Speaker 1: Brooking jubile in the morning second date update. The guy
Speaker 1: on the phone for a second date update today said
Speaker 1: in his email that he's quote a genuinely nice guy,
Speaker 1: So I believe him. Oh that's good. His name is George,
Speaker 1: and George is a genuinely nice guy. If it's in writing,
Speaker 1: I know it's true. So George, congratulations on being such
Speaker 1: a nice dude. Well, thank you. I appreciate it. He
Speaker 1: does sound lovely. Yeah, you're likable already, George. Thank you, George.
Speaker 1: If you're such a genuinely nice guy, why do you
Speaker 1: have to do a second date update? Well, that's uh.
Speaker 1: I never thought I would have to, I guess, but
Speaker 1: I figure, you know, we have the opportunity to figure
Speaker 1: it out. Is it that nice guys always finished last
Speaker 1: type scenario? That's kind of how it feels, to be honest,
Speaker 1: because I think it was a great date and nothing
Speaker 1: has seemed to have come from it, So I don't know.
Speaker 1: So tell us a little bit about her. What's her name?
Speaker 1: Her name's Tiffany. I found her on a dating website,
Speaker 1: which for stuff. By the way, I'm not a guy
Speaker 1: who goes on dating website. You know that I was
Speaker 1: actually pretty apprehensive about the whole stuff. Sure, that's what
Speaker 1: everybody always says, doesn't everybody's profile on dating website say,
Speaker 1: I'm new to this, it seems like that's the common thread.
Speaker 1: That's true for me, That is true. Never you gotta
Speaker 1: believe George is his word always. Yeah, he's a guy.
Speaker 1: So anyway, that was scrolling through profiles and a lot
Speaker 1: of them, you know, she kind of disingenuous. But then
Speaker 1: when I found Tiffany's, I don't know, it was it
Speaker 1: was just like one of those feelings you get, you know,
Speaker 1: and she was like outdoorsy, which I love that. But
Speaker 1: I think the biggest straw was like she had this
Speaker 1: beautiful blonde hair. I mean it's like, oh, I mean
Speaker 1: it's like silky and smooth. All right. Now, I think
Speaker 1: I know what kind of feelings you were getting. At first,
Speaker 1: I was thinking it was like something in your heart,
Speaker 1: but now I know it's somewhere else. No, Hey, I'm
Speaker 1: just a guy that likes a girl with a lot
Speaker 1: of hair, you know, and she's got slowly beautiful hair.
Speaker 1: I never heard a man say that before. You're just
Speaker 1: saying like I looked at it and it looked like
Speaker 1: you know, like a hair model of some sort of
Speaker 1: shampoo or some guys. So you're not a boob guy,
Speaker 1: You're not a butt guy. You're a hair guy. I mean, hey,
Speaker 1: you know it teams very important to me. Dude, I
Speaker 1: do not want to sit next to him during a
Speaker 1: shampoo commercial on TV. George loves me some hair, that's all.
Speaker 1: Did you really say that in third person? Shame? And
Speaker 1: what you like? So you loved her hair? Tell us
Speaker 1: about your date when you guys actually went out. Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: We've been talking for two months, you know, and I
Speaker 1: was very apprehensive about like coming on too strong. I've
Speaker 1: you know, I've read articles about like creepy guys taking
Speaker 1: girls out and stuff. So when we went on this
Speaker 1: first date, safety was really like that's the word. Like
Speaker 1: I was priority. Like I told her, I'm not going
Speaker 1: to take you to a picnic. I'm not going to
Speaker 1: take you to the park because of you know, like
Speaker 1: wooded areas. Okay, but you understand that most women, if
Speaker 1: they are going to get a message from a guy,
Speaker 1: list all the creepy places they're not gonna take you.
Speaker 1: It comes off as really creepy. Yeah no, no, no,
Speaker 1: it's just so she knows that I'm on the same board,
Speaker 1: like did you did you literally say to her, don't worry,
Speaker 1: I won't take you near any wooded areas. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: she still went out with you. Yeskay the problem guys?
