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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 1: I'm Mela, Happy.

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Speaker 2: Wednesday, hump Day. I'm not recording because I'm stupid.

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Speaker 1: I was trying to make a reel, but god, my

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Speaker 1: real skills are low. I text Erica the other day,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I am going by the end of this month,

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Speaker 1: I want to make forty reels. Okay, I'm going to

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Speaker 1: make us so much money. I want to move. She

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Speaker 1: was like, are you going to I was like, yes,

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Speaker 1: if I could move, because if I make forty reels.

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Speaker 2: She's like, okay, girl, attempt one sail. I was wondering.

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Speaker 1: I started, I started the reel, right, do you want

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Speaker 1: to do?

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Speaker 3: You want to try it again?

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Speaker 2: Ship?

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm on the button. Welcome back to Good Mom's

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Speaker 1: Bad Choices. I'm Erica and I'm Mela Happy Wednesday, and

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Speaker 1: this is Good Mom's Bad Choices.

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Speaker 2: Oh you like that.

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Speaker 3: I don't think we need to add that. I think

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Speaker 3: the people know they clicked on the podcast, but girl.

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Speaker 1: You'd be surprised. People don't be knowing Ship, and it

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Speaker 1: could be like this is the button. This means I'm

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Speaker 1: like what is this? And this is this is a

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Speaker 1: Good Mom's Bad Choices podcast on YouTube. This is a podcast, YouTubers,

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Speaker 1: I just want to reiterate this. I know we went

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Speaker 1: back through this last week. This is a podcast, not

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Speaker 1: a YouTube show. Although we grace you with our presence

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Speaker 1: on YouTube. The youtubes are very very pissed with us

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Speaker 1: because we usually do a little banter before we introduce

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Speaker 1: our guests. But today we have special guests and the

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Speaker 1: YouTuber this this is for you. We're not rude, we're

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Speaker 1: just doing audio. Today we have special guests for our

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Speaker 1: cuffing season November. As you guys know, we've been We've

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Speaker 1: been featuring just wonderful couples that we know and that

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Speaker 1: you guys love and suggested to come on the show.

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Speaker 3: And today we have.

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Speaker 1: Actress host, comedian Angel More aka that chick Angel and

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Speaker 1: husband Hey girl Hey, and husband Marcus Tanksley, host content creator.

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Speaker 4: Father was gonna be like and husband, I was like,

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Speaker 4: all right, this huge.

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Speaker 1: This huge entry and her husband. Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: You guys, thank you for having us.

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Speaker 1: Yes, this is a long time coming. We were on

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Speaker 1: your show. I feel like many moons ago.

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Speaker 2: Many moons ago, we lived in a different house. I

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Speaker 2: don't live anymore mm hmmm, and to move.

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Speaker 1: It on not to the east side.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 2: We moved into a bigger house during the pandemic because

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Speaker 2: I was like, if we're gonna be here all the time,

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Speaker 2: you have poor kids. I was like, we need some

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Speaker 2: most space.

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Speaker 4: Need to be able to hear y'all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with that.

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Speaker 1: I agree like if I have children, like children like plural,

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Speaker 1: I need even with one. I'm like, I don't want

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Speaker 2: It can be a lot sometimes. So yeah, they are.

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Speaker 1: They don't have any none.

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Speaker 2: But you all were nice enough to come on to

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Speaker 2: Mommy Confessions. Y'all were high as hell. Worry Yeah, oh

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Speaker 2: my god, y'all don't even realize that that podcast. I

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Speaker 2: don't realize it. I don't know if you realize this

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Speaker 2: made me try weed for the first time.

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Speaker 1: Really, I didn't know that because we came in and

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Speaker 2: No. It was one of you all said that, y'all

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Speaker 4: Every single one of Angel's friends has said the same

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Speaker 4: I'm not used to this whole legal last weed thing.

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Speaker 1: Okay store from Kentucky, right, yeah, going to a story

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Speaker 2: It was very toughtful. And then when I was hitting

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Speaker 3: Why I got to go in so quick.

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Speaker 2: Because it wasn't working.

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Speaker 4: That's why I'm the better storyteller. So Angel's reading the

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Speaker 2: Literally before I looked up the symptoms before we started,

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Speaker 3: Mild weed it was.

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Speaker 4: You wasn't by yourself. I was smoking with her. I didn't.

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Speaker 4: I never felt anything.

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Speaker 1: Oh, you never felt one thing at all? Got into

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Speaker 2: Oh, I was definitely freaking out. And I kept I said,

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Speaker 1: That's that is true. When you get high, it's like

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Speaker 4: Because I had three times as much as her, and

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's why I tried to do more than her.

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Speaker 2: Do we need to be?

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Speaker 1: Like we do we like set the scene this in

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Speaker 1: candles it definitely hydration throw up buckets just in case

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Speaker 1: I told him.

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Speaker 2: I said the experience that I would have liked, and

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Speaker 2: a luxury guided weed experience. You can go to a dispensary,

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Speaker 2: talk to a but tender, find out like what your

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Speaker 2: anxieties are, things that you don't want to have, that

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Speaker 3: That's called going to dispensary and not calling your homegirl.

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Speaker 2: That's what I thought.

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Speaker 4: I don't do. Look, I don't think you still need

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Speaker 3: I thought we were just walking.

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Speaker 2: I thought we were going to go in together.

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Speaker 4: He didn't realize I hadn't smoked weed like that. I

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Speaker 4: hadn't purchased weed ever in California.

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Speaker 2: Still hasn't.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true, we still haven't.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait till our weed comes out, because I'm

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Speaker 4: But like you, I deal with weed that I saw

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Speaker 3: When's your birthday?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we're there.

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Speaker 3: What about you Marcus.

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Speaker 4: January twenty seven?

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Speaker 1: What is that? Aquariusious? Oh my goodness, you're like no,

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Speaker 3: Fuck that ship?

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Speaker 2: Yeah no, there was nothing about it that I enjoyed.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we met in Lexting, Kentucky at my sister's doorstep.

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Speaker 2: be perfect was even higher. So once we realized that,

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00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:42,120
Speaker 2: we were like, okay, so come hell of high water.

443
00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:44,840
Speaker 2: Every month we have to see even if it's the weekend,

444
00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:45,919
Speaker 2: we are going to see each other.

445
00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:48,639
Speaker 4: Luckily, his job was I was an electrician, so if

446
00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:50,720
Speaker 4: I could, I could go anywhere and do what I do.

447
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,120
Speaker 2: But his job was flexible enough that he could come

448
00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:56,600
Speaker 2: see you where I was in grad school, So my

449
00:21:57,240 --> 00:22:00,760
Speaker 2: flexibility wasn't that great. But like you know, if it

450
00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:03,360
Speaker 2: was spring break or something like that, that meant I'm

451
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:04,879
Speaker 2: gonna go spend it with you. I'm not about to

452
00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 2: be like I'm going to Jamaica with my girls. No,

453
00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:08,320
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be with you.

454
00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:11,919
Speaker 1: And then once you moved out of here, Marcus, did

455
00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:13,800
Speaker 1: you guys get engaged or did you get pregnant?

456
00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:15,320
Speaker 3: What happened next?

457
00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 4: Now? I got we decided. I decided I was gonna

458
00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:22,760
Speaker 4: move out to California, and so we had already planned

459
00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:25,680
Speaker 4: the move and everything. Had an apartment lined up, and

460
00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:29,879
Speaker 4: I proposed. I proposed the week before you moved the

461
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:33,840
Speaker 4: other week before I moved out here on the phone, no, no.

462
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:38,679
Speaker 2: So his family had a really big event that like,

463
00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:40,639
Speaker 2: his family is a part of one of the oldest

464
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 2: black settlements in Kentucky, so they have like a day

465
00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 2: for the town. It's called New Zion Day. So I

466
00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:49,680
Speaker 2: had never been. I knew it was important to him,

467
00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:52,200
Speaker 2: so I flew in for that, even though I knew

468
00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:54,640
Speaker 2: I was flying back in the next weekend for him

469
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:56,760
Speaker 2: to move, but because it was important to him, I

470
00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:58,919
Speaker 2: was like, I ain't got nothing that I'm doing this weekend,

471
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:01,840
Speaker 2: so I'll come in. I had made it known to

472
00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:04,679
Speaker 2: him prior to that. You know, I grew up very

473
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:08,199
Speaker 2: in a very strict Christian household, and I was just like,

474
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:11,119
Speaker 2: the thought of living with a guy that I was

475
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:15,919
Speaker 2: not married to was I still hadn't broke from that completely,

476
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:19,359
Speaker 2: so I felt a little uneasy about it. And I

477
00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:21,600
Speaker 2: was like, I mean, I'm not about to force us

478
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 2: to try to get married just so I mean we

479
00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 2: there was no way he was gonna be able to

480
00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:28,800
Speaker 2: afford or me be able to afford him living out here,

481
00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:31,040
Speaker 2: and that's not living together. That was just gonna be stupid, right,

482
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 2: not for the sake.

483
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Speaker 1: Of it was not Listen, God, dear god.

484
00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:38,639
Speaker 2: We ain't got coin money. I ain't not a coin,

485
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 2: so we're just gonna waste money for us to be

486
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:42,960
Speaker 2: at each other's side. It would been a front anyways.

487
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:44,800
Speaker 2: I would have been staying at his place or my place.

488
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:49,040
Speaker 2: It's gonna be dumb. But I was like, it would

489
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:52,400
Speaker 2: make me feel a little better if I was at

490
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:54,879
Speaker 2: least engaged to the person I was living with.

491
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 3: I told him, but had you had sex before this?

492
00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 2: We had had. We had a lot of before and

493
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:06,480
Speaker 2: then you chad a very after the proposal, No, right before,

494
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 2: probably before the proposal. We had a long, long time

495
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,440
Speaker 2: of celibacy. You guys agree together that you're going to

496
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 2: take a break. Yes, we decided to take a break,

497
00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:17,399
Speaker 2: which we don't while you were living together.

498
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 3: While you were living together, Wow.

499
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 2: Where to start?

500
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:24,919
Speaker 4: Just stay at it? No getting back into.

501
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 2: It was It was not like riding a bike.

502
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 1: It was like awkward. How long did you guys take

503
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:29,960
Speaker 1: a celibacy break?

504
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:34,560
Speaker 2: Eleven months? Wow? While living together? Now you guys are divided.

505
00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:36,840
Speaker 4: You consider that like complete celibacy because we was.

506
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 2: Some ship was happening.

507
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 4: Because we we we said yeah, oh yeah, we were.

508
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:49,080
Speaker 2: Celibate for there was definitely it was definitely church girl celibate.

509
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:56,400
Speaker 1: Ye right, you know when he got the shower, it's

510
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 1: a whole bunch of head giving.

511
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:04,439
Speaker 2: Oh my god, this is so good. But it was

512
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:07,399
Speaker 2: definitely not our usual behavior. But like that, there was

513
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:08,399
Speaker 2: definitely it.

514
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:13,479
Speaker 4: Was a it was a uh, churchy improvement, was it?

515
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 1: Because she was figured, we're engaged, now let's try and

516
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:17,200
Speaker 1: withhold until we get married.

517
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 2: No, I wanted to hold off from jump. It's just

518
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 2: I don't have that much will power by myself. Like

519
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 2: I'm not that like I do want to have sex.

520
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 2: I want to do all of the things. But if

521
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:33,120
Speaker 2: you not on safe pa, we're just gonna be having sex.

522
00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 2: That's just is what it is.

523
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 1: Is your family that you grew up really religious in

524
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 1: a Christian family too.

525
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:39,720
Speaker 4: It was Christian family. But we wouldn't like, you know,

526
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 4: bad shit crazy like a lot of black church peo

527
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:45,359
Speaker 4: be judgmental. Yeah, I'm just because it'd be crazy. The

528
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:48,680
Speaker 4: stories I'll be hearing as a grown man, I'm like, what, yeah,

529
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:52,480
Speaker 4: y'all's pastor SI man. But anyway, So it was it

530
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 4: would have been desired. I'm sure to you know, stay

531
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 4: a version whatever. I mean, that was long out the door,

532
00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:01,359
Speaker 4: but you know, not to have sex before Mary. But

533
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 4: it wasn't nobody I got, wait for me, people in

534
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:06,639
Speaker 4: the church that's got kids by three different women in

535
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:08,479
Speaker 4: the church, and it is all kinds of stuff. So

536
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:10,880
Speaker 4: it was the same as any other church. There wasn't

537
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:14,360
Speaker 4: no pressure for me. I was like, all right, if

538
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:17,400
Speaker 4: your morals are getting till you found it ain't nothing

539
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:18,440
Speaker 4: else we can do at this point.

