Speaker 1: Brooking Jewels second date up to day. I'm really excited
Speaker 1: to talk to the girl who's on the phone for
Speaker 1: a second date update today because I'm hoping she can
Speaker 1: help me answer one of the biggest mysteries in my life.
Speaker 1: Her email says that she works at a bank and
Speaker 1: the guy that she went out with was actually a
Speaker 1: customer at the bank, and he asked her out and
Speaker 1: they went out. And my question is, what's the secret
Speaker 1: the secret to what? So hitting on a girl that
Speaker 1: works at a bank. My whole life, I've tried that
Speaker 1: and it always goes well until they open up your
Speaker 1: bank account. They're like, yeah, not interesting, Alison. Do you
Speaker 1: get hit on a lot at the bank? For some reason?
Speaker 1: For me, bank tellers have always been something that I've
Speaker 1: always wanted to do out with. I don't know that
Speaker 1: I get hit on a lot. Maybe I just don't notice.
Speaker 1: I just I try to keep it professional. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: you don't know this, but you are my white whale
Speaker 1: fantasy ideas big thing for bank tellers. I've never been
Speaker 1: able to do it. So what was the guy that
Speaker 1: you want to call today? What's his name? His name
Speaker 1: is Jake. Jake? All right, Well, what was Jake's secret.
Speaker 1: How'd he do it? It wasn't until after he left
Speaker 1: that he actually asked me out on the date, which
Speaker 1: I think kind of helped. How did he do that
Speaker 1: if he wasn't there to ask you out? So he
Speaker 1: came in actually to ask about a business loan, just
Speaker 1: kind of like normal everyday thing. And I thought that,
Speaker 1: like maybe he was being flirty, but I couldn't tell.
Speaker 1: And like I said, I try to keep it professional,
Speaker 1: So I was like not really focusing on that and
Speaker 1: just gave him the information that he wanted. But it's
Speaker 1: my job, okay, so right, and he wants a loan,
Speaker 1: so he's probably going to be extra nice to you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so check number one. If I ever wanted to ask
Speaker 1: a girl out of the bank, I have to ask
Speaker 1: about a small business loan. Got that down, Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: It's it's not a bank account where the bank accounts
Speaker 1: or small potatoes on the loan. All right, So walking
Speaker 1: and go like, I'm trying to open up a business loan,
Speaker 1: a big business loan. You said, he asked you out later,
Speaker 1: How did he do that? So I gave him my
Speaker 1: card and gave him the usual steel You know, if
Speaker 1: you have any more questions, feel free to call me.
Speaker 1: And later that day, he didn't even wait for very long.
Speaker 1: He just said that he had a really nice time
Speaker 1: talking to me, and he was curious if I was single,
Speaker 1: and if I was, but I want to hang out sometime. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you like that. Obviously, where'd you guys go for
Speaker 1: your date? Well, this is where it kind of changed
Speaker 1: up a little bit. We had planned on getting drinks
Speaker 1: at a bar, that was what we talked about, but
Speaker 1: then turns out his place was really close to the bar,
Speaker 1: and so we ended up meeting there first, and I
Speaker 1: was just kind of like hanging out while he was
Speaker 1: getting ready. It wasn't it wasn't anything weird or that
Speaker 1: felt like sketchy or planned or anything. And then he
Speaker 1: had like a little like home bar and asked if
Speaker 1: I wanted a drink before we went out, So we
Speaker 1: were like having a drink and then he turned on
Speaker 1: Netflix and oh wow, okay, so it sounds like he
Speaker 1: had no intention of leaving the house. Honestly, I don't know. Well,
Speaker 1: as soon as you said he was getting red, I'm like,
Speaker 1: how much time does it take for a guy to
Speaker 1: get ready to go get drinks depends how much he moisturizes. Oh,
Speaker 1: okay and a half. You know, for some dudes five
Speaker 1: minutes was this skin nice and smooth? It did look
Speaker 1: very supple? Okay, good? So yeah, it might have taken him.
Speaker 1: Do you think he just like lured you over there
Speaker 1: to Netflix and chill? Basically? Is that what you think happened?
