WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Failed Experiment

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking Jewels second date up to day. I'm really excited

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to the girl who's on the phone for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update today because I'm hoping she can

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<v Speaker 1>help me answer one of the biggest mysteries in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>Her email says that she works at a bank and

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<v Speaker 1>the guy that she went out with was actually a

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<v Speaker 1>customer at the bank, and he asked her out and

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<v Speaker 1>they went out. And my question is, what's the secret

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<v Speaker 1>the secret to what? So hitting on a girl that

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<v Speaker 1>works at a bank. My whole life, I've tried that

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<v Speaker 1>and it always goes well until they open up your

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<v Speaker 1>bank account. They're like, yeah, not interesting, Alison. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>get hit on a lot at the bank? For some reason?

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<v Speaker 1>For me, bank tellers have always been something that I've

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<v Speaker 1>always wanted to do out with. I don't know that

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<v Speaker 1>I get hit on a lot. Maybe I just don't notice.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I try to keep it professional. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know this, but you are my white whale

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<v Speaker 1>fantasy ideas big thing for bank tellers. I've never been

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<v Speaker 1>able to do it. So what was the guy that

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<v Speaker 1>you want to call today? What's his name? His name

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<v Speaker 1>is Jake. Jake? All right, Well, what was Jake's secret.

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<v Speaker 1>How'd he do it? It wasn't until after he left

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<v Speaker 1>that he actually asked me out on the date, which

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<v Speaker 1>I think kind of helped. How did he do that

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<v Speaker 1>if he wasn't there to ask you out? So he

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<v Speaker 1>came in actually to ask about a business loan, just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like normal everyday thing. And I thought that,

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe he was being flirty, but I couldn't tell.

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<v Speaker 1>And like I said, I try to keep it professional,

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like not really focusing on that and

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<v Speaker 1>just gave him the information that he wanted. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>my job, okay, so right, and he wants a loan,

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<v Speaker 1>so he's probably going to be extra nice to you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so check number one. If I ever wanted to ask

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<v Speaker 1>a girl out of the bank, I have to ask

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<v Speaker 1>about a small business loan. Got that down, Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's not a bank account where the bank accounts

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<v Speaker 1>or small potatoes on the loan. All right, So walking

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<v Speaker 1>and go like, I'm trying to open up a business loan,

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<v Speaker 1>a big business loan. You said, he asked you out later,

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<v Speaker 1>How did he do that? So I gave him my

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<v Speaker 1>card and gave him the usual steel You know, if

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<v Speaker 1>you have any more questions, feel free to call me.

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<v Speaker 1>And later that day, he didn't even wait for very long.

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<v Speaker 1>He just said that he had a really nice time

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<v Speaker 1>talking to me, and he was curious if I was single,

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<v Speaker 1>and if I was, but I want to hang out sometime. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you like that. Obviously, where'd you guys go for

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<v Speaker 1>your date? Well, this is where it kind of changed

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<v Speaker 1>up a little bit. We had planned on getting drinks

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<v Speaker 1>at a bar, that was what we talked about, but

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<v Speaker 1>then turns out his place was really close to the bar,

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<v Speaker 1>and so we ended up meeting there first, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was just kind of like hanging out while he was

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<v Speaker 1>getting ready. It wasn't it wasn't anything weird or that

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<v Speaker 1>felt like sketchy or planned or anything. And then he

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<v Speaker 1>had like a little like home bar and asked if

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted a drink before we went out, So we

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<v Speaker 1>were like having a drink and then he turned on

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<v Speaker 1>Netflix and oh wow, okay, so it sounds like he

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<v Speaker 1>had no intention of leaving the house. Honestly, I don't know. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>as soon as you said he was getting red, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>how much time does it take for a guy to

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<v Speaker 1>get ready to go get drinks depends how much he moisturizes. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>okay and a half. You know, for some dudes five

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<v Speaker 1>minutes was this skin nice and smooth? It did look

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<v Speaker 1>very supple? Okay, good? So yeah, it might have taken him.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think he just like lured you over there

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<v Speaker 1>to Netflix and chill? Basically? Is that what you think happened?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's entirely possible that that was his plan

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<v Speaker 1>all along. But like the really weird thing is if

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<v Speaker 1>that was his goal, nothing ended up happening. Like we

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<v Speaker 1>literally just watched Netflix and hung out. Oh you like

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<v Speaker 1>literally Netflix and chilled? Yeah? Yeah, okay, And if you

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<v Speaker 1>would have made a move on you would have you

