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Speaker 2: Y'all know what time, y'all don't know y'all.

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Speaker 1: At all at all.

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Speaker 3: Soon given them.

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Speaker 4: Black the milk bus busy.

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Speaker 5: Listening to show to Joy Yah.

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Speaker 6: Yah, Joy, you.

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Speaker 7: Don't love you.

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Speaker 8: You gotta turnt to turn the mouth. Turn you probably

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Speaker 8: got to turn the mouth, turn out the water.

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Speaker 7: Then up, looks.

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Speaker 9: Me, Come me, come out?

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Speaker 2: You think that.

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Speaker 4: I sure will? Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice,

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Speaker 4: Come on, dig me now. One and only Steve Harvey

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Speaker 4: got a radio show.

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Speaker 2: Man oh man, oh man.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 4: I think about all the things God has done for

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Speaker 4: me is overwhelming at times. And I want everybody to

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Speaker 4: have that feeling and to sharing that feeling of completion

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Speaker 4: and satisfaction. And the only reason I got this, and

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Speaker 4: it's the thousandth time I've said it, is because I

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Speaker 4: formed a relationship with my creator.

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Speaker 1: Period.

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Speaker 4: That's it. That's that's it. I can't tell you as

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Speaker 4: anything else else. You know, I've always had a strong

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Speaker 4: work ethic. My father put that in me. My father's

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Speaker 4: conversation with me growing up was always constantly about work hard,

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Speaker 4: don't be lazy, be a man, do what you say

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Speaker 4: you're gonna do. YadA, YadA, YadA, YadA, YadA. Man, I

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Speaker 4: was so tired of my father At times. I was going, Man,

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Speaker 4: what is with this dude right here? Man, every time

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Speaker 4: we have a conversation, it's got to be about work.

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Speaker 4: It's got to be about, you know, man, doing your best,

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Speaker 4: trying hard, you know, working, being honest, do what you

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Speaker 4: say you're gonna do. But that was his mission. I

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Speaker 4: can't tell you how much I appreciate that now. I

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Speaker 4: can't even I can't even put it into words when

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Speaker 4: I think about my old man and what he was

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Speaker 4: to me, and I just, man, I'm so grateful for

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Speaker 4: that balance I had in my life. And then my

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Speaker 4: father was a fighter. He fought on the weekends.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 4: My father used to come home with his clothes toe

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Speaker 4: off of him. He put a fresh shirt on, and

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Speaker 4: he go back. My mama used to talk about my

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Speaker 4: father fighting all the time, slick, while you're always fighting.

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Speaker 4: You know a little bit of that rubbed off on

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Speaker 4: me too, you know that that kind of got into me.

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Speaker 4: And I didn't understand that either, But then understand same term.

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Speaker 4: My mother was a Sunday school teacher for forty years,

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Speaker 4: so her conversation was never about fighting or anything. It

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Speaker 4: was all about love and understanding and doing another that

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Speaker 4: you would have to do unto you. My mom was

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Speaker 4: a Sunday school teacher, so I learned about faith. I

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Speaker 4: had to go to Sunday school, prayer meeting, Bible study,

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Speaker 4: young people meeting, choir rehearsal. You know, I was a

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Speaker 4: church man so much I was actually looking as there's

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Speaker 4: got to be an alternative to this, you know. I

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Speaker 4: want you know, I was a little kid even I

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Speaker 4: was thinking at one point, maybe I ought to look

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Speaker 4: who I am today. And I want you to understand

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Speaker 4: that the things that you are in your past have

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Speaker 4: helped create who you are today. If you view it

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Speaker 4: the right way, everything that has happened to you in

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Speaker 4: your past has happened to you for a reason, and

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Speaker 4: it's usual for the good if you view it that way.

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Speaker 4: But if you, on the other hand, are a type

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Speaker 4: of person who can't move forward because you are allowing

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Speaker 4: your past to stop you from having your future, then you,

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Speaker 4: my friend, are doing a disservice to your life. You

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Speaker 4: are not honoring God's blessings. You are not taking advantage

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Speaker 4: of the gain, knowledge, wisdom, and experience of your life. Example,

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Speaker 4: if you are a woman and you are always talking

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Speaker 4: in this place today. I thought I had a man.

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Speaker 4: Now I ain't got no man ah llah lah lah

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Speaker 4: He did this to me, then he cheated, then he left.

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Speaker 4: All of that that you're saying can very well be true.

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Speaker 4: Have you thought that maybe maybe somewhere in God's infinite wisdom,

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Speaker 4: that he knew that you had made a mistake in

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Speaker 4: picking him anyway? Maybe he knew you had made a

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Speaker 4: mistake in saying yes or I do to him anyway,

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Speaker 4: or come on, move in?

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Speaker 2: And so what he did was.

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Speaker 4: Based on your decision now to say yes, I do,

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Speaker 4: or come on, let's move in together.

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Speaker 2: That was your decision. You ain't go to him about

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Speaker 4: You made this decision based on that decision, and all

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Speaker 4: the negative things that started happening. He allowed you to

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Speaker 4: get away from it. Now how you got away from it,

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Speaker 4: It's always not the choice of ours. See, you stuck

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Speaker 4: on the fact that he left, that he walked out.

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Speaker 4: But let me share this with you. When he was there,

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Speaker 4: How good was he to you? How good was he

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Speaker 4: for you? See, you got to stare at you got

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Speaker 4: to look at the blessing. The blessing is. Now you

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Speaker 4: are on your own. Now you walk in your house.

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Speaker 4: Ain't nobody in there with a disruptive spirit.

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Speaker 2: Now you go home. You could take your clothes off,

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Speaker 2: walk around like you want to.

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Speaker 4: Now you go home, you can sit down and look

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Speaker 4: at TV or catch your breath if you want to.

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Speaker 4: Your kids don't have to see y'all arguing all the time.

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Speaker 4: Have you looked at the blessing in it? But now

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Speaker 4: if you gonna keep looking at the negative, then guess what.

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Speaker 4: Now you can't move forward because you keep allowing your

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Speaker 4: past to keep you from moving forward. If God has

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Speaker 4: brought you through it, why don't you move on from it? Look,

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Speaker 4: you got through it, He gone, he ain't coming back.

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Speaker 4: He got somebody else. So you gonna sit there and

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Speaker 4: just keep tripping couts. He gone and he got somebody else. Hey,

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Speaker 4: pick yourself up. Thank God for the blessing. It didn't

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Speaker 4: feel like a blessing. Why you was going through it,

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Speaker 4: and all the pain of him leaving and the divorce

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Speaker 4: and all that messed you up? Got it when you

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Speaker 4: get through it, all of that. You ain't the first

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Speaker 4: one being left. You ain't the first one being divorced.

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Speaker 4: You ain't the first one been in a bad relationship.

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Speaker 4: Pick yourself up, thank God for the blessing, and move

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Speaker 4: forward in your life, because maybe when you quit complaining,

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Speaker 4: maybe you'll find out that God has something in store

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Speaker 4: for you that he wants you to have, but he

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Speaker 4: can't give it to you if you ain't grateful. So

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Speaker 4: God gives you a blessing, but because you don't see

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Speaker 4: it as a blessing, you ain't grateful for it. Now,

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Speaker 4: guess what, You steady asking God to do something for you,

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Speaker 4: but you ain't thanking him for what he's done for you,

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Speaker 4: but you steady wanting him to do more.

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Speaker 2: How does that work? How does that work?

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Speaker 10: Man?

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Speaker 4: That he should keep on giving you things when you

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Speaker 4: ain't even working with the stuff he done gave you,

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Speaker 4: and I don't know, And I'm just using that one example.

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Speaker 4: It could go for me and too, vice versa, and

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Speaker 4: so on and so forth. I'm just using that as

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Speaker 4: an example. Now, why I laid on that one so long?

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Speaker 4: You have to take that over.

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Speaker 2: God, That's all just sweet.

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Speaker 4: I ain't pointing fingers at nobody in nothing, because I've

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Speaker 4: been guilty on.

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Speaker 2: Both sides of the coin. Who am I?

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Speaker 4: But I'm just sharing with you what I had to do.

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Speaker 4: I had to learn to stop allowing my past to

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Speaker 4: interfere with my future.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 4: I know you thought a song would follow, but I

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Speaker 4: decided no, And then again I changed my mind. When

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Speaker 4: you think of love, got to get it on your mind.

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Speaker 4: Come on, when you think of love, got to get

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Speaker 4: it on in your mind.

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Speaker 2: When you think of.

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Speaker 1: Love, god it get it on your mind.

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Speaker 2: Come on? Now, why did I we do it up

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Speaker 2: in here.

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Speaker 11: Like that?

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Speaker 4: See how it was a fake move. It was kind

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Speaker 4: of count off then said I wasn't gonna do it,

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Speaker 2: Back into it. I just thought of that, That's all

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Speaker 2: it was. It's like that in the words that said

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Speaker 2: you entertained it. It's just mad.

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Speaker 4: Good morning, Good morning, Steve Harvey, more than only Hello

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Speaker 4: Carlin forrall.

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Speaker 1: Hello Steve Harvey and creaz.

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Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen that junior killed.

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Speaker 3: Spats morning morning everybody.

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Speaker 2: The King of Pranks, Nephew, Tommy, Yay yay.

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Speaker 1: In the building.

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Speaker 2: We are all here, We are all here. Delightful, delightful.

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Speaker 12: Yes, Tuesday, Tuesday, Tuesdaysday, Taco Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: That sounds good. Sure right now?

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Speaker 2: Now I got to.

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Speaker 1: Know the taco. Yeah, I gotta do vegable.

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Speaker 2: Today. Well, don't nobody. Won't that ship Taco sound crazy?

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Speaker 2: For about.

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Speaker 9: You?

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Speaker 1: I drug it out slowly, you know that early.

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Speaker 9: Man.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you feeling all right though always you know.

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Speaker 4: It's another exciting day, another opportunity God has given me.

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Speaker 4: I want to take full advantage of it. I want

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Speaker 4: to do the things is I can do to progress

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Speaker 4: myself forward and do some things that maybe can help

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Speaker 4: out in the future. Not worrying about the future, not

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Speaker 4: concerning myself with anything that's about to happen, but preparing

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Speaker 4: to receive God's blessings, preparing to receive his unmerited favor

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Speaker 4: and any grace that would be shared, shared or headed

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Speaker 4: my way.

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Speaker 2: I'm just open to it. You know, I've just decided

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Speaker 2: I stopped worrying, and it has changed my life.

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Speaker 1: Man.

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Speaker 4: When I stopped worrying because nothing I used to worry

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Speaker 4: about could I control? Right, and I stopped worrying. God

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Speaker 4: is going to take care of me as he always

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Speaker 4: so wonderfully has done. And I see no reason why

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Speaker 4: he would not continue. If he's not going to continue

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Speaker 4: to take care of me, I'm not gonna wake up,

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Speaker 4: but I'm here.

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Speaker 9: No.

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Speaker 1: Oh, he didn't done for you that he ain't pulling out? Sure,

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Speaker 1: all right, thank you for that. Steve coming up in

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Speaker 9: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach miss Lydia Liticy mass call.

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Speaker 9: This is coach Watkins up at the up at the school.

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Speaker 9: How are you, hey, Coach Watkins?

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Speaker 10: I'm fine?

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Speaker 13: What can I do for you?

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Speaker 9: Listen, We've had Maleik out for the last week and

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Speaker 13: He can't wait to start the season.

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Speaker 9: He's ready. Well, you know what, I'll be honest with you.

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Speaker 9: He's a great kid, and he's got a good heart,

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Speaker 11: Well, you know, he loves the game and he's been

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Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, you know, this is you know, this is

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Speaker 9: a big transition that if you've been playing little league

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Speaker 9: It's a it's a big difference, in a big transition

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Speaker 9: I do understand. But Malika's been working really hard, yes,

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Speaker 9: and he's ready. Well well, well, let me let me

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Speaker 9: say this. My main reason for calling you is letting

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Speaker 13: You said, wait, wait, you said that Malite is not

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Speaker 10: I said, it's not gonna.

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Speaker 4: Make the team.

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Speaker 9: He's a great kid. You know, he's a great you

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Speaker 13: A starting quarterback, so what are you talking about. He's

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Speaker 1: He was the best they had.

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Speaker 9: Out on that squad. Okay, and you know what, I've

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Speaker 13: Heard about him. Wit a minute, Wait, man, have you

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Speaker 9: I understand what are the kids is out there doing that?

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Speaker 9: But you know what, but right now, we got a

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Speaker 9: So you know, the competition has gone greater and greater

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Speaker 13: Wait a minute, When this is seventh grade, first of all,

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Speaker 13: everybody makes the team. Nobody gets cut in the first place.

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Speaker 13: You got an A team and a B team. So

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Speaker 9: None of them teams? Right right now, miss Lydia? Uh

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Speaker 9: you know? Uh? Like I said, Malika is a great kid.

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Speaker 9: I like him.

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Speaker 10: I know what Milik is.

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Speaker 13: I know that he's a great kid and he's a ballplayer.

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Speaker 13: Now I make sure that. So don't come telling me

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Speaker 9: Well, come telling me who is the quarterback? Who?

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Speaker 13: Yeah, you tell me what's going on?

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Speaker 9: Who is the quarterback? Well? Actually right now, my son

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Speaker 9: is actually the quarterback. He hasn't done any pop warn

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Speaker 13: Football before, or he's never played organized football, but he's

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Speaker 9: Is that what you're telling me? Well, yeah, my son

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Speaker 13: My son don't make the teach and my son scored

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Speaker 13: twenty touchdown twenty Is that what you're telling me?

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Speaker 8: Oh?

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Speaker 9: Hell no, I'm calling up to that school tomorrow. I

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Speaker 9: will be up there tomorrow. Let me explain something. I say, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 9: no no.

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Speaker 13: And I don't know what this is, this nepotism or

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Speaker 13: my son ain't Nathan what. Hell no, it's gonna be

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Speaker 13: smoking the city tomorrow when.

