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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I almost famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with our radio. Yo yo yo, I'm then, I'm Ashley,

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Speaker 1: and I'm back. I heard Nick did a great job

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Speaker 1: filling in last week. I have not listened yet, but

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Speaker 1: he did a great job. But we missed you a ton,

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Speaker 1: and I'm very happy that you're back. Not only will

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Speaker 1: you get a lot better recap than Nick and I did.

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Speaker 1: But hey, I just don't to let me know. I

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Speaker 1: am in Beaver Creek, Colorado right now. I took the

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Speaker 1: day um to ski a little bit. So if anybody's

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Speaker 1: wondering where I'm at, or if anybody comes into yell

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Speaker 1: to tell me to get out of the lobby, Um,

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Speaker 1: why are you a skier? His skiing ability is good.

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Speaker 1: I can say that I've seen that confident skier. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we see that on Winter Games. Yeah. So um, anyways, hey,

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Speaker 1: let's move in. I know this week was the crazy episode. Actually, uh,

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Speaker 1: like always, you are the expert. Please give us your

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Speaker 1: run down. Okay, So our first day is a group day.

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Speaker 1: It's a wrestling day. I think it may have been

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Speaker 1: the worst day ever, or at least the worst day

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Speaker 1: the date that I would least ever want to be

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Speaker 1: on um, I would have had completely good yes, because Bibby,

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Speaker 1: you know, you call her no chill Bibby or whatever,

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Speaker 1: even though we all know that I love Babby. She

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Speaker 1: she was like the only one who was like, this

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Speaker 1: And then like we had those evil wrestler ladies divas

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Speaker 1: they were just given. They were so kindcending. She made

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Speaker 1: fun of Bibby's name, like what She's like, what did

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Speaker 1: your mom? What was she thinking calling you Bibby on us?

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Speaker 1: She's like, what kind of name is that? Ben? Did

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Speaker 1: you find the wrestling sexy or goofy uh? You know,

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Speaker 1: I don't think it I could call it sexy. I

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Speaker 1: think it was weird. I think the whole thing is weird.

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Speaker 1: I think actually is right. I mean, it's kind of

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Speaker 1: goes back to when I was in the Battoort. We

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Speaker 1: did a a boxing day, and any time on this

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Speaker 1: show that you force aggression out of anybody, there's already

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Speaker 1: so much built up anger in general that it just

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Speaker 1: gets awkward fast. And I guess maybe that's what the

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Speaker 1: show wants. Oh yeah, And I think that they continuously

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Speaker 1: put Bibby in these situations where, you know, we know

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Speaker 1: that she can't She's like the emotional one who can't

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Speaker 1: deal with BS, and they keep testing her and you

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Speaker 1: can really see that in this wrestling portion of the

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Speaker 1: to bring out her no chill. Yeah, absolutely, they know

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Speaker 1: exactly how the Yeah do you think Bibiana is in

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Speaker 1: the wrong during the from the first three episodes leading

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Speaker 1: up until obviously this one, has she been in the

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Speaker 1: wrong or do you find that you're agreeing with a

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Speaker 1: lot of her attitude? What do you mean? I agree

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Speaker 1: with everything she's done? Okay, I was gonna say I

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Speaker 1: do as well. And I think she's just seeing through

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Speaker 1: the craziness that is the show. Oh absolutely. She and

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Speaker 1: I are so similar in the way that if she

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Speaker 1: sees BS, she needs to call it out like she

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Speaker 1: cannot help herself. You know. Yeah, I think she does

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Speaker 1: it a little bit more more than me, and but

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Speaker 1: I yes, I think that is spot on. I think

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Speaker 1: when she sees something that she doesn't appreciate or when

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Speaker 1: I think that's why we love her, and that's why,

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Speaker 1: in my opinion, she is such a good person to

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Speaker 1: have on the show because she is relaying what a

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Speaker 1: lot of people feel that our contestans on the show,

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Speaker 1: say anything. Oh yeah, and she's able to articulate her

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Speaker 1: she's a little tad. So this is the difference between

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Speaker 1: me and Bibbie is that I think we both have

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Speaker 1: that need to express how we feel and like the

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Speaker 1: wrongness of a situation. But I do it like emotionally,

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Speaker 1: in like a sensitive crying way, and she doesn't in

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Speaker 1: Like really, Okay, let's move on from Bibby for a second. So,

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Speaker 1: of course, Chris Harrison says, we have a surprise. There's

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Speaker 1: um Ari just so out of his element? You guys,

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Speaker 1: I have had so many girls come up to me

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Speaker 1: experiencing that? No, that's so weird. I haven't. Who like, what? Like?

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Speaker 1: What kind of a girl like Amy? Are you talking

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Speaker 1: like women who are a little older? Bens right on

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Speaker 1: point with that. They're all forty or older? Okay, yes,

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Speaker 1: So my mom has one of our family friends over

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Speaker 1: to watch the episode every week, and she's she didn't

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Speaker 1: Ari's my man, like all this weird stuff. And then

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Speaker 1: have no problem saying I'm forty three. So I think

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Speaker 1: it's because we've been watching Ben. Who's are you twenty eight? Now? Ben? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: older ladies that's funny, older than him. I got some

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Speaker 1: understand Nikki is older than than Ari by a year.

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Speaker 1: But let's do a poll. Let's have people email us

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Speaker 1: this week if they're older the older forty plus group

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Speaker 1: guys are still young. I really, you know forty is

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Speaker 1: very useful these days. Anyway, here's the other thing I want. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so please email us with um if you're older and

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Speaker 1: your thoughts on our general We haven't. I've gotten a

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Speaker 1: ton of emails on Hey, this is my feelings towards

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Speaker 1: this season of the Bachelor, so I want to hear that.

