WEBVTT - Second Date Update: High Value Man

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up dated the way that trends go. It's

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<v Speaker 1>interesting because I'd say, lately, with the calls that we've

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<v Speaker 1>been getting for second dates, people seem to expect way

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<v Speaker 1>more than they used to just a couple of years ago.

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<v Speaker 2>You mean, from like a relationship or from a first

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<v Speaker 2>date or a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>We can't seeing people stay single waiting to find the

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<v Speaker 1>right match because the options just aren't good enough.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Like it wasn't magic the first time you met someone.

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<v Speaker 1>They want to be impressed right away or they're not

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<v Speaker 1>even going to waste their time, okay. And that's why

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<v Speaker 1>our listener today, Ina says she only goes out with

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<v Speaker 1>high value men.

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<v Speaker 2>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 1>We'll find out in a SECONDO, Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually it is, oh sorry, yeah, okay, high value. I

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<v Speaker 3>mean the first thing I think that comes everybody's mind

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<v Speaker 3>is just like a dollar symbol.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what you mean?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, like not necessarily all about money, but I

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<v Speaker 4>want to go with a guy.

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<v Speaker 5>That knows how to cheat a woman.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and knows how to pronounce your name properly in

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<v Speaker 1>the first five minutes. Like if this was a first date,

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<v Speaker 1>you already would have asked for the check.

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<v Speaker 2>I he that you better have asked for the.

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<v Speaker 1>Check, because yes, because I'm high value and I would

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<v Speaker 1>never let I know. We're all learning lessons here, but

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<v Speaker 1>let's learn more about the guy that you went out with.

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<v Speaker 1>What's his name?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? What was high value about Corey? From his I'm

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<v Speaker 2>guessing dating profile.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so I'm at a online and like I thought,

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<v Speaker 4>we can act. He looked a part totally like nice outfit,

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<v Speaker 4>like his car.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a little bit superficial.

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<v Speaker 5>I know.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm starting to think high value is less about how

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<v Speaker 3>they're treating you and more about how much money they have.

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<v Speaker 5>I how you think that.

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<v Speaker 4>But like he also had pictures of him traveling, you

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<v Speaker 4>know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>And Okay, his life is okay, Okay, lifestyle is needed.

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<v Speaker 3>First, there's a guy who posted him like drinking with

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<v Speaker 3>their friends in abasement on their profiles that.

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<v Speaker 2>She's looking for someone who has interest.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he also does skiing and golf, so he's like

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<v Speaker 4>super active like that, and also.

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<v Speaker 1>Those are very rich hobbies.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, but whatever he's we're not going to money

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<v Speaker 2>shame him.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what's the most important. So did you end

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<v Speaker 1>up going out with him? In person.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So we went out for drinks first, and I

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<v Speaker 4>told him like, if drinks went while, we.

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<v Speaker 5>Could go on to dinner. If not, we can just

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<v Speaker 5>be friends. And I'm just there.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, you told him that. What did he say to you?

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, she was fine with it.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe he was the same, Okay, I mean that's a

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<v Speaker 3>good point of lexis, like maybe he didn't want to

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<v Speaker 3>waste the time money, why dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever gone out with a guy and after

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<v Speaker 1>the first like thirty minutes of drinks you gave them

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<v Speaker 1>a no? Oh yeah, oh really.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like it's happened more than once.

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<v Speaker 1>But you don't feel guilty about turning these guys away?

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<v Speaker 5>No, why would I?

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, that is a great attitude to have in one

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<v Speaker 2>that I do not have three hours. I'm a total pleaser.

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<v Speaker 1>What happened in the first thirty minutes of drinks with Corey?

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<v Speaker 4>But recently we went to speak Easy, you know, like

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<v Speaker 4>a really upscale, fancy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, where the cocktails are always like thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>Two dollars, Yeah, high value cocktail.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't find the door, but we'll charge you more.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I gives a circle, So that sounds kind

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<v Speaker 1>of nice.

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<v Speaker 4>So we had like drinks and after thirty minutes, like

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<v Speaker 4>I gave him jumped up saying let's go to dinner,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, because it was going well.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you passed the first test.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean I felt like he liked me.

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<v Speaker 4>So we went to a French restaurant for dinner after

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<v Speaker 4>you are chance.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, what were you connecting over?

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly?

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<v Speaker 5>Just like how fancy everything was?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's what you connected over.

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<v Speaker 1>That danding? Okay, what about connecting with Corey himself as

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<v Speaker 1>a person.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, that's where I'm at.

