: Remember mister bitches, you're misfriend Just all the friends come

1130
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 5: to you?

1131
00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:01,919
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1132
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:03,560
Speaker 5: No, but like you got friends on.

1133
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 10: If I just live my life, the people who are

1134
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 10: supposed to be in my life come into my life.

1135
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:11,799
Speaker 5: I'm a I'm failing miserably already, which I expected at

1136
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 5: the dad friend thing.

1137
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:15,440
Speaker 3: That's because you're socially awkward.

1138
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:17,240
Speaker 9: You'd be a trash dad friend.

1139
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 5: D Wait, what's a good dad friend you? Whatever you are,

1140
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 5: just think the opposite. I'll make a better dat dad friend,

1141
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:29,799
Speaker 5: better Smoke's dad friends.

1142
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:31,279
Speaker 1: I'm making a better dad friend to you, and I'm

1143
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:33,600
Speaker 1: not even a dad like. I feel like I can

1144
00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:35,360
Speaker 1: hang out with a bunch of dads and be a

1145
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:36,200
Speaker 1: better friend.

1146
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:39,440
Speaker 5: I'm socially awkward and bad in rooms of people that

1147
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 5: I have a lot in common with the what Yeah,

1148
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:46,719
Speaker 5: I'm just weird. So imagine that when the only thing

1149
00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 5: we have in common is that our kids are at

1150
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 5: sing along right now?

1151
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:52,359
Speaker 9: Yeah, oh, I would love to be on the fly

1152
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:53,800
Speaker 9: in the wall when you're at sing along.

1153
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:56,840
Speaker 5: You guys can come every Friday nine thirty. You also

1154
00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:01,920
Speaker 5: booked you also, now you're on the Keys next Friday.

1155
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:03,879
Speaker 1: I'm booked up, Rory.

1156
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:06,200
Speaker 10: You're also like a very busy person though, so like

1157
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:08,360
Speaker 10: if you were a person who had no interactions with

1158
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 10: anybody else except for your kid, then when you might

1159
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 10: meet other dad friends, it's like, oh, like we can

1160
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 10: chat like I have you talk for a living. And

1161
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 10: then when you're not talking here, you're talking on zooms

1162
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:19,440
Speaker 10: or emails or whatever.

1163
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:21,440
Speaker 5: Like you're busy talk and I'm singing.

1164
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:24,440
Speaker 6: Exactly, so you're gonna want to make.

1165
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:27,279
Speaker 2: He's definitely actually.

1166
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 5: A pretty good rangage to be honest, like a second dog.

1167
00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:34,160
Speaker 5: And when the ants go marching in my knee game.

1168
00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:38,880
Speaker 1: Pause crazy get crazy on that you look.

1169
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 5: Like you get crazy during the ants go marching one

1170
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:45,040
Speaker 5: by one. And by the way, I can't help but

1171
00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:47,000
Speaker 5: think every time we do, the ants go marching in

1172
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:52,360
Speaker 5: and it's like Hurrah. This plays in my head every

1173
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 5: absolutely because under my breath I kind of say, what

1174
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:56,920
Speaker 5: you're doing.

1175
00:46:57,680 --> 00:47:00,399
Speaker 1: Your ants are absolutely man.

1176
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:03,840
Speaker 5: But I mean also like it'll I think it'll be

1177
00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:06,440
Speaker 5: different once Amara starts making friends. I have her sing

1178
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:08,799
Speaker 5: along way too young. So most of the kids there

1179
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:13,640
Speaker 5: are like you know, kids sing. Yeah, well they can scream.

1180
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 5: I don't know if I can't sing demons. She she

1181
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 5: can yell. She yells pretty loud.

1182
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:20,120
Speaker 1: Working on the lungs. She guys.

1183
00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:21,040
Speaker 3: She has a good projection.

1184
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:23,520
Speaker 5: So like already with the dad friends, I don't really

1185
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:26,000
Speaker 5: have an obligation because Amar's not friends with their kids.

1186
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:28,920
Speaker 5: To me, you're just annoying and your kid annoys me too, damn.

1187
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:31,279
Speaker 5: So like we don't need to talk. I don't like

1188
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 5: you or your kid.

1189
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:32,319
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1190
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:34,360
Speaker 3: I have friends that y'all met off the internet, like

1191
00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:35,000
Speaker 3: social media.

1192
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, I come from the Twitter era. I met Rory

1193
00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 6: on the internet.

1194
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:39,880
Speaker 1: Twitter.

1195
00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:41,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't.

1196
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:42,560
Speaker 1: I don't have any.

1197
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:44,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't have any friends that I met on

1198
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 3: social media.

1199
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:47,479
Speaker 2: I don't think I have either. I don't.

1200
00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 9: I'm assuming not in the way they met.

1201
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 4: But like, I feel like when I finally crossed over

1202
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:55,359
Speaker 4: like full time into the music industry, you kind of

1203
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:59,560
Speaker 4: meet connect dots through mutuals on that front crosshead, if

1204
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:00,000
Speaker 4: that makes sense.

1205
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:01,400
Speaker 2: I don't think that counts.

1206
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 3: I'm talking about friends though, Like.

1207
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:04,439
Speaker 4: No, But then like these are people like that I'm

1208
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 4: knowing the industry that may live in LA So when

1209
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:08,719
Speaker 4: I'm out there, it's like, Yo, let's finally link, Like have.

1210
00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:09,799
Speaker 1: You guys like that? Stuffs happened?

1211
00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:12,640
Speaker 2: I've done that on Instagram too, liked never done that,

1212
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 2: like exchange music on d ms whatever, and then boring

1213
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:18,879
Speaker 2: them in the city that they're in, like be like, oh, ship,

1214
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:19,640
Speaker 2: Like let's link.

1215
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:22,800
Speaker 5: That's not true. A dude is a dude to front.

1216
00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:25,680
Speaker 2: The dude friend a dude.

1217
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:27,319
Speaker 1: But I didn't meet her on the internet.

1218
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:28,719
Speaker 5: Didn't we didn't you meet her for the first time

1219
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:30,240
Speaker 5: when we did the pod like in person?

1220
00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:32,200
Speaker 1: I mean yeah, but I didn't meet her on the internet.

1221
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:34,520
Speaker 2: For me, how did you meet my brother?

1222
00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:34,719
Speaker 1: Man?

1223
00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:37,759
Speaker 3: But she's like very where.

1224
00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 1: She travels so much, it's like we're hardly ever in

1225
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 1: the same city.

1226
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:45,759
Speaker 6: Like damn like friends friends, So y'all telling me no

1227
00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:48,759
Speaker 6: music artists that y'all are friends, y'all cross passed on

1228
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:49,720
Speaker 6: the internet first.

1229
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:52,440
Speaker 5: Probably I'm not on the side of saying that's never happened.

1230
00:48:54,120 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 1: Artists. Well maybe maybe Benny because I played his song.

1231
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:06,839
Speaker 1: I didn't know him when I played his record and

1232
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:11,799
Speaker 1: then reached out via social media, exchanged numbers that way,

1233
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 1: But like.

1234
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:16,759
Speaker 3: Benny like pulled up to the crib.

1235
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:19,840
Speaker 6: And like, yeah, eventually I met met each other on

1236
00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:20,400
Speaker 6: the internet.

1237
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, a Motion Oranges I consider a friend. I found

1238
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:26,319
Speaker 5: their music on the internet and then he DM me

1239
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 5: and we met up and then in Tokyo, No in

1240
00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:33,239
Speaker 5: the city I wish in Tokyo, and then we started

1241
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:36,360
Speaker 5: working together and then we became friends throughout that process.

1242
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:37,520
Speaker 5: I consider him an actual So.

1243
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:40,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess, yeah, I've definitely guess I have.

1244
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:42,799
Speaker 5: But it's twenty twenty three. But I think it meets

1245
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:44,960
Speaker 5: everyone kind of on the internet to some degree.

1246
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:46,880
Speaker 1: But I'm thinking more so, like, but see, that was

1247
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:51,560
Speaker 1: like I played a record, you know what I mean?

