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Speaker 2: Did you hear.

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Speaker 3: Thought?

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Speaker 2: I made myself perfectly clear. When you're a guest in

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Speaker 2: my home, you gotta come to me empty. And I said, no, guests,

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Speaker 2: your presences presents enough. I already had too much stuff,

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Speaker 2: So how do you dare.

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Speaker 3: To surbey me?

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Speaker 1: Welcome to I said, no gifts. I'm Bridgard Wineger. We're

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Speaker 1: in the backyard. I'm not going to comment on the

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Speaker 1: heat until it begins to affect my mood. What is happening?

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Speaker 1: What is happening? Turn up the volume. You know, people

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Speaker 1: should hear it outside of your earbuds. They should hear

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Speaker 1: it as you drive by. We want the podcast getting

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Speaker 1: out there, regardless of people's comfort level. If we can

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Speaker 1: just pause for one second. You know, occasionally I should

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Speaker 1: remind you, especially in these days, that it really helps

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Speaker 1: if you share the podcast, you tell people about it.

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Speaker 1: Of course, write a lovely review. Those are always so valuable.

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Speaker 1: But get on social media. Get on Instagram, threads, Facebook, Marketplace.

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Speaker 1: I mean, those are two things. Tell people about it.

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Speaker 1: Get on a dating app. What an icebreaker have you

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Speaker 1: heard of? I said, no gifts. The person says, yes,

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Speaker 1: you've made a connection. You may have made a love connection.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. If the person says no, block them,

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Speaker 1: immediately report their account, do whatever you have to do.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you're currently touring the world selling out arenas of

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Speaker 1: screaming fans every night. Stop down the show and tell

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Speaker 1: people about the podcast. I know you're listening to the swift,

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Speaker 1: but I could go on and on, and I don't

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Speaker 1: want to because I'm shuddering even having to ask you.

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Speaker 1: This is not what I like to do. But I

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Speaker 1: do have to remind you that you know, we count

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Speaker 1: on you.

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Speaker 3: What else?

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Speaker 1: I got my tires rotated this morning. That was the

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Speaker 1: big deal, and I got to wander around the Americana

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Speaker 1: and Glendale. I purchased nothing. Let's get to our guests.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm really thrilled. First of all, this is

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Speaker 1: a podcast first, a husband and wife team. It's Naomi

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Speaker 1: k Peregan and Andy Beckerman. Andy, Naomi Bridger. How do

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Speaker 1: you feel about me calling you a husband and wife team?

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Speaker 4: You know, a little queasy but ultimately grateful.

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Speaker 3: Oh? I love it. I can't get enough of it.

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Speaker 3: That's my love language. Is us collaborating? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: His love language is making me work, and that's what

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Speaker 4: we're trying to unpack in our shared therapeutic experience.

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Speaker 1: Of course, of course, and you have to let me

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Speaker 1: have this. This is as close as I'm ever going

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Speaker 1: to get to a husband and a wife being able

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Speaker 3: I have to take now. How often are you close

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Speaker 3: to husband and wives as a team in your daily life?

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Speaker 3: Are you near them like when you're walking, when you're

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Speaker 3: wandering the Americana? Q? How close do you get to

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Speaker 3: those husbands and wives? I'm all over these husband and

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Speaker 1: I'm getting close. I'm breathing on them. I'm listening in

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Speaker 3: How do you do it? Well?

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Speaker 1: I'll never get to be part of one. So it's

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Speaker 1: ultimately my life's tragedy.

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Speaker 3: You could, you could, It's not it's you would have

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Speaker 1: Which may be worth it.

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Speaker 4: It's called a marriage of convenience. Oh right, are you

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Speaker 4: running for?

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Speaker 3: Are you on House Hunters International?

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Speaker 1: Exactly? Or famously? We hate to even say their names

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Speaker 1: are so tired. Chip and Lanta games.

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Speaker 3: Today, Chip at Joanna losses. That's what I say. It's

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Speaker 3: I can't. I can't with them.

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Speaker 1: They're still together, which is shocking.

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Speaker 1: I thought quarantine would be the end of them. That

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like they will get it and die. And then I.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, wait, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 4: You know, Bridge, this is your podcast, However, Andy, we

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Speaker 3: Yes, and but first, the husband in this group, in

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Speaker 3: this duo, in this group, this duo, it is the

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Speaker 3: alter ego of Garth Brooks.

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Speaker 1: Correct, Wait, Chris Gaines, is that not.

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Speaker 3: Interesting? Is that not the batman to Garth Brooks?

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Speaker 4: Interesting, I fully did not even know.

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Speaker 1: Did anyone ever hear one of those songs that Chris

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Speaker 1: It vanished. Wow, maybe a couple of years ago. I

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Speaker 1: Have you seen the Facebook video Garth Brooks talking to Facebook?

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Speaker 3: Oh, what are you talking to?

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Speaker 1: This is a piece of media that everyone I mean,

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Speaker 3: Okay, is this in the metaverse?

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Speaker 1: No, this was pre metaverse. This was probably twenty seventeen,

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Speaker 1: Garth Brooks alone in a hotel room, oh, announcing he's

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Speaker 4: The lighting situation in the hotel room, it's just hotel light.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't have a ring light anything.

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Speaker 1: I think he's probably an expensive hotel with the perfect lighting.

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Speaker 3: Brooks for French fries.

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Speaker 3: But you might get a VENO request. People say, Red,

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Speaker 1: I would venmo Garth Brooks ten thousand dollars if he

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Speaker 3: Yes, well, dovest question. Yeah, it is about how it

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Speaker 3: is abouse. It is about house Hunters International. Oh okay,

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Speaker 4: Me, Well, you know Andy and I we watch a

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Speaker 4: lot of these, a lot of this Okay, real connoisseewers

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Speaker 4: deep dive. You know, I believe we're currently on what

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Speaker 4: they're calling season one hundred and twenty three.

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Speaker 1: So that lets you are right, yes.

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Speaker 3: We just started one twenty four.

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Speaker 4: Okay, but that's giving you a sense of what's going

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Speaker 4: that there is an overrepresentation of Mormons on a House

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Speaker 3: Regards to the population. They won't say, well, yeah, they're

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Speaker 4: Usually the five Arian children, yes, the five usually one

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Speaker 3: They usually say it like that, and then you're like, oh, okay,

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Speaker 4: Yes, IPORTU that I do a deep dive or you know,

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Speaker 4: I had my egle eyegoing this last one.

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Speaker 4: When I say it was five kids, what I tell

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Speaker 4: you they were moving to Portugal? What I tell you

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Speaker 4: they said, I believe they said three bedrooms, three bedrooms,

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Speaker 3: She said, are you well, okay, how much do you

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Speaker 4: I think it was one thousand dollars Max.

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Speaker 1: It was like five or six were looking to spend

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Speaker 4: But they're showing pictures because sometimes will give you like

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Speaker 4: show them on their you know, the wedding, and I

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Speaker 4: see behind them, Honey, I see ladder, I see probe.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I saw those two.

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Speaker 4: I said, there it is in the background of the

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Speaker 4: photol you're blocking it with your head, you think, no.

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Speaker 3: No, we're goddamn detective, all right at this that they

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Speaker 4: Wondering what it is again proportion to the population. I'm wondering,

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Speaker 4: is you know where do you think they're advertising for, Hhi,

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Speaker 4: like in the church or something.

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Speaker 1: Right more heavily in the Utah?

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Speaker 3: Interesting? Does he predict House Hunters International?

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Speaker 1: I feel like I feel that's the first chapter of

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Speaker 1: the book of More Cindy and Kyle are looking for a.

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Speaker 3: Turnkey property, so said the Saint Andromeda. I'm my guess.

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Speaker 1: My guess here is they probably are like, oh, there

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Speaker 1: at least drop a few more Craigslist ads in Utah

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Speaker 1: to get because of course you're going to find these

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Speaker 1: both of them went on a nation, and they're gonna

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Speaker 1: want to spend some time. That would be my guess.

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Speaker 1: My second guess. The culture is just the kind that

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Speaker 1: wants to be on TV for free interest. I think

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Speaker 1: that there's a decent amount of people within the culture

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Speaker 3: Have a little TV.

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Speaker 4: It's that's so interesting because I would have never I

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't have.

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Speaker 4: Thought of it as a let's get out there, let's

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Speaker 3: Well, isn't there a lot of proselytizing?

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Speaker 4: Oh there's so much, but they're not doing that. Maybe

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Speaker 4: see I wanted to be like, why don't we show

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Speaker 3: Someone's gotta go. You're not the first person to say that, Bridger,

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Speaker 3: you know what you should do that? A podcasts were

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Speaker 3: Five people improvised, I go, I don't have any five people.

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Speaker 1: It's too much in an hour, right, how.

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Speaker 3: Many bang banks should start off with everyone and then

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Speaker 4: Off and with two people, Andy, we don't name other

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Speaker 3: If you notice, I just said we people.

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Speaker 4: And we're not here to like kind of give people

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Speaker 4: other things to do, like listening to I said no

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Speaker 1: The back, You're ready, or the other. There are two

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Speaker 3: Right, not, not here, not in this moment in time.

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Speaker 1: No, thank you, No, absolutely absolutely not.

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Speaker 4: You know what, Bridgard, thank you so much for being

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Speaker 3: How's this? If you have any questions about Jews, ask me.

