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Speaker 1: second d Update. I'm actually kind of surprised that the
Speaker 1: guy on the phone for a second date update today
Speaker 1: actually wants to do a second date update because in
Speaker 1: his email he said that the girl he was out
Speaker 1: with spent the whole time on her phone. Oh so annoying.
Speaker 1: It's a problem I've never had because usually girls are
Speaker 1: so mesmerized by my beautiful hazel eyes they never even
Speaker 1: think about staring at their phone screen. The only time
Speaker 1: they do it is actually take a picture of my
Speaker 1: eyes because they want to show their friends. Anyway, I
Speaker 1: guess we'll talk to Jesse and see why he wants
Speaker 1: to call it this girl back. So, Jesse, your email
Speaker 1: said the girl you went out with was on her
Speaker 1: phone the whole time. Why do you even want to
Speaker 1: do a second date update? Well, she's actually a really
Speaker 1: cool person, and besides the fact that she was on
Speaker 1: her phone the whole time, I do like her. Um, Okay,
Speaker 1: you know, we did have some commonation. I feel like
Speaker 1: that this is such a good example of men who
Speaker 1: really loved the chase, because it sounds like the girl
Speaker 1: was really bored on your date if she's on her
Speaker 1: phone the whole time. I don't I guess I didn't
Speaker 1: think about that part. But what's her name? First of all? Oh,
Speaker 1: her name is Lorie. What did you guys do on
Speaker 1: your date when you went out? We went out to dinner, okay?
Speaker 1: And how much of the date was she on her phone?
Speaker 1: A lot? A lot? Was she texting someone else? Or
Speaker 1: she's like, oh my god, look at this Instagram picture
Speaker 1: I just put up. I couldn't tell. She had like
Speaker 1: her phone like kind of where I couldn't see the screen,
Speaker 1: but she was on it and was definitely typing a lot,
Speaker 1: so I assumed she was texting. Yeah, I don't know. Maybe,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Did you ever say hey, can you
Speaker 1: put the phone down and concentrate on the conversation please?
Speaker 1: I actually did. Um. I said it kind of rudely.
Speaker 1: I think, um. It was bugging me a lot. It was.
Speaker 1: I was getting kind of pissed off about her being
Speaker 1: on the phone and not she'd be mid conversation and
Speaker 1: would not be paying attention to what I was saying,
Speaker 1: and I'd ask her a question and I'd say something
Speaker 1: and she wouldn't answer, and so I kind of blew
Speaker 1: up at her. I guess I kind of yelled. I
Speaker 1: didn't yell, but I said it loud enough to wear
Speaker 1: the tables next to us kind of looked over. Really,
Speaker 1: what did you say? I was just like, who are
Speaker 1: you texting? Like? I was in the middle of talking,
Speaker 1: and she obviously wasn't paying attention. You're like, hey, the
Speaker 1: person over here across the table who's probably gonna pay
Speaker 1: for your expensive dinner? Would you mind putting the phone
Speaker 1: down for a second. Yeah, I mean it wasn't that bad,
Speaker 1: but I think I did come off with the jerk.
Speaker 1: Did she put her phone down at that point? Were
Speaker 1: you guys actually able to enjoy the rest of the date.
Speaker 1: She did put her phone down, but the date wasn't
Speaker 1: too enjoyable after that. Is that why you think she's
Speaker 1: not calling you back because you yelled at her about
Speaker 1: being on the phone. I'm afraid it is. We After
Speaker 1: the date, I apologized. I tried to explain to her
Speaker 1: that I was wanting to hang out with her. I'd
Speaker 1: been so excited about how finally having a date with her,
Speaker 1: and you know, I just wanted to talk to her.
Speaker 1: And she was on the phone the whole time, and
Speaker 1: and so you know, I was also nervous something was
Speaker 1: wrong she was maybe he was a family issue or something.
Speaker 1: But she wouldn't tell me who she was texting. And
Speaker 1: she kind of hugged me. And then we went our
Speaker 1: ways and I haven't heard back. You didn't say like,
Speaker 1: can we try this again? Yeah? Yeah I did. I
Speaker 1: was like, you know, please, let's you know, let's meet
Speaker 1: up again. Let's and she just kind of nodded yes, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: And you know, I was like, all right, we'll text you.