Speaker 1: Are you sure? So I took her to like a
Speaker 1: you know, like downtown where there's like a lot of people,
Speaker 1: had a lot of lights. Yeah, it was during the
Speaker 1: day day, Okay. Did she seem to enjoy herself. Yeah.
Speaker 1: We had a great time. And then I was like,
Speaker 1: do you want to call it, you know, quick, and
Speaker 1: she's like that, let's still get a drink. So I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: you know we're that's step two. We're getting there. You
Speaker 1: took her, You took her to a place to get drinks,
Speaker 1: and only bottles of water that were already closed she
Speaker 1: could open herself. Yeah, okay, I mean everything she was
Speaker 1: getting directly from the part that right, So she was
Speaker 1: safe with you, George, Yeah, exactly. That's I wanted her
Speaker 1: to feel that way. Okay. Okay. You know I'm talking
Speaker 1: to my co workers at work and I tell them,
Speaker 1: you know, this next part, and they're like, that's too far. Okay.
Speaker 1: So what I did was when we sat down and
Speaker 1: we were talking about, you know, what we do to
Speaker 1: stay fit and everything, and then I, you know, I'm
Speaker 1: just told her like just so you know I'm tested
Speaker 1: on everything, and um waited on what you know all
Speaker 1: like you know, I'm up to date with shots and
Speaker 1: vaccinations and you know I'm clean STD watch. So you
Speaker 1: just told her that or were you having a conversation
Speaker 1: where that work Like we were talking about like working
Speaker 1: out and stuff like thing fit, so you went, I
Speaker 1: think it's pretty relevant you made the leap from fitness
Speaker 1: to STD yeah, because it's all like hell okay. And
Speaker 1: how did she react when you told her that? Well,
Speaker 1: first off, I think she was like a little skeptical
Speaker 1: to me. So I was like, oh, she doesn't believe me.
Speaker 1: So it's like no, no, no, I had it in
Speaker 1: my bag that I didn't plan it, but I did
Speaker 1: have my results because I had just done it like
Speaker 1: a week ago. You don't date a lot? Do you
Speaker 1: date a lot? George? I mean where do you find women?
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? So I'm trying online, But
Speaker 1: I'm just asking the question because to bring your well,
Speaker 1: first of all, it sounds like you got at STD
Speaker 1: test leading up to the date. Yeah, I leading up
Speaker 1: to the date, but it wasn't because I was going
Speaker 1: to have a date. Okay, Okay, I was thinking you
Speaker 1: did it specifically because you were going out with a woman,
Speaker 1: and you want to hear eventually I would have a date. Okay.
Speaker 1: The thing is, it's like sometimes you know, I'm told
Speaker 1: that can happen pretty quickly. You know, you go one
Speaker 1: into the next, and I don't want to ruin the mood,
Speaker 1: right you just you want to be prepared in case
Speaker 1: dinner drinks leads to something else. Yeah, And I want
Speaker 1: her to feel safe. Did she feel safe? Well? The
Speaker 1: thing one is, after I told her, she said that
Speaker 1: she had to get going for a tennis lesson. Yeah,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, she had one of those random tennis lessons
Speaker 1: pop up in the middle of the day. Either that
Speaker 1: or she was still on my train. It's not about
Speaker 1: being health conscious and stuff. And she remembered and it
Speaker 1: just popped your head. So what happened before she split
Speaker 1: for her tennis lesson? How did you guys in things? Well, um,
Speaker 1: you know, we shook hands like a gentleman, we do.
Speaker 1: And she um left pretty quick after that, and I
Speaker 1: haven't heard from her and her account is still active,
Speaker 1: so I think she's getting my messages. I don't know
Speaker 1: how many messages if you tried to send her I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess like four at this point.
Speaker 1: All right, well we'll play a song, we'll come back,
Speaker 1: and we'll call her and get your second date up date. Okay,
Speaker 1: that'd be great, Thank you. Hang on. Man be safe,
Speaker 1: always man, always safe over here brooking jubil in the morning.