1248
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 1: It was kind of like it wasn't It wasn't like, oh,

1249
00:49:54,120 --> 00:49:55,960
Speaker 1: we just started following each other and it's like, hey,

1250
00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:58,400
Speaker 1: like where you're from, Yo, Like that's wild. Yeah, that's

1251
00:49:58,440 --> 00:49:58,919
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

1252
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 5: That's just following a dude you don't know, that's that

1253
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:03,439
Speaker 5: doesn't make music.

1254
00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:06,120
Speaker 1: So that's is what I'm saying. It's just like I

1255
00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:08,040
Speaker 1: that's what I'm mostly thinking about. You just happen to

1256
00:50:08,040 --> 00:50:10,919
Speaker 1: be following somebody on social media, but then like y'all

1257
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 1: become real friends in real life, Like, well.

1258
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:14,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, girls do that. I think it will be a

1259
00:50:14,920 --> 00:50:15,799
Speaker 6: little weird if mended that.

1260
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:17,960
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying that that's never happened. The Benni

1261
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:20,799
Speaker 1: thing was like I played this dude's record, like I'll you.

1262
00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:22,279
Speaker 5: Can't make friends on the internet, but women can.

1263
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:24,279
Speaker 1: We can't do and I'm saying you can't make for this.

1264
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:25,760
Speaker 1: It's how you go about becoming.

1265
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:28,440
Speaker 4: We're in an industry where that's like a luxury that

1266
00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:32,640
Speaker 4: we have, Like it's kind of encouraged to expand your network,

1267
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:35,400
Speaker 4: and I feel like the strength of the mutual, at

1268
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:37,960
Speaker 4: least in this space the entertainment's based incredible, Like the

1269
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:40,359
Speaker 4: amount of people as soon as they see or come

1270
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:42,319
Speaker 4: across my page or whatever and they see that like

1271
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:45,160
Speaker 4: you guys or whoever else that I fuck, like, oh,

1272
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:47,680
Speaker 4: like based on the people that we have in common.

1273
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:51,479
Speaker 4: I can like deduce that you at least are into

1274
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:54,400
Speaker 4: this kind of music, have like xyz opinion on this,

1275
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:56,240
Speaker 4: and then like when we meet, it's just like a click,

1276
00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:59,680
Speaker 4: Like it just it works based on the overlap that

1277
00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:00,640
Speaker 4: we have socially.

1278
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:03,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, I really like that. I value that a lot.

1279
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:06,799
Speaker 1: It's like your real life becomes your algorithm for real. Yeah,

1280
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:07,680
Speaker 1: for real. Yeah.

1281
00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:10,799
Speaker 5: Like actually my core group of friends, No, I didn't

1282
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:12,800
Speaker 5: meet any of them on Yeah.

1283
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:15,400
Speaker 1: But I was pre Internet my core group of friends.

1284
00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:17,640
Speaker 1: Like it was funny. I was just hanging out with

1285
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:21,400
Speaker 1: one of my best friends last night, and it's crazy

1286
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 1: how we could not see each other for months, not

1287
00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:27,880
Speaker 1: speak to each other for months, and as soon as

1288
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:32,520
Speaker 1: we see each other, it's like, Yo, it's right back

1289
00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:35,680
Speaker 1: to where we left off at. It's like, I don't

1290
00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 1: know if you can do that with people you meet

1291
00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 1: on the internet, because they may automatically assume if you

1292
00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:41,600
Speaker 1: didn't speak to them or see them in much that

1293
00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:42,480
Speaker 1: you're not fucking with them all.

1294
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:42,879
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1295
00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:44,799
Speaker 9: Yeah, depends you know what I mean.

1296
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 3: It's kind of like, yo, I'm not It's not that

1297
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:48,200
Speaker 3: I'm not funking. I've just been busy.

1298
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 5: With life that's an immature way.

1299
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:51,839
Speaker 1: Well that's what Jazz is going through.

1300
00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think immature people.

1301
00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:57,040
Speaker 1: She said she lost friends because she had a relationship.

1302
00:51:57,080 --> 00:51:59,359
Speaker 1: She was engaged, so naturally your life changes. You can't

1303
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:00,000
Speaker 1: really nothing.

1304
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:03,280
Speaker 5: She just sounds like their friend group with her fiance

1305
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:04,480
Speaker 5: got them in the divorce.

1306
00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:09,120
Speaker 1: Like that's which is supposed to happen. Yeah, you get engaged,

1307
00:52:09,160 --> 00:52:11,520
Speaker 1: you get engaged like that ship is that's it. This

1308
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:13,960
Speaker 1: is this is your best friend. Now, this is your

1309
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:14,600
Speaker 1: life partner.

1310
00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:16,160
Speaker 5: This is Oh, it sounds like they had a lot

1311
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 5: of mutual friends, but maybe they were really his friends

1312
00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:21,880
Speaker 5: first and then they all just became cruel because that

1313
00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 5: was his girl, or.

1314
00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:25,360
Speaker 6: And then like a shitty friend. Like you know how

1315
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:27,319
Speaker 6: people get in a relationship and then start ship, but

1316
00:52:27,480 --> 00:52:27,799
Speaker 6: I can't.

1317
00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:31,680
Speaker 5: I I took that as they they have the same

1318
00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 5: friend group, her and her fiance, and during the split,

1319
00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:36,239
Speaker 5: he kind of just got them off.

1320
00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:37,160
Speaker 1: That's how I saw it.

1321
00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 6: Oh really, I thought, yeah, I.

1322
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:40,080
Speaker 5: Know now that y'all say that she could.

1323
00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:44,160
Speaker 1: I saw it as she just really stopped being active

1324
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:46,719
Speaker 1: in her girls group chat and the girls trips and

1325
00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:48,880
Speaker 1: girls outings and stuff like that because now she has

1326
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:51,640
Speaker 1: a fiance. You understand that, but that's a natural thing

1327
00:52:51,680 --> 00:52:55,000
Speaker 1: that has to happen. But if friends friends, I'm not

1328
00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:57,480
Speaker 1: saying listen, I'm not saying you completely, I'm not saying

1329
00:52:57,520 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 1: you completely cut your friends off. No, I'm never saying that.

1330
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:04,440
Speaker 1: But naturally, the energy, the attention span is going to

1331
00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:07,360
Speaker 1: change because now this is your number one person. This

1332
00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:09,359
Speaker 1: is the person that gets most of your time and

1333
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:12,200
Speaker 1: your attention because now you live with this person, You're

1334
00:53:12,239 --> 00:53:15,120
Speaker 1: gread to start a life with this person, You're probably

1335
00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:18,439
Speaker 1: like planning to build a future family, things like that.

1336
00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 1: This is your person that is priority number one on

1337
00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:23,120
Speaker 1: your list right now, especially if you don't have kids.

1338
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:24,839
Speaker 3: Your fiance is number one.

1339
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:27,279
Speaker 6: But you can still have a fiance because this is.

1340
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:29,840
Speaker 1: I'm not saying you can't have friends, but now you

1341
00:53:30,800 --> 00:53:34,360
Speaker 1: if your fiance, you're engaged right the marriage, your fiance

1342
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:38,320
Speaker 1: can't be on the phone on his group chat and

1343
00:53:38,400 --> 00:53:41,440
Speaker 1: the fellas in there throwing ass pictures and throwing bitches

1344
00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:42,719
Speaker 1: in the chat, and they're like, Yo, this bitch got

1345
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:44,600
Speaker 1: a fat He can't be doing that till two three

1346
00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:46,000
Speaker 1: in the morning. But that's what God.

1347
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:46,880
Speaker 6: First of all.

1348
00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:50,200
Speaker 10: But first of all, if you're doing that So three

1349
00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:52,400
Speaker 10: in the morning. I don't whether you're single or not.

1350
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:53,880
Speaker 10: I just think that, like you're kind of don't know

1351
00:53:53,880 --> 00:53:54,319
Speaker 10: what I'm saying.

1352
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:55,239
Speaker 2: Just got a job.

1353
00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:57,480
Speaker 1: That's just god shit, that's that's just godship.

1354
00:53:57,520 --> 00:53:59,320
Speaker 10: I don't care if you're in your group chat throwing

1355
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:01,080
Speaker 10: pictures at but this is my thing.

1356
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:02,200
Speaker 2: Why is it you ye be.

1357
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 5: In the group chat of them, you know, sending dicks?

