1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:01,280 Speaker 1: And you're here. 2 00:00:01,440 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 2: Thanks for choosing the iHeartRadio and Coast to Ghost Day 3 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 2: and Paranormal Podcast Network. Your quest for podcasts of the paranormal, supernatural, 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:12,319 Speaker 2: and the unexplained ends here. We invite you to enjoy 5 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 2: all our shows we have on this network, and right now, 6 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:18,759 Speaker 2: let's start with Chase of the Afterlife with Sandra Champlain. 7 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 3: Welcome to our podcast. Please be aware the thoughts and 8 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 3: opinions expressed by the host are their thoughts and opinions 9 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:34,480 Speaker 3: only and do not reflect those of iHeartMedia, iHeartRadio, Coast 10 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 3: to Coast, AM employees of Premiere Networks, or their sponsors 11 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 3: and associates. We would like to encourage you to do 12 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 3: your own research and discover the subject matter for yourself. Hi, 13 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 3: I'm Sandra Champlain. For over twenty five years, I've been 14 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 3: on a journey to prove the existence of life after death. 15 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 3: On each episodisode, we'll discuss the reasons we now know 16 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 3: that our loved ones have survived physical death and so 17 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 3: will we. Welcome to Shades of the Afterlife. We've spoken 18 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 3: a lot in the past about dreams we have at 19 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:18,119 Speaker 3: night of our deceased loved ones. You know those dream 20 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 3: visitations also lucid dreaming, getting into that very real space 21 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:26,759 Speaker 3: and inviting your loved one in. Dreams of our loved 22 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 3: one are so comforting. But today we're going at a 23 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 3: different angle. This is in that time between just waking 24 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 3: up or just falling asleep and being awake and inviting 25 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 3: our loved ones in through the dream gate. Today you'll 26 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 3: meet doctor Janet Pete A Latto, who is a psychologist 27 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 3: and has given her life to the dreaming world. She 28 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 3: holds two doctorates, including one in trans personal psychology, where 29 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 3: she studied with doctor Stanley Kripner, a world renowned dream psychologist. 30 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 3: Through her writing, she offers a glimpse of the inner 31 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 3: world that we can access through our dreams. Let's meet 32 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 3: doctor Janet. 33 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 4: I am a dreamer, and most people who do know 34 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:21,080 Speaker 4: me know that I already have my memorial stone in 35 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 4: the ground, probably for the last fifteen twenty years, and 36 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 4: beneath my name it says dreamer. I look at a 37 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 4: life that I've worn many hats. I've been a daughter, 38 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 4: a wife, a mother. I've been a professor, I've been 39 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:39,359 Speaker 4: an author, but I've always been a dreamer through all 40 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 4: of it. So while the hats come off, and I 41 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:45,080 Speaker 4: move through different phases and new chapters may open in 42 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 4: my life. It is the dream gate that basically gives 43 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 4: me life. Most of us look at our lives and say, 44 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 4: we get up in the morning, we go to work, 45 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 4: we see, feel here, touch and taste everything around us. 46 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 4: We communicate with our physical world, but we're only half awake. 47 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,079 Speaker 5: If that's all we pay attention to. 48 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 4: Sandra, it really is moving the waking world to join 49 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 4: with the dream world, to elevate consciousness. Consciousness is all 50 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 4: around us. We sit in consciousness, as opposed to those 51 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 4: who think consciousness is and little envelopes inside our brain. 52 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 4: The Egyptians pulled the brain out and threw it away. 53 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 4: They were right because it's only a transformer. But that invisible, 54 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 4: hidden part of ourselves, thesaura mystica, is really what life's about. 55 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 4: And for me, that's the reason why I'm alive without it. 56 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 4: What I see in the physical world is not enough 57 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 4: to seduce me to be here. But when I join 58 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 4: my dream gait information all of what I get and 59 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 4: I don't mean dream by just putting the head on 60 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 4: the pillow, going to sleep at night and perchance remembering 61 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 4: one out of the five dreams that we have. Every 62 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 4: ninety minutes. At night, we're going to have a dream. 63 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 4: We just don't remember it because we don't wake up, 64 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 4: and memories of dream material made at night are not 65 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 4: stored the same way as our working material during the day, 66 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 4: And so we may get one dream at night we remember, 67 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 4: and if we're clever enough, we write it down. I 68 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 4: have thousands of pages of dreams from the time I 69 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 4: was a child, and those dreams will still have something 70 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 4: to tell me, because the superficial of the story of 71 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 4: the dream is not what we need to see. It's 72 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 4: what's beneath it, and that's what dream therapy is about. 73 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:33,919 Speaker 4: The dream may tell us that there's a particular person 74 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:37,839 Speaker 4: in a particular place and particular events, but each one 75 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 4: of those is an image, and that image is a doorway, 76 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 4: and that doorway brings us to remember something else, until 77 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 4: in the end we have this Eureka moment when we say, oh, 78 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 4: my goodness, this dream is telling me something that you 79 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:55,360 Speaker 4: need to know in your life that you've missed. Do 80 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 4: we only get it during sleep? Absolutely not. 81 00:04:58,279 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 3: During the day. 82 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 4: We can be out of you to doing our work, 83 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 4: and all of a sudden, like bubbles in a champagne glass. 84 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 5: Material rises. 85 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 4: We're thinking about someone, we're thinking about event in our life, 86 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 4: or if it's someone like me, Suddenly I'm in Egypt 87 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:16,039 Speaker 4: and I'm seeing my friend, my families that are in Egypt, 88 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 4: and I'm seeing them doing certain things, and I can 89 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 4: pick up the phone and call them. We call that 90 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:24,719 Speaker 4: remote vision, and I'm seeing something that happens. Why, it's 91 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:27,360 Speaker 4: not out of body. If we're out of body, we did, 92 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 4: but when we extend our body, expanded body is what 93 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 4: I like to call it. We have an expanded experience 94 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:38,880 Speaker 4: because we're welcoming consciousness all around us. It's very shamanic. 95 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 4: What does a shaman do? Or shaman goes into the 96 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 4: dream world? What do the Aborigines do? They go into 97 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 4: the dream world. That doesn't mean that you put your 98 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 4: head on the pillow and go to sleep. If each 99 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 4: person in life would only do this, would be aware 100 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:55,480 Speaker 4: of they're standing in a grocery store and all of 101 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 4: a sudden, they're remembering being a child, and their grandmother 102 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:01,279 Speaker 4: is making a cake that they like, and they're sitting 103 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 4: down and they're talking to her. If they would realize 104 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:08,480 Speaker 4: that that's a message you're seeing something on a landscape 105 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:12,919 Speaker 4: that's not around you, that's not in your physical environment. 106 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:16,479 Speaker 4: But you've gone beyond time and space to connect with 107 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:20,280 Speaker 4: something or someone that's not in your environment right then 108 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 4: and there, and you've put that material down, and of 109 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 4: course you begin to analyze it and walk through the 110 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 4: doorways as to what it's going to tell you. 111 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:30,279 Speaker 5: For me, this is what life is about. 112 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 4: I've had tragedies in my life, and if that's all 113 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:36,039 Speaker 4: I would be looking at, why would I want to 114 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 4: be here? I would say life is just tough, and 115 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 4: these tragedies are not pleasant. Therefore I could curl up 116 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 4: in the corner and cry all day or say it's unfair. 117 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 4: But I don't look at it that way. Every tragedy 118 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 4: is an opportunity. The heart breaks open so that more 119 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:54,679 Speaker 4: can happen and we can see more. And by going 120 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 4: into the dream, we understand our life here is so transient. 