Speaker 1: I mean, it's entirely possible that that was his plan
Speaker 1: all along. But like the really weird thing is if
Speaker 1: that was his goal, nothing ended up happening. Like we
Speaker 1: literally just watched Netflix and hung out. Oh you like
Speaker 1: literally Netflix and chilled? Yeah? Yeah, okay, And if you
Speaker 1: would have made a move on you would have you
Speaker 1: been okay with that? I mean, yeah, he was cute
Speaker 1: and like we kind of lolong really well, so like
Speaker 1: you know, I probably wouldn't have gone too far. But
Speaker 1: if he had made a move, like, I wouldn't have
Speaker 1: been upset about it. Okay, right? Do you think he
Speaker 1: chickened out for some reason in the middle, Well, there
Speaker 1: was a moment like someone early on that might have
Speaker 1: gotten a little awkward. Yeah, And why do you sound
Speaker 1: so hesitant to talk about it, because I, like, I
Speaker 1: totally admit that this is on me. But we were
Speaker 1: talking about all kinds of stuff and we started talking
Speaker 1: about our fears, and I ended up telling him what
Speaker 1: my greatest fear is. And I'm a little worried that
Speaker 1: this like totally ruined the date. Why what's your what's
Speaker 1: your fear? I am afraid of feet? Feet like feet? Yeah,
Speaker 1: like they just they super creep me out. I don't
Speaker 1: like thinking about them. I definitely I cannot touch them,
Speaker 1: like I couldnot. I don't even want to touch my
Speaker 1: own feet, let alone think about touching other people's feet.
Speaker 1: How does that word like though, if you're going to
Speaker 1: get intimate with someone, do you just make them keep
Speaker 1: their socks on? Yeah? I don't need to go too
Speaker 1: far into this. But that's that's that's that is my fear.
Speaker 1: That is what I told him. So you're scared of
Speaker 1: naked feet? Yes, like I really am scared. I mean,
Speaker 1: I can't blame somebody for having a phobia. Did it
Speaker 1: seem like he was judging you for being scared of feet? Yeah?
Speaker 1: He just all of a sudden he wasn't feeling well,
Speaker 1: which I don't think is a good sign. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe he has a foot fetish. And he knew it
Speaker 1: wouldn't work out with you. Oh gosh, just even the thought.
Speaker 1: How long after you brought up your fear of feet
Speaker 1: did the date end? It was within a few minutes.
Speaker 1: It was like close enough, really, but like you know,
Speaker 1: I wanted to be respectful. He said he wasn't feeling well.
Speaker 1: So I just I left and I haven't heard from him,
Speaker 1: and I haven't called him. And has he been back
Speaker 1: into the bank to follow up on his loan? Nope,
Speaker 1: not when I've been there. All right, well, we'll play
Speaker 1: a song, come back, call him and find out if
Speaker 1: your fear of feet is the reason he's not calling
Speaker 1: you back in your second day update. Okay, okay, thank
Speaker 1: you guys brooking jubil in the morning, right in the
Speaker 1: middle of a second date update and if you're just
Speaker 1: joining us. Allison is on the phone and Alison thinks
Speaker 1: she's not getting a call back because her her date
Speaker 1: talked about something scary, something that lurks all around you
Speaker 1: in a daily basis. They're everywhere waiting for their chance
Speaker 1: to pounce. I'm, of course talking about feet. Alison, who
Speaker 1: is on the phone to do a second date update,
Speaker 1: has a fear of feet and she thinks that she's
Speaker 1: not getting a call back because Ken, who's the guy
Speaker 1: that she went out with, asked or what her fear was,
Speaker 1: and she shared that with him, and then shortly after
Speaker 1: that he was like, my stomach hurts and you should
Speaker 1: probably go Alison. Are you ready to call him? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I think so. I mean, if that's really it, you
Speaker 1: can't really do anything about it, right, Like, you can't
Speaker 1: change that piece of you. It's that serious. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: I cannot change that about myself. But I probably shouldn't
Speaker 1: have brought it up on a first date either. Ye. Hey,
Speaker 1: I'm a crazy chick who scared a feat. That could
Speaker 1: be what he heard in his head when you said it.
Speaker 1: So we'll find out. Right now, I'm gonna Dallas phone
Speaker 1: number and get him on the phone and see if
Speaker 1: we can get you an answer. Okay, thanks guys. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: I was looking for Jake. Yep, this is Jim. Hey Jake,
Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. What's that? It's a radio show? A
Speaker 1: radio show, yeah, like on the radio, like in your
Speaker 1: car and stuff. You could listen into us if you
Speaker 1: wanted to. But obviously you don't, So that's fine. I'm
Speaker 1: calling you today because we got an email about you
Speaker 1: from one of our listeners about me. Yes, why would
Speaker 1: somebody email you about me? Well, because you guys went
Speaker 1: on a date recently and now you're not calling her back.
