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Speaker 1: Hello the Internet, and welcome to season two oh two,

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Speaker 1: Episode five of Dirt day Lys Like guys, the production

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Speaker 1: of I Heart Radio. This is a podcast where we

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Speaker 1: take a deep dive into America's share consciousness. It is Friday,

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Speaker 1: September seven, day t G I f am I right,

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, my name Tacko Brian A. K. And so

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Speaker 1: I wake in the morning and I'll step outside and

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Speaker 1: I take a deep breath and not get real high

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Speaker 1: and uh screamed from the top of my lungs. Ted

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Speaker 1: Cruise eight my son. That is courtesy of Lex Loupe.

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Speaker 1: That is a song. He had a couple of verses apparently,

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Speaker 1: you know, replacing what's going on with Ted Cruise eight

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Speaker 1: my son works perfectly throughout that, like she's begging for

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Speaker 1: a revolution. She's you know, cries sometimes when I'm lying

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Speaker 1: in bed because Ted Cruise eight her son. It makes

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Speaker 1: a lot of sense. It could be just like a

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Speaker 1: weird Al's first just one word switched out and it

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Speaker 1: totally makes sense. And I'm sure Linda Perry was thinking

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Speaker 1: about that too, probably one of the great songwriters. Of course. Well,

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Speaker 1: I am thrilled to be joined as always by my

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Speaker 1: co host Mr Miles Gras Doom, Doom Doom. I drink

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Speaker 1: a little pee. I can't taste the COVID nineteen. I'm

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Speaker 1: a t v Z hose and a man. My com

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Speaker 1: is worthless and flat. Okay, if you don't know Red

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Speaker 1: Hot Chili Pepper's deep cuts, that's p from One Hot

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Speaker 1: Minute and that's a song we're fleecing. But shout out

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Speaker 1: on the discord for I guess I though it wasn't me.

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Speaker 1: I was mostly Jack and the guests who were talking

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Speaker 1: about their p determining or their their palette for tasting

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Speaker 1: covid and urine. But you know what, It's part of

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Speaker 1: the lore, so we will accept it. I can tell

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Speaker 1: you if you got covid, just pepe Wait. The song

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Speaker 1: is called originally p a yeah, and okay, I'm a

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Speaker 1: little pee. I drink a little I'm a pheeny tiny. Oh,

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Speaker 1: my cat's called tiny and three years ago, every time

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Speaker 1: I've seen that part, yeah, it's it is weirdly cute

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Speaker 1: for my hedge of the Peppers. I feel like fully

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Speaker 1: is real cute, which I guess is to be expected

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Speaker 1: from somebody who's who took the name of a tiny

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Speaker 1: little creature. Yeah, anyways, Uh, we are thrilled to be

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Speaker 1: joined in our third seat by a brilliant artist, translator,

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Speaker 1: writer and podcast or who you can hear on her

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Speaker 1: beautiful paintings of people like Nicole Buyer and Little Nasa X.

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Speaker 1: Please welcome that brilliant and talented are you me shinozaki

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Speaker 1: im ah you me from a far off place with

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Speaker 1: Jack and Miles hosting t Daisy hand side Gang will

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Speaker 1: here upon that second rate and on us saying this

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Speaker 1: is why you all shout stream come again yes today.

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Speaker 1: Also host the podcast what a Right from Me? I'll

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Speaker 1: ship it to your door back on Daily Sight talking trends.

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Speaker 1: That's right, I'm on Zoom with Jacket Miles right where

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Speaker 1: I belong. Wow, look at got slow clap with a

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Speaker 1: single tear that was by the row over on the

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Speaker 1: Brew Wow Ow Brew beautifully performed with Yeah, what's new

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Speaker 1: are you? How are you living? What's new? How's the

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Speaker 1: weather in Japan? I haven't been in three years because

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Speaker 1: of everything, so I have to keep asking you how

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Speaker 1: is it there? Well? Weatherwise? It's been a little back

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Speaker 1: and forth. September has not decided whether or not it's

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Speaker 1: going to be following yet. It's been a little wild. Otherwise,

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Speaker 1: we're in the middle of some I guess political stuff

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Speaker 1: because Suga is gonna be our our current prime minister

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Speaker 1: who was appointed by Prime Minister Abbey last year when

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Speaker 1: he quit because he couldn't well. He said it's for

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Speaker 1: his health, but he said he couldn't really handle all

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Speaker 1: the criticism for his his his reaction to COVID basically.

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Speaker 1: But now Suga is the one who's stepping down. So

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Speaker 1: everyone's talking about who the government's going to appoint a

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Speaker 1: new prime minister and maybe we'll get an election still

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Speaker 1: not clear. Yeah, yeah, that's what it's our things about

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Speaker 1: to kick off there too, like campaigns and things pretty soon.

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Speaker 1: Well they're saying if there is an election, that will

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Speaker 1: be in October, but everything has been like maybe maybe

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Speaker 1: maybe maybe I right, right, So they might just put

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Speaker 1: our first female prime minister, who is basically a fusion

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Speaker 1: of market that you're in, Nancy Reagan so love to see. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: especially in a changing world right now, we need we

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Speaker 1: need more people who are who want to conserve the

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Speaker 1: old way, the terrible, terrible fucking recipe. Pretend to say

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Speaker 1: that'll that'll work. COVID deniers want to do like there

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Speaker 1: you go. You gotta keep up. I know it's tough.

