WEBVTT - | Ep 182 | "Auntie, Cougar Or Thundercat?"

0:00:00.720 --> 0:00:04.360
<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

0:00:04.400 --> 0:00:06.559
<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

0:00:14.800 --> 0:00:18.759
<v Speaker 2>Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jaselle Bryant.

0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:20.760
<v Speaker 2>What's that? What's up? I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for

0:00:20.760 --> 0:00:26.639
<v Speaker 2>being here with us. What's again again? Can I do

0:00:26.720 --> 0:00:29.720
<v Speaker 2>this whole episode in an accent? Yes? As if I'm

0:00:29.720 --> 0:00:34.040
<v Speaker 2>from London? Please try, please try, Okay, I will do it.

0:00:34.640 --> 0:00:37.720
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to offend anyone from the UK. Okay, well,

0:00:37.920 --> 0:00:40.040
<v Speaker 1>so maybe I should stop. Then let's just not say

0:00:40.080 --> 0:00:43.360
<v Speaker 1>where the accent is from. Oh, okay, I mean an accent.

0:00:43.400 --> 0:00:45.880
<v Speaker 2>I would be so I think I would have just

0:00:45.920 --> 0:00:48.320
<v Speaker 2>accomplished so much more in life if I was born

0:00:48.360 --> 0:00:50.720
<v Speaker 2>with an accent. You think so? If you think I would,

0:00:50.720 --> 0:00:52.479
<v Speaker 2>I Do'm not be running a country or something.

0:00:52.479 --> 0:00:55.080
<v Speaker 1>I think people would like give you everything that you want?

0:00:55.320 --> 0:00:58.000
<v Speaker 2>Yes, yeah, yeah, Or i'd be running something. I would

0:00:58.040 --> 0:01:01.160
<v Speaker 2>be the president of something if I had an accent. Okay,

0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:05.560
<v Speaker 2>I will try it. You're gonna try it? Or no? No? Okay, okay, anyway,

0:01:05.800 --> 0:01:07.039
<v Speaker 2>do you have a shady moment? Do you have a

0:01:07.040 --> 0:01:17.240
<v Speaker 2>shady moment? Yeah? I do? Okay, so you know it's

0:01:17.319 --> 0:01:20.600
<v Speaker 2>basketball life for me right now. Yeah, but you've been traveling?

0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:22.160
<v Speaker 2>Like what's that about?

0:01:22.280 --> 0:01:26.120
<v Speaker 1>Yes, so we had this past weekend, we had a

0:01:26.160 --> 0:01:27.479
<v Speaker 1>basketball tournament for Carter.

0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:32.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so he's AAU two. Is this a what is this? Yeah?

0:01:32.640 --> 0:01:34.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean that's like a broad term, but yeah, he's

0:01:34.959 --> 0:01:38.200
<v Speaker 1>playing travel basketball. I just call it travel basketball as

0:01:38.319 --> 0:01:45.399
<v Speaker 1>AAU AU is it doesn't really like it. The AAU

0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:49.760
<v Speaker 1>organization does not run these tournaments. So like you know

0:01:49.800 --> 0:01:54.360
<v Speaker 1>what I mean, like anyone can host a tournament. Yeah,

0:01:54.400 --> 0:01:56.960
<v Speaker 1>it's not technically an AAU tournament, do you.

0:01:56.960 --> 0:01:59.040
<v Speaker 2>Know what I mean? That makes sense? This is another

0:01:59.080 --> 0:02:00.280
<v Speaker 2>division or something. Yeah.

0:02:00.280 --> 0:02:03.320
<v Speaker 1>We we just we just use AAU as a broad

0:02:03.440 --> 0:02:06.520
<v Speaker 1>term to refer to like youth basketball. Yes, so I

0:02:06.680 --> 0:02:10.200
<v Speaker 1>just try to like say, call it either travel basketball.

0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:12.240
<v Speaker 2>Just youth basketball. So we'll call it travel yeah, because

0:02:12.240 --> 0:02:14.640
<v Speaker 2>AAU is like it's really only.

0:02:14.520 --> 0:02:18.080
<v Speaker 1>AAU if you're playing in an AAU sponsored tournament.

0:02:18.160 --> 0:02:21.280
<v Speaker 2>Got heading on AAU just for no. No, I'm not, no,

0:02:21.280 --> 0:02:21.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm not.

0:02:21.600 --> 0:02:24.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm just clarifying. Okay, Yes, I think people just call

0:02:24.240 --> 0:02:25.359
<v Speaker 1>everything AAU.

0:02:25.040 --> 0:02:25.480
<v Speaker 2>And it's not.

0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:31.240
<v Speaker 1>Oh it's not okay, okay, So travel basketball. Yeah, so

0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:34.520
<v Speaker 1>we're going to this tournament. It's in York, Pennsylvania.

0:02:34.560 --> 0:02:34.760
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:02:34.840 --> 0:02:37.320
<v Speaker 1>So York, Pennsylvania is like an hour and ten minutes

0:02:37.360 --> 0:02:39.720
<v Speaker 1>from my house, so there's no need for us to

0:02:39.840 --> 0:02:40.600
<v Speaker 1>stay overnight.

0:02:41.040 --> 0:02:45.400
<v Speaker 2>It's that close York. Is that where Hershey Park is? Yeah?

0:02:45.480 --> 0:02:48.640
<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, yes, been there is? Yeah? Did you stop

0:02:48.680 --> 0:02:50.639
<v Speaker 2>and get some chocolate? No? Oh okay, I would have

0:02:50.760 --> 0:02:55.919
<v Speaker 2>done that for sure. Stop the basketball game. I must

0:02:55.960 --> 0:02:58.880
<v Speaker 2>pick up hurshy, yes, which you can get it from

0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:02.840
<v Speaker 2>the grocery store. Not saying it's fresher at the plant.

0:03:02.919 --> 0:03:05.160
<v Speaker 2>That's true, Yeah, go ahead, that's true. Okay.

0:03:05.240 --> 0:03:08.920
<v Speaker 1>So so the games are on Saturday.

0:03:09.600 --> 0:03:13.919
<v Speaker 2>There's like multiple shady things about this tournament. The games.

0:03:14.280 --> 0:03:18.480
<v Speaker 1>Carter's games were scheduled for a Saturday at one game

0:03:18.560 --> 0:03:22.840
<v Speaker 1>at seven forty pm at night, okay, and then on

0:03:23.120 --> 0:03:28.600
<v Speaker 1>Sunday morning at eight am okay, and then Sunday afternoon

0:03:28.760 --> 0:03:30.840
<v Speaker 1>at two thirty okay.

0:03:30.919 --> 0:03:34.280
<v Speaker 2>Okay, this is like a weekend. That's yeah, every weekend

0:03:34.360 --> 0:03:35.200
<v Speaker 2>is the weekend. Okay.

0:03:36.120 --> 0:03:38.880
<v Speaker 1>So because it's an hour and ten minutes away, we're

0:03:38.920 --> 0:03:41.360
<v Speaker 1>not getting a hotel room, right, so we're just driving up,

0:03:41.480 --> 0:03:44.520
<v Speaker 1>playing the game and coming home and driving back. Okay, okay, especially,

0:03:44.560 --> 0:03:46.600
<v Speaker 1>and there's no hotels in New York, right, none that.

0:03:46.520 --> 0:03:47.200
<v Speaker 2>I want to stay in.

0:03:47.280 --> 0:03:50.080
<v Speaker 1>Yes, they're definitely hotels, but there just one. There's one,

0:03:50.240 --> 0:03:53.040
<v Speaker 1>isn't it's it's near the hershey people. Okay, yeah, okay,

0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:55.880
<v Speaker 1>I stayed there. Yeah, we try not to if we

0:03:55.920 --> 0:03:57.600
<v Speaker 1>don't have to stay in a hotel. We don't want to,

0:03:57.640 --> 0:03:59.720
<v Speaker 1>Like I want to limit as mini.

0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:00.800
<v Speaker 2>Hotels days as possible.

0:04:00.880 --> 0:04:04.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, So we're driving up there, driving back, so

0:04:04.800 --> 0:04:07.320
<v Speaker 1>imagine just first of all, the schedule itself is problematic.

0:04:07.800 --> 0:04:11.840
<v Speaker 1>Seven forty at night, play a game, drive back home. Yeah,

0:04:12.240 --> 0:04:14.320
<v Speaker 1>eight o'clock game in the morning. You still you gotta

0:04:14.360 --> 0:04:15.839
<v Speaker 1>get there early, so that means we got to leave

0:04:15.920 --> 0:04:18.480
<v Speaker 1>our house at like six thirty in the morning. First

0:04:18.480 --> 0:04:20.679
<v Speaker 1>of all, you're not getting home Friday night or Saturday

0:04:20.760 --> 0:04:25.279
<v Speaker 1>night until like what midnight? Like oh yeah, yeah, like

0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:29.640
<v Speaker 1>eleven ish ram okay exactly, So getting home late next morning,

0:04:29.720 --> 0:04:33.600
<v Speaker 1>leaving leaving by six thirty, okay, So that's problematic. Then

0:04:33.640 --> 0:04:37.240
<v Speaker 1>the other part is you give us an eight eight am,

0:04:37.279 --> 0:04:40.880
<v Speaker 1>eight am game and then we don't play again until

0:04:41.040 --> 0:04:44.520
<v Speaker 1>six hours later at two thirty pm.

0:04:44.600 --> 0:04:46.719
<v Speaker 2>So you're just hanging out all day. So yes, just

0:04:46.760 --> 0:04:49.919
<v Speaker 2>hanging out in York, in York, Pennsylvania. So that so

0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:52.520
<v Speaker 2>that already was problemat shout out to York. But here's

0:04:52.560 --> 0:04:54.640
<v Speaker 2>where like the real killer part was.

0:04:54.720 --> 0:04:59.679
<v Speaker 1>Okay, we drive up Saturday, so thunderstorm, it's raining, cats

0:04:59.680 --> 0:05:02.320
<v Speaker 1>and dog. You can't even see out the window when

0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:04.560
<v Speaker 1>you're driving. We get there and the other team did

0:05:04.600 --> 0:05:05.360
<v Speaker 1>not show up.

0:05:05.480 --> 0:05:08.400
<v Speaker 2>What do you understand?

0:05:08.480 --> 0:05:13.240
<v Speaker 1>And the admission is forty eight dollars like for the

0:05:13.240 --> 0:05:14.680
<v Speaker 1>weekend for the parents?

0:05:14.960 --> 0:05:19.400
<v Speaker 2>Yes, what do you mean parents have to pay? What? Yes? Why?

0:05:19.440 --> 0:05:24.640
<v Speaker 1>This is a racket travel basketball, youth basketball, au basketball, whatever.

0:05:24.440 --> 0:05:27.640
<v Speaker 2>You want to call it is a money grab. Okay,

0:05:27.720 --> 0:05:29.760
<v Speaker 2>wait why do you have to pay to watch your child?

0:05:30.360 --> 0:05:32.960
<v Speaker 2>Parents shouldn't have to pay if rando's were coming from

0:05:32.960 --> 0:05:36.400
<v Speaker 2>the street. Okay, maybe five dollars entry, fifteen dollars max.

0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:40.200
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, we pay what we pay every tournament.

0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:42.720
<v Speaker 2>Oh no, I'm mad about this. It's either it.

0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:46.640
<v Speaker 1>Could be ten dollars mission, twenty dollars mission, forty dollars mission,

0:05:46.640 --> 0:05:47.800
<v Speaker 1>fifty dollars million.

0:05:49.400 --> 0:05:51.040
<v Speaker 2>Tell me what this money is going to for you

0:05:51.120 --> 0:05:51.880
<v Speaker 2>to sit in the gym.

0:05:52.080 --> 0:05:55.599
<v Speaker 1>The people who are this is a business the people

0:05:55.600 --> 0:05:59.640
<v Speaker 1>who are running these tournaments are making money. It's this

0:05:59.720 --> 0:06:01.599
<v Speaker 1>is a this is their full on bats.

0:06:01.640 --> 0:06:03.680
<v Speaker 2>But I thought the I thought the purpose of these

0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:06.360
<v Speaker 2>tournaments is that, right, turn tournaments.

0:06:06.800 --> 0:06:09.880
<v Speaker 1>Okay, my grandma, my grandmother, my mother calls them tournaments.

0:06:10.000 --> 0:06:11.520
<v Speaker 2>I think that's what my mother says too. That's why

0:06:11.560 --> 0:06:14.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm correcting myself in the tournament. My mother. By the way,

0:06:14.440 --> 0:06:17.599
<v Speaker 2>my mother just called y'all and she wants some embellished

0:06:17.600 --> 0:06:20.560
<v Speaker 2>hats from Robin. Yes, that she asked for three years ago.

0:06:20.800 --> 0:06:22.560
<v Speaker 2>That Robin still has not sense they're in the mail.

0:06:22.640 --> 0:06:24.719
<v Speaker 2>And it might be because I didn't give Robin the address,

0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:26.479
<v Speaker 2>but that's not the point. Okay. My mother is like,

0:06:26.520 --> 0:06:29.679
<v Speaker 2>where my hat? Dad, Robbin. Wait a minute, No, actually

0:06:29.720 --> 0:06:31.640
<v Speaker 2>my mother thanked Robin for the hats, and I'm like,

0:06:31.720 --> 0:06:35.159
<v Speaker 2>Robin using her hats. Robin, He's like, no, my mother

0:06:35.200 --> 0:06:37.840
<v Speaker 2>being shady. Okay, right, so thank you for the hats.

0:06:37.839 --> 0:06:43.120
<v Speaker 2>They fit so beautifully. I was like, okay, So the

0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:47.960
<v Speaker 2>I thought the purpose of these tournaments was for like recruits,

0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:51.560
<v Speaker 2>scouts to look at these kids so that one day

0:06:51.640 --> 0:06:54.320
<v Speaker 2>they can, you know, go to a great college or

0:06:54.480 --> 0:06:58.200
<v Speaker 2>the pros. Okay, so not to rape the parents.