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Speaker 1: I want to read that because I'm just I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm still a little confused because I feel very distant.

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Speaker 1: I'm not into it as much as I want. So

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Speaker 1: please email that's been an athlete. I heart media dot

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Speaker 1: so actually keep going. Okay, so I don't feel distant anymore.

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Speaker 1: I like the past two episodes. Episodes two and three

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Speaker 1: Like why don't they get it? And I'm like, hmm,

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Speaker 1: have hard feedback. Well, I mean, I don't want to

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Speaker 1: we can talk to analysis here, and he's got eliminated.

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Speaker 1: On last night's episode, she was She had some very

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Speaker 1: Annelie's about how Crystal is in real life, and then

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Speaker 1: comfort zone. Frari. So uh, that's that's I think that

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Speaker 1: maybe would be the biggest takeaway from it. Those women

427
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 1: wrestlers from the eighties, they were really scary and mean.

428
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:20,480
Speaker 1: Is that the norm? That's the norm and your profession,

429
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Speaker 1: isn't it? Well, that's when you're when you're as they

430
00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:26,480
Speaker 1: call it in my professional green woman. Uh, you you

431
00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:28,880
Speaker 1: know that that's kind of how it's supposed to be. Uh.

432
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:30,679
Speaker 1: They want to weed out the people that aren't you know,

433
00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:32,080
Speaker 1: they want to do it on the weekends and the

434
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Speaker 1: people that aren't uh you know, aren't really into it.

435
00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 1: So you know, not so much now. The business to

436
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:39,480
Speaker 1: change now, But even when I was getting into it,

437
00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:41,199
Speaker 1: and definitely I'm sure and those ladies that into it,

438
00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 1: your training is the beature has pretty bad and no jokes,

439
00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:48,560
Speaker 1: were those ladies legit oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah, yeah.

440
00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:51,320
Speaker 1: Those are legit uh glow ladies from the eighties, and

441
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:53,680
Speaker 1: uh you know we were kind of in the back

442
00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:55,159
Speaker 1: and they were looking at me like, well, what do

443
00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:57,200
Speaker 1: you think we should do with these girls? We don't

444
00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:58,719
Speaker 1: have the time to train them. And I was like,

445
00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:02,320
Speaker 1: let's let's just keep it simple, you know, because even

446
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:06,040
Speaker 1: it's even it's fun and and and they tried to

447
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 1: kind of make it lighthearted. Pro wrestling is very very

448
00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 1: dangerous still, so uh, you know, you wanted to do

449
00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:14,679
Speaker 1: make these girls do stuff and learn things that you know,

450
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:17,720
Speaker 1: even if they do it terribly, that nobody gets hurt.

451
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:22,879
Speaker 1: They were better wrestlers than with those dogs disaster. Another

452
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,920
Speaker 1: date where I didn't really know the point. Hey Kenny,

453
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 1: did you get it? Get a chance to chat with Ari? Yeah? Yeah,

454
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,520
Speaker 1: Ari and I chat uh for for a little bit.

455
00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:34,239
Speaker 1: I had to kind of teach him a little bit

456
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:36,640
Speaker 1: of things. So you know, I was a really cool guy.

457
00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:39,920
Speaker 1: Uh you know that everybody was. I know, everybody was

458
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:42,560
Speaker 1: all upset about its not being Peter, but are's cool?

459
00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:45,919
Speaker 1: Are there for? You know? Or as as as the

460
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,960
Speaker 1: Rose boys say, he's there for the right reasons? Uh? So,

461
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:51,399
Speaker 1: uh you know it was. It was really cool to

462
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:53,199
Speaker 1: get a chance like this, just talk to him and

463
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:54,960
Speaker 1: get to talk to him man and man instead of

464
00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:56,600
Speaker 1: this kind of you know that we threw all the

465
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Speaker 1: whatever it is. I mean, I want to clear up

466
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 1: to um explained to me because I really don't know.

467
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 1: And I grew up watching wrestling. Now, even though you

468
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:09,639
Speaker 1: can say, you know, Ari beat you during the show,

469
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 1: it wouldn't be clearly abnormal in wrestling, because it's it's

470
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:19,359
Speaker 1: an entertainment sport for that to happen on television as well, right,

471
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:21,119
Speaker 1: that that whole thing kind of plays out or is

472
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:23,640
Speaker 1: it up at the skill level of the individual wrestler

473
00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 1: who wins. Well, well, it's it's that is the way

474
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 1: that it happened would be the way that you would

475
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,159
Speaker 1: see it on television. Uh. You know, you've got a

476
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 1: guy who's obviously way more experienced than the other guy,

477
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:37,879
Speaker 1: and uh, you know, as it as it as it was,

478
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 1: you know, I'm basically taking advantage of him and kind

479
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:43,479
Speaker 1: of overlooking him. And when I got streckted by the girls,

480
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:48,679
Speaker 1: you know, he got one up on me. That is

481
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 1: a very viable I mean that hell, that happens in

482
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 1: real life. You know, he checked by the girl and

483
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 1: then boom before you know what you lose. So that's

484
00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 1: the kind of uh you know that I try to

485
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 1: make it as plausible as possible where it's not like

486
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:06,320
Speaker 1: Ari would be, you know, beating me, because that's not

487
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:09,919
Speaker 1: really what would happen, you realize. Did you have a

488
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 1: favorite of those girls, Kenny? Yeah, I didn't know their

489
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:18,360
Speaker 1: names up until obviously, uh the show came out, but

490
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:21,640
Speaker 1: I liked, uh the kitty Cat was Becca, I think,

491
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 1: and Mickel were my two favorites. Pretty girl. That was

492
00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:33,400
Speaker 1: just purely uh using my eyes. All right, pretty, Before

493
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:34,959
Speaker 1: we let you go here, I want to hear and

494
00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:38,119
Speaker 1: please feel free to talk about anything. Um. Our listeners

495
00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 1: are huge, obviously Bachelor fans, and they like to keep

496
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:43,439
Speaker 1: the follow up with any of the past contestants. So

497
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:45,679
Speaker 1: can you give our listeners a quick rundown of what

498
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 1: your life is like today, any exciting things going on?