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Speaker 1: challenge of living in this era. Mm hmm. You guys

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Speaker 1: were talking before we started recording. You're both stepping on

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Speaker 1: the same beverage. Yeah yeah, but yeah, Mookie, that that

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Speaker 1: Barley tea. It's so easy to make it. You can

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Speaker 1: just throw your tea bag in your little you know,

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Speaker 1: Uh and it's very healthy. And then you put a

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Speaker 1: know what I mean. But it's it's also it's got

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Speaker 1: pealth benefits, you know, antioxidants of vitamins is good for

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Speaker 1: your digestion, and a bunch of caffeine, right, not just

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Speaker 1: fucking fuel. You none of that sorry, Jack just wasn't

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Speaker 1: so popular. Bro. Wait so what does it do? Wait? Like,

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Speaker 1: so what does it do for me? Like? How does

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Speaker 1: it take me out of self? So that I just

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Speaker 1: don't feel anything? No for me, it's just I think

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Speaker 1: family member's houses, especially in the summer. So when the

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Speaker 1: And I tell people, if you like something that's like water,

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Speaker 1: it's it's not there's no sugar or anything like that.

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Speaker 1: good for you. It's almost like a more gentle water

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Speaker 1: All Right, Well, I mean we're going to get to

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Speaker 1: know you a little bit better in a moment. First,

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Speaker 1: a couple of things we're talking about. We're gonna talking

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Speaker 1: about how the fears around critical race theory and the

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Speaker 1: turns out they they overlap, And we'll talk about how

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Speaker 1: scientists came to that conclusion. We're gonna talk about we

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Speaker 1: don't usually go too deep on true crime on this show,

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Speaker 1: new fal trend, which is divorce, all of that plenty more.

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Speaker 1: But first, I mean, what is something from your search history?

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Speaker 1: My search history is a home suite home. I was

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Speaker 1: listening to another podcast talk that was talking about something

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Speaker 1: related to like like the Wizard of Oz and you

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Speaker 1: hold on, hold on hold, like you said, you listen

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Speaker 1: to another podcast. Let's now you know what drama is.

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Speaker 1: Justin like we're heading out Anna, But yeah, we tried to.

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Speaker 1: We can't figure out why anyone would listen to us

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Speaker 1: strict we pretend that this podcast exists Jack, because the

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Speaker 1: made my day. That's okay. So I was listening to podcasts.

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Speaker 1: I was talking about the movie Returned to Oz and

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Speaker 1: using part of the melody I think at the very

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Speaker 1: to Oz. It's is it what I just? I just

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Speaker 1: they react. I didn't realize Perusa Bulk from The Craft

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Speaker 1: old diary. But yeah, so it's like it's like one

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Speaker 1: sequel of the Wizard of Oz. Yeah, there's some very

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Speaker 1: all returned to oz A Jason, Yeah, what what is

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Speaker 1: something you think is overrated? I had a lot of

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Speaker 1: a reason to dislike something is overrated. Mhm. It could

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Speaker 1: focus on disliking because, like, I think that if you

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Speaker 1: these fucking people here? Now? I remember when America was

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Speaker 1: this other thing, and so you know, I think a

428
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:21,439
Speaker 1: lot of the time that the conservative media was definitely

429
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:24,359
Speaker 1: focusing on it because it was just as we thought,

430
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:26,280
Speaker 1: were like, well, this is the thing that is helping

431
00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 1: them avoid like speaking about Joe Biden at all, are

432
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:34,200
Speaker 1: saying anything remotely positive about what's happening. That they really

433
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 1: found something that was able to tap into just white

434
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 1: fear and their fear of the inversion of racial power

435
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:46,119
Speaker 1: in the country. Yeah, and then a political scientists was

436
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:49,359
Speaker 1: I guess, I guess went through demographic data and found

437
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:52,280
Speaker 1: that the same thing was true of the people who

438
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:55,399
Speaker 1: were there on January six, right, that they were in

439
00:25:55,520 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 1: counties with the most significant declines in non Hispanic white potations. Yeah,

440
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:05,840
Speaker 1: he said, those counties most likely to produce insurrectionists. It's

441
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 1: just like so much fear, you know that this is

442
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:12,640
Speaker 1: just the fear of losing status, because I'm sure, depending

443
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 1: on their very rigid view of how America works, if

444
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:18,119
Speaker 1: you're not white, then you're in trouble. And so to

445
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 1: see things change must create some feeling of the old

446
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:24,159
Speaker 1: and lack is coming my way, because that's been the

447
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:26,159
Speaker 1: case for others who are not, you know, part of

448
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 1: the majority demographic. And I just see, like, in general,

449
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 1: a lot of fear coming out of conservatives. There's this

450
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:36,400
Speaker 1: person I went to school with who like posted on

451
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 1: Instagram and they were they took a picture of like

452
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 1: a dumpster that had been like tagged by like a gang,

453
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 1: and then like a like a random plank of wood

454
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:45,919
Speaker 1: next to it that I had also been tagged, and

455
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 1: they were legitimately they're like do I need to be

456
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 1: worried about this like this tagging like, oh my god,

457
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:55,480
Speaker 1: California is just is falling apart. I'm so worried. And

458
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 1: they said the next thing for me is I'm getting

459
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Speaker 1: a concealed carry permit because I will not be a

460
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,919
Speaker 1: victim because they just saw some graffiti on something. You know,

461
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:07,879
Speaker 1: like the the environment that I think is helping power

462
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 1: this so much is just I mean, hysteria has been

463
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,679
Speaker 1: everywhere in the United States, but like specifically as it

464
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:16,639
Speaker 1: relates to just seeing any kind of shift in what

465
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:19,600
Speaker 1: is happening in your immediate area and taking that is

466
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 1: this is some kind of terror. What is happening, it's

467
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,720
Speaker 1: putting up We can just see how that's manifesting throughout

468
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,960
Speaker 1: the country right now. Yeah, they're not being shy about

469
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:32,480
Speaker 1: it either. I mean Tugger Carlson did a whole thing

470
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 1: about how the census data it was like so alarming

471
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:42,119
Speaker 1: because it showed that white populations were shrinking, and you know,

472
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:47,520
Speaker 1: these are these are the exact talking points that white

473
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 1: supremacists and white nationalists were using. Like back I remember

