1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,760 Speaker 1: If he had an only start start there starts strong. 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 2: It was the first thing out of my mouth and 3 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:08,640 Speaker 2: he literally said, no, what did you want to talk about? What? 4 00:00:09,640 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 2: Bold face? Why? 5 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 1: Also, that's just like so freaking like annoying that op. 6 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:17,479 Speaker 1: He's like, do you have an olifants? He's like, no, 7 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:18,599 Speaker 1: what did you want to talk about? 8 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 2: That? 9 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 1: Obviously that that's why she's talking about it. 10 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:23,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, I mean like, would you want to talk about? 11 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:24,920 Speaker 1: What do you mean? What do you want to talk about? 12 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 2: Like? But obviously she knows, like like why would you 13 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 2: bold face? Lie? I mean, I guess he's. 14 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: Like a uh, he's a serial liar. 15 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 2: But I told him I knew what he did, and 16 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:38,479 Speaker 2: he denied it. I told him I went on his 17 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 2: phone this morning and scoffed and walked away. I followed him, 18 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 2: crying and screaming that I knew he had only a 19 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 2: snapchat and that I was leaving him, and finally cried 20 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 2: out something about cheating with his students. When I said that, 21 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 2: he immediately turned around and asked what the F I 22 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 2: was talking about. I told him that I knew about 23 00:00:56,600 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 2: the girl eighteen female, and his face genuine turned into 24 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 2: somebody I don't know. He immediately began yelling in my 25 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 2: face that I don't know what I was talking about. 26 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 2: How dare me accuse him of sleeping with his students? 27 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:15,040 Speaker 2: And I'm crazy and trying to ruin. 28 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 1: His life gaslighting. 29 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 2: I was screaming at him back. I told him to 30 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 2: open his phone improve it, and he laughed in my 31 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 2: face about how stupid somebody would be to do what 32 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 2: I'm accusing him of. I mean, he's right, yeah, he 33 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:31,039 Speaker 2: would be pretty stupid, and basically threw his phone at 34 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:33,480 Speaker 2: my face and said, knock yourself out. As people can 35 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:36,400 Speaker 2: probably guess, there was nothing he definitely knew. Before I 36 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:38,759 Speaker 2: got home, he was logged out of Snapchat, and when 37 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 2: I asked him to log in and stop lying, he 38 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 2: logged into a different account and asked me if I 39 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 2: would drop it now. The first one had just eighteen 40 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 2: female and a few AI account things. This one had 41 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 2: all his old college group chats and other people, including me. 42 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 2: He gas led me and swore he didn't have another account. 43 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 2: I'm wondering if there's like a twin. Yeah, I think 44 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 2: that we're not seeing. 45 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: It's like he's he's got a twin. 46 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:10,239 Speaker 2: Or like I don't know she's actually a hacker, hacked 47 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 2: onto his phone subscribe to her only fans. 48 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 1: No, I think that based off his behavior. 49 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 2: Alessa Bundy says, what's the age difference between Op and husband? 50 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 1: I think there are similar ages. I don't know if 51 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: we got. 52 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 2: Oh age difference between OP and husband. Yeah, I think 53 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 2: similar ages and thirties. I think husband is he's been 54 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:31,640 Speaker 2: teaching for ten years, so he's probably like thirty five. 55 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say he's around thirty mid thirties. 56 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. He goas let me and swore he didn't have 57 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 2: another account. He even suggested that I dreamt all of that. 58 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 1: That's crazy. How are you going to what? 59 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 2: At one point, he finally admitted that he subscribed to 60 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 2: an of for a streamer during one of our intimacy lolls, 61 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 2: but never a student, and he swore he lied because 62 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 2: he loved me and doesn't engage in that kind of 63 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 2: behavior because he's still lying anymore. It was just our 64 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 2: of lies and gaslighting. He said that he knew which 65 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 2: June I was talking about, but that he's never spoken 66 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 2: to her or taught her. He didn't recall the movie 67 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 2: theater incident and accuse me of imagining it too. He 68 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 2: denied receiving a snapchat at all a few nights ago 69 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 2: when I first saw it, he denied acting shady. The 70 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 2: days before, he denied everything. 71 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, just divorced this terrible, terrible man. 72 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:24,799 Speaker 2: I was absolutely disgusted by him the whole night. As 73 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 2: a conversation went on, he started to talk about how 74 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 2: he's going to get us marriage counselingg unbelievable. You think 75 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 2: that's gonna fix it? Buddy? 76 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 1: He's like, you know what you need help to go to? 77 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, honestly, let's just get a therapistry. 78 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 1: He seems like you, Yeah, it seems like maybe you 79 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 1: should do individual therapy because you're having a. 80 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 2: Lot of dreams. Yeah, babe, you know, you know what 81 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 2: I love about you. I loved you have this amazing imagination, 82 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 2: and I really think we should put that to work. 83 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 2: You know, Let's let's like do a storytelling class together. 84 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 2: Let's do some improv I love that some problem right here, 85 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 2: I'm making stuff up. You're making stuff up. Like maybe 86 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 2: we could do a sketch group together. 87 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a great idea, great idea. 88 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 2: But as a conversation went on, he started to talk 89 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 2: about how he's going to get us marriage counseling that 90 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 2: my trust issues can be worked on. 91 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: My trust issues take this man. The amount of gaslighting is. 92 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 2: Incredible, and he would leave teaching if that's what it 93 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:21,920 Speaker 2: took for me to stay, but never admitted to anything 94 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 2: with the student. Admittedly I was starting to get a 95 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:28,160 Speaker 2: bit of gaslight fog about the situation, believing some of 96 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:31,479 Speaker 2: what he was saying. But when he volunteered to leave teaching, 97 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 2: I knew it was worse than I thought, because teaching 98 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:38,159 Speaker 2: is his everything. He gave up an amazing opportunity which 99 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:40,720 Speaker 2: would have made him three to four times the money 100 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 2: and way more recognition to teach, and has never complained 101 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 2: about his job a day in his life. We both 102 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 2: know he loves his job more than he loves me. 103 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 2: But you know he doesn't love it for you know, 104 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:55,039 Speaker 2: the material. He loves it for the students. He loves 105 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:57,600 Speaker 2: the students. You know. If this was truly all in 106 00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:00,160 Speaker 2: mis understanding, or if it was a one off off 107 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:03,600 Speaker 2: with a graduated non student, I just think he would 108 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:05,480 Speaker 2: do more to protect his job in his career. He 109 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 2: wouldn't just leave over crazy behavior. 110 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 3: For me. 111 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 2: That immediately told me everything I needed to know. That 112 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 2: he was panicking on the inside about me leaving and 113 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 2: me telling people. Maybe because more happened with eighteen female 114 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:22,040 Speaker 2: than what I know, maybe because he's done this before. 115 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 2: I'm not sure, but he afft at bad. I don't 116 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 2: think this is the first time. 117 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't think so. I think 118 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:29,159 Speaker 1: he's very comfortable lying. 119 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:32,479 Speaker 2: Yeah. And also he's like he has his system down, 120 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 2: you know, Like. 121 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 1: I feel like it's probably something along the lines of 122 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 1: he you know, students flirt with him because he's like 123 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 1: attractive young teacher. He flips back. Eventually some you know, 124 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 1: students start messaging him, and then he's like, oh, well 125 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 1: I can message these students, and so he gets into that, 126 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 1: and this is maybe the first time that he had 127 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 1: like an of model. 128 00:05:55,640 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm thinking that, like the best situation of this 129 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 2: is he does wait until after they graduate and he 130 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 2: has just a pipeline of grooms. 131 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, which is just groomy Yeah, yeah, just grooming as students. 132 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:13,919 Speaker 2: Yeah. It's so late. I was exhausted, and I feigned 133 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 2: agreement in working through it and told him I could 134 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 2: move past it, but I was obviously lying. I need 135 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 2: time to get crap in order he is sleeping in 136 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 2: the guest room tonight. I told him I would need 137 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:26,359 Speaker 2: a lot of space, and he said he was okay 138 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 2: with that. I mean, you better be. He left his 139 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 2: phone in our bedroom for the night as a peace offering. 140 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 2: I hate his effing guts. Yeah, Goth Princess says he 141 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:38,040 Speaker 2: enjoys the intention. Jan Diittle says, if he's been teaching 142 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 2: for like a decade now, he must have done this 143 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:42,559 Speaker 2: when he was younger. Oh yeah, for sure. 144 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 1: I mean yeah, especially, I mean yeah, when he was 145 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 1: a young, young teacher. Yeah. 146 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:49,479 Speaker 2: I have so many things on my mind right now. 147 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:52,480 Speaker 2: What the f to do? How to get a lawyer, 148 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:55,120 Speaker 2: if I should tell my family, if I should tell 149 00:06:55,160 --> 00:06:57,160 Speaker 2: the school, The fact that I have no proof but 150 00:06:57,240 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 2: I know what I saw ug, the fact that I'll 151 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 2: be thirty three and divorced, and above all, the fact 152 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:06,600 Speaker 2: that my husband may have slept with this girl. That's 153 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 2: my gut telling me, because he kept repeating that he 154 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 2: would never sleep with his students over and over, when 155 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 2: I was using words like cheat with look at corn 156 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 2: or spicy texts with. So that's the Updatelet I was 157 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 2: gas lit and lied to. I got no sleep last night, 158 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 2: but still went to work this morning to get away 159 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 2: from him. He hasn't texted me or called all day. 160 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 2: I want nothing more than to go to the school 161 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 2: with his info. My heartbreak is gone. I'm just angry 162 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 2: and disgusted and want to right his wrong. But I 163 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 2: need him to admit to it so I can know 164 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 2: how bad it is, and I don't think he will. 165 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 2: I'm thinking of telling him that I reach out to 166 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 2: the girl I'm not going to and see if that 167 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 2: freaks him out enough to come clean. But what if 168 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 2: she doesn't know slash he's using a fake account, but 169 00:07:49,560 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 2: I think she knows. 170 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 1: She knows that's why she reacted that way. 171 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 2: Or just saying I have proof even though I don't, 172 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 2: anybody have any good ideas. In the meantime, looking for 173 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 2: divorce lawyer asap TLD are found proof of husband's snapchattings 174 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 2: subscribed to students only. But now all the evidence is 175 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 2: gone and he gas let me have no idea where 176 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 2: to go from here besides start the divorce process and edit. 177 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 2: I'm quickly editing to add because so many people are 178 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 2: saying I don't need proof the divorce and I know 179 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 2: that I'm leaving him one hundred percent to regardless, but 180 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 2: I really want some proof. I want to prove to 181 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 2: him that he can't lie to me and get away 182 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 2: with doing this. I also think most people in his 183 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 2: life will not believe me without proof. I'm scared of 184 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 2: my name being slandered, in him getting off scot free, 185 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 2: and maybe even making me the bad guy for falsely accusing. 186 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 2: I also want to know the extent because I need 187 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 2: to know if he is sleeping with students or just 188 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 2: being a creep. And there's another edit, but really quick, 189 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:48,160 Speaker 2: do you think it's important that she gets to the 190 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 2: bottom of us. 191 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 1: I think yes, only because she needs to go to 192 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 1: the school about this and if she needs. 193 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 2: Like she might she goes back in school without proof. 194 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 1: I think she could because she has a certain level 195 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 1: of information. 196 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 2: She has information, but she won't't But like she like, 197 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 2: does she have enough information for. 198 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:11,200 Speaker 1: For an investigation? 199 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 2: I think so. 200 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 1: I think at that point it goes I. 201 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 2: Have, yeah, because you could, just like like anyone like 202 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 2: there I have a tip on this teacher. I think 203 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 2: you should be investigated. 204 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:25,560 Speaker 1: And especially if it's coming from his wife. Yeah, yeah, 205 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 1: I think they would investigate it. And then that point 206 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 1: you don't need to do it the investigation work. 207 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 2: You could leave an anonymous tip. 208 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 1: That's also true. I mean yeah, and then even then 209 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 1: you still don't need that like that much proof or 210 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 1: anything because they would find that. 211 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:41,560 Speaker 2: Ming Meng says, do it for the kids, op, Yeah, 212 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:44,360 Speaker 2: I really do think like you're doing these children as service. 213 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 1: I think you need to either way, and I think 214 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 1: a piece just like seemingly it's it just feels like 215 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 1: she needs the proof for herself because she's like I've 216 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:55,560 Speaker 1: been gasolin and gas lit gas lit. But I think 217 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 1: I really think she could just go to the school 218 00:09:57,520 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 1: with a tip. 219 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 2: Yeahkiel says Sam this, we can investigate and find proof 220 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 2: if you used a school PC and maybe get the 221 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 2: cops involved. Oh that's a good point. They would go 222 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 2: talk to this girl. Yeah, I would hope. But she's 223 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:12,080 Speaker 2: also not a student anymore, so I mean, like do 224 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 2: they have access? Also, is that something that she's going 225 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 2: to want to cooperate with? Like potentially not. But we 226 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:20,959 Speaker 2: got another edit, so thanks for all the comments. This 227 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 2: blew up even more so I won't be able to 228 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:26,079 Speaker 2: apply to all of them. I have a meeting with 229 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 2: a divorce lawy at four pm. Will act accordingly based 230 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 2: on their advice, and we'll update tonight. Comments from Even 231 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 2: Budget twenty seventy eight to OPI. First of all, I 232 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 2: am glad you are safe. I was very concerned your 233 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 2: husband might hurt you when you realize you knew about 234 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:41,959 Speaker 2: the student. I know you got so many comments. I 235 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 2: am a law professor from your earlier posts. Please don't 236 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:48,320 Speaker 2: get a lawyer. No please, oh sorry, Please get a 237 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 2: lawyer and then go directly to the school. You don't 238 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:53,960 Speaker 2: need proof in the way that you mean. You tell 239 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:57,000 Speaker 2: them exactly what you found and they will open an investigation. 240 00:10:57,600 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 2: As you already know this girl's friend know what's going on, 241 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 2: it will not take long for specific facts to unravel. Also, 242 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:08,439 Speaker 2: you do have evidence. Your testimony about what you saw 243 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 2: is evidence. Yes, the school will need to cooperate your statement. 244 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 2: That is their job, by the way, but you certainly 245 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:16,839 Speaker 2: have evidence sufficient to alert the school at this point. 246 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:19,960 Speaker 2: Please do so. I'm not going to repeat what I 247 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 2: said earlier about the many reasons why, but simply that 248 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:24,960 Speaker 2: I think you know it is the right thing to 249 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:27,679 Speaker 2: do to protect the students your husband has access to 250 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:31,200 Speaker 2: as a teacher. I'm very sorry this happened, and really 251 00:11:31,280 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 2: hope that you also get therapy if you can to 252 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 2: deal with all this and your husband's gas lighting at it. 253 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:41,240 Speaker 2: To add, I just want to respond to this comment 254 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 2: because it's concerning. I want nothing more than to go 255 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 2: to school with the info. My heartbreak is gone, and 256 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 2: I'm just angry and disgusted and want to right his wrongs. 257 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 2: But I need him to admit it so I can 258 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 2: know how bad it is, and I don't think he will. 259 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:57,440 Speaker 2: So this is the quote from Ope, and then this 260 00:11:57,520 --> 00:12:01,839 Speaker 2: comment responds OP, you do not need him to admit 261 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:04,080 Speaker 2: anything to you in order to go to the school. 262 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:07,320 Speaker 2: You are not the intermediary here from him. The school 263 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 2: will carry out its own investigation and the facts will 264 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:12,200 Speaker 2: come out and you will know exactly how bad it is. 265 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 1: But you'll get your proof. But you just don't have 266 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:16,679 Speaker 1: to go through all the process of investigating while you're 267 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:18,079 Speaker 1: also trying to divorce this man. 268 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 2: You are not an investigator or prosecutor of your husband. 269 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:23,840 Speaker 2: You have evidence of a concerning nature about the safety 270 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:27,040 Speaker 2: and welfare of students involving a teacher at the school. 271 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 2: What else is there is not your job to find. Yeah, 272 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 2: so you kind of accomplish your own goals by informing 273 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:36,240 Speaker 2: the school, and also it's like the moral right thing 274 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:38,600 Speaker 2: to do to protect these students. Exactly what else is 275 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:40,719 Speaker 2: there is not your job to find I would really 276 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:43,600 Speaker 2: advise you to not directly engage with your husband anymore 277 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 2: on this topic. He has already become extremely angry with 278 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 2: you for raising it and pushing for more information is 279 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 2: going to be interpreted as a threat from him. Please 280 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 2: disengage asap from your husband, leave this in the hands 281 00:12:58,160 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 2: of the school, and get a safe place where you 282 00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 2: can organize your divorce. Do you have somewhere you can stay, 283 00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 2: go there. Do not talk to your husband, and definitely 284 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:07,320 Speaker 2: don't tell him things to see if it freaks him 285 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:09,840 Speaker 2: out to come clean. This is extraordinarily dangerous because like 286 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:13,719 Speaker 2: his you know, a cornered animal, a cornered animal that 287 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:17,920 Speaker 2: has nothing to lose, is going to strike out. And 288 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:20,720 Speaker 2: you don't want to make him feel like that because 289 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 2: he might do something crazy. 290 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you're potentially rightfully so, but you're potentially getting 291 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 1: him fired from a job he's been at for ten years. 292 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:30,559 Speaker 1: I don't know if there's some sort of like tenure 293 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 1: kind of thing going on at that school, but that's 294 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 1: a possibility. 295 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, but the competence says it's an extraordinary danger list, 296 00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:41,959 Speaker 2: Please do not do any such thing. And extension Accident 297 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:43,960 Speaker 2: forty seven says you don't need proof. You know what 298 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:46,200 Speaker 2: you saw. You saw the red flags last night. Hire 299 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 2: a lawyer and get the divorce process started before things 300 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 2: get any worse. Your husband has a lot to lose. 301 00:13:51,960 --> 00:13:56,600 Speaker 2: Don't let him pull you down with him. Get out asap. Yeah, 302 00:13:56,640 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 2: and that's that's the end, is where that story ends. 303 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:02,000 Speaker 2: I have a personal am I the a hole to 304 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:05,000 Speaker 2: go over. But uh, yeah, I wonder if. 305 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, Addie, if you can find out if there's more 306 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 1: updates under that username. 307 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. Maybe. While Addie is looking for more updates on 308 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 2: that story, I can tell you guys a little about 309 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 2: my am IV a whole situation. So Sophia and I 310 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:22,840 Speaker 2: went to go do laundry yesterday. 311 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 1: Laundry machine is broken. 312 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, and we had the brilliant idea that like, one 313 00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:29,400 Speaker 2: of the places that I used to live is down 314 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 2: the street. It's like an apartment complex. It has a 315 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 2: open laundromat where you can pay like's not locked. It's 316 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 2: not locked, and you can pay a few bucks to 317 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 2: do your laundry, right, And so Sophia goes and does 318 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 2: her laundry. She fills up the entire washing machine, so 319 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:46,600 Speaker 2: I can't do any of my laundry. We leave, it's 320 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 2: not any issue, right. So then I go this morning 321 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 2: and I have my big Santa sack of laundry over 322 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 2: my shoulder, classic, and I see my old neighbor and 323 00:14:56,960 --> 00:15:00,200 Speaker 2: she's pulling out of like the driveway and I'm the 324 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:02,640 Speaker 2: street and she's like like, she's like, hey, are you 325 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 2: trying to do laundry here? I'm like, oh yeah, like 326 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 2: my laundry machine's broken. Thought i'd do like a quick 327 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 2: cycle and she's like, you can't do that. There's a 328 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:13,520 Speaker 2: new couple that moved in and they have a baby 329 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 2: and they can't have some strange man coming through. I'm like, okay, 330 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 2: super sorry about that. Didn't realize it as an issue, right. 331 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 2: But she's like continually going off on me, and I'm like, 332 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 2: totally understand, no worries, right, And then I text her husband, 333 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 2: who I thought we were close, like we lived next 334 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 2: to each other for like three years and we had 335 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 2: multiple conversations and it seemed fine. And I text him 336 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 2: and this is this is the conversation, So I say, hey, 337 00:15:43,160 --> 00:15:45,600 Speaker 2: our laundry machine is getting prepaired. So I went to 338 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 2: do laundry at the old stobby grounds. But your wife 339 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:50,840 Speaker 2: got pretty upset when she saw me coming in. I'm 340 00:15:50,880 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 2: not going to use it now. Sorry, I didn't know 341 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 2: it cause any issues. Hope you're well right, And then 342 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:59,120 Speaker 2: he responds, so it's not yours to use if yours 343 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:02,520 Speaker 2: is broken to a laundry it if ours broke down, 344 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:05,280 Speaker 2: would you expect me to come to yours to do laundry. 345 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:08,320 Speaker 2: We have new neighbors with two kids and who use 346 00:16:08,360 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 2: it regularly, And to them, you're a stranger. 347 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 1: Which implies that they apparently know everyone in the apartment. 348 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, and there's an airbnb in the apartment complex and 349 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 2: there's plenty of people that use that same laundrymat. And 350 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 2: I said, no, sweat didn't know as an issue in response, 351 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 2: have some common sense. If you still lived here and 352 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:30,880 Speaker 2: some random person came up to do their laundry, would 353 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 2: you be happy? And like I would be. 354 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:35,840 Speaker 4: You. 355 00:16:37,440 --> 00:16:39,040 Speaker 2: Would you would even notice. 356 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 1: It's not like we're walking through someone's house to get 357 00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:42,360 Speaker 1: to this laundry mat. 358 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 2: And I misinterpreted that as it is coin operating. 359 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:46,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a good time. 360 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:49,920 Speaker 2: It's a coin operated laundry thing. And I misinterpreted that text. 361 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:51,760 Speaker 2: I thought he said like, if like we needed your 362 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:53,960 Speaker 2: laundry done and like needed to knock on the door, 363 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 2: like I would totally let him use our laundry machine 364 00:16:57,160 --> 00:16:58,920 Speaker 2: if you needed to wash some stuff, And I said, 365 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:02,720 Speaker 2: and would love to help y'all if you ever needed anything. Yeah. Sorry, 366 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 2: I thought we had a friendlier relationship. You are totally 367 00:17:05,320 --> 00:17:07,359 Speaker 2: right right just to like kind of do it. And 368 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:09,679 Speaker 2: He's like, dude, we do have a friendly relationship, but 369 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 2: our neighbors might not be so welcoming. They just had 370 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 2: a baby. 371 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:15,920 Speaker 1: I don't understand why they kept bringing up the baby. 372 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:18,120 Speaker 2: And also we know those neighbors. 373 00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:20,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, they also know the neighbors. 374 00:17:20,200 --> 00:17:22,840 Speaker 2: We also know the neighbors who just moved in that 375 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:25,399 Speaker 2: had the baby, and they said it was fine. 376 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:26,440 Speaker 1: They said it was fine. 377 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:28,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, Kristin had talked to them because he had done 378 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:30,120 Speaker 2: so what And. 379 00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:33,480 Speaker 1: Also to be clear, the people that Sam's texting not 380 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:34,399 Speaker 1: the landlords. 381 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:35,480 Speaker 2: Not the landlords. 382 00:17:35,520 --> 00:17:36,359 Speaker 1: Not the landlords. 383 00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:41,600 Speaker 2: It is a coin operated laundry machine. And also I'm 384 00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:43,959 Speaker 2: just bummed because I thought we were tight. But They 385 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:49,200 Speaker 2: all also are like very their demeanor changes based on 386 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:54,159 Speaker 2: what substance they're on, so they're a little bit variable people. 387 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 2: But sometimes they're very nice. But maybe I just caught 388 00:17:57,000 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 2: them on an off day. So chat am I the 389 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:02,280 Speaker 2: a hole? Josue Madola Burker says, So they got offended 390 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:05,520 Speaker 2: on their behalf. Jan Digital says, but have you talked 391 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:07,240 Speaker 2: to the baby? Yeah? 392 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:08,800 Speaker 1: I think we should go like, hang out, we should 393 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:11,399 Speaker 1: become friends with that and the baby, I know, and 394 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 1: be like and if they're like you they have a baby. Yeah, 395 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:15,520 Speaker 1: we're babysitting for them. 396 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:18,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think honestly, my read on them, read on 397 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:21,720 Speaker 2: it is I think they had just had an argument 398 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:25,959 Speaker 2: and we're mad at each other, God at you, And 399 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:29,800 Speaker 2: you know what, maybe I made it better because they 400 00:18:29,880 --> 00:18:32,959 Speaker 2: have something. Yeah, they have a common common enemy. And 401 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:34,720 Speaker 2: now I've helped them a little bit with their own 402 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:35,680 Speaker 2: relationship troubles. 403 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 1: I guess so now. But I think it's ridiculous. I 404 00:18:38,080 --> 00:18:41,919 Speaker 1: think it's it's it's not a personal laundry machine, like 405 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:45,440 Speaker 1: it's basically a laundromat. It's open, it's not locked door. 406 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:46,560 Speaker 1: You don't need a key to get something. 407 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:50,119 Speaker 2: He says, you weren't planning on going on their personal apartments. 408 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 2: So how's that bothering anyone? Not the ale? 409 00:18:52,320 --> 00:18:56,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah exactly, like literally used to like lived there. 410 00:18:56,720 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 2: I used to live the Yeah. I know the neighbors 411 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:02,840 Speaker 2: that moved in that have the baby, because we talked 412 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 2: to them as they moved in and we moved out. 413 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:06,560 Speaker 2: I know everyone there. 414 00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:08,960 Speaker 1: We're not like. It wasn't like, oh there was a 415 00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:10,120 Speaker 1: big line for the laundry. 416 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:12,399 Speaker 2: There was no one. Yeah, there was no one that 417 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:13,560 Speaker 2: was at the laundry thing. 418 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:16,800 Speaker 1: Never do this. Our laundry machine is broken. 419 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:19,399 Speaker 2: I was a little like taken aback because you know 420 00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:20,080 Speaker 2: that's particular. 421 00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 1: Also the moment you were like, hey, sorry, I didn't 422 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:23,600 Speaker 1: realize this problem. Won't do it, and he was. 423 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:27,680 Speaker 2: Like, yeah, exactly, dude, I'm up and arm I didn't 424 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:29,960 Speaker 2: even use the laundry machine. I didn't even get to 425 00:19:30,080 --> 00:19:34,200 Speaker 2: use it. I was on the street exactly with the 426 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:36,399 Speaker 2: I guess I had intents. I had intent to use 427 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:39,159 Speaker 2: the laundry machine. I was. I was a man with 428 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 2: laundry intent. But yeah, as Ego says, Sam, are you 429 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:44,760 Speaker 2: going to call any of the ladies Riley introduced you 430 00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:48,080 Speaker 2: to at the Spotify event, Just don't snap them. There 431 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 2: was no there's no ladies. 432 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:52,160 Speaker 1: You mentioned that before. I feel like Sam didn't talk 433 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:52,920 Speaker 1: to any of these. 434 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:55,800 Speaker 2: No, I didn't. What do you read? I talked to 435 00:19:55,880 --> 00:20:00,200 Speaker 2: girls all the time, taught girls all the time. No, 436 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:02,920 Speaker 2: I mostly I mostly just talked to the friends that 437 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:04,360 Speaker 2: I knew. At the Spotify event. 438 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:07,280 Speaker 1: T says, did Riley break it again? Riley was not. 439 00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:10,880 Speaker 1: Our laundry machine is just like broken, and we've had 440 00:20:10,880 --> 00:20:12,680 Speaker 1: to fight to get a new one. 441 00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 2: We are, for ex fighting. We are fighting. Yeah, but 442 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:18,200 Speaker 2: luckily I think we're getting a new one. But that 443 00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 2: is where my personal story, the bigger crazy story about 444 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:26,680 Speaker 2: the high school teacher. And this episode ends. So if 445 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:28,959 Speaker 2: you love us, make sure to subscribe. 446 00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:31,040 Speaker 1: We love you and see it tomorrow. 447 00:20:32,119 --> 00:20:34,240 Speaker 2: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives. 448 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:36,400 Speaker 4: Time for okop re lam. 449 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:43,480 Speaker 2: Karen forbids me to buy boys clothing and calls me 450 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 2: a swir. 451 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 4: How dare you buy what you want? 452 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:47,240 Speaker 2: You know what? 453 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 4: Sam? How dare you live your life the way you 454 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:49,639 Speaker 4: want to? 455 00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,480 Speaker 2: Well? Fashion police over here, I'm sure Karen is the 456 00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:57,399 Speaker 2: most sort of fashion I'm sorry, Karen, I'm not tiking. 457 00:20:57,440 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 2: I'm not taking fashion twenty twenty two, who caring classes 458 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:08,000 Speaker 2: Karen Dior? Yeah how about you? How about you d 459 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:14,240 Speaker 2: or how about you these nuts? This story happened a 460 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:17,040 Speaker 2: few days ago, and I still can't believe it happened. 461 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:19,680 Speaker 2: My friend suggested I tell Reddit, because hey, maybe get 462 00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:21,720 Speaker 2: a little fame, and you're about to get even more 463 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:23,440 Speaker 2: famous because you're all a girl. 464 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:26,040 Speaker 4: We're blowing you up by. 465 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:29,640 Speaker 2: The cast me Akop a fourteen year old female who 466 00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:33,879 Speaker 2: has mostly boy interest. Entitled mother, a woman who was 467 00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:36,520 Speaker 2: clothes shopping for a son and happened to run into me. 468 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:39,919 Speaker 2: The final member of this class is Birther, which is 469 00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:40,359 Speaker 2: her mom. 470 00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:43,480 Speaker 4: What anna Birther birth? 471 00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, Mother's Day is coming up. I'm gonna be like. 472 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 4: Hey, Birther, you birthed me, birthed me. 473 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:50,399 Speaker 2: That's you are. The Birther. 474 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:52,440 Speaker 4: Mom was too it was too obvious. 475 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:56,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, too obvious, you know, too close and personal. Yeah, 476 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:58,159 Speaker 2: I just want to call you a birther. You were 477 00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:01,000 Speaker 2: in the canal by which I escape. That's right, and 478 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:04,439 Speaker 2: that's all you'll ever be. It's all for context. I 479 00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:07,879 Speaker 2: fourteen female, have been a tomboy since I was nine. 480 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:10,320 Speaker 2: I'm a weird tomboy. You could say I hate dresses, 481 00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 2: but I'm fine with skirts and I never wear nice pants, 482 00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:17,720 Speaker 2: only leggings or sweatpants. Oh. Hair and makeup isn't something 483 00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:20,399 Speaker 2: I avoid doing, but it's not something I do daily. However, 484 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:22,840 Speaker 2: when the time comes to get fancy for a date, 485 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 2: usually with friends because I'm not getting a boyfriend and 486 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:29,640 Speaker 2: girlfriend and time soon with my weirdness, come on, ovis 487 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:32,760 Speaker 2: someone I have confidence? Bro, there's freaking eight billion. 488 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:34,399 Speaker 4: People, billion people. There's one match for you. 489 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:36,160 Speaker 2: There is a match somewhere. 490 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:36,879 Speaker 4: Absolutely. 491 00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:39,240 Speaker 2: And also people are getting weirder and weirder every day. 492 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:42,160 Speaker 2: This is true, dude. The Internet makes people freaking weird. 493 00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 2: I can get pretty excited and turn into a girly girl. 494 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:48,200 Speaker 2: My interests are where I mostly categorized as a tomboy. 495 00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:53,440 Speaker 2: I like Pokemon, Dang good non Rapo what dang dang. 496 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:54,639 Speaker 4: That's the one that they like. 497 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:57,680 Speaker 5: We had flooded with comments when we said dang opona, 498 00:22:57,760 --> 00:22:58,320 Speaker 5: but it's not. 499 00:22:58,359 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 4: That, but it is now. 500 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:04,679 Speaker 2: Come on, dang rabona, hey, Minecraft, lots of gory and 501 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 2: bloody animes and just other boy interests. Anime is unis universal, ye, dude. 502 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:13,960 Speaker 2: I know more girls that watch anime than boys. My 503 00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 2: sister Sofia. Shout out Sofia, She's like hugely in anime. 504 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:19,919 Speaker 2: She actually got me into a parasite. She got me 505 00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:22,880 Speaker 2: into attack on Titan. Women leading the way in the anime, 506 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 2: Leading the way, the anime way anime. Wait. I should 507 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:28,360 Speaker 2: also mention I have no desire to be a boy whatsoever, 508 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:31,280 Speaker 2: and find me a girl. However, when I go clothes shopping, 509 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:33,920 Speaker 2: I always make a bee line for the men's section 510 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:37,160 Speaker 2: girls and boys stuff. It just doesn't fit me in women's. 511 00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:40,320 Speaker 2: Junior's my style, so I find most of my clothes 512 00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:43,320 Speaker 2: in men makes sense onto the story. Sorry for the long, 513 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:46,480 Speaker 2: confusing backstory, but it's necessary. I'm in Walmart with my 514 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:48,720 Speaker 2: mom and she gives me the okay to go walk 515 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,680 Speaker 2: around the store while she grocery stops, as long as 516 00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:53,840 Speaker 2: I have my phone notifications turns on so she can 517 00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:55,960 Speaker 2: call or text me when she's ready to leave or 518 00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,160 Speaker 2: if there's an emergency. Back in the good old days 519 00:23:58,160 --> 00:23:59,639 Speaker 2: before we had phones, do what we did? What do 520 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:02,040 Speaker 2: we do? Say? If we got lost, like I often did, 521 00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:03,640 Speaker 2: I would go to Costco and I would get freaking 522 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:06,360 Speaker 2: lost all the time, and then I couldn't find my mom, Like, Mom, Mom, 523 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:10,000 Speaker 2: where are you in Costco's freaking big ass, huge huge 524 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:12,720 Speaker 2: It's a child, Yeah, And so I would have to 525 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:15,800 Speaker 2: go like some really to like the front of the 526 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,879 Speaker 2: grocery store, in front of Costco. And I would be like, 527 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:25,520 Speaker 2: mister megaphone man, can you call my mom? And then uh, 528 00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:27,200 Speaker 2: And then the megaphone man would come on. He was 529 00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:29,680 Speaker 2: like like on the on the speakers and be like. 530 00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:32,600 Speaker 3: Where is a lost sound child going by the name 531 00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:36,240 Speaker 3: of Sandal Dnner and the Costco could the brother of 532 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:39,679 Speaker 3: this could the brother of this child please come to 533 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:42,520 Speaker 3: the front. And then my mom would come and be like, Bro, 534 00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:44,680 Speaker 3: you can't get lost. You're fucking nineteen. 535 00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:50,199 Speaker 2: Why are you doing. I have my headphones in and 536 00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:53,040 Speaker 2: my purse slung over my body, listening to my music 537 00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:56,240 Speaker 2: and looking at the graphic t's with the band logos, 538 00:24:56,760 --> 00:25:02,400 Speaker 2: Oh rocking bro, freaking gnarly bro, looking at anime characters 539 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:07,040 Speaker 2: and video games on them in walks entitled Wether titled 540 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:10,040 Speaker 2: mother is looking around for shirts and mentioned something about 541 00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:12,720 Speaker 2: not knowing what size or son was. I'm minding my 542 00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 2: own business, and titled mother wasn't really paying attention to 543 00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 2: me until she saw me holding the shirts up to 544 00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:23,199 Speaker 2: my body. How dare you making it clear that I 545 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:26,560 Speaker 2: was shopping for myself and not a male friend, relative 546 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:27,440 Speaker 2: or boyfriend. 547 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:28,600 Speaker 4: Disgusting? 548 00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 2: She walks over with her cart in pure shock. Excuse me, mess, 549 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:39,160 Speaker 2: She puts emphasis on any female terms. You know, this 550 00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:43,880 Speaker 2: is ann section, right, the women's section is over there. 551 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,280 Speaker 2: She then points in the opposite direction. I know, I 552 00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:49,119 Speaker 2: just don't like shopping there because it's not my style. 553 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:52,680 Speaker 2: Perfectly reasonable response, the most reasonable response. How much time 554 00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:54,119 Speaker 2: do you got in your hands where you could go 555 00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,439 Speaker 2: out of your schedule to just harassment. 556 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:58,560 Speaker 4: Truly, and you take time to do this. 557 00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:02,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's ridiculous, but I'm taking public transport around to 558 00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:05,400 Speaker 2: lat late at night, like there are people that are 559 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:09,120 Speaker 2: blasting their music on you know, these kids with their 560 00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:13,679 Speaker 2: bullboxes blasting music, throwing trash on the ground. Do I 561 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:16,080 Speaker 2: say anything, No, because I'm in a hurry. I need 562 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,320 Speaker 2: to get to my next location, even though it's a 563 00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:21,280 Speaker 2: flagrant disrespect of the public space. 564 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:23,800 Speaker 4: And here's someone buying a shirt at. 565 00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:28,040 Speaker 2: A store door, not bothering nobody. So entitled mother then 566 00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:31,680 Speaker 2: goes on to say, oh, so you're shopping for yourself. 567 00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:36,840 Speaker 2: You're a girl, so you need to wear girls claws. 568 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:39,840 Speaker 2: She's getting closer and grabs the shirt I was holding 569 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,760 Speaker 2: and puts it back down on the racks. She personally 570 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:45,480 Speaker 2: takes this shit back on the rack. I just stare 571 00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:49,399 Speaker 2: at her, dumbfounded at her capacity. Then gestures for me 572 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:53,439 Speaker 2: to leave, like Tata be gone, be gone. Miss I 573 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:56,359 Speaker 2: picked the shirt back up and tuck it under my 574 00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:58,800 Speaker 2: arm and walk to the other side of the display. 575 00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:02,920 Speaker 2: And this person, this Karen, is still looking at her. Mas, 576 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:05,200 Speaker 2: you need to buy girls' clothes. 577 00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:10,320 Speaker 3: You're a pretty pretty girl, and you won't get a 578 00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:11,600 Speaker 3: boyfriend dressing. 579 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:15,480 Speaker 2: Oh my god. She then points to my baggy shorts 580 00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:18,720 Speaker 2: that fall midway down my thigh and my hero Academia 581 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:22,800 Speaker 2: shirt that has Douky on it. Decu, decu on it. 582 00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:24,920 Speaker 4: Don't love that one. 583 00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 2: I'm visibly annoyed at this point. Lady, you aren't my mom, 584 00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:31,600 Speaker 2: so stop. Even if you were my mom, she's just 585 00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:35,040 Speaker 2: my brother and I wouldn't let her dictate my clothes, 586 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,800 Speaker 2: and I won't let you dictate it either. I've been 587 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,760 Speaker 2: dressing like this since I was nine. Leave me the 588 00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:44,440 Speaker 2: eth alone or real. She mutters, I would never let 589 00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:49,720 Speaker 2: my daughter dress like an f slur the audacity of 590 00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:52,640 Speaker 2: this woman, dude, She just raises the steaks every time 591 00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:56,600 Speaker 2: for nothing. Let her buy the freakin shirt. I have 592 00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:59,520 Speaker 2: to restrain myself from beating the crap out of her 593 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:02,280 Speaker 2: as I I'm by and my dress habits have nothing 594 00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:04,080 Speaker 2: to do with it, and so I let her walk 595 00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:05,879 Speaker 2: away and I put down the shirt I was holding. 596 00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 2: I changed my mind and just walk over to look 597 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:10,240 Speaker 2: at video games. I ended up getting nail polished, a 598 00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:14,000 Speaker 2: tombra plushy, and some polymer clay. I always knew Karens 599 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 2: like this were around, but I never thought I would 600 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:17,800 Speaker 2: run into one in the wild. 601 00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:20,520 Speaker 5: Here we are with the Karens. Karen's out here run 602 00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 5: a while. We need to catch them like Pokemon, dude. 603 00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:25,480 Speaker 2: I was literally thinking that, like you're like, every story 604 00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 2: is like the bushes that you walked in. Bon is 605 00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:33,000 Speaker 2: like a wild Karen has approached. Will she demean you 606 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:38,640 Speaker 2: or use She'll use a racist attack? Use ig live 607 00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:41,160 Speaker 2: or yeah like cord on phone? 608 00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:42,880 Speaker 5: Have you seen the guy on TikTok who dresses up 609 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:44,800 Speaker 5: like Lincoln asks people if they want to go on 610 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 5: a mission. Lincoln Link from Legends of Zelda. He'll just 611 00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,800 Speaker 5: literally in full just like straight up, like Lincoln be like, 612 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,040 Speaker 5: would you like to go on a mission? Good Sia, 613 00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 5: just like random people I love on the street. 614 00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:56,560 Speaker 2: It's like that people go on the mission. 615 00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:57,719 Speaker 4: Some people go on the mission. 616 00:28:57,800 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 2: I love it. I love it. It's about that life. 617 00:28:59,440 --> 00:28:59,680 Speaker 1: Peace,