1 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: This episode of IRL podcast is powered by boost Mobile. 2 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:10,319 Speaker 2: What's up, guys, we are back. 3 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: This is an Edge Martinez IRL Weekly episode. 4 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 2: I'm sitting here with my producer, Brittany Orti. 5 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 1: We are going through some of the things that happened 6 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:21,120 Speaker 1: this week on the show. 7 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 2: Sherry Shepherd episode just drops. 8 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 1: Sherry is great, right, Yeah, you know when she's on 9 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 1: the show, she's always like, I don't know when anybody 10 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:32,879 Speaker 1: has to be like the life of the party all 11 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: the time, I almost feel bad for them, Like I'm 12 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 1: almost like it's okay, like we could just chill. You 13 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 1: don't have to like make me laugh or you don't 14 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 1: have to make me smile. Like I feel like Sherry 15 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:42,879 Speaker 1: walks around. 16 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:45,200 Speaker 2: It's almost like a burden in a wheel. 17 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 1: Not in a bad way, it's a burden she carries 18 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:51,200 Speaker 1: wildly and well, like she wants everybody in a room 19 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 1: to feel happy, smiling, laughing. 20 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 2: That would be exhausting to me, even what I expect. 21 00:00:58,640 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm on the rebend on the radio for 22 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 1: mad years. I always feel like I want to give 23 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 1: people good energy. But the idea of having to make 24 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: people like laugh or I don't know, just enlightened, joyous, 25 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: all the time every day that talk show. Life is 26 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 1: different and also she's not. She doesn't have a perfect life, 27 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 1: Like she has challenges in her life. She's been through 28 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:25,960 Speaker 1: two very difficult divorces. You know, her son has is 29 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: on the spectrum, and she talks about the beauty of that, 30 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 1: but also the challenges of that. Yeah, just like I 31 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 1: think it was it was nice to get to know 32 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 1: her a little bit in a different way. 33 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 3: My favorite, my favorite thing from her was when she's 34 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 3: talking about friendship and like the importance of female women womanhood. 35 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:43,759 Speaker 3: This keeps coming up a lot, like it's a topic 36 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 3: that's really important to me. Actually, yeah, cause building your tribe. 37 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:50,559 Speaker 3: Like I'm in a phase right now where I'm like, okay, 38 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 3: let me hone in a little bit on like, yeah, 39 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 3: who is my group of girlfriends? When Sha was talking 40 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:58,920 Speaker 3: about I'm buying a place in Italy with my girlfriend 41 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 3: and when we go to dinner we all put our 42 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 3: cards down, I'm like, that sounds great. 43 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 2: Where they at? Where I'm friends at? Can you bring 44 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 2: those friends to the God. 45 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:10,359 Speaker 1: She's also at a different place in her life than 46 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 1: you are. That's true, and probably some of your friends 47 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 1: are still trying to find their way. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 48 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 1: but yes, that is a nice thing. I do have 49 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: that with my friends too, even friends that, like, you know, 50 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: I have friends that do really well, like better than me, 51 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I have like friends even 52 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:30,640 Speaker 1: like Mary. Coming up, Mary was more advanced in terms 53 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: of what she was making money wise, and we would 54 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 1: all go to dinner and she always was like, I 55 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 1: got dinner. I got dinner, I got dinner. But then 56 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 1: it became like, you don't have to you don't have 57 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 1: to do that, like, but she's always taken back when 58 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:42,359 Speaker 1: we do it. 59 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 2: We're like, nah, I got dinner. 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If we all go to 85 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 3: dinner whatever, it's like four or five people, and like 86 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 3: one person doesn't eat or drink as many things, but 87 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 3: they want to count the bill. 88 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, well that's tricky when you're counting your money 89 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 1: to make sure you have enough for rent. It. 90 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 2: I so I do understand it. 91 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 1: If you're like, if you have a budget to spend 92 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 1: this much so you can make your monthly bills and 93 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 1: you go out with your friends and lem me just 94 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:20,839 Speaker 1: wanted six. 95 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 2: Shots and you're like, that's not in my budget. 