1 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: Hello everyone, and welcome to your favorite podcast, She gets 2 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 1: in Chill. I hope that you're having a beautiful week. 3 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 1: If it is Monday and you know you're watching this 4 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 1: on Monday, it will be have an amazing week and 5 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: neither day. Honestly, thank you for tuning in, either if 6 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 1: you're listening or watching. Thank you so much. I am 7 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 1: very excited today because I have a very special guest, 8 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: someone that needs a lot to meet, someone that I've 9 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: been wanting to have on my podcast for a very 10 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 1: long time. And I have my little pew carts here, 11 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 1: but I don't think I'm even going to use them. 12 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: And she's a family member. And her name is Karina 13 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: Rivera Nabarrow. Everybody say hat to be cut in. So 14 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:46,240 Speaker 1: this is my cousin. We're two years apart, right because 15 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:49,880 Speaker 1: it's two years apart, and she is. For those of 16 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: you who are familiar with their family, she is my 17 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 1: mom's brother, Will Stravel. So there's Pete, my uncle Gus, 18 00:00:57,040 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 1: then my mom, then my dear little Bee well and Rosie. 19 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 1: So this is my uncle who, that's daughter who my 20 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: theo guys I love very much. I have to actually 21 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:09,680 Speaker 1: bring them on the pod. You guys. I think it 22 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 1: would be a very yeah, it would be a very 23 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 1: great freaking conversation. But I thought it'd be nice to 24 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 1: bring my cousin because this is I'm gonna say it, 25 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 1: and I don't want her anyone's feelings, but this is 26 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 1: my favorite cousin. She's been my favorite cousin since Ford. 27 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:25,679 Speaker 2: We have the favorites, you know, forever. We just we 28 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 2: grew up together. This was I was explaining, you know, 29 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:31,040 Speaker 2: I was only able to spend the night at two 30 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 2: people's houses if it was at the HS house and 31 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 2: the AS house. 32 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 1: So that was that's who you Yeah, yep, And same year, 33 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 1: we spent a lot of time together. Yeah, and Trey 34 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 1: is my mom. That's what they call my mom, Chay 35 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 1: the family, and and yeah, my mom would only let 36 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 1: me spend the night at you know, Patty at the 37 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:51,639 Speaker 1: Obus's house. So we did a lot of summers together, 38 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 1: and we grew up together, and we've lived through a lot, 39 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 1: you guys. So we're gonna talk about a lot of things, 40 00:01:57,520 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: because we didn't even really talk much about what we're 41 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: going to talk and we have the few cards here, 42 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 1: but I just want to let the conversation flow and 43 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: and you're married, cousin, so it was okay, that's say 44 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 1: in tomorrow. Yeah. 45 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 46 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 1: One thing I will tell you, and I think i've 47 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 1: told you this, cousin, is that I'm so grateful because 48 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 1: you were one of the few people that stood by 49 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 1: me during that time that my mom and all were sorry. Yeah, 50 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 1: she were very pissed. 51 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 2: I was, and I mean one of the last messages 52 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 2: that I got to message with you know, your mom 53 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:28,919 Speaker 2: was like, you know, you got to talk to this lady. 54 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:31,639 Speaker 2: I always felt like I was able to tell her like. 55 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 1: Lady like no, yeah, that's what it was. Figgure right 56 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 1: now because my mom would always say, and when I 57 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 1: was younger, they should work with my feelings. I'm not 58 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 1: evenna lie, but my mom would say, why can't you 59 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 1: be like your cousin Karna. She she should have been 60 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 1: my daughter because she's smart, because you've always gotten straight a's, 61 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:53,639 Speaker 1: because you've been good in school. She's a reader. She 62 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 1: would get straight a's. And I'm I'm gonna lie. I 63 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 1: was I was a C student. I was like, I'm 64 00:02:57,760 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 1: gonna just get by. 65 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 2: These students are bosses. 