1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,600 Speaker 1: The Sunday Hang is brought to you by Chalk Natural 2 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 1: Supplements for guys, gals, and nothing in between. Fuel your 3 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:12,320 Speaker 1: day at Chalk dot Com, bold reverence, and occasionally random 4 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: The Sunday Hang with playing Fuck podcast. 5 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 2: It starts now. 6 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:19,279 Speaker 1: We're coming up on I think we'll be doing the 7 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: show for four years in in June here, that's right, 8 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 1: and pair it up here for four years, which time 9 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 1: has flown by. And since starting this show, I have 10 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 1: gotten married and had a baby, which is very exciting. 11 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:35,919 Speaker 1: You're old hat at these things. You've been you know, 12 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:37,199 Speaker 1: you've been married for. 13 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 2: How long you been married? 14 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 3: Now? 15 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: Oh man, now I'm gonna get blown up. It'll be 16 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 1: twenty one years in August, twenty one years, got three boys, 17 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 1: twenty one years. I've been married like two years in change, 18 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 1: and I got a baby. So you know, we're we're 19 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 1: coming at this from you know, we got the old 20 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 1: grizzled veteran, we got the new guy on the block 21 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 1: with this. But you know, you don't always give me 22 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 1: the heads that I need on some things. Sometimes you do. 23 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:05,039 Speaker 1: But one that I've missed from you, Clay, because I 24 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: expect you to give me a early warning is that 25 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 1: no matter what I do, no matter how hard I try, 26 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:14,959 Speaker 1: when my wife sends me to the grocery store, I 27 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:18,319 Speaker 1: will fail to get the right items. And sometimes she 28 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 1: will send me there and the item won't even be there, 29 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:23,560 Speaker 1: and then I am really in a tough place because 30 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 1: somehow I'm supposed to still get the item that they're 31 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 1: out of stock on which my wife is amazing at 32 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:32,320 Speaker 1: finding out whatever that would be, just like with a premonition. 33 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 1: So you didn't give me this heads up. It is 34 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: a real problem for husbands everywhere. I am sent with 35 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 1: photos on the rare occasion when I need to get 36 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 1: something of the product that I'm supposed to get because well, 37 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 1: we need to talk about this more. Maybe when we 38 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:50,560 Speaker 1: come back we can The amount of variety I understand 39 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 1: it's a great sign of American capitalism, But if you 40 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 1: go to get let's say, cranberry juice, I bet in 41 00:01:56,440 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 1: your average grocery store there are twenty six different versions 42 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 1: of cranberry juice, right like, there isn't just like three 43 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 1: cranberry juices. 44 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 2: I'm not kidding. 45 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: I bet if you walk into your grocery store and look, 46 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:10,520 Speaker 1: I bet there's twenty six different types and what she 47 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 1: will do is I won't be able inevitably to find 48 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:15,920 Speaker 1: whatever this specific brand and particular type of thing that 49 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 1: I need. I'll return say it's not there. She'll either 50 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 1: ask for a picture of the section to prove that 51 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:25,520 Speaker 1: I am unable to find it, or she has then 52 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 1: sometimes gone back herself to verify whether or not the 53 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 1: product that I was supposed to get is there or not. 54 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:33,800 Speaker 1: I've reached the point now where when she texts me 55 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 1: sometimes she'll just then text me a couple minutes later, 56 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 1: like just forget it. I'll go get it myself, and 57 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:41,640 Speaker 1: then that just ups the ante for me. So then 58 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 1: I want to try even harder, but I always fail 59 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:47,919 Speaker 1: at the grocery store. Welcome to husband Life Sunday Hey 60 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:54,800 Speaker 1: with Clay Buck Joe from New York City. Ee, let's 61 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 1: hear it. 62 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:58,919 Speaker 4: You want to see something funny, go to the grocery 63 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:01,920 Speaker 4: store on Thanksgiving money. You'll see twenty guys online with 64 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:04,640 Speaker 4: one item getting what their wife forgot to get throughing 65 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 4: the week, and we all look scared to death because 66 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 4: we know we got the wrong thing. 