1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:06,920 Speaker 1: online at advocatesla dot com. 3 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 2: Conrad is on the phone today for a first day 4 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Iliana. So we're 5 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 2: gonna see if we can figure out why he's getting 6 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 2: ghosted and maybe get him another date if he still 7 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:18,120 Speaker 2: wants one, and he finds out why in just a second. 8 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 2: But Conrad, before we get into your date, how long 9 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Iliana. 10 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 3: Oh, it's almost a week. It's been like six days 11 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:25,639 Speaker 3: right now. 12 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 4: So let's go backwards. Let's talk about the date. How 13 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 4: you guys met, and let's get to where we're at now. 14 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:35,600 Speaker 3: We we really like food, you know, and when we 15 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 3: both met, we were talking about going to this restaurant 16 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 3: they specialized in and by I'm sorry, I can't pronounce it, 17 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:46,519 Speaker 3: darn words, but anyway, they're known for that. They're known 18 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:50,239 Speaker 3: for their sangria. Everything was great, right, and super romantic 19 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:53,159 Speaker 3: spot even like like after like eight o'clock, there's a 20 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 3: DJ that comes out. They have like a dance floor 21 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 3: platform they bring out. 22 00:00:56,880 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's cool. 23 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 3: It was really really nice dance. I mean, we were 24 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:06,320 Speaker 3: laughing it up the whole night. We took pictures in 25 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 3: the photo booth at the restaurant. They had them the bathrooms. 26 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:13,319 Speaker 3: It was super cute. We loved the spot. So that 27 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 3: was the first time we met. It was a great date. 28 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:18,479 Speaker 3: And that was. That was pretty much how that. 29 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 4: Went, because it sounds like it went pretty good in 30 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 4: my eyes. What was the last thing you said to her? 31 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 3: Well, the last thing, that's her, you know what. It 32 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 3: wasn't like, you know, we had some last words or 33 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:32,040 Speaker 3: anything like that. We just, you know, pretty much we're talking, 34 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:35,759 Speaker 3: and you know, there was a situation. I think maybe 35 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 3: they had something to do with it as far as 36 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 3: her not calling me back. I don't know if this 37 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 3: is a fact or not, but she did well. She 38 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 3: was complaining about being cold. We were next to event, right, 39 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 3: but the food was already on the table, so I 40 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 3: went ahead and asked the waiters if they can you know, 41 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 3: switch us, which she was like, you no, don't make 42 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 3: a big deal out of it. This and the third 43 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:55,279 Speaker 3: but I insisted because I didn't want her to be cold. 44 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 3: So you know, we moved and you know, even like 45 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 3: we had like a real cool exchange exchanges like you know, 46 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 3: like like almost like we've been together or something like that, 47 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 3: because it was like a little bickering over like what 48 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 3: we're gonna order. It was all playful, you know, nothing 49 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 3: angry about it. She even said something about like, oh man, 50 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 3: we must have been lovers in the past life, and 51 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 3: I was like, oh man, it was like so cool, 52 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 3: like superheated, super fun. So it wasn't like any of 53 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 3: the last words I said to her, I just don't. 54 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 3: It was a text message I send her afterwards, you know, 55 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 3: but that wasn't you know. I just said, you know, 56 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 3: I had a great time, and that was it. 57 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 2: When you say that it was super heated where you're arguing. 58 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 3: No, it was like it was like a good like 59 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 3: passion between us, you know what I mean. It's like 60 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 3: it was like a real good connection. It was like 61 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 3: everything was like like melting, like it was just like great. 62 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 3: It was just like you know, it was just like yeah, 63 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 3: it was so easy. It was like you know each 64 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:42,520 Speaker 3: other for a while. 65 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 2: Okay, Well what do you think happened? 66 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 3: Then? I don't know. And the only thing I can 67 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 3: assumed was that maybe, like I said, having them switch 68 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 3: everything after like switch tables for us after all the 69 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:56,640 Speaker 3: food was out on the table. But that's so minor, 70 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 3: so I'm not thinking that that that might be it 71 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 3: because I can't think of any things to tell you 72 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 3: the truth. 