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Speaker 9: I get up there, Miss Lydia. What I want to

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Speaker 9: say this is this, if your son would take a

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Speaker 9: get the fundamentals together together, a greater football player when

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Speaker 9: he gets to be headed to the eighth grade.

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Speaker 13: It was the wrong This doll last year. What you

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Speaker 13: going about this? Fundamentals together? Your son ain't never even play?

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Speaker 9: Well, you know what. I've worked with my son, you know,

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Speaker 9: And it's a little it's a little awkward for me

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Speaker 13: Yeah, from behalf you talk about because you don't know

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Speaker 13: what your son is done. Because ain't nobody ever seen

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Speaker 13: your son. You just got this dream, probably something that

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Speaker 13: you ain't dead. You want to live vicariously through him.

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Speaker 9: Hell no, that's that's about it. I don't like in school.

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Speaker 9: I played in high school, and let me play this.

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Speaker 9: I'm trying to do the best that I can and

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Speaker 13: I said, well not, but but he don't get to play.

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Speaker 13: So what about I'm getting up here?

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Speaker 9: I think don't get the players. Probably he doesn't even

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Speaker 9: gonna work out to be a better burgle. Turn that

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Speaker 9: to the mole mothers. That's some bull.

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Speaker 1: I bet you.

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Speaker 13: I guarantee you this my son to be starting this year.

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Speaker 13: I guarantee you this.

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Speaker 9: You don't want none of that, Okay?

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Speaker 7: Right now?

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Speaker 9: All I can say is I need Malik to actually

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Speaker 9: bring his cliques back, because my son's gonna need him

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Speaker 9: to play in what.

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Speaker 13: Fuck them?

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Speaker 11: Cli.

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Speaker 13: Your son ain't getting your son running down that field.

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Speaker 13: We're gonna work barefoot.

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Speaker 10: He ain't get mine nothing.

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Speaker 9: Man, from my records. Understanding is that the cliques actually

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Speaker 13: Look understand the one that told you that my son

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Speaker 13: can't fight your records. Thinking about your records. You your

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Speaker 13: mama and to day she bushed your man.

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Speaker 9: I'm not gonna sit here and go back and forth

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Speaker 9: with you. All I'm trying to say is this is

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Speaker 13: Start looking for a job, get your resume together.

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Speaker 9: You know what, ma'am, I'm not gonna go back and

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Speaker 9: for I got one more thing I need to say

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Speaker 9: to you.

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Speaker 13: Nothing that you You ain't got nothing else to say

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Speaker 13: to me. My son to be playing and I'll be

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Speaker 9: I have one more thing I need to say to you.

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Speaker 9: You listening.

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Speaker 13: Only thing you need to tell me is who I

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Speaker 11: Now.

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Speaker 9: I'll let you know that as soon as I tell

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Speaker 9: you this, sore, you're listening.

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Speaker 11: I'm listening.

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Speaker 9: What this his nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 9: Your sister ain A got me to prank phone call you.

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Speaker 10: What Hello, I'm gonna.

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Speaker 7: Man.

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Speaker 13: I thought I was really conible.

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Speaker 9: You don't worry about school day? Oh man, I got

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Speaker 9: some ask What is the baddest and I mean the

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Speaker 13: The Steve Harvey Loaded Show.

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Speaker 10: Oh lord, all right, thank you nephew.

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Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is ask the clo or Chief

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Speaker 1: ask the CLO. Our chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey is

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Speaker 1: in the building. Quentin and Bakersfield says, I'm dating a

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Speaker 1: I'm becoming more attracted to her. Do I separate myself

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Speaker 2: Quentin?

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Speaker 4: Quentin, yes, Quentin, Yeah, I cannot tell you. Hot Dog

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Speaker 4: and deep the holiest about to step yo dump.

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Speaker 1: Now mama has going on.

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Speaker 2: I bet she do.

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Speaker 4: Now, sir, I don't know how far you and this

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Speaker 4: if y'all been cuddling. I don't know if y'all and

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Speaker 2: Where it goes. I understand what, Lord have mercy.

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Speaker 4: I updated in my life a best friend that had

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Speaker 2: So and the first day we had never done nothing.

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Speaker 4: The first day we went out, I drew the conclusion

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Speaker 2: I knew that right way, first first day, just on sight.

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Speaker 4: In my twenty some years, I came to the conclusion

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Speaker 2: Hope for would be in better hands with her.

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Speaker 1: Friend because, like the mom and this one, she had

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Speaker 2: Boy did she.

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Speaker 9: So.

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Speaker 2: I sat there and made the switch in my mind.

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Speaker 1: Okay, the problem I had.

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Speaker 2: Quentin, is the problem you gonna have.

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Speaker 4: You can make the switch in your mind, but how

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Speaker 1: Isn't this different? It's her mom. It's not just her

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Speaker 2: Surely I told you what would happen with just the

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Speaker 2: best friend.

446
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Speaker 1: Exactly.

447
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Speaker 2: I really don't know what to tell you about this

448
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:29,920
Speaker 2: girl's mom.

449
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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is something right now, This is really something

450
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Speaker 1: you gotta stop.

451
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Speaker 2: It ain't nothing, he could say, you know, there's nothing.

452
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 1: You're right all right. Moving on to JJ in Southfield,

453
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 1: JJ says, last night I heard rumbling in my backyard,

454
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 1: so I opened the curtains. My neighbor and a woman

455
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 1: were back there having sex. The next day he called

456
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Speaker 1: to thank me for not scaring the woman off, and

457
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Speaker 1: he said it won't happen again. His wife is my

458
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 1: wife's cousin. I know man code, but do I break

459
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Speaker 1: code if it involves family?

460
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:11,160
Speaker 4: No, you can't break man code. Family, your wife's cousin.

461
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 4: They ain't even close. Oh that ain't your brother, cuse

462
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:27,400
Speaker 4: you really don't even know them people. Man, Come on now,

463
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 4: my mama's sister's kids. What what y'all live out of

464
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:39,920
Speaker 4: state in Alledge. No, man, whatever, now, dog, you can't

465
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 4: break man code on that, okay. And he even he

466
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:46,360
Speaker 4: realized you saw him and thanked.

467
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Speaker 1: You and said, it won't happen again, not in your backyard.

468
00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:53,920
Speaker 2: That's what that's what he said.

469
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Speaker 7: What mean?

470
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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, no, no, no, no, that's what he said.

471
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Speaker 4: It won't happen again. You didn't hear on the his breath,

472
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:05,439
Speaker 4: it won't happen again, right, and that's what that mean?

473
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:06,920
Speaker 10: All right?

474
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 1: Harper and Talladega says, I'm thirty and I'm dating a

475
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:13,160
Speaker 1: black man that is a mama's boy. If the food

476
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:15,639
Speaker 1: doesn't taste like it's mama's food, then he won't eat it.

477
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:19,440
Speaker 1: He highly offended my pastor's wife last week by telling

478
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Speaker 1: her that she didn't cook her lime of beans long enough.

479
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:26,439
Speaker 1: We're about to get engaged, should I think twice before

480
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Speaker 1: marrying him?

481
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 4: Well, now I'm gonna be real, which it's hard to

482
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:34,119
Speaker 4: chew down on some tough line. I'm just gonna get

483
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 4: real with you, do.

484
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Speaker 9: You know what?

485
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:39,359
Speaker 4: Because they already starchy, you know, and that's like that,

486
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 4: that's like undercooked coin. You know, them starting foods. You

487
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 4: got to cook them through and through. I'd rather have

488
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Speaker 4: a soft lime of bean than a crunchy line of bean.

489
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 4: These ain't snap peas. Now, you got to know your grocery.

490
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:53,920
Speaker 4: And I love you know, And if you're gonna be

491
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 4: country and we're gonna get married, you can't be in

492
00:27:56,680 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 4: here undercooking these limee of bean. And the pastor wife better, Yeah,

493
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:03,720
Speaker 4: hell you and a Harry foe. You should have just

494
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 4: left them own and came to church, cut them on

495
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 4: low and leave them in there on simmer in the

496
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 4: crack five and then call home and tell somebody ain't

497
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Speaker 4: there is somebody that don't go to church go up

498
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Speaker 4: there and turn them beans off.

499
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Speaker 2: But you gotta say it like that. That's how they

500
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 2: always go in there and turn them beans off.

501
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 4: Somebo they run over, You know how they go because

502
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 4: somebody at that street, in their apartment across the street,

503
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,639
Speaker 4: got the kid your house because you made friends with them.

504
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 4: Y'all had your own little watch committee, and you know,

505
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 4: to send them over to the house cause they don't

506
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 4: never go to church and turn them beans off.

507
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Speaker 1: I got a question lady that wrote the letter, is

508
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: she white? Because she says some dating black man man see?

509
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 2: And now that I kind of thought that too.

510
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 4: I wouldn't gonna say that because I try to stay

511
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 4: out of hild when I came as. You don't give

512
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Speaker 4: it from here I go. You know, y'all always running

513
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 4: stuff under hot water. Anyway, You got the ball and

514
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:08,239
Speaker 4: blind of beans and your pastor's wife don't know how

515
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 4: to cook. And I don't blame it black for saying

516
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 4: nothing about it, because I'm not gonna be coming over

517
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 4: here these little white dinners, and y'all under cooking these

518
00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 4: vegetables and running these hot water across these green beans

519
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 4: and slicing up these almonds on them. I'm not coming

520
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 4: over here for this. And stop putting these marshmallows on

521
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 4: top of these jam Who talked y'all to do that?

522
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 4: And we like dressing and dressing and stovetop is two

523
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 4: different things, entirely coming to the White Church.

524
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 1: No more, thank you for yellow. You're listening Steve Harvey

525
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 1: Morning Show. Here's a question for us. Uh, listen to this.

526
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,760
Speaker 1: What has your boss done to help you live your dream?

527
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 2: What y'all don't talk about? Let me go and sit back.

528
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 8: Listen.

529
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 1: We're always helping our boss.

530
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 2: Take it away, crew, We're always helping our company. That

531
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:08,240
Speaker 2: ain't a question about, no you helping me? Question is

532
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 2: what is your boss done to help you live your dream?

533
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 1: Can get way? Can I set it up?

534
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 14: Please?

535
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 7: Yeah?

536
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 2: Oh, hear about all that old other self call we

537
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 2: do this and that. That ain't what the question is.

538
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know we got to set it up,

539
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:24,760
Speaker 1: all right. So you know we're always helping our bosses.

540
00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 1: We help our companies often we do extra work then

541
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 1: get left in the dust when our companies have bigger opportunities.

542
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 1: But some of us have great bosses. Okay, trying to

543
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 1: get to this part, Steve, some of us have great bosses. Uh,

544
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 1: time for us to share with Steve, our boss, what

545
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 1: he did for us to help us live our dream.

546
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:47,920
Speaker 1: Wants to go. I think Junior wants to what they

547
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:48,520
Speaker 1: got to live.

548
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:50,960
Speaker 15: Let me just say about my boss will live my dream.

549
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 15: First thing my boss did will give me jobs? Yeah,

550
00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 15: first of all, let's just look at the jobs, little

551
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 15: big shot. Yeah, Apollo, Steve TV and this hip morning Shoot.

552
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 15: Now what else do I have to thank him for? Yeah,

553
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 15: I'm pretty good. I'm pretty good.

554
00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 14: You're good.

555
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good, Junior. That's the come up, right, Yes? Yeah,

556
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 1: all right? The question is what is your boss done

557
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:24,160
Speaker 1: to help you live your dreams? Go ahead, Carla, are

558
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 1: you still writing your list down?

559
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 14: Uh?

560
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 4: Huh yeah?

561
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 9: Let me.

562
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 2: Tom He don't even know what.

563
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 1: No, Tommy's going last because.

564
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 2: He's your nephew.

565
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:42,600
Speaker 1: He's going take time I can talk for. No, he's

566
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:48,480
Speaker 1: gonna go last because you're his uncle. Sure is going Yeah, okay,

567
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 1: I'm going.

568
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:54,080
Speaker 12: So the first thing you've done is allow me to

569
00:31:54,320 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 12: continue being an executive manager in radio for over twenty something.

570
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 12: You think I am the only black African American woman

571
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 12: to be running a syndicated show in this country. Right,

572
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 12: that's thanks to you. Let's see what else. And you

573
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:21,480
Speaker 12: encourage me to launch my own lip glass, my own

574
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 12: lip glass line.

575
00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:23,560
Speaker 1: So thank you very much.

576
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 12: Entrepreneurial, ownership, cosmetic or guru, whatever you want to say.

577
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 1: So thank you, Steve. That's awesome. All right, here's the question.

578
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 1: What has your boss done to help you live your dreams?

579
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 2: All right? My turn?

580
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 1: All right? First of all, First of all, Steve has

581
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 1: made me laugh more than I've ever laughed in my

582
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 1: entire life, which is a great thing. I mean it

583
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 1: just yeah, we're trying to give you love here. You've

584
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 1: made me laugh, really laugh. Okay. Here's the other thing

585
00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 1: you've done for me. You've taught me because I didn't

586
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 1: know this before I met you. You taught me about

587
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 1: men and how men think and all of this kind

588
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 1: of thing. Okay, you taught me about that. I didn't

589
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 1: know that at first. I didn't have a dad. I

590
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 1: didn't really have you know, like a lot of male

591
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 1: role models in my life. So you became that for me.

592
00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 1: So you became like a father, brother uncle to me

593
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 1: as well, all right, and that yeah, you made me.

594
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 1: You allowed me to help you write on your most

595
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:32,160
Speaker 1: successful book, your first time out, you know, I mean

596
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 1: really you gave me credit for that, you paid me

597
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:36,920
Speaker 1: for that. That was awesome, and you keep me employed

598
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 1: every day. So thank you very much, sir. We are

599
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:43,840
Speaker 1: answering the question, what has your boss done to help

600
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 1: you live your dreams? Nephew, Tommy, you.

601
00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:59,840
Speaker 3: Uncle don't have to leave you.

602
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 1: Now.

