1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: Hi, this is Joel and Victoria. Thanks for listening to 2 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: our podcast and thanks for supporting the ministry. 3 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:08,440 Speaker 2: If you enjoy today's message, why don't you be a 4 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 2: blessing and share it with a friend. 5 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:13,040 Speaker 1: We appreciate you and pray for God's very best in 6 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 1: your life. 7 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 3: You may be seated. 8 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:18,319 Speaker 2: I just want to encourage all of us today to 9 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:23,479 Speaker 2: keep healthy connections with our families. You know, going forward 10 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:26,319 Speaker 2: in twenty seventeen, we need to make sure that we're 11 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:31,040 Speaker 2: making a personal investment into our family members, that we're 12 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:35,600 Speaker 2: building strong blonds, and we're creating trust and security in 13 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 2: our families. It's so easy in this culture with everything 14 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:42,559 Speaker 2: that we have to do and all the technology that 15 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:45,559 Speaker 2: we have to get things done more quickly. We have 16 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 2: to make sure that we don't just breeze by one 17 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:52,639 Speaker 2: another and not make personal connections. There's so much to do, 18 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 2: there's so many people to see. It's up to us 19 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 2: to make the choices and priorities to connect with those 20 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 2: that we love. You know, Joel and I have to 21 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 2: make it a priority to spend personal quality time together. 22 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 1: Now. 23 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 2: Joel and I are together a lot. We work together. 24 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 2: I'm not talking about coexisting in a home. I'm not 25 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 2: talking about working in a task together. I'm talking about 26 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 2: making investments in the life of people that you love, 27 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 2: making personal time to find out what they like, to 28 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 2: be a part of what they like, to enjoy their gifts, 29 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 2: enjoy their talents. You know, Joel and I, we love 30 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 2: to take walks together. We love to ride our bikes. 31 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 2: We'll go on a date night every now and then. 32 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 3: Sometimes we just get in the car and we drive nowhere. 33 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 2: But these are times that we have created to just 34 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 2: be together, not to talk about work, not to necessarily 35 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 2: talk about a problem or an issue that we're facing, 36 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 2: but to just be toga together, maybe not even talk 37 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 2: at all, maybe just connecting in the presence of the moment. 38 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 2: You See, We've got to take the time and set 39 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 2: the priorities and standards in our life to connect with 40 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 2: those we love. You See, if Joel and I just 41 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:21,520 Speaker 2: work all the time, if we're together but we're just 42 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 2: existing and working and under the load of life, we're 43 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 2: not gonna mature and nurture a relationship that's going to flourish, 44 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:35,359 Speaker 2: that's going to stay connected. See, We've got to join 45 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 2: our hearts together and build bridges on those things that 46 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 2: we connect with on a personal basis. You see, I 47 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 2: know what to expect from Joel because I've spent time 48 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:49,640 Speaker 2: quality time connecting with him. He knows what to expect 49 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 2: from me. We know what we think. I know when 50 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 2: to leave him alone. I know when he wants to 51 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 2: sit in his big chair and watch Will of Fortune. 52 00:02:57,840 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 4: I know. 53 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:04,399 Speaker 5: The things he likes to do to unplug, and those 54 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 5: are at the times I go in with all of 55 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 5: the things that I want to talk about. You see, 56 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 5: I've learned him so when I have an intimate and 57 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 5: personal relationship with him, knowing what he likes, what he dislikes, 58 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 5: what I expect of him, what he expects of me, 59 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 5: those boundaries. 60 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 2: That we like to set in our life. When I 61 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 2: know these things, I can work with him better. When 62 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 2: you've created something, not just done life together, not just 63 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 2: doing life together, but creating a life together, that's when 64 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 2: things will change in your life. See, I believe it's 65 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 2: the same way with our children. We can't always be 66 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 2: on the job raising our children. We've got to enjoy 67 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 2: our children. We need to learn to communicate with our children, 68 00:03:54,280 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 2: see their gifts and talents, enjoy their individuality, experience their ideas. 