499
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 1: Anything you'd like tell them? Well? Actually, um, since that's

500
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:55,200
Speaker 1: Kenzie is sitting right next to me, she did away

501
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 1: dying to say to uh to MLK parade right now,

502
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 1: So hold on once, yeah, Kenzie, Hi, Ben I actually

503
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 1: he I'm such a fan of yours. You are the sweetest, prettiest,

504
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:12,439
Speaker 1: most articulate girl. For your rage, I'm so impressed by you.

505
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you, thank you. So what we're doing,

506
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:22,040
Speaker 1: so that's uh, that's basically what I'm doing. I'm still

507
00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 1: with wrestling. Ring of Vanna Wrestling coming to town near you.

508
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Speaker 1: We start our our two thousand eighteen tour this Friday

509
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Speaker 1: in Nashville actually for television tapings, and the next we

510
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:36,920
Speaker 1: after that we go to Charlotte and then Atlanta. So

511
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 1: are we wrestling dot com is where you can find

512
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:43,400
Speaker 1: all of my wrestling exploits. But Kenzie and I are

513
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 1: going to be starting a video series, uh this year

514
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:52,160
Speaker 1: where we document our exploit I guess as we're kind

515
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:56,200
Speaker 1: of as we called the Kenny and Kenzie Show, which

516
00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 1: is pushing pretty Kensie and KENI shows so cute. I

517
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Speaker 1: can't way to watch that. I can watch you to

518
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:04,440
Speaker 1: interact forever. I think those moments on your season The

519
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:07,920
Speaker 1: Bachelor were the greatest there were. Um, we have to ask,

520
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:13,679
Speaker 1: is there anyone any other lady besides Mackenzie in your life? No,

521
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,880
Speaker 1: there isn't. It's uh, it's you know she she's looking

522
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:18,679
Speaker 1: at you right now at five paces. I wish you

523
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Speaker 1: could see this face. Uh no, it's just it's just

524
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:25,680
Speaker 1: me and Kenzie right now. So keeping a lot open

525
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Speaker 1: and we're going to do our thing and hopefully, you know,

526
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Speaker 1: hopefully something happens. We'll see. Well, I'd love to see

527
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:33,919
Speaker 1: you on Bachelor in Paradise this summer if you are

528
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 1: still single, rounding, that might be something that could happen.

529
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Speaker 1: All right, well, Kenny, thank you so much. We hope

530
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Speaker 1: to have you back on. You're like, all right, bye, Kenny,

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Speaker 1: Kenney was and your family the best man. Thanks for

532
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Speaker 1: coming on. Thanks, thank you talking to then. Well you guys,

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565
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Speaker 1: An Elie Welcome to almost favorite podcast. Yeah, this is

566
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Speaker 1: so cool. Thank you. All right, Analyse, you gotta tell

567
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 1: us about your bumper car drama and your dog scare well,

568
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,240
Speaker 1: and we're sorry you got dumped. Yeah, we're sorry you

569
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 1: got dumbs. But I feel like you're fine about that

570
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 1: for some reason, you know, totally fine. Everything happens for

571
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 1: a reason, you know. Um yeah, bumper car trauma. It's

572
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 1: a thing. I've actually gotten a ton of support around it,

573
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 1: so I'm like super pumped that. Like a lot of

574
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 1: people have reached out to me and are like surviving

575
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 1: seriously seriously my Yeah, the football coach at my high

576
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 1: school was like, my niece was seriously injured in a

577
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:19,959
Speaker 1: bumper car accident as permanent brain damage. Like it's a thing.

578
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:22,040
Speaker 1: I've had multiple people reach out to me and they're like,

579
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Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I feel you. I'm in the same

580
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 1: boat exactly. So that's making these hilarious tweets from people

581
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:31,480
Speaker 1: magazine that I want to read less fun but I

582
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:33,800
Speaker 1: think I can fight through that. Still a lot less

583
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 1: funny now. But I know if you read in my

584
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 1: Cosmo recap last week, I talked about how I'm not

585
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:42,960
Speaker 1: necessarily traumatized up opper cars, but I never understood the

586
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 1: appeal of them same like why do you want to

587
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 1: just ram into people? And I think from me, like

588
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 1: so people didn't really understand what was going on that day,

589
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 1: and like a big part of it for me was

590
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 1: actually like a bullying aspect. I was at a birthday

591
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 1: party and I had these girls that were like really

592
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 1: bullying me that day, kind of like that whole year.

593
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 1: I was like in a new school and I felt

594
00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 1: very like attacked, And so I think that was where

595
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 1: like the trauma came from, you know, that like deep

596
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 1: feeling of like girls just picking on you. So did

597
00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 1: they try to ram into you with their bumper cars?

