1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,520 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if 2 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:06,120 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, on dating, on work, on sex, 3 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 1: on parenting, and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to 4 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 1: Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We 5 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 1: could be reading your letter live on the air, just 6 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 1: like we're going to read this one right here, right now, 7 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: and you never know, it could be yours. 8 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:24,960 Speaker 2: You never know. Buckle up and hold on tight. We 9 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 2: got it for you here. It is a Strawberry Letter. 10 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject he doesn't cover all the bases. 11 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:34,159 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm in my late forties and I'm 12 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: raising three children on my own. I've had my fair 13 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:41,200 Speaker 1: share of dating horrors, and I would love to be married, 14 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 1: but the dating pool has pee in it. So I've 15 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:48,240 Speaker 1: decided to like the man that likes me. But I'm 16 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:50,880 Speaker 1: also doing whatever I need to do on the side 17 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 1: to be sexually satisfied. My boyfriend is a decent lover, 18 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 1: but he doesn't cover all the bases. He doesn't even 19 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: start at first base. He goes straight for the home 20 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 1: run every time. I like the ball being hit out 21 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: the park, But I mean, I need those bases covered too, 22 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 1: if you know what I mean. He thinks he's my everything, 23 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 1: and I let him believe that so I don't lose him. 24 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: I make so much noise that you would think we're 25 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 1: at the World Series. Then once he leaves, I either 26 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 1: have company or I go visit one of my other 27 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:27,960 Speaker 1: men that know how to please me. I just wish 28 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:31,120 Speaker 1: they could do other things, like hold a conversation or 29 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:34,119 Speaker 1: take me out to dinner. Occasionally. They don't even call 30 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 1: me regularly, so there's no way I could ever get 31 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:40,000 Speaker 1: caught up thinking they want a relationship with me. Before 32 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:44,040 Speaker 1: you think I'm a garden tool, there are two other men. 33 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:46,559 Speaker 1: There are only two other men that I deal with. 34 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: My main boyfriend seems to love me, but he's never 35 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: told me, and the other two guys are only there 36 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 1: to service my needs. I'm just one of those people 37 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 1: that need to be pleased sexually or it ruins my 38 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 1: mood and I can't even function at work. My children 39 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 1: get a happier mom and better meals when I'm in 40 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:09,640 Speaker 1: a good mood. Here's my dilemma. It was hard to 41 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 1: find a decent man to accept me with three children. 42 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:14,640 Speaker 1: So would I be wrong to ask him to step 43 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: up his game in the bedroom. I don't want to 44 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 1: run him off. So how do I address the sex issue? Okay, 45 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 1: first of all, you know what, I don't want you 46 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 1: to think you're a garden tool. I just don't. You're 47 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:29,239 Speaker 1: a strong woman. I'm going to say this, you're a 48 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 1: strong woman who knows what she wants. You do need 49 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 1: to cool off sexually, cool down a bit so you 50 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: can focus on what you have. You need to learn 51 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 1: how to get what you want from this one man. 52 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 1: If this is who you want, concentrate on him. And yes, 53 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: it is okay to let him know what you like. 54 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:50,399 Speaker 1: It's okay. You could do it nicely. There's a way 55 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:54,360 Speaker 1: to do it where you won't hurt or damage, you know, 56 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:58,520 Speaker 1: his very fragile ego in the process. I think letting 57 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 1: him know what you want. Uh, there's no room for fear. 58 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 1: You can't be afraid he's gonna leave you. You're just standing 59 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 1: up for yourself. I mean, if he runs off, he 60 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 1: runs off. He wasn't the one. Just look at it 61 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: that way. He wasn't the one. 62 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 2: You know. 63 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:14,639 Speaker 1: I always say, no risk, no reward, So you got 64 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 1: to take that chance. You got to tell him what 65 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 1: you want from him, Teach him what you like. But 66 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 1: I do say now, while you're teaching him, while you're 67 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 1: in this teaching mode, you got to leave these other 68 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:31,240 Speaker 1: two guys alone so you won't be distracted. You won't 69 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: get caught. Your man might strike out a few times. 70 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: To use your baseball analogy, he might, you know, he 71 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 1: thinks you're he's your mister everything, but he might strike out. 72 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: So with practice, you know, you guys got a practice. 73 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 1: Now he can go from baseball analogy spring training all 74 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 1: the way to the All Star Game and then to 75 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 1: the World Series for real. Okay, you don't want to 76 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 1: then you won't want to need these pinch hitters, these 77 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 1: other two guys. So I don't think three kids. Three 78 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:03,839 Speaker 1: kids are not you don't have to settle. A good 79 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 1: man who loves you will take the total package build 80 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 1: from there. But a good man who takes you as 81 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 1: you are will not allow you to play them. So 82 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:14,119 Speaker 1: I gotta tell you again, get rid of these other 83 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 1: guys and give your relationship a chance. Give it a chance. Steve. 