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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jaselle Bryant.

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Speaker 2: What's that? What's up? I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for

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Speaker 2: being here with us. What's again again? Can I do

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Speaker 2: this whole episode in an accent? Yes? As if I'm

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Speaker 2: from London? Please try, please try, Okay, I will do it.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to offend anyone from the UK. Okay, well,

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Speaker 1: so maybe I should stop. Then let's just not say

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Speaker 1: where the accent is from. Oh, okay, I mean an accent.

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Speaker 2: I would be so I think I would have just

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Speaker 2: accomplished so much more in life if I was born

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Speaker 2: with an accent. You think so? If you think I would,

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Speaker 2: I Do'm not be running a country or something.

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Speaker 1: I think people would like give you everything that you want?

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, yeah, Or i'd be running something. I would

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Speaker 2: be the president of something if I had an accent. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I will try it. You're gonna try it? Or no? No? Okay, okay, anyway,

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Speaker 2: do you have a shady moment? Do you have a

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Speaker 2: shady moment? Yeah? I do? Okay, so you know it's

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Speaker 2: basketball life for me right now. Yeah, but you've been traveling?

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Speaker 2: Like what's that about?

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Speaker 1: Yes, so we had this past weekend, we had a

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Speaker 1: basketball tournament for Carter.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so he's AAU two. Is this a what is this? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I mean that's like a broad term, but yeah, he's

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Speaker 1: playing travel basketball. I just call it travel basketball as

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Speaker 1: AAU AU is it doesn't really like it. The AAU

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Speaker 1: organization does not run these tournaments. So like you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean, like anyone can host a tournament. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's not technically an AAU tournament, do you.

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Speaker 2: Know what I mean? That makes sense? This is another

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Speaker 2: division or something. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: We we just we just use AAU as a broad

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Speaker 1: term to refer to like youth basketball. Yes, so I

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Speaker 1: just try to like say, call it either travel basketball.

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Speaker 2: Just youth basketball. So we'll call it travel yeah, because

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Speaker 2: AAU is like it's really only.

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Speaker 1: AAU if you're playing in an AAU sponsored tournament.

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Speaker 2: Got heading on AAU just for no. No, I'm not, no,

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Speaker 2: I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I'm just clarifying. Okay, Yes, I think people just call

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Speaker 1: everything AAU.

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Speaker 2: And it's not.

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Speaker 1: Oh it's not okay, okay, So travel basketball. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: we're going to this tournament. It's in York, Pennsylvania.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So York, Pennsylvania is like an hour and ten minutes

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Speaker 1: from my house, so there's no need for us to

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Speaker 2: It's that close York. Is that where Hershey Park is? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, yes, been there is? Yeah? Did you stop

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Speaker 2: and get some chocolate? No? Oh okay, I would have

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Speaker 2: done that for sure. Stop the basketball game. I must

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Speaker 2: pick up hurshy, yes, which you can get it from

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Speaker 2: the grocery store. Not saying it's fresher at the plant.

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Speaker 2: That's true, Yeah, go ahead, that's true. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So so the games are on Saturday.

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Speaker 2: There's like multiple shady things about this tournament. The games.

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Speaker 1: Carter's games were scheduled for a Saturday at one game

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Speaker 1: at seven forty pm at night, okay, and then on

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Speaker 1: Sunday morning at eight am okay, and then Sunday afternoon

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Speaker 1: at two thirty okay.

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is like a weekend. That's yeah, every weekend

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Speaker 1: So because it's an hour and ten minutes away, we're

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Speaker 1: not getting a hotel room, right, so we're just driving up,

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Speaker 1: and there's no hotels in New York, right, none that.

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Speaker 2: I want to stay in.

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Speaker 1: Yes, they're definitely hotels, but there just one. There's one,

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Speaker 1: isn't it's it's near the hershey people. Okay, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: I stayed there. Yeah, we try not to if we

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Speaker 1: Like I want to limit as mini.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So we're driving up there, driving back, so

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Speaker 1: imagine just first of all, the schedule itself is problematic.

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Speaker 1: Seven forty at night, play a game, drive back home. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the other part is you give us an eight eight am,

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Speaker 2: So you're just hanging out all day. So yes, just

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Speaker 2: that already was problemat shout out to York. But here's

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Speaker 2: where like the real killer part was.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we drive up Saturday, so thunderstorm, it's raining, cats

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Speaker 1: you're driving. We get there and the other team did

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Speaker 2: What do you understand?

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Speaker 1: And the admission is forty eight dollars like for the

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Speaker 1: weekend for the parents?

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Speaker 2: Yes, what do you mean parents have to pay? What? Yes? Why?

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Speaker 1: This is a racket travel basketball, youth basketball, au basketball, whatever.

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Speaker 2: You want to call it is a money grab. Okay,

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Speaker 2: wait why do you have to pay to watch your child?

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Speaker 2: Parents shouldn't have to pay if rando's were coming from

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Speaker 2: the street. Okay, maybe five dollars entry, fifteen dollars max.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, we pay what we pay every tournament.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm mad about this. It's either it.

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Speaker 1: Could be ten dollars mission, twenty dollars mission, forty dollars mission,

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Speaker 1: fifty dollars million.

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Speaker 2: Tell me what this money is going to for you

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Speaker 2: to sit in the gym.

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Speaker 1: The people who are this is a business the people

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Speaker 1: who are running these tournaments are making money. It's this

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Speaker 1: is a this is their full on bats.

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Speaker 2: But I thought the I thought the purpose of these

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Speaker 2: tournaments is that, right, turn tournaments.

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Speaker 1: Okay, my grandma, my grandmother, my mother calls them tournaments.

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Speaker 2: I think that's what my mother says too. That's why

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Speaker 2: I'm correcting myself in the tournament. My mother. By the way,

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Speaker 2: my mother just called y'all and she wants some embellished

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Speaker 2: hats from Robin. Yes, that she asked for three years ago.

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Speaker 2: That Robin still has not sense they're in the mail.

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Speaker 2: And it might be because I didn't give Robin the address,

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Speaker 2: but that's not the point. Okay. My mother is like,

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Speaker 2: where my hat? Dad, Robbin. Wait a minute, No, actually

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Speaker 2: my mother thanked Robin for the hats, and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: Robin using her hats. Robin, He's like, no, my mother

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Speaker 2: being shady. Okay, right, so thank you for the hats.

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Speaker 2: They fit so beautifully. I was like, okay, So the

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Speaker 2: I thought the purpose of these tournaments was for like recruits,

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Speaker 2: scouts to look at these kids so that one day

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Speaker 2: they can, you know, go to a great college or

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Speaker 2: the pros. Okay, so not to rape the parents.