474
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 1: like reading up on and even listening to a podcast

475
00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 1: of a white nationalist during like two thousand, fifteen, two

476
00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 1: thous in sixteen as Trump was rising, and you know,

477
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,080
Speaker 1: it was like, well, people are saying that, like the

478
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 1: things he's saying are like dog whistle, so let me

479
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: see like what they're actually saying about it. And it's

480
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 1: all about like cultural replacement and like the white genocide

481
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:21,680
Speaker 1: being just you know that like their values and the

482
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:26,400
Speaker 1: idea that they are of of what supremacy is being challenged. Yeah,

483
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 1: it's very frustrating. It's like, I mean, like you all said,

484
00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 1: it's this has happened so many times, it's extremely predictable

485
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:37,360
Speaker 1: at this point, is this extremely like waters way, it's

486
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:41,200
Speaker 1: kind of news, But yeah, it's uh, it's just it's

487
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 1: so frustrating, Like you understand, like we could because we've

488
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 1: seen it before. You know exactly what the mindset is.

489
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 1: But it's like, how do we get people out of it?

490
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 1: You know? Yeah, And I think it's just merely it's

491
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 1: like anything when people talk about how they've been brought

492
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 1: back from like extremism or whatever, it's merely because they

493
00:28:56,680 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 1: were never interacting with the people that they hated exactly

494
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:03,959
Speaker 1: and never would even give themselves the opportunity for that.

495
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 1: And it wasn't until those interactions too, that sometimes people

496
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 1: be entertained. Now, not everyone has the same sort of

497
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 1: flexibility of mind, but it seems like that's the one

498
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 1: common thing is Yeah, people are you know, they stay

499
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 1: in their bubbles, and that makes it much easier to

500
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 1: obscure what, you know, you believe the reality of another

501
00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 1: group to be. But yeah, I said, not surprising, um,

502
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:28,360
Speaker 1: And yeah, I don't know. I don't know what to

503
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 1: say to them, because I'm sure in their mind they

504
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:34,240
Speaker 1: see like they're like, look at the white population shrinking.

505
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 1: Like in their mind, do they think it's like hors

506
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:39,680
Speaker 1: because horrible things are happening, or that just other people

507
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 1: are here also having you know, procreating with people who

508
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 1: are of different ethnicities and we're just becoming more diverse.

509
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 1: Rather than this, I think they have to frame it

510
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 1: as the walls are closing in on us and we

511
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 1: have to fight we have to fight it back. Yep.

512
00:29:56,400 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 1: All right, Well, speaking of the the sound with supremacy

513
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 1: and not surprising, I want to talk about the story

514
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 1: that is starting to hit people's radars because the this

515
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 1: guy Alex Murder was just arrested. Um. The headline on

516
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 1: BuzzFeed news is police arrested the South Carolina lawyer who

517
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 1: said who they said planned his own killing for an

518
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:27,959
Speaker 1: insurance payout, which is taking him completely at his word,

519
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 1: and like the backstory is so wild. So let me

520
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:35,520
Speaker 1: just kind of go through like that, that's his alibi,

521
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 1: is that he hired somebody to kill him. That's the

522
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 1: best case scenario for him. So wait, what do you

523
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 1: mean like in that he was like, hey man, I'll

524
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 1: you'll just choke me out, or like you're gonna give

525
00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 1: me a lethal injectory. He got shot in the head,

526
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 1: but it was a graze to his head and my suspicion,

527
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 1: he's claiming it was a botched He hired somebody to

528
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 1: kill him and they just like missed by accident, couldn't

529
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 1: like land the plan on the head shot, and he

530
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 1: therefore like and the reason for it was he wanted

531
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 1: to get an insurance pay out for his son. I

532
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 1: think it's actually he had the person miss on purpose

533
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 1: to try and throw suspicion off of him. And so

534
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 1: let let me just kind of take you back to

535
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 1: the beginning of this. So the Murdoch family were a

536
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 1: political legal dynasty in South Carolina for generations they've basically

537
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 1: been like the head lawyers in town, including like multi

538
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 1: generational holding down the solicitor general role since the nineteen twenties.

539
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 1: Like they're just like they're entrenched as fuck. And you

540
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 1: know there are people from local people who are like

541
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:53,240
Speaker 1: they're they're the salt of the earth, they're the best people,

542
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 1: including Bakari Sellers was like he they're the nicest people

543
00:31:56,840 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 1: in the world. But then other people, like on local

544
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 1: attorney was like, you don't cross the murders or you do.

545
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 1: If you do cross them, you don't let them find

546
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 1: out that it was you, because they'll come on down

547
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 1: on you hard, and they'll come down on you with

548
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 1: all that they've got. They have a lot of influence

549
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 1: in power and they'll use it against their enemies. So

550
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 1: like that standard Ridge generational wealth corruption ship. But so

551
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:26,000
Speaker 1: things first started unraveling when the youngest son of the

552
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:30,440
Speaker 1: guy who just got arrested for hiring somebody to kill him,

553
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 1: his youngest son crashed their family boat into a bridge

554
00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 1: pyleon Well just hamp and three of the passengers were

555
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 1: thrown into the water and the body of one of

556
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:46,080
Speaker 1: them was found a week later. And you know she

557
00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 1: had she had died. It was a pretty white girl.

558
00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 1: So the media noticed. And there is police dash cam

559
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:55,960
Speaker 1: footage of one of the other passengers on the boat

560
00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 1: like after immediately after the accident saying basically that motherfucker's

561
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 1: rotten jail and he's not going to get in any

562
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 1: trouble at all. And sure enough, they were able to

563
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 1: kind of delay and quiet it down for a long time,

564
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 1: but then it started kind of bubbling up again. And

565
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 1: then in the summer that son, the one who had

566
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:20,960
Speaker 1: crashed the car or crashed the boat, and his mom,

567
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 1: the matriarch of the family, were found murdered on their

568
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 1: massive hunting property, both shot to death with different guns,

569
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 1: and so that that was just like everyone was like,

570
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 1: what the funk happened? Then cut forward to the patriarch.