603
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 14: He has motivated me, and it's just certain lines that

604
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 14: he has said to me directly that has just motivated

605
00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 14: me to follow my dread. Uh cussed me completely high.

606
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 14: That that motivates me. Told me I was a worldless

607
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 14: Yeah I was. Okay, that's so motivational. Uh, I would

608
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:32,400
Speaker 14: be told me I would be nothing without him. Motivate Honey,

609
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 14: just told me yesterday I was stupid and unintelligent.

610
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 2: He said, stop him when he lies, let him.

611
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:48,400
Speaker 1: Motivated me. Motivated me to follow my dream uh my

612
00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 1: raggedy career.

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00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 14: Yeah yeah, yeah, motivation Uh quit being a one job

614
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:04,160
Speaker 14: having sorry person. Yes, motivated me to follow my old

615
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 14: hug now and then he motivates me even more when

616
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 14: he describes how I look shout how ug lads man

617
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 14: right there, very strang It just motivates to.

618
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 2: Keep you ground.

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Speaker 1: Don't forget turtle Tommy.

620
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I left the turtle line. I looked like the

621
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 2: watch commercial.

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00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 14: But that motivated all of these motivational lines that I've

623
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 14: got you something to follow my dream?

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00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 1: What this is your response to the question, what is

625
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 1: your boss done to help you live your dreams? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

626
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 1: that's it right, there's a right I have been cussed

627
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:47,439
Speaker 1: into my dream. Let me see how you feel you feel?

628
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 2: See, you know some of the stuff I have forgotten.

629
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Speaker 4: I appreciate y'all remembering it, but you know, I do

630
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:58,480
Speaker 4: have a strange way of motivating that time. But I

631
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:01,839
Speaker 4: am in the uplift business. It just aggravates me when

632
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 4: the person I'm trying to uplift don't want to be

633
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 4: lifted up.

634
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:08,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, then I turn on them get lifted, you know.

635
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,720
Speaker 4: And but you all have turned out to be wonderful

636
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:15,799
Speaker 4: people and wasn't because of me. But if I could

637
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 4: have been any part of your success, I say, you're welcome,

638
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 4: But it wasn't cause of me.

639
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:26,280
Speaker 1: Fill be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Time Now, guys, but would you rather? Would you rather

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Speaker 1: be captured by pirates or cowboys? You know those Old

653
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:18,320
Speaker 1: West bad guys. Pirates are Old West bad guys.

654
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go with the Old West bad because I'm

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00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 2: out on that water.

656
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 4: I can't jump off now, so I'm forever your captive

657
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Speaker 4: because I cannot jump in.

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Speaker 1: I am the captain.

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Speaker 12: Now.

660
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:31,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna leaves, run behind a cactus or something.

661
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:35,880
Speaker 4: Got a shot, I'm gonna I'm gonna break out, running

662
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 4: to the hills something.

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Speaker 2: But you on that ship, your gots to sit there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, all right. Would you rather get cheated on

665
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Speaker 1: and know about it or not get cheated on and

666
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 1: just always be suspicious?

667
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:56,400
Speaker 2: I just take the suspicion. I don't give it that

668
00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 2: going to thee but knowing you cheated.

669
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:06,799
Speaker 1: And still be there. No, that's not gonna work.

670
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Speaker 3: Your third doctors appointment this week?

671
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Speaker 6: You know that?

672
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,799
Speaker 1: Analyze You can't go.

673
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:17,200
Speaker 2: To the grocery st to the doctor while you buy

674
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:21,280
Speaker 2: a damn ice street who else like that place?

675
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:25,960
Speaker 3: Just be suspicious on her?

676
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 4: Should it would be a little stuff? Oh oh, old

677
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:34,720
Speaker 4: black panty holes?

678
00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 1: What you ain't been wearing?

679
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:44,840
Speaker 2: Black panty holes? Okay?

680
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:45,319
Speaker 5: All right?

681
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 2: Hey, hey, what does your ba even fall? I'm just

682
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 2: taking a bath for what?

683
00:38:56,120 --> 00:39:01,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, i'd be suspicious? Yeah, all right, are you quite done?

684
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 9: Yeah?

685
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 3: All right?

686
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:12,400
Speaker 1: Would you rather have fortune or fame? That's easy? Fortune today,

687
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 1: let's ask the most famous person. That's easy.

688
00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:17,839
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something.

689
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:20,800
Speaker 4: If I could find a way to make this money

690
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 4: and nobody everybody leave me alone?

691
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:29,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, heartbeat, that's.

692
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:37,960
Speaker 1: Right, No, that's right, all right. Would you rather be

693
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 1: a clown in a rodeo who distracts the bull or

694
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 1: would you rather be the cowboy who rides the bull.

695
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:50,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm gonna be the clown and you bet not

696
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:54,719
Speaker 4: fall off of it when I'm out there ready to

697
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 4: get the roll and get your arena. Come on, dog,

698
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:03,719
Speaker 4: come out out hey, But I don't be nowhere near it.

699
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Speaker 1: Bull, do that shout again.

700
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Speaker 6: I like cowboy, just didn't this crazy?

701
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 1: Get out for him, Get out for him? All right,

702
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 1: we gotta go Yo.

703
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:20,680
Speaker 2: This is Jamie Foxx.

704
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:21,520
Speaker 3: This is Kim Whiley.

705
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 2: You already know what it is, Maag.

706
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 1: You're match go bean and you are now listening to

707
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Speaker 1: the Steve Horvey Morning Show. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

708
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:36,920
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, it's time to check your voicemail. If

709
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:39,399
Speaker 1: you want to leave Steve avoicemail, call him eight seven

710
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Speaker 1: seven twenty nine. Steve eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve,

711
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:45,360
Speaker 1: let's go to the first caller. Her name is Michelle.

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Speaker 1: She's from Greenville, Mississippi. Tay, Steve.

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Speaker 11: My name is Michelle. I'm from Greenville, Mississippi. I was

714
00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:55,280
Speaker 11: driving and listening to your closing remarks and it almost

715
00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:58,840
Speaker 11: brought me to tears. I had this exact same conversation

716
00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 11: you're closing remarks mentioned with my son yesterday and I

717
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:05,600
Speaker 11: googled him, and I hope it's somewhere online that he

718
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 11: can actually listen to let him know it's just not

719
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 11: me talking that it is true statements that are from

720
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Speaker 11: people you don't even know in person. But I thank

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Speaker 11: you for that, and I pray that my son listens

722
00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 11: to that message, because Steve, he is so lost. He's

723
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Speaker 11: only twenty two, and I believe I'm about to lose

724
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Speaker 11: my child.

725
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 2: But thank you so very muche.

726
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Speaker 9: Thank you.

727
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:28,399
Speaker 12: I believe you're talking about the one where Pastor Will

728
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:30,799
Speaker 12: the one that we played the phone call the other

729
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Speaker 12: day and you followed up with that talking about God,

730
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Speaker 12: and it was very moving what you were saying, So

731
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Speaker 12: I believe this is what Miss Michelle from Mississippi was

732
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Speaker 12: referring to.

733
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Speaker 4: Well, thanks, but keep praying for your son though he

734
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 4: ain't totally lost, don't ever give up on prayer.

735
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Speaker 2: Prayer change his thing, Prayer, change people too.

736
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Speaker 1: That's right, all right, Steve. As we move on, this

737
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:59,280
Speaker 1: caller needs some relationship advice about trusting a cheating husband.

738
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Speaker 9: Okay, Steeve, hope us for some information and advice from you.

739
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 12: I was a victim of infidelity.

740
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Speaker 10: I'm not going to say a victim.

741
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 9: I'm going to say my husband he did on me.

742
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:13,560
Speaker 1: I'll just say that.

743
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 11: And it's been several years.

744
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:19,960
Speaker 1: And I decided to stay and we're working it out,

745
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:22,400
Speaker 1: but I just don't trust them. Can you give me

746
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:26,799
Speaker 1: some advice on how I can start trusting my husband again.

747
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:29,400
Speaker 1: I really love them, I want us to stay together,

748
00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 1: but I just I just don't trust them, and I

749
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,239
Speaker 1: really want to thank you.

750
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 2: Well.

751
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Speaker 4: I don't know the exact answer to that, to be

752
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:42,360
Speaker 4: honest with you, because there's so many particulars when you

753
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:47,440
Speaker 4: get into things like this. But one thing is if

754
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 4: your husband's behavior has changed, then it could mean as

755
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:55,439
Speaker 4: it's been a change in him. Now, if you're going

756
00:42:55,560 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 4: to hang on to these feelings that you have nothing

757
00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 4: I or anybody else can do, because if you're gonna

758
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:07,719
Speaker 4: stay in that feeling for whatever the reason, now, you

759
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:12,000
Speaker 4: may be very legitimizing that feeling now because that maybe

760
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:16,640
Speaker 4: you're seeing a reoccurring pattern which causing you not to

761
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:20,800
Speaker 4: fully trust again, or maybe your intuition is telling you

762
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:24,760
Speaker 4: something is still happening even though you see a little

763
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:25,480
Speaker 4: bit of change.

764
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Speaker 2: See, I don't know what that is, so I really

765
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:30,759
Speaker 2: can't advise you on this.

766
00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 4: But you cannot live your life in an untrusting atmosphere.

767
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:38,480
Speaker 2: You just can't.

768
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 4: That's hard to do for anybody, to keep walking in

769
00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:47,320
Speaker 4: a door into a home.

770
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Speaker 2: That's not a peaceful existence for you.

771
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:54,520
Speaker 4: And I got you wanted to work, But you got

772
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:56,520
Speaker 4: to ask yourself a couple of questions.

773
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Speaker 2: Is this my soul mate?

774
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:02,800
Speaker 4: It's because you gotta ask yourself that am I staying

775
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:05,360
Speaker 4: in this simply because I've been in it? Because a

776
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,920
Speaker 4: lot of people don't want to leave a relationship because

777
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 4: the time they have invested.

778
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Speaker 2: In it, right, And then always ask people the same.

779
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Speaker 4: Questions, Well, I've been with him eight years and if

780
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:19,040
Speaker 4: I just leave, it'll all be for nothing. Well, let

781
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Speaker 4: men ask you this question. Do you want eight more

782
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 4: years of the previous eight years? You got to ask

783
00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 4: that question too, Yes, women, I can't yeah that time? Yeah, yeah,

784
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 4: you hang on to that time instead of hanging on

785
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 4: to what you want or what you deserve.

786
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Speaker 1: But on the other side of that, Steve, with just

787
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:43,320
Speaker 1: a few seconds left, if he has cheated, can he

788
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 1: change his ways? Absolutely? Women?

789
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Speaker 4: Have you all up spreading bad information? Once a cheata,

790
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 4: always a cheata. That's not true. People change and get

791
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 4: it right all the time. Once a thief don't make

792
00:44:57,560 --> 00:44:58,760
Speaker 4: you always a thief.

793
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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I just wanted you to point that out.

794
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 2: A hold on real quick, like that dude on TikTok's head.

795
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:12,239
Speaker 4: Just because I cheated one time, I'm a cheater if

796
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:15,560
Speaker 4: I cut your hat one time in my ball Yeah.

797
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 2: All right, now, all right, okay, all right?

798
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Speaker 1: Coming up next our prank phone call for today. Right

799
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Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, coming up at about four minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 1: it's my strawberry letter for today, and the subject is

802
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Speaker 1: get this my brother's ex wife on the car. We

803
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Speaker 1: don't know what that means on the car, but we're

804
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 1: gonna find out.

805
00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:51,359
Speaker 11: On the car.

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Speaker 1: The car. I've been in the car, but not on

807
00:45:56,880 --> 00:46:03,640
Speaker 1: the car I've been on. But that's so uncomfortable, really,

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Speaker 1: it is.

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Speaker 8: Clear.

810
00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:18,239
Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into that in just a bit.

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Speaker 1: Right now, it is time for the nephew and the

812
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: prank phone call. What you got for his neph What

813
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 1: you got that? Right here is I left my ring.

814
00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 1: I left my ring.

815
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Speaker 2: I left.

816
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Speaker 1: All right, let's go get dog. I left my wreck.

817
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 9: Hello, I'm trying to reach a mister, mister and missus

818
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Speaker 9: please all right, my name is doctor. I'm actually trying

819
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:49,799
Speaker 9: to reach your husband, Clarence. Is he Is he available?

820
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:53,360
Speaker 10: Is that reason you'll collin?

821
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Speaker 9: Well, I'm actually the surgeon that actually did the procedure

822
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Speaker 9: on removing his gallstones. I was doing as any complications as.

823
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:03,239
Speaker 10: Far more complication.

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Speaker 9: Okay, well listen, there's a couple little bit of things

825
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 9: I want to discuss with you guys and see if

826
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Speaker 9: we can maybe get em rectified. Is he around? Oh?

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Speaker 13: What is this in racks?

828
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Speaker 9: To actually actually, when we actually did the procedure on

829
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Speaker 9: your on your husband and removing the gallstones, I will

830
00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:28,880
Speaker 9: say that there's a bit of a mistake made and

831
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Speaker 9: I'm hoping that he can come back in so we

832
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:33,200
Speaker 9: can kind of get it rectified. You know, it'll be

833
00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:35,600
Speaker 9: actually thirty minutes and he'll be in and out. But actually,

834
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 9: when I removed the gallstones, and I'm very embarrassed to

835
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:44,160
Speaker 9: say this, I actually left my wedding ring inside your husbins.

836
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:49,880
Speaker 9: And I understand man, I say I actually left my

837
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:54,239
Speaker 9: wedding ring inside your husband when I actually removed the gallstones.

838
00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:56,759
Speaker 9: And I'm hoping that he'll come back in so I

839
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Speaker 9: can actually take it out and and he'll be on

840
00:47:58,960 --> 00:47:59,279
Speaker 9: his way.

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00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:00,920
Speaker 10: He's my boy.

842
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 1: The Last Book.

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Speaker 9: Hello, Hello, Hello, mister. Yeah, how you doing this is doctor?

844
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Speaker 9: I actually did the surgery on you when you were

845
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 9: came in and got your golfstones removed. I remember you that.