598
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't really remember the details because I

599
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 1: was probably like seven years old, so it's just one

600
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 1: of those things. As soon as I got there, I

601
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, that feeling of just like

602
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 1: people picking on you and making fun of you was

603
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 1: all coming back. And then I think it was just

604
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 1: like being in the house with all those girls and

605
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 1: stuff too. It was like bringing up so many definitely

606
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 1: want to dig into this, but I'd love to read

607
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 1: the actor. So Ben Flannic, We'll start with him, Bachelor

608
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:37,280
Speaker 1: Ben Planic. So this was People Magazine posted all these

609
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 1: tweets last week when this episode aired. From Ben, Just

610
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 1: when I thought I was out, the dramatic bumper car

611
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:47,640
Speaker 1: edit pulled me back in. This is This is from

612
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:50,280
Speaker 1: some guy named Taylor. That bumper car flashback on The

613
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 1: Bachelor deserves an Emmy. Stellar work everyone, and that wasn't

614
00:31:53,960 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 1: really year footed rights. This from Kate And look, we'll

615
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 1: dig into the actual trauma of it, but I mean,

616
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 1: this is kind of funny. I just had a really

617
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 1: bad bumper card trauma. Everyone kept bumping into my car.

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Speaker 1: Who was the one girl that was so bitchy but

619
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Speaker 1: so funny? That was like, Oh, that girl's got bumper

620
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 1: card drama. I'm gonna ram my car right into her.

621
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 1: That you watching the one girl that was going to

622
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 1: bump right into you. I didn't see that clip. Did

623
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: I miss it? Yeah? Maybe it was on a preview

624
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 1: or something. Do you get an edited? Maybe I don't

625
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 1: remember that. Did I get a special version? I can't

626
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 1: work tomorrow. I've had a relapse of my bumper card trauma.

627
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:40,479
Speaker 1: People are funny, but I am sorry that you had

628
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 1: actual trauma. Yeah, oh no. I mean the thing is

629
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 1: is it's not like it's not messing with my life now,

630
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 1: you know. And my biggest question was, first the bumper

631
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 1: car thing was funny, but then the next week you're

632
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 1: afraid of dogs. And at that point, were you like, oh,

633
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:57,960
Speaker 1: I'll just hand this up and it'll be kind of funny.

634
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 1: This will be my ongoing theme is like being scared

635
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:02,959
Speaker 1: of every grouped it. Honestly, I did not think they

636
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 1: would air any of that stuff about the dog, like

637
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 1: my dog trauma, just because because then it was so

638
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 1: not relevant to like what the date actually was. So um.

639
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 1: But I was like freaking out. I'm like, oh my gosh,

640
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 1: they are just trying to beat me up right now,

641
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:18,600
Speaker 1: like first the derby and now they're going to have

642
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:22,560
Speaker 1: like attack dogs coming, you know, viciously at there are

643
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 1: attack dogs, I thought, so my initial thought was I

644
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 1: thought they were going to have us like in jumpsuits

645
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 1: and have dogs like attacking us and like training dogs

646
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:35,240
Speaker 1: to do. So I was like, oh crap, this is

647
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 1: not going to be another fun day for me. But

648
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 1: you know, I have actually, like quite a few scars

649
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 1: on my face from my dog attack when I was

650
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 1: a kid. I almost lost my eye when I was

651
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:48,880
Speaker 1: like every time, I'm sorry, I'm bringing it background. It's like,

652
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 1: not exactly, They're real things. So, um, So, are you

653
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:54,480
Speaker 1: scared of rural dogs now? No? I actually, I mean

654
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 1: I love dogs. I'm in the process of trying to

655
00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:58,720
Speaker 1: adopt a dog now, so I'm like, I love dogs,

656
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:00,719
Speaker 1: but there's definitely like there are dogs that have been

657
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 1: abused or been you know, shifty a little bit, and

658
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 1: you can tell their energy is just like a little off,

659
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 1: and those kind of dogs I get really like knots

660
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 1: in my stomach immediately that you got the pooper scooper job.

661
00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think that was they just were

662
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:17,840
Speaker 1: trying to give me the you know what um jobs.

663
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:20,880
Speaker 1: So right, well, I just feel like I was I

664
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 1: was sad for you because I thought maybe you were

665
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:25,799
Speaker 1: scared of all dogs and of dogs. No. Actually, so

666
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 1: I'm an event planner and I have a client and

667
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 1: I throw all of her dog birthday parties. So um,

668
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:34,200
Speaker 1: I spent a lot of time with dogs. Good, good, good.

669
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,279
Speaker 1: I'm glad it didn't ruin dogs for you. Now we

670
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 1: have to talk about how awkward. Okay, you're you had

671
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:44,920
Speaker 1: two awkward moments, two very prominent awkward moments. One on

672
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 1: the group date. Tell us about your feelings with Ari

673
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:49,479
Speaker 1: when you try to talk to him on the group

674
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:51,800
Speaker 1: date and you're just like, this is just not happening

675
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:54,799
Speaker 1: for us, is it? Yeah? So I went in and uh,

676
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 1: first of all, it was like a little bit hard

677
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 1: to get time with him at all that night, and

678
00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 1: so when I finally got some time, I was like,

679
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 1: all right, I gotta make the most of it. And

680
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:04,359
Speaker 1: then it just felt like pulling teeth, like he and

681
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 1: I just the conversation was never there. I always felt

682
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 1: like I'd ask him something and then it was like

683
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 1: a one word back and I'm like, all right, you

684
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 1: want to elaborate or like ask me something now, Like

685
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 1: it was just not a two way street. I felt

686
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:17,879
Speaker 1: like his body language was like totally turned away from me,

687
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:20,759
Speaker 1: which was like very hard to kind of get him

688
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 1: to warm up to me. So um, so yeah, so

689
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:25,600
Speaker 1: I was like this is, yeah, this is not happening.

