WEBVTT - A Balanced Life & Success Don't Go Together 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:03.600 An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child 0:00:03.680 --> 0:00:07.480 in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador 0:00:07.720 --> 0:00:11.840 accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with 0:00:11.920 --> 0:00:15.840 filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just 0:00:15.920 --> 0:00:19.680 some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President 0:00:19.720 --> 0:00:23.320 Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy nom the United States 0:00:23.320 --> 0:00:28.120 Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border 0:00:28.160 --> 0:00:31.680 crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over 0:00:31.760 --> 0:00:34.960 one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you 0:00:35.040 --> 0:00:38.920 are here illegally, your next you will be fined nearly 0:00:39.000 --> 0:00:43.000 one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned, and deported. You will 0:00:43.040 --> 0:00:46.680 never return. But if you register using our CBP home 0:00:46.720 --> 0:00:50.120 app and leave now, you could be allowed to return legally. 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:55.240 Do what's right. Leave now. Under President Trump, America's laws, 0:00:55.400 --> 0:00:57.840 border and families will be protected. 0:00:57.920 --> 0:01:00.000 Sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security. 0:01:00.160 --> 0:01:02.040 I think it's important to really talk about balance and 0:01:02.080 --> 0:01:07.119 what does it really mean. So very rarely in life 0:01:07.160 --> 0:01:09.480 are you going to have balance. I think that the 0:01:09.520 --> 0:01:12.640 whole goal of life is to be unbalanced. So you 0:01:12.680 --> 0:01:15.800 can achieve balance, but you have to be unbalanced at 0:01:15.800 --> 0:01:19.760 a certain point to achieve balance. So this isn't theory. 0:01:19.880 --> 0:01:25.399 In twenty fifteen, I was on the couch at my parents' house. 0:01:25.959 --> 0:01:29.080 Things wasn't going good for me, but that was an 0:01:29.120 --> 0:01:34.600 opportunity for me to stay up to two o'clock three 0:01:34.600 --> 0:01:39.520 o'clock in the morning and really master social media. Taught 0:01:39.520 --> 0:01:42.200 myself how to edit a variety of different things. When 0:01:42.240 --> 0:01:44.119 I was just playing around with apps, Mike would give 0:01:44.120 --> 0:01:45.960 me a suggestion about this app, and then I would 0:01:46.000 --> 0:01:47.840 take three hours to learn the app and then make 0:01:47.920 --> 0:01:51.680 content and then do this. I had a career as 0:01:51.680 --> 0:01:53.800 a financial advisor that I had to do from nine 0:01:53.840 --> 0:01:58.240 to five or longer, and then from nine o'clock to 0:01:58.240 --> 0:02:00.880 two o'clock in the morning, when everybody was sleep and 0:02:00.920 --> 0:02:04.200 it was cemetary silence, I could close the blinds and 0:02:04.760 --> 0:02:08.640 I would work. That was extremely unbalanced and continued that 0:02:09.240 --> 0:02:12.560 even now. Right, But these are sacrifices that were made 0:02:12.680 --> 0:02:16.280 eight years ago to get me to the point where 0:02:16.320 --> 0:02:20.200 I am now. So I think that the idea or 0:02:20.200 --> 0:02:24.280 the fairy tale of a balanced life is something that 0:02:25.040 --> 0:02:28.560 is unrealistic for anybody that's trying to achieve greatness, especially 0:02:28.560 --> 0:02:29.040 if you're. 0:02:28.919 --> 0:02:30.960 An entrepreneur or you're a business owner. 