571
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 1: The guy was just arrested of the family was shot

572
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:44,440
Speaker 1: in the head on a country back road while changing attire.

573
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:47,640
Speaker 1: He was only grays and survived. So it's just been

574
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 1: announced now. And because the story, like the smaller, more

575
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:55,680
Speaker 1: recent version of the story, is so wild, people are

576
00:33:55,720 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 1: just taking this as a given that he he claimed

577
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 1: he hired his drug dealer to shoot him in the

578
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 1: head as an assisted suicide bid to get his other

579
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 1: son a big insurance payout, and if you just committed suicide,

580
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 1: you know, there's a common belief that if you commit suicide,

581
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:17,360
Speaker 1: then the person can't get an insurance pay out. Except

582
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 1: he's a lawyer, so presumably he would have known that

583
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:23,000
Speaker 1: that isn't the truth. He could have committed suicide and

584
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:26,040
Speaker 1: his son still would have gotten the money. So it's

585
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:30,400
Speaker 1: also just been announced that he had been embezzling money

586
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 1: from the law firm that his name is on at

587
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 1: least a million dollars and was just fired, and he

588
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:40,279
Speaker 1: went into rehab on an oxy addiction. So basically, there's

589
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 1: there's Those are the main public events until I'm gonna

590
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:45,919
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you about two more that are now

591
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:52,400
Speaker 1: bubbling up. But yeah, two more, two more unsolved murders

592
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:56,400
Speaker 1: that are now being thrown into question involving the family

593
00:34:56,560 --> 00:35:00,480
Speaker 1: or suspicious deaths, I should say. So, the theory of

594
00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 1: the case that he wants you to believe is someone

595
00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 1: killed the son and his mom in retribution for the

596
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:09,280
Speaker 1: boatman's laughter. The dad fell apart, was already a drug addict,

597
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:12,360
Speaker 1: decided to kind of off himself via his drug dealer,

598
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:15,360
Speaker 1: but his drug dealer was just like a bad shot

599
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:19,879
Speaker 1: and it didn't work. The one that I'm suspecting more

600
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 1: and more. You'll suspect it if you're kind of suspicious

601
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 1: of money, locally powerful, generationally powerful, you know, southern white

602
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 1: families or just all white families. So they had a

603
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:35,800
Speaker 1: long running my my guess, and this is not proven.

604
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 1: This is just my theory that they had a long

605
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 1: running like I can buy my way out of anything,

606
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:43,560
Speaker 1: history of doing crimes getting away with it. The son

607
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 1: had become a liability, and as has been rumored, the

608
00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:50,160
Speaker 1: mother was looking to get out of the marriage and

609
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 1: blow the whole thing up. So you know, that's where

610
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 1: their murders came from. And then the dad wanted to

611
00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:59,800
Speaker 1: make himself less of a suspect, so he hired his

612
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 1: rug dealer to make it look like someone tried to

613
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 1: kill him. And because I mean, it's it's hard to

614
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 1: shoot someone in the head and I killed them, I

615
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 1: mean unless you're sniping them from two hundred fucking yards

616
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:15,120
Speaker 1: or something. Yeah. And also they were on a country

617
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:17,200
Speaker 1: back road, so if he had intended to kill him,

618
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:21,400
Speaker 1: he like, it's not like he was him running away.

619
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 1: I mean wouldn't it go down like being like, hey,

620
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:25,640
Speaker 1: you're my drug dealer. Man, I'm paying you to kill

621
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:28,280
Speaker 1: like to kill him. Yeah, And if you were serious

622
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 1: about that, you'd be like, alright, man, do it. And

623
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:33,279
Speaker 1: if it missed you like what the funk? Bro? Can

624
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:37,880
Speaker 1: you do it right now? Alright? My bad? Like it

625
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,480
Speaker 1: wasn't like oh I'm sorry, you know what, Oh God,

626
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:44,760
Speaker 1: I gotta go. Actually, my other drug users are calling

627
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 1: me for a for a drop or something. So adding

628
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:50,439
Speaker 1: weight to the theory that this is all like part

629
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:55,359
Speaker 1: of a massive like ongoing like corrupt crime family is

630
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:58,400
Speaker 1: that the police are now reopening two deaths that have

631
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:03,400
Speaker 1: happened near the family farm. Their housekeeper who mysteriously died

632
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 1: from quote falling a few years back, like the who

633
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 1: the corner was like, we never were informed of this,

634
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:15,239
Speaker 1: we never did an autopsy. They really swept it under

635
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 1: the rug. And now they're reopening that because they're like this,

636
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:22,120
Speaker 1: like none of this adds up. And also, uh, nineteen

637
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:24,719
Speaker 1: year old young man whose body was found on a

638
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 1: country road like by their house and given mind their

639
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:31,759
Speaker 1: houses like you know, hundreds and hundreds of acres of light,

640
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:34,240
Speaker 1: so it's not it's not like being by their houses,

641
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 1: like being by twenty other houses by their house. And interestingly,

642
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:42,920
Speaker 1: the police at first thought that he had been shot

643
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 1: in the head, but later changed the cause of death

644
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 1: to hit and run. They claim a truck's rear view

645
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 1: mirror like basically exploded his head and that's how he

646
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:57,400
Speaker 1: was killed. So again, it just feels like, you know,

647
00:37:57,640 --> 00:38:01,480
Speaker 1: conveniently the police kind of looking the other way when

648
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 1: something incredibly mysterious happens around this family. Jesus, it's so wild.