540
00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 3: So what motivated you to?

541
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 1: Like what made you know like this is the woman

542
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 1: I'm gonna marry.

543
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 4: During the relationship, just how close we were, and I

544
00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 4: realized even earlier on it was like we make each

545
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:33,479
Speaker 4: other better, like she makes me better as a person,

546
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 4: And that was like an easy now this is it.

547
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:40,440
Speaker 4: That's why even like I knew her desires. It ain't

548
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 4: like she told me, well you move out here. We

549
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 4: got lived together, like I can knew that's what she wanted.

550
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 4: That wasn't even like a repeated thing. I was just like,

551
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:52,159
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna I understand. So that making that step

552
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:55,159
Speaker 4: and me realizing all right, I'm we're gonna get engaged.

553
00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 4: What am I waiting for? You know? I had that

554
00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 4: same mentality that most men have. It's like, oh, I

555
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 4: won't hold off until this is inland. That's inland, and

556
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 4: everything gotta be right. Things will never be right. Just

557
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:08,919
Speaker 4: do it and build something with it. So it was

558
00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:15,880
Speaker 4: probably I don't know, after the first year, M baby,

559
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 4: I definitely knew like this is what's gonna be.

560
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 1: But yeah, that's beautiful. So we asked you we have

561
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 1: I know these lights again. We have some special questions

562
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 1: that you guys answered before the show, and we're gonna

563
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 1: ask each of you to see how well you know

564
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 1: each other.

565
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 3: Okay, are you ready? Who wants to go first?

566
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 4: I'll go first?

567
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:48,920
Speaker 2: Okay? What is Angel's favorite color?

568
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 4: Yep?

569
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 3: What's her overall? Pet? Peeve?

570
00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 4: Hearing people chew and swallow and.

571
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 2: Swallow? She was swallow herself, so I never get I

572
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 2: can't hear myself.

573
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 4: You know.

574
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 1: I don't like people like making unnecessary noises. That's like,

575
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:10,919
Speaker 1: are you like doing something important?

576
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:15,359
Speaker 3: Stop thinking? What's her? Pet peeve?

577
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:16,920
Speaker 2: When it comes to you hearing meet you?

578
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 4: Oh?

579
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:20,960
Speaker 2: Did that write something? Did was it something? On the yeah?

580
00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 3: Pet peeve?

581
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 1: When it comes to your partner. I don't even remember

582
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:27,680
Speaker 1: what you wrote, not not taking the advice that she's giving.

583
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 2: Oh, I thought she's no, no, no, I thought it

584
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:30,680
Speaker 2: said my mother.

585
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:36,919
Speaker 4: You got the contact from next door glasses.

586
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 2: Girl.

587
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 5: I was like, I don't recall answering that my mother

588
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 5: doesn't take the advice that she's I was like, why,

589
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 5: why is it a question about my mom?

590
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 2: Girl? Yes, I do.

591
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 1: I know how.

592
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:56,080
Speaker 2: I didn't read that whole sentence because I was talking.

593
00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 1: Sorry, sorry, I was asking for a million questions.

594
00:28:58,560 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 3: I talk a lot.

595
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 2: No, it's all good, it's all good, but you would

596
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:02,240
Speaker 2: be right. Him chewing gets some.

597
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 1: Under you and everybody else. What is her childhood pet's name?

598
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 4: What was that dog's name? It was two bulldogs? Uh

599
00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 4: I don't did you even have a pas? I know

600
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 4: y'all have bulldogs.

601
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 3: We had.

602
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 2: It wasn't Gabby, but you're close. This was the same Bernard.

603
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 4: You're very close, Debbie, Gabby uh On. It was like

604
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 4: a white name, Kizzy.

605
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 1: Kizzy was a cat mittens an Abby Abby Iyah.

606
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 2: It's pretty right. Abby Abigail was her name. We called

607
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 2: her Abby.

608
00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:42,480
Speaker 1: What would what would she says? Her best quality?

609
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 4: She would say her humor.

610
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 3: She's a giving person.

611
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 4: Okay, that too.

612
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:55,080
Speaker 2: Humor is a good one. I believen thinking about like

613
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 2: I think of that as a skill set. But you're right,

614
00:29:57,560 --> 00:29:58,840
Speaker 2: it is a personal quality.

615
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 3: You're right. And what is her? What was she think

616
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 3: is her worst quality?

617
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 4: What it is?

618
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 2: What you would think my worst quality was your cleanliness?

619
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 2: Oh god, damn cleanliness?

620
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 4: About how I think organization?

621
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 2: I don't know, like Capricorn or Virgo worst quality.

622
00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:16,960
Speaker 4: I don't know what your work. What you would think

623
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 4: your worst quality is?

624
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 2: I would think you would say that I'm too giving

625
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 2: of a person.

626
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 4: You can't be yes, yes, oh no, you don't pull

627
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 4: it back past couple of years.

628
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:28,960
Speaker 2: I've been trying to take your adviser. She said, yeah,

629
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 2: no longer.

630
00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 4: So you were wrong. Go ahead.

631
00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:36,760
Speaker 1: She don't know herself. Yah know my mother, he knows

632
00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: you better. What is she most sensitive about?

633
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 4: You? Ain't sensitive? She's most sensitive about it? Why you

634
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 4: do that?

635
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 2: I know her is sensitive?

636
00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:53,960
Speaker 3: She has to.

637
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 2: She's a cancer. She just be faking like she's not sensitive.

638
00:30:58,280 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 2: Do you see that? No one else.

639
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 4: Ses you are most see I do want to say,

640
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 4: get introuble. I might be wrong. I was like, so

641
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 4: what do you think I.

642
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 2: Don't know how angel you when you get home? Yes,

643
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 2: I do. There's no hesitation, not the type.

644
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 4: That he likes. No yours spot.

645
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 1: Okay, she's most sensitive about her emotions.

646
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 4: She's emotional, not emotional.

647
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 1: Not privately when when the doors are locked and no

648
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 1: one can stisted's emotional.

649
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 4: But she is. She's she has emotions. Most people don't

650
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 4: see that. That's what.

651
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 3: About that her question? That's true, you.

652
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 2: Wrote these questions.

653
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 4: She's got alopecia. So every now and then, yeah, a

654
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 4: random spottle pop up and I'm.

655
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 2: Like, that's what it could be the size of this table, baby,

656
00:31:55,800 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 2: it's so small. Partner, what are you talking about?

657
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:01,560
Speaker 3: It was some ship?

658
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:06,160
Speaker 1: What has she accomplished? That she is most proud of

659
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 1: her career and having four boys? Oh yeah, what is

660
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 1: her biggest?

661
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 3: Insecurity?

662
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:18,960
Speaker 2: Didn't you that was what she sensitive about?

663
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 4: Insecurity?

664
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 3: He's afraid.

665
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:28,479
Speaker 4: I don't know, I don't know what she's right.

666
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 2: The other one that was the answer, okay, but you

667
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 2: put it online.

668
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 4: I don't think you a sensitive about it.

669
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 2: You was like, look y'all, that's how I worked through

670
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 2: my vulnerability. You're like, yeah, that's why you're like.

671
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 1: My husbands those two particular questions, naked and afraid?

672
00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:50,560
Speaker 2: That's perfect her ears.

673
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 1: What would her deal breaker be in the relationship?

674
00:32:58,680 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 4: Child by somebody else?

675
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 3: Yeah?

676
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 2: Cheating?

677
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess everyone was like, hell no, cheating and

678
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 1: child by somebody else are two different things.

679
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 2: Okay?

680
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:06,960
Speaker 3: Yeah?

681
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 4: I mean I read a deal breaker as when you're dating, like,

682
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:11,040
Speaker 4: what would be a deal.

683
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:12,680
Speaker 2: Breaker in your marriage?

684
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 4: The marriage?

685
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 2: But yeah, if you definitely, you ain't coming back from

686
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:27,280
Speaker 2: making to make it back? So sorry, listen, mom, so listen,

687
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 2: I'm not judging you.

688
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 3: And where does she like to goro through your shop?

689
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 4: Instacrat?

690
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 1: Correct me too, girl? Who's her favorite musical artist of

691
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 1: all time?

692
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:38,080
Speaker 4: Shaka Khan?

693
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 2: That makes sense? And of course, of course, I just

694
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 2: thought i'd make it easy for you. But you're right, Shaka?

695
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 2: Is she my girl?

696
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:53,600
Speaker 3: What is her guilty? Guilty? Pleasure sweets reality TV?

697
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 4: Guilty of that? I can't tell.

698
00:33:57,000 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 1: She just gotten proud, you get real comfortable.

699
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 2: Every day looks a little different.

700
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 1: What's your favorite reality TV?

701
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 4: Oh?

702
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 2: My god, all of them? You know. I used to love,

703
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 2: uh Real Housewives of Atlanta, but they're falling off that it.

704
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 3: Came love these days?

705
00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like shows about real estate.

706
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 4: I can get real real estate, like the reality show.

707
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 1: Of Estate, but you see all the houses and the dramas.

708
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 2: I like opulence though people gotta have money. I don't

709
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:32,719
Speaker 2: want to watch Folk the Real Housewives of Dubai. I

710
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 2: tried started watching that, but I couldn't link into the characters.

711
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 2: Are they good? I don't know.

712
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 1: I just I think opulence. I think I was gonna say,

713
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:41,880
Speaker 1: what does opulence mean? Like rich people?

714
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:46,239
Speaker 2: Rich and flashy like Godi, Like I want to see

715
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 2: how far money can go. So that's the reason I

716
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:51,600
Speaker 2: was going to say, like Russian, like Russian luxury potentially, Yeah,

717
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:53,880
Speaker 2: I want to see how how much money it costs

718
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:54,640
Speaker 2: to do what you're doing.

719
00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 1: Love I love that ship too, Like I'm not thinking

720
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:00,720
Speaker 1: big enough every time you feel like I'm just think bigger.

721
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 2: It does? I feel like for me, it lets me

722
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:05,279
Speaker 2: see a world that I feel like we've been kept

723
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 2: out of. So I'm like, I want to see what Yeah,

724
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 2: I want to see what you're doing so I can

725
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:11,960
Speaker 2: start changing my perception of what's possible.

726
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 4: I like that.

727
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:19,880
Speaker 1: What is Angel's favorite porn category?

728
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 4: She would have to watch porn first.

729
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:25,279
Speaker 1: Apparently she has she has an answer here, So she

730
00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 1: watched it.

731
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 3: That's a that's a category.

732
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 2: I was like, no, it's not. Orlando.

733
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:39,319
Speaker 3: Positions are category. We just never just never, I don't know,

734
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:40,319
Speaker 3: I never searched them.

735
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 2: They never come up on like this, like when you

736
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 2: drop down.

737
00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 1: I never seen Like, okay, that's so what is hers

738
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 1: is actually amateur.

739
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:51,440
Speaker 2: I don't like when it's to produced. I mean some

740
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 2: amateur ones is just like you didn't even try? Do

741
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:56,200
Speaker 2: you want to do this or not? Are you trying?

742
00:35:57,600 --> 00:35:59,320
Speaker 2: Do you want to make money? Are you just fucking

743
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 2: When it's like to too well produced? Just like this,

744
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:08,240
Speaker 2: it's the watch scripted terrible music.

745
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, listening you little to your knowledge angels watching porn,

746
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 1: you might.

747
00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 2: She was like, they still actually really good at it.

748
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:29,800
Speaker 1: I really like backshots with Lola shot.

749
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 3: She's the amateur queen.

750
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:38,759
Speaker 1: How old was she when she lost her virginity and

751
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 1: where was she.

752
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 4: Place? I mean it was definitely in college and doring room.

753
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:50,719
Speaker 4: I'm assuming, uh age nineteen.

754
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 1: You're correct she was in the dorm room and she

755
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:53,840
Speaker 1: was eighteen.