Speaker 1: And I've texted her a couple of times, and we
Speaker 1: know she knows how to use that phone. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: we know that she's seen your text for sure. She
Speaker 1: hasn't gotten back to you at all, not a word, no,
Speaker 1: not anything. And I'm not trying to be overbearing and
Speaker 1: get on her a whole bunch, but I at least
Speaker 1: need some need to overies. I mean, if she's mad
Speaker 1: at me for the I yelled at her, I you know,
Speaker 1: I don't know. You just want the opportunity to explain
Speaker 1: to her that, hey, sorry I snapped, but you were
Speaker 1: on your phone the whole time and that's pretty rude. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: and I and I feel like I did explain that afterwards,
Speaker 1: but it was you know, it was right after it happened,
Speaker 1: and yeah, I just kind of want to if that's
Speaker 1: the problem, I'd like to apologize to her again about it,
Speaker 1: and you know, and try to have another date and
Speaker 1: maybe whatever she's on their phone with about she cannot
Speaker 1: do that next time, and I won't yell at her. Well,
Speaker 1: what makes her so special? I mean, if you're online dating,
Speaker 1: I'm assuming that you have some other options you can
Speaker 1: go with. Yeah, Well, honestly, she's she's gorgeous that when
Speaker 1: I first started talking with her, I thought she was
Speaker 1: too pretty for a dating website, you know, But then
Speaker 1: I got to know her a little bit and we
Speaker 1: have a lot of same interests, and you know, I
Speaker 1: don't know, I would like to get to know her more.
Speaker 1: Do you want this to be more of a hook up?
Speaker 1: Are you actually trying to date this girl? Because from
Speaker 1: the sounds of your date, it sounds to me like
Speaker 1: you want to see her again just so you can
Speaker 1: hook up and you're not actually interested in dating her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean there's definitely part of that that. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: trying not to be too honest here, but I mean
Speaker 1: i'd definitely like to hook up with her, maybe a
Speaker 1: relationship too. I don't, I don't know. I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: anything can happen. We're both young, and you just want
Speaker 1: another chance at whatever it is. Yeah, I feel like
Speaker 1: I put a lot of effort into it. You know,
Speaker 1: there was a lot going on, and I don't know.
Speaker 1: I guess I'm really just confused by the whole situation.
Speaker 1: And Okay, well we'll play a song, come back, call
Speaker 1: her and get your second date update. All right, all right, cool,
Speaker 1: all right, hang on looking cubile in the morning. I
Speaker 1: actually don't know if I should do today's second date updates.
Speaker 1: Are you there, Jesse, Yeah, I'm here. Jesse wants us
Speaker 1: to call a girl named Laurie. They went out on
Speaker 1: a first date. Laurie spent her whole time texting while
Speaker 1: they were on the date. He even called her out
Speaker 1: for it, got kind of mad at her, and then
Speaker 1: things got awkward at that point and the date was
Speaker 1: sort of over after he called her out for the texting. Jesse,
Speaker 1: I think I shouldn't do this second date update. Why, Well,
Speaker 1: because I've got a little bit of insider information. The
Speaker 1: person she was texting on your date was me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she was texting me the whole time, like, hey, this
Speaker 1: guy Jesse's a boy. I need a room man to
Speaker 1: swoop up in here so I can enjoy my evening. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you still want me to do the second day that
Speaker 1: you still want my seconds? I guess I can get Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know how better year, so it'll be fine. All right,
Speaker 1: that's the gist of it. Though Jesse went out with
Speaker 1: this girl, she spent the whole time texting, They got
Speaker 1: in an argument, and she hasn't talked to him since.
Speaker 1: We're about to get her on the phone and find
Speaker 1: out if she wants to go out with him again,
Speaker 1: even though she didn't seem very interested on your actual date. Jesse. Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, Well, I'm Ndala the phone number. We'll probably
Speaker 1: get her on the phone because I'm assuming it's attached
Speaker 1: to her hand at all times, and find out if
Speaker 1: she'd like to go out with you again. Okay, awesome,
Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak
Speaker 1: to Laurie Please? This is Loie. Hey, Laurie, how are you?
Speaker 1: This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Um, Hi, Hi,
Speaker 1: how are you? How come we u? Who is it?