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Speaker 3: I'll let you touch it in exchange for me. That's

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Speaker 4: I think there's weights. I was like season one twenty three,

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Speaker 3: So it's situation. And I was like, we're not going

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Speaker 4: Like we're standing here, your voices are echoing, you're clearly unsafe,

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Speaker 4: I honey, I would That's what I would do all

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Speaker 3: Even back th fings. That would be me. That would

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Speaker 4: because she even made Yeah, we got marshes and then

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Speaker 3: Babies just like babe, I said, I'll get I'll get out.

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Speaker 3: It was like one of the brittlest smile, like just

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Speaker 1: Well, we've talked about Mormon smiles before with Turtle Creek Lane.

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Speaker 3: Yes, of course, you know you too.

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Speaker 1: We've discussed that to no end. Yes, d nauseum. We

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Speaker 3: She's now a mother.

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Speaker 1: Did you know that, Oh, Tiffany, Yes, oh yes, there's

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Speaker 4: Good lord, the fontinelle hasn't closed. That is soft.

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Speaker 3: Do not dance with it yet. Wow, But okay, you

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Speaker 4: That should be it should be part of what you

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Speaker 3: You have to promise, boy, lease thirty days.

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Speaker 1: The Houtens would pay their way through it. They've got

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Speaker 3: What did you what did you think?

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Speaker 1: I feel like she said should I keep or remove?

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Speaker 1: Is it beachy enough? And I said keep it? Because

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Speaker 1: I know she's not keeping it. She's getting new tile.

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Speaker 1: She's acting like there might be a change. I mean

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Speaker 3: Stick with that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know why you would be going beachy.

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Speaker 4: Bechi feels like you're in denial full well.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like that may be a theme

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Speaker 3: Why you're shadow blocked? Why your shadow blocked? He keeps

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Speaker 3: psychoanalyzing them from a distance, looking up through Freid, like, huh,

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Speaker 3: what does this say about the projection? Interesting?

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Speaker 1: You don't have to do too much analyzing. I feel

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Speaker 3: Billy Crystal and Bobby de Niro go on analy.

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Speaker 1: I was trying to meet you, say, he is already

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Speaker 4: You must tell me, by the way, Andrew, what okay?

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Speaker 1: Can?

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Speaker 3: I'm not afraid to say what can? I set the

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Speaker 4: Do you really want to stop what we're doing to

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I just want to point out I'm literally behind foliage,

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Speaker 4: Is reporting from the jungle, giving Homer Simpson gift.

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Speaker 3: For no reason, you guys, I just thought that that

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Speaker 1: It's a beautiful, beautiful scene you're providing him. I mean,

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Speaker 1: eventually you'll be against the wall. Yeah, and then you're

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Speaker 3: Well there's well, there's spiders right over there.

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Speaker 4: So at web Andrew, Andrew, I need you to be

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Speaker 3: I need you to be in the moment, but not

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Speaker 1: Yes, Okay, I see what you're saying. You two have

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Speaker 3: Loves? To be clear?

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Speaker 1: Because I mean this releases in what August September August

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Speaker 1: which is just so horrible.

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Speaker 4: They are quoted and they also love it. And I said,

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Speaker 3: So all you've done is game a whole bunch of

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Speaker 4: To sit down. They was about to sit down because

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Speaker 3: I wasn't special. I get to be a victim. Boy.

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Speaker 3: It's like we did not.

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Speaker 1: That was a nice shot in the arm.

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Speaker 1: It really was, as in Sag dropping in.

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Speaker 3: As will go once said oh shot in the arm.

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Speaker 1: Oh again, you can both leave or and you can

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Speaker 1: I can also go in the house. I have locks

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Speaker 3: WGA sag.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: But well, you know what it was to right, because

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Speaker 4: Everyone can leave in thirty minutes. That kind of feel

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Speaker 4: we're all now we're all buzzing. Now we're saying how

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Speaker 3: That's what happened. Roaring, it's roaring. Oh yeah, when we

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Speaker 4: you just got it. You just got it when you

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00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:29,959
Speaker 4: checked in.

442
00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:32,199
Speaker 3: When they when it was handed to them, it just

443
00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:34,840
Speaker 3: magically you saw like a little like tiny stars, like

444
00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:37,400
Speaker 3: like fairy pixie dust kind of, and then it turned

445
00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:39,040
Speaker 3: into a crop top as they touched it.

446
00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:40,480
Speaker 4: Well, this is the best part too, because like when

447
00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:44,960
Speaker 4: I went over because you know, both unions thank you, but.

448
00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:46,680
Speaker 3: You know and Naomi striking for two.

449
00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:50,080
Speaker 1: Naomi, you're talking to a double striker right now, so

450
00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:50,840
Speaker 1: don't choot.

451
00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:51,400
Speaker 2: Damn.

452
00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:54,520
Speaker 4: Well, So when I went SORR, we'll go to check

453
00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:56,080
Speaker 4: in over at the sag Think and it was just

454
00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:58,240
Speaker 4: funny because you go to w GA and again WJ

455
00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:00,000
Speaker 4: has been doing right, we're you know, doing it long.

456
00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:02,840
Speaker 3: But it's just like a little chiller. The lady is

457
00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:04,679
Speaker 3: Sagwage just made me laugh. Just hand your card. You

458
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:06,919
Speaker 3: hand them your card, they scan it and that's it.

459
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:07,240
Speaker 3: You go.

460
00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:09,280
Speaker 4: So I give us the segway and then I was like, oh,

461
00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:10,879
Speaker 4: do you guys have any T shirts? Because you know,

462
00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:12,560
Speaker 4: I need my T because I don't really have shirt,

463
00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:14,960
Speaker 4: Like I don't wear shirts in general. That's not a

464
00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:17,159
Speaker 4: T shirt person. I can't picture that. I don't have

465
00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:20,200
Speaker 4: also a T shirt figure T shirt is like it's

466
00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:22,600
Speaker 4: like no, thank you, But I said, we're out here.

467
00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:24,080
Speaker 3: What else am I don wearing? You know, out such?

468
00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:25,440
Speaker 3: So I was like, can I get a sex shirt?

469
00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:27,320
Speaker 3: And she and she's like yeah, sure and then she

470
00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:30,040
Speaker 3: like what size are you?

471
00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:34,159
Speaker 4: Full whisper, full whisp stage whisper like that yes, And

472
00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:37,680
Speaker 4: I said, this is actors, right, because like you're because

473
00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:40,080
Speaker 4: you're dealing with people where it's like your body, your size,

474
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:42,400
Speaker 4: all of that is like don't oh god, don't speak

475
00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:44,360
Speaker 4: of it unless it's zero and even zero you might

476
00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:47,520
Speaker 4: have to apologize and saying, wait, really I eat so much,

477
00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:50,920
Speaker 4: like you know, there's like so much around it hamburgers exactly.

478
00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:52,760
Speaker 3: It was like so much around it, you know that.

479
00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:54,880
Speaker 3: She was like what size are you?

480
00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:57,920
Speaker 4: And it was just like medium all lodge whatever you got.

481
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:00,439
Speaker 4: It was like, why am I throwing my for this?

482
00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:02,840
Speaker 4: But I just felt like I'm not, but but I

483
00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:06,199
Speaker 4: understood the impulse. The impulse felt very screen actors guilt

484
00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:07,000
Speaker 4: when you.

485
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:09,719
Speaker 3: Said that, though, the tall blonde woman behind you very willy,

486
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:12,320
Speaker 3: just like she heard it and like the flesh melted

487
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 3: off her scowl right right right she couldn't.

488
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:20,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, blesser, Wow, Yeah, that's a that's an interesting thing.

489
00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:22,960
Speaker 1: I feel like WGA did not ask me my size.

490
00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:23,920
Speaker 1: I think I had to tell.

491
00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:24,560
Speaker 3: Well.

492
00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:31,160
Speaker 4: I remember they were like, we only got three xl left.

493
00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:32,280
Speaker 1: A grand opening or something that's grand opening size where

494
00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:34,480
Speaker 1: it's like everybody gets a double xcel it doesn't matter

495
00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:37,280
Speaker 1: who you are. I feel like in the last fifteen

496
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:39,000
Speaker 1: to twenty years we finally got to the place where

497
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:42,400
Speaker 1: free T shirts were in all sizes for everybody. Yes, absolutely,

498
00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:46,360
Speaker 1: As an extremely small person, the nineties were hell. They

499
00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:48,160
Speaker 1: were a real I never got a free T shirt

500
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:48,720
Speaker 1: that would fit me.

501
00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:49,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, what do you access?

502
00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:53,600
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I think I still might be. It's ridiculous.

503
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 1: So I appreciate that.

504
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:57,520
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, I'm not wearing it.

505
00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:59,040
Speaker 1: I mean I guess to bed I would wear a

506
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:01,080
Speaker 1: double xcel or to the lawn or something.

507
00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 4: If you weren't double x out of mow the lawn,

508
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:04,760
Speaker 4: you would get caught up in the blades.

509
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 3: You would be murdered.

510
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:11,760
Speaker 1: Wedding dress with a train on me, I have my

511
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:16,920
Speaker 1: bridesmaids carry Is that their job? Bridesmaids carried the train

512
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 1: of the wedding gown?

513
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 3: They carry you on quin.

