1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 1: The Nicky Glazer Podcast. Here's Nikki. Hello here, I am 2 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:18,960 Speaker 1: welcome to the Nicki Glazer Podcast. It's Thursday. It's Thursday. 3 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 1: I'm a baby, I'm a widow baby. Um oh my god. 4 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 1: So I don't even know where to begin. I'm still 5 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 1: waking up. I just got up like fifteen minutes ago. 6 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 1: I think I'm just I have not been able to 7 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:39,599 Speaker 1: sleep very well recently, because yesterday I only had four 8 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:41,599 Speaker 1: hours old the night before, and then last night I 9 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:43,920 Speaker 1: was like, oh, this will be easy, and I just 10 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:49,519 Speaker 1: couldn't go to bed. I was up to four Uh No. 11 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 1: I watched to Jonathan Amazing, the Amazing Jonathan documentaries you 12 00:00:55,360 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 1: watch back to back. I guess one and a half 13 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:00,320 Speaker 1: because I gave one the second one and I was like, 14 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 1: oh wait, this is actual. So the first one is 15 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 1: like a documentary that thinks it knows what it is 16 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 1: at the at the start, and then it takes on 17 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 1: a different life and it's on Hulu there, and I 18 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 1: was like, why are there too? It annoys me that 19 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 1: there's two. I remember comedian Steve Byrne. He did one 20 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 1: of them, the one I didn't watch, or the one 21 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 1: I only watched half of and he had asked me 22 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: to like come on our show and promote it or 23 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:30,040 Speaker 1: something back then, and I was like, so last night, 24 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 1: I'm scrambling to find the one he made, but then 25 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 1: all I keep getting is this other one. And then 26 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:36,320 Speaker 1: it turns out it's a documentary about how there's two 27 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 1: people making a documentary about him. Because as this guy's 28 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:44,480 Speaker 1: making a documentary about the Amazing Jonathan, suddenly he finds 29 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 1: out that there's other people doing documentaries on him and everywhere, 30 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 1: every like every couple of months, he's got a fourth crew, 31 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: and it starts to become like he starts to kind 32 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 1: of go insane because he's like, is this guy fucking 33 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: with me? Is this a magic trick? Because if you 34 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 1: don't know, Amazing Jonathan is like the guy who does magic, 35 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 1: and he would, um, do you remember at least yes? 36 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:11,519 Speaker 1: And there's also another thing is that he was diagnosed 37 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 1: he was going to die in a year, and then 38 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 1: four years later he's still alive. And so the guy, 39 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,080 Speaker 1: I mean, spoiler alert, the guy ends up being like 40 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 1: are you fucking with me? Like are you even dying? 41 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 1: And he's like, how could you act? Like, according to 42 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:28,839 Speaker 1: Amazing Jonathan, it is not a joke that he's still alive, 43 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: that he got a year to live. He's just like, 44 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:34,640 Speaker 1: I'm baffled by two. Like I'm confused as well. And um, 45 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 1: he spoke s meth every day as vitamins and he 46 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 1: gets the documentary he goes, you can't show me smoking 47 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 1: meth on camera unless you do it too. And so 48 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 1: then the documentary documentarian calls up like a law office 49 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:54,079 Speaker 1: and is like, what the revocations if I smoke meth 50 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 1: one time on camera? Because my subject wants me to 51 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: smoke it. I mean when he's like high office like, 52 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: it's just like someone at the you know, front desk, 53 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 1: They're like, I don't know, so because he keeps seeing 54 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 1: meth and fetamine to make it seem more like drug 55 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: like more like science or official you know, litical whatever 56 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 1: the lawyer word is and judicial. And then the guy's 57 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: like the guy at the front desk is like, wait, 58 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 1: so he wants to smoke withth like he kind of 59 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 1: like just get this right to it. And then they 60 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 1: talk to the lawyer and she's like, um, I wouldn't, 61 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 1: but just don't. Like he's like what if I have 62 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 1: a black box over it? So he looks like he's 63 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 1: just like smoking this black box and then they just 64 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 1: cut the film because that's maybe that's a cure for whatever. 65 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 1: I just tell you what happens. What do you mean, 66 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 1: are you gonna see this? I've seen it. It's been 67 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 1: a while. You saw this stop one of them? Which 68 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 1: one did you see? The one where he smokes smoth 69 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: all the time? I guess so, I don't know if 70 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 1: I look at my phone. It was a long time ago, Andrew. 71 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 1: It came out in two thousand nineteen. It is pretty 72 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 1: amazing that I don't remember any of it, but it's 73 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 1: amazing Andrew. I do remember him not dying at the end, 74 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 1: and he was supposed to die like that. I do 75 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 1: remember that. That's literally, like I would say, not even 76 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 1: a big part of it. Do you remember that? So 77 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: the amazing Jonathan he has this guy following him for 78 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 1: on the documentary, and this guy's taking it very seriously. 79 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 1: His named Ben Berman. And it also gets into the 80 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 1: fact that Ben's mom died when he was young, and 81 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 1: he kind of filmed his dad a lot as a kid. 82 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 1: Not a lot, but there's like one scene where he's 83 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 1: asking his dad about like his feelings about his mom dying. 84 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:35,919 Speaker 1: So he's kind of like they kind of set up 85 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:37,919 Speaker 1: the story like he's there's only one scene where he 86 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 1: does it, but it seems like he was like always 87 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 1: following around people talking about death, and so he in 88 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 1: the end he kind of is like wait, because Amazing 89 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 1: Anything was like, oh, so I'm I'm sucking up your 90 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:51,359 Speaker 1: documentary because I didn't die yet, so sorry Ben, And 91 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 1: Ben's like, funck, am I like using this guy to die? 92 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:57,279 Speaker 1: Like is my film depending on him dying? And I'm 93 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 1: mad about that? But he's really just mad about the 94 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 1: fact that he's filming him and all these documentary crews 95 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 1: are fulling filming him too, and Amazing Jonathan is like, 96 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 1: but these are gonna be better, Ben, Sorry, yours is 97 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:09,720 Speaker 1: gonna come out second. These guys are gonna come out 98 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 1: first because they're there. They made there from the same 99 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 1: guy who made Man on Wire and Searching for Sugarman, 100 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:22,279 Speaker 1: and he's going on all these radio shows talking about, oh, 101 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 1: this documentary crew is following him around. This guy that's 102 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 1: filming me right now, he's a nobody. But these other guys, 103 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: they're from searching for Sugarman, a Man on Wire. He 104 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 1: does all these interviews and then Ben looks into it 105 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 1: and he's like, the other documentary crew has nothing to 106 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 1: do with that Searching for Sugarman guy. He's like a 107 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:41,799 Speaker 1: director in London. Who they who? They told those crew 108 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 1: guys are fucking with him or or maybe Amazing Jonathan's 109 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:47,480 Speaker 1: fucking with him, but Amazing Jonathan's like, no, they told 110 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 1: me they were with that guy and that he's just 111 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 1: not involved because he's got other projects. And now he 112 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 1: kind of just like you know, sends crews out on 113 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: things he wants to do. So then he goes to 114 00:05:56,640 --> 00:06:00,040 Speaker 1: London to talk to the guy that did Man and 115 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 1: Wire and Searching for Sugar Man and he sits down 116 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 1: with him and says, are you doing a documentary about 117 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 1: the Maze Jonathan? And he's like no, and he's like okay, 118 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 1: well um, and he goes, I've heard some things about 119 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:14,039 Speaker 1: like some people saying I was The thing is you 120 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 1: can just say you're doing something and the guy at 121 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:18,840 Speaker 1: the top won't even be like no, you could. I 122 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 1: could just say I'm in I'm in works on a 123 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:24,920 Speaker 1: movie with Spielberg. He's not firsthand involved, but his production 124 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:27,280 Speaker 1: company is doing. UM is really interested in me in 125 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:30,279 Speaker 1: there he's got. You know, it's lower levels of the network. 126 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 1: You wouldn't know their names. But Spielberg, I'm doing a 127 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 1: thing with great um it's it's a it's a movie 128 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 1: about um my life. Oh it's amazing. Yea, my um my, 129 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 1: my adolescence, just a year of my adolescence. I would 130 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:53,280 Speaker 1: love to see how he would frame that. Yeah, well 131 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:56,799 Speaker 1: you're going to His boys are on it. He's busy 132 00:06:56,839 --> 00:07:05,040 Speaker 1: with other like et yeah, Rosen scene, Um, Jim mackwell, dude, 133 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 1: you know Jim macwell, right. People always say Spielberg park. 134 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 1: He put the I believe he was in charge of making. 135 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 1: He took the little eggshell off when the dinosaur came out, 136 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 1: and and he said the raptors, the raptors are actually 137 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:23,239 Speaker 1: smaller in real life, and he it was his decision, 138 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 1: I think, to make. So he goes to this guy 139 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 1: in London and he's like, is there a documentary about 140 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 1: sucking amazing Donathan. He goes, now, I've heard rumblings, but like, no, 141 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 1: that's not mine. And he goes, well, do you want one? 142 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 1: Because I'm making one? Do you want to produce it? 143 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 1: And the guys like and you wait, and then he 144 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 1: goes to Amazing Jonathan, and Amazing Jonathan is in a 145 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: wheelchair at this point. They've had a big falling out, 146 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 1: and he goes to him and he's like, so you 147 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 1: know that guy that you're doing a documentary with And 148 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 1: he's like yeah. He's like, well he doesn't. You're not 149 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: those guys that doesn't exist. He says, he has no 150 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 1: idea what it is, but I pitched him ours and 151 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 1: he's going to produce it. So now you are. So 152 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 1: maybe that's all it takes. Maybe you gotta go to 153 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 1: Spielberg with this adolescent story of when you were four 154 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 1: to five? No, it's twenty seven. Oh it's delayed. Yeah. 155 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 1: Wait do you think adolescens is four to five? Yeah, 156 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 1: Ado Lessons, I thought his child like teenager childhood. Well 157 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 1: the four to five is not well, I know that, 158 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 1: but ad anything in your childhood? No, Ado Lessons, I 159 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 1: would say is twelve to seventeen. No, uh, I thought 160 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 1: it was like in the teens. Yeah, teen teens? Oh 161 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:44,079 Speaker 1: when did you sprout pubes? Like when did you turn 162 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:45,720 Speaker 1: into a man? When did your voice drop? And all 163 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 1: that ship still waiting really to turn into a man? 164 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 1: My voice drop? I was a very small boy. As 165 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 1: you know, I was head shorter than anyone in my 166 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 1: class by far. The picture is so funny, you guys, 167 00:08:59,640 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 1: he is smaller than all the girls and he's standing 168 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 1: with all the girls in the front row. I mean, yeah, 169 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:09,560 Speaker 1: I look like any higher I wouldn't be in the photo. 170 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 1: Someone goes, I put in a photo, like, why does 171 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 1: this look like you're in a school in Australia in 172 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:22,679 Speaker 1: the fifties. That's true that and so I um so 173 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 1: I wanted to the boy that like they got from 174 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 1: the circus, like the Littlest Boy. Oh yeah, I was 175 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:33,439 Speaker 1: looked like Simon Birch. Do you remember that movie? Kind 176 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:35,560 Speaker 1: of he was a little little boy, a little little 177 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 1: tiny boy. I was a very tiny little boy, and 178 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:41,680 Speaker 1: I I don't I was a cute kid. But I 179 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 1: got to I want pubes. I wanted to fucking grow 180 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 1: because all the girls are head taller than me, and 181 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:48,320 Speaker 1: I wanted pube so bad. I told you the story. 