649
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:14,000
Speaker 1: It is so wild. Yeah, I think it's wild. That

650
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:18,840
Speaker 1: also like that it's being covered as yeah he uh,

651
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 1: like he tried to because that is a good story, right,

652
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:26,279
Speaker 1: Like that's a good quick story. This guy had like

653
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 1: hired someone to kill him so his son could get

654
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 1: the like payout. And it's also like ties into our understanding,

655
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:34,840
Speaker 1: Like there, I think there are movies that use that

656
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 1: logic that like all insurance life insurance things like you

657
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:42,360
Speaker 1: can't get it if they're suicide, whereas like that's you know,

658
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 1: case by case, and the person who would know that

659
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:47,880
Speaker 1: and who would know the particulars of his life insurance

660
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 1: policy would probably be like a lawyer. Yeah, that's wild

661
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 1: when you said, oh wait, hold on, the cause of

662
00:38:56,480 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 1: death is falling, and you're like that it's not good enough,

663
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:04,840
Speaker 1: like yeah, head injury, Like do they have a heart attack?

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Speaker 1: And like what what what are we going? And then

665
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:12,080
Speaker 1: to switch something from shot shot by someone to smashed

666
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 1: by a car. I mean, I think that just reeks.

667
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 1: Those things don't happen without someone willfully obscuring things are

668
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 1: looking the other way and just being like, yeah, they're

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00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:28,840
Speaker 1: fifty seven year old housekeeper died on February as a

670
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:31,520
Speaker 1: result of the injuries sustained in a quote trip and

671
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 1: fall accident. She had been a housekeeper for them for

672
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 1: twenty five years. So he basically was like, look, I'm

673
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 1: gonna get you guys five thousand dollars for your trouble.

674
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 1: To her son's and was like, so what you have

675
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:48,759
Speaker 1: to do is sue me because it happened on one

676
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:51,920
Speaker 1: of my properties that I have home insurance on. So

677
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 1: you sue me and I will get the pay through

678
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 1: insurance and you'll be You'll get five thousand dollars. Her

679
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 1: son's are like a really small town guy and somebody

680
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 1: with I think they said developmental disabilities, and so you know,

681
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:12,480
Speaker 1: they were just like sure, I don't. I'm not currently

682
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:16,640
Speaker 1: equipped to take on a massive like fucking the core

683
00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:19,879
Speaker 1: leoned family of South Carolina. So it just got them

684
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:23,279
Speaker 1: to like go along with it. But yeah, they're they're

685
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:26,720
Speaker 1: now saying, like the county corner requested that the state

686
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 1: authorities open an investigation into her death due to inconsistencies

687
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 1: surrounding it. Yeah, this is just I can't wait for

688
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 1: this date line episode. Yeah, I'm gonna say this is

689
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:39,200
Speaker 1: probably like a whole other show in itself. There's just

690
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:42,040
Speaker 1: so many layers, like something's gonna come out of this.

691
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 1: Is it's gonna get so business minded Jack. But do

692
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Speaker 1: we know who has the rights to this? I'm sure

693
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:52,720
Speaker 1: every everybody you know. Yeah, I mean I used a tragedy.

694
00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 1: It's a tragedy, but it's a damn interesting one. That's

695
00:40:55,600 --> 00:41:00,240
Speaker 1: there's so much intrigue there too, because like, yeah, it's

696
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:02,839
Speaker 1: hitting all the notes of like America, like the worst

697
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:07,320
Speaker 1: parts of American culture, just concentrated wealth and a justice

698
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:12,399
Speaker 1: system that is very pliable and kind to people who

699
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 1: are at certain echelons of society. Yeah, yea, I fear,

700
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 1: you know, they're afraid that they're afraid that if they

701
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:23,960
Speaker 1: get caught doing anything to endanger those people, they're going

702
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:27,319
Speaker 1: to come down on them. They might disappear next. Like

703
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:34,200
Speaker 1: that's like multigeneration generational like corruption, Like that's you know,

704
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,839
Speaker 1: your grandparents are telling you not to funk with them,

705
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:40,759
Speaker 1: you know at that point, Like that's they've been making

706
00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 1: people disappear. I'm sure for many generations. If can you

707
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:47,319
Speaker 1: imagine though two Because it's like we have things that

708
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:51,040
Speaker 1: like generationally, like we'll accept this truth from like our

709
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 1: elders that something like even like don't funk with that

710
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:58,319
Speaker 1: family is like comes with the weight of decades of

711
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:00,839
Speaker 1: whatever the hell they suspect them of doing. Too. It's

712
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 1: like the same way like I don't know my parents

713
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:06,000
Speaker 1: would tell me like weird ghost stories or some ship

714
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 1: that would freak me out of the kid. But I'm like,

715
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 1: oh my god, even they know about this. It's a

716
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:15,480
Speaker 1: very very uh and dark story. But I hope to

717
00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:19,360
Speaker 1: know more. All right, let's take a quick break and

718
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 1: we'll be right back. And we're back, and let's get

719
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 1: into Ballgate briefly as briefly as possible. Yeah, which is

720
00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:41,799
Speaker 1: not very briefly. I mean we can condense it. I

721
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:44,560
Speaker 1: think people are familiar with Ballgate at this point. We've

722
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 1: touched on it in the Trending episodes, but you know,

723
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:50,960
Speaker 1: there was just this whole story with Nicki Minaj and

724
00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:54,279
Speaker 1: the tale of the cousin's friend who most people like

725
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:56,840
Speaker 1: it sounds like an std and this person may be

726
00:42:56,960 --> 00:43:00,200
Speaker 1: blamed the vaccine and got caught or it maybe this

727
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:04,320
Speaker 1: isn't true at all. It's it's had many different steps

728
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:07,800
Speaker 1: to it. The first one was Tucker Carlson getting involved

729
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 1: and like making this like retraction which he never has

730
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 1: around this where he was just being kind of cheeky

731
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 1: about it and was saying, like, you know, I just

