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Speaker 1: Brooking Jewels second date up to day. I'm really excited

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Speaker 1: a second date update today because I'm hoping she can

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Speaker 1: help me answer one of the biggest mysteries in my life.

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Speaker 1: Her email says that she works at a bank and

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Speaker 1: the guy that she went out with was actually a

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Speaker 1: they went out. And my question is, what's the secret

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Speaker 1: the secret to what? So hitting on a girl that

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Speaker 1: works at a bank. My whole life, I've tried that

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Speaker 1: bank account. They're like, yeah, not interesting, Alison. Do you

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Speaker 1: get hit on a lot at the bank? For some reason?

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Speaker 1: For me, bank tellers have always been something that I've

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Speaker 1: always wanted to do out with. I don't know that

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Speaker 1: I get hit on a lot. Maybe I just don't notice.

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Speaker 1: I just I try to keep it professional. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: you don't know this, but you are my white whale

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Speaker 1: fantasy ideas big thing for bank tellers. I've never been

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Speaker 1: able to do it. So what was the guy that

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Speaker 1: you want to call today? What's his name? His name

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Speaker 1: is Jake. Jake? All right, Well, what was Jake's secret.

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Speaker 1: How'd he do it? It wasn't until after he left

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Speaker 1: I think kind of helped. How did he do that

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Speaker 1: if he wasn't there to ask you out? So he

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Speaker 1: And like I said, I try to keep it professional,

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Speaker 1: just gave him the information that he wanted. But it's

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Speaker 1: my job, okay, so right, and he wants a loan,

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Speaker 1: so he's probably going to be extra nice to you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so check number one. If I ever wanted to ask

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Speaker 1: about a small business loan. Got that down, Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: It's it's not a bank account where the bank accounts

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Speaker 1: or small potatoes on the loan. All right, So walking

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Speaker 1: How did he do that? So I gave him my

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Speaker 1: And later that day, he didn't even wait for very long.

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Speaker 1: He just said that he had a really nice time

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Speaker 1: so you like that. Obviously, where'd you guys go for

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Speaker 1: your date? Well, this is where it kind of changed

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Speaker 1: up a little bit. We had planned on getting drinks

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Speaker 1: was just kind of like hanging out while he was

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Speaker 1: getting ready. It wasn't it wasn't anything weird or that

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Speaker 1: had no intention of leaving the house. Honestly, I don't know. Well,

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Speaker 1: as soon as you said he was getting red, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: get ready to go get drinks depends how much he moisturizes. Oh,

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Speaker 1: okay and a half. You know, for some dudes five

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Speaker 1: very supple? Okay, good? So yeah, it might have taken him.

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Speaker 1: Do you think he just like lured you over there

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's entirely possible that that was his plan

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Speaker 1: been okay with that? I mean, yeah, he was cute

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Speaker 1: How does that word like though, if you're going to

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Speaker 1: He just all of a sudden he wasn't feeling well,

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Speaker 1: maybe he has a foot fetish. And he knew it

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Speaker 1: How long after you brought up your fear of feet

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Speaker 1: So I just I left and I haven't heard from him,

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Speaker 1: not when I've been there. All right, well, we'll play

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Speaker 1: you guys brooking jubil in the morning, right in the

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Speaker 1: talked about something scary, something that lurks all around you

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Speaker 1: in a daily basis. They're everywhere waiting for their chance

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Speaker 1: probably go Alison. Are you ready to call him? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I cannot change that about myself. But I probably shouldn't

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Speaker 1: I'm a crazy chick who scared a feat. That could

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Speaker 1: be what he heard in his head when you said it.

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Speaker 1: So we'll find out. Right now, I'm gonna Dallas phone

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Speaker 1: we can get you an answer. Okay, thanks guys. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: I was looking for Jake. Yep, this is Jim. Hey Jake,

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Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. What's that? It's a radio show? A

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Speaker 1: radio show, yeah, like on the radio, like in your

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Speaker 1: calling you today because we got an email about you

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Speaker 1: from one of our listeners about me. Yes, why would

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Speaker 1: somebody email you about me? Well, because you guys went

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Speaker 1: on a date recently and now you're not calling her back.

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Speaker 1: So you recently had a date with a girl named Alison. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you met her at the bank, Yeah, I did. And

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Speaker 1: she told us how you hung out at your place,

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Speaker 1: watched some movies, had some drinks, and she thought you

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Speaker 1: if there's a problem. I mean there's not a problem. Well,

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Speaker 1: there isn't a problem. But you haven't called her or

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Speaker 1: emailed her or anything. No, I haven't. But you know,

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Speaker 1: I mean I made a mistake and I don't see

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Speaker 1: with her. You made a mistake. That's sounds rude. Did

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Speaker 1: it's not her. I mean it's like a mistake. It's

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Speaker 1: I mean it's just it's just like a personal mistake,

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Speaker 1: and I don't feel the need to call her back,

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Speaker 1: but uh, it was more an excuse, to tell you

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Speaker 1: bailed on it. Well, I mean I kind of was

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Speaker 1: all right, what was it? The feat thing? She told us,

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Speaker 1: how you guys were hanging out talking about fears, and

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Speaker 1: she told you that she was scared a feat. Yeah. No,

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Speaker 1: the feat thing was weird. I mean, that's funny that

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Speaker 1: That was that was weird. She thought for sure. I

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Speaker 1: mean she said that things ended like minutes after that discussion. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but it didn't have to do with the feat or

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Speaker 1: Can you give us any anything, because she's really confused.

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Speaker 1: She actually liked you a lot and wants to know.

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Speaker 1: Can you just give us a clue? Well, like, man, uh, like,

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to try to you know, Netflix and

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Speaker 1: h man, Now I'm not a virgin. I just just

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Speaker 1: never been with a woman. Here. Are you gay? Then? Um? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm see you're you're gay. But you thought maybe you

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Speaker 1: it's always been something I wanted to try and see

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