690
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 1: So did you feel like that was the way he

691
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:30,920
Speaker 1: treated all the girls he wasn't really ribing with No, definitely,

692
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:32,680
Speaker 1: not like what you guys were saying earlier. I feel

693
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:36,280
Speaker 1: like the girls that he liked it was so clear,

694
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 1: and the girls that he was a maybe or didn't like,

695
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 1: it was just it was so clear, you know. And

696
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:42,759
Speaker 1: I felt like I was one of the girls that

697
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:44,839
Speaker 1: I don't know if he had definitely made his mind

698
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:47,400
Speaker 1: up about me, but I felt like he wasn't taking

699
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:49,680
Speaker 1: the time to get to know if he if there

700
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:53,440
Speaker 1: was anything even there so interesting. He was really trying

701
00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 1: to make an uncomfortable environment even more awkward. Yeah, it

702
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:01,480
Speaker 1: was just never. It was always it was always just

703
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 1: work with him and um and it was never like

704
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 1: carefree or fun. And I would have loved if we

705
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:09,480
Speaker 1: got to the point where we are just like making out,

706
00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 1: because I feel like that was like his fallback with

707
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:15,279
Speaker 1: a lot of girls. Yeah, sometimes I'm watching the show

708
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:17,919
Speaker 1: and I'm thinking, I think he's just kissing girls because

709
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:20,279
Speaker 1: he doesn't really know what to say anymore, and he

710
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 1: knows that that's his skill. So maybe intimate conversation, playful conversation.

711
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 1: He's not very playful or flurry, but maybe he feels

712
00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 1: like kissing is his strength, so he goes right for that.

713
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 1: And like him, I definitely like in the beginning, I'm like, Okay,

714
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:36,880
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm here for this guy. He seems

715
00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 1: like a great guy. I'm going to give him a shot.

716
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 1: But then as it was going, I mean, I have

717
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:44,000
Speaker 1: no interest in him. Now, let's put it that way.

718
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:45,520
Speaker 1: I don't watch it back and say, oh my gosh,

719
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 1: I have so many regrets it. Uh that night, I

720
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 1: was done. I was like, I had nothing, no interest

721
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 1: in him. All right, let's talk about the kiss. And

722
00:36:57,520 --> 00:37:00,200
Speaker 1: that was probably the most demoralizing moment I've ever seen

723
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:02,520
Speaker 1: on TV. I mean, he said, I don't think we're

724
00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:06,440
Speaker 1: there yet. Yeah, as you basically said, can I kiss you? Right?

725
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:08,839
Speaker 1: So tell us about your feelings. So yeah, I mean,

726
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 1: definitely not a fun moment. But I knew that I

727
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 1: didn't want to be if he was just going to

728
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 1: like keep me around to be like in the background

729
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:17,239
Speaker 1: for a couple more weeks, you know, I'm like, I

730
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:19,759
Speaker 1: don't need that, and um, and also it was just

731
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:21,799
Speaker 1: it was hard being with all these girls who were like,

732
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:23,680
Speaker 1: oh my god, I just made out with him or

733
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 1: you know whatever, and I'm like, okay, really like throw

734
00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 1: me your bone, dude, and dog day um exactly, and

735
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, really, guys, let's rub it in a

736
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,080
Speaker 1: little bit more. And so you know, like at the

737
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 1: end of the day, um oh. And that was the

738
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 1: other thing. So the girls kept saying like, well, he

739
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:43,480
Speaker 1: was never the one to make the first move. I

740
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 1: always had to be the one to make the first move.

741
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 1: But I don't want to, Like, you know, sometimes you

742
00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 1: see those bachelor moments where you they the girl like

743
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 1: lunges themselves at the guy. I think I had a

744
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 1: moment or two like that, and then they reject it though,

745
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:57,279
Speaker 1: or it's just a really awkward moment, and I'm like,

746
00:37:57,320 --> 00:37:58,759
Speaker 1: I don't want to be that girl. So I'd rather

747
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:00,719
Speaker 1: like put it out there and if he doesn't, then

748
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:02,800
Speaker 1: he doesn't. Ben, did you make the first move or

749
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:06,399
Speaker 1: did the girls make the move on you? I think

750
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 1: I always make them first move. I think it would

751
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 1: be weird if I would expect the girls to to

752
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:14,839
Speaker 1: make the first move. I'm the one. Um. I think,

753
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 1: especially in the beginning is like I said earlier, your

754
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:19,759
Speaker 1: job is to make everybody feel comfortable. I think, and

755
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,680
Speaker 1: to make everybody feel like this is at some level

756
00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:26,319
Speaker 1: a normal deal. And as a result, like part of

757
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 1: that comfortability for me to you know, tell the girls, hey,

758
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:30,279
Speaker 1: I really care about you, was to kiss them, to

759
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 1: make the first move, to put myself out there, and

760
00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:35,080
Speaker 1: for myself to take the rest, not make the women

761
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 1: take the rest. Right right, I'm thinking Ari's like, oh,

762
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:40,839
Speaker 1: you know, I'm the kissing bandit, I'm so talented this,

763
00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 1: you have to come get it. So he kissed all

764
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:46,279
Speaker 1: eighteen girls minus you. That's a lot, I think. So,

765
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 1: I think that's a lot. Then a lot. But the

766
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 1: thing is, there were like two kisses that really they

767
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 1: weren't They weren't like kisses kisses. It was kind of

768
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,319
Speaker 1: like a dare or right or you know, something like that.

769
00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:00,520
Speaker 1: So I felt I felt less about hibout that when

770
00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 1: I found out a theater. But right, like the Babby's

771
00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 1: kiss make air, No, I don't think so, because well,

772
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 1: and like Ben, like you were saying, I mean, I

773
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:10,319
Speaker 1: think personally for me, I think that's a big part

774
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 1: of it. Like I like the man to kind of

775
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:14,319
Speaker 1: take control and like guide those situations too, and make

776
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:16,279
Speaker 1: me feel like they really want me to be there.