0:02:31.400 --> 0:02:36.720 So it's your responsibility to be able to communicate this 0:02:37.240 --> 0:02:40.480 to your wife's significant other children, and they have to 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:44.440 understand how to deal with disappointment because the sacrifices that 0:02:44.480 --> 0:02:50.640 you're making are luxuries that they're provided. So this is 0:02:50.639 --> 0:02:53.760 an unbalanced life that I've never seen anybody that has 0:02:54.280 --> 0:02:56.480 had any level of balance that have achieved the high 0:02:56.520 --> 0:02:58.639 level of success. When we met Robert Smith, it was 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:01.480 seven o'clock in the morning on Friday. He was already 0:03:01.480 --> 0:03:03.120 working and he told us that he was flying out 0:03:03.160 --> 0:03:05.000 that next day. And he flies out all the time, 0:03:05.919 --> 0:03:10.600 de stout. Every single person, same story, flying in different countries, 0:03:10.639 --> 0:03:14.839 different continents. That may seem like it's a lavish life 0:03:14.840 --> 0:03:18.200 that they're living, but their sacrifices that's made. They're not 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:20.000 with their families all the time. They're not with their 0:03:20.080 --> 0:03:22.040 children all the time, they're not with their spouse all 0:03:22.080 --> 0:03:24.880 the time, they're not listening to music, they're not playing 0:03:24.919 --> 0:03:29.440 poker all the time. So it's something that we can't 0:03:29.440 --> 0:03:33.600 always sugarcoat something and make it okay. No, there is 0:03:33.639 --> 0:03:37.520 no level of successful balance, especially in the beginning stages, 0:03:37.880 --> 0:03:40.560 that you have to make sacrifices. This is why everybody 0:03:40.600 --> 0:03:44.040 won't achieve success. This is why it's called the sacrifice. 0:03:44.280 --> 0:03:47.680 You have to sacrifice things like playing video games, you 0:03:47.760 --> 0:03:50.120 have to sacrifice things like going to the movies, you 0:03:50.200 --> 0:03:54.120 have to sacrifice things like random nonsense on social media 0:03:54.160 --> 0:03:55.960 for hours at a time. If you're not willing to 0:03:55.960 --> 0:03:59.160 make those sacrifices, that's okay, But you're also probably will 0:03:59.160 --> 0:04:01.520 not be able to be a high level of success, 0:04:01.720 --> 0:04:04.560 and that's okay too. So I think that you know, 0:04:04.680 --> 0:04:05.680 at some point in time, we just. 0:04:05.720 --> 0:04:06.400 Have to be honest. 0:04:06.720 --> 0:04:09.840 You can't always sugarcoat things, and you can't always paint 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:12.360 a fairy tale. This is things that I personally went 0:04:12.400 --> 0:04:14.000 through and have still going through, and this is the 0:04:14.040 --> 0:04:17.320 things that I've seen other people going through, and every 0:04:17.360 --> 0:04:21.800 single person has the same story. It's an extremely unbalanced 0:04:21.839 --> 0:04:25.720 life to hopefully one day achieve balance. So I just 0:04:25.760 --> 0:04:27.719 think that that's important to keep in mind, because, like 0:04:27.760 --> 0:04:29.040 I said, we live in a day and age where 0:04:29.040 --> 0:04:32.000 everybody has an opinion, but very few people have any 0:04:32.240 --> 0:04:34.440 level of expertise to speak on that opinion. If you 0:04:34.440 --> 0:04:36.840 haven't if you haven't become successful, how can you teach 0:04:36.839 --> 0:04:41.640 me about success? So when you're when you're on your 0:04:41.720 --> 0:04:44.320 journey to be successful, understand that there's going to be 0:04:44.360 --> 0:04:46.880 sacrifices that you have to make. And if you're not 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:50.080 willing to make those sacrifices, then that's okay. But just 0:04:50.200 --> 0:04:54.520 understand your life will still be unbalanced because when you're 0:04:54.520 --> 0:04:56.000 at the bottom and you have all the time in 0:04:56.000 --> 0:04:58.000 the world to spend with your family, then they're going 0:04:58.040 --> 0:05:00.240 to complain because you don't have enough money to provide. 