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay, no, that's that is the state of youth

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Speaker 1: sports today. Wow, there are tournaments every weekend all over

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Speaker 1: the country. There are no college scouts there. It is

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Speaker 1: simply who's there, their parents, the parents. Yeah, it's simply

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Speaker 1: for teams to play other teams from like other areas,

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Speaker 1: because it's like, okay, when you stay local, you play

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Speaker 1: playing the same teams all the time. Yea, And so

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Speaker 1: you know, the thing for these tribal tournaments is so

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Speaker 1: other teams from other places, and you know, it helps,

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Speaker 1: you know, with your development, it helps get you better

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Speaker 1: and you learn to play the game and blah blah

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Speaker 1: blah blah and all of this stuff. And I literally

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Speaker 1: youth sports has been so watered down because look what

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Speaker 1: you're saying, like how you understand it is.

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Speaker 2: How it used to be. Oh okay, like.

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Speaker 1: How when when WAM is in high school, it's like

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Speaker 1: if you were playing on a you know, a travel

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Speaker 1: you were number one one of the best players in

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Speaker 1: your city totally.

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Speaker 2: You know, you're being scouted.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and you're there because there's college coaches scouting you,

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Speaker 1: or you're or they're like tune up tournaments to get

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Speaker 1: ready for the college coaches. But now it's like every kid,

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Speaker 1: any kid that plays basketball, is on a travel team

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Speaker 1: like honing your skills because you're playing people that aren't

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Speaker 1: get for like three minutes a half and like you know,

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's just it's it's a racket.

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Speaker 2: It's really bad. So I was, so it's just a lot.

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Speaker 2: So it's like we go up there.

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Speaker 1: You spend fifty dollars for admission for a person that's

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Speaker 1: a hundred one and Corey, we brought all one.

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Speaker 2: Hundred and fifty dollars. Right, this is getting expensive. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: oh yeah, it's crazy in the gas.

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Speaker 1: Gas imagine the people who do stay in hotels every

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Speaker 2: On planes, yes, but I would think it is better. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: His is like legit, it's the Nike eybl circuits. Like

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Speaker 1: next weekend, it'll be every college coach in America.

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Speaker 2: Will be there. Okay, this is really good. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: thank god.

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Speaker 1: But we've what we have been doing, you know, since

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Speaker 1: Corey was in third grade. Shit, I remember traveling to

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Speaker 1: I think I remember that tournament and I was like,

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Speaker 1: this is stupid, this is but you did it.

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Speaker 2: You was all up in there. I did it. But

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Speaker 2: then at the Fountain Blue, I was like, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: get my tent and I'm gonna watch my key. But

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Speaker 2: it's it's a hustle.

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Speaker 1: Those these businesses that's crazy, are making so much money

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Speaker 1: because people are paying this.

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Speaker 2: People pay to get in. So wait a minute, but

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Speaker 2: outside of the parents, right, who's in the who's in

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Speaker 2: the gym? Nobody exactly, So you're not making that much money.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, like think about okay, this organization, they

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Speaker 1: are running a circuit, right, So the circuit means like

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Speaker 1: they you play three different sessions in three different cities,

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Speaker 1: and based on your record, you make it the championship weekend.

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Speaker 1: So you have so they have four weekends where they're

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Speaker 1: collecting money at the door. They have five hundred something

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Speaker 1: teams that are paying five hundred dollars each to get

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Speaker 1: in to register. Then sometimes they get the parking lot.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes they get concession. They show I'm about to get

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Speaker 1: a free soda, they sell merchis right, you can go

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Speaker 1: to hell with the mergency.

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Speaker 2: Oh and think about it.

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Speaker 1: So every kid on the team usually brings a parent

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Speaker 1: or two, or a sibling or a grandparents. Siblings like

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Speaker 1: day at home grandparents. No, yeah, so my parents go

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Speaker 1: to every single game.

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Speaker 2: Tell your mother she to go to bingo. She cannot

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Speaker 2: come to the games. It's too expensive. Yeah, this is ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: Somewhere decent, because these hotels will give you bed bugs

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Speaker 2: Of my foot. I just don't want my kids to

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Speaker 2: them to the doctor because they got ring worms. Right. Okay,

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Speaker 2: So I saw this on Instagram. This is age requirement

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Speaker 2: So this is age requirement. So if you're broke up,

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Speaker 2: Okay? So age requirement for being an auntie a cougar

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Speaker 1: I disagree with that big time. That's like hot girl. Yeah, girl,

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Speaker 2: No, no, he was just what do you call it? Thought? Thought? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: But okay, you could take pride in it. But let's

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Speaker 2: Why not? I mean, I mean, if you hold responsibly,

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Speaker 2: what's wrong with that? Do you want that for your daughters? No?

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Speaker 2: I don't agree with that each No, I don't agree

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Speaker 2: can be Auntie. That's Auntie. Soone with Hattie Auntie, all right,

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Speaker 2: that's I feel like these age gaps need, these age

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Speaker 2: ranges need to need to need to be longer. Yeah right,

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Speaker 2: Auntie should definitely go to forty five. Yeah, okay, so

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Speaker 2: forty five, forty six and up. Yeah, you're a cougar.

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Speaker 1: I like the way that's so, yes, Thundercat coming through.

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Speaker 1: ThunderCats start? So if Couger starts it, no, Cougar starts

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Speaker 1: and yeah, we need to revise that.

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Speaker 2: I like, Yes, well we just did. I like that.

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Speaker 2: We just revised it. Okay, what you got?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I have a couple of questions for you.

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Speaker 1: What do you think about people wearing sunglasses, like out

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Speaker 2: That's when you're supposed to wear them.

428
00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:51,480
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I'm sorry, not outside, not outside, inside in

429
00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:53,720
Speaker 1: the okay, in the evening, all right, specifically right, So,

430
00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:55,680
Speaker 1: I was watching the basketball game. It was a Knicks game,

431
00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:58,960
Speaker 1: and Sierra and Russell Wilson are at the next game. Okay,

432
00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:04,200
Speaker 1: both have sung glasses on at the basketball game. Yeah, like, okay,

433
00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 1: what do we think about that?

434
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 2: Okay? So, okay, let me break this down because this

435
00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:14,680
Speaker 2: is this is Gazelle. Yeah, so I would wear sunglasses

436
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:18,399
Speaker 2: inside if I haven't gotten like my makeup done, and

437
00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:22,560
Speaker 2: I look crazy, right, and I'm not trying to just deal. Okay,

438
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:26,000
Speaker 2: But Sierra, you've got your makeup done, you're at the

439
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:27,760
Speaker 2: you're at the game, you sit in court size, right,

440
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:29,120
Speaker 2: So take the glasses.

441
00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:31,880
Speaker 1: And Russell, you're not wearing makeup. You don't, you don't,

442
00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:32,639
Speaker 1: we don't need, you don't need.

443
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:35,359
Speaker 2: It's gonna do whatever Sierra says for him to do, so,

444
00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:38,800
Speaker 2: like because he's that dude. Yeah, so that's gonna speaking

445
00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:42,360
Speaker 2: to Sierra, right, stop it. Okay, Yeah, you're at the game. Yeah,

446
00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:43,000
Speaker 2: I think it's so.