96 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 3: I do understand that you got to tell somebody that 97 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:27,039 Speaker 3: before it come out. 98 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, don't come outside then, right, or. 99 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 3: Tell when you get invited to be like yo, I 100 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 3: can't do it, and then wait for somebody else to offer, 101 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 3: like because I'm the type of friend like yo, tell me, 102 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 3: tell me on the side of the group chat like. 103 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 2: Yo, brit like it ain't looking cute right now. I'm like, word, 104 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 2: don't even say nothing. I got it, Like, yeah, you 105 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:46,159 Speaker 2: don't like to be surprised. 106 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 3: No, you showed up in your good outfit and now 107 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:53,720 Speaker 3: it's like I just had a water though in a salad. 108 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 1: Huh, you got a big salad and for my fries. 109 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 2: I mean, you know. So I'm still looking more of 110 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:05,840 Speaker 2: the story there is. I'm still figuring out hmm at. 111 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:08,840 Speaker 1: Your friend group speaker than that though, because them girlfriends 112 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:11,600 Speaker 1: man like Sherry was saying, it's like those moments. So 113 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:14,119 Speaker 1: she talks about getting served after her I could see 114 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 1: that darkness for her after her divorce and having to 115 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 1: go on stage and she just lost it, crying and 116 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:20,600 Speaker 1: her friend being able to be there and holding her 117 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 1: it really be your girls, and I'll tell you something 118 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 1: like recently, I'm at some point I should probably share 119 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 1: it on the pod. I've been dealing with some stuff 120 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 1: in my life and one of my girlfriends said to me, 121 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:33,039 Speaker 1: shout out to Mary Floyd, love you to death. She 122 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 1: was like, you know, it's okay to lean into your 123 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 1: support system, which. 124 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:42,160 Speaker 2: Sounds so that's hard for a hyper independent way, but 125 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 2: it sounds very you know, like a simple thing of advice. 126 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 1: But the truth is is like I don't often think 127 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 1: like that because I'm a like you said, independent, I've 128 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: always taking care of myself. I always so, and I 129 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 1: don't ask for a lot from people. So the giving 130 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 1: myself the grace to be like, yeah, no I need. 131 00:05:57,800 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 2: You to do that for me. Yeah, can you do that? 132 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:02,159 Speaker 2: Can you do it for one more day? Can you 133 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 2: do this? 134 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 3: And then remember when CARTI was on and she was like, 135 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:07,360 Speaker 3: she was like, I'm not the type of person that. 136 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 2: Likes to ask people for any single thing. 137 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:13,919 Speaker 3: She said, I'd rather sleep on the train than ask 138 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:15,159 Speaker 3: anybody for anything. 139 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:17,720 Speaker 2: Like That's how deep it goes. I feel her on that. 140 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:19,280 Speaker 2: I do feel her on that. 141 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:24,280 Speaker 1: But sometimes especially when you're in a in something like 142 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:28,479 Speaker 1: if you're the person who's always in something, then that 143 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:30,720 Speaker 1: could be tricky because because your friends don't want the 144 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:33,720 Speaker 1: burden of you. But if you're like somebody who doesn't 145 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:36,159 Speaker 1: usually ask for much, give yourself a little grace when 146 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 1: you're in the middle of a storm or something where 147 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 1: you need people to you need the support team, the 148 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 1: people you've poured into to be able to be there 149 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:46,720 Speaker 1: for you in that time. I think, I don't know. 150 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 1: For me, that's an important thing for me to remind myself. 151 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 1: And I have been really good at my friendships over 152 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:56,680 Speaker 1: the years. I've picked great friends, I've chosen well. I 153 00:06:56,720 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 1: haven't had my friends surprise me in many ways, haven't 154 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:04,200 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, I've chosen well and 155 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 1: and so I have that, so why not. 156 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 2: Use it when you need it. It's like it's like insurance. 