Speaker 1: Second date up. Sometimes the more you say something, the
Speaker 1: more skeptical people will be of you. Like, for example,
Speaker 1: if I go to a crowded department store this weekend,
Speaker 1: strip down all my clothes, raise my hand, and yell,
Speaker 1: I am not a pervert. Not a pervert, you know what.
Speaker 1: Those people should believe me. You know why, because I
Speaker 1: said it, and I said it loudly. And George, who's
Speaker 1: on the phone with us right now for a second
Speaker 1: date update, said over and over again to his date
Speaker 1: that he is not a dangerous man, so she should
Speaker 1: believe him. He told her before they went out. Don't worry,
Speaker 1: I'm not taking you any wooded areas. Yeah, nothing like that.
Speaker 1: Not bring him a duct tape with me or anything.
Speaker 1: Also brought along his medical history to show her that
Speaker 1: he was STD free on a first date, which she
Speaker 1: didn't ask for it. Let's remember that. And of course
Speaker 1: he said that he's a genuinely nice guy. George. I
Speaker 1: think that your downfall was you tried to convince her
Speaker 1: a little too hard of what a good dude you are. Okay,
Speaker 1: I did all the right moves, you know. I will
Speaker 1: admit maybe didn't need to bring up the medical history
Speaker 1: on the first date. But it's still good news. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it is good news. Actually, that's a very
Speaker 1: good point. It might be a little strange to show
Speaker 1: her that, but yeah, it's good news as long as
Speaker 1: you're STD free. Yeah, you didn't have to have a
Speaker 1: chlamydia talk right after you showed it to her, so bonus. Right,
Speaker 1: I'm nothing, you know. All right, Well, I'm gonna dial
Speaker 1: her phone number right now and find out why she's
Speaker 1: not calling you back. Okay, great, here we go. Hello.
Speaker 1: Hi is Tiffany there? This is Tiffany. Hey, Tiffany, how
Speaker 1: are you? Who's this? Oh? My name is Jubil. I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: do I know you? No? Probably not. My name is
Speaker 1: Jubil from Brook and Jewel in the morning. It's a
Speaker 1: radio show. Um, okay, are you selling something? No, I'm
Speaker 1: not selling anything. I actually want to call you because
Speaker 1: one of our listeners asked me if I could get
Speaker 1: a hold of you. His name is George, and George
Speaker 1: emailed us and said that he went out on a
Speaker 1: date with you, right right, and we do a segment
Speaker 1: on our show called the Second Date Update. But George
Speaker 1: really liked you a lot and he would love to
Speaker 1: see if he could go out with you again. But
Speaker 1: he's wondering if he did something wrong. Um. Hm, well, listen,
Speaker 1: I have gone on some dates in my life. I
Speaker 1: have never met someone like George. That's a good way
Speaker 1: to say it. Ud come did he come off like
Speaker 1: a serial killer? Kind of Um? The nicest one ever
Speaker 1: serial killer ever? Okay, always are hey? At least he
Speaker 1: was nice, right, it was? It was interesting to say
Speaker 1: the least. Um, there's like a seed of potential in
Speaker 1: there that needs some nurturing. So George has a seed
Speaker 1: of potential. Yes, he's listen, he is incredibly selfless, very sweet,
Speaker 1: overly concerned with my safety, and he's STD free. He
Speaker 1: told us that, Yeah, I learned that on the date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So he told us about that and he admitted that
Speaker 1: he thinks that could have been the reason that you're
Speaker 1: not calling him, And there's that little seed. He kind
Speaker 1: of knows, but he doesn't. You know, can you explain
Speaker 1: the date in your words? We heard from him a
Speaker 1: little bit about your date, but I'm just curious to
Speaker 1: hear your side of the story. Well, you know, initially
Speaker 1: it was like, very oh polite, and here, let me
Speaker 1: get your chair, and you know, you guys, I sneeze
Speaker 1: east during the date and kindly he said, bless you,
Speaker 1: and then he went to go blow my nose. I
Speaker 1: went to go blow my nose. And then I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, do I have like a book or
Speaker 1: hanging out of my nose? Hown embarrassing? And he was
Speaker 1: like dabbing my nose and he's like, oh good. I
Speaker 1: just didn't want any germs just spread because I don't
Speaker 1: like germs and I don't want them to get on you.