514
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:22,560
Speaker 1: How could I forget? That's how your wedding?

515
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:25,720
Speaker 3: Yes? Absolutely, absolutely? Uh Bridgard?

516
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 4: Do you want to talk about, you know, attending two

517
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:28,880
Speaker 4: weddings in one day?

518
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:30,359
Speaker 3: I wait to you.

519
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:32,600
Speaker 1: Of course, the last time I saw Andy, I've seen

520
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 1: you since now, was that your wedding. Yah, you've avoided me.

521
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:39,359
Speaker 1: You've avoided me because there was a fight because then

522
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:41,640
Speaker 1: you got you two got married, and then we were

523
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:42,520
Speaker 1: no longer an option.

524
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:46,159
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I have to say I've been deleting all

525
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:52,680
Speaker 3: your ear voice man told you about this now.

526
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:55,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's part of why you're like now into the

527
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:57,640
Speaker 4: bushes right now, because you said I can't be close

528
00:23:57,720 --> 00:23:57,879
Speaker 4: to it.

529
00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:00,359
Speaker 3: I gotta say it tastes good as I talk, I

530
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 3: get these leaves in my mouth. Yea, yeah, and maybe

531
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 3: I'm part Brannosaurus, but delicious.

532
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:08,800
Speaker 1: I went to your wedding. Yes, this was in March.

533
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:13,680
Speaker 1: Beautiful wedding. Thank you, such a lovely thing. The vows were,

534
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:17,880
Speaker 1: I mean, I was very close to crime, very very cool.

535
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:23,120
Speaker 3: Here's from Bridger That's one of my favorite songs. That's

536
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 3: a great song.

537
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 1: The problem was I had committed to two weddings, and

538
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:32,919
Speaker 1: so then after the ceremony, I became a terror to

539
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 1: everyone I talked to because the only thing I wanted

540
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 1: to discuss was how stressed I was that I had

541
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:39,879
Speaker 1: to go to two weddings. It was the only topic

542
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:43,360
Speaker 1: on my mind, sweating. No one cares, No one wants

543
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:45,280
Speaker 1: to hear that I'm going to two weddings. I was

544
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:49,359
Speaker 1: going to other guests of the podcast, Jessica Gow's wedding,

545
00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,960
Speaker 1: and she was demanding IB there you two were demanding.

546
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:53,359
Speaker 3: I be your wedding.

547
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:57,639
Speaker 1: Absolutely, and so it was a I don't think I

548
00:24:57,680 --> 00:24:59,359
Speaker 1: was bringing a good vibe to either wedding.

549
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 3: Let's be interesting to the second one. You can relax,

550
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 3: because there was a relax to be. Do you feel

551
00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:08,800
Speaker 3: guilty that you left our wedding? Which wedding?

552
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:12,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, your perfect wedding. And then Jessica's was a completely

553
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 1: different mood. It was like a big Chinese wedding, loud, raucous,

554
00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:18,960
Speaker 1: and I had no energy to do anything. I was

555
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,240
Speaker 1: just sitting there kind of at a table that was

556
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 1: so big I couldn't talk to anyone. Oh so then

557
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 1: I became a bore. I went from kind of a

558
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:30,439
Speaker 1: stressmaker to a bore. I will probably never be invited

559
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:36,120
Speaker 1: to a wedding again. Years you're invited, Yeah, hopefully Jessica's

560
00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:37,240
Speaker 1: not renewing her vows.

561
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,360
Speaker 3: I mean, the same day, same day again. Can you imagine?

562
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:41,240
Speaker 3: Can you imagine?

563
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 4: I never in a million years thought I would be

564
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:45,640
Speaker 4: splitting an audience because you weren't the only person who

565
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:46,680
Speaker 4: I had believed to go to that wedding.

566
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 3: That's right, I said, name everyone who left our wedding

567
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,240
Speaker 3: after the ceremony and after the cocktail. I guess was

568
00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:56,679
Speaker 3: after the at least.

569
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 4: I feel like, at least get a little sip and

570
00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:00,679
Speaker 4: a little nibble, little nipple at the very least.

571
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 3: But then you could go it your way. That's my

572
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:03,399
Speaker 3: favorite kind of dinner.

573
00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:04,919
Speaker 1: I don't think I got a sip or a nibble.

574
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 3: You didn't get I'm sorry. Tell me about there were

575
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:11,919
Speaker 3: welcome dressing. There were welcome drinks, and you walked it.

576
00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 1: I think I was too stressed.

577
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:15,359
Speaker 3: Oh so you chose not to partake.

578
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 4: I think I was just panicking because I can't even

579
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 4: hear that someone didn't have something, because you know, it's

580
00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:22,080
Speaker 4: all for you, Ridgerd.

581
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 3: We did it for you, bridger Ther.

582
00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 1: Money was wasted. The money was absolutely wasted. No, I

583
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:30,440
Speaker 1: don't think I had any. I didn't consume anything. What

584
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 1: I was a mess.

585
00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:34,040
Speaker 3: I was as.

586
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 1: I feel like I blacked out on the way to

587
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,159
Speaker 1: the next wedding because I don't remember between weddings. It's

588
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 1: kind of this weird, redacted period of my life.

589
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 3: But it was.

590
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:47,880
Speaker 1: It was an evening to remember that what you remember.

591
00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:50,679
Speaker 3: Is that you were a stress for everyone except you.

592
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 3: It was an evening to remiss. Absolutely. How was it

593
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,720
Speaker 3: for you too? Was it stressful? It was up until

594
00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 3: it started?

595
00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 4: Yes, okay, because it was you know so uh you

596
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 4: know see above Reandy outdoors. We're committed to an outdoor situation.

597
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:09,120
Speaker 4: And the wedding started at four pm. The rain ended

598
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 4: at two pm. So literally I was just sitting there

599
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:14,879
Speaker 4: like getting ready, looking, you know, like let's have you

600
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 4: play face the window for natural light and it's just

601
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 4: like sheet separad and I just thought to myself, well,

602
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:21,399
Speaker 4: I don't know what the alternative is.

603
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:23,480
Speaker 1: Were they offering umbrellas or anything.

604
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:26,119
Speaker 3: We bought umbrellas for everyone. We did have umbrellas, so

605
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,359
Speaker 3: we had to. So this is the stress because we

606
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:32,440
Speaker 3: had to say whether we wanted to purchase tenting. Oh

607
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 3: the tuesday before, Oh, that's not fair and that's not enough.

608
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:39,159
Speaker 3: That's like too much time to know what the weather's

609
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:42,439
Speaker 3: going to be. And on that Tuesday, like we waited

610
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 3: till the last minute just refreshing the weather report.

611
00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 4: And it wasn't just honey. We had some special like

612
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 4: weather website that a mediaologies referred us to.

613
00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:56,199
Speaker 3: Hour like some special satellite was like data straight to.

614
00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 1: The rest of the year. They the weather really accurate, and.

615
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 3: We were so and on Tuesday it was like ten

616
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:07,919
Speaker 3: percent chance. Yes, we thought okay, And then the minute

617
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 3: we made the decision, it just starts ramping up. Like

618
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:12,359
Speaker 3: the next day it's like thirty percent. We're like, it

619
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:15,080
Speaker 3: was like twenty four thirty. Then it was like until

620
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,480
Speaker 3: six am until eight a m.

621
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 4: Until noon. You know, it was one of those things.

622
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:22,440
Speaker 4: Was like but again, once you what's the opposite to

623
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 4: pull the trigger. Once you said no to the tent,

624
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 4: there's no getting the ten.

625
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 3: You've left the trigger alone. Once you went, you wrong,

626
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 3: the gun away in and then thrown the key away

627
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 3: to exactly lock box and you're done.

628
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 4: And then they were like and so then it was okay,

629
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:37,360
Speaker 4: we're gonna go on Amazon and order thirty umbrellas.

630
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:39,920
Speaker 3: I mean then it was sixty my first thirty. We

631
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 3: order thirty, and then the winning planter was like, maybe

632
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 3: you should order some more. So we ordered another thirty,

633
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 3: and then she ordered another thirty, so we had ninety.

634
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 1: How much just an umbrella cost?

635
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 4: Well, these were Amazon shee bees. There was I mean,

636
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 4: it was still a little bit. You know what, Bridger,

637
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 4: You know what the thing is about weddings.

638
00:28:57,720 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 3: They make you.

639
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 4: Break you down so much that you know when you

640
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 4: five days out and somebody said it won five hundred dollars.

641
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 4: Fun brothers, you say, why not take a kidney?

642
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah's you add it?

643
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 1: Drop the little drop into the ocean.

644
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 3: There's this line you cross, a temporal line you crossed

645
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 3: where after at the other side of it, it's just

646
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 3: whatever amount they put in front of you, you just

647
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 3: hand them your credit card.

648
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 1: I am the one person on earth that this the

649
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 1: wedding would be ruined by me. I would say, no, well,

650
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 1: I will let the wedding be ruined.

651
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 3: I did start to rebel and I'm like, we were people,

652
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 3: we can't pay that, please find us a cheaper alternative,

653
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 3: and our and I think our planner did not enjoy

654
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 3: us for that reason or no, she had followed us

655
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 3: right afterwards on Instagram. Yeah, im afterwards, even though as

656
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 3: nice as we were in general, we just we just

657
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 3: were like, hey, we don't want to pay that. We

658
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 3: weren't mean about it, we were like, I don't want

659
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 3: to do that because then she would have to do work.