182 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:52,119 Speaker 1: I used to look for my pubes in the backyard 183 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 1: because there was more sunlight, and I would fucking pray 184 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 1: to realize that there could just you could just put 185 00:09:57,080 --> 00:09:59,560 Speaker 1: a lamp on them and just use a light and 186 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 1: I want the sun is stronger. This is before ring lights. 187 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 1: You couldn't. This is a regular laymup. Wasn't doing a trick. 188 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 1: And I went all the way out through the yard 189 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 1: and my mom was watching the whole time. How do 190 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:14,440 Speaker 1: you know that? Because I looked over and she was 191 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,360 Speaker 1: in disbelief that her son is looking for pub I 192 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 1: bet you anything. She didn't know you were looking for pube. 193 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 1: She just thought you were probably looking at your penis 194 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 1: and the light, trying to see if you could find No, 195 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 1: she yelled out the window. Have they grown out? Know who? 196 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 1: She didn't yet. Your mom would not probably think about pubes. 197 00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 1: If I saw a little boy pulling down his pants 198 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 1: and looking at his penis area in the sun, I 199 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 1: would just think he was looking at his penis to 200 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 1: see if it was like there was something down there. 201 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:41,679 Speaker 1: I wanted cube so bad, and because the cool kids 202 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:45,679 Speaker 1: all had pubes, like you know, I've told you wanted 203 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 1: to suck his own dick, who I helped by grabbing 204 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 1: his legs. By sucking his dick while holding his legs, 205 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:56,560 Speaker 1: you're imagine, imagine it's your own mouth, I said. And 206 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 1: then no, but I wanted pube because he was the 207 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:06,319 Speaker 1: cool everyone. It's cool, it's good. So Um, one time 208 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 1: I was looking at my own dick in the mirror 209 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 1: like before, like I think I might have just started 210 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 1: to get pubed, but I was like hoping my dick 211 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:20,959 Speaker 1: grew to like like it came like a package. And 212 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 1: this is the saddest story. I'm looking at my dick 213 00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:27,440 Speaker 1: and like I'm not trying to fluff it at all, 214 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 1: like it couldn't be any smaller, like at the time, 215 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 1: and both my friends were in you remember them in 216 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 1: the room. They were in the closet for no reason, 217 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 1: like other than like I don't know what they were doing. 218 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 1: Maybe they were doing something close. And so I'm just 219 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:48,680 Speaker 1: looking at my dick like a sad little ba know 220 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 1: what great is this? No? No, several seventh grade, probably 221 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 1: seventh grade or eighth grade. And they come out They're like, 222 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 1: we were this cloth. It's not dissembarrassing because what we're 223 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 1: seeing out here, dude, oh my god, it was so sad. 224 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 1: Do you know those guys still? Um? Do I know them? Yes? 225 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:21,200 Speaker 1: I do. Wonder if the silver now he's silver now 226 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 1: sober and his peoples are silver. He's the one that 227 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:33,679 Speaker 1: wrote me apologizing for all the anti Semitic stuff he did. Oh, 228 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:36,199 Speaker 1: I didn't know that someone did that. That's nice. Yeah, 229 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:38,360 Speaker 1: because he was in I guess a twelveth step program 230 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:45,600 Speaker 1: was you know, Drew Haden defending for all that. Well, 231 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 1: he's the one that put the swastika in the driveway 232 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 1: and lit it on fire. You know. I think so 233 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:52,839 Speaker 1: many times kids bully into ship like that and they 234 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 1: don't know they're being asshole. They don't know how bad 235 00:12:58,160 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 1: it is. It's nice that he and I think that 236 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 1: they can also rewrite history and pretend that that didn't happen, 237 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 1: and also the Holocaust, rewrite history. Never, there's nothing never. 238 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:13,559 Speaker 1: Well yeah, I mean I think that they can also 239 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:16,200 Speaker 1: just go, oh, I didn't do that, especially even by 240 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 1: the time you get so for him to be able 241 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:21,120 Speaker 1: to remember that, it definitely made At the time, you 242 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:22,960 Speaker 1: could tell he probably felt a little bit bad about 243 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:25,520 Speaker 1: it too. I'm sorry to stay with you because if 244 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:27,160 Speaker 1: you didn't really think anything of it. I think a 245 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:31,040 Speaker 1: lot of times bullies like forget. I mean, I was like, 246 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:33,120 Speaker 1: I'm not going to brag, but I was such a 247 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 1: cute little kid and girls gave me attention. I got 248 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 1: attention yeah, I think guys went after me. Did you 249 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 1: think because the jew thing is easy when you're in 250 00:13:42,880 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 1: an all Christian school. Yeah, that's the one thing that 251 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 1: but you were so short too, they could have gone 252 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 1: after that. You would think. That's how much I was 253 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 1: really sure. Oh my god, they could just that's so 254 00:13:56,320 --> 00:14:01,560 Speaker 1: frea sad it would you say response to it? I 255 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 1: had to be creative, like I'd go after a kids acne, 256 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 1: Like I couldn't be like you Christian, you know, because 257 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:12,480 Speaker 1: because the jew thing is so easy, because it's just like, oh, 258 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 1: you don't pay money because you're a Jew. You know, 259 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 1: you don't tip or whatever. You're cheap and you're a Jew. 260 00:14:18,040 --> 00:14:21,360 Speaker 1: And jew is just such a strong word on its 261 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:24,640 Speaker 1: own that it got such a hard laugh on its own, 262 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So then I would have 263 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 1: to be like, you know, make fun of his way, 264 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 1: make fun of his acne, make fun like specific things. Yeah, 265 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 1: and it was funny too, because I'd go to camp 266 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 1: in the summer and that was all Jewish and they 267 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:42,560 Speaker 1: make fun of me for being short and having weird nipples. 268 00:14:42,560 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 1: You're like, I can't just please your nipples. Is that 269 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 1: where you get that? Or did you know the nipples thing. 270 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:56,080 Speaker 1: Actually nipples thing came from my brothers, to be honest, Yeah, 271 00:14:56,120 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 1: that's that's that get Yeah, you can't escape it, like yeah, 272 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 1: you myself. I was trying to think of like the 273 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 1: meanest things that were said to me as a kid, 274 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 1: and it's always hurt my sister. It was always yeah 275 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 1: because I didn't. I didn't. I mean I was called 276 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 1: like a bitch and stuff and like a bucktooth beaver 277 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:16,000 Speaker 1: and stuff. But I would never say anything back because 278 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 1: then they could just come up with something else that 279 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:19,880 Speaker 1: I would be like, oh fuck now, Like they would 280 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 1: just keep going, like if I were you, if I had, 281 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 1: if I had been you, I would have just taken it, 282 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 1: because I would be scared. If I called a kid fat, 283 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 1: they'd be like, well, also you're short and you're this, 284 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 1: and then start going after my looks like I would 285 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 1: be scared that it, you know, like the if they 286 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 1: came up for me for one thing, it's not like 287 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:37,840 Speaker 1: they could stop there, and I would just be too scared. 288 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 1: They would keep listing things and I would run out 289 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 1: of things about them. And then the hard thing is 290 00:15:42,280 --> 00:15:44,120 Speaker 1: if you're getting made fun of buck teeth, if you 291 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:50,480 Speaker 1: talk back your buck teeth. You have to, like you can't. 292 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:53,720 Speaker 1: But it was funny because, like like you said, like, oh, 293 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 1: it's so brutal, but you get you get to a 294 00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 1: point when you get made fun of so much for 295 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:02,440 Speaker 1: something that you can't control where I think it made 296 00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:05,400 Speaker 1: me funnier in a way because I would end up flipping. 297 00:16:05,480 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 1: I would already say the joke about Jewish people before 298 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 1: they could get to it. You know, you start making 299 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:16,680 Speaker 1: fun of yourself before anyone can say anything. Yeah. Yeah. 300 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 1: The other day, I was wearing like a dress on 301 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 1: set that I just looked. I felt like it looked 302 00:16:20,960 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 1: like a little baby doll on a shelf. Like it 303 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 1: was just a really short dress, but it was like 304 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:26,840 Speaker 1: poofy and like had big puffy sleep so it just 305 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 1: looked like like a big T shirt on a little 306 00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 1: like a little rag doll. But it's really cute. But 307 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 1: I just was like dying to make a joke about 308 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 1: it before any of the Perfect Stranger Guys cast could 309 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:46,440 Speaker 1: say anything. But it was like on my mind the 310 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 1: whole time of like I gotta make fun of this 311 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:50,640 Speaker 1: before any of them think that they can make fun 312 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 1: of it ahead of me. Deep rooted did you do it? 313 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 1: I didn't hear it. Now. I was gonna say something 314 00:16:58,760 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 1: I had had a couple of lines with just never 315 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:02,120 Speaker 1: came because a lot of times it's like they're not 316 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:05,320 Speaker 1: thinking about me my fucking dress, like no one cares something. 317 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:07,159 Speaker 1: I want to sit down people after that and be like, 318 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:09,480 Speaker 1: what are you thinking about the dress? Were you looking 319 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 1: at my shoes? Like like like you want to get 320 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:14,520 Speaker 1: into did you care about me at all? And that 321 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 1: here's the thing. We do notice things. That's the problem 322 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:20,840 Speaker 1: as comedians or whatever a d D or whatever we are. 323 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:24,000 Speaker 1: We notice those things on other people sometimes and they 324 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 1: don't see it on us. Yea, yeah, it's yeah. So 325 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:30,399 Speaker 1: it's a it's a great talent to be able to 326 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:34,160 Speaker 1: call out the things that because if you're a hack, 327 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:36,600 Speaker 1: then if you make fun of someone and they've already 328 00:17:36,600 --> 00:17:38,880 Speaker 1: given you the thing that you're making fun of, your 329 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 1: fucking hack, and then there's nothing worse than being someone 330 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:46,119 Speaker 1: who's un original and so yeah, you you you just 331 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:47,639 Speaker 1: constantly try to beat them to it. And a lot 332 00:17:47,640 --> 00:17:50,199 Speaker 1: of these people are like, I wasn't thinking that. You 333 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:54,840 Speaker 1: don't need to say that, like it, um, I wasn't 334 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:59,720 Speaker 1: even thinking I was Jewish. So what would your brothers 335 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:02,400 Speaker 1: say at your nipples? We gotta go a break. We'll 336 00:18:02,440 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 1: come back to find out. What did your brother say 337 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:11,359 Speaker 1: about your nipples? We're back, We're back. What did your 338 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:14,679 Speaker 1: brothers say? Do you remember like a moment specifically? It 339 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:17,159 Speaker 1: was like when we would swim in the pool and 340 00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 1: your nipples were different than there's. Because that's a bummer. 341 00:18:19,880 --> 00:18:22,880 Speaker 1: Most kids look like like y'all have the same kind 342 00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:25,240 Speaker 1: of bodies and stuff. Well, when you're like thirteen, you 343 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:31,119 Speaker 1: get guys get um fucking like nipple rocks like rocks, 344 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 1: like it's calcium ruffier. But I just like, I guess 345 00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:43,639 Speaker 1: compared to guys, puffy is so funny just calling him puffs, 346 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:47,359 Speaker 1: well puff chief puffs. No, I just like so. I 347 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 1: would make them hard all the time before I got 348 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:51,560 Speaker 1: into pool, like before I would take my shirt. I 349 00:18:51,560 --> 00:18:53,680 Speaker 1: still do it. I still if I'm gonna take my 350 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:56,760 Speaker 1: shirt off at the pool, I'll grab my nipples before 351 00:18:56,800 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 1: I take my shirt off. But my nipples are in depth. 352 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:03,160 Speaker 1: I've showed you my nipples, do you. Yeah, I mean 353 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:08,080 Speaker 1: they're cheetos, They're not puffs. Maybe I've grown into them. 354 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:10,800 Speaker 1: Maybe my nipples I just would never that sucks. I mean, 355 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:12,560 Speaker 1: I do know what you're talking about. That when guys 356 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:15,920 Speaker 1: do have that, it's it's a thing. Yeah, do you 357 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:19,320 Speaker 1: um it's gonna be like I'll make my nipples hard 358 00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:21,880 Speaker 1: by myself in the shower. Do you know who when 359 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 1: you see men with their shirts off, are you looking 360 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:29,760 Speaker 1: for other puffs they'll be? Is there anyone on Perfect Strangers? 361 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:34,200 Speaker 1: Alex Hornton from high school, and he was he was jacked. 