WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Safety First

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking jubile in the morning second date update. The guy

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone for a second date update today said

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<v Speaker 1>in his email that he's quote a genuinely nice guy,

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<v Speaker 1>So I believe him. Oh that's good. His name is George,

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<v Speaker 1>and George is a genuinely nice guy. If it's in writing,

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's true. So George, congratulations on being such

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<v Speaker 1>a nice dude. Well, thank you. I appreciate it. He

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<v Speaker 1>does sound lovely. Yeah, you're likable already, George. Thank you, George.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're such a genuinely nice guy, why do you

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<v Speaker 1>have to do a second date update? Well, that's uh.

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<v Speaker 1>I never thought I would have to, I guess, but

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<v Speaker 1>I figure, you know, we have the opportunity to figure

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<v Speaker 1>it out. Is it that nice guys always finished last

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<v Speaker 1>type scenario? That's kind of how it feels, to be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>because I think it was a great date and nothing

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<v Speaker 1>has seemed to have come from it, So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us a little bit about her. What's her name?

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<v Speaker 1>Her name's Tiffany. I found her on a dating website,

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<v Speaker 1>which for stuff. By the way, I'm not a guy

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<v Speaker 1>who goes on dating website. You know that I was

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<v Speaker 1>actually pretty apprehensive about the whole stuff. Sure, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>everybody always says, doesn't everybody's profile on dating website say,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm new to this, it seems like that's the common thread.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true for me, That is true. Never you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>believe George is his word always. Yeah, he's a guy.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, that was scrolling through profiles and a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of them, you know, she kind of disingenuous. But then

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<v Speaker 1>when I found Tiffany's, I don't know, it was it

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<v Speaker 1>was just like one of those feelings you get, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was like outdoorsy, which I love that. But

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<v Speaker 1>I think the biggest straw was like she had this

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful blonde hair. I mean it's like, oh, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it's like silky and smooth. All right. Now, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I know what kind of feelings you were getting. At first,

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking it was like something in your heart,

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<v Speaker 1>but now I know it's somewhere else. No, Hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just a guy that likes a girl with a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of hair, you know, and she's got slowly beautiful hair.

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<v Speaker 1>I never heard a man say that before. You're just

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<v Speaker 1>saying like I looked at it and it looked like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like a hair model of some sort of

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<v Speaker 1>shampoo or some guys. So you're not a boob guy,

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<v Speaker 1>You're not a butt guy. You're a hair guy. I mean, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know it teams very important to me. Dude, I

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<v Speaker 1>do not want to sit next to him during a

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<v Speaker 1>shampoo commercial on TV. George loves me some hair, that's all.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you really say that in third person? Shame? And

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<v Speaker 1>what you like? So you loved her hair? Tell us

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<v Speaker 1>about your date when you guys actually went out. Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>We've been talking for two months, you know, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was very apprehensive about like coming on too strong. I've

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I've read articles about like creepy guys taking

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<v Speaker 1>girls out and stuff. So when we went on this

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<v Speaker 1>first date, safety was really like that's the word. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I was priority. Like I told her, I'm not going

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<v Speaker 1>to take you to a picnic. I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>take you to the park because of you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>wooded areas. Okay, but you understand that most women, if

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<v Speaker 1>they are going to get a message from a guy,

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<v Speaker 1>list all the creepy places they're not gonna take you.

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<v Speaker 1>It comes off as really creepy. Yeah no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just so she knows that I'm on the same board,

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<v Speaker 1>like did you did you literally say to her, don't worry,

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<v Speaker 1>I won't take you near any wooded areas. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>she still went out with you. Yeskay the problem guys?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you sure? So I took her to like a

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like downtown where there's like a lot of people,

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<v Speaker 1>had a lot of lights. Yeah, it was during the

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<v Speaker 1>day day, Okay. Did she seem to enjoy herself. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a great time. And then I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to call it, you know, quick, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's like that, let's still get a drink. So I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you know we're that's step two. We're getting there. You

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<v Speaker 1>took her, You took her to a place to get drinks,

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<v Speaker 1>and only bottles of water that were already closed she

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<v Speaker 1>could open herself. Yeah, okay, I mean everything she was

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<v Speaker 1>getting directly from the part that right, So she was

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<v Speaker 1>safe with you, George, Yeah, exactly. That's I wanted her

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<v Speaker 1>to feel that way. Okay. Okay. You know I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>to my co workers at work and I tell them,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, this next part, and they're like, that's too far. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So what I did was when we sat down and

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<v Speaker 1>we were talking about, you know, what we do to

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<v Speaker 1>stay fit and everything, and then I, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just told her like just so you know I'm tested