Speaker 1: So it was this very awkward thing at the beginning.
Speaker 1: And then we leave the restaurant. We're walking and you know,
Speaker 1: he was walking on the sidewalk and we're about to
Speaker 1: cross the street and there was a car and it
Speaker 1: was nowhere near me, and he starts yelling at the car,
Speaker 1: be careful, you're gonna hit my date, almost like announcing
Speaker 1: like we're going to cross the street. Everybody stopped. How embarrassing. No, no,
Speaker 1: it was one of those things where it's like, Okay,
Speaker 1: it can't get worse. Okay, it can't get worse. And
Speaker 1: it kept getting worse, and then I just wanted out.
Speaker 1: One point where we're standing, you know, waiting to cross
Speaker 1: another street, and he realizes that I'm standing like on
Speaker 1: a grate, and he starts lecturing. He goes, do you
Speaker 1: know how many people die every year standing on a
Speaker 1: grate by falling through? And also slightly I'm like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, how many? He's like, well, I don't know,
Speaker 1: but I bet the numbers really high. I guarantee people
Speaker 1: fall through those things all the time on city streets.
Speaker 1: Like the most paranoid mom ever on a date with you,
Speaker 1: and I just I was like, make it stop. I can't,
Speaker 1: I can't. Did you ever address it with him? Like no, no, No,
Speaker 1: I'm not a charity corporation. I don't take care of people.
Speaker 1: I was on a date. I'm not here to fix people.
Speaker 1: I got my own stuff. Okay, I don't think that
Speaker 1: I need to be the person to tell him all that. Oh,
Speaker 1: okay's interesting. Um, hey, Steffany, he is George. M wow, George,
Speaker 1: hold on, hold on one second. I think I need
Speaker 1: to let Tiffany what's going on. Well, Tiffany, George is
Speaker 1: on the other line listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 1: He was supposed to wait for a second. But I'm
Speaker 1: just a little confused here because I've been listening to
Speaker 1: this whole thing where he thought you might die. If anything,
Speaker 1: the whole day was to make you feel like you
Speaker 1: would live, you know, for a long time. The point
Speaker 1: of dating me is to make sure you know you
Speaker 1: can live for a long time. Yeah, I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't under say this is the nicest serial killer comments.
Speaker 1: I mean it's being Yeah, well you got the nice
Speaker 1: part right, okay, but the serial killer stuff and and
Speaker 1: in that car was reckless. Okay, Okay, he had no George. Wait, wait, wait, wait,
Speaker 1: you didn't hear listen. Yes, you heard a lot of
Speaker 1: stuff I said. What you didn't hear is that there's
Speaker 1: a seed didn't have a seed of potential. You've called
Speaker 1: me selfless? Sweet, kind of cute. Yeah, he was paying
Speaker 1: attention you bet you're sweet. But I was paying attention.
Speaker 1: I wrote everything down. You're actually taking notes. Yes, this
Speaker 1: is important to me. I've been writing everything down. Pros
Speaker 1: who cons And let me tell you something. The pros
Speaker 1: are winning right now. Selfless, sweet, kind of cute, interesting, nice,
Speaker 1: there's the serial killer parts in the con George. Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, George, you are people do all great. I'm
Speaker 1: just you are really sweet, you really mean well, and
Speaker 1: that's really good about you. But maybe maybe you just
Speaker 1: try too hard and then you lose sight of who
Speaker 1: you are because you're trying to be this super dating
Speaker 1: hero that doesn't exist, and then you end up becoming
Speaker 1: nothing but scary things. Well, I'm just I just want
Speaker 1: you to feel comfortable. And I guess I didn't. I
Speaker 1: did it too much. Yeah, I did it too much, George,
Speaker 1: George are coming off as an overbearing mother who nags
Speaker 1: her child and that's not sexy. Yeah. Well, to me,
Speaker 1: safety is the sexiest thing in a person. I think.