777
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:18,759
Speaker 1: And are attracted to me, and so I didn't want

778
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 1: to be the one just like throwing myself at some dude.

779
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 1: He's a little weird. Some of the girls are like

780
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:25,440
Speaker 1: climbing on top of him. That's making me feel weird

781
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:28,279
Speaker 1: every time I watch it. Okay, wait, and I also

782
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 1: need to talk about how everybody was like, oh my god,

783
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:32,920
Speaker 1: he's the best kisser ever, best kisser're ever? Right, And

784
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 1: on Emily season, I was like, Wow, he's a really

785
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:38,200
Speaker 1: romantic kisser. And I like, even when Al was announced,

786
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:41,319
Speaker 1: to remember how I described how perfectly he kisses. Now

787
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 1: I don't feel the same way because it's like an act.

788
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 1: I feel like he's doing it with girls he's barely

789
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 1: talking to, barely knows, And now all the romance of

790
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 1: what I thought Ari's kiss was like is out the window,

791
00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 1: and I just I just don't feel And what I

792
00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:58,600
Speaker 1: don't want to kis him anymore. I want to know

793
00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:02,399
Speaker 1: what girls Analyze became f with and what girls? Uh

794
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:04,440
Speaker 1: does she think he likes the best? But wait, An,

795
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:06,319
Speaker 1: do you feel the same way about his kissing? Well,

796
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:07,759
Speaker 1: I was just going to say that I am so

797
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:09,720
Speaker 1: glad that I didn't kiss him on the show because

798
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:11,920
Speaker 1: watching him kiss those girls on the show, like, yes,

799
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 1: you can see he's a sensual kisser, but like it

800
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:19,280
Speaker 1: grosses me out how much he's like so over every girl. Um, okay,

801
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 1: so my favorites is that? Okay? So well, I think

802
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:23,920
Speaker 1: the girls who were going to make it to the

803
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:31,840
Speaker 1: top would be uh Caroline, Chelsea, uh long haired Becca

804
00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 1: and yeah, I think those are sort of my top Caroline.

805
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:38,400
Speaker 1: She hasn't really made much of a debut yet. She

806
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:40,680
Speaker 1: on the dog date was the one who kissed him

807
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 1: uh at the during our performance. But okay, maybe maybe

808
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:49,600
Speaker 1: they didn't show it. I just have I have it, like,

809
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:53,040
Speaker 1: you know, screened in my head forever. Um. But yeah.

810
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:55,880
Speaker 1: And then my favorites from the show were Kendall, Cien,

811
00:40:57,160 --> 00:41:01,879
Speaker 1: Bibiana of course love her, um and there's no one

812
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:05,319
Speaker 1: like Crystal. Let's just put it out here. Yeah. I

813
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 1: feel so bad because I didn't know her story. So

814
00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:09,839
Speaker 1: after the fact, after watching it back and finding out

815
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 1: about her family life, you know, you kind of feel like,

816
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 1: oh god, it's coming from a place. But she's not

817
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:17,319
Speaker 1: a very nice person. Like I'll just say, she's not

818
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:20,799
Speaker 1: a nice person. So it's hard having a conversation with her,

819
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:24,399
Speaker 1: She definitely was constantly digging, trying to make you feel

820
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 1: uncomfortable or like if she wasn't talking to you, Um,

821
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 1: it was because she was trying to be like omissive

822
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:34,279
Speaker 1: and leave things out so that you weren't going I said,

823
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 1: bachelor villain rule number one, if you're trying to be

824
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,720
Speaker 1: a bachelor villain, don't tell the other girls what's happening

825
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 1: on your dates. Right, be secretive from Ben, because I

826
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:45,799
Speaker 1: know Ben, you and Nick kind of touched on this,

827
00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:47,879
Speaker 1: and I really want to get your vibe on that

828
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 1: whispery baby talkie, the thing she's doing phone sex operator. Yeah,

829
00:41:55,080 --> 00:42:00,080
Speaker 1: is that hot or what? Actually? Can you recreate it

830
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:04,919
Speaker 1: for Ben? You know what it sounds like. I mean,

831
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:08,280
Speaker 1: I think it's probably attractive for some guys. Um, she's

832
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:11,239
Speaker 1: trying hard. And I think that's the part sometimes in

833
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:14,319
Speaker 1: the and when we watch the show, it comes off

834
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:16,120
Speaker 1: as me and and she comes off as distance, and

835
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:19,840
Speaker 1: she comes off as a little minipua miniplutive. But then

836
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:22,319
Speaker 1: we hear a story like this is coming from a

837
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 1: place that isn't good. And I think even like that

838
00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 1: little like you know qc TC voice, she's you know,

839
00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:31,840
Speaker 1: throwing off at him is coming from a place that

840
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:34,840
Speaker 1: is probably a little bit of insecurity because she feels

841
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:37,879
Speaker 1: like she has to do something to him impress him.

