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Speaker 1: First Date of follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Riley is on the phone today for our first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Michael.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we're gonna call him and

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Speaker 2: see if you tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe

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Speaker 2: get her another date. But first, Riley, how long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you talked to Michael.

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Speaker 1: It's been about a week.

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Speaker 3: Have you reached out to him at all?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I have a tread calling and texting, but you

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Speaker 1: don't want to do it too much, you know, right,

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Speaker 1: But and that's that I should get a response.

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Speaker 3: So would he'd just be having a busy week. I

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Speaker 3: can't help but ask that whenever it's like a.

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Speaker 1: Week, no, Because before we were supposed to go out,

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Speaker 1: you know, we talked quite a bit, and then after

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Speaker 1: we were scheduled to go out, it was like t

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Speaker 1: just was m I A.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you can tell the difference, well for sure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Why don't you tell us about how you met him?

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Speaker 3: And like how the date went?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, we met on bumble and I noticed that

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Speaker 1: he lived close to a pub, you know that I

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Speaker 1: usually go to It's right near my work, and so

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Speaker 1: we messaged and we planned on you know, uh, you know,

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Speaker 1: we talked a little bit. It seemed really good. I

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Speaker 1: like jazz. I grew up. You know, my dad loved jazz,

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Speaker 1: so I grew up that way. So he had this

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Speaker 1: whole evening planned. We were going to go to a

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Speaker 1: jazz club.

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Speaker 3: And that morning.

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Speaker 1: I got sick, like food poison me. I ate breakfast. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was really bad. So I text him and just said, hey,

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm sick, can't make it. And you know,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't going to go into detail, you don't want

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Speaker 1: to know details. And ever since then, I mean, no

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Speaker 1: response at all. And this whole week, you know, I

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Speaker 1: kind of hey, how are you? Can we you know,

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Speaker 1: schedule another date and nothing.

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Speaker 4: So well, how did he react when you said you

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Speaker 4: were sick though? He just didn't respond to you? Or

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Speaker 4: was he like, oh respond No, I didn't respond at all,

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Speaker 4: which was really weird because before that, you know, he

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Speaker 4: was so sweet. We did talk a lot, you know,

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Speaker 4: got to know each other through text, you know how

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Speaker 4: that goes back and forth. And I mean he's super hot.

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Speaker 1: I'm not too shatty I would say, but yeah, it

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Speaker 1: was just really nice and great conversation and he seemed

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Speaker 1: super sweet. And then I mean, I wasn't going to go.

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Speaker 1: Obviously you're not going to force yourself to go. I'm

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Speaker 1: just saying that it was very bad. And you know,

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Speaker 1: I figured at least he would say, oh, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: how about we reschedule or text me when you feel better.

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Speaker 1: But absolutely nothing, like no, no response, no thumbs up.

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Speaker 1: I mean I would have even taken an emoji, you know,

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Speaker 1: because at least they acknowledge that, you know, whether good

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Speaker 1: or bad. Sometimes you just want to say, just answer

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Speaker 1: you just answer, doesn't matter what you say, just answer

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Speaker 1: and nothing.

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Speaker 2: Is there anything that you can think of? There would

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Speaker 2: be a reason for the ghost you, I mean, other

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Speaker 2: than being sick.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: I wonder if he like had other girls on the roster.

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Speaker 2: Oh so whenever she said she was sick, he picked

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Speaker 2: out another one. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I just wonder because when you were playing the apps,

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Speaker 4: you know, like not everybody is just focused on one person.

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Speaker 4: Now what you think of when someone's sick, Nina, I

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Speaker 4: don't know, Oh, he says a roster. Yeah, well you're

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Speaker 4: talking to the girl that accused somebody of faking his

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Speaker 4: illness not to see me.

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Speaker 3: So, yeah, I don't know, I might jump to those conclusions.

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Speaker 3: I'm not.

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Speaker 4: I don't know that that's for sure what happened. But

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Speaker 4: it's kind of bizarre just not to respond at all.

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Speaker 1: Cently meant on Bumble that might be actually really good,

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Speaker 1: something good reason.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well we'll see if we can figure it out

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Speaker 2: for you. All play a song come back, and then

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Speaker 2: call him and seefa tell us why he's ghosting you,

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Speaker 2: and maybe get you another date. Okay, okay, all right,

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Speaker 2: well play song come back and get your first date

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Speaker 2: follow up next. Right in the middle of your first

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Speaker 2: date follow up, if you're just joining us, Riley is

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Speaker 2: on the phone. She's getting ghosted by a guy named Michael,

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Speaker 2: and she has no idea why. So in a second

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Speaker 2: we're gonna call him and see if it's all us

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Speaker 2: why he's a ghost singer, and maybe get her another date.