67 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:12,080 Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about? If those of you, 68 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:14,239 Speaker 1: Miss Buck has found out that men gets into the 69 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:16,799 Speaker 1: grocery store and can never find what their wife actually wants. 70 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 1: That thing about the number of products that are all 71 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: eerily similar and the label might be just a subtle 72 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 1: difference in color or whatever. I remember when we used 73 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: to do for the formula, you know, when we would 74 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: we had the babies and my wife had stopped breastfeeding 75 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 1: or supplements or whatever else. I remember standing in front 76 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: of the supplement aisle for babies the first time that 77 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 1: I did it, and I felt like I might as 78 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 1: well have been I mean, I had no idea what 79 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: I was doing, and all of them just have a 80 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 1: subtle little variation, a little bit different label, color, a 81 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 1: little bit different size, and even with a picture, I'm 82 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:00,080 Speaker 1: gonna be honest, I struggled to know what I was 83 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 1: supposed to be getting. I think it was similar back 84 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 1: the day. I ask you, when your wife says sends 85 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 1: you for fruit clay, which probably you know happens, and 86 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 1: she says you got the organic kind, right, is it 87 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 1: really a lie to just give yourself the benefit of 88 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 1: the doubt because it looks the same. I would say, apple, 89 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 1: I would lie, and I wouldn't call it a lie 90 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:23,159 Speaker 1: because it's possible you did get the organic kind even 91 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 1: realize this is tie goes to the runner in this 92 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 1: case the runner for the food. Well, this is like 93 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:30,159 Speaker 1: the whole idea with apples. You know you're supposed to 94 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:33,599 Speaker 1: wash them. Really like that that is going to solve everything. 95 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 1: You know, you get like an apple, you like you 96 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: shoul put it underneath the underneath the the the the 97 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:40,719 Speaker 1: sink there for like I don't know, ten seconds Like 98 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 1: that really is going to take care of everything. A 99 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:45,839 Speaker 1: lot of the stuff that we do it I don't know. 100 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:49,599 Speaker 1: Ten second rule, isn't it. It's like, yeah, teconds under 101 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 1: the water, It's all fine. Now, okay, does that seem likely? 102 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 1: I mean, if there's really bad pesticides on the apple, 103 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 1: is going to put it underneath the water for ten 104 00:04:57,040 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 1: seconds really substantially alter your health? Uh So a lot 105 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 1: of these things that we do, I'm not sure that 106 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 1: they have any benefit. I know that when my wife 107 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 1: has gone back when I have told her, hey, what 108 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:09,039 Speaker 1: you sent me to find wasn't there, and she's like, 109 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:12,279 Speaker 1: I don't buy that. At least twice that I can remember, 110 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 1: once she went and she found it, which was not 111 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:16,679 Speaker 1: good because she found it immediately. 112 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:18,160 Speaker 2: You're in the doghouse, then that's bad. 113 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 1: Other times she couldn't find it, and I just remember 114 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 1: how stunned she was when she came back. She was like, 115 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:27,039 Speaker 1: it really really wasn't there. I do think that I 116 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 1: could be correct. Was just boggled her mind. She now 117 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:34,039 Speaker 1: sometimes will text me and then tell me what to 118 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 1: get a grocery store and then follow it up with 119 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 1: a photo because she knows if there's no photo, I'm 120 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:42,599 Speaker 1: just gonna get whatever the food, the general food product is. 121 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 1: She sends me to get yogurt. Clay, I feel like 122 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 1: Indiana Jones with the bowler rolling boulder rolling after him, 123 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 1: you know, like such a great scene, you know, And 124 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 1: it's like I switched the wrong yogurt where the idol 125 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 1: goes or something, and now I'm gonna I can never 126 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 1: get the right There's so many types, to be fair, 127 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 1: I'm rarely shopping for anything, so I just don't even 128 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:10,279 Speaker 1: make the attempt at this point. But that's because I've 129 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: failed so many times that I can't be trusted. 