0:06:58.279 --> 0:07:02.360
<v Speaker 1>Yes, okay, no, that's that is the state of youth

0:07:02.440 --> 0:07:07.400
<v Speaker 1>sports today. Wow, there are tournaments every weekend all over

0:07:07.440 --> 0:07:10.640
<v Speaker 1>the country. There are no college scouts there. It is

0:07:10.840 --> 0:07:15.000
<v Speaker 1>simply who's there, their parents, the parents. Yeah, it's simply

0:07:15.040 --> 0:07:20.360
<v Speaker 1>for teams to play other teams from like other areas,

0:07:20.520 --> 0:07:23.280
<v Speaker 1>because it's like, okay, when you stay local, you play

0:07:23.840 --> 0:07:25.880
<v Speaker 1>your local teams and you end up kind of like

0:07:26.640 --> 0:07:28.720
<v Speaker 1>playing the same teams all the time. Yea, And so

0:07:29.480 --> 0:07:32.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, the thing for these tribal tournaments is so

0:07:32.360 --> 0:07:34.000
<v Speaker 1>that you go and you travel and you play these

0:07:34.040 --> 0:07:36.640
<v Speaker 1>other teams from other places, and you know, it helps,

0:07:37.040 --> 0:07:39.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, with your development, it helps get you better

0:07:39.440 --> 0:07:41.240
<v Speaker 1>and you learn to play the game and blah blah

0:07:41.280 --> 0:07:43.920
<v Speaker 1>blah blah and all of this stuff. And I literally

0:07:43.960 --> 0:07:47.720
<v Speaker 1>this weekend was like, this is such a racket because

0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:52.400
<v Speaker 1>youth sports has been so watered down because look what

0:07:52.480 --> 0:07:55.040
<v Speaker 1>you're saying, like how you understand it is.

0:07:55.080 --> 0:07:57.720
<v Speaker 2>How it used to be. Oh okay, like.

0:07:57.680 --> 0:07:59.840
<v Speaker 1>How when when WAM is in high school, it's like

0:08:00.200 --> 0:08:03.920
<v Speaker 1>if you were playing on a you know, a travel

0:08:03.960 --> 0:08:06.600
<v Speaker 1>team and you were traveling different places to play basketball,

0:08:06.760 --> 0:08:09.680
<v Speaker 1>you were number one one of the best players in

0:08:09.720 --> 0:08:10.960
<v Speaker 1>your city totally.

0:08:11.040 --> 0:08:12.640
<v Speaker 2>You know, you're being scouted.

0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:15.200
<v Speaker 1>Yes, and you're there because there's college coaches scouting you,

0:08:15.320 --> 0:08:17.640
<v Speaker 1>or you're or they're like tune up tournaments to get

0:08:17.680 --> 0:08:21.640
<v Speaker 1>ready for the college coaches. But now it's like every kid,

0:08:21.800 --> 0:08:24.880
<v Speaker 1>any kid that plays basketball, is on a travel team

0:08:25.000 --> 0:08:28.040
<v Speaker 1>and so it's becomes so water so you're not even

0:08:28.120 --> 0:08:30.480
<v Speaker 1>like honing your skills because you're playing people that aren't

0:08:30.480 --> 0:08:33.200
<v Speaker 1>even really that good that or you have kids that

0:08:33.240 --> 0:08:35.080
<v Speaker 1>sit on the bench like they might be on a

0:08:35.120 --> 0:08:38.199
<v Speaker 1>team that's good and this kid is not the greatest,

0:08:38.200 --> 0:08:39.920
<v Speaker 1>and you're just sitting on the bench and then you

0:08:39.960 --> 0:08:42.559
<v Speaker 1>get for like three minutes a half and like you know,

0:08:42.640 --> 0:08:44.840
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's just it's it's a racket.

0:08:44.840 --> 0:08:47.360
<v Speaker 2>It's really bad. So I was, so it's just a lot.

0:08:47.400 --> 0:08:48.440
<v Speaker 2>So it's like we go up there.

0:08:49.440 --> 0:08:54.000
<v Speaker 1>You spend fifty dollars for admission for a person that's

0:08:54.000 --> 0:08:56.680
<v Speaker 1>a hundred one and Corey, we brought all one.

0:08:56.600 --> 0:08:59.120
<v Speaker 2>Hundred and fifty dollars. Right, this is getting expensive. Yeah,

0:08:59.160 --> 0:09:02.079
<v Speaker 2>oh yeah, it's crazy in the gas.

0:09:02.320 --> 0:09:04.880
<v Speaker 1>Gas imagine the people who do stay in hotels every

0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:07.920
<v Speaker 1>time crazy And then like for me, for like Corey

0:09:07.920 --> 0:09:08.920
<v Speaker 1>stuff wrecking.

0:09:08.600 --> 0:09:11.840
<v Speaker 2>On planes, yes, but I would think it is better. Yeah.

0:09:11.840 --> 0:09:15.199
<v Speaker 1>His is like legit, it's the Nike eybl circuits. Like

0:09:16.240 --> 0:09:19.000
<v Speaker 1>next weekend, it'll be every college coach in America.

0:09:18.679 --> 0:09:20.960
<v Speaker 2>Will be there. Okay, this is really good. Yeah, okay,

0:09:21.160 --> 0:09:21.559
<v Speaker 2>thank god.

0:09:21.720 --> 0:09:24.720
<v Speaker 1>But we've what we have been doing, you know, since

0:09:24.760 --> 0:09:28.200
<v Speaker 1>Corey was in third grade. Shit, I remember traveling to

0:09:28.320 --> 0:09:32.000
<v Speaker 1>Miami when Corey was in first grade for a bas

0:09:32.120 --> 0:09:34.760
<v Speaker 1>I think I remember that tournament and I was like,

0:09:35.520 --> 0:09:39.120
<v Speaker 1>this is stupid, this is but you did it.

0:09:39.240 --> 0:09:41.040
<v Speaker 2>You was all up in there. I did it. But

0:09:41.120 --> 0:09:46.120
<v Speaker 2>then at the Fountain Blue, I was like, I'm gonna

0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:48.400
<v Speaker 2>get my tent and I'm gonna watch my key. But

0:09:48.440 --> 0:09:49.800
<v Speaker 2>it's it's a hustle.

0:09:50.080 --> 0:09:55.760
<v Speaker 1>Those these businesses that's crazy, are making so much money

0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:57.079
<v Speaker 1>because people are paying this.

0:09:57.400 --> 0:09:59.520
<v Speaker 2>People pay to get in. So wait a minute, but

0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:03.240
<v Speaker 2>outside of the parents, right, who's in the who's in

0:10:03.280 --> 0:10:07.000
<v Speaker 2>the gym? Nobody exactly, So you're not making that much money.

0:10:07.200 --> 0:10:13.199
<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no, like think about okay, this organization, they

0:10:13.880 --> 0:10:16.679
<v Speaker 1>are running a circuit, right, So the circuit means like

0:10:17.160 --> 0:10:21.000
<v Speaker 1>they you play three different sessions in three different cities,

0:10:21.360 --> 0:10:24.120
<v Speaker 1>and based on your record, you make it the championship weekend.

0:10:24.200 --> 0:10:26.760
<v Speaker 1>So you have so they have four weekends where they're

0:10:26.760 --> 0:10:30.440
<v Speaker 1>collecting money at the door. They have five hundred something

0:10:30.440 --> 0:10:33.360
<v Speaker 1>teams that are paying five hundred dollars each to get

0:10:33.360 --> 0:10:38.920
<v Speaker 1>in to register. Then sometimes they get the parking lot.

0:10:39.040 --> 0:10:43.720
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes they get concession. They show I'm about to get

0:10:43.720 --> 0:10:46.760
<v Speaker 1>a free soda, they sell merchis right, you can go

0:10:46.760 --> 0:10:47.520
<v Speaker 1>to hell with the mergency.

0:10:47.760 --> 0:10:48.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh and think about it.

0:10:48.640 --> 0:10:54.120
<v Speaker 1>So every kid on the team usually brings a parent

0:10:54.280 --> 0:10:56.920
<v Speaker 1>or two, or a sibling or a grandparents. Siblings like

0:10:57.000 --> 0:11:00.520
<v Speaker 1>day at home grandparents. No, yeah, so my parents go

0:11:00.559 --> 0:11:01.680
<v Speaker 1>to every single game.

0:11:02.920 --> 0:11:05.200
<v Speaker 2>Tell your mother she to go to bingo. She cannot

0:11:05.240 --> 0:11:08.240
<v Speaker 2>come to the games. It's too expensive. Yeah, this is ridiculous.

0:11:08.360 --> 0:11:10.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah okay, yeah no, that's why I had girls.

0:11:10.280 --> 0:11:12.520
<v Speaker 1>So if you have ten kids on one team and

0:11:12.559 --> 0:11:15.800
<v Speaker 1>they each bring you know, at least two people with them, right, yeah,

0:11:15.880 --> 0:11:17.920
<v Speaker 1>two parents or a parents, sibling and grandparents.

0:11:18.200 --> 0:11:21.320
<v Speaker 2>That's twenty people each team that you're collected from the

0:11:21.360 --> 0:11:24.199
<v Speaker 2>door you have. We're doing the matter. How many teams

0:11:24.240 --> 0:11:26.240
<v Speaker 2>come through the door. Yeah, I might, I might need

0:11:26.280 --> 0:11:27.040
<v Speaker 2>to change my job.

0:11:27.200 --> 0:11:30.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I need to start a basketball league.

0:11:30.679 --> 0:11:33.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah no, it's crazy. How can I get down? It's crazy.

0:11:34.080 --> 0:11:36.280
<v Speaker 2>It's crazy, And if I probably want to start a league,

0:11:36.280 --> 0:11:39.600
<v Speaker 2>it's probably like somebody's trying to stop me from doing

0:11:39.600 --> 0:11:42.800
<v Speaker 2>it because there's like, no I have this area, and

0:11:42.840 --> 0:11:45.280
<v Speaker 2>I have this area. Well, I mean, it takes a

0:11:45.280 --> 0:11:48.400
<v Speaker 2>lot of like kind of like the drug game. You

0:11:48.480 --> 0:11:50.199
<v Speaker 2>cannot come in my territory, could be.

0:11:50.440 --> 0:11:52.560
<v Speaker 1>It takes a lot of like marketing and promo in

0:11:52.600 --> 0:11:55.480
<v Speaker 1>these these companies, they have their Instagram and so they

0:11:55.800 --> 0:11:58.360
<v Speaker 1>have footage of the kids and oh, look at this kid,

0:11:58.440 --> 0:12:00.000
<v Speaker 1>make this play, and then people get off.

0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:02.720
<v Speaker 2>It's it's get all hyped up for it. It's a

0:12:02.760 --> 0:12:03.360
<v Speaker 2>freaking mess.

0:12:03.360 --> 0:12:07.560
<v Speaker 1>And it's a mess because at this age before before

0:12:07.640 --> 0:12:10.200
<v Speaker 1>high school, none of this matters, none of it, and

0:12:10.240 --> 0:12:12.640
<v Speaker 1>people get really good. But you're doing it with Carter,

0:12:13.000 --> 0:12:16.480
<v Speaker 1>I know, because it's like you're perpetuating the system. I know,

0:12:16.760 --> 0:12:20.280
<v Speaker 1>because it's it's like you're damned if you do You're

0:12:20.320 --> 0:12:21.000
<v Speaker 1>damned if you don't.

0:12:21.000 --> 0:12:22.840
<v Speaker 2>I'd be damned if I don't. I'm not I'm not

0:12:22.960 --> 0:12:26.360
<v Speaker 2>doing it. Okay, it's not happening. This is some foolishness.

0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:29.600
<v Speaker 2>This is this is how I feel about people paying

0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:32.320
<v Speaker 2>people who send their kids to like these really really

0:12:32.320 --> 0:12:35.600
<v Speaker 2>really expensive private schools for kindergarten, right, sixty thousand dollars

0:12:35.600 --> 0:12:37.240
<v Speaker 2>for kindergarten. What the hell are you doing? What are

0:12:37.240 --> 0:12:39.000
<v Speaker 2>they learning? Right? Right? Right?

0:12:40.520 --> 0:12:43.720
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they're not more they're they're learning how to speak Chinese.

0:12:43.800 --> 0:12:47.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, they're not smarter than my kids. I promise you, Yeah,

0:12:47.280 --> 0:12:49.720
<v Speaker 2>I promise you. Yeah. No, it's crazy.

0:12:49.840 --> 0:12:51.640
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, so for us to do all that and

0:12:51.720 --> 0:12:53.600
<v Speaker 1>show up and the team wasn't even there, that was

0:12:53.679 --> 0:12:55.600
<v Speaker 1>like it was we were very pissed.

0:12:55.800 --> 0:12:58.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. That well, and they couldn't give you, like a

0:12:58.040 --> 0:13:00.840
<v Speaker 2>text message, they say, turn.

0:13:00.520 --> 0:13:03.000
<v Speaker 1>No, they didn't tell anyone. The team did not notify

0:13:03.440 --> 0:13:06.520
<v Speaker 1>the tournament director. They weren't showing up.

0:13:06.640 --> 0:13:15.719
<v Speaker 2>Okay, this is just rude. Yeah, okay, I have a

0:13:15.760 --> 0:13:21.400
<v Speaker 2>shady moment. So Grace, my oldest child, she is now

0:13:21.440 --> 0:13:24.840
<v Speaker 2>twenty years old. Twenty year olds are interesting because, like

0:13:25.000 --> 0:13:28.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, it's it's really like their life could go

0:13:28.040 --> 0:13:31.280
<v Speaker 2>in either direction, for great or for bad, right, for

0:13:31.320 --> 0:13:35.160
<v Speaker 2>greater or for worse whatever. Anyway, So she's she was

0:13:35.240 --> 0:13:38.120
<v Speaker 2>on her way, she's done with the semester on her

0:13:38.520 --> 0:13:40.679
<v Speaker 2>In the following day, she was coming home and so

0:13:40.760 --> 0:13:42.800
<v Speaker 2>she says to me, she's still at school. She was like, man,

0:13:42.880 --> 0:13:45.600
<v Speaker 2>I have to talk to you. I said, okay, let's talk.