0:05:01.600 --> 0:05:02.320 A certain point. 0:05:02.520 --> 0:05:05.760 You're a certain point be unhappy because you can't provide 0:05:05.760 --> 0:05:08.520 a certain lifestyle for yourself or for your family. So 0:05:08.760 --> 0:05:11.920 they're still unbalanced even when you think that you're having balanced. 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:15.200 Today's monologue was brought to you by Assets of Reliabilities 0:05:15.360 --> 0:05:19.320 and red paand the Stock Club. Now I agree balance 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:22.600 is an illusion. But when I'm with my child, I'm 0:05:22.640 --> 0:05:26.200 fully with him. But he I've also began to teach 0:05:26.680 --> 0:05:30.120 him since he was young, and it's not like you're 0:05:30.160 --> 0:05:32.600 all working all the time and you never see your family. 0:05:32.680 --> 0:05:35.640 Like losing your family is not something that we're aiming for, 0:05:36.279 --> 0:05:38.640 but to be done at three and I've always said 0:05:38.640 --> 0:05:40.800 that if you think that, like every time I leave 0:05:40.880 --> 0:05:42.800 and I'm at a tropical place, if you think I'm 0:05:42.839 --> 0:05:45.640 just laying on the beach and getting grapes fed. 0:05:45.360 --> 0:05:48.320 To me, that's not it. Like even the shows and 0:05:48.400 --> 0:05:49.359 travel are work. 0:05:49.880 --> 0:05:52.640 But the goal is to get to a place of 0:05:52.640 --> 0:05:56.599 financial freedom so that you're able to help yourself your family. 0:05:56.600 --> 0:06:00.880 And I'm gonna be very honest, like you said, like 0:06:00.920 --> 0:06:03.960 if you don't have if you have a preponderance of 0:06:04.000 --> 0:06:06.560 time available for your family, at some point they're going 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:08.400 to get bored or they're going to be disappointed that 0:06:08.440 --> 0:06:10.039 you didn't work hard enough to get to where you 0:06:10.040 --> 0:06:13.680 want it to be. So I know it's you know, 0:06:13.839 --> 0:06:15.960 books like the four hour work week and all these 0:06:16.000 --> 0:06:18.760 life hacks, but none of the people that are at 0:06:18.800 --> 0:06:22.160 the top of the food chain, captive of industry are 0:06:22.240 --> 0:06:25.200 doing any of those things. Please be mindful about the 0:06:25.240 --> 0:06:28.680 information that is given to you for clicks versus the 0:06:28.680 --> 0:06:30.920 information that actually works. 0:06:32.560 --> 0:06:36.600 It's real spill. It's real spill, and that sacrifice part. 0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:40.120 I'm glad you said it because it happens to us 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:42.839 every day. Like I posted something yesterday, my son scored 0:06:42.880 --> 0:06:44.800 his first touchdown yeah, you. 0:06:44.800 --> 0:06:47.320 Know what was appsent from the video me. 0:06:48.720 --> 0:06:51.080 I had to get a clip from somebody that taped it, 0:06:51.360 --> 0:06:52.839 and that you know, I mean, does it hurt? 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:53.479 Yeah, it hurts. 