Speaker 1: So you recently had a date with a girl named Alison. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you met her at the bank, Yeah, I did. And
Speaker 1: she told us how you hung out at your place,
Speaker 1: watched some movies, had some drinks, and she thought you
Speaker 1: guys had a fun time, but you haven't reached out
Speaker 1: to where to go out again. So she asked if
Speaker 1: we could get you on the phone and find out
Speaker 1: if there's a problem. I mean there's not a problem. Well,
Speaker 1: there isn't a problem. But you haven't called her or
Speaker 1: emailed her or anything. No, I haven't. But you know,
Speaker 1: I mean I made a mistake and I don't see
Speaker 1: the need to call her or have a second date
Speaker 1: with her. You made a mistake. That's sounds rude. Did
Speaker 1: you not like her that much? Well, well, I mean
Speaker 1: it's not her. I mean it's like a mistake. It's
Speaker 1: like me. It was like like I'm mistake on my part.
Speaker 1: It's not It's not like you mean asking her out?
Speaker 1: Is that because you were doing business at the bank
Speaker 1: or didn't you feel weird about it? Now? No? No,
Speaker 1: I mean it's just it's just like a personal mistake,
Speaker 1: and I don't feel the need to call her back,
Speaker 1: you know. I mean it was only one date and
Speaker 1: we didn't even kiss or anything like that. So she
Speaker 1: said that you called things off because you said you
Speaker 1: felt sick. Was that an excuse or did you actually
Speaker 1: feel sick? Um? Well, I did feel sick a little bit,
Speaker 1: but uh, it was more an excuse, to tell you
Speaker 1: the truth. Halfway through, I realized everything that I need
Speaker 1: to realize, and I was like, I, you know, this
Speaker 1: is better off not happening. I mean, you can understand
Speaker 1: why she's confused, though, Like you asked her out, and
Speaker 1: then instead of going to the bar, you had come
Speaker 1: to your house, and it seemed like you were setting
Speaker 1: up like a Netflix and chill situation and then you
Speaker 1: bailed on it. Well, I mean I kind of was
Speaker 1: trying to set that up, but then I kind of
Speaker 1: bailed halfway through, and I mean, so she's kind of right, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, what was it? The feat thing? She told us,
Speaker 1: how you guys were hanging out talking about fears, and
Speaker 1: she told you that she was scared a feat. Yeah. No,
Speaker 1: the feat thing was weird. I mean, that's funny that
Speaker 1: she did tell you that though, because I couldn't stop laughing.
Speaker 1: That was that was weird. She thought for sure. I
Speaker 1: mean she said that things ended like minutes after that discussion. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it didn't have to do with the feat or
Speaker 1: anything like that. It was just a mistake on my part.
Speaker 1: Can you give us any anything, because she's really confused.
Speaker 1: She actually liked you a lot and wants to know.
Speaker 1: Can you just give us a clue? Well, like, man, uh, like,
Speaker 1: I'd never been with a woman, h you know, and um,
Speaker 1: I just wanted to try to you know, Netflix and
Speaker 1: chill and stuff and uh, but you're a virgin. Well
Speaker 1: h man, Now I'm not a virgin. I just just
Speaker 1: never been with a woman. Here. Are you gay? Then? Um? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm see you're you're gay. But you thought maybe you
Speaker 1: would try out women for a night. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: it's always been something I wanted to try and see
Speaker 1: kind of how it is and how it deals with
Speaker 1: a woman. And Alison is, you know, a beautiful girl,
Speaker 1: and she had a great bubbly personality and I love that,
Speaker 1: I really do. Um, and she's really cool, and I
Speaker 1: mean I would hang out with her again in a second.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I saw her in the bank.
Speaker 1: I was like, if I'm gonna have sex with a woman,
Speaker 1: that's the woman I want to have sex with, very nice.
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't you just tell her that? Though? Like why?
Speaker 1: I mean, I understand, like asking rout you wouldn't tell her,
Speaker 1: but as a night progressed, why wouldn't you just be honest?
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's not really Um, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just didn't think she would understanding that I was
Speaker 1: gonna have to explain everything, and I just felt like
Speaker 1: kind of bad leading her on. So I've just ended
Speaker 1: it and was just gonna not see her again. Most
Speaker 1: flatteried reason everything. I'd like, Yeah, I mean, we can
Speaker 1: still hang out. I wonder if she's gonna like that
Speaker 1: or if that's gonna be an insult. Let's find out,
Speaker 1: because she's actually on the phone and wants to talk
Speaker 1: to you. No, no, no, no, I don't want you
Speaker 1: to call her or anything. No, I don't have to.
Speaker 1: She's literally on the phone right now, Alison, HI think
Speaker 1: so you're gay. Huh, yeah, yeah, I'm gay. Okay, Uh,
Speaker 1: this is a lot of it is amazing. You know,
Speaker 1: I wish that had come up. I wish you would
Speaker 1: have told me that it's important to know when you're
Speaker 1: going on a date with someone what their sexual preference is.