1358
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:06,640
Speaker 10: Why is it that you can only that you can

1359
00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 10: only bond with your friends?

1360
00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 6: Male woman over horseshit? Like, I don't know what it's

1361
00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:11,799
Speaker 6: just saying.

1362
00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:12,160
Speaker 2: I'm just saying.

1363
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:14,399
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that hill saying, like.

1364
00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:16,239
Speaker 5: What hell said? She can't hang out with her whole

1365
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:17,839
Speaker 5: friends anymore. She's in a relationship, So.

1366
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:19,800
Speaker 10: Why do you only have whole friends? And also I

1367
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:22,600
Speaker 10: don't have she was a whole But this is my thing.

1368
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:26,440
Speaker 5: Even if listen, one plus one equals.

1369
00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:30,279
Speaker 10: Okay, So even if all of your friends are hose, right,

1370
00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 10: that's all they have to them.

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00:54:32,200 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 6: They have no other sides other than being hose.

1372
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:36,480
Speaker 9: Those are pretty shallow. Yeah, there's not a lot of.

1373
00:54:36,880 --> 00:54:40,359
Speaker 1: They're talking about their new whole rendezvous like they met

1374
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 1: this one dude.

1375
00:54:41,080 --> 00:54:43,040
Speaker 3: He flew in tag they linked up.

1376
00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:45,040
Speaker 1: Now you want advice, like, Yo, he left me in

1377
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 1: a hotel by myself all day, Like like you really

1378
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:51,160
Speaker 1: want to sitting in there talking about yo, you should

1379
00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 1: just leave, like get your ticket back to Like.

1380
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:54,960
Speaker 6: Well, I don't know.

1381
00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:57,080
Speaker 10: I know that I'm single and my best friend who

1382
00:54:57,080 --> 00:54:59,319
Speaker 10: again who we just wish happy birthday. She's married, she's

1383
00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:00,640
Speaker 10: been with the same Me and her I have been

1384
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:02,480
Speaker 10: best friends for sixteen years. She's been with the same

1385
00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:05,360
Speaker 10: guy for fourteen years. She's married, she has two kids.

1386
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 10: She still finds the time to like hang out with

1387
00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:08,680
Speaker 10: her friends whenever I.

1388
00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:10,439
Speaker 6: Call and I don't want to talk about you. Shit,

1389
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 6: she's down. He's sent up there laughing at me like whatever, Like.

1390
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:16,479
Speaker 1: Should but that that's a healthy relationship people.

1391
00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:18,439
Speaker 10: Yes, But that's what I'm saying. People need to put

1392
00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 10: That's why I said she was being a shitty friend.

1393
00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:22,200
Speaker 10: You can be a great fiance or a great wife

1394
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:24,040
Speaker 10: and still be a good friend to your friends so

1395
00:55:24,040 --> 00:55:26,080
Speaker 10: that they don't feel I agree, deserted by you.

1396
00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:27,120
Speaker 6: But you do.

1397
00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:31,280
Speaker 1: But you do understand how naturally the dynamic and energy

1398
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 1: is going to shift a little bit once.

1399
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:34,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, I can understand it. A little bit, but not

1400
00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:35,640
Speaker 6: enough for you to lose all your friends.

1401
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:37,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. No, that to me, that's I'm never losing all

1402
00:55:37,560 --> 00:55:38,960
Speaker 1: my friends. If I lose all my friends, I got

1403
00:55:39,080 --> 00:55:40,560
Speaker 1: to look in the mirror, like what the fuck that

1404
00:55:40,640 --> 00:55:44,040
Speaker 1: I do? Like something, I'm I became a shitty person. Yeah,

1405
00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:45,640
Speaker 1: somewhere in this journey.

1406
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:47,759
Speaker 5: Or you tried to fuck them all like Taylor wow o,

1407
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 5: my good luxus.

1408
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:49,440
Speaker 3: Well I'm not gazing.

1409
00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:52,000
Speaker 6: Go on Instagram and see what you like to do.

1410
00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:54,479
Speaker 10: See if you have any any people on Instagram who

1411
00:55:54,480 --> 00:55:56,400
Speaker 10: that you follow that do the same things that you do,

1412
00:55:56,480 --> 00:55:59,160
Speaker 10: whether it be you know, content creating. Maybe they like

1413
00:55:59,160 --> 00:56:02,000
Speaker 10: our podcast too. You want to join our discord. There's

1414
00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:03,280
Speaker 10: plenty of girls that like our podcast.

1415
00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:08,080
Speaker 1: Only fans for a newly single ex fiance.

1416
00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:09,799
Speaker 5: Or I mean she could come to sing along at

1417
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:11,440
Speaker 5: nine thirty on Fridays.

1418
00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 1: She's trying to get anybody she's booked.

1419
00:56:14,520 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, wouldn't sing along? Schedule slam to watch Jamara and

1420
00:56:17,520 --> 00:56:19,080
Speaker 5: not sing I will schedule Slammed.

1421
00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:23,840
Speaker 3: It's not slammed Friday, almost schedule slammed.

1422
00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:24,919
Speaker 5: Oh my god?

1423
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:30,560
Speaker 9: All right, next one, next one, hold on, here we go.

1424
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:35,560
Speaker 5: Would you guys come tomorrow swimming lessons. Yes, if you

1425
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:37,080
Speaker 5: like adults skins go on the pool too.

1426
00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:38,440
Speaker 2: I'm good.

1427
00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:40,080
Speaker 4: I can't they add and can't swim, you can get

1428
00:56:40,080 --> 00:56:42,120
Speaker 4: we can have them learned. At the same time, well Ed.

1429
00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:43,439
Speaker 5: Looks like he wears a T shirt in the pool,

1430
00:56:43,440 --> 00:56:44,439
Speaker 5: and I don't want to be around those people.

1431
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:45,640
Speaker 2: I definitely take my whole shirt up.

1432
00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 5: I don't give a fuck in wax back or not

1433
00:56:48,200 --> 00:56:52,160
Speaker 5: wax back heavy as soul next next week.

1434
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:05,760
Speaker 8: What's the roy mam your base crew, baby d Julian

1435
00:57:06,320 --> 00:57:09,799
Speaker 8: Ed love what you guys doing up there. It's kind

1436
00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 8: of got like a unique situation going on. Just kind

1437
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:14,759
Speaker 8: of give you some background.

1438
00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:15,359
Speaker 9: Uh.

1439
00:57:16,240 --> 00:57:20,800
Speaker 8: One of my close homeboys, you know, he he came

1440
00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:23,360
Speaker 8: up with the crew. You know, we all knew from

1441
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:26,520
Speaker 8: the beginning. You know, he kind of was going in

1442
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:28,400
Speaker 8: a different direction and the rest of us like things

1443
00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:30,640
Speaker 8: that the rest of us didn't like, you know, but

1444
00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:32,240
Speaker 8: that was cool though, you know, that's who he was,

1445
00:57:32,440 --> 00:57:33,440
Speaker 8: accepting them who he was.

1446
00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:34,520
Speaker 3: It was cool, ass, dud.

1447
00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:38,840
Speaker 5: It took me a second, was like, is he referring

1448
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:39,400
Speaker 5: to him as gak?

1449
00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:47,200
Speaker 2: Okay, so we're gonna tell you serious that he's gay.

1450
00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:52,520
Speaker 8: You know, you know, nobody had no issue.

1451
00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:55,320
Speaker 9: I hate the fact that he feels the need to

1452
00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:56,560
Speaker 9: keep explaining.

1453
00:57:56,160 --> 00:58:01,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, a different path audio, do whatever you have.

1454
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:04,040
Speaker 5: Mall explains that he's not homophobic the same way this

1455
00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:06,280
Speaker 5: guy is right now like now, people doing what they want

1456
00:58:06,320 --> 00:58:06,400
Speaker 5: to do.

1457
00:58:06,600 --> 00:58:10,760
Speaker 1: We just spoke about it. Because because we just spoke

1458
00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:13,600
Speaker 1: about it, Like, as a heterosexual man, you have to

1459
00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:15,320
Speaker 1: be careful how you say you're not gay.

1460
00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:20,240
Speaker 5: You you described the homophobia ship the way racists explain

1461
00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:21,040
Speaker 5: that they're not racist.