660
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 3: And I think she resented that.

661
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Speaker 4: Yeah, because I think I think it's also too I think,

662
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 4: certainly for a lot of people. And I think if

663
00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 4: we were in a different industry, if we had maybe

664
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 4: been together as long as we had, there would be

665
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 4: a little more drama.

666
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:05,800
Speaker 1: And magic to it all, right, right.

667
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 4: But so I think a lot of people do come

668
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,240
Speaker 4: into weddings be like, this is my special date and

669
00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 4: the only time I get to do X, Y and Z.

670
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 3: Let's go for it.

671
00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 4: Whereas we kind of felt like we definitely want to

672
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 4: have a gathering of people, but you know, ain't got

673
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 4: a broke to do this. What's the what's the simplest

674
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 4: way to meet people's needs? What's the cheapest way to

675
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:26,959
Speaker 4: meet people's needs or rather not even needs as much

676
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 4: as the expectations around the wedding, right, because.

677
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 3: We just want a good food and we wanted a

678
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 3: convivial time.

679
00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 2: That's it.

680
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 1: That's that's all it.

681
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,040
Speaker 3: Ever should be. That's what you're feeling like.

682
00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 1: Just tell that to anyone else at all.

683
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 3: There was soda, there was this deserves so rough.

684
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 1: It didn't feel like bare minimum though, which that's the thing.

685
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 3: It wasn't. But there were certain things where just like

686
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 3: a fee would suddenly appear out of nowhere, as if,

687
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 3: as if out of spiritus mundy as As Yates one said.

688
00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 4: As the Yates once said, Okay, well, we can complain

689
00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 4: about weddings forever. I think insummation our wedding planner on

690
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 4: followed us is just a really encapsulation of the process.

691
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 3: That's an achievement.

692
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean think talking about stress events,

693
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 1: this kind of thing podcast is called I said no gifts, Naomi,

694
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 1: you've been on the podcast. I think twice you were

695
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 1: on the Holidays special. The first Holiday special you were

696
00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 1: on full episode, and you're clearly familiar. I've been on

697
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 1: your both of your podcasts two times. I was a

698
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 1: little surprised you two come, you know, sauntering into my

699
00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 1: backyard holding a massive bagged object, beautifully wrapped. Yes, expensive gift,

700
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 1: trap only the best for you. Is this a gift

701
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 1: for me?

702
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 3: It is indeed a gift for you. I'm sorry to.

703
00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 4: Say it's for me, inde, because I said I would

704
00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:00,240
Speaker 4: to be trapped again. Okay, I bring him up fit.

705
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 3: And it has to be ironic. It has to be

706
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 3: an ironic. Bridge and I are of the same im older,

707
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 3: but I'm from the ironic nineties, all right, and so

708
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 3: I'm like it has to be. That's how I read it.

709
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 4: And because you have, you have been deleting his messages

710
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:19,240
Speaker 4: and everything, you were like, I should make some overture,

711
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 4: just kind of smooth things over it.

712
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 3: Overture symphony. Yeah, it's a whole darn orchestra. John Williams.

713
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 1: John william set the bowl. This is in three target bags.

714
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 1: Are you two collecting the target bags under the sink?

715
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 3: Yes?

716
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 1: Yes, I mean I've broken my cabinet with Target bag

717
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 1: because I'm not kidding. The handle has popped off and

718
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 1: it's shameful.

719
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 3: Wow. But so it was like that I opened it

720
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 3: up and that and all the cleaning supplies like poured.

721
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 3: Like do you know in a sitcom from the fifties,

722
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:49,080
Speaker 3: they would like the boss is coming and they would

723
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 3: push everything into the closet bulging. Right, that's what it was.

724
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 1: I never I barely ever have a reason to use them,

725
00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:58,760
Speaker 1: but I guess you've got to keep them.

726
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 4: Well, we've got, you know, we hiding cat litter. Oh,

727
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 4: that's that's why we get these. We said that'll be

728
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 4: someplace to put all that.

729
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:08,960
Speaker 1: That is the ideal cat litter thing. Are you paying

730
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Speaker 1: for the Target Bag? When it asks how many bags

731
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Speaker 1: did you use? We honestly we don't go in So

732
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 1: I guess they are paying.

733
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 3: But yeah, yeah, because it's in the drive up situation.

734
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 1: Well, I've revealed myself clearly. I've never paid for the bag,

735
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: and I hopefully never will. I mean, but to be

736
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 1: arrested for not paying the ten cent fee, that could

737
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 1: be life ruining.

738
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 3: No, no, no, that could be like the first brick

739
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 3: at stone Wall. First you know, sitting down, you could

740
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 3: be the person who really.

741
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 1: Like, let's just be honest, Andy is the one comparing

742
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 1: me to all of these.

743
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 4: You could be God, it's like no, no, no, no please.

744
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 3: In the Warsaw ghetto during World War Two? Uh well,

745
00:33:57,400 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 3: should I open it here? On the podcast? I think so.

746
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 3: I don't you know, I don't know how it usually goes,

747
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 3: even though I've listened. I honestly I've listened to episodes.

748
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 3: But my memory, much like you after our wedding, like something,

749
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 3: I don't know how it usually goes.

750
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:18,479
Speaker 4: But I say, take apart all three Target bags helped

751
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:19,720
Speaker 4: together with basket tape.

752
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 3: On the podcast, Yeah, which is the best kind of

753
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 3: wrapping paper?

754
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:26,440
Speaker 1: This is the best type of rapping paper, certainly.

755
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 3: A Rockefeller do it?

756
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:50,160
Speaker 1: Okay, I believe, Okay, I'm going to open this up.

757
00:34:54,000 --> 00:35:00,920
Speaker 3: I didn't even know. Oh yeah, yeah, the bags Worthy,

758
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 3: We're like basically wrapping. Wait what is this?

759
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:10,200
Speaker 1: It's a piece of art, a piece of art on

760
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 1: a board. It's blue, white and pink, and it says,

761
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:18,439
Speaker 1: but I don't wait is it a full sentence evening news?

762
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 3: Oh?

763
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:23,439
Speaker 1: Happy days, mash we're getting and white?

764
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 3: Oh?

765
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 1: I didn't even Monday Evening, Monday Evening News, Monday evening

766
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:30,280
Speaker 1: evening news.

767
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 3: So look that's in white Monday Evening, okay, And then

768
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 3: the rest of it.

769
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:38,759
Speaker 1: Is, oh, is this a TV schedule from Should I

770
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:42,879
Speaker 1: guess which year? Sure, let's read the rest and oh, yeah,

771
00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 1: because I'm seeing some more modern things here, Evening News,

772
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,600
Speaker 1: Happy Days, Mash Jeopardy Wheel.

773
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:49,479
Speaker 3: Should have gone.

774
00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:51,319
Speaker 1: I feel like it's a little disrespectful to not go

775
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 1: full Wheel of Fortune. But we'll leave it a family feud, last.

776
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:58,319
Speaker 3: Standing, last man standing.

777
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:03,920
Speaker 1: Last man cocaine dealer Tim Allen doesus back?

778
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 3: Is that? Do I have to say alleged he was?

779
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:09,399
Speaker 1: We all know that he got arrested. There's like a

780
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:12,279
Speaker 1: mug shot. You can say whatever you want about Tim Allen.

781
00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:12,799
Speaker 3: I don't care.

782
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:19,920
Speaker 1: At a cornwall, Blackish and then PBS News Hour, Big Bang,

783
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 1: Goldberg's King of Queen's Law and Order n C I

784
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 1: s l A. What a way to finish an evening.

785
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 3: That's a complete evening. Well this is it from this year? Certainly?

786
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:35,239
Speaker 1: No? Well no, because I'm thinking this was lying around

787
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 1: the house.

788
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 3: Well, that's a piece of actual art. I wanted to look.

789
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:41,840
Speaker 3: I want to make sure that we actually got you

790
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:42,720
Speaker 3: something and you might.

791
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 1: Like that I might actually be able to use right.

792
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:48,799
Speaker 3: Right, so, uh, the painter is Steve Keane, who is

793
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:52,120
Speaker 3: a very well known Now here's the thing. I actually

794
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 3: know that I remember the last time we were at

795
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:57,920
Speaker 3: one of your parties. Here at the very end, I

796
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:01,320
Speaker 3: found out that you had read the music site that

797
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:04,440
Speaker 3: I used to write reviews for. Of course, so I'm like, okay,

798
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 3: we probably like the same music, right. Steve Kean paints

799
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:13,440
Speaker 3: famously paints like covers for like Pavement and The Silver Juice.

800
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:15,919
Speaker 1: Of course, this looks so familiar now if it all

801
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 1: adds up?

802
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:19,479
Speaker 3: So and did he do it? Bring your personal Steve Keane,

803
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 3: you can't give this to me? That seems we have

804
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:25,320
Speaker 3: so many around the house.

805
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:27,400
Speaker 4: He loves Steve Kean. I said, you know what, if

806
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 4: he wants to give it, he can get paint them.

807
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:35,240
Speaker 3: He paints them on moss, and he sells them relatively cheap.

808
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:38,319
Speaker 3: So this is not like, Look, if you end up

809
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 3: selling it for thousands of dollars, buy us a meal.