66 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:03,959 Speaker 1: Thank you, cousin. It used to hurt my feelings, I'm like, Mom, 67 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 1: how can you say that? She's like, yeah, I have 68 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 1: some dumb ass kids and they sure, now, no, we're 69 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 1: doing other thing. But yes, my cousin, he's always been 70 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 1: very intelligent. You're very smart, straight A student, like, that's 71 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 1: one thing my mom was, you guys had a very 72 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:22,360 Speaker 1: nice and unique relationship because you were one of the 73 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:24,799 Speaker 1: few people that can also tell her hey, I don't 74 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 1: agree with that thea. 75 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,239 Speaker 2: Again, I would never say disrespectful because I know she 76 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 2: would cuss me out or yah to me. 77 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:31,639 Speaker 1: But talking about her cussing us out, do you want 78 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 1: to tell everyone about that time that she beat around? 79 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 2: Oh? 80 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 1: Yes, that is like. 81 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 2: My favorite story to tell because it was in November. 82 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: I'll never forget. 83 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 2: It was Jackie's birthday and we were going to it 84 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 2: was Tracky Cheese and Lakewood and Cheeks was like, let's 85 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 2: go see Junior and I was like he was my 86 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 2: little boyfriend. Yeah, I guess her boyfriend at the time. 87 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 2: And we were down the street and Cheeks was like, okay, 88 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 2: let's see her. Mom's key and I just worked at 89 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 2: all the times. I was like, you know, I felt 90 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 2: I was like, we can get cat. 91 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: I was like it doesn't matter. Okay, let's say took 92 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 1: the keys on my back. 93 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 2: We went and my mom called my the cell phone 94 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 2: that was in there or whatever, and I. 95 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:17,559 Speaker 1: Was like, oh my god, we're gonna get in trouble. 96 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 2: And yeah, right when we were over there, they started calling. Well, 97 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:26,280 Speaker 2: we got back to the chirky cheese, shaggy cheese. My 98 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 2: bianche was like, let's go for a ride. She took 99 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 2: my mom's car. 100 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:32,839 Speaker 1: It was at eighty seven Mercedes, I'll never bring it. 101 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 2: And she parked and she like, you know, she slept 102 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:40,480 Speaker 2: us around. 103 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:44,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, this was before all this. Yeah, it was a 104 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 1: thing you guys that you should not do this in 105 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 1: touch your children. I'm probably if she was here, she 106 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:50,159 Speaker 1: would have cared. Now, always the type of mom would 107 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 1: be like, I tell him it's cool that I kicked dressing. 108 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah Dan yeah no game. 109 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 2: So then she you know, can tra us And then 110 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 2: she made us saying to Jackie saying you having birthday 111 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 2: to her and you better be up yes or so 112 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 2: there we are like cheeks, you know. 113 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 1: Holding back tears. 114 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 2: I'm holding back to yours because I'm like pissed and 115 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 2: I'm like, damn. 116 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:14,760 Speaker 1: I got in trouble and it's all my fault because 117 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 1: then I'm sorry. 118 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:18,600 Speaker 2: And then two weeks after that, to eat your mom 119 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:21,159 Speaker 2: calls the house and she has to talk to me. 120 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:24,240 Speaker 2: She's like, Mayhan, She's like, are you still mad at me? 121 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 1: I was like no. 122 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 2: She's like, okay, what are you off for Christmas? 123 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 1: And that was oh my mom, you know that was 124 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 1: my cousain. Just she's like, she's probably like I want 125 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 1: to say no to this girl. But all right, here 126 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 1: we go. Oh my gosh, kids don't do that. Okay, yeah, 127 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 1: listen to your parents. Please listen to your parents. But okay, 128 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:46,480 Speaker 1: now get into something a little bit more serious. This 129 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:48,280 Speaker 1: is a question that I don't think I've asked you, 130 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 1: but I want to ask you. How what have you 131 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 1: felt about me not using the last day of Rivera 132 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:00,599 Speaker 1: because you are Rivera? But like one, you could be 133 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 1: straight up like how do you feel about it? 134 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:04,479 Speaker 2: You know, listen, it didn't bother me. I don't feel 135 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 2: like that. 136 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 1: Was an issue. 