362 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:37,679 Speaker 1: He had really tiny nipples, and I always thought if 363 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:41,760 Speaker 1: I had his nipples, I would my body would look 364 00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:45,200 Speaker 1: so much better because my chest would look so much 365 00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:48,160 Speaker 1: more jacked if I had his nipples. My nipples took 366 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:54,560 Speaker 1: away from my chess muscles. Right, Oh my, I mean 367 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:59,720 Speaker 1: I love that question of like what you have that 368 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:02,120 Speaker 1: you always like if I if it was just this, 369 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:10,320 Speaker 1: my life would be so different. I mean, there's must 370 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 1: have been a girl's nipples that you saw in the 371 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 1: locker room where you were like, nipples were not my 372 00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:16,840 Speaker 1: thing though, you know, like everyone has their thing. I like, 373 00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:19,439 Speaker 1: I like mine are good. I think that I'm probably 374 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:23,400 Speaker 1: an Alex Horton of sorts, you know, Like I gotta 375 00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:27,439 Speaker 1: say I got pretty good nipples, I've never once been like, oh, 376 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:30,880 Speaker 1: I don't like my nipples. I've seen worse nipples, way 377 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:34,639 Speaker 1: worse nipples in mine on men, and they're called like pepperoni, 378 00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:37,120 Speaker 1: where they're like a weird orange. My color is nice. 379 00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:40,119 Speaker 1: I have nice color for nipples. Um, yeah, so it 380 00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:42,639 Speaker 1: could be it could always be worse. Also, if my 381 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:46,680 Speaker 1: nipples compared to a woman, my nipples are are are 382 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:49,000 Speaker 1: fine and day and like I should be worried if 383 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:50,919 Speaker 1: a woman thinks my nipples are puffy. But if they 384 00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 1: think my nipples are puffy, they're nipples are definitely puffy. 385 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:58,280 Speaker 1: Most women's nipples are puffier than mine, you know what 386 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:01,200 Speaker 1: I mean. So if you don't, I'm worried about what 387 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 1: my brother thinks about my puffs. I gotta be worried 388 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:07,320 Speaker 1: due to what eight So they started saying that you 389 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 1: had puffs like around an adolescence when they started coming through, 390 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 1: and you just remember like being like, oh, Ship and 391 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:16,840 Speaker 1: your brothers did not have the same nipples. My little 392 00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:21,239 Speaker 1: brother Dan has the smallest out of the three. And 393 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:24,159 Speaker 1: then my little brother has a like he looks like 394 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:26,879 Speaker 1: me and my brother mixed, and his nipples are right 395 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:35,399 Speaker 1: in between. I told you one time when I was 396 00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:39,679 Speaker 1: taking a back with my sister, she saw my clatoral 397 00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 1: hood which is coming in more than hers, and she 398 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 1: said to my mom NICKI as a penis. And I 399 00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:54,439 Speaker 1: was fifth grade, but I wasn't like developing yet, like 400 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 1: and by the way, like I don't look like but 401 00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:58,919 Speaker 1: like there's I just have a normal I mean I 402 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:02,880 Speaker 1: watched a lot of poor and mysine is really basic. Um, 403 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:06,680 Speaker 1: but at the time it was, I mean, what could 404 00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:10,119 Speaker 1: be more devastating than having a saying you have a 405 00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:12,320 Speaker 1: penis when you're a girl in the bath with your sister. 406 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:15,120 Speaker 1: So it just went into like, okay, I'm well, I'm 407 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:18,080 Speaker 1: never gonna get naked around this girl again, and now 408 00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:20,240 Speaker 1: it's always going to be. And I found a diary 409 00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:24,720 Speaker 1: entry of like of mine from the diary from when 410 00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 1: You're Young, And no, it wasn't a diary, I'm sorry. 411 00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:30,359 Speaker 1: It was a It was a note to Kurston that 412 00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:32,800 Speaker 1: Kursen sent me and it was a picture of the 413 00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 1: note and I can't this is how close cursed and 414 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:36,800 Speaker 1: I were like I could tell her as that's why 415 00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:38,120 Speaker 1: I thought it was a diary. I'm like, why would 416 00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:40,840 Speaker 1: I write this down to someone? But there were like 417 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:43,120 Speaker 1: I remember it was a seventh grade and my mom 418 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:45,720 Speaker 1: was doing My sister was such a prat to me. 419 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:49,200 Speaker 1: She like saw my underwear and they had like ships, 420 00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:51,320 Speaker 1: you know, like maybe a little ship and the linga 421 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:55,080 Speaker 1: ship like a ship shriek. You know, it's just a 422 00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 1: fucking kid. It was just it wasn't like a whole crowd, 423 00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:02,040 Speaker 1: and she was like, you're just disgusting, Nikki, and my 424 00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:04,280 Speaker 1: mom and her laughed at me, and I stowe in 425 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:06,040 Speaker 1: the note that my mom and her laughed, and I'm like, 426 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:09,239 Speaker 1: I can't picture my mom ganging up. I'm sure my 427 00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:12,040 Speaker 1: adolescent brain was just like everyone had laughed, and my 428 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:16,440 Speaker 1: mom was just like, Nikki, shut up, who cares everyone 429 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:18,240 Speaker 1: in the bat or something like yeah, yeah, yeah. But 430 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:23,919 Speaker 1: I was pointing and more like like my mom just 431 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,640 Speaker 1: being so cruel. It's like a movie when they it's 432 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:29,439 Speaker 1: like a real close zoom and like ha ha, and 433 00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:33,160 Speaker 1: you just see people laughing at you and holding a martini. 434 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:36,280 Speaker 1: Like and I was just listening to a Hidden Brain 435 00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:39,880 Speaker 1: podcast about memory and how like, you know, we all 436 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:44,760 Speaker 1: know that our memory is completely stew based on what 437 00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:48,840 Speaker 1: really happened. So you wrote this to Kirsten. When is 438 00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:51,480 Speaker 1: she right back? Oh no, I didn't. I didn't have 439 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:57,280 Speaker 1: like the correspondtory and put together in sequence. But um, 440 00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 1: because I don't. I have all the notes that they 441 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,959 Speaker 1: gave me. But mostly they my friends are better at 442 00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 1: like keeping things than I am, and so I have 443 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:06,640 Speaker 1: all my writing, but they have none of theirs because 444 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:08,040 Speaker 1: it was all went to me, you know what I'm saying. 445 00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 1: So it's kind of nice that I got all my ship. Um, 446 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:14,600 Speaker 1: But I was listening to this podcast about memory, and 447 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:17,200 Speaker 1: it's it's so much worse than I thought in terms 448 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:20,680 Speaker 1: of what we remember and what we think happened. And 449 00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:23,399 Speaker 1: you know how like when you see a picture of 450 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 1: yourself in a photo album and you can suddenly like 451 00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 1: kind of be like, oh yeah, I do remember that 452 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:30,480 Speaker 1: birthday party or that thing, like you can almost even 453 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:32,359 Speaker 1: though before you saw the picture it is not in 454 00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:34,520 Speaker 1: your memory at all. You were too or whatever, Like 455 00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:36,399 Speaker 1: when you know a question from Jeopardy and you're like, 456 00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:39,679 Speaker 1: what how did that get in there? No, this is 457 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 1: more like this is more like you if you've seen 458 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,560 Speaker 1: a picture or not pictures of an event that otherwise 459 00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:50,320 Speaker 1: you probably would not remember, but you think you remember 460 00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:52,359 Speaker 1: it because you've seen pictures of it. So that is 461 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:55,399 Speaker 1: a completely false memory that has been put back in 462 00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:58,600 Speaker 1: your brain. It's not the same one that it's not 463 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:01,240 Speaker 1: from when you did that thing. It's a fake memory 464 00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:07,040 Speaker 1: because they found that when researchers put people in photoshop 465 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:10,040 Speaker 1: in photos of events that they did not witness and 466 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:12,280 Speaker 1: asked them to look through the photos and then tell 467 00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:15,240 Speaker 1: them about the events, they make up a story where 468 00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 1: they went, uh, in a hot air balloon and they've 469 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:20,520 Speaker 1: never been in a hot air balloon and because of 470 00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:23,439 Speaker 1: the photo exists, and they go, oh, yeah, I do 471 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:25,520 Speaker 1: remember that. And I was trying to think of if 472 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 1: I saw myself in a hot air balloon. I think 473 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:32,560 Speaker 1: it's true though, because I was thinking about it. If 474 00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:34,240 Speaker 1: I saw myself in a hot air balloon as a kid, 475 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:35,840 Speaker 1: like just standing in one, like someone did a good 476 00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 1: enough photoshop, I would just go, I guess I forgot that, 477 00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:40,800 Speaker 1: and I would make up the memory and I could 478 00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:43,680 Speaker 1: probably come up with a memory that feels really real, 479 00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 1: and they I didn't. I originally started listening to podcast 480 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:49,720 Speaker 1: because I'm a nine eleven head and I was in 481 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:53,360 Speaker 1: a deep Reddit threat about um people on nine eleven 482 00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 1: don't really. They they found that people's nine eleven stories 483 00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:01,639 Speaker 1: are completely fabricated, not like I was in Build Tower 484 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:05,679 Speaker 1: two and they were in fucking you know, cannetic you know, Nebraska, 485 00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:10,920 Speaker 1: but um right, but not like the ones that are 486 00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:14,639 Speaker 1: made up on purpose. But people really do think that 487 00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:17,520 Speaker 1: different things like that. It was different times of day, 488 00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:20,960 Speaker 1: Like there's certain things where you go, oh, there's this, 489 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 1: there's this amazing Um, what's the Magellan effect for the Yes, 490 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:31,000 Speaker 1: Magellan effect is where you think every explorer's named Magellan. 491 00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:33,720 Speaker 1: That's a common thing that happens on the show. There's 492 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:38,960 Speaker 1: a Mandela effect of um in South America. I gotta 493 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:42,440 Speaker 1: look up this up Mandela. It's so you guys, there's 494 00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 1: an a Mandela effect I found about on Reddit that 495 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,720 Speaker 1: I cannot but you know, the classic Mandela effects where 496 00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 1: you think something happened everyone in in in everyone you 497 00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:53,320 Speaker 1: know is like, that's certainly a thing, and then you 498 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:55,240 Speaker 1: look back and it's like it's not classic. One is 499 00:26:55,280 --> 00:27:00,879 Speaker 1: Berenstein Bears. It's not barren Stein Bears, it's burn Steain Bears, 500 00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:05,560 Speaker 1: something like that. I don't know. Yes, I see what 501 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:07,680 Speaker 1: you're saying. So the Mandela fact was first going. In 502 00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:10,240 Speaker 1: two thousand nine, she created a website to detail her 503 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:13,080 Speaker 1: observance of the phenomenon. Broom was at a conference This 504 00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:15,960 Speaker 1: is a woman's name, talking with other people about how 505 00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:18,879 Speaker 1: she remembered the tragedy of former South African president Nelson 506 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:21,800 Speaker 1: Mandela's death and a South African president in the nineteen eighties. However, 507 00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:23,920 Speaker 1: Nelson Mandela did not die in the eighties in a prison. 508 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,320 Speaker 1: He passed away in two thousteen, and she began to 509 00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:28,000 Speaker 1: talk to other people about her memories. She learned that 510 00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:31,200 Speaker 1: she was not alone. Others people remembered seeing the news coverage. Okay, 511 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:39,359 Speaker 1: so notable examples are luke, I am your father. Um, 512 00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,959 Speaker 1: people remember Darth Vader uttering the famously luke, I am 513 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:43,679 Speaker 1: your father. You might be surprised to learn that the 514 00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:48,240 Speaker 1: line was actually no, I am your father, Mirror mirror 515 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:50,320 Speaker 1: on the wall, miror mirror on the wall. Who's the 516 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 1: fairest of them all? You may be shocked to learn 517 00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:54,359 Speaker 1: that the line was actually magic mirror on the wall, 518 00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,760 Speaker 1: Oscar Meyer. Some people claim to remember the brand being 519 00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:02,440 Speaker 1: spelled m e y e er instead of it's being 520 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:08,480 Speaker 1: spelled mayor, like John Mayer um Burns Berenstein Bears. People 521 00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:12,760 Speaker 1: remember Barrenstein Bears, is they're not people remember that the 522 00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:16,080 Speaker 1: name being barren Stein Bears spelled with an E instead 523 00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:23,520 Speaker 1: of an A, and it's actually Bear barren Stain Bears. Yeah, 524 00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,359 Speaker 1: it's interesting that like that is that one's crazy? But 525 00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:30,320 Speaker 1: there's one. What about Shazam? Do you remember Susam who's 526 00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:36,840 Speaker 1: in Shazam? Uh Shaquille O'Neill. That's true. Um, people think 527 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:42,800 Speaker 1: Sinbad Chasam in the nineties he was in Jingle All 528 00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 1: the Way or some ship. Oh, I thought he was 529 00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:47,720 Speaker 1: in like Kazam. There's one though, that is so insane 530 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,520 Speaker 1: that I could not believe. Oh that everyone's freaking out 531 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:53,840 Speaker 1: about Fruit of the Loom. Yeah, that one gets me. 532 00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:58,040 Speaker 1: Do you know that one? I always thought it was fruitable. 