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<v Speaker 1>been okay with that? I mean, yeah, he was cute

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<v Speaker 1>and like we kind of lolong really well, so like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I probably wouldn't have gone too far. But

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<v Speaker 1>if he had made a move, like, I wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>been upset about it. Okay, right? Do you think he

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<v Speaker 1>chickened out for some reason in the middle, Well, there

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<v Speaker 1>was a moment like someone early on that might have

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<v Speaker 1>gotten a little awkward. Yeah, And why do you sound

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<v Speaker 1>so hesitant to talk about it, because I, like, I

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<v Speaker 1>totally admit that this is on me. But we were

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<v Speaker 1>talking about all kinds of stuff and we started talking

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<v Speaker 1>about our fears, and I ended up telling him what

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<v Speaker 1>my greatest fear is. And I'm a little worried that

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<v Speaker 1>this like totally ruined the date. Why what's your what's

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<v Speaker 1>your fear? I am afraid of feet? Feet like feet? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like they just they super creep me out. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like thinking about them. I definitely I cannot touch them,

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<v Speaker 1>like I couldnot. I don't even want to touch my

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<v Speaker 1>own feet, let alone think about touching other people's feet.

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<v Speaker 1>How does that word like though, if you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>get intimate with someone, do you just make them keep

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<v Speaker 1>their socks on? Yeah? I don't need to go too

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<v Speaker 1>far into this. But that's that's that's that is my fear.

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<v Speaker 1>That is what I told him. So you're scared of

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<v Speaker 1>naked feet? Yes, like I really am scared. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't blame somebody for having a phobia. Did it

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<v Speaker 1>seem like he was judging you for being scared of feet? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>He just all of a sudden he wasn't feeling well,

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<v Speaker 1>which I don't think is a good sign. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he has a foot fetish. And he knew it

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't work out with you. Oh gosh, just even the thought.

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<v Speaker 1>How long after you brought up your fear of feet

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<v Speaker 1>did the date end? It was within a few minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like close enough, really, but like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to be respectful. He said he wasn't feeling well.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just I left and I haven't heard from him,

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<v Speaker 1>and I haven't called him. And has he been back

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<v Speaker 1>into the bank to follow up on his loan? Nope,

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<v Speaker 1>not when I've been there. All right, well, we'll play

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<v Speaker 1>a song, come back, call him and find out if

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<v Speaker 1>your fear of feet is the reason he's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back in your second day update. Okay, okay, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you guys brooking jubil in the morning, right in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of a second date update and if you're just

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<v Speaker 1>joining us. Allison is on the phone and Alison thinks

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<v Speaker 1>she's not getting a call back because her her date

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<v Speaker 1>talked about something scary, something that lurks all around you

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<v Speaker 1>in a daily basis. They're everywhere waiting for their chance

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<v Speaker 1>to pounce. I'm, of course talking about feet. Alison, who

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<v Speaker 1>is on the phone to do a second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>has a fear of feet and she thinks that she's

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<v Speaker 1>not getting a call back because Ken, who's the guy

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<v Speaker 1>that she went out with, asked or what her fear was,

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<v Speaker 1>and she shared that with him, and then shortly after

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<v Speaker 1>that he was like, my stomach hurts and you should

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<v Speaker 1>probably go Alison. Are you ready to call him? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I think so. I mean, if that's really it, you

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<v Speaker 1>can't really do anything about it, right, Like, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>change that piece of you. It's that serious. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot change that about myself. But I probably shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have brought it up on a first date either. Ye. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a crazy chick who scared a feat. That could

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<v Speaker 1>be what he heard in his head when you said it.

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<v Speaker 1>So we'll find out. Right now, I'm gonna Dallas phone

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<v Speaker 1>number and get him on the phone and see if

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<v Speaker 1>we can get you an answer. Okay, thanks guys. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking for Jake. Yep, this is Jim. Hey Jake,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. What's that? It's a radio show? A

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<v Speaker 1>radio show, yeah, like on the radio, like in your

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<v Speaker 1>car and stuff. You could listen into us if you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to. But obviously you don't, So that's fine. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>calling you today because we got an email about you

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<v Speaker 1>from one of our listeners about me. Yes, why would

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<v Speaker 1>somebody email you about me? Well, because you guys went

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<v Speaker 1>on a date recently and now you're not calling her back.

