WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: Secret Selfie + Day Date Surprise 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.360 Hey, welcome to your extra dose of Second Day. It 0:00:02.480 --> 0:00:04.600 is your Saturday edition of the podcast. It's Brick and 0:00:04.640 --> 0:00:05.520 Jeffrey in the morning. 0:00:05.680 --> 0:00:06.480 Take more than one of. 0:00:06.480 --> 0:00:11.120 These, okay, and on us this is okay, no driving 0:00:11.400 --> 0:00:12.040 heavy machine. 0:00:12.080 --> 0:00:14.840 Yeah, okay, I got it, I got it. 0:00:14.840 --> 0:00:17.319 We got two classics for you. But I just have 0:00:17.400 --> 0:00:20.120 to mention we are in the middle of our Summer 0:00:20.200 --> 0:00:21.439 Day Challenge. 0:00:21.520 --> 0:00:22.200 I haven't heard it. 0:00:22.200 --> 0:00:25.240 It's where we dare each other to do ridiculously stupid things. 0:00:25.880 --> 0:00:30.840 And Jeff's challenge went down yesterday. The video is ridiculous. 0:00:31.040 --> 0:00:33.880 I shaved off half of his beard and we rebearded 0:00:33.960 --> 0:00:38.600 him with different craft items, so glitter, some craft moss, 0:00:38.640 --> 0:00:38.960 a lot of. 0:00:38.960 --> 0:00:42.600 Glues, a baby face. Yes, really hard get used to 0:00:42.640 --> 0:00:43.880 around here. The video. 0:00:44.320 --> 0:00:46.480 The videos up on all of our socials at Brook 0:00:46.520 --> 0:00:47.840 and Jeffrey, and people. 0:00:47.600 --> 0:00:50.360 Are going crazy in the coments. I love reading them. 0:00:50.400 --> 0:00:53.720 I got there's a I'm terrified but can't stop watching. 0:00:55.280 --> 0:00:58.200 Oh no, she's going the wrong way. 0:00:58.400 --> 0:00:59.640 I scared all the guys when. 0:00:59.800 --> 0:01:02.160 That I had never shaved a guy's face. I can't 0:01:02.160 --> 0:01:03.800 believe how hard y'all pushed with. 0:01:03.880 --> 0:01:06.360 That's Oh for real, I thought it was gonna take 0:01:06.400 --> 0:01:07.160 a skin off. 0:01:07.959 --> 0:01:14.759 The beard was Jeff, Now it's someone else. Oh no, yeah, go. 0:01:14.640 --> 0:01:17.280 Watch a video for another little form of entertainment at 0:01:17.360 --> 0:01:20.240 Jeff's expense. Hends up on our socials again at Brook 0:01:20.240 --> 0:01:22.199 and Jeffrey, and then sit back and enjoy your double 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:23.160 dose of second dates. 0:01:23.319 --> 0:01:24.120 Start right now. 0:01:25.560 --> 0:01:29.040 We've talked forever on this show about dating hacks. 0:01:29.319 --> 0:01:30.840 Oh yeah, so many. 0:01:30.800 --> 0:01:32.959 Tricks you can do on apps to get more swipes. 0:01:33.040 --> 0:01:36.800 People putting guys photos into AI to calculate their real height. 0:01:36.880 --> 0:01:38.319 Oh my god, that one was so smart. 0:01:38.800 --> 0:01:43.039 The dating world is a sneaky minefield nowadays, and today 0:01:43.560 --> 0:01:47.960 was no exceptions. You will not believe what one woman 0:01:48.120 --> 0:01:51.280 pulled off while she was out with a guy. It 0:01:51.400 --> 0:01:56.960 had Jose freaking out that this was even possible. You're 0:01:57.000 --> 0:01:59.720 gonna find out when we do your second date update 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:05.400 right after this second date update. If you're like me, 0:02:06.000 --> 0:02:09.720 you've wondered, is it possible to be too smooth on 0:02:09.760 --> 0:02:10.160 a date? 0:02:11.440 --> 0:02:12.280 I've been there. 0:02:13.680 --> 0:02:19.359 I'm putting hair moose on places where hair isn't that smooth? 