846
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:30,080
Speaker 9: I will say this, missus Clarence. I actually made a

847
00:48:30,120 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 9: bit of a mistake when you were here, and and

848
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:34,600
Speaker 9: my apology. If I can actually get you to come

849
00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 9: back here, man, I can get you taken care of.

850
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 9: But and then this is just a big mistake on

851
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 9: my part. But when you guys came in and I

852
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:45,080
Speaker 9: removed your stones, I actually left my wedding ring inside

853
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:49,399
Speaker 9: inside of me. Yeah, yes, sir, your wedding ring. Sir.

854
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 9: I know this is crazy, but yes, I have truly

855
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:54,680
Speaker 9: made a mistake and wanted to see if I can

856
00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 9: get this thing rectified and get this thing taken out.

857
00:48:57,640 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 9: And I tell you, man, I've I've been without my

858
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 9: ring and my wife is raising holy hell about it. Yeah,

859
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:05,680
Speaker 9: but you know something about it. We got a problem

860
00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:07,960
Speaker 9: with what do you mean? I mean, I'm about to

861
00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 9: go back to work. I really can't be going back

862
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:13,560
Speaker 9: into the operating room for somebody to take a ring

863
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:16,400
Speaker 9: out of me that they left by mistake.

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Speaker 10: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 9: Okay, I mean you know, I realized your wife.

866
00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 10: Might be upsetting. You need your ring.

867
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Speaker 9: But at this point that ring's gonna have to stay

868
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Speaker 9: where it is for a while. So I can't ironically

869
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 9: can't allow what that ring to stay there another two

870
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Speaker 9: or three days. I don't think you understand exactly what

871
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:36,399
Speaker 9: I'm going through. There's no way I can allow that. Yeah,

872
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:38,080
Speaker 9: I got to go back to work. But you know something,

873
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:39,879
Speaker 9: I mean, you know, I mean, you know we're talking

874
00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:42,839
Speaker 9: about a bad, bad, serious problem. You know, we're talking

875
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 9: about malpractice. I mean, you know we're talking about me

876
00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:47,160
Speaker 9: taking out more time from work when I'm ready.

877
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Speaker 10: To go back.

878
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 9: I mean, you know we're talking law suit, all kinds

879
00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:51,880
Speaker 9: of stuff here. We need to get together. Can you

880
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:58,880
Speaker 9: hear me that? No? Oh, okay, my wife's a upset

881
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:02,560
Speaker 9: to a I mean, you know I can't get back

882
00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:05,120
Speaker 9: on an operating team. Cirt. This won't take the seconds

883
00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:06,880
Speaker 9: it's actually for me to snip that thing and get

884
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 9: that ring out of there. It won't take but a minute.

885
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:10,960
Speaker 9: I mean, you still have the same incisions there. I

886
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 9: can go right back into where the same scar was

887
00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:14,799
Speaker 9: and take that out and keep.

888
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:15,200
Speaker 1: It moving on.

889
00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:17,879
Speaker 9: Go back into the same if you're going to operate again,

890
00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 9: if you cut me, oh sir, I promise you that

891
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 9: you won't even know I was there. I'll go in

892
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:23,800
Speaker 9: there and take that ring out just that quickly.

893
00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:24,440
Speaker 2: Okay, But.

894
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:27,719
Speaker 9: Let me ask you this, ye my wife, My wife

895
00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:30,200
Speaker 9: is about to go crazy. I'm pretty I'm a pretty

896
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:32,279
Speaker 9: good guy here, but I mean, you know you got

897
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:34,239
Speaker 9: lefpar ring in me. I mean, you know, do you

898
00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:36,920
Speaker 9: all have mal practice in shirtance? And we have plenty

899
00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:40,080
Speaker 9: of insurance. You know, It's really more about what I'm

900
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:42,600
Speaker 9: going through at home. So I'm doing this, but young, yeah,

901
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:44,640
Speaker 9: pretty much here at this point, I mean, no one

902
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:48,960
Speaker 9: actually from the hospital actually knows what I'm actually calling you. Wow, right,

903
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:51,800
Speaker 9: you know. I mean that's a big, big problem. You

904
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:54,759
Speaker 9: said something about malpractic now, I didn't say anything about

905
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:57,720
Speaker 9: mail practice. You guys actually said that. I didn't say anything. Okay,

906
00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:02,719
Speaker 9: now let me okay, hold on now, darsh hold on.

907
00:51:03,239 --> 00:51:05,399
Speaker 9: Uh well, now, let me ask you. This's here. Every

908
00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:08,240
Speaker 9: time I've heard of somebody leaving something inside of somebody.

909
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:10,839
Speaker 9: You know, it usually end up being a situation where

910
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:14,680
Speaker 9: it sets up infections or stuff. Well, that's eighteen carre go.

911
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:17,480
Speaker 9: That's not gonna infect you at all. Yeah, I understand

912
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:20,560
Speaker 9: what you're saying, but good grief. I mean, I just

913
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:22,560
Speaker 9: I mean, I didn't even want to do the first surgery,

914
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:24,399
Speaker 9: but I didn't have any choice. You know what, miss,

915
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:27,320
Speaker 9: I'll be honest with you. I've tried to talk to

916
00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:29,440
Speaker 9: you and be patient with you. If I got to

917
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:32,040
Speaker 9: come over and put some cold form up against your

918
00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:34,360
Speaker 9: nose and knock you out in order to perform this

919
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:37,400
Speaker 9: procedure to get my ring, then that's what I gotta do.

920
00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:40,520
Speaker 10: Oh ho, hold on that. That what I'm supposed to

921
00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 10: be doing while you're doing that.

922
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 9: You hear that what he said?

923
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:46,360
Speaker 7: Woa, come along, Come on.

924
00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:48,840
Speaker 10: You know I'm not gonna stand for these threats.

925
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 8: Died.

926
00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:51,000
Speaker 10: You know that's your problem with your ring.

927
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:51,319
Speaker 12: Now.

928
00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:54,759
Speaker 9: You know, up until now everything was cool. Now you

929
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:57,120
Speaker 9: got a big problem. I tell you it's here.

930
00:51:57,680 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 10: I'm at home right now.

931
00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:00,480
Speaker 9: You're at home with my ring.

932
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:02,920
Speaker 10: You got my ring? You can come getting right now?

933
00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:06,800
Speaker 9: Right? No, okay, now, I don't I don't have a

934
00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:09,480
Speaker 9: problem coming right over there to get my ring because

935
00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 9: I want I need my ring back.

936
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:15,879
Speaker 10: Let's do it. Come on over wan, we got something

937
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:17,680
Speaker 10: for you down Hey, listen, I don't care what the

938
00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:18,560
Speaker 10: both of you are doing.

939
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:21,279
Speaker 9: The bottom behind INSI that you have my ring. I

940
00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 9: got your ring.

941
00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:23,279
Speaker 7: You just told me I had it.

942
00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:25,960
Speaker 10: It's inside of it. Well that's gonna stay, sir.

943
00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 9: I'm not gonna continue to go back and forth with you.

944
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:30,759
Speaker 10: You're not gonna continue to do anything because you come

945
00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:33,080
Speaker 10: over Here'm gonna take you out. You already threatened to

946
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 10: come over here and.

947
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 9: Put plural from him and know knocking me out to

948
00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:38,279
Speaker 9: go in the side of my body to come over here.

949
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:39,160
Speaker 10: Doc, you got pwer.

950
00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:41,319
Speaker 9: I'll tell you what. I don't want any problems out

951
00:52:41,320 --> 00:52:44,560
Speaker 9: of your wife or out of you who's waking us.

952
00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:47,120
Speaker 9: Only gonna take thirty minutes and everybody'll be happy after that.

953
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:48,319
Speaker 10: You won't make it back.

954
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:49,799
Speaker 13: Got cram down.

955
00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:52,200
Speaker 9: I understand everything you say. I got one more thing

956
00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:53,560
Speaker 9: I need to say to the both of you all.

957
00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:56,880
Speaker 9: Are you listen to me? I'm listening. It's Doris listening. No,

958
00:52:57,160 --> 00:53:00,320
Speaker 9: not really, cause I'm already tune you out. Here's the

959
00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:02,400
Speaker 9: last thing I need to say to you. This is

960
00:53:02,520 --> 00:53:05,719
Speaker 9: nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Y'all just

961
00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:08,640
Speaker 9: got pranked by y'all niece Peaches.

962
00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:17,120
Speaker 10: What you would have all be? Nephew, Timmy, nephew, tell

963
00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:22,400
Speaker 10: me that you This is me. Man up next, you

964
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:26,120
Speaker 10: tell me, nephew, Yeah, I got your land.

965
00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:29,879
Speaker 9: You at my home. Man, you're messing with my heart

966
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:31,760
Speaker 9: top that might have run back inside of my body.

967
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 9: All right, let me let me let me speak to

968
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:37,239
Speaker 9: miss Darry. Whoa miss does you?

969
00:53:37,280 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 10: All right?

970
00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:43,759
Speaker 9: Hey, miss dar? I got one more thing. Now. What

971
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:49,839
Speaker 9: is the baddest radio show in the land? Man show?

972
00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:52,320
Speaker 10: Well, lucky.

973
00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:00,239
Speaker 12: Dar?

974
00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:09,920
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you too much. We just want to

975
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 1: get Marie back. They was tag team and you tell me,

976
00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:17,680
Speaker 1: come on over here. I got something for you.

977
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:18,960
Speaker 16: I got something for you.

978
00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:20,200
Speaker 1: He got to go to work.

979
00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:21,120
Speaker 3: I got to go to work.

980
00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:25,239
Speaker 1: But then he said, hold on the doors, hold on

981
00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:30,600
Speaker 1: my wife. My wife not hearing this man, she's not's

982
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 1: not going along? All right, too far? Bishop, thank you

983
00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:40,239
Speaker 1: now if it works for me. Coming up next, it

984
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:43,439
Speaker 1: is the Strawberry letter. The subject is my brother's ex

985
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:46,640
Speaker 1: wife on the car. We'll get into it right after

986
00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:48,520
Speaker 1: this I don't give a five.

987
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:55,880
Speaker 15: If you're a homeowner, you know it took years of saving, planning,

988
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:57,399
Speaker 15: and hard work to get in the door.

989
00:54:57,600 --> 00:55:00,680
Speaker 3: Didn't make that house a home now, but effort has.

990
00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:04,200
Speaker 15: Built something hugely valuable, equity. It's the portion of your

991
00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:06,239
Speaker 15: home you truly own that can be tapped to fund

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998
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:31,600
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now

999
00:55:31,719 --> 00:55:35,279
Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice, sound, relationships,

1000
00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:39,560
Speaker 1: on works, sex, parenting, or more, please please submit your

1001
00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:42,560
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter to STEVEARVEYFM dot com. All you have to

1002
00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:45,439
Speaker 1: do is click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading

1003
00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:48,759
Speaker 1: your letter hop hop live on the air, just like

1004
00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:51,239
Speaker 1: we're gonna read this one right here, right now. You

1005
00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:54,880
Speaker 1: never know, this one could be yours. Okay never No,

1006
00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:56,480
Speaker 1: buckle up and hold on tight. We got it.

1007
00:55:56,560 --> 00:55:57,000
Speaker 2: Point you here.

1008
00:55:57,080 --> 00:56:00,120
Speaker 1: It is Strawberry Letter thank you for you subjects. My

1009
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:04,520
Speaker 1: brother's ex wife on the car got it all right,

1010
00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been separated for three months and

1011
00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:11,239
Speaker 1: I'm getting divorced. My husband and I had a very

1012
00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:15,480
Speaker 1: happy marriage until three months ago. He was a family man,

1013
00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:18,680
Speaker 1: and he's allowed two of my younger siblings to live

1014
00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:21,839
Speaker 1: with us in the past. My youngest brother is twenty eight,

1015
00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 1: and he rushed into marriage after he got a woman pregnant.

1016
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:28,160
Speaker 1: It was obvious that his wife was not the marrying type.

1017
00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:31,520
Speaker 1: She's twenty five and all she does is smoke weed

1018
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:35,040
Speaker 1: and drink. One night, she went home drunk and tried

1019
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:37,279
Speaker 1: to fight my brother, so he put her out and

1020
00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:41,560
Speaker 1: divorced her a few months later. She resurfaced three months

1021
00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:44,000
Speaker 1: ago asking if she could stay with my husband and

1022
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:46,560
Speaker 1: I while she looked for a job close to the

1023
00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:50,880
Speaker 1: baby's daycare. We agreed to one week. This girl ate

1024
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:53,840
Speaker 1: our food and used my car and never said thank you.

1025
00:56:54,360 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 1: My husband claimed he didn't like her attitude, so he

1026
00:56:57,280 --> 00:57:00,880
Speaker 1: avoided her. That's a lie. Just five days after she

1027
00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:04,279
Speaker 1: got to our house, she ruined my life. She was

1028
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:07,399
Speaker 1: out smoking wheed on the patio and my husband was gone.

1029
00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:11,960
Speaker 1: Around nine pm, I heard noises coming from the carport,

1030
00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:14,280
Speaker 1: so I went to see if it was my husband.

1031
00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:19,400
Speaker 1: It was him and my brother's wife, who had her

1032
00:57:19,640 --> 00:57:23,280
Speaker 1: bent over his car, and when they heard me, they

1033
00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:26,960
Speaker 1: started pulling up their pants. I told them both to leave.

1034
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:30,720
Speaker 1: I was so shocked. I was so shocked that she

1035
00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:33,400
Speaker 1: would do that to me. My husband moved out and

1036
00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:36,880
Speaker 1: served me with divorce papers. Recently, he said it is

1037
00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:39,000
Speaker 1: all his fault and he could never look me in

1038
00:57:39,120 --> 00:57:42,600
Speaker 1: the eyes after what he did. Now, my only problem

1039
00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:45,560
Speaker 1: is that my brother wants his family back together and

1040
00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:49,680
Speaker 1: he wants to remarry his ex wife. How can he

1041
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:53,000
Speaker 1: want her back. I've lost my husband, and if my

1042
00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:57,160
Speaker 1: brother remarries this woman, I won't ever speak to him again.