810
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 1: This is a you're setting up a legal trap for me, essentially.

811
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:47,839
Speaker 3: On recorded media. Now you owe us a meal if

812
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 3: for some reason you sell them in the future.

813
00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 1: You're going to wait for the Internet to crumble, so

814
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 1: this audio is no longer available, and then you sue

815
00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:56,359
Speaker 1: you don't think I.

816
00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 3: Keep MP three's of all the podcasts. We're a chesting

817
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:01,759
Speaker 3: case for this very very scenario.

818
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:04,399
Speaker 1: But the scenarios is you're giving it to make.

819
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:07,360
Speaker 3: The scenario is that I said, on record of media,

820
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:11,280
Speaker 3: you owe me if you sell us the future.

821
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 1: To be sued for a dinner.

822
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:15,719
Speaker 3: Hey, dream bigger, you're out here asking for a hot meal.

823
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:16,920
Speaker 3: Make my day.

824
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,680
Speaker 1: Wow, this is amazing. This is actually an incredible thing

825
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 1: to get.

826
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 3: Then well, then, well what you understood?

827
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:26,279
Speaker 1: But I never guessed the year, So I'm gonna say

828
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:27,239
Speaker 1: twenty twenty one.

829
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:31,479
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, we've got Blackish, but last Man's Standing didn't

830
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 4: that go away?

831
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 1: That did go away, But that feels like something might

832
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 1: be in reruns or something. Blackish went away. Yeah, but

833
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:38,360
Speaker 1: that was recent.

834
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:46,760
Speaker 3: That was the last year, forever, order, forever of Queens.

835
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 4: So this is also a late night situation, right, because

836
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 4: once we get into King of Queens, that's a repair.

837
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:52,360
Speaker 3: Right, That's like eleven o'clock.

838
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:54,680
Speaker 1: You got those right, You've got eleven o'clock hour, right,

839
00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 1: after PBS News Hour. You're dealing with a lot of

840
00:38:57,000 --> 00:39:00,200
Speaker 1: repeat repeats. Yeah, so I don't know. I'm go my

841
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 1: guess would be twenty twenty one. But when did you

842
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:03,600
Speaker 1: buy it?

843
00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:06,440
Speaker 3: Yeah? That feels right, right, it feels right. Yeah. Also

844
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 3: he signed it above s K twenty one, so I'm

845
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:13,279
Speaker 3: gonna guess it's where. Yeah, we couldn't. I couldn't tell.

846
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:16,200
Speaker 4: Well, but you can know this is well. And that

847
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:18,800
Speaker 4: was very nice to you to get street.

848
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:19,400
Speaker 3: Very thoughtful.

849
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:21,400
Speaker 1: I mean, naoly. The thing you brought me last time

850
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 1: was disgusted. It was the vanilla vanilla. They're still in

851
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 1: my cupboard and they must be they must be.

852
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:34,799
Speaker 3: Those are good. No, they were the vanilla. What the

853
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:37,320
Speaker 3: vanilla almond? No, they neversted like teeth.

854
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, they looked and tasted like they should be green.

855
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 1: They're still in the cupboard. I wonder if they're chewable

856
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:47,800
Speaker 1: at this point. I can't imagine.

857
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 3: Definitely not go.

858
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 4: You could turn them like plug holes or a kilo rodent.

859
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 3: Oh vanilla. Sorry, I was like I got stuck on

860
00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:57,919
Speaker 3: the vanilla and I missed the almond part.

861
00:39:58,200 --> 00:39:59,800
Speaker 4: Well, it's also supposed to be a gummy, like a

862
00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:01,719
Speaker 4: g he is not made to be creamy, like it

863
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:03,240
Speaker 4: shouldn't be creamy exactly.

864
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 3: You want to say something, but I said, you know what, Bridga.

865
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 4: Made me get something. So I said, he gonna take this.

866
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:13,799
Speaker 4: You know, I make people regret interacting with me as

867
00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:14,840
Speaker 4: often as possible.

868
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:18,080
Speaker 1: Do you two have a ton of art around the house?

869
00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 1: Steve Keena side.

870
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:24,280
Speaker 3: And yes, his army and he just wants bare walls.

871
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 3: She she wants it to be giving institutional.

872
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 4: No, I wanted to be giving Nancy Meyer's cream tope beage.

873
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:31,759
Speaker 4: Like I like, I like a kind of a I

874
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:34,479
Speaker 4: like a cool neutral wall, not necessarily even like creamer beige,

875
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:37,680
Speaker 4: but like, you know, I love like a bluish gray

876
00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:39,440
Speaker 4: or something, you know what I mean, like one of

877
00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 4: those like new constructions where they're like, here's a blue

878
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 4: build wall or like a deep green.

879
00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 3: I don't really yeah, but I'm not again, like the.

880
00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 4: Stuff adies put up. I'm like, yes, nice, but I

881
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:52,719
Speaker 4: don't have an impulse.

882
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:54,920
Speaker 1: You're just okay with a being neutral?

883
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:56,640
Speaker 4: Yes, And I also don't know where to start because

884
00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:59,320
Speaker 4: I'm like, well, what would be an image that I

885
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:03,120
Speaker 4: would want to look forever? And then whenever you come by,

886
00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 4: whenever somebody come by, you gotta explain it to him.

887
00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:07,400
Speaker 3: So then it's got to have a moment in a story.

888
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 4: I don't know nothing.

889
00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 1: That is the panic.

890
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:13,279
Speaker 4: What gonna I'm like, I got this at World cost

891
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 4: plus World Market. It's like, what do you want me

892
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 4: to say about it?

893
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:17,920
Speaker 3: Never?

894
00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:20,239
Speaker 4: But we have one wall that does is near and dear,

895
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 4: which is like the wall of Like.

896
00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:26,800
Speaker 1: That's a I mean, that is absolutely an easy choice

897
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:27,080
Speaker 1: to make.

898
00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 3: Yes, and we've gotten a lot. All the animals have

899
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:34,359
Speaker 3: been rendered of different artists, different styles.

900
00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:35,479
Speaker 1: But you'll never regret those.

901
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 3: The piece of resistances, of course, Mabel rendered by a

902
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:41,520
Speaker 3: couple's therapy listener, John.

903
00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:46,160
Speaker 4: A highly you know, realistic painter. Like he's like submitted.

904
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:48,200
Speaker 4: He's always like a finalist in like the stamp seemed

905
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 4: like a duck stamp, like he can really he's giving

906
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:50,839
Speaker 4: you that fur hunting.

907
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:53,800
Speaker 1: It is stunning.

908
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:56,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's center. That's center, of course.

909
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:58,480
Speaker 1: I mean that's the only thing that could be the

910
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:00,920
Speaker 1: fact that it has other arts surrounding. It's kind of embarrassing,

911
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 1: but that's a beautiful picture.

912
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 3: Yeah.

913
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:06,439
Speaker 1: I think the good default if you're if you don't

914
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:07,839
Speaker 1: want to go out and buy arts. It's just get

915
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 1: a picture of your dog. Yeah, we've got two giant

916
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 1: pictures of Eadie on the wall. How's Mabel doing? I

917
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 1: thought I imagined Mabel, Mabel would come today. But then

918
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:16,680
Speaker 1: the heat, the heat that.

919
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:17,960
Speaker 3: It was the heat.

920
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 4: And also because I didn't know what Eadie's stand like,

921
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:23,919
Speaker 4: you know, was she going to be out here side

922
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:25,840
Speaker 4: of a window and out and then they would make

923
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:29,320
Speaker 4: each other crazy. I said, we can't even, We can't even.

924
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 4: So she's home now, she's got you know, the AC's

925
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 4: on energy saver.

926
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 3: She's doing better than all of us, got water. She's

927
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 3: got Bob's Burgers playing.

928
00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:38,359
Speaker 1: Oh good do you leave something on all the time?

929
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:40,280
Speaker 3: Always bombs Bob's Burger.

930
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:43,320
Speaker 1: That seems like a comforting thing for an animal, right.

931
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:46,240
Speaker 4: Like, it's not too crazy, nothing's going on. It can't

932
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 4: really get you know what I mean, Like there's no

933
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 4: foul language from my child.

934
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:49,760
Speaker 1: Right.

935
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 3: Also, we are helping out people we know who ride

936
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:56,320
Speaker 3: on the show with residuals. But we now know that

937
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:57,880
Speaker 3: they're getting like what like nothing.

938
00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:01,439
Speaker 1: Basically they're probably getting about it for a year and

939
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:04,319
Speaker 1: they look at the residuals portal on the website and

940
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:06,239
Speaker 1: they see that they're gonna get a residual and then

941
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 1: it's a dollar.

942
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 4: And they had negative eighty three cents.

943
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 1: How did you get negative eighty three?

944
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:14,160
Speaker 4: I don't know how that math adds Upreacher. It was

945
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 4: a negative eighty three, so of course they're not sending

946
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 4: it to me. But when you go to the portal

947
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 4: you see minus.

948
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 1: Can you say what project it was for?

949
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 3: Family guy?

950
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 1: Family guy gave you negative eighty three cents?

951
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 4: So I don't understand. I don't understand how it was

952
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 4: negative eighty three?

953
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:30,800
Speaker 3: Nice today that all you see is violence and movies

954
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 3: and sex on TV. Nope, no where are those good.