Speaker 1: Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning the radio show. Okay,
Speaker 1: what can I do for you? Well, you could start
Speaker 1: by letting me know why you're not calling my man
Speaker 1: Jesse back. What do you remember going on a date
Speaker 1: with a guy named Jesse. Yeah, well, Jesse listens to
Speaker 1: our radio show and we do a segment called the
Speaker 1: second Date Update. Jesse wants to know why you're not
Speaker 1: calling him back. Oh, that's weird. It is. It is
Speaker 1: kind of weird, and I know it's a weird phone
Speaker 1: call to get. But do you have a few minutes
Speaker 1: to talk to us about your date with Jesse? I
Speaker 1: guess so, Okay, I have a question for you. So
Speaker 1: Jesse told us a little bit about your date. He
Speaker 1: said that you were texting the whole time during your date,
Speaker 1: and then he told us at one point he called
Speaker 1: you out for it, and you seemed a little annoyed
Speaker 1: that he did that. Yeah, he got really mad. Is
Speaker 1: that the reason why you don't want to see him again?
Speaker 1: It's just one of those things where it just didn't
Speaker 1: work out. It just wasn't a good FETA. Were you
Speaker 1: like disappointed when you saw him? No, why were you
Speaker 1: texting the whole time on your date? I was just
Speaker 1: texting my friend because it was about something he said
Speaker 1: that was so nuts that I couldn't even believe this
Speaker 1: was happened. Like I thought I was like on like
Speaker 1: a hidden camera show or something. Wait, something Jesse said
Speaker 1: that was so crazy? Yeah, what did he say? I mean,
Speaker 1: it was just bad whatever. It's not that I don't
Speaker 1: I really don't want to talk about it. Really. Well,
Speaker 1: here's the thing, Jesse wants us to do this, so
Speaker 1: he probably should know for future dates. If he's saying
Speaker 1: something so outrageous that you have to text your friend
Speaker 1: in the middle of it, it might be helpful to
Speaker 1: him to know what he said. Yeah, okay, So he
Speaker 1: asked me, like, you know, kind of what what are
Speaker 1: you into? You know? And I was like, oh, I'm,
Speaker 1: you know, kind of into photography right now, um, you know,
Speaker 1: just stuff that I like to do and just normal
Speaker 1: first date talk. Yeah. Yeah. And then I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I asked him what he's into and he said, I'm
Speaker 1: really into Hitler what no way is he talking about it?
Speaker 1: Is he talking about a different Hitler or the most
Speaker 1: famous you know? And like no, I thought. I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: is there a band? Would be weird, but like what
Speaker 1: that's a little shocking. And then he said, no, seriously,
Speaker 1: I can't get enough of Hitler right now. He's amazing.
Speaker 1: What is amazing? I'm gonna have Jewish too, So it's
Speaker 1: even more. It's just like I can't even I don't
Speaker 1: even understand. I mean, it's just it's yeah. And then
Speaker 1: he's a going off on all these facts about Hitler,
Speaker 1: like like things that you wouldn't even know. Did you
Speaker 1: tell It's like fun facts about Hitler or what? I like?
Speaker 1: It was so weird, and I was like, what am
Speaker 1: I doing here? Yeah? I was texting because I'm texting. Ever,
Speaker 1: I was like, what do I do? What do I talk?
Speaker 1: What am I doing? And now he gets mad that
Speaker 1: I was texting. Yeah, that's kind of scary, Laurie. You're
Speaker 1: out with a guy who's like, I love Hitler and
Speaker 1: then you're on your phone. He's like, put the phone down. Now,
Speaker 1: what did you say to him? I just couldn't. I
Speaker 1: was like it felt like it's a teaching moment, right,
Speaker 1: It's not like I need to reach across the table
Speaker 1: and go, hey, man, probably shouldn't talk about your love
Speaker 1: of Hitler on the first day. That is a good point. Hey,
Speaker 1: I just like I'm telling you this now. I believe
Speaker 1: that speaking of teaching moments and letting him know that
Speaker 1: he shouldn't be talking about his love of Hitler on
Speaker 1: the first Dade Laurie, he's actually on the other line
Speaker 1: listening right now. What Yeah, you're kidding. No, I'm I'm
Speaker 1: shocked too, because I had no idea that this was
Speaker 1: even something that was an issue in the date or
Speaker 1: something that came up. It was an issue. It's an issue.