0:13:45.720 --> 0:13:48.080
<v Speaker 2>She's talking. She's pregnant, That's what I said. So wait

0:13:48.120 --> 0:13:49.280
<v Speaker 2>a minute. So she says, Mine, I have to talk

0:13:49.320 --> 0:13:51.839
<v Speaker 2>to you. I said, okay, start talking. She said no, no,

0:13:51.920 --> 0:13:54.000
<v Speaker 2>I think I think it should be like in person.

0:13:54.080 --> 0:13:57.199
<v Speaker 2>Oh oh shit. So I said, oh god, she's dropping

0:13:57.200 --> 0:14:01.240
<v Speaker 2>out of school. She's pregnant, which one is Robin's exactly

0:14:01.240 --> 0:14:01.880
<v Speaker 2>what I said.

0:14:02.040 --> 0:14:05.240
<v Speaker 1>So I'm I'm racking my brain and I'm and I'm

0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:08.000
<v Speaker 1>calling her occasionally for like a check in, right, And

0:14:08.080 --> 0:14:10.640
<v Speaker 1>she's acting cool okay, So I said, okay, So I

0:14:10.679 --> 0:14:12.240
<v Speaker 1>picked her up from the airport and I'm trying to

0:14:12.240 --> 0:14:14.080
<v Speaker 1>be cool and I don't say anything.

0:14:14.120 --> 0:14:16.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to like slammer with Let's talk about Okay,

0:14:16.880 --> 0:14:20.400
<v Speaker 2>what is it? So I wait, because Grace is not

0:14:20.400 --> 0:14:23.080
<v Speaker 2>a morning person and she got in early in the morning. Okay, okay.

0:14:23.200 --> 0:14:26.120
<v Speaker 2>So I even had a whole day go by. Okay.

0:14:26.280 --> 0:14:28.600
<v Speaker 2>So next day I said, hey, I thought you wanted

0:14:28.600 --> 0:14:30.600
<v Speaker 2>to talk to me. So she was like, I do.

0:14:31.480 --> 0:14:35.280
<v Speaker 2>I said, now is the time, right? So she said, okay, Mom,

0:14:36.440 --> 0:14:38.760
<v Speaker 2>so I'm I'm ready for I'm dropping out of school,

0:14:39.600 --> 0:14:45.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm pregnant, I have an only fan. Oh, I have

0:14:45.080 --> 0:14:48.360
<v Speaker 2>an only fan. I'm now a drug addict. I'm thinking

0:14:48.400 --> 0:14:51.680
<v Speaker 2>of all kinds of horrible things. So she says, well,

0:14:52.480 --> 0:14:55.080
<v Speaker 2>so you know my friend group, and I said, yeah,

0:14:55.120 --> 0:15:00.560
<v Speaker 2>like her girlfriend group. She was like, Brandy is twenty

0:15:00.600 --> 0:15:04.480
<v Speaker 2>one and she's having a party this summer in Miami.

0:15:05.040 --> 0:15:07.480
<v Speaker 2>So I was like, great for Brandy. Right, So she

0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:11.000
<v Speaker 2>was like, well, Brandy and her family are going to

0:15:11.080 --> 0:15:20.920
<v Speaker 2>get the hotel so oh God. So like, well, mom,

0:15:21.320 --> 0:15:24.840
<v Speaker 2>how am I going to get there? Oh? So they're

0:15:24.880 --> 0:15:30.320
<v Speaker 2>like what damn it? A Mada asked. I was like,

0:15:30.680 --> 0:15:33.200
<v Speaker 2>so all of this build up was for me to

0:15:33.320 --> 0:15:37.000
<v Speaker 2>buy you, buy you a flight, a plane ticket. She

0:15:37.000 --> 0:15:39.040
<v Speaker 2>could have texted you, now, I said, aren't you thank you?

0:15:39.320 --> 0:15:42.000
<v Speaker 2>She could have she texted me that any other time

0:15:42.520 --> 0:15:44.280
<v Speaker 2>this build up, I said, Grace, I thought you was

0:15:44.320 --> 0:15:47.600
<v Speaker 2>pregnant or jopping high school, or you know, decided to

0:15:47.680 --> 0:15:49.600
<v Speaker 2>you know, be a heroin addict or something. So she

0:15:49.760 --> 0:15:53.600
<v Speaker 2>was like, what why would you think that? Because you

0:15:53.720 --> 0:15:56.600
<v Speaker 2>built this shit up and all you care about is

0:15:56.640 --> 0:16:00.520
<v Speaker 2>my money? Right, just asked me for the money. So

0:16:00.600 --> 0:16:02.720
<v Speaker 2>I told her, don't ever do that again. No, if

0:16:02.760 --> 0:16:06.120
<v Speaker 2>you need money or need me to buy something, just

0:16:06.240 --> 0:16:09.880
<v Speaker 2>say it. Yes. The end, Oh my gosh, that was ship.

0:16:09.920 --> 0:16:13.280
<v Speaker 2>That would have me on pins and needles. Yes, I'm like,

0:16:13.320 --> 0:16:15.240
<v Speaker 2>in my mama, I gotta call my mama and tell

0:16:15.280 --> 0:16:18.400
<v Speaker 2>my mama that Grace is a drug addict. I was like,

0:16:18.440 --> 0:16:21.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to have that conversation. The hell is this.

0:16:24.160 --> 0:16:24.360
<v Speaker 1>Kid?

0:16:24.520 --> 0:16:27.160
<v Speaker 2>This child is a mess. Why did why did she

0:16:27.240 --> 0:16:30.240
<v Speaker 2>need the build up for that? I don't know, I

0:16:30.560 --> 0:16:34.080
<v Speaker 2>don't get it. So I said, Grace, I'll buy you

0:16:34.080 --> 0:16:36.640
<v Speaker 2>a stupid ass ticket, okay, Because at this point, I'm like,

0:16:37.600 --> 0:16:41.080
<v Speaker 2>this is way better than I thought. Maybe that's why

0:16:41.120 --> 0:16:42.720
<v Speaker 2>she did it. That's why she did the building up.

0:16:42.840 --> 0:16:45.280
<v Speaker 2>Like let me, let me, let me get my mom.

0:16:45.360 --> 0:16:47.000
<v Speaker 2>I was like, do you want to first class? You

0:16:47.000 --> 0:16:49.480
<v Speaker 2>could sit first class? Because this is this is ridiculous.

0:16:49.520 --> 0:16:51.920
<v Speaker 2>That's why she did it. She's like, I'm a maker.

0:16:51.960 --> 0:16:54.880
<v Speaker 2>Think it's really bad, and really I just want to

0:16:54.960 --> 0:16:57.000
<v Speaker 2>go to Miami. I just want to go to Miami

0:16:57.080 --> 0:16:59.480
<v Speaker 2>for the weekend. I said, But I did. I always

0:16:59.520 --> 0:17:04.159
<v Speaker 2>tell her, you know these kids because the door was

0:17:04.200 --> 0:17:06.520
<v Speaker 2>talking about oh a door went to Virginia Beach for

0:17:06.600 --> 0:17:08.959
<v Speaker 2>like beach week or something. It was really just a weekend,

0:17:09.359 --> 0:17:11.600
<v Speaker 2>and she was like, well, so and so's family is

0:17:11.640 --> 0:17:14.320
<v Speaker 2>gonna get the room, the room where I need to

0:17:14.400 --> 0:17:17.560
<v Speaker 2>know what rat trap you're staying, because I don't want that.

0:17:17.680 --> 0:17:18.760
<v Speaker 2>I want you to stay.

0:17:18.760 --> 0:17:22.680
<v Speaker 1>Somewhere decent, because these hotels will give you bed bugs

0:17:22.680 --> 0:17:27.119
<v Speaker 1>for life in your hair. But I feel like your butt,

0:17:27.200 --> 0:17:34.760
<v Speaker 1>that's I know, we don't want vagina. Oh my god, Okay,

0:17:34.800 --> 0:17:37.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna stop, please no, But I feel like I

0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:39.800
<v Speaker 1>get you on that, like you want them to have

0:17:40.400 --> 0:17:42.320
<v Speaker 1>a nice experience, but I almost feel like that's a

0:17:42.400 --> 0:17:45.840
<v Speaker 1>rite of passage to like bed bugs, not bed bugs

0:17:46.200 --> 0:17:50.480
<v Speaker 1>like you know, little rinky dink hotel. Like I mean,

0:17:50.520 --> 0:17:54.439
<v Speaker 1>I just remember being in college going to Miami and

0:17:54.480 --> 0:17:56.320
<v Speaker 1>staying in the room. It was I don't know, we

0:17:56.320 --> 0:17:58.800
<v Speaker 1>stayed in the hotel. It was like way down Ocean

0:17:58.880 --> 0:18:02.040
<v Speaker 1>Drive and it was like eight of us in a

0:18:02.160 --> 0:18:04.560
<v Speaker 1>room and one of us in the sleeping in the closet,

0:18:04.560 --> 0:18:05.320
<v Speaker 1>and like you know.

0:18:05.400 --> 0:18:08.040
<v Speaker 2>Or even I did that too, yeah yeah, yeah, and

0:18:08.040 --> 0:18:09.480
<v Speaker 2>it was I paid for the freaking room. I was

0:18:09.480 --> 0:18:13.760
<v Speaker 2>so bizzed, right right, you you broke bitches, and I

0:18:13.840 --> 0:18:17.520
<v Speaker 2>got to sleep literally not in the closet at the door, right,

0:18:17.720 --> 0:18:20.280
<v Speaker 2>that was my bed, right. Yeah. Yes, I was like,

0:18:20.280 --> 0:18:23.600
<v Speaker 2>if y'all don't anyway, I don't want to digress, yes, or.

0:18:23.680 --> 0:18:27.600
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I mean I've slept in all the nasty yes,

0:18:27.640 --> 0:18:29.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean never again, but again.

0:18:29.040 --> 0:18:31.600
<v Speaker 2>I got ring worms in a hotel in Hampton.

0:18:32.000 --> 0:18:34.560
<v Speaker 1>Oh, I believe it. Yeah, totally, I believe it. I've

0:18:34.560 --> 0:18:37.600
<v Speaker 1>gotten warped on my feet. I'm from being in Ocean

0:18:37.640 --> 0:18:40.840
<v Speaker 1>City at wart on the on the bottom.

0:18:40.520 --> 0:18:41.919
<v Speaker 2>Of my foot. I just don't want my kids to

0:18:41.920 --> 0:18:43.640
<v Speaker 2>have to go through that. Then I got to take

0:18:43.640 --> 0:18:46.560
<v Speaker 2>them to the doctor because they got ring worms. Right. Okay,

0:18:46.880 --> 0:18:51.120
<v Speaker 2>So I saw this on Instagram. This is age requirement

0:18:51.280 --> 0:18:53.960
<v Speaker 2>and this is actually not for use just for me, okay, okay,

0:18:54.240 --> 0:18:57.680
<v Speaker 2>because everybody knows I've lived the cougar life. Okay, Okay,

0:18:57.920 --> 0:19:00.399
<v Speaker 2>So this is age requirement. So if you're broke up,

0:19:00.400 --> 0:19:02.120
<v Speaker 2>would be a cougar? Oh?

0:19:02.200 --> 0:19:04.719
<v Speaker 1>Is this the category? I think I fall into the

0:19:04.960 --> 0:19:05.960
<v Speaker 1>category of a cougar?

0:19:06.040 --> 0:19:08.880
<v Speaker 2>Okay? So age requirement for being an auntie a cougar

0:19:10.600 --> 0:19:13.919
<v Speaker 2>with viral Okay, so if you're an auntie ooh, shoot,

0:19:14.520 --> 0:19:17.640
<v Speaker 2>if you're an auntie, you're twenty eight to thirty four.

0:19:17.880 --> 0:19:18.679
<v Speaker 2>I disagree with that.

0:19:18.720 --> 0:19:21.560
<v Speaker 1>I disagree with that big time. That's like hot girl. Yeah, girl,

0:19:21.640 --> 0:19:22.360
<v Speaker 1>you're still a hot girl.

0:19:22.520 --> 0:19:26.600
<v Speaker 2>No, because that's like, how old is Ashley? Thirty something? Six?

0:19:26.640 --> 0:19:28.400
<v Speaker 1>Mane oh she might be a little bit older, but like, yeah,

0:19:28.400 --> 0:19:32.080
<v Speaker 1>think about Ashley like her first few seasons on Potomac, Like,

0:19:32.200 --> 0:19:33.520
<v Speaker 1>no one is calling her auntie?

0:19:33.600 --> 0:19:39.160
<v Speaker 2>No, no, he was just what do you call it? Thought? Thought? Yeah, yeah,

0:19:39.200 --> 0:19:42.879
<v Speaker 2>that's thought thought. So yes, So twenty to thirty four,

0:19:42.880 --> 0:19:44.879
<v Speaker 2>sh'd be thirty sure?

0:19:45.160 --> 0:19:48.480
<v Speaker 1>I mean or Hatti Hatti okay, Hatti, yes, okay, let's

0:19:48.520 --> 0:19:49.040
<v Speaker 1>call him hoty.

0:19:49.080 --> 0:19:51.680
<v Speaker 2>Let's give them the okay, the whole.

0:19:51.600 --> 0:19:54.800
<v Speaker 1>Art okay, but who is actually I take pride in

0:19:54.880 --> 0:19:56.640
<v Speaker 1>any hold them that I've done.

0:19:56.920 --> 0:19:58.280
<v Speaker 2>I take pride in my whole them.

0:19:59.119 --> 0:20:01.720
<v Speaker 1>But okay, you could take pride in it. But let's

0:20:01.920 --> 0:20:03.359
<v Speaker 1>not like glorify it.

0:20:03.680 --> 0:20:07.160
<v Speaker 2>Why not? I mean, I mean, if you hold responsibly,

0:20:07.520 --> 0:20:11.600
<v Speaker 2>what's wrong with that? Do you want that for your daughters? No?