121 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:02,600 Speaker 4: Look at all of the generations and millennium that have 122 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:06,840 Speaker 4: passed before us, Sandra, They've all gone somewhere and we're 123 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 4: going to join them. We're going to connect with every 124 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 4: one of those ancestors, and we can do it here 125 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 4: and now too. So my life is very much about 126 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 4: walking that magical path of the viamistical mystical path. What 127 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 4: I see in waking reality is important. We have to 128 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 4: pay our bills, we have to pay the taxes, we 129 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 4: have to eat. Yes, and I have a chef's degree 130 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:31,360 Speaker 4: as a pastry chef. I went to the French Culinarians 131 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 4: and actually moved into the city while I took the coursing. 132 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 4: And unfortunately, my first born, my little Jeannette, developed leukemia, 133 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 4: and then shortly after, unfortunately, my beautiful son Ignatius passed 134 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 4: away with aortic stenosis. 135 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 5: I've grown up with death. 136 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 4: I often tell people, and this is good for anyone 137 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:52,680 Speaker 4: who's suffering and has lost a loved one, that we 138 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 4: have the story of the Garden of Eden, and there's 139 00:07:55,440 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 4: a tree in that garden, and the Judeo Christian story 140 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 4: where we eat off the tree, and this is why 141 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 4: we are sent down as the fall from grace. And 142 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 4: I have a little different interpretation. We have a fall, 143 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 4: but it's not a fall because we did something wrong. 144 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 4: It's a falling consciousness. We're in that garden and there's 145 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 4: a tree, and there's wisdom on that tree, and that 146 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 4: wisdom is spoken by the snake, the snake that's immortal, 147 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 4: that sheds its coat and becomes new over and again, 148 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 4: that never dies. And the snake tells us, come, would 149 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 4: you like a bite of the apple? But there's a 150 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:38,360 Speaker 4: contract if you want that apple. The apple is bittersweet, 151 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:42,120 Speaker 4: and if you wish to bite it, the contract is 152 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 4: that you will suffer as well as having joy. You'll 153 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 4: see your beautiful life, but you'll also be disappointed in things. 154 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:53,319 Speaker 4: You'll have losses, and you'll have gains, all pairs of opposites. 155 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:56,360 Speaker 4: Would you like to experience this? And so each one 156 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:59,679 Speaker 4: of us that's here has bitten into that apple. And 157 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 4: the cooks of the matter is there's always an image 158 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:07,840 Speaker 4: of Adam and Eve being escorted by an angel through 159 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 4: a doorway through which the grim reaper stands. Death is 160 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 4: by the doorway. And if we understand that that's the 161 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 4: hope that death will bring us back to the great 162 00:09:19,679 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 4: Garden of Eden, that's the promise that we're going to 163 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 4: be born. But the birth that brings us here, there's 164 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:30,839 Speaker 4: another birth that brings us back into the garden. Death 165 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 4: is our best friend, saying that our life here as 166 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 4: wonderful or as horrible as it can be is all transient. 167 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 4: Every moment is flowing toward our return home. And I 168 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:46,079 Speaker 4: can look at this and say, truly, I had an 169 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 4: experience which showed me one hundred percent this is what 170 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:53,360 Speaker 4: it is. My daughter was ill for five years and 171 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:56,440 Speaker 4: she was taken care of in Slow Memorial in Manhattan. 172 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:57,320 Speaker 5: I met many. 173 00:09:57,120 --> 00:10:00,680 Speaker 4: People with children like mine that were on the line 174 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 4: to go home. And it was interesting because at this 175 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:06,320 Speaker 4: place I met people from all over the world that 176 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 4: I'm still very dear friends with. We experienced something that 177 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 4: no one wants to experience, and yet it opened our 178 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:17,080 Speaker 4: eyes to something great. When my daughter was at the 179 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 4: very end and the hospital could do no more for her, 180 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 4: they sent her home and they sent me all the 181 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 4: injections and everything to do for her, to give her 182 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:28,839 Speaker 4: the infusions, and I would wake her up at four 183 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 4: o'clock in the morning. I still wake up every four 184 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 4: o'clock in the morning, and I would have to attach 185 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 4: her medporch to the chemo. But the chemo would only 186 00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:40,360 Speaker 4: run forty minutes, and I was not given a chas 187 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 4: of sailing that I could go to sleep, so I 188 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:46,040 Speaker 4: would kneel on the wooden floor. And it was September 189 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 4: because she was in palliative care under me from September 190 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 4: through January, and while I was on the floor, I 191 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 4: would have my rosary beads with me. I'd just say 192 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:57,440 Speaker 4: the one prayer over and over and over and over 193 00:10:57,520 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 4: and just don't think. And that's what I would be 194 00:10:59,880 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 4: doing at four o'clock in the morning, watching the chemo drop. 195 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 4: And suddenly I found myself on the ceiling of the room, 196 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:11,319 Speaker 4: looking down at my body that was saying the rosary, 197 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 4: my daughter that was getting the chemo, and I heard 198 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 4: a voice, and the voice said to me, you agreed 199 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 4: to this? Do you remember? And believe me? 200 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:21,960 Speaker 5: Sandra? 201 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 4: When I was up on that ceiling, I'm not only 202 00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 4: remembered and knew that I agreed, but I also knew 203 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:31,839 Speaker 4: that it was absolutely no big deal. It was as 204 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:34,560 Speaker 4: though I had agreed that my daughter would go and 205 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,120 Speaker 4: play in the park for a while without me, and 206 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 4: then I would eventually go to join huh. And then 207 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 4: all of a sudden I would be washed back into 208 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 4: my body and I'd say, what was that I agreed 209 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 4: to that? That's horrible. And I would move through September, October, November, December. 210 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:56,079 Speaker 4: Every week she had that infusion that I had to 211 00:11:56,120 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 4: give her a chemo. By the time she passed away, 212 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:02,559 Speaker 4: I was totally convinced that there was a truth to that, 213 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 4: that each one of us has a pre birth contract. 214 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 4: We bite into that apple, but we're given choices of 215 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:12,440 Speaker 4: what we're going to experience in life, and then we're 216 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 4: sent and usually there's the story of being dipped into 217 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 4: the what is a forgetfulness? So if we realize death 218 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 4: is our friend because we're going home and we're not home, 219 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 4: we're visiting here, we're visiting. And I remember telling my 220 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:28,959 Speaker 4: mother that when I was a child I was visiting, 221 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:32,559 Speaker 4: she wasn't really my mother, the family wasn't really my family, 222 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 4: and my name is not really Janet because who was 223 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 4: I before she gave me that name. 224 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 3: I'm going to stop Janet here until after the break 225 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:44,320 Speaker 3: because she goes into a story about meeting up with 226 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 3: her grandfather who is deceased. Now, notice that Janet had 227 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:54,320 Speaker 3: those supernatural experiences at four o'clock in the morning while 228 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:57,720 Speaker 3: she was giving her daughter chemo. There's something about that 229 00:12:57,880 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 3: twilight time. Hear more from her when we get back. 230 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 3: You're listening to shades of the afterlife on the iHeartRadio 231 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 3: and Coast to Coast AM Paranormal Podcast Network. 232 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 1: Stay right there. There's more Sandra common right out Hey 233 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 1: the Coast to Coast a YouTube channel. Cham Go to 234 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 1: Coast to Coast am dot com for more information. Hi, 235 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 1: it's doctor Sky. 236 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 6: Keep it right here on the iHeart Radio and Coast 237 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 6: to Coast AM Pyronormal Podcast Network. 238 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:12,080 Speaker 3: Welcome back to Shades of the Afterlife. I'm Sandra Champlain 239 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:16,840 Speaker 3: and we're here with doctor Janet Peter Lado Dream Expert. 