533 00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:01,880 Speaker 1: I think I put be in there somewhere. No, that's 534 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 1: not it. For the Loom, do you remember? I don't 535 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:15,360 Speaker 1: think this would get you. I think you're I think 536 00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:22,959 Speaker 1: you're misremembering. Okay, for to the Loom, do you remember 537 00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:25,800 Speaker 1: what the the graphic looks like for Fruit of the 538 00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:29,920 Speaker 1: Loom underwear? Do you remember what the icon is? It's 539 00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 1: like grapes or something. Yeah, Okay, do you remember corn ucopia? 540 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:38,240 Speaker 1: Do you know what that is? Do you know you 541 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:40,480 Speaker 1: don't know what a cornucopia is? Kind of No, what 542 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:42,920 Speaker 1: do you know? No, I haven't heard of that. It's 543 00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:46,880 Speaker 1: a Um it's a cone like thing that like a 544 00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,360 Speaker 1: basket that turns into a cone and then the fruit 545 00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:53,480 Speaker 1: spills out. Yes, yes, did it have a cornucopia? I 546 00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:56,320 Speaker 1: thought it has a basket. I thought a basket too. 547 00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 1: There's no basket. There's no cornycopia. There never has been, 548 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:03,000 Speaker 1: not fruit. People cannot believe it. And if you go, 549 00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:06,360 Speaker 1: people have drawn images of what they think it looked 550 00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:08,840 Speaker 1: like the Corney kobea and you look at the image 551 00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:10,800 Speaker 1: and you go, oh my god, that's totally what it was. 552 00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 1: But it's just a rendering based on memory. It never existed. 553 00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:17,840 Speaker 1: There's all these ones that are so good. Um, it's 554 00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 1: weird to me. The Mandela things sparked this kind of 555 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 1: stuff because I felt, like John Madden he died this year. 556 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:27,720 Speaker 1: I thought he died fifteen years ago. Like, I get 557 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:30,360 Speaker 1: that one. I think it's like a different but I'm 558 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:33,360 Speaker 1: surprised that this sparked this for her. You know what 559 00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:36,160 Speaker 1: I mean, what do you mean like she just thought 560 00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:40,440 Speaker 1: Mandela died. Oh right, It would be one thing if 561 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:43,120 Speaker 1: you thought his name was like Mandela, not Mandela, you 562 00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:47,480 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Um, does that make sense? Yeah, 563 00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:51,120 Speaker 1: But I'm surprised that her thinking that guy died sparked 564 00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:54,920 Speaker 1: looking into these things. There's some one in South America 565 00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:57,760 Speaker 1: that I can't find, but people believe that when a 566 00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:01,040 Speaker 1: big event happened, it was something like on It's like 567 00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 1: when I when I was watching when the O J. H. 568 00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:06,880 Speaker 1: Simpson trial was happening, When the o J stuff was happening, 569 00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:11,040 Speaker 1: they got into a obviously he was on that highway chase, 570 00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:13,800 Speaker 1: and I remember sister sister being on and it was 571 00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 1: interrupted for sister sister. So that's my memory. I almost 572 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:18,840 Speaker 1: want to check the timeline to see if it could 573 00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,239 Speaker 1: even be possible that sister sister was playing at the time, 574 00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 1: because that's the way I remember it. Because everyone in 575 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 1: South America remember some big event like that interrupting a 576 00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,360 Speaker 1: children's show that a bunch of kids were watching. I 577 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:32,560 Speaker 1: forget the event. I'm sorry that I can't. This is 578 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,240 Speaker 1: not but they all remember it or interrupted the children's show, 579 00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:37,240 Speaker 1: and that was show was not on at that time, 580 00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:40,040 Speaker 1: and so no one understands how that could possibly be. 581 00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:45,360 Speaker 1: And that's like a game a telephone, like you know 582 00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:47,280 Speaker 1: what I mean, Like did one person have that memory 583 00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:50,160 Speaker 1: and then yeah, they maybe went on TV and said 584 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,560 Speaker 1: I can't believe this, and then it kind of steam 585 00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:55,640 Speaker 1: rolls from there. I have no you know what happens. 586 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:57,320 Speaker 1: I think the corny coopia thing, like I think for 587 00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:59,720 Speaker 1: the Loom probably had a commercial where they had their 588 00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,840 Speaker 1: low go on a lot and it was this fruit 589 00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:04,360 Speaker 1: and it was all And then I think there was 590 00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:06,520 Speaker 1: another commercial at the time that probably had a corn 591 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:08,600 Speaker 1: of copia with fruit and they just got mash in 592 00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:10,600 Speaker 1: our brains and now no one can remember the other 593 00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:13,040 Speaker 1: thing that was running at the time. It's like it's 594 00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:15,760 Speaker 1: so much. But I just realized the other night listening 595 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:18,040 Speaker 1: to this podcast. I always think that I'm better than 596 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:22,440 Speaker 1: people who don't remember very well. Like I'm always like, actually, no, 597 00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:25,760 Speaker 1: my memory is correct. You're all wrong. You I know that, 598 00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,600 Speaker 1: I know that everyone susceptible of their memories being changed. 599 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:34,720 Speaker 1: But now I realized, like anything I think, yeah, or 600 00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:38,040 Speaker 1: it's just a picture, I saw that the ourselves and 601 00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:39,760 Speaker 1: then we go to therapy and then we tell these 602 00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,360 Speaker 1: people and then they diagnosed us with like, but we 603 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,520 Speaker 1: could have had the whole memory. Like I've definitely brought 604 00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:46,960 Speaker 1: up things to my parents and I don't know that's 605 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:50,640 Speaker 1: where it's gaslighting maybe on their part where they don't 606 00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:53,000 Speaker 1: think they were as bad or and so that you 607 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:54,920 Speaker 1: know you remember when you did this and be like no. 608 00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:56,560 Speaker 1: It's like when I told my dad, I was like, 609 00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 1: I don't remember that many of my games, He's like, 610 00:32:58,600 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 1: what are you talking about? I went to all your game? 611 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:10,400 Speaker 1: Oh my god, who's right? Well the whole time? Yeah, 612 00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:14,280 Speaker 1: and he wasn't. Yeah. I can't believe you watch that documentary. 613 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:18,760 Speaker 1: It's it's wild. I don't think you watch so many 614 00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:20,920 Speaker 1: things and you don't watch them. I can't think you 615 00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:23,080 Speaker 1: can say you watch things that they're just on the background, 616 00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:25,560 Speaker 1: in the background when you're watching TikTok golf videos. Do 617 00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:27,560 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Yeah? But you know what, 618 00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:31,360 Speaker 1: I have a pretty good memory, like especially things I hear, 619 00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:35,920 Speaker 1: like I'm an audio auditory learner. But you can't multitask people. 620 00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:38,240 Speaker 1: This is another thing everyone thinks their exception to it. 621 00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,920 Speaker 1: Your brain literally cannot take in two different kinds of 622 00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:44,920 Speaker 1: information at one time and actually give them the amount 623 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:49,280 Speaker 1: of attention needed to understand them. It's impossible. Yeah, yes, 624 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:50,880 Speaker 1: your hand can do one thing on the being over 625 00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:52,640 Speaker 1: here and one thing on the like that's different. That's 626 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:56,200 Speaker 1: like you're not processing that information. You You cannot be 627 00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:57,920 Speaker 1: on your phone and listen to something at the same 628 00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:00,440 Speaker 1: time and pay attention to both. It's impossible. There was 629 00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,320 Speaker 1: that episode of Luis though, where his daughter was on 630 00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:06,640 Speaker 1: her phone while they were at like either like a 631 00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 1: show like you're shifting, you're doing a tennis match. But 632 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:11,080 Speaker 1: then he like talked to her about it and she 633 00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:14,080 Speaker 1: remembered everything, and he's like, Oh, their generation is different 634 00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:17,399 Speaker 1: because they can multitask because they've been doing a thing. 635 00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:24,880 Speaker 1: Proves me wrong from what I remember a fictional story wrong. No, 636 00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:32,280 Speaker 1: I know what you mat Oh man, if you didn't 637 00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:34,520 Speaker 1: hear it here first, where did you hear it? Because 638 00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:37,560 Speaker 1: boy would I be upset if you heard it somewhere else. 639 00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:42,080 Speaker 1: It's Thursday, folks, you know what that means. It is Thursday. 640 00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:44,439 Speaker 1: I hope you're having all the swells out there. It's 641 00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:47,360 Speaker 1: pretty much the weekend. So go have fun, get naked, 642 00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:50,120 Speaker 1: do some bad things, regret it on Sunday, and then 643 00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:53,680 Speaker 1: get right back to Monday, all right, Chicago Police, do 644 00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:56,920 Speaker 1: I hope people get naked with the shower this weekend? Like, 645 00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,280 Speaker 1: that's what I think of when you go get naked 646 00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:02,320 Speaker 1: and don't pinch your nipples, let him, let him a 647 00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:04,319 Speaker 1: little loose in the shower, unless you're in there with 648 00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:06,759 Speaker 1: someone else, and then fucking unless you're in there with 649 00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:10,920 Speaker 1: your brother. Didn't didn't tighten them up? Or what was 650 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:14,080 Speaker 1: the guy with good nipples? What's his name? Yeah? Or 651 00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:18,280 Speaker 1: if you're in there with great nipples, I mean wanting 652 00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:20,239 Speaker 1: someone else's thing and thinking it's gonna change your life, 653 00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:22,200 Speaker 1: we gotta we gotta go around Robin on that one 654 00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:25,600 Speaker 1: and come up with ones. Chicago Police rescue eighty year 655 00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:29,840 Speaker 1: old woman held hostage for seventeen hours by a naked 656 00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:34,120 Speaker 1: intruder after her daughter raised the alarm because she hadn't 657 00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:40,279 Speaker 1: sent the solution for the day's wardle So, but I 658 00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:43,040 Speaker 1: understand the woman was asleep in bed when a mentally 659 00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:45,520 Speaker 1: old man naked broke into her house and climbed into 660 00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:48,840 Speaker 1: bed with her. Knew her, She knew her mom was 661 00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:51,719 Speaker 1: in distress when she had not sent her word, or 662 00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:54,120 Speaker 1: she did it on a regular basis, on a daily basis. 663 00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:56,920 Speaker 1: So she was concerned, and so she thought her mom 664 00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:59,799 Speaker 1: probably tied or something happened. So a crazy guy did 665 00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:03,000 Speaker 1: the I do anything to the poor woman. Uh yeah, 666 00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:05,239 Speaker 1: he actually got the last He got the word on 667 00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:09,440 Speaker 1: the fourth one for her. That what I heard. No. 668 00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:11,640 Speaker 1: He then dragged her in his hour and then the 669 00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:14,960 Speaker 1: bath before locking her in the basement bathroom with her 670 00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:18,800 Speaker 1: eldest daughter in Seattle noticed that her mother was not responding. 671 00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:23,440 Speaker 1: She called the police, and a standoff lasting several hours. 672 00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:31,120 Speaker 1: The man was stunned and arrested, and Halt was rescued unharmed. Um. Yeah, 673 00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,320 Speaker 1: I think that that really does make me think about 674 00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:39,680 Speaker 1: I get every single day. I get world results from Chris, 675 00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:41,560 Speaker 1: and if I didn't get him, I feel like he 676 00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:43,200 Speaker 1: was just mad at me or something. I wouldn't even 677 00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:44,640 Speaker 1: check on as well being. I'd just be like, oh, 678 00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 1: I guess I did something, or do I guess we're 679 00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:49,760 Speaker 1: not He's being held up for eighteen hours by naked 680 00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:55,520 Speaker 1: woman I'll kill Yeah, Yeah, I mean you know, I 681 00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:58,240 Speaker 1: mean it's pretty It makes me to connect with people, 682 00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:00,800 Speaker 1: you know that, like and I heard of this before, 683 00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:03,880 Speaker 1: of like someone orders a pizza every day from the 684 00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:06,080 Speaker 1: dominoes and then one day they don't and they do 685 00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:08,200 Speaker 1: a wellness check because it's like, well, something must be 686 00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:10,040 Speaker 1: up because this person I see them every day doing 687 00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:12,439 Speaker 1: this thing. But word all is a great way. Like 688 00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:16,399 Speaker 1: every I'm like, I'm back on I'm back in it too. 689 00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:21,799 Speaker 1: And St. Louis, if you didn't show up, the girl 690 00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:25,000 Speaker 1: here already knows. I know she knows you through your 691 00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:27,480 Speaker 1: order through me. I was thinking about today and I 692 00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,279 Speaker 1: think it's the coolest thing that's ever happened to me 693 00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:32,120 Speaker 1: because she doesn't seem to be annoyed with me, like, oh, 694 00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:38,279 Speaker 1: this dumb ringo getting her fucking drink. She's like she 695 00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:42,200 Speaker 1: she doesn't seem to hate me when she goes, are 696 00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:44,440 Speaker 1: you NICKI like when she says that, and then people 697 00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:46,759 Speaker 1: from the show I've been going to perfect Strangers go 698 00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:48,839 Speaker 1: to get me a coffee. She has said to them, 699 00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:55,440 Speaker 1: is this for Nicky? That's so cute? And isn't it 700 00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:57,560 Speaker 1: funny that you get the same exact drink is me now, 701 00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,200 Speaker 1: but it's the same drink completely different, so different. Don't 702 00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:04,960 Speaker 1: you think that maybe that drink should be like you 703 00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:06,919 Speaker 1: know what Taylor Swift at or like own Star Wars drink. 