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:25.480 Are Apparently one of our listeners, Cam believes that may 0:02:25.480 --> 0:02:30.760 have been his problem. Too smooth. During this day, Cam 0:02:30.880 --> 0:02:37.440 you moos in right now, Brod, because I am moosey 0:02:37.480 --> 0:02:40.080 goosey up in here. I am ready to hear the story. 0:02:40.120 --> 0:02:46.120 But Brook's getting too turned on by it. That's the problem. 0:02:47.000 --> 0:02:51.440 So Cam, you think you're so smooth? Huh smooth as. 0:02:51.160 --> 0:02:55.040 That's actually the problem is that she kept asking me like, 0:02:55.560 --> 0:02:58.240 are you a player? Are you so smooth? You pick 0:02:58.280 --> 0:03:01.160 up girls all the time? And I couldn't convince her. 0:03:01.160 --> 0:03:03.640 I was like, well, no, I met you. I like you, 0:03:03.720 --> 0:03:07.240 we had a connection. You would you Well, I don't know, 0:03:07.440 --> 0:03:10.720 she's just met the wrong people. She just kept asking. 0:03:10.800 --> 0:03:14.440 Well, maybe maybe you're more debonair and smooth than you realize. 0:03:14.480 --> 0:03:17.320 The sounds like a player to me. But I mean, 0:03:17.360 --> 0:03:19.680 it's interesting that you even had that conversation. How did 0:03:19.680 --> 0:03:21.640 you meet this girl? I'm assuming what's her? 0:03:23.000 --> 0:03:26.040 Well, her name is Ashley and we met at a 0:03:26.040 --> 0:03:26.600 food truck. 0:03:30.240 --> 0:03:30.920 How did that happen? 0:03:31.720 --> 0:03:34.440 Jose, you're going to get on a tangent. 0:03:34.680 --> 0:03:36.880 Well, I was out of the bars with some friends 0:03:37.200 --> 0:03:39.400 and we're getting kind of late, so I go to 0:03:39.440 --> 0:03:42.240 this food truck and I'm waiting for my nachos. 0:03:42.520 --> 0:03:43.440 Yeah, because it's. 0:03:43.320 --> 0:03:46.360 Always Mexican food after the bars, like smooth boys do 0:03:46.520 --> 0:03:47.440 with their nachos. 0:03:47.520 --> 0:03:51.160 Yeah, I know Alexis would fall in love with you. 0:03:53.800 --> 0:03:55.680 Yeah that's smart. 0:03:55.760 --> 0:03:59.960 So then there's this girl and she's dancing to the 0:04:00.480 --> 0:04:03.560 street musicians playing guitar. But she's really into the music, 0:04:04.200 --> 0:04:06.400 and so I just give her a hard time. I 0:04:06.400 --> 0:04:08.720 start picking on her. I'm like, wow, you must be really. 0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:12.320 Wasted because she likes to dance. 0:04:13.000 --> 0:04:15.640 Well, I mean it was a street guitar player. It 0:04:15.680 --> 0:04:17.160 wasn't like this was a rock show. 0:04:17.200 --> 0:04:23.120 You know, I don't call that smooth. 0:04:23.600 --> 0:04:27.480 What's not smooth? Street performer and criticizing someone's. 0:04:27.160 --> 0:04:32.960 Dancing, Yeah, exactly, I'm not smooth, Okay. 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:35.600 But she liked it, she liked be made fun of. 0:04:35.800 --> 0:04:38.000 Well, yeah, so she picks on me back. She's like, no, 0:04:38.040 --> 0:04:40.240 I'm not wasted. I actually like good music. Don't you 0:04:40.360 --> 0:04:43.240 like this music? So it turns out we start talking. 0:04:43.680 --> 0:04:46.000 We end up at a picnic table with her friends, 0:04:46.680 --> 0:04:48.880 and then her friends starts complaining I want to go 0:04:48.960 --> 0:04:51.040 home and we were having a good time. So her 0:04:51.040 --> 0:04:52.800 friend goes home. She and I actually go out for 0:04:52.880 --> 0:04:56.360 more drinks and we end up at my place. 