137 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:11,600 Speaker 2: I understand, Like why because at one point in our 138 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 2: lives having the last name Rivera was such an honor 139 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:18,479 Speaker 2: and you decided that to use that. I was like, 140 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 2: you know, that's that's that's fine. Like she stands on 141 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 2: her own, like she could do it on her own. So, 142 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 2: you know, I think it was good because everybody knows 143 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 2: you as Cheeky's not like you know, cheeee Rivera Cheekys, 144 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 2: so they know like you. I personally wasn't offended. I 145 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 2: know maybe some people in our family might have been offended. 146 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 1: By that, but yeah, yeah, because I've gotten that question 147 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:45,039 Speaker 1: a lot. And it's not that I didn't want to 148 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 1: use it. It's just I've always I've always been Jenny Marine, yeah, 149 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:52,359 Speaker 1: no matter what my dad did. Yeah, I've always held 150 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 1: on to that. Last year, I never felt the need 151 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:57,799 Speaker 1: to change it. I mean, Mikey feels different, which I respect. 152 00:06:57,880 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 1: Did Mikey changes He has it legally, but he wants 153 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: to and he wants to also, like you know, change 154 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 1: his daughter's last names. And I don't know, if I'm 155 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 1: talking too much, you will probably be upset with me. 156 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 1: But that's what I know. I don't think he's done 157 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:11,440 Speaker 1: it yet. He wants him to be Rivera, and I'm 158 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 1: fine with that. I respect everyone's dicisies, you know how 159 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 1: I am. I just I always was like, Okay, I 160 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 1: want to be known as cheeky's and not that I'm 161 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 1: not proud of my mother and everything. Yeah she accomplished, 162 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 1: but not because I'm like, oh, I'm descending my dad's 163 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 1: last name. It's just more of like who I am. Yeah, 164 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 1: I know what I mean. And now that all this 165 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 1: stuff has happened in our family, to be honest, I 166 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 1: feel better about it. Yeah, I'm like, to be honest, 167 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't not that I don't want to 168 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 1: be associated because that's my family regarded as that's my 169 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:43,680 Speaker 1: blood regardless, and I never wish to anything bad like 170 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 1: at all, but I just don't. There's a lot of 171 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 1: things that I don't agree with and all like things 172 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 1: that have happened that just I'm like. 173 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I completely I completely agree him. Yeah, you're not 174 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 2: wanting to fold on to that. You know, it's completely 175 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 2: relevant because, like you said, everything that has happened, especially 176 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 2: in the past eleven years, has been a motherfucking a lot. 177 00:08:06,760 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 2: It has had a lot to process still, So there's 178 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 2: day a lot to process, a lot to heal, a 179 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 2: lot of still grief, you know. 180 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 1: Jennakan that said, at the end of day, it's a cycle. 181 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 1: It's not linear. 182 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 2: It's like some dings are cool, and then some days 183 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 2: you're like, what this is really life? This is not 184 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:30,240 Speaker 2: what I had envisioned or when we were growing up, 185 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 2: or how our dynamics were as far as our family dynamics, 186 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:36,719 Speaker 2: never expected things to. 187 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 1: Churn out how they were. 188 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 2: But then you you adjust, you learn to deal with 189 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:46,439 Speaker 2: to kind of like re learn how to relive, you know. 190 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 1: And I'm not going to say that it was always 191 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 1: all bad. There was always a lot of things in 192 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:54,320 Speaker 1: our family that happened that you and I would talk about, 193 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 1: what little yeah, behind closed doors and it's just like, 194 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:58,680 Speaker 1: I don't know, this is a little weird. Yeah, A 195 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 1: lot of things, a lot of jealousy, a lot of 196 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 1: stuff that we would notice when we were cloyers. 197 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:06,439 Speaker 2: Well we're teenagers, and I would ask you like, is 198 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 2: this like, am I seeing things from a weird point 199 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:12,960 Speaker 2: of view? Or you know, or you see kind of 200 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 2: what I'm seeing That we did see a lot of things. 201 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 1: I was like, No, a lot of jealousy amongst the women. 