Speaker 1: Second date up dated the way that trends go. It's
Speaker 1: interesting because I'd say, lately, with the calls that we've
Speaker 1: been getting for second dates, people seem to expect way
Speaker 1: more than they used to just a couple of years ago.
Speaker 2: You mean, from like a relationship or from a first
Speaker 2: date or a first date.
Speaker 1: We can't seeing people stay single waiting to find the
Speaker 1: right match because the options just aren't good enough.
Speaker 2: Okay, Like it wasn't magic the first time you met someone.
Speaker 1: They want to be impressed right away or they're not
Speaker 1: even going to waste their time, okay. And that's why
Speaker 1: our listener today, Ina says she only goes out with
Speaker 1: high value men.
Speaker 2: What does that mean?
Speaker 1: We'll find out in a SECONDO, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 3: Actually it is, oh sorry, yeah, okay, high value. I
Speaker 3: mean the first thing I think that comes everybody's mind
Speaker 3: is just like a dollar symbol.
Speaker 2: Is that what you mean?
Speaker 4: I mean, like not necessarily all about money, but I
Speaker 4: want to go with a guy.
Speaker 5: That knows how to cheat a woman.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and knows how to pronounce your name properly in
Speaker 1: the first five minutes. Like if this was a first date,
Speaker 1: you already would have asked for the check.
Speaker 2: I he that you better have asked for the.
Speaker 1: Check, because yes, because I'm high value and I would
Speaker 1: never let I know. We're all learning lessons here, but
Speaker 1: let's learn more about the guy that you went out with.
Speaker 1: What's his name?
Speaker 2: Okay? What was high value about Corey? From his I'm
Speaker 2: guessing dating profile.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I'm at a online and like I thought,
Speaker 4: we can act. He looked a part totally like nice outfit,
Speaker 4: like his car.
Speaker 1: This is a little bit superficial.
Speaker 5: I know.
Speaker 3: I'm starting to think high value is less about how
Speaker 3: they're treating you and more about how much money they have.
Speaker 5: I how you think that.
Speaker 4: But like he also had pictures of him traveling, you
Speaker 4: know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And Okay, his life is okay, Okay, lifestyle is needed.
Speaker 3: First, there's a guy who posted him like drinking with
Speaker 3: their friends in abasement on their profiles that.
Speaker 2: She's looking for someone who has interest.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he also does skiing and golf, so he's like
Speaker 4: super active like that, and also.
Speaker 1: Those are very rich hobbies.
Speaker 2: But yeah, but whatever he's we're not going to money
Speaker 2: shame him.
Speaker 1: And that's what's the most important. So did you end
Speaker 1: up going out with him? In person.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So we went out for drinks first, and I
Speaker 4: told him like, if drinks went while, we.
Speaker 5: Could go on to dinner. If not, we can just
Speaker 5: be friends. And I'm just there.
Speaker 2: Wait, you told him that. What did he say to you?
Speaker 4: Honestly, she was fine with it.
Speaker 3: Maybe he was the same, Okay, I mean that's a
Speaker 3: good point of lexis, like maybe he didn't want to
Speaker 3: waste the time money, why dinner.
Speaker 1: Have you ever gone out with a guy and after
Speaker 1: the first like thirty minutes of drinks you gave them
Speaker 1: a no? Oh yeah, oh really.
Speaker 2: It sounds like it's happened more than once.
Speaker 1: But you don't feel guilty about turning these guys away?
Speaker 5: No, why would I?
Speaker 2: Honestly, that is a great attitude to have in one
Speaker 2: that I do not have three hours. I'm a total pleaser.
Speaker 1: What happened in the first thirty minutes of drinks with Corey?
Speaker 4: But recently we went to speak Easy, you know, like
Speaker 4: a really upscale, fancy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, where the cocktails are always like thirty.
Speaker 1: Two dollars, Yeah, high value cocktail.
Speaker 2: You can't find the door, but we'll charge you more.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I gives a circle, So that sounds kind
Speaker 1: of nice.
Speaker 4: So we had like drinks and after thirty minutes, like
Speaker 4: I gave him jumped up saying let's go to dinner,
Speaker 4: you know, because it was going well.
Speaker 1: All right, you passed the first test.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I felt like he liked me.
Speaker 4: So we went to a French restaurant for dinner after
Speaker 4: you are chance.
Speaker 2: Okay, what were you connecting over?
Speaker 4: Honestly?
Speaker 5: Just like how fancy everything was?
Speaker 2: Oh that's what you connected over.
Speaker 1: That danding? Okay, what about connecting with Corey himself as
Speaker 1: a person.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's where I'm at.
Speaker 4: Jeff for me and like he has a good photographer,
Speaker 4: give him my phone making pictures of me for social
Speaker 4: media with the food.