0:04:56.839 --> 0:04:59.880 Wow, she's willing to ditch her friend group just to 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:02.320 out with you. I'm back on you being on the 0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:04.440 smooth training and honestly. 0:05:04.080 --> 0:05:06.159 Well, the truth is, her friend group actually kind of 0:05:06.200 --> 0:05:07.880 ditched her because they were the ones that want to 0:05:07.880 --> 0:05:08.200 go home. 0:05:08.560 --> 0:05:10.840 Yeah, there's always one in the girlfriend group that. 0:05:10.920 --> 0:05:14.040 Is like okay, yeah, no self control. 0:05:13.800 --> 0:05:15.440 Yeah obviously we'll see you tomorrow. 0:05:15.680 --> 0:05:17.800 Yeah, that would always. 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:19.680 Been Yeah, how did it go back at your place? 0:05:20.960 --> 0:05:23.360 Very well, I thought, until I woke up the next 0:05:23.360 --> 0:05:26.400 morning and she was gone, and I can't get a 0:05:26.400 --> 0:05:28.640 hold of her since then. But like I said, the 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:31.400 only thing I can think of is her main theme 0:05:31.440 --> 0:05:33.320 of the night was like how often do you pick 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:35.640 up girls? Are you a player? Is this what you 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:36.240 always do? 0:05:36.600 --> 0:05:38.680 It kind of makes sense why she would think that 0:05:38.760 --> 0:05:41.000 now because you picked her up and like you guys 0:05:41.000 --> 0:05:42.040 went back to your place. 0:05:42.480 --> 0:05:45.039 Well, no, I don't do that all the time. And 0:05:45.279 --> 0:05:47.440 I didn't just have a goal like we went and 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:49.239 had drinks first, like it just happened. 0:05:49.279 --> 0:05:52.080 Actually I know, I'm just saying, like the situation she's 0:05:52.080 --> 0:05:53.720 probably feeling. I would only think that if like at 0:05:53.720 --> 0:05:55.640 your house, did you have something that screamed player? 0:05:55.800 --> 0:05:58.039 Like extra toothbrush? Is a ton of them are like 0:05:58.120 --> 0:05:58.880 you brought up. 0:05:59.040 --> 0:06:00.280 That's actually a good point. 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:00.320 You know. 0:06:01.560 --> 0:06:03.520 Or an extra room labeled for the girls. 0:06:03.640 --> 0:06:08.799 Yes, do you have anything like that at your place? 0:06:09.120 --> 0:06:12.360 No? I would think an extra toothbrush would scream wife, but. 0:06:13.120 --> 0:06:18.080 It's not used you want to brush your teeth. I'm 0:06:18.440 --> 0:06:19.599 saving that for my wife. 0:06:19.640 --> 0:06:21.800 It's like I had pictures of my wedding all around, 0:06:22.960 --> 0:06:23.240 but I. 0:06:23.320 --> 0:06:26.280 Told her like, look, I'm just a bachelor. I'm not 0:06:26.360 --> 0:06:28.760 dating anyone else. We happen to beat it a food 0:06:28.760 --> 0:06:30.680 truck and we just hit it off, and so I'm like, 0:06:30.839 --> 0:06:33.320 what is going on? Why did she leave early and disappear? 0:06:33.400 --> 0:06:33.960 It's so weird. 0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:37.599 Her axe could have cheat it on her big player, 0:06:37.680 --> 0:06:39.000 so it could be other stuff. 0:06:38.800 --> 0:06:43.919 Is right, It could be uncomfortable to wake up the 0:06:43.960 --> 0:06:46.480 next morning when you're like completely sober. 0:06:46.080 --> 0:06:49.799 And some people just want to scurry out of it anything. 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:53.120 Yeah, exactly, No, I totally understand that. But look now 0:06:53.160 --> 0:06:56.600 it's been four days and you at least text somebody back, 0:06:56.680 --> 0:06:59.320 Like I've been texting her and she won't even respond. 