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Speaker 2: But first, Riley, why don't you catch us up on

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Speaker 2: your situation?

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Speaker 1: Well, basically, we met on Bumble. It was gone great,

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Speaker 1: lots of conversation. We were supposed to meet for a date,

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Speaker 1: and I got sick that morning and like really bad

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Speaker 1: food poisoning, and so I text him, told him I

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Speaker 1: was sick and been ghosted ever since.

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Speaker 3: That's so weird. Well we'll see what the deal is.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, all right, Well are you ready for us

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Speaker 2: to call him?

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Speaker 5: Oh? Yeah, okay, okay, hello him?

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Speaker 2: I asking to Michael please?

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, to see Hey man, how are you?

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Speaker 2: My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called the Jeubil Show.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Michael, I'm Nina also on the Jebel Show.

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Speaker 5: Hi.

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Speaker 3: I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 6: Oh are you guys?

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Speaker 2: Good? Sounds like you listen to the show. Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Here and there, okay.

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Speaker 2: Sweet, Here and there is a great way to listen. Well,

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Speaker 2: we're calling you today, that's true. Have you heard of

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Speaker 2: a first date follow up before?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, cool? Well what did you say if I told

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Speaker 2: you that you're you're currently the star of one?

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Speaker 1: How is that possible?

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna date a while.

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Speaker 3: I just like it.

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Speaker 2: There is somebody that emailed us and told us that

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Speaker 2: you're ghosting them, and they want to know why.

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Speaker 5: Oh.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I wouldn't necessarily call it ghosting, but.

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Speaker 1: That's what this is about.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, do you know who it is?

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Speaker 1: Riley?

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Speaker 2: Yes, it is Riley. She emailed us said that she

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Speaker 2: really liked you, and you guys are all set to

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Speaker 2: go out, and then she got sick and then you

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Speaker 2: ghosted her again.

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Speaker 6: I wouldn't necessarily to characterize it as ghosting, but I

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Speaker 6: mean we talked for a while and we you know,

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Speaker 6: put together a date and you know, for whatever reason,

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Speaker 6: she either chose to not want to go, or she

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Speaker 6: met somebody else, or she had a better offer. I

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Speaker 6: who knows, but she decided not to go.

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Speaker 1: And you know, I'm not going to dwell on it.

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Speaker 6: I'm over it. You know, there's other people out there,

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Speaker 6: and you know, I really don't need this right now.

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Speaker 6: I don't play games.

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Speaker 4: So you receive a text that says, I'm sorry, I

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Speaker 4: can't make it. I'm sick, And do you feel like

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Speaker 4: you can't deal with that?

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Speaker 1: Well, it's the first date, sure, so but I you know,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I was legitimately sick.

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Speaker 2: Right, Michael Riley. She's actually on the phone listening.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Oh Riley, Hi, I mean, hi, Hi, So you

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Speaker 6: were sick? I I I don't, I mean, I.

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Speaker 1: Don't play games. It was I That's why I text you.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm sick. I'm not going to tell you

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Speaker 1: what was going on physically. That's that's not cool, that's

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Speaker 1: not I mean no, So I just figured you would

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Speaker 1: be Okay, that sucks. How about we reschedule and go

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Speaker 1: out again because we were hitting it off. I mean, okay,

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Speaker 1: so you assume that I was thinking something else, that's you,

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Speaker 1: not me.

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Speaker 6: Maybe I would have wanted to know something, so yeah,

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Speaker 6: I mean listen, so I would totally you know, I mean,

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Speaker 6: that's your assuming, that's you.

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Speaker 1: So I would have been open to it, but maybe

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Speaker 1: I would have wanted.

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Speaker 6: To know, you know, the details.

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Speaker 1: Do you ever think that, well, I don't think that

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Speaker 1: you want to know that I was going to the

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Speaker 1: bathroom like every so often. That's not something that you know.

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Speaker 1: But that's TM. I know I didn't hear that part,

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Speaker 1: but it would have been nice, know you know.

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Speaker 6: Hey, you know it wouldn't be good like.

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Speaker 1: Just a one line tax.

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Speaker 6: You know, it didn't you know, it just didn't feel right,

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Speaker 6: and I don't know it'd still be open to it,

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Speaker 6: you know, if you're not going to be sick this time.

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Speaker 2: Okay, cool, then Michael, if you'd like to go on

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Speaker 2: another date with Riley, will pay for it.

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Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, most definitely cool.

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Speaker 2: Riley, congratulations you got another date?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 2: Sweet, congratulations so much.

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Speaker 3: I guess I know you respond to text messages and

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Speaker 3: you don't have that problem.

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Speaker 5: Juble's first date follow up