157 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 3: It's like it's also a good way to test out 158 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 3: to refine your friend group because then if you're not 159 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 3: a person that you know asks a lot and then 160 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 3: you finally you pull that card out, that get out 161 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 3: of jail free card, and then someone asks funny, it's like, oh, well, 162 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:27,680 Speaker 3: maybe you needed to kick the curb. 163 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, exactly. So it's also good for that. I 164 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 2: feel that we've had some good episodes. 165 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 1: We just had Doja Cat also Dojah. 166 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 2: She's she's like, I can't explain it. She's just just 167 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 2: like little artsy, unique. 168 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 1: Little unicorn, right, Like, she's like her own person, very different, 169 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 1: very kind of comfortable in her quirkiness in a weird way. 170 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 1: Which I love that because that those are fun people 171 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 1: to kind of get to know. So I love that episode. 172 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 1: You guys could check that out. That was right before Sherry. 173 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, do you have a favorite Dojah moment? 174 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 1: You know what I liked when she was talking about 175 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 1: Sissa and and and not just Sissa but Lady Gaga. 176 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 1: It's just she's such an artist and she so deeply 177 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 1: appreciated them. It was cute to see that she was 178 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: getting wateryied talking about Sissa. But then also when she 179 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 1: was talking about Lady Gaga, she was like, it's not 180 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: about her even as an artist, because you can look 181 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 1: at Dojacat and go, oh, she's make sense, influenced by 182 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 1: Lady Gaga, clearly, but she's like, it's not her music, 183 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 1: it's not her art. 184 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 2: It's like the way she treats her fans. The way 185 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 2: she treats her how gracious she is. 186 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 1: So she's like that is like inspiring to me, Like 187 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 1: I wish to kind of live up to that level 188 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 1: of like just graciousness or whatever. And so I thought, 189 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 1: I don't know, I thought that was really telling about 190 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:47,079 Speaker 1: the person she is. She's trying to be, the person 191 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 1: she is and the person she's trying to be, which anyway, 192 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 1: it was a few great moments. 193 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:54,719 Speaker 2: Well the person she's bouncing off of that. 194 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 3: You know, she's trying to be gracious to her friends, 195 00:08:57,640 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 3: and she talks about that viral moment that happened with 196 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:01,439 Speaker 3: when the guy. 197 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 2: Tried to give her that gift and she was she 198 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 2: felt uncomfortable big literally And if you ever want anything more, 199 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:09,880 Speaker 2: I got you. 200 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 3: I think a lot of times, like you know, celebrities whatever, 201 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 3: are like hyper. 202 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 2: Criticized on the internet. 203 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 3: I think she actually handled that situation with a lot 204 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 3: of grace and a lot of she took a lot 205 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 3: of accountability, like in that you mean in an interview, Yeah, 206 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:26,560 Speaker 3: that's a conversation. 207 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:27,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, she took a lot. 208 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 3: Of accountability, which I don't think people because because then 209 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 3: after you say, yo, my bad, I fucked up. This 210 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:35,840 Speaker 3: is how I feel about it? Then what But she 211 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 3: didn't really say that it yeah, but she said it halfway. 212 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 1: She was like, she was halfway. But she's also like, 213 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:43,960 Speaker 1: but I don't want to expect more. So she's like, also, 214 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 1: I don't want to perform for you and be like 215 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. 216 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 2: Will you forgive me? 217 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 1: Because a lot of times when people are looking to 218 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 1: get back in your good graces, it does become performative. 219 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 3: It does become like remember the times when people would 220 00:09:57,600 --> 00:09:59,520 Speaker 3: would have their written thing and they turn on the 221 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 3: camera and get in front of the thing and be like, yeah, 222 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 3: I just want to say that I am so deeply. 