756
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:57,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was eighteen. I definitely hadn't made it to

757
00:36:57,920 --> 00:36:59,800
Speaker 2: nineteen years. I was trying to I was like that.

758
00:36:59,920 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 2: I didn't know.

759
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 4: I wasn't.

760
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:01,720
Speaker 3: I'm an adult.

761
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:06,319
Speaker 1: Fuck it right, God said, God, I'm sorry I made

762
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:06,880
Speaker 1: into adults.

763
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 3: We all live in the same building. Technically we lived together.

764
00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:14,440
Speaker 2: We lived together one roof. God, that's all you're specified.

765
00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 2: That's it.

766
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 1: You didn't say which room number which sweet? What moment

767
00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 1: did she know she loved.

768
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:26,359
Speaker 4: You when she heard my name?

769
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 2: What name? I didn't know I loved you then I

770
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,879
Speaker 2: was going to marry you when you heard your name? Yeah?

771
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I love me. Hold on, she knew she

772
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 4: loved me. Uh, there's a story behind the name thing. Yeah,

773
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 4: first trip to California. Mm hmm.

774
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:49,880
Speaker 1: When when his ex friend tried to get back with him,

775
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:51,400
Speaker 1: When he's like, girlfriend.

776
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 2: To get back with him, I'll call her friend out

777
00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:56,239
Speaker 2: a girlfriend. Okay, Well it's gonna recall her calling you

778
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:59,319
Speaker 2: drunk and you had to call her back to let

779
00:37:59,320 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 2: her know.

780
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:01,120
Speaker 4: I don't remember that.

781
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god, cancers don't forget ship.

782
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 2: I don't got she knows what DA was?

783
00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 4: I know.

784
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,839
Speaker 2: No, you don't remember this. You know who I'm referring to. Yeah,

785
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:15,239
Speaker 2: so you don't remember any of that?

786
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:16,839
Speaker 4: No, Oh my god.

787
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 2: Today, Well that's when you knew.

788
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:20,240
Speaker 4: Yeah.

789
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:24,920
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I'm pressed. I impressed because you were.

790
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 1: You were like, call her back and tell her that's

791
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 1: not the option.

792
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:30,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, You're like no, no, well no I was no.

793
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 2: Actually I didn't ask him to. He did it on

794
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:35,839
Speaker 2: his own to like prove to me, like, that's not

795
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:38,799
Speaker 2: even saying okay.

796
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:44,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm like, yeah, hello, she called me.

797
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:50,680
Speaker 2: This sounds like it was like two weeks ago. I'm like,

798
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:53,920
Speaker 2: she called him crying, wanting to be with them, and

799
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:57,360
Speaker 2: I was like, girl, I okay you. I was like,

800
00:38:57,400 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 2: does she know you're coming infringing on my plans?

801
00:38:59,880 --> 00:39:00,879
Speaker 3: And yeah?

802
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 2: Yeah?

803
00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 3: What is her biggest fear?

804
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:09,400
Speaker 4: Big stuff like the ocean, space, the biggest.

805
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 1: Fear okay, yes, of someone she loves, the death of

806
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 1: someone she loves.

807
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:18,280
Speaker 3: What is her favorite position?

808
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 2: Dog ding ding ding ding.

809
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:27,760
Speaker 1: Would she prefer to save or spend money? Save, spend

810
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 1: the exclamation mark.

811
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 2: We only am saving because it's the smart thing, not

812
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:37,840
Speaker 2: because she preferred to spend spend, So I'm trying to

813
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 2: learn from these reality TV shows. Spend the money.

814
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 3: What is her celebrity crush.

815
00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 4: The rock and ain't no telling hold on the rock?

816
00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:51,919
Speaker 4: Who else looks young?

817
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 3: There?

818
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 2: You go, let's be in crushed once I have whatever

819
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:04,800
Speaker 2: crushed lesbian hetero by all of them, I'll take her altogether,

820
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:06,719
Speaker 2: whatever the whole alphabet.

821
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 1: Okay, understandable. She's perfect, and she has the money. She

822
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:11,240
Speaker 1: knows how to get money.

823
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:12,880
Speaker 4: She's caught her names.

824
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 2: I know I'm coming.

825
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 4: I was like, I'll think about it too fast.

826
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 2: Said a threesome. My goodness, only she knew. How does

827
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:32,880
Speaker 2: she feel about non monogamy?

828
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 4: Oh? Ship, that's what that says.

829
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:40,279
Speaker 3: I can't wait to see what.

830
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 4: She wrote monogamy.

831
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:51,960
Speaker 2: It's not for her, that's what she wrote eight for me.

832
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 2: But to inches out I can't Oh, oh god, so

833
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:03,400
Speaker 2: I can't you just cut out the nod? Oh? I

834
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:06,720
Speaker 2: love it. I want more of it.

835
00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 3: So much monogamy.

836
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:10,879
Speaker 2: Right now?

837
00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:17,440
Speaker 1: What is her favorite memory of you guys' relationship?

838
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 4: You ain't get it. I didn't know my own.

839
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I struggled, and I just picked the first house purchase.

840
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:24,320
Speaker 2: I thought about that one.

841
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 3: Though, hiking in Hawaii.

842
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:28,919
Speaker 4: Yeah it was a good one too. I was about

843
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 4: to put Atlanta last year.

844
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:33,040
Speaker 2: What happened.

845
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 4: There's just a lot of same replaced that room.

846
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:40,640
Speaker 2: Bring a whole new room. You could turn the room

847
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:43,000
Speaker 2: over Atlanta? Does that Atlanta? You know what?

848
00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:43,719
Speaker 3: It's true.

849
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:45,799
Speaker 4: It's a vacation for wars though, so it was like

850
00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 4: no kids and everything. I was working.

851
00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:49,000
Speaker 2: It was not a vacation.

852
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:52,719
Speaker 1: It's like for me, it was do all the work,

853
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:58,640
Speaker 1: come give me some what what did what did she

854
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:00,239
Speaker 1: wish her partners?

855
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 2: This way?

856
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:02,879
Speaker 3: You broke this question? Sorry?

857
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:06,839
Speaker 1: What did she wish you saw more of in her?

858
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:10,120
Speaker 2: Oh? And me, don't answer it. Don't it's the wrong

859
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 2: I thought in you listen, this is what I read

860
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 2: that too.

861
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:15,360
Speaker 3: But we can't answer it that way. If that's what

862
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 3: you if I tell you answered it?

863
00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 2: What do I wish you saw more in yourself that

864
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 2: she sees that I see?

865
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 3: That is what that is the question. Okay, well that's

866
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 3: what I meant.

867
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 4: That's what you meant.

868
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:32,520
Speaker 1: I read perfect, They got it.

869
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:35,239
Speaker 4: What do I wish I saw more? No?

870
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:36,400
Speaker 2: What do I wish?

871
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:38,759
Speaker 4: What do you wish I saw more of it myself? Yes,

872
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:40,839
Speaker 4: that's when I I don't care what I said. That's

873
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:44,440
Speaker 4: what I thought. I don't care what I said. That's

874
00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 4: what I said. You wish I saw? Uh?

875
00:42:56,440 --> 00:43:02,560
Speaker 1: My intelligence, his body, he is amazing, amazing.

876
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:04,840
Speaker 2: He complains about it.

877
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just laughing that he thought it was

878
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 1: his intelligence and she was like, no, it's his body.

879
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, complains about it like a middle school white girl.

880
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 4: Right now.

881
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, you look like you're doing good over there. Oh,

882
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:26,319
Speaker 2: he's always like you have bad taste, Agel, you take this.

883
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:27,480
Speaker 2: You look like fitness.

884
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:31,120
Speaker 4: It look like a look like a pregnant humanoid grass.

885
00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:45,920
Speaker 4: Imagine what that looked like, long legs. You want to know.

886
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,800
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm gonna get a lot of these wrongs,

887
00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:53,359
Speaker 2: So get ready.

888
00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 3: Come on, fifteen years. I'm believe in you.

889
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:57,600
Speaker 2: Don't don't do myself.

890
00:43:58,080 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 3: Okay, what is Marcus his favorite coloring?

891
00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 4: Blue? Yes?

892
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:03,440
Speaker 3: What is his overall pet peeve?

893
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 2: Jesus, I know there's so many. He is a list

894
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:12,880
Speaker 2: of pet peeves. It's either unclean house or having to

895
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:19,440
Speaker 2: talk on the phone in annoying people.

896
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:21,160
Speaker 3: Who kind of crowds.

897
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:23,920
Speaker 2: He don't like these crowds.

898
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:26,840
Speaker 3: Pet peeve when it comes to you.

899
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:28,240
Speaker 2: The way I keep the house.

900
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:28,799
Speaker 4: Yep.

901
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:30,799
Speaker 1: But he said, but you just said he don't like

902
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:34,400
Speaker 1: a dirty house. But he but he's annoyed with your cleanliness.

903
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:38,359
Speaker 2: I don't keep I thought you were saying that you're

904
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:42,320
Speaker 2: so like O C D. I wish ah. Okay, that

905
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 2: makes more sense. I would love our house to be

906
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:48,120
Speaker 2: mad perfect. I know it ain't O.

907
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 4: People see our house. They thoroughly impressed the fact that

908
00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 4: we got four a kid. It's like, it's so clean here.

909
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:56,799
Speaker 2: And it's our boys, specifically poor boys, and only one

910
00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 2: of them just demonstrates any type of cleanliness.

911
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:01,319
Speaker 4: Only one.

912
00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 3: What is Marcus's childhood pet's name?

913
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:08,480
Speaker 2: He had a dog named Missy.

914
00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:09,640
Speaker 4: That's right.

915
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:13,560
Speaker 3: What would you say is what would he say is

916
00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:16,319
Speaker 3: his best quality? Mmm?

917
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 2: It would either be his intelligence or his humor or

918
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 2: his ingenuity, like he's really good at like his with

919
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:29,279
Speaker 2: his hands, like figuring things out.

920
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:32,280
Speaker 3: He said his humor? What is his worst quality?

921
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:33,840
Speaker 4: Answer?

922
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:39,040
Speaker 2: And he's like, I don't have one of those. He

923
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:40,000
Speaker 2: complains a lot.

924
00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:44,000
Speaker 3: Temper.

925
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:46,560
Speaker 2: You don't have a temper.

926
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:51,880
Speaker 3: He does not.

927
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 2: I wouldn't be with you if you had a short temper.

928
00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:54,960
Speaker 4: Not with you.

929
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:55,840
Speaker 2: No, in general, you do.

930
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:57,239
Speaker 1: I would like it if you had it in like

931
00:45:57,239 --> 00:46:00,160
Speaker 1: you can't take it about side like, oh no you don't, No,

932
00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 1: I would.

933
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 2: I don't got time have a fifth child. Oh God,

934
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 2: go to a crowd, you're gonna get in a fight, yes,

935
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:07,880
Speaker 2: and then no, you don't have a short fuse. You

936
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:10,560
Speaker 2: don't put up with a lot of ship, but you

937
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 2: don't have.

938
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 3: What is he most sensitive about?

939
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:15,520
Speaker 4: Me? No?

940
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:18,400
Speaker 3: Him? What is he most sensitive about about you?

941
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:21,719
Speaker 2: Oh?

942
00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:22,000
Speaker 4: Me?

943
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:25,240
Speaker 2: Or yeah, his mama?

944
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:35,560
Speaker 1: He put my body question mark. That's what is he

945
00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:38,960
Speaker 1: most proud of? What is something he's accomplished that he's

946
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 1: most proud of?

947
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 2: This buying this third house? Uh no, okay, it's not

948
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 2: buying his third house. Starting your own business, I don't know.

949
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:51,360
Speaker 3: He sort of self employment?

950
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 2: Self employment?

951
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:52,520
Speaker 4: Okay?

952
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:54,719
Speaker 2: Yeah?

953
00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:56,680
Speaker 3: What is his biggest insecurity?

954
00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:05,719
Speaker 2: Either your body or you're handwriting? Reading, reading out loud.

955
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:08,719
Speaker 2: It was one of those things that that was at

956
00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 2: the top of my list. But I was like, I

957
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:11,279
Speaker 2: ain't trying to call him out if he ain't put

958
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:11,799
Speaker 2: it on the way.