240 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:17,720 Speaker 5: I was home. 241 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 4: I was not in school yet, so I was about 242 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 4: four years old. My mom got a phone call that 243 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 4: my grandfather, her father, had taken a stroke, and we 244 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 4: went down to Grandpa's house. I stood by his bed 245 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:32,840 Speaker 4: and I held his hand as Grandpa died, and Grandpa 246 00:14:32,880 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 4: passed away holding my hand, and my mother opened up 247 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 4: my fingers and brought me home and I ran up 248 00:14:39,320 --> 00:14:41,600 Speaker 4: to my bedroom to play, and Grandpa was sitting on 249 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 4: the bed and we played and talked. When I was 250 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 4: taken as a little girl in my little white dress 251 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 4: that my mom made me to the funeral, Paula. I 252 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 4: still hate Gladiola's. 253 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:51,920 Speaker 5: To this day. 254 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 4: The whole hole was lined with them. And Grandpa was 255 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 4: in his box, and I couldn't understand because I knew 256 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 4: he was still all right. And he came to visit 257 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 4: me again on the eve of my wedding, coming into 258 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:08,680 Speaker 4: my bedroom. So I've been extremely lucky. My daughter also 259 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 4: appeared to me after she passed away. It's very interesting 260 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 4: because it was twenty five years after her death. I 261 00:15:17,040 --> 00:15:19,520 Speaker 4: was not looking for her. It was and this is 262 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 4: important for people to realize. It was not listening to 263 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 4: somebody's voice, speaking and getting energy around them. Was in 264 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:28,240 Speaker 4: the middle of the night this time of the year. 265 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 4: My husband was an accountant. He was working. I kept 266 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:34,360 Speaker 4: on getting up from bed to tell him, come to 267 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 4: Betty's working too late, it's too late, too late. And 268 00:15:37,040 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 4: I finally wake up and I think I see him 269 00:15:39,880 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 4: standing by the bay window in our home. And then 270 00:15:43,040 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 4: I realized that it's not my husband, it's not Biggie. 271 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 4: It's my daughter, Jeanette. And I knew immediately that this 272 00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 4: was going to be very fast because I knew she 273 00:15:52,680 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 4: had passed. She came to me. She was physical. I 274 00:15:56,520 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 4: hugged her and she was warm, and she said to me, 275 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 4: don't forget me, mommy. Now we had boxes that we 276 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 4: had put together with her toys, and we had only 277 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 4: begun to dismiss them and pass them away. And I 278 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 4: called my husband to be in the room, and he 279 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 4: appeared in the room, and she said to him, thank you, daddy, 280 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 4: thank you for saving my pony. And I didn't know 281 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:25,080 Speaker 4: what she was talking about. In the morning, I realized 282 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 4: that I was in what was called a hypnopoptic state. 283 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:32,040 Speaker 4: You're coming out of your sleep state, but you're not 284 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 4: quite in waking reality. And she disappeared in my arms. 285 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 4: I said to him, do you remember dreaming last night? 286 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 4: Because I knew he hadn't physically walked. He didn't remember anything. 287 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:45,720 Speaker 4: I said, it's strange because Jeanetti said, thank you, daddy 288 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:49,480 Speaker 4: for saving my pony. He was very quiet. There was 289 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 4: one box at the very end of what we were 290 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 4: putting into a big dumpster, and I said him, don't 291 00:16:54,600 --> 00:16:56,840 Speaker 4: even bother to open it. I can't bear to look 292 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:59,800 Speaker 4: at these toys. He looked at me sheepishly, and he 293 00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 4: said there were two things I saved. I said, what 294 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 4: did you say? He said, I don't know what I saved. 295 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 4: I said, wait to put them. He said, I left 296 00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:07,600 Speaker 4: them in the garage. I didn't want to hurt you, 297 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 4: so I didn't bring them in. He brings it in 298 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:13,399 Speaker 4: and one is my little ponies. With the little ponies. Now, 299 00:17:13,920 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 4: the connection of Jeannette in the middle of the night, 300 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:22,880 Speaker 4: giving me substantial confirmation that she's there telling me something 301 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:27,240 Speaker 4: I don't know. He doesn't know that he actually has 302 00:17:27,320 --> 00:17:30,119 Speaker 4: to go out in the garage and get That was 303 00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:35,040 Speaker 4: an amazing experience. But at the same time, my husband 304 00:17:35,280 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 4: lost a brother when he was only twelve years old, 305 00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:43,119 Speaker 4: and he really never recovered. I had a hard time 306 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:46,000 Speaker 4: speaking to him about it. He played the accordion he 307 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:48,639 Speaker 4: never played for me. His life changed. It was just 308 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:50,960 Speaker 4: the two boys. The brother was much older, he was 309 00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 4: nineteen when he passed away. I never met him, obviously. 310 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:58,119 Speaker 4: And at the same time that this happened with Janette, 311 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:01,840 Speaker 4: I'm in my office which was next to my husband, 312 00:18:02,400 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 4: and my brother in law walked in to my office 313 00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:07,119 Speaker 4: and I knew it was he because I know what 314 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:10,159 Speaker 4: he looks like. And again, Sandra, I was not looking 315 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 4: for him. I said to him, don't you tell me 316 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:17,639 Speaker 4: that you love Iggy because I know that already. I said, 317 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 4: give me something so that I know you're really here. 318 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 4: So He opened up his hand and he showed me 319 00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 4: a photograph of my husband dressed in a baseball outfit. 320 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:30,359 Speaker 4: I said to him, no, absolutely not, I know he 321 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 4: doesn't like sports. This is impossible. So he disappears. I 322 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:37,639 Speaker 4: went into my husband the office right next to me, 323 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:39,159 Speaker 4: and he said to me, I don't know what to 324 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:41,360 Speaker 4: tell you, he said, you know me. I said, did 325 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:44,399 Speaker 4: your brother ever dress you up for Halloween or what? No? No, no, 326 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:48,480 Speaker 4: he knew nothing. A couple of months later, Iggy's best 327 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:51,960 Speaker 4: friend walks into the office. He has an article from 328 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 4: our Staten Island newspaper and the article reads, Ebitttsfield's last 329 00:18:57,040 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 4: game had Island flavor, and in the very center is 330 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:06,120 Speaker 4: a picture of my husband in a white baseball outfit, 331 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:12,120 Speaker 4: the same picture that his brother showed me months before. Now, 332 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 4: I didn't see the entire group. He only showed me Iggy. 333 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:19,280 Speaker 4: Iggy recognized immediately from what I had told him. 334 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:19,879 Speaker 5: And he comes in. 335 00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:23,280 Speaker 4: Apparently the Staten Island group had played in this game. 336 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:25,639 Speaker 4: And he comes in and he says, to me, this 337 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 4: is what Vito showed you. I said, Iggy, I didn't 338 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:30,040 Speaker 4: see all the boys around him. I just saw you 339 00:19:30,080 --> 00:19:32,639 Speaker 4: in the white outfit. I said to him, don't you 340 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:35,920 Speaker 4: remember it? He said to me, no, he said, I 341 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:38,919 Speaker 4: don't remember anything about it. So I looked and I 342 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:41,800 Speaker 4: said to him, when did Vito die? This was taken 343 00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 4: after Vito died, so obviously my husband was in shock. 344 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 5: He's twelve thirteen years old. 345 00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 4: He doesn't remember anything even decades later taking this picture. 346 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:57,160 Speaker 4: So I walked back in my office. He's standing with 347 00:19:57,200 --> 00:20:01,080 Speaker 4: his childhood friend and Iiggy's brothers the office waiting for me, 348 00:20:01,840 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 4: and he said to me, go back and tell my 349 00:20:05,119 --> 00:20:08,720 Speaker 4: brother to show you my best friend, so you'll be hysterical. 350 00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 4: I'm not very polite with these visits. And I turned 351 00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:12,920 Speaker 4: around and I said to him, they were all little 352 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:15,439 Speaker 4: boys in that picture. I said, what are you telling 353 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:16,359 Speaker 4: me you're best friend? 354 00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:17,280 Speaker 5: You're a lot older. 355 00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 4: He disappears. I went out and I said to him, 356 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:23,440 Speaker 4: Iggy Fido just said that you're And again, my husband 357 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 4: knew I always saw things. And he puts his glasses 358 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:28,879 Speaker 4: on and he points to one of the men at 359 00:20:28,920 --> 00:20:31,199 Speaker 4: the top and he says, yeah. He said, this was 360 00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:34,000 Speaker 4: my brother's best friend. He wanted to try to make 361 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:37,600 Speaker 4: a match with our cousin. So how do you explain. 362 00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:41,239 Speaker 4: Now you spoke about Stanley Kripner. I told Stanley this, 363 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:44,560 Speaker 4: and as Stanley said to me, this is called super SI. 364 00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:47,639 Speaker 4: He said, you have somebody from the other side coming 365 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:50,399 Speaker 4: to tell you and show you a picture of something 366 00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:53,720 Speaker 4: that happened after they died. And that picture is not 367 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:56,919 Speaker 4: going to show up in a local newspaper until a 368 00:20:56,920 --> 00:21:01,679 Speaker 4: couple of months later. It's probably not even an important piece. 