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<v Speaker 1>So you recently had a date with a girl named Alison. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you met her at the bank, Yeah, I did. And

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<v Speaker 1>she told us how you hung out at your place,

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<v Speaker 1>watched some movies, had some drinks, and she thought you

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<v Speaker 1>guys had a fun time, but you haven't reached out

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<v Speaker 1>to where to go out again. So she asked if

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<v Speaker 1>we could get you on the phone and find out

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<v Speaker 1>if there's a problem. I mean there's not a problem. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>there isn't a problem. But you haven't called her or

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<v Speaker 1>emailed her or anything. No, I haven't. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I made a mistake and I don't see

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<v Speaker 1>the need to call her or have a second date

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<v Speaker 1>with her. You made a mistake. That's sounds rude. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you not like her that much? Well, well, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it's not her. I mean it's like a mistake. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like me. It was like like I'm mistake on my part.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not It's not like you mean asking her out?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that because you were doing business at the bank

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<v Speaker 1>or didn't you feel weird about it? Now? No? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's just it's just like a personal mistake,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't feel the need to call her back,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I mean it was only one date and

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't even kiss or anything like that. So she

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<v Speaker 1>said that you called things off because you said you

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<v Speaker 1>felt sick. Was that an excuse or did you actually

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<v Speaker 1>feel sick? Um? Well, I did feel sick a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>but uh, it was more an excuse, to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>the truth. Halfway through, I realized everything that I need

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<v Speaker 1>to realize, and I was like, I, you know, this

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<v Speaker 1>is better off not happening. I mean, you can understand

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<v Speaker 1>why she's confused, though, Like you asked her out, and

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<v Speaker 1>then instead of going to the bar, you had come

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<v Speaker 1>to your house, and it seemed like you were setting

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<v Speaker 1>up like a Netflix and chill situation and then you

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<v Speaker 1>bailed on it. Well, I mean I kind of was

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<v Speaker 1>trying to set that up, but then I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>bailed halfway through, and I mean, so she's kind of right, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, what was it? The feat thing? She told us,

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<v Speaker 1>how you guys were hanging out talking about fears, and

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<v Speaker 1>she told you that she was scared a feat. Yeah. No,

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<v Speaker 1>the feat thing was weird. I mean, that's funny that

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<v Speaker 1>she did tell you that though, because I couldn't stop laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>That was that was weird. She thought for sure. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean she said that things ended like minutes after that discussion. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but it didn't have to do with the feat or

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<v Speaker 1>anything like that. It was just a mistake on my part.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you give us any anything, because she's really confused.

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<v Speaker 1>She actually liked you a lot and wants to know.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you just give us a clue? Well, like, man, uh, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd never been with a woman, h you know, and um,

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to try to you know, Netflix and

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<v Speaker 1>chill and stuff and uh, but you're a virgin. Well

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<v Speaker 1>h man, Now I'm not a virgin. I just just

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<v Speaker 1>never been with a woman. Here. Are you gay? Then? Um? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm see you're you're gay. But you thought maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>would try out women for a night. Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it's always been something I wanted to try and see

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<v Speaker 1>kind of how it is and how it deals with

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<v Speaker 1>a woman. And Alison is, you know, a beautiful girl,

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<v Speaker 1>and she had a great bubbly personality and I love that,

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<v Speaker 1>I really do. Um, and she's really cool, and I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I would hang out with her again in a second.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, I saw her in the bank.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, if I'm gonna have sex with a woman,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the woman I want to have sex with, very nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Why wouldn't you just tell her that? Though? Like why?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I understand, like asking rout you wouldn't tell her,

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<v Speaker 1>but as a night progressed, why wouldn't you just be honest?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, it's not really Um, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't think she would understanding that I was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have to explain everything, and I just felt like

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<v Speaker 1>kind of bad leading her on. So I've just ended

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<v Speaker 1>it and was just gonna not see her again. Most

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<v Speaker 1>flatteried reason everything. I'd like, Yeah, I mean, we can

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<v Speaker 1>still hang out. I wonder if she's gonna like that

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<v Speaker 1>or if that's gonna be an insult. Let's find out,

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<v Speaker 1>because she's actually on the phone and wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. No, no, no, no, I don't want you

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<v Speaker 1>to call her or anything. No, I don't have to.

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<v Speaker 1>She's literally on the phone right now, Alison, HI think

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<v Speaker 1>so you're gay. Huh, yeah, yeah, I'm gay. Okay, Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a lot of it is amazing. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I wish that had come up. I wish you would

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<v Speaker 1>have told me that it's important to know when you're

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<v Speaker 1>going on a date with someone what their sexual preference is.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's important context. Yeah, I mean it is important.

