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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 1: Alicia is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 1: She's been married to her husband Edward for three years,

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Speaker 1: but now she thinks something might be going on, so

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Speaker 1: we'll see if we can help her out. Sorry about that, Alicia,

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Speaker 1: what's going on? Why do you think that your husband

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Speaker 1: Edward's cheating?

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Speaker 2: Hi, Well, I mean it's kind of a it's kind

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Speaker 2: of a bit of a story.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Well, we work for the same company, but we work

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Speaker 2: in at different departments, so we've never really had to

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Speaker 2: interact that much. I have a different boss in my

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Speaker 2: department and my husband, Edward is the boss in his department,

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Speaker 2: And you know, we're both very professional at work, and

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Speaker 2: we're very by the book. So when we come home,

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Speaker 2: we don't really talk very much about work, and it's

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Speaker 2: been good for us in the relationship, but sometimes it

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Speaker 2: can be at a little boring. But you know, we

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Speaker 2: just don't really talk about our days, I guess when

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Speaker 2: we get home until about until about a month ago,

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Speaker 2: some things have just gotten sort of rocky in the

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Speaker 2: past month, and my husband and I have been going

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Speaker 2: to therapy trying to work with a therapist and trying

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Speaker 2: to talk things, but it doesn't really feel like things

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Speaker 2: are getting better. It just feels like everything is sort

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Speaker 2: of plateaued and they've not gotten worse. And I just

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Speaker 2: feel like Edward, I don't know, he seems very detached.

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Speaker 2: He feels he seems like he's bored, like he just

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Speaker 2: wants to not come home or not really like talk

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Speaker 2: to me. And I feel like I've tried everything I

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Speaker 2: could think of to like spice things up and keep

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Speaker 2: him interested.

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Speaker 3: Are you bored?

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Speaker 2: No, you know, I mean I've been weep been therey

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Speaker 2: for a while, you know, well not a while, but

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Speaker 2: three years. So it's a long time to be married.

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Speaker 2: And you know, it's comfortable now, so I'm not really bored.

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Speaker 2: But I mean there are times when things have gotten

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Speaker 2: sort of complacent, but that I think that's just life.

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Speaker 3: Sure, do you think that he's actually cheating on you

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Speaker 3: or do you think that because he's bored that he might.

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Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing is we you know, we both

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Speaker 2: take separate cars to work, even though we're going to

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Speaker 2: the same place, but we both get home. He usually

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Speaker 2: gets home a little later, but now he's been getting

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Speaker 2: home like a few hours later than he usually does.

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Speaker 2: And he's also been getting text from his secretary Lizzy

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Speaker 2: right before we go to bed at ten eleven, which

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Speaker 2: is pretty late for us. And I've asked him, like,

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Speaker 2: why does your secretary keep texting you? What does she

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Speaker 2: need to talk to you about, like eleven o'clock at night?

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Speaker 2: And he says, oh, it's just work, and he's right,

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Speaker 2: you know, I'll say, just stop talk, like, stop being

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Speaker 2: like that, like you're being crazy right now.

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Speaker 1: I don't like that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's very like he just has like

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Speaker 2: these prepared answers to kind of shoot me down whenever

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Speaker 2: I ask him anything about Lizzy to where I don't

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Speaker 2: feel comfortable talking about it. But I don't think that's

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Speaker 2: appropriate or that she probably needs to text him that late.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, I think you're I think you're right.

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Speaker 1: Does Lizzie know you?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she knows me.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: I mean, coworkers don't need to be texting that late

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Speaker 3: unless you're working on a special project and it's like

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Speaker 3: a one time thing, but that's like not an everyday thing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah me.

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Speaker 1: Could he be working on a special project?

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Speaker 2: I don't think so, but it's I don't think so

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Speaker 2: I think work is just normal as it's always been.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I have anything special going on right now.

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Speaker 2: But it's also just like the way he responds in

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Speaker 2: his tone whenever I ask him about it. He gets

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Speaker 2: very defensive.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, not a good defensive and this is usually not

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Speaker 1: a good sign when it comes to that. Well, we'll

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Speaker 1: see if we can help you out. You already told

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Speaker 1: grocery store. You guys are rewards card members at. So

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Speaker 1: we'll call pretend to be from the grocery store and

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Speaker 1: say that every single month, we choose one lucky rewards

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Speaker 1: member who gets free flowers delivered to anybody that they want,

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Speaker 1: and we'll see if he sends those to here to

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Speaker 1: somebody else. Okay, okay, okay, to play a song, come

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Speaker 1: back and get your to catch theeater. Next, it's time.

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Speaker 5: To Catch a Cheater only on the Tuble Show.

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Speaker 1: Right in the middle of to Catch a Cheater, if

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Speaker 1: you're just joining us, Alicia is on the phone and

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Speaker 1: she thinks that her husband of three years, Edward, might

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Speaker 1: be cheating. So we're about to call him and pretend

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Speaker 1: to be from the grocery store that he's a rewards

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Speaker 1: member at, and tell him that. Every single month, we

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Speaker 1: choose one lucky Rewards member who gets free flowers delivered

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Speaker 1: from our floral department, and we'll see if he sends

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Speaker 1: those to his wife, Alicia or to somebody else. But first, Alisha,

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Speaker 1: why don't you refresh our memory of your situation.

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Speaker 2: My husband and I have been having lately, has been

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Speaker 2: going to therapy and thinks it's not gotten worse, that

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Speaker 2: they haven't really gotten better. And lately he hasn't been

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Speaker 2: coming home from work right away, and he's been getting

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Speaker 2: I ask him. So, just wondering what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, me too, see if we can find out for you.