955
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 4: Old We're in love.

956
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 3: Don't worry more than ever, not more than ever.

957
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:48,440
Speaker 1: Okay, so you leave something on for Mabel. She's minding

958
00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 1: her business. Does she have any off limits things in

959
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 1: the house.

960
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:54,279
Speaker 4: Well, she's in the bedroom, so she's waiting because of

961
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:58,560
Speaker 4: the cat, and nothing has happened. However, Mabel does not

962
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:02,120
Speaker 4: trust her to not cause a mess. Right, But in

963
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:04,280
Speaker 4: twenty we even even initially too, we have a tiny

964
00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 4: little like lower it's like what a six inch tall gate?

965
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:12,040
Speaker 4: Maybe we tend to just over the litter box room

966
00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 4: because she will go in and try to eat poop.

967
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 4: So that was at first it was like keep her

968
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:17,880
Speaker 4: way between like getting at the cats and try to

969
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:18,359
Speaker 4: eat the poop.

970
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:18,879
Speaker 3: It can't happen.

971
00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 4: Now we have a little tiny gate that kind of

972
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 4: she can't go in there to get the poop. But

973
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 4: now it's like, you know, is she gonna bother him?

974
00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 4: It's like I don't know, Like she's so tiny and

975
00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 4: does barely has teeth as it is, I'm like, I

976
00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 4: just don't want to take the chance.

977
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 3: But you know, so it's like it's like, so we

978
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:39,239
Speaker 3: just gotta but the thing, you know, we're not.

979
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:41,759
Speaker 4: It's not tiny, Like she's comfortable headache, She's got a

980
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 4: king bed to herself.

981
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:45,360
Speaker 3: She's a tiny lady. Yeah, so she's got toys, she

982
00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:47,360
Speaker 3: has all her friends. Yeah, like whatever she's got to

983
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:48,920
Speaker 3: because she needs and she's watching her stories.

984
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 1: So I mean the dream, exact absolute dream all we

985
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 1: ever wanted, we have to. I mean the setup we

986
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:56,520
Speaker 1: now have when we leave the house for eightie is

987
00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 1: if you walked in and you'd be like, oh, this

988
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:01,400
Speaker 1: is a dangerous home. What because she can't be on

989
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 1: the couch or the armchair in our living room because

990
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 1: she digs and destroys. So we're putting we're taking all

991
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:10,080
Speaker 1: of the cushions off every time we we're taking the off,

992
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:12,720
Speaker 1: we're putting a foot stool on the chair, we're putting

993
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:14,400
Speaker 1: bar chairs on the couch.

994
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:16,240
Speaker 3: It looks out of control.

995
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 1: And then when we have a dog sitter, we have

996
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 1: to explain to them you have to basically set up

997
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 1: this trap every time you leave our house. It's not

998
00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:24,840
Speaker 1: a good situation, but it's giving home alone.

999
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 3: It's a little home alone.

1000
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 1: It's a little uh wet bandits are on their way

1001
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:31,839
Speaker 1: sort of situation. But you've got to do what you've

1002
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:34,360
Speaker 1: got to do, especially with a dog that wants to

1003
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 1: enjoy its life exactly. But Edie ultimately just stays on

1004
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 1: the bed.

1005
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:42,320
Speaker 4: Oh okay, but you think it now, But when you

1006
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:45,840
Speaker 4: say she's a digger chewer, like, is it because you've gone?

1007
00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 3: Is this like her anxiety of like when when they return?

1008
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:51,400
Speaker 4: So let me like chew on a cushion.

1009
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 1: Or No, it's just I want what I want and

1010
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:56,560
Speaker 1: I'll get it when I want. So it's you know,

1011
00:45:56,680 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 1: like because if the options available, she'll take it. But

1012
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:02,919
Speaker 1: when the option is available when we're home or whatever,

1013
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:04,360
Speaker 1: she won't take it. She'll go to the bed and

1014
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:06,120
Speaker 1: have the time of her life. But as soon as

1015
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 1: we leave, she wants to be on different things. She

1016
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:10,400
Speaker 1: wants to have a taste of everything.

1017
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:11,640
Speaker 4: Uh huh uh huh uh huh.

1018
00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:15,319
Speaker 3: So we've had you know, she's it's a little much.

1019
00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 3: But I know parenting is not easy. It's not easy.

1020
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 3: They're so wilful.

1021
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 4: They don't respect you, and they just take and take.

1022
00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 3: How long have you had Mabel though? Four years? Coming

1023
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:24,719
Speaker 3: up poor?

1024
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 1: And how old was she when you got her?

1025
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:29,240
Speaker 2: Mm? Five?

1026
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:31,120
Speaker 3: We think, yeah, five ish?

1027
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:32,400
Speaker 1: So she's about eads?

1028
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:33,600
Speaker 3: Which picket fences?

1029
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 1: Five ish five ish Finkle?

1030
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, of course, yes, the dibik in the Cohen Brothers.

1031
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:41,600
Speaker 3: Simple man?

1032
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:43,880
Speaker 1: What is a serious man serious man thing?

1033
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 3: When you said picket fences, I was thinking of the

1034
00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:49,839
Speaker 3: TV show five A Shinkle played one of the Oh

1035
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 3: five ish is a real human's name, and that character

1036
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 3: name no. Five ish, five a sh Finkle, five ash Finkle.

1037
00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:58,200
Speaker 3: That's the person's name. Yes, that was someone who made

1038
00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 3: it in Hollywood, ye read you who changed their name

1039
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 3: because they thought they needed to make up John Stewart.

1040
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 3: I'm thinking of you. Five ish Finkl was like, forget it.

1041
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:13,720
Speaker 3: Good point what I want to do? All the voice,

1042
00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:17,439
Speaker 3: That's what I talk when I like my dad, who

1043
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 3: is first generation. Uh, you know my grandparents came from Europe,

1044
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 3: from Western Europe, Paul and Romania, Pale of Pale, of Russia, Pale.

1045
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:35,920
Speaker 3: I always give him, even though he was born in

1046
00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:39,880
Speaker 3: New York City. I give him that voice. Hell with me,

1047
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:43,600
Speaker 3: Andy's dad? Would you may be like a bagel? It's like,

1048
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:51,360
Speaker 3: has he ever heard it? Probably not? He thought up

1049
00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 3: until twenty nineteen he thought podcasts were videos.

1050
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 1: So oh interest interesting.

1051
00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 4: Could have accessed those two, but he didn't want it.

1052
00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 4: My mom fun about says, it's fun when you're out there,

1053
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:03,239
Speaker 4: and they just said, we don't want to know.

1054
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:06,400
Speaker 1: My mom recently found out that I have her and

1055
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 1: my dad in my phone as Jewel and Lenny Krafts,

1056
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:13,640
Speaker 1: and trying to explain that she actually took it pretty well.

1057
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:16,279
Speaker 1: She was because my dad was calling. I was at home.

1058
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:18,239
Speaker 1: My dad starts calling, well, I'm in the car. There's

1059
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:19,960
Speaker 1: a picture of Jewel and it says Jewel.

1060
00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:24,520
Speaker 3: My mom was like, what is happenings? Calling you? Does

1061
00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:25,920
Speaker 3: she need? Is she back in her car?

1062
00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:32,319
Speaker 1: But she enjoyed it. It's been ten years and I'm

1063
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:33,120
Speaker 1: not changing it now.

1064
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 3: Wait what I just said.

1065
00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 1: I was like, uh, I.

1066
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:38,520
Speaker 3: Don't know why. It's a joke.

1067
00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:41,080
Speaker 1: I thought, Oh, to have people Jewel and Lenny Grafts

1068
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 1: calling me, what can be more exciting? And I also

1069
00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:46,800
Speaker 1: have friend Cheryl Crow in there as well. And it's

1070
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:49,400
Speaker 1: confusing for everybody. But it's a fun little thing you

1071
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:51,600
Speaker 1: can do with your friends and family. Yeah, kind of

1072
00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:53,400
Speaker 1: a sign a celebrity to them and.

1073
00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:57,280
Speaker 3: Confusing for because to know what it is. It's confusing for.

1074
00:48:57,200 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 1: Me because I'll try to text these people and I'll

1075
00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:01,239
Speaker 1: frequently type their name and I'm like, why isn't there?

1076
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:03,080
Speaker 1: Why aren't they coming up? I'm like, oh, I need,

1077
00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:04,439
Speaker 1: I need to text Cheryl Crow.

1078
00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 3: But the fact that you committed to it, it's despite

1079
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:11,360
Speaker 3: that every time you go to text their parents. It's confusing.

1080
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,840
Speaker 3: You stuck with this for ten years. It's not gonna stop.

1081
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:17,400
Speaker 3: I mean, why would I change now? But feel I

1082
00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:19,719
Speaker 3: feel how do you like to confuse yourself? Why do

1083
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:23,240
Speaker 3: you close to you? Great question?

1084
00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:27,280
Speaker 1: That is a good question. I'm not currently in therapy, Naomi,

1085
00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:29,399
Speaker 1: and so that's something I'll bring up at the next

1086
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:32,120
Speaker 1: person that I find that I am eventually disappointed in.

1087
00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 3: I've got to find a new therapist.

1088
00:49:35,080 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 1: What a night.

1089
00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:36,279
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

1090
00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:38,840
Speaker 4: I know it's so hard because you know what, anybody

1091
00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:42,160
Speaker 4: could graduate an anybody can get the degree.