842
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:40,439
Speaker 1: And that briefly good question, dun at last, I want

843
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:42,759
Speaker 1: to know when you have left this show this week,

844
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 1: what was the vibe in the house towards our for

845
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 1: the girls head of reveal for him? I mean, we

846
00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 1: know Crystal is Um, she's really excited about the idea

847
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,360
Speaker 1: of art. Is that a common sentiment for the house

848
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:58,439
Speaker 1: or when you left that it seemed like they're things

849
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 1: are little shaky. I think there was definitely some like

850
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:04,360
Speaker 1: clear people who felt comfortable, but there were also like

851
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:07,880
Speaker 1: I remember having a conversation with Um, with Kendall and

852
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Speaker 1: CN and UH and they both were like, I mean,

853
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Speaker 1: I don't even know at this point, you know, like

854
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:15,919
Speaker 1: I still really need to learn so much about him

855
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 1: to figure out if I like him and if this

856
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:19,799
Speaker 1: is going to go somewhere. And I think it was

857
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 1: still so early, so we were all just trying to

858
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:24,360
Speaker 1: figure out if it's if it could be something, and

859
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:28,919
Speaker 1: I mean I found out that it couldn't. So when

860
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Speaker 1: hor and S didn't come back, were people like so

861
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:35,240
Speaker 1: I think I was the only one that was really

862
00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 1: upfront that day, uh that I thought there was no

863
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 1: way she was coming back. And I loved her, but

864
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:44,360
Speaker 1: I could see it there was just really no chemistry

865
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:46,360
Speaker 1: and m and she did say some things in the

866
00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:48,840
Speaker 1: house too about how she typically gets put in the

867
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:50,919
Speaker 1: friend zone with guys, and I could just see how

868
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:54,040
Speaker 1: that was going to probably happen all over again and

869
00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:57,560
Speaker 1: I should talk to her. Oh my gosh, can we

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Speaker 1: I gotta ask you to to final questions that I

905
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:00,640
Speaker 1: that I really want to know, and I like to

906
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 1: ask you done this show, and especially has recently left

907
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,720
Speaker 1: the show? Are you glad you did it? I am

908
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 1: no regrets. I'm so happy I did it. I met

909
00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:14,239
Speaker 1: some great people and uh yeah, I'm excited for to come. Yeah,

910
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 1: what is become? I mean, that's that's the big question

911
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:19,320
Speaker 1: everybody is talking about right now. Ivaccination. It seems like

912
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:22,240
Speaker 1: a lot of contestants go off and they find new

913
00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:25,359
Speaker 1: careers or they take advantage of the social media things

914
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:28,840
Speaker 1: that they did. What is extra you personally outside of

915
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:31,680
Speaker 1: those things? I mean personally, I'm just excited about this

916
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:35,920
Speaker 1: new sort of like sorority fraternity, bachelor nation of like

917
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:42,240
Speaker 1: dating pool, you know, thank you family dating has sucked

918
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:46,359
Speaker 1: and so this, yeah, exactly. I like that she's not

919
00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:49,360
Speaker 1: trying to be like, oh, I don't know, She's admitting it, like, hey,

920
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:50,759
Speaker 1: I get to meet all these people now and I

921
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:53,680
Speaker 1: might data. Yeah, I mean yeah, travel. I mean there's

922
00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 1: like there are a lot of perks. I'm not gonna

923
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 1: lie but um, but I'm excited mostly to hopefully like

924
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 1: have some new friends and day and um see what happens. Ben,

925
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 1: who should we set Anna Lisa up with? Which of

926
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:07,680
Speaker 1: your let's think of someone? What is your type of guy?

927
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 1: Now that welcome to the podcast? You want to date Jared?

928
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:14,799
Speaker 1: Jared is my number one pick. No, he's actually not.

929
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:18,920
Speaker 1: The look on Ashley's face, just to change a little,

930
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:24,839
Speaker 1: who is your bachelor? Crod Um. I have had a

931
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 1: couple of people be like, oh, Luke, you guys should

932
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:31,040
Speaker 1: date um. So, I mean Peter would be the pick probably,

933
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 1: but yeah, I don't know, or Nick we can have

934
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:39,719
Speaker 1: that happen. Yeah, those are definitely I have to say that.

935
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 1: When I was auditioning Ben, I did say that you

936
00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:46,480
Speaker 1: were my favorite Bachelor of Yeah. I mean, well just

937
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:48,680
Speaker 1: because you're like, oh, package, if you're gonna you're gonna

938
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:50,440
Speaker 1: date the bachelor. You want to date someone who's like

939
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:54,880
Speaker 1: a good guy, handsome, like kind, grand has fooled everyone.

940
00:47:55,600 --> 00:48:00,879
Speaker 1: I'm just kidding that I I play a good joke.

941
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 1: Well that's really suit of you, thank you. And I

942
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 1: mean I think there's a lot of great people that

943
00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:06,840
Speaker 1: do do this show, and I think that it is

944
00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:08,920
Speaker 1: a fun little world to live in because you do

945
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:11,480
Speaker 1: meet a ton of new friends who live all across

946
00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 1: the country, sometimes in the world. And we would like

947
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:17,920
Speaker 1: to on the almost famous podcast now welcome you into

948
00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:21,440
Speaker 1: this world of singleness, of a lot of options. Um

949
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 1: have fun to go out there, you know, and and

950
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: find your perfect man. Brings me my last question, exactly

951
00:48:28,640 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 1: I'm hoping it is aries perfect woman. How do you

952
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:35,879
Speaker 1: think ends up with him in the end? Here from

953
00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 1: day one, I thought it was going to be Beca,

954
00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:40,960
Speaker 1: not Pixie Becca the other back up. Really okay, I

955
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 1: don't know anything. I don't know spoilers. So girl, she

956
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 1: got the one on one day, we got the first

957
00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 1: one on one. I mean, how could you not just

958
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 1: form this like perfect kind of like vision of this

959
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:53,880
Speaker 1: man after a date like that and then things, you know,

960
00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:56,279
Speaker 1: she just like calls him her boyfriend from day one,

961
00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:58,480
Speaker 1: and I feel like makes the other girls feel a

962
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 1: little bit like, wait, he's already with her, so taking

963
00:49:02,120 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 1: I mean, for me personally, when I was on those

964
00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 1: group dates, I always felt like I was on a

965
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:08,360
Speaker 1: date with Becca and her boyfriend, and really I was

966
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:10,839
Speaker 1: just a friend who like tagged, you know, like let's

967
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:12,960
Speaker 1: go hang out. Oh I'm gonna bring my boyfriend. Like

968
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:15,680
Speaker 1: that was what it felt like. She's a dark horse.