447
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,800
Speaker 1: I think it's like so corny when people are in

448
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:48,879
Speaker 1: those scenarios. Yeah, they're wearing sunglasses at a basketball game. Like,

449
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:52,920
Speaker 1: but then I had a flip side thoughts, okay, okay,

450
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:58,359
Speaker 1: and I said, maybe they're wearing the sunglasses so that

451
00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:01,239
Speaker 1: they don't have to make eye contact with people. So

452
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:05,200
Speaker 1: they don't so people don't see them looking at them. Yeah, right,

453
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:08,160
Speaker 1: and so that the people if they were to make

454
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:11,840
Speaker 1: contact eye contact with someone, the people don't know, and

455
00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:13,840
Speaker 1: so they don't feel like, oh, let me go say hi,

456
00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:15,720
Speaker 1: let me go talk to them, because I just can't.

457
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:18,879
Speaker 2: I'm like, Russell Wilson, why are you wearing sunglasses? Like?

458
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:20,840
Speaker 1: I get the you know, women sometimes we do it

459
00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:22,479
Speaker 1: because it's, oh, it's coolest part of the outfit, But

460
00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:24,920
Speaker 1: why is somebody like Rocky Wilson wearing sunglasses?

461
00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 2: Right?

462
00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:27,240
Speaker 1: So that was the only rationale I could come up

463
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:29,680
Speaker 1: with even though I think it's corny, but I don't.

464
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 2: I think I disagree for the basketball game because everybody's

465
00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 2: in their seat. So let's say you made eye contact

466
00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:38,960
Speaker 2: with somebody three rows back or cross on the other side.

467
00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 2: You're the game is playing, You're in your seat. They're

468
00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:42,960
Speaker 2: not coming up to you. Yeah, I don't. I was.

469
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 2: I was trying to help them out. I don't know.

470
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:46,919
Speaker 2: I was trying to just figure out, like, why are

471
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:47,560
Speaker 2: we doing this?

472
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:51,399
Speaker 1: Why? Yeah, I'm not here for it, Okay, yes, but

473
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:53,439
Speaker 1: I'm here for and Jay and Beyonce don't do that.

474
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 2: They don't have sunglasses on. No. Yeah, so, and they're

475
00:23:57,040 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 2: the epitome of cool. Right, we've decided. How do we

476
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 2: feel about Michelle Obama's podcast? I know I regress, I digress.

477
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 2: I mean I've only seen clips of it. I love

478
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:13,359
Speaker 2: that she has one. Yeah, you know, I think I do.

479
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:14,920
Speaker 2: When I don't, I'm gonna tell you why I don't.

480
00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:16,800
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, okay, I mean I think it's good to

481
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:20,919
Speaker 1: hear her voice and good to hear her just thoughts

482
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:22,680
Speaker 1: on things and experiences.

483
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 2: Totally. I kind of don't think she can speak super

484
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:30,440
Speaker 2: freely though that part Okay, So I love the fact

485
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:32,640
Speaker 2: that she has it. Obviously she has a voice. Yeah,

486
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:36,760
Speaker 2: she wants to exercise that she has not asked reasonably

487
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 2: shady on the podcast, and that's a problem. Okay, But

488
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 2: outside of that, I do there is something to be

489
00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 2: said for not being super exposed. So I would like,

490
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 2: because you know, she's Michelle Obama, like we hold her

491
00:24:55,000 --> 00:25:01,480
Speaker 2: in such high regard that I want her to talk less. Yeah, yeah,

492
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 2: but you know what I mean, like, but it have

493
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 2: it be more impactful, not that what she's saying isn't impactful.

494
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,920
Speaker 1: Like she's she's coming down to our lovel yeah.

495
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:13,600
Speaker 2: Literally, Yeah, I have a podcast, she has podcasts. We're

496
00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:15,720
Speaker 2: the same. I am Michelle Obama. I don't want to

497
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:16,200
Speaker 2: feel that way.

498
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, we want her to be like on the pedestal

499
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:21,439
Speaker 1: totally super like way high.

500
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:24,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, and probably she showed us our her downloads. She

501
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 2: is probably way high than us. Not the point, I

502
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 2: just you know.

503
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 1: She's Michelle Obama, like she's Yeah, I get that, but

504
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:39,920
Speaker 1: I think that she's you know, everything that she's saying

505
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,159
Speaker 1: on it and all that is great. Yeah, I mean

506
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 1: I think they have like, you know, good conversations, good discussions, yeah,

507
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:48,879
Speaker 1: but it is definitely like, okay, you're you're becoming a

508
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:50,360
Speaker 1: little too touchable.

509
00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:53,200
Speaker 2: There we go. Yeah that's the word. Or accessible, yeah, yes,

510
00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:57,120
Speaker 2: not too yeah, and we we want to we want

511
00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 2: to act like we can never find you right or

512
00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,199
Speaker 2: here you or anything, because like when Barack comes out,

513
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 2: it's abrocto something. It's like we stop, like Barack is

514
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,640
Speaker 2: speaking speaking of Barack. Have you heard what they're doing

515
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:12,040
Speaker 2: to supposedly the White House? No, okay, so the White

516
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:16,359
Speaker 2: House has been calling China, okay, to beg and plead

517
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:19,959
Speaker 2: for this whole tear of fiasco to end. And so

518
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 2: they're putting mister Trump on hold and playing Barack's speeches

519
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 2: the people in China. Yes, this is not a legibly

520
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 2: this has been documented. Yes, yes, because somebody had to

521
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:42,720
Speaker 2: speak on it. Somebody had to give there was some

522
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:44,800
Speaker 2: sort of like not an investigation, but somebody had to

523
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 2: go talk and speak on what's going on. And yeah,

524
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 2: they're playing Barack speeches. No way, that is take.

525
00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:59,400
Speaker 1: I mean the the pettiness China petty game is China is.

526
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 2: Winning, Like I'm living for the petty game. Yeah, like

527
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:06,399
Speaker 2: this is actually everything that is so means everything to me,

528
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:07,360
Speaker 2: that's hilarious.

529
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 1: So speaking of Barack and Michelle and how we how

530
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 1: high a pedestal we put them on?

531
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:13,359
Speaker 2: Did you see it? Was?

532
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 1: They were at a restaurant in DC Osteria, I think yeah,

533
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:20,440
Speaker 1: and they must have been in a private room. Yes,

534
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 1: and then they're exiting the restaurant and they had to

535
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:27,120
Speaker 1: go through the front the whole restaurant. Yes, they're like

536
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:31,680
Speaker 1: applauding like as they're walking out. Yes, and it's like, yeah,

537
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,880
Speaker 1: imagine imagine Trump leaving the restaurant.