959
00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 4: I can read a thousand words a minute, but tell

960
00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 4: me to read you.

961
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:18,839
Speaker 3: You get nervous, just.

962
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:23,520
Speaker 4: Like I get nervous when other people read for them class.

963
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:27,759
Speaker 4: I think it's from younger in my family, so my

964
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:29,839
Speaker 4: older cousins that could all read very well. So when

965
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:32,399
Speaker 4: it came to me there with you, when I hear

966
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:35,000
Speaker 4: other people stump, I'm like, oh, no, you can get

967
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:36,960
Speaker 4: through it. I don't like it.

968
00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:43,200
Speaker 1: Oh no, you know I feeled that too when I

969
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 1: see people reading the Struggle and people.

970
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 2: Be laughing at like, yeah, he's like, I'm not having it,

971
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:53,479
Speaker 2: don't you don't you laugh at you encourage that baby her, like.

972
00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:55,400
Speaker 4: You read really fast.

973
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 1: I was like to me, Yeah, I also feel like

974
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:02,000
Speaker 1: laughing comedy show.

975
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:05,520
Speaker 2: You get secondhand embarrassment.

976
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 6: Yeah.

977
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:08,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh no.

978
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:10,760
Speaker 1: I don't like people feel it takes so much courage

979
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:11,200
Speaker 1: to do it.

980
00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:14,880
Speaker 2: I'm like, this is not going well. I can actually

981
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 2: laugh at so many angel it's a learning experience.

982
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:24,760
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

983
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:27,560
Speaker 1: Okay, what I would be a deal breaker in your

984
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:34,400
Speaker 1: relationship for him? Okay, just in general, what would be

985
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 1: a deal breaker in a relationship for him?

986
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:45,600
Speaker 2: It's not cheating or lying. It's a habit, a habit

987
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 2: not having sex.

988
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:51,239
Speaker 3: It's smoking cigarettes.

989
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:55,279
Speaker 2: Oh, we never talked about it, so I wouldn't.

990
00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 3: Because none of y'all. Y'all't spoke nothing over there. He

991
00:48:56,560 --> 00:48:59,600
Speaker 3: smokes cigards, which is a very strong smell too.

992
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:01,799
Speaker 2: It is that's a difference.

993
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 3: Cars. Yeah, lightheaded though, right a little bit and give

994
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:05,879
Speaker 3: you like.

995
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:09,840
Speaker 4: Get a little high. It depens on can me. It

996
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 4: just relaxes me.

997
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:13,640
Speaker 3: Where does he like to grocery shop?

998
00:49:14,239 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 2: It's the car, y'all or something.

999
00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 1: I ain't going to the supermarket. The last time y'all went,

1000
00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:20,359
Speaker 1: I can't even remember.

1001
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:20,520
Speaker 2: You know.

1002
00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:21,560
Speaker 3: Sometimes they don't be picking up.

1003
00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 2: They don't get the right stuff they do, like the

1004
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 2: littlest one.

1005
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:29,279
Speaker 3: I'm like, yo, this is not gonna be right for

1006
00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:30,880
Speaker 3: twenty days.

1007
00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:33,440
Speaker 2: They there's so many things that they get wrong. We

1008
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:36,680
Speaker 2: don't eat pork, and so we always opt for like

1009
00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 2: the chicken or turkey version. They'll be like regular bacon,

1010
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:41,479
Speaker 2: that's what they wanted.

1011
00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:43,880
Speaker 4: Usually I will go to the store if I'm like

1012
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:45,560
Speaker 4: putting food on the grill, I'm like, I need this

1013
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 4: to be right.

1014
00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:52,600
Speaker 3: So yeah, what's his favorite musical artist? Jay z Beyonce

1015
00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:57,480
Speaker 3: to what is his guilty pleasure?

1016
00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:03,720
Speaker 2: Uh? Is it driving the Mustang? Shooting guns?

1017
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:07,360
Speaker 3: Driving shooting guns the Mustang?

1018
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:10,800
Speaker 4: Okay, guilty pleasure?

1019
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:11,280
Speaker 2: Guilty.

1020
00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:14,440
Speaker 4: I take pride in shooting guns and driving the mustard, eating.

1021
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 2: Sweets, watching the Real Housewives of Atlanta or social media, Like.

1022
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:28,160
Speaker 1: I don't know, no, no, not, it's guilty pure being petty.

1023
00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 2: You don't feel guilty about that. No, you don't.

1024
00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 1: What is his favorite porn category?

1025
00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:40,200
Speaker 2: Well, you said dogg yourself because it's a category, right,

1026
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:49,080
Speaker 2: Is that a big, big boy? Any of those clothes

1027
00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 2: I'm giving you porn category?

1028
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:54,719
Speaker 4: They got something to do with it.

1029
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:57,560
Speaker 2: It helps big as shots.

1030
00:50:57,800 --> 00:51:00,279
Speaker 1: But she said that, she said dogg dog I did

1031
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:00,600
Speaker 1: say that.

1032
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:01,040
Speaker 4: Sorry.

1033
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:03,880
Speaker 3: How old was he when he lost his virginity? And

1034
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:04,440
Speaker 3: where was he?

1035
00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:05,759
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1036
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 2: You were sixteen mm at the girl's house. Yeah.

1037
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:15,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, what moment did he know that he loved you?

1038
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:19,800
Speaker 2: Uh? We were still long distance.

1039
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1040
00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 2: Maybe in a conversation with your dad. I don't know.

1041
00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:30,680
Speaker 1: Was it one of the trips out to California, first

1042
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:31,879
Speaker 1: visit to California?

1043
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 2: Ooo? That was early? Oh yes, it was. Okay, that's

1044
00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:37,319
Speaker 2: what I thought.

1045
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 1: He decided on You're gonna be mine.

1046
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:42,799
Speaker 3: What is his biggest fear?

1047
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:46,880
Speaker 4: I hadn't looked it up. I didn't know how to

1048
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:47,239
Speaker 4: spell it.

1049
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:49,319
Speaker 3: Oh I don't know what that says.

1050
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:52,160
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Well then I ain't gonna guess it.

1051
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:54,400
Speaker 3: Oh wait, I do know what it is. Okay, I

1052
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:54,800
Speaker 3: know what it is.

1053
00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:56,360
Speaker 2: No, I'm saying I ain't gonna be able to guess it.

1054
00:51:56,400 --> 00:52:00,200
Speaker 2: If they didn't know what the word meant, not being

1055
00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:06,319
Speaker 2: able to provide for your family, being a widow and

1056
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:10,840
Speaker 2: having raised these kids by yourself. I'm a get man

1057
00:52:10,719 --> 00:52:17,759
Speaker 2: another woman. Yeah, I have no idea and yours oh okay, Yeah,

1058
00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:24,840
Speaker 2: he'd be worried about blood cloths. That's super specific.

1059
00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 4: Like so and so passed away for what and your.

1060
00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:33,080
Speaker 2: What that's true that.

1061
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:37,440
Speaker 1: I have one head like I'd be like, oh no,

1062
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 1: you have anythinking that?

1063
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:40,080
Speaker 2: Like what if just chill?

1064
00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:41,839
Speaker 3: What is his favorite sexposition?

1065
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:43,000
Speaker 4: Dog east.

1066
00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:48,960
Speaker 2: Me on that? Nope, oh my god, sideways way.

1067
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:52,239
Speaker 3: You know, it's encompassing all these things. It's just straight sex.

1068
00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:56,880
Speaker 2: All of them inside of me somewhere.

1069
00:52:58,320 --> 00:53:05,600
Speaker 3: Would he prefer to save money or spend and spin on?

1070
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 3: What is this? Who is a celebrity? Crush?

1071
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:11,359
Speaker 4: Mm hmm?

1072
00:53:12,239 --> 00:53:15,400
Speaker 2: Crush is not a long? Is it me?

1073
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:16,480
Speaker 1: Literally?

1074
00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:17,040
Speaker 4: All of them?

1075
00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 2: But I don't know, I don't know.

1076
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:25,640
Speaker 4: It's I love me some black women.

1077
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:33,360
Speaker 3: How does he feel about non monogamy?

1078
00:53:33,840 --> 00:53:38,719
Speaker 1: Well, he thought, how does he feel about monogamy? It's

1079
00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:43,000
Speaker 1: good when necessary, it's important plus needed for me, it's

1080
00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 1: needed regulations, regulations, I can or cannot call the cash

1081
00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:50,400
Speaker 1: register laated.

1082
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:55,120
Speaker 2: Baby, No, okay, got it got it, got.

1083
00:53:56,440 --> 00:54:00,319
Speaker 1: Favorite memory of your of his of your relationship. What's

1084
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 1: his favorite.

1085
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:04,440
Speaker 2: Memory buying our last house?

1086
00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:14,759
Speaker 3: Yep? What does he wish you saw more of in

1087
00:54:14,880 --> 00:54:16,040
Speaker 3: your in yourself.

1088
00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:23,360
Speaker 2: That I can do anything.

1089
00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 3: Close the value in your ideas?

1090
00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:30,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what That's kind of what I mean. But

1091
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:33,320
Speaker 2: you know I didn't say, good job.

1092
00:54:33,560 --> 00:54:38,480
Speaker 1: Guys, fifteen years of marriage and still.

1093
00:54:38,239 --> 00:54:41,120
Speaker 2: Confused about what the other person is doing. So y'all

1094
00:54:41,160 --> 00:54:43,240
Speaker 2: have four kids, four boys?

1095
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:47,280
Speaker 1: How the fuck do you do that? How and have sex?

1096
00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:49,879
Speaker 1: So when do you find the time to do that?

1097
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 2: We did it right before we came here at the house,

1098
00:54:58,080 --> 00:55:03,759
Speaker 2: fine glowing. It's so funny. He was, like we were

1099
00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:07,239
Speaker 2: just talking about on our podcast that. He was like,

1100
00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:10,720
Speaker 2: I love spontaneity. I don't like sex to be planned.

1101
00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:14,080
Speaker 2: I was like, our sexist planned, I hate to kill.

1102
00:55:17,920 --> 00:55:18,440
Speaker 4: Don't tell me.

1103
00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:24,920
Speaker 2: Yeah. For me being that, like there was even before

1104
00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:29,680
Speaker 2: we before we had our little celibacy time, we were

1105
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:32,880
Speaker 2: like rabbits, like we did it all the time, especially

1106
00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:35,080
Speaker 2: because we were long distance, so when I would come

1107
00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:38,799
Speaker 2: into town, it just seemed like it was NonStop. So

1108
00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:44,680
Speaker 2: after kids, after my first child, things drastically changed for me.

1109
00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:48,800
Speaker 2: My libido just took a vacation, and I was like, bitch,

1110
00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:53,000
Speaker 2: is you coming back? So I wanted to be a

1111
00:55:53,040 --> 00:55:56,160
Speaker 2: little bit more proactive about it, and so it took

1112
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:59,480
Speaker 2: because me waiting was doing nothing. It was frustrating him.

1113
00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:02,319
Speaker 2: I I was low key frustrated, but I also was

1114
00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:06,160
Speaker 2: giving myself probably more grace than he was. It will

1115
00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:10,480
Speaker 2: come back. He was like, I don't understand. Why are

1116
00:56:10,520 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 2: we not so uh? For me, it was just like, okay,

1117
00:56:13,680 --> 00:56:15,560
Speaker 2: I gotta kind of take matters into my own hand

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Speaker 2: because even now it can wax and wane. Sometimes I'm

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Speaker 2: like really like ooh, let's let's do it. And other

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00:56:21,520 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 2: times it doesn't even cross my mind. So like I

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Speaker 2: try to seize the opportunity, or if I can see

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00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:32,680
Speaker 2: an opportunity coming sometime in the week, I try to

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00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:35,840
Speaker 2: make sure, I know, start psyching yourself up, getting yourself

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Speaker 2: in the mood.

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Speaker 3: How do you do that?

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Speaker 1: Because I think a lot of women, especially women with

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Speaker 1: multiple children, like this is I mean, I know for me,

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Speaker 1: even when I first had my daughter, like the libido

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00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:49,359
Speaker 1: was was goning right exactly, So like how how do

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Speaker 1: you psych yourself up?