Speaker 1: Like that's important context. Yeah, I mean it is important.
Speaker 1: But I didn't feel like I needed to tell you
Speaker 1: every single thing about me. I wanted to try. I
Speaker 1: mean maybe you know, I wanted to try something different,
Speaker 1: and while I was sitting there, I was thinking about it.
Speaker 1: It's just disgusting, and I didn't want to Okay, yeah
Speaker 1: you're not gross house and alson, you're you're a beautiful girl.
Speaker 1: But about you, it's just about me, And like I
Speaker 1: didn't want to touch you. You know, well, I this
Speaker 1: is probably the only time that someone could say that
Speaker 1: to me. And I guess I kind of get it.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I set, yeah, obvious three, you don't want
Speaker 1: to touch me. I just wish i'd known, Like I
Speaker 1: thought this was about me, No, it's not about you.
Speaker 1: You're it's not about you. If I was straight, I
Speaker 1: would take you in a second. Well, is there any
Speaker 1: like critiques you could give her. I mean, if you
Speaker 1: were straight, how would you change your dating game? I
Speaker 1: would definitely hold back on the feat thing because that's
Speaker 1: like a weird thing to bring up twenty five minutes
Speaker 1: into a date. Yeah, that's super weird, So I would
Speaker 1: probably hold off on that. Thank you so much for
Speaker 1: the dating critiques. Can I give you a piece of
Speaker 1: advice too, Jake? Yeah? Absolutely great. Cool, Um, the next
Speaker 1: time you go on a date with a woman, tell
Speaker 1: her you're gay first. Good advice. Well, I have to
Speaker 1: ask the question anyway, Jake, would you like to go
Speaker 1: out with Alison on a second date? We will pay
Speaker 1: for it. Maybe you can give it another shot friends,
Speaker 1: or they could just be friends? Yeah? As friends? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but as like romantic mills. All right, Alison kind of
Speaker 1: worked for you. I mean, you do get to go
Speaker 1: out with him again if you want. Yeah. I just
Speaker 1: I just can't believe this is happening. Like, never in
Speaker 1: a million years would I have thought that this was
Speaker 1: the reason that he wasn't calling me back. So good news, though,
Speaker 1: it wasn't your fear of feet that turned him off? Right, Hey, yeah,
Speaker 1: this would happen. It's like I finally meet a guy
Speaker 1: that I connect with who's super great and he doesn't
Speaker 1: care about the feet thing and he's gay. There's life
Speaker 1: for you that sayings around for a reason. I guess
Speaker 1: text in at seven eighty five to nine two that
Speaker 1: says they're actually a perfect couple. She's scared of feet
Speaker 1: and he's scared of lady parts. In case you missed
Speaker 1: today's second date update, Alison wanted to call a dude
Speaker 1: named Jake. They actually met at the bank. He ended
Speaker 1: up inviting her over to watch some Netflix watch a movie,
Speaker 1: and it was obvious what his intentions were to try
Speaker 1: to hook up. She thought she wasn't getting a call
Speaker 1: back because she has a fear of feet and she
Speaker 1: got freaked out by his feet, but that wasn't the case.
Speaker 1: He wasn't calling her back because he's gay and thought,
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm going to try it with a
Speaker 1: woman just to see how it is. And then once
Speaker 1: he was actually in the situation and it was go time,
Speaker 1: he was like, I can't, I can't do it. I'm
Speaker 1: just not interested. It feels weird and I can't follow
Speaker 1: through with it. So he didn't want to sleep with
Speaker 1: her and also doesn't really want another date with her.
Speaker 1: Because he's not interested in her type. I'm surprised he
Speaker 1: didn't tell her at the end, like, you know, we've
Speaker 1: been hanging out for an hour, but I gotta tell
Speaker 1: you something that has nothing to do with her. I
Speaker 1: would think that's a compliment. I think that's a compliment.
Speaker 1: He's not saying you turn and be gay. But it's
Speaker 1: like if a gay woman were to say to me, hey,
Speaker 1: I've never been with a dude. Yeah, but you're the
Speaker 1: guy that I want to try it with. I would
Speaker 1: say one no because I'm going to disappoint you even more,
Speaker 1: but to thank you very much for the compliment. That's
Speaker 1: amazing that you would think I'm the one that you
Speaker 1: want to try it with. Well, this is I guess,
Speaker 1: the definition of don't knock until you try it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they did agree to not go out again on another
Speaker 1: date because obviously it can't work between the two of them. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I remember you. If you want to do a second
Speaker 1: day up date, I'll have to do is email the
Speaker 1: show and we will call the person who didn't call you.
Speaker 1: Back to ninety two point five,