202 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 1: It was a lot of jealousy amongst women. And I'm 203 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 1: sure a lot of the people that are listening or 204 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:24,840 Speaker 1: watching can relate, you know. I think this happens a 205 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 1: lot in many families. It's just our family happens to 206 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 1: be a famous one or a very successful one or 207 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 1: whatever you want to call it. But this is stuff 208 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 1: that we've noticed for a very long time. I think 209 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 1: we just knew how to hide it, or there wasn't 210 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:40,319 Speaker 1: social media or you know, all this stuff. But there 211 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 1: were moments that we had great Christmases together. 212 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know. 213 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 1: There were time when we lived off of Illu streeted 214 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 1: Long Beach at Grandma's house and for Christmas, Oh, he 215 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:50,520 Speaker 1: had it there, and you know, and Grandma and Grandpa 216 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 1: were still together, and they would give us I can 217 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 1: see as you remember that they you know, and we 218 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 1: would break them and they would make us box, you 219 00:09:57,559 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: guys in the hard, boxing each other. I had a 220 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:05,560 Speaker 1: box Doorna. She beat my ass every time. And then 221 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:09,080 Speaker 1: my mom passed and I was one of the main pillars, 222 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 1: I think in her family. 223 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 2: And that's when I realized that this now, I really 224 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 2: realized that, like, damn, my aunt really held this family together. 225 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:18,720 Speaker 1: She didn't. 226 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:23,080 Speaker 2: And you start processing now you're like, damn, like this 227 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:27,080 Speaker 2: is not what I thought my family was. Like you said, 228 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 2: I love a family. I didn't never wish about it 229 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 2: will or nothing like that. It's just not what I 230 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:36,319 Speaker 2: thought what happened exactly. I thought it was gonna make 231 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 2: people closer. I thought it was gonna make you know. 232 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 2: I was like, you know, I love being on the 233 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:45,200 Speaker 2: sidelines and seeing you know, like you cousin doing your singing, 234 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 2: You're seeing other people doing their thing them. I was like, 235 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 2: you know, awsome be fabulous. 236 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's been pretty crazy. And I realized and I 237 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:56,840 Speaker 1: always knew that my mom was a pillar because I 238 00:10:56,880 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 1: saw how people would look for her and how she 239 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 1: was needed financially. Yeah, it's just the truth. Whether people 240 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 1: want to admit it or not, the truth is I 241 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:10,599 Speaker 1: saw and I lived it at first. So many conversations, 242 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:13,320 Speaker 1: my mom told me so many things. She helped out 243 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:22,200 Speaker 1: a lot of people going back to so this whole 244 00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:25,360 Speaker 1: thing I did realize that who my mom was in 245 00:11:25,400 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 1: the family was that my mom would tell people straight up, 246 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:31,439 Speaker 1: like she would not put up with anyone's book. Yeah, no, 247 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 1: she didn't. And if something was wrong, she would see it. 248 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 1: She would either write you an email. She loved that emails, 249 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:40,480 Speaker 1: you know, but she would let it be old, you know, 250 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 1: and she'd be like, this is what's going on, and 251 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:44,120 Speaker 1: this is why I'm moving to Corona. And I don't 252 00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 1: agree with this, that's why. That's why we moved to 253 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:51,520 Speaker 1: Corona because of Grandpa and his affair. Okay, that's why. 254 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 1: Because I don't know if you remember, growing up, we 255 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:56,840 Speaker 1: were all at like in a certain radius. Everyone had 256 00:11:56,840 --> 00:11:58,360 Speaker 1: to be either in loam, beat your thing. 257 00:11:58,600 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 2: It couldn't be too far. 258 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 1: So it was like this family thing. Yeah, and my 259 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:05,079 Speaker 1: mom said, f this, I'm gonna be the first one 260 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:07,960 Speaker 1: to move away. Yeah, because I was so disappointed and 261 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 1: so hurt that my grandpa was having an affair with 262 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 1: a woman that was her age. I was having a baby. 263 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 1: She was distraught. She just was like, that's my daddy 264 00:12:16,160 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 1: like coming so our family. Mom was so distorted. She 265 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 1: just said, f this, I'm leaving, And from there she 266 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:23,720 Speaker 1: started happening. Yeah, you know, it was already kind of Yeah. 267 00:12:23,720 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 1: And I'm not trying to judge my grandpa. I don't 268 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:28,200 Speaker 1: agree with a lot of things. I still love my grandpa. 