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Speaker 1: Dear Ryan, insistenly, I think my wife is cheating on

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Speaker 1: me with a dad from our son's school. Okay, Manice,

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Speaker 1: thank you for coming on. Let's get some information here.

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Speaker 1: It sounds complicated. So why is it you think your

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Speaker 1: basically agreed to start doing these play dates. But I'm

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Speaker 1: And why do you think she's with the man? Oh? Um, Well,

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Speaker 1: So my thought was, my my wife is not very

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Speaker 1: let's get into this next here stand by, we will

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Speaker 1: air with Ryan Seacrest. We're in Ryan's roses right now.

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Speaker 1: Medicol is married. She thinks her wife is hooking up

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Speaker 1: this if you want to chime in, but Medico, we

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Speaker 1: good luck? All right? Hey, thanks? Hell Hi, can I

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Speaker 1: speak to Chris please? This is Chris. Hi, Chris. My

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Speaker 1: How are you doing? I'm doing good. How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm good? Thank you for taking my call. We actually

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Speaker 1: you got it. Well. One can give advice, can't take

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