Speaker 1: Oh, I will admit I'm a terrible photographer. So Corey
Speaker 1: has one up on me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he was cool taking photos of you. Like, what
Speaker 2: was his reaction when you asked him?
Speaker 5: No, he was he was cool because it was a
Speaker 5: really cool plant and like the lighting was perfect, amazing.
Speaker 1: Okay, can I ask you did we go on a date?
Speaker 1: Because I'm mister, take a picture of food, use me
Speaker 1: for my money, let's do all this And I don't know,
Speaker 1: I just feel.
Speaker 2: Like, are you hitting on her. I can't tell you.
Speaker 1: No, I feel like this is not an issue at all.
Speaker 1: I feel like this is a great date for you.
Speaker 1: Your jose is perfect. Woman jo already calling go south
Speaker 1: with let core. This is probably rude to ask here,
Speaker 1: I know, but I just want like a ballpark idea,
Speaker 1: Like how much at this point in the night do
Speaker 1: you think the date has cost so far?
Speaker 4: Well, I mean I didn't seat for it, but like
Speaker 4: I'm assuming dinner plus like the drinks was upwards of
Speaker 4: maybe three or four hundred dollars.
Speaker 1: Wow, are you, Jeff?
Speaker 2: Are you theorizing that he just can't afford.
Speaker 1: To take her on the second No, he can't afford
Speaker 1: it in maybe two years when he saves up for
Speaker 1: the next time and then he again.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm looking for a high value man. So if
Speaker 5: you can't keep up, I'd like to know today the answer.
Speaker 1: We'll get to the bottom of it.
Speaker 4: Good.
Speaker 1: How did the fancy date end?
Speaker 4: So at the end she walked me to my car,
Speaker 4: I told him I had a nice time, and I
Speaker 4: don't kiss on the first day.
Speaker 5: A lady does not do that, answorry.
Speaker 1: So did you go for the kiss and you told
Speaker 1: him that? Or how did that come up.
Speaker 5: He is lingering, But I told him that's my role.
Speaker 5: I'm a high value woman and she needs to know
Speaker 5: that that's a value of mine.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I feel like that message came across pretty clearly the
Speaker 1: entire night. We all value you already, all of us. Now,
Speaker 1: what's happened since that date happened? How long has it been?
Speaker 1: Have you stayed in contact?
Speaker 5: He ever answered me? He ghosted me completely.
Speaker 2: Has that happened to you before?
Speaker 6: Not?
Speaker 5: Really?
Speaker 1: This is why she's calling back. You know what, You're lucky.
Speaker 1: I know that you reached out to a high value
Speaker 1: radio show. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Does she contact someone before us?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 1: So I'm sorry you have to settle for our show,
Speaker 1: but we're gonna do our best for you. We're gonna
Speaker 1: come back. We'll call Corey and try and get you
Speaker 1: a second date update right after this.
Speaker 5: Okay, thank you.
Speaker 1: Hold on second date update. You know what I love
Speaker 1: about this show. I learned new things every single.
Speaker 3: Day, really like about how people live and date.
Speaker 1: Totally, Like in part one of the Second Date, I
Speaker 1: learned a high value man doesn't necessarily mean he has
Speaker 1: a lot of money. It just means he has fancy clothes,
Speaker 1: expensive hobbies, travels the world regularly, and drops up words
Speaker 1: of four hundred dollars on a first date.
Speaker 3: That's right, Josh, you can hitchhike all that.
Speaker 2: That is not superficial.
Speaker 1: No, he might as well be a starving artist for
Speaker 1: all the subtle value that he was showing to a
Speaker 1: on the date first class auditions.
Speaker 2: We're joking.
Speaker 1: That's what we learned about Corey, and now we're going
Speaker 1: to learn why he's not calling Aina back. How you doing?
Speaker 1: Are you comfortable over there? Can we get you anything?
Speaker 1: A perier with lime, perhaps the.
Speaker 4: Sparkling or flat you have if you're offering okay, Brook.
Speaker 3: Of course only Jeff would be able to drop out.
Speaker 1: Brook's gonna put the order in on Amazon, so that
Speaker 1: should arrive at your house. So sorry to be basic
Speaker 1: with the limes. We should have done cucumbers or something,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 5: What I mean?
Speaker 4: Okay, you better.
Speaker 1: We're trying to learn how to be high value.
Speaker 3: I gave up on that a long time, but I
Speaker 3: like you makes you know what you want, You're going
Speaker 3: after it.
Speaker 1: And let's hope that Corey feels the same way. And
Speaker 1: it's just a misunderstanding. I'm gonna call him right now
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking for Corey.
Speaker 6: Yeah, this is Corey who's calling.
Speaker 1: We are a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey.