538
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:39,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, boom, Well it's we would like I would like

539
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 2: cock my head to the side, like really, yeah, so

540
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 2: that is I've seen that happen. So I was at

541
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 2: Joe Seafood. This is years ago when Barack and Michelle

542
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 2: were in office. Michelle was there and it was like

543
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,200
Speaker 2: you knew somebody was that a secret service was there

544
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:57,120
Speaker 2: and then she came out and everybody went crazy nuts. Yeah,

545
00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:01,400
Speaker 2: so like, yeah, yes, we were maybe they are forever

546
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:05,640
Speaker 2: president and first they are, yes we do.

547
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:11,399
Speaker 1: Oh okay, So I know you probably really don't have

548
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:14,640
Speaker 1: a thought about this, but this was a debate that

549
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 1: was like rampant in your household, in my household, really

550
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 1: and on like TikTok social media amongst.

551
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:27,239
Speaker 2: I don't want to say just men, but most most males.

552
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:31,560
Speaker 2: Have you heard this? Who would win in.

553
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:36,960
Speaker 1: A fight between one hundred men and aga silverback gorilla?

554
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:41,200
Speaker 2: Who are you taking? So I did see this, and

555
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 2: I didn't really understand how or how this question got

556
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 2: proposed right or why right, But.

557
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 1: It's like the burning question that everyone needs to know.

558
00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 1: This goes back back to the Dixon of it all. Yeah, yeah,

559
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 1: because I'm sure Wan was like, oh I.

560
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:08,560
Speaker 2: Got the gorilla. No oh he didn't. No, okay, so

561
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 2: he was like, hell no, yeah.

562
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 1: He's like, y'all are crazy if you think you're gonna

563
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 1: beat a gorilla. Oh okay, So a gorilla can knock

564
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 1: down a hundred men. So I think the hundred men

565
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 1: can win. Me and Carter at.

566
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 2: The same time, simultaneous. Okay, me and Carter think the

567
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 2: one hundred men can win. I think so too. We think,

568
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:26,000
Speaker 2: you know, a whole bunch.

569
00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to be sacrificed, right, yes, y'all go first, yeah, yeah,

570
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 1: but you're going to have to take some men to

571
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 1: distract the gorilla while the other men, you know, approach

572
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:39,680
Speaker 1: it from behind and kick it and hit it and

573
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 1: strangle it and choke it and poke its eyes out

574
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 1: and throw a rock on them. Yeah, all of that,

575
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 1: and we think that one hundred men can beat the gorilla.

576
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 1: But one is like, y'all are crazy. One and Corey

577
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 1: think the gorilla will win.

578
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 2: You And Carter say, I think so, is there any

579
00:29:58,120 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 2: have we looked at? Anybody doesn't ever have?

580
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 1: I don't know, As I asked chat GPT.

581
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 2: I would win.

582
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 1: And I mean, they just give you like scenarios for like,

583
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 1: they don't even tell you who would win. They just

584
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 1: tell you, like why the men would win and why

585
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 1: the gorilla would win. They say, they say the men

586
00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 1: would tire out the gorilla as well. Yes, but you

587
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 1: know some of them would die first. But but if

588
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 1: you kind of have a coordinated attack, you would tire

589
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: out the gorilla and eventually beat the gorilla.

590
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 2: I think I would love to know the strength of

591
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 2: a gorilla. It is the strength of a gorilla equal

592
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 2: to fifty men, one hundred men, right, Yeah, I don't know.

593
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 2: That's what I'm like first, and then I'm like, who

594
00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 2: the hell came up with this most random question? I

595
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:42,440
Speaker 2: don't know. But at GBT GPT. Yes, who came up

596
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 2: with this question? Yes, okay, I have a question for you.

597
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, so your crush you have a crush on Dampson Idris, right, yeah, Mike, okay,

598
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 1: all right, actually no, but okay, go ahead, No, okay,

599
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:56,360
Speaker 1: no Dampson. Okay, So say you're in a relationship with

600
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 1: Dampson or dating Dampson.

601
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 2: Oh gosh, yes, that's beautiful. I'm loving this.

602
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 1: Okay, So you have to pick one. Okay, what would

603
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 1: you rather do? Would you rather use his toothbrush or

604
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 1: use his washcloth?

605
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 2: Has he washed his balls? Yep? Okay the washcloth? You

606
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 2: use his washcloth? Yeah, okay, because I can like soap

607
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 2: it up and like in my mind it's clean. Right.

608
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 2: The toothbrush situation is a no. But if you're like

609
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 2: swaping spit, what's the problem. Because there's bacteria in the

610
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:36,360
Speaker 2: in the teeth and so let's say we've obviously kissed,

611
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:39,959
Speaker 2: I still haven't stuck my tongue in between your teeth.

612
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:43,720
Speaker 2: That's difference. Okay, yeah, okay, all right. So my kids,

613
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 2: the twins kind of share too brushes sometimes when we're

614
00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 2: on vacation. They it's not that they do it on purpose, right,

615
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 2: but like one will just pick up the other one

616
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 2: and then they're like, oh, okay, who cares. I'm like, no,

617
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 2: that's disgusting. Yeah, do not do that. Yeah yeah.

618
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 1: So I just the other day I swear my brain

619
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:01,560
Speaker 1: like honk out on me. So, so I have an

620
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:04,440
Speaker 1: electric toothbrush, but sometimes I'll just use like a regular toothbrush.

621
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 1: So Wan and I have a regular toothbrushes in a

622
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 1: in a little cup holder tooth brush holder, and one

623
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 1: of them is green and one of them is orange.

624
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 1: And I literally blacked out and I was like, I

625
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 1: don't know which one.

626
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 2: Is mine, which which one is yours. I think it's

627
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:24,800
Speaker 2: the green one. You just so then I went to want.

628
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: I was like, one, I'm my brain just conked out

629
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 1: of me, Like, which toothbrushes is yours?

630
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 2: What do you say? He's like he had to think

631
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 2: for a minute, and he was like, I think it's

632
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 2: the orange. Probably should have so, he thought, but I

633
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 2: don't know why.

634
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 1: I was like, for some reason, I'm literally blanking on

635
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 1: which toothbrush is mine? So okay, go ahead, and so

636
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 1: I just he said he thinks his was the orange.

637
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 2: Did you throw them away? No? I just went with

638
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 2: the This is why I won't share bathrooms with men

639
00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:01,520
Speaker 2: with dampson and amps. I'm not sharing a bathroom. Okay.

640
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 2: So have you seen the new toothbrushes where you put

641
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 2: the whole thing in your mouth. No, it's like a

642
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 2: it's like a rubbers like a retainer, but it's connected

643
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 2: to like a charger, so you turn it on. It

644
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 2: has like a blue light and everything. It's called sonic something.

645
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 2: You put like toothpaste around it and then you put

646
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 2: it in your mouth and it's just like it brushes. Yeah,

647
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 2: that's the whole thing. The whole thing is like a

648
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 2: brush and like a retainer type of apparatus and it

649
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 2: and then you can set it like high setting, low setting, whatever.

650
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:34,360
Speaker 2: I freaking love it. You have it, I do. I

651
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 2: have two of them, really. Yeah. I just bought it randomly.