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<v Speaker 1>But I didn't feel like I needed to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>every single thing about me. I wanted to try. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean maybe you know, I wanted to try something different,

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<v Speaker 1>and while I was sitting there, I was thinking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just disgusting, and I didn't want to Okay, yeah

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<v Speaker 1>you're not gross house and alson, you're you're a beautiful girl.

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<v Speaker 1>But about you, it's just about me, And like I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to touch you. You know, well, I this

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<v Speaker 1>is probably the only time that someone could say that

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<v Speaker 1>to me. And I guess I kind of get it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I set, yeah, obvious three, you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to touch me. I just wish i'd known, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>thought this was about me, No, it's not about you.

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<v Speaker 1>You're it's not about you. If I was straight, I

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<v Speaker 1>would take you in a second. Well, is there any

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<v Speaker 1>like critiques you could give her. I mean, if you

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<v Speaker 1>were straight, how would you change your dating game? I

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<v Speaker 1>would definitely hold back on the feat thing because that's

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<v Speaker 1>like a weird thing to bring up twenty five minutes

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<v Speaker 1>into a date. Yeah, that's super weird, So I would

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<v Speaker 1>probably hold off on that. Thank you so much for

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<v Speaker 1>the dating critiques. Can I give you a piece of

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<v Speaker 1>advice too, Jake? Yeah? Absolutely great. Cool, Um, the next

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<v Speaker 1>time you go on a date with a woman, tell

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<v Speaker 1>her you're gay first. Good advice. Well, I have to

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<v Speaker 1>ask the question anyway, Jake, would you like to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Alison on a second date? We will pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it. Maybe you can give it another shot friends,

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<v Speaker 1>or they could just be friends? Yeah? As friends? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but as like romantic mills. All right, Alison kind of

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<v Speaker 1>worked for you. I mean, you do get to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him again if you want. Yeah. I just

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<v Speaker 1>I just can't believe this is happening. Like, never in

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<v Speaker 1>a million years would I have thought that this was

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<v Speaker 1>the reason that he wasn't calling me back. So good news, though,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't your fear of feet that turned him off? Right, Hey, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this would happen. It's like I finally meet a guy

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<v Speaker 1>that I connect with who's super great and he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>care about the feet thing and he's gay. There's life

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<v Speaker 1>for you that sayings around for a reason. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>text in at seven eighty five to nine two that

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<v Speaker 1>says they're actually a perfect couple. She's scared of feet

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<v Speaker 1>and he's scared of lady parts. In case you missed

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<v Speaker 1>today's second date update, Alison wanted to call a dude

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<v Speaker 1>named Jake. They actually met at the bank. He ended

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<v Speaker 1>up inviting her over to watch some Netflix watch a movie,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was obvious what his intentions were to try

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<v Speaker 1>to hook up. She thought she wasn't getting a call

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<v Speaker 1>back because she has a fear of feet and she

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<v Speaker 1>got freaked out by his feet, but that wasn't the case.

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<v Speaker 1>He wasn't calling her back because he's gay and thought,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I'm going to try it with a

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<v Speaker 1>woman just to see how it is. And then once

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<v Speaker 1>he was actually in the situation and it was go time,

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<v Speaker 1>he was like, I can't, I can't do it. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just not interested. It feels weird and I can't follow

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<v Speaker 1>through with it. So he didn't want to sleep with

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<v Speaker 1>her and also doesn't really want another date with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Because he's not interested in her type. I'm surprised he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't tell her at the end, like, you know, we've

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<v Speaker 1>been hanging out for an hour, but I gotta tell

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<v Speaker 1>you something that has nothing to do with her. I

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<v Speaker 1>would think that's a compliment. I think that's a compliment.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not saying you turn and be gay. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>like if a gay woman were to say to me, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never been with a dude. Yeah, but you're the

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<v Speaker 1>guy that I want to try it with. I would

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<v Speaker 1>say one no because I'm going to disappoint you even more,

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<v Speaker 1>but to thank you very much for the compliment. That's

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<v Speaker 1>amazing that you would think I'm the one that you

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<v Speaker 1>want to try it with. Well, this is I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>the definition of don't knock until you try it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they did agree to not go out again on another

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<v Speaker 1>date because obviously it can't work between the two of them. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember you. If you want to do a second

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<v Speaker 1>day up date, I'll have to do is email the

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<v Speaker 1>show and we will call the person who didn't call you.

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<v Speaker 1>Back to ninety two point five,