Speaker 2: Did you say all like you're like let down?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 6: I don't know if I'm the guy who you want
Speaker 6: on the radio guys.
Speaker 1: Well, no, are you offensive ready? We got a specific
Speaker 1: request from somebody to reach out to you because you
Speaker 1: went on a date with this person the other night
Speaker 1: and they had a really good time with you. Her
Speaker 1: name's Ana.
Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, I know An?
Speaker 1: Did you just you did? You made the same exact
Speaker 1: sound that you did when we told you were a
Speaker 1: radio show.
Speaker 2: Us.
Speaker 6: I don't get calls from radio stations every day. I
Speaker 6: got stuff to do. I mean, I'm sure you guys
Speaker 6: they're all cool. That's no No.
Speaker 1: What I meant was, why did you make that sound
Speaker 1: when we mentioned her? Yeah?
Speaker 6: I don't know. I'm just like a little bit confused.
Speaker 1: Yeahstand okay, you're getting a random call. Well what if
Speaker 1: I told you that she really really wants to see
Speaker 1: you again and go on another date with you?
Speaker 6: Yeah, she doesn't want to go out with me again.
Speaker 2: It's so weird.
Speaker 3: It feels like you even started the call like, you
Speaker 3: don't want me on the radio, She doesn't want me.
Speaker 2: People want you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm telling you to help us understand what you're
Speaker 1: feeling right now. Why do you say she doesn't want
Speaker 1: to go out with you because she told us about
Speaker 1: the date and her review of it was pretty glowing.
Speaker 6: All right, that's nice to hear, But.
Speaker 1: You don't seem honored real talk.
Speaker 6: I mean, I know, is is hot? I mean, but yeah, yeah, yeah, I.
Speaker 1: Mean, did we know, we know, we know you can
Speaker 1: you can do?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys are so weird. Okay, what what about
Speaker 2: her being hot?
Speaker 6: She's that, but I could tell that she was like
Speaker 6: not only going to cost me money, like big money,
Speaker 6: but I would probably spend the rest of my time
Speaker 6: with her being like her personal Instagram photographer.
Speaker 2: She told us that you took a really good picture
Speaker 2: of her.
Speaker 1: Welcome to being in a relationship with a woman. That's
Speaker 1: what you're signing up.
Speaker 2: I never let my husband take pictures. She's horrible at it,
Speaker 2: and he does it for a profession. He takes the
Speaker 2: worse pictures he does. He's like so tall and it's
Speaker 2: always like pictures. Case.
Speaker 1: I like how you took that opportunity to put your
Speaker 1: husband down trying to do.
Speaker 3: Something he's It's not a personality flaw.
Speaker 2: It's just the truth.
Speaker 1: Okay. Anyway, what do you feel You felt like she
Speaker 1: was just using you for your camera skills?
Speaker 6: Yeah, man, I mean it's like she's this influencer or something.
Speaker 6: I mean I was taking pictures of her by the statue,
Speaker 6: and her by the fountain, and her by the window,
Speaker 6: and her with her dinner. I mean it was all
Speaker 6: just like too much.
Speaker 2: So how many pictures do you think you took in
Speaker 2: one evening?
Speaker 1: I don't know, it doesn't well, she told us, She
Speaker 1: told us the only reason that she wanted so many
Speaker 1: pictures was because the place that you chose was so
Speaker 1: cool and she wanted to document.
Speaker 2: She didn't say that she took that many.
Speaker 1: Well, we didn't know that.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I mean, if you would have been bad at it
Speaker 3: the first time, you wouldn't ever had to take one again.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's on you, I mean maybe.
Speaker 6: I mean the place was cool, the drink place was cool,
Speaker 6: to speak easy was cool, the frank restaurant was cool.
Speaker 6: Everything was was cool. But it was a lot of money,
Speaker 6: and I felt this night is going the way it's going,
Speaker 6: so I needed to even it out.
Speaker 1: Does that mean even it out like you had her
Speaker 1: take photos of you all over the restaurant too?
Speaker 6: Nah? Not really, man. I saw how deep I was
Speaker 6: getting into this date, and so when she left me
Speaker 6: her phone to take like more picture for some reason
Speaker 6: while she went away to the ladies room, I opened
Speaker 6: her Venmo and took what I thought was a fair
Speaker 6: cut of the bill and so money from her.
Speaker 1: Never heard of girls doing this.
Speaker 6: Even it out. I wasn't feeling it.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you hear that other voice. Oh
Speaker 1: my's on the other line right now listening to this.
Speaker 6: Oh come on.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, are you for real?
Speaker 6: Are you for real? Why am I talking to you? Yeah,
Speaker 6: I'm defending it. It's not like she was gonna split
Speaker 6: the bill or anything. I mean, it was just this.