369 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 4: It's a filler. This is not really news. This is 370 00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 4: something that happened years ago. 371 00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 5: He said. 372 00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:09,480 Speaker 4: Your mind would have to go to the past, to. 373 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:11,359 Speaker 5: The future, to the back. He said. 374 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:15,280 Speaker 4: The easiest explanation is that Veto came and spoke to you, 375 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 4: And of course, unfortunately he never came back so that 376 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:18,800 Speaker 4: I could. 377 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:20,600 Speaker 5: Apologize and say to him. 378 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:23,080 Speaker 4: I'm your sister and Lauren boy, I didn't. 379 00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 5: Give you a great meeting. 380 00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:27,600 Speaker 4: But for those that suffer and don't have these experiences, 381 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 4: know that they're for all of us to understand. We 382 00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:33,919 Speaker 4: don't die. We absolutely don't die. 383 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:37,719 Speaker 3: Those are verifiable bits of information, and I am sure 384 00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:38,639 Speaker 3: that he has forgiven you. 385 00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:41,560 Speaker 4: I wasn't looking, and I give classes for a lot 386 00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:44,879 Speaker 4: of the mediumship places I taught an author finlay on dreams. 387 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:46,800 Speaker 5: But one of the things I don't like to. 388 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:50,200 Speaker 4: Do is to sit and listen to voices, and because 389 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:53,160 Speaker 4: there's energy around people, so I love the fact that 390 00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:56,920 Speaker 4: mine comes spontaneously. I'm in my office mining my own 391 00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:59,719 Speaker 4: business and my brother in law shows up. I'm not 392 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:02,240 Speaker 4: thinking about him, I'm not looking for him. We haven't 393 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:05,640 Speaker 4: spoken about him, but he gives me such a validating 394 00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:09,040 Speaker 4: and really are non believers. They're not going to believe 395 00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:11,359 Speaker 4: because I tell them something. They need to have the 396 00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:15,000 Speaker 4: experience themselves, which is what my therapy is about. People 397 00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:17,480 Speaker 4: will come to meet at a grieving and I bring 398 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:20,520 Speaker 4: them into dream through what I call the lucid waking 399 00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:25,720 Speaker 4: dreaming stage, and that state brings them communication from ancestors 400 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:30,720 Speaker 4: near and far, because we're related to everyone, but dreams, 401 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:35,280 Speaker 4: dreams make us live, and they make us move through tragedies, 402 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:39,600 Speaker 4: understanding that it's just another experience. It's like my daughter dying. 403 00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:42,960 Speaker 4: It was such a gift to have her, and I'm 404 00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:45,480 Speaker 4: going to join her. She hasn't gone anywhere that I'm 405 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:49,840 Speaker 4: not going, but the communication from her was amazing the 406 00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:52,440 Speaker 4: same way for my grandfather. And I've been lucky because 407 00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 4: I've had many others. I don't want to spend the 408 00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:56,800 Speaker 4: whole time on them, but it just to give people 409 00:22:56,840 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 4: a little sight and hope that it is in dreams 410 00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:03,000 Speaker 4: and not just head on the pillow at night, but 411 00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:05,400 Speaker 4: in waking dreams that they can connect. 412 00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:09,600 Speaker 3: Can you give us some things that we can do ourselves. 413 00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:14,320 Speaker 3: I'm fascinated by the whole lucid world. Let me just compare. 414 00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:18,560 Speaker 3: There's so much evidence of the afterlife out there, but 415 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:22,000 Speaker 3: to most people, that tipping point hasn't occurred. That most 416 00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:25,560 Speaker 3: people have the information, and I think the dream world 417 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 3: is the same thing people go to bed at night. 418 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:31,160 Speaker 3: They think of their dreams as just what happens. Maybe 419 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:34,160 Speaker 3: they remember them, maybe they don't. But I also think 420 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 3: that tipping point can come too with how valuable our 421 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:41,679 Speaker 3: dream world is to so much. But I know so 422 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:43,800 Speaker 3: many of us want to connect with our loved ones. 423 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 3: Would you offer any tips as to how we could 424 00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:50,120 Speaker 3: get into that lucid world ourselves and know that loved 425 00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:50,800 Speaker 3: ones are with us. 426 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,919 Speaker 4: And first of all, a lot of people think that 427 00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:58,439 Speaker 4: the lucid for the dream is at night dreaming and 428 00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:00,880 Speaker 4: being aware that you're dreaming, and that's it's very true, 429 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:04,720 Speaker 4: but as I've had a communication when I taught for 430 00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:08,679 Speaker 4: the society that studies the dreams, and I disagreed with 431 00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:11,680 Speaker 4: them because again, I'm always walking the opposite direction of 432 00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:15,720 Speaker 4: everyone else. But for me, it's not just lucidity during 433 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:18,679 Speaker 4: a night dream. And many people can't do that, and 434 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:21,240 Speaker 4: that's fine, it's not important. But we can have a 435 00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:25,119 Speaker 4: lucid dream one we're awake. A shaman has a lucid dream, 436 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:29,800 Speaker 4: he's awake, he's aware that he's in another state. A medium, 437 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:33,800 Speaker 4: especially a trance medium, is aware that they're in another 438 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:37,000 Speaker 4: state unless they're so deep in trance and then they're 439 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:39,359 Speaker 4: not aware, and that one is not really the state 440 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:40,200 Speaker 4: we want to be in. 441 00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:42,639 Speaker 5: We can do this, and how do we do it? 442 00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:45,280 Speaker 4: All? Right? First of all, I'll start with the night dreams, 443 00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:47,919 Speaker 4: because that's what most people want. You don't need to 444 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 4: look for a lucid dream at night. But when you 445 00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,440 Speaker 4: wake up in the morning, if someone is going to work, 446 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:56,159 Speaker 4: if someone has an appointment at a certain hour and 447 00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 4: they need so much time to get themselves ready, to shower, 448 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,560 Speaker 4: it to take their coffee, whatever it is, put your 449 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:05,560 Speaker 4: alarm clock on with a soft gentle waking like chimes. 450 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,400 Speaker 4: About twenty minutes to a half hour before you need 451 00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 4: to get out of bed, and then don't move and 452 00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:14,320 Speaker 4: say to yourself, where was I? 453 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:15,240 Speaker 5: Where was I? 454 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:19,639 Speaker 4: The Egyptians felt that dream was a noun, and the 455 00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:24,400 Speaker 4: hieroglyphic for dream was feet and an open eye, an 456 00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:27,840 Speaker 4: eye that was seeing they were going someplace. Dream was 457 00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:32,200 Speaker 4: not a verb. Dream was a place and a lot 458 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:35,119 Speaker 4: of healing that happened during the dream, and part of 459 00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:38,440 Speaker 4: healing one we're grieving is connecting with an ancestor who 460 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,919 Speaker 4: passed to show us that they are still alive, because 461 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:46,240 Speaker 4: our waking life contradicts that and says that's not true. 462 00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 5: So you're awake, you've. 463 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:52,200 Speaker 4: Got twenty minutes a half hour you ask yourself, where 464 00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:54,400 Speaker 4: was I, what was I doing? 465 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:59,360 Speaker 5: Who was I with? And how do I feel about this? 466 00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:02,360 Speaker 3: We'll go to the break now and then we'll come 467 00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:05,640 Speaker 3: back so you can hear it fully her description how 468 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:09,880 Speaker 3: you can walk through the dreamgate. You're listening to Shades 469 00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:13,399 Speaker 3: of the Afterlife on the iHeartRadio and Coast to Coast 470 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:16,560 Speaker 3: AM Pirinormal Podcast Network. 471 00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:27,080 Speaker 1: Keep it here on the iHeartRadio and Coast to Coast 472 00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:31,359 Speaker 1: AM Paranormal Podcast Network. Sander Champlain will be right back. 473 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,560 Speaker 7: The Coast to Coast AM mobile app is here and 474 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:39,640 Speaker 7: waiting for you right now. 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Hi, 484 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:08,159 Speaker 7: this is your followgist Kevin Randall, and you're listening to 485 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:12,040 Speaker 7: the iHeartRadio and Coast to Coast AM Paranormal Podcast Network. 486 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,879 Speaker 3: Welcome back to Shades of the Afterlife. I'm Sandra Champlain 487 00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:35,480 Speaker 3: and we're with dream expert doctor Janet Pete Lato. She 488 00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:40,760 Speaker 3: recommends setting your alarm clock to chimes or gentle music 489 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:44,960 Speaker 3: twenty minutes to half hour before you wake up. Let's continue. 