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00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:51,800
Speaker 3: And how do you get it back?

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00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:57,200
Speaker 2: Masturbation huge. Even though he'd be like, oh so you would,

1133
00:56:57,280 --> 00:56:59,400
Speaker 2: would you dry, I'm like in by hand, I'm like,

1134
00:56:59,440 --> 00:57:03,000
Speaker 2: if you only knew this is going to help on tomorrow.

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00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:09,360
Speaker 2: I had tried at one point in time, like reading

1136
00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:14,920
Speaker 2: erotica to try to help like my like mental visuals

1137
00:57:14,920 --> 00:57:18,439
Speaker 2: because the problem is like for him, his mind goes

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00:57:18,440 --> 00:57:21,360
Speaker 2: straight to sex. For me, I have to get all

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00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:24,280
Speaker 2: of my to do list out of my brain so

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00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 2: that I'm into it. So just trying to get my

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00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:33,479
Speaker 2: head with more images and stuff like that. So yeah,

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00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:37,200
Speaker 2: that's that's and so with with my own self pleasure.

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00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:39,360
Speaker 2: That helps me, Like I am creating all types of

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00:57:39,360 --> 00:57:42,000
Speaker 2: scenarios and scenes that are not going to be possible

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Speaker 2: for us because we got to be quiet, we got

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00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:47,280
Speaker 2: kids in other word, but I then created a whole

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00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:50,240
Speaker 2: scene and scenario in my head that it already got

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00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 2: me ready. So it's not like this like arduous task

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00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:57,960
Speaker 2: to try to get my motor on. So yeah, but

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00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:00,840
Speaker 2: I try to make sure he sees oportunities where there

1151
00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:04,000
Speaker 2: really aren't any. He's like, oh, you got to leave

1152
00:58:04,040 --> 00:58:08,040
Speaker 2: the house in two minutes, that's enough. No, this is

1153
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:11,080
Speaker 2: not the opportunity. He's like it is the kids. They outside.

1154
00:58:11,080 --> 00:58:13,840
Speaker 2: I'm like, but I need to leave in this moment.

1155
00:58:14,760 --> 00:58:18,400
Speaker 2: They both mountain, don't worry. I'm like, that is not

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00:58:18,480 --> 00:58:23,560
Speaker 2: a real opportunity where I yeah, definitely like to. So

1157
00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:27,880
Speaker 2: today I realized, oh, I have to do a podcast

1158
00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:30,480
Speaker 2: in the morning, and I was like, and then an

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00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:34,680
Speaker 2: hour after that, we have a parent teacher conference. And

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00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:36,160
Speaker 2: then I was like, then we'll have to leave to

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00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:38,600
Speaker 2: go to do this podcast and we have to shoot

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00:58:38,600 --> 00:58:41,960
Speaker 2: our podcast. And I was like, right between one podcast

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00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:44,520
Speaker 2: and the parent teacher conference is a good chunk of time.

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00:58:45,080 --> 00:58:47,640
Speaker 2: I was like, we can make it happen. So I

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00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:50,600
Speaker 2: thought about that at like six something in the morning that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he just like, oh, baby's in the mood.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: No, I let him know, and he still missed it.

1169
00:58:58,520 --> 00:59:01,000
Speaker 2: I said, I am not because.

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Speaker 4: One thing I didn't miss it. I thought it was

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00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:03,920
Speaker 4: happening after.

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00:59:05,400 --> 00:59:11,640
Speaker 2: And I was like no, no, no, I was like,

1173
00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 2: get up a.

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00:59:13,440 --> 00:59:15,040
Speaker 4: Turn down before trying.

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00:59:15,840 --> 00:59:17,520
Speaker 2: I was like, get up from the table. He was

1176
00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:21,680
Speaker 2: sitting down there eating Starbucks. This is the opportunity right here,

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00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:25,600
Speaker 2: something else exactly, come on, something.

1178
00:59:25,920 --> 00:59:28,439
Speaker 4: Finish, this is all right, go there go. Yeah.

1179
00:59:28,640 --> 00:59:32,120
Speaker 2: So that that's really and we do. We try to.

1180
00:59:32,960 --> 00:59:36,600
Speaker 2: It's unfortunate because sometimes he'll, like I said, he'll see opportunities,

1181
00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:39,120
Speaker 2: and if my brain went already there, I'm like, oh no,

1182
00:59:40,440 --> 00:59:43,479
Speaker 2: I was so business focused in this moment. It's gonna

1183
00:59:43,480 --> 00:59:45,560
Speaker 2: take a lot. And I hate when he kills my

1184
00:59:45,600 --> 00:59:48,520
Speaker 2: momentum and when I'm doing something else. So I try

1185
00:59:48,520 --> 00:59:50,600
Speaker 2: not to always say no, but it's sometimes hard to

1186
00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:52,400
Speaker 2: get a yuess out of me. If I am really

1187
00:59:52,440 --> 00:59:56,920
Speaker 2: focused on something else, I'd be like, don't kill my momentum, please.

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Speaker 1: I'm doing so good, I'm so productive today.

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00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:01,400
Speaker 2: He could care less about that to do list. He

1190
01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:04,560
Speaker 2: would burn it in this candle. I'd be like, but

1191
01:00:04,720 --> 01:00:06,680
Speaker 2: this is how we this is how we make money.

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01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:07,240
Speaker 2: I don't care.

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Speaker 6: We'll be broke, but exactly, exactly, exactly, Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: We We always asked our guests to have an affirmation.

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Speaker 1: Do you guys have an affirmation that you like live

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Speaker 1: by or you recite to yourselves and your relationship or

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Speaker 1: individually or whatever.

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Speaker 2: There are some affirmations I've been working on here recently

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Speaker 2: that my therapists helped me right because we both just

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01:00:38,360 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 2: started a new fitness journey with each other. Because he

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01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:45,520
Speaker 2: was complaining a lot about his body, and I was

1202
01:00:45,680 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 2: just getting out of control. I was like, girl, what

1203
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:55,960
Speaker 2: is you? What's your goal? So it was so this

1204
01:00:56,040 --> 01:00:58,120
Speaker 2: is going to sound like so not like what you

1205
01:00:58,160 --> 01:01:00,120
Speaker 2: all are talking about. But one of the things, as

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01:01:00,160 --> 01:01:02,480
Speaker 2: I say, especially if I'm in the gym and I

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01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:04,160
Speaker 2: don't want to be in the gym, which is just

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Speaker 2: our garage, I'll say, I deserve to be in the

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Speaker 2: best shape of my life.

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Speaker 1: I deserve to be in the best shape of my life.

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Speaker 2: That's that's real.

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Speaker 1: Like, how are you gonna run the race and you

1213
01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:19,440
Speaker 1: ain't even doing the work to get in the race? Yeah,

1214
01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:20,240
Speaker 1: to win the race.

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Speaker 2: So that when I'm like, I don't feel like doing this,

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Speaker 2: I just repeat that to myself and it'll help me

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Speaker 2: crank out. However many sets I need to crank out.

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Speaker 2: I mean, we listed all the reasons why I deserve it,

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01:01:31,400 --> 01:01:34,360
Speaker 2: but I don't be remembering every single last one when

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Speaker 2: I'm a gym, So I just I loan in on

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Speaker 2: that one to try to push me to continue.

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Speaker 1: And it's like the best shape of your life could

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Speaker 1: be like physically, mentally, spiritually, absolutely right, elevating all the ways,

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Speaker 1: all the things.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, me. This is something I heard this thought. This

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Speaker 4: was years and years ago, but now that self employed,

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Speaker 4: I think it all the time, and it's one of

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Speaker 4: those things that just keeps me driven. And even you know,

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01:02:01,040 --> 01:02:04,480
Speaker 4: you get a nose, don't really exist. So something not

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Speaker 4: always repeating my mind is my success is inevitable.

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Speaker 1: My success is inevitable. I know that's the fuck right.

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Speaker 1: Listen here, listen, Universe with.

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Speaker 2: These numbers in the schedule. Now I'm put in this work.

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Speaker 2: It's inevitable.

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Speaker 1: I don't know when it's timing, but it's on the way.

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Speaker 2: It's inevitable.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I feel that all the time, because you know, when

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01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:27,800
Speaker 1: you're a creator, it's like and you're constantly creating, like.

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Speaker 4: Something that's going to hit.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, one of these motherfuckers is right.

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Speaker 3: So I feel that that's a good one. Consistency.

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Speaker 1: on the Loudspeaker Networks YouTube page, premiering November seventh at

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Speaker 1: six pm Eastern Standard time. I heard you mention therapy.

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Speaker 1: Have you guys done a couple therapy before?

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Speaker 2: He did a couple of sessions with me with my therapist,

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01:04:29,960 --> 01:04:33,000
Speaker 2: and she's so amazing. Just the two sessions he did

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Speaker 2: with me, I feel like were life changing for us

1272
01:04:37,080 --> 01:04:41,080
Speaker 2: because we went from just being husband and wife and

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01:04:41,200 --> 01:04:46,280
Speaker 2: like best friends to now coworkers. So it changed how

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01:04:48,080 --> 01:04:50,680
Speaker 2: I had to kind of work on my language towards

1275
01:04:50,760 --> 01:04:55,120
Speaker 2: him because he was entering into a space that I

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01:04:55,160 --> 01:04:57,120
Speaker 2: am low key and expert in. You know what I'm saying.

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01:04:57,200 --> 01:05:00,280
Speaker 2: I've been doing content creation for thirteen years. He was

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01:05:00,320 --> 01:05:03,560
Speaker 2: coming in as a newbie. But I also trying to navigate,

1279
01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:08,520
Speaker 2: like understanding that we still have the dynamic of being

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01:05:08,600 --> 01:05:13,120
Speaker 2: each other's equal and not always wanting to feel like

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01:05:13,320 --> 01:05:15,880
Speaker 2: I was. I didn't always want to feel like I

1282
01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:18,880
Speaker 2: was coming from a place of looking down, even though

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01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:21,720
Speaker 2: that's not what I was meaning to do. But I'm

1284
01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:24,720
Speaker 2: an expert, I know, right right right, But it also

1285
01:05:25,640 --> 01:05:30,480
Speaker 2: not shrinking for his ego because I am an expert, right,

1286
01:05:30,640 --> 01:05:33,240
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. I'm not about to apologize

1287
01:05:33,240 --> 01:05:36,120
Speaker 2: for that or pretend like those years didn't happen. So

1288
01:05:36,680 --> 01:05:38,880
Speaker 2: trying to figure out how to navigate that because it's

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01:05:38,920 --> 01:05:42,360
Speaker 2: not that he's honestly not reluctant to taking my advice,

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01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:45,720
Speaker 2: but he also I got to make all the mistakes.

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01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:49,040
Speaker 2: He wants to be allowed to make some mistakes, you

1292
01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:49,840
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, and.

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Speaker 3: Not me as your partner.

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Speaker 2: You're like, oh, let me just fast track you real quick. Yes.

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01:05:54,520 --> 01:05:58,360
Speaker 2: And also I'm like, this is more makers, more money.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to do it my waye being open

1297
01:06:01,600 --> 01:06:04,480
Speaker 2: to his ideas, but this is a better idea. Yeah yeah,

1298
01:06:04,520 --> 01:06:08,920
Speaker 2: yeah yeah. So trying to that was I was already

1299
01:06:09,000 --> 01:06:13,160
Speaker 2: like worried about it before we it it had even

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01:06:13,200 --> 01:06:15,520
Speaker 2: become a problem. So we were kind of more proactive

1301
01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:18,760
Speaker 2: about it, and she just gave us a lot of

1302
01:06:18,880 --> 01:06:24,080
Speaker 2: tools because, like he said, I'm not an emotional person.

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01:06:25,560 --> 01:06:31,000
Speaker 2: I didn't have as much an emotional intelligence truly, but

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01:06:31,080 --> 01:06:34,200
Speaker 2: I also don't really lead by my emotions either, So

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01:06:34,280 --> 01:06:37,680
Speaker 2: it was like I wasn't using them to inform most

1306
01:06:37,680 --> 01:06:42,280
Speaker 2: of my decisions. So it also me tapping into those

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01:06:42,280 --> 01:06:45,640
Speaker 2: a little bit more helped in our I mean, our

1308
01:06:45,680 --> 01:06:47,520
Speaker 2: podcast is called is just going to cause an argument

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01:06:47,560 --> 01:06:51,440
Speaker 2: because we argue a lot. We have no problem with

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Speaker 2: it though it's not like we're like, oh, why are

1311
01:06:53,280 --> 01:06:56,320
Speaker 2: we arguing all the time, because we do do it respectfully.