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:02.039 But you really liked her. You're saying you could have 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:03.680 seen more than just one night of fun. 0:07:04.320 --> 0:07:07.240 Absolutely, I thought, you know, we were great together. 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:11.160 He probably doesn't believe you. Yes, it sounds like already 0:07:11.240 --> 0:07:12.840 she's like, no way, this guy's. 0:07:12.640 --> 0:07:15.400 Not well, we'll try and call her and change her 0:07:15.440 --> 0:07:18.400 mind that you're not smooth and you're not cool y. 0:07:19.080 --> 0:07:22.040 You are just a totally average regular type. 0:07:22.040 --> 0:07:22.880 Never gets women. 0:07:23.040 --> 0:07:26.560 Yeah, nobody wants You've never even been with a woman before. 0:07:26.720 --> 0:07:29.840 Yeah, this is more like Coldie Locks and the Three Bears. 0:07:29.840 --> 0:07:31.880 The porridge is too hot, the porge is too cold. 0:07:31.960 --> 0:07:33.480 Let's just keep it in the middle. 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:37.520 No, yeah, we're going full extreme one way or the other. 0:07:37.640 --> 0:07:39.600 Yeah, he's not a virgin, but one time he got 0:07:39.600 --> 0:07:40.240 to second base. 0:07:40.320 --> 0:07:44.480 Yeah wait, still be a virgin. Yeah, let's just call her. 0:07:44.520 --> 0:07:46.200 We'll see what she has to say for your second 0:07:46.280 --> 0:07:46.840 date update. 0:07:47.040 --> 0:07:52.320 Right after this second date update, we're in the middle 0:07:52.360 --> 0:07:53.440 of a second date update. 0:07:53.480 --> 0:07:54.520 It's broken Jeffrey in. 0:07:54.440 --> 0:07:57.600 The morning, having kind of an interesting discussion in the studio. 0:07:58.160 --> 0:08:00.840 Is it possible to tell if a guy is a 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:04.600 player right away? Like just in general when you meet 0:08:04.680 --> 0:08:06.960 what are the signs that could point to that? Because 0:08:07.000 --> 0:08:10.160 maybe we could figure this out before we even call her. 0:08:10.440 --> 0:08:12.800 Oh if he if our listener is a player, because 0:08:12.880 --> 0:08:13.680 why she thinks he. 0:08:13.680 --> 0:08:14.440 Is our listener. 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:17.360 Cam was accused of being a player by the girl 0:08:17.360 --> 0:08:20.240 he went out with Ashley the other night. And I'm wondering, Brooke, like, 0:08:20.320 --> 0:08:23.200 what are the signs that tell you a guy is 0:08:23.240 --> 0:08:23.680 a player? 0:08:23.680 --> 0:08:24.280 What do you think? 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:27.520 Sane? I would say like using any sort of pet name. 0:08:27.960 --> 0:08:37.440 Right, like Beethoven. No, that's probably not a good sun. 0:08:37.960 --> 0:08:41.600 I'd also say like any sort of like touching or 0:08:41.640 --> 0:08:45.559 really intense eye contact like a shoulder rub or or 0:08:45.600 --> 0:08:47.800 there's like you know, like the pop callar, like the 0:08:47.800 --> 0:08:48.880 Ferrari keychain. 0:08:49.040 --> 0:08:53.640 Like, Okay, I guess I'm not going to bring my 0:08:53.679 --> 0:08:54.679 Ferrari out on a dab. 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:56.800 Sure what am I supposed to bring? 0:08:56.840 --> 0:08:57.160 I don't know. 0:08:59.080 --> 0:08:59.920 I'm sorry any for. 0:09:01.360 --> 0:09:04.880 Yeah, okay, so there are some signs there. 