69 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 2: You see, we've got to get to a personal relationship 70 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 2: with our children. 71 00:04:06,360 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 3: We've got to create a. 72 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 2: Connection so that our connection will grow and flourish through 73 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:13,480 Speaker 2: the years. 74 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 3: I enjoy my children as much today as I did 75 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 3: when they. 76 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 2: Were little, when they used to say the cutest things 77 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 2: and do the craziest things. You see, I enjoy them 78 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 2: as adults in college right now. In fact, I learn 79 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 2: from them. I enjoy them. I allow them to have 80 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:37,559 Speaker 2: their ideas. Now, I want to tell you, sometimes time 81 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 2: seems so short, and we only get a certain time 82 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 2: with our children, So we fall into this trap of 83 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:49,920 Speaker 2: making these moments a lesson in life, a teaching moment. 84 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 2: You're spending time with your child and you can see 85 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 2: maybe something that could happen or something that you've experienced, 86 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:58,040 Speaker 2: and you want to insert this life lesson. 87 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 3: I can tell you I am so guilty of that. 88 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 3: I am like super guilty of that. 89 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 2: But I've learned, and you know, my children have helped 90 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:10,719 Speaker 2: me learn this, that not every moment has to be 91 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 2: a teaching moment. Yes, we want to teach our children, 92 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:17,159 Speaker 2: we want to train our children, but we also want 93 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:21,359 Speaker 2: to enjoy our children. We want to develop a relationship 94 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:24,839 Speaker 2: with them. We want to connect with them, so we 95 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 2: have opportunity in the future. 96 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 3: Now you may have, you. 97 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 2: Know, children that are out of your house. That's okay, 98 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 2: you can still connect with your children. See, it takes 99 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:39,599 Speaker 2: work to form good relationships. 100 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 3: They don't just happen. They must be created. 101 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 2: We have to sacrifice our personal time to have quality 102 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 2: time with those we love. It takes a commitment, It 103 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 2: takes an availability. See, if we're going to build strong 104 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 2: families and strong relationships, we're gonna have to do our part. 105 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 2: You know, sharing meals together is a great way to 106 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 2: spend quality time. Maybe dinner doesn't work their soccer practice. 107 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 2: Maybe you've got commitments. But can you share breakfast? Can 108 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 2: you share lunch? Can you have conversation over a snack? 109 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 2: You see, study after study has proven that when you 110 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:23,280 Speaker 2: take time to build relationship over a meal, that your 111 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:26,480 Speaker 2: children are less likely to experiment with drugs and alcohol. 112 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 2: That creating this atmosphere over a meal four to five 113 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 2: times a week, or as often as you can it 114 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 2: builds such a bond of trust and so much self 115 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 2: esteem and character that they're less likely to go off 116 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:43,839 Speaker 2: and allow their peers to direct their life. Because you've 117 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:49,159 Speaker 2: made an investment in their life. I believe it's our 118 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 2: responsibility and it's well worth the time and effort to 119 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:58,840 Speaker 2: enjoy our family as a whole. You know, this isn't 120 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 2: just a fix. This is a long term investment. See 121 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 2: what you plant now, you're gonna reap later. You're gonna 122 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 2: enjoy the benefits of your family. 123 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 3: So it's well worth it. 124 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 2: And single parents, can I tell you that you're more 125 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 2: than enough God, and you are a majority. 126 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 3: There's nothing that God won't help. 127 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 2: You with as you share with your family, as you 128 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 2: make some sacrifices, even though it's tough. Maybe your children 129 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 2: are out of the house. I encourage you to call 130 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 2: them up on the phone, invite them over for dinner, 131 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 2: meet them at a restaurant, not to tell them what 132 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 2: they're doing wrong, not to tell them what they can 133 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 2: do better, but just to tell them that you're proud 134 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 2: of them, to tell them how great they are. You see, 135 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 2: sometimes we want to mold our family members into the 136 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 2: shape that we want them to be. We want to 137 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 2: fix all their problems. But I'm telling you right now, 138 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 2: we can't fix their problems. 