1 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 1: Hello, beautiful people. We're back at it. This is La 2 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 1: La Kent with Randall sorre we go. Let me help you. God, 3 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 1: wake up John, John. We're podcasting. We are podcasting. 4 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 2: What is John? What does that mean? 5 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 1: Okay? So do you remember do you remember John and Kate? 6 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 1: Do you remember John and Kate plus eight? 7 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? 8 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:34,639 Speaker 3: Okay. 9 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 1: Towards the end of that show, he was like so 10 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 1: out of it right, like falling asleep. And there was 11 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 1: one episode where she kept saying something to him and 12 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 1: she's like, hello, wake up John. 13 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 2: Okay, So that was a reference to a show that 14 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 2: was on. 15 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: TV like ten, Wake Up John? 16 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 2: Because of all is fhilandering was or was he he 17 00:00:58,240 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 2: was a philanderer? 18 00:00:59,160 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 4: No? 19 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:00,320 Speaker 2: I think that he was. 20 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 1: A oser and he had a girlfriend and he also 21 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:05,679 Speaker 1: had like ninety kids and he was married to Kate, 22 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 1: which I heard was like a fucking night. 23 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 2: Oh that's Kate, It's gonna come for you. I just 24 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 2: want to. 25 00:01:10,600 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 1: Say that when we started, I'm not used to that 26 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 1: at all. 27 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 2: We start the podcast, we should start it with hi, everybody, 28 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 2: Let's give them Laala with rand That's how it should 29 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 2: have started. 30 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's just exhausting sometimes. 31 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:25,960 Speaker 2: I feel every day that one here. 32 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: The thing is we should just show up and we 33 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 1: just get it pop and it's natural. I don't want 34 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 1: to show up and be like, here we are again today, 35 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 1: Welcome class. Today we're learning about physics like it's supposed 36 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 1: to be fun like however it comes out, it comes out. 37 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 1: There is no formula to it. 38 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:43,400 Speaker 2: Wah wah. 39 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: So I'm super excited about today, you guys, because we 40 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 1: have a guest. Who I have? Am I just going 41 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 1: to carry today's show? Thank fucking god. We have someone 42 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 1: cool on today? 43 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 3: All right? 44 00:01:58,200 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 2: Who do we have? 45 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 1: We have my female crush besides Beyonce, her name is 46 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:09,359 Speaker 1: Giselle Bryant. She's on a show called Real Housewives of Potomac. Randall, 47 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 1: you haven't watched this series? Randall and I watch every 48 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:18,960 Speaker 1: single City of Housewives together, Okay, just admit it. 49 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:23,519 Speaker 2: Be Hill's O C, New York City and Atlanta. Four 50 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 2: of them. 51 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 1: That's a lot. 52 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 2: That's a lot. 53 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:29,080 Speaker 1: You need to add Potomac to your lika. 54 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 2: Can I can I say something before we get into this? 55 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 2: I want I mean about this though. Yeah, so you're right, 56 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 2: I do not know shit about this show. So but 57 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 2: I did get a little for a one from you. 58 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 2: Cliff note version. Now, I can't watch every fringle, every fringle, 59 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 2: every fringle. I want a fringle. No, I can't watch 60 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 2: every show in the world. But but I am going 61 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 2: to try to tap in because you love this show. 62 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 2: So tell us it's the setup of the characters on 63 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 2: this show. Do they have the villain, the nice person, 64 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:02,080 Speaker 2: the pushover? What's a big storyline this season? 65 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 1: Well, guess what, We're only we're only three episodes in 66 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 1: right now. 67 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:09,679 Speaker 2: Get what was the big shebang coming out of the gate. 68 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:12,400 Speaker 1: The big shabang coming out of the gate right now 69 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:15,359 Speaker 1: is there's this woman, Candace. Keep in mind, they're all 70 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 1: stunning Candace while Ashley was like giving birth, was calling 71 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 1: her all sorts of fucked up shit. 72 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 2: What do you mean? She was in the birth literally. 73 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 1: With legs in the air, shoving out a person, and 74 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 1: this Candace is just on Twitter like firing insults one 75 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: after the fucking another. So the girls are like, we're 76 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 1: having a fucking sit down and you're gonna fucking apologize 77 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: to Ashley for being an asshole, and Candace is so gangsters, 78 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: You're like, fuck that shit. No, I'm not so Now 79 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 1: I'm i DBR the show because I don't like commercials. 80 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 1: So when I get home after this podcast, I'm gonna 81 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 1: go see what's up with like what happens at the dinner. 82 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 2: It's exciting. 83 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm telling you, if you have not watched The 84 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Potomac, get on board because it's like 85 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: it's the diamond of the franchise right now. 86 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 2: Dam Yeah, I know you have two children and a wife, 87 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 2: and I have two children and a fiance slash wife 88 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 2: because she's basically my wife, Laala, I'm gonna have to 89 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 2: squeeze in the first episode of season one. I expect 90 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 2: you to do it this weekend too, and then we 91 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 2: will text each other and ask do we think it's 92 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 2: at the level that Lalla has just sold us? Okay, okay, 93 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 2: that's our home. 94 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 1: It's effortless. It's effortless. 95 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 2: Pretty Balace is here, so he has to do the 96 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 2: same job. So Alex, on Sunday we'll have a three 97 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 2: way text on housewife is a Potomac. No, we need 98 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:43,919 Speaker 2: to be more educated because we're on a podcast with Laala, 99 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 2: who is dialed in. So Alex, yeah, what does the 100 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 2: Potomac refer to I'm. 101 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 1: Just curious Maryland. 102 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:53,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, what a secure location. 103 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 1: I cann't wait, it's the most random location. 104 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 2: Just said Washington, d C. How far is Potomac from Washington? 105 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:02,600 Speaker 1: I believe relatively close. But then again, I'm really bad 106 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 1: at geography, so don't ask me it's really close. 107 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 2: Can we do one? Can we do one geography trivia 108 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 2: game where Alex asked you two basic geography questions. If 109 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 2: you can get Alex is by far Alex is the 110 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:18,680 Speaker 2: smartest in this world? Okay, down, all on? Oh god, 111 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:21,599 Speaker 2: Tim just gave us a question, gave a look like 112 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 2: he could be smarter than you. Tim, I blow you 113 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 2: away and I went to film school. Now let's go 114 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 2: Alex Alex. Alex first asked Tim a question, a hard one, 115 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 2: and then asked Lala. Geography question has to be in 116 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 2: the United States for Laala could be anywhere in the world. 117 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 2: For Tim, let's see, because I suck at geography and 118 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:43,280 Speaker 2: I openly admit it. Okay, go ahead. Is north Dakota 119 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:46,839 Speaker 2: east or west of Idaho? 120 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 3: That's east? 121 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 2: All right, I don't know if. 122 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 1: Shut the fuck up? 123 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:03,279 Speaker 2: Okay, Next, go to Tim because Tim thinks he's a 124 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:06,039 Speaker 2: frigging genius. So let's see on the Dakotas. What is 125 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 2: the capital of South Dakota. I mean, Tim, wait, hold on, Tim, 126 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 2: you exactly prove my point. Geography is not the end 127 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:18,160 Speaker 2: all be all of intelligence. One more category, Tim, pick 128 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 2: one more category. 129 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 3: I don't need to sit here and answer to. 130 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 2: All of you. 131 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:25,919 Speaker 1: I want to know what's amazing about it's amazing. 132 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:28,599 Speaker 2: Just all of exactly prove my point. 133 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 1: Geography, math, sciences, whatever, it's just none of it is 134 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:38,480 Speaker 1: the end all be all you all. If I can 135 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 1: walk out the front door and keep myself alive, I'd 136 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 1: say I'm pretty fucking intelligent. 137 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:43,159 Speaker 2: I want to say something. 