0:09:05.000 --> 0:09:06.800 I mean, maybe we could just break this down ourselves 0:09:06.880 --> 0:09:11.080 right now, Cam, do you own any Ferrari money? Did 0:09:11.120 --> 0:09:13.360 you use a pet name when talking to Ashley? 0:09:15.080 --> 0:09:15.280 Uh? 0:09:16.160 --> 0:09:16.400 No? 0:09:17.600 --> 0:09:20.920 Long pause there. Think that's good. 0:09:20.960 --> 0:09:23.480 Well, I just think it's funny that, Like I was like, 0:09:23.600 --> 0:09:25.960 I own a Ferrari, Like where did that come from? 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:28.599 But then I realized, oh, the key chain, No, No, 0:09:28.679 --> 0:09:29.600 it's definitely not. 0:09:30.000 --> 0:09:33.560 I mean anything where it's like you're over compensating. You're like, yeah, 0:09:33.640 --> 0:09:34.959 trying to make it look like you have a lot 0:09:35.000 --> 0:09:35.520 of money. 0:09:35.720 --> 0:09:38.760 I mean, I remind you we met at a food truck, 0:09:39.040 --> 0:09:41.319 not a Michelin star restaurant. 0:09:41.679 --> 0:09:45.080 Yeah yeah, nor did you order side walk because that 0:09:45.080 --> 0:09:45.880 could mean the same. 0:09:46.960 --> 0:09:50.440 That's oh, be talking right there, big spender. Yeah you 0:09:50.559 --> 0:09:50.880 caught me. 0:09:51.080 --> 0:09:53.920 Okay, so you're still up in the air. 0:09:54.000 --> 0:09:56.280 We don't know for sure if any of this even 0:09:56.320 --> 0:09:59.280 matters to her, Like it could be something completely different 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:00.680 than has her knock calling you back. 0:10:00.760 --> 0:10:02.479 So let's just dial. 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:14.320 Up Ashley and find out. Here we go, Hello, Hey 0:10:14.400 --> 0:10:15.000 is this Ashley? 0:10:16.480 --> 0:10:19.959 Yeah, Hey Ashley. 0:10:20.600 --> 0:10:22.600 Not sure if you're ready for this, but welcome to 0:10:22.679 --> 0:10:24.640 a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey. 0:10:24.240 --> 0:10:24.760 In the Morning. 0:10:26.840 --> 0:10:32.800 Okay, probably because what we're doing here is a segment 0:10:32.840 --> 0:10:36.080 called a second Date Update. We are reaching out on 0:10:36.200 --> 0:10:38.600 behalf of one of our listeners. It's a guy that 0:10:38.640 --> 0:10:40.080 you met just a few days ago. 0:10:40.679 --> 0:10:42.000 Actually pretty cute. 0:10:42.080 --> 0:10:44.480 I think he really wants to see you again because 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:45.400 his name is Cam. 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:49.679 Oh you remember Cam the truck. 0:10:51.440 --> 0:10:51.480 Go. 0:10:51.880 --> 0:10:53.439 Oh my god, I don't believe them all. 0:10:53.640 --> 0:10:58.280 Yeah, yeah, that's a glory review. 0:10:58.520 --> 0:10:59.920 That means there's more to the story. 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:01.120 Why do you feel that way? 0:11:01.200 --> 0:11:03.720 What happened that night, because we've heard a little bit 0:11:03.760 --> 0:11:05.079 of the story from Cam. 0:11:05.360 --> 0:11:07.440 Oh and he said such nice things about you. 0:11:07.360 --> 0:11:14.480 About oh my god. No, let's just say I should 0:11:14.480 --> 0:11:18.240 have known at the taco truck red flag way too 0:11:18.320 --> 0:11:20.760 comfortable approaching me, Like what now? 0:11:21.120 --> 0:11:23.079 Wait? Wait, okay, too comfortable? 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:24.360 What is the red flag? 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:26.360 Because he said he you he was making fun of 0:11:26.400 --> 0:11:28.120 your dancing, remember your street dancing? 