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<v Speaker 1>on everything, and um waited on what you know all

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, I'm up to date with shots and

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<v Speaker 1>vaccinations and you know I'm clean STD watch. So you

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<v Speaker 1>just told her that or were you having a conversation

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<v Speaker 1>where that work Like we were talking about like working

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<v Speaker 1>out and stuff like thing fit, so you went, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's pretty relevant you made the leap from fitness

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<v Speaker 1>to STD yeah, because it's all like hell okay. And

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<v Speaker 1>how did she react when you told her that? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>first off, I think she was like a little skeptical

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<v Speaker 1>to me. So I was like, oh, she doesn't believe me.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like no, no, no, I had it in

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<v Speaker 1>my bag that I didn't plan it, but I did

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<v Speaker 1>have my results because I had just done it like

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<v Speaker 1>a week ago. You don't date a lot? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>date a lot? George? I mean where do you find women?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean? So I'm trying online, But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just asking the question because to bring your well,

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, it sounds like you got at STD

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<v Speaker 1>test leading up to the date. Yeah, I leading up

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<v Speaker 1>to the date, but it wasn't because I was going

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<v Speaker 1>to have a date. Okay, Okay, I was thinking you

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<v Speaker 1>did it specifically because you were going out with a woman,

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<v Speaker 1>and you want to hear eventually I would have a date. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is, it's like sometimes you know, I'm told

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<v Speaker 1>that can happen pretty quickly. You know, you go one

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<v Speaker 1>into the next, and I don't want to ruin the mood,

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<v Speaker 1>right you just you want to be prepared in case

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<v Speaker 1>dinner drinks leads to something else. Yeah, And I want

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<v Speaker 1>her to feel safe. Did she feel safe? Well? The

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<v Speaker 1>thing one is, after I told her, she said that

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<v Speaker 1>she had to get going for a tennis lesson. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, she had one of those random tennis lessons

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<v Speaker 1>pop up in the middle of the day. Either that

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<v Speaker 1>or she was still on my train. It's not about

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<v Speaker 1>being health conscious and stuff. And she remembered and it

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<v Speaker 1>just popped your head. So what happened before she split

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<v Speaker 1>for her tennis lesson? How did you guys in things? Well, um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we shook hands like a gentleman, we do.

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<v Speaker 1>And she um left pretty quick after that, and I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't heard from her and her account is still active,

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<v Speaker 1>so I think she's getting my messages. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how many messages if you tried to send her I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I guess like four at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, well we'll play a song, we'll come back,

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll call her and get your second date up date. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that'd be great, Thank you. Hang on. Man be safe,

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<v Speaker 1>always man, always safe over here brooking jubil in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up. Sometimes the more you say something, the

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<v Speaker 1>more skeptical people will be of you. Like, for example,

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<v Speaker 1>if I go to a crowded department store this weekend,

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<v Speaker 1>strip down all my clothes, raise my hand, and yell,

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<v Speaker 1>I am not a pervert. Not a pervert, you know what.

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<v Speaker 1>Those people should believe me. You know why, because I

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<v Speaker 1>said it, and I said it loudly. And George, who's

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone with us right now for a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, said over and over again to his date

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<v Speaker 1>that he is not a dangerous man, so she should

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<v Speaker 1>believe him. He told her before they went out. Don't worry,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not taking you any wooded areas. Yeah, nothing like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Not bring him a duct tape with me or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Also brought along his medical history to show her that

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<v Speaker 1>he was STD free on a first date, which she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't ask for it. Let's remember that. And of course

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<v Speaker 1>he said that he's a genuinely nice guy. George. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that your downfall was you tried to convince her

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<v Speaker 1>a little too hard of what a good dude you are. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I did all the right moves, you know. I will

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<v Speaker 1>admit maybe didn't need to bring up the medical history

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<v Speaker 1>on the first date. But it's still good news. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it is good news. Actually, that's a very

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<v Speaker 1>good point. It might be a little strange to show

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<v Speaker 1>her that, but yeah, it's good news as long as

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<v Speaker 1>you're STD free. Yeah, you didn't have to have a

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<v Speaker 1>chlamydia talk right after you showed it to her, so bonus. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm nothing, you know. All right, Well, I'm gonna dial

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<v Speaker 1>her phone number right now and find out why she's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling you back. Okay, great, here we go. Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi is Tiffany there? This is Tiffany. Hey, Tiffany, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you? Who's this? Oh? My name is Jubil. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>do I know you? No? Probably not. My name is

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<v Speaker 1>Jubil from Brook and Jewel in the morning. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>radio show. Um, okay, are you selling something? No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not selling anything. I actually want to call you because

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners asked me if I could get