0:20:11.720 --> 0:20:14.720
<v Speaker 2>All right, I'm talking about myself. Okay, then no, my

0:20:15.119 --> 0:20:17.760
<v Speaker 2>daughters are not they're not horse Yeah, it's not. It's

0:20:17.800 --> 0:20:21.640
<v Speaker 2>just me yeah, okay, wait, yeah, all right, so we'll

0:20:21.680 --> 0:20:25.040
<v Speaker 2>give that hottie. So thirty five to forty one cougar.

0:20:25.640 --> 0:20:27.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't agree with that each No, I don't agree

0:20:27.840 --> 0:20:31.920
<v Speaker 2>with that. Cool okay, So thirty eight to forty one

0:20:32.720 --> 0:20:36.639
<v Speaker 2>should be that can be Auntie, that's Auntie. Yeah, that

0:20:36.640 --> 0:20:40.600
<v Speaker 2>can be Auntie. That's Auntie. Soone with Hattie Auntie, all right,

0:20:41.160 --> 0:20:45.960
<v Speaker 2>and then forty two to forty five it says cougar Auntie. No,

0:20:46.160 --> 0:20:49.560
<v Speaker 2>that's I feel like these age gaps need, these age

0:20:49.640 --> 0:20:51.679
<v Speaker 2>ranges need to need to need to be longer. Yeah right,

0:20:51.720 --> 0:20:56.080
<v Speaker 2>because I feel like Auntie should go to like forty five. Yes,

0:20:56.160 --> 0:20:58.600
<v Speaker 2>Auntie should definitely go to forty five. Yeah, okay, so

0:20:58.880 --> 0:21:02.679
<v Speaker 2>definitely kicking cougar out right now. I think cougar is

0:21:03.000 --> 0:21:05.679
<v Speaker 2>forty five, forty six and up. Yeah, you're a cougar.

0:21:05.880 --> 0:21:13.159
<v Speaker 2>This is you're a Thundercat. I'm in a Thundercap. I

0:21:13.280 --> 0:21:15.240
<v Speaker 2>like Thundercat better than Cougar, I know.

0:21:15.359 --> 0:21:18.520
<v Speaker 1>I like the way that's so, yes, Thundercat coming through.

0:21:18.680 --> 0:21:21.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, everybody grge you're loin. So So when would

0:21:21.800 --> 0:21:24.879
<v Speaker 1>ThunderCats start? So if Couger starts it, no, Cougar starts

0:21:24.880 --> 0:21:29.159
<v Speaker 1>at forty fifty fifty Thundercat. Okay, I'm in my Thundercat season,

0:21:29.600 --> 0:21:31.639
<v Speaker 1>and yeah, we need to revise that.

0:21:31.680 --> 0:21:33.359
<v Speaker 2>I like, Yes, well we just did. I like that.

0:21:33.440 --> 0:21:34.800
<v Speaker 2>We just revised it. Okay, what you got?

0:21:34.840 --> 0:21:39.120
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I have a couple of questions for you.

0:21:39.600 --> 0:21:43.960
<v Speaker 1>What do you think about people wearing sunglasses, like out

0:21:43.960 --> 0:21:45.200
<v Speaker 1>in public during the day.

0:21:46.040 --> 0:21:47.320
<v Speaker 2>That's when you're supposed to wear them.

0:21:47.640 --> 0:21:51.480
<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, I'm sorry, not outside, not outside, inside in

0:21:51.520 --> 0:21:53.720
<v Speaker 1>the okay, in the evening, all right, specifically right, So,

0:21:53.720 --> 0:21:55.680
<v Speaker 1>I was watching the basketball game. It was a Knicks game,

0:21:56.080 --> 0:21:58.960
<v Speaker 1>and Sierra and Russell Wilson are at the next game. Okay,

0:21:59.040 --> 0:22:04.200
<v Speaker 1>both have sung glasses on at the basketball game. Yeah, like, okay,

0:22:04.359 --> 0:22:05.320
<v Speaker 1>what do we think about that?

0:22:05.480 --> 0:22:09.480
<v Speaker 2>Okay? So, okay, let me break this down because this

0:22:09.920 --> 0:22:14.680
<v Speaker 2>is this is Gazelle. Yeah, so I would wear sunglasses

0:22:14.840 --> 0:22:18.399
<v Speaker 2>inside if I haven't gotten like my makeup done, and

0:22:18.480 --> 0:22:22.560
<v Speaker 2>I look crazy, right, and I'm not trying to just deal. Okay,

0:22:22.840 --> 0:22:26.000
<v Speaker 2>But Sierra, you've got your makeup done, you're at the

0:22:26.200 --> 0:22:27.760
<v Speaker 2>you're at the game, you sit in court size, right,

0:22:27.800 --> 0:22:29.120
<v Speaker 2>So take the glasses.

0:22:28.680 --> 0:22:31.880
<v Speaker 1>And Russell, you're not wearing makeup. You don't, you don't,

0:22:31.880 --> 0:22:32.639
<v Speaker 1>we don't need, you don't need.

0:22:33.040 --> 0:22:35.359
<v Speaker 2>It's gonna do whatever Sierra says for him to do, so,

0:22:35.440 --> 0:22:38.800
<v Speaker 2>like because he's that dude. Yeah, so that's gonna speaking

0:22:38.840 --> 0:22:42.360
<v Speaker 2>to Sierra, right, stop it. Okay, Yeah, you're at the game. Yeah,

0:22:42.440 --> 0:22:43.000
<v Speaker 2>I think it's so.

0:22:43.160 --> 0:22:45.800
<v Speaker 1>I think it's like so corny when people are in

0:22:45.800 --> 0:22:48.879
<v Speaker 1>those scenarios. Yeah, they're wearing sunglasses at a basketball game. Like,

0:22:49.480 --> 0:22:52.920
<v Speaker 1>but then I had a flip side thoughts, okay, okay,

0:22:53.000 --> 0:22:58.359
<v Speaker 1>and I said, maybe they're wearing the sunglasses so that

0:22:58.440 --> 0:23:01.239
<v Speaker 1>they don't have to make eye contact with people. So

0:23:01.320 --> 0:23:05.200
<v Speaker 1>they don't so people don't see them looking at them. Yeah, right,

0:23:05.240 --> 0:23:08.160
<v Speaker 1>and so that the people if they were to make

0:23:08.200 --> 0:23:11.840
<v Speaker 1>contact eye contact with someone, the people don't know, and

0:23:11.880 --> 0:23:13.840
<v Speaker 1>so they don't feel like, oh, let me go say hi,

0:23:13.920 --> 0:23:15.720
<v Speaker 1>let me go talk to them, because I just can't.

0:23:15.720 --> 0:23:18.879
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, Russell Wilson, why are you wearing sunglasses? Like?

0:23:19.080 --> 0:23:20.840
<v Speaker 1>I get the you know, women sometimes we do it

0:23:20.880 --> 0:23:22.479
<v Speaker 1>because it's, oh, it's coolest part of the outfit, But

0:23:22.520 --> 0:23:24.920
<v Speaker 1>why is somebody like Rocky Wilson wearing sunglasses?

0:23:24.960 --> 0:23:25.040
<v Speaker 2>Right?

0:23:25.080 --> 0:23:27.240
<v Speaker 1>So that was the only rationale I could come up

0:23:27.240 --> 0:23:29.680
<v Speaker 1>with even though I think it's corny, but I don't.

0:23:29.760 --> 0:23:32.320
<v Speaker 2>I think I disagree for the basketball game because everybody's

0:23:32.320 --> 0:23:35.040
<v Speaker 2>in their seat. So let's say you made eye contact

0:23:35.040 --> 0:23:38.960
<v Speaker 2>with somebody three rows back or cross on the other side.

0:23:39.080 --> 0:23:41.320
<v Speaker 2>You're the game is playing, You're in your seat. They're

0:23:41.320 --> 0:23:42.960
<v Speaker 2>not coming up to you. Yeah, I don't. I was.

0:23:43.040 --> 0:23:44.600
<v Speaker 2>I was trying to help them out. I don't know.

0:23:44.680 --> 0:23:46.919
<v Speaker 2>I was trying to just figure out, like, why are

0:23:46.960 --> 0:23:47.560
<v Speaker 2>we doing this?

0:23:48.320 --> 0:23:51.399
<v Speaker 1>Why? Yeah, I'm not here for it, Okay, yes, but

0:23:51.480 --> 0:23:53.439
<v Speaker 1>I'm here for and Jay and Beyonce don't do that.

0:23:53.480 --> 0:23:57.000
<v Speaker 2>They don't have sunglasses on. No. Yeah, so, and they're

0:23:57.040 --> 0:24:00.600
<v Speaker 2>the epitome of cool. Right, we've decided. How do we

0:24:00.640 --> 0:24:05.840
<v Speaker 2>feel about Michelle Obama's podcast? I know I regress, I digress.

0:24:07.520 --> 0:24:10.520
<v Speaker 2>I mean I've only seen clips of it. I love

0:24:10.560 --> 0:24:13.359
<v Speaker 2>that she has one. Yeah, you know, I think I do.

0:24:13.400 --> 0:24:14.920
<v Speaker 2>When I don't, I'm gonna tell you why I don't.

0:24:14.960 --> 0:24:16.800
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, okay, I mean I think it's good to

0:24:16.840 --> 0:24:20.919
<v Speaker 1>hear her voice and good to hear her just thoughts

0:24:21.000 --> 0:24:22.680
<v Speaker 1>on things and experiences.

0:24:22.720 --> 0:24:27.000
<v Speaker 2>Totally. I kind of don't think she can speak super

0:24:27.000 --> 0:24:30.440
<v Speaker 2>freely though that part Okay, So I love the fact

0:24:30.440 --> 0:24:32.640
<v Speaker 2>that she has it. Obviously she has a voice. Yeah,

0:24:32.720 --> 0:24:36.760
<v Speaker 2>she wants to exercise that she has not asked reasonably

0:24:36.800 --> 0:24:39.080
<v Speaker 2>shady on the podcast, and that's a problem. Okay, But

0:24:39.200 --> 0:24:42.600
<v Speaker 2>outside of that, I do there is something to be

0:24:42.760 --> 0:24:51.240
<v Speaker 2>said for not being super exposed. So I would like,

0:24:52.840 --> 0:24:55.000
<v Speaker 2>because you know, she's Michelle Obama, like we hold her

0:24:55.000 --> 0:25:01.480
<v Speaker 2>in such high regard that I want her to talk less. Yeah, yeah,

0:25:01.520 --> 0:25:02.960
<v Speaker 2>but you know what I mean, like, but it have

0:25:03.119 --> 0:25:07.320
<v Speaker 2>it be more impactful, not that what she's saying isn't impactful.

0:25:08.000 --> 0:25:10.920
<v Speaker 1>Like she's she's coming down to our lovel yeah.

0:25:10.920 --> 0:25:13.600
<v Speaker 2>Literally, Yeah, I have a podcast, she has podcasts. We're

0:25:13.600 --> 0:25:15.720
<v Speaker 2>the same. I am Michelle Obama. I don't want to

0:25:15.720 --> 0:25:16.200
<v Speaker 2>feel that way.

0:25:16.280 --> 0:25:18.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we want her to be like on the pedestal

0:25:18.760 --> 0:25:21.439
<v Speaker 1>totally super like way high.

0:25:21.560 --> 0:25:24.399
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and probably she showed us our her downloads. She

0:25:24.640 --> 0:25:30.080
<v Speaker 2>is probably way high than us. Not the point, I

0:25:30.280 --> 0:25:31.000
<v Speaker 2>just you know.

0:25:31.040 --> 0:25:37.000
<v Speaker 1>She's Michelle Obama, like she's Yeah, I get that, but

0:25:37.119 --> 0:25:39.920
<v Speaker 1>I think that she's you know, everything that she's saying

0:25:39.960 --> 0:25:42.159
<v Speaker 1>on it and all that is great. Yeah, I mean

0:25:42.200 --> 0:25:46.280
<v Speaker 1>I think they have like, you know, good conversations, good discussions, yeah,

0:25:46.400 --> 0:25:48.879
<v Speaker 1>but it is definitely like, okay, you're you're becoming a

0:25:48.920 --> 0:25:50.360
<v Speaker 1>little too touchable.

0:25:50.040 --> 0:25:53.200
<v Speaker 2>There we go. Yeah that's the word. Or accessible, yeah, yes,

0:25:53.320 --> 0:25:57.120
<v Speaker 2>not too yeah, and we we want to we want

0:25:57.119 --> 0:25:59.720
<v Speaker 2>to act like we can never find you right or

0:25:59.720 --> 0:26:02.199
<v Speaker 2>here you or anything, because like when Barack comes out,

0:26:02.240 --> 0:26:05.480
<v Speaker 2>it's abrocto something. It's like we stop, like Barack is

0:26:05.520 --> 0:26:08.640
<v Speaker 2>speaking speaking of Barack. Have you heard what they're doing

0:26:08.680 --> 0:26:12.040
<v Speaker 2>to supposedly the White House? No, okay, so the White

0:26:12.040 --> 0:26:16.359
<v Speaker 2>House has been calling China, okay, to beg and plead

0:26:16.480 --> 0:26:19.959
<v Speaker 2>for this whole tear of fiasco to end. And so

0:26:20.000 --> 0:26:25.480
<v Speaker 2>they're putting mister Trump on hold and playing Barack's speeches

0:26:26.440 --> 0:26:33.320
<v Speaker 2>the people in China. Yes, this is not a legibly

0:26:33.760 --> 0:26:38.760
<v Speaker 2>this has been documented. Yes, yes, because somebody had to

0:26:38.760 --> 0:26:42.720
<v Speaker 2>speak on it. Somebody had to give there was some

0:26:42.880 --> 0:26:44.800
<v Speaker 2>sort of like not an investigation, but somebody had to

0:26:44.840 --> 0:26:48.720
<v Speaker 2>go talk and speak on what's going on. And yeah,

0:26:48.800 --> 0:26:53.480
<v Speaker 2>they're playing Barack speeches. No way, that is take.