704 00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:12,600 Speaker 1: It's a good drink, right, like, it's not just me. Yes, 705 00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:16,680 Speaker 1: it is a venty extra hot because I drink things fast, 706 00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:19,359 Speaker 1: so I need them extra I can't stand a cold thing. 707 00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:25,560 Speaker 1: Um venty extra hot almond milk latte with two pump 708 00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:29,160 Speaker 1: one pump in Mexico because the sugar free strip is 709 00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:31,640 Speaker 1: a little strong here, but generally two pumps of sugar 710 00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:35,239 Speaker 1: free vanilla. And then to Stevia. This was the thing 711 00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,360 Speaker 1: I went to order for you. No almond milk. You 712 00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:40,480 Speaker 1: don't want anything which you have almond milk here, I know, 713 00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:42,680 Speaker 1: but it's not the same as theirs, and it's not 714 00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:45,279 Speaker 1: it's not steamed, which gives it a frothy nous that 715 00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:48,799 Speaker 1: I like. I mean, that's how that's like the we're 716 00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:52,400 Speaker 1: very similar in a lot of ways. Well that's why 717 00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:55,880 Speaker 1: that's why I am like, why do you like anything 718 00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:57,960 Speaker 1: in particular? Like why don't you just get what you 719 00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:00,480 Speaker 1: like instead of what I like? If nothing were matters 720 00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:04,800 Speaker 1: to know, But I like that, right, But I'm fine 721 00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:08,959 Speaker 1: with changing, right, right, that's the difference. You know, it's 722 00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:12,120 Speaker 1: got to be my way or no way. But but 723 00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:16,000 Speaker 1: you've had other drinks at Starbucks before that you've enjoyed, Yes, 724 00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:18,920 Speaker 1: and you want the caffeine right like you do coffee black. 725 00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:22,440 Speaker 1: I've seen you do that, yes this morning, because I'd 726 00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:24,120 Speaker 1: rather just have a diet coke to get the coffee, 727 00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:26,480 Speaker 1: because a lot of times I like or you have 728 00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:28,279 Speaker 1: to get the caffeine. A lot of times I will 729 00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:31,319 Speaker 1: do black coffee if it's like I'm cold on set. 730 00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:32,840 Speaker 1: Some sometimes I want a coffee because I want the 731 00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:36,080 Speaker 1: warmth of it um, and this morning I wasn't really 732 00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:40,880 Speaker 1: dying for the warmth and iced coffee black is abhorrent 733 00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:44,680 Speaker 1: to me. I would never do that, and and yeah, 734 00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:47,120 Speaker 1: and so I will never and I don't want black coffee. 735 00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:49,200 Speaker 1: If you can do Stevio but no milk, I will 736 00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:53,960 Speaker 1: do a nice coffee with almond milk, with no um 737 00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:57,759 Speaker 1: sweetener or with no like vanilla. But it's it's all 738 00:39:57,920 --> 00:39:59,600 Speaker 1: fucking I just like it the way I like it. 739 00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:01,719 Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not trying to give you sh it. 740 00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:04,040 Speaker 1: I'm just saying it's it's just entered. I'm sure there's 741 00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:07,680 Speaker 1: people out there that have before you met me, because 742 00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:10,680 Speaker 1: I feel like so many of your tastes have now 743 00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:15,040 Speaker 1: been hijack by well you eat healthier than me. So 744 00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:19,200 Speaker 1: obviously you know you've taken probably some traits from me 745 00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:27,360 Speaker 1: somehow that don't that don't involve food, But like, what 746 00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:32,640 Speaker 1: the hell does that sound? I'm trying to think of 747 00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:35,200 Speaker 1: traits I've taken from of you. I've made you more 748 00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:40,799 Speaker 1: relaxed as a human, more silly. Yeah, I guess. Yeah, Okay, 749 00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:43,000 Speaker 1: that's true. So you've taken some of my silliness and 750 00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:49,760 Speaker 1: I've taken your Starbucks order. No, but if you eat healthier, 751 00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:52,720 Speaker 1: like you get the vegan cream cheese, I do have 752 00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:56,800 Speaker 1: like a lactose thing. Whenever I have fucking like cream 753 00:40:56,880 --> 00:41:00,000 Speaker 1: cheese or like milk, regular milk, it sucks my belt? 754 00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:02,360 Speaker 1: How do you not know about these things before I 755 00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:05,040 Speaker 1: start doing them? Though? Like would if milk funk my 756 00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,160 Speaker 1: belly up? I would just look into alternatives. But you 757 00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:12,719 Speaker 1: just keep doing it until you go, oh, yeah, you're 758 00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:16,239 Speaker 1: eating that thing. What is that like? Because you're a 759 00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:18,040 Speaker 1: guy that just goes to the grocery store, will go 760 00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:20,640 Speaker 1: down one aisle, and that's if you're in a hurry. 761 00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:22,719 Speaker 1: I will go down every aisle to find the thing 762 00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:25,720 Speaker 1: I want. You'll just go whatever you got is fine. 763 00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:28,880 Speaker 1: It's so interesting to me, I don't know, I just don't. 764 00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:33,040 Speaker 1: You just don't give a ship, but one aisle over 765 00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:34,680 Speaker 1: there could be something better. See. That's what I'm talking 766 00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:37,680 Speaker 1: about when it comes to like marriage and relationships. What 767 00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,960 Speaker 1: if the better choice is one aisle away. And you 768 00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:43,360 Speaker 1: know that meme where they always show a guy digging 769 00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:48,480 Speaker 1: and they show him giving up right before, and it's like, um, 770 00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:50,640 Speaker 1: it's showing a guy digging in the ground and there's 771 00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:53,279 Speaker 1: like gold or something he's trying to get, or it's 772 00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:58,680 Speaker 1: like you, no, no, no, there's like a big room 773 00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:00,640 Speaker 1: with all like a crypt, you know, with all this 774 00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:04,840 Speaker 1: golden sarcophic eye and stuff like that, and he's digging 775 00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:08,040 Speaker 1: through and there's a long dig and then he's just 776 00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:10,719 Speaker 1: tirelessly and then you just see him going like I 777 00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:14,239 Speaker 1: can't anymore and there's just this much left to dig 778 00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:16,880 Speaker 1: through and he would have gotten to the crypt, but 779 00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:18,560 Speaker 1: instead he's going to give up because it's just been 780 00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:23,359 Speaker 1: too long. I'm always thinking that there's going to be 781 00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:27,560 Speaker 1: that room that I shouldn't settle for whatever I get, 782 00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:30,719 Speaker 1: because there's always could be something better. Until I've gone 783 00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:33,200 Speaker 1: to every aisle of the grocery store, especially a new 784 00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:35,080 Speaker 1: one that I don't know where everything is, it's in 785 00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:38,560 Speaker 1: a different country. I need to see every crevice to 786 00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:41,279 Speaker 1: know that I'm getting the best thing that for me 787 00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:44,600 Speaker 1: and that and that is why if I struggle with dating, 788 00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:47,839 Speaker 1: is because or not even dating, because dating doesn't lock 789 00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:50,120 Speaker 1: you in. It's not like you're like eating it yet 790 00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:54,399 Speaker 1: getting married. Getting married, I feel like is until you've 791 00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:57,480 Speaker 1: made sure that you've you have the best, I don't 792 00:42:57,480 --> 00:43:00,200 Speaker 1: want to do it and how could you ever? No, 793 00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:04,879 Speaker 1: I mean, I guess even like a relationship where it's 794 00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:08,160 Speaker 1: like you think it's all perfect, there is a possibility 795 00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:12,960 Speaker 1: that somewhere around the world, or better there in India 796 00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:15,040 Speaker 1: or China, because that's where most people are, but there's 797 00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:17,960 Speaker 1: someone better out there for you, or someone as good. 798 00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:21,240 Speaker 1: The odds that you met the best person for you 799 00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:26,880 Speaker 1: just it's not possible. And especially given the history of 800 00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:30,040 Speaker 1: humanity and everyone that's ever lived, there's definitely been people 801 00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:34,920 Speaker 1: in other What's worse the unsettling, the unsettling of like 802 00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:39,799 Speaker 1: of of trying to find that person for the whole 803 00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:45,239 Speaker 1: your whole life and never finding them, and you put 804 00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:47,239 Speaker 1: the things in your shopping cart until there's other things 805 00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:49,000 Speaker 1: that are better and if those things that are better 806 00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:51,160 Speaker 1: come along, you can dump the things in your shopping 807 00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:54,880 Speaker 1: cart unless they stack up to it. Because that's how 808 00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:59,520 Speaker 1: I feel about relationships. If if people are getting rid 809 00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:03,000 Speaker 1: of their cart, like yeah, it happens, yes, yeah, And 810 00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:06,560 Speaker 1: I'm not too to be like to take something less 811 00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:09,799 Speaker 1: just in case, and then when something more, it's like, 812 00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:11,400 Speaker 1: all right, you take the best you can get at 813 00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:14,399 Speaker 1: all times. Like you know, if I'm on a road 814 00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:17,799 Speaker 1: trip and I don't know what food options are going 815 00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,000 Speaker 1: to be coming along, it's not time for lunch. It 816 00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:22,080 Speaker 1: like you don't do this because you don't plan ahead. 817 00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:23,880 Speaker 1: But like if I'm going on a road trip and 818 00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:25,799 Speaker 1: we stop at a gas station, I don't know if 819 00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:28,680 Speaker 1: there's gonna be a hundred miles of nothing ahead, but 820 00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:30,799 Speaker 1: it's not time for lunch. Let's say it's eleven. I'm 821 00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:32,719 Speaker 1: gonna be hungry at one, but I don't know what's 822 00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:34,680 Speaker 1: going to be around us at one. I will get 823 00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:38,240 Speaker 1: something at eleven at that gas station that will suffice 824 00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:42,600 Speaker 1: me at one o'clock if there's no other options, But 825 00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:46,239 Speaker 1: I won't eat it until it's time to eat it, 826 00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:48,960 Speaker 1: and I know that there's no other options. Why I'm 827 00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:53,120 Speaker 1: eating the chicken salad sandwich at ever the fuck yes, 828 00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:56,120 Speaker 1: and you won't plan ahead feet a little bit better 829 00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:58,799 Speaker 1: about that, maybe probably because of you, but like just 830 00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:03,160 Speaker 1: or growing up, just preparing, yeah, or like just you know, 831 00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:06,280 Speaker 1: the other day, like yesterday on set of Perfect Strangers, 832 00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:10,000 Speaker 1: they had a bunch of like sandwiches just sitting there 833 00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:12,560 Speaker 1: at like eleven in the morning, and the old men 834 00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:15,520 Speaker 1: probably would have taken down three of those and not 835 00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:17,279 Speaker 1: even thought about it and then being like, all right, 836 00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:20,040 Speaker 1: then I'll eat later at like five. I didn't need 837 00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:21,920 Speaker 1: them because I was like, no, I don't want this. 838 00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:24,480 Speaker 1: I just want this to fill me up. So instead 839 00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:27,400 Speaker 1: I had a protein bar and then had a healthier lunch. 840 00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:30,759 Speaker 1: That's like a big improvement for me to not just 841 00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:33,919 Speaker 1: eat sandwiches. You're not saying sandwiches are that bad. I'm 842 00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:36,680 Speaker 1: just saying, like it just wouldn't. It wasn't the food 843 00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:39,480 Speaker 1: I wanted. Yes, waiting until it's the thing you want, 844 00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:43,080 Speaker 1: it's all right, next story, But it also gets in 845 00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:46,920 Speaker 1: my way for sure. Speaking of is oh eaight uh? 846 00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:50,480 Speaker 1: A personal stylist recommends you never wear this one piece 847 00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:57,200 Speaker 1: of clothing on a first date. Um, you're fucking Confederate 848 00:45:57,280 --> 00:46:00,560 Speaker 1: flag bandana. Actually that's the only thing you should wear, 849 00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:04,800 Speaker 1: That's what she says. A nude bra a white shirt. 