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<v Speaker 1>a hold of you. His name is George, and George

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us and said that he went out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with you, right right, and we do a segment

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<v Speaker 1>on our show called the Second Date Update. But George

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<v Speaker 1>really liked you a lot and he would love to

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<v Speaker 1>see if he could go out with you again. But

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<v Speaker 1>he's wondering if he did something wrong. Um. Hm, well, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I have gone on some dates in my life. I

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<v Speaker 1>have never met someone like George. That's a good way

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<v Speaker 1>to say it. Ud come did he come off like

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<v Speaker 1>a serial killer? Kind of Um? The nicest one ever

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<v Speaker 1>serial killer ever? Okay, always are hey? At least he

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<v Speaker 1>was nice, right, it was? It was interesting to say

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<v Speaker 1>the least. Um, there's like a seed of potential in

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<v Speaker 1>there that needs some nurturing. So George has a seed

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<v Speaker 1>of potential. Yes, he's listen, he is incredibly selfless, very sweet,

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<v Speaker 1>overly concerned with my safety, and he's STD free. He

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<v Speaker 1>told us that, Yeah, I learned that on the date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So he told us about that and he admitted that

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<v Speaker 1>he thinks that could have been the reason that you're

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<v Speaker 1>not calling him, And there's that little seed. He kind

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<v Speaker 1>of knows, but he doesn't. You know, can you explain

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<v Speaker 1>the date in your words? We heard from him a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about your date, but I'm just curious to

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<v Speaker 1>hear your side of the story. Well, you know, initially

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<v Speaker 1>it was like, very oh polite, and here, let me

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<v Speaker 1>get your chair, and you know, you guys, I sneeze

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<v Speaker 1>east during the date and kindly he said, bless you,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he went to go blow my nose. I

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<v Speaker 1>went to go blow my nose. And then I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, do I have like a book or

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out of my nose? Hown embarrassing? And he was

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<v Speaker 1>like dabbing my nose and he's like, oh good. I

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<v Speaker 1>just didn't want any germs just spread because I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like germs and I don't want them to get on you.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was this very awkward thing at the beginning.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we leave the restaurant. We're walking and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he was walking on the sidewalk and we're about to

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<v Speaker 1>cross the street and there was a car and it

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<v Speaker 1>was nowhere near me, and he starts yelling at the car,

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<v Speaker 1>be careful, you're gonna hit my date, almost like announcing

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<v Speaker 1>like we're going to cross the street. Everybody stopped. How embarrassing. No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it was one of those things where it's like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it can't get worse. Okay, it can't get worse. And

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<v Speaker 1>it kept getting worse, and then I just wanted out.

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<v Speaker 1>One point where we're standing, you know, waiting to cross

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<v Speaker 1>another street, and he realizes that I'm standing like on

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<v Speaker 1>a grate, and he starts lecturing. He goes, do you

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<v Speaker 1>know how many people die every year standing on a

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<v Speaker 1>grate by falling through? And also slightly I'm like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, how many? He's like, well, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>but I bet the numbers really high. I guarantee people

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<v Speaker 1>fall through those things all the time on city streets.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the most paranoid mom ever on a date with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just I was like, make it stop. I can't,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't. Did you ever address it with him? Like no, no, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a charity corporation. I don't take care of people.

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<v Speaker 1>I was on a date. I'm not here to fix people.

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<v Speaker 1>I got my own stuff. Okay, I don't think that

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<v Speaker 1>I need to be the person to tell him all that. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>okay's interesting. Um, hey, Steffany, he is George. M wow, George,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, hold on one second. I think I need

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<v Speaker 1>to let Tiffany what's going on. Well, Tiffany, George is

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line listening and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>He was supposed to wait for a second. But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just a little confused here because I've been listening to

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<v Speaker 1>this whole thing where he thought you might die. If anything,

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<v Speaker 1>the whole day was to make you feel like you

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<v Speaker 1>would live, you know, for a long time. The point

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<v Speaker 1>of dating me is to make sure you know you

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<v Speaker 1>can live for a long time. Yeah, I don't. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't under say this is the nicest serial killer comments.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's being Yeah, well you got the nice

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<v Speaker 1>part right, okay, but the serial killer stuff and and

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<v Speaker 1>in that car was reckless. Okay, Okay, he had no George. Wait, wait, wait, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't hear listen. Yes, you heard a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>stuff I said. What you didn't hear is that there's

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<v Speaker 1>a seed didn't have a seed of potential. You've called

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<v Speaker 1>me selfless? Sweet, kind of cute. Yeah, he was paying

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<v Speaker 1>attention you bet you're sweet. But I was paying attention.

