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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the COLO, our chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Here we go with Darius in Kentwood. Darius writes,

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Speaker 1: my girlfriend got flowers and cookies on the fourteenth at work,

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Speaker 1: meaning Valentine's Day. Of course, she claims she doesn't know

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Speaker 1: who sent them. I think she might be telling the

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Speaker 1: truth because she brought them home so I could see them.

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Speaker 1: Now is she lying? Does she have a man on

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Speaker 1: the side? Is what Darius wants to know.

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Speaker 2: Dog, how you asking us that we don't know she

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Speaker 2: got them from somewhere? Now, somebody doesn't send your girl

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Speaker 2: some cookies or whatever and some flowers?

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Speaker 3: What else? Now?

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Speaker 2: She says she don't know who they're from, but she

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Speaker 2: bought them home. Smart thing to do was leave them

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Speaker 2: at work or throw them away. That's the smart thing

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Speaker 2: to do. The other thing was did you get her anything? Uh?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Was this rub in your face? Was this a step

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Speaker 2: up your game? What was it?

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Speaker 3: You know? So?

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Speaker 4: Now I brought him home so he could see him.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that ain't nothing. I'm gonna beautiful. I hope he

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Speaker 3: asked me, I don't know who game? To me?

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Speaker 4: That is exactly her thought process.

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Speaker 2: So that's my opinion, dog, I don't know why you

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Speaker 2: would think that. That's only you have that other information

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Speaker 2: we don't. All we know is she got something from

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Speaker 2: Valentine's Day and brought it home you and they show

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Speaker 2: you saw.

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Speaker 4: It, yes, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Gabby indicatory, Gabby writes, I had some

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Speaker 1: family drama, so I walked outside to take the call.

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Speaker 1: My husband didn't like that, and he said I should

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Speaker 1: be able to talk in front of him. My mama

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Speaker 1: asked for privacy, and I respected her wishes.

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Speaker 4: Why do I have to keep explaining myself, Well, your.

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Speaker 2: Mama asked for privacy, is your mom, so you gotta

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Speaker 2: do that. You don't Your mom didn't want to discuss

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Speaker 2: her basis and have your husband know it. So that's it.

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Speaker 2: That's you and your mama's relationship. She was your mama

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Speaker 2: for he was your husband. That is a fuss show

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Speaker 2: and so they do get some deals with that that

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Speaker 2: mama do get some deeps now. So I think we

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Speaker 2: all understand that. Brou so hey man, I just wanted

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Speaker 2: to step outside, had this conversation with my mama because

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Speaker 2: she asked me because she have some privacy.

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Speaker 3: I respected that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was and The reason you have to explain

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Speaker 2: it is because he asked you about it. And I

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Speaker 2: would always honor my mom. If that's what she asked

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Speaker 2: me for, I would give it to her, right and

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Speaker 2: everybody else don't have to develop some understanding.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Leanne and Pine Bluff, Leanne says, after

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Speaker 1: four and a half months of dating a younger man

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Speaker 1: we were intimate. I don't see a future with him

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Speaker 1: because he's large. It was not fun and I don't

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Speaker 1: ever want that experience again. He told me we can

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Speaker 1: stay together without sex. Does he really mean that?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 4: What's clo? That's at all?

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Speaker 2: We can stay together without our six Okay, let me

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Speaker 2: ask you something, older lady, Have you ever ever heard

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Speaker 2: that in your life?

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Speaker 4: Her answer would be no.

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Speaker 3: He was too much. You don't want that no more?

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Speaker 3: And that right. I don't blame you.

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Speaker 2: You don't have to do that now, you know, because

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Speaker 2: what we're not Finna do is have a search and

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Speaker 2: destroy mission every time we get together.

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Speaker 3: That's not what we're Finna do.

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Speaker 2: You're not finn be up in here going to unknown

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Speaker 2: places and just pulling chords and blowing up stuff. You're

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Speaker 2: not Finna do that I have a future, and it's

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Speaker 2: not okay because you up in here acting like a

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Speaker 2: home record. It's what you're doing and you're not gonna

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Speaker 2: do it.

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: Last one see colo. This is from Tracy and Winston, Salem.

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Speaker 1: Tracy writes, I've been dating a guy for almost a year.

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Speaker 1: I just noticed that he took most of our pictures

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Speaker 1: off his Facebook page. He said he did it so

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Speaker 1: no one will be in our business. We have not

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Speaker 1: had any problems so far. So what's the real reason

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Speaker 1: he did that?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 2: So, ain't nobody gonna be in y'all's business.

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Speaker 3: Everybody ain't happy for you? Mm hmm, you know everybody? Now,

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Speaker 3: that's what I'm going with.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I think her red flags went up to step

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Speaker 1: like maybe.

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Speaker 2: Well hers what you know, trying to put the relationship

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Speaker 2: you know, under cover now, which that could be true.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that could be true.

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Speaker 3: That could be true. So you have to, you know,

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Speaker 3: watch very carefully.

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Speaker 2: See once a man do something like that, he gonna

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Speaker 2: get he gonna give you something else. Now, if he's

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Speaker 2: trying to hide you, you're gonna you're gonna you're gonna

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Speaker 2: get another.

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Speaker 4: Reason change your behavior.

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Speaker 2: Oh you got after a year if he changed and

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Speaker 2: some calls and text change, he ain't got to see

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Speaker 2: you as much no more. Okay, o, Hey, how you doing?

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Speaker 2: What the hell you mean?

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Speaker 3: How we doing? We're in a full blown relationship. I

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Speaker 3: ain't talk to you.

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Speaker 2: It's Monday. I ain't talk to you since Friday. What

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Speaker 2: time just got away from me? Boy boy? In the

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Speaker 2: whole year, it ain't been getting away from you. Knowledge

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Speaker 2: and time that got with you know one thing about it, man,

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Speaker 2: when it changed?

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Speaker 3: When the dude changed?

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Speaker 4: Yep, yep, red flag?

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Speaker 3: All right, wow, tray.

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Speaker 2: Normally I wouldn't say that, but she didn't think nothing

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Speaker 2: was up. But yeah, you know, see, I ain't really Facebook, dude,

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Speaker 2: So like, if you ain't seeing yourself on my Facebook page, cool,

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Speaker 2: then that's two of us.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what you're on that for anyway. I

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Speaker 3: don't even answer.

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Speaker 4: People are on Facebook, Steve, you know.

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Speaker 3: That, I know. But I got a bunch of old

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Speaker 3: ass friends and all that.

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Speaker 2: You know, you know, when they send you a clip

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Speaker 2: or something, it's always on Facebook, and then I can't

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Speaker 2: open it.

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Speaker 3: I came this.

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Speaker 1: Show sends the most Facebook clips to the group text.

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Speaker 3: Tommy, who sit in the most period.

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Speaker 2: Tommy going to Tommy gonna inform us of his life.

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Speaker 2: We don't miss a beat, We and we everywhere with Tommy.

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Speaker 2: I've been in the dressing room, You coming in the

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Speaker 2: dressing room.

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Speaker 3: Look who all right?

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Celo coming up at the top of the hour.

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