Speaker 1: All right, you know, George, George, Yes, you know what?
Speaker 1: If that is what you in your heart believe and want,
Speaker 1: then you need to find yourself some girl who's looking
Speaker 1: for that. There's a girl out there somewhere looking for
Speaker 1: the bread pit of safety, and you're her. Guy, guy,
Speaker 1: you're gonna rock. Where do you think I can find her?
Speaker 1: I do not know, Tiffany, would you like to go
Speaker 1: out on a second date with George? Will pay for it.
Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be a date date. You can
Speaker 1: just get together and maybe help him find a girl
Speaker 1: that's into safety. Um, come down, activity. I mean, I
Speaker 1: know you don't want to chair a case, but he
Speaker 1: needs help. Man, he's lifable. Listen, baby steps. I will
Speaker 1: let him email me for dating advice and we could
Speaker 1: start there. I can get your personal email, my workie bail. Okay,
Speaker 1: that sounds pretty good. Yeah, okay, so you didn't get
Speaker 1: a second date out of the whole thing, but at
Speaker 1: least in a long play here long play? Okay? Well wait,
Speaker 1: wait wait, George, let me be clear. This is not
Speaker 1: a long play on a second date. This is dating advice,
Speaker 1: a dating coach. I'm going to help. No, no here,
Speaker 1: so we'll go on a second date. No pressure, George.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, if you ask me out
Speaker 1: on a date, the answers no. But if you need advice,
Speaker 1: I'm here for you. No, I'd like if we were
Speaker 1: to like do a mock date. He's trying everything he tried. Yeah,
Speaker 1: let's go out in role place sometime and see how
Speaker 1: it works. George. I'm just saying it. It It could be nice,
Speaker 1: you know, in the George I expected. George, I don't
Speaker 1: think you're going to get a second date out of this,
Speaker 1: but you did just strike up a friendship. It sounds
Speaker 1: like with Tiffany, and maybe she can help you in
Speaker 1: the dating week too. You've made contact with Tiffany and
Speaker 1: she's agreed to help you out. Thank you, Jewil, appreciate it. Man,
Speaker 1: You're welcome. Oh my god, it's great. All right, great? Right?
Speaker 1: Friendship broken Jewil in the morning, text in at seven eight,
Speaker 1: five nine two says I think safety is sexy too.
Speaker 1: Give me George's number, talking about today's second day up date.
Speaker 1: If you missed it, this dude, George tried really hard
Speaker 1: to prove that he was a genuine good guy on
Speaker 1: his first date, but he might have taken things a
Speaker 1: little too far. He freaked out when the girl who
Speaker 1: was out with named Tiffany, got a little too close
Speaker 1: to the curb while they were cars driving by. He
Speaker 1: even lectured her about the dangers of standing on grates
Speaker 1: in the middle of the streets, saying that lots of
Speaker 1: people probably die every year from falling through those grates
Speaker 1: and she should be more careful. Come on, she thought
Speaker 1: it was just a little bit weird, but he said
Speaker 1: he just wanted Tiffany to feel safe and comfortable because
Speaker 1: safety is sexy. Oh, he's the only one that says that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the guy who's like you trying to role play with him,
Speaker 1: heally puts on safety uniform like a construction outfit. And
Speaker 1: then she said it was too weird and didn't want
Speaker 1: to go out with George anymore. He's just too safe
Speaker 1: for her. You know, it's like the hall monitor didn't
Speaker 1: get the girl. Surprise, surprise. Remember, if you want to
Speaker 1: do a second day up, they don't have to do
Speaker 1: his email the show and we will call the person
Speaker 1: who didn't call you back. Young Jeffrey's Song of the
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