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:56.000 I mean we spent hours in the front yard playing 0:06:56.040 --> 0:06:57.680 catch for him to get to that point where he 0:06:57.680 --> 0:07:00.160 could catch the ball and run with the ball. These 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:02.960 things that we worked on to see all accumulate to 0:07:03.120 --> 0:07:05.760 him actually scoring a touchdown and you not being there 0:07:05.800 --> 0:07:08.479 to see it. Nobody worries about that part. But the 0:07:08.600 --> 0:07:10.680 explanation when I get home is like, Yo, I'm so 0:07:10.720 --> 0:07:12.360 proud of you. I'm so proud of you. I missed it, 0:07:12.640 --> 0:07:14.440 but he gets it. He understands that I have to 0:07:14.440 --> 0:07:16.440 do work. He understands that as the benefits that come 0:07:16.480 --> 0:07:18.200 with it. That's why I said, even in relationships with 0:07:18.440 --> 0:07:22.200 your spouse, like communications port, communication with your children is 0:07:22.240 --> 0:07:25.040 important as well, so they can understand it and they 0:07:25.040 --> 0:07:26.760 get to watch it. And that's why we always say, 0:07:26.800 --> 0:07:29.560 like we're going to leave by demonstration first and foremost right. 0:07:29.760 --> 0:07:32.040 How we conduct ourselves as men, how we conduct ourselves 0:07:32.120 --> 0:07:35.680 as fathers, how we conduct ourselves as sons, right because 0:07:35.680 --> 0:07:36.080 our mothers. 0:07:36.120 --> 0:07:37.200 We're fortunate to have our. 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:40.400 Parents all these things are being taken in and they're 0:07:40.400 --> 0:07:44.200 going to shape the next generation that we're provided for 0:07:44.360 --> 0:07:45.960 and that we're upbringing right now. 0:07:46.840 --> 0:07:49.200 But that, I mean gets overlooked all the time. 0:07:49.640 --> 0:07:51.960 Yeah, even at Troy's birthday party here about, like y'all 0:07:51.960 --> 0:07:53.640 were about to go out, got to show the next day. 0:07:53.640 --> 0:07:55.960 I'm like, I want to go out. I got to 0:07:56.000 --> 0:07:59.880 prepare for the show. Disinvest thatst This is the first 0:08:00.840 --> 0:08:02.600 I was out, and even the promoter was like, well, 0:08:02.680 --> 0:08:03.840 I know you ain't gonna show up, but if you 0:08:03.880 --> 0:08:05.440 can just sing your people, I'm like, no, you're paying 0:08:05.480 --> 0:08:05.800 me to come. 0:08:05.800 --> 0:08:08.360 I'm gonna come. I'm not gonna just flake out on you. 0:08:08.440 --> 0:08:10.000 I think we have to put Even when I make 0:08:10.040 --> 0:08:12.400 the comment on Zoe show, hey stay in the house 0:08:12.440 --> 0:08:13.120 five years, like. 0:08:13.200 --> 0:08:14.680 Main, no wear in hell. I can do that. 0:08:16.360 --> 0:08:18.960 The choices you can either sacrifice. I ask them all 0:08:18.960 --> 0:08:19.880 the time whenever we out. 0:08:20.440 --> 0:08:22.000 Hey, I don't even know how you do. 0:08:21.960 --> 0:08:24.360 This because a lot of times you get to see 0:08:24.360 --> 0:08:26.880 the end products. You don't get to see the build 0:08:26.960 --> 0:08:29.960 up that it takes it just to even do this show. 0:08:32.000 --> 0:08:33.800 Every time I'm getting out of the uber, like what 0:08:33.800 --> 0:08:34.440 do you having here? 0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:34.760 Body? 0:08:34.960 --> 0:08:38.120 I gotta take the equipment just in case something happens, 0:08:38.120 --> 0:08:40.319 and they're like, hey, got to recourd on O Wednesday 0:08:40.600 --> 0:08:41.360 or schedule change. 0:08:41.800 --> 0:08:43.760 You never know. Always be prepared. 