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Speaker 1: Rooking Jebels Second d Update. Today's second date update is

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Speaker 1: a dating nightmare all around. Yep. We've heard about bad

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Speaker 1: first dates, and usually it's one person as a horrible

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Speaker 1: time the other person enjoyed it. This as a whole

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Speaker 1: probably one of the worst things that could ever happen

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Speaker 1: on a first date ever for both parties. Oh great,

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Speaker 1: and we're still trying to make a second date. Yes

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Speaker 1: we are. Katie is on the phone with us right now.

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Speaker 1: Katie emailed us about a guy she went out with

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Speaker 1: named Dylan. She wants to get in contact with Dylan today. Katie,

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Speaker 1: how are you? I'm good? How are you good? I

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Speaker 1: know that you're embarrassed and you don't really want to

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Speaker 1: talk about what happened on your first date, but unfortunately

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Speaker 1: we need to get a little background. Okay, let's why

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Speaker 1: don't you tell us a little bit about your date

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Speaker 1: with Dylan? Okay, Um, well, it was wonderful. We had

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Speaker 1: a great dinner and went ice skating and that was

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Speaker 1: also great. And then um, Katie back, Katie, are you

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Speaker 1: skipping over the traumatic part? You're forgetting something? Come on,

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Speaker 1: what happened? Well, we went back to his apartment and

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Speaker 1: we're making out for a while, and then um he

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Speaker 1: ended up having to like help me in the bathroom.

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Speaker 1: What like what kind of hell? You explained a little

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Speaker 1: more what happened, Katie, Well, we were like meeting out

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Speaker 1: and then I used the restroom, so I excused myself

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Speaker 1: and went to the restroom and I clogged his toilet.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's what I mean, Like horrible time for you, Katie. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's embarrassing. I know. Yeah, and I don't even like

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Speaker 1: doing this because in my mind, women still don't do that.

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Speaker 1: But clogged his toilet. Not only that, but Dylan had

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Speaker 1: to help plunge. Yes, I tried. I tried to do it.

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Speaker 1: I was in there first so along trying to fix it,

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Speaker 1: and then I couldn't and I had to tell him

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Speaker 1: what happened, and then I had to like watch as

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Speaker 1: like he went into the bathroom and like, how did

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Speaker 1: you survive? The end of that date? It was really

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Speaker 1: a heart pretty bad. What do you say after that?

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Speaker 1: I left pretty soon after. I mean I like stuck

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Speaker 1: I would qualify as not running away. See if I

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Speaker 1: would have been you, if it would have been the

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Speaker 1: shoe on the other foot, or the toilet on the whatever.

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Speaker 1: I would have just closed the lid and then left,

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Speaker 1: and I never called him again or locked the door

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Speaker 1: and climbed out the window. I thought about it. I

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Speaker 1: really did think about like leaving it, being like I

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Speaker 1: about it. But I really like him and we had

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Speaker 1: a great time up until then, and so I don't know,

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Speaker 1: I was like hoping that maybe we could just get

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Speaker 1: past it, yeah, kind of move on. I kind of

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Speaker 1: a text when I got home and it's like, I'm

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Speaker 1: really sorry about how awkward that was and everything. It's

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Speaker 1: almost but like I like you and maybe we can

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Speaker 1: like erase it from our memories and like start again.

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Speaker 1: And what did he say? He was like, yeah, sure, totally.

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Speaker 1: And then like I have not heard from him. How

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Speaker 1: did he react right after he plunged the toilet for him?

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Speaker 1: How did he react? Yeah? I mean, was he obviously

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Speaker 1: he like, I mean, he wasn't like puking, is that's

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Speaker 1: what you're asking? But I mean not like, I mean,

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Speaker 1: he wasn't like this was fun, but he was really

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Speaker 1: great about it. And was just like, Okay, let's do this.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, what a good guy. So he hasn't talked

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Speaker 1: to you since, and you want to go out with

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Speaker 1: him again, and you're hoping that we can kind of

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Speaker 1: clear this up, Yes, because otherwise I would really wish

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Speaker 1: that I just likely am you know what I mean? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: okay kind of put myself through the embarrassing situation and

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Speaker 1: the hopes that we could go out again. If we

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Speaker 1: don't go out again, I really should have just climbed

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Speaker 1: out the window. Katie. All right, Well, we'll play a song,

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Speaker 1: come back, call him and get your second date update.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, You're welcome. Hang on looking cubil in the morning, Seates.

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Speaker 1: We've had a lot of embarrassing second date updates on

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Speaker 1: a scale of one to ten. How embarrassing was Katie's

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Speaker 1: first date with Dylan? Is there a number large enough

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Speaker 1: so you'd say this is probably the most embarrassing first

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Speaker 1: date we've heard so far. Yeah? And actually, Katie, I

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Speaker 1: second date. Thanks. I'm really nervous about it. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: the vote of confidence. At least you know, the most

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Speaker 1: embarrassing thing has already happened. Yeah, Katie is on the

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Speaker 1: phone with us right now. If you're just joining us

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Speaker 1: for the second date update, she wants us to call Dylan.

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Speaker 1: They had a good time on their date, but something very,

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Speaker 1: making out. Katie excuse herself to go to the bathroom.