0:26:54.359 --> 0:26:59.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean the the pettiness China petty game is China is.

0:26:59.359 --> 0:27:03.080
<v Speaker 2>Winning, Like I'm living for the petty game. Yeah, like

0:27:03.160 --> 0:27:06.399
<v Speaker 2>this is actually everything that is so means everything to me,

0:27:06.640 --> 0:27:07.360
<v Speaker 2>that's hilarious.

0:27:07.400 --> 0:27:10.760
<v Speaker 1>So speaking of Barack and Michelle and how we how

0:27:10.840 --> 0:27:12.080
<v Speaker 1>high a pedestal we put them on?

0:27:12.359 --> 0:27:13.359
<v Speaker 2>Did you see it? Was?

0:27:13.440 --> 0:27:17.840
<v Speaker 1>They were at a restaurant in DC Osteria, I think yeah,

0:27:18.280 --> 0:27:20.440
<v Speaker 1>and they must have been in a private room. Yes,

0:27:20.480 --> 0:27:22.600
<v Speaker 1>and then they're exiting the restaurant and they had to

0:27:22.640 --> 0:27:27.120
<v Speaker 1>go through the front the whole restaurant. Yes, they're like

0:27:27.359 --> 0:27:31.680
<v Speaker 1>applauding like as they're walking out. Yes, and it's like, yeah,

0:27:32.040 --> 0:27:34.880
<v Speaker 1>imagine imagine Trump leaving the restaurant.

0:27:34.960 --> 0:27:39.199
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, boom, Well it's we would like I would like

0:27:39.240 --> 0:27:42.720
<v Speaker 2>cock my head to the side, like really, yeah, so

0:27:43.000 --> 0:27:45.240
<v Speaker 2>that is I've seen that happen. So I was at

0:27:45.359 --> 0:27:48.560
<v Speaker 2>Joe Seafood. This is years ago when Barack and Michelle

0:27:48.560 --> 0:27:51.320
<v Speaker 2>were in office. Michelle was there and it was like

0:27:51.359 --> 0:27:53.200
<v Speaker 2>you knew somebody was that a secret service was there

0:27:53.520 --> 0:27:57.120
<v Speaker 2>and then she came out and everybody went crazy nuts. Yeah,

0:27:57.160 --> 0:28:01.400
<v Speaker 2>so like, yeah, yes, we were maybe they are forever

0:28:01.960 --> 0:28:05.640
<v Speaker 2>president and first they are, yes we do.

0:28:06.600 --> 0:28:11.399
<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, So I know you probably really don't have

0:28:11.480 --> 0:28:14.640
<v Speaker 1>a thought about this, but this was a debate that

0:28:14.840 --> 0:28:18.840
<v Speaker 1>was like rampant in your household, in my household, really

0:28:19.119 --> 0:28:22.520
<v Speaker 1>and on like TikTok social media amongst.

0:28:23.080 --> 0:28:27.239
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to say just men, but most most males.

0:28:28.400 --> 0:28:31.560
<v Speaker 2>Have you heard this? Who would win in.

0:28:31.440 --> 0:28:36.960
<v Speaker 1>A fight between one hundred men and aga silverback gorilla?

0:28:37.320 --> 0:28:41.200
<v Speaker 2>Who are you taking? So I did see this, and

0:28:41.280 --> 0:28:45.640
<v Speaker 2>I didn't really understand how or how this question got

0:28:46.240 --> 0:28:53.240
<v Speaker 2>proposed right or why right, But.

0:28:53.240 --> 0:28:56.800
<v Speaker 1>It's like the burning question that everyone needs to know.

0:28:57.480 --> 0:29:01.120
<v Speaker 1>This goes back back to the Dixon of it all. Yeah, yeah,

0:29:01.240 --> 0:29:04.480
<v Speaker 1>because I'm sure Wan was like, oh I.

0:29:04.800 --> 0:29:08.560
<v Speaker 2>Got the gorilla. No oh he didn't. No, okay, so

0:29:08.600 --> 0:29:09.840
<v Speaker 2>he was like, hell no, yeah.

0:29:09.840 --> 0:29:11.640
<v Speaker 1>He's like, y'all are crazy if you think you're gonna

0:29:11.640 --> 0:29:14.080
<v Speaker 1>beat a gorilla. Oh okay, So a gorilla can knock

0:29:14.080 --> 0:29:16.680
<v Speaker 1>down a hundred men. So I think the hundred men

0:29:16.720 --> 0:29:18.560
<v Speaker 1>can win. Me and Carter at.

0:29:18.400 --> 0:29:22.160
<v Speaker 2>The same time, simultaneous. Okay, me and Carter think the

0:29:22.200 --> 0:29:24.640
<v Speaker 2>one hundred men can win. I think so too. We think,

0:29:25.080 --> 0:29:26.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, a whole bunch.

0:29:26.040 --> 0:29:32.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna have to be sacrificed, right, yes, y'all go first, yeah, yeah,

0:29:32.040 --> 0:29:34.080
<v Speaker 1>but you're going to have to take some men to

0:29:34.120 --> 0:29:37.640
<v Speaker 1>distract the gorilla while the other men, you know, approach

0:29:37.680 --> 0:29:39.680
<v Speaker 1>it from behind and kick it and hit it and

0:29:39.680 --> 0:29:41.880
<v Speaker 1>strangle it and choke it and poke its eyes out

0:29:41.960 --> 0:29:43.960
<v Speaker 1>and throw a rock on them. Yeah, all of that,

0:29:44.480 --> 0:29:48.160
<v Speaker 1>and we think that one hundred men can beat the gorilla.

0:29:48.280 --> 0:29:51.680
<v Speaker 1>But one is like, y'all are crazy. One and Corey

0:29:51.720 --> 0:29:53.800
<v Speaker 1>think the gorilla will win.

0:29:54.880 --> 0:29:57.720
<v Speaker 2>You And Carter say, I think so, is there any

0:29:58.120 --> 0:29:59.920
<v Speaker 2>have we looked at? Anybody doesn't ever have?

0:30:00.440 --> 0:30:03.720
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, As I asked chat GPT.

0:30:03.680 --> 0:30:04.200
<v Speaker 2>I would win.

0:30:04.960 --> 0:30:07.440
<v Speaker 1>And I mean, they just give you like scenarios for like,

0:30:07.480 --> 0:30:08.880
<v Speaker 1>they don't even tell you who would win. They just

0:30:08.920 --> 0:30:11.320
<v Speaker 1>tell you, like why the men would win and why

0:30:11.360 --> 0:30:13.600
<v Speaker 1>the gorilla would win. They say, they say the men

0:30:14.240 --> 0:30:17.480
<v Speaker 1>would tire out the gorilla as well. Yes, but you

0:30:17.560 --> 0:30:20.720
<v Speaker 1>know some of them would die first. But but if

0:30:20.760 --> 0:30:23.200
<v Speaker 1>you kind of have a coordinated attack, you would tire

0:30:23.240 --> 0:30:25.160
<v Speaker 1>out the gorilla and eventually beat the gorilla.

0:30:25.200 --> 0:30:27.120
<v Speaker 2>I think I would love to know the strength of

0:30:27.160 --> 0:30:30.120
<v Speaker 2>a gorilla. It is the strength of a gorilla equal

0:30:30.160 --> 0:30:33.320
<v Speaker 2>to fifty men, one hundred men, right, Yeah, I don't know.

0:30:33.480 --> 0:30:35.480
<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm like first, and then I'm like, who

0:30:35.560 --> 0:30:38.440
<v Speaker 2>the hell came up with this most random question? I

0:30:38.480 --> 0:30:42.440
<v Speaker 2>don't know. But at GBT GPT. Yes, who came up

0:30:42.480 --> 0:30:45.320
<v Speaker 2>with this question? Yes, okay, I have a question for you.

0:30:45.480 --> 0:30:51.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so your crush you have a crush on Dampson Idris, right, yeah, Mike, okay,

0:30:51.160 --> 0:30:54.000
<v Speaker 1>all right, actually no, but okay, go ahead, No, okay,

0:30:54.240 --> 0:30:56.360
<v Speaker 1>no Dampson. Okay, So say you're in a relationship with

0:30:56.480 --> 0:30:57.920
<v Speaker 1>Dampson or dating Dampson.

0:30:58.120 --> 0:31:00.440
<v Speaker 2>Oh gosh, yes, that's beautiful. I'm loving this.

0:31:00.480 --> 0:31:04.040
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So you have to pick one. Okay, what would

0:31:04.080 --> 0:31:11.720
<v Speaker 1>you rather do? Would you rather use his toothbrush or

0:31:11.880 --> 0:31:13.000
<v Speaker 1>use his washcloth?

0:31:14.240 --> 0:31:19.840
<v Speaker 2>Has he washed his balls? Yep? Okay the washcloth? You

0:31:20.040 --> 0:31:22.800
<v Speaker 2>use his washcloth? Yeah, okay, because I can like soap

0:31:22.840 --> 0:31:25.240
<v Speaker 2>it up and like in my mind it's clean. Right.

0:31:25.560 --> 0:31:28.360
<v Speaker 2>The toothbrush situation is a no. But if you're like

0:31:28.400 --> 0:31:32.240
<v Speaker 2>swaping spit, what's the problem. Because there's bacteria in the

0:31:32.360 --> 0:31:36.360
<v Speaker 2>in the teeth and so let's say we've obviously kissed,

0:31:37.040 --> 0:31:39.959
<v Speaker 2>I still haven't stuck my tongue in between your teeth.

0:31:40.640 --> 0:31:43.720
<v Speaker 2>That's difference. Okay, yeah, okay, all right. So my kids,

0:31:43.720 --> 0:31:46.240
<v Speaker 2>the twins kind of share too brushes sometimes when we're

0:31:46.280 --> 0:31:48.920
<v Speaker 2>on vacation. They it's not that they do it on purpose, right,

0:31:48.960 --> 0:31:50.800
<v Speaker 2>but like one will just pick up the other one

0:31:50.880 --> 0:31:53.120
<v Speaker 2>and then they're like, oh, okay, who cares. I'm like, no,

0:31:53.240 --> 0:31:56.120
<v Speaker 2>that's disgusting. Yeah, do not do that. Yeah yeah.

0:31:56.200 --> 0:31:59.560
<v Speaker 1>So I just the other day I swear my brain

0:31:59.600 --> 0:32:01.560
<v Speaker 1>like honk out on me. So, so I have an

0:32:01.600 --> 0:32:04.440
<v Speaker 1>electric toothbrush, but sometimes I'll just use like a regular toothbrush.

0:32:04.520 --> 0:32:07.960
<v Speaker 1>So Wan and I have a regular toothbrushes in a

0:32:08.080 --> 0:32:12.120
<v Speaker 1>in a little cup holder tooth brush holder, and one

0:32:12.160 --> 0:32:14.320
<v Speaker 1>of them is green and one of them is orange.

0:32:14.640 --> 0:32:17.400
<v Speaker 1>And I literally blacked out and I was like, I

0:32:17.440 --> 0:32:18.360
<v Speaker 1>don't know which one.

0:32:18.240 --> 0:32:22.440
<v Speaker 2>Is mine, which which one is yours. I think it's

0:32:22.480 --> 0:32:24.800
<v Speaker 2>the green one. You just so then I went to want.

0:32:24.880 --> 0:32:27.640
<v Speaker 1>I was like, one, I'm my brain just conked out

0:32:27.640 --> 0:32:30.400
<v Speaker 1>of me, Like, which toothbrushes is yours?

0:32:30.600 --> 0:32:32.560
<v Speaker 2>What do you say? He's like he had to think

0:32:32.600 --> 0:32:34.920
<v Speaker 2>for a minute, and he was like, I think it's

0:32:34.920 --> 0:32:41.160
<v Speaker 2>the orange. Probably should have so, he thought, but I

0:32:41.160 --> 0:32:41.760
<v Speaker 2>don't know why.

0:32:41.800 --> 0:32:44.880
<v Speaker 1>I was like, for some reason, I'm literally blanking on

0:32:44.960 --> 0:32:48.360
<v Speaker 1>which toothbrush is mine? So okay, go ahead, and so

0:32:48.440 --> 0:32:50.480
<v Speaker 1>I just he said he thinks his was the orange.

0:32:50.680 --> 0:32:52.960
<v Speaker 2>Did you throw them away? No? I just went with

0:32:53.040 --> 0:32:58.480
<v Speaker 2>the This is why I won't share bathrooms with men

0:32:58.960 --> 0:33:01.520
<v Speaker 2>with dampson and amps. I'm not sharing a bathroom. Okay.

0:33:01.640 --> 0:33:04.120
<v Speaker 2>So have you seen the new toothbrushes where you put

0:33:04.120 --> 0:33:06.320
<v Speaker 2>the whole thing in your mouth. No, it's like a

0:33:06.800 --> 0:33:11.000
<v Speaker 2>it's like a rubbers like a retainer, but it's connected

0:33:11.000 --> 0:33:14.160
<v Speaker 2>to like a charger, so you turn it on. It

0:33:14.160 --> 0:33:16.160
<v Speaker 2>has like a blue light and everything. It's called sonic something.

0:33:16.920 --> 0:33:18.880
<v Speaker 2>You put like toothpaste around it and then you put

0:33:18.920 --> 0:33:22.240
<v Speaker 2>it in your mouth and it's just like it brushes. Yeah,

0:33:22.320 --> 0:33:23.640
<v Speaker 2>that's the whole thing. The whole thing is like a

0:33:23.640 --> 0:33:28.120
<v Speaker 2>brush and like a retainer type of apparatus and it

0:33:28.280 --> 0:33:31.160
<v Speaker 2>and then you can set it like high setting, low setting, whatever.

0:33:31.760 --> 0:33:34.360
<v Speaker 2>I freaking love it. You have it, I do. I

0:33:34.400 --> 0:33:37.480
<v Speaker 2>have two of them, really. Yeah. I just bought it randomly.

