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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fredshell.

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Speaker 1: Hey Travis, good morning, welcome to the show. How are you.

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Speaker 2: How about you, guys?

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Speaker 1: We're doing okay. So let's hear about this woman, Shannon.

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Speaker 1: We want to know how you met, about any dates

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Speaker 1: that you've been on, and then where things are now.

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Speaker 1: Uh so maybe we can if you've been ghosted, we

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Speaker 1: can figure this out and and fix it for you.

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Speaker 2: Sure, you know, it was just one date we met

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Speaker 2: on bumble. I mean there was a back and forth

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Speaker 2: there for for a good I'd say like a week

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Speaker 2: and a half. We were going back and forth, kind

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Speaker 2: of testing the waters, and then you know, we seemed

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Speaker 2: to connect. So I invited her out to drinks, and

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Speaker 2: you know, it was a great date. We had a

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Speaker 2: great date. Everything was clicking. Everything seemed to go like

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Speaker 2: just fall into place. And I asked her back to

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Speaker 2: my spot and it was like no hesitation. She was like,

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Speaker 2: she was like, yeah, yeah, let's do that.

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Speaker 1: Wow, we're getting a little play by player with yeah. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So she said yeah, she said.

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Speaker 2: Going, I've been going over to my head. That's why

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Speaker 2: he was.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, No, that's okay, all right. So she said yes, yeah.

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Speaker 2: So I decided, you know, I thought, hey, I really

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Speaker 2: like her. I'm going to be kind of a gentleman here.

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to like, I'm not going to make

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Speaker 2: any physical moves. I'm just gonna continue to connect. And

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Speaker 2: you know, everything was great. And then when she left,

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Speaker 2: I felt I felt amazing. And then after that it

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Speaker 2: was like boom, nothing. She just completely ghosted me. And

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Speaker 2: I was like, was she expecting me to.

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Speaker 1: Like try to I see? So that maybe so you

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Speaker 1: maybe you weren't assertive enough with her, And that can

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Speaker 1: be a final line for a guy, you know, because

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Speaker 1: you don't want to be pushy or disrespectful, but you

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Speaker 1: also want to show interest and sometimes you can, you know,

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Speaker 1: you can certainly go too far with it, maybe not enough.

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Speaker 1: So you think maybe that's what it was, is she

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Speaker 1: doesn't think that you're interested.

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Speaker 2: It's the only thing I can think of. Yeah, that

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Speaker 2: that maybe she was afecting me to jump all over her.

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Speaker 2: I see, and because I was still trying to, you know,

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well maybe that's it. I'm not sure. I'm not sure,

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Speaker 1: but that's where we come in. We're gonna call Shannon

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Speaker 1: and see if we can get her on the phone.

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Speaker 1: We're going to ask these questions for you, and you know,

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Speaker 1: hopefully we can straighten things out and set you guys

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Speaker 1: up on another date and we'll pay for that. Sound good.

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Speaker 1: I love it. Okay, I'm gonna play one song and

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Speaker 1: then we'll come back and do it. Hang on, Travis,

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Speaker 1: trust me, you've got to hear what happens next. In

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Speaker 1: part two of waiting about the phone in two minutes

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Speaker 1: up to to a leap up, we're back on the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show too. He's on the Frend Show. Good morning,

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Speaker 1: thank you for waking up with us. Hey, Travis, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Shannon. You guys, you recently went

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Speaker 1: on a date and went back to her place and

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Speaker 1: you thought everything was or excuse me, move back to

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Speaker 1: your place, and everything went really well, except you haven't

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Speaker 1: heard from her since the date. You're wondering if maybe

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Speaker 1: you sent nick signals, maybe you weren't assertive enough. You

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Speaker 1: don't really know, but she's not calling you and you

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Speaker 1: want to know why. Yep, exactly. Okay, let's call Shannon now,

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Speaker 1: good luck. Hi is this Shannon? Yeah, that's Shannon. Hi,

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Speaker 1: good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from The

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Speaker 1: Freend's Show, the morning radio show, And I have to

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Speaker 1: tell you that we are on the radio right now

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Speaker 1: and I need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 1: Can which have for just a second on the show? Yeah, okay, perfect. Well,

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Speaker 1: we're calling on behalf of a guy who I guess

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Speaker 1: you met him on bumble and you went out for

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Speaker 1: drinks recently. His name is Travis. Do you remember Travis? Okay, he,

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Speaker 1: I guess listens to us and he called us and

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Speaker 1: you wanted to know, you know, he told us you

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Speaker 1: thought the date went great. I guess you guys went

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Speaker 1: not responding now, you're kind of laughing about it. So

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Speaker 1: what's your version of events? What's your story here? Well?

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Speaker 3: Did he tell you, guys that he made me sit

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Speaker 3: through a two.

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Speaker 4: Hour djay set?

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Speaker 1: A two hour DJ set? Like h is his DJ set?