652
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:39,080
Speaker 2: I saw it on like the View or something. I

653
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 2: don't know. Anyway, I was like, I bought it, and

654
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 2: I was like, this is gonna be dumb. I love it.

655
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 2: I mean I also use a regular like so I

656
00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 2: do that at night and in the morning I use

657
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 2: a regular electric toothbrush. Do you get behind your teeth?

658
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:57,320
Speaker 2: It's the whole thing. Surrounds up top and bottom, and

659
00:33:57,360 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 2: then they say kind of move it a little bit

660
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 2: to make sure you get the back, which I do.

661
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's great interesting. Yeah, I'll have to check

662
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 1: that out. Yeah, Sonic, I think is is the brand.

663
00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:10,399
Speaker 2: Okay, I'll check it out because I need I need

664
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 2: another device in my house. Yeah, I'll check that out.

665
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:17,359
Speaker 2: Do you use your juicer I have? I haven't used

666
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 2: it in a while, that five thousand dollars juicer that

667
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 2: you have, six hundred and ninety nine. By the way,

668
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 2: I do want the coffee maker that's supposed to be

669
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:28,799
Speaker 2: like high tech or whatever. Not that I drink coffee, right,

670
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 2: you don't drink coffee. But I wanted to make like

671
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:34,759
Speaker 2: hot chocolate. Oh, like the one that like you. I

672
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,440
Speaker 2: don't know. I don't what is it called. Maybe it's

673
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 2: the currac oh yeah, yeah, carecaker whatever. I don't know. Anyway,

674
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 2: its supposed to be very expensive. Really, I just wanted

675
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 2: for hot chocolate. Is that a waste? Probably? Okay? Yeah,

676
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:48,360
Speaker 2: probably I don't have it, Okay, I don't can't afford it.

677
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 2: I don't know. So the juicer.

678
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 1: I took a pause on it because and I need

679
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 1: to get back because Corey, although he's not Catholic, he

680
00:34:56,560 --> 00:35:00,400
Speaker 1: gave up like drinks for lint, like you could only

681
00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 1: drink water during Lent, and so I.

682
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 2: Didn't want to torture him.

683
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:08,840
Speaker 1: By like juicing and making nice juices and like, so

684
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 1: then I just Easter is over. I know it's been over,

685
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:14,799
Speaker 1: and then so I haven't haven't. It was like so

686
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 1: like lit, it was lit was like forever.

687
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:19,320
Speaker 2: It was just forty days.

688
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:23,439
Speaker 1: Well it was long the same every year, forty days

689
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 1: and forty nights. Okay, okay, Well he goes to a.

690
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:28,799
Speaker 2: Catholic school now yeah, okay, yeah, all.

691
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:30,640
Speaker 1: Right, so one of his like friends there like had

692
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 1: him give something up for limp.

693
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, my girls gave up juice or whatever. But then

694
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:36,879
Speaker 2: we went that was when we went to Cape Town.

695
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 2: They were like, yeah, that's over, it's over. Yeah, okay.

696
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 1: He was like he was disciplined. And I actually saw

697
00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 1: his face clear up, like you know, I has a

698
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 1: little bit of like pimples and stuff, and so I

699
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 1: saw his face cleared up. Yeah, but he was like

700
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 1: it was it was a struggle. It was a struggle, Okay.

701
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:56,879
Speaker 1: So yeah, I didn't want to make it worse for him.

702
00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 1: So I just took a break from juicing and I

703
00:35:58,719 --> 00:35:59,240
Speaker 1: just haven't.

704
00:35:59,040 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 2: Picked it back up.

705
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:01,879
Speaker 1: But I will now that you reminded me. Okay, now

706
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 1: that you reminded me, Okay, another question and then we

707
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 1: can get into some letters. Yeah, at your current age, yes,

708
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:17,719
Speaker 1: would you rather date a man who has never been

709
00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:20,279
Speaker 1: married or a divorced man?

710
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 2: I said this all the time. I would not be

711
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:25,719
Speaker 2: in a serious relationship with a man that has not

712
00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:29,480
Speaker 2: been married, Okay, and that doesn't have children. First of all,

713
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 2: I don't want to be your first wife. No, because

714
00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:36,319
Speaker 2: y'all that's too much work. Yeah, Robin, yes, you're gonna

715
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:39,800
Speaker 2: test to that. I can attest to that second wife

716
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 2: got it easy because they've broken in, right. And men,

717
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 2: I think in the long run, they want to be married.

718
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:49,480
Speaker 2: They want to be taken care of, they want to

719
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 2: have stability, they want to have a foundation. Okay. Number two,

720
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 2: if you don't have kids, you don't understand family. To me,

721
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 2: a man because is designed to have a family, right,

722
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:06,399
Speaker 2: So yeah, you gotta have you gotta be married once

723
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 2: maybe twice and have a rack of kids. Yeah. Yeah, okay,

724
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:14,840
Speaker 2: So Kanye and me, oh yeah, excellent. Oh yeah, a

725
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 2: match made of Heaven a match made. It hasn't because

726
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,239
Speaker 2: I had I met a guy recently actually that has

727
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 2: never been married, never been married, doesn't have any kids.

728
00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:26,479
Speaker 2: He's forty four.

729
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:33,719
Speaker 1: Okay, so what do we automatically think? Yeah, like okay, oh.

730
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:34,920
Speaker 2: So I said I say this to Cal all the time.

731
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, caw that that's that's as gay to me really,

732
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:41,680
Speaker 2: And Cal's like, Giselle, you sound stupid. Yeah, that doesn't

733
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 2: say gay to me in this day and age. I

734
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:46,040
Speaker 2: just think times have changed.

735
00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 1: So much that like he's forty four, he still thinks

736
00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 1: he's twenty four. Oh you know what I mean, Like

737
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:55,399
Speaker 1: he's still just I never thought about that. Yeah, okay, Yeah,

738
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 1: he's still like thinking he's like a bachelor, supposed to

739
00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 1: be kicking it, hanging out, like he's just the thought

740
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:06,760
Speaker 1: the thought of like having a family has been nowhere

741
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 1: near his mind for a very long time.

742
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 2: Yeah. I never thought about that. Yeah Okay. And and

743
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:15,440
Speaker 2: then you know, Cayle's like, well, Giselle, maybe he's responsible.

744
00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:18,759
Speaker 2: Maybe he hasn't. He decided a very long time ago

745
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 2: that he doesn't want to have kids, like out of marriage,

746
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:23,880
Speaker 2: and he just hasn't found the one or whatever. I

747
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:24,799
Speaker 2: don't know, but like.

748
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:27,640
Speaker 1: So, what's what's the guy's explanation? Has he given you one?