490 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:48,280 Speaker 4: So you're awake, You've got twenty minutes a half hour. 491 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:53,040 Speaker 4: You asked yourself, where was I, what was I doing, 492 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:57,240 Speaker 4: who was I with? And how do I feel? About this, 493 00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:03,000 Speaker 4: and then you say, I remember, okay, it's fine. Either 494 00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:06,440 Speaker 4: get a tablet or a piece of paper or pay 495 00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:09,560 Speaker 4: it or whatever you want to do. Sit up and 496 00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:13,320 Speaker 4: say to yourself, right now, where am I all right? 497 00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 4: For me, I'd say in my grandpa's bed. Why, simply 498 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:19,600 Speaker 4: because that's what came to me. And I'm holding his hand, 499 00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:23,320 Speaker 4: and yeah, what's happening here? My mother is off to 500 00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:26,800 Speaker 4: the side. I'm in the family house. This is my 501 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:31,440 Speaker 4: maternal background, and Grandpa is there, and what's happening here? 502 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:35,680 Speaker 4: Grandpa is transitting because the next thing I see, we're 503 00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:38,680 Speaker 4: still in a bedroom, but it's my bedroom and Grandpa's 504 00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:42,160 Speaker 4: sitting on the bed, hugging me and talking, how do 505 00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:46,280 Speaker 4: I feel fabulous? Okay, so you're going to say you 506 00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:48,560 Speaker 4: just made that up. Yes, I made it up by 507 00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:52,920 Speaker 4: faculty of my imagination, the faculty which allows me to 508 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 4: make images. The image is important. Without that, we wouldn't 509 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:00,680 Speaker 4: know where to go in the morning. We wouldn't even 510 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,320 Speaker 4: know where we were. People that have alpheimis, that's part 511 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:05,880 Speaker 4: of the problem. There's no connection to these images anymore. 512 00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:08,480 Speaker 4: They don't know anything. When people say to me, it's 513 00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:12,240 Speaker 4: just my imagination. Cut out the just and say, yes, 514 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,720 Speaker 4: it's my imagination and thank god I have it because 515 00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:16,520 Speaker 4: it's the tool that allows me. 516 00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:18,080 Speaker 5: Now, what is this telling me? 517 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:23,080 Speaker 4: Actually it was the perfect example because I don't hesitate. 518 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:24,240 Speaker 5: If you notice, I don't. 519 00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:25,440 Speaker 4: Have to sit here and say, oh, where do I 520 00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,320 Speaker 4: want to be? I said, what wanted to come? Grandpa 521 00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:33,400 Speaker 4: noticed I didn't say dying. He transit it because we 522 00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:37,320 Speaker 4: did transit. We moved from his bedroom where the physical 523 00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:41,640 Speaker 4: passed into the eternal, which was me as a little 524 00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:45,240 Speaker 4: girl sitting on my bed seeing my grandfather very much 525 00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:51,280 Speaker 4: alive communicating with me. The dream, which I just literally 526 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:54,880 Speaker 4: let come out of the unconscious, is here to say 527 00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:58,520 Speaker 4: to me there is life after passing from the body. 528 00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:02,720 Speaker 4: There's absolutely no question. It's giving us the hope in 529 00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:06,040 Speaker 4: something that should come, and it's opening up another doorway 530 00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:09,200 Speaker 4: for me. And that doorway was in another dream that 531 00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:12,480 Speaker 4: I had where when I came to the door, there 532 00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:14,800 Speaker 4: was writing, and I knew the writing was the Kabbala, 533 00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 4: but I don't know the Kabbala, and I'm Loucid in 534 00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:20,640 Speaker 4: the dream, and I'm saying I wish they would have 535 00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:23,840 Speaker 4: given me hieroglyphs because that's what I was studying. I 536 00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 4: could read hieroglyphs. But then I pushed the cock webs 537 00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:29,840 Speaker 4: away and pushed the door open, and a voice from 538 00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:35,360 Speaker 4: inside literally said, we don't die. The next day, my 539 00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:39,640 Speaker 4: husband's friend and my friend as well, a Jewish man 540 00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:42,040 Speaker 4: had passed away, and I called his wife and I 541 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:44,360 Speaker 4: said to her, and that dream was for you, because 542 00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:47,680 Speaker 4: the door had the writing of the Kabbala, which is 543 00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:51,760 Speaker 4: from Judaism, I said, And the message from Mark was 544 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:55,520 Speaker 4: to tell you we don't die. So notice that from 545 00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 4: a little girl standing by a bed with a grandfather 546 00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:02,840 Speaker 4: that's passing, to a little girl moving to sitting on 547 00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:07,000 Speaker 4: her own bed an hour after the incident with the grandfather, 548 00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:11,000 Speaker 4: who now is quite alive and vibrant. Sir Isaac Newton, 549 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,680 Speaker 4: one of the most brilliant brains that ever came on 550 00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:18,720 Speaker 4: the planet, spent years decades in alchemy looking for the truth. 551 00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:21,480 Speaker 4: And he wasn't looking to make gold. He was looking 552 00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:24,160 Speaker 4: for the enlightenment of knowing. And what is that memory 553 00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:28,040 Speaker 4: that we've lost. The memory is that we think everything 554 00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:32,480 Speaker 4: that's around us is real. The truth is nothing around 555 00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:35,600 Speaker 4: us is real. My hard desk that I'm banging on, 556 00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:39,000 Speaker 4: that's going to disintegrate. Someday it's going to fall apart. 557 00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:43,360 Speaker 4: But what I see in the imaginal realm is internal, 558 00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:46,240 Speaker 4: which is why we can go past, and we can 559 00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:49,080 Speaker 4: go present, and we can go future, because it's all 560 00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:53,239 Speaker 4: there outside of time and connecting like that. So in 561 00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:56,280 Speaker 4: the morning, when you wake up, whether or not you're 562 00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 4: remembering the dream, you do what I just did. If 563 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:02,360 Speaker 4: you don't remember the dream, what's popping into your head? 564 00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:03,240 Speaker 5: Where are you? 565 00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:03,640 Speaker 4: Who? 566 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:04,120 Speaker 5: You wish? 567 00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:06,800 Speaker 4: What's going on? And how do you feel? And you 568 00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:09,760 Speaker 4: keep on writing, And then of course you have to 569 00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:12,240 Speaker 4: amplify as I did, to say what is it making 570 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,880 Speaker 4: me think of? Where is it passing? Even to the 571 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,960 Speaker 4: door for Judy who was my Jewish friend who was 572 00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:20,480 Speaker 4: to lose her husband, and I had the message the 573 00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:24,960 Speaker 4: night before of the kabbala saying we don't die. That's 574 00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:28,080 Speaker 4: one of the ways. And I certainly had a patient 575 00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:32,440 Speaker 4: that worked with me. I do complimentary medicine. He had cancer, 576 00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:34,880 Speaker 4: but we were working on dreams and he never remembered 577 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,080 Speaker 4: a dream in his whole life. He was in his sixties, 578 00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:39,160 Speaker 4: and I said to him, we're going to do this. 579 00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:41,520 Speaker 4: I said, I'll help you but you have to make 580 00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:43,920 Speaker 4: up a dream every morning when you wake up. And 581 00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:47,200 Speaker 4: for weeks he came, and every morning, every time he came, 582 00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:49,080 Speaker 4: it was a made up dream, until one day he 583 00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:51,040 Speaker 4: came and said to me, I didn't make up a 584 00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:53,800 Speaker 4: dream for today. So I thought, okay, Al, that's fine, 585 00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:56,000 Speaker 4: not a problem. He said, no, I actually had one. 586 00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:59,400 Speaker 4: So that's one of the ways that you can begin 587 00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:02,560 Speaker 4: to have a dream. Also, you can dream incubate, so 588 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:05,760 Speaker 4: that before you go to bed at night, sit there 589 00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:09,600 Speaker 4: and if someone just passed, or at somebody's anniversary or 590 00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:12,120 Speaker 4: somebody's birthday, and you say it because you miss them, 591 00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:16,320 Speaker 4: actually work yourself up into teas, be emotional about it, 592 00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:19,480 Speaker 4: admit how you feel, and then pad it in paper 593 00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:23,280 Speaker 4: or hand to tablet and write down I want to dream. 