73 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 4: Well, maybe do you think it is intense that she's like, oh, 74 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 4: we were lovers in another life? 75 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 5: That don't be. I don't know. 76 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:11,639 Speaker 4: People get scared really easily, you know what I mean. 77 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 4: I don't know if it's it can't be, or if 78 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 4: it's like, oh my gosh, like what if I can't 79 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:16,760 Speaker 4: do this? It didn't work out in another life, but 80 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 4: how's it going to work out in this life? 81 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 3: I would hope that she would just tell me that 82 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 3: day instead of just leaving me just a wonder and 83 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 3: you stay your up on itself, because how did something 84 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 3: so good just like just end up just abruptly just stopped. 85 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 2: What was the last thing that she said to you? 86 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 3: The last thing she to me on the text message 87 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 3: was that, you know, she just thank me and she 88 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 3: said she had a good time. So that was it. 89 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 3: That was the last time we invoked to each other 90 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 3: to a text message. 91 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 2: Okay, well we'll try I to figure out for you. 92 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song. Come back and call her 93 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 2: and see if yourselves. Why you're getting ghosted, and then 94 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 2: maybe get you another day if you still want me. Okay, cool, 95 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 2: all right, we'll get your first day follow up. 96 00:03:56,200 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: Next first date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury 97 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 1: Attorneys online at at If you're. 98 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 2: Just joining us for today's first day follow up. Conrad 99 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 2: is on the phone and he's getting ghasted by Iliana 100 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 2: and we're about to call her and see if we 101 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 2: can figure out why and maybe get him another date. 102 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 2: But before we do that, why you refresh everybody's memory 103 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:16,039 Speaker 2: about your date with Ileana. 104 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:21,599 Speaker 3: Oh okay, Well, my dayd Eleana was great. Went to 105 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 3: a great restaurant. We had great food, we had great drinks, 106 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:27,360 Speaker 3: We danced, we laughed, We really hit it off, super 107 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 3: big connection. 108 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 5: You know. 109 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 3: We both loved the spot that we went to, and 110 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:36,040 Speaker 3: that was pretty much. It was just real natural and 111 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 3: just real fun, like super fun. 112 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 2: Okay, And you have no idea why she's not calling 113 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 2: you back. 114 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 3: The only idea I can come up with is something 115 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:47,720 Speaker 3: that is just like far fetched to me because it's 116 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:49,159 Speaker 3: not even a real reason. Like I said, it was 117 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 3: just me because she was complaining she was cold. She 118 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:52,479 Speaker 3: was like, hey, I'm under that, and I was like, 119 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 3: oh my gosh, so let's move it. Let's move out 120 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 3: the way that was already after the food was there, 121 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 3: so that was it? 122 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 2: All right? We'll try to figure it out for you. 123 00:04:57,839 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 2: Then we call her right now. Are you ready? 124 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 5: Yep? Okay, here we go. 125 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:17,039 Speaker 2: Hello, I may I speak to Iliana? Please? Hi, Ileana? 126 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:18,680 Speaker 2: How are you? My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from 127 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 2: a radio show. It's named The Jebel Show. 128 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 4: Hi, the whole show's here too. Before you jump back in, 129 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 4: my name is Nita, Hi, and I'm Victoria. 130 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 2: How are you. 131 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 5: I'm doing well. 132 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 2: Do you listen to the show at all? 133 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 5: I've never listened to it before. 134 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:34,920 Speaker 2: Okay, No, you don't have apologize. Maybe you will. Now 135 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 2: we do a segment on the show it's called the 136 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:38,840 Speaker 2: first Day follow Up. That's where if you go out 137 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 2: on a date with somebody and then you end up 138 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 2: ghosting them, that person can email us to get you 139 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 2: on the phone and ask why so you are ghosting 140 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 2: someone and they email us about you? 141 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 5: Okay, got it? Idea? Who I don't think so? 142 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 2: No? What about a guy named Conrad Conrad? 