969
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:17,840
Speaker 1: Then to me, the one that someone said they're going

970
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:22,600
Speaker 1: to get married? Really yeah, no way, okay, well none

971
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:25,239
Speaker 1: one of the girls saw them leaving or something and said,

972
00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:27,719
Speaker 1: I think she was like, oh shoot, I saw how

973
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 1: cute they were. They're probably gonna get married. Oh my gosh. Well,

974
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:32,279
Speaker 1: thank you for bringing her back to my attention because

975
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 1: I thought that was a great date. And I see

976
00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 1: that together. Um, but I don't. I didn't. She was

977
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:42,560
Speaker 1: very in the episode three that we just watched. Yeah, alright,

978
00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:44,880
Speaker 1: well analyis thank you so so much. This is a blast.

979
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:47,759
Speaker 1: You're welcome any time. Yeah, and we love to have

980
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:49,439
Speaker 1: you come back and just you know, give a little

981
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 1: bit more feedback of these girls. The season progressive because

982
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:54,439
Speaker 1: you actually know them in her life. Yes, and they're great,

983
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:56,400
Speaker 1: most of them are really great. All right, and I

984
00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:58,879
Speaker 1: think we should all go on some bumper cars together. Yeah,

985
00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:02,440
Speaker 1: let's do it. Our next trip to not Sperry Farm.

986
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:05,919
Speaker 1: She's coming all right by and only thank you so much.

987
00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:10,520
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1010
00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:24,320
Speaker 1: move on. This is from Mana Vica. Hi, Ban Ashley.

1011
00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:27,239
Speaker 1: I am talking to you guys from India, and I'm

1012
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:30,000
Speaker 1: fairly new to the Bachelor world as I've only seen

1013
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:32,480
Speaker 1: the last three seasons of b I p and Ben

1014
00:51:32,600 --> 00:51:35,799
Speaker 1: jojo in Rachel's season and now I'm watching Aris. My

1015
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:40,600
Speaker 1: question is, what are your next Bachelorette predictions? Anyone from

1016
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:43,880
Speaker 1: our season or wild card like Christina from next season?

1017
00:51:44,200 --> 00:51:49,839
Speaker 1: Well the podcast and your friendship love Manneca Vica, all right,

1018
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:53,440
Speaker 1: I'm still going with Christina for some reason right now,

1019
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:56,200
Speaker 1: because I think Becca short Hairbecca is a good candidate,

1020
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:58,479
Speaker 1: but way too young and nobody would be on board

1021
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:02,279
Speaker 1: for the twenty two year old bachelor. I would have, Yeah,

1022
00:52:02,320 --> 00:52:04,839
Speaker 1: I would have to agree. I think Tia from this

1023
00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:07,759
Speaker 1: season yes the best chance. I think. I just think

1024
00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:10,480
Speaker 1: he is compelling. I know, obviously have I said it

1025
00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:12,960
Speaker 1: last week. She's one of my top choices on our

1026
00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:15,880
Speaker 1: season right now. She's beautiful, she's funny. I think she

1027
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:18,800
Speaker 1: should would be a great candidate to be the Bachelor.

1028
00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:23,839
Speaker 1: I would not be surprised if you see Tia. I agree, Ben,

1029
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 1: I know it's a little early on. I think we

1030
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:29,719
Speaker 1: should answer this question in three weeks. We will, Yeah,

1031
00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 1: I'm sure we will. But Tia is also the one

1032
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:35,440
Speaker 1: girl from our season that is giving me bachelorette vibes.

1033
00:52:36,520 --> 00:52:39,200
Speaker 1: I wish I would enjoy Becca if she wasn't so young.

1034
00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:41,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Becca could be a great bach in a

1035
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 1: couple of years. Perfect. Maybe she'll come back all of Emily.

1036
00:52:47,840 --> 00:52:55,719
Speaker 1: I mean, who knows it would be the Bachelor now? Damn, girl,

1037
00:52:55,760 --> 00:52:58,880
Speaker 1: you look great. You would not that like as if

1038
00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 1: thirty three like Jerry. Yeah, okay, all right, well Ben,

1039
00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:10,879
Speaker 1: next time, hopefully we have you in studio. I would

1040
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:13,839
Speaker 1: love that. But if not, actually I wish you the best.

1041
00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:16,360
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1043
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:23,560
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1044
00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:26,600
Speaker 1: Also our special team back from Los Angeles, our producer

1045
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:31,040
Speaker 1: Amy Mark Easton, thank you all. Actually, it's good to

1046
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:33,400
Speaker 1: have you back. Welcome back. Thanks. I feel like I

1047
00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:35,719
Speaker 1: was just a sloppy mess today. I really didn't have

1048
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 1: my footing. I got off eight, I got only four.

1049
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 1: I woke up at four in the morning, So let's

1050
00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:45,240
Speaker 1: have some slack people. I can't talk. Yeah, no, no,

1051
00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:48,279
Speaker 1: nobody is feeling bad that you went on vacation and

1052
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:51,359
Speaker 1: also went to the Patriots game last night at best

1053
00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:55,960
Speaker 1: up for me here on out love you. Uh stop

1054
00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:59,319
Speaker 1: being so territorial. Let ant last date your exes, hook

1055
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:01,759
Speaker 1: up with Jerry It and with that, Hey everybody, this

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