850 00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:08,200 Speaker 1: I would tell my clients to avoid anything that is 851 00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:11,799 Speaker 1: fussy or difficult to clean or to keep clean. A 852 00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:14,520 Speaker 1: great first day to outfit should be less about fashion 853 00:46:14,960 --> 00:46:17,359 Speaker 1: and more about you. Because of that, you may want 854 00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:22,080 Speaker 1: to skip extremely bright colors, patterns, puff sleeves, puff nipples, 855 00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:26,400 Speaker 1: and over the top ruffles and ruffle nipples. This is 856 00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:29,560 Speaker 1: also stupid. It's very dumb. I love these kinds of 857 00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:31,799 Speaker 1: stories though, because they are I have got on you know, 858 00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:35,040 Speaker 1: I went on a couple of dates, like over the summer, 859 00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:37,719 Speaker 1: I guess I don't know with someone and it was like, 860 00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:39,759 Speaker 1: you know, first dates, you know the person at all, 861 00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:44,600 Speaker 1: like online meeting and like what to wear was such 862 00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:47,600 Speaker 1: a conn I've never dealt with that of like usually 863 00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:51,479 Speaker 1: I'm dating people that are I already know in my life, 864 00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:53,640 Speaker 1: somewhat like thinking about, oh my god, is the first 865 00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:56,480 Speaker 1: time they're seeing me. There was a lot of like 866 00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:58,200 Speaker 1: I don't want to try too hard. I also want 867 00:46:58,200 --> 00:46:59,759 Speaker 1: to look like really natural. I want to look think 868 00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:01,839 Speaker 1: I'm not Like there's a lot of thoughts I mean 869 00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:03,600 Speaker 1: I still remember what I wore. I mean it was 870 00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:07,560 Speaker 1: a white tank top because it looked like sexy but casual, 871 00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:10,279 Speaker 1: just playing white tank top, nothing over it. No, it 872 00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:12,600 Speaker 1: was like a white like spaghetti strap with the spaghetti 873 00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:15,640 Speaker 1: straps had like this like really cute like lacy kind 874 00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:17,759 Speaker 1: of thing on it, so it was decorate. It was, 875 00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:20,400 Speaker 1: you know, definitely cute. But I've never worn it again 876 00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:23,680 Speaker 1: for some reason because I just didn't. I don't know, 877 00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:26,799 Speaker 1: I looked, I looked great, but I definitely my hair 878 00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:28,600 Speaker 1: I think was like kind of not even dry yet 879 00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:30,600 Speaker 1: because I was doing like natural waves and I was 880 00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:32,920 Speaker 1: just a little bit running later. I mean I was 881 00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:36,160 Speaker 1: running my seven minutes late. I just there was a 882 00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:39,920 Speaker 1: part of me that was, like I remember pursuing guys 883 00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:42,000 Speaker 1: back in the day of like that I needed to 884 00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:44,520 Speaker 1: look perfect for and be this like perfect image of 885 00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:48,840 Speaker 1: what they wanted me to be, and I just I 886 00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:51,880 Speaker 1: was even, yeah I I and now I'm just like okay, 887 00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:55,200 Speaker 1: I can look. I want to look eighty percent as 888 00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:57,120 Speaker 1: good as I could look. I want to leave a 889 00:47:57,160 --> 00:48:00,520 Speaker 1: little bit to go. But bam, wait, look at this. 890 00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:04,920 Speaker 1: That's smart. Yeah, that's really smart. Because we all dress 891 00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:08,800 Speaker 1: as well as we can at what I do about 892 00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:12,520 Speaker 1: on a daily basis. Oh yeah, I mean, look, I'm yeah, 893 00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:14,960 Speaker 1: I wear the same thing every day. But I'm yeah, 894 00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:17,719 Speaker 1: I I know you date, we would have so much 895 00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:20,960 Speaker 1: more room though, make up, hair, to like do to 896 00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:25,320 Speaker 1: look better. I were I wear like, Um, you're probably 897 00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:29,000 Speaker 1: honestly right now, how much you would change if you 898 00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:31,439 Speaker 1: were really trying on a date with a casual look. 899 00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:35,640 Speaker 1: You probably wear that at You probably wear that. You're 900 00:48:35,640 --> 00:48:38,640 Speaker 1: probably right now, dud, And this is you waking up 901 00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:42,799 Speaker 1: so that yeah, right now, I'm I do have makeup on, 902 00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:44,520 Speaker 1: and my hair is if I brushed it out, is 903 00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:46,480 Speaker 1: probably good from last night. I would definitely wear this 904 00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:51,440 Speaker 1: on a date. I'm probably at about right now, but 905 00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:55,000 Speaker 1: my outfit is garbage. Yeah, I mean I think it's 906 00:48:55,000 --> 00:49:00,320 Speaker 1: funny because for me, my a date, I'll wear like boots, 907 00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:03,239 Speaker 1: like leather boots or whatever, and I never, you know me, 908 00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:06,640 Speaker 1: I never wear I never, And I'll wear those on 909 00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:10,919 Speaker 1: the front and that's like me, I'm gonna show off 910 00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:14,080 Speaker 1: like wearing this regular like they're not even like boots 911 00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:17,279 Speaker 1: that are like really gonna stand out differently on a date. 912 00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:20,359 Speaker 1: I'll eat like like I'll go, I'll get dessert. I'm 913 00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:23,040 Speaker 1: not trying to say that, like I'm not usually a 914 00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:27,160 Speaker 1: dessert person, but I'll like, I'll just be It's not 915 00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:29,120 Speaker 1: even like I'm trying to be like I'm normal. I 916 00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:33,200 Speaker 1: just like I just am on a date. It just 917 00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:36,359 Speaker 1: becomes who I am, like this woman that presents as 918 00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:40,040 Speaker 1: normal and it's not a it's just eating a cheeseburger. Honestly, 919 00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:43,480 Speaker 1: the things I've eaten on dates, like the meals I've 920 00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:45,520 Speaker 1: chosen where I'm like, I just want this. I'm just 921 00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:49,040 Speaker 1: like I surprise myself. I'm like, it's just never something 922 00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:51,320 Speaker 1: I would order with my friends, but I'm like craving 923 00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:54,879 Speaker 1: different things. It's it's it's interesting I always ordered dick. Yeah, 924 00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:57,719 Speaker 1: you always get dick and balls on the side. Wait, 925 00:49:57,960 --> 00:50:01,839 Speaker 1: why why do you not? This is the problem though. 926 00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:04,319 Speaker 1: If you don't eat exactly what you mean on that 927 00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:08,319 Speaker 1: first date, when do you break out? Do whatever? Do 928 00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:10,440 Speaker 1: I how do what I want to do? I'm just 929 00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:12,640 Speaker 1: saying on date for on first dates, for some reason, 930 00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:16,279 Speaker 1: I don't want my normal Like I definitely on a 931 00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:18,520 Speaker 1: first date plan on kissing someone, and I'm a little 932 00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:22,200 Speaker 1: bit nervous. I'm generally not as hungry, and when I'm 933 00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:24,360 Speaker 1: not hungry, I know that I can eat like a 934 00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:26,160 Speaker 1: smaller amount, and so I get something that's going to 935 00:50:26,239 --> 00:50:28,360 Speaker 1: be filling in a smaller portion because I know that 936 00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:31,120 Speaker 1: I just I'm gonna be sick if I eat if 937 00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:35,720 Speaker 1: I eat too much. But generally I like hogging food 938 00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:39,960 Speaker 1: and shoveling in my I love big amounts of food. 939 00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:42,399 Speaker 1: If I'm not nervous, I'm eating tubs and tubs of food. 940 00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:44,719 Speaker 1: So in that sense, I want something like lighter. And 941 00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:47,759 Speaker 1: it's not because I'm like calories. I just know that 942 00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:50,439 Speaker 1: I won't be able to eat voluminous amounts of food 943 00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:54,000 Speaker 1: if it's really talking so much more on a first 944 00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:57,600 Speaker 1: date than like like that's the most you speak to 945 00:50:57,600 --> 00:51:00,960 Speaker 1: the person you're gonna do. I remember me and Brenna 946 00:51:01,000 --> 00:51:02,640 Speaker 1: on our first day, we got like a hummus thing 947 00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:07,000 Speaker 1: or like eggplant whatever, like there we you know, by 948 00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:09,319 Speaker 1: the end of the day they're still hummus left. That's 949 00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:12,600 Speaker 1: how you know how much we were like trying to live. Yeah, 950 00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:15,560 Speaker 1: we're nervous, trying to impress each other, having a great time, 951 00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:19,640 Speaker 1: but if you know there's hummas left, it's probably you 952 00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:23,600 Speaker 1: might actually if you're there and there's hummus left, and 953 00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:26,040 Speaker 1: you're not doing this with your finger and scraping it 954 00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:30,359 Speaker 1: off the plate. I'm not coming someone someone a lot 955 00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:33,480 Speaker 1: of attention, like I cared a lot. Let's go to 956 00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:36,120 Speaker 1: break and come back with our weekly sports moment. Co 957 00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:43,600 Speaker 1: my sound excited? All right, it's a weekly sports moment. 958 00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:49,640 Speaker 1: Tears Andrew's weekly sports Moment. I feel like it's been 959 00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:52,400 Speaker 1: a long time since we've heard it, all right, I 960 00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:56,040 Speaker 1: know the clock is ticking. Serena Williams, forty years old, 961 00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:59,640 Speaker 1: said she's prepared for retirement from tennis and she wants 962 00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:03,400 Speaker 1: more kids. Forty year old Stars has admitted he's been 963 00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:07,200 Speaker 1: getting herself ready to step away her age twice already 964 00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:09,760 Speaker 1: in this Yeah, yeah, that is true. I am prepared 965 00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:13,239 Speaker 1: for today the first time journalist of course daily Mail. 966 00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:15,040 Speaker 1: You know, at the end of the day, I think 967 00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:18,040 Speaker 1: it's really important to always have a plan, and that's 968 00:52:18,120 --> 00:52:19,920 Speaker 1: kind of what I did. I always had a plan. 969 00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:23,200 Speaker 1: Serena has a four year old daughter, Olympia with her 970 00:52:23,280 --> 00:52:27,960 Speaker 1: husband Alexis has a daughter's ages as a wealth of 971 00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:37,560 Speaker 1: business venture D's age no interesting, interesting, Yeah, it is interesting. 972 00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:40,520 Speaker 1: I guess he's not the main focus. But still, why 973 00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:45,279 Speaker 1: is the daughter's age is there because she's depending how 974 00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:47,200 Speaker 1: young a kid is, you have to pay more attention 975 00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:50,480 Speaker 1: to him or something. Probably it's it's but yes, i'd 976 00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:53,759 Speaker 1: see what you're saying. I don't think it's a thing 977 00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:56,120 Speaker 1: about the girl, the daughter being a woman or anything. 978 00:52:56,840 --> 00:52:59,239 Speaker 1: Has a wealth of business ventures aside from tennis career, 979 00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:03,040 Speaker 1: and she admitted some times her pack schedule can be overwhelming. Again, 980 00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:05,040 Speaker 1: she has a four year old daughter more to prove 981 00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:06,799 Speaker 1: in tennis. I mean, I guess it would be cool 982 00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:08,799 Speaker 1: as a forty something year old woman to like win, 983 00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:12,360 Speaker 1: she has to prove. I mean, she's one more. I 984 00:53:12,400 --> 00:53:15,080 Speaker 1: mean it's insane. Yeah, she can go do other things. 985 00:53:15,080 --> 00:53:16,840 Speaker 1: And I think she she's someone who looks like she 986 00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:20,680 Speaker 1: really enjoys being a mom. Yeah, I mean I think 987 00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:26,200 Speaker 1: what you know, people keep living longer. I feel like, well, 988 00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:29,680 Speaker 1: tennis tends to be a young persons sport. Like the 989 00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:33,120 Speaker 1: fact that you know, I would say the average winner 990 00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:38,960 Speaker 1: of most Grand Slams is probably like tops, So she's fifty, 991 00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:40,799 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, but they're you know, 992 00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:44,000 Speaker 1: Federer is forty and he's still doing it. But you know, 993 00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:46,200 Speaker 1: when do you quit. When do you just say it's 994 00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:48,560 Speaker 1: hard all right, Like that's your whole that's who you are, 995 00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:53,640 Speaker 1: that's what everyone values you as. Yeah, I mean yeah, 996 00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:56,200 Speaker 1: I was the amazing Jonathan thinking. He was like said, 997 00:53:56,320 --> 00:54:01,040 Speaker 1: you know everyone, there comes an end for every one. Everyone. 