143 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 5: Oh? Oh Conrad, Yeah, I remember him? 144 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:05,160 Speaker 2: Okay, what do you remember about him? 145 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 5: Days? Ago. 146 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:09,719 Speaker 6: Yeah, we went on a date a few days ago 147 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 6: and what I thought was a hookup with a friend, 148 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 6: and the restaurant was a really nice place. You know, 149 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 6: I can't lie, but for me, it was a bit 150 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 6: too romantic for the first date. Okay, you know, so 151 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 6: it kind of felt weird. But you know, I said, 152 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 6: let me go with the flow and we'll see what 153 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:31,359 Speaker 6: goes on. We danced, the food was wonderful. 154 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 5: I mean, he was so nice. 155 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 6: He even had the table moved for me because I 156 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:39,039 Speaker 6: was feeling cold underneath event, which I thought was really 157 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 6: nice of him. I didn't want him to do it 158 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:43,919 Speaker 6: because the food was already on the table. However, he 159 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 6: did it anyway, and I really appreciate that. But later 160 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 6: on that night, I mean everything just got too lovey 161 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 6: dovey for me. I mean, he joked about being lovers 162 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:56,679 Speaker 6: in a past life, so something like that. 163 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 5: It just got really weird after that. 164 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,840 Speaker 6: The next day I go to work, I find flowers 165 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 6: at my desk, which I thought was romantic. However, he 166 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 6: says again, the lovers in a past life. 167 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:10,120 Speaker 5: Then he's texting me constantly. 168 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:13,679 Speaker 6: When I'm like I'm busy, He's like, okay, well text 169 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 6: me back when you get a chance, but then he 170 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 6: doesn't give me a chance to take back. It was 171 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 6: just becoming too much at one time, and I felt 172 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 6: he was moving a bit too fast and I just 173 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 6: had to slow it down. 174 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 5: I just had to go, Wow. 175 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 2: I kind of feel like I would love flowers after 176 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:28,960 Speaker 2: a first date. 177 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 6: But I mean I felt like I was being love bombed, 178 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 6: if you understand what I'm saying. 179 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 5: At one time, it was moving too fast for me. 180 00:07:37,960 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 5: So did you like him? 181 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 4: And it was just that he was coming on too 182 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 4: strong and the whole like you know, love bombing concept, 183 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 4: trying to protect yourself or it was just like, oh man, 184 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:46,239 Speaker 4: this is kind of achy. 185 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, it was just sicky for me all together. 186 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well, thank you for being honest with us. 187 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah, he's nice. He's a nice guy for somebody else, 188 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:55,720 Speaker 5: just not for me. 189 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:56,559 Speaker 3: Dele Jana. 190 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 2: He is on the phone listening and wants to talk 191 00:07:58,080 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 2: to you. 192 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 5: Man, Hello, hey, hey, how are you I'm doing? 193 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 4: Well? 194 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 5: What is this about? Oh? 195 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 3: But I mean I just found out what it is about. 196 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 3: I was wondering what was going on with us, and 197 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:18,080 Speaker 3: I just realized that maybe you thought I was loved 198 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 3: by me? But that wasn't mean. 199 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 5: I was just very excited. 200 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 3: You know, I thought maybe something and maybe I just 201 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 3: sized it. 202 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 6: I mean, you don't even give me a chance to 203 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 6: respond to your messages. You're constantly texting me. I tell 204 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:34,200 Speaker 6: you that I'm busy, and it's like you act like 205 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:36,679 Speaker 6: you understand, but then you don't understand. I don't want 206 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 6: to say I can pull back on that. I'm so sorry. 207 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 6: I think that I just jumped the gun. I was 208 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:42,079 Speaker 6: so excited, like I said. 209 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 3: And I mean I would really love to go on 210 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 3: a second day with you. I really apologize. I came 211 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 3: on too strong, and you know, that's just how I am. 212 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 3: Maybe I should have just, you know, waited for you 213 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 3: to respond, but I'm just so you know, happy about 214 00:08:57,840 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 3: you know, our date and how it went that I was. 215 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 3: I guess I was overwhelmed. I'm sorry. 216 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean you're really like weird or anything. 