269 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:30,560 Speaker 1: I left my grandpa through it, but that's the truth, 270 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 1: you know, And I think it did Hyperrito, mister Burrito, 271 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 1: and I'm missing him. I haven't talked to him in 272 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:38,440 Speaker 1: so long. You know, it's it's real mest up all 273 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:40,440 Speaker 1: this stuff that's happening. But there's again there's a lot 274 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:43,320 Speaker 1: of stuff that I don't agree with. Yeah, but that's 275 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:45,839 Speaker 1: when we moved away and my mom would just say 276 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:48,600 Speaker 1: how it is, and I when she was no longer there, 277 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 1: there was like no authority. Yeah. Then I think that's 278 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:54,240 Speaker 1: when it was that everything was chaotic and they're missing 279 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 1: of course they're missing their daughter, they're missing their sister. 280 00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:59,840 Speaker 1: Like it's such a huge law. It was a world 281 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 1: our family that it just everything that was chaos. Yeah. 282 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 1: You know, for a long time I was very like 283 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:09,120 Speaker 1: considered of that and compassionate about everyone's feelings. But then 284 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 1: it gets to a point where you're like I can't 285 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:14,880 Speaker 1: excuse that. I'm sorry no matter what. Yeah, you still 286 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 1: got to act right because yeah, my mom's like here physically, 287 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:19,199 Speaker 1: but she still watched it. Oh yeah. 288 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:22,199 Speaker 2: And that's that's one thing is like that my aunt 289 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:22,720 Speaker 2: was my aunt. 290 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 1: I respected my aunt. 291 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 2: I knew that lady did not play and I just 292 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 2: knew that a lot of things that have happened was 293 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:33,959 Speaker 2: in his past eleven years. 294 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:37,559 Speaker 1: My aunt was still near that would not ever, ever, ever. 295 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:41,960 Speaker 2: Ever, not a word would have came out of people's mouth, 296 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 2: not certain actions. 297 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:48,320 Speaker 1: I just know that for sure. That's one thing I 298 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:50,600 Speaker 1: will say. Mam was an amazing provis was a great mom. 299 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:53,880 Speaker 1: We had a relationship that we were sisters and they 300 00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 1: were just so so close, but we loved each other 301 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:57,560 Speaker 1: so much. Honestly, I think I can go to my 302 00:13:57,559 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 1: mom for anything. It's our mom, Simon, so I want 303 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 1: and she would get it from me. Because right now 304 00:14:01,559 --> 00:14:03,360 Speaker 1: I remember the Buddy which she surprised me with that 305 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:06,720 Speaker 1: car yet you know it was blue. Yeah, you know 306 00:14:06,760 --> 00:14:09,840 Speaker 1: it's a vertical verto. It had just came out. Yeah, 307 00:14:09,880 --> 00:14:12,400 Speaker 1: it was two early two thousand early two. I think 308 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 1: it was two thousand and three somebody. Yeah, right, I 309 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 1: think you are what for your sixteenth birthday problem? Now, 310 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:20,040 Speaker 1: huh something like that? Oh my mama. But now that 311 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:22,080 Speaker 1: we're talking about all this and that you know that 312 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 1: it's true you lived through everything with me, cousin, even 313 00:14:25,680 --> 00:14:27,160 Speaker 1: during that time though we had talked a little bit 314 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, like it wasn't even 315 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:31,040 Speaker 1: that much. We have not been there. You've been there 316 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 1: with me. And I heard this comment the other day, 317 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna say where or who said it, 318 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 1: but I'm sure you guys will know. But they set 319 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 1: something down the lines of that I was such a 320 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 1: nice girl. I was so nice, and that fame got 321 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 1: to me, that fame changed me, that I'm a different 322 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 1: personnel and it's the people that surround me that have 323 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 1: changed me. Honestly, Cousin, say it how it is, whatever 324 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:55,640 Speaker 1: it is that you may think, I want you to 325 00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 1: tell me. Know what do you think about that? Now? 326 00:14:58,200 --> 00:14:59,120 Speaker 1: I think sometimes you. 327 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 2: Need to be more of a bit, you know, because 328 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 2: you know, cheeks, You've always been, always looked at people, 329 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:08,960 Speaker 2: seeing the good siding people. 330 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:10,280 Speaker 1: You don't like to. 331 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 2: Cause problems, you don't like to you know, certain frictions. 