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Speaker 1: Second, All right, let's do a hypothetical here.

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Speaker 2: I always love those, And Brooke, we're gonna pretend that

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Speaker 3: Okay, I know.

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Speaker 2: She's faked up.

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Speaker 1: Let's say for a long time you're hanging out at

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Speaker 2: I don't want to say it out loud, just just

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Speaker 1: But again, you're single and you see a cute guy

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Speaker 4: I've never had any tact, so I would definitely approach him.

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Speaker 2: And what do you do?

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Speaker 3: What do you do?

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Speaker 4: Oh, I don't know, maybe buy him a drink extra?

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Speaker 1: You're just like Hi, I'm brook, I think you're cute

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Speaker 4: I've told many guys at bars when I single, you're hot.

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Speaker 4: We love that.

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Speaker 2: We would love that. Girls will finally.

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Speaker 4: Tell you I told you I don't have much shame

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Speaker 4: or anything. Well no, not really, but it works. I'm

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Speaker 1: I do think you forgot I said, you're still your

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Speaker 4: So I still say that look more desperate at my age.

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Speaker 1: on how that happened. Okay, so let's talk to him. Tony,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: Hi, how are you doing?

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Speaker 4: Were my two twins at the bar? Is that what.

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Speaker 2: She means lookalikes?

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Speaker 3: Not the other girl?

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Speaker 2: Classic she's accidentally hitting.

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Speaker 1: I know Tony apologized for Brook, but I know you

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Speaker 1: went on a date recently.

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Speaker 2: Who was it with?

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Speaker 3: Her name is Gemma. We actually met on a dating app.

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Speaker 4: Said somebody approached you at the bar. You met it

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I know, sorry, that might have been a

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Speaker 4: Like community seating.

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Speaker 3: Yeah exactly. We're like sitting with different parties and stuff

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Speaker 2: How do you be clear about that? Like T shirts matching?

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Speaker 2: Do you guys look alike?

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Speaker 3: No, I don't think so. But it was more like

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Speaker 3: She think's going bad. Like I don't know, I don't

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm trying to play foot you with her.

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Speaker 4: Didn't everything you didn't move, don't move.

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Speaker 2: I kissed one of them. But what do you think,

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Speaker 4: Did Emma, like that reason, not at all? Were you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, did you bring it up with Jemma though about like,

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Speaker 3: After the date are during Yeah, well, the girls were

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Speaker 4: What did she say?

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Speaker 3: She said she understood, but there wasn't much after that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, yeah, dangd what do you wish you would

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Speaker 3: Uh? It was a weird social situation, So, I mean,

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Speaker 5: Weird.

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Speaker 2: I wonder, I wonder where.

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Speaker 1: Her side is. Yeah, well we'll get that from her

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Speaker 4: You're just accepting attention from other women. Women is probably

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Speaker 1: Kerr Brother Chicks and hopefully we'll get some answers when

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Speaker 1: we reach out to Gemma for you and come back.

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Speaker 2: Try to get your second date update. Right after this date,

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Speaker 2: one of our listeners, Tony, went out on a one

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Speaker 1: That suddenly turned into a three on one date. Boy,

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Speaker 1: and the person who got excluded was Gemma, the woman

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Speaker 2: From there, he tried.

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Speaker 4: To play foot sees.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't just show Jemma that I'm actually interested in you.

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Speaker 1: I don't really care about these two new girls.

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Speaker 2: But she was gone out of reach.

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Speaker 5: I think.

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Speaker 4: It's probably just a table leg under.

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Speaker 1: Tony's thoughts on why this happened was actually pretty flattering

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Speaker 4: Yeah, how are you feeling, Tony?

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Speaker 3: A little nervous, but I get I kind of am

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Speaker 2: I think, Okay, that's how you're feeling upstairs. How you're

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Speaker 4: Have you talked to her at all since the date?

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Speaker 3: No, I haven't gotten a response back from her.

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Speaker 2: From three women to zero now giving Tony attention. So

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Speaker 2: hopefully you didn't get their numbers? Well, yeah, I did you.

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Speaker 4: We didn't ask.

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Speaker 3: No, absolutely make this call.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because that's pretty clear asking for their numbers in

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Speaker 2: But okay, well, good luck out there. Yeah, let's call Gemma.

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Speaker 3: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hi, we're looking to talk to Gemma.

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Speaker 5: This is Gemma.

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Speaker 2: Hey, thanks for picking up. Gemma. We're a radio show.

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Speaker 2: We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, weird? Why are you calling me?

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Speaker 1: We're doing a segment called a second Date update. Not

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Speaker 1: sure if you're familiar with that, but we're trying to

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Speaker 1: you after you went out on a date with him recently,

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Speaker 1: guy named Tony.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, did you just yet?

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Speaker 4: Is that what I heard?

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Speaker 5: Okay, like a COPT listen, I don't know what this

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Speaker 4: He actually told us something similar.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we we did hear about some of the events

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Speaker 1: that occurred at the Mexican Place with the two girls

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Speaker 1: coming sit right next to Tony at the communal table

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Speaker 4: Serious, Okay, I honestly that that's kind of a good sign, Jemma,

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Speaker 4: because that means that you were disappointed, you know what

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Speaker 4: I mean? Well, I mean, I'm just saying like you

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Speaker 4: come back like they got.

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Speaker 5: That's putting a really nice spin on it.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, well Tony says that he felt really bad

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Speaker 2: We're curious how you felt about the situation.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and I'm sure he did, honestly, Like at first

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Speaker 5: when I came back and I was like what, And

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Speaker 5: then I saw how Tony was like clearly a little uncomfortable,

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Speaker 5: So I was kind of I was kind of laughing,

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Speaker 5: like inside, Okay, that's such a relief.