594 00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:26,840 Speaker 4: I want to connect with this person and ask them 595 00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:29,560 Speaker 4: a question and not a yes and no answer, something 596 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:31,600 Speaker 4: you would like them to help you with in life. 597 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,760 Speaker 4: Show me like I was with my brother in law 598 00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:37,440 Speaker 4: that I had only met twice, to say, show me 599 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:41,760 Speaker 4: something that's confirming, tell me something that'll give me hope, 600 00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:45,680 Speaker 4: and then go to sleep. Now, if you have trouble 601 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,280 Speaker 4: that you think you might not remember the dreams. A 602 00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:51,320 Speaker 4: little hint is to me, I drink so much tea 603 00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:54,400 Speaker 4: every day and I'll have two or three cups just 604 00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:56,520 Speaker 4: reading my book at nights, and I don't mind. I'm 605 00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:58,280 Speaker 4: going to wake up during the night to your Nate. 606 00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:01,280 Speaker 4: And one of the things is you wake up, you're 607 00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:02,760 Speaker 4: going to wake up at the tail end of one 608 00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:05,520 Speaker 4: of those dreams and you're going to remember it. And 609 00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:07,720 Speaker 4: so I've been known to write as many as five 610 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:10,520 Speaker 4: dreams a night. So you can do that if you're 611 00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:14,040 Speaker 4: willing to wake up and record the dreams, that will 612 00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:18,120 Speaker 4: help you. If that's not working, we can do the 613 00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:21,920 Speaker 4: waking lucid dream. And this is when we do what 614 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:27,640 Speaker 4: the Shamans do. We dedicate ourselves to the harmony of 615 00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:30,719 Speaker 4: the universe. We don't want to see anything that's going 616 00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:34,120 Speaker 4: to be in any way invasive to anyone or hurtful 617 00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:39,160 Speaker 4: to anyone. Never then we ask that there's a guiding 618 00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:42,000 Speaker 4: spirit that will be with us, and this can show 619 00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:45,399 Speaker 4: up as anything. It could be a grandmother, grandfather, could 620 00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:48,200 Speaker 4: be a relative, dear friend and someone that in. 621 00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:52,200 Speaker 5: Our life passed away, but we would like to be. 622 00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:54,920 Speaker 4: With them as the guardian who is going to pass 623 00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:58,200 Speaker 4: through the dream gate and we can close our eyes 624 00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:01,680 Speaker 4: and let the images wrong. Some people hear things, some 625 00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:05,600 Speaker 4: people will see things, clairvoyant audio, voidings, it doesn't matter. 626 00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:08,760 Speaker 4: And then we come up with some sort of a question. 627 00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:12,040 Speaker 4: We're dream incubating. What do we want? Maybe we just 628 00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:15,800 Speaker 4: want to see our beloved who passed away, our husband, 629 00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,719 Speaker 4: our son, our daughter, and we ask that we might 630 00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:24,040 Speaker 4: be able to see them. We close our eyes, soft music, 631 00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:27,800 Speaker 4: something that's going to lull us, or just the quiet 632 00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:32,040 Speaker 4: breathing in, breathing out, breathing in, breathing out, and then 633 00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:36,960 Speaker 4: asking to be brought to a memory, a memory of 634 00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:40,400 Speaker 4: something with the beloved. And what we tend to notice 635 00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:44,880 Speaker 4: is the places that we go shift there's something in 636 00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:48,240 Speaker 4: it that we didn't see before. Perhaps there's a painting 637 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:50,799 Speaker 4: on the wall that we don't remember. In the room 638 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:53,920 Speaker 4: there's another room or a closet that we don't remember, 639 00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:58,120 Speaker 4: or something on a table that's there, and we begin 640 00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:03,360 Speaker 4: to communicate in our mind. We start a conversation sitting 641 00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:06,919 Speaker 4: at a table of the questions or what we wish 642 00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:09,520 Speaker 4: to say to this person that maybe we didn't have 643 00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:13,040 Speaker 4: time to say. I often have people grieving and they'll 644 00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:16,440 Speaker 4: come to me, and there was an argument, and somebody 645 00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:19,960 Speaker 4: passed away and they did not have the time to 646 00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,360 Speaker 4: put an end to that argument. So this is the 647 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,160 Speaker 4: time to do it. And then they come back and 648 00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:29,560 Speaker 4: they record and write everything that they saw because there's 649 00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:33,840 Speaker 4: little details in that vision that will give them the answers. 650 00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:36,319 Speaker 4: And often when you're beginning on your own, which is 651 00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:39,280 Speaker 4: why people go to people like me, you need somebody 652 00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:41,680 Speaker 4: to help you. It was called young working with people 653 00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:46,080 Speaker 4: for years, each image opens up to something else that 654 00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:49,399 Speaker 4: you didn't think of. So that dream that you may 655 00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:52,680 Speaker 4: wake up, or even with the waking time, when you're 656 00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:55,000 Speaker 4: thinking of someone that you want to be with, you 657 00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:58,319 Speaker 4: to go through the gate. You imagine a gate or 658 00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:01,600 Speaker 4: a door, maybe the house where this person lived, a 659 00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:04,920 Speaker 4: table where you're going to sit in a conversation. You 660 00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:08,359 Speaker 4: look for all the details of things that are in 661 00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:12,280 Speaker 4: that because each one will open up to a memory 662 00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:14,239 Speaker 4: that will tell you something else, and all of a 663 00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:16,759 Speaker 4: sudden you'll be able to say, oh, my goodness, I 664 00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:20,239 Speaker 4: didn't think of that. It's called mnmnieces. I didn't remember that. 665 00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:22,840 Speaker 4: I didn't think of that. That makes me feel so good. 666 00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:26,319 Speaker 4: That shows me this person is here. And sometimes it's 667 00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:27,360 Speaker 4: only something little. 668 00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:28,680 Speaker 5: I opened up the. 669 00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:32,360 Speaker 4: Doorway one morning and inside there was somebody that I 670 00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:34,719 Speaker 4: didn't know in life, I'd never met, but it was 671 00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:37,440 Speaker 4: a husband of one of my clients. And all this 672 00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:41,000 Speaker 4: person said to me was, my name is not and 673 00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:43,239 Speaker 4: he said the name that I knew him by from 674 00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:45,839 Speaker 4: what his wife said my name is. And he gave 675 00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:48,680 Speaker 4: me something I didn't understand. He said, but it's that's 676 00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:52,320 Speaker 4: not my name. And when I spoke to her during therapy, 677 00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:54,640 Speaker 4: I said, I'm not quite sure what this means. I 678 00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:58,080 Speaker 4: wasn't told anything else except this is not my name. 679 00:37:58,160 --> 00:37:59,880 Speaker 4: She said, My children don't even know that. 680 00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:00,839 Speaker 5: She said. 681 00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:04,319 Speaker 4: He grew up in a society where his religion was 682 00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:07,759 Speaker 4: not accepted, so he had to pass himself off as 683 00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:10,600 Speaker 4: a Christian, and so that's why he took a Christian 684 00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:11,920 Speaker 4: name for everybody to know. 685 00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:13,040 Speaker 5: But that was not his name. 686 00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:15,560 Speaker 4: I said, I wish I had more. She said, no, absolutely, 687 00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:18,560 Speaker 4: you're telling me. And again I wasn't looking for him. 688 00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:21,279 Speaker 4: I go through the doorway every morning, every night, and 689 00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:25,279 Speaker 4: during the day spontaneously things happen, and I know I'm 690 00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:28,120 Speaker 4: sitting at my computer. I'm quite lucid, but I also 691 00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:32,280 Speaker 4: know my consciousness has expanded. It's not left my body. 692 00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:36,240 Speaker 4: I hate that expression out of body experience. It's expanded 693 00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:40,880 Speaker 4: body experience. But it's all dream. So I tell people, 694 00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:43,920 Speaker 4: if you're not making the dreams at night happen, if 695 00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,080 Speaker 4: you're not getting up and making up one in the 696 00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:49,239 Speaker 4: morning and realizing that making up that dream like what 697 00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:53,280 Speaker 4: I just did with my grandfather is important and perfect 698 00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:56,440 Speaker 4: for Grandpa to come forward for everybody today because that 699 00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:59,400 Speaker 4: message was for everyone. We don't die, and that's the 700 00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:02,719 Speaker 4: message that you give. But if that's not what happens, 701 00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:05,279 Speaker 4: then you have to give time to it. It's the 702 00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:08,440 Speaker 4: via mystica, the mystical path. You have to be willing 703 00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:11,000 Speaker 4: to be open, and you have to realize that that 704 00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:15,640 Speaker 4: ridiculous dream that seems to be so totally crazy is 705 00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:16,919 Speaker 4: not crazy at will. 706 00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:22,120 Speaker 3: Next, doctor Janet will tell us about frightening dreams. Yes, 707 00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:25,680 Speaker 3: we all have nightmares. 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It's a 716 00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:09,919 Speaker 6: unique site for unique people and it's free to join 717 00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:12,120 Speaker 6: to look around. If you want to upgrade and enjoy 718 00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:15,000 Speaker 6: more of our great features, use promo code George for 719 00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:17,359 Speaker 6: a great discount, So check it out. You got nothing 720 00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:24,120 Speaker 6: to lose Paranormal Day dot com. 721 00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:28,239 Speaker 4: This is Afterlife Expert Daniel Braakley and you're listening to 722 00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:34,040 Speaker 4: the iHeartRadio and Coast to Coast AM Paranormal Podcast Network. 