0:08:43.800 --> 0:08:45.520 But I noticed the people that are most prepared are 0:08:45.520 --> 0:08:48.079 the ones that end up taking advantage. We're you're about 0:08:48.080 --> 0:08:50.320 to be in twenty twenty four. Technically the market has 0:08:50.360 --> 0:08:53.720 been down since twenty nineteen. I ask them every week 0:08:53.960 --> 0:08:56.320 how many people started the show, and they show fell 0:08:56.360 --> 0:08:57.680 off just because. 0:08:57.440 --> 0:08:58.520 They wouldn't be consistent. 0:09:00.080 --> 0:09:02.360 Yeah, and then also it's like one of these things where, 0:09:02.600 --> 0:09:04.720 like I said, your goal might not be to be 0:09:04.800 --> 0:09:08.480 a millionaire or to have financial freedom. That's okay, but 0:09:08.559 --> 0:09:11.040 just understand that you're still it's not a balance. I 0:09:11.040 --> 0:09:14.400 don't I never you can't say well, I just want 0:09:14.400 --> 0:09:17.400 to I'm just providing for my family, like somebody. At 0:09:17.400 --> 0:09:19.840 some point in time, somebody's gonna argue, somebody's not going 0:09:19.880 --> 0:09:25.880 to be happy, because I've seen it. Financial hardship causes issues. 0:09:26.400 --> 0:09:28.120 This is not a debatable fact. 0:09:28.480 --> 0:09:32.000 It causes resentment, It causes issues, It causes internal problems. 0:09:32.160 --> 0:09:36.440 So just understand that you're choosing a certain level of imbalance. 0:09:36.720 --> 0:09:38.320 You might have all the time in the world. You 0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:40.320 might have all of the you're playing, all the video games, 0:09:40.320 --> 0:09:42.560 you're going to every game, you're going all the soccer games, 0:09:42.600 --> 0:09:47.319 you're coaching. That's a blessing. It's going to come atide. 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:51.760 Money is going to be an issue. Money is going 0:09:51.840 --> 0:09:52.480 to be an issue. 0:09:53.200 --> 0:09:54.240 Here's the test. 0:09:55.640 --> 0:09:58.280 Tell your girl right now, I lost all my money 0:09:58.360 --> 0:10:00.720 listening to the end. 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Then he's in the office day segment and 0:14:22.120 --> 0:14:25.480 he said, you know, my wife understands I'm not home. 0:14:25.560 --> 0:14:27.120 I'm not I'm on the world. I'm doing. 0:14:27.160 --> 0:14:29.640 This is somebody who is one of the greatest basketball 0:14:29.640 --> 0:14:32.200 players of all time, one of the greatest entrepreneurs of 0:14:32.240 --> 0:14:36.480 our generation, definitely also from our culture, has done tremendous things. 0:14:37.160 --> 0:14:39.360 Like I said, probably up around five hundred million dollars 0:14:39.400 --> 0:14:42.160 something like that. I think, yeah, keep going, And this 0:14:42.240 --> 0:14:44.640 is this is the This is the level of discipline 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:47.240 that he is displaying. This is the work ethic that 0:14:47.280 --> 0:14:49.960 he's displaying. Michael Jordan. I tell this story all the time. 0:14:50.920 --> 0:14:53.120 I met a guy and he was like when Michael 0:14:53.200 --> 0:14:55.320 Jordan was on the Wizards. Mind you, this is the 0:14:55.400 --> 0:14:58.080 end of Michael Jordan's career, after he's already been established 0:14:58.080 --> 0:14:59.440 as the greatest of all time and all of these 0:14:59.480 --> 0:15:03.680 different things. And there was a rumor that the building 0:15:03.680 --> 0:15:05.680 that the guy was staying in, Michael Jordan would go 0:15:05.680 --> 0:15:08.120 there to train in the morning. So the guy comes 0:15:08.440 --> 0:15:11.160 at seven o'clock in the morning with his son because 0:15:11.160 --> 0:15:12.840 it was like, I want to just I want to 0:15:12.880 --> 0:15:15.880 see Michael Jordan. And he waited for fifteen minutes. He 0:15:15.920 --> 0:15:17.920 didn't see Michael. So he asked the guys that I 0:15:17.920 --> 0:15:21.120 heard Michael Jordan comes trains here and I wanted to 0:15:21.160 --> 0:15:22.880 come early with my son, Like you know, do you 0:15:22.880 --> 0:15:23.920 know what time he'll be coming? 