1462
00:58:21,480 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 1: No, that's not true, man, I'm just saying, as a head,

1463
00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:27,200
Speaker 1: you have to be very careful how you say you're

1464
00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 1: not gay, because it's like, oh so, because the first what's.

1465
00:58:30,200 --> 00:58:31,000
Speaker 3: Wrong with being gay?

1466
00:58:31,360 --> 00:58:31,720
Speaker 1: Nothing?

1467
00:58:31,800 --> 00:58:33,840
Speaker 2: We're all like to do.

1468
00:58:34,440 --> 00:58:36,240
Speaker 4: We're forty seconds and he could have had one of

1469
00:58:36,280 --> 00:58:37,640
Speaker 4: my closest friend from growing up.

1470
00:58:37,680 --> 00:58:38,280
Speaker 1: It's gay.

1471
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:41,760
Speaker 5: No, for sure, he took like a different He went left,

1472
00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:42,360
Speaker 5: we went right.

1473
00:58:42,400 --> 00:58:44,360
Speaker 1: But maybe he's trying to like keep us on, like

1474
00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:45,280
Speaker 1: you know, the suspense train.

1475
00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:48,560
Speaker 5: I don't know all right, different type of training depends.

1476
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:52,160
Speaker 3: Training his lifestyles.

1477
00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:52,920
Speaker 1: Partners around.

1478
00:58:52,960 --> 00:58:54,400
Speaker 8: You know, it is what it is, and we crack

1479
00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:56,720
Speaker 8: on them. But you know, it was all within the crew,

1480
00:58:56,800 --> 00:58:59,720
Speaker 8: you know, somebody else say something, you know, it's the issue.

1481
00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:03,040
Speaker 5: But only we can. Yeah, I got.

1482
00:59:02,920 --> 00:59:04,080
Speaker 3: A bigger problem on my hand.

1483
00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:06,880
Speaker 8: You know, we're a little older now, you know, we

1484
00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:08,800
Speaker 8: didn't a lot of us and got married and that's

1485
00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:11,600
Speaker 8: quite away, you know. And initially my wife, you know,

1486
00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:16,000
Speaker 8: she was good with everything, but now you know, her

1487
00:59:16,040 --> 00:59:17,960
Speaker 8: family is really religious and she kind of leaning in

1488
00:59:17,960 --> 00:59:21,280
Speaker 8: that direction, and she when he comes around, she kind

1489
00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:24,600
Speaker 8: of be questioning him, and you know, it's saying he's

1490
00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:27,120
Speaker 8: living in a different wrong way and things like that,

1491
00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:30,560
Speaker 8: you know, And it's coming to the point now where

1492
00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:32,640
Speaker 8: I feel like I'm I'm gonna have to start making

1493
00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:33,560
Speaker 8: a decision.

1494
00:59:33,200 --> 00:59:35,360
Speaker 2: Like we on this side or that side.

1495
00:59:36,000 --> 00:59:38,120
Speaker 8: And it's like, you know, it's a little difficult because

1496
00:59:38,120 --> 00:59:40,880
Speaker 8: I mean, of course this is my wife, but this man,

1497
00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:42,640
Speaker 8: you know, even though he's doing what he's doing, you know,

1498
00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:44,840
Speaker 8: we didn't been in the trenches together, you know. And

1499
00:59:45,040 --> 00:59:47,160
Speaker 8: we then started still back to back in the neighborhoods

1500
00:59:47,160 --> 00:59:50,240
Speaker 8: were supposed to be in and laughter the bus all night,

1501
00:59:50,320 --> 00:59:53,000
Speaker 8: it up on our way home, you know. So I

1502
00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:54,800
Speaker 8: don't want to be in a situation where it's like,

1503
00:59:54,840 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 8: all right, you know. I mean, of course I love

1504
00:59:57,400 --> 00:59:58,919
Speaker 8: my wife and I got to stand on that side,

1505
00:59:58,920 --> 01:00:00,880
Speaker 8: but it's like, this is my man. I don't want

1506
01:00:00,880 --> 01:00:02,480
Speaker 8: to be one of those friends like you know, all right,

1507
01:00:02,520 --> 01:00:05,680
Speaker 8: we canna be cool, but only when nobody's looking kind

1508
01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:07,240
Speaker 8: of thick. And I don't want to disrespect that man

1509
01:00:07,280 --> 01:00:09,200
Speaker 8: like that. We got too much history, too much love.

1510
01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:11,720
Speaker 8: So I just asked, you know, what would y'all do

1511
01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:15,040
Speaker 8: in that situation? You know, peace and love. Hope y'all

1512
01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:15,880
Speaker 8: keep doing what your dog.

1513
01:00:16,480 --> 01:00:18,240
Speaker 5: You gotta look at your wife and say that is

1514
01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:18,720
Speaker 5: my friend.

1515
01:00:18,840 --> 01:00:24,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like that's very simple, Like that's my friend. We've

1516
01:00:24,200 --> 01:00:27,400
Speaker 1: been friends since we were young, since we were kids. Uh.

1517
01:00:27,440 --> 01:00:29,720
Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna just because of his lifestyle and

1518
01:00:29,800 --> 01:00:32,720
Speaker 1: his his what he does in his bedroom. I'm not

1519
01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:36,040
Speaker 1: gonna turn my back on him or not be his

1520
01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:38,640
Speaker 1: friend or distance myself from him because you don't agree

1521
01:00:38,640 --> 01:00:41,640
Speaker 1: with his his lifestyle. And now does she not agree

1522
01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:44,280
Speaker 1: with you hanging out with him? Because she made question

1523
01:00:44,400 --> 01:00:46,280
Speaker 1: maybe you and him or doing something no?

1524
01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:49,000
Speaker 5: Maybe No, I think she's just been an annoying Christian.

1525
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:50,479
Speaker 1: That how do you know she's a Christian?

1526
01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:52,920
Speaker 5: Because he said she started getting more and more than religion.

1527
01:00:53,280 --> 01:00:54,520
Speaker 9: It's her parents work.

1528
01:00:54,680 --> 01:00:55,240
Speaker 2: What if she's.

1529
01:00:55,160 --> 01:01:00,600
Speaker 5: Muslim that sounded very Christian As someone that grew up Catholic,

1530
01:01:00,640 --> 01:01:01,840
Speaker 5: that sounded like some Christian ship.

1531
01:01:02,240 --> 01:01:06,400
Speaker 4: Her parents are not cool with that. So she said,

1532
01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:08,200
Speaker 4: before they got married it was fine, but now that

1533
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:10,919
Speaker 4: they're married, they're hanging around with him a lot more.

1534
01:01:11,160 --> 01:01:14,120
Speaker 4: And now she's raising the flag on this whole thing.

1535
01:01:14,440 --> 01:01:14,760
Speaker 1: I hate.

1536
01:01:16,280 --> 01:01:18,640
Speaker 4: I hate when people hide behind religion and use that

1537
01:01:18,680 --> 01:01:20,160
Speaker 4: as like their excuse for.

1538
01:01:20,160 --> 01:01:22,360
Speaker 9: Fucking homophobia and bigotry.

1539
01:01:22,400 --> 01:01:23,160
Speaker 1: It's it's stupid.

1540
01:01:23,200 --> 01:01:25,560
Speaker 5: And then didn't the Pope just say that Jesus is

1541
01:01:25,560 --> 01:01:26,200
Speaker 5: cool with the gays?

1542
01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:28,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, and the other dude just s had sucked my

1543
01:01:28,160 --> 01:01:30,520
Speaker 4: tongue to a ten year old kid, like you do it.

1544
01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:32,000
Speaker 2: They're all like that.

1545
01:01:32,560 --> 01:01:37,360
Speaker 5: It's that religious ship. Really got I respect your religion

1546
01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:40,240
Speaker 5: if I disagree with it, you have to respect my

1547
01:01:40,280 --> 01:01:42,800
Speaker 5: man to them. Yeah, I'm not going to shoot.