0:33:37.560 --> 0:33:39.080
<v Speaker 2>I saw it on like the View or something. I

0:33:39.120 --> 0:33:41.640
<v Speaker 2>don't know. Anyway, I was like, I bought it, and

0:33:41.680 --> 0:33:44.360
<v Speaker 2>I was like, this is gonna be dumb. I love it.

0:33:44.640 --> 0:33:47.120
<v Speaker 2>I mean I also use a regular like so I

0:33:47.240 --> 0:33:49.200
<v Speaker 2>do that at night and in the morning I use

0:33:49.200 --> 0:33:52.560
<v Speaker 2>a regular electric toothbrush. Do you get behind your teeth?

0:33:53.160 --> 0:33:57.320
<v Speaker 2>It's the whole thing. Surrounds up top and bottom, and

0:33:57.360 --> 0:33:59.400
<v Speaker 2>then they say kind of move it a little bit

0:33:59.400 --> 0:34:01.760
<v Speaker 2>to make sure you get the back, which I do.

0:34:02.080 --> 0:34:05.680
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, it's great interesting. Yeah, I'll have to check

0:34:05.720 --> 0:34:08.680
<v Speaker 1>that out. Yeah, Sonic, I think is is the brand.

0:34:08.760 --> 0:34:10.399
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'll check it out because I need I need

0:34:10.440 --> 0:34:12.640
<v Speaker 2>another device in my house. Yeah, I'll check that out.

0:34:13.680 --> 0:34:17.359
<v Speaker 2>Do you use your juicer I have? I haven't used

0:34:17.400 --> 0:34:19.680
<v Speaker 2>it in a while, that five thousand dollars juicer that

0:34:19.760 --> 0:34:24.080
<v Speaker 2>you have, six hundred and ninety nine. By the way,

0:34:24.160 --> 0:34:26.719
<v Speaker 2>I do want the coffee maker that's supposed to be

0:34:26.719 --> 0:34:28.799
<v Speaker 2>like high tech or whatever. Not that I drink coffee, right,

0:34:28.800 --> 0:34:30.600
<v Speaker 2>you don't drink coffee. But I wanted to make like

0:34:30.680 --> 0:34:34.759
<v Speaker 2>hot chocolate. Oh, like the one that like you. I

0:34:34.760 --> 0:34:37.440
<v Speaker 2>don't know. I don't what is it called. Maybe it's

0:34:37.440 --> 0:34:40.200
<v Speaker 2>the currac oh yeah, yeah, carecaker whatever. I don't know. Anyway,

0:34:40.200 --> 0:34:42.120
<v Speaker 2>its supposed to be very expensive. Really, I just wanted

0:34:42.120 --> 0:34:46.120
<v Speaker 2>for hot chocolate. Is that a waste? Probably? Okay? Yeah,

0:34:46.280 --> 0:34:48.360
<v Speaker 2>probably I don't have it, Okay, I don't can't afford it.

0:34:48.400 --> 0:34:49.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. So the juicer.

0:34:50.480 --> 0:34:52.600
<v Speaker 1>I took a pause on it because and I need

0:34:52.600 --> 0:34:56.440
<v Speaker 1>to get back because Corey, although he's not Catholic, he

0:34:56.560 --> 0:35:00.400
<v Speaker 1>gave up like drinks for lint, like you could only

0:35:00.480 --> 0:35:03.000
<v Speaker 1>drink water during Lent, and so I.

0:35:02.960 --> 0:35:05.040
<v Speaker 2>Didn't want to torture him.

0:35:04.880 --> 0:35:08.840
<v Speaker 1>By like juicing and making nice juices and like, so

0:35:08.960 --> 0:35:11.600
<v Speaker 1>then I just Easter is over. I know it's been over,

0:35:11.760 --> 0:35:14.799
<v Speaker 1>and then so I haven't haven't. It was like so

0:35:15.080 --> 0:35:17.120
<v Speaker 1>like lit, it was lit was like forever.

0:35:17.320 --> 0:35:19.320
<v Speaker 2>It was just forty days.

0:35:19.560 --> 0:35:23.439
<v Speaker 1>Well it was long the same every year, forty days

0:35:23.440 --> 0:35:26.759
<v Speaker 1>and forty nights. Okay, okay, Well he goes to a.

0:35:26.680 --> 0:35:28.799
<v Speaker 2>Catholic school now yeah, okay, yeah, all.

0:35:28.800 --> 0:35:30.640
<v Speaker 1>Right, so one of his like friends there like had

0:35:30.719 --> 0:35:32.200
<v Speaker 1>him give something up for limp.

0:35:32.280 --> 0:35:35.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my girls gave up juice or whatever. But then

0:35:35.200 --> 0:35:36.879
<v Speaker 2>we went that was when we went to Cape Town.

0:35:36.880 --> 0:35:39.200
<v Speaker 2>They were like, yeah, that's over, it's over. Yeah, okay.

0:35:39.360 --> 0:35:42.080
<v Speaker 1>He was like he was disciplined. And I actually saw

0:35:42.120 --> 0:35:44.040
<v Speaker 1>his face clear up, like you know, I has a

0:35:44.040 --> 0:35:46.600
<v Speaker 1>little bit of like pimples and stuff, and so I

0:35:46.640 --> 0:35:49.880
<v Speaker 1>saw his face cleared up. Yeah, but he was like

0:35:51.080 --> 0:35:53.640
<v Speaker 1>it was it was a struggle. It was a struggle, Okay.

0:35:55.080 --> 0:35:56.879
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I didn't want to make it worse for him.

0:35:56.960 --> 0:35:58.640
<v Speaker 1>So I just took a break from juicing and I

0:35:58.719 --> 0:35:59.240
<v Speaker 1>just haven't.

0:35:59.040 --> 0:35:59.600
<v Speaker 2>Picked it back up.

0:35:59.640 --> 0:36:01.879
<v Speaker 1>But I will now that you reminded me. Okay, now

0:36:01.880 --> 0:36:11.120
<v Speaker 1>that you reminded me, Okay, another question and then we

0:36:11.120 --> 0:36:14.960
<v Speaker 1>can get into some letters. Yeah, at your current age, yes,

0:36:15.440 --> 0:36:17.719
<v Speaker 1>would you rather date a man who has never been

0:36:17.760 --> 0:36:20.279
<v Speaker 1>married or a divorced man?

0:36:21.040 --> 0:36:23.640
<v Speaker 2>I said this all the time. I would not be

0:36:23.680 --> 0:36:25.719
<v Speaker 2>in a serious relationship with a man that has not

0:36:25.760 --> 0:36:29.480
<v Speaker 2>been married, Okay, and that doesn't have children. First of all,

0:36:29.480 --> 0:36:31.680
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to be your first wife. No, because

0:36:32.520 --> 0:36:36.319
<v Speaker 2>y'all that's too much work. Yeah, Robin, yes, you're gonna

0:36:36.360 --> 0:36:39.800
<v Speaker 2>test to that. I can attest to that second wife

0:36:39.800 --> 0:36:43.680
<v Speaker 2>got it easy because they've broken in, right. And men,

0:36:44.120 --> 0:36:47.560
<v Speaker 2>I think in the long run, they want to be married.

0:36:47.800 --> 0:36:49.480
<v Speaker 2>They want to be taken care of, they want to

0:36:49.680 --> 0:36:54.520
<v Speaker 2>have stability, they want to have a foundation. Okay. Number two,

0:36:54.800 --> 0:36:58.080
<v Speaker 2>if you don't have kids, you don't understand family. To me,

0:37:00.120 --> 0:37:03.520
<v Speaker 2>a man because is designed to have a family, right,

0:37:03.960 --> 0:37:06.399
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, you gotta have you gotta be married once

0:37:06.440 --> 0:37:10.160
<v Speaker 2>maybe twice and have a rack of kids. Yeah. Yeah, okay,

0:37:10.239 --> 0:37:14.840
<v Speaker 2>So Kanye and me, oh yeah, excellent. Oh yeah, a

0:37:15.000 --> 0:37:19.680
<v Speaker 2>match made of Heaven a match made. It hasn't because

0:37:19.760 --> 0:37:22.239
<v Speaker 2>I had I met a guy recently actually that has

0:37:22.320 --> 0:37:25.480
<v Speaker 2>never been married, never been married, doesn't have any kids.

0:37:25.600 --> 0:37:26.479
<v Speaker 2>He's forty four.

0:37:27.120 --> 0:37:33.719
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so what do we automatically think? Yeah, like okay, oh.

0:37:33.040 --> 0:37:34.920
<v Speaker 2>So I said I say this to Cal all the time.

0:37:34.960 --> 0:37:38.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, caw that that's that's as gay to me really,

0:37:38.080 --> 0:37:41.680
<v Speaker 2>And Cal's like, Giselle, you sound stupid. Yeah, that doesn't

0:37:41.680 --> 0:37:44.239
<v Speaker 2>say gay to me in this day and age. I

0:37:44.320 --> 0:37:46.040
<v Speaker 2>just think times have changed.

0:37:45.719 --> 0:37:49.200
<v Speaker 1>So much that like he's forty four, he still thinks

0:37:49.200 --> 0:37:52.000
<v Speaker 1>he's twenty four. Oh you know what I mean, Like

0:37:52.080 --> 0:37:55.399
<v Speaker 1>he's still just I never thought about that. Yeah, okay, Yeah,

0:37:55.440 --> 0:37:58.600
<v Speaker 1>he's still like thinking he's like a bachelor, supposed to

0:37:58.640 --> 0:38:02.080
<v Speaker 1>be kicking it, hanging out, like he's just the thought

0:38:02.239 --> 0:38:06.760
<v Speaker 1>the thought of like having a family has been nowhere

0:38:06.760 --> 0:38:08.600
<v Speaker 1>near his mind for a very long time.

0:38:08.719 --> 0:38:12.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I never thought about that. Yeah Okay. And and

0:38:12.160 --> 0:38:15.440
<v Speaker 2>then you know, Cayle's like, well, Giselle, maybe he's responsible.

0:38:16.040 --> 0:38:18.759
<v Speaker 2>Maybe he hasn't. He decided a very long time ago

0:38:18.800 --> 0:38:21.080
<v Speaker 2>that he doesn't want to have kids, like out of marriage,

0:38:21.200 --> 0:38:23.880
<v Speaker 2>and he just hasn't found the one or whatever. I

0:38:23.880 --> 0:38:24.799
<v Speaker 2>don't know, but like.

0:38:24.920 --> 0:38:27.640
<v Speaker 1>So, what's what's the guy's explanation? Has he given you one?

0:38:28.200 --> 0:38:30.160
<v Speaker 2>I didn't ask him if he was gay, but that

0:38:30.280 --> 0:38:32.279
<v Speaker 2>is a question that I do ask. You're just leuck

0:38:32.320 --> 0:38:35.600
<v Speaker 2>with the man? Oh that's how you asked you? That's yeah,

0:38:35.719 --> 0:38:37.480
<v Speaker 2>here ever been with me? I learned that from Love

0:38:37.520 --> 0:38:39.960
<v Speaker 2>Hotel because Ashley's really good at it, like she she'll

0:38:39.960 --> 0:38:42.359
<v Speaker 2>come out with that question like number three and I'm

0:38:42.440 --> 0:38:44.040
<v Speaker 2>like and I was kind of like, oh, okay, that's

0:38:44.120 --> 0:38:46.480
<v Speaker 2>that's cool, right, So yeah, I would be like, yeah,

0:38:46.520 --> 0:38:49.520
<v Speaker 2>So I asked Phil that actually on Love Hotel. By

0:38:49.560 --> 0:38:53.040
<v Speaker 2>the way, Love Hotel is still on Sundays. Yes, so

0:38:53.120 --> 0:38:56.040
<v Speaker 2>get into how many episodes we have? Eight? Okay? Yeah?

0:38:56.440 --> 0:38:58.279
<v Speaker 2>And I feel like we need a reunion, a three

0:38:58.360 --> 0:39:02.399
<v Speaker 2>part you want one? I want a three three parter

0:39:02.640 --> 0:39:07.640
<v Speaker 2>and he get into it. So yeah, I asked Phil,

0:39:09.440 --> 0:39:11.520
<v Speaker 2>have you ever been with a man? Okay? And he

0:39:11.560 --> 0:39:15.120
<v Speaker 2>said no? Okay? Was he offended? Mm hmm okay because

0:39:15.120 --> 0:39:17.560
<v Speaker 2>he's from La. So I think that that's kind of

0:39:17.600 --> 0:39:21.480
<v Speaker 2>like understandable to ask. Yeah. I mean it didn't even matter,

0:39:21.520 --> 0:39:23.080
<v Speaker 2>like I don't care what that's a that's.

0:39:22.920 --> 0:39:27.360
<v Speaker 1>A good way to ask, Like if you think someone's gay, yeah,

0:39:28.239 --> 0:39:30.200
<v Speaker 1>that's a good way to ask them without thinking you're

0:39:30.200 --> 0:39:32.520
<v Speaker 1>going to offend them, and like if they're not, get

0:39:32.560 --> 0:39:34.000
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, have you ever been with

0:39:34.040 --> 0:39:34.319
<v Speaker 1>the man?

0:39:34.480 --> 0:39:36.279
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I think that's a better way to phrase it

0:39:36.320 --> 0:39:38.920
<v Speaker 2>than to say are you gay? Yeah? True? And then

0:39:38.960 --> 0:39:41.279
<v Speaker 2>I've asked like have you ever had sex? And a

0:39:41.280 --> 0:39:44.799
<v Speaker 2>man was in the room and I don't remember what

0:39:44.880 --> 0:39:47.360
<v Speaker 2>the answer was. And then it's kind of like I

0:39:47.400 --> 0:39:51.440
<v Speaker 2>do want to know like your sexual preferences, so like

0:39:52.000 --> 0:39:55.439
<v Speaker 2>do you like threesomes? Do you like all that? So, yeah,

0:39:55.440 --> 0:39:57.960
<v Speaker 2>we had all those conversations. So one guy was like,

0:39:58.440 --> 0:40:01.200
<v Speaker 2>I mean, you know, I don't kiss himTo oh no,

0:40:01.320 --> 0:40:04.600
<v Speaker 2>but you're here to talk about her, right that you're

0:40:04.600 --> 0:40:07.360
<v Speaker 2>actually here to talk about this. You're not getting paid,

0:40:08.239 --> 0:40:10.920
<v Speaker 2>but this is your job, right, Yeah, tell me what

0:40:11.239 --> 0:40:13.960
<v Speaker 2>you do in the bedroom, sir. And my thing is

0:40:14.400 --> 0:40:16.719
<v Speaker 2>I don't kiss and tell is the answer that means

0:40:16.800 --> 0:40:19.480
<v Speaker 2>yes and you don't want to talk about it? No?