332 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 2: So I think that sometimes you need a babitch. But no, 333 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 2: I don't think fame has gotten to you in any way, 334 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:27,360 Speaker 2: shape or form, thing and everybody just because I see you. 335 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 1: Know you're my cousin. 336 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 2: I it's thirty six years of you know, even my cousin, 337 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 2: I see you the same, you know. 338 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 1: I really don't feel that I'm saying fame because I don't. 339 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 1: I don't I know people know me. I don't. 340 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:40,960 Speaker 2: I don't know. 341 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 1: Like when they said that. I was like, what, like, 342 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 1: I what happened is that I'm not that that naive yeah, 343 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 1: global little girl that I used to be, that you 344 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 1: could just manipulate. 345 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:53,720 Speaker 2: I don't know. 346 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 1: I was just when I when I heard that the 347 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:57,040 Speaker 1: other day, I was like, Okay, well, everyone is entitled 348 00:15:57,040 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 1: to their own opinion. It's fine. No memory is that. 349 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:02,160 Speaker 1: It's just I have changed. I have changed in a 350 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 1: way of if I'm saying the same person and I'm 351 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 1: not really, yeah, I'm not evolving. Yeah, of course I changed. Yes, yeah, 352 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,120 Speaker 1: I have changed. I'm not the same person I was. 353 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 1: I'm more mature. I could say that I'm smarter, I'm wiser. 354 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 1: Do you still talk to any of our eccentifics? 355 00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:22,800 Speaker 2: I haven't, cousin, I'm like the uh, the rose, will 356 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:26,040 Speaker 2: you know, reach out and say happy birthday here you know, 357 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 2: here in there, But to have conversations might have have 358 00:16:31,480 --> 00:16:34,680 Speaker 2: no for me. My separation of our. 359 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 1: Family was back in like twenty eighteen. 360 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 2: There was a specific situation that I was just like, 361 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:43,640 Speaker 2: and this is something that you had no control over, 362 00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 2: or that you needed to fix or my other cousins 363 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 2: needed to fix. No, this was sort of like the 364 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 2: pillars of our family that needed to fix situations and 365 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:56,840 Speaker 2: they never got fixed. So I just knew that it 366 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:57,480 Speaker 2: was not ever. 367 00:16:57,400 --> 00:16:59,480 Speaker 1: Going to give six. You've always been very good with 368 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:01,720 Speaker 1: being a risk backful kind of like you know, which 369 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:02,120 Speaker 1: I love. 370 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:05,080 Speaker 2: And I did stay my peace so too to my 371 00:17:05,200 --> 00:17:07,159 Speaker 2: the roves and and they want to say, you know, 372 00:17:07,440 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 2: this is not okay or what I feel is I 373 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:14,720 Speaker 2: don't agree with certain Yeah this is and how not 374 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 2: how our family's supposed to be. And I, you know, 375 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:20,359 Speaker 2: never be just. I was not respectful, but I just 376 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 2: said my peace, and you know, yeah, yeah. 377 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 1: And you know what I I don't really talk to 378 00:17:25,600 --> 00:17:28,639 Speaker 1: anyone else other than honestly. I would love to have 379 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 1: a better relationship with all my cousins. I I've always 380 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:34,440 Speaker 1: said this from the very beginning. You know, I don't 381 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 1: want the kids, the cousins to get involved in all this, 382 00:17:39,840 --> 00:17:41,280 Speaker 1: you know all and that's something that you and I 383 00:17:41,320 --> 00:17:44,200 Speaker 1: would always say, Yeah, I want us to be different 384 00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:46,520 Speaker 1: from the elders. You know. I was like, I don't 385 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:47,800 Speaker 1: want to find with my cousins. 386 00:17:47,880 --> 00:17:52,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, and even with your the dynamics with your siblings. 387 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:55,800 Speaker 2: I remember you said, I don't want to be like 388 00:17:56,040 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 2: how our our you know my mom is with you know. 389 00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:02,960 Speaker 1: Her siblings. Yeah, you know it's my it's my job 390 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 1: as the eldest, and that promise I make to my 391 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 1: mom that way, I'm gonna try my best to no job, 392 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 1: leave you. I continue to do great job. And you 393 00:18:10,359 --> 00:18:12,679 Speaker 1: just put the moffuckers in the line that have to do. 394 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:16,360 Speaker 1: And you know those ups. 395 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 2: And downs are always gonna happen. Yeah, and us, we're 396 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 2: always gonna fight with our siblings or with their family members. 