217 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not trying to be weird out and like that. 218 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 3: It's just it's just how how I am. I can 219 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:14,079 Speaker 3: wear my heart on my sleeve. So it's just like 220 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:16,960 Speaker 3: I was just trying to, you know, express that you know, 221 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:19,719 Speaker 3: I really enjoyed meeting you and you know that's all. 222 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 6: Yeah, I enjoyed meeting you too, but like I said, 223 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 6: it was just too much for me at one time, 224 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:28,559 Speaker 6: and it just seemed like you weren't going to give up. 225 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:32,040 Speaker 6: And I appreciate the pursuit, but it's not for me. 226 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 6: Maybe for somebody else. 227 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, maybe I showed you so much you know, attention, 228 00:09:37,080 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 3: for that short period of time that maybe now I 229 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 3: just east back and like not really like you as much. 230 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:51,079 Speaker 7: I mean, that's been weirder. I thought we had a connection. 231 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 7: I'm not trying to be weird. It was just I'm 232 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 7: just I'm thrown back by this. 233 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:57,960 Speaker 3: I mean I can see the text messages and you know, 234 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:00,320 Speaker 3: and the flowers, but you know, to me, that's just 235 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:03,520 Speaker 3: how a man's supposed to be. No express I'm romantic. 236 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 3: I'm gonna throw it back. Yeah, I know I probably 237 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 3: fight that's too fast, but I gues said, I'll go 238 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:10,079 Speaker 3: one hundred miles an hour. I promise to do twenty 239 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 3: miles an hour. I'll do twenty the next day. 240 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:15,439 Speaker 2: I feel you. I have that same problem, Conrad, because 241 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 2: I'm like that too. Like, honestly, if I meet someone up, 242 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 2: I may be trying to date him for a month, 243 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 2: but I still want to do all the flowers. I 244 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:22,760 Speaker 2: want to be super romantic. But then people get scared, 245 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 2: you know, people get scared. So then it's like hard 246 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 2: to figure out what to do because then I'm like, well, 247 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 2: all right, well I don't really play games, so I 248 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 2: just will not do the stuff, and then it looks 249 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 2: like I don't like them. 250 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:34,600 Speaker 4: You just got everybody's just got to start asking each 251 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 4: other what your love language is, because that's what you 252 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 4: cater to. And if people are scared of gifts and 253 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 4: the extra, like you know, ascension, you just go back 254 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:43,319 Speaker 4: a little bit. 255 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:46,040 Speaker 3: They want you to find out what their love language is. 256 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:48,079 Speaker 3: And then like I'd rather just just shoot at it, 257 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:49,439 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. It's because like most of 258 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:50,840 Speaker 3: the time you're going to express that scene. 259 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:52,720 Speaker 4: Well you did, Conrad, you did in this time, it 260 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:54,680 Speaker 4: just doesn't seem like it worked out, and I'm really sorry. 261 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:56,560 Speaker 2: Let's see for sure, Eleana, would you like to go 262 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 2: on another day with Conrad? Will pay for it? 263 00:10:59,240 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 3: Oh? 264 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 2: Actually pay for it because you don't want that. Yeah, 265 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:04,319 Speaker 2: I'll pay for it. 266 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 5: I feel so bad. I really want to go on 267 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:11,120 Speaker 5: a date with Conrad. Now, Oh that would be great. 268 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 3: I'm telling you I would go four miles an hour 269 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:14,320 Speaker 3: in a fifty miles. 270 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:17,560 Speaker 5: But hours on tell I'll be an old man. Okay, 271 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 5: I problem if you slow it down just a little bit. 272 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 2: So that's a yes. 273 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:25,559 Speaker 5: Really maybe should I? Should? I do it? Guys? 274 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:26,560 Speaker 7: Yeah, I think so? 275 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 5: Why not? Oh man? 276 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 2: What's the worst I can happen? 277 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 5: That's that's great, thank you. Okay, So second day, Yes. 278 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 3: I'm up for it. 279 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 5: Where do you want to go? 280 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 3: Like? What kind of food do you want to? What 281 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 3: you guys, let me step back and let you plan everything. 282 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:51,199 Speaker 3: Events will be This is gonna be funny. 283 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:54,360 Speaker 2: Do it. Try it? That's the luck. 284 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 5: Thank you. 285 00:11:56,520 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 1: Jule's first day follow up powered by the Advocates and 286 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 1: Jury Attorney Online at ADVOCATESLA dot com.