749
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 2: I didn't ask him if he was gay, but that

750
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,279
Speaker 2: is a question that I do ask. You're just leuck

751
00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 2: with the man? Oh that's how you asked you? That's yeah,

752
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 2: here ever been with me? I learned that from Love

753
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:39,960
Speaker 2: Hotel because Ashley's really good at it, like she she'll

754
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:42,359
Speaker 2: come out with that question like number three and I'm

755
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 2: like and I was kind of like, oh, okay, that's

756
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 2: that's cool, right, So yeah, I would be like, yeah,

757
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 2: So I asked Phil that actually on Love Hotel. By

758
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 2: the way, Love Hotel is still on Sundays. Yes, so

759
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 2: get into how many episodes we have? Eight? Okay? Yeah?

760
00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:58,279
Speaker 2: And I feel like we need a reunion, a three

761
00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:02,399
Speaker 2: part you want one? I want a three three parter

762
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 2: and he get into it. So yeah, I asked Phil,

763
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 2: have you ever been with a man? Okay? And he

764
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 2: said no? Okay? Was he offended? Mm hmm okay because

765
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 2: he's from La. So I think that that's kind of

766
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 2: like understandable to ask. Yeah. I mean it didn't even matter,

767
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 2: like I don't care what that's a that's.

768
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:27,360
Speaker 1: A good way to ask, Like if you think someone's gay, yeah,

769
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 1: that's a good way to ask them without thinking you're

770
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 1: going to offend them, and like if they're not, get

771
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, have you ever been with

772
00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:34,319
Speaker 1: the man?

773
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 2: Yeah? I think that's a better way to phrase it

774
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 2: than to say are you gay? Yeah? True? And then

775
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:41,279
Speaker 2: I've asked like have you ever had sex? And a

776
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:44,799
Speaker 2: man was in the room and I don't remember what

777
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:47,360
Speaker 2: the answer was. And then it's kind of like I

778
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:51,440
Speaker 2: do want to know like your sexual preferences, so like

779
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:55,439
Speaker 2: do you like threesomes? Do you like all that? So, yeah,

780
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:57,960
Speaker 2: we had all those conversations. So one guy was like,

781
00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:01,200
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, I don't kiss himTo oh no,

782
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 2: but you're here to talk about her, right that you're

783
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:07,360
Speaker 2: actually here to talk about this. You're not getting paid,

784
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:10,920
Speaker 2: but this is your job, right, Yeah, tell me what

785
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 2: you do in the bedroom, sir. And my thing is

786
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:16,719
Speaker 2: I don't kiss and tell is the answer that means

787
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:19,480
Speaker 2: yes and you don't want to talk about it? No?

788
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 2: He might.

789
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 1: It could mean no, but he might want to make

790
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 1: it look like he's like this like freaktu.

791
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:28,239
Speaker 2: Yeah you know he wasn't. And I'll tell you who

792
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:28,839
Speaker 2: it was later?

793
00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:34,759
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, anyway, Charles, this is from Charles Ellerb and

794
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 1: this says the subject is Giselle Love Hotel.

795
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:41,760
Speaker 2: Okay, speaking of Love Hotel, he says, hey, y'all still

796
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:45,200
Speaker 2: loving the podcast? Well? Is that room still loving the podcast?

797
00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:47,759
Speaker 1: I love it like no, because there could be some

798
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:50,960
Speaker 1: people that aren't that started listening and they decided they

799
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 1: don't like us anymore, or they just they just you know,

800
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:56,360
Speaker 1: fell off, fell off. Okay, all right, well, thank you,

801
00:40:56,400 --> 00:41:00,839
Speaker 1: char you're still loving. I had questions, which is now

802
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 1: be honest?

803
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:05,759
Speaker 2: How was the twenty five thousand dollars taco which if

804
00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 2: you watched Left Hotel, I think was episode one my

805
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:11,719
Speaker 2: first date with Jay. They brought out a twenty five

806
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 2: thousand dollars tacos, so it was shrimp, lobster, caviar, gold leaf,

807
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 2: and something else that's all in one taco. Okay. I

808
00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:28,319
Speaker 2: think the gold leaf was took us over the edge

809
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 2: of twenty five thousand. It was great. I loved every

810
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 2: year morsel. I think I took three bites, so how

811
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 2: much is that a bite? Three bites and it was gone?

812
00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 1: So so Jay had a rock in his I think

813
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:44,439
Speaker 1: oysters were in it too, something okay, something that has

814
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 1: rocks associated, maybe the oyster. Yeah, so a rock was

815
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:51,879
Speaker 1: in his and he he almost like took us tooth out.

816
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Obviously they didn't show that part, but yeah,

817
00:41:55,680 --> 00:42:00,440
Speaker 2: Jay is still mad. He's hot. Okay, So did it

818
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:03,439
Speaker 2: really cost twenty five thousand dollars? That's what they said,

819
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:06,400
Speaker 2: and not paysos because we were in Mexico. Yeah, Mexico

820
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:09,440
Speaker 2: paysos I think. Yeah. Yeah, No, I was like dollars.

821
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 2: They were like dollars. Yeah, so that's that, he said.

822
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:17,080
Speaker 2: Charles says, because there's no way it tasted worth even

823
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:21,280
Speaker 2: half that. How would you know, Charles, you weren't there again,

824
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 2: Love your show. When are you going to have your

825
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:30,800
Speaker 2: kids on on the Love Hotel on the podcast? Oh okay,

826
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 2: I don't know. By the gone, we could have the

827
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 2: boys on. I've been a fan since the beginning, and

828
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:40,880
Speaker 2: remember y'all mentioning it has it have been? It has been.

829
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:43,439
Speaker 2: I don't know what this means. We'd love to hear

830
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 2: their take on some of the stuff that's happened in

831
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:48,759
Speaker 2: their lives with their moms being who they are, and

832
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:52,280
Speaker 2: maybe asking some of y'all. Some asking y'all some questions

833
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:54,880
Speaker 2: that would be good though. Yeah, I've asked. I've asked

834
00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 2: mine if they would come on, and they tell me

835
00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 2: emphatically tell me no, Really, I don't know because they're

836
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:04,879
Speaker 2: such like my kids are hams like they are. They

837
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:08,239
Speaker 2: say that they're so funny, they are so unseious, and

838
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 2: I'm like, why won't y'all just come on the podcast? Yes,

839
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 2: I don't know why I say something funny? Yeah, Okay,

840
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:16,440
Speaker 2: next time they're here, we're gonna body slam them and

841
00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:18,919
Speaker 2: throw them on the couch and make them tall. They're

842
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:21,880
Speaker 2: gonna body slam you back. True. True, because that Corey

843
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:25,600
Speaker 2: is you, Yes, like he just sprouted up? Is he

844
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 2: tall than one? He's like neck and neck wow? Yes?

845
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 2: And Wine is six four six two six two six two. Okay,

846
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:36,400
Speaker 2: all right. This is from Jay Black. Jay Black says,

847
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 2: I've been with my man for a year now and

848
00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 2: we rotate weekends at each other's apartments. His apartment is

849
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Speaker 2: less than ideal in terms of comfort and entertainment. After

850
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 2: a year together, I recommended that he makes some upgrades.