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Speaker 3: DJA No, that's correct his What do you mean? So,

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Speaker 3: I like, he's not wrong, Like we did. I had

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Speaker 4: But once we got there, things took a turn, and

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Speaker 4: when we got back, he told me he was a DJ,

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Speaker 4: and he asked me if piek a place some of

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Speaker 4: his new stuff to get my opinion, and I said

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Speaker 3: Be nice, and then he proceeded to turn out the lights,

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Speaker 3: put on rave lights, and do a two hour DJ.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Lucky you. I mean, now, not everybody gets one

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Speaker 1: on one DJ Travis performance like that.

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Speaker 3: You'd think one or two songs maybe, but he just

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Speaker 3: even then took it up a notch and he was

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Speaker 3: is like, thank god that he gave me a drink first,

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Speaker 3: because it was brutal and before you ask, no, the

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Speaker 3: music was not.

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Speaker 1: Like pretending as though there was a crowd of some

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Speaker 1: kind and it was really just you, yes, exactly. Wow,

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Speaker 1: let me bring a DJ Travis in because I forgot

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Speaker 1: to mention that Travis is here. Travis. I had no

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Speaker 1: idea that you know, Diplo Arma Vambura and you know

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Speaker 1: stevee Okie, I had no idea.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's I mean, I'm like, my heart isn't like

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Speaker 2: my stomach.

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Speaker 1: That's this is.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe I was you know, I was very

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Speaker 2: vulnerable and I was showing her my my art, and honestly,

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Speaker 2: I can't believe getting bashed on the radio.

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Speaker 1: Port I mean, was he was showing you a passion

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Speaker 1: of his Shannon like he you know, obviously he's into

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Speaker 2: Two hours it was. It was barely it was barely

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Speaker 2: an hour and a half.

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Speaker 1: I have a time, I know how, you know, a

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Speaker 1: hard exit he had got hard stop.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, it's too still, too long, And yes, I understand,

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Speaker 3: like it's your art and I appreciate it for that,

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Speaker 3: but like just for future, like I wouldn't make any

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Speaker 4: Sit through it for an hour and a half to

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Speaker 1: It's such because.

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Speaker 2: You you seem to be into it. You were moving around,

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Speaker 2: you know, well, I had got at some point and

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Speaker 2: you were into it. I wish you could have just

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Speaker 2: told me, like in the middle.

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Speaker 1: I mean, look, I got to say this much, Travis.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate what you were trying to do, but an

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Speaker 2: He was lost in it like me. I thought we

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Speaker 2: were on the same page.

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Speaker 1: In the song. Yeah, lost in the music, lost in

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Speaker 1: the performance. She was very much not lost at all, Travis.

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Speaker 1: I'm not making fun of you for your passion or whatever.

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Speaker 1: But again, that's a long time to expect anyone. Because

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Speaker 1: she went over to your house thinking that you guys

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Speaker 1: were going to connect and you guys are going to

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Speaker 1: hang out, and she admitted she was into that. Well, no,

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Speaker 1: and then you went off and did it something that

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Speaker 1: was kind of all about you and I know that. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean she was okay. So we were talking

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Speaker 2: about poetry earlier, and you know, we didn't get around

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Speaker 2: both artists.

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Speaker 1: She would appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: I could sit there and listen to her.

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Speaker 1: We just didn't get to that. It's just it's time.

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Speaker 4: It was an hour and a half.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I recall it's a very long long performances, too long.

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Speaker 3: One song maybe too would have been great, way too.

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Speaker 1: Long, Yeah, Travis. How does one get a shout out

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Speaker 1: on your next set? You want to be voiceover? You don't, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Paulina does it a ninety minutes except for for a

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Speaker 1: hobby air every not a single night. So yeah, yeah, okay, Look,

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Speaker 1: so so.

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Speaker 2: I'm looking to I'm willing to look past it, you know, man,

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Speaker 2: I'm willing to like, let by gones be got bygones, and.

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Speaker 1: So you're willing to move forward. Okay, Okay, So look, Shannon,

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Speaker 1: he's he's willing to look past the fact that you

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Speaker 1: don't appreciate his art. Would you give him another shot

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Speaker 1: if we didn't have to do all that again?

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Speaker 3: I I's we can. I don't know, you know, I'm

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Speaker 3: really it's just like because it was so early on,

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Speaker 3: like in the dating process, it's just kind of really set.

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Speaker 1: The tone, and it's like I don't know, so so

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Speaker 1: yes or no.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 1: I don't blame you, girl, No, I'm thank you.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: All right, Hey, Travis le you're gonna find somebody who's

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Speaker 1: going to appreciate the art the way you do, and

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Speaker 1: you do you man and Shantus not the one. But

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Speaker 1: I wish you guys both the best of luck out there,

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Speaker 1: all right.

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Speaker 4: They