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Speaker 4: What do you think their intentions were? Oh?

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Speaker 5: I know what their intentions were.

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Speaker 3: I'm pretty I'm pretty sure. Tony, by the way, is

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Speaker 3: a really.

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Speaker 5: Good looking guy. Oh and they like they swarmed in

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Speaker 1: I don't know, okay lately, Yeah, but you said that

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Speaker 2: That on him.

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Speaker 5: I don't think he invited just necessarily. But I started

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Speaker 5: So Tony was so like plumboxed or whatever that he

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Speaker 5: I was like, try it. Attempted to bribe the waiter.

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Speaker 5: What's still falsa on these girls?

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Speaker 4: Did he do it? Did the waiter do it? How

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Speaker 5: That's hysterio.

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Speaker 4: The waiters probably annoyed at them too, if they're this

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Speaker 2: To salsa is like six dollars plus tips nine bucks.

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Speaker 5: I waved a twenty at him, and he was like,

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Speaker 1: Oh, I hope you gave that restaurant a bad review.

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Speaker 4: I still understand that you're not blaming Tony, So why

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Speaker 5: I don't blame Tony in the beginning for not doing anything,

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Speaker 4: I think he feels that way too.

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Speaker 1: Here's the deal. You actually sound pretty understanding about the

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Speaker 1: to you.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, are you kidding me?

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Speaker 1: Jo?

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Speaker 4: That's the only woman.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I am here that's it.

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Speaker 4: That's very horrible, Tony.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe you should say something to her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, first off, I just want to apologize for

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Speaker 2: At Okay, that was that was good, Tony. You can

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I ken't. And I appreciate the apology, Tony,

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Speaker 5: but you already apologize. You told me that on the card.

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Speaker 5: I'm not hearing anything new.

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Speaker 2: Okay, come up with a better apology, Tony, go ahead.

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Speaker 4: Like he's not. Like you need to own up to

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Speaker 2: Are you just like a very non confrontational person, brother?

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Speaker 3: Like No, I would consider myself a non confrontational person.

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Speaker 3: That's why it was a tough position too.

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Speaker 4: Is that hot for you, Jemma?

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Speaker 5: Now? I mean I don't want to guys like punching

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Yeah, I think he was just trying to

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Speaker 4: And yeah, you're not a confrontational guy either, Like you

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Speaker 2: What are you saying, Brooke, I'm trying to put me

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Speaker 4: Did I just break Jeff.

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Speaker 1: Let's not turn this into a situation with us, Jemma.

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Speaker 1: Clearly Tony is remorseful about what happened and how he behaved.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure he's He's even told us next time he

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Speaker 1: doesn't want to do communal tables.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and he's like, I will reserve a table for two.

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Speaker 1: So we'd like to help facilitate that second date and

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Speaker 2: What do you think, Jenna?

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Speaker 5: I appreciate that offer, but I have just made a

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Speaker 5: to be going out and fighting off le raping themselves

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Speaker 5: Does that mean it, well, I'm going to date down what.

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Speaker 4: You're just going to date the guys that you find

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Speaker 4: less attractive? What does that mean competition.

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Speaker 5: I'm not going to go after music, the hottest guy,

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Speaker 5: you know, the hottest guy, and the dating profile because

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Speaker 5: I still need this kind of headache. I mean, I

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Speaker 5: like you, Tony, but you're just too attractive for what

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Speaker 5: I'm looking for right now.

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Speaker 3: The competition.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if we've heard that one on the

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Speaker 1: second date update before day.

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Speaker 2: Think it's so backward.

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Speaker 3: This is the most ridiculous response. I was not expecting

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Speaker 1: Why convince her that you're not as attractive as she

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you have no idea, Gemma. By the way, this

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Speaker 3: never happens to me, Like if I'm out with my friends,

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Speaker 2: I'm usually a repulse women.

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Speaker 4: Like me brushing my teeth and washing my face.

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Speaker 5: But again, the girl magnet and your friends just repelled them.

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Speaker 1: Okay, great, So he hasn't convinced that he's ugly enough.

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Speaker 5: I've been with him in person. He's cute, he knows

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Speaker 5: he's cute, and he's not going to get any less cute.

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Speaker 1: Well, Tony, you started with one woman on a date,

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Speaker 2: Zero because you're too attractive.

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Speaker 1: Now that's boy mat ridiculous Jeffrey in the Morning. Well,

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Speaker 1: it's like they always say, hot guys finished last.

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Speaker 4: Oh, we always feel so bad for you hot guys

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Speaker 1: I feel like I need to stand up for my

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Speaker 1: fellow nines and tens out there.

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Speaker 4: You're gonna put yourself in there, and I need to.

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Speaker 2: Say stop the handsome hate.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's use that hashtag and start a movement.

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Speaker 4: That you think that's why we get any complaint for

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Speaker 4: the radio station. It's just you're too good.

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Speaker 2: Looking all the time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm sure that's why you're in radio.

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Speaker 2: I'm so happy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm so sorry that it didn't work out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I really am.

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Speaker 4: I think that guy is so regretting him not getting

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Speaker 4: the number for the two other women. Yeah you know

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Speaker 4: what I mean, Like he had a chance, his one

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Speaker 4: shot and he blew it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But there's always opportunities for you to meet people. When

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Speaker 1: you come on to this show. Email us. We'll call

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Speaker 1: that person who's not calling you back and go check

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Speaker 1: out all of our secondary podcast wherever you get yours

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Speaker 1: A broken Jeffrey