1548
01:01:42,560 --> 01:01:44,600
Speaker 1: On your respect your religion, and you got to respect

1549
01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:47,720
Speaker 1: my friendships and my relationships with my friends. It's like

1550
01:01:47,760 --> 01:01:50,640
Speaker 1: I'm not choosing my you over my friend or my

1551
01:01:50,640 --> 01:01:53,160
Speaker 1: friend over you, Like we're going to all coexist together.

1552
01:01:53,240 --> 01:01:56,400
Speaker 1: Like this is my friend and he's been my friend forever, like,

1553
01:01:56,440 --> 01:01:58,280
Speaker 1: and I'm not I'm not turning my back on him

1554
01:01:58,280 --> 01:02:01,000
Speaker 1: because of his lifestyle choices. Like now, if he was

1555
01:02:01,040 --> 01:02:04,840
Speaker 1: doing something to where it was affecting us, like if

1556
01:02:04,840 --> 01:02:07,200
Speaker 1: he's strung out on fucking heroin and knocking on our door,

1557
01:02:07,400 --> 01:02:10,480
Speaker 1: Oh that's for money like that, Yeah, as long as

1558
01:02:10,520 --> 01:02:13,960
Speaker 1: you're not sucking dick for the heroin. But but like, yeah,

1559
01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:17,040
Speaker 1: if it's not nothing that's ruining your relationship, affecting your

1560
01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:19,080
Speaker 1: relationship like in a negative way.

1561
01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:19,840
Speaker 3: Then who gives a fuck?

1562
01:02:19,920 --> 01:02:22,040
Speaker 1: Like that's just weird for a wife to want to

1563
01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:25,520
Speaker 1: like even implement that into her relationship. Like, Yo, it's

1564
01:02:25,560 --> 01:02:27,960
Speaker 1: either me or your friend, or you got to stop

1565
01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:30,120
Speaker 1: being friends with your friend because I don't agree with

1566
01:02:30,120 --> 01:02:30,480
Speaker 1: that life.

1567
01:02:30,560 --> 01:02:31,240
Speaker 3: It's just I don't know.

1568
01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:33,200
Speaker 5: That's what do you think is gonna happen when you

1569
01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:36,440
Speaker 5: get to Heaven's gates Gods and be like, oh, you

1570
01:02:36,840 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 5: hung out with that guy. It was really nice to you.

1571
01:02:40,400 --> 01:02:42,680
Speaker 5: You hung out with really good friends. Go to hell.

1572
01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:44,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just stupid.

1573
01:02:44,400 --> 01:02:46,720
Speaker 1: Nah, man, you got to tell your wife relax. This

1574
01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 1: is my friend. This is a great friend of mine,

1575
01:02:49,440 --> 01:02:52,160
Speaker 1: and he's in my life and that's just what it is, Like.

1576
01:02:52,520 --> 01:02:55,760
Speaker 5: I feel for the friend to be honest because that's

1577
01:02:55,800 --> 01:02:59,680
Speaker 5: that's annoying too. Like, if that's his wife, they're gonna

1578
01:02:59,680 --> 01:03:01,560
Speaker 5: have a lot of life moments eventually, probably want to

1579
01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:04,120
Speaker 5: have kids, like a lot of shit. You'd want to

1580
01:03:04,160 --> 01:03:07,880
Speaker 5: be there for your friends, so you know, it's it

1581
01:03:07,960 --> 01:03:11,120
Speaker 5: sucks when you don't really get along with your friend's

1582
01:03:11,200 --> 01:03:14,919
Speaker 5: girlfriend to begin with. Imagine she hates you for your sexuality,

1583
01:03:15,000 --> 01:03:16,840
Speaker 5: Like I know, I'm not showing up to any functions.

1584
01:03:16,880 --> 01:03:17,200
Speaker 5: I'm sorry.

1585
01:03:17,240 --> 01:03:19,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's just that's that's weird. That's weird.

1586
01:03:19,240 --> 01:03:21,640
Speaker 1: But no, man, you continue to be friends and your

1587
01:03:21,640 --> 01:03:23,680
Speaker 1: wife just got to fall in line and understand that

1588
01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:26,600
Speaker 1: this is a relationship that is going to be in

1589
01:03:26,600 --> 01:03:27,000
Speaker 1: my life.

1590
01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:29,720
Speaker 3: Ever, it's it's my homeboy, that's my childhood friend.

1591
01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:30,280
Speaker 11: Yo.

1592
01:03:30,400 --> 01:03:32,360
Speaker 5: You know what clip I watched that I no idea

1593
01:03:32,400 --> 01:03:34,960
Speaker 5: and I'm sorry that this is attached to a gay topic.

1594
01:03:35,760 --> 01:03:38,800
Speaker 5: Did you know Dwayne Wade's daughter came out to Gilbert

1595
01:03:38,880 --> 01:03:40,600
Speaker 5: or Renu's first That's interesting.

1596
01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:42,919
Speaker 1: Really, who we.

1597
01:03:42,800 --> 01:03:47,080
Speaker 5: Look at as one of the more funny and ignorant players. Yea,

1598
01:03:47,640 --> 01:03:49,560
Speaker 5: I guess it's like one of the kindest people behind

1599
01:03:49,560 --> 01:03:52,240
Speaker 5: the scenes. That's cool it Yeah, I thought that was

1600
01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:55,360
Speaker 5: actually really cool. Gilbert definitely, I mean, granted, how he's

1601
01:03:55,440 --> 01:03:58,160
Speaker 5: treated h Nick Young and Iggy was one of the

1602
01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:00,520
Speaker 5: funniest clips I've ever seen in my life. Clearly one

1603
01:04:00,520 --> 01:04:02,320
Speaker 5: of those friends that you just don't want around you

1604
01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:04,360
Speaker 5: when that happening in life.

1605
01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:06,520
Speaker 1: Well, Gilbert was trying to protect Nick at that point.

1606
01:04:07,120 --> 01:04:08,560
Speaker 1: He knew what that was. He's like, man, let me

1607
01:04:08,640 --> 01:04:11,280
Speaker 1: just let me try to just ruin. Let me just

1608
01:04:11,360 --> 01:04:14,400
Speaker 1: ruin your relationships. So y'all just break up. Yeah, like,

1609
01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:18,520
Speaker 1: let me just But Gilbert is you know, despite the

1610
01:04:18,560 --> 01:04:21,240
Speaker 1: things that Gilbert has been through as a professional athlete,

1611
01:04:21,360 --> 01:04:23,200
Speaker 1: you know, the whole gun in the locker room thing,

1612
01:04:24,400 --> 01:04:26,800
Speaker 1: his relationship with Nick Young is real. He really loves Nick.

1613
01:04:26,840 --> 01:04:30,080
Speaker 1: He loves his kids. You know, it may come across

1614
01:04:30,080 --> 01:04:32,400
Speaker 1: like he's fucking running in his house, fucking with his

1615
01:04:32,480 --> 01:04:34,640
Speaker 1: kids and all that. Yeah, but that's just how he

1616
01:04:34,720 --> 01:04:39,160
Speaker 1: shows his love. But that's interesting that Dwayne Wade's daughter

1617
01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:42,400
Speaker 1: came out to Gilbert first, to Gilbert first, That's that's interesting.

1618
01:04:42,520 --> 01:04:46,440
Speaker 5: And congrats to Dwayne Wade uh Hall of fame for sure.

1619
01:04:46,320 --> 01:04:47,560
Speaker 3: That's well deserved.

1620
01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:50,440
Speaker 1: We all knew he would he would end up this

1621
01:04:50,520 --> 01:04:53,000
Speaker 1: sooner than later. So yeah, shout out to d Wade

1622
01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:54,720
Speaker 1: on becoming the Hall of Famer.

1623
01:04:55,120 --> 01:04:56,120
Speaker 5: We got another one.

1624
01:04:56,320 --> 01:04:59,400
Speaker 9: Yeahs keep going, Benny, Yo, what up?

1625
01:04:59,480 --> 01:05:03,880
Speaker 14: R This is Bennie from Canada, probably like forty five

1626
01:05:03,920 --> 01:05:05,240
Speaker 14: minutes away from Drake's crib.

1627
01:05:05,360 --> 01:05:08,160
Speaker 2: Sorry, you can see it across.

1628
01:05:08,320 --> 01:05:09,960
Speaker 14: I'm a big fan, longtime fan.