732
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 1: want to say, like, it wasn't her, Like it's not

733
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 1: the cousins testicles were swollen. As far as we know,

734
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 1: he's fine. It's Nicki Minaj's cousins friends testicles who are

735
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:30,560
Speaker 1: swollen from taking the vaccine. That's the claim. And at

736
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:33,319
Speaker 1: first I was like, this is weird. Jack, You're like,

737
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:36,800
Speaker 1: I think he's trolling. But over the course of trolling

738
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 1: and like doing a doing a retraction and a correction

739
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:46,319
Speaker 1: on the least consequential story possible. Yeah, so being kind

740
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:49,200
Speaker 1: of dismissive of well, the thing is like it's slowly

741
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 1: become a culture war battle where conservatives have now found

742
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 1: a way to be like, oh, let's back this celebrity,

743
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 1: this black celebrity, to help, you know, be our sort

744
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 1: of champion and to do battle in the anti vax realm,

745
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 1: because they're getting a lot of like, you know, like

746
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:09,359
Speaker 1: Glenn Greenwald, Uh, he's he's chiming in. He said, they're

747
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 1: trying to dictate. They're trying to dictate to Nicki Minaj

748
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:15,239
Speaker 1: what she can say and can't say who she is

749
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 1: and isn't permitted to cite what partisan box she must

750
00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:20,839
Speaker 1: stay in. When people were like, because the whole thing

751
00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 1: was she claimed that Twitter had put her on Twitter jail.

752
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 1: They Twitter was like, no, we never did anything like that.

753
00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:27,080
Speaker 1: I don't know what she's even talking about. So then

754
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:30,120
Speaker 1: Greenwald is sort of pointing to that, and when someone

755
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:32,399
Speaker 1: was like, hey, that that didn't actually happen. She wasn't

756
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:35,399
Speaker 1: actually censored, he said, quote, if she wasn't banned, it's

757
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:37,880
Speaker 1: only because of who she is, not because of anyone

758
00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 1: else would be allowed to say this, all right, And

759
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 1: then we see like this sort of back and forth

760
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:47,280
Speaker 1: now because Tucker Carlson has gone on for a couple

761
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:49,799
Speaker 1: of nights now talking about it. But he's doing it

762
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:51,960
Speaker 1: in this way to really bring up the thing that

763
00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:55,320
Speaker 1: they love, which is if a black person goes against

764
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 1: like whatever the mainstream point of view is, like, especially

765
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:02,799
Speaker 1: with Democrat rats, then it's like they just think that,

766
00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 1: you know, their favorite thing is they just they they

767
00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 1: Democrats think that every black person has to vote for them,

768
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 1: and when they don't, they get so upset if they

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00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:13,760
Speaker 1: say anything different. This is what happens to black people

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00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 1: when they don't agree with Democrats. And the thing is,

771
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 1: at the end of her tweets, you just like at

772
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:20,800
Speaker 1: the initial one to say like, you don't have to

773
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 1: get bullied, just she says you should prey on it

774
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:26,319
Speaker 1: and do what you think is best. Tucker again, he

775
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:28,399
Speaker 1: used this to just sort of push his same sort

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00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 1: of motive, which is quote he said, it's that last

777
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:33,879
Speaker 1: part of Nicki Minaj's tweet that enrages them, the part

778
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:36,319
Speaker 1: where she says you should prey on it, make the

779
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 1: decision yourself like a free human being, and don't be bullied.

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00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:43,399
Speaker 1: So our media and public health officials didn't like this

781
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:46,800
Speaker 1: because they make their livings bullying people. So they couldn't

782
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 1: let it stand. And it's just like an interesting just

783
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:55,360
Speaker 1: that this has now been fodder for conservative talking points

784
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 1: more than like, I think anything else. And on top

785
00:45:58,120 --> 00:45:59,799
Speaker 1: of that, Nicki Minaj had a whole thing where she's

786
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:03,760
Speaker 1: saying the White House like lied to her and said

787
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:06,400
Speaker 1: that they wanted her to go there or didn't or whatever.

788
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 1: It's just stupid. I think eventually she's gonna have a

789
00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 1: zoom call with Anthony Fauci and the Surgeon General. But

790
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,479
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people first time Carlson video

791
00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:18,719
Speaker 1: on Twitter and I still can't believe that. Yeah, and

792
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 1: then the other one and people like what And then

793
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 1: she's like what just because he's a white supremacist essentially,

794
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 1: like I can't agree with him, and people like what

795
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:31,279
Speaker 1: Nicky know. But a lot of people point out it's

796
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:34,840
Speaker 1: like if you just remember a week ago what Nicki

797
00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:37,759
Speaker 1: Minaj was doing in the news headlines, it was for

798
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 1: headlines like this quote. Nicki Minaj pulls out of MTV

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Speaker 1: v M as as husband faces up to a decade

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00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 1: in prison. That's because her husband, Kenneth Petty, failed to

801
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 1: register as a sex offender in California to stemming from

802
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 1: a rape conviction in New York when he was sixteen,

803
00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:58,319
Speaker 1: So there was a like, there's been a she's been

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00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 1: saying a lot of controversy stuff. A lot of people

805
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:02,400
Speaker 1: have been like looking at her, like what is going on?

806
00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:06,160
Speaker 1: But this, you know, this whole other Ballgate thing feels

807
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:08,920
Speaker 1: very trumpy and that you had a lot of negative

808
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 1: press or things talking about one thing, so you just

809
00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 1: come out and say something even more outlandish, like someone's

810
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:18,319
Speaker 1: gigantic balls and now everyone's just talking about that, right.

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00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:23,799
Speaker 1: I think she she sees the matrix unfortunately on that one.