0:11:28.679 --> 0:11:35.040 Oh really? Oh god, just he just like, I don't know, like. 0:11:36.640 --> 0:11:37.839 He's gave me player vibes. 0:11:37.920 --> 0:11:41.400 All right, Well you mentioned that you said to him 0:11:41.440 --> 0:11:43.800 you thought he was a player, and he denied it 0:11:44.000 --> 0:11:45.080 multiple times. 0:11:45.400 --> 0:11:46.800 Yeah, he did many It. 0:11:46.800 --> 0:11:48.520 Didn't bother you enough to go home with him, so. 0:11:50.040 --> 0:11:52.320 Great he told you about that too, awesome. 0:11:52.440 --> 0:11:54.880 Great, Well you went over and spent the night. 0:11:54.880 --> 0:11:57.000 He didn't say anything, no details about it. 0:11:57.040 --> 0:12:00.280 But the one detail that he is totally missing is like, 0:12:00.400 --> 0:12:02.440 why haven't you spoken to him? Because he's trying to 0:12:02.440 --> 0:12:04.719 text you and you are not responding at all. 0:12:05.880 --> 0:12:09.440 Okay, So we've been drinking a lot and he kind 0:12:09.440 --> 0:12:12.440 of passed out like nothing actually happened. Okay, and my 0:12:12.520 --> 0:12:14.840 friends had told about this trick that they do to 0:12:14.920 --> 0:12:19.240 like check if a guy is saying who they say they. 0:12:19.160 --> 0:12:19.760 Are or whatever. 0:12:20.720 --> 0:12:23.960 I know it's really sneaky, But when he was passed out, 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:27.640 I took a live shorto of his face with my 0:12:27.720 --> 0:12:31.800 phone and then, god, I can't believe I'm telling him. 0:12:32.760 --> 0:12:34.840 I kind of went over to his phone and like 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:36.559 held it over and it. 0:12:36.640 --> 0:12:43.240 Opened, opened his phone. Yeah, I get, it's. 0:12:44.920 --> 0:12:46.439 Probably just play candy crush on it. 0:12:46.480 --> 0:12:49.480 Right, dude, I wish that's all I found. 0:12:50.160 --> 0:12:51.520 I'm sorry, that's kind of crazy. 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:54.240 I mean, that's a smart move. I'm sorry. I would 0:12:54.240 --> 0:12:56.600 hate it to happen to me, but that is brilliant. 0:12:56.880 --> 0:12:59.680 Violent What did you find on his phone? 0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:03.200 Okay, the whole I'm not a player, I'm not talking 0:13:03.160 --> 0:13:06.240 another girl, blah blah blah. Within like ten seconds, I 0:13:06.240 --> 0:13:08.679 could see that was a complete lie. 0:13:08.920 --> 0:13:11.160 Well yeah, everybody would lie about that, Like what are 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:14.280 you gonna say, I'm actually. 0:13:13.920 --> 0:13:16.480 Talking to ten other women right now, like come home. 0:13:16.280 --> 0:13:19.560 With me, like so many, so many texts, Like it 0:13:19.640 --> 0:13:22.040 was ridiculous, and I'm thinking, like how many times does 0:13:22.080 --> 0:13:24.640 he like met these girls and taco trucks? Like is 0:13:24.679 --> 0:13:26.200 this this thing? Is you hang out of the tackle 0:13:26.280 --> 0:13:27.040 truck is. 0:13:27.679 --> 0:13:29.440 Back and it HAPs with him right there. So why 0:13:29.480 --> 0:13:30.000 do you care? 0:13:30.320 --> 0:13:32.480 I mean, you went home like a one night stand, 0:13:32.679 --> 0:13:34.400 Like it's just like, what do you expect? 0:13:34.960 --> 0:13:36.160 Yeah, I didn't think it was going to be a 0:13:36.160 --> 0:13:37.719 one night stand. I didn't know it was good. I 0:13:37.800 --> 0:13:40.120 was hoping for a relationship. We seem to click. I 0:13:40.200 --> 0:13:41.400 just know I had a feeling. 