0:40:19.560 --> 0:40:20.080
<v Speaker 2>He might.

0:40:21.560 --> 0:40:23.319
<v Speaker 1>It could mean no, but he might want to make

0:40:23.360 --> 0:40:26.560
<v Speaker 1>it look like he's like this like freaktu.

0:40:26.200 --> 0:40:28.239
<v Speaker 2>Yeah you know he wasn't. And I'll tell you who

0:40:28.320 --> 0:40:28.839
<v Speaker 2>it was later?

0:40:28.960 --> 0:40:34.759
<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, anyway, Charles, this is from Charles Ellerb and

0:40:34.800 --> 0:40:36.960
<v Speaker 1>this says the subject is Giselle Love Hotel.

0:40:37.200 --> 0:40:41.760
<v Speaker 2>Okay, speaking of Love Hotel, he says, hey, y'all still

0:40:41.800 --> 0:40:45.200
<v Speaker 2>loving the podcast? Well? Is that room still loving the podcast?

0:40:45.160 --> 0:40:47.759
<v Speaker 1>I love it like no, because there could be some

0:40:47.800 --> 0:40:50.960
<v Speaker 1>people that aren't that started listening and they decided they

0:40:51.120 --> 0:40:53.360
<v Speaker 1>don't like us anymore, or they just they just you know,

0:40:53.880 --> 0:40:56.360
<v Speaker 1>fell off, fell off. Okay, all right, well, thank you,

0:40:56.400 --> 0:41:00.839
<v Speaker 1>char you're still loving. I had questions, which is now

0:41:01.000 --> 0:41:01.640
<v Speaker 1>be honest?

0:41:01.719 --> 0:41:05.759
<v Speaker 2>How was the twenty five thousand dollars taco which if

0:41:05.800 --> 0:41:08.600
<v Speaker 2>you watched Left Hotel, I think was episode one my

0:41:08.680 --> 0:41:11.719
<v Speaker 2>first date with Jay. They brought out a twenty five

0:41:11.719 --> 0:41:19.560
<v Speaker 2>thousand dollars tacos, so it was shrimp, lobster, caviar, gold leaf,

0:41:20.800 --> 0:41:26.560
<v Speaker 2>and something else that's all in one taco. Okay. I

0:41:26.560 --> 0:41:28.319
<v Speaker 2>think the gold leaf was took us over the edge

0:41:28.320 --> 0:41:31.520
<v Speaker 2>of twenty five thousand. It was great. I loved every

0:41:31.600 --> 0:41:33.600
<v Speaker 2>year morsel. I think I took three bites, so how

0:41:33.640 --> 0:41:38.160
<v Speaker 2>much is that a bite? Three bites and it was gone?

0:41:38.320 --> 0:41:41.640
<v Speaker 1>So so Jay had a rock in his I think

0:41:41.680 --> 0:41:44.439
<v Speaker 1>oysters were in it too, something okay, something that has

0:41:44.560 --> 0:41:49.640
<v Speaker 1>rocks associated, maybe the oyster. Yeah, so a rock was

0:41:49.680 --> 0:41:51.879
<v Speaker 1>in his and he he almost like took us tooth out.

0:41:52.000 --> 0:41:55.560
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. Obviously they didn't show that part, but yeah,

0:41:55.680 --> 0:42:00.440
<v Speaker 2>Jay is still mad. He's hot. Okay, So did it

0:42:00.600 --> 0:42:03.439
<v Speaker 2>really cost twenty five thousand dollars? That's what they said,

0:42:03.480 --> 0:42:06.400
<v Speaker 2>and not paysos because we were in Mexico. Yeah, Mexico

0:42:06.440 --> 0:42:09.440
<v Speaker 2>paysos I think. Yeah. Yeah, No, I was like dollars.

0:42:09.480 --> 0:42:13.520
<v Speaker 2>They were like dollars. Yeah, so that's that, he said.

0:42:14.239 --> 0:42:17.080
<v Speaker 2>Charles says, because there's no way it tasted worth even

0:42:17.160 --> 0:42:21.280
<v Speaker 2>half that. How would you know, Charles, you weren't there again,

0:42:21.880 --> 0:42:24.120
<v Speaker 2>Love your show. When are you going to have your

0:42:24.200 --> 0:42:30.800
<v Speaker 2>kids on on the Love Hotel on the podcast? Oh okay,

0:42:31.000 --> 0:42:33.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. By the gone, we could have the

0:42:33.239 --> 0:42:36.080
<v Speaker 2>boys on. I've been a fan since the beginning, and

0:42:36.120 --> 0:42:40.880
<v Speaker 2>remember y'all mentioning it has it have been? It has been.

0:42:41.360 --> 0:42:43.439
<v Speaker 2>I don't know what this means. We'd love to hear

0:42:43.840 --> 0:42:46.000
<v Speaker 2>their take on some of the stuff that's happened in

0:42:46.040 --> 0:42:48.759
<v Speaker 2>their lives with their moms being who they are, and

0:42:48.800 --> 0:42:52.280
<v Speaker 2>maybe asking some of y'all. Some asking y'all some questions

0:42:52.400 --> 0:42:54.880
<v Speaker 2>that would be good though. Yeah, I've asked. I've asked

0:42:54.920 --> 0:42:57.640
<v Speaker 2>mine if they would come on, and they tell me

0:42:57.719 --> 0:43:00.560
<v Speaker 2>emphatically tell me no, Really, I don't know because they're

0:43:00.600 --> 0:43:04.879
<v Speaker 2>such like my kids are hams like they are. They

0:43:04.920 --> 0:43:08.239
<v Speaker 2>say that they're so funny, they are so unseious, and

0:43:08.239 --> 0:43:10.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, why won't y'all just come on the podcast? Yes,

0:43:10.600 --> 0:43:13.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't know why I say something funny? Yeah, Okay,

0:43:13.760 --> 0:43:16.440
<v Speaker 2>next time they're here, we're gonna body slam them and

0:43:17.080 --> 0:43:18.919
<v Speaker 2>throw them on the couch and make them tall. They're

0:43:18.920 --> 0:43:21.880
<v Speaker 2>gonna body slam you back. True. True, because that Corey

0:43:21.960 --> 0:43:25.600
<v Speaker 2>is you, Yes, like he just sprouted up? Is he

0:43:25.640 --> 0:43:29.000
<v Speaker 2>tall than one? He's like neck and neck wow? Yes?

0:43:29.080 --> 0:43:32.400
<v Speaker 2>And Wine is six four six two six two six two. Okay,

0:43:32.960 --> 0:43:36.400
<v Speaker 2>all right. This is from Jay Black. Jay Black says,

0:43:36.440 --> 0:43:39.640
<v Speaker 2>I've been with my man for a year now and

0:43:39.680 --> 0:43:44.040
<v Speaker 2>we rotate weekends at each other's apartments. His apartment is

0:43:44.120 --> 0:43:47.719
<v Speaker 2>less than ideal in terms of comfort and entertainment. After

0:43:47.760 --> 0:43:51.040
<v Speaker 2>a year together, I recommended that he makes some upgrades.

0:43:51.640 --> 0:43:55.360
<v Speaker 2>He doesn't want to, as he's currently building a new house.

0:43:55.960 --> 0:43:58.760
<v Speaker 2>Money is not a concern. He just wants to select

0:43:58.760 --> 0:44:02.400
<v Speaker 2>furniture or future home, not the apartment. He wants to

0:44:02.680 --> 0:44:05.480
<v Speaker 2>select furniture for the future home. Is it reasonable or

0:44:05.520 --> 0:44:09.240
<v Speaker 2>shady to request that he spent all weekends we're together

0:44:09.360 --> 0:44:11.799
<v Speaker 2>at my place until his new home is completed in

0:44:11.840 --> 0:44:14.839
<v Speaker 2>about a year. I'm tired of feeling like I'm the

0:44:14.880 --> 0:44:19.520
<v Speaker 2>one of Giselle's daughter's dorm rooms. Where whenever I miss

0:44:19.600 --> 0:44:22.360
<v Speaker 2>one oh am in one of Jazelle's dorm room daughter's

0:44:22.360 --> 0:44:25.880
<v Speaker 2>dorm rooms. Whenever I visit him and he tries to

0:44:25.960 --> 0:44:28.239
<v Speaker 2>break up with me. Oh and if he tries to

0:44:28.239 --> 0:44:30.239
<v Speaker 2>break up with me, I can't read. And if he

0:44:30.280 --> 0:44:32.280
<v Speaker 2>tries to bring up with me, I may be writing

0:44:32.320 --> 0:44:35.480
<v Speaker 2>again to ask y'all to match me with someone I know.

0:44:35.600 --> 0:44:39.680
<v Speaker 2>That's right. Okay, first of all, let's back up. So

0:44:39.880 --> 0:44:44.560
<v Speaker 2>I recently did the surprise of Angel and the door, right,

0:44:45.520 --> 0:44:47.239
<v Speaker 2>So in order for us to do this, we had

0:44:47.239 --> 0:44:51.480
<v Speaker 2>to hide in the dorms bathroom. What oh God? In

0:44:51.560 --> 0:44:53.560
<v Speaker 2>order for Angel to come into her room and she

0:44:53.560 --> 0:44:55.520
<v Speaker 2>didn't see us, so we had to hide in the

0:44:55.640 --> 0:45:00.480
<v Speaker 2>communal bathroom. Oh okay, lovely, I stepped literally one foot

0:45:00.480 --> 0:45:02.719
<v Speaker 2>in that bathroom, and I broke out in high like

0:45:02.800 --> 0:45:05.040
<v Speaker 2>I was like, this is disgusting and I don't know

0:45:05.080 --> 0:45:07.279
<v Speaker 2>how I ever did this in life. They don't share

0:45:07.320 --> 0:45:07.760
<v Speaker 2>with guys.

0:45:08.040 --> 0:45:12.520
<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, it's Spellman. Yeah, so yes.

0:45:12.800 --> 0:45:15.600
<v Speaker 2>If the experience, what is it? J black?

0:45:15.800 --> 0:45:18.520
<v Speaker 1>If if that's similar to a dorm room, if his

0:45:18.600 --> 0:45:21.359
<v Speaker 1>place is similar to your dorm room, Yeah, you get

0:45:21.400 --> 0:45:24.040
<v Speaker 1>out right out, matter of fact, break up with him, right,

0:45:25.200 --> 0:45:29.359
<v Speaker 1>like whom forget staying at your house for a year?

0:45:29.680 --> 0:45:31.839
<v Speaker 2>Break up with him? Yes, he need to go.

0:45:32.640 --> 0:45:35.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, No, you're absolutely not shady if you ask him,

0:45:36.200 --> 0:45:38.000
<v Speaker 1>just like, listen, can we just stay at my place?

0:45:38.160 --> 0:45:38.359
<v Speaker 2>Yes?

0:45:39.640 --> 0:45:41.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't know how old you are, but I'm sure

0:45:41.160 --> 0:45:44.279
<v Speaker 1>you're grown, grown enough to know that you you want

0:45:44.320 --> 0:45:45.080
<v Speaker 1>to be comfortable?

0:45:45.239 --> 0:45:48.920
<v Speaker 2>Yes, and he look if.

0:45:48.920 --> 0:45:51.600
<v Speaker 1>If he gets sensitive enough to where y'all got to

0:45:51.640 --> 0:45:55.280
<v Speaker 1>break up, then like yeah exactly, yeah you should understand.

0:45:55.400 --> 0:45:58.840
<v Speaker 2>So and we all like nice tease. Yes, yes, and

0:45:58.880 --> 0:46:01.680
<v Speaker 2>I want to be comfortable. Right we been we you went.

0:46:01.560 --> 0:46:04.839
<v Speaker 1>Through that stage where you have, you know, deal with

0:46:04.960 --> 0:46:08.560
<v Speaker 1>sleep on the floor or whatever, like no, now I

0:46:08.560 --> 0:46:11.279
<v Speaker 1>don't need I can't do it. I'm grown grown, Yeah,

0:46:11.440 --> 0:46:13.799
<v Speaker 1>we don't need that anymore. I didn't want to share

0:46:13.800 --> 0:46:17.160
<v Speaker 1>a bad thing with you. Alright, we got one more, Okay,

0:46:17.800 --> 0:46:22.520
<v Speaker 1>So I want to follow up on the ozembic of it,

0:46:22.600 --> 0:46:23.640
<v Speaker 1>all the.

0:46:23.640 --> 0:46:24.680
<v Speaker 2>G LP ones.

0:46:25.760 --> 0:46:29.760
<v Speaker 1>You know, I talked about how I have some extra

0:46:29.840 --> 0:46:32.440
<v Speaker 1>pounds that I want to lose and they just you know,

0:46:32.560 --> 0:46:34.440
<v Speaker 1>I work out and the scale goes up and I'm

0:46:34.440 --> 0:46:37.040
<v Speaker 1>frustrated and I'm considering a GLP one. So I do

0:46:37.120 --> 0:46:39.880
<v Speaker 1>want to say thank you to everybody that wrote to me,

0:46:40.120 --> 0:46:44.560
<v Speaker 1>emailed you, d MD. I even have a friend that

0:46:44.719 --> 0:46:46.560
<v Speaker 1>I love, a dear friend that I love that listens

0:46:46.560 --> 0:46:50.640
<v Speaker 1>to the podcast that called me and pretty.