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01:06:56,960 --> 01:07:02,440
Speaker 2: But I feel like in the sessions that she worked

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01:07:02,480 --> 01:07:05,240
Speaker 2: with us on and with me by myself, it helped

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01:07:05,320 --> 01:07:11,240
Speaker 2: even in our arguments of like him understanding me better

1315
01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:15,160
Speaker 2: instead of having to read what I call my heart emotions.

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Speaker 2: Those are the ones I show easily. I'll show you

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01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:19,920
Speaker 2: I'm mad real quick. I'll show you, I'll show you

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Speaker 2: I'm excited real quick, but I won't show you the

1319
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Speaker 2: mad is actually just an offspring of the fact that

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01:07:25,880 --> 01:07:29,960
Speaker 2: I feel alone or embarrassed. So like showing me how

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Speaker 2: to lead with those instead of anger anger, right, you

1322
01:07:33,600 --> 01:07:34,200
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: So, how do you feel about therapy, because I mean,

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Speaker 1: obviously therapy for I feel like it's becoming more normalized,

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01:07:40,800 --> 01:07:43,919
Speaker 1: but especially in the black community black men, Like I've

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Speaker 1: trying to get a black man to go to therapy

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Speaker 1: is like pulling fucking teeth.

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01:07:47,800 --> 01:07:51,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've said it multiple times. I feel like if

1329
01:07:51,280 --> 01:07:54,400
Speaker 4: you are black and living in America, therapy should be

1330
01:07:54,480 --> 01:07:58,320
Speaker 4: mandatory and free, amen, because it's way too much going on,

1331
01:07:58,440 --> 01:08:01,880
Speaker 4: especially like you said, for black men, they we not

1332
01:08:02,800 --> 01:08:06,440
Speaker 4: wants to like willingly just go to therapy. And a

1333
01:08:06,440 --> 01:08:08,000
Speaker 4: lot of times if you said, man, you probably need

1334
01:08:08,040 --> 01:08:11,280
Speaker 4: therapy for this, refuse because they look at it in

1335
01:08:11,320 --> 01:08:13,960
Speaker 4: a in a particular light or just ignorant of the

1336
01:08:13,960 --> 01:08:16,519
Speaker 4: fact of what it possibly could do for you. You

1337
01:08:16,520 --> 01:08:18,240
Speaker 4: hear people say all the time, if you broke your leg,

1338
01:08:18,280 --> 01:08:19,840
Speaker 4: you would go to the doctor. If you hit your head,

1339
01:08:19,840 --> 01:08:23,400
Speaker 4: you would go to the doctor. You are emotionally traumatized.

1340
01:08:23,439 --> 01:08:25,280
Speaker 4: You need to go have an expert look at that.

1341
01:08:25,479 --> 01:08:28,320
Speaker 4: So I think it's definitely necessary. And again I think

1342
01:08:29,600 --> 01:08:32,439
Speaker 4: all black men should be in therapy. I think it's needed.

1343
01:08:32,640 --> 01:08:37,840
Speaker 4: I really do. No Angel's therapy therapist they go too deep,

1344
01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:48,479
Speaker 4: you know eleven three, you know the Angel and her therapy.

1345
01:08:48,479 --> 01:08:52,040
Speaker 4: They go into these emotional feelings that I don't tap into.

1346
01:08:54,000 --> 01:08:59,160
Speaker 4: The it's like giving me a lead. There's more anxiety,

1347
01:08:59,520 --> 01:09:01,360
Speaker 4: just like, so what do you feel about this? Is?

1348
01:09:01,400 --> 01:09:04,000
Speaker 4: And I don't know. We need to start real shallow,

1349
01:09:04,240 --> 01:09:06,040
Speaker 4: like I'm an infant, trying to learn how swim in.

1350
01:09:06,040 --> 01:09:10,120
Speaker 1: The ocean surface and then gradually don't just be like,

1351
01:09:10,360 --> 01:09:11,960
Speaker 1: so what is your inner child feeling?

1352
01:09:12,080 --> 01:09:12,840
Speaker 2: You got to go.

1353
01:09:13,360 --> 01:09:15,240
Speaker 4: I mean, she she met me at my level. But

1354
01:09:15,280 --> 01:09:17,080
Speaker 4: it was a couple of times I was like, see, see,

1355
01:09:17,080 --> 01:09:18,439
Speaker 4: I don't know how to answer this question.

1356
01:09:18,520 --> 01:09:20,639
Speaker 2: Yeah he's a good for now, mind you. He says

1357
01:09:20,680 --> 01:09:22,840
Speaker 2: all this, but Marcus is not about to do He

1358
01:09:22,920 --> 01:09:25,960
Speaker 2: went to one therapist. He was terrible, and he was like,

1359
01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:26,439
Speaker 2: I'm out.

1360
01:09:26,680 --> 01:09:29,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, I said, I said, I need to find another thing,

1361
01:09:29,439 --> 01:09:30,280
Speaker 4: a different therapist.

1362
01:09:30,360 --> 01:09:31,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, are you in therapy?

1363
01:09:31,840 --> 01:09:36,720
Speaker 4: Because said the one I went to. He was convinced

1364
01:09:36,880 --> 01:09:39,400
Speaker 4: for some reason that I was there to talk about infidelity.

1365
01:09:40,040 --> 01:09:42,400
Speaker 2: What he was trying to tell you? So tell me

1366
01:09:42,400 --> 01:09:42,960
Speaker 2: about that affair.

1367
01:09:43,160 --> 01:09:47,000
Speaker 4: Yes, I had my career, my daddy just died, I'm stressed,

1368
01:09:47,120 --> 01:09:50,400
Speaker 4: and everything is like this, this is comforting. You know,

1369
01:09:51,400 --> 01:09:54,840
Speaker 4: people mess up. It's okay. You know, people mess up.

1370
01:09:54,920 --> 01:09:56,879
Speaker 4: You know, it's just for us talking about this conversation.

1371
01:09:56,960 --> 01:10:00,320
Speaker 4: Only like within an hour he brought it up like

1372
01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:00,800
Speaker 4: three times.

1373
01:10:01,400 --> 01:10:04,559
Speaker 1: No, man, oh my god, that's terrible.

1374
01:10:04,680 --> 01:10:07,400
Speaker 2: And that then put four more years on him not

1375
01:10:08,040 --> 01:10:11,679
Speaker 2: finding up. There's a lot so while he does believe

1376
01:10:11,680 --> 01:10:14,120
Speaker 2: in therapy, I don't question that he don't really want

1377
01:10:14,160 --> 01:10:15,720
Speaker 2: to have to do the work to five because it

1378
01:10:15,800 --> 01:10:16,519
Speaker 2: is like dating.

1379
01:10:16,960 --> 01:10:18,679
Speaker 4: And I reached out to like three or four different

1380
01:10:18,680 --> 01:10:21,120
Speaker 4: therapists and they didn't hit me back trash.

1381
01:10:21,320 --> 01:10:23,080
Speaker 1: You gotta be consistent because they'll be busy.

1382
01:10:23,120 --> 01:10:23,719
Speaker 2: You know they're.

1383
01:10:25,080 --> 01:10:26,320
Speaker 1: They're reaching booked.

1384
01:10:27,880 --> 01:10:32,520
Speaker 4: A man right now, I was looking back.

1385
01:10:32,920 --> 01:10:35,320
Speaker 1: You gotta be consistent, like, like you want a second date.

1386
01:10:35,280 --> 01:10:37,160
Speaker 4: I'm trying to give you one hundred dollars an hours.

1387
01:10:37,560 --> 01:10:40,120
Speaker 4: Look right, I.

1388
01:10:42,680 --> 01:10:43,240
Speaker 2: Like that you got.

1389
01:10:43,280 --> 01:10:48,680
Speaker 1: You mentioned going to couples sessions to discuss your business partnership,

1390
01:10:48,800 --> 01:10:50,360
Speaker 1: because I don't think I don't hear that a lot,

1391
01:10:50,400 --> 01:10:52,519
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, especially in relationships where

1392
01:10:52,560 --> 01:10:55,320
Speaker 1: you work with your spouse or your lover, people don't realize,

1393
01:10:55,360 --> 01:10:57,360
Speaker 1: like that's an additional dynamic, Like it's one thing to

1394
01:10:57,360 --> 01:10:59,040
Speaker 1: be parents, that's a whole different thing, like who's picking

1395
01:10:59,080 --> 01:11:00,519
Speaker 1: up from school and shit, like can you work together

1396
01:11:00,560 --> 01:11:03,080
Speaker 1: that way? And then it's be partners and be romantic

1397
01:11:03,120 --> 01:11:06,360
Speaker 1: and intimate and keep sensuality and like case and ship

1398
01:11:06,520 --> 01:11:08,080
Speaker 1: when you got other shit to do, and then like

1399
01:11:08,280 --> 01:11:11,280
Speaker 1: then you work together and like how you are in

1400
01:11:11,400 --> 01:11:14,519
Speaker 1: work is very different than how you are, like in

1401
01:11:14,560 --> 01:11:18,040
Speaker 1: your relationship. Like even Orlando works with us, and it

1402
01:11:18,160 --> 01:11:20,080
Speaker 1: was our tour manager, and there are some times during

1403
01:11:20,120 --> 01:11:22,240
Speaker 1: that tour where we're like, I'm gonna beat his ass

1404
01:11:22,880 --> 01:11:26,080
Speaker 1: and I was like for sure, and I'm like, we

1405
01:11:26,160 --> 01:11:29,519
Speaker 1: can't ka like you do it, you say the things

1406
01:11:29,520 --> 01:11:31,200
Speaker 1: because I'm trying to maintain the relationship.

1407
01:11:31,280 --> 01:11:33,120
Speaker 3: I'm like, he's gonna have dump me after this.

1408
01:11:34,520 --> 01:11:37,200
Speaker 1: But because like when it comes to our business, we

1409
01:11:37,320 --> 01:11:41,920
Speaker 1: are very like and like dominant and like masculine, and

1410
01:11:42,200 --> 01:11:44,320
Speaker 1: we're protective of our ship, you know, and so and

1411
01:11:44,400 --> 01:11:46,160
Speaker 1: saying we've been doing this for five fucking years. People

1412
01:11:46,200 --> 01:11:47,120
Speaker 1: giving this advice, we're like.

1413
01:11:47,120 --> 01:11:50,080
Speaker 3: Shut the fuck up. Shut the fuck up.

1414
01:11:50,439 --> 01:11:52,840
Speaker 2: This is your cue chep. Yeah, you know.

1415
01:11:52,920 --> 01:11:54,759
Speaker 1: And it's like and I have to check myself, like, okay,

1416
01:11:54,800 --> 01:11:56,360
Speaker 1: listen to other people's opinions.

1417
01:11:57,280 --> 01:11:57,559
Speaker 3: Listen.

1418
01:12:00,479 --> 01:12:01,080
Speaker 2: I don't like that.

1419
01:12:04,800 --> 01:12:07,800
Speaker 1: But I never I never considered thinking, like, you know,

1420
01:12:08,360 --> 01:12:11,040
Speaker 1: like when there's a lot of aspects of the relationship,

1421
01:12:11,120 --> 01:12:13,920
Speaker 1: how to tend and pour into all of them and

1422
01:12:13,960 --> 01:12:16,519
Speaker 1: make sure you're operating from a place that's you know,

1423
01:12:16,760 --> 01:12:19,759
Speaker 1: like loving and shit. Because like we are cancers are loving,

1424
01:12:19,800 --> 01:12:22,600
Speaker 1: but I think because we have hard shells, we'd be

1425
01:12:22,680 --> 01:12:25,360
Speaker 1: like we can be snappy and like you can cut

1426
01:12:25,600 --> 01:12:28,880
Speaker 1: disconnect really quickly, and like we will cry behind closed doors,

1427
01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:31,519
Speaker 1: but also I'll curse you the fuck out. So yeah,

1428
01:12:31,560 --> 01:12:34,599
Speaker 1: I appreciate that that advice, and you guys like being

1429
01:12:34,600 --> 01:12:37,720
Speaker 1: transparent about that. You welcome, you know, transitioning to a

1430
01:12:37,720 --> 01:12:42,320
Speaker 1: different part of your relationship. Yeah, before we started the show,

1431
01:12:42,320 --> 01:12:44,640
Speaker 1: you guys pulled some Tarot cards. I know Taro is

1432
01:12:44,640 --> 01:12:48,160
Speaker 1: not your shit, but we pulled them. We're gonna read

1433
01:12:48,200 --> 01:12:48,559
Speaker 1: to you what.