223 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:06,719 Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm court by my actions and I never blah 224 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah. I don't see Doja ever doing 225 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 1: something like that. And so I think she knows that 226 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: she didn't love that moment for herself. She didn't love 227 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 1: maybe how she handled that, and she definitely expressed that 228 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:20,199 Speaker 1: in the conversation. But she was also like, but what 229 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:22,440 Speaker 1: I'm not going to do is be out here and 230 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 1: performing begging you guys to still like me. 231 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:27,840 Speaker 2: It is what it is. It was an apology enough 232 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:28,080 Speaker 2: for me. 233 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:31,959 Speaker 3: You just liked it is my type, my type of apology, 234 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:35,960 Speaker 3: like I, yeah, maybe I might I might have been, 235 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:41,080 Speaker 3: but also relax on me because this is what I was, 236 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 3: this is how I was experienced. 237 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:46,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, for sure, Yes, that shit happens. But I 238 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:47,479 Speaker 2: like the idea. 239 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 1: I like the idea of even if you don't handle 240 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 1: something in the most perfect way, it's like not not 241 00:10:56,000 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 1: necessarily being apologetic fully, like not necessarily feeling the need 242 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:06,239 Speaker 1: to make everybody still like you. Like you could feel apologetic, 243 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 1: but you could also not feel the need to overly 244 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:15,200 Speaker 1: make people believe that you're apologetic, because. 245 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:17,320 Speaker 2: Then it's a fine line. Then it comes off fake. 246 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 2: It's performative. 247 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like you're doing it because you want them 248 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 1: to perceive you in a way versus how I really feel, like, yeah, 249 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:26,840 Speaker 1: I was kind of whack. 250 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 2: I'm trying to be better to me. 251 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:32,560 Speaker 1: That's that's good, right, that's good with me, Like, say, 252 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 1: good for you, right, I don't need you to be 253 00:11:34,440 --> 00:11:38,199 Speaker 1: like yeah, you know, I really deeply from my heart, 254 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 1: I didn't. I don't want ever people to think I'm 255 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 1: you know that to me is like I mean, for everybody, 256 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 1: it's different. 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So I cannot weak 310 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 1: because I'm. 311 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:18,839 Speaker 2: Obsessed with her. 312 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 1: So good, so good. And we have a new segment 313 00:14:21,480 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 1: to a boost Mobile segment. It's called voice Notes. We're 314 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:27,160 Speaker 1: going to be getting you guys. I always want, I 315 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:29,400 Speaker 1: love I read all the comments, by the way, on 316 00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 1: the I r L page, on the YouTube page, on 317 00:14:31,800 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 1: the Instagram page, leave your comments, say hello, dm we 318 00:14:36,240 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 1: read everything, and so this will be an extension of that. 319 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:39,920 Speaker 2: You can send us voice notes. 320 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 1: It's a boost Mobile feature we're doing called voice notes, 321 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 1: and we will play them for ourselves and answer questions 322 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 1: or we can play them. So if you have like 323 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 1: something for Leslie Jones, you can send it. If you 324 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 1: have something for me, you can send it and you 325 00:14:49,960 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 1: can DM us and we'll reach out to you. So 326 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 1: dm us Andrew Martinez IRL on Instagram. Yeah, we have 327 00:14:55,880 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 1: a voice note today. 328 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 2: Yes, we do we actually have. And the great thing 329 00:14:58,680 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 2: about this is that. 330 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 3: You can DM us your voice notes to ask Angie 331 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 3: during these weeklies. 332 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:06,720 Speaker 2: I love this for us, look at us. 333 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 3: So we have one voice note ready, our first voice 334 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 3: note for Angie, now presented by our friends at BOO. 335 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 4: What's up, Angie? You've built such a respective voice in 336 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:20,600 Speaker 4: this industry by being real, grounded and true to yourself, 337 00:15:20,600 --> 00:15:23,360 Speaker 4: and I love you for that. What advice would you 338 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 4: give someone like me who's still finding their voice trying 339 00:15:26,400 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 4: to build a career that feels authentic but also powerful 340 00:15:30,520 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 4: like yours. 