138 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 1: I know I was not people who are very book 139 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 1: smart and like they don't des moin des Moines, Iowa. 140 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:53,039 Speaker 2: People listen. I just want to say something. Can I 141 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:55,719 Speaker 2: say something? Laala to your point? You are right. Look 142 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 2: I am. I consider myself pretty successful, and I was not. 143 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 2: I was an artist kid. I was not the greatest 144 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:04,479 Speaker 2: student in school. My average is probably a C. I 145 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 2: don't encourage that, but they're all. There are also there 146 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 2: and bees in theater. There are also people who are 147 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:15,760 Speaker 2: book smart, like Bill Gates, who are billionaires. 148 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 1: So I don't know, it goes and then you can 149 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 1: just pay people to keep you alive. So that's dope. 150 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 1: That's what I would do. 151 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:27,000 Speaker 2: All right. I'm glad we played trivia on the podcast. 152 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 2: We will be back again trivia on the podcast. 153 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 1: No, I hate trivia on the podcast. We're not doing 154 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 1: it again. No, this is stupid. 155 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 2: Okay, can we do one more question for Tim? Because 156 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 2: it's really fun to watch them? 157 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:38,720 Speaker 1: One more and then I'm ready to talk. 158 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 2: To you about and you're really smart, So here you 159 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 2: go here, you're oh for one? Go ahead, Alex, there's 160 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 2: another geography one. Yeah, Let's do the spelling bee. Let's 161 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 2: do the spelling be one time for Tim. It's my favorite. 162 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 2: Tim fails at the spelling bee. I didn't participate in 163 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 2: the last spelling failed Tim, Good, No I didn't. I'm 164 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 2: pretty going Tim, I'm okay at spelling. Okay, we'll see 165 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 2: here we go Alex real quick, because we got a 166 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 2: couple of minutes to kill before we bring our incredible 167 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 2: guests out. This is this is fun. I think it's fun. 168 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 1: I just as you get older, is that this is 169 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 1: the definition of fun. 170 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 3: I like it. 171 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 1: I'm go into it. Okay, what's what's the word? 172 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 2: This is to give him a real one out spell profundity? Oh, 173 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 2: this is great, this is great profundity. 174 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: What does that mean? 175 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 2: Go p R O f U N D I T 176 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 2: y k P the worst. Hold on, I'm the worst 177 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 2: speller in the world, and I could have got that. 178 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 2: You can't pick a harder one than that. That's that's like, 179 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 2: that's like college below. When I was in elementary school, 180 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 2: I knocked my best friend out of the spelling B 181 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 2: with the word coco c O c o A. Yep, 182 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 2: I'm serious. And he've held on to that level of 183 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:00,839 Speaker 2: spelling B for the l thirty years. 184 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 1: How old are you? 185 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:05,559 Speaker 2: I don't know, Probably have a real one now ten okay, wow. 186 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 1: It was. 187 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 2: It was a very early round of this one. Here 188 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 2: we got that one doesn't count, so I'll give you 189 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:12,559 Speaker 2: one for one. You're one for one. Here here's the 190 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 2: last one. This is the tie break camaraderie. Yes right 191 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 2: here is tough. No, it is. And it's actually like 192 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:22,719 Speaker 2: an eleventh grade spelling word maybe tenth grade c O 193 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:26,440 Speaker 2: m is it. You already failed, that's it failed. So 194 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:28,719 Speaker 2: that's why that one, well, that one's not okay, I'm 195 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:30,439 Speaker 2: going to give Alex, but there's also it's like an 196 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:33,439 Speaker 2: ar word. Give me your phone for work? Yeah, c 197 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:36,199 Speaker 2: A m aar Alex, give your phone. Watch how good 198 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:38,199 Speaker 2: Alex is? And I hate giving him props because his 199 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:40,319 Speaker 2: ego is out of control. But here we go. Here 200 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 2: we no, you won't No, you won't you You've got ready. 201 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:47,400 Speaker 2: Here we go. Furlough f you are l o U 202 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 2: g h Okay, you win, Alex, You're. 203 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 3: Better than wow. 204 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:51,360 Speaker 1: I would have said l O W. 205 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:55,680 Speaker 2: I could have spelled could. Let's take a phreak. The 206 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:57,960 Speaker 2: word furlough has been in the news every day for 207 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 2: the past five months. I can spell for la. 208 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:03,840 Speaker 1: Wait because everyone's getting furlough. 209 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:07,920 Speaker 2: Because everyone's getting furloughed. Yeah, that's you're a little late today. 210 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:10,320 Speaker 1: All right. As much as as much fun as I've 211 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 1: had during this boy time, spelling bee, you all are 212 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:16,560 Speaker 1: just smartest ship. I can't get over it. All right, 213 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 1: when we get back, when we get back, we have 214 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 1: Giselle Bryant. Yes, all right, we are back with my 215 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:33,680 Speaker 1: all time greatest crush besides Beyonce. They're like neck and neck. 216 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:35,199 Speaker 1: What's up, Jaseel Bryant? 217 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 3: How are you? I can't believe I'm in the same 218 00:10:38,559 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 3: category as Beyonce. I feel like, so. 219 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 1: Oh, honey, you're there. Trust me. With a face like 220 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:49,719 Speaker 1: that and an ass that don't quit, I'm on a 221 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:50,319 Speaker 1: roll today. 222 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:53,440 Speaker 2: I just want to tell you something. First all, nice 223 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 2: to meet you, Nice to me too. I have to 224 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 2: tell you we over here are the producers and myself. 225 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:02,440 Speaker 2: I am a big Housewives fan, but I have not 226 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:05,440 Speaker 2: and I don't know why Lala has not educated me 227 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 2: with your show. So we have homework this weekend and 228 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:10,960 Speaker 2: we are watching the first season. I said the first episode, 229 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 2: but I meant the first season. So I am excited 230 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:16,480 Speaker 2: to hear about all the drama firsthand from you, and 231 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 2: just how you got on the show and how that happened, 232 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 2: and and and is it fun? Is it? You know, 233 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 2: all the good stuff? And then when I watch it 234 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:25,839 Speaker 2: now this weekend. 235 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:26,560 Speaker 1: You'll have the back story. 236 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, but Lala, Lala told me all this shit that's 237 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 2: already gone down. 238 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 1: So Jizzelle, I told that Potomac is the diamond of 239 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 1: the Housewives franchise right now, like y'all are killing it. 240 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 2: She did say that. 241 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:41,559 Speaker 3: She did say, Okay, but if you if you start 242 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 3: from season one. That's like so boring for where we 243 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:46,720 Speaker 3: are now? 244 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:50,720 Speaker 2: Basic, Yes, where should I start? Chazelle? Where should I start? 245 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know. 246 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 4: Maybe start like yeah two and a half, like you know, 247 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:57,120 Speaker 4: midway through season two? 248 00:11:57,240 --> 00:11:59,400 Speaker 2: Okay, Tim, two and a half, we're starting Alex two 249 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 2: and a half. Yes, that is our homework assignment for 250 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:03,360 Speaker 2: this week and I can't wait. 251 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:06,520 Speaker 1: So yeah, tell tell us how the Real Housewives of 252 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:09,200 Speaker 1: Potomac came to be, because let's be honest, it's a 253 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 1: super random place. 254 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 3: It is. 255 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:14,679 Speaker 4: It's so random. Okay, So what I think happened. What 256 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:18,280 Speaker 4: I've kind of heard rumors are that, you know, obviously 257 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 4: they had the Real Housewives of DC that didn't work out, 258 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 4: and years went by, and they wanted to come back 259 00:12:26,240 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 4: to this area but didn't know really how to do it. 260 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 4: So we were cast and we filmed an entire season 261 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:37,840 Speaker 4: if you can imagine, Islalla and they we did not 262 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:40,840 Speaker 4: know we were going to be housewives. So like, we 263 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 4: filmed for months and we had no way. 264 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 1: Do you think you were what did you think you 265 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:46,800 Speaker 1: were doing? Just like trying to make a show work. 266 00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 1: You didn't know that you were going to be a 267 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:50,440 Speaker 1: housewife like a part of the franchise. 268 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:54,200 Speaker 4: Had no idea, maybe it'll be housewives, maybe it'll be 269 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 4: Ladies of because there's like Ladies of London, right, But 270 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:02,600 Speaker 4: you know, we were unsure. So apparently Andy saw you know, 271 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 4: the cuts, and he loved. 272 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:06,840 Speaker 3: It and he was like, oh, these ladies are definitely housewives. 