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Speaker 1: Let's get into our second date up there. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: bring Matt on right now. Not wait for this. Matt

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Speaker 1: took Caitlin bowling for their first date. Hey, Matt, how

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Speaker 1: are It's Ryan and Sisney Tony very happy to meet you.

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Speaker 2: I hey, we're really happy to meet you. Guys.

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Speaker 1: So you get on bumble, you do your thing, you swipe, swipe,

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Speaker 1: and all of a sudden you're out with Caitlyn.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 4: What was it about Caitlin that attracted you?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, she is the prettiest. She has the

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Speaker 2: prettiest eyes I've ever seen, and I mean, I'm just yeah.

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Speaker 1: So she's got pretty eyes. And then you guys decided

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Speaker 1: to go out. I understand you went bowling on the

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, we went bowling. It was pretty crazy because

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Speaker 2: like we matched, you know, and then it was like

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Speaker 4: I don't hate that. I don't have that was what

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Speaker 4: was the original plan?

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Speaker 2: Well, we just it was wasn't necessarily original plan. We've

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Speaker 2: then we were talking about like I told her that

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Speaker 2: I had had my twenty fourth birthday party out of

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Speaker 2: like amazing. I mean, I don't know, we had a

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Speaker 2: great time. Yeah, the next day I texted her and

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Speaker 4: Wait, but you think you've been blocked by her?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean because it was going through before and

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Speaker 2: now none of my messages are going through.

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Speaker 4: Did you beat her and brag about her or something?

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Speaker 4: What happened?

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Speaker 2: No, no, fair question. I don't know. I mean I

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Speaker 2: think something maybe. Honestly, I think something maybe happened for

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Speaker 1: Well what do you what do you You're feeling something?

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Speaker 3: So what is it? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Well, so I dropped her off. You know, I was

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Speaker 2: going to like walk her to the door and you know,

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Speaker 2: give her a nice kiss to night, and she just said, okay,

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Speaker 2: thanks to night, and like just go off, no kiss,

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Speaker 2: And yeah, I don't get it.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, look I'm gonna tell you something, Matt. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: nine times out of ten, something significant or something very

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Speaker 1: specific did happen when something like that happened? And so

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Speaker 1: if you're willing to hear that. I wouldn't want to

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Speaker 1: hear it, I don't think myself. But if you're willing

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Speaker 1: to hear that, we're gonna call her next. There I say,

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Speaker 1: we got a number and we can find her. So

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Speaker 1: do you want to call Caitlin next and find out

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Speaker 1: why after this great spontaneous bowling date she's blocked you?

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Speaker 2: Yes? Please? I mean yes, all right?

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Speaker 1: Hold on one second on Air with Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 4: On on Air with Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 1: Well we are in the middle of it. Second date update.

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Speaker 1: Why don't two point seven kiss FM?

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Speaker 4: So listen to this.

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Speaker 1: Matt meets Caitlin, They meet him bumble, takes her out bowling. Great,

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Speaker 1: actually great, don't have to go to a bar go

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Speaker 1: bowl and bowling has beer anyway, so they go bolly.

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Speaker 1: He thinks I have this great bowling date and afterwards

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Speaker 1: there was no kiss. And then the next day she's

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Speaker 1: blocked him. He's been blocked on her cell in the

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Speaker 1: contact and he has no idea. He thinks something at

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna bring Matt in. We're gonna ask Kitlyn what

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Speaker 1: happened Matt, hold on one second, be very quiet. We've

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Speaker 1: got Caitlin. We're gonna talk to her now. Okay, see

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Speaker 1: who we can find out. All right, Caitlin, thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for holding on. It's Ryan Seacrest and Siciny

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Speaker 1: and Tanya on Kiss FM this morning.

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Speaker 4: How you doing.

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Speaker 1: We have a little connection issue, but if you can

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Speaker 1: still hear me, forgive some of the questions here. But

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Speaker 1: we're calling about a guy named Matt that you met

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Speaker 1: on bumbled Does that sound familiar?

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Speaker 3: Uh? Oh, why would you be calling me about Matt.

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Speaker 1: We're just curious to know what are your thoughts about him?

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Speaker 1: And when I say Matt, do you think good things are?

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Speaker 1: How did the date go?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: The date was good? Actually great, It was a great date. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I had a great time.

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Speaker 4: Would you like to see him again?

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Speaker 3: I don't think so. I kind of got the impression

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Speaker 2: Got it?