1434
01:12:48,520 --> 01:12:49,800
Speaker 2: They mean and then you can tell us if it

1435
01:12:49,840 --> 01:12:50,479
Speaker 2: applies to you.

1436
01:12:50,760 --> 01:12:55,200
Speaker 1: Okay, Marcus, you read the Impress Taro when you pulled.

1437
01:12:57,800 --> 01:13:04,200
Speaker 1: Impress means femininity, beauty, nature, nurturing, in abundance. It is

1438
01:13:05,280 --> 01:13:08,040
Speaker 1: I gotta add shout out to bitty Taro where because

1439
01:13:08,120 --> 01:13:13,400
Speaker 1: me and Erica and just Taro Taro women and Trent apprentices.

1440
01:13:14,280 --> 01:13:17,760
Speaker 1: The Empress signifies a strong connection with your with our femininity.

1441
01:13:17,880 --> 01:13:26,919
Speaker 1: Femininity translates in many ways, elegance, sensuality, fertility.

1442
01:13:28,040 --> 01:13:29,200
Speaker 3: That's that's two for two.

1443
01:13:29,280 --> 01:13:29,920
Speaker 2: That's two for two.

1444
01:13:30,280 --> 01:13:34,240
Speaker 3: Someone waiting yesterday too. That's very kind of you.

1445
01:13:35,200 --> 01:13:37,519
Speaker 4: Especially the flower.

1446
01:13:37,720 --> 01:13:40,000
Speaker 2: What is going to doney, I have done enough work.

1447
01:13:40,080 --> 01:13:45,760
Speaker 2: You've done a set of twins. You pregnancy these three birds.

1448
01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:50,280
Speaker 1: It's necessary for creating balance and both men and women.

1449
01:13:50,400 --> 01:13:53,040
Speaker 1: The Empress calls on you to connect with your feminine energy.

1450
01:13:53,400 --> 01:13:56,960
Speaker 1: Create beauty in your life. Connect with your senses through taste, touch, sound,

1451
01:13:57,080 --> 01:14:00,879
Speaker 1: smell and sight. Draw on these senses, take experience pleasure

1452
01:14:00,960 --> 01:14:02,120
Speaker 1: and deep fulfillment.

1453
01:14:02,479 --> 01:14:04,040
Speaker 3: Treat yourself to a spa day.

1454
01:14:03,960 --> 01:14:07,160
Speaker 1: Learn massage, enjoy a fine restaurant, or spend more time

1455
01:14:07,160 --> 01:14:11,840
Speaker 1: with your partner. Discover different approaches to expressing yourself creative creatively,

1456
01:14:12,280 --> 01:14:16,559
Speaker 1: but be it through painting, music, drama, or other art forms.

1457
01:14:16,680 --> 01:14:18,640
Speaker 1: This may be the perfect chance to take up a

1458
01:14:18,680 --> 01:14:21,320
Speaker 1: new hobby that enables you to access this part of yourself.

1459
01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:26,480
Speaker 1: The Impress signifies abundance. You are surrounded by life's pleasures

1460
01:14:26,520 --> 01:14:31,640
Speaker 1: and luxuries, opulence, sex, and have everything you need to

1461
01:14:31,680 --> 01:14:34,120
Speaker 1: live and comfortable lifestyle. You are in a period of

1462
01:14:34,160 --> 01:14:36,439
Speaker 1: growth in which all you have dreamed is now coming

1463
01:14:36,439 --> 01:14:39,920
Speaker 1: to fruition. When the Impress appears in your tarrot reading,

1464
01:14:40,000 --> 01:14:42,400
Speaker 1: take a moment to reflect on the bounty that surrounds

1465
01:14:42,439 --> 01:14:45,120
Speaker 1: you and offer gratitude for all you have created, so

1466
01:14:45,200 --> 01:14:47,799
Speaker 1: you can continue to build on this energy and create

1467
01:14:48,000 --> 01:14:49,479
Speaker 1: even more abundance in your life.

1468
01:14:50,880 --> 01:14:52,000
Speaker 2: I can see how that applies.

1469
01:14:52,760 --> 01:14:53,800
Speaker 1: Do you feel like you need to get more in

1470
01:14:53,840 --> 01:14:55,000
Speaker 1: touch with your feminine side?

1471
01:14:55,160 --> 01:14:57,080
Speaker 2: I probably could step outside.

1472
01:14:56,840 --> 01:15:00,679
Speaker 1: Your shoes off and like skip around. There's Carls frolls,

1473
01:15:01,479 --> 01:15:03,400
Speaker 1: pretty tall. I would love to see you do a cartwheel.

1474
01:15:04,160 --> 01:15:05,559
Speaker 2: He can't.

1475
01:15:05,920 --> 01:15:06,559
Speaker 3: He can't do a.

1476
01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:09,479
Speaker 4: Car he can to.

1477
01:15:10,360 --> 01:15:11,200
Speaker 2: Have you ever seen this me?

1478
01:15:11,439 --> 01:15:13,719
Speaker 3: Like tall men doing cartwhels would just be a really funny.

1479
01:15:13,800 --> 01:15:17,080
Speaker 3: Videos are fun.

1480
01:15:17,400 --> 01:15:20,760
Speaker 1: There's this theme of like a black man like frolicking

1481
01:15:20,880 --> 01:15:21,599
Speaker 1: and it's.

1482
01:15:21,439 --> 01:15:24,160
Speaker 3: Like, have you seen a nigga? Was like, have niggas

1483
01:15:24,200 --> 01:15:24,639
Speaker 3: have a frolic?

1484
01:15:24,680 --> 01:15:29,200
Speaker 1: And people tried to frolick my nigga? It brings you

1485
01:15:29,280 --> 01:15:31,800
Speaker 1: so much joy now it's fun.

1486
01:15:31,880 --> 01:15:32,720
Speaker 3: Frolicking is fun.

1487
01:15:32,760 --> 01:15:36,439
Speaker 4: Like skipping California.

1488
01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:38,240
Speaker 1: I feel like that's a perfect place to FLA is

1489
01:15:38,280 --> 01:15:40,440
Speaker 1: either dry, hard or something poisonous.

1490
01:15:41,439 --> 01:15:44,200
Speaker 3: It's very dry here in the backyard.

1491
01:15:46,920 --> 01:15:54,320
Speaker 2: Patrick grass, lush plush grass. I know we're not.

1492
01:15:54,360 --> 01:15:55,160
Speaker 3: Beach people.

1493
01:15:56,680 --> 01:15:59,400
Speaker 4: Probably get in touch. I'm assuming with my family.

1494
01:15:59,760 --> 01:16:02,800
Speaker 1: It's as the Mother Earth archetype impress urges you to

1495
01:16:02,920 --> 01:16:06,320
Speaker 1: venture out into nature to ground your energy energy and

1496
01:16:06,320 --> 01:16:08,439
Speaker 1: be in flow with the earth. Take a trip to

1497
01:16:08,439 --> 01:16:11,639
Speaker 1: your favorite natural setting the forest, the beach, the mountain,

1498
01:16:11,720 --> 01:16:12,720
Speaker 1: or like see like I'm a witch.

1499
01:16:12,760 --> 01:16:14,080
Speaker 3: I neer this and sit for.

1500
01:16:14,040 --> 01:16:18,040
Speaker 1: A couple of minutes. I'm learning some stuff I knew.

1501
01:16:18,080 --> 01:16:19,360
Speaker 1: The impass is meant to go outside.

1502
01:16:20,400 --> 01:16:20,720
Speaker 3: I love.

1503
01:16:21,479 --> 01:16:22,320
Speaker 4: That's my thir thing.

1504
01:16:22,520 --> 01:16:23,720
Speaker 2: That is definitely his thing.

1505
01:16:25,400 --> 01:16:28,120
Speaker 3: Well, Angel, you pulled the two of Wands right. That's

1506
01:16:28,160 --> 01:16:28,679
Speaker 3: the word yes.

1507
01:16:30,080 --> 01:16:37,120
Speaker 1: So this means future planning, progress, decisions, and discovery. The

1508
01:16:37,120 --> 01:16:39,920
Speaker 1: two of Wands takes the spark of inspiration from the

1509
01:16:39,920 --> 01:16:42,479
Speaker 1: Ace of Wands and turns into a clear action plan.

1510
01:16:42,560 --> 01:16:45,680
Speaker 1: You went through the discovery phase and know what you

1511
01:16:45,680 --> 01:16:47,840
Speaker 1: want to manifest. Now you need to figure out how

1512
01:16:47,960 --> 01:16:50,360
Speaker 1: you are exploring your options and carefully plotting out the

1513
01:16:50,400 --> 01:16:54,479
Speaker 1: path ahead, accounting for all possibilities and potential changes. You

1514
01:16:54,560 --> 01:16:57,080
Speaker 1: are open to growth and exploring new territories so long

1515
01:16:57,120 --> 01:16:59,519
Speaker 1: as you maintain a level of certainty that your efforts

1516
01:16:59,520 --> 01:17:04,799
Speaker 1: will work out in the end. Two of Wan's indicates

1517
01:17:04,840 --> 01:17:08,280
Speaker 1: you are considering your longer term goals and aspirations and

1518
01:17:08,360 --> 01:17:10,519
Speaker 1: are ready to plan for what you need to do.

1519
01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:11,280
Speaker 3: To achieve them.

1520
01:17:11,560 --> 01:17:14,320
Speaker 1: You are, You've already come so far and now you

1521
01:17:14,360 --> 01:17:17,439
Speaker 1: feel ready for change, this time with a long term

1522
01:17:17,479 --> 01:17:20,840
Speaker 1: future in mind. You may be contemplating overseas travel for

1523
01:17:20,960 --> 01:17:24,160
Speaker 1: their education or a significant career switch to expand your

1524
01:17:24,160 --> 01:17:28,439
Speaker 1: horizons beyond your immediate environment. With careful planning and moderate approach,

1525
01:17:28,720 --> 01:17:30,760
Speaker 1: you will set yourself up for success.

1526
01:17:32,760 --> 01:17:34,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's it.

1527
01:17:34,120 --> 01:17:35,200
Speaker 2: It's spot on.

1528
01:17:35,520 --> 01:17:36,160
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1529
01:17:36,439 --> 01:17:37,479
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah.

1530
01:17:37,880 --> 01:17:42,160
Speaker 2: Hiring a director of operations because of future stuff.

1531
01:17:42,520 --> 01:17:45,840
Speaker 1: Yes, plan on it and claim it early. Okay, the

1532
01:17:45,840 --> 01:17:46,679
Speaker 1: coins are coming.

1533
01:17:47,160 --> 01:17:49,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, the coins are they are?

1534
01:17:50,040 --> 01:17:50,320
Speaker 6: Angel.

1535
01:17:50,360 --> 01:17:51,800
Speaker 1: I think up, We're going to meet you in the

1536
01:17:51,840 --> 01:17:54,120
Speaker 1: south of Italy on our yachts.

1537
01:17:53,720 --> 01:18:00,000
Speaker 2: Like Angel, come to up the Housewives.

1538
01:18:01,520 --> 01:18:03,200
Speaker 3: This boat. I'm like, we're shooting a.

1539
01:18:03,120 --> 01:18:07,080
Speaker 1: Housewives show now of the Valley have gone to Italy.

1540
01:18:07,160 --> 01:18:09,599
Speaker 1: But we don't fight. We just drink champagne. We drink

1541
01:18:09,880 --> 01:18:13,680
Speaker 1: humps ahole dramas like she doesn't have enough money to

1542
01:18:13,720 --> 01:18:19,760
Speaker 1: hang out with us, she's only a millionaire, like.