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Speaker 1: Are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, this is Corble calling

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Speaker 1: from SO. I was looking for a rewards card member

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Speaker 1: named Edward. Yes speaking Hi Edward. Please don't hang up.

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Speaker 1: This is not a marketing phone call. I'm actually calling

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Speaker 1: to say congrats here this month's big winner.

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Speaker 4: Wow. Yeah, I must be Uh must be my lucky day?

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Speaker 1: What I win the flowers? Every single month, we choose

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Speaker 1: one lucky Rewards card member at random to say thank

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Speaker 1: you very much for being a customer and chopping with us.

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Speaker 1: You've won thirty six long stand red roses, a box

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Speaker 1: anybody that you want within the fifty United States. It's

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Speaker 1: a three hundred and sixteen dollars value. Actually wow, okay, yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 5: I'm in Yeah. Can I tell you who to make

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Speaker 5: it up to?

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Speaker 1: All right, let me get my form pulled up then,

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Speaker 1: and okay, first thing I'll need is the first and

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Speaker 1: last name of the person you want to send them to. Sure, yeah, make.

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Speaker 4: It up to Lizzy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, great, I will do that. And is there anything

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Speaker 1: get the address and stuff?

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Speaker 2: Sure?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, put Alicia. I listened to the show too, and

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Speaker 5: Lizzy is my free pass.

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Speaker 1: Okay, wait, whoa what are you serious right now?

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Speaker 5: Putting me on the show? Putting me on blast? You

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Speaker 5: know I listened to the show. I know your voice, buddy.

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you for listening to the show. Yeah, thank

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Speaker 1: you for listening to the show. Obviously, Then you know

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Speaker 1: your wife is on the phone. Alicia and Suspects that

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Speaker 1: you might be messing around, so you are.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm cheat on you with Lizzie. I'm

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Speaker 4: cheating on with you with Lilia And I haven't mean anything.

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Speaker 2: All right, listen, it's just musical.

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Speaker 5: But guess what, she's my past because you cheated first,

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Speaker 5: and you know this?

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Speaker 2: Did you did she tell you that? Did she tell

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Speaker 2: you that she's a cheater?

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Speaker 1: Did she tell you.

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Speaker 2: Let them know? Alsia? Do you want tellmer?

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Speaker 5: Should I?

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Speaker 2: Alicia had sex with her? Yeah? Two months ago?

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Speaker 5: Do you know how I found out? We drive separate.

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Speaker 5: So one day I came home, I found a condom

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Speaker 5: my bet All right, do you think we're use condoms?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 5: So then ashamed, I felt being being cuckled by my my,

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Speaker 5: your boss, her boss.

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Speaker 2: The way you deal with it is to cheat on

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Speaker 2: me with your secretary. That's the way I deal with

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Speaker 2: it with your secretary. That's so cliche. Yeah, that's the

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Speaker 2: way that you deal with it.

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Speaker 5: To get back at me, Oh, give me a break,

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Speaker 5: Like we haven't gone to therapy, Like we haven't gone

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Speaker 5: through this that you owe me. You admitted that which

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Speaker 5: talked about having a free pass. Guess what Lizzie is mine.

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Speaker 5: I tried to be a little bit. I doubled about it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was kind of obvious.

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Speaker 5: But for you to get mad about it, let alone

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Speaker 5: go on the radio and call it out.

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Speaker 2: Are you kidding me? Alicia?

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Speaker 1: You hypocrite soll you.

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Speaker 3: Lied about it, and it kind of doesn't make it

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Speaker 1: But Alicia, you don't know. I mean it sounds like

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Speaker 1: you know you guys obviously have a lot to talk

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Speaker 1: about more to not talk about it anymore.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you should just try to make it

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Speaker 2: an eye for an eye and get back at me,

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Speaker 2: like sleeping with your secretary and then lying to me

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Speaker 5: You were fine with an eye for an eye. You

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Speaker 5: said you'd owed me all right, do I have a

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Speaker 5: free pass or not?

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Speaker 3: Well, then you should have just told her that you have,

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Speaker 3: that you were taking advantage of the past.

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Speaker 2: I mean, at that point, no, I'm sorry if I

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Speaker 2: made you feel humiliated or called you out, that was

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Speaker 2: not what I wanted to do. I just felt like

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Speaker 2: you weren't talking to me and you couldn't tell me

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Speaker 2: what was going on. If you wanted a free pass.

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Speaker 2: Why didn't you have this conversation with me? Did you

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Speaker 2: have a conversation with me before you cheated? Do you

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Speaker 2: think I wanted any of this?

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, Alicia, you know, maybe you got your answer.

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Speaker 2: And I just talk about this off the year when

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Speaker 2: we go home. I mean, I love you, and I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to keep fighting with you.

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Speaker 1: Do you guys want to be together.

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Speaker 4: I didn't enjoy being with Lizzie. It was a one

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Speaker 4: time thing, and I'm I'm, I'm I'm.

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Speaker 5: Calling it off.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to do it again.

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Speaker 5: I only did it because I felt like I had

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Speaker 5: to gain some kind of control all.

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Speaker 4: Right back in the relationship. But no, you're who I

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Speaker 4: want to be with, and I hate it. I hate

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Speaker 4: everything about it. I love you. I love you too.

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Speaker 1: Idn't give up? Yeah it's really good. It sounds like

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Speaker 1: you guys have something to talk about now in therapy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well yeah, okay, good luck. I hope you work it out.

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Speaker 1: I do me too. I'm glad you guys have love there.

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Speaker 2: Cool.

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Speaker 5: Thank glock As appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. I love you. Eard the Jewel shows to

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