1043
00:57:57,520 --> 00:57:59,840
Speaker 1: Would I be wrong to cut my little brother off?

1044
00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:02,640
Speaker 1: You know what I got to tell you. You have

1045
00:58:02,760 --> 00:58:06,360
Speaker 1: every right to handle this situation however you see fit.

1046
00:58:06,920 --> 00:58:10,840
Speaker 1: I clearly understand why you're angry. I understand why you

1047
00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:14,680
Speaker 1: feel betrayed by your brother, by his ex wife, by

1048
00:58:14,800 --> 00:58:18,400
Speaker 1: all of this situation, but him getting ready to remarry

1049
00:58:18,480 --> 00:58:22,240
Speaker 1: this weed smoking trifle and Heffert who broke up your marriage. Wow,

1050
00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:24,720
Speaker 1: that's a lot. That's a lot. So handle it however

1051
00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:27,080
Speaker 1: you need to handle it. I mean, you're thinking, how

1052
00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:27,440
Speaker 1: could he.

1053
00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:28,040
Speaker 2: Do this to you?

1054
00:58:28,240 --> 00:58:28,640
Speaker 9: I get it.

1055
00:58:29,000 --> 00:58:31,360
Speaker 1: Either he's still in love with her or has forgiven

1056
00:58:31,440 --> 00:58:34,200
Speaker 1: her for having sex with his brother in law, your husband,

1057
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:36,840
Speaker 1: which I don't know how he could, or he's just

1058
00:58:36,920 --> 00:58:40,040
Speaker 1: whipped and just stupid. I mean, I don't know, but

1059
00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 1: some of the blame for all this has to go

1060
00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:44,560
Speaker 1: to you and your husband for letting her come back.

1061
00:58:44,680 --> 00:58:47,000
Speaker 1: You knew what kind of person she was. Letting her

1062
00:58:47,040 --> 00:58:49,640
Speaker 1: come back to live with you is crazy because you

1063
00:58:49,880 --> 00:58:53,200
Speaker 1: just knew how she caused the breakup of her own marriage.

1064
00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:56,320
Speaker 1: Then you double back and invite the devil in your

1065
00:58:56,440 --> 00:59:00,720
Speaker 1: house again after your brother divorced her. Why would you

1066
00:59:00,880 --> 00:59:03,560
Speaker 1: do that? Her coming back to live with you should

1067
00:59:03,560 --> 00:59:06,840
Speaker 1: have never happened at that point. I'm sure your brother

1068
00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:09,520
Speaker 1: felt some kind of way about you think about it,

1069
00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:12,200
Speaker 1: but I don't know what the damage is done now.

1070
00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:14,520
Speaker 1: So there's enough hurt and pain to go around for

1071
00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:18,240
Speaker 1: everyone in this entire family. So no, I definitely get

1072
00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:20,360
Speaker 1: it if you're mad at your little brother for taking

1073
00:59:20,400 --> 00:59:22,560
Speaker 1: her back, but at some point you're gonna have to

1074
00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:26,800
Speaker 1: forgive him so you can move on. That's his life.

1075
00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:27,120
Speaker 9: You know.

1076
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:29,960
Speaker 1: Your husband, on the other hand, cannot look you in

1077
00:59:30,040 --> 00:59:32,600
Speaker 1: the eye because he knows what he did to cause

1078
00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:35,400
Speaker 1: all of this. I'm glad that nowhere in this letter

1079
00:59:35,520 --> 00:59:38,920
Speaker 1: did you say you were taking him back because what

1080
00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:40,320
Speaker 1: he did was just foul.

1081
00:59:40,840 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 4: Steve, I see what's happening in the letter. My brother's

1082
00:59:47,760 --> 00:59:52,160
Speaker 4: ex wife on the car hit The problem. The real

1083
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:57,440
Speaker 4: problem in all of this is your husband. This is

1084
00:59:57,520 --> 01:00:00,360
Speaker 4: your real problem. You ain't married to your brother. You

1085
01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:05,280
Speaker 4: didn't marry his skank ex wife. You're married to your husband.

1086
01:00:06,680 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 4: On the person that owes you their loyalty in this letter,

1087
01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:14,760
Speaker 4: that owes you and promised it to you was your husband.

1088
01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:18,200
Speaker 4: It ain't enough in this letter about your husband. You

1089
01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:20,960
Speaker 4: keep talking about bringing up this girl and man and

1090
01:00:21,160 --> 01:00:24,000
Speaker 4: how could she do this to me and your brother?

1091
01:00:24,080 --> 01:00:27,080
Speaker 2: And if he should I cut him off, if he remarried?

1092
01:00:27,240 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 9: What?

1093
01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:31,760
Speaker 4: What you need to get your priorities lined up here?

1094
01:00:32,120 --> 01:00:36,280
Speaker 4: Your real problem is your husband. He the only one

1095
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:44,280
Speaker 4: took a vow to you, Your brother, stupid, the girl trash.

1096
01:00:45,760 --> 01:00:48,720
Speaker 4: What you expect from stupidity? And what do you expect

1097
01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:53,040
Speaker 4: from trash? Stupid people are going to do stupid things.

1098
01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:59,120
Speaker 4: Trash type. People are gonna do trash thing. The only

1099
01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:03,240
Speaker 4: decent and see your husband got in him is he? No,

1100
01:01:03,480 --> 01:01:06,480
Speaker 4: he can't look you in that because of what he did.

1101
01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:07,640
Speaker 7: He know that.

1102
01:01:09,920 --> 01:01:11,560
Speaker 4: All right, let me try to walk you through the

1103
01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:15,360
Speaker 4: hignas right here. It's really nothing to do. I'm separated

1104
01:01:15,440 --> 01:01:18,840
Speaker 4: for three months. I'm getting divorced. Your husband and I

1105
01:01:18,960 --> 01:01:21,120
Speaker 4: we had a very happy marriage to three months ago.

1106
01:01:21,760 --> 01:01:23,920
Speaker 4: He was a family member. He allowed two of my

1107
01:01:24,040 --> 01:01:26,360
Speaker 4: younger siblings to live with us in the past, my

1108
01:01:26,520 --> 01:01:28,680
Speaker 4: youngest brother twenty eight. He rushed into Marria, got a

1109
01:01:28,720 --> 01:01:30,920
Speaker 4: woman pregnant. Obvious wife wasn't to marry and type. She

1110
01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:33,200
Speaker 4: twenty five. All she do is smoke wheat and drink.

1111
01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:35,440
Speaker 4: One night she went home drunk and tried to fight

1112
01:01:35,560 --> 01:01:37,360
Speaker 4: my brothers. So he put out and divorced her a

1113
01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:41,000
Speaker 4: few months later. Now he is a part where Shirley.

1114
01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:45,520
Speaker 4: I understand. She resurfered three months ago asking if she

1115
01:01:45,560 --> 01:01:47,720
Speaker 4: could stay with my husband, and I watched she looked

1116
01:01:47,720 --> 01:01:49,720
Speaker 4: for a job close to the baby's daycare.

1117
01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:50,440
Speaker 2: We agreed.

1118
01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:54,360
Speaker 4: The one week I understood that that's okay. That wasn't

1119
01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 4: inviting the devil back in. That was just your husband

1120
01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:01,600
Speaker 4: has proven he's a family man. But Gee's really really

1121
01:02:01,680 --> 01:02:07,440
Speaker 4: a family man. Ah See, the problem is your hub.

1122
01:02:08,040 --> 01:02:11,120
Speaker 1: All that thought, Steve. Okay, we'll be back with part

1123
01:02:11,200 --> 01:02:13,680
Speaker 1: two of your response, coming up at twenty three minutes

1124
01:02:13,720 --> 01:02:17,600
Speaker 1: after today's Strawberry letter subject my brother's ex wife.

1125
01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 8: On the car.

1126
01:02:18,960 --> 01:02:22,120
Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening

1127
01:02:22,840 --> 01:02:24,280
Speaker 1: Steve Hardy Morning Show.

1128
01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:32,160
Speaker 4: Get into the Hyundai Getaway Sales event and get away

1129
01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:35,160
Speaker 4: with the deal so right, it almost feels wrong.

1130
01:02:35,360 --> 01:02:35,800
Speaker 2: Right now.

1131
01:02:35,960 --> 01:02:39,520
Speaker 4: Get huge savings on our popular models, including our venture

1132
01:02:39,600 --> 01:02:43,680
Speaker 4: ready SUV's like the Hondai Santa Fe, or go all

1133
01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:48,000
Speaker 4: electric with America's most awarded EV lineup like the Ionic

1134
01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:50,040
Speaker 4: five or Ionic six.

1135
01:02:50,280 --> 01:02:52,640
Speaker 14: Get down to your local Hondai dealer and get away

1136
01:02:52,680 --> 01:02:55,560
Speaker 14: with a great deal only during the Hondai Getaway Sale event.

1137
01:02:55,720 --> 01:02:58,120
Speaker 14: Visit Hyundai USA dot com for details.

1138
01:02:59,000 --> 01:03:01,680
Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter,

1139
01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:04,720
Speaker 1: the subject to my brother's ex wife on the car.

1140
01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:10,600
Speaker 4: Listen to me this whole thing, lady, this letter, about

1141
01:03:10,760 --> 01:03:14,360
Speaker 4: this woman, about your brother, whether you should accept your

1142
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:18,280
Speaker 4: brother back, How could she do this to me? All

1143
01:03:18,440 --> 01:03:21,920
Speaker 4: of this your focus should be purely on your hooks. Now,

1144
01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:25,160
Speaker 4: some ramifications and some fallout behind it. But your husband

1145
01:03:25,240 --> 01:03:27,880
Speaker 4: bought all this. See you said in your letter you

1146
01:03:27,960 --> 01:03:30,280
Speaker 4: and your husband had a really happy marriage. He was

1147
01:03:30,320 --> 01:03:33,120
Speaker 4: a family man. He allowed two of my younger siblings

1148
01:03:33,200 --> 01:03:35,919
Speaker 4: to live with us. My youngest brother, twenty eight, rushed

1149
01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:38,640
Speaker 4: into married. He got a girl pregnant. Obviously, she wasn't

1150
01:03:38,640 --> 01:03:41,080
Speaker 4: a man type. She twenty five. All she do is

1151
01:03:41,120 --> 01:03:44,080
Speaker 4: smoke weed and drink. One night she went home drunk

1152
01:03:44,120 --> 01:03:46,000
Speaker 4: and tried to fight my brother, so he put out

1153
01:03:46,040 --> 01:03:50,960
Speaker 4: and divorced her a few months later. You're not divorcing

1154
01:03:51,160 --> 01:03:54,000
Speaker 4: a woman because she came home drunk and tried to

1155
01:03:54,040 --> 01:03:54,400
Speaker 4: fight you.

1156
01:03:55,720 --> 01:04:01,440
Speaker 2: It's way more to this today, way way more to

1157
01:04:01,560 --> 01:04:03,160
Speaker 2: this than that, yo.

1158
01:04:03,280 --> 01:04:07,439
Speaker 4: But see, your brother stupid, So he ain't smart enough

1159
01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:10,040
Speaker 4: to divorce you just because you came home drunk and

1160
01:04:10,120 --> 01:04:11,040
Speaker 4: wanted to fight him.

1161
01:04:11,800 --> 01:04:13,720
Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no no no no no.

1162
01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:18,480
Speaker 4: Something happened while she was out that caused the fight

1163
01:04:19,600 --> 01:04:23,040
Speaker 4: that made him put out, that made him want to divorce.

1164
01:04:23,360 --> 01:04:23,640
Speaker 2: All right.

1165
01:04:24,280 --> 01:04:26,880
Speaker 4: She resurfaced three months ago, ask him she could stay

1166
01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:29,520
Speaker 4: with my husband and while I was living and with

1167
01:04:29,680 --> 01:04:32,120
Speaker 4: our while while she looked poor job close to the

1168
01:04:32,200 --> 01:04:35,200
Speaker 4: baby's takers. We agreed to one week. That's being nicer.

1169
01:04:35,320 --> 01:04:35,520
Speaker 2: Father.

1170
01:04:35,600 --> 01:04:38,760
Speaker 4: You just said that your husband is a family man,

1171
01:04:39,400 --> 01:04:41,880
Speaker 4: and he allowed two of your longer, younger siblings live

1172
01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:42,240
Speaker 4: with y'all.

1173
01:04:42,280 --> 01:04:46,800
Speaker 2: You said that this girl ate our food, used my card,

1174
01:04:46,960 --> 01:04:47,880
Speaker 2: never said thank you.

1175
01:04:49,040 --> 01:04:51,320
Speaker 4: You just said she smoked weed and drink all day.

1176
01:04:53,040 --> 01:04:57,240
Speaker 4: She ain't got time to say thank you. It's hard

1177
01:04:57,280 --> 01:04:58,959
Speaker 4: to say thank you. Why are you smoking weed?

1178
01:05:01,080 --> 01:05:04,480
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, hell, you can't remember her manners and stuff

1179
01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 2: over you.

1180
01:05:06,680 --> 01:05:09,240
Speaker 4: My husband claimed he didn't like her attitude, so he

1181
01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:10,040
Speaker 4: avoided her.

1182
01:05:11,080 --> 01:05:11,720
Speaker 1: That's a lie.

1183
01:05:12,240 --> 01:05:15,080
Speaker 2: Five days after she got to our house, she ruined

1184
01:05:15,160 --> 01:05:16,200
Speaker 2: my life. Oh dish.

1185
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:18,960
Speaker 4: She was out smoking weed on the patio or my

1186
01:05:19,080 --> 01:05:22,360
Speaker 4: husband was gone. Around nine pm, I heard noises from

1187
01:05:22,440 --> 01:05:24,240
Speaker 4: the car port, so I went to see if it

1188
01:05:24,440 --> 01:05:27,480
Speaker 4: was my husband, and it was and my brother's wife.

