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Speaker 1: Brooking jubile in the morning second date update. The guy

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Speaker 1: on the phone for a second date update today said

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Speaker 1: in his email that he's quote a genuinely nice guy,

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Speaker 1: So I believe him. Oh that's good. His name is George,

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Speaker 1: and George is a genuinely nice guy. If it's in writing,

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Speaker 1: I know it's true. So George, congratulations on being such

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Speaker 1: a nice dude. Well, thank you. I appreciate it. He

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Speaker 1: does sound lovely. Yeah, you're likable already, George. Thank you, George.

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Speaker 1: If you're such a genuinely nice guy, why do you

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Speaker 1: have to do a second date update? Well, that's uh.

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Speaker 1: I never thought I would have to, I guess, but

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Speaker 1: I figure, you know, we have the opportunity to figure

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Speaker 1: it out. Is it that nice guys always finished last

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Speaker 1: type scenario? That's kind of how it feels, to be honest,

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Speaker 1: because I think it was a great date and nothing

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Speaker 1: So tell us a little bit about her. What's her name?

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Speaker 1: Her name's Tiffany. I found her on a dating website,

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Speaker 1: which for stuff. By the way, I'm not a guy

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Speaker 1: actually pretty apprehensive about the whole stuff. Sure, that's what

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Speaker 1: everybody always says, doesn't everybody's profile on dating website say,

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Speaker 1: I'm new to this, it seems like that's the common thread.

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Speaker 1: That's true for me, That is true. Never you gotta

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Speaker 1: believe George is his word always. Yeah, he's a guy.

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Speaker 1: So anyway, that was scrolling through profiles and a lot

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Speaker 1: was just like one of those feelings you get, you know,

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Speaker 1: it's like silky and smooth. All right. Now, I think

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Speaker 1: I know what kind of feelings you were getting. At first,

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Speaker 1: I never heard a man say that before. You're just

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Speaker 1: You're not a butt guy. You're a hair guy. I mean, hey,

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Speaker 1: you know it teams very important to me. Dude, I

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Speaker 1: Did you really say that in third person? Shame? And

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Speaker 1: what you like? So you loved her hair? Tell us

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Speaker 1: about your date when you guys actually went out. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: We've been talking for two months, you know, and I

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Speaker 1: you know, I've read articles about like creepy guys taking

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Speaker 1: first date, safety was really like that's the word. Like

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Speaker 1: list all the creepy places they're not gonna take you.

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Speaker 1: It comes off as really creepy. Yeah no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: Are you sure? So I took her to like a

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Speaker 1: We had a great time. And then I was like,

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Speaker 1: date a lot? George? I mean where do you find women?

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Speaker 1: test leading up to the date. Yeah, I leading up

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Speaker 1: to the date, but it wasn't because I was going

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Speaker 1: right you just you want to be prepared in case

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Speaker 1: and we'll call her and get your second date up date. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that'd be great, Thank you. Hang on. Man be safe,

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Speaker 1: always man, always safe over here brooking jubil in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Second date up. Sometimes the more you say something, the

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Speaker 1: I'm not taking you any wooded areas. Yeah, nothing like that.

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Speaker 1: Hi is Tiffany there? This is Tiffany. Hey, Tiffany, how

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Speaker 1: are you? Who's this? Oh? My name is Jubil. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: okay's interesting. Um, hey, Steffany, he is George. M wow, George,

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Speaker 1: you didn't hear listen. Yes, you heard a lot of

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Speaker 1: me selfless? Sweet, kind of cute. Yeah, he was paying

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Speaker 1: my gosh, George, you are people do all great. I'm

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Speaker 1: I do not know, Tiffany, would you like to go

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Speaker 1: I'm here for you. No, I'd like if we were

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Speaker 1: it works. George. I'm just saying it. It It could be nice,

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Speaker 1: she's agreed to help you out. Thank you, Jewil, appreciate it. Man,

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Speaker 1: You're welcome. Oh my god, it's great. All right, great? Right?

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Speaker 1: Friendship broken Jewil in the morning, text in at seven eight,

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Speaker 1: five nine two says I think safety is sexy too.

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Speaker 1: Give me George's number, talking about today's second day up date.

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Speaker 1: If you missed it, this dude, George tried really hard

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Speaker 1: who didn't call you back. Young Jeffrey's Song of the

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