273 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:11,480 Speaker 4: They didn't tell us until literally, I don't know, five 274 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 4: minutes before they told the rest of the world that 275 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:16,520 Speaker 4: we were going to be Housewives of And they couldn't 276 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 4: figure out the name to give us, meaning we're in Maryland. 277 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:24,079 Speaker 3: Potomac is in Maryland. Okay, There's DC, which. 278 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 4: Of course they couldn't touch that because you know that 279 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 4: that didn't work out, right, There's Virginia, there's the DMV area. 280 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 4: They didn't know what to call us, so they kind 281 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:34,200 Speaker 4: of like, did I guess their their research and they 282 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:35,559 Speaker 4: came up with Potomac, which is. 283 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 3: Where at the time the majority of the Ladies lived. 284 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:43,320 Speaker 4: And it is random, it's so random, and la la, 285 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:47,079 Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you it. This Potomac is ninety five 286 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:53,760 Speaker 4: percent white, so oh my god, and so like we're 287 00:13:54,040 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 4: we're the black Ladies are the representation of Potomac. 288 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 3: So you can imagine how well that one when we 289 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:00,960 Speaker 3: first start. 290 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:04,400 Speaker 2: Oh man, oh man, you must have you must be 291 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 2: running that city. You guys must be running that city. 292 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 1: Oh you'll see, you'll see how they are. They're running everybody. 293 00:14:11,200 --> 00:14:15,239 Speaker 2: Wait, let me ask questions. Do you live in Potanma, Potoma, Potomac? 294 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:17,080 Speaker 2: Do you live in Potomac still? Now? 295 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 4: I actually live in Bethesda, which is like right next 296 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 4: to Potomac. 297 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 3: It's like a mile away. 298 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 2: Oh and it's like. 299 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 4: A little a little another little small town, but it's 300 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:29,960 Speaker 4: like right literally, I live seven minutes from DC. 301 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 2: Okay, So that was my question because I just asked 302 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:34,560 Speaker 2: Alex here, one of our producers. I said, I said, 303 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 2: how far are they from DC? So you're ten minutes 304 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 2: max from d C. Yes, So when you go out, 305 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 2: when you eat, when you go to bars, when they're open, 306 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:44,400 Speaker 2: and you hang out, you're going into d C. 307 00:14:44,560 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 4: Basically, I assume, oh one, I mean, and I was 308 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 4: I was raised in DC proper. 309 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:53,240 Speaker 2: Oh okay, so this is making more sense, Like DC 310 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:56,000 Speaker 2: is cool, cool city? You know, you got it? 311 00:14:56,200 --> 00:14:59,120 Speaker 1: And they probably would have named this franchise that or 312 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 1: is this that our version did? 313 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 2: That one didn't? 314 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 1: It was was d C full of white women. 315 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:08,680 Speaker 4: They had one black girl, but yes, the rest were white, 316 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:11,600 Speaker 4: and so it was and they didn't from what I understand, 317 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 4: they didn't know each other at all prior to the show, 318 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 4: So it was kind of like they threw a bunch 319 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 4: of random women together. 320 00:15:17,560 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 3: They didn't know each other, which was which never right 321 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:22,480 Speaker 3: with us? 322 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 4: Four of us out of the original six knew each 323 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 4: other for years prior to the show. Wow, so we 324 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 4: had the chemistry already baked in. 325 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:37,000 Speaker 1: That's the best when you get fighting in a bottle. 326 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:39,840 Speaker 1: When you can find a group of women who are like, 327 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 1: have known each other forever on top of their strong personalities, 328 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:48,520 Speaker 1: the best it really is. 329 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 2: I have to ask she just I just want to 330 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 2: hear how they how you How did somebody just approach 331 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:57,760 Speaker 2: one person? Did somebody coming with an idea? Call producers? 332 00:15:57,800 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 2: How does it evolve into the show with you, with 333 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 2: all all of you women getting together on. 334 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 1: The show, they were cast, all of them, and then 335 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:08,239 Speaker 1: they didn't know if they were going to be housewives 336 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 1: or if it was going to be like Ladies of Potomac. 337 00:16:10,400 --> 00:16:11,160 Speaker 2: Oh, they had no idea. 338 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 1: They had no idea. 339 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:14,320 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I'm just right, But the cat. They was 340 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 3: asking the trackage, so. 341 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 1: They were going to sell keep going. 342 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 4: Giselle, the guy that casts the show, I actually have known. 343 00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 4: It's just coincidence. I've known him for like twenty years. 344 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 4: So he calls me and he's like, Giselle, you're going 345 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 4: to do the show. And I'm like what, No, not, and. 346 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 3: So he was like, yes, you are, and that's that. 347 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:37,800 Speaker 4: So he said, I've already talked to Scharise and Charisa 348 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:42,000 Speaker 4: I knew, and Charisa knows everyone in Potomac everyone. 349 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:43,480 Speaker 3: Wow, so she. 350 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:47,080 Speaker 4: Was able to give the guy a whole lot of 351 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 4: different women. And then I said, well, if I'm doing it, 352 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:53,880 Speaker 4: Robin's doing it, and so I got Robin involved. And 353 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:57,480 Speaker 4: then I knew Karen and I were in a children's 354 00:16:57,480 --> 00:17:01,760 Speaker 4: group together, so I was like, okay, Karen was already 355 00:17:01,800 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 4: on board. 356 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:05,320 Speaker 3: So then they filled in the rest. So it just 357 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 3: it just worked. 358 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:07,560 Speaker 2: Wow, that's very cool. 359 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 1: I'm telling you that's it. You're gonna watch over your 360 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:15,160 Speaker 1: new favorite show. So are you Are you and miss 361 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:19,919 Speaker 1: Karen doing well or is your friendship still rocky? Like 362 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:22,440 Speaker 1: what is it like this season? Can you tease? I 363 00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 1: know the drill, I know the Bravo drill, So without 364 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:28,280 Speaker 1: filling it all, just give me a little little sippy. 365 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 4: We ebb and flow as we this season, as we 366 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:34,840 Speaker 4: normally do. However, I don't particularly like the way that 367 00:17:34,920 --> 00:17:38,679 Speaker 4: we ended the season, so I straight up have not 368 00:17:38,720 --> 00:17:40,359 Speaker 4: spoken to her since we stopped filming. 369 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:44,120 Speaker 1: Oh wow, Yeah, that's juice. You're gonna see what I'm 370 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:45,480 Speaker 1: telling you what I can't. 371 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:48,440 Speaker 2: Wait to see. Wait, what was the fight about, like why. 372 00:17:48,280 --> 00:17:48,880 Speaker 3: They fell out? 373 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:54,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, me and her, Yeah, it was it dealt with 374 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 4: respect and I felt like she disrespected me, and that's 375 00:17:57,840 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 4: what I don't tolerate. 376 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like that either. 377 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:02,359 Speaker 1: By the way, that's when it all goes south. 378 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 2: I have friends that you know, will disrespect me, you 379 00:18:05,359 --> 00:18:07,760 Speaker 2: know that I've known for even a long time, and 380 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:09,640 Speaker 2: that's the only thing that really just sets me off 381 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:12,680 Speaker 2: because it's like I always am one of those givers, 382 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 2: Like I always want to help my friends and bring 383 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 2: them up and do what I can do, and the 384 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:20,840 Speaker 2: minute they just take advantage or disrespect, it's like it's 385 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:23,440 Speaker 2: not worth it for me. That's the end, exactly. Yeah, 386 00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 2: I feel exactly. I feel the. 387 00:18:24,720 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 3: Same, and especially when you're on a show together. 388 00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:30,240 Speaker 4: So you know, she knows personal things that have been 389 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:32,880 Speaker 4: off camera about me and me I know about her 390 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:34,879 Speaker 4: that we'll never cross the line and kind of like 391 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:39,719 Speaker 4: be disrespectful on camera with it. And I just felt 392 00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:43,959 Speaker 4: like there's a level of respect for our friendship that 393 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:46,240 Speaker 4: she disregarded and I didn't. 394 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:47,000 Speaker 3: I don't like that. 395 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:50,240 Speaker 1: Oh, so you feel like she went into a territory 396 00:18:50,320 --> 00:18:53,000 Speaker 1: that was supposed to be left off camera? Is that 397 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:53,680 Speaker 1: what you're saying. 