84 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 2: Wow, lady, it's so much wrong in this letter. Now. 85 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 2: I could take a humorous approach about this, but you're 86 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:32,559 Speaker 2: in trouble, So I'm gonna be Uncle Steve on this letter. 87 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:40,039 Speaker 2: First of all, lady, this whole way you're operating, it's 88 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 2: just foul. It's foul. See. I've had my fair share 89 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 2: of dating horrors. I would love to be married, but 90 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 2: the dating pool has p in it. Okay, that's okay, 91 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:55,160 Speaker 2: that's fair. It is hard out there, I'll admit that. 92 00:04:55,760 --> 00:05:00,279 Speaker 2: So I've decided to like the man that likes it's me, 93 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 2: but I'm also doing whatever I need to do on 94 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 2: the side. This right here is a bad concept. This 95 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 2: concept is bad. This is not a win win for 96 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 2: a man or woman, but it's especially not good for 97 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 2: a woman. But then you came up with this incredible 98 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:25,599 Speaker 2: baseball analogy. My boyfriend is a decent lover, but he 99 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 2: doesn't cover all the bases. He doesn't even start at 100 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:32,359 Speaker 2: first base. He goes straight for the home run every time. 101 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:34,919 Speaker 2: I like the ball being hit out the park, but 102 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 2: I need those bases covered, if you know what I mean. Well, 103 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:43,479 Speaker 2: that's great, lady, great, great, great, great great, But you 104 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:47,599 Speaker 2: have a problem here. You're treating this whole thing as 105 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 2: if it were a game. Once you get into the 106 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 2: game aspect of the relationship. You're dealing with people who 107 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 2: are experts at the game, and that is men. We 108 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 2: are experts at the game. Now women are not experts 109 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:07,720 Speaker 2: at it. You can play it, but when you play 110 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 2: the game, ladies, it almost always never works out for you. 111 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 2: And I'm sorry because you are not designed or created 112 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 2: to be a baseball analogy. He thinks he's my everything, 113 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 2: and I let him believe so that I don't lose him. 114 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 2: I make so much noise you would think we were 115 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:34,280 Speaker 2: at the World Series. Okay, Shirley's exactly right. Why you 116 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 2: doing that? 117 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 3: Girl? 118 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 1: Hang on? Hang on? 119 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 2: Anybody taking you to dinner? They taking you to bed. 120 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 1: We'll get part two of Steve's response coming up at 121 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour Today's Strawberry Letter subject 122 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 1: he doesn't cover all the bases. We'll get back into 123 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 124 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 3: Everybody's your favorite play cousin Junior. You know what, I 125 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 3: love having cookouts in this summertime, but it is so expensive. 126 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 3: But have you heard about what Sam's Club is doing though? 127 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 3: With locked in summer value until July twenty second, prices 128 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 3: are held over on one thousand items, from paper plates, 129 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 3: the trash bags, the sunscreens, to ice cream, even apple pie. 130 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 3: It's no brainer to join Sam's Club because locked in 131 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 3: summer value can help you save on all the things 132 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 3: you need to have a great summer. I plan on joining. 133 00:07:21,400 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 3: I think you should too. Go sign up for a 134 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 3: membership and join SAMs Club today at samsclub dot com 135 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 3: slash join. 136 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve Let's recap today's strawberry letter. 137 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 1: The subject is he doesn't cover all of the basis. 138 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 2: I understand what the lady said, But Lady, the problem 139 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:41,559 Speaker 2: we have in this entire letter is you're operating under 140 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 2: a bad concept. You've decided to like the man that 141 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 2: likes you, but I'm also doing whatever I need to 142 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 2: do on the side to be sexually satisfied. Nah, your 143 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 2: boyfriend is a decent level, but he don't cover all 144 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:57,120 Speaker 2: the bases. He don't like he started liking first base, 145 00:07:57,160 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 2: he goes straight for the home run. Everything. I like 146 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 2: ball being hit out of the park, but I need 147 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 2: those bases coming. If you know what I mean, Lady, 148 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 2: you're using a baseball analogy, and which means you're operating 149 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 2: your life and your relationship as a game. And once 150 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 2: you get into the game, like I said before, you're 151 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 2: dealing with men who are experts. See, we've been playing 152 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 2: this game baseball, football, basketball since we was boys. We 153 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 2: grew up playing this. Most women don't. And when you 154 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 2: get into this game, ladies, you're not equipped or built 155 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 2: really to play this type of sport with your body 156 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:36,200 Speaker 2: and your relationship. You're just not designed that way. I'm sorry, 157 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 2: And if you want to play it that way, it's 158 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 2: not gonna work out for you. So now let me 159 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 2: teach you a little something. He thinks he's my everything, 160 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:48,719 Speaker 2: and I believe I let him believe that so I 161 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 2: don't lose him. I make so much noise you would 162 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 2: think we had the World Series. Well what you're doing 163 