139 00:07:56,800 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 3: Only God can. 140 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 2: All we can do is love them show unconditional love, 141 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 2: spend quality time, and make personal investments. 142 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 3: Just take time to have. 143 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 2: Fun with your family. Maybe you want to go to 144 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 2: the movies, play some games. Whatever you do, just make 145 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 2: sure that you're laughing, that you're having fun, that life 146 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 2: is not so serious and such a struggle that you 147 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 2: forget the joys of life, making memories and laughing. You know, 148 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 2: laughter is a medicine. The Bible talks about a Mary 149 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:33,600 Speaker 2: Hart is like a medicine. I'm telling you, it will 150 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 2: fix a lot of things. I was reading in the 151 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 2: Bible about Sarah and Abraham, and many of you know 152 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 2: the story. God had made a promise to Abraham and 153 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 2: Sarah that they would have a child. And years and 154 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 2: years had passed and they'd struggled through life. 155 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:49,440 Speaker 3: I'm sure it was weary. 156 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 2: I'm sure from some of the mistakes they had made. 157 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 2: They were burning down. One day, God showed up at 158 00:08:55,240 --> 00:09:00,080 Speaker 2: Abraham's tent and he said, Abraham, this time next year, you're. 159 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 3: Going to have this son. And you know what Abraham did. 160 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:04,199 Speaker 3: Abraham laughed. 161 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 2: Now, the Bible doesn't tell us why he laughed, but 162 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 2: you know why, I believe he laughed. 163 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:11,680 Speaker 3: I believe he laughed because he needed a stress reliever. 164 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 3: He needed to just say, oh God, okay. 165 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 2: You know the Bible talks about you know, when you 166 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 2: look into your future, you have to be able to laugh. 167 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 2: You have to be able to trust God with your future. 168 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 2: Laugh at those things to come. Laughter helps. When Sarah 169 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 2: heard she was gonna have a child, what she did 170 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 2: She let out a giggle herself. You see that stress reliever. 171 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 2: But the great thing about it is that time next 172 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 2: year they had that son. They had that sign. 173 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 3: I can't help to believe that. 174 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 2: Laughter is a medicine. 175 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 3: Laughter lightens the load. Listen, let there be laughter, Let 176 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 3: there be fun. Nothing is that serious that we can't create. 177 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:56,440 Speaker 2: This atmosphere of laughter. See, we have to set our 178 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 2: families up to win. And I believe when we take 179 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 2: the necessary depths to build connections, we're placing value on 180 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 2: our family. And when our family feels valued, when they 181 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 2: feel loved, When you spend quality time, you know what 182 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 2: it does. It feels respect. It builds character within the family. 183 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 2: And again, when you face those challenges, you've got bridges 184 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:19,200 Speaker 2: to one another's heart. 185 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:21,319 Speaker 3: You've got each other. You're linked. 186 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:24,440 Speaker 2: See, we all love to have the people in our 187 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 2: life give us time and attention. 188 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 3: We love to be taken care of. It just warms 189 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:29,959 Speaker 3: our heart. 190 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:33,000 Speaker 2: So we have to remember if it's good for us, 191 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:37,199 Speaker 2: it's good for them. Listen, let's create unity in our home. 192 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 2: The Bible says where there is unity, there's a commanded blessing. 193 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 2: Every one of your family members can walk in blessing. 