398 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:57,399 Speaker 3: No, she didn't do that, But she didn't. She didn't. 399 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 3: She just didn't ride for me like I I have 400 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:01,240 Speaker 3: written for her. 401 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:05,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, I can understand that. So I have a question 402 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:07,600 Speaker 1: when you started this show, what are you We're on 403 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 1: season five right, Yeah, season five is airing now. Did 404 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 1: it take a minute to adjust? Because I know with 405 00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 1: my cast, and I'm sure I'll get in trouble for 406 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 1: saying this. I know certain things that my cast members 407 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:23,280 Speaker 1: have told me that I would not mention on the show, 408 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 1: just because I think there's just a level of privacy 409 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:28,000 Speaker 1: that we have to you know, I still want these 410 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:29,680 Speaker 1: people to be my friends when the show. 411 00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:32,960 Speaker 2: Things happen during filming, So it's. 412 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 1: Like, correct, correct? Did you find it hard where it 413 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:38,160 Speaker 1: was like, there are certain things that I don't really 414 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:41,960 Speaker 1: want to discuss for the world to watch. Did like 415 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:43,080 Speaker 1: did you have to get used to that? 416 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:45,960 Speaker 3: Of course, of course, But. 417 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 4: You know season one we were really kind of like 418 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:55,680 Speaker 4: lightweight and it was never anything that was too out 419 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:58,719 Speaker 4: of bounds. However, as time goes by, you know, this 420 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:02,919 Speaker 4: stuff gets to the press. So once it's public with 421 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:05,960 Speaker 4: regards to press, it's we got to. 422 00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 3: Talk about it, right. You can't cannot talk about it right. 423 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:13,320 Speaker 4: So that's kind of where the seasons have have changed 424 00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:16,560 Speaker 4: and the information has changed, and it's kind of like, Okay, 425 00:20:17,119 --> 00:20:18,720 Speaker 4: I can't sit here and act like I haven't read 426 00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:21,120 Speaker 4: the blogs because now I know all about your husband 427 00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:23,639 Speaker 4: and what he's doing, you know, with Karen and her 428 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:26,639 Speaker 4: whole tax thing, like that was in the Washington Post 429 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:30,800 Speaker 4: that her husband owed the irs like five million dollars, Like, there's. 430 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:32,720 Speaker 3: No way we can't talk about it. I have to 431 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:33,360 Speaker 3: talk about it. 432 00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:36,920 Speaker 1: Wow, No, I'm telling you, Like, when I watch y'all show, 433 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:42,200 Speaker 1: it's like real shit. Yeah, you know, I'm like, where 434 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:45,240 Speaker 1: are we going here? Like, oh, they're going there right now? 435 00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:51,120 Speaker 4: Yes, And I feel like, you know, we can't get 436 00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:53,600 Speaker 4: away with Connor I feel like Beverly Hills, like the 437 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:56,239 Speaker 4: Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. I love those ladies. I 438 00:20:56,280 --> 00:21:00,280 Speaker 4: think that they are funny and they you know, they 439 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:02,360 Speaker 4: are dripping in diamonds and pearls. 440 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 3: I love it. But they argue over literally nothing like zero. 441 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:13,080 Speaker 1: Like lucy apple juicy. It's like, give me some real meat. 442 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:17,760 Speaker 4: Yes, whereas we couldn't get away with that if our 443 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:18,679 Speaker 4: life depended on it. 444 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:24,760 Speaker 2: Like I gotta agree with you. I do watch that show, 445 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 2: and and Lawa is glued to all of these real housewives. 446 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 2: And when I watch, they're fighting over like did you did? 447 00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:34,959 Speaker 2: Were you out of line at the last party? I 448 00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 2: can't believe what you said? You were disrespided. It's like 449 00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:40,240 Speaker 2: to me, it's like it's not that heavy, you know, 450 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:42,760 Speaker 2: but they're make it like it's the end of the world. 451 00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:47,439 Speaker 2: So I mean to see you're cast and what and 452 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:49,159 Speaker 2: how heavy it gets because that's not. 453 00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:53,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, we we get into it, and especially this season 454 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:58,680 Speaker 4: and a maybe like five more episodes, we really get into. 455 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:01,320 Speaker 3: What's really in it right now, which is. 456 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:03,960 Speaker 4: You know, the whole black lives matter, and we could 457 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:06,800 Speaker 4: have never known that, you know, the world would have 458 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:09,480 Speaker 4: exploded like it did with regards to Black Lives Matter. 459 00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:12,159 Speaker 4: But in the show, we just talk about what it 460 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:14,720 Speaker 4: means to be a black woman and and how important 461 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 4: that is and how we're viewed in this country, and 462 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:21,960 Speaker 4: like all of that came up and yeah. 463 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:23,199 Speaker 3: That's like really heavy stuff. 464 00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:25,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, big time. And I think it's phenomenal that you 465 00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:29,840 Speaker 2: guys you know, confronted in your show, because yes, I 466 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:31,879 Speaker 2: think we need a lot more of that. So and 467 00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:33,720 Speaker 2: I hope to see that a lot more in television. 468 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:37,280 Speaker 1: Well, I want to deep dive into what you were 469 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,040 Speaker 1: just talking about. We're going to take a short break 470 00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:44,520 Speaker 1: and we'll be right back with Jazell Bryant. We are 471 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 1: back with my favorite Real housewife, Miss ji Zel Bryant. 472 00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 1: Hi baby, Hi. So before the break, you were telling 473 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 1: us that in a few weeks on the show, you 474 00:22:57,600 --> 00:23:01,919 Speaker 1: ladies will get to address black Lives matter. What was 475 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:06,879 Speaker 1: that like for you as it you know, even on 476 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:10,280 Speaker 1: when we see Watch What Happens Live and you now 477 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:15,359 Speaker 1: do a show that is about this not being a moment, 478 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:19,399 Speaker 1: it being a real movement. I watch your Instagram a lot, like, 479 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 1: what is this like for you as a black woman 480 00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:25,000 Speaker 1: to be such a force behind this movement. 481 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:28,440 Speaker 3: I think that it's great that we have this. 482 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:30,720 Speaker 4: Platform, or that I'll speak personally, that I have this 483 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:36,520 Speaker 4: platform to use my voice to bring awareness to things 484 00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:41,040 Speaker 4: that people overlook. You know, I've had so many issues 485 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:44,120 Speaker 4: with my children and just and just them in school 486 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:46,120 Speaker 4: and just you know, some things that the white kids 487 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:46,760 Speaker 4: say to them. 488 00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:52,359 Speaker 3: That's horrible. But now finally. 489 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:56,159 Speaker 4: The world is listening, which is a beautiful thing. So 490 00:23:56,800 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 4: in the show, there was an altercation and afterwards, you know, 491 00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:05,160 Speaker 4: which was horrible, But afterwards it allowed us to really 492 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:09,200 Speaker 4: talk about how we conduct ourselves and how we handle 493 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:12,919 Speaker 4: ourselves as black women in this country because we are overlooked, 494 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:15,760 Speaker 4: we are paid less, we are treated like the lowest 495 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:19,000 Speaker 4: man on the totem pole, and we don't ever want 496 00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 4: to put ourselves on national television and show the world 497 00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:24,800 Speaker 4: what you already think of us, which is that we're 498 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:31,000 Speaker 4: not capable of discussing things without fighting, without violence, without 499 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:36,760 Speaker 4: being forceful. So it was it was a great conversation 500 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:39,320 Speaker 4: and hopefully it'll be really well received. 501 00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:42,040 Speaker 1: You know what I know, obviously I haven't seen it, 502 00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:45,120 Speaker 1: but that is actually in the trailer when you they're 503 00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:48,000 Speaker 1: like doing a montage of all of these things like 504 00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 1: a fight scene that's cutting in and out, and what 505 00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:53,679 Speaker 1: you say sent chills up my body? 506 00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:55,000 Speaker 3: Did it? 507 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 1: It really did, because you know, I'm obviously a white 508 00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:03,280 Speaker 1: person who collapse back very quickly and I don't have 509 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:05,840 Speaker 1: to think like that Giselle, you know, And so when 510 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:09,160 Speaker 1: you said that, it was like, wow, Like these women 511 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:14,120 Speaker 1: are really shedding light on things that people that look 512 00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:17,280 Speaker 1: like me don't think about because we've ever had to. 513 00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:20,880 Speaker 1: And you know, you're You're one of the first people 514 00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:23,880 Speaker 1: that I called when this movement happened and things went 515 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:26,879 Speaker 1: sideways with some of the vander Pump Rules casts. I 516 00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:31,399 Speaker 1: just was like reaching for any sort of knowledge that 517 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:33,760 Speaker 1: I that I could get. So I really want to 518 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:34,399 Speaker 1: thank you for that. 519 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:37,760 Speaker 4: Oh absolutely, And you know, as we all moved down 520 00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:39,879 Speaker 4: this road, it's just like we could just have to 521 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:44,720 Speaker 4: have the conversations because it really opens everybody's eyes to 522 00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:46,840 Speaker 4: what's really going on in this country. So hopefully we 523 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:49,280 Speaker 4: can get to a better place. That's all we're asking, 524 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:50,639 Speaker 4: just to get to a better place. 