1629
01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:12,000
Speaker 9: Not going to get into all that waste your time.

1630
01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:14,880
Speaker 9: You appreciate this one is I kind of want.

1631
01:05:14,800 --> 01:05:18,840
Speaker 14: To just get straight to the point. I'm turning twenty

1632
01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:22,760
Speaker 14: six years old next month, Okay, actually this month, probably

1633
01:05:22,760 --> 01:05:26,320
Speaker 14: by the time you guys hear this in July or whatever,

1634
01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:32,240
Speaker 14: twenty six birthday at all, and I keep thinking, like

1635
01:05:32,280 --> 01:05:34,040
Speaker 14: every couple of months, I think, you know, fuck I

1636
01:05:34,080 --> 01:05:36,760
Speaker 14: got shit on lock, and then something happens, like my

1637
01:05:36,800 --> 01:05:39,560
Speaker 14: biggest thing is my anger. I don't know what it is.

1638
01:05:39,800 --> 01:05:42,720
Speaker 14: I think my biggest like no offense. But this might

1639
01:05:42,800 --> 01:05:46,240
Speaker 14: go like Rory might have the yeah option, like best

1640
01:05:46,320 --> 01:05:50,120
Speaker 14: answer for me or Demeris just because like she's the

1641
01:05:50,160 --> 01:05:53,840
Speaker 14: old they were both not too long ago. I know

1642
01:05:53,960 --> 01:05:56,800
Speaker 14: Rory wasn't Demarus. I'm not even I know Demerius is.

1643
01:05:56,840 --> 01:05:57,520
Speaker 5: I'm thirty three.

1644
01:05:57,600 --> 01:05:59,360
Speaker 1: That's why I'm saying that, but I want to hear.

1645
01:05:59,480 --> 01:06:01,400
Speaker 14: Yeah, I just I mean, if you guys get back

1646
01:06:01,440 --> 01:06:04,040
Speaker 14: to this, that'd be fucking awesome. I love the pod.

1647
01:06:04,320 --> 01:06:06,520
Speaker 14: I love all of you guys, honestly, straight up. Like,

1648
01:06:06,560 --> 01:06:08,800
Speaker 14: I hope my girl cops the merch that I saw

1649
01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:10,520
Speaker 14: her at the link and I told her my birthday's

1650
01:06:10,520 --> 01:06:12,120
Speaker 14: exponsor you.

1651
01:06:12,040 --> 01:06:14,000
Speaker 9: Had to remind your girl your birthdays.

1652
01:06:15,680 --> 01:06:20,200
Speaker 5: Scared of the sixth Viny's just going through what you

1653
01:06:20,280 --> 01:06:23,400
Speaker 5: go through in your twenties, Like to know what he asked.

1654
01:06:23,200 --> 01:06:24,760
Speaker 9: You said, he wants to get a better grip on

1655
01:06:24,800 --> 01:06:25,320
Speaker 9: his anger.

1656
01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:27,160
Speaker 5: He feels like he has a lot of setbacks. Like

1657
01:06:27,200 --> 01:06:28,880
Speaker 5: every time he's working on something, and he said in

1658
01:06:28,920 --> 01:06:32,000
Speaker 5: particular is anger. He feels like he's working on it

1659
01:06:32,040 --> 01:06:34,480
Speaker 5: and then he has setbacks. But that's what you're living

1660
01:06:34,640 --> 01:06:38,400
Speaker 5: exactly what your twenties should be. Work on your flaws.

1661
01:06:38,440 --> 01:06:40,880
Speaker 5: You're going to have a million setbacks during it, but

1662
01:06:40,960 --> 01:06:43,480
Speaker 5: you're aware of it, you're working on it, So that's

1663
01:06:43,560 --> 01:06:47,000
Speaker 5: progress in itself. Like, don't get extra angry because you

1664
01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:49,600
Speaker 5: can't contain your anger. You realize it's a problem. Hm,

1665
01:06:49,920 --> 01:06:52,120
Speaker 5: you're twenty six. This is the time fix it now,

1666
01:06:52,200 --> 01:06:54,080
Speaker 5: because I know people that are forty five just realizing

1667
01:06:54,120 --> 01:06:56,080
Speaker 5: that they have an anger problem. Yeah, So the fact

1668
01:06:56,080 --> 01:06:59,240
Speaker 5: that he is like self aware at this point, he's

1669
01:06:59,600 --> 01:07:01,520
Speaker 5: living in exactly how you should live in his twenties. Fin,

1670
01:07:02,120 --> 01:07:03,080
Speaker 5: I wouldn't stress it too.

1671
01:07:03,080 --> 01:07:05,120
Speaker 1: Much, And that's something that's not going to just stop

1672
01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:07,680
Speaker 1: in your twenties, Like you're gonna work on your anger

1673
01:07:07,760 --> 01:07:10,760
Speaker 1: your thirties, your forties, your fifties. I know people that

1674
01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:13,600
Speaker 1: are sixty and still have anger issues and they try

1675
01:07:13,640 --> 01:07:16,200
Speaker 1: to work on it, Like that's something that's a lifelong thing.

1676
01:07:16,280 --> 01:07:19,720
Speaker 1: Like you just have to recognize your triggers. I guess

1677
01:07:19,760 --> 01:07:23,640
Speaker 1: would get you upset, stay away from those things, like

1678
01:07:23,720 --> 01:07:26,320
Speaker 1: you know, those environments that may get you in that mood.

1679
01:07:26,440 --> 01:07:27,600
Speaker 3: That's what it's all about.

1680
01:07:27,640 --> 01:07:30,280
Speaker 1: Just learning who you are as the older you become,

1681
01:07:30,400 --> 01:07:33,240
Speaker 1: and learning that you have now the choice to stay

1682
01:07:33,240 --> 01:07:35,160
Speaker 1: out of those areas and those situations, Like that's going

1683
01:07:35,200 --> 01:07:37,600
Speaker 1: to bring that out of you, like because the older

1684
01:07:37,600 --> 01:07:41,080
Speaker 1: you get, unfortunately there are more consequences and there's more

1685
01:07:41,120 --> 01:07:43,919
Speaker 1: shit that you get upset about, but there's more severe consequences.

1686
01:07:44,440 --> 01:07:45,280
Speaker 3: So do you yet so.

1687
01:07:45,320 --> 01:07:46,760
Speaker 5: New things you have an experience. Yet that is going

1688
01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:48,960
Speaker 5: to trigger that again, like yeah, the interest rate on

1689
01:07:49,000 --> 01:07:52,080
Speaker 5: your mortgage. Yeah, sing along at nine thirty on Fridays.

1690
01:07:51,840 --> 01:07:54,600
Speaker 3: For at nine he didn't show up until noon.

1691
01:07:54,800 --> 01:07:56,400
Speaker 5: You're gonna run into a lot of things that are

1692
01:07:56,400 --> 01:07:57,720
Speaker 5: going to anger you, so at least you're aware of

1693
01:07:57,720 --> 01:07:59,760
Speaker 5: it now. I hope you didn't scream at your girl

1694
01:07:59,800 --> 01:08:01,720
Speaker 5: and didn't get you a hoodie.

1695
01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:03,520
Speaker 3: For but hopefully he got some merch.

1696
01:08:03,760 --> 01:08:06,640
Speaker 5: Let's go look, let's go look through hopefully the data.

1697
01:08:07,720 --> 01:08:09,200
Speaker 1: Back and let us know if you guys actually got

1698
01:08:09,200 --> 01:08:09,560
Speaker 1: the murder.

1699
01:08:09,680 --> 01:08:10,800
Speaker 2: We'll reply like three months.

1700
01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:14,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, but yeah, anger doesn't there's no age where yeah,

1701
01:08:14,560 --> 01:08:18,000
Speaker 4: it goes away, but there's yes to your point, coping mechanisms,

1702
01:08:18,240 --> 01:08:18,920
Speaker 4: things you can.

1703
01:08:18,800 --> 01:08:22,360
Speaker 2: Do with anger, Julian, get the.

1704
01:08:22,320 --> 01:08:24,080
Speaker 9: Studio and not hang out with you guys.

1705
01:08:24,760 --> 01:08:28,200
Speaker 1: I'm here and he's lying, but they comes here all

1706
01:08:28,240 --> 01:08:28,639
Speaker 1: the time.