0:46:50.400 --> 0:46:55.839
<v Speaker 2>Much confessed that she's been I saw, I saw a

0:46:55.840 --> 0:46:58.480
<v Speaker 2>commercial and there's a pill like the Marangua. Is that

0:46:58.520 --> 0:47:01.520
<v Speaker 2>a pill? Oh? I don't know there's a pill? Okay,

0:47:01.600 --> 0:47:03.839
<v Speaker 2>you check, Okay, yeah, all right, so what the people say?

0:47:03.880 --> 0:47:06.400
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So so I do want to say in general,

0:47:06.480 --> 0:47:12.480
<v Speaker 1>I heard pretty much a general sentiment, which was it

0:47:12.560 --> 0:47:19.440
<v Speaker 1>worked for them. They experienced some nausea, maybe some fatigue,

0:47:19.520 --> 0:47:22.440
<v Speaker 1>but then you kind of like get through it. So

0:47:22.480 --> 0:47:25.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna write, I'm gonna read. Let's see a couple

0:47:25.160 --> 0:47:29.280
<v Speaker 1>of letters. So this is from Tracy. Hey, Tracy Tracy.

0:47:28.920 --> 0:47:32.680
<v Speaker 2>Says, I love Manaro, but that's what I'm That's what

0:47:32.680 --> 0:47:38.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm meant to say. Yes, I think that has all

0:47:38.680 --> 0:47:41.960
<v Speaker 2>I think. Okay, I'm not sure. She said.

0:47:42.000 --> 0:47:44.759
<v Speaker 1>I love Manjarro, but I'm afraid to stop taking it.

0:47:44.800 --> 0:47:46.399
<v Speaker 1>She said, Hi, Robin, I was in the same boat

0:47:46.440 --> 0:47:48.000
<v Speaker 1>whereas I was working out and the weight was not

0:47:48.000 --> 0:47:50.560
<v Speaker 1>coming off due to menopause, and I've always been able

0:47:50.600 --> 0:47:53.319
<v Speaker 1>to lose weight easily. So I decided to research all

0:47:53.320 --> 0:47:56.080
<v Speaker 1>of the weight loss drugs and decided on Manjiro because

0:47:56.080 --> 0:47:58.719
<v Speaker 1>that one seemed to give the least amount of side effects.

0:47:59.160 --> 0:48:04.040
<v Speaker 1>I absolutely love it and have lost over thirty pounds now.

0:48:04.160 --> 0:48:06.520
<v Speaker 1>I did have some constipation in the beginning, but I

0:48:06.520 --> 0:48:09.200
<v Speaker 1>would just drink my smooth moved tea and that worked

0:48:09.320 --> 0:48:12.759
<v Speaker 1>just fine. I have since switched from once a week

0:48:12.880 --> 0:48:15.759
<v Speaker 1>shots to once a month, but I'm afraid to cut

0:48:15.760 --> 0:48:18.880
<v Speaker 1>it off all together. So that would be the only warning.

0:48:19.000 --> 0:48:21.759
<v Speaker 1>You will be hooked. Good luck with whatever you choose,

0:48:21.760 --> 0:48:25.120
<v Speaker 1>and she said, ps. I also love Glow thirty and

0:48:25.200 --> 0:48:28.239
<v Speaker 1>my month facials with my bestie Angie aka MI just

0:48:28.320 --> 0:48:30.680
<v Speaker 1>out and it was great media on my first visit.

0:48:30.719 --> 0:48:34.160
<v Speaker 2>You are even more beautiful in person. Oh nice? Do

0:48:34.160 --> 0:48:36.960
<v Speaker 2>you remember her? Okay? Yeah, so Tracy, I appreciate you, okay,

0:48:37.040 --> 0:48:39.200
<v Speaker 2>And I appreciate her being honest. Like some people don't

0:48:39.200 --> 0:48:40.960
<v Speaker 2>want to talk about it, which is weird because it's

0:48:41.000 --> 0:48:43.719
<v Speaker 2>like not everybody's on it, but I mean there's enough

0:48:43.719 --> 0:48:45.640
<v Speaker 2>people on it's not like taboo. Yeah.

0:48:45.680 --> 0:48:47.919
<v Speaker 1>I think, well, I think now today is becoming less

0:48:47.960 --> 0:48:50.440
<v Speaker 1>and less taboo because I think at first, you know,

0:48:50.560 --> 0:48:53.680
<v Speaker 1>people were on it, and they weren't. They felt they

0:48:53.680 --> 0:48:56.759
<v Speaker 1>didn't want to be judged, And now you're just hearing

0:48:56.760 --> 0:48:59.160
<v Speaker 1>more and more people. Did you hear about this influencer.

0:49:00.080 --> 0:49:02.600
<v Speaker 1>It's a girl who's like a big influencer on TikTok

0:49:02.640 --> 0:49:06.160
<v Speaker 1>and she was selling these like, you know, getting people

0:49:06.200 --> 0:49:09.520
<v Speaker 1>to sign up for like her coaching program for weight loss.

0:49:09.560 --> 0:49:11.120
<v Speaker 1>So she would teach, you know, I don't know, teach

0:49:11.160 --> 0:49:15.360
<v Speaker 1>them meal plans and workouts and stuff. And then found

0:49:15.480 --> 0:49:20.719
<v Speaker 1>people found out she was on a GLP one the line, right,

0:49:21.080 --> 0:49:23.640
<v Speaker 1>Like that's great, that is crazy to me. So that's

0:49:23.920 --> 0:49:26.560
<v Speaker 1>so she's facing a lot of backlash because I think

0:49:26.600 --> 0:49:29.239
<v Speaker 1>whatever she was selling two hundred dollars or something.

0:49:28.960 --> 0:49:31.960
<v Speaker 2>People would pay and get a damn Yeah. Yeah, the

0:49:32.080 --> 0:49:33.480
<v Speaker 2>lives people tell. Yeah.

0:49:33.520 --> 0:49:37.560
<v Speaker 1>So here is a message from Lynn. She said, Hi Robbinland.

0:49:37.719 --> 0:49:38.880
<v Speaker 2>Yes, Heiland.

0:49:39.080 --> 0:49:42.479
<v Speaker 1>I've been on medications like ozempic for years, even before

0:49:42.520 --> 0:49:44.400
<v Speaker 1>it was used for weight loss, and I lost a

0:49:44.440 --> 0:49:48.279
<v Speaker 1>lot of weight. However, I experienced extensive sickness and could

0:49:48.280 --> 0:49:51.200
<v Speaker 1>not eat. Eventually my doctor took me off because it

0:49:51.239 --> 0:49:54.120
<v Speaker 1>was impacting my pancreas. I've known other people who have

0:49:54.320 --> 0:49:56.680
<v Speaker 1>used so ozmpic and have very few side effects.

0:49:56.800 --> 0:49:59.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so that's it's in my talk about hair loss

0:49:59.880 --> 0:50:03.280
<v Speaker 2>and all that. No one talked about hair loss.

0:50:03.920 --> 0:50:06.920
<v Speaker 1>I did have people talk about like the muscle loss,

0:50:06.960 --> 0:50:09.040
<v Speaker 1>and they said, you definitely if you get on these,

0:50:09.480 --> 0:50:13.839
<v Speaker 1>you definitely have to eat, focus on eating protein, and

0:50:13.880 --> 0:50:17.520
<v Speaker 1>focus on working out like strength training lifting weights, because

0:50:18.000 --> 0:50:18.919
<v Speaker 1>you will lose weight.

0:50:19.000 --> 0:50:20.040
<v Speaker 2>I mean you will.

0:50:19.920 --> 0:50:23.400
<v Speaker 1>Lose When you lose weight, you're losing muscle, you know,

0:50:24.640 --> 0:50:27.319
<v Speaker 1>So you gotta just focus on that. Some people say

0:50:27.320 --> 0:50:30.600
<v Speaker 1>they have headaches yea, that their or their cycle gets

0:50:30.760 --> 0:50:32.759
<v Speaker 1>you know, funny.

0:50:32.480 --> 0:50:36.200
<v Speaker 2>Or they might have diarrhea.

0:50:36.760 --> 0:50:40.680
<v Speaker 1>I did have few people recommend try zeppetite. So there's

0:50:40.680 --> 0:50:46.319
<v Speaker 1>different ones too. So there's like ozempic Manjaro, so I

0:50:46.320 --> 0:50:51.280
<v Speaker 1>think manjaro is the same thing as ozempic or something triesepetide,

0:50:51.480 --> 0:50:53.240
<v Speaker 1>all these different ones anyway.

0:50:52.960 --> 0:50:54.520
<v Speaker 2>So what's what's the verdict. What you're gonna do?

0:50:55.960 --> 0:50:58.200
<v Speaker 1>Okay, here's another one. Okay, and see when I get these,

0:50:58.200 --> 0:51:00.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, okay. So this is from Katrita, she said,

0:51:00.880 --> 0:51:06.200
<v Speaker 1>don't take ozempic. Thank you Katria, she said, high, ladies

0:51:06.239 --> 0:51:08.200
<v Speaker 1>love the show. My cousin who was on ozempic for

0:51:08.280 --> 0:51:11.799
<v Speaker 1>diabet diabetes lost his vision in one eye. Damn it

0:51:11.920 --> 0:51:15.600
<v Speaker 1>was because of the ozimpic, so beau, because it's listed

0:51:15.640 --> 0:51:16.440
<v Speaker 1>in their side effects.

0:51:16.440 --> 0:51:19.120
<v Speaker 2>So there's nothing he can do. Damn, don't do it.

0:51:19.280 --> 0:51:22.359
<v Speaker 1>Don't do it. I'm fighting the same perimenopause weight gain.

0:51:22.400 --> 0:51:23.280
<v Speaker 1>It's so frustrated.

0:51:23.320 --> 0:51:25.600
<v Speaker 2>Are you are you? Like, are you menopause A Perry?

0:51:25.760 --> 0:51:27.880
<v Speaker 2>I don't. I don't know.

0:51:28.400 --> 0:51:30.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean, of course, I think I'm at that age

0:51:30.000 --> 0:51:32.680
<v Speaker 1>where I could be, But when I read the symptoms

0:51:32.680 --> 0:51:35.680
<v Speaker 1>for perimenopause, I'm like, I don't. I don't think that

0:51:35.680 --> 0:51:37.759
<v Speaker 1>that's me, okay, because I don't really have all the

0:51:37.880 --> 0:51:40.080
<v Speaker 1>other things, So I don't know.

0:51:40.200 --> 0:51:42.759
<v Speaker 2>I'm just fat. You're okay, first of all, you're not.

0:51:43.440 --> 0:51:46.680
<v Speaker 2>Second of all I think. I mean, it doesn't hurt

0:51:46.680 --> 0:51:49.400
<v Speaker 2>you try Yeah, yeah, but look at the pill version.

0:51:49.400 --> 0:51:52.120
<v Speaker 2>I would think a pill is easier than taking a shot. Yeah, yeah,

0:51:52.120 --> 0:51:53.359
<v Speaker 2>I don't. I wouldn't want to take a shot.

0:51:53.480 --> 0:51:57.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm definitely going to like I want to consult with

0:51:58.000 --> 0:51:59.680
<v Speaker 1>a doctor, like I don't want to do it on

0:51:59.840 --> 0:52:04.520
<v Speaker 1>just some like random because it seems like everyone is

0:52:04.920 --> 0:52:07.560
<v Speaker 1>administering these drugs now, So I think I would want

0:52:07.560 --> 0:52:09.400
<v Speaker 1>to consult with a doctor, or at least I don't know.

0:52:09.600 --> 0:52:12.440
<v Speaker 2>I think you should. Yeah, but but talk about everything

0:52:12.640 --> 0:52:14.480
<v Speaker 2>like perimenopause all that.

0:52:14.400 --> 0:52:18.359
<v Speaker 1>Right, Yeah, exactly, exactly. Yeah, So the verdict is still out.

0:52:18.440 --> 0:52:20.640
<v Speaker 1>Verdict is still out. Thank you for all of the

0:52:21.000 --> 0:52:25.120
<v Speaker 1>feedback though, I appreciate. But people definitely say do it. Okay,

0:52:25.200 --> 0:52:27.319
<v Speaker 1>most people say do it. I literally had two people

0:52:27.360 --> 0:52:30.279
<v Speaker 1>say said, don't do it. The people that are blind. Yeah,

0:52:30.320 --> 0:52:34.000
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, that's blind and homeless. But I just

0:52:34.080 --> 0:52:37.440
<v Speaker 1>I saw something recently. Kyle Richard's daughter did it and

0:52:37.640 --> 0:52:38.880
<v Speaker 1>she experienced hair loss.

0:52:38.960 --> 0:52:41.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah I saw I saw that. Yeah, and I told

0:52:41.000 --> 0:52:43.080
<v Speaker 2>you I have a girlfriend too, that we're on it

0:52:43.120 --> 0:52:45.880
<v Speaker 2>and major hair loss. Yeah. See that's not I can't

0:52:45.960 --> 0:52:48.319
<v Speaker 2>risk that. Yeah. Well, I mean, well, you can wear

0:52:48.320 --> 0:52:51.960
<v Speaker 2>a wig. One of them wears a wig. Yeah, because

0:52:51.960 --> 0:52:54.359
<v Speaker 2>of it. Yeah, she won't get off of it, right,

0:52:54.680 --> 0:52:57.400
<v Speaker 2>that's crazy. Yeah, yeah, I don't want to do that. WHOA,

0:52:57.840 --> 0:53:00.000
<v Speaker 2>all right, Well, don't never forget to live your life

0:53:00.120 --> 0:53:10.520
<v Speaker 2>either reasonable Oh Shady or Bube Bbe Babe. Reasonably Shady

0:53:10.680 --> 0:53:14.000
<v Speaker 2>is a production of the Black Effect podcast Network.

0:53:14.239 --> 0:53:19.200
<v Speaker 1>For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,

0:53:19.280 --> 0:53:22.160
<v Speaker 1>or wherever you listen to your favorite shows, and you

0:53:22.160 --> 0:53:25.680
<v Speaker 1>can connect with us on social media at Robin Dixon, ten,

0:53:26.040 --> 0:53:34.040
<v Speaker 1>Giselle Bryant, and Reasonably Shady