525 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:53,720 Speaker 1: Absolutely. I love watching your stories and I love seeing 526 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:55,760 Speaker 1: you with your girls and what you guys are doing 527 00:25:55,880 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 1: so good damn work. I want to I want to 528 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:07,760 Speaker 1: move on to pastor Jamal Bryant. Yes, okay, So I 529 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 1: was telling Randall, I'm like, no, you don't understand, like 530 00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:13,560 Speaker 1: they were married, got divorced, her kids were like confused 531 00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:14,560 Speaker 1: when they got back together. 532 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:19,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's I want you to spill all the wice. 533 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,320 Speaker 2: She just flew right over that like it's like a 534 00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:26,399 Speaker 2: standard because I was trying to just process what you 535 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:28,680 Speaker 2: just said. I mean you just like, oh, yeah, got married, 536 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 2: got more, got back together seven years later. I mean, 537 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:33,679 Speaker 2: slow it down, Let's start with the beginning. 538 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:37,240 Speaker 1: Hold on Jesselle was She's going to give you the gi. 539 00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:38,480 Speaker 2: I just want to ask the question. 540 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:39,879 Speaker 1: They asked the question. 541 00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:45,560 Speaker 2: You married a many all in love, had children? Correct? Okay, correct? 542 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 2: Then seven that, then seven years later, got divorced? Correct? 543 00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:56,240 Speaker 2: And then how many years later from that did you reconnect? 544 00:26:56,400 --> 00:27:00,480 Speaker 2: And twelve years year? Oh my god, I got no more. 545 00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:02,919 Speaker 2: This is too good. Okay, break it down for us. 546 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:05,440 Speaker 2: Break it down. So this happens. 547 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,600 Speaker 3: Throughout throughout the twelve years. 548 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:11,119 Speaker 4: You know, I had to make a decision and say, Okay, 549 00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:14,399 Speaker 4: do I am I just going to be mad for 550 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,400 Speaker 4: the rest of my life, or do I really want 551 00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:19,280 Speaker 4: to give my girls the opportunity to have like a 552 00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 4: real decent family unit. So I put my love for 553 00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:28,400 Speaker 4: my children over me being mad at him with regards 554 00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:29,080 Speaker 4: to the divorce. 555 00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:32,600 Speaker 3: Does that make sense? Yes? Okay, So then you know, 556 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 3: time goes by. I'm growing and evolving. He's growing and evolving, 557 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:37,399 Speaker 3: you know. 558 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:41,400 Speaker 4: I I'm growing into this like bad bitch that I am, and. 559 00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:47,280 Speaker 2: That's amazing. Part of the whole episode is great. 560 00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:50,400 Speaker 4: And then you know, and he's also growing and evolving 561 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:54,520 Speaker 4: with his career and throughout the twelve years, you know, 562 00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:56,840 Speaker 4: we remain tight as friends. 563 00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,880 Speaker 2: All on a second. Okay, so I know in twelve 564 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:06,359 Speaker 2: years of being co parents and amazing children in separate homes, 565 00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:08,560 Speaker 2: do you ever hook up? 566 00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,359 Speaker 3: Going there? Okay, No, that's no. That's a really good 567 00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:13,920 Speaker 3: question and the answer is no. 568 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:17,760 Speaker 2: I can't. This is amazing. That's even more amazing that 569 00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:20,480 Speaker 2: you close a chapter in your life. I understand the 570 00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:23,639 Speaker 2: co parenting. And then at some point, how does this 571 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:25,840 Speaker 2: go down? Like how does this happen? 572 00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:28,320 Speaker 3: Well, I'm I'm clearly dating other people. 573 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:30,560 Speaker 4: And doing my things and he's doing that too, So 574 00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:33,680 Speaker 4: I think it happened because of that, because we did 575 00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:38,440 Speaker 4: our thing without hooking up. And without like, Okay, you 576 00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:40,080 Speaker 4: know he's just going to put his pinky toe in 577 00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:43,959 Speaker 4: and test the waters. No, we were clearly living our 578 00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:48,600 Speaker 4: separate lives, of course co parenting, but that allowed both 579 00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:50,800 Speaker 4: of us to grow in our own space. 580 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:53,760 Speaker 3: Okay, so then you know, I don't know. I think 581 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:55,200 Speaker 3: I woke up one day and was I mean, he 582 00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:57,479 Speaker 3: would always of course, Randall, you know you know how 583 00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,040 Speaker 3: y'all do. He would always throw it out. 584 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:04,960 Speaker 2: Dude, You're amazing. You are amazing. No, okay, so as 585 00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 2: a dude, as a dude, that's all I wanted to know. 586 00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:09,680 Speaker 2: As a dude, you're saying, you guys are super close. 587 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:13,840 Speaker 2: Over the twelve years, you're obviously both growing, you're both evolving, 588 00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:16,400 Speaker 2: and then you're, I want to call it your more 589 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:22,680 Speaker 2: mature selves twelve years later kind of fall into line 590 00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:28,640 Speaker 2: where the attraction is there again. I guess, yeah, yes, wow, 591 00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:33,240 Speaker 2: you you broke it down. I do because can I 592 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:36,200 Speaker 2: tell you something, I've never heard of this, and I 593 00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:40,240 Speaker 2: do know that Don Johnson and Melanie Griffeth that's the 594 00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:43,520 Speaker 2: only couple that I'm like kind of aware of that 595 00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:46,600 Speaker 2: did this kind of thing. Okay, let let's just talk 596 00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:50,440 Speaker 2: about that percentages of this happening divorce in America, unfortunately, 597 00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:53,480 Speaker 2: is fifty eight percent or something like that. Somewhere in 598 00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:56,480 Speaker 2: this high bracket of the fifties or sixties, I would 599 00:29:56,480 --> 00:30:01,520 Speaker 2: say that chances of reconciliation is probably point zero zero 600 00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:04,600 Speaker 2: zero zero er zero one. So it's just you're an 601 00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:07,040 Speaker 2: anomaly at the highest level, and that's why I'm so 602 00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:10,760 Speaker 2: just intrigued how it happened. But okay, so now twelve 603 00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,800 Speaker 2: years later, you've mature, he's mature. You're a badass, he's 604 00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:17,160 Speaker 2: a badass. You both are ballers and yeah, and you're 605 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:20,440 Speaker 2: saying all along. He's like trying to get like Friday 606 00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:22,480 Speaker 2: night colms. You're having a few drinks. He's like, can't 607 00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:26,120 Speaker 2: sleep over. You're like no, So he keeps putting it 608 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:30,520 Speaker 2: out there. But eventually what happens that you you put 609 00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:33,040 Speaker 2: the wall down or the connection makes sense. 610 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 4: That's what I'm okay, Okay, so let's let me back 611 00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:40,320 Speaker 4: up and clean some stuff up a little bit, because 612 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 4: it was never. 613 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:42,880 Speaker 3: Like had too many drinks? Can I spend the night? 614 00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:45,560 Speaker 4: No, it was more like, you know, I can't wait 615 00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:48,520 Speaker 4: to roll you, you know, push your what do you 616 00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:49,120 Speaker 4: call those things? 617 00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:49,400 Speaker 2: Oh? 618 00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:54,360 Speaker 3: Push your wheelchair when we get old together? You know that. 619 00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:57,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, there was none of that four cocktails in just 620 00:30:57,560 --> 00:30:57,840 Speaker 2: being like. 621 00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:00,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I really want to know, are in there 622 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:01,400 Speaker 1: more mature selves? 623 00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:01,600 Speaker 3: Now? 624 00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:03,760 Speaker 2: I got it? And yes, and your husband's a pastor. 625 00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:04,880 Speaker 2: I forgetting so. 626 00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:06,800 Speaker 3: Yes, and he so he doesn't drink, but I do. 627 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:09,160 Speaker 2: I just forgot about that. So I screwed up. Yeah, okay, 628 00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:12,640 Speaker 2: so he's like a unicorn. He's like the perfect ex husband. 629 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:16,480 Speaker 2: There you go, yes and yes, absolutely Okay. So now 630 00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:17,760 Speaker 2: he says, I want to push your wheel try, I 631 00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:19,959 Speaker 2: want to grow old with you, and yeah, in this 632 00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:21,680 Speaker 2: moment in your life where you look at him and. 633 00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:25,960 Speaker 4: Say, so, I am at this point where I'm like, 634 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,040 Speaker 4: you know what, who do I want to grow old with? 635 00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:30,520 Speaker 3: Who do I want to travel the world with? Who 636 00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:33,520 Speaker 3: do I want to share my life with? 637 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:35,520 Speaker 4: Because you know, I'm doing some great things out here 638 00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:36,840 Speaker 4: and I want to share it with somebody. 639 00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:38,800 Speaker 3: And there was. 640 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:41,360 Speaker 4: No other person that I could even possibly think of 641 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:43,720 Speaker 4: than him. 642 00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:45,240 Speaker 3: That's number one. Number two. 643 00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:48,000 Speaker 4: I was listening to an interview and I can't remember 644 00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:52,600 Speaker 4: who interviewed them, but it was Shawnnie O'Neill and Evelyn Lozada. 645 00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:54,160 Speaker 1: Okay from basketball wives. 