0:15:24.080 --> 0:15:27.360 He said, he left. He was here for three hours 0:15:28.040 --> 0:15:28.640 and he left. 0:15:29.960 --> 0:15:34.200 This is the level of discipline, dedication, determination, and unbalanced. 0:15:34.240 --> 0:15:36.720 When I saw Floyd Mayweather running at twelve o'clock at night, 0:15:37.000 --> 0:15:39.320 this isoud not balanced, It's not normal. 0:15:40.040 --> 0:15:40.240 Yep. 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:42.760 So this is what I'm saying, Like, this is a 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:45.240 certain this is a real conversation that we got to 0:15:45.360 --> 0:15:50.800 have because people have false expectations of success. Oh I'm 0:15:50.800 --> 0:15:53.040 just gonna work the weekends and i'mna be successful. Oh 0:15:53.080 --> 0:15:54.760 I'm gonna take this or I want to I want 0:15:54.760 --> 0:15:57.400 to have balance. I want to go to every single 0:15:57.440 --> 0:15:59.480 concert I can. I want to play every single video 0:15:59.520 --> 0:16:02.160 game I can't because life is about balance. Okay, well, 0:16:02.160 --> 0:16:04.480 you're not going to be successful, and that's okay, but 0:16:04.640 --> 0:16:07.680 don't expect to reach the highest levels of success and 0:16:07.720 --> 0:16:12.479 not be unbalanced. You got to be an extremely unbalanced 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:15.600 person to reach this level of success. You think that 0:16:15.680 --> 0:16:19.040 Elon Musk got this from being balanced, but Mark Zuckerberg 0:16:19.080 --> 0:16:21.520 got this from being balanced, or Jay z got that 0:16:21.600 --> 0:16:22.800 level from being balanced. 0:16:23.320 --> 0:16:23.760 Like this. 0:16:24.080 --> 0:16:28.160 This is the harsh reality. This is the harsh reality 0:16:28.200 --> 0:16:30.720 of business and entrepreneurship. It's not fun. Like you got 0:16:30.720 --> 0:16:32.320 to be out of your mind to want. 0:16:32.080 --> 0:16:34.120 To work all the time. 0:16:34.720 --> 0:16:37.880 Yeah, you can't be a normal person, can't be like 0:16:38.200 --> 0:16:41.640 your brain, can't be normal to never want to stop working. 0:16:42.880 --> 0:16:45.760 This is why there's very few people that have ever 0:16:45.880 --> 0:16:47.280 achieved that level of success. 0:16:48.440 --> 0:16:52.240 And for everyone who says I'm a work smart, all 0:16:52.320 --> 0:16:55.480 the smartest people on are Sam Autman of open Ai, 0:16:55.720 --> 0:17:01.520 Mark Zuckerberg, Elon Musk, Neil Tyson, Needo Grass, Tyson, Charlotte Man. 0:17:01.920 --> 0:17:05.080 Everybody's up at three, four, five, and six o'clock in 0:17:05.080 --> 0:17:10.560 the morning getting seven days a week with automation. Do 0:17:10.600 --> 0:17:12.760 you notice every billionaire that you got and I love 0:17:12.800 --> 0:17:16.040 Tim Ferris Deely. You notice every billionaire that we've ever 0:17:16.080 --> 0:17:18.760 talked to, no one's ever mentioned before hour work week. 0:17:19.240 --> 0:17:21.960 They would have bought every company associated in that book 0:17:22.280 --> 0:17:23.359 to free up all the time. 0:17:23.720 --> 0:17:25.040 It's not possible. 0:17:26.240 --> 0:17:29.360 I know he's going up to tomorrow. They took a HQ. 0:17:29.680 --> 0:17:31.520 Zuckerberg being at four o'clock in the morning. 