812
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:26,920
Speaker 1: But that's it is a little terrifying because I'm always

813
00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:30,879
Speaker 1: just surprised by all the kind of seemingly left wing

814
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 1: people who are using the the vaccine mandates to like

815
00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:41,959
Speaker 1: start agreeing with Tucker Carlson and people like that. Yeah, well,

816
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 1: you know, we're constantly saying strange bad fellows in this era. Yeah,

817
00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:52,319
Speaker 1: let's talk about the hot new fall trend and it's divorced,

818
00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:59,719
Speaker 1: okayvorced baby? Yeah, wow, you're looking great with that ringless hand.

819
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:02,840
Speaker 1: Oh my god. This seems like to be a trend

820
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:05,799
Speaker 1: that's been that's being seen across the US. Although like

821
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 1: a lot of this new that's it's weird. This was

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00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:11,760
Speaker 1: a piece in the New York Times Style section. Okay, sure,

823
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:14,480
Speaker 1: I don't know what this does do with style, but um,

824
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:16,960
Speaker 1: they point out that like in New York, in l a,

825
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:18,920
Speaker 1: like they've just seen a ton of like just an

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00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:22,439
Speaker 1: uptick in divorce cases and things like that. And there's

827
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:25,319
Speaker 1: a few sort of theories around it. But like one

828
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:27,839
Speaker 1: New York law firm said that, quote since April, our

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00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:30,439
Speaker 1: phones have been ringing off the hook NonStop, and most

830
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 1: of those calling are people who want to come in

831
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 1: and start divorce proceedings. She went on to add, during

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00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:38,400
Speaker 1: the pandemic, many of these same people were experiencing marital

833
00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:41,759
Speaker 1: problems and putting off splitting up for practical reasons, and

834
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 1: in some cases, she said that some couples were quote

835
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:46,880
Speaker 1: waiting for the for the vaccines to be approved and

836
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 1: to gain more social and economic stability before leaving their marriages.

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00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:54,359
Speaker 1: It seemed like according to some like you know, some

838
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:57,799
Speaker 1: polls that like relationship people have been doing that this time,

839
00:48:57,880 --> 00:49:00,279
Speaker 1: like people are more unhappy in their marriages is than

840
00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 1: this time last year, when like, you know, we were

841
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:07,239
Speaker 1: in the height of lockdowns, and you know, there's a

842
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:10,040
Speaker 1: lot of a lot of people are speculating what that is,

843
00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:13,000
Speaker 1: that it's come from things like, you know, partners who

844
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:15,520
Speaker 1: are not pulling their weight, and because of like the

845
00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:18,400
Speaker 1: added labor of like women in the in the lockdown

846
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 1: and things like that, that this could have compounded like

847
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:25,400
Speaker 1: issues of like sort of imbalances and relationships or the

848
00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 1: fact that maybe because people have been very you know,

849
00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 1: reflective and had time to sort of think about their priorities,

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00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:34,880
Speaker 1: it also has been extending to what they want if

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Speaker 1: actually I oh, whoa. I'm just trying to think. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: do I know, I do know somebody who split up

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Speaker 1: in the last couple. Yeah. I like one of the

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Speaker 1: things that the lawyer suggests is they're hearing more pandemic

856
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Speaker 1: specific disagreements and couples. I think that's very real. Like

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Speaker 1: the again, like the thing about the you know, anti

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Speaker 1: vax or ship crossing political ideologies like that. I think

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Speaker 1: there are people who are probably shocked to find out

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Speaker 1: that there significant other or their their spouse I guess

861
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Speaker 1: is anti vax or, you know, right, And that's that's

862
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Speaker 1: a hard thing to bounce back from. I feel like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: there's a there's a thing that says like one and three,

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Speaker 1: like a third of Americans have cut ties with like

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Speaker 1: unvaccinated people. Yeah, because it's become like so contentious, and

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Speaker 1: I can see how, yeah, that could easily happen in

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Speaker 1: the marriage. Yeah, absolutely, because, like I mean, I think

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Speaker 1: it's very interesting, like how the this is like I

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Speaker 1: don't know, I feel like if we saw it coming,

870
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Speaker 1: because everybody had started happening last year, but now that

871
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Speaker 1: it's been become more and more like, oh, we're not

872
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Speaker 1: out of this yet. This is going to keep going.

873
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:53,279
Speaker 1: How much more can I take this person? You know?

874
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Speaker 1: That's that's probably what's like leading to all this stuff.

875
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Speaker 1: It's very interesting, Like I I definitely I haven't personally

876
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Speaker 1: seen that so much, but my my brother actually got

877
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Speaker 1: a girlfriend two weeks before the lockdowns of New York's

878
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Speaker 1: in like New York and New Jersey, and he decided

879
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Speaker 1: that he was gonna go live with her during everything,

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Speaker 1: and they're still together, and it's like it's been very

881
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Speaker 1: good from what I've seen anyway, So it's like really interesting,

882
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Speaker 1: Like that was kind of the opposite, but like because

883
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Speaker 1: their relationship kind of like came out of the pandemic.

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Speaker 1: I guess like it started there. I think that's maybe why. Yeah,

885
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Speaker 1: but like definitely, like obviously families in general, a lot

886
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Speaker 1: of families have political disagreements, but when it comes to

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Speaker 1: like things like it's the safety and health of of

888
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Speaker 1: everyone around you, like you have to take it a

889
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Speaker 1: lot more serio. I think, yeah, um, yeah, it's it

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Speaker 1: makes a lot of sense work because you you seemingly

891
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Speaker 1: get married to someone and think, you know, like everything

892
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Speaker 1: about them and how they like they'll respond to different

893
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Speaker 1: stimuli throughout your lives. But this has been the weirdest

894
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Speaker 1: test for people, and it's had all kinds of results,

895
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Speaker 1: like from you know your example, like there I know

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Speaker 1: people who got booed up during the lockdown and they've

897
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Speaker 1: been great. People are like loving it, they found the

898
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Speaker 1: loves of their lives. And then there are other people