1092
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:43,400
Speaker 3: Do they have the skills?

1093
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 1: Yes, there's a reductrous headline that says red flag this

1094
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:51,879
Speaker 1: therapist has availability. And that's how I feel every time

1095
00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:54,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh they would see me, well, then certainly

1096
00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:56,040
Speaker 1: they're not a good therapist.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's how I felt.

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00:49:57,239 --> 00:49:58,279
Speaker 4: What I would I had to go to a guy

1099
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 4: I know recently, and I had to eventually have a

1100
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:06,399
Speaker 4: uterus uterus biopsy in the ute. It's terrible. Well it's

1101
00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:09,759
Speaker 4: get in there. It's god awful. It's and no anistusion.

1102
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:10,200
Speaker 3: Did you know?

1103
00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 4: There was just putting the pipe past the cervix getting

1104
00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:14,200
Speaker 4: into the ute.

1105
00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 1: Is it an option to have?

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00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 4: No, it's not all I said. I go because literally

1107
00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:20,120
Speaker 4: she was like, she was like, I'm gonna have to

1108
00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:22,239
Speaker 4: do this. She was like, Okay, we're gonna do this,

1109
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 4: and she goes shees just breathe, just she goes breathe,

1110
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 4: just like drop your pelvits, just breathe.

1111
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:29,080
Speaker 3: And then she.

1112
00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:32,640
Speaker 4: Goes in there and like, literally, I think what happens

1113
00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:34,759
Speaker 4: is she goes in with one thing first, and I

1114
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 4: was already upset by that.

1115
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:37,680
Speaker 3: Then she was.

1116
00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:40,799
Speaker 4: Coming in with the actual like what's gonna scrape? And

1117
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 4: I was like, Nope, nope, I can't.

1118
00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:42,919
Speaker 2: I can't.

1119
00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 3: Like, I was like, I can't do that.

1120
00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:47,279
Speaker 4: And then I was like, but then, of course we

1121
00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:48,840
Speaker 4: need the biopsy to know what's going on.

1122
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 3: So I'm like, well, you're already in there, but I go,

1123
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:50,840
Speaker 3: okay with that.

1124
00:50:50,920 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 4: Another She's like, I normally do it one to three times,

1125
00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:56,120
Speaker 4: and I go, I can't make it that long. So

1126
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:58,480
Speaker 4: I hope you got a good little sample from that one.

1127
00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 4: And I said and I said, and I go, there's

1128
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:04,880
Speaker 4: no world where you knock someone out or you know,

1129
00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:07,279
Speaker 4: numb them from the waist down, because I said, I

1130
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:08,880
Speaker 4: could literally be knocked out to have a toothpolt.

1131
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:11,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you're using the word scraping, I'm going fully under.

1132
00:51:11,560 --> 00:51:15,840
Speaker 4: Thank you under. And she said no. And you know,

1133
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:18,600
Speaker 4: I thought maybe it should have been weird that she

1134
00:51:18,719 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 4: was available like two days from when I looked her up,

1135
00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:26,719
Speaker 4: do you know what I mean? Thing was Thursday, And

1136
00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:28,480
Speaker 4: I said, you know, maybe she shouldn't be two free,

1137
00:51:28,680 --> 00:51:30,040
Speaker 4: it should be like five months away.

1138
00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:31,480
Speaker 1: They should be like, we can get you in the

1139
00:51:31,520 --> 00:51:32,360
Speaker 1: next January.

1140
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:33,879
Speaker 3: And she was like, she was like, come on, let's

1141
00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:35,440
Speaker 3: scrape it. She's like, what else, have a dupe?

1142
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:36,400
Speaker 1: I've done nothing else to.

1143
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:37,480
Speaker 4: Do, Like, let's get out there.

1144
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:39,960
Speaker 3: Maybe she wanted, maybe she was excited to and that's

1145
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:44,279
Speaker 3: why she cleared her calendar. Let's get at it. But

1146
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 3: I couldn't believe it. I couldn't believe.

1147
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:47,319
Speaker 4: There's like times when you really think about how like

1148
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:51,320
Speaker 4: medicine is just like medicine wasn't really anything until like

1149
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:54,080
Speaker 4: nineteen fifty. Yeah, And there are times when you really

1150
00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 4: can sense that in certain procedures where it's like, oh,

1151
00:51:56,280 --> 00:51:57,320
Speaker 4: we haven't gotten very.

1152
00:51:57,239 --> 00:52:01,400
Speaker 1: Far more and more like you kind of as you

1153
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 1: become an adult, realize, oh, they're just like somebody like

1154
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:05,520
Speaker 1: me who has a job and might be bad at

1155
00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:07,280
Speaker 1: it or might hate that they're at work.

1156
00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:11,040
Speaker 4: Today exactly, or like might have like not kept up

1157
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:13,520
Speaker 4: with the trends right or like meaning the things in

1158
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:15,640
Speaker 4: medicine where was like do you know about this thing

1159
00:52:15,680 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 4: going on with people?

1160
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:19,360
Speaker 3: No, that was a whole thing in scrubs if you remember,

1161
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:23,200
Speaker 3: no tell me about scrub Doctor Kelso and other older

1162
00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 3: doctors were keeping up with stuff. Yeah, well that's what

1163
00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 3: I mean.

1164
00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:29,440
Speaker 4: The older doctors, the ones who would be like, yeah, anesthesia,

1165
00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:31,160
Speaker 4: here's a fifth of whiskey, let's.

1166
00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:34,040
Speaker 3: Go, you know, like they're very they're really giving you

1167
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:34,920
Speaker 3: wartime treatment.

1168
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:35,120
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1169
00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:37,279
Speaker 3: No, no, no, they're like, here, I'll put some leeches on

1170
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:39,720
Speaker 3: you and that should We'll let some of your blood

1171
00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:40,600
Speaker 3: and that should be Yeah.

1172
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:44,440
Speaker 1: Is nobody checking in with these people? Somebody check in?

1173
00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:46,960
Speaker 1: Do the people who send the grade for the restaurants

1174
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:48,440
Speaker 1: over I don't care.

1175
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:51,880
Speaker 3: What literally, anyone, not just the AMA I have, anyone.

1176
00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:53,640
Speaker 1: As long as somebody is just like holding them accountable

1177
00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:54,200
Speaker 1: in any way.

1178
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:56,719
Speaker 3: Someone from Yelp, someone from.

1179
00:52:57,800 --> 00:53:00,319
Speaker 4: Yeah should do it, because that writing will effect how

1180
00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:01,360
Speaker 4: long do you stay in business?

1181
00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:04,759
Speaker 1: Oh, a Yelp doctor or dentist review is the most

1182
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:07,160
Speaker 1: worthless thing in the world because no one's doing a

1183
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:09,400
Speaker 1: positive review of that. So you're only getting a pure

1184
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:12,640
Speaker 1: horror story, right, things about like I got a blood

1185
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:14,520
Speaker 1: infection or whatever, and you're like, oh, well, then I

1186
00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:18,160
Speaker 1: can't go to this person. Either didn't happen or the

1187
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:21,000
Speaker 1: person like the situation was like lightning striking.

1188
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:24,359
Speaker 3: Yes, or the person writing the review had not been

1189
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:26,760
Speaker 3: to the doctor for a year, for like a decade.

1190
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:30,399
Speaker 3: He found all this stuff and said, I had three

1191
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:36,279
Speaker 3: different kinds of cancer. What a quack art?

1192
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:37,239
Speaker 1: I've got this art here?

1193
00:53:37,280 --> 00:53:38,400
Speaker 3: Do either you do art?

1194
00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:39,719
Speaker 1: Are you painters?

1195
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:45,040
Speaker 3: Drawers? Drafts? Speed draft? Speed drafts? Do art? Art? Spiegelman

1196
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:48,560
Speaker 3: and I hooked up once? You wouldn't do both? Not

1197
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:50,680
Speaker 3: at all. Did you ever make out with a man

1198
00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:54,640
Speaker 3: named art? No? Do you want me to? No? Of

1199
00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:55,560
Speaker 3: course not. We're married.

1200
00:53:55,600 --> 00:53:56,920
Speaker 1: I don't know that any of us has made out

1201
00:53:56,920 --> 00:53:57,799
Speaker 1: with a man named art.

1202
00:53:58,560 --> 00:54:00,239
Speaker 3: Interesting? What's going on there?

1203
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 1: The arts of the world are just not getting it?

1204
00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 3: Sorry, Arthur's.

1205
00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 1: No.

1206
00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:09,359
Speaker 4: I I have always wanted to. I do not have

1207
00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 4: the skill. It's like I literally have a thing where

1208
00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 4: you know, what I see and what my hand can

1209
00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:14,239
Speaker 4: do are not the same thing.

1210
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:16,840
Speaker 3: And I find it very frustrating. I did. I was

1211
00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:19,120
Speaker 3: an editor of an art magazine, you know, I didn't

1212
00:54:19,160 --> 00:54:20,799
Speaker 3: know I might have known this actual.

1213
00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:24,560
Speaker 4: She did American Artist Magazine, And then I was the

1214
00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:29,920
Speaker 4: editor in chief of Watercolor water You were c Yese.