341 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:35,400 Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's a loaded question. It's hard. It's 342 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 2: like a lifelong thing trying to figure that out. 343 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 1: It's a whole lifelong thing. Because here's the thing, figure 344 00:15:41,920 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 1: out what works for you right now. It's good to 345 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:46,120 Speaker 1: have tenure plans and lifelong plans and all that, and 346 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:49,720 Speaker 1: you should have those plans, but you should also get 347 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 1: to know yourself who you are right now, what feels good, 348 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:55,480 Speaker 1: what motivates you. And it's a lot to do a 349 00:15:55,520 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 1: gut to finding your path and trust if you love 350 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:05,400 Speaker 1: doing something, do that and keep going in that direction, 351 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 1: even if you don't know where it lands on the 352 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: other side, and you keep going and then you find 353 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 1: ways to kind of explore whatever that thing is. And 354 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 1: I know it's complicated for some people because some people 355 00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:17,800 Speaker 1: have bills to pay and they're like, Okay, that sounds great, 356 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 1: but I also have a day job. You can still 357 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:21,600 Speaker 1: have your day job. You can still have your day 358 00:16:21,680 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 1: job and find something that you're passionate about. And if 359 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:26,200 Speaker 1: you give it two hours a day, if you give 360 00:16:26,200 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 1: it three hours a day, if you give it all weekend, 361 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 1: and then when you after your day job, like, you 362 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:35,840 Speaker 1: can serve a drive, a passion, and so I say, 363 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 1: you just go. It's always like one step in front 364 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 1: of the other. And honestly, that shit changes all the time. 365 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 1: You can have a dream, think you figured it out, 366 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:43,760 Speaker 1: and then three years later you're like, yeah, you know what, 367 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:45,600 Speaker 1: this don't really work for me anymore, and now you 368 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 1: got to pivot. 369 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:48,520 Speaker 2: And that has happened to me plenty of times. I'll 370 00:16:48,520 --> 00:16:50,320 Speaker 2: start something, I'd be like, I don't love this, but 371 00:16:50,360 --> 00:16:50,760 Speaker 2: I did this. 372 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:54,720 Speaker 1: Learn this from Oprah that you should you should finish 373 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 1: what you start, because sometimes you get a little put 374 00:16:57,800 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 1: like and I have to get better, like even I 375 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 1: have to check myself on that because sometimes I start 376 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 1: things and I'm like, oh, it didn't really come out 377 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 1: like I liked, so and then i'm creative, so I'm 378 00:17:05,600 --> 00:17:08,200 Speaker 1: ready to move on to the next thing. But it's like, no, 379 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 1: try something, finish it, move, keep moving, keep moving forward, 380 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:19,160 Speaker 1: doing things that feel good in your soul, and it'll 381 00:17:19,160 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 1: come to you it. Plans will come to you, ideas 382 00:17:21,359 --> 00:17:23,199 Speaker 1: will come to you, opportunities will come to you, and 383 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:24,120 Speaker 1: then you can follow. 384 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:25,640 Speaker 2: Them as you go. And does that make sense? 385 00:17:25,760 --> 00:17:25,960 Speaker 4: Yeah. 386 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:28,480 Speaker 3: The last weekly when we talked about us shooting the 387 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:32,080 Speaker 3: short film, we got back our first edit and it's 388 00:17:32,119 --> 00:17:35,480 Speaker 3: not what you've pictured in your head. 389 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:37,400 Speaker 2: You want to tell them what it was. Okay, that's fine. 390 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 1: I just shot a short film that I wrote and 391 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:41,679 Speaker 1: directed and I got the first pass back and I'm like, 392 00:17:42,359 --> 00:17:44,920 Speaker 1: oh God, this doesn't look like it looked in my head. 393 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:46,000 Speaker 2: What do I gotta do now? 394 00:17:46,119 --> 00:17:49,159 Speaker 1: And So, because I have podcasts, a radio show, I 395 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:51,160 Speaker 1: have a whole bunch of other things going on, it's 396 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:52,920 Speaker 1: kind of been sitting for a week, but I refuse, 397 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 1: so like, all next week I'm gonna be working on 398 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:57,119 Speaker 1: it because I do believe in the story and I 399 00:17:57,160 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 1: do believe in all the people that help me make 400 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:01,359 Speaker 1: that happen, and I. 401 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 2: Do want to the goal always, and this happens too. 402 