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Speaker 4: What did he do that made you feel that.

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Speaker 3: Home? And he was showing me pictures of his dog

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Speaker 3: scrolling through the photos and While I was looking, a

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Speaker 3: message came in from some chick who was all, like,

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Speaker 3: last night was so fun. I can't wait to see

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Speaker 4: Wait, last night like the night before you guys went out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's what the text said. It said, last

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Speaker 3: And it's like, like, I get that we were like,

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Speaker 4: You know, maybe you're assuming things here. You're both on bumble.

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Speaker 1: You're clearly both looking to have some social activity here,

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Speaker 4: So I'm not so sure. I see the glass half empty,

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Speaker 1: If he was being shady, why would he hand you

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Speaker 1: the phone. I'm not sold on the concept that you

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Speaker 1: just blow him off. If you really liked him and

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Speaker 1: you really had a good time, you're both on bumble,

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Speaker 1: So what if someone texted him, you know.

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Speaker 4: Did you ask him about it?

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Speaker 3: Did you ask him about it? I was almost home,

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Speaker 3: and I don't know. I just had this gut feeling

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Speaker 3: about it, and I don't know. That night, I just

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I was bummed. I really liked him.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Caitlin, what if I told you we could sort

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Speaker 1: of erase and decision that wasn't fully thought out about

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Speaker 1: to say hi and probably go out with you again. Matt,

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Speaker 1: Am I right, maybe explain himself.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Matt, Yes, yes, yes to all of that. Yes,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: Matt, are you playing? Are you playing?

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Speaker 2: No? Look I would yeah, We're We're on bumble. And

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Speaker 2: I'm really sorry. I saw that message come in and

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Speaker 2: I didn't even think you saw it. So I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: But but are you.

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Speaker 4: Are you out with a different girl all the time?

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Speaker 4: What's going on? Matt?

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Speaker 2: No? No, No, I did go on I did go

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Speaker 2: out on a date the night before. You know, I

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Speaker 2: It's kind of what you do. I'm just trying to

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Speaker 2: meet people, you know, like, it's not Yeah, it wasn't serious.

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Speaker 2: It was the first eat too.

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Speaker 4: No one's asking.

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Speaker 1: But my opinion here is you guys have a connection

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Speaker 1: and this is a great story for if it works

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Speaker 1: out of how it ended up, you know, working out

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Speaker 1: and making it through a little challenging moment here. I

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Speaker 1: think you should reconsider Caitlyn going out with Madigan if

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Speaker 1: you're still interested.

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Speaker 3: Okay, can I can I ask a question?

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Speaker 4: Of course?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Matt, did you sleep with her? The girl who

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Speaker 3: texted you?

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Speaker 4: Well, that's an answer. Okay, you hang on, he was

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Speaker 4: just clearing his throat. No, he has to Well, what's

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Speaker 4: the answer, Matt.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't I want to go out with you?

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Speaker 3: Though he didn't do anything wrong.

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Speaker 4: He didn't, Caitlyn, technically he did not.

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Speaker 3: But it's one thing maybe the dude to catch, let's catch,

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Speaker 3: but it's one thing to when you're dating in the

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Speaker 3: dating scene.

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Speaker 4: You know that people are dating around, but it's another thing.

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Speaker 3: To see and once you see it, it's like hard

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Speaker 3: to unsee it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think honestly, Matt going through this kind of trouble

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Speaker 4: You know, like Matt is a fair point taking a.

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Speaker 1: Big, this a big public step to try and find

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Speaker 1: out what happened so what's the next move here Matt

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Speaker 1: and Caitlin?

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Speaker 4: What are you going to do? Both in your court?

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Speaker 3: Kaitlin, what are you gonna do? I mean, I just

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's take some time, like take some time at least

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Speaker 1: now you have a little more information.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I just would feel so bad if I don't know

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Speaker 3: if he's sleeping with someone on the side and then

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Speaker 3: he's like, oh, well, you know, she doesn't mean anything.

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Speaker 3: I really want to date you. That just I don't know.

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Speaker 3: That speaks to character to me, And I don't know

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Speaker 3: if you Yeah, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, well, Caitlyin, I think you have made up your

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Speaker 1: mind and you have very good points as to why Matt.

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Speaker 1: We gave it to try to see if there was

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Speaker 1: any interest, and for some reason the universe is not aligning.

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Speaker 4: Hero. Yeah, yeah, well, don't call that other girl now