646 00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:55,960 Speaker 4: From basketball wives, And the guy asked them, is that 647 00:31:56,040 --> 00:32:00,640 Speaker 4: you guys right? If you guys got locked up in jail, 648 00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:03,680 Speaker 4: who would you call? You had one call, who would 649 00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:06,400 Speaker 4: you call to get you out? And both of them 650 00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:09,760 Speaker 4: said their ex husbands. Seannie was like Shaquille and Evelyn 651 00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 4: was like Chad. And I was like Jamal, Like there's 652 00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:15,080 Speaker 4: nobody but Jamal to get me out of jail because 653 00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:18,520 Speaker 4: I know he will die to protect me and to 654 00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:20,520 Speaker 4: take care of me and to make sure that I'm 655 00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:24,120 Speaker 4: that I'm good. So you know, when I started coming 656 00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:27,320 Speaker 4: into myself and realizing like what I want from my life, 657 00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:30,440 Speaker 4: it just you know, of course, it just makes sense. 658 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:35,360 Speaker 3: The love is still there. And he then moved away. 659 00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:36,240 Speaker 3: He moved to. 660 00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:39,120 Speaker 2: Atlanta, Okay, and nothing had happened yet, correct, Like, you 661 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,600 Speaker 2: guys now get to this place, this sweet time that's 662 00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:44,560 Speaker 2: away being kind to each other. Got it? 663 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:44,960 Speaker 3: Yes? 664 00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,720 Speaker 4: And then I realized I didn't want him away, Like 665 00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 4: you know, he moved to Atlanta and I was like, 666 00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:53,880 Speaker 4: holy shit, he's gone. And then that made me really 667 00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,680 Speaker 4: shift and be like wait a minute, this no, like 668 00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:57,480 Speaker 4: let's fix this. 669 00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:00,600 Speaker 2: So yeah, and that's when you reached out and you said, 670 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:02,840 Speaker 2: let's take a shot at this. I mean, I just 671 00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:04,960 Speaker 2: want to know that the actual how it. 672 00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:08,880 Speaker 3: And I can't. I don't have that magical moment for you, Randall. 673 00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:12,920 Speaker 4: But we just started talking about us being back together, 674 00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:15,360 Speaker 4: and then we took it seriously because we were like, Okay, 675 00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:16,920 Speaker 4: if we're going to do this, we have to like 676 00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:20,480 Speaker 4: make sure we're very intentional. So we went to see 677 00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:25,280 Speaker 4: we sought counseling and you know, try to really get 678 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:27,719 Speaker 4: in a good headspace to make sure because you know, 679 00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:30,560 Speaker 4: it's this whole trust thing that you got to rebuild 680 00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:32,920 Speaker 4: and all of that good stuff that you got to 681 00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:34,960 Speaker 4: make sure you pay attention to. 682 00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:38,400 Speaker 2: But you know what's cool because obviously this doesn't happen, 683 00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,720 Speaker 2: and it's, like I said, anomaly. What's neat is that 684 00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:44,760 Speaker 2: for twelve years you both evolved to completely different people, 685 00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:49,280 Speaker 2: but your completely different selves were more in sync than 686 00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:53,320 Speaker 2: your previous selves. I guess it seems like so when 687 00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:55,800 Speaker 2: you twelve years later, when you really got together again, 688 00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:59,560 Speaker 2: it seems like you both were just like spiritually in 689 00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:03,640 Speaker 2: the same place. Yes, I guess I think that's amazing. 690 00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:06,880 Speaker 2: I think it's a true love story and I just. 691 00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 1: Have to put I just have to put this out 692 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:14,879 Speaker 1: there because she has three girls. Yeah, and they were 693 00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:19,479 Speaker 1: like this is weird, like because they never knew. Yes, 694 00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:21,600 Speaker 1: how how are they doing with it now? 695 00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,799 Speaker 2: Yeah? How do how do kids respond to this? 696 00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:26,839 Speaker 3: Just that way? 697 00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:27,040 Speaker 1: There? 698 00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:27,840 Speaker 3: This is weird. 699 00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:30,040 Speaker 4: This is you know, we know what happened in the past, 700 00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:31,400 Speaker 4: and we want to make you know their. 701 00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:36,080 Speaker 3: Team mommy like no other. But no, they're good. They 702 00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:37,439 Speaker 3: love their dad and they're good. 703 00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:40,160 Speaker 2: So how long have you been back together? Now? 704 00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:41,839 Speaker 3: It's been a couple of years. I tried to hide 705 00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:43,880 Speaker 3: it for as long as I possibly could. You know 706 00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:46,959 Speaker 3: how that is to try to hide? Yeah, you're real life? 707 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:47,359 Speaker 1: Yes? 708 00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:53,160 Speaker 2: Wait did Laala hide anything on the show? 709 00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:54,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. 710 00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:54,719 Speaker 3: I know how. 711 00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:57,880 Speaker 1: I know the drill, you duck and dodge the truth for. 712 00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:02,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, but then it's like, okay, fine, you gotta you 713 00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:02,920 Speaker 4: gotta deal with it. 714 00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:06,240 Speaker 3: So for for a couple of years now, yeah. 715 00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:09,160 Speaker 2: Okay, Wow, I am I am very this is Does 716 00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:11,520 Speaker 2: this now a question? And maybe I'm just be naive? 717 00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:14,160 Speaker 2: Does this come out on the show and in any 718 00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:16,479 Speaker 2: of the show. Does this whole rekindling happen on the show? 719 00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:19,759 Speaker 4: It happened prior to us filming, so so not really no. 720 00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:24,440 Speaker 1: But last year's last season's reunion is when Andy was like, 721 00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:28,120 Speaker 1: who are you dating? Like I've heard it maybe somebody 722 00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:29,879 Speaker 1: would you like to tell me? And isn't that when 723 00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,400 Speaker 1: you were like, I'm dating my ex husband? 724 00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:36,280 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, no, I was like what huhah? 725 00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:39,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, but people to be to be honest with you, 726 00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:41,600 Speaker 3: people that Noah's are like so super excited. 727 00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:44,160 Speaker 1: I mean, how could you not just listening? Do you 728 00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:46,799 Speaker 1: talk about how you guys like went off and did 729 00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:49,200 Speaker 1: your thing. And my mom always said, you can never 730 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:52,520 Speaker 1: be with someone if if you only equal one hundred percent, 731 00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:55,560 Speaker 1: you each have to equal one hundred percent to make 732 00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:58,640 Speaker 1: two hundred. He can't be your other half. You have 733 00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:00,759 Speaker 1: to already be a whole person, saying well, I'm like. 734 00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:02,120 Speaker 2: Five hundred percent, so there you go. 735 00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:05,279 Speaker 1: Oh god, you go right. 736 00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:08,560 Speaker 3: I totally agree with that. I totally agree with that. 737 00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:11,200 Speaker 4: And then my mother always told me that I should 738 00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:13,680 Speaker 4: never be a man's first wife. I should be his 739 00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:16,680 Speaker 4: second wife, and technically I would be if we got 740 00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:17,239 Speaker 4: married again. 741 00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:20,839 Speaker 1: Wow, how lucky is that to be? That's amazing? 742 00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:23,080 Speaker 2: Well, you know what, I agree with one hundred percent 743 00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:25,759 Speaker 2: thing because I feel like like you and I like 744 00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:28,400 Speaker 2: today where I'm at my life and where you are, Like, 745 00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:32,239 Speaker 2: we're strong forces and we are our own people, and 746 00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:35,000 Speaker 2: yes we will break down for one another to be 747 00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:37,560 Speaker 2: there for each other, but we will always hold the 748 00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:39,359 Speaker 2: line on who we are and not let the other 749 00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:40,400 Speaker 2: swallow the other person. 750 00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:43,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, Randall always likes to ask, do you need me, 751 00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,880 Speaker 1: la La? I'm like, no, really, I want you, but 752 00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:49,319 Speaker 1: I don't need anybody, baby, that's what But that is 753 00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:51,960 Speaker 1: what you want, Like, that's that's perfect. 754 00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:56,600 Speaker 3: I think that the first time when we were married, I. 755 00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:58,640 Speaker 4: He swallowed me up, like and I by design, not 756 00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:01,799 Speaker 4: by design, but I decided to kind of put all 757 00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:04,080 Speaker 4: my focus and concentration on him because he was building 758 00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:06,000 Speaker 4: his business and he was building his church, and I 759 00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:09,879 Speaker 4: was there to help him. So I think, and as 760 00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:13,120 Speaker 4: I look back, that that probably was not good. 761 00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:16,360 Speaker 1: No, I mean, how can that be good? You know, 762 00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,000 Speaker 1: it's it's crazy for you to say that because you're 763 00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:21,920 Speaker 1: such a strong force, like when you and I have 764 00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:24,359 Speaker 1: spoken or when I watch you on the show, like 765 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:27,000 Speaker 1: I would never think that any man could you know, 766 00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:31,799 Speaker 1: swallow you up? When you know it's like shocking. 