851
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:55,360
Speaker 2: He doesn't want to, as he's currently building a new house.

852
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:58,760
Speaker 2: Money is not a concern. He just wants to select

853
00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:02,400
Speaker 2: furniture or future home, not the apartment. He wants to

854
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 2: select furniture for the future home. Is it reasonable or

855
00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:09,240
Speaker 2: shady to request that he spent all weekends we're together

856
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:11,799
Speaker 2: at my place until his new home is completed in

857
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:14,839
Speaker 2: about a year. I'm tired of feeling like I'm the

858
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 2: one of Giselle's daughter's dorm rooms. Where whenever I miss

859
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:22,360
Speaker 2: one oh am in one of Jazelle's dorm room daughter's

860
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:25,880
Speaker 2: dorm rooms. Whenever I visit him and he tries to

861
00:44:25,960 --> 00:44:28,239
Speaker 2: break up with me. Oh and if he tries to

862
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:30,239
Speaker 2: break up with me, I can't read. And if he

863
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:32,280
Speaker 2: tries to bring up with me, I may be writing

864
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:35,480
Speaker 2: again to ask y'all to match me with someone I know.

865
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 2: That's right. Okay, first of all, let's back up. So

866
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 2: I recently did the surprise of Angel and the door, right,

867
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:47,239
Speaker 2: So in order for us to do this, we had

868
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 2: to hide in the dorms bathroom. What oh God? In

869
00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:53,560
Speaker 2: order for Angel to come into her room and she

870
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 2: didn't see us, so we had to hide in the

871
00:44:55,640 --> 00:45:00,480
Speaker 2: communal bathroom. Oh okay, lovely, I stepped literally one foot

872
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:02,719
Speaker 2: in that bathroom, and I broke out in high like

873
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 2: I was like, this is disgusting and I don't know

874
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:07,279
Speaker 2: how I ever did this in life. They don't share

875
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:07,760
Speaker 2: with guys.

876
00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 1: No, no, no, it's Spellman. Yeah, so yes.

877
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 2: If the experience, what is it? J black?

878
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 1: If if that's similar to a dorm room, if his

879
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:21,359
Speaker 1: place is similar to your dorm room, Yeah, you get

880
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 1: out right out, matter of fact, break up with him, right,

881
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:29,359
Speaker 1: like whom forget staying at your house for a year?

882
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:31,839
Speaker 2: Break up with him? Yes, he need to go.

883
00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:35,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, you're absolutely not shady if you ask him,

884
00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 1: just like, listen, can we just stay at my place?

885
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:38,359
Speaker 2: Yes?

886
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:41,160
Speaker 1: I don't know how old you are, but I'm sure

887
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:44,279
Speaker 1: you're grown, grown enough to know that you you want

888
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 1: to be comfortable?

889
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:48,920
Speaker 2: Yes, and he look if.

890
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 1: If he gets sensitive enough to where y'all got to

891
00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:55,280
Speaker 1: break up, then like yeah exactly, yeah you should understand.

892
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:58,840
Speaker 2: So and we all like nice tease. Yes, yes, and

893
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 2: I want to be comfortable. Right we been we you went.

894
00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:04,839
Speaker 1: Through that stage where you have, you know, deal with

895
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 1: sleep on the floor or whatever, like no, now I

896
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:11,279
Speaker 1: don't need I can't do it. I'm grown grown, Yeah,

897
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:13,799
Speaker 1: we don't need that anymore. I didn't want to share

898
00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 1: a bad thing with you. Alright, we got one more, Okay,

899
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:22,520
Speaker 1: So I want to follow up on the ozembic of it,

900
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:23,640
Speaker 1: all the.

901
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:24,680
Speaker 2: G LP ones.

902
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:29,760
Speaker 1: You know, I talked about how I have some extra

903
00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 1: pounds that I want to lose and they just you know,

904
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:34,440
Speaker 1: I work out and the scale goes up and I'm

905
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 1: frustrated and I'm considering a GLP one. So I do

906
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:39,880
Speaker 1: want to say thank you to everybody that wrote to me,

907
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 1: emailed you, d MD. I even have a friend that

908
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 1: I love, a dear friend that I love that listens

909
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 1: to the podcast that called me and pretty.

910
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:55,839
Speaker 2: Much confessed that she's been I saw, I saw a

911
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:58,480
Speaker 2: commercial and there's a pill like the Marangua. Is that

912
00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 2: a pill? Oh? I don't know there's a pill? Okay,

913
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:03,839
Speaker 2: you check, Okay, yeah, all right, so what the people say?

914
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:06,400
Speaker 1: Okay, So so I do want to say in general,

915
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:12,480
Speaker 1: I heard pretty much a general sentiment, which was it

916
00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 1: worked for them. They experienced some nausea, maybe some fatigue,

917
00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:22,440
Speaker 1: but then you kind of like get through it. So

918
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:25,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna write, I'm gonna read. Let's see a couple

919
00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:29,280
Speaker 1: of letters. So this is from Tracy. Hey, Tracy Tracy.

920
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:32,680
Speaker 2: Says, I love Manaro, but that's what I'm That's what

921
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:38,040
Speaker 2: I'm meant to say. Yes, I think that has all

922
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 2: I think. Okay, I'm not sure. She said.

923
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:44,759
Speaker 1: I love Manjarro, but I'm afraid to stop taking it.

924
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:46,399
Speaker 1: She said, Hi, Robin, I was in the same boat

925
00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 1: whereas I was working out and the weight was not

926
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 1: coming off due to menopause, and I've always been able

927
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:53,319
Speaker 1: to lose weight easily. So I decided to research all

928
00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:56,080
Speaker 1: of the weight loss drugs and decided on Manjiro because

929
00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:58,719
Speaker 1: that one seemed to give the least amount of side effects.

930
00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:04,040
Speaker 1: I absolutely love it and have lost over thirty pounds now.

931
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 1: I did have some constipation in the beginning, but I

932
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 1: would just drink my smooth moved tea and that worked

933
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 1: just fine. I have since switched from once a week

934
00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:15,759
Speaker 1: shots to once a month, but I'm afraid to cut

935
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:18,880
Speaker 1: it off all together. So that would be the only warning.

936
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,759
Speaker 1: You will be hooked. Good luck with whatever you choose,

937
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 1: and she said, ps. I also love Glow thirty and

938
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:28,239
Speaker 1: my month facials with my bestie Angie aka MI just

939
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 1: out and it was great media on my first visit.

940
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:34,160
Speaker 2: You are even more beautiful in person. Oh nice? Do

941
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 2: you remember her? Okay? Yeah, so Tracy, I appreciate you, okay,

942
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 2: And I appreciate her being honest. Like some people don't

943
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:40,960
Speaker 2: want to talk about it, which is weird because it's

944
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:43,719
Speaker 2: like not everybody's on it, but I mean there's enough

945
00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 2: people on it's not like taboo. Yeah.