723 00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:51,120 Speaker 3: Welcome back to Shades of the Afterlife. I'm Sandra Champlain 724 00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:55,640 Speaker 3: and we're with dream expert doctor Janet Pete Alatto. Next, 725 00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:58,520 Speaker 3: she'll talk about those duretded nightmares. 726 00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:01,759 Speaker 4: I've had people come with dreams that they've been terrified. 727 00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:05,120 Speaker 4: You usually have a frightening dream so that you remember it, 728 00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:08,040 Speaker 4: and then you need to go through the doorways to 729 00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:11,200 Speaker 4: what the dream is actually telling you. And the dream 730 00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:14,719 Speaker 4: may be totally opposite of what you think, which most 731 00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:17,719 Speaker 4: of the time it is. The dream is made of images, 732 00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:21,240 Speaker 4: and the image is the key, because it's the door. 733 00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:23,680 Speaker 4: We put that key in and we open it and 734 00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:26,600 Speaker 4: we go somewhere else. I was at a funeral that 735 00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:29,520 Speaker 4: I wrote the eulogy for one of my best friends, 736 00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:32,600 Speaker 4: and her mother died when she was like I think, 737 00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:36,080 Speaker 4: six years old. She had an aneurysm. So this girl 738 00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:39,160 Speaker 4: it was a tough life. But it was her stepmother 739 00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:42,040 Speaker 4: that passed that I knew, and certainly that this girl 740 00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:45,560 Speaker 4: grew up with. But as she was presenting the eulogy 741 00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:49,160 Speaker 4: for her stepmother, her real mother was there and I 742 00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:52,319 Speaker 4: saw the real mother, but this is not the real thing. 743 00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:56,160 Speaker 4: Next to her, there's another woman, and this other woman 744 00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:58,880 Speaker 4: is not the woman who died. But she's telling me 745 00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:02,480 Speaker 4: I was second mother. And again here I am saying, 746 00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:06,439 Speaker 4: I know you weren't. Irene who died was the second mother. 747 00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:09,400 Speaker 4: We came out of the church and I told my 748 00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:11,759 Speaker 4: friend and she smiled and she said to me, you 749 00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:14,759 Speaker 4: didn't realize that, she said, but that was my grandmother. 750 00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:17,440 Speaker 4: She was my second mother. My grandmother took care of 751 00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:20,200 Speaker 4: me for years before my father remarried, and I didn't 752 00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:24,800 Speaker 4: know that. So again, these are all substantial to tell people. 753 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:29,120 Speaker 4: Now I'm sitting in a church awake, totally awake. I'd 754 00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:32,280 Speaker 4: be some witness in court, that's for sure. They wouldn't 755 00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:33,960 Speaker 4: be able to look at me and know where I 756 00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:37,879 Speaker 4: was seeing what. But it's all to confirm that there 757 00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:38,680 Speaker 4: is a life. 758 00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:41,479 Speaker 3: It is exciting and the commitment has to be there. 759 00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:44,600 Speaker 3: So I love that. I love what you say about 760 00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:48,800 Speaker 3: setting the alarm half hour early to nice music or 761 00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:51,880 Speaker 3: chimes or something, because I know I've had it and 762 00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:55,480 Speaker 3: those in between moments. But then paying attention to the 763 00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:58,520 Speaker 3: dream if you can, and if you didn't have. 764 00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:02,680 Speaker 4: It, we can create created, and that the creation is 765 00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:05,560 Speaker 4: just as important, and that's just realize. 766 00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:09,680 Speaker 3: And then we could invite our loved one, right and 767 00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:12,000 Speaker 3: then see that gate and walk through it. And how 768 00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:15,000 Speaker 3: do I feel? And I think the most important thing 769 00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:17,920 Speaker 3: that you said to me is throw out the word 770 00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:23,920 Speaker 3: just just my imagination. The imagination is the key to 771 00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:24,359 Speaker 3: the gate. 772 00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:26,640 Speaker 5: Oh yes, this is. 773 00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:30,720 Speaker 3: Good, This is real good because everyone wants to feel. 774 00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:32,919 Speaker 5: Everyone can. 775 00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:37,360 Speaker 4: I have nothing against mediumship where someone will get on 776 00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:40,480 Speaker 4: a platform and give some messages. It helps in grieving, 777 00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:44,600 Speaker 4: but it's a band aid at best unless someone has 778 00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:48,200 Speaker 4: their own experience and That's what I'm about. It's about 779 00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:52,719 Speaker 4: giving you your experience. I can tell you what I've experienced, 780 00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:55,560 Speaker 4: but I want you to experience your own. Which is 781 00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:59,360 Speaker 4: why all of my work on the Vamistica and is 782 00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:02,960 Speaker 4: at least a week that I'm on with classes. It's 783 00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:06,960 Speaker 4: all about people going in on their own and having 784 00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:08,440 Speaker 4: experience it then sharing it. 785 00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:09,439 Speaker 5: I often laugh. 786 00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:12,920 Speaker 4: Christina Morgan loves it because she's down under and the 787 00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:15,279 Speaker 4: sun is above and it's night for me, and the 788 00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:17,680 Speaker 4: sun has gone down, and I'm saying, no, how well, 789 00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:19,879 Speaker 4: each one of us we're looking and saying the sun 790 00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:23,120 Speaker 4: has set, the sun has risen. The sun doesn't do either. 791 00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:28,280 Speaker 4: The sun is always in its location. Our perception makes 792 00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:32,640 Speaker 4: us believe that's what it's doing. Our perception is transient 793 00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:36,120 Speaker 4: and passing and not true. So realize in life what 794 00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:39,080 Speaker 4: we think we're seeing is an illusion half the time, 795 00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:42,759 Speaker 4: and what's hidden is beneath everything we see the same 796 00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:45,720 Speaker 4: way that when we look. I have my tarot cards, 797 00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:49,520 Speaker 4: and I remember when the senior editor look the images 798 00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:51,560 Speaker 4: all put together and said to me, every card is 799 00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:54,959 Speaker 4: filled with all images. It's not a typical terot, which 800 00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:57,600 Speaker 4: some people hate because they want a typical tarot. 801 00:44:57,760 --> 00:44:59,600 Speaker 5: That's fine, you can use. 802 00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:02,080 Speaker 4: It as But the thing is, I'm filled with images 803 00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:05,000 Speaker 4: because that's what I'm about. The one card that only 804 00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:07,000 Speaker 4: had an onion on it. She said to me, maybe 805 00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:09,000 Speaker 4: you want to change this. I said to her, no, 806 00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:10,960 Speaker 4: absolutely not. I said that card is one of the 807 00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:14,000 Speaker 4: most important because you have to peel that onion. It's 808 00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:16,680 Speaker 4: many layers, and it may be sweet or it may 809 00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:19,680 Speaker 4: be bitter. It may make you cry, or it may 810 00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:22,200 Speaker 4: make you remember maybe going out to dinner with you 811 00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:24,920 Speaker 4: beloved and they served onion soup and that was one 812 00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:27,760 Speaker 4: of the times when you knew you loved them. In fact, 813 00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:29,520 Speaker 4: sometimes you might look at it, it might be a 814 00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:32,600 Speaker 4: ball and other times, like I remember being at Authur 815 00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:35,320 Speaker 4: Finlay and using that card with a couple of people 816 00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:37,400 Speaker 4: and for one woman, I said to her, no, it's 817 00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:40,640 Speaker 4: an apple. It's the apple from the fairy tale from 818 00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:43,560 Speaker 4: snow White, I said, And it's the evil witch and 819 00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:47,880 Speaker 4: it's snow White having to leave home because it wasn't safe. 820 00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:51,280 Speaker 4: I said, there was something in your childhood that wasn't safe. 821 00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:53,960 Speaker 4: And she said to me, yeah, my father was abusive 822 00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:56,839 Speaker 4: and she had to leave. And of course the card 823 00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:59,480 Speaker 4: that was the onion turned into an apple for me, 824 00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:03,440 Speaker 4: and a rotten apple at that brought me a fairy tale. 825 00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:06,560 Speaker 4: And that fairy tale was right on for what this 826 00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:09,120 Speaker 4: woman had a self in her life. So you see 827 00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:11,680 Speaker 4: what I'm saying. That's what I mean by an image 828 00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:15,120 Speaker 4: being doorways. The onion brought the door of the apple, 829 00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:18,720 Speaker 4: the apple was rotten, the wicked queen looking in the mirror, 830 00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:22,040 Speaker 4: and then snow white running away. It always fit. 831 00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:26,200 Speaker 3: You know how connected we are. Just before you started 832 00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:28,840 Speaker 3: talking about the onion, I saw an onion in my 833 00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:32,040 Speaker 3: mind and started peeling it away, and then you start 834 00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:38,000 Speaker 3: talking about the onion card. Perfect goosebumps. Connected. Would those 835 00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:40,840 Speaker 3: cards be a good tool when we wake up in 836 00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:42,920 Speaker 3: the morning and we're in this spot and if we 837 00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:46,319 Speaker 3: don't remember our dream, to just take a glance at 838 00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:46,760 Speaker 3: the card. 839 00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:49,799 Speaker 4: Okay, let me stop you for a minute, because one 840 00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:54,560 Speaker 4: of the tools that I do recommend is shuffling the cards, 841 00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:59,120 Speaker 4: just randomly picking two cards, placing them on the side 842 00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:02,640 Speaker 4: of the bed at night, thinking about what it is 843 00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:05,040 Speaker 4: that you want to dream about or who you want 844 00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:08,520 Speaker 4: to dream about, and then taking one of the cards, 845 00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:11,520 Speaker 4: look at the image and it's someone with a crow 846 00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:14,759 Speaker 4: on their back. But there's clouds in the sky, but 847 00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:18,560 Speaker 4: a rainbow is about to appear, And so it is 848 00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:22,960 Speaker 4: certainly appropriate for anybody who's suffering the loss of a beloved. 