1189
01:05:27,920 --> 01:05:30,200
Speaker 4: He had her bent over his car, and when they

1190
01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:31,680
Speaker 4: heard me, they started pulling up.

1191
01:05:31,760 --> 01:05:35,160
Speaker 2: They pass. I told them both to leave. That's a

1192
01:05:35,480 --> 01:05:37,760
Speaker 2: lot of stuff missing in this letter right here.

1193
01:05:38,240 --> 01:05:45,280
Speaker 4: Oh lord, oh lord, girl, See anyway, let's just leave

1194
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:47,760
Speaker 4: that alone. I was so shocked that she would do

1195
01:05:47,920 --> 01:05:50,760
Speaker 4: that to me. You were so shocked that she would

1196
01:05:50,800 --> 01:05:53,440
Speaker 4: do that to you, But do that to you? You

1197
01:05:53,640 --> 01:05:58,400
Speaker 4: shocked at her? Your sentence was he had her bent

1198
01:05:58,560 --> 01:06:04,400
Speaker 4: over his car, He had her been over his car.

1199
01:06:05,600 --> 01:06:09,080
Speaker 2: Your next line is, I was so shocked she would

1200
01:06:09,120 --> 01:06:09,680
Speaker 2: do that to me.

1201
01:06:10,840 --> 01:06:16,080
Speaker 4: You didn't. You forgot about the last statement you made. Anyway,

1202
01:06:16,200 --> 01:06:18,960
Speaker 4: my husband moved out and served me with divorce papers.

1203
01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:19,360
Speaker 1: Reason.

1204
01:06:20,120 --> 01:06:21,880
Speaker 4: He said it was all his fault and he could

1205
01:06:21,920 --> 01:06:24,960
Speaker 4: never look me in the eye after what he did. Okay, cool,

1206
01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:27,560
Speaker 4: Now my only problem here we go?

1207
01:06:27,960 --> 01:06:29,560
Speaker 2: Here we go now.

1208
01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:32,920
Speaker 4: My only problem is that my brother wants his family

1209
01:06:33,000 --> 01:06:36,200
Speaker 4: back together and he wants to remarry his ex wife.

1210
01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:41,680
Speaker 4: How that's your problem. You got your priorities wrong. Your

1211
01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:45,920
Speaker 4: marriage is gone. The problem ain't your your brother stupid?

1212
01:06:46,560 --> 01:06:51,160
Speaker 4: We done talked about this. He's stupid. He wants to

1213
01:06:51,320 --> 01:06:55,120
Speaker 4: remarry his ex wife. How can he want her back.

1214
01:06:56,400 --> 01:06:58,640
Speaker 2: Because he's stupid.

1215
01:06:59,600 --> 01:07:02,600
Speaker 4: And I lost my husband and if my brother remarries

1216
01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:05,000
Speaker 4: this woman, I don't ever want to speak to him again.

1217
01:07:05,520 --> 01:07:08,080
Speaker 4: That's the decision you're making. Would I be wrong to

1218
01:07:08,120 --> 01:07:11,040
Speaker 4: cut my brother? Cut your brother off? You cut your

1219
01:07:11,160 --> 01:07:16,520
Speaker 4: husband off? He's stupid? My question is he want her back?

1220
01:07:17,280 --> 01:07:23,680
Speaker 4: What is she doing to these means? Lord kidding Dad?

1221
01:07:24,120 --> 01:07:25,680
Speaker 2: Is the question for me?

1222
01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:33,760
Speaker 4: What is this alcoholic, weed smoking woman doing to these

1223
01:07:34,040 --> 01:07:40,520
Speaker 4: men that make him in the cop hope and your

1224
01:07:40,600 --> 01:07:45,480
Speaker 4: wife right there in the house. What is she doing

1225
01:07:46,280 --> 01:07:50,960
Speaker 4: that make your brother want her back? After your brother no,

1226
01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:55,160
Speaker 4: he been with she been with your ex husband and

1227
01:07:55,800 --> 01:08:02,160
Speaker 4: he wanted to remarry her. What is she doing doing

1228
01:08:02,280 --> 01:08:04,680
Speaker 4: some things? And I'm just gonna have to be honest

1229
01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:11,560
Speaker 4: with y'all. It is really undescribable for this wow in

1230
01:08:11,720 --> 01:08:16,000
Speaker 4: this letter right here, Mac magnificent.

1231
01:08:15,560 --> 01:08:21,479
Speaker 2: Feats of them. But that's all she can do though.

1232
01:08:21,800 --> 01:08:25,920
Speaker 17: She can't think. She can't save money, she can't raise kids,

1233
01:08:26,120 --> 01:08:29,200
Speaker 17: she don't know where the baby, They can't act, she

1234
01:08:29,320 --> 01:08:35,000
Speaker 17: has no thought to the future. But lord Lord, Lord Lord,

1235
01:08:35,600 --> 01:08:37,519
Speaker 17: I think there's some clapping involved.

1236
01:08:37,800 --> 01:08:38,679
Speaker 2: I'm not sure.

1237
01:08:38,920 --> 01:08:42,439
Speaker 1: Okay, please leave your.

1238
01:08:42,400 --> 01:08:46,320
Speaker 2: Commence stapping sounds that makes a man do extra things.

1239
01:08:46,280 --> 01:08:52,040
Speaker 1: On Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM

1240
01:08:52,160 --> 01:08:55,400
Speaker 1: dot com and please marry me.

1241
01:08:56,080 --> 01:08:56,360
Speaker 9: I was.

1242
01:08:59,200 --> 01:09:02,160
Speaker 2: Steve Bartimore show man. Why do we have a radio

1243
01:09:02,280 --> 01:09:04,000
Speaker 2: show if we're gonna do it right?

1244
01:09:05,560 --> 01:09:09,920
Speaker 14: Listen to your that's stupid, stupid, That's what I'm talking about.

1245
01:09:09,960 --> 01:09:13,760
Speaker 1: Boy, say that? Man? Why do we say that?

1246
01:09:14,000 --> 01:09:17,960
Speaker 2: Show? If we're gonna be right? Morning show coming up

1247
01:09:18,000 --> 01:09:18,559
Speaker 2: right after.

1248
01:09:20,360 --> 01:09:26,960
Speaker 18: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, get into

1249
01:09:27,120 --> 01:09:30,439
Speaker 18: the Hyundaid Getaway Sales event and get away with the

1250
01:09:30,520 --> 01:09:34,320
Speaker 18: deal so right, it almost feels well right now, Get.

1251
01:09:34,280 --> 01:09:37,920
Speaker 4: Huge savings on our popular models, including our venture ready

1252
01:09:38,160 --> 01:09:41,720
Speaker 4: s UV's like the Hondai Santa Fe, or go all

1253
01:09:41,800 --> 01:09:46,040
Speaker 4: electric with America's most awarded EV lineup like the Ionic

1254
01:09:46,280 --> 01:09:48,080
Speaker 4: five or Ionic six.

1255
01:09:48,320 --> 01:09:50,639
Speaker 14: Get down to your local Hondai dealer and get away

1256
01:09:50,680 --> 01:09:53,559
Speaker 14: with a great deal only during the Hondaid Getaway Sale event.

1257
01:09:53,720 --> 01:09:56,160
Speaker 14: Visit Hyundai USA dot com for details.

1258
01:09:56,960 --> 01:09:59,479
Speaker 1: All right, so we might not feel any Chris cool

1259
01:09:59,560 --> 01:10:02,559
Speaker 1: weather yet because we're still you know, still in summer,

1260
01:10:02,680 --> 01:10:05,479
Speaker 1: but fall is just a few weeks away, and it's

1261
01:10:05,520 --> 01:10:08,880
Speaker 1: the ideal time to prioritize habits that can keep you

1262
01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:12,400
Speaker 1: healthy and full of energy before you know, before I

1263
01:10:12,479 --> 01:10:15,880
Speaker 1: get to those healthy tips, quick question for Steve. Now, Steve,

1264
01:10:16,240 --> 01:10:18,560
Speaker 1: are you focused on your on your health? Steve and

1265
01:10:18,560 --> 01:10:18,960
Speaker 1: the guys?

1266
01:10:19,040 --> 01:10:19,200
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1267
01:10:19,240 --> 01:10:19,639
Speaker 1: Focused?

1268
01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:21,920
Speaker 17: Okay, yeah, all.

1269
01:10:21,880 --> 01:10:25,160
Speaker 2: Right, I'm here elevated it this week. I've even elevated it.

1270
01:10:25,680 --> 01:10:27,920
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well, here's some tips to help you

1271
01:10:28,040 --> 01:10:30,800
Speaker 1: stay healthy for the fall season. And you may have

1272
01:10:30,920 --> 01:10:34,200
Speaker 1: some tips of your own, Steve. As we head into

1273
01:10:34,280 --> 01:10:36,600
Speaker 1: the cold and flu season, load up on foods that

1274
01:10:36,720 --> 01:10:39,679
Speaker 1: can boost your immune system, including foods rich and vitamin

1275
01:10:39,800 --> 01:10:43,280
Speaker 1: C and vitamin D. You have any tips, Steve.

1276
01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:54,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, you have got to stop being an alcoholic. You

1277
01:10:54,880 --> 01:10:58,160
Speaker 4: are alcoholic. You have got to check yourself.

1278
01:10:58,280 --> 01:11:01,719
Speaker 3: In other words, stop going down to that cold of stove.

1279
01:11:01,840 --> 01:11:05,840
Speaker 4: It's a must. If you alcoholic. You got to stop

1280
01:11:05,960 --> 01:11:12,560
Speaker 4: that right now. That's my number one tip. Help all alcoholics.

1281
01:11:12,720 --> 01:11:15,280
Speaker 4: Must stop being alcoholic, immediate go ahead.

1282
01:11:15,000 --> 01:11:18,240
Speaker 1: Ship, All right, here's another one. Make sleep a priority.

1283
01:11:18,439 --> 01:11:21,120
Speaker 1: Being well rested is crucial to staying healthy.

1284
01:11:21,840 --> 01:11:26,080
Speaker 4: Sleep is important to your health. Too much sleep is

1285
01:11:26,200 --> 01:11:27,559
Speaker 4: critical to your wealth.

1286
01:11:28,240 --> 01:11:30,960
Speaker 1: How much sleep are you supposed to get per night?

1287
01:11:31,160 --> 01:11:31,840
Speaker 2: I don't believe.

1288
01:11:33,160 --> 01:11:37,600
Speaker 1: Let I ain't never slept a.

1289
01:11:37,640 --> 01:11:40,320
Speaker 4: Year because I don't. I don't see how you need

1290
01:11:40,439 --> 01:11:42,680
Speaker 4: once you're not a child anymore. I don't see why

1291
01:11:42,720 --> 01:11:45,640
Speaker 4: you need eight hours. I don't know how the child need.

1292
01:11:46,040 --> 01:11:47,720
Speaker 4: But I'm glad they sleep well. I mean a child

1293
01:11:47,760 --> 01:11:50,680
Speaker 4: because he's growing his bones, got extend and all this it.

1294
01:11:51,840 --> 01:11:55,400
Speaker 4: Children have to sleep, right, But adults, if you're sleeping

1295
01:11:55,479 --> 01:11:58,639
Speaker 4: eight hours, you're growing. But you're growing. You're not growing taller,

1296
01:11:58,840 --> 01:12:03,840
Speaker 4: you're growing wider. And I don't I mean, like you said, Tommy,

1297
01:12:03,880 --> 01:12:06,600
Speaker 4: you don't know last time you had eight hours? Do

1298
01:12:06,680 --> 01:12:07,559
Speaker 4: you sleep eight hours?

1299
01:12:08,080 --> 01:12:08,280
Speaker 9: Never?

1300
01:12:09,720 --> 01:12:11,200
Speaker 2: Do you need eight hours?

1301
01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:13,400
Speaker 3: I got, I got sickle cell.

1302
01:12:13,800 --> 01:12:14,479
Speaker 2: Sleep eight hours.

1303
01:12:16,120 --> 01:12:18,479
Speaker 3: Hell, I'm sick and don't get eight out.

1304
01:12:20,520 --> 01:12:21,320
Speaker 2: But I just don't.

1305
01:12:21,360 --> 01:12:23,599
Speaker 4: I'm not a proponent of eight hours is a third

1306
01:12:23,680 --> 01:12:29,120
Speaker 4: of your life. I find that desperately hard to see

1307
01:12:29,800 --> 01:12:32,599
Speaker 4: how you can have a quality life if.

1308
01:12:32,479 --> 01:12:36,160
Speaker 2: You sleep a third of it. That does not make

1309
01:12:36,280 --> 01:12:36,760
Speaker 2: sense to me.

1310
01:12:36,920 --> 01:12:39,320
Speaker 4: But I'm not gonna get into that no more because

1311
01:12:39,360 --> 01:12:41,439
Speaker 4: they ate me up on the internet talking about Steve

1312
01:12:41,520 --> 01:12:43,160
Speaker 4: Harvey prefers wealth over health.

1313
01:12:43,439 --> 01:12:45,240
Speaker 2: So here's my thing about sleep.

1314
01:12:45,760 --> 01:12:50,400
Speaker 4: If you want to sleep, get all you want sleep

1315
01:12:50,520 --> 01:12:55,200
Speaker 4: as long as you like, you can sleep your life away.

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Speaker 2: You can sleep.

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01:12:56,439 --> 01:12:59,639
Speaker 4: You can sleep until you dream the most magnificent dreams.

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01:13:00,200 --> 01:13:03,280
Speaker 4: But I'm telling you this, to make a dream come true,

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01:13:03,400 --> 01:13:07,360
Speaker 4: you got to get woke, stay well. So but if

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Speaker 4: you want to sleep, go ahead, Steve, don't give it

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Speaker 4: no more.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,

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01:13:17,240 --> 01:13:22,200
Speaker 1: So there's a topic circulating on social media. Many of

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Speaker 1: us have experienced the dating scene, okay before we were

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Speaker 1: married and all of that stuff, And a lot of

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Speaker 1: women expect men to pay for the check, help with

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Speaker 1: their bills, their rent, their groceries, nails, hair bags, cell phones, etc.