397 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:27,439 Speaker 2: But there's there's a lie. There's a lie. And I 398 00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:32,360 Speaker 2: feel some people don't don't see those wife they just yep, 399 00:18:32,600 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 2: they don't. They don't respect boundaries. So you know, you know, 400 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 2: And one thing I will say about my deal Gus Yo. 401 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:41,920 Speaker 1: Yo, daddy, I love him, I will say and I'll 402 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 1: say this and I've said it many times. And I 403 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:46,840 Speaker 1: have to take away anything from anyone else but my 404 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 1: deal Gus has been the only uncle since my mom 405 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:52,200 Speaker 1: passed eleven years. We're going on twelve years, you guys 406 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:56,760 Speaker 1: that he always says me and not I don't have 407 00:18:56,840 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 1: money to give you. You need twenty bucks, give you 408 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:02,960 Speaker 1: twenty dollars. I ain't got more than that right now. 409 00:19:03,080 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 1: He says, I got I gotta take care of your dad, Patty, 410 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:07,879 Speaker 1: and you know whatever, he's like, but he's there to 411 00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:10,280 Speaker 1: call me to bring me water free water of his 412 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:14,080 Speaker 1: ALCOHOLI water and calls my siblings, checks up on us 413 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:16,720 Speaker 1: at least once a week, if not once every two weeks. 414 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:21,719 Speaker 1: But he has been consistent that I'm like I we 415 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 1: all love him so much because of that, because no 416 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 1: matter what, he respects what we're doing. Yeah, he's like, 417 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 1: hey me, I heard that. You know this happened, And 418 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 1: I don't want to be nosy, but are you good. 419 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:34,280 Speaker 1: He's always streaking on this. Yeah. He's a great father. 420 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:37,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, my dad. I talked to my dad at 421 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 2: least children Candy. It's like so much my mom like 422 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 2: I do. I like, this is all carble. Yeah, I 423 00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:44,600 Speaker 2: love you know, burn up. I didn't have the great 424 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:47,800 Speaker 2: relationship with my mom, and you know now it's so 425 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:50,320 Speaker 2: much like great or not. And I understand I was 426 00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:52,000 Speaker 2: a pain the ass and I feel like because I 427 00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 2: was always like what why are things like this? 428 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:57,439 Speaker 1: What? You know? My mom always tells me because I 429 00:19:57,720 --> 00:19:58,679 Speaker 1: end the line. You know. 430 00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:01,920 Speaker 2: I was always like combat even becombatd in that sense 431 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 2: and made in school and you know whatever. But I 432 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:06,360 Speaker 2: was always like a print of my mom's dads. 433 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 1: Do you feel that that changed your relationship with your 434 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 1: mom after you had kids? Yes, I felt more. 435 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:15,919 Speaker 2: I understood because, like I said, I feel like I 436 00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:18,639 Speaker 2: was war between my brother and I was born like 437 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:21,520 Speaker 2: the hot headed one like Hi, Like I wasn't out 438 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:24,240 Speaker 2: fighting with people and some but I was always like one, why. 439 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:25,800 Speaker 1: Aren't things is what you would ask questions? 440 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:29,200 Speaker 2: Yes, And my mom was like, because that's just howly honor. 441 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:31,480 Speaker 2: She'd be liked, you didn't understand when you have kids 442 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 2: you would challenge her. Yes, And then I had keys 443 00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:37,600 Speaker 2: and I was like, I know what's talking about, lady. 444 00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:40,160 Speaker 1: I'm very grateful because then he came on the podcast. 445 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:42,240 Speaker 1: So Hi, you do this conversation for driving all the 446 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 1: way from Long Beach you guys Radical Foss please for 447 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 1: Kluma only California. That's where I was born, Guys at 448 00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:52,560 Speaker 1: Saint Mary's Hospital. But before you go, because if you 449 00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 1: want to share any socials where people could follow you, 450 00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:56,159 Speaker 1: or you want to keep that private or whatever you 451 00:20:56,200 --> 00:20:58,040 Speaker 1: want to do, please tell them about your business on 452 00:20:58,119 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 1: the right so you could find it on Aroma Revolution 453 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:09,480 Speaker 1: Nature dot LA for myself. It is the spiritual messenger nice. 454 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 1: All right, well, thank you cousin. 455 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:15,320 Speaker 2: I love you, you wonderful cousin of my soul. 456 00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:17,879 Speaker 1: My wonderful cousin if you if you ever need anyone 457 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 1: so they'll uplift you, is my cousin. I swear your 458 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:23,359 Speaker 1: messages are the best. 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