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<v Speaker 4>Jeff for me and like he has a good photographer,

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<v Speaker 4>give him my phone making pictures of me for social

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<v Speaker 4>media with the food.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I will admit I'm a terrible photographer. So Corey

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<v Speaker 1>has one up on me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he was cool taking photos of you. Like, what

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<v Speaker 2>was his reaction when you asked him?

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<v Speaker 5>No, he was he was cool because it was a

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<v Speaker 5>really cool plant and like the lighting was perfect, amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, can I ask you did we go on a date?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I'm mister, take a picture of food, use me

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<v Speaker 1>for my money, let's do all this And I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, are you hitting on her. I can't tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I feel like this is not an issue at all.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like this is a great date for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Your jose is perfect. Woman jo already calling go south

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<v Speaker 1>with let core. This is probably rude to ask here,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but I just want like a ballpark idea,

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<v Speaker 1>Like how much at this point in the night do

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<v Speaker 1>you think the date has cost so far?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I mean I didn't seat for it, but like

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<v Speaker 4>I'm assuming dinner plus like the drinks was upwards of

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<v Speaker 4>maybe three or four hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, are you, Jeff?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you theorizing that he just can't afford.

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<v Speaker 1>To take her on the second No, he can't afford

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<v Speaker 1>it in maybe two years when he saves up for

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<v Speaker 1>the next time and then he again.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'm looking for a high value man. So if

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<v Speaker 5>you can't keep up, I'd like to know today the answer.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll get to the bottom of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Good.

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<v Speaker 1>How did the fancy date end?

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<v Speaker 4>So at the end she walked me to my car,

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<v Speaker 4>I told him I had a nice time, and I

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<v Speaker 4>don't kiss on the first day.

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<v Speaker 5>A lady does not do that, answorry.

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<v Speaker 1>So did you go for the kiss and you told

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<v Speaker 1>him that? Or how did that come up.

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<v Speaker 5>He is lingering, But I told him that's my role.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm a high value woman and she needs to know

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<v Speaker 5>that that's a value of mine.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that message came across pretty clearly the

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<v Speaker 1>entire night. We all value you already, all of us. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>what's happened since that date happened? How long has it been?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you stayed in contact?

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<v Speaker 5>He ever answered me? He ghosted me completely.

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<v Speaker 2>Has that happened to you before?

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<v Speaker 6>Not?

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<v Speaker 5>Really?

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<v Speaker 1>This is why she's calling back. You know what, You're lucky.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that you reached out to a high value

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<v Speaker 1>radio show. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Does she contact someone before us?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm sorry you have to settle for our show,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're gonna do our best for you. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>come back. We'll call Corey and try and get you

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on second date update. You know what I love

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<v Speaker 1>about this show. I learned new things every single.

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<v Speaker 3>Day, really like about how people live and date.

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<v Speaker 1>Totally, Like in part one of the Second Date, I

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<v Speaker 1>learned a high value man doesn't necessarily mean he has

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of money. It just means he has fancy clothes,

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<v Speaker 1>expensive hobbies, travels the world regularly, and drops up words

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<v Speaker 1>of four hundred dollars on a first date.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right, Josh, you can hitchhike all that.

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<v Speaker 2>That is not superficial.

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<v Speaker 1>No, he might as well be a starving artist for

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<v Speaker 1>all the subtle value that he was showing to a

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<v Speaker 1>on the date first class auditions.

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<v Speaker 2>We're joking.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we learned about Corey, and now we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to learn why he's not calling Aina back. How you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you comfortable over there? Can we get you anything?

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<v Speaker 1>A perier with lime, perhaps the.

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<v Speaker 4>Sparkling or flat you have if you're offering okay, Brook.

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<v Speaker 3>Of course only Jeff would be able to drop out.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook's gonna put the order in on Amazon, so that

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<v Speaker 1>should arrive at your house. So sorry to be basic

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<v Speaker 1>with the limes. We should have done cucumbers or something,

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<v Speaker 1>you know.

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<v Speaker 5>What I mean?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, you better.

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<v Speaker 1>We're trying to learn how to be high value.

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<v Speaker 3>I gave up on that a long time, but I

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<v Speaker 3>like you makes you know what you want, You're going

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<v Speaker 3>after it.

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<v Speaker 1>And let's hope that Corey feels the same way. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's just a misunderstanding. I'm gonna call him right now

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking for Corey.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, this is Corey who's calling.