899
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Speaker 1: who in it were really starting to reconsider most people

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Speaker 1: I know would be like the nature of their work

901
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Speaker 1: and what they're doing. But also in some cases like

902
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Speaker 1: people having sort of realizations around dating and things like

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Speaker 1: that too of like oh wait, I actually I'm starting

904
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Speaker 1: to understand like what my own needs are and I

905
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Speaker 1: think this is this other quote from this relationship expert

906
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Speaker 1: out there saying, quote, there's a lot of angst out there,

907
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Speaker 1: which is why many divorced people tell me that they

908
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Speaker 1: are now approaching new relationships by holding potential partners to

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Speaker 1: a higher level of maturity and authenticity. And that's starting

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Speaker 1: from the dating level. They will never again, quote, settle

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Speaker 1: for just anyone. Damn. It's that also sounds like how

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Speaker 1: people are thinking about jobs a little bit, like not totally,

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Speaker 1: but you know, we we still have to like put

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Speaker 1: food on the table. But the you know, it seems

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Speaker 1: like people are getting more Yeah, like I think I'm

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Speaker 1: feeling more empowered to hold hold people to a reasonable standard, right,

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Speaker 1: And I think is like, you know, it's easy to

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Speaker 1: get caught up in like what you're like, I understand

919
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Speaker 1: the settling thing, because not it doesn't always feel like that,

920
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Speaker 1: you know, because sometimes we're surviving and a job is

921
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Speaker 1: what we needed in that time to survive that moment,

922
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Speaker 1: or a relationship is what we needed in that time

923
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Speaker 1: to unfortunately just avoid loneliness. And we're it's two people

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Speaker 1: avoiding loneliness together, maybe with not much else in common,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, just sort of all of that happening like

926
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Speaker 1: at once, it's I hope people aren't settling, and I

927
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Speaker 1: think maybe people are just getting again more open about

928
00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:56,400
Speaker 1: what their needs are because I think everyone was feeling

929
00:53:56,440 --> 00:54:00,359
Speaker 1: some level of pain these last eighteen nineteen months that

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Speaker 1: right there, you be you're able to actually kind of

931
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Speaker 1: stop bullshitting yourself on some level. Not everyone, but if

932
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Speaker 1: you are experienced feeling a lot of bullshit going on,

933
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Speaker 1: it might be easier to fucking really take stock of

934
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Speaker 1: what's happening and doing Shout out to all the people

935
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Speaker 1: who are able to stay married out there, because you know, it's, uh,

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Speaker 1: it's it's hard. It's been a it's been a hard

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Speaker 1: a couple of years. You know that it takes work. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: But I think I don't know. I feel like even

939
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Speaker 1: in my own relationship, like because we both would have

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Speaker 1: to be open about like ship that was getting us

941
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Speaker 1: down like in a way that we weren't doing before

942
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Speaker 1: that I think because luckily I have a partner who's

943
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Speaker 1: very intelligent emotionally and like empathetic, that there was an

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Speaker 1: our an arena to do that in that that really

945
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Speaker 1: helped make things more stable or stronger. And I think

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Speaker 1: in other cases like you'd hear about people who were

947
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Speaker 1: just dating and like, this person doesn't like talk about

948
00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:58,920
Speaker 1: anything like actually like and it doesn't want to talk

949
00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:01,920
Speaker 1: about their emotions. I want to talk about mine, and

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Speaker 1: this is just actually someone I was avoiding loneliness with.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Yeah's deep. Yeah, avoiding is a tough thing. Hey,

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Speaker 1: So it turns out I was just avoid avoiding. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're kind of like a piece of emotional driftwood in

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Speaker 1: the ce of isolation. I was clinging too. Sorry, sorry

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Speaker 1: about well you mean, it's been such a pleasure having

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Speaker 1: you as always on t d Z. Thank you. Where

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Speaker 1: I also need to shout out all this again because

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Speaker 1: podcast is Sparkle Side Chats with Magical Girl. Are you

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Speaker 1: your podcasts. Yeah. Yeah. And is there a tweet or

975
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Speaker 1: some of the work of social media you've been enjoying. Yes, goodness,

976
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Speaker 1: So the one that's been kind of stuck. I know

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Speaker 1: it's been slightly old news that you know that there's

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Speaker 1: a new Matrix trailer that dropped, But I kept thinking

979
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Speaker 1: about this tweet from ron Vera at r O N

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Speaker 1: and you I underscore he says, the the Matrix wasn't dumb.

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Speaker 1: You just have to understand the philosophical allegories that it's referencing.

982
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Speaker 1: Like downloading Karate from lime Wire. I love that ship.

983
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Speaker 1: I honestly I used to think like that, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: what you have to do. Yeah, miles. Where can people

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Speaker 1: find you? What's a tweet you've been enjoying? Find me

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Speaker 1: on Twitter and Instagram at Miles of Gray. Also the

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Speaker 1: Some tweets that I like, let's see. The first one

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Speaker 1: is from Reductress. It's been a while. It's just a

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Speaker 1: photo of this woman laying in bed and says, woman's

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Speaker 1: self care starting to look suspiciously like self sabotage. And

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Speaker 1: and then another one is from old Friend nine nine

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Speaker 1: that the magic diet, you know. Yeah, let's see. Laura

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Speaker 1: is such a good mom tweeted, I'm going to Costco.

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Speaker 1: Anybody need me to pick up fifty pounds of rice

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Speaker 1: long day of protesting in front of the hospital, I

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Speaker 1: like to get home, put my feet up and unwind

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Speaker 1: by passing away of COVID nineteen. God that is dark,

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Speaker 1: but you know. And then finally, John Boyce tweeted, I

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Speaker 1: wish the instructions for the soup ended with servant and enjoy.

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Speaker 1: I'm so fucking hungry. You can find me on Twitter

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