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<v Speaker 1>I wrote everything down. You're actually taking notes. Yes, this

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<v Speaker 1>is important to me. I've been writing everything down. Pros

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<v Speaker 1>who cons And let me tell you something. The pros

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<v Speaker 1>are winning right now. Selfless, sweet, kind of cute, interesting, nice,

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<v Speaker 1>there's the serial killer parts in the con George. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, George, you are people do all great. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just you are really sweet, you really mean well, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's really good about you. But maybe maybe you just

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<v Speaker 1>try too hard and then you lose sight of who

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<v Speaker 1>you are because you're trying to be this super dating

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<v Speaker 1>hero that doesn't exist, and then you end up becoming

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<v Speaker 1>nothing but scary things. Well, I'm just I just want

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<v Speaker 1>you to feel comfortable. And I guess I didn't. I

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<v Speaker 1>did it too much. Yeah, I did it too much, George,

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<v Speaker 1>George are coming off as an overbearing mother who nags

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<v Speaker 1>her child and that's not sexy. Yeah. Well, to me,

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<v Speaker 1>safety is the sexiest thing in a person. I think.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you know, George, George, Yes, you know what?

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<v Speaker 1>If that is what you in your heart believe and want,

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<v Speaker 1>then you need to find yourself some girl who's looking

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<v Speaker 1>for that. There's a girl out there somewhere looking for

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<v Speaker 1>the bread pit of safety, and you're her. Guy, guy,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna rock. Where do you think I can find her?

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<v Speaker 1>I do not know, Tiffany, would you like to go

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<v Speaker 1>out on a second date with George? Will pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't have to be a date date. You can

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<v Speaker 1>just get together and maybe help him find a girl

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<v Speaker 1>that's into safety. Um, come down, activity. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>know you don't want to chair a case, but he

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<v Speaker 1>needs help. Man, he's lifable. Listen, baby steps. I will

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<v Speaker 1>let him email me for dating advice and we could

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<v Speaker 1>start there. I can get your personal email, my workie bail. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds pretty good. Yeah, okay, so you didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>a second date out of the whole thing, but at

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<v Speaker 1>least in a long play here long play? Okay? Well wait,

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<v Speaker 1>wait wait, George, let me be clear. This is not

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<v Speaker 1>a long play on a second date. This is dating advice,

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<v Speaker 1>a dating coach. I'm going to help. No, no here,

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<v Speaker 1>so we'll go on a second date. No pressure, George.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you right now, if you ask me out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date, the answers no. But if you need advice,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here for you. No, I'd like if we were

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<v Speaker 1>to like do a mock date. He's trying everything he tried. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go out in role place sometime and see how

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<v Speaker 1>it works. George. I'm just saying it. It It could be nice,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, in the George I expected. George, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think you're going to get a second date out of this,

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<v Speaker 1>but you did just strike up a friendship. It sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like with Tiffany, and maybe she can help you in

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<v Speaker 1>the dating week too. You've made contact with Tiffany and

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<v Speaker 1>she's agreed to help you out. Thank you, Jewil, appreciate it. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>You're welcome. Oh my god, it's great. All right, great? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Friendship broken Jewil in the morning, text in at seven eight,

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<v Speaker 1>five nine two says I think safety is sexy too.

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<v Speaker 1>Give me George's number, talking about today's second day up date.

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<v Speaker 1>If you missed it, this dude, George tried really hard

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<v Speaker 1>to prove that he was a genuine good guy on

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<v Speaker 1>his first date, but he might have taken things a

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<v Speaker 1>little too far. He freaked out when the girl who

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<v Speaker 1>was out with named Tiffany, got a little too close

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<v Speaker 1>to the curb while they were cars driving by. He

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<v Speaker 1>even lectured her about the dangers of standing on grates

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of the streets, saying that lots of

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<v Speaker 1>people probably die every year from falling through those grates

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<v Speaker 1>and she should be more careful. Come on, she thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was just a little bit weird, but he said

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<v Speaker 1>he just wanted Tiffany to feel safe and comfortable because

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<v Speaker 1>safety is sexy. Oh, he's the only one that says that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the guy who's like you trying to role play with him,

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<v Speaker 1>heally puts on safety uniform like a construction outfit. And

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<v Speaker 1>then she said it was too weird and didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with George anymore. He's just too safe

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<v Speaker 1>for her. You know, it's like the hall monitor didn't

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<v Speaker 1>get the girl. Surprise, surprise. Remember, if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>do a second day up, they don't have to do

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<v Speaker 1>his email the show and we will call the person

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<v Speaker 1>who didn't call you back. Young Jeffrey's Song of the

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<v Speaker 1>Week is coming up at eight ten