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<v Speaker 1>We are a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you say all like you're like let down?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know if I'm the guy who you want

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<v Speaker 6>on the radio guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, no, are you offensive ready? We got a specific

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<v Speaker 1>request from somebody to reach out to you because you

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<v Speaker 1>went on a date with this person the other night

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<v Speaker 1>and they had a really good time with you. Her

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<v Speaker 1>name's Ana.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, yeah, I know An?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you just you did? You made the same exact

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<v Speaker 1>sound that you did when we told you were a

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<v Speaker 1>radio show.

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<v Speaker 2>Us.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't get calls from radio stations every day. I

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<v Speaker 6>got stuff to do. I mean, I'm sure you guys

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<v Speaker 6>they're all cool. That's no No.

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<v Speaker 1>What I meant was, why did you make that sound

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<v Speaker 1>when we mentioned her? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know. I'm just like a little bit confused.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeahstand okay, you're getting a random call. Well what if

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<v Speaker 1>I told you that she really really wants to see

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<v Speaker 1>you again and go on another date with you?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, she doesn't want to go out with me again.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so weird.

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<v Speaker 3>It feels like you even started the call like, you

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<v Speaker 3>don't want me on the radio, She doesn't want me.

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<v Speaker 2>People want you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm telling you to help us understand what you're

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<v Speaker 1>feeling right now. Why do you say she doesn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with you because she told us about

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<v Speaker 1>the date and her review of it was pretty glowing.

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<v Speaker 6>All right, that's nice to hear, But.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't seem honored real talk.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I know, is is hot? I mean, but yeah, yeah, yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean, did we know, we know, we know you can

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<v Speaker 1>you can do?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you guys are so weird. Okay, what what about

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<v Speaker 2>her being hot?

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<v Speaker 6>She's that, but I could tell that she was like

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<v Speaker 6>not only going to cost me money, like big money,

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<v Speaker 6>but I would probably spend the rest of my time

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<v Speaker 6>with her being like her personal Instagram photographer.

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<v Speaker 2>She told us that you took a really good picture

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<v Speaker 2>of her.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to being in a relationship with a woman. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what you're signing up.

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<v Speaker 2>I never let my husband take pictures. She's horrible at it,

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<v Speaker 2>and he does it for a profession. He takes the

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<v Speaker 2>worse pictures he does. He's like so tall and it's

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<v Speaker 2>always like pictures. Case.

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<v Speaker 1>I like how you took that opportunity to put your

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<v Speaker 1>husband down trying to do.

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<v Speaker 3>Something he's It's not a personality flaw.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. Anyway, what do you feel You felt like she

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<v Speaker 1>was just using you for your camera skills?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, man, I mean it's like she's this influencer or something.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I was taking pictures of her by the statue,

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<v Speaker 6>and her by the fountain, and her by the window,

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<v Speaker 6>and her with her dinner. I mean it was all

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<v Speaker 6>just like too much.

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<v Speaker 2>So how many pictures do you think you took in

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<v Speaker 2>one evening?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, it doesn't well, she told us, She

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<v Speaker 1>told us the only reason that she wanted so many

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<v Speaker 1>pictures was because the place that you chose was so

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<v Speaker 1>cool and she wanted to document.

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<v Speaker 2>She didn't say that she took that many.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, if you would have been bad at it

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<v Speaker 3>the first time, you wouldn't ever had to take one again.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's on you, I mean maybe.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean the place was cool, the drink place was cool,

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<v Speaker 6>to speak easy was cool, the frank restaurant was cool.

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<v Speaker 6>Everything was was cool. But it was a lot of money,

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<v Speaker 6>and I felt this night is going the way it's going,

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<v Speaker 6>so I needed to even it out.

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<v Speaker 1>Does that mean even it out like you had her

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<v Speaker 1>take photos of you all over the restaurant too?

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<v Speaker 6>Nah? Not really, man. I saw how deep I was

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<v Speaker 6>getting into this date, and so when she left me

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<v Speaker 6>her phone to take like more picture for some reason

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<v Speaker 6>while she went away to the ladies room, I opened

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<v Speaker 6>her Venmo and took what I thought was a fair

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<v Speaker 6>cut of the bill and so money from her.

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<v Speaker 1>Never heard of girls doing this.

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<v Speaker 6>Even it out. I wasn't feeling it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you hear that other voice. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my's on the other line right now listening to this.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh come on.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like, are you for real?

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<v Speaker 6>Are you for real? Why am I talking to you? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm defending it. It's not like she was gonna split

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<v Speaker 6>the bill or anything. I mean, it was just this.

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<v Speaker 6>It turned from a date into a job.

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<v Speaker 1>Admit though it's a high value job, one that she

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<v Speaker 1>respects a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't apply for this job. I mean it just

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<v Speaker 6>sort of got sprung on me.