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Speaker 1: And on the other hand, some men feel like just

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01:13:41,960 --> 01:13:46,120
Speaker 1: because we're dating or in a relationship, that they shouldn't

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01:13:46,160 --> 01:13:48,920
Speaker 1: have to help with your bills or help you keep

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01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:52,240
Speaker 1: up with a certain lifestyle. We're in this together. I

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01:13:52,280 --> 01:13:54,759
Speaker 1: should get something from you and you should get something

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01:13:54,840 --> 01:13:57,080
Speaker 1: from me. So, Steve, we got to ask you, as

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01:13:57,120 --> 01:13:59,760
Speaker 1: you are our chief love officer, Well what do you

1335
01:13:59,800 --> 01:14:02,240
Speaker 1: think think about this? I mean it's different now.

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01:14:02,200 --> 01:14:05,960
Speaker 4: Well, it's a true statement that everybody should get something

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01:14:06,040 --> 01:14:07,280
Speaker 4: from the relationship.

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Speaker 2: Now, if the relationship has progressed.

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01:14:13,800 --> 01:14:17,639
Speaker 4: And it looks like you are planning a future together,

1340
01:14:18,120 --> 01:14:22,679
Speaker 4: if you are having any talks or plans of having

1341
01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:27,280
Speaker 4: a future together, why would you align yourself with someone

1342
01:14:27,840 --> 01:14:31,479
Speaker 4: who's not willing or looking forward to taking care of you.

1343
01:14:32,360 --> 01:14:35,040
Speaker 4: And that goes for both the man and the woman,

1344
01:14:36,600 --> 01:14:39,400
Speaker 4: because if this is going to lead to something up

1345
01:14:39,479 --> 01:14:42,679
Speaker 4: the role. Like we're planning on a life together, then

1346
01:14:42,720 --> 01:14:44,960
Speaker 4: we should be planning on the life where we become

1347
01:14:45,120 --> 01:14:50,000
Speaker 4: one and we take care of one another. Now there's

1348
01:14:50,080 --> 01:14:53,640
Speaker 4: an antige that a coach once said, you play the

1349
01:14:53,760 --> 01:14:58,320
Speaker 4: game like you practice. If you've had no practice with

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01:14:58,600 --> 01:15:03,000
Speaker 4: taking care of one another, what makes you think after

1351
01:15:03,120 --> 01:15:07,240
Speaker 4: the wedding day, all of a sudden, you gonna want

1352
01:15:07,280 --> 01:15:10,080
Speaker 4: to take care of each other. It doesn't make any

1353
01:15:10,160 --> 01:15:13,760
Speaker 4: sense because there would be plenty of opportunities during the

1354
01:15:13,880 --> 01:15:19,120
Speaker 4: dating process to show your ability or your willingness to

1355
01:15:19,240 --> 01:15:24,599
Speaker 4: take care of one another. So it is a two

1356
01:15:24,680 --> 01:15:30,720
Speaker 4: way street. But you can't expect something that you're not

1357
01:15:30,960 --> 01:15:36,479
Speaker 4: willing to give. I can't expect to get rich if

1358
01:15:36,600 --> 01:15:40,840
Speaker 4: I don't go to work. I can't expect to make

1359
01:15:40,920 --> 01:15:43,839
Speaker 4: it across the other end of that swimming pool unless

1360
01:15:43,880 --> 01:15:45,559
Speaker 4: I done took some swimming lessons.

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Speaker 2: I can't expect to.

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01:15:48,200 --> 01:15:51,240
Speaker 4: Play golf and part this whole if I ain't been

1363
01:15:51,320 --> 01:15:56,000
Speaker 4: out there in practice. You can't make eight out of

1364
01:15:56,120 --> 01:15:59,400
Speaker 4: ten free throws just by walking up to the line.

1365
01:16:00,120 --> 01:16:02,840
Speaker 4: Somebody got a practice making these free throws.

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01:16:04,720 --> 01:16:09,000
Speaker 1: So so how so do I go to bag and

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01:16:09,080 --> 01:16:10,000
Speaker 1: get my writ paid.

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01:16:10,280 --> 01:16:14,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can get.

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Speaker 1: All of that is what I need. Okay. So yeah,

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01:16:18,479 --> 01:16:21,400
Speaker 1: you're saying it's a it's an even exchange or something.

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01:16:21,439 --> 01:16:21,800
Speaker 1: It's there.

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Speaker 2: It has to be an exchange.

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Speaker 1: An exchange.

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01:16:24,640 --> 01:16:28,679
Speaker 2: Woman, is unreasonable and unfair to walk.

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Speaker 4: In thinking somebody just supposed to take care of your hair,

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01:16:31,040 --> 01:16:33,680
Speaker 4: your nails and buy you bags. If he wants you

1377
01:16:33,720 --> 01:16:35,960
Speaker 4: to look a certain way, how was you looking before

1378
01:16:36,000 --> 01:16:39,519
Speaker 4: you met it? Yeah, that's just because y'all start dating

1379
01:16:39,600 --> 01:16:41,400
Speaker 4: doesn't mean that he has to come in and take

1380
01:16:41,479 --> 01:16:45,000
Speaker 4: over all these responsibilities all of a sudden with nothing

1381
01:16:45,080 --> 01:16:45,760
Speaker 4: in it for him.

1382
01:16:46,240 --> 01:16:50,639
Speaker 1: What you're saying over time and we want different things

1383
01:16:50,720 --> 01:16:53,559
Speaker 1: men and women, right this this may be what women want.

1384
01:16:53,640 --> 01:16:54,519
Speaker 1: What do men want?

1385
01:16:54,680 --> 01:16:54,840
Speaker 16: You know?

1386
01:16:55,040 --> 01:16:56,479
Speaker 1: You so you can take care of me?

1387
01:16:56,880 --> 01:16:58,120
Speaker 2: Want support?

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01:16:58,880 --> 01:16:59,200
Speaker 6: Mm hm.

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01:17:00,120 --> 01:17:05,160
Speaker 4: Men won't loyalty and men won't respect mm hm.

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01:17:06,960 --> 01:17:08,920
Speaker 2: Love ain't at the top of the list with us.

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01:17:09,680 --> 01:17:11,439
Speaker 1: Where where where does love fall?

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01:17:11,920 --> 01:17:13,400
Speaker 2: It's somewhere in the top four.

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01:17:13,920 --> 01:17:15,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, in the top four.

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01:17:15,560 --> 01:17:18,639
Speaker 4: But if you're loyal to us and respect us, that's

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01:17:18,680 --> 01:17:22,559
Speaker 4: what we that's what we consider love. Yeah, a two

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01:17:22,640 --> 01:17:26,320
Speaker 4: hours that you belong to us and we belong to you,

1397
01:17:27,320 --> 01:17:30,920
Speaker 4: that you gonna respect us, and you're gonna support us

1398
01:17:31,640 --> 01:17:34,120
Speaker 4: and be loyal to us, and you can help me

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01:17:34,200 --> 01:17:35,840
Speaker 4: get the way I'm trying to get to in life.

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Speaker 2: You must love me. But those are the things were

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01:17:40,000 --> 01:17:42,559
Speaker 2: looking for. Love is not at the top of the list.

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01:17:44,080 --> 01:17:54,000
Speaker 1: All right, empty handed? Okay, hell, rent is due. All right.

1403
01:17:54,040 --> 01:17:56,679
Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming

1404
01:17:56,760 --> 01:17:59,280
Speaker 1: up at about twenty minutes after the hour right after this,

1405
01:17:59,760 --> 01:18:06,760
Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Steve, I

1406
01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:08,640
Speaker 1: know you work a lot. We all know that you

1407
01:18:08,760 --> 01:18:11,320
Speaker 1: have a lot of jobs, but have you ever been

1408
01:18:11,600 --> 01:18:15,400
Speaker 1: this tired and overworked? An exhausted thirty eight year old

1409
01:18:15,439 --> 01:18:18,720
Speaker 1: woman decided that she desperately needed to slow down and

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01:18:18,800 --> 01:18:22,800
Speaker 1: get more rest, so she moved into a retirement home

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01:18:22,880 --> 01:18:26,960
Speaker 1: community with elderly people. She worked as a screenwriter in

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01:18:27,040 --> 01:18:29,960
Speaker 1: the film and television industry for eleven years, and she

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01:18:30,080 --> 01:18:33,000
Speaker 1: said the amount of work and hectic schedule really took

1414
01:18:33,040 --> 01:18:36,040
Speaker 1: a toll on her mental and physical health, so she

1415
01:18:36,240 --> 01:18:40,559
Speaker 1: moved into a retirement community to recuperate. She both said

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01:18:40,600 --> 01:18:44,280
Speaker 1: her new home offers medical treatments and all of her meals.

1417
01:18:44,720 --> 01:18:47,280
Speaker 1: She said it's very quiet there. And she goes to

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01:18:47,400 --> 01:18:50,840
Speaker 1: bed every night around nine o'clock PM. Could you see

1419
01:18:50,880 --> 01:18:53,920
Speaker 1: yourself doing that to relax and recharge like this woman.

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01:18:54,120 --> 01:18:55,880
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you right now. Living around them old

1421
01:18:55,880 --> 01:18:58,240
Speaker 2: people let a whole lot of work right there. You

1422
01:18:58,320 --> 01:18:59,120
Speaker 2: got the help.

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01:19:00,720 --> 01:19:04,519
Speaker 4: Hold the door, push that downstairs for dinner time, go

1424
01:19:04,680 --> 01:19:06,680
Speaker 4: in there and help clean them up, pick them up.

1425
01:19:06,760 --> 01:19:10,559
Speaker 4: They she'd have left her alert necklace off. She didne failed.

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01:19:10,600 --> 01:19:13,080
Speaker 4: You got to go upstairs on flow six and get

1427
01:19:13,160 --> 01:19:15,920
Speaker 4: her up. Then you're trying to go somewhere they want

1428
01:19:15,960 --> 01:19:18,519
Speaker 4: to go. Now you got call them medi van in here.

1429
01:19:18,600 --> 01:19:20,599
Speaker 4: Now you got to help push up on the ramp.

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01:19:21,439 --> 01:19:23,720
Speaker 4: You got to make sure that the ramps. There's too

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01:19:23,800 --> 01:19:27,200
Speaker 4: much work. Being old shouldn't have been there. Eating of

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01:19:27,200 --> 01:19:31,200
Speaker 4: a tapiocre putting. I'm too young for tapioca putting. I

1433
01:19:31,320 --> 01:19:33,880
Speaker 4: want to chew stuff. I still got teeth. I don't

1434
01:19:33,920 --> 01:19:37,040
Speaker 4: want to you can yellow and all this sist, all

1435
01:19:37,080 --> 01:19:39,599
Speaker 4: this hospital food and stuff. I want to hear them,

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01:19:39,680 --> 01:19:43,479
Speaker 4: old son, we'll have more. I don't see the advantage

1437
01:19:43,520 --> 01:19:45,719
Speaker 4: of living down a bunch of older people myself.

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01:19:45,840 --> 01:19:54,280
Speaker 1: After you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, Hey,

1439
01:19:54,320 --> 01:19:58,080
Speaker 1: it's Shirley's strawberry. Looking for something new. Try fencing the

1440
01:19:58,240 --> 01:20:02,840
Speaker 1: Olympic and Paralympics. That mixes speed, strategy and fun. It's

1441
01:20:02,960 --> 01:20:06,680
Speaker 1: like chess meets cardio. Quick feet, quick decisions, and a

1442
01:20:06,800 --> 01:20:10,519
Speaker 1: satisfying beat when you score a point. Kids, teens and

1443
01:20:10,680 --> 01:20:14,960
Speaker 1: adults can start any time, no experience necessary, and many

1444
01:20:15,000 --> 01:20:19,120
Speaker 1: clubs have loner gear coaches teach fundamentals and safety from

1445
01:20:19,280 --> 01:20:22,160
Speaker 1: day one. You can find a beginner class near you

1446
01:20:22,600 --> 01:20:26,799
Speaker 1: at USA Fencing dot org slash try fencing. That's USA

1447
01:20:26,960 --> 01:20:31,120
Speaker 1: Fencing dot org slash try Fencing. Time. Now, guys, for

1448
01:20:31,320 --> 01:20:36,280
Speaker 1: would you rather? Would you rather be captured by pirates

1449
01:20:36,840 --> 01:20:40,959
Speaker 1: or cowboys? You know those Old West bad guys. Pirates

1450
01:20:41,040 --> 01:20:42,559
Speaker 1: are Old West bad guys.

1451
01:20:42,920 --> 01:20:45,439
Speaker 4: I'm gonna go with the Old West because I'm bout

1452
01:20:45,479 --> 01:20:49,439
Speaker 4: on the water. I can't jump off now, so I'm forever.

1453
01:20:49,560 --> 01:20:51,599
Speaker 4: You're captive because I cannot jump in your.

1454
01:20:52,000 --> 01:20:55,000
Speaker 1: I am the captain now behind.

1455
01:20:57,400 --> 01:21:01,040
Speaker 4: Got a shot a break out, running to heels something.

1456
01:21:01,400 --> 01:21:04,360
Speaker 4: When you on that ship, your gots to sit there?

1457
01:21:04,840 --> 01:21:09,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, all right? Would you rather get cheated on

1458
01:21:09,720 --> 01:21:12,280
Speaker 1: and know about it? Or not get cheated on and

1459
01:21:12,479 --> 01:21:14,000
Speaker 1: just always be suspicious.

1460
01:21:15,520 --> 01:21:20,080
Speaker 4: I just take the suspicion. I don't give it about

1461
01:21:20,120 --> 01:21:25,240
Speaker 4: that going to the but knowing you cheated.

1462
01:21:26,800 --> 01:21:30,400
Speaker 1: And still be there. No, that's not gonna work.

1463
01:21:30,640 --> 01:21:32,280
Speaker 3: Your third doctor's appointment this week.