00:18:05,359 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 1: It's like you have to remind yourself of your goals 403 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:09,879 Speaker 1: because you can forget them. The goal always was for me, 404 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:12,000 Speaker 1: as I had something on my bucket list, was to write, 405 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:15,760 Speaker 1: create direct something all the way through. So I don't 406 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:19,440 Speaker 1: finish it, then I sell myself short. I I didn't 407 00:18:19,440 --> 00:18:21,439 Speaker 1: even do that, so I have to finish it. And 408 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:23,600 Speaker 1: then also, if I'm being honest, no matter how it 409 00:18:23,680 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 1: ends up, no matter how it comes up, if I 410 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:26,879 Speaker 1: could get it to look like I want it, or 411 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:29,960 Speaker 1: if I don't, I still learn so much in the process. 412 00:18:30,160 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 1: So then there's so I take that experience and that 413 00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:36,200 Speaker 1: helps me build on the next experience, and it keeps 414 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:38,920 Speaker 1: me going in the direction chasing something that I'm actually 415 00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:42,720 Speaker 1: falling in love with doing. So your hip bomps on 416 00:18:42,760 --> 00:18:45,760 Speaker 1: the road. Shit won't always go right. You just keep going. 417 00:18:45,520 --> 00:18:46,840 Speaker 2: Forward, just forward. 418 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:49,320 Speaker 1: Sometimes you don't know what five steps looks in front 419 00:18:49,320 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 1: of you looks like, but if you take one step 420 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:55,919 Speaker 1: and then another one, eventually you make progress. So that 421 00:18:56,000 --> 00:19:00,480 Speaker 1: was a long complicated answer, No, it was, it was it, 422 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:04,160 Speaker 1: but spend enough time with yourself. Ask yourself real questions, 423 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:07,159 Speaker 1: Be honest with yourself. What moves you, what makes you happy? 424 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:10,440 Speaker 1: What what makes you feel like you have something to offer? 425 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 2: What scares you the most? Are you like things that 426 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:14,760 Speaker 2: scare you? No? No, I don't. 427 00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:17,239 Speaker 3: Which is my dad told me this? He was like, 428 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 3: he was, I was. I was like, Dad, I don't 429 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:22,040 Speaker 3: know if what I am envisioned for myself is where 430 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:23,600 Speaker 3: I want to go anymore. 431 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:26,119 Speaker 2: He's like, well, what's the thing that scares you the most? 432 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 2: And what is it? Why was trying to make me 433 00:19:29,840 --> 00:19:32,240 Speaker 2: give up my goods? You just make me tell a story. 434 00:19:32,280 --> 00:19:33,160 Speaker 2: I'm I'm sure. 435 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:34,679 Speaker 1: I have. 436 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 2: I haven't figured that out. What scares you? 437 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:38,120 Speaker 4: Yeah? 438 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:40,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, like the most? Like I haven't. I don't know 439 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:42,840 Speaker 2: if I buy that. I haven't figured that out. I'm 440 00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:44,480 Speaker 2: curious to see where that lands. I think he was 441 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 2: just trying to get me to start opening up. 442 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. 443 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:50,800 Speaker 2: Because I'm a planner. I'm a very logical thinker. 444 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 3: So if you present something to me, I'm like, oh, 445 00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 3: are you like somebody who's like Bray I want to 446 00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:56,320 Speaker 3: be on air personality? 447 00:19:56,320 --> 00:19:57,879 Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, well did you do this? This and this? 448 00:19:57,960 --> 00:20:01,400 Speaker 3: I start going down the logical and I sometimes wish 449 00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 3: I was more artsy, Yes, free free, yes, free falling 450 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:07,199 Speaker 3: Because I look at somebody else, like a Doja cat 451 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:08,880 Speaker 3: or something, I'm like, Wow, that seems so. 452 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 2: Fulfilling, and you just want to be creative. Yes, but 453 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:14,959 Speaker 2: my brain just doesn't operate in that manner. 454 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:15,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 455 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:19,200 Speaker 2: See, but what you're doing right now, that is actually 456 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 2: the process. Like what you're doing. 