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:42.960 I mean, I could think he thinks you're a player. 0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:44.439 You go home with a random guy for the taco 0:13:44.440 --> 0:13:45.360 truck to break in. 0:13:48.120 --> 0:13:48.560 Crazy. 0:13:51.960 --> 0:13:54.640 I do believe that he really really likes you, and 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:57.640 that maybe maybe he will be a reformed. 0:13:57.160 --> 0:14:00.440 Player, like you know, twenty other women all at the 0:14:00.480 --> 0:14:04.400 same time about hers. That is true. 0:14:04.400 --> 0:14:06.120 But I am a little bit mad that he lied 0:14:06.160 --> 0:14:07.679 to us about texting other women. 0:14:07.920 --> 0:14:10.360 We didn't ask, We didn't have to. 0:14:10.440 --> 0:14:13.400 He just came out and said that are shows. 0:14:13.600 --> 0:14:15.240 He said that he wasn't talking to anybody else. 0:14:15.280 --> 0:14:17.000 That's what he said in the first part. But now 0:14:17.000 --> 0:14:18.079 I want to ask him again. 0:14:18.400 --> 0:14:21.520 Cam Kim, You've got a jilted man on the phone 0:14:21.600 --> 0:14:24.080 named Jeffrey. 0:14:23.000 --> 0:14:26.520 This is a real violation of privacy. 0:14:26.760 --> 0:14:27.960 Oh not a. 0:14:27.920 --> 0:14:28.880 Good first thing to say. 0:14:29.360 --> 0:14:33.240 You just say no, by the way, true. 0:14:33.320 --> 0:14:36.560 But also by the way, Ashley, Cam has been listening 0:14:36.600 --> 0:14:40.080 to this conversation the entire time. Another lie that he 0:14:40.120 --> 0:14:45.880 didn't come forward with. I'm just saying, Jeff, it's the truth. 0:14:46.000 --> 0:14:48.680 He didn't mention anything. So Cam, go ahead talk to 0:14:48.720 --> 0:14:50.560 Ashley there and trying to defend yourself. 0:14:50.560 --> 0:14:52.960 I guess. I mean, that's not cool to look for 0:14:53.080 --> 0:14:53.480 my song. 0:14:54.120 --> 0:14:58.360 Okay, so you're telling me over and over again you're 0:14:58.360 --> 0:15:00.840 not a player. Not only are you a player, but 0:15:00.920 --> 0:15:01.720 now you're a liar. 0:15:02.120 --> 0:15:02.360 Yeah. 0:15:02.840 --> 0:15:04.960 No, I just think you need to You can't just 0:15:05.080 --> 0:15:06.880 dig like that. That's not cool. You should give me 0:15:06.920 --> 0:15:08.920 a chance to, you know, get to know you myself, 0:15:09.880 --> 0:15:10.400 to lie. 0:15:10.240 --> 0:15:11.760 To me some more like are you kidding me? 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:13.560 Who are these girls? 0:15:13.640 --> 0:15:14.080 Chloe? 0:15:14.280 --> 0:15:15.000 Will we the other going on? 0:15:15.520 --> 0:15:18.000 Oh yeah, the pictures from I think her name was April. 0:15:18.600 --> 0:15:21.200 Maybe they were not girls that you're dating. Maybe they 0:15:21.200 --> 0:15:26.160 were family members. Oh my god, Brook talks like that 0:15:26.200 --> 0:15:27.320 to her family members. 0:15:28.720 --> 0:15:30.600 You know that is not. 0:15:32.840 --> 0:15:34.120 I'm just trying to help. 0:15:34.280 --> 0:15:37.560 Maybe there's an explanation that Cam is not jumping in 0:15:37.600 --> 0:15:38.360 and offering up. 0:15:38.840 --> 0:15:41.480 Think Cam need to explain why he was lying, because 0:15:41.520 --> 0:15:44.400 obviously you were you got caught like one lie. 0:15:44.600 --> 0:15:48.280 Well, honestly, I'm more curious about the little phone hack game, Like, 0:15:48.320 --> 0:15:49.560 what the hell was that all about? 