130 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:14,679 Speaker 2: JJ. We got a funny one here, go for it. JJ. 131 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 3: Hi, Clayon, but this is Kitty from California. I sent 132 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 3: my husband to the store one Christmas when I was 133 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:26,720 Speaker 3: making candy for butter, just butter. Didn't care what kind, 134 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 3: didn't care what brand told him that he came home 135 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:34,680 Speaker 3: with the only thing in the entire store that is 136 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:39,599 Speaker 3: clearly labeled not butter, as in, I can't believe it's 137 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 3: not butter. At least it makes a good story. 138 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:45,360 Speaker 2: And this is just trying to be healthy. 139 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 1: That's a strong move right there, right to be like, no, 140 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: I'm not getting your butter. I'm getting you not butter 141 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: instead of butter. Glad they're still married though, that's good. 142 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 1: Sunday drop with Clay and Buck. 143 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:01,280 Speaker 2: Or marital experience here. 144 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:05,159 Speaker 1: I was not really aware of this, and now I'm 145 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 1: such a young man in the marin's game when yeah, 146 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm a newbie into all this. Uh, your 147 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 1: wife can look at you and be a little unhappy, 148 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 1: quite unhappy, quite sternly, and you can ask her, hey, honey, 149 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 1: what's going on. She said nothing, I'm fine, and you 150 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 1: say are you sure. She goes, I'm fine, and then 151 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 1: you know she's not fine, and then you say okay, 152 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 1: and then you try to like escape the situation, and 153 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 1: right before you leave the room, she goes, you know, 154 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 1: what you did in my dream last night. 155 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 2: And now the answer to that is, of course no. 156 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 1: But play I did that, you could be in trouble 157 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 1: as husband for whatever the wife has had a dream about. 158 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 1: All right, so here's the flip side. Can you imagine 159 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 1: holding her accountable in any way or being angry for 160 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 1: her based on something that she did in your dream? 161 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:04,080 Speaker 1: Has this happened at any point in your relationship that 162 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 1: you can remember so far? 163 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 2: No? Yes, no? 164 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:10,600 Speaker 1: So do you think it's only I don't know because 165 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 1: I'm with no. But my understanding is these are the 166 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 1: rules of marriage. Like wife is allowed to be annoyed 167 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 1: over morning coffee for at least a little bit, if 168 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 1: you were naughty in the dream that she had, even 169 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 1: if she knows it was a dream. These are the rules. 170 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 1: I don't make the rules. No, No, I get it. 171 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to think why would women be able 172 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: to get mad at their husbands? But I'm just asking 173 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 1: because I can't recall ever being angry at my wife 174 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 1: over something that she did in my dream? 175 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 2: Right, has Laura ever been mad at you for what 176 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 2: you did in her dream? 177 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:41,560 Speaker 1: That's a great question. We've been married for almost twenty 178 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 1: one years. I'm sure I've given her ample reasons to 179 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 1: be mad at me for many reasons, both awake and 180 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 1: dreaming over those twenty one years, but I can't remember. 181 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 1: But it feels like probably yes is the answer. But 182 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:57,559 Speaker 1: it is an interesting question because my point is if 183 00:08:57,600 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 1: you had been angry at her, I don't think it 184 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 1: would be accepted. 185 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,080 Speaker 2: No, of course not. I'm a dude. We can't do that. 186 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, why is it acceptable the opposite direction? I think 187 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:09,679 Speaker 1: it's an interesting question. I'm going to go downstairs and ask. 188 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 1: Men and women are different, buddy, you know that. 189 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:13,400 Speaker 2: I do know. 190 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 1: No way, next thing you're going to tell me men 191 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:17,720 Speaker 1: shouldn't be able to play women's sports