1707
01:08:28,960 --> 01:08:30,519
Speaker 9: Anger, That's why your chairs are messed up.

1708
01:08:30,560 --> 01:08:30,960
Speaker 3: Exactly.

1709
01:08:32,439 --> 01:08:34,559
Speaker 1: No, but I think whose ass was in there?

1710
01:08:35,120 --> 01:08:35,640
Speaker 2: Excuse me?

1711
01:08:36,040 --> 01:08:37,400
Speaker 1: Whose you?

1712
01:08:37,400 --> 01:08:37,720
Speaker 2: You know?

1713
01:08:38,120 --> 01:08:41,679
Speaker 3: It's you can another answers here. I'm watching you.

1714
01:08:41,560 --> 01:08:42,840
Speaker 5: Man, it's off tilt.

1715
01:08:43,080 --> 01:08:46,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, he brings his girls him like troil around in it. Yeah,

1716
01:08:47,680 --> 01:08:48,320
Speaker 1: put that on me.

1717
01:08:50,080 --> 01:08:53,440
Speaker 5: That's that's where Maull sits disgusted.

1718
01:08:54,560 --> 01:08:56,479
Speaker 2: Disgusted. Oh that's disgusting.

1719
01:08:57,600 --> 01:08:58,360
Speaker 6: Smells nice.

1720
01:08:58,400 --> 01:09:00,920
Speaker 9: It's not a bad smelling seat, you see.

1721
01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:03,120
Speaker 3: Well the marriage. No, I'm clean.

1722
01:09:03,280 --> 01:09:06,759
Speaker 9: Wait, she just admitted to smelling your seat.

1723
01:09:06,880 --> 01:09:09,639
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I'm just like when he was here, like, it's.

1724
01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:13,120
Speaker 6: Well, leaves his ass this seat that he sits in.

1725
01:09:14,320 --> 01:09:15,320
Speaker 5: You sniffed the seat.

1726
01:09:15,400 --> 01:09:16,640
Speaker 6: I didn't put you tell him.

1727
01:09:16,640 --> 01:09:17,120
Speaker 1: You can tell him.

1728
01:09:17,560 --> 01:09:18,760
Speaker 6: I didn't put my face to the seat.

1729
01:09:18,880 --> 01:09:19,800
Speaker 9: Put your nose on it.

1730
01:09:20,400 --> 01:09:23,040
Speaker 5: Well, what was like the reason I.

1731
01:09:23,080 --> 01:09:26,160
Speaker 6: Was down there? I was taking pictures on a photo.

1732
01:09:25,880 --> 01:09:28,400
Speaker 1: Shoot, like as soon as I got up.

1733
01:09:29,320 --> 01:09:32,120
Speaker 9: No, you've been gone for like five minutes. Oh okay,

1734
01:09:32,160 --> 01:09:33,960
Speaker 9: so then you just took did you waft?

1735
01:09:34,120 --> 01:09:34,200
Speaker 11: Like?

1736
01:09:35,320 --> 01:09:37,160
Speaker 6: No, it's just he didn't have best Like he doesn't

1737
01:09:37,160 --> 01:09:39,679
Speaker 6: have bad sit down here, His sitting down here doesn't stand.

1738
01:09:39,840 --> 01:09:44,599
Speaker 1: I don't have bad, definitely, Well, thank you, that is hilarious.

1739
01:09:45,479 --> 01:09:47,920
Speaker 2: Sit down there, he don't have bad sitting down here,

1740
01:09:48,000 --> 01:09:48,559
Speaker 2: Thank you the mary.

1741
01:09:48,680 --> 01:09:51,240
Speaker 6: I'm so glad somebody like, oh no, I know, Zach,

1742
01:09:51,360 --> 01:09:52,240
Speaker 6: what you're talking about.

1743
01:09:52,360 --> 01:09:54,360
Speaker 1: I know, which is why I don't have that, because

1744
01:09:54,360 --> 01:09:56,639
Speaker 1: I'm very aware that people have that, and I don't

1745
01:09:56,640 --> 01:09:58,400
Speaker 1: ever want to be that guy. So thank you.

1746
01:09:58,479 --> 01:10:00,080
Speaker 6: Somebody plopped down on a seat and it's.

1747
01:09:59,920 --> 01:10:03,320
Speaker 1: Just yeah, it's just not Yeah scared.

1748
01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:04,599
Speaker 3: I know what she means.

1749
01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:05,920
Speaker 5: I've been sitting next to you for a while. I've

1750
01:10:05,920 --> 01:10:09,519
Speaker 5: never smelled I got you like I didn't. I didn't

1751
01:10:09,520 --> 01:10:11,280
Speaker 5: sniff it, but from you can't smell it.

1752
01:10:11,560 --> 01:10:14,639
Speaker 1: No, listen, man, thank you, appreciate you.

1753
01:10:14,640 --> 01:10:16,200
Speaker 5: You guys would tell someone if they smell.

1754
01:10:16,080 --> 01:10:18,679
Speaker 4: Bad, right, absolutely, I tell you guys, Yeah, I'm close

1755
01:10:18,720 --> 01:10:20,559
Speaker 4: with someone. I'll like, you know, fix your tag.

1756
01:10:21,040 --> 01:10:22,519
Speaker 6: Let you tell me if I smell bad?

1757
01:10:22,640 --> 01:10:24,160
Speaker 5: Yes, definitely.

1758
01:10:24,360 --> 01:10:25,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what you walk.

1759
01:10:25,400 --> 01:10:25,960
Speaker 2: Around like that.

1760
01:10:28,040 --> 01:10:30,040
Speaker 5: You let your friends walk around stinking.

1761
01:10:30,160 --> 01:10:33,040
Speaker 9: Put her pants on backwards. Today you put.

1762
01:10:32,880 --> 01:10:33,959
Speaker 3: Your pants on backwards.

1763
01:10:34,120 --> 01:10:36,160
Speaker 1: I was on the phone, I get it. Hip hop

1764
01:10:36,200 --> 01:10:37,680
Speaker 1: fifty cross.

1765
01:10:37,960 --> 01:10:39,519
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah that's completely wise.

1766
01:10:39,880 --> 01:10:40,599
Speaker 3: I see what you're doing.

1767
01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:42,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'll get it.

1768
01:10:42,160 --> 01:10:46,400
Speaker 6: Let's spell please, but yes, anger wise, you need to

1769
01:10:46,479 --> 01:10:48,960
Speaker 6: learn to carry peace around with you because you're never

1770
01:10:49,000 --> 01:10:50,720
Speaker 6: going to find piece. You need to learn how to

1771
01:10:50,920 --> 01:10:52,000
Speaker 6: manage your anger.

1772
01:10:52,120 --> 01:10:53,160
Speaker 1: Bring someone with you.

1773
01:10:53,240 --> 01:10:55,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, you can't throw your anger.

1774
01:10:55,120 --> 01:10:56,800
Speaker 3: Then others walk in the room with.

1775
01:10:56,800 --> 01:10:58,960
Speaker 4: Peace, and that piece will be as long as you're

1776
01:10:58,960 --> 01:11:02,639
Speaker 4: not gad long if you're not, except just only straight people,

1777
01:11:02,680 --> 01:11:04,840
Speaker 4: peace with straight people, and you don't work for Lizzo

1778
01:11:05,479 --> 01:11:10,280
Speaker 4: true as well. Yeah, find a physical outlet, go lifting, run,

1779
01:11:10,479 --> 01:11:13,400
Speaker 4: work out, like, do something like that too, that kickboxing,

1780
01:11:13,439 --> 01:11:15,439
Speaker 4: help them out of anger. Just get it out in

1781
01:11:15,479 --> 01:11:15,800
Speaker 4: like an.

1782
01:11:15,680 --> 01:11:16,760
Speaker 1: Hour, whatever you do.

1783
01:11:16,760 --> 01:11:18,000
Speaker 3: Don't watch the Knicks.

1784
01:11:19,560 --> 01:11:19,880
Speaker 1: Boils.

1785
01:11:22,120 --> 01:11:23,720
Speaker 5: They actually have room. I don't know where he lives

1786
01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:27,840
Speaker 5: in Toronto six They have like destroy rooms in New York.