Speaker 6: It turned from a date into a job.
Speaker 1: Admit though it's a high value job, one that she
Speaker 1: respects a lot.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 6: I didn't apply for this job. I mean it just
Speaker 6: sort of got sprung on me.
Speaker 2: We were getting into it.
Speaker 3: I mean, she seems like what you see is what
Speaker 3: you get with her, Am I right? I know, like
Speaker 3: you sound like you were clear on what your expectations.
Speaker 4: Were, Yes, I was, and honestly, like, there are a
Speaker 4: lot of guys that want to go out with me exactly.
Speaker 1: Nobody asked, wants to take picture, wants to spend money on.
Speaker 1: We thought you were upset about the account thing, but you.
Speaker 2: Didn't even she didn't even notice.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you heard that, right.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I heard it. I just opened that Venmo and
Speaker 4: I thought, right now.
Speaker 2: How much? Really, how much did he venmo to himself?
Speaker 4: Oh my god, he took one hundred and fifty dollars
Speaker 4: from me.
Speaker 1: That's a pretty penny.
Speaker 2: I mean, private photo shoot costs. It's kind of I
Speaker 2: just can't believe you don't feel guilty at ally?
Speaker 1: Do you have a problem with that?
Speaker 6: Don't Why not cut it off? Like even it out?
Speaker 6: Like I said, I mean, if we ended up going
Speaker 6: out on another date, it would have been an even
Speaker 6: more spends its place.
Speaker 3: Okay, if you're such like a if you're such a
Speaker 3: big guy, why didn't you just man up and ask
Speaker 3: her to split the bill with you?
Speaker 2: I mean, that is the right thing to do.
Speaker 6: Fine, if we were in that situation and I asked
Speaker 6: for half the bill, would you have given it to me?
Speaker 2: Now we go.
Speaker 1: Take that Brook such a high value answer. He knows
Speaker 1: what he's worth. Two.
Speaker 2: In the end, these two high value people end up
Speaker 2: sounding pretty cheap.
Speaker 1: Seriously, look, this is what happens. You go for a
Speaker 1: high value man and what does he do. He increases
Speaker 1: his value even more by taking the money right out
Speaker 1: of your venmo, and he stands up for himself. That
Speaker 1: is wise, and I would be remiss if I didn't
Speaker 1: offer to send you guys out on another date with this.
Speaker 1: I'm doing everything.
Speaker 2: If you ask them to go, yeah, because we'll pay
Speaker 2: for it this time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the best time. We're going to cover the bill.
Speaker 1: What do you think, Corey, You're the one I'm supposed
Speaker 1: to ask you want to go out with Aah one
Speaker 1: more time.
Speaker 6: If she wants to show me who she really is
Speaker 6: and not spend the whole line I freaking take his
Speaker 6: pictures and all that.
Speaker 1: Sure, Okay, I get it. She's really hot, So no,
Speaker 1: I know he said yes, Really, it sounded like it
Speaker 1: to me. I know, are you up for it?
Speaker 2: It's insane.
Speaker 4: Well he's stole money from me, but like it sounds
Speaker 4: like he's sorry you about it.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: At this point, I feel like you too deserve each
Speaker 2: other each other.
Speaker 1: Is this actually happening.
Speaker 4: I'll do drinks again and if that goes well, then.
Speaker 5: We can see about moving.
Speaker 1: The day location two, Firefest Island.
Speaker 6: I don't have the cash for Firefest Island, but I'll
Speaker 6: take your kids card.
Speaker 1: Successful second date update perieres with lines for everybody.
Speaker 2: As long as your panje I got.
Speaker 1: It's looking Jeffrey in the morning. How much you guys
Speaker 1: want to bet that she's going to hand over her
Speaker 1: phone again and completely forget that he then made himself
Speaker 1: on the second day.
Speaker 3: He's just gonna be the cycle where she takes all
Speaker 3: the money, then he takes all the money.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and he's just gonna he gets it back.
Speaker 1: He's gonna be constantly trying to at her phone. Like
Speaker 1: any type of cute purple lighting shows up anywhere, It's like, hey,
Speaker 1: come over here, like we should get.
Speaker 2: The whole thing. They really do, honestly feel made for
Speaker 2: each other.
Speaker 1: I'm really hoping that they make it for an update update,
Speaker 1: just to hear how much money has exchanged hands.
Speaker 2: He's hoping that his bank account makes it for an
Speaker 2: update update.
Speaker 1: I think a kind of cute. Yeah, you could be
Speaker 1: the next cute couple that we put together on this show.
Speaker 2: Yeah Deep next Deep cute couple.
Speaker 1: All you got to do is email the show. We'll
Speaker 1: call that person WHI was and calling you back. We
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