767 00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:36,319 Speaker 2: Later and now now exactly like kind of like where 768 00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:38,799 Speaker 2: we're at, Like we each have our identities and we 769 00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:41,960 Speaker 2: embrace them versus one of us try to eat it up. 770 00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:45,239 Speaker 1: Giselle, do you feel like this show gave you more confidence? 771 00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,279 Speaker 4: I had it before, but it like amplified it from 772 00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:52,879 Speaker 4: the perspective of I was so season one. 773 00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:55,799 Speaker 3: You know, you never know what's going to happen. 774 00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:58,239 Speaker 4: You never know how you're going to be perceived, And 775 00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:01,960 Speaker 4: I really was like a little terrified, like are people 776 00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:03,879 Speaker 4: gonna like me? Are they gonna hate me? Are they 777 00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:05,839 Speaker 4: going to think I'm just stuck up? Or are they 778 00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:10,360 Speaker 4: going to understand my jokes? So I realized that I 779 00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:13,799 Speaker 4: can't even worry about that, Like I'm confident I'm a 780 00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:16,520 Speaker 4: bad one and I'm just gonna walk my walk. 781 00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:17,319 Speaker 1: I love it. 782 00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:19,520 Speaker 2: I love it. Before we run out of time, I 783 00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:23,120 Speaker 2: just want to talk about your makeup brand every huge. Yes, 784 00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:26,480 Speaker 2: So you launched this in twenty sixteen. Tell us about that, 785 00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:29,360 Speaker 2: because that's exciting because Lala, you know, launched a brand, 786 00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:32,320 Speaker 2: and I love I love to hear about strong women 787 00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:35,320 Speaker 2: who are who don't have their own companies. So break 788 00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:35,799 Speaker 2: it down for. 789 00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:37,520 Speaker 4: Us by the way, thank you, Lola for what you 790 00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:39,960 Speaker 4: sent me. I was going to thank you at the end, 791 00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:42,319 Speaker 4: but like I love my lips. My kids were trying 792 00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:45,080 Speaker 4: to steal what you sent me and I'm like, back 793 00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:46,080 Speaker 4: up off my lipstick. 794 00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:46,879 Speaker 3: Thank you very much. 795 00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:49,279 Speaker 1: Oh you are so sweet. I'm so happy that you 796 00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:51,760 Speaker 1: love it. Thank you. 797 00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:52,640 Speaker 3: You're quite welcome. 798 00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:57,439 Speaker 4: So I started every huge beauty to basically help out 799 00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:00,239 Speaker 4: women of color because like when you go through through 800 00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:05,000 Speaker 4: the beauty world, a lot of times, most things that 801 00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:07,840 Speaker 4: are out there don't match our skin complexion. Until Finty 802 00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:12,000 Speaker 4: came along, Like Cinty really changed the game the world. Yeah, 803 00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:16,960 Speaker 4: and Fenty made everyone else, everyone like big box stores, realize, Okay, 804 00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,200 Speaker 4: we've got to have stuff in here for black women 805 00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:20,560 Speaker 4: because the. 806 00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:26,239 Speaker 3: There that Fenty just blew that market up. So that's it. 807 00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:29,719 Speaker 3: And we were in Target and it was a beautiful relationship. 808 00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:30,960 Speaker 3: Now let's talk about COVID. 809 00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:34,160 Speaker 1: Okay, so not part Covid. 810 00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:36,080 Speaker 3: Has killed our manufacturer. 811 00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:39,359 Speaker 4: So that's actually where we are right now, Like our 812 00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:42,840 Speaker 4: manufacturers shut down. We haven't been able. We don't know 813 00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:48,000 Speaker 4: when they'll be back up. And because I have skincare, 814 00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:52,680 Speaker 4: meaning I have products that that have to be I 815 00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:54,759 Speaker 4: have SPF in my product and all that has to 816 00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,799 Speaker 4: be approved by the FDA and all that stuff. I 817 00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:01,319 Speaker 4: can't really just like move to another manufacturer overnight. So 818 00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:05,040 Speaker 4: I'm trying to figure that out, guys. But Covid is 819 00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:07,960 Speaker 4: a beast because it has really put a monkey wrench 820 00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:09,040 Speaker 4: in every beauty. 821 00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:12,160 Speaker 1: It's put a wrench in a and I hate to say, like, well, 822 00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:15,680 Speaker 1: misery loves company, that's just the same. But it does 823 00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:17,360 Speaker 1: feel good to be like, Okay, at least I'm not 824 00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:20,080 Speaker 1: the only one that's affected. It makes me feel less 825 00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:24,080 Speaker 1: badly that things aren't moving the way that they used to. 826 00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:26,640 Speaker 2: Ye for everybody, no, everybody, like not at all. 827 00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:30,080 Speaker 4: And I never thought that this would be a problem. 828 00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:33,399 Speaker 4: Like I never thought, Okay, the pandemic has hit. Cool, 829 00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:35,440 Speaker 4: I get you know, you'll be shut down. But it 830 00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:38,080 Speaker 4: affected my manufacturer to the point where I don't know 831 00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:39,120 Speaker 4: if they'll ever come back up. 832 00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:40,640 Speaker 3: And it's kind of like, okay, we got to figure 833 00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:41,040 Speaker 3: this out. 834 00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:43,120 Speaker 2: Well that I think. I think that's that's interesting to 835 00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:45,319 Speaker 2: say it because everybody goes through like where we were, 836 00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:47,759 Speaker 2: like Okay, it'll be a month, it'll be two months, Okay, 837 00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:50,799 Speaker 2: it's three months. Now it's six, now it's nine, and 838 00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:52,960 Speaker 2: you're right, a lot of people have not will not 839 00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:55,680 Speaker 2: come back. A lot of my partners that I've worked 840 00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:58,160 Speaker 2: with also, you know, I've suffered where they haven't. They 841 00:40:58,160 --> 00:40:59,480 Speaker 2: are not going to be able to come back. And 842 00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:02,560 Speaker 2: it's crazy how we have to, you know, figure out 843 00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:03,160 Speaker 2: the future. 844 00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:08,160 Speaker 1: And and yes, I am so grateful that you found 845 00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:10,040 Speaker 1: time to be on our show. You know, I've been 846 00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,000 Speaker 1: trying to get you on here for a minute. You're 847 00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:13,360 Speaker 1: just amazing. 848 00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:17,239 Speaker 4: Thank you, thank you, thank you so much for watching. 849 00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:20,319 Speaker 4: You know, we were we were one of those in Randam. 850 00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:21,600 Speaker 4: I don't know whether you know this or not, but 851 00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:24,320 Speaker 4: we were the one of the newest housewives to come along. 852 00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:26,640 Speaker 3: We were like the little engine that could. Nobody thought 853 00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:27,440 Speaker 3: we were going to make it. 854 00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:30,959 Speaker 2: Oh wow, I don't know that. I know that. Yes, 855 00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:34,400 Speaker 2: you're going, you're going, You're going in the season four. 856 00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:35,759 Speaker 1: And no they're in five. 857 00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:36,239 Speaker 3: Five. 858 00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:37,480 Speaker 1: Five is airing now. 859 00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:39,279 Speaker 2: Yes. Oh so if I started two and a half, 860 00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:41,000 Speaker 2: I got two and a half seasons to watch. This 861 00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:41,600 Speaker 2: is great. 862 00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:43,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, great, Yeah. 863 00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:45,680 Speaker 4: So I just really want to thank my fan all 864 00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:47,960 Speaker 4: the fans that just stuck with us from day one 865 00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:49,759 Speaker 4: because you know, we didn't think we were going to 866 00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:50,200 Speaker 4: make it here. 867 00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:52,400 Speaker 3: Now that we have, it's it's amazing. 868 00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:56,200 Speaker 1: Oh, Giselle, I love watching or seeing the little things 869 00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:59,600 Speaker 1: on Instagram where it's like if you haven't watched Potomac, 870 00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:02,759 Speaker 1: like this is the goat, this is the one, because 871 00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:05,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, I've been telling ya this is the one, 872 00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:07,040 Speaker 1: So thank you so much. 873 00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:09,520 Speaker 4: All right, now, wait a minute, I need to get 874 00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:11,960 Speaker 4: in y'all's business. So when is the wedding happening? 875 00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:12,680 Speaker 2: Oh? 876 00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:17,279 Speaker 1: Oh, she we're going there, aren't we. So we plan 877 00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:23,319 Speaker 1: to get married in September because a correct and September 878 00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:26,480 Speaker 1: is approaching and nothing has gotten better. So we're we're 879 00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:27,520 Speaker 1: planning on next year. 880 00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:30,319 Speaker 2: Yeah July, Yeah July. 881 00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:32,480 Speaker 4: And that's smart, and you guys love each other, so 882 00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:34,160 Speaker 4: nothing's gonna happen between now and then. 883 00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:37,560 Speaker 2: We feel. We look at each other now, we're just 884 00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:39,920 Speaker 2: like we're a husband and wife. Like enough with the wedding, 885 00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:42,400 Speaker 2: like it's gonna it's gonna be magical when it happens. 