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Speaker 1: She did her thing clogged his toilet, couldn't fix it herself,

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Speaker 1: the bathroom and tell him, Hey, clogged your toilet, can

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Speaker 1: you fix it? And he did, but obviously he hasn't

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Speaker 1: talked to her since. I mean, we know why he's

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Speaker 1: probably not calling you back, Katie. I mean, once that

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Speaker 1: you has just sort of been ruined. Yeah, I know,

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Speaker 1: there is hope. I mean, you could talk to him

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Speaker 1: just saying like, initially though, that's what you're gonna do

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Speaker 1: can't I can't think of anything else but that now. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well I'm only doing this phone call because I really

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Speaker 1: like him obviously. I mean this is yeah all right?

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Speaker 1: Are you ready to give him a call? Yeah? Here

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Speaker 1: we go. Hello. Hey is this Dylan? Yeah, Dylan? How

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Speaker 1: are you? Man? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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Speaker 1: in the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five. Okay,

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Speaker 1: what's going on? We actually got an email about you

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Speaker 1: from one of our listeners. You did, Yeah, you recently

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Speaker 1: went out on a date with one of our listeners

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Speaker 1: and they liked you a lot and are wondering why

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Speaker 1: you're not calling them back. Have you been on a

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Speaker 1: lot of dates recently? No? Do you know who I

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Speaker 1: might be talking about? Then? Yeah? I think so. Yeah, Katie,

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Speaker 1: I know you remember going out with Katie? Yeah, hard

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Speaker 1: to forget. Katie emailed us and told us what happened

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Speaker 1: on your first date. She says that you guys had

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Speaker 1: a great time. Now, of course the awkward thing happened

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Speaker 1: where she clogged your toilet and you to clean it up.

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Speaker 1: That's never good on a date ever. Yeah she told

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Speaker 1: you that? Okay, Um, yeah, so is that the problem though? Like?

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Speaker 1: Can you not get that out of your head? I

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, if it was just the toilet, probably

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Speaker 1: not the same. What did you find more of evidence

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Speaker 1: of the clogging? Uh? No? And I unclogged it and

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Speaker 1: the train. So it was horrible. The whole thing made

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Speaker 1: me Gagay, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. It wasn't

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Speaker 1: nothing was mushed. Hey, Dylan, Katie's actually on the phone.

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Speaker 1: What Yeah, Hi, I'm so mortified. O. Hi, Okay, I'm

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Speaker 1: so sorry. I took a trash bag from under the

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Speaker 1: like commando. I had a bag around it, and I

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Speaker 1: just I just rint off in the bath. I didn't

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure it's making it better though. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: didn't think he would notice that, Katie. I was panicked.

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Speaker 1: I was totally panicked, and Dylan. The only reason why

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Speaker 1: I didn't like run out of your apartment, It's just

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Speaker 1: we could like just start over, it could have been worse. Right,

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Speaker 1: maybe not. I don't know. I can't see that it

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Speaker 1: I mean, the making out work really nice. Dylan, can

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Speaker 1: you forgive Katie for freaking out a little bit? I mean,

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Speaker 1: you understand right, it was a difficult situation. We had

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Speaker 1: after just kind of Thankfully your ranks all the good stuff.

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Speaker 1: It's well. For the record, I just want everyone to

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Speaker 1: realize it was not as bad as Dylan and thinking

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Speaker 1: it out to be. You're making it sound like I

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Speaker 1: and that is not what it was like. I obviously

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Speaker 1: someone else's mess. Fuck, because you're already to the record.

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Speaker 1: Let's know that, like you, let's tone down with the

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Speaker 1: phrase cleaning up somebody's mess. You unclogged a toilet, like

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Speaker 1: I said, it did not look like I went finger

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Speaker 1: painting in there. Yeah, but Katie, I don't think it

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Speaker 1: fact that you tried to dispose of the didn't try.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, So Dylan, she was just using her hand

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Speaker 1: as a plunger. Doesn't that make it better for you?

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's not as bad as you thought. I

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Speaker 1: Oh god, this isn't making it any better. Guys, I

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Speaker 1: just feel like, what are we not allowed to have

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Speaker 1: bodily function? That's what I look for in a woman.

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Speaker 1: The first three days, Yeah, Dylan, I would not humiliate

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Speaker 1: If I didn't really think that we were a good

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Speaker 1: potential match, that is a really good point, Dylan. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's brave. She went through a lot to try to

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Speaker 1: show how much she liked you. I'll air any dirty

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Speaker 1: think i'd admit to what she just admitted to for

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Speaker 1: the records, Like I like go out on dates. Contrary

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Speaker 1: to what this story might make you believe. I'm not

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Speaker 1: a weird troll. I'm tall, I'm fit, You're regular. Okay, Dylan,

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Speaker 1: would you like to go out on a second date

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Speaker 1: with Katie? We will pay for it. Give it another

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Speaker 1: shot later on, give it some time. You'll be able

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Speaker 1: to laugh about it. Try to go out with her.

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Speaker 1: But justice can't be change it, past it. I don't

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Speaker 1: think I can do it. Things can't be unseen, problems

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Speaker 1: and relationships can't be unclogged. No pleasure could help this

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Speaker 1: second date out? All right? Broken jupil in the morning,