1464
01:21:32,160 --> 01:21:37,600
Speaker 1: You know that, analyze everything. You can't go to the

1465
01:21:37,680 --> 01:21:41,000
Speaker 1: grocery store to the doctor while you buy a damn

1466
01:21:41,160 --> 01:21:44,320
Speaker 1: ice street who else like that?

1467
01:21:48,160 --> 01:21:49,280
Speaker 3: Just be suspicious on her?

1468
01:21:51,720 --> 01:21:57,960
Speaker 4: It be a little stuff. Oh oh oh, black panty holes?

1469
01:22:00,000 --> 01:22:05,520
Speaker 4: What you ain't been wearing black panty.

1470
01:22:07,640 --> 01:22:07,920
Speaker 3: Okay?

1471
01:22:08,120 --> 01:22:10,600
Speaker 8: All right, wa hey, hey, what.

1472
01:22:10,800 --> 01:22:11,920
Speaker 2: Is your beaving fault?

1473
01:22:15,080 --> 01:22:16,519
Speaker 1: I'm just taking back for what?

1474
01:22:19,080 --> 01:22:22,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, i'd be yeah, all right?

1475
01:22:23,320 --> 01:22:24,280
Speaker 1: Are you quite done?

1476
01:22:24,800 --> 01:22:25,000
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1477
01:22:26,080 --> 01:22:26,439
Speaker 7: All right?

1478
01:22:26,920 --> 01:22:33,559
Speaker 1: Would you rather have fortune or fame? That's easy. Fortune,

1479
01:22:35,640 --> 01:22:37,240
Speaker 1: let's ask the most famous person.

1480
01:22:38,080 --> 01:22:38,400
Speaker 9: Easy.

1481
01:22:39,720 --> 01:22:40,519
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something.

1482
01:22:41,200 --> 01:22:43,439
Speaker 4: If I could find a way to make this money

1483
01:22:44,800 --> 01:22:46,719
Speaker 4: and nobody, everybody leave me alone?

1484
01:22:49,840 --> 01:22:58,560
Speaker 1: Heartbeat, that's right, No, that's right, all right. Would you

1485
01:22:58,720 --> 01:23:03,600
Speaker 1: rather be a clown in a rodeo who distracts the

1486
01:23:03,720 --> 01:23:07,280
Speaker 1: bull or would you rather be the cowboy who rides

1487
01:23:07,439 --> 01:23:07,880
Speaker 1: the bull?

1488
01:23:08,479 --> 01:23:08,679
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1489
01:23:08,680 --> 01:23:13,360
Speaker 4: I'm will be the clown. You bet not fall off

1490
01:23:13,439 --> 01:23:17,120
Speaker 4: of me when I'm out there ready to get the

1491
01:23:17,240 --> 01:23:18,240
Speaker 4: roll and get your south.

1492
01:23:18,280 --> 01:23:24,920
Speaker 2: That arena. Come on, don't come out, but I will

1493
01:23:24,960 --> 01:23:26,080
Speaker 2: be nowhere near the bull.

1494
01:23:26,560 --> 01:23:27,960
Speaker 1: Do that shout again, I like.

1495
01:23:34,520 --> 01:23:38,200
Speaker 2: Cowboy, Get out for you, Get out for you.

1496
01:23:38,880 --> 01:23:41,320
Speaker 1: All right, we gotta go. Time for our last break

1497
01:23:41,400 --> 01:23:43,400
Speaker 1: of the day. And at forty nine minutes after some

1498
01:23:43,520 --> 01:23:45,920
Speaker 1: closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey. Right

1499
01:23:45,960 --> 01:23:49,200
Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1500
01:23:53,439 --> 01:23:57,400
Speaker 1: Head sure strawberry. Looking for something new. Try fencing, the

1501
01:23:57,520 --> 01:24:01,479
Speaker 1: Olympic and Paralympic sport that makes it speed, strategy and fun.

1502
01:24:02,040 --> 01:24:05,920
Speaker 1: It's like chess meets cardio. Quick feet, quick decisions, and

1503
01:24:06,040 --> 01:24:09,839
Speaker 1: a satisfying beat when you score a point. Kids, teens,

1504
01:24:09,920 --> 01:24:14,120
Speaker 1: and adults can start any time, no experience necessary, and

1505
01:24:14,280 --> 01:24:18,320
Speaker 1: many clubs have loner gear coaches teach fundamentals and safety

1506
01:24:18,479 --> 01:24:21,639
Speaker 1: from day one. You can find a beginner class near

1507
01:24:21,720 --> 01:24:25,960
Speaker 1: you at USA Fencing dot org. Slash try fencing at

1508
01:24:26,120 --> 01:24:30,639
Speaker 1: USA Fencing dot org slash try fencing. All right, here

1509
01:24:30,680 --> 01:24:33,519
Speaker 1: we are our last breakup of the day. Great day,

1510
01:24:34,400 --> 01:24:39,080
Speaker 1: we had a good day, as always, Steve. Before we go,

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Speaker 1: before your closing remarks, we had a voicemail from a

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Speaker 1: caller named Miss l from Chicago, she listens on V

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Speaker 1: one O three and she had something to say, Hi.

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01:24:50,320 --> 01:24:53,880
Speaker 16: Good afternoon. My name is Ellen Holmes, and I am

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01:24:54,000 --> 01:24:57,880
Speaker 16: just calling discs for us some comments. I just want

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01:24:57,960 --> 01:25:01,040
Speaker 16: to say that the Feat Harvey Morning Show, it's a

1517
01:25:01,160 --> 01:25:06,000
Speaker 16: great it's a great tool. It's a great show for listening.

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01:25:06,960 --> 01:25:07,439
Speaker 2: I love it.

1519
01:25:07,640 --> 01:25:11,280
Speaker 16: I love the staff, and I especially love Steve Harvey.

1520
01:25:12,360 --> 01:25:16,720
Speaker 16: I'm my mom who is now in heaven has gone

1521
01:25:16,760 --> 01:25:19,799
Speaker 16: away to be with the Lord. She loves Steve Harvey

1522
01:25:20,000 --> 01:25:24,400
Speaker 16: so much and got so much from his inspirational and

1523
01:25:24,520 --> 01:25:28,280
Speaker 16: motivational talks that he gives in the morning at the

1524
01:25:28,439 --> 01:25:33,160
Speaker 16: end of the morning show. He's such an inspiration.

1525
01:25:32,840 --> 01:25:36,519
Speaker 1: To us and we just love him. He gives such good.

1526
01:25:38,520 --> 01:25:42,160
Speaker 16: Prep fox and inspirational talks and talks about God. And

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01:25:43,479 --> 01:25:46,160
Speaker 16: you know how God has blessed him and given us

1528
01:25:46,320 --> 01:25:50,960
Speaker 16: motivation to continue to pray and to serve did and

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01:25:51,080 --> 01:25:53,320
Speaker 16: it's such a blessing. He is such a blessing. And

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01:25:53,439 --> 01:25:56,679
Speaker 16: I just wanted you guys to know that I enjoy

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Speaker 16: your show. I love the Saturday show. Also the morning show.

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Speaker 16: Just the old destees are and it's so wonderful to

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01:26:06,160 --> 01:26:10,759
Speaker 16: get up it, clean up on and and and Sundays Show. Also,

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Speaker 16: I love gospel music. But I just wanted to say

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01:26:13,760 --> 01:26:16,960
Speaker 16: about Steve Harvey. I really loved him and for him

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01:26:17,040 --> 01:26:21,000
Speaker 16: to continue on and that got to continue to left

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01:26:21,120 --> 01:26:25,560
Speaker 16: them and to continue to give his motivational spieces and

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01:26:25,880 --> 01:26:30,400
Speaker 16: its moments of inspiration. Okay, thank you, I appreciate you, guys.

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Speaker 4: God rest Yeah, you know what, And and that kind

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Speaker 4: of leads me into my closing remarks to it. I

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01:26:39,920 --> 01:26:43,839
Speaker 4: thank her for that because faith has been an integral

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Speaker 4: part of my life. It has been the cornerstone, the

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01:26:48,840 --> 01:26:53,839
Speaker 4: foundation of everything that I've overcome and everything I have become.

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Speaker 4: See because of my faith, it has been the cornerstone

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01:26:59,479 --> 01:27:05,639
Speaker 4: of every thing I have overcome and everything I have become.

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01:27:06,600 --> 01:27:11,360
Speaker 4: It is also the foundation my faith of things to come.

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Speaker 4: I'm real about that. I was raised this way by

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01:27:19,800 --> 01:27:23,720
Speaker 4: my mother, illus Via Harvey gets full credit for this

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Speaker 4: the faith aspect of my life. And I have tried

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Speaker 4: to honor my promise to God when I was out

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01:27:32,840 --> 01:27:36,080
Speaker 4: there struggling, I was homeless. I made a promise to

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01:27:36,200 --> 01:27:39,120
Speaker 4: him that if he let me make it, when I

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01:27:39,200 --> 01:27:42,519
Speaker 4: get there, I was gonna tell everybody about him. So

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01:27:42,720 --> 01:27:45,200
Speaker 4: that is what the first twelve minutes of my radio

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01:27:45,320 --> 01:27:49,880
Speaker 4: show is about That is why I dropped information about

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01:27:49,920 --> 01:27:52,479
Speaker 4: God all the time. That's why a lot of times

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01:27:52,520 --> 01:27:56,080
Speaker 4: in my closing remarks, I use this platform to talk

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Speaker 4: about my faith in God.

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Speaker 2: Now I've traveled the world.

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Speaker 4: And I was raised also by the same mother to

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01:28:06,040 --> 01:28:11,439
Speaker 4: respect all people in all faiths. It doesn't matter that

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01:28:11,600 --> 01:28:15,479
Speaker 4: a faith don't see exactly what I see. That's not

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01:28:15,680 --> 01:28:18,680
Speaker 4: my calling. It's not for me to judge. It is

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Speaker 4: for me to respect. I have friends from all faiths.

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Speaker 4: I have people I do business with, I have associates.

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Speaker 4: But I know a lot of Jewish people, I know

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01:28:35,439 --> 01:28:38,080
Speaker 4: a lot of Muslim people. I know a lot of

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01:28:38,240 --> 01:28:44,680
Speaker 4: Islamic people. I know people from all faiths. I respect

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01:28:44,920 --> 01:28:51,800
Speaker 4: them all because I was taught that. So whatever you

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01:28:52,080 --> 01:28:55,320
Speaker 4: hear about me, know the fact you can just base

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01:28:55,360 --> 01:28:57,160
Speaker 4: it on everything you've ever heard me say.

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Speaker 2: I talk about it.

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Speaker 4: Because of his goodness, because of his grace, because of

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01:29:02,840 --> 01:29:06,200
Speaker 4: his favor, because of his mercy. And you got to

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01:29:06,280 --> 01:29:08,120
Speaker 4: be careful, man, when you out there and you hear

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01:29:08,160 --> 01:29:11,840
Speaker 4: people talking all the time, when you hear people out

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01:29:11,880 --> 01:29:14,559
Speaker 4: there slaming other people, you got to understand why they

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01:29:14,680 --> 01:29:18,519
Speaker 4: slaming other people who gives them the power and the right.

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01:29:20,320 --> 01:29:23,000
Speaker 4: Somebody said out there, I'm not gonna say no names

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01:29:23,080 --> 01:29:26,000
Speaker 4: or that, but somebody said that Steve Harvey starting a

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Speaker 4: new religion.

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01:29:26,960 --> 01:29:30,320
Speaker 2: Called Chris slam. I've never said that. Why would I?

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Speaker 2: Who am I to start a religion?

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Speaker 4: I have a religion, I have a faith, I have

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Speaker 4: a God, I have a Jesus, I have a method

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Speaker 4: of prayer.

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Speaker 2: I'm not changing that.

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01:29:43,640 --> 01:29:46,479
Speaker 4: That's the way I was raised. But can I not

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01:29:46,800 --> 01:29:51,120
Speaker 4: honor people for who they are? Because I have Muslim

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01:29:51,280 --> 01:29:57,120
Speaker 4: friends that are doing very very well. They believe in God,

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Speaker 4: just like I believe in God.

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Speaker 1: Who am I?

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Speaker 2: And it works.

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01:30:02,400 --> 01:30:05,960
Speaker 4: I got a partner on mine who prays five times

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01:30:06,120 --> 01:30:10,960
Speaker 4: a day. The average Christian don't do that. He lives

1596
01:30:11,000 --> 01:30:14,360
Speaker 4: a successful life. He's a great person, a great family man.

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01:30:15,680 --> 01:30:19,200
Speaker 4: I just happen to honor faith. When you hear somebody

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01:30:19,280 --> 01:30:21,720
Speaker 4: talking about Steve harved and starting new religion, you ain't

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Speaker 4: never heard me say nothing like that. And I dispel

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Speaker 4: all of that, And I stand on that. I stand

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01:30:28,800 --> 01:30:30,200
Speaker 4: on my faith and who I am.

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Speaker 2: I been.

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01:30:30,760 --> 01:30:32,880
Speaker 4: I've been this way the whole time. You ain't never

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01:30:32,960 --> 01:30:34,840
Speaker 4: heard me wave or jump off this hill boat.

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Speaker 2: That's me. That's the God I serve, that's the faith

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Speaker 2: I have.

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Speaker 4: I don't know all the scriptures, but I know enough

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01:30:42,600 --> 01:30:44,680
Speaker 4: that that got me here, and I know enough that's

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01:30:44,720 --> 01:30:47,839
Speaker 4: gonna get me the rest of the way. Be careful

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01:30:48,120 --> 01:30:52,360
Speaker 4: who you hear things from. Everybody standing up there talking

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01:30:52,400 --> 01:30:56,200
Speaker 4: about it main foid. Just be careful, y'all. Know God

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01:30:56,320 --> 01:30:59,559
Speaker 4: for yourself, have your faith together for yourself. Those are

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01:30:59,600 --> 01:31:02,760
Speaker 4: my clothes lost. Hey, listen, talk to God today, y'all.

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Speaker 4: He loved to hear from you.

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Speaker 2: Okay. Hey.

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