1543
01:18:19,720 --> 01:18:20,479
Speaker 2: The ones with the be.

1544
01:18:23,200 --> 01:18:25,040
Speaker 3: Oh my god, thank you so much for coming on.

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01:18:26,080 --> 01:18:28,639
Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait, before we go, we always ask our guests,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you have a wharri.

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Speaker 3: Who stories.

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01:18:38,760 --> 01:18:40,320
Speaker 2: Atlanta was a lot that.

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01:18:40,439 --> 01:18:42,160
Speaker 4: Was just another hotel room. It was just.

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Speaker 3: Having sex where places strange things.

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01:18:47,520 --> 01:18:53,479
Speaker 2: We had sex. My mother's sixtieth birthday party was in

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01:18:53,520 --> 01:18:56,320
Speaker 2: this like building. It's actually a building that she worked in,

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01:18:56,360 --> 01:18:58,760
Speaker 2: but they had this huge open area that we had

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01:18:58,800 --> 01:19:03,000
Speaker 2: tables set up in and we went upstairs to grab something.

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01:19:05,000 --> 01:19:08,160
Speaker 2: My goodness, we hiked up that dress so fast. Yep,

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01:19:08,160 --> 01:19:10,520
Speaker 2: and something in an office somewhere.

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01:19:10,439 --> 01:19:12,760
Speaker 1: At your mother's sixty in the building she works in.

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01:19:14,240 --> 01:19:16,200
Speaker 3: Classy. See.

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01:19:16,600 --> 01:19:17,479
Speaker 2: I think that's the key.

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01:19:17,560 --> 01:19:19,040
Speaker 1: And no matter how long you've been married, you got

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01:19:19,080 --> 01:19:21,040
Speaker 1: to hike the dress up sometimes and you get it in,

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01:19:21,360 --> 01:19:22,240
Speaker 1: get it in.

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01:19:22,400 --> 01:19:24,160
Speaker 2: It was great. Somebody had the kid. We only have

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01:19:24,240 --> 01:19:25,840
Speaker 2: one kid at the time, so he was with one

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01:19:25,840 --> 01:19:28,920
Speaker 2: of the relatives downstairs. I was like, oh, yeah, yeah,

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01:19:29,080 --> 01:19:30,599
Speaker 2: seize this opportunity right now.

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01:19:30,640 --> 01:19:33,519
Speaker 4: Ain't nothing like the rest of a dress around your

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01:19:33,520 --> 01:19:34,280
Speaker 4: fist to keep it up.

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01:19:35,080 --> 01:19:37,719
Speaker 2: Don't have no stains on this one might be wrinkled

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01:19:37,760 --> 01:19:44,880
Speaker 2: as all hell. They will be on air. Yeah, we

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01:19:44,920 --> 01:19:49,760
Speaker 2: don't have to like yeah, I'm trying to think other

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01:19:50,120 --> 01:19:53,320
Speaker 2: like done in the garage, but nothing too too crazy.

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01:19:53,479 --> 01:19:57,600
Speaker 1: I mean, it's the sixtieth birthday party is pretty damn good.

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01:19:57,680 --> 01:20:01,400
Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, it was pretty horrors to

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01:20:01,439 --> 01:20:05,519
Speaker 1: me and the past way possible. Well, thank you guys

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01:20:05,560 --> 01:20:08,639
Speaker 1: so much for joining us and sharing your your hories

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01:20:08,680 --> 01:20:11,280
Speaker 1: and all your tips. Do you have any tips for

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01:20:11,320 --> 01:20:14,280
Speaker 1: any married couples or anyone thinking to get married? Is

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01:20:14,280 --> 01:20:16,439
Speaker 1: there one piece of advice that you would give?

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01:20:17,880 --> 01:20:21,880
Speaker 4: You got to like the person. Okay, no, it's like

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01:20:22,640 --> 01:20:24,840
Speaker 4: a lot of people. They'll get married with the they

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01:20:25,040 --> 01:20:28,120
Speaker 4: like the idea of being married, or like church full there,

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01:20:28,200 --> 01:20:30,800
Speaker 4: but well, this is what we're supposed to do. You

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01:20:30,840 --> 01:20:34,439
Speaker 4: actually have to like being around that person. You have

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01:20:34,520 --> 01:20:37,000
Speaker 4: to continue to like. It's easy to love somebody. I

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01:20:37,040 --> 01:20:41,000
Speaker 4: love family that I hate. You know what I'm saying, like,

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01:20:41,080 --> 01:20:44,640
Speaker 4: oh oh yeah, you know so and so passed away. Anyway,

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01:20:45,280 --> 01:20:49,519
Speaker 4: I love them. They family, they're gone. But to like somebody,

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01:20:49,880 --> 01:20:52,760
Speaker 4: you have to like that person and want to be

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01:20:52,840 --> 01:20:54,920
Speaker 4: married to them and realize that you all are gonna

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01:20:54,920 --> 01:20:59,719
Speaker 4: grow together. Like Barack and Michelle didn't meet Baraca Michelle

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01:20:59,760 --> 01:21:02,639
Speaker 4: that we see, they got together and built what they became,

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01:21:03,280 --> 01:21:05,200
Speaker 4: and they did that by licking each other and helping

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01:21:05,240 --> 01:21:06,200
Speaker 4: each other along the way.

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01:21:07,320 --> 01:21:09,720
Speaker 2: My whole thing would just be making your own. Like,

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01:21:09,800 --> 01:21:12,679
Speaker 2: there's not one formula, there's not one way. Don't base

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01:21:12,720 --> 01:21:16,160
Speaker 2: it off of what other marriages you've seen. Yeah, you

1598
01:21:16,200 --> 01:21:19,280
Speaker 2: can take like tidbits that like really speak to you,

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01:21:19,320 --> 01:21:22,320
Speaker 2: but at the end of the day, you it's you two,

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01:21:22,760 --> 01:21:25,400
Speaker 2: it ain't nobody else. So make it work for the

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01:21:25,600 --> 01:21:28,400
Speaker 2: two of you, and don't worry about what everyone says.

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01:21:28,439 --> 01:21:30,320
Speaker 2: The standard has to be as long as y'all are

1603
01:21:30,320 --> 01:21:34,800
Speaker 2: both healthy and not being mistreated, do whatever you want

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01:21:34,840 --> 01:21:35,880
Speaker 2: to do that makes you happy.

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01:21:37,040 --> 01:21:38,240
Speaker 3: I agree with that.

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01:21:38,640 --> 01:21:41,960
Speaker 1: Yes, well, can you tell our people where they can

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01:21:42,000 --> 01:21:43,200
Speaker 1: find you.

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01:21:43,200 --> 01:21:45,760
Speaker 2: You can find me at that check angel pretty much

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01:21:45,760 --> 01:21:48,679
Speaker 2: across all platforms. It might be a little different somewhere,

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01:21:48,680 --> 01:21:50,720
Speaker 2: but you'll find me if you just search that. You

1611
01:21:50,760 --> 01:21:53,800
Speaker 2: can find me on one of my three podcasts, which

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01:21:54,080 --> 01:21:56,280
Speaker 2: two of them he's on. Is this going to cause

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01:21:56,280 --> 01:21:58,360
Speaker 2: an argument? Which is a podcast that we host together.

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01:21:58,439 --> 01:22:00,880
Speaker 2: Here's the thing, it's podcast it's the host with Kept

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01:22:00,960 --> 01:22:03,160
Speaker 2: on Stage in the Bald and the Beautiful, which is

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01:22:03,200 --> 01:22:06,800
Speaker 2: a couple's podcasts with me and Marcus and the Frederickses.

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01:22:07,560 --> 01:22:10,320
Speaker 4: Y'all can find me on Instagram and Marcus ain't on

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01:22:10,360 --> 01:22:15,080
Speaker 4: the gram, but is apparently Facebook, Marcus ain't on the

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01:22:15,080 --> 01:22:19,599
Speaker 4: book and tik talk at Tank don't talk you can.

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01:22:19,640 --> 01:22:22,680
Speaker 4: I also find me on my other podcast, let Us

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01:22:22,720 --> 01:22:26,040
Speaker 4: Tell It. Uh that's on YouTube and non cross the

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01:22:26,040 --> 01:22:29,559
Speaker 4: all streaming platforms, and uh what else? I also have

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01:22:29,600 --> 01:22:33,479
Speaker 4: a bettering body, but are called man ships hy t

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01:22:33,840 --> 01:22:37,000
Speaker 4: you go to manship dot com ndredent naturally, I make it,

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01:22:37,080 --> 01:22:39,440
Speaker 4: I package it, I ship it's feminine.

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01:22:40,280 --> 01:22:45,920
Speaker 2: Oh and then Mama Likes, which is my uh self

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01:22:46,000 --> 01:22:51,160
Speaker 2: care box for dedicated to black mothers. But anybody can

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01:22:51,160 --> 01:22:52,840
Speaker 2: get it? Is it?

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01:22:52,880 --> 01:22:54,040
Speaker 3: Is it? How often do you send it?

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01:22:55,320 --> 01:22:59,400
Speaker 2: I try to do it once a quarter, but sometimes

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01:22:59,400 --> 01:23:03,880
Speaker 2: you don't. Be happened it was mom entrepreneur. Baby. That's

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01:23:03,920 --> 01:23:05,800
Speaker 2: the reason why I'm getting the director of Operations. That's

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01:23:06,000 --> 01:23:08,120
Speaker 2: somebody else's brain got to be over here with me.

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01:23:08,320 --> 01:23:08,519
Speaker 2: You know what.

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01:23:08,520 --> 01:23:11,479
Speaker 1: We're gonna get one too. I like that direct versions.

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01:23:11,840 --> 01:23:13,680
Speaker 1: I don't even know I know that word until now.

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01:23:13,840 --> 01:23:18,519
Speaker 1: Now I need one yacht Director of Operation twenty twenty three.

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01:23:18,560 --> 01:23:21,200
Speaker 1: Here we come, here, we come there, we got Well,

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01:23:21,200 --> 01:23:23,360
Speaker 1: thank you guys so much for joining us and coming

1640
01:23:23,400 --> 01:23:25,800
Speaker 1: in to spend time with us. We appreciate you. I

1641
01:23:25,840 --> 01:23:28,600
Speaker 1: know you're very busy. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

1642
01:23:28,960 --> 01:23:31,160
Speaker 4: We appreciate it, and.

1643
01:23:31,160 --> 01:23:32,200
Speaker 2: You know where to find us.

1644
01:23:32,280 --> 01:23:36,160
Speaker 1: Good Mom's Underscore Bad Choices on Instagram obviously Good Mom's

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01:23:36,200 --> 01:23:40,760
Speaker 1: Bad Choices on all the platforms of listening. We're on

1646
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Speaker 1: tick now on Twitter, on Twitter at the Good Moms

1647
01:23:44,680 --> 01:23:47,800
Speaker 1: at the Good Moms, and make sure you sign up

1648
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Speaker 1: for our newsletter. We have all of our early drops,

1649
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Speaker 1: our merge, our retreats, which we have one coming up

1650
01:23:53,280 --> 01:23:55,599
Speaker 1: to coming up in the beginning of February, So if

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01:23:55,640 --> 01:23:57,960
Speaker 1: you have been thinking about it, here is your sign.

1652
01:23:58,120 --> 01:24:02,200
Speaker 1: Take a break, mama, come get it barefoot, naked in

1653
01:24:02,200 --> 01:24:03,680
Speaker 1: the jungle and come hang out with us.

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01:24:04,600 --> 01:24:06,759
Speaker 3: And you can follow me on Instagram.

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01:24:06,760 --> 01:24:10,160
Speaker 1: I watch Erica and Me on Instagram at Mila with

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01:24:10,200 --> 01:24:13,320
Speaker 1: an h underscore map with two p's, and all these

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01:24:13,320 --> 01:24:16,920
Speaker 1: things will be listened to the episode description because that's easier.

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01:24:17,080 --> 01:24:20,160
Speaker 1: They just don't be listened. Come on and we'll see

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01:24:20,160 --> 01:24:21,000
Speaker 1: you guys next week.

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Speaker 2: Bye bye,