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<v Speaker 2>We were getting into it.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, she seems like what you see is what

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<v Speaker 3>you get with her, Am I right? I know, like

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<v Speaker 3>you sound like you were clear on what your expectations.

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<v Speaker 4>Were, Yes, I was, and honestly, like, there are a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of guys that want to go out with me exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody asked, wants to take picture, wants to spend money on.

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<v Speaker 1>We thought you were upset about the account thing, but you.

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<v Speaker 2>Didn't even she didn't even notice.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, you heard that, right.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I heard it. I just opened that Venmo and

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<v Speaker 4>I thought, right now.

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<v Speaker 2>How much? Really, how much did he venmo to himself?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, he took one hundred and fifty dollars

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<v Speaker 4>from me.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a pretty penny.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, private photo shoot costs. It's kind of I

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<v Speaker 2>just can't believe you don't feel guilty at ally?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have a problem with that?

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<v Speaker 6>Don't Why not cut it off? Like even it out?

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<v Speaker 6>Like I said, I mean, if we ended up going

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<v Speaker 6>out on another date, it would have been an even

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<v Speaker 6>more spends its place.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, if you're such like a if you're such a

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<v Speaker 3>big guy, why didn't you just man up and ask

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<v Speaker 3>her to split the bill with you?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, that is the right thing to do.

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<v Speaker 6>Fine, if we were in that situation and I asked

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<v Speaker 6>for half the bill, would you have given it to me?

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<v Speaker 2>Now we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Take that Brook such a high value answer. He knows

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<v Speaker 1>what he's worth. Two.

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<v Speaker 2>In the end, these two high value people end up

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<v Speaker 2>sounding pretty cheap.

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<v Speaker 1>Seriously, look, this is what happens. You go for a

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<v Speaker 1>high value man and what does he do. He increases

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<v Speaker 1>his value even more by taking the money right out

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<v Speaker 1>of your venmo, and he stands up for himself. That

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<v Speaker 1>is wise, and I would be remiss if I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>offer to send you guys out on another date with this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing everything.

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<v Speaker 2>If you ask them to go, yeah, because we'll pay

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<v Speaker 2>for it this time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the best time. We're going to cover the bill.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think, Corey, You're the one I'm supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to ask you want to go out with Aah one

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<v Speaker 1>more time.

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<v Speaker 6>If she wants to show me who she really is

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<v Speaker 6>and not spend the whole line I freaking take his

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<v Speaker 6>pictures and all that.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, Okay, I get it. She's really hot, So no,

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<v Speaker 1>I know he said yes, Really, it sounded like it

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<v Speaker 1>to me. I know, are you up for it?

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<v Speaker 2>It's insane.

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<v Speaker 4>Well he's stole money from me, but like it sounds

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<v Speaker 4>like he's sorry you about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>At this point, I feel like you too deserve each

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<v Speaker 2>other each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this actually happening.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll do drinks again and if that goes well, then.

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<v Speaker 5>We can see about moving.

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<v Speaker 1>The day location two, Firefest Island.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't have the cash for Firefest Island, but I'll

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<v Speaker 6>take your kids card.

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<v Speaker 1>Successful second date update perieres with lines for everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>As long as your panje I got.

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<v Speaker 1>It's looking Jeffrey in the morning. How much you guys

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<v Speaker 1>want to bet that she's going to hand over her

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<v Speaker 1>phone again and completely forget that he then made himself

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<v Speaker 1>on the second day.

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<v Speaker 3>He's just gonna be the cycle where she takes all

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<v Speaker 3>the money, then he takes all the money.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and he's just gonna he gets it back.

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<v Speaker 1>He's gonna be constantly trying to at her phone. Like

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<v Speaker 1>any type of cute purple lighting shows up anywhere, It's like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>come over here, like we should get.

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<v Speaker 2>The whole thing. They really do, honestly feel made for

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<v Speaker 2>each other.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really hoping that they make it for an update update,

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<v Speaker 1>just to hear how much money has exchanged hands.

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<v Speaker 2>He's hoping that his bank account makes it for an

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<v Speaker 2>update update.

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<v Speaker 1>I think a kind of cute. Yeah, you could be

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<v Speaker 1>the next cute couple that we put together on this show.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah Deep next Deep cute couple.

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<v Speaker 1>All you got to do is email the show. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>call that person WHI was and calling you back. We

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<v Speaker 1>have all of our second date updates ready for you

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<v Speaker 1>to listen to on our podcast wherever you get yours

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<v Speaker 2>At Brooke and Jeffrey Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning,