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Speaker 1: Order, So let's rush show. But I'm happy to be back,

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Speaker 1: of course, and it's time for the Keykey Court Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Let's get into the courtroom. Okay, I'm back from Hawaii

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Speaker 1: trying to survive a tsunami warning and thankfully I did.

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Speaker 1: Thank God that I was able to make it back

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Speaker 1: safely and all the people there, we were safe. Nothing

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Speaker 1: really happened whtherwise, it was just a lot of panic

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Speaker 1: and people just you know, trying to stay safe. So

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Speaker 1: thankfully I am back, and it's time to get back

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Speaker 1: on track with the Key Key Court Podcast. Multiple episodes

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Speaker 1: dropping each week, so this week this is our first

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Speaker 1: one and I'm not gonna lie. I'm a little backed

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Speaker 1: up in the courtroom, so plenty of cases for us

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Speaker 1: to discuss. And of course you can always join the podcast.

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Speaker 1: If you want to be a guest, you can email

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Speaker 1: me or dm me on Instagram or social media. Let

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Speaker 1: me know you want to be a guest, and I'll

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Speaker 1: actually like we'll do a little phone thing where you

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Speaker 1: can be on the show with me. And of course

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Speaker 1: if you have a case, you can always send it

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Speaker 1: to me on my Instagram at on air Kiki or

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Speaker 1: via email. So let's get into this case. It says, hey,

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Speaker 1: ki key, am I wrong for announcing my sister's infertility

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Speaker 1: at my gender reveal party? Okay, after reading that first line,

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Speaker 1: it's an absolute yes, you are wrong. But let's get

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Speaker 1: into the story. It says I recently had a gender

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Speaker 1: reveal party for my first baby. We went all out, cater, food, decorations,

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Speaker 1: professional photographer, the whole nine. My husband and I have

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Speaker 1: been trying for a while, so this was a really

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Speaker 1: emotional moment for us. My older sister, Anna has been

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Speaker 1: struggling with infertility for years and has had several miscarriages.

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Speaker 1: It's been heartbreaking and I've always tried to be sensitive

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Speaker 1: about it well. At the party, during the speech before

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Speaker 1: the reveal, I thanked everyone for coming, and I said

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Speaker 1: that this moment means even more to us because we

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Speaker 1: know how hard the journey can be. Especially watching my

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Speaker 1: sister Anna's struggle with infertility. It reminds us not to

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Speaker 1: take anything for granted. I said that exact sentence in

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Speaker 1: my speech, so after I said it, the crowd got quiet.

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Speaker 1: Anna looked stunned and then left the party shortly after

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Speaker 1: without saying a word. Later, she blew up in the

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Speaker 1: family group chat, saying I humiliated her and made her

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Speaker 1: trauma a footnote to my big day. Our mom is

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Speaker 1: completely on my sister's side, saying that I should have

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Speaker 1: never brought it up, But others are saying it was

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Speaker 1: an honest and relatable moment and there was no ill intent.

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Speaker 1: I didn't go into details about her story. I just

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Speaker 1: mentioned it as a tribute to her. And now I

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Speaker 1: feel terrible. Am I wrong? Wooh? Okay, this is deep,

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Speaker 1: This is deep, and I am going to I know

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Speaker 1: your intention, and I'm a big person that like I'm

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Speaker 1: a person that's big on what was the intent? Like you,

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Speaker 1: you know, people make mistakes, but what was the real intent?

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Speaker 1: And clearly your intent was not to humiliate your sister. However, however, however,

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Speaker 1: you're wrong because you did not clear this with her.

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Speaker 1: You know, you don't know what she has revealed to

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Speaker 1: other family members, you don't know her sensitivity level about

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Speaker 1: speaking about it, So to mention it in a public

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Speaker 1: platform where you know you're being celebrated, She's already probably

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Speaker 1: feeling a way about her situation, and then for you

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Speaker 1: to bring it up in your speech, I think that

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Speaker 1: is totally wrong and in very very poor taste. And

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Speaker 1: if it was me, if I like, if I were you,

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Speaker 1: I would do everything in my power to apologize to

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Speaker 1: space until she's ready to, you know, come back around.

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Speaker 1: But I would just continue to apologize, like every time

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Speaker 1: I see my sister, I black, I'm so sorry. I'm

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Speaker 1: so sorry. I'm so sorry, because until you've dealt with this,

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Speaker 1: and for her to be put on kind of front street.

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Speaker 1: I just don't think it was the right thing to do.

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Speaker 1: So I know your intention was not evil, but I

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Speaker 1: think your dad that's wrong. Not gonna lie, not gonna lie. Friend,

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Speaker 1: I think you're wrong here. And let's just be mindful.

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Speaker 1: You know, if we're on a public platform and we're

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Speaker 1: think twice before you do it, because you don't know

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Speaker 1: what people are comfortable with sharing. And somebody like me

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Speaker 1: I share a lot about my family, I share a

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Speaker 1: I heard you say this, and I'm like, girl, nobody

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Speaker 1: That's somebody else's story to tell. And you never want

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Speaker 1: I know your intentions were good, but I definitely think

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Speaker 1: you're wrong. I think you're wrong, friend, so let me

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Speaker 1: know your thoughts. Of course, hit me up on Instagram,

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Speaker 1: at on air Kiki at Fred Show Radio, I'll post

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Speaker 1: the video so you can sound off in the comments.

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Speaker 1: the podcast, just hit me up. I would love to

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Speaker 1: have you in my fake court room, even though it's

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Speaker 1: would love to have you. Thanks for listening, and we'll

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Speaker 1: get into another case soon. By friend