998 00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:04,480 Speaker 1: You gotta just you. You fall out of favor people, 999 00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:06,000 Speaker 1: you're not as strong, you're not as good as you 1000 00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:07,719 Speaker 1: used to be. It will happen to all of us. 1001 00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:10,399 Speaker 1: At whatever we do for a living, We're gonna peak 1002 00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:13,920 Speaker 1: and then it's gonna People don't really get that much 1003 00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:19,879 Speaker 1: better at things when they start getting never being successful 1004 00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:23,319 Speaker 1: or quitting being very successful. I think they're both very 1005 00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:25,600 Speaker 1: hard times to quit, you know what I mean, Like 1006 00:54:25,640 --> 00:54:28,960 Speaker 1: the idea of like, oh it can still happen and 1007 00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:33,440 Speaker 1: then stepping away. Yeah. Um. You gotta think though that 1008 00:54:33,520 --> 00:54:36,319 Speaker 1: most people don't become what they want. I know, That's 1009 00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:42,239 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Yea, including me a pop star, you know, 1010 00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:45,640 Speaker 1: like yeah, and I'm not playing professional baseball a lot 1011 00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:47,960 Speaker 1: of yeah, you just it's it's rare. You get your 1012 00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:52,000 Speaker 1: dream and walking away from it would be tough. But 1013 00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:54,160 Speaker 1: that just means you have to fulfill your life with 1014 00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:57,399 Speaker 1: other things because it's not about playing tennis, or it's 1015 00:54:57,400 --> 00:54:59,759 Speaker 1: not about doing stand up. It's about like how it 1016 00:54:59,840 --> 00:55:03,360 Speaker 1: makes you feel. It's about it gives you worth. And 1017 00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:05,759 Speaker 1: if you are able to have self worth without those 1018 00:55:05,800 --> 00:55:09,080 Speaker 1: things then or you know, when people are moms and 1019 00:55:09,160 --> 00:55:11,560 Speaker 1: all they are or moms and they don't know what 1020 00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:14,759 Speaker 1: else the funk they are without being a mom, and 1021 00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:18,319 Speaker 1: all their kids become self sufficient, that's when moms start 1022 00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:22,160 Speaker 1: going fucking crazy and begging you to have grandchildren so 1023 00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:25,359 Speaker 1: that they can keep it, keep it fucking up because 1024 00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:28,399 Speaker 1: they don't have anything else. They start playing tennis, they 1025 00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:31,640 Speaker 1: really do, but and then they become like the best 1026 00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:34,920 Speaker 1: at their club. But like, yeah, it's never reverse, it's 1027 00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:37,040 Speaker 1: never reversed. Never, Like I was a mom until I 1028 00:55:37,120 --> 00:55:41,120 Speaker 1: was forty, and then I became a Grand Slam tennis winner. Like, yeah, 1029 00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:45,120 Speaker 1: it is hard to fill that gap. Um, yeah, and 1030 00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:48,440 Speaker 1: I'm sure I don't know. I mean, she she could 1031 00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:51,960 Speaker 1: play doubles until she's probably fifty five years old and 1032 00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:56,120 Speaker 1: still be competitive. These people even like tennis, they're good 1033 00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:58,520 Speaker 1: at it. I mean, I remember under Agassi in his book, 1034 00:55:58,600 --> 00:56:02,680 Speaker 1: he fucking hated tennis. It's just something these girls weren't 1035 00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:04,759 Speaker 1: they forced to play it at a young age. Do 1036 00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:08,560 Speaker 1: they actually like it? Um? I think they, I mean 1037 00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:10,960 Speaker 1: it got him to I don't know. I think the end, 1038 00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:13,480 Speaker 1: I'm sure they enjoy the game, but like they can 1039 00:56:13,520 --> 00:56:15,880 Speaker 1: still play. It's not like you're they're barred from playing it. 1040 00:56:15,880 --> 00:56:18,520 Speaker 1: They can still play it. They just can't compete anymore. 1041 00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:22,759 Speaker 1: It's it's it's competing. Is that still having a crowd? 1042 00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:25,319 Speaker 1: I would go, people would still go to see her play. 1043 00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:30,760 Speaker 1: It's the it's the you know, competing that people caring about, 1044 00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:35,080 Speaker 1: like if it's winning. The start of the article, though, 1045 00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:37,520 Speaker 1: it was interesting because it was her dad that was 1046 00:56:37,640 --> 00:56:44,040 Speaker 1: encouraging her to consider retirement. Oh wow, He's like, you're 1047 00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:46,880 Speaker 1: finally he's gonna start training her to do that. Yeah, 1048 00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:49,879 Speaker 1: He's like, you finally, you finally made it to where 1049 00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:52,799 Speaker 1: I thought you'd be twenties Grand Slams later. He's like 1050 00:56:52,840 --> 00:56:56,080 Speaker 1: you could quit now, yeah, Or he's just like, listen, 1051 00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:57,560 Speaker 1: you're not as good as I wanted you to be. 1052 00:56:57,640 --> 00:57:02,000 Speaker 1: It's never gonna happen for you. My god, I wanted 1053 00:57:02,040 --> 00:57:05,560 Speaker 1: you to win twenty Grand Slams. So it's really not 1054 00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:07,799 Speaker 1: even it's you should probably quite at this point yeah, 1055 00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:09,400 Speaker 1: you're never really going to live up to what I 1056 00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:11,399 Speaker 1: thought you were gonna be. Let's get the fans Rex 1057 00:57:19,840 --> 00:57:22,120 Speaker 1: all right, let's hear it. What is what of the 1058 00:57:22,160 --> 00:57:26,080 Speaker 1: best he's got to say this week? Okay, let's start 1059 00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:32,280 Speaker 1: off with a voicemail from Marla. In the podcast opening song, 1060 00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:35,480 Speaker 1: I swear I hear Nikki's name right before Noah says 1061 00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:39,520 Speaker 1: here's Nikky. And I always wondered if that was a 1062 00:57:39,560 --> 00:57:42,840 Speaker 1: little hand rip for us over if it's unintentional, And 1063 00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:44,520 Speaker 1: I really want to know if I'm the only one 1064 00:57:44,520 --> 00:57:48,600 Speaker 1: who hears it. Um, I've been wanting to message this 1065 00:57:48,720 --> 00:57:51,360 Speaker 1: for ages, but I hate my voice. And then I'm 1066 00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:55,320 Speaker 1: home with COVID, so I decided I don't care. I'm 1067 00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:59,479 Speaker 1: gonna just ask because no one has So I love 1068 00:57:59,480 --> 00:58:05,720 Speaker 1: you guys. This is from Canada. Him Marla, so right 1069 00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:07,920 Speaker 1: before yeah, she has a great voice. I mean COVID 1070 00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:11,080 Speaker 1: helps it gives it a raspiness. But I'm sorry that 1071 00:58:11,120 --> 00:58:15,480 Speaker 1: you have COVID in Canada. Um. So she hears us 1072 00:58:15,520 --> 00:58:20,000 Speaker 1: say Nicky right before you say yeah. So it's just 1073 00:58:20,040 --> 00:58:22,800 Speaker 1: the Nicki Glazer podcast. And then I say, here's Nikki, 1074 00:58:23,960 --> 00:58:28,960 Speaker 1: but she hears Nicki right before it. Yeah, maybe NICKI 1075 00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:32,240 Speaker 1: doesn't did they say Nicki Glazer podcast very quietly and 1076 00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:35,240 Speaker 1: no one hears it on the Should we play it again? Yeah? 1077 00:58:35,440 --> 00:58:38,400 Speaker 1: Hold on, I'm gonna let's listen for Nicki. Right before 1078 00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:51,720 Speaker 1: Noah would say here's Nicki, so don't say here'st And 1079 00:58:51,720 --> 00:58:53,840 Speaker 1: that's what I would say. She's talking about that like 1080 00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:57,200 Speaker 1: high thing that's going nick no I, nick I think 1081 00:58:57,240 --> 00:59:01,840 Speaker 1: this is a Mandela. I think she's maybe maybe I maybe, 1082 00:59:01,920 --> 00:59:03,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, Marla, what did you hear it? Then? 1083 00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:06,600 Speaker 1: I'm really it would be weird if we had a 1084 00:59:06,640 --> 00:59:08,800 Speaker 1: secret message. I do say if you play backwards, it 1085 00:59:08,840 --> 00:59:12,520 Speaker 1: says Paul is dead, but that is that's not what 1086 00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:15,520 Speaker 1: she's talking about. Um, I don't know. I do love 1087 00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:19,000 Speaker 1: her using ham drip incorrectly, but also it's like the 1088 00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:20,760 Speaker 1: word funk. How you could use it in so many 1089 00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:25,800 Speaker 1: different ways. Oh, ham drip can be anything. Fashion Egg, Yeah, 1090 00:59:25,840 --> 00:59:28,959 Speaker 1: that would be a fashion Egg. Would have a great voice. 1091 00:59:28,960 --> 00:59:31,200 Speaker 1: Please call again with anything. I didn't listen to that voice. 1092 00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:33,400 Speaker 1: And I want to know, like where you really hear it, 1093 00:59:33,480 --> 00:59:36,720 Speaker 1: so if you can like specify and I want to 1094 00:59:36,720 --> 00:59:39,960 Speaker 1: shout out to our fan. Trex from I think last week. 1095 00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:44,680 Speaker 1: Who was it? I asked her she was in Missoula. 1096 00:59:44,800 --> 00:59:47,920 Speaker 1: Do you remember that girl? She had a beautiful voice, 1097 00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:51,000 Speaker 1: and I asked her please make an a SMR of 1098 00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:53,680 Speaker 1: her just talking. She sent me one she wrote on 1099 00:59:54,880 --> 01:00:01,720 Speaker 1: she wrote me on what's it called? Uh fuck um Instagram? Yeah, 1100 01:00:01,840 --> 01:00:04,920 Speaker 1: and she was like, hey, I know maybe you weren't serious, 1101 01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:07,080 Speaker 1: but it sounded like you were. And I decided to 1102 01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:09,680 Speaker 1: tell you about Missoula in a five minute thing. And 1103 01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:11,960 Speaker 1: I gave her my email and I'm looking for it 1104 01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:15,400 Speaker 1: now because it probably got sent to a little spammy mailbox. 1105 01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:17,360 Speaker 1: But I will be listening to that. I'm so excited 1106 01:00:17,360 --> 01:00:19,600 Speaker 1: that she did that. I'm so psyched I should listen 1107 01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:22,520 Speaker 1: to it last night when I couldn't sleep. But thank 1108 01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:28,600 Speaker 1: you for that. Okay. Next one is from Marnie Marlon 1109 01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:33,480 Speaker 1: Marnie love It, Nikki, Andrew and Noah, this is Marnie Um. 1110 01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:36,280 Speaker 1: I've called you guys before, and you told us about 1111 01:00:36,320 --> 01:00:41,920 Speaker 1: Marnie schlappy Um. But I wanted to call you guys 1112 01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:45,680 Speaker 1: and ask if you've heard the new song Gospel by 1113 01:00:45,840 --> 01:00:51,360 Speaker 1: Dr Dre and eminem Um. They rhyme full throttle and 1114 01:00:51,480 --> 01:00:55,160 Speaker 1: hit the bottle um. Just like Andrew. I think they 1115 01:00:55,160 --> 01:00:58,000 Speaker 1: were maybe listening to the pod and they played your eyes, 1116 01:00:58,320 --> 01:01:03,439 Speaker 1: but I wanted to give credit where credit was due. 1117 01:01:03,920 --> 01:01:06,800 Speaker 1: And if you haven't heard it, I'll sing it for you. 1118 01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:10,320 Speaker 1: It goes a little something like this, please yeah, yeah, yeah, 1119 01:01:10,440 --> 01:01:14,959 Speaker 1: yeah yeah, Dre, are you ready? Check check check check, 1120 01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:18,840 Speaker 1: And then a bunch of verses and then this ship. 1121 01:01:19,000 --> 01:01:22,040 Speaker 1: Here's that problem living at the bottom of the bottle 1122 01:01:22,680 --> 01:01:27,240 Speaker 1: throttle my mama. You guys gotta listen to it, Oh 1123 01:01:27,240 --> 01:01:31,840 Speaker 1: my God, and say I love you guys, love you. 1124 01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:34,640 Speaker 1: And I know I don't have an a s m 1125 01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:38,640 Speaker 1: R voice, but don't gospel by M and M and 1126 01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:42,600 Speaker 1: Dr Dre. All right, love you bye. From one not 1127 01:01:42,840 --> 01:01:45,000 Speaker 1: a SMR voice to another. You have a great voice 1128 01:01:45,160 --> 01:01:48,240 Speaker 1: and it's very uh. I'm not judging. I don't want 1129 01:01:48,240 --> 01:01:49,800 Speaker 1: anyone to not call in because you don't have an 1130 01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:52,320 Speaker 1: SMR voice. I think I started something here and I 1131 01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:54,760 Speaker 1: don't want anyone to be insecure about your voice. As 1132 01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:57,959 Speaker 1: someone who also hates to send their own voice when 1133 01:01:58,000 --> 01:02:02,400 Speaker 1: I hear it, just know that, like you, you're wrong 1134 01:02:02,440 --> 01:02:04,720 Speaker 1: about everyone thinks they hate their own voice. I'm a 1135 01:02:04,720 --> 01:02:07,120 Speaker 1: broadcaster and I hate my own voice, so you know, 1136 01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:09,880 Speaker 1: don't don't worry about it. But we I don't think 1137 01:02:09,880 --> 01:02:11,840 Speaker 1: there's anyone's voice that I hate so much that I 1138 01:02:11,880 --> 01:02:15,560 Speaker 1: would ask you to not call in. Um. She did 1139 01:02:15,560 --> 01:02:19,439 Speaker 1: a great job singing that song. I know she did. 1140 01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:23,080 Speaker 1: She I want to know does she listening to every 1141 01:02:23,120 --> 01:02:26,440 Speaker 1: like New dre eminem Drop. I guess that's the everyone's 1142 01:02:26,480 --> 01:02:28,720 Speaker 1: excited about the Super Bowl? Will they sing full throttle there? 1143 01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:35,320 Speaker 1: What's the song called again? Gospel? Gospel? How did you 1144 01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:39,360 Speaker 1: find it? Because it did send Maybe she was one 1145 01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:42,080 Speaker 1: of them. But yeah, a few people wrote me saying 1146 01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:47,920 Speaker 1: that I should sue dr full Throttle Bottle, and he says, Mama, 1147 01:02:48,160 --> 01:02:59,840 Speaker 1: I know, really, really, fuck dude, you're a genius. I did. 1148 01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:05,320 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh Joe. Joe Lynn is uh the 1149 01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:07,880 Speaker 1: one who sent me the Missoula Montana five minute a 1150 01:03:07,960 --> 01:03:10,560 Speaker 1: SMR thing And I just found it, Joe, so thank 1151 01:03:10,600 --> 01:03:12,520 Speaker 1: you so much for sending that to me. I'm not 1152 01:03:12,520 --> 01:03:14,240 Speaker 1: gonna play it, but I will be playing it tonight 1153 01:03:14,280 --> 01:03:16,600 Speaker 1: to or actually probably in an hour when I take 1154 01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:18,520 Speaker 1: a nap. Oh my god, I can't wait to hear 1155 01:03:18,520 --> 01:03:24,800 Speaker 1: about Missoula and Dulce tones of Joe Okay, we have 1156 01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:31,040 Speaker 1: a story from Ashley about her therapy session. Oh hey, 1157 01:03:31,160 --> 01:03:36,600 Speaker 1: Nikki and Andrew and Nellah, uh, this is Ashley. Um. 1158 01:03:36,760 --> 01:03:40,160 Speaker 1: I was calling because today I had a therapy appointment 1159 01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:43,320 Speaker 1: and um, I don't know. I thought that you guys 1160 01:03:43,400 --> 01:03:49,520 Speaker 1: might appreciate this, mainly Nikki UM, but I referenced uh 1161 01:03:49,680 --> 01:03:52,640 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift's All Too Well during my session today, talking 1162 01:03:52,680 --> 01:03:58,160 Speaker 1: about a guy who basically gas lit me and minimize 1163 01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:01,960 Speaker 1: what the context of our relationship was. And I was 1164 01:04:02,040 --> 01:04:04,920 Speaker 1: talking to my therapist and I was like, you know, 1165 01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:06,760 Speaker 1: like that Taylor Swift song All Too Well, and she 1166 01:04:06,880 --> 01:04:09,120 Speaker 1: was like looking at me, like, what the hell are 1167 01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:12,920 Speaker 1: you talking about? You know, like the Jake Dylan Hall one. Anyways, 1168 01:04:12,920 --> 01:04:17,720 Speaker 1: there's this line where she's saying, you never you never, um, 1169 01:04:18,600 --> 01:04:21,000 Speaker 1: you never called it what it was, and uh that's 1170 01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:23,600 Speaker 1: how a heal right now. She just kind of looked 1171 01:04:23,640 --> 01:04:26,320 Speaker 1: at me blankly, and I was like, Oh, my gosh, 1172 01:04:26,320 --> 01:04:29,160 Speaker 1: this is my rock bottom. I don't know, but it's not. 1173 01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:35,240 Speaker 1: Maybe you guys would appreciate that so everything, but oh 1174 01:04:35,280 --> 01:04:38,160 Speaker 1: that's my favorite new lyric in that song. Oh my gosh, 1175 01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:42,880 Speaker 1: what was her name again? Ashley Swum Ashley that was 1176 01:04:42,920 --> 01:04:47,600 Speaker 1: my favorite um new lyric in that song. Uh, you 1177 01:04:47,680 --> 01:04:51,439 Speaker 1: were always skipping town and you were uh and I 1178 01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:54,920 Speaker 1: was thinking on the drive down anytime now you're gonna 1179 01:04:55,000 --> 01:04:58,360 Speaker 1: say it's love. You never called it what it was. 1180 01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:01,320 Speaker 1: It's so good. It's happened to me so many times 1181 01:05:01,320 --> 01:05:05,280 Speaker 1: to actually where you just these after the fact. It's 1182 01:05:05,320 --> 01:05:07,720 Speaker 1: easy for them to, you know, and this happen girls 1183 01:05:07,720 --> 01:05:10,240 Speaker 1: do two guys too. It's easy for them after the fact. 1184 01:05:11,040 --> 01:05:14,040 Speaker 1: Two because no one wants to break someone's heart, no 1185 01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:16,360 Speaker 1: one wants to hurt someone. So if they can convince 1186 01:05:16,400 --> 01:05:20,160 Speaker 1: themselves it wasn't really anything real and that they don't 1187 01:05:20,160 --> 01:05:23,320 Speaker 1: have any accountability, then they can escape any kind of 1188 01:05:23,360 --> 01:05:25,880 Speaker 1: blame and then they can make you out to be 1189 01:05:25,920 --> 01:05:28,840 Speaker 1: the crazy one. So it's dude, it's such a perfect 1190 01:05:28,920 --> 01:05:32,600 Speaker 1: lyric and it does it. It definitely hit me hard. 1191 01:05:32,640 --> 01:05:34,120 Speaker 1: And that's happened to be a bunch and it's a 1192 01:05:34,160 --> 01:05:37,720 Speaker 1: common thing and maybe and then we're talking about memory 1193 01:05:37,720 --> 01:05:40,080 Speaker 1: now and now I'm like, God, did I remember it wrong? 