0:17:32.720 --> 0:17:36.679 He's mega rich, so much so him and his wife said, hey, man, 0:17:36.720 --> 0:17:39.480 let's let's put a database for all the diseases together. 0:17:41.040 --> 0:17:43.400 And even if people get that, make it look cool. 0:17:43.680 --> 0:17:46.080 You know who everybody? I heard this from a variety 0:17:46.080 --> 0:17:51.360 of different people. The hardest working person in music Future 0:17:52.080 --> 0:17:54.280 you said, the future doesn't stop working. This is somebody 0:17:54.280 --> 0:17:57.000 who you probably wouldn't think. You look at Future, You're 0:17:57.000 --> 0:17:59.560 not thinking that he's a workaholic. Like they said, did 0:17:59.560 --> 0:18:04.320 guy stay in the studio for ten hours non birthday? 0:18:04.680 --> 0:18:07.119 Yep, Lil Wayne. 0:18:07.320 --> 0:18:09.640 Another one, this guy was staying in the studio since 0:18:09.680 --> 0:18:12.760 he was twelve years old, had had no life like 0:18:12.880 --> 0:18:15.480 literally in the studio every single night. These are the 0:18:15.560 --> 0:18:18.200 things you not. You wouldn't expect these type of people 0:18:18.520 --> 0:18:20.480 to have that level of work ethic, but once again, 0:18:20.480 --> 0:18:23.720 they don't. Nobody reaches this level of success by accident. 0:18:24.160 --> 0:18:28.160 Doesn't happen, Really doesn't, it doesn't. That's what I want 0:18:28.160 --> 0:18:31.720 everybody to understand. So it's like the pushback of Joe, 0:18:31.720 --> 0:18:36.440 we got to have a balanced life is you are 0:18:37.200 --> 0:18:42.399 perpetrating ideas that have never been said by anybody at 0:18:42.400 --> 0:18:45.600 the level you never heard. Like you said, I read 0:18:45.640 --> 0:18:46.600 Steve Jobs book. 0:18:47.119 --> 0:18:49.720 This guy wasn't even that'd be to his own kid. 0:18:50.320 --> 0:18:52.320 I'm not I'm not advocating for that, but I'm just 0:18:52.359 --> 0:18:55.240 saying I've never I read a lot of these autobiographies 0:18:55.320 --> 0:18:58.280 Ted Turner, I've never heard any person at that level 0:18:58.320 --> 0:19:01.120 of success that's that they got there by working five 0:19:01.160 --> 0:19:01.720 hours a day. 0:19:02.320 --> 0:19:03.240 That does not work. 0:19:03.880 --> 0:19:06.639 And I haven't heard it yet, just haven't heard it. 0:19:07.240 --> 0:19:08.240 I wish it did, it does. 0:19:08.400 --> 0:19:10.080 It doesn't work on any level. 0:19:10.680 --> 0:19:14.760 I wish you well, I wish you were in order 0:19:14.840 --> 0:19:16.879 to get to the freedom you want, got to be 0:19:16.880 --> 0:19:19.040 in balanced for a few years. 0:19:19.640 --> 0:19:21.680 Yeah, I was gonna touch on the Magic thing because 0:19:21.680 --> 0:19:24.320 I had this conversation after we heard him speak, and 0:19:24.400 --> 0:19:26.080 it goes it kind of goes into that theory of 0:19:26.119 --> 0:19:28.040 like why do we keep putting a cap on how 0:19:28.680 --> 0:19:32.040 successful are the elite in our community? 0:19:32.080 --> 0:19:32.359 Are? So? 0:19:32.440 --> 0:19:34.240 Like Magic has been at the five hundred six hundred 0:19:34.240 --> 0:19:36.960 million dollar mark for the past five to ten years, 0:19:37.119 --> 0:19:40.360 and all he's done is added more acquisitions to his portfolio, 0:19:40.400 --> 0:19:42.480 whether it was the Quardia, whether it was now with 0:19:42.600 --> 0:19:44.280 the Washington Commanders. 0:19:44.520 --> 0:19:49.680 Yeah, Magic has to be a a billionaire at this point, right. 0:19:51.400 --> 0:19:54.040 He's acquired ownership in the I don't care if he 0:19:54.119 --> 0:19:57.800 has one percent, He's acquired ownership in the Dodgers, he 0:19:57.840 --> 0:20:01.320 has the MLS teams, I mean, and there's things that 0:20:01.359 --> 0:20:03.280