849 00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:26,520 Speaker 4: They're sitting on the stone in the middle, with the 850 00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:29,840 Speaker 4: waters of the unconscious floating around them, the sun and 851 00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:33,760 Speaker 4: the moon on either side. It's cloudy day. They've had losses, 852 00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:36,200 Speaker 4: and I've had people around me now with new losses. 853 00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:40,799 Speaker 4: But it's showing you that there's something good coming. There's 854 00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:43,680 Speaker 4: a rainbow in the clouds now. It's the only one 855 00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:46,080 Speaker 4: that you look at. And you go to bed at night, 856 00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:49,600 Speaker 4: and then in the morning you either make up the dream, 857 00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:51,560 Speaker 4: Like I said, where were you, what were you doing? 858 00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:53,280 Speaker 5: Who were you with? And how do you feel? 859 00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:56,480 Speaker 4: So in a way, it really is saying go into 860 00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:59,720 Speaker 4: the dream, and the dream will help you to survive 861 00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:03,879 Speaker 4: the tragedies of the physical. Because like the sun that 862 00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:07,000 Speaker 4: neither rises nor sets, but gives us the illusion of it, 863 00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:11,000 Speaker 4: so does death not be the passing of the great 864 00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:13,640 Speaker 4: spirit of who we are. We're eternal and we go 865 00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:16,520 Speaker 4: to that mansion of millions of years, but we don't 866 00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:20,319 Speaker 4: know that unless we join with the dream. Consciousness, And 867 00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:22,480 Speaker 4: as call Young used to say, if all we do 868 00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:26,200 Speaker 4: is look to the waking, rational world, we're not awake. 869 00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:29,200 Speaker 4: So don't we want to be fully awake? It's only 870 00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:30,520 Speaker 4: by going in dream. 871 00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:33,280 Speaker 3: My mom woke up this morning and had a scary 872 00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:37,080 Speaker 3: dream about my dad who's deceased, and he was really 873 00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:40,120 Speaker 3: mad at her in the dream. Just because we dream, 874 00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:42,759 Speaker 3: that does not mean our loved ones are mad at us. 875 00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:44,520 Speaker 3: Can you just talk about some of the. 876 00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:48,799 Speaker 4: Yes, right, I can share a dream that a woman 877 00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:51,279 Speaker 4: who'd lost her husband had and came to me and 878 00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:56,280 Speaker 4: was terrified, so upset. In the dream, she's walking down 879 00:48:56,440 --> 00:49:01,000 Speaker 4: a street and suddenly there's a tsunami and she's caught 880 00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:03,960 Speaker 4: up in the water of the tsunami. If things could 881 00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:08,840 Speaker 4: not get worse, there's a big black bear that's trying 882 00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:12,440 Speaker 4: to get at her from this tsunami. It's a dream, 883 00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:16,840 Speaker 4: So there's a telephone booth that she manages to get into. 884 00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:20,400 Speaker 4: The water is swirling around her, the bear is banging 885 00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:23,360 Speaker 4: on the door of the booth and the phone rings. 886 00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:26,520 Speaker 4: She picks up the phone and it's a deceased husband. 887 00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:31,360 Speaker 4: He's babbling on, not listening to her, being frightened all 888 00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:34,640 Speaker 4: of these eyes are on her as though there's all 889 00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:38,799 Speaker 4: these beings around her, and they're just smiling, and she's terrified. 890 00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:42,040 Speaker 4: And she finally gets so upset with her husband because 891 00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:46,480 Speaker 4: she's asking him for help and he's just being nice 892 00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:49,759 Speaker 4: and kind, and she just wants to communicate with her. 893 00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:53,200 Speaker 4: She wakes up terrified, so she brings me the stream. 894 00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:55,719 Speaker 4: She say, it's the worst dream I've ever had. I 895 00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:57,759 Speaker 4: said to her, I have to agree with you. It's 896 00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:01,120 Speaker 4: a superlative dream, probably the best stream that you might 897 00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:04,680 Speaker 4: ever have. First of all, the waters are the waters 898 00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:08,160 Speaker 4: of the unconscious. You are not knowing how to swim 899 00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:10,920 Speaker 4: in these waters. That's why they are swirling around you 900 00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:13,759 Speaker 4: like a great tsunami. You're getting ready to drown in them. 901 00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:17,280 Speaker 4: But the waters of the unconscious are trying to bring 902 00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:22,080 Speaker 4: you a message, and the messenger is that big bear. Certainly, 903 00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:25,880 Speaker 4: in the Native American tradition, the bear is the healer, 904 00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:28,520 Speaker 4: and the bear wants to heal you. So you get 905 00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:32,200 Speaker 4: yourself in a box. But the box is still a 906 00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:36,000 Speaker 4: box of communication. And all of those eyes that are 907 00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:39,680 Speaker 4: around you are all the eyes of the ancestors that 908 00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:43,600 Speaker 4: really want to help you to see listen to the communication. 909 00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:46,840 Speaker 4: They've got you boxed in. You're in the waters that 910 00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:49,879 Speaker 4: are of the unconscious, and the communicator wants to give 911 00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:53,280 Speaker 4: you a peaceful message, telling you do not be afraid, 912 00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:57,600 Speaker 4: don't worry. I'm here for you. I can always communicate. 913 00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:01,879 Speaker 4: But you're so excited and you wake up. Now why 914 00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:04,880 Speaker 4: were you excited and upset so that you'd remember that 915 00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:08,759 Speaker 4: your husband communicated with you in the dream, Because otherwise, 916 00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:11,520 Speaker 4: when we have a pleasant dream, there's no reason we 917 00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:16,040 Speaker 4: wake up. But when we have a terrifying, frightening, horrifying dream, 918 00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:20,160 Speaker 4: we wake up, and that's when we really know something important, 919 00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:25,080 Speaker 4: not necessarily bad, often good. And her whole life turned 920 00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:29,719 Speaker 4: around realizing, yes, he was able to communicate through that 921 00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:35,560 Speaker 4: dream and through that box of communication. So your mom's dream, 922 00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:40,080 Speaker 4: the fact that he's trying to communicate and that there's anger, 923 00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:42,920 Speaker 4: first of all, means you're going to wake up remembering this. 924 00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:45,920 Speaker 4: I want to shake you up, and second of all, 925 00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:49,600 Speaker 4: I'm here. I want to let you know, and you're 926 00:51:49,600 --> 00:51:53,400 Speaker 4: not angry. When you pass over, the human emotions like 927 00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:56,600 Speaker 4: that are gone. So I often say in any of 928 00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:59,359 Speaker 4: the mediums that I'm in their circle. Know this that 929 00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:02,800 Speaker 4: if they're present venting somebody that's mad over something, angry 930 00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:05,400 Speaker 4: over something or whatever, they're giving the imprint of what 931 00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:08,960 Speaker 4: that person was here not on the other side, we 932 00:52:09,120 --> 00:52:14,080 Speaker 4: all come to manifest a certain aspect that's important for 933 00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:17,040 Speaker 4: the balance of the universe, and everything has to be 934 00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:20,279 Speaker 4: here so those of us who've come to carry our 935 00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:24,600 Speaker 4: weight of sorrows are balanced by those who have the joys. 936 00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:27,480 Speaker 4: I look and say, every time I cry, someone else 937 00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:28,839 Speaker 4: is going to smile and laugh. 938 00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:34,000 Speaker 3: Thank you cham It visit her site at jam It 939 00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:38,480 Speaker 3: Peterelado dot net and always come visit me at We 940 00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:43,080 Speaker 3: Don't Die dot com. I'm Sandra Champlain and from the 941 00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:47,480 Speaker 3: bottom of my heart, thank you for listening to Shades 942 00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:51,240 Speaker 3: of the Afterlife and the iHeartRadio and Coast to Coast 943 00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:54,600 Speaker 3: am Hairinormal podcast Network. 944 00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:04,000 Speaker 2: Thanks for listening to the iHeartRadio and Coast to Ghost 945 00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:07,040 Speaker 2: Day and Paranormal podcast Network. Make sure and check out 946 00:53:07,080 --> 00:53:10,319 Speaker 2: all our shows on the iHeartRadio app or by going 947 00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:15,560 Speaker 2: to iHeartRadio dot com.