1194 01:05:40,200 --> 01:05:43,280 Speaker 1: Like that's what gaslighting is. They make you think like, oh, fuck, 1195 01:05:43,360 --> 01:05:46,680 Speaker 1: am I like a crazy girl who like thinks we 1196 01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:49,000 Speaker 1: had something more? Yeah, Like it was on the verge 1197 01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:53,520 Speaker 1: to marriage. But regardless of if you're a crazy girl 1198 01:05:53,600 --> 01:05:57,000 Speaker 1: or not, like you felt that way, and um, i'd 1199 01:05:57,000 --> 01:06:00,240 Speaker 1: love to see you, Nikki, talking to your therapist and 1200 01:06:00,320 --> 01:06:04,360 Speaker 1: you're only talking in Taylor Swift songs and see how 1201 01:06:05,040 --> 01:06:07,720 Speaker 1: like it would be amazing because I've seen the thing 1202 01:06:07,800 --> 01:06:10,440 Speaker 1: where like they like a guy or girl will text 1203 01:06:10,440 --> 01:06:13,840 Speaker 1: there only lyrics, like one line at a time, and 1204 01:06:13,840 --> 01:06:16,520 Speaker 1: they'll be like, yeah, dude, I'm not like I don't know. 1205 01:06:16,640 --> 01:06:19,000 Speaker 1: It's just really funny to see the response. All he 1206 01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:20,720 Speaker 1: had to do was stay he had me in the 1207 01:06:20,720 --> 01:06:24,080 Speaker 1: problem of his hand and lock me out when I 1208 01:06:24,120 --> 01:06:26,560 Speaker 1: was trying to let him in. I mean, I don't 1209 01:06:26,560 --> 01:06:29,640 Speaker 1: know what you how are you feeling at the time, Like, um, 1210 01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:32,680 Speaker 1: you know, if I wanted to know who he was 1211 01:06:32,720 --> 01:06:34,920 Speaker 1: hanging with, I would have while I was gone. I 1212 01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:37,760 Speaker 1: would have asked him, well, is he honest with you? 1213 01:06:37,840 --> 01:06:41,240 Speaker 1: You think? Well, yeah, I mean just casually cruel in 1214 01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:47,200 Speaker 1: the name of being honest that happens. I could do this, 1215 01:06:47,720 --> 01:06:49,800 Speaker 1: I could really do. We should make a video like that. 1216 01:06:49,840 --> 01:06:51,880 Speaker 1: It'll be really funny. I'll play you to therapist if 1217 01:06:51,920 --> 01:06:54,600 Speaker 1: you want. Yeah, that would be fun. Um, all right, 1218 01:06:54,680 --> 01:06:56,400 Speaker 1: let's go to the next one. Thank you so much 1219 01:06:56,440 --> 01:07:01,400 Speaker 1: for that. Okay, any tailors with stuff I love. The 1220 01:07:01,440 --> 01:07:07,440 Speaker 1: next one is Bobby with the story I Andrew, Nicki 1221 01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:11,240 Speaker 1: and Noah. This is Bobby calling in from Berlin. Um. 1222 01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:12,960 Speaker 1: I was listening to the pot the other day and 1223 01:07:12,960 --> 01:07:14,960 Speaker 1: you guys were talking about the Mile High Club, and 1224 01:07:15,000 --> 01:07:18,080 Speaker 1: I was just inclined to share a story. So when 1225 01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:20,800 Speaker 1: I was in high school, I did this exchange program 1226 01:07:20,840 --> 01:07:23,960 Speaker 1: where like sixty international students get together and you live 1227 01:07:23,960 --> 01:07:26,120 Speaker 1: on a TLL ship and you travel and you study, 1228 01:07:26,320 --> 01:07:29,600 Speaker 1: and you become sale traces. And as you do when 1229 01:07:29,600 --> 01:07:32,920 Speaker 1: you put sixty teenagers together, everyone ends up coupling up 1230 01:07:32,920 --> 01:07:35,920 Speaker 1: and falling in love. Blah blah blah. Uh. So I 1231 01:07:36,000 --> 01:07:38,720 Speaker 1: was one of those kids, and my boyfriend and I 1232 01:07:38,840 --> 01:07:41,200 Speaker 1: we at the end of the semester. We were flying 1233 01:07:41,240 --> 01:07:44,240 Speaker 1: home to separate places, and we were on the plane 1234 01:07:44,240 --> 01:07:48,000 Speaker 1: before we had to say goodbye, holding hands across the aisle, crying. 1235 01:07:48,320 --> 01:07:50,440 Speaker 1: It was the whole thing. We ended up going to 1236 01:07:50,480 --> 01:07:53,560 Speaker 1: the bathroom and one thing led to another and we 1237 01:07:53,680 --> 01:07:57,560 Speaker 1: had sex. Um. So, yeah, one thing they don't tell 1238 01:07:57,600 --> 01:08:01,080 Speaker 1: you is that it gets extremely teeny and hot in 1239 01:08:01,120 --> 01:08:04,480 Speaker 1: the bathroom. After you have sex and the mirrors completely 1240 01:08:04,520 --> 01:08:07,320 Speaker 1: fog up and there's always gonna be like ten people 1241 01:08:07,440 --> 01:08:11,080 Speaker 1: outside wanting to use the bathroom. So my boyfriend scoots 1242 01:08:11,080 --> 01:08:13,760 Speaker 1: out past this line of people. I try to fix 1243 01:08:13,800 --> 01:08:15,680 Speaker 1: the mirrors, rub my eyes to make it look like 1244 01:08:15,720 --> 01:08:17,720 Speaker 1: I was crying, like that's not what we were just 1245 01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:23,120 Speaker 1: going there and anyway, and I joined him on are 1246 01:08:23,200 --> 01:08:27,080 Speaker 1: you the worst walk of shame that you can never do? U? 1247 01:08:27,680 --> 01:08:30,760 Speaker 1: So yeah, anyway, no one I ever said anything, and 1248 01:08:30,800 --> 01:08:32,280 Speaker 1: I think they just felt bad for us, so we 1249 01:08:32,320 --> 01:08:36,120 Speaker 1: got away with it. Anyway, Love you, guys, I love you. 1250 01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:38,200 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's such a good idea. I was 1251 01:08:38,240 --> 01:08:40,360 Speaker 1: always because I was I was like, oh my god, 1252 01:08:40,400 --> 01:08:42,120 Speaker 1: people always going to know what you do in there. 1253 01:08:42,560 --> 01:08:45,680 Speaker 1: Just act like you're having like an episode, Like no, 1254 01:08:45,800 --> 01:08:53,680 Speaker 1: I was just all over your face afterwards. That's the 1255 01:08:53,760 --> 01:08:56,439 Speaker 1: only way to do it is to be like, but 1256 01:08:56,520 --> 01:08:58,240 Speaker 1: why would you if your boyfriend come in and help 1257 01:08:58,280 --> 01:09:01,160 Speaker 1: you with your explosive diary. He's such a good man. 1258 01:09:01,920 --> 01:09:03,320 Speaker 1: You can only get away with it. Or maybe you 1259 01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:05,360 Speaker 1: act blind and he's like you're seeing I boyfriend or 1260 01:09:05,360 --> 01:09:10,120 Speaker 1: a guy you know, I boyfriend. There was another story 1261 01:09:10,200 --> 01:09:12,960 Speaker 1: of another girl like, I was listening to the other 1262 01:09:13,040 --> 01:09:14,960 Speaker 1: and she was on a church group and she jerked 1263 01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:18,719 Speaker 1: off these teen tours. Don't let your kids go because 1264 01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:23,760 Speaker 1: they're gonna get fucked in the air. I mean, no, 1265 01:09:23,880 --> 01:09:27,200 Speaker 1: it's awesome. I mean it's awesome. It's just amazing. Yeah, 1266 01:09:27,200 --> 01:09:29,719 Speaker 1: there was another church group and she's like, I jerked 1267 01:09:29,760 --> 01:09:31,280 Speaker 1: him off on the plane, but I didn't do it 1268 01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:37,200 Speaker 1: to complete because I was still afraid to come. I 1269 01:09:37,320 --> 01:09:42,400 Speaker 1: relate to that so much. Let's get some final thought. 1270 01:09:43,360 --> 01:09:47,880 Speaker 1: Final thought, we should talk about Instagram photos. We got 1271 01:09:47,920 --> 01:09:52,240 Speaker 1: sent a good amount. They didn't really help the debate 1272 01:09:52,280 --> 01:09:56,640 Speaker 1: because so, yeah, here's the problem. It's my my. My 1273 01:09:56,680 --> 01:09:59,920 Speaker 1: whole hypothesis is based on women who have a big 1274 01:10:00,120 --> 01:10:04,599 Speaker 1: male following. And I realized. I went to go get 1275 01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:05,960 Speaker 1: a diet coke before we did the show, and I 1276 01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:08,479 Speaker 1: was trying to find example, Like I was going through 1277 01:10:08,479 --> 01:10:10,960 Speaker 1: all my girlfriends and people I followed to be like, Okay, 1278 01:10:11,040 --> 01:10:12,640 Speaker 1: let me just find some examples here. Why can't I 1279 01:10:12,680 --> 01:10:14,240 Speaker 1: just like search here because I can see how many 1280 01:10:14,240 --> 01:10:17,719 Speaker 1: likes things get. I could do this, and I realized 1281 01:10:17,720 --> 01:10:19,519 Speaker 1: I want to. I want to spend some time on 1282 01:10:19,560 --> 01:10:24,160 Speaker 1: it um to build my case. But I think that reliable. 1283 01:10:24,160 --> 01:10:25,800 Speaker 1: I was trying to think of female comics who have 1284 01:10:26,040 --> 01:10:29,439 Speaker 1: big male followings. I couldn't really think of that many. 1285 01:10:29,960 --> 01:10:31,800 Speaker 1: I did find a great example of the girl that's 1286 01:10:31,840 --> 01:10:38,200 Speaker 1: in um the New jackass Uh. She perfect example of 1287 01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:40,519 Speaker 1: her and her boyfriend. The only picture she has of 1288 01:10:40,560 --> 01:10:46,240 Speaker 1: them nine likes. Everything else is like thousands and thousands, Um, 1289 01:10:46,280 --> 01:10:49,360 Speaker 1: it's it's gonna It's my hypothesis about if you have 1290 01:10:49,400 --> 01:10:53,240 Speaker 1: a mostly female female are supportive of relationships, whether they 1291 01:10:53,280 --> 01:10:56,280 Speaker 1: like the guy or not, that they're following. It's it's 1292 01:10:56,320 --> 01:11:00,120 Speaker 1: if you have a male following as a woman, you 1293 01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:02,960 Speaker 1: are going to get way way less like on a 1294 01:11:03,000 --> 01:11:05,120 Speaker 1: picture of you and your boyfriend. It's just gonna be 1295 01:11:05,120 --> 01:11:07,519 Speaker 1: the way it is because men are threatened, and like, 1296 01:11:07,640 --> 01:11:10,360 Speaker 1: I think it's kind of what I said yesterday is brilliant. 1297 01:11:10,880 --> 01:11:13,680 Speaker 1: Women know that if a man that they like is 1298 01:11:13,720 --> 01:11:16,920 Speaker 1: with a girl, they could still fuck them. Because men 1299 01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:21,400 Speaker 1: are yes more non monogamous by nature. There's still a chance, 1300 01:11:21,439 --> 01:11:23,400 Speaker 1: even if that guy is a good person, there's still 1301 01:11:23,439 --> 01:11:26,080 Speaker 1: a chance he might fuck you, whereas when a girl 1302 01:11:26,280 --> 01:11:29,519 Speaker 1: is coupled up off limits to like, women just aren't 1303 01:11:29,520 --> 01:11:33,040 Speaker 1: as non monogamous and so men are much more threatened 1304 01:11:33,080 --> 01:11:35,320 Speaker 1: as they should be from not being able to fuck 1305 01:11:35,360 --> 01:11:37,679 Speaker 1: you if you have a boyfriend, as opposed to women 1306 01:11:37,800 --> 01:11:42,400 Speaker 1: seeing you a guy with a girl, even if it's 1307 01:11:42,479 --> 01:11:44,679 Speaker 1: the case or not, we've learned to or at least 1308 01:11:44,720 --> 01:11:47,320 Speaker 1: I've learned that a lot of people are sending in 1309 01:11:47,400 --> 01:11:50,720 Speaker 1: photos where when you're solo, you're like in a bikini, 1310 01:11:50,960 --> 01:11:53,680 Speaker 1: or you're wearing like no bra or a lot of 1311 01:11:53,760 --> 01:11:57,160 Speaker 1: skin is showing. And then with your boyfriend, you're wearing 1312 01:11:57,240 --> 01:11:59,439 Speaker 1: nineteen you're looking like bridgertin over there you're wearing like 1313 01:11:59,520 --> 01:12:02,439 Speaker 1: nineteen years And then you're comparing those two and that's 1314 01:12:02,479 --> 01:12:04,960 Speaker 1: not a fair compared. It's really like I was thinking 1315 01:12:04,960 --> 01:12:07,040 Speaker 1: about it, sometimes the quality of a photo, which you 1316 01:12:07,040 --> 01:12:10,160 Speaker 1: don't understand because you just put whatever photo you fucking take. 1317 01:12:10,360 --> 01:12:12,559 Speaker 1: You don't understand like making a photo look sharper an 1318 01:12:12,560 --> 01:12:17,120 Speaker 1: image or like or just turning the color up, yeah, yeah, 1319 01:12:17,160 --> 01:12:20,320 Speaker 1: making it look more aesthetically pleasing, you know, wiping off 1320 01:12:20,360 --> 01:12:23,160 Speaker 1: the lens, lying, Yeah, wiping off the lens and turning 1321 01:12:23,160 --> 01:12:25,720 Speaker 1: on a lamp. Yeah, that's not who you are. That's 1322 01:12:25,720 --> 01:12:27,320 Speaker 1: going to make get you more like that the photo 1323 01:12:27,400 --> 01:12:30,280 Speaker 1: just looks nicer. So there's all these variables. But I 1324 01:12:30,320 --> 01:12:32,160 Speaker 1: do think my new thing that I'm going to go 1325 01:12:32,320 --> 01:12:37,440 Speaker 1: really deep in this afternoon probably is women who are musicians. 1326 01:12:37,680 --> 01:12:41,920 Speaker 1: Men like female musicians, female comics. There's not a lot 1327 01:12:41,960 --> 01:12:45,880 Speaker 1: of female comics that men prefer. Like most most men 1328 01:12:46,000 --> 01:12:48,360 Speaker 1: like thing of all my female comic friends, and it's 1329 01:12:48,400 --> 01:12:51,640 Speaker 1: most of them have female followings. I would think. I mean, 1330 01:12:51,640 --> 01:12:57,599 Speaker 1: I wouldn't have guessed that mine. I'm seu men. It's 1331 01:12:57,600 --> 01:13:00,360 Speaker 1: it's really weird and actually a lot of sense because 1332 01:13:00,360 --> 01:13:04,080 Speaker 1: I have sent women, yeah the whole your your whole 1333 01:13:04,120 --> 01:13:06,599 Speaker 1: theory as well as like, so when I put up 1334 01:13:06,600 --> 01:13:12,120 Speaker 1: a pitcher in relationship, it gets more likes because yeah, interesting, Yes, 1335 01:13:12,479 --> 01:13:15,080 Speaker 1: women will very much support that. You know what I 1336 01:13:15,080 --> 01:13:18,479 Speaker 1: want to see. I want to see women dress as 1337 01:13:18,479 --> 01:13:22,920 Speaker 1: scandalous as possible next to their boyfriend, and I want 1338 01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:26,200 Speaker 1: to see that. Well, I'm going to go through because 1339 01:13:26,240 --> 01:13:29,800 Speaker 1: female musicians. I'm friends with a lot of them, and 1340 01:13:29,840 --> 01:13:33,000 Speaker 1: they have huge male followings because men always think that 1341 01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:35,800 Speaker 1: like this singer songwriter woman is like they there's a 1342 01:13:35,880 --> 01:13:38,360 Speaker 1: part I've I've had guy friends who are like fans 1343 01:13:38,400 --> 01:13:42,560 Speaker 1: of you know, the Maggie Rodgers is the on your marinas, 1344 01:13:42,640 --> 01:13:45,760 Speaker 1: the like Vincent Vincent. Yeah, and they have this like 1345 01:13:45,840 --> 01:13:49,120 Speaker 1: they love the idea of fucking this girl and they 1346 01:13:49,160 --> 01:13:51,400 Speaker 1: think that they get this girl on a different level, 1347 01:13:51,479 --> 01:13:53,760 Speaker 1: like these guys just in the front row, like she 1348 01:13:53,840 --> 01:13:56,720 Speaker 1: gets me, and it's these are the ones. I'm going 1349 01:13:56,760 --> 01:13:59,920 Speaker 1: to go look through their following. And also girls that 1350 01:14:00,160 --> 01:14:04,000 Speaker 1: do like are on male podcasts. They probably have a 1351 01:14:04,040 --> 01:14:05,680 Speaker 1: lot of male followers too, and I'm gonna go look 1352 01:14:05,680 --> 01:14:10,200 Speaker 1: through them and see if I or athletes athletes stars 1353 01:14:12,000 --> 01:14:16,200 Speaker 1: doesn't work. Actually it depends. There's some female athletes that 1354 01:14:16,240 --> 01:14:19,479 Speaker 1: guys really like. Guys are very picky and choosy about 1355 01:14:19,479 --> 01:14:21,479 Speaker 1: which women they support. I'm grateful to be one of 1356 01:14:21,520 --> 01:14:26,000 Speaker 1: those women as as a whole. Um, I do appreciate 1357 01:14:26,040 --> 01:14:30,000 Speaker 1: it as the whole that I am. But man, there 1358 01:14:30,280 --> 01:14:36,200 Speaker 1: there are many men who loathe me, loath just fucking 1359 01:14:36,240 --> 01:14:41,719 Speaker 1: hate me. It's so upsetting. How much you get hated 1360 01:14:41,760 --> 01:14:48,040 Speaker 1: when you get famous, is is just it's Yeah, the 1361 01:14:48,520 --> 01:14:51,160 Speaker 1: as much as you get so much love, the more 1362 01:14:51,240 --> 01:14:53,080 Speaker 1: love you get, the more you're going to get hate too. 1363 01:14:53,200 --> 01:14:56,120 Speaker 1: People do not hate people that aren't like in the spotlight. 1364 01:14:56,200 --> 01:14:59,360 Speaker 1: You just don't care. You would not hate someone that 1365 01:14:59,640 --> 01:15:02,240 Speaker 1: had nobody following them and no one was talking about 1366 01:15:02,360 --> 01:15:06,360 Speaker 1: it just wouldn't happen. Think about you've been discuss anytime 1367 01:15:06,439 --> 01:15:09,320 Speaker 1: you start talking where I start start talking to comic, 1368 01:15:09,720 --> 01:15:12,840 Speaker 1: it's because they're getting heat. We would never talk about 1369 01:15:12,840 --> 01:15:15,000 Speaker 1: a person that just released one clip with five people 1370 01:15:15,040 --> 01:15:17,240 Speaker 1: watching and go, look at this sucks so much. We 1371 01:15:17,280 --> 01:15:21,000 Speaker 1: would only talk it if people were enjoying it. It's 1372 01:15:21,040 --> 01:15:25,599 Speaker 1: always started from jealousy. It never isn't anyone I've ever 1373 01:15:25,680 --> 01:15:29,040 Speaker 1: hated or been like, God, they suck. It's because they're 1374 01:15:29,160 --> 01:15:32,800 Speaker 1: popular and I'm jealous. But here's the thing. You know, 1375 01:15:32,920 --> 01:15:34,680 Speaker 1: you could say, because I saw the thing with John 1376 01:15:34,720 --> 01:15:36,639 Speaker 1: Stewart there, like you know, you don't get as much 1377 01:15:36,640 --> 01:15:39,720 Speaker 1: slack as you know this kind of comedian or this 1378 01:15:39,800 --> 01:15:41,519 Speaker 1: kind of person. He's like I could go on Twitter 1379 01:15:41,640 --> 01:15:44,639 Speaker 1: right now and say, I mean he's a little bit 1380 01:15:45,160 --> 01:15:50,759 Speaker 1: of like whatever, like example, yeah he's a little bit polarized, 1381 01:15:50,880 --> 01:15:53,879 Speaker 1: but like someone that you would think like, oh, everyone 1382 01:15:53,960 --> 01:15:56,240 Speaker 1: loves you. If you go on Twitter and search your name, 1383 01:15:56,520 --> 01:16:01,080 Speaker 1: everyone everyone get hate. But yeah, it's because the more 1384 01:16:01,160 --> 01:16:03,479 Speaker 1: people that know you, the percentage of people that hate you, 1385 01:16:03,520 --> 01:16:05,320 Speaker 1: and that contingency is going to go up and it's 1386 01:16:05,360 --> 01:16:08,600 Speaker 1: gonna go. But don't you believe that when we you 1387 01:16:08,680 --> 01:16:11,680 Speaker 1: and I bitch about someone, like sometimes you'll bring up 1388 01:16:11,760 --> 01:16:13,479 Speaker 1: the other day you brought up a community and you're like, 1389 01:16:13,600 --> 01:16:18,240 Speaker 1: they're fucking They're just saying things that have already been said. 1390 01:16:18,280 --> 01:16:20,639 Speaker 1: None of this is original, And I never really heard 1391 01:16:20,640 --> 01:16:23,320 Speaker 1: of this person, And I go, why are we talking 1392 01:16:23,320 --> 01:16:25,040 Speaker 1: about them? Did they just get us? And you're like, 1393 01:16:25,200 --> 01:16:27,439 Speaker 1: because they're blowing up online, It's like we wouldn't be 1394 01:16:27,479 --> 01:16:29,679 Speaker 1: talking about them if they just were a random person 1395 01:16:29,720 --> 01:16:31,680 Speaker 1: that released the clip that sucked, you know what I mean? 1396 01:16:33,200 --> 01:16:35,800 Speaker 1: And they were all original thoughts. You know that. I 1397 01:16:35,800 --> 01:16:38,120 Speaker 1: mean they you started playing it and you go, actually, 1398 01:16:38,120 --> 01:16:41,519 Speaker 1: that's good. That was good too. He's just a guy. 1399 01:16:42,040 --> 01:16:45,800 Speaker 1: All you see when you watch it, it's confidence. He's 1400 01:16:45,840 --> 01:16:49,120 Speaker 1: just a guy that's confident. It's all it is. People 1401 01:16:49,120 --> 01:16:52,960 Speaker 1: are so susceptible to it, including me. Guys. Be confident 1402 01:16:53,000 --> 01:16:57,320 Speaker 1: this weekend, go out there, get naked, get naked, do 1403 01:16:57,439 --> 01:17:02,400 Speaker 1: something terrible. Wake up Sunday, be very depressed Monday morning, 1404 01:17:02,439 --> 01:17:07,200 Speaker 1: get right back after. Thanks for listening to pod this week. 1405 01:17:07,240 --> 01:17:10,360 Speaker 1: We'll see you on Monday. Busties. Uh don't be cut 1406 01:17:10,479 --> 01:17:17,120 Speaker 1: and black. Have we not done that? One? I don't 1407 01:17:17,120 --> 01:17:18,720 Speaker 1: think so, and it got sent to me. Just lea 1408 01:17:18,840 --> 01:17:19,080 Speaker 1: shit