194 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:47,679 Speaker 3: You've got the. 195 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 2: Power and ability to be the one who brings in 196 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 2: the fund, who. 197 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 3: Has the spice of life. 198 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:58,400 Speaker 2: Nothing is that serious. Create laughter and know that where 199 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:02,360 Speaker 2: there is community, God has commanded the blessing. I want 200 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 2: to pray for your family right now. Lift your hand 201 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 2: right now. If you represent family, if you have a family, 202 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 2: if you want God to intervene in your family, because see, 203 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 2: I think he sees your hands. And you may not 204 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 2: be connected to some of those family members. You may 205 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 2: be saying, God. 206 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 3: I want this connection. Can I have that that? 207 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 1: Well? 208 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 2: Can I tell you one of the greatest ways you 209 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:22,160 Speaker 2: can be connected and is in prayer. 210 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 3: You see, there's no distance in prayer. 211 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:27,200 Speaker 2: You may not be able to be in the presence 212 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 2: of that person that you want that connection with, But 213 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 2: can I tell you this, God's in their presence And 214 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 2: if you're praying to God, God will do the work. 215 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 3: Because see, if. 216 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 2: We pray and we don't give up, God will honor 217 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:43,319 Speaker 2: our prayer. God works by faith, He works by perseverance. 218 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:46,680 Speaker 2: So no, when you pray, the moment you pray, the 219 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 2: tide of the battle is beginning to turn. God is 220 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 2: on your side. He wants that unity in your home. 221 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:54,960 Speaker 2: I believe all we have to have is a willing heart, 222 00:11:55,280 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 2: and when we're willing and obedient, we'll eat the good 223 00:11:57,679 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 2: of the land. Amen. Father, I thank you for ever 224 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 2: family represented here today, all those who are listening are viewing. Father, 225 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 2: I thank you that we are committing our family afresh and. 226 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 3: A new to you. 227 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 2: God. 228 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 3: I thank you that we will build bridges and not walls. 229 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 2: I thank you Father that we will make a sacrifice 230 00:12:16,160 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 2: to spend quality time with our family, and Lord, you 231 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 2: will give us ideas and resources in the time. Father, 232 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:25,000 Speaker 2: I thank you that we're gonna look at our calendar 233 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:27,880 Speaker 2: or we're gonna say, is that really important, and we're 234 00:12:27,920 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 2: gonna put our family on the calendar. God. I thank 235 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 2: you that you will Father, draw our families together. That 236 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:37,440 Speaker 2: there is anything that hasn't been done, or anything that's 237 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 2: been in the past. Father, I thank you that you 238 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 2: are covering those past mistakes, that you are covering that, 239 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 2: and Father, we are moving forward with you. 240 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:49,199 Speaker 3: We're not walking in guilt or condemnation. But Father, we know. 241 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:51,680 Speaker 2: With you, every day is a new beginning, that your 242 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 2: mercies are fresh and new. And I thank you that 243 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 2: you are blowing the mercy of your favor on our 244 00:12:57,080 --> 00:13:00,160 Speaker 2: families right now. Father, I thank you that we we 245 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 2: will love our families. We won't try to shape them 246 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 2: into people that look like us, but Father, we will 247 00:13:05,960 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 2: enjoy who they are as individuals. We will learn from 248 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:11,360 Speaker 2: them and grow from them. Father, I thank you that 249 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 2: when we're tempted, Father, to say the wrong thing, that 250 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 2: you'll just zip up our lips and allow us, Father 251 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 2: to just breathe, to just take time to know, there's 252 00:13:20,720 --> 00:13:24,079 Speaker 2: always time for correction, there's always time to get our 253 00:13:24,160 --> 00:13:27,440 Speaker 2: message in there. But Father, that we will create times 254 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 2: of memories, strong connections for the future. That, Father, God, 255 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 2: you will do this for us. You will help us 256 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:37,079 Speaker 2: as we look to you. Thank you for blessing our 257 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 2: family members. We see unity in our family, whether it's 258 00:13:40,160 --> 00:13:42,480 Speaker 2: there or not. We're looking through our eyes of faith 259 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 2: and we see our family united and strong walking in 260 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 2: the commanded blessing in Jesus's name, and everyone said Amen. 261 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 3: Thank you Lord. 262 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:57,079 Speaker 1: Each week I stand on this stage and remind you 263 00:13:57,240 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 1: of what God says about you, because it's easy to 264 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 1: be defined by who people say we are, or by 265 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 1: our own negative thoughts that were not talented or problems 266 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 1: too big. The key is to go back to who 267 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 1: God says you are. 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