946
00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:47,919
Speaker 1: I think, well, I think now today is becoming less

947
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 1: and less taboo because I think at first, you know,

948
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 1: people were on it, and they weren't. They felt they

949
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:56,759
Speaker 1: didn't want to be judged, And now you're just hearing

950
00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 1: more and more people. Did you hear about this influencer.

951
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:02,600
Speaker 1: It's a girl who's like a big influencer on TikTok

952
00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:06,160
Speaker 1: and she was selling these like, you know, getting people

953
00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:09,520
Speaker 1: to sign up for like her coaching program for weight loss.

954
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 1: So she would teach, you know, I don't know, teach

955
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:15,360
Speaker 1: them meal plans and workouts and stuff. And then found

956
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 1: people found out she was on a GLP one the line, right,

957
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 1: Like that's great, that is crazy to me. So that's

958
00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:26,560
Speaker 1: so she's facing a lot of backlash because I think

959
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:29,239
Speaker 1: whatever she was selling two hundred dollars or something.

960
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:31,960
Speaker 2: People would pay and get a damn Yeah. Yeah, the

961
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:33,480
Speaker 2: lives people tell. Yeah.

962
00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 1: So here is a message from Lynn. She said, Hi Robbinland.

963
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:38,880
Speaker 2: Yes, Heiland.

964
00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:42,479
Speaker 1: I've been on medications like ozempic for years, even before

965
00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:44,400
Speaker 1: it was used for weight loss, and I lost a

966
00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:48,279
Speaker 1: lot of weight. However, I experienced extensive sickness and could

967
00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:51,200
Speaker 1: not eat. Eventually my doctor took me off because it

968
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:54,120
Speaker 1: was impacting my pancreas. I've known other people who have

969
00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:56,680
Speaker 1: used so ozmpic and have very few side effects.

970
00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:59,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's it's in my talk about hair loss

971
00:49:59,880 --> 00:50:03,280
Speaker 2: and all that. No one talked about hair loss.

972
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 1: I did have people talk about like the muscle loss,

973
00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 1: and they said, you definitely if you get on these,

974
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:13,839
Speaker 1: you definitely have to eat, focus on eating protein, and

975
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:17,520
Speaker 1: focus on working out like strength training lifting weights, because

976
00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:18,919
Speaker 1: you will lose weight.

977
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 2: I mean you will.

978
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:23,400
Speaker 1: Lose When you lose weight, you're losing muscle, you know,

979
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:27,319
Speaker 1: So you gotta just focus on that. Some people say

980
00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:30,600
Speaker 1: they have headaches yea, that their or their cycle gets

981
00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:32,759
Speaker 1: you know, funny.

982
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 2: Or they might have diarrhea.

983
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:40,680
Speaker 1: I did have few people recommend try zeppetite. So there's

984
00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:46,319
Speaker 1: different ones too. So there's like ozempic Manjaro, so I

985
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:51,280
Speaker 1: think manjaro is the same thing as ozempic or something triesepetide,

986
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:53,240
Speaker 1: all these different ones anyway.

987
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:54,520
Speaker 2: So what's what's the verdict. What you're gonna do?

988
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:58,200
Speaker 1: Okay, here's another one. Okay, and see when I get these,

989
00:50:58,200 --> 00:51:00,839
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay. So this is from Katrita, she said,

990
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:06,200
Speaker 1: don't take ozempic. Thank you Katria, she said, high, ladies

991
00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 1: love the show. My cousin who was on ozempic for

992
00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:11,799
Speaker 1: diabet diabetes lost his vision in one eye. Damn it

993
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:15,600
Speaker 1: was because of the ozimpic, so beau, because it's listed

994
00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:16,440
Speaker 1: in their side effects.

995
00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 2: So there's nothing he can do. Damn, don't do it.

996
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:22,359
Speaker 1: Don't do it. I'm fighting the same perimenopause weight gain.

997
00:51:22,400 --> 00:51:23,280
Speaker 1: It's so frustrated.

998
00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 2: Are you are you? Like, are you menopause A Perry?

999
00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:27,880
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't know.

1000
00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:30,000
Speaker 1: I mean, of course, I think I'm at that age

1001
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:32,680
Speaker 1: where I could be, But when I read the symptoms

1002
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:35,680
Speaker 1: for perimenopause, I'm like, I don't. I don't think that

1003
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:37,759
Speaker 1: that's me, okay, because I don't really have all the

1004
00:51:37,880 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 1: other things, So I don't know.

1005
00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:42,759
Speaker 2: I'm just fat. You're okay, first of all, you're not.

1006
00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:46,680
Speaker 2: Second of all I think. I mean, it doesn't hurt

1007
00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:49,400
Speaker 2: you try Yeah, yeah, but look at the pill version.

1008
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 2: I would think a pill is easier than taking a shot. Yeah, yeah,

1009
00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:53,359
Speaker 2: I don't. I wouldn't want to take a shot.

1010
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:57,960
Speaker 1: I'm definitely going to like I want to consult with

1011
00:51:58,000 --> 00:51:59,680
Speaker 1: a doctor, like I don't want to do it on

1012
00:51:59,840 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 1: just some like random because it seems like everyone is

1013
00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 1: administering these drugs now, So I think I would want

1014
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:09,400
Speaker 1: to consult with a doctor, or at least I don't know.

1015
00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:12,440
Speaker 2: I think you should. Yeah, but but talk about everything

1016
00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:14,480
Speaker 2: like perimenopause all that.

1017
00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:18,359
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, exactly, exactly. Yeah, So the verdict is still out.

1018
00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:20,640
Speaker 1: Verdict is still out. Thank you for all of the

1019
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:25,120
Speaker 1: feedback though, I appreciate. But people definitely say do it. Okay,

1020
00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:27,319
Speaker 1: most people say do it. I literally had two people

1021
00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:30,279
Speaker 1: say said, don't do it. The people that are blind. Yeah,

1022
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:34,000
Speaker 1: And I'm like, that's blind and homeless. But I just

1023
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:37,440
Speaker 1: I saw something recently. Kyle Richard's daughter did it and

1024
00:52:37,640 --> 00:52:38,880
Speaker 1: she experienced hair loss.

1025
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:41,000
Speaker 2: Yeah I saw I saw that. Yeah, and I told

1026
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:43,080
Speaker 2: you I have a girlfriend too, that we're on it

1027
00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:45,880
Speaker 2: and major hair loss. Yeah. See that's not I can't

1028
00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:48,319
Speaker 2: risk that. Yeah. Well, I mean, well, you can wear

1029
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 2: a wig. One of them wears a wig. Yeah, because

1030
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:54,359
Speaker 2: of it. Yeah, she won't get off of it, right,

1031
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:57,400
Speaker 2: that's crazy. Yeah, yeah, I don't want to do that. WHOA,

1032
00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:00,000
Speaker 2: all right, Well, don't never forget to live your life

1033
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:10,520
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Speaker 1: can connect with us on social media at Robin Dixon, ten,

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