886 00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:46,000 Speaker 2: But we've just like I pushed hard for September. I 887 00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:48,040 Speaker 2: pushed hard for October and then she just looked at 888 00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:50,879 Speaker 2: me and it's like, babe, let's not fight and I'll 889 00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:53,640 Speaker 2: hill battle. Let's just pick a date next summer. Knock 890 00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:56,120 Speaker 2: on wood. The world has the vaccine and life is 891 00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:58,000 Speaker 2: easier and we're just gonna roll with that. 892 00:42:58,160 --> 00:43:00,840 Speaker 3: That's a that's perfect, that's perfect. Okay, all right, I 893 00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:01,359 Speaker 3: can't wait. 894 00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:05,040 Speaker 1: Well, yes, you're you're This is what I love too, 895 00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:07,919 Speaker 1: is that I get to adjust my guest list. And 896 00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:10,880 Speaker 1: you know, because I've made new friends baby, that I 897 00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:13,640 Speaker 1: want to come celebrate love with me. 898 00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:16,279 Speaker 3: I would be honored. I love it. 899 00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:17,320 Speaker 2: You are invited. 900 00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:20,279 Speaker 1: Of course, we'll get you your invitation. All right, we'll 901 00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:21,759 Speaker 1: talk soon, baby, Thank you so much. 902 00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:24,080 Speaker 3: All right, bye, guys, bye. 903 00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:28,239 Speaker 1: I just die for her every time, every fucking time, 904 00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:30,359 Speaker 1: I get like flustered when I talk to her. 905 00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:31,960 Speaker 2: I saw that when. 906 00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:33,879 Speaker 1: You when you googled her, were you like, holy shit? 907 00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:34,840 Speaker 1: This woman is stunning. 908 00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:36,120 Speaker 2: First of all, why are you looking at it? She's 909 00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:39,279 Speaker 2: stunnying Tim. Tim hasn't watched one episode of Reality of 910 00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:40,560 Speaker 2: Real Housewives in his life. 911 00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:43,120 Speaker 1: I'm just I thought that was an awesome episode. 912 00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:46,040 Speaker 2: I never watched the episode of Real Housewives. No, okay, 913 00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:48,560 Speaker 2: so Tim is gonna watch I mean, why are you 914 00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:50,600 Speaker 2: were like looking at Tim? She asked about when I 915 00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:51,640 Speaker 2: was researching. 916 00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:55,000 Speaker 1: He researched Giselle, and you ask you if he died 917 00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:57,840 Speaker 1: when he saw her. She is one of the most 918 00:43:57,840 --> 00:43:59,279 Speaker 1: stunning women you will every Well. 919 00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:01,480 Speaker 2: Let me tell you excited I am. She's a badass, 920 00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:07,480 Speaker 2: she's smart as they come, and she's very, very fun 921 00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:09,960 Speaker 2: to talk to. I am going to watch this weekend 922 00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:12,759 Speaker 2: on Sunday. This is going to be my mission. And 923 00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:15,080 Speaker 2: she told me to start at season two and a 924 00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:17,719 Speaker 2: half two point five, So I'm gonna start there and 925 00:44:17,719 --> 00:44:18,120 Speaker 2: I'm going. 926 00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:21,000 Speaker 1: To blow through and then we can watch together. 927 00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:22,840 Speaker 2: Oh you're gonna watch again. 928 00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:23,879 Speaker 1: No, but you'll be caught up with. 929 00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:27,600 Speaker 2: Me o season five. But anyway, so by the end 930 00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:30,560 Speaker 2: of Sunday, I'll have probably watched ten hours. So I'm 931 00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:31,440 Speaker 2: stoked to see her. 932 00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:35,279 Speaker 1: Yes, And before before we sign off, I know, I'm 933 00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,520 Speaker 1: sure you are stoked to see her. I put your 934 00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:38,640 Speaker 1: tongue back in your face. 935 00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:40,760 Speaker 2: I'm stoked to see the show. 936 00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:45,120 Speaker 1: So before we sign off, I would like to give 937 00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:47,280 Speaker 1: a little bit of a shout out. I read today 938 00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:50,440 Speaker 1: that Jessica Simpson, as you know, she's sober. I didn't 939 00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:52,919 Speaker 1: know that she is sober. She wrote a book called 940 00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:56,560 Speaker 1: Open Book where she talks about her struggles with addiction. 941 00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:58,880 Speaker 1: Oh wow, And there was one Halloween that she was 942 00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:03,239 Speaker 1: so wasted that her friends were like, get away from 943 00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:06,960 Speaker 1: the children, Like she didn't even remember Halloween at all, 944 00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:09,080 Speaker 1: which I can say i'd see. 945 00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:11,640 Speaker 2: I did a movie with her like forget It ten 946 00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:14,879 Speaker 2: years ago or something even longer, twelve years ago, and 947 00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:17,160 Speaker 2: so I never saw that side of her. She's probably, 948 00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:20,480 Speaker 2: you know, just coming up in her career, but the sweetest, 949 00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:22,600 Speaker 2: nicest person. But so she's sober now. 950 00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:26,960 Speaker 1: She's sober now. And she did an interview and they 951 00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:28,839 Speaker 1: asked her, like, has it been hard not to drink 952 00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:32,160 Speaker 1: during the pandemic? And she said, I have not wanted 953 00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:35,319 Speaker 1: to pick up a drink, And I feel blessed, wow, 954 00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:38,080 Speaker 1: because I haven't wanted to, you know, and that is 955 00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:40,160 Speaker 1: a struggle for a lot of people. I've been on 956 00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:43,839 Speaker 1: my meetings where people come in that I've recognized since 957 00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:47,920 Speaker 1: I started that would say, you know, hi, today's my 958 00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:51,160 Speaker 1: fifth birthday. That means like I've been five years sober. 959 00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:54,680 Speaker 1: Who are now getting their three day chip or whatever 960 00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:55,239 Speaker 1: it may be. 961 00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:56,680 Speaker 2: Oh, do you see that A lot a lot of 962 00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:59,960 Speaker 2: people falling off during this tough, you know, obviously insane. 963 00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:03,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean you're you're it's harder to be held 964 00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:06,040 Speaker 1: accountable because all you're doing is phone calls and signing 965 00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:08,840 Speaker 1: on to zoom. Whereas before it's like you want to 966 00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:10,359 Speaker 1: get in the car and go to a meeting because 967 00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:12,640 Speaker 1: that's like your social hour. You get to see your friends, 968 00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:13,160 Speaker 1: you get. 969 00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:14,400 Speaker 2: To get your checking in. 970 00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:17,359 Speaker 1: You're checking in exactly. We don't have that right now. 971 00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:18,880 Speaker 2: And they are saying, I've looked at a lot of 972 00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:22,719 Speaker 2: different stats. They are saying that alcoholism, obviously, depression, all 973 00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:25,680 Speaker 2: the stuff is on the rise because we're all living 974 00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:29,239 Speaker 2: in a really you know, unstable with the unpredictable time. 975 00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:32,880 Speaker 2: So right, so you're giving her, You're giving Jessica Sims 976 00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:33,439 Speaker 2: a shout out. 977 00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:35,799 Speaker 1: I'm giving her a shout out for being sober. I 978 00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:38,520 Speaker 1: think that it's amazing that she hasn't wanted to pick 979 00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:41,759 Speaker 1: up a drink, and her saying I feel blessed for 980 00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:45,279 Speaker 1: that is the perfect word to use, because that's not 981 00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:49,200 Speaker 1: the case for everybody. So I just want to acknowledge, 982 00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:51,959 Speaker 1: you know, addiction during this time and that if if 983 00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:54,520 Speaker 1: I can get sober, I know that you can too. 984 00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:55,839 Speaker 1: And it's it's just worth it. 985 00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:57,239 Speaker 2: Well, I just want to give a shout out to 986 00:46:57,280 --> 00:47:01,320 Speaker 2: you because close to your sober when is your birthday? 987 00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:03,439 Speaker 1: We're gonna round up even though in AA they say 988 00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:06,960 Speaker 1: that's you're supposed to count sure birthday though my birthday 989 00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:10,400 Speaker 1: is October twenty second. Wow, two years. 990 00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:12,600 Speaker 2: That's in so sixty days. I know we're not supposed 991 00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:14,640 Speaker 2: to do this, but I'm doing it. And sixty days. 992 00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:16,279 Speaker 2: You know, we take it one day at a time. 993 00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:19,000 Speaker 2: I know that. But you are going to celebrate your 994 00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:21,120 Speaker 2: two year birthday. That is magical. 995 00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:25,520 Speaker 1: It's pretty fucking magical, man, you know, just sitting up 996 00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:30,200 Speaker 1: on this uh sobriety high horse and I ain't coming down. 997 00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:36,040 Speaker 2: I am not on that horse. Tim, you haven't been 998 00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:38,760 Speaker 2: on that horse since you were born. So moving forward? 999 00:47:38,800 --> 00:47:41,480 Speaker 2: Oh good lord, all right, well listen, we've run out 1000 00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:44,280 Speaker 2: of time. I just want to say two things. One, 1001 00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:46,919 Speaker 2: this was a fun episode and awesome that I got 1002 00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,360 Speaker 2: to meet the amazing Giselle and I look forward to 1003 00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:52,400 Speaker 2: seeing her show and everybody watch it. And two I 1004 00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:54,080 Speaker 2: got to hang out with my girl, So there we go. 1005 00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:56,120 Speaker 1: Oh I love you, baby. You guys, thank you for 1006 00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:58,640 Speaker 1: listening to another episode of Give Them La La with 1007 00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:02,520 Speaker 1: Randall and you will catch you next, Sweet fash.