1787
01:11:28,439 --> 01:11:29,080
Speaker 2: You never did that.

1788
01:11:29,240 --> 01:11:32,360
Speaker 1: I've never a destroyer room the entire city. To destroy your.

1789
01:11:32,200 --> 01:11:35,160
Speaker 5: Car because it's ran by them. Damn laurels. Rage rooms,

1790
01:11:35,760 --> 01:11:38,559
Speaker 5: rage rooms, rage room, that's what it is like. Break ship.

1791
01:11:38,600 --> 01:11:40,400
Speaker 5: I've never done one before. I should though, Yeah, we.

1792
01:11:40,400 --> 01:11:41,120
Speaker 2: Should take it one.

1793
01:11:41,600 --> 01:11:42,000
Speaker 5: I'm done.

1794
01:11:42,080 --> 01:11:43,160
Speaker 9: It'll be another vlog.

1795
01:11:43,600 --> 01:11:45,840
Speaker 5: Yeah all right, well this was great. Currently we're all

1796
01:11:45,880 --> 01:11:50,000
Speaker 5: on vacation pretending to relax. Yeah, sure, much needed vacation.

1797
01:11:50,160 --> 01:11:51,760
Speaker 5: Thank thank you to everyone here.

1798
01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:54,920
Speaker 1: That Julian is in Saratoga with his feet out win

1799
01:11:55,040 --> 01:11:55,840
Speaker 1: thong sandals.

1800
01:11:57,360 --> 01:11:58,240
Speaker 5: I just feel like that I might do that.

1801
01:11:58,320 --> 01:11:59,360
Speaker 3: The bomb people satog.

1802
01:11:59,560 --> 01:12:02,040
Speaker 9: I've never on a pair of thongs handles. Really, No,

1803
01:12:02,280 --> 01:12:03,480
Speaker 9: that ships gross.

1804
01:12:03,360 --> 01:12:05,960
Speaker 1: You definitely on a pair of dogs with khaki shorts.

1805
01:12:06,080 --> 01:12:07,439
Speaker 9: I don't like toe out cargo.

1806
01:12:08,240 --> 01:12:10,599
Speaker 2: You got some ugly ass feet slides.

1807
01:12:10,720 --> 01:12:13,280
Speaker 4: I just don't like thong sandals. Now not doing the

1808
01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:15,120
Speaker 4: thong sandals, don't jam something in between.

1809
01:12:15,120 --> 01:12:16,760
Speaker 1: Well, demarags right now. If you listen to that, she's

1810
01:12:16,800 --> 01:12:17,400
Speaker 1: on the beach.

1811
01:12:17,280 --> 01:12:19,839
Speaker 6: With her ass out, wearing an actual thong, not the sandals,

1812
01:12:19,840 --> 01:12:20,919
Speaker 6: an actual thong.

1813
01:12:20,840 --> 01:12:23,160
Speaker 5: Getting sand, A married couple and kids.

1814
01:12:23,200 --> 01:12:24,880
Speaker 1: That's you know. They said, if you put your asshole

1815
01:12:24,960 --> 01:12:26,920
Speaker 1: to the sun, the vitamin the absorbs to your asshole,

1816
01:12:26,960 --> 01:12:28,400
Speaker 1: and it's like supposed to be like healthy.

1817
01:12:28,600 --> 01:12:29,559
Speaker 6: I have other ways that it was.

1818
01:12:31,320 --> 01:12:31,479
Speaker 1: Read.

1819
01:12:32,400 --> 01:12:34,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's read readers digest.

1820
01:12:34,280 --> 01:12:36,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, make sure you're following me on Instagram so you

1821
01:12:36,640 --> 01:12:38,200
Speaker 6: can with your cosmo.

1822
01:12:38,439 --> 01:12:41,519
Speaker 1: Yeah said if you point your ass to the sun

1823
01:12:41,560 --> 01:12:44,679
Speaker 1: and you like spread your cheeks and let the Yeah,

1824
01:12:44,960 --> 01:12:47,360
Speaker 1: so it's really good for you. Look it up.

1825
01:12:47,600 --> 01:12:49,240
Speaker 5: That white ass would burn so quick.

1826
01:12:49,360 --> 01:12:51,519
Speaker 1: Well yeah you can't. You know, that's because white people

1827
01:12:51,520 --> 01:12:52,720
Speaker 1: are not supposed to be on his planet. But that's a

1828
01:12:52,720 --> 01:12:53,360
Speaker 1: whole nother thing.

1829
01:12:53,280 --> 01:12:55,840
Speaker 5: That well, yeah, cool, it's his fault.

1830
01:12:55,920 --> 01:12:59,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, follow themarus. She'll have an ass out

1831
01:12:59,840 --> 01:13:03,320
Speaker 1: on beach. Uh, by the time they hear it is

1832
01:13:03,400 --> 01:13:07,680
Speaker 1: it's over. Yeah, sure, Editing is going to be at

1833
01:13:07,720 --> 01:13:09,240
Speaker 1: a party near you in Brooklyn.

1834
01:13:09,400 --> 01:13:12,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, uh this weekend at the loft for Uh.

1835
01:13:13,320 --> 01:13:15,479
Speaker 2: I need to know it's gonna pass by the time that.

1836
01:13:15,560 --> 01:13:20,880
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, it was great. Shout out to say, shut out.

1837
01:13:21,960 --> 01:13:23,080
Speaker 5: What is the girl's name when that show?

1838
01:13:23,120 --> 01:13:27,559
Speaker 1: Reggie? Reggie, Regina, Regina? Okay, Regina, shout out to Regina.

1839
01:13:27,560 --> 01:13:30,519
Speaker 1: Shout out to Alex and save on mixer.

1840
01:13:30,880 --> 01:13:32,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're gonna get mixed he at the mixer?

1841
01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:33,800
Speaker 2: Hell yeah, what you mean?

1842
01:13:34,560 --> 01:13:36,439
Speaker 1: What did you get mixed he at the mix If

1843
01:13:36,439 --> 01:13:37,120
Speaker 1: they're hearing this and that.

1844
01:13:37,280 --> 01:13:38,519
Speaker 6: Did you are you bringing the new.

1845
01:13:40,600 --> 01:13:40,840
Speaker 2: Right?

1846
01:13:42,080 --> 01:13:43,439
Speaker 1: Damn?

1847
01:13:44,600 --> 01:13:46,599
Speaker 6: Everybody else thought on this guy.

1848
01:13:46,520 --> 01:13:50,920
Speaker 1: Name, I would not know any of your business if

1849
01:13:50,920 --> 01:13:53,280
Speaker 1: it was not for you. Let's just make that ship

1850
01:13:53,320 --> 01:13:55,320
Speaker 1: because I knew she was gonna say something like this,

1851
01:13:55,400 --> 01:13:56,680
Speaker 1: what's the I know you're gonna cut it out.

1852
01:13:57,320 --> 01:13:59,240
Speaker 5: You're gonna cut it Why do you have to stay hurt?

1853
01:13:59,760 --> 01:14:00,000
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1854
01:14:00,080 --> 01:14:01,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I don't know her name.

1855
01:14:02,400 --> 01:14:06,080
Speaker 1: Well, this has been a very very fun episode getting

1856
01:14:06,120 --> 01:14:08,840
Speaker 1: to some of these voicemails and some of these phobias

1857
01:14:08,840 --> 01:14:10,760
Speaker 1: that you all you pansies have.

1858
01:14:11,880 --> 01:14:12,880
Speaker 3: We'll talk to y'all soon.

1859
01:14:13,280 --> 01:14:16,519
Speaker 1: Hopefully y'all had a blessed summer, because by the time

1860
01:14:16,520 --> 01:14:19,160
Speaker 1: you're hearing this, the summer is probably almost definitely over.

1861
01:14:20,840 --> 01:14:24,120
Speaker 3: But yeah, be blessed, be safe. We'll talk to y'all soon.

1862
01:14:24,160 --> 01:14:24,679
Speaker 1: I'm that nigga.

1863
01:14:24,680 --> 01:14:25,759
Speaker 3: He's just ginger peace.

1864
01:14:26,200 --> 01:14:28,120
Speaker 1: No worrying now,