Speaker 1: What issue? Like, it's a it's like a universal issue. No,
Speaker 1: I was. It's like a hateful, horrible thing and you're
Speaker 1: like into it and what No, No, I'm into I'm
Speaker 1: like the man himself was he was. He was crazy.
Speaker 1: It was the person. He was an artist, he drew stuff,
Speaker 1: he was look morality aside, Okay, it's crazy stuff. He
Speaker 1: was a he was an amazing person, you know. No, No,
Speaker 1: morality is kind of the point. I know this sounds bad,
Speaker 1: but I was just bringing up other facts about him,
Speaker 1: and he's very interesting to me, the things that the
Speaker 1: person he was before things happened, before things happened. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying that I've been reading a lot. We were
Speaker 1: talking about things we've been doing. I've been walking a
Speaker 1: lot of document reason. I just can't get enough watching
Speaker 1: and learning, and it's fascinating. It's so fascinating that that
Speaker 1: that person that's human. It is fascinating. I will say that,
Speaker 1: like I watched documented, it's fascinating. It's a very very
Speaker 1: bad mark in human history, but it is fascinating. Is
Speaker 1: Is that what you were trying to say, Jesse, rather
Speaker 1: than you're a fan of Hitler? Yes, I was not
Speaker 1: saying I do not support his Okay, it's his issues
Speaker 1: I do not support. Did you said, I'm really into
Speaker 1: Hitler right now? Right like you know, like I'm really
Speaker 1: into baseball right now, where I'm really into rocket science.
Speaker 1: I don't know, like it was something i'm studying. It's
Speaker 1: just something i'd like to learn about things. It's what
Speaker 1: i'm learning about right now. I'm just learning a lot
Speaker 1: about Hitler. I keep learning more and more things, and
Speaker 1: it's just it's crazy, how much is about this guy. Oh,
Speaker 1: my god, that's what you want to learn. You're a fan.
Speaker 1: You're a fan like one direction. You're hey, hey, hey,
Speaker 1: don't you dare talk about one direction? Okay, we don't
Speaker 1: want to run. Remember the things that they've done for society.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying I'm a fan, Okay, I'm just we
Speaker 1: were talking about what we're into right now. It's what
Speaker 1: I'm reading about. It's this is totally getting taken unto context.
Speaker 1: I mean, I so, why don't you say it like that? Jesse?
Speaker 1: Why don't you say I've been watching a lot of
Speaker 1: documentaries about Hitler, and I find them very interesting. Even so,
Speaker 1: who even says that, like, exactly bring it up. I'm trying.
Speaker 1: I'm even trying to make up excuses for you now.
Speaker 1: And I you were texting, you were texting the whole date,
Speaker 1: and then you wouldn't say anything if you told me
Speaker 1: that you seemed like a crazy, evil person. Allright, think
Speaker 1: about it, think about it, all right? What's worse texting
Speaker 1: on a date? We're talking about Hitler? Right, I rest
Speaker 1: my case. I guess they're both bad. I know what
Speaker 1: to do with that. Really, they're both They're both really
Speaker 1: bad things to do on a date. I mean, I
Speaker 1: would argue that the texting is a lesser of the
Speaker 1: two evils. Well, it's not like he did anything Hitler did.
Speaker 1: He just said he likes to watch documentaries. I'm not
Speaker 1: as bad a guy, is everybody thinking Laurie at this moment,
Speaker 1: I would like to ask, if you'll go on a
Speaker 1: second date with Jesse, we will pay for it, not
Speaker 1: even no, like no, what sorry, Jesse, no second date
Speaker 1: for you. That's fine. It's okay about it. If she's
Speaker 1: gonna get upset about little stupid things in conversation when
Speaker 1: she asked me a question, yeah, I mean, you got
Speaker 1: a bunch of history to catch up on. Anyway, you
Speaker 1: don't need to be going on dates right now, right
Speaker 1: exactly whatever. I've got plenty of other people I can
Speaker 1: hang out, you know, I've got a group that we
Speaker 1: meet up and we talk about all kinds of stuff.
Speaker 1: So I bet you do cut up bed sheets. It's
Speaker 1: not like that, dude,