0:15:50.320 --> 0:15:53.280 That is kind of like cia press level that. 0:15:53.600 --> 0:15:55.760 I mean, I had an instinct and I followed it. 0:15:55.880 --> 0:15:56.880 I just knew. 0:15:56.960 --> 0:15:58.640 I knew you were lying, and I had to prove 0:15:58.720 --> 0:16:01.960 it before I left, so I didn't do something stupid like. 0:16:02.040 --> 0:16:04.760 Well, yeah, I think it's interesting that you use the 0:16:04.760 --> 0:16:07.520 word instinct there, Ashley, because say what you will about 0:16:07.600 --> 0:16:11.320 violation of privacy, and you're crossing boundaries. Bottom line is, 0:16:11.360 --> 0:16:14.320 you don't go through somebody else's phone unless you really 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:19.520 care about them. Something deep inside of your heart told 0:16:19.560 --> 0:16:22.440 you you need to steal this man's face and lead 0:16:22.600 --> 0:16:25.840 his text messages to make sure he's the right guy 0:16:25.920 --> 0:16:29.000 for you. I would follow that instinct all the way 0:16:29.080 --> 0:16:30.560 that Chili's. 0:16:29.960 --> 0:16:31.960 For a real date that we pay for. 0:16:32.400 --> 0:16:35.120 Wow, we owe it to your heart, to your instincts 0:16:35.160 --> 0:16:36.280 to see this through. 0:16:36.200 --> 0:16:36.800 And that's a food. 0:16:38.160 --> 0:16:39.920 I have a feeling that that was not going to 0:16:39.960 --> 0:16:40.640 work on Ashley. 0:16:40.760 --> 0:16:43.280 I want to know that instinct came from somewhere. 0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:45.720 That instinct came from me, not want to be fooled again. 0:16:47.120 --> 0:16:50.320 Yeah, but I said, Chili's did you hear me? Those 0:16:50.360 --> 0:16:51.440 baby back ribs. 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:54.800 Are worth It's they're not even sponsoring us. 0:16:54.800 --> 0:16:57.160 And I'm throwing that out there like it's the true. 0:16:57.040 --> 0:17:02.560 Love pushing him. It's not happening. So just I don't 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:05.080 know what you're doing with this phone call. Just forget it, 0:17:05.200 --> 0:17:06.119 like to lose my number. 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:09.240 Man, that's pretty clear there, Cam. 0:17:11.359 --> 0:17:12.120 He messed up. 0:17:12.240 --> 0:17:14.840 Dude, fin'd been deleted that picture of my face? 0:17:15.560 --> 0:17:17.000 Oh I already did. 0:17:17.080 --> 0:17:17.919 Don't worry about that. 0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:21.280 I thought for sure she would have printed it out 0:17:21.320 --> 0:17:21.760 and framed it. 0:17:24.320 --> 0:17:25.800 Just post that picture right on the side of the 0:17:25.840 --> 0:17:27.960 taco truck for the next girl that he games down. 0:17:28.960 --> 0:17:31.280 That's not a bad idea. 0:17:31.359 --> 0:17:33.960 Look, I'm only there Thursday through Saturday. It's not that 0:17:34.000 --> 0:17:34.439 big a can. 0:17:34.560 --> 0:17:38.080 Okay, it's brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:38.320 --> 0:17:41.680 Did we just unlock a dangerous new life hack for 0:17:41.880 --> 0:17:42.640 couples too? 0:17:42.960 --> 0:17:43.200 Yeah? 0:17:43.240 --> 0:17:43.600 We did. 0:17:43.720 --> 0:17:45.639 I'm telling you that's why I don't have my face 0:17:45.680 --> 0:17:46.560 idea on my phone. 0:17:46.720 --> 0:17:48.440 Oh yeah, got any number? You know? 0:17:48.720 --> 0:17:51.560 Michael opening up your phone finding that Silver Singles account 0:17:51.560 --> 0:17:54.400 that you've been hiding out there reading all the smut 0:17:54.440 --> 0:17:57.440 you right on there. 0:17:56.400 --> 0:17:59.040