457 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 1: Right now, even though you don't have the ant, you 458 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 1: just did in real time what I was explaining, Like 459 00:20:26,040 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 1: you just witnessed it happening. That's her figuring out peace 460 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:33,240 Speaker 1: by piece and so you don't have to have it 461 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 1: all figured out today. But you know you like the 462 00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:38,760 Speaker 1: feeling of feeling free and creative. You know you're good 463 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:42,959 Speaker 1: at being logical and logistic and all those things. So 464 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 1: just keep doing things that fills those buckets, even if 465 00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:49,359 Speaker 1: it's not the perfect thing yet. Like, that's exactly what 466 00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 1: I'm saying, is it that you have to do? You're 467 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:53,120 Speaker 1: not going to figure it out right now, And honestly, 468 00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:55,600 Speaker 1: if you did figure it out this week, but in 469 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:58,399 Speaker 1: six months, it could shift and you could be like 470 00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:01,000 Speaker 1: I figured out because I like this and I did it, 471 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 1: and then I did six months and I'm like, yeah, 472 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:05,160 Speaker 1: I don't this is not working for me, or I'm 473 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:08,359 Speaker 1: not making enough money, or my priorities have changed, or 474 00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 1: my lifestyle has changed, or whatever things change. Life pivots, 475 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:15,600 Speaker 1: and so the key is to keep asking yourself those 476 00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:19,080 Speaker 1: real questions and then to keep going in the direction 477 00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:22,560 Speaker 1: to the answers of those real questions, and then you 478 00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:24,439 Speaker 1: do that for the rest of your life. 479 00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:30,440 Speaker 2: Comeline forever. Good luck, guys, but good luck on that. 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It was like, I love hip hop music. 525 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 1: I love music. And then I got an internship with 526 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:23,800 Speaker 1: the radio station. I was like, this is really cool. 527 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:26,359 Speaker 1: How do I learn How can I run those boards? 528 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:27,879 Speaker 1: How can I learn that? And then I did that, 529 00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:31,200 Speaker 1: and then opportunity opened up itself for me, just chasing 530 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:33,880 Speaker 1: and surrounding myself around the things I like to do. 531 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:35,920 Speaker 1: And then that opened up and I'm like, oh, wait, 532 00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:38,719 Speaker 1: I could be on the air. Okay, let me try that. 533 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:41,639 Speaker 1: Oh I could interview people, Let's try that. And so 534 00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:44,800 Speaker 1: it's just keep climbing in the direction that feels good, 535 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:48,439 Speaker 1: keep looking for things that make you feel fulfilled, and 536 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 1: then keep taking steps forward in that direction. 537 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:52,720 Speaker 2: And then one day you wake up and you're. 538 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:54,720 Speaker 1: Like, oh shit, I took all those steps this year, 539 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:57,879 Speaker 1: and I made a little and I made a little progress. 540 00:23:58,320 --> 00:23:59,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. 541 00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 1: I mean, some people are lucky. Some people are kids 542 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 1: and they know I want to play piano. 543 00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:04,000 Speaker 2: I wish. 544 00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:06,600 Speaker 1: I'm just saying some people, as kids, they know their 545 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 1: whole life. For most people, it doesn't work that way. 546 00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:12,360 Speaker 1: Those are you know, there's prodigies that know. Okay, Derek 547 00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:14,280 Speaker 1: Jeter knew he wanted to play baseball his whole life, 548 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:15,480 Speaker 1: and then he did and he was in the Hall 549 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:18,439 Speaker 1: of Fame. Okay, great, But I'm just saying most people 550 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:20,919 Speaker 1: don't operate that way. Like most people, you have to 551 00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:23,240 Speaker 1: find it and then you find it and it shifts 552 00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:26,080 Speaker 1: and it pivots, and so it's being in touch with yourself, 553 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:30,480 Speaker 1: asking yourself with the questions and then keep taking steps 554 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:32,359 Speaker 1: in that direction. So I hope that helps. Thank you 555 00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:34,040 Speaker 1: for your voice. No, I know that was a really 556 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:38,439 Speaker 1: long answer, Farrence, so long, but keep them coming. Go 557 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:40,920 Speaker 1: to the Edge Martinez irl podcast page to do that. 558 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:42,840 Speaker 1: And if you've missed any of the episodes. You can 559 00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:43,280 Speaker 1: catch them. 560 00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:43,920 Speaker 2: They're all there. 561 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 1: Doji Cat is there, Sherry Shepherd is there, Cardi B 562 00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:49,520 Speaker 1: is there? So many Yeah, and next week we have 563 00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 1: Leslie Jones. 564 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:53,040 Speaker 2: I'm excited about that. Great anyway, thanks for watching, guys. 565 00:24:53,200 --> 00:25:01,679 Speaker 2: Today's episode is powered by boosmopl Hey, guys, thanks for watching. 566 00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:05,119 Speaker 1: Make sure you subscribe, like comments, and check out all 567 00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 1: of the other episodes we have on Edge. 568 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:08,280 Speaker 2: Martinez IR podcast