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 2: that for? Shirley told you. What you need to do 164 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 2: is work with this man and get into become more. 165 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 2: But no, no, no no. Once he leaves, I either 166 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 2: have company or I go visit one of my other 167 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:06,880 Speaker 2: men that know how to please me. I just wish 168 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:09,680 Speaker 2: they could do other things like hold a conversation and 169 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 2: take me out to dinner occasion. Why what we got 170 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:14,960 Speaker 2: to take you out to dinner for? You asked us 171 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 2: to come over here. You come over there so we 172 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 2: could do you were doing you. We ain't got to 173 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 2: buy you dinner. We're not finna take you nowhere. We're 174 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 2: gonna take you to the rack. And that's its sister. Now, 175 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 2: they don't even call me regularly? Why you called them what? 176 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 2: We got to call you regular fall? You ain't gonna 177 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:35,479 Speaker 2: be special to them because you ain't special to yourself. 178 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 2: So there's no way I could never get caught up 179 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 2: thinking they want a relationship with me. Now, before you 180 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 2: think I'm a garden tool, there are only two other 181 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 2: men that I deal with. Lady, you already at your 182 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:52,080 Speaker 2: max number. You dealing with your boyfriend and two other men. 183 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 2: You at your max number, you maxed out. I don't 184 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 2: know you don't want us to call you a garden too. 185 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 2: You gotta stop acting like one. I don't know how 186 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:06,079 Speaker 2: you think this city in And don't mighty offend to 187 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:08,679 Speaker 2: go along with this now you wrote in Uncle Steve, 188 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 2: and I could be funny this whole letter, trust me, 189 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 2: but I'm gonna help you because you got to stop 190 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 2: this because this is just a loop you in and 191 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:20,079 Speaker 2: you can't get out of it. Now my main boyfriend 192 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 2: seems to love me. But he's never told me that 193 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 2: because the other two guys are only there to service 194 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 2: my knees. He feels that some kind of way. He 195 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 2: may not know exactly what's going on. But men ain't 196 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 2: as stupid as you think. Now you say, I'm just 197 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:37,559 Speaker 2: one of those people that need to be pleased sexually. 198 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 2: Listen to this or it ruins my mood and I 199 00:10:40,520 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 2: can't even function at work. And my children get a 200 00:10:43,960 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 2: happier mom and better meals when I'm in a good mood. 201 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 2: So let me ask you something. So when you ain't 202 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 2: getting sex, you can't go to work, Yo, this grumpy 203 00:10:55,040 --> 00:11:01,840 Speaker 2: and you can't cook. Lord her mercy, I can't blood 204 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 2: have mercy. Here's my dilimma. Now we already know what 205 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:10,720 Speaker 2: your dilemma is. You guys to get sexed or you 206 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:16,280 Speaker 2: can't function. That's the dilemma. Here's my dilimma. It's hard 207 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 2: to find a decent man to accept me with three children. 208 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 2: Stop right there. You going at this with the wrong energy. 209 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 2: Your transmitter is off. The signal that you're emitting from 210 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:33,319 Speaker 2: your brain, your body, and your mind, that remote control 211 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 2: that you're operating sends back what you send out is 212 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 2: what you get back. So the reason it's hard to 213 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 2: find a man that will accept you with three children 214 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:45,080 Speaker 2: is because you don't require that they accept you and 215 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:48,079 Speaker 2: the three children. You go over and require that they 216 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 2: service you after your boyfriend has inadequately, inadequately performed. So 217 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 2: now you're getting exactly what you put out. Would I 218 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 2: be wrong to ask him to step up his game 219 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:05,200 Speaker 2: in the bedroom? Shirley said it best. That's your only option. 220 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:09,559 Speaker 2: Ask him, show him, teach him. I don't want to 221 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 2: run him off. So how do I address the sex issue? 222 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:15,440 Speaker 2: He wrote this letter? He wrote a letter that addressed 223 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 2: it all. But you can't sit down and have a conversation. 224 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 2: So now, since you like baseball analogies, let's go. What 225 00:12:24,559 --> 00:12:28,679 Speaker 2: position on the field do you play? You ain't the picture, 226 00:12:29,440 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 2: You ain't throwing him. You know what you are. You're 227 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 2: the catcher. You behind the plate catching balls. That's all 228 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 2: you doing. You're in a squat position with your legs open, 229 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:54,280 Speaker 2: catching balls. That's what the catcher do on the baseball field. 230 00:12:55,080 --> 00:13:00,320 Speaker 2: You're in a squat position with a mask on, and 231 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:02,599 Speaker 2: you catch bowls. 232 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:06,199 Speaker 1: I understand, All right, let's leave it there. Let's leave 233 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 1: it there. 234 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 2: If I were you, I would stop playing catchen and 235 00:13:10,360 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 2: get a better position on the field. I would be 236 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 2: the manager and the picture because right now you ain't 237 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 2: none but a catching and all you catch him is bowls. 238 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:26,600 Speaker 1: Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey 239 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 1: FM on Instagram and Facebook. Check out a Strawberry Letter 240 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 1: podcast on demand as well. You're listening to the Steve 241 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:38,000 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.