1215
00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:32,520
Speaker 4: Do you remember when I got you a gig writing

1216
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:35,720
Speaker 4: about an artist, and the person you the person you interviewed,

1217
00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 4: ended up being.

1218
00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:37,400
Speaker 3: The cover piece.

1219
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:40,000
Speaker 4: So it was like cover by Andy mckerman. And I

1220
00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 4: was like, yes, we are a man.

1221
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:45,760
Speaker 1: Lovesh, you were a neo baby for Watercolor magazine.

1222
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:51,560
Speaker 3: I was, well, not husband, then a boyfriend.

1223
00:54:51,600 --> 00:54:54,719
Speaker 4: You were, ayfriend, gotta give him somebody so we could

1224
00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:56,960
Speaker 4: do something. Five hundred article, great and.

1225
00:54:57,080 --> 00:55:00,759
Speaker 1: Five hundred article. This was a different time print was.

1226
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:03,160
Speaker 4: Dying and so it was because this was I mean

1227
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:06,720
Speaker 4: because I was there until twenty thirteen January twenty thirteen,

1228
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:08,880
Speaker 4: so yeah, it would have been like twenty eleven or

1229
00:55:08,960 --> 00:55:09,400
Speaker 4: twelve one.

1230
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 3: I was and I was like you want to I

1231
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:12,200
Speaker 3: was like, just talk to him, write it all down.

1232
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:12,879
Speaker 3: I'll figure it out.

1233
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:14,719
Speaker 1: At this point, you would get a like a free

1234
00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:16,120
Speaker 1: tote for writing that article.

1235
00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 3: Yes, maybe, I.

1236
00:55:17,160 --> 00:55:19,840
Speaker 4: Mean, it wouldn't even be in a magazine, it wouldn't

1237
00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 4: be on paper because we were very quickly bought out

1238
00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:22,680
Speaker 4: by you know, we had a.

1239
00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 3: Rival, and we were purchased by a rival. Can we

1240
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:26,480
Speaker 3: name the rifle watercolor artists?

1241
00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:31,000
Speaker 4: So there was American artists, watercolor American arts was it

1242
00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:31,920
Speaker 4: Colon watercolor.

1243
00:55:32,160 --> 00:55:34,720
Speaker 3: It was more like next line. I was okay.

1244
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:38,440
Speaker 4: Then it was watercolor artists, and so you know, you know,

1245
00:55:38,680 --> 00:55:40,560
Speaker 4: they were just making their money on people being confused,

1246
00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:42,680
Speaker 4: of course, and we were bought by them.

1247
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 3: We were bought by them. Are they still in print?

1248
00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:45,719
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1249
00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 1: Somebody check in on water.

1250
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:49,960
Speaker 4: Color artists, see if they're working, See if they're working.

1251
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 4: It was, yeah, it was a tough to.

1252
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:54,920
Speaker 1: A wellness check. I want to subscribe to some magazines.

1253
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:57,320
Speaker 1: I think everybody listener, go subscribe to a magazine. What

1254
00:55:57,440 --> 00:55:58,520
Speaker 1: a nice thing to have in your.

1255
00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:03,240
Speaker 3: Own jackamn Andy Jacobin, Believer, Believer. I've never heard of Believer.

1256
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:10,360
Speaker 3: It is a middle brow lit mag I like some

1257
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:12,120
Speaker 3: of it's a little too. I'm just like, all right,

1258
00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:14,280
Speaker 3: we get it. You guys. You guys went to college.

1259
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:18,480
Speaker 3: I don't have to sit here.

1260
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:22,160
Speaker 4: I sometimes read. They have very you know, really good

1261
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:26,840
Speaker 4: paper quality. It's a really nice, beautifully put together and

1262
00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:29,920
Speaker 4: it's got like, you know, cool interviews with various people,

1263
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 4: like it was like the interview with character actor Dale Dicky,

1264
00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:35,440
Speaker 4: like a New York where you're like, we're not going

1265
00:56:35,520 --> 00:56:36,880
Speaker 4: to deep dive on Dale Dick anywhere.

1266
00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:38,319
Speaker 1: No one else people isn't giving you a.

1267
00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:40,920
Speaker 3: Deep dickie anymore.

1268
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:43,479
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't even need to say it now.

1269
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:47,839
Speaker 3: I've made very clear. I'll make my way, I'll drive

1270
00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:48,200
Speaker 3: you home.

1271
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:53,560
Speaker 1: You okay, I think we should play a game. We've

1272
00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:55,680
Speaker 1: got to get away from this topic immediately.

1273
00:56:56,160 --> 00:56:59,120
Speaker 3: We're gonna play Gift for a Curse. Okay, my favorite.

1274
00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:02,799
Speaker 3: This is a you know, a game. I need a number.

1275
00:57:02,840 --> 00:57:04,840
Speaker 1: I need a number for both games. I'm now the

1276
00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:07,640
Speaker 1: heat is starting to affect. Let's see how fast I finished.

1277
00:57:08,600 --> 00:57:10,839
Speaker 1: You've got to collaborate on every part of this game.

1278
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:12,400
Speaker 1: So we're going to see how you work as a

1279
00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:15,839
Speaker 1: newly married Yeah, a husband and wife team are going

1280
00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 1: to prove if you can actually handle it.

1281
00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:21,880
Speaker 3: What number do you want between one and ten? Correct?

1282
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:24,640
Speaker 3: One and ten? And can it be a fractional? Oh?

1283
00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 1: Naomi, you might have to take the wheel eight? Yes, eight, Okay,

1284
00:57:30,280 --> 00:57:32,840
Speaker 1: I've just recently learned that eight is the most popular number.

1285
00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:35,040
Speaker 1: A listener pointed it out. Oh really, I guess the

1286
00:57:35,080 --> 00:57:36,360
Speaker 1: listener's been keeping track.

1287
00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:39,000
Speaker 3: Oh wow, wow, wow, it's a nice ray spreadsheet.

1288
00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 1: There might be a spreadsheet. Les has some spreadsheets, but

1289
00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:43,640
Speaker 1: not to do with the numbers.

1290
00:57:43,800 --> 00:57:46,600
Speaker 3: Listener, make that data available publicly.

1291
00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:51,320
Speaker 1: Okay, show your work, Okay, I have to do some

1292
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:55,240
Speaker 1: light calculating, you too, promote, recommend I'll be right back.

1293
00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:58,320
Speaker 3: Well for today that all you see.

1294
00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:02,479
Speaker 4: Couple's Therapy podisodes drop every Tuesday. And if you enjoy

1295
00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:04,960
Speaker 4: this dynamic where and Andy says something random, I say

1296
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:07,240
Speaker 4: stop it and then complain about my emotions, you'll like

1297
00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:11,439
Speaker 4: the pot We answer listener's relationship questions with the help

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00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:12,880
Speaker 4: of a wonderful guests.

1299
00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:14,920
Speaker 3: Who are some of those guests that we've had on

1300
00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:17,480
Speaker 3: the show, such as Bridger.

1301
00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:23,680
Speaker 4: Such as Otsko Okotska, such as Sarah Dosa, documentary filmmaker.

1302
00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:25,920
Speaker 4: You're just going back I was literally went backwards from

1303
00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:29,800
Speaker 4: episodes such as Live Houston from Yellow Jackets, Okay, such

1304
00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:33,120
Speaker 4: as Ginger Gonzaga from She Hulk. I wonder if she

1305
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:34,280
Speaker 4: was at Jessica Gow's wedding.

1306
00:58:34,920 --> 00:58:37,320
Speaker 3: What such as Bridger? Can you report on that?

1307
00:58:38,240 --> 00:58:39,640
Speaker 1: I can confirm she was there?

1308
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:43,200
Speaker 4: Okay, people at the wedding, Okay, The point is we

1309
00:58:43,240 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 4: have a good time.

1310
00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:46,920
Speaker 3: Else that was at Jessica and our wedding? Do you

1311
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:49,360
Speaker 3: think has been on the show before? Jawnny Newsome, Yes,

1312
00:58:49,760 --> 00:58:50,280
Speaker 3: Andrew T.

1313
00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:54,200
Speaker 1: Yes, Oh those two I spoke to at your wedding

1314
00:58:54,680 --> 00:58:55,880
Speaker 1: about going to two weddings.

1315
00:58:56,120 --> 00:58:57,040
Speaker 3: It's like, how are we gonna do this?

1316
00:58:57,200 --> 00:58:59,360
Speaker 1: We became very close almost immediately. I had never met

1317
00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:01,480
Speaker 1: either of them. That bonded us in a way that

1318
00:59:01,920 --> 00:59:05,760
Speaker 1: you have no idea you two. The podcast is wonderful.

1319
00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:08,120
Speaker 1: People should go listen to the podcast. People need to

1320
00:59:08,200 --> 00:59:09,200
Speaker 1: listen to podcasts.

1321
00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:10,480
Speaker 3: What else are you gonna do? Now?

1322
00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:12,439
Speaker 1: What? What else are you doing with your life? That's

1323
00:59:12,520 --> 00:59:13,120
Speaker 1: the big question.

1324
00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:15,600
Speaker 3: What else do you do when you're taking the garbage

1325
00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:17,800
Speaker 3: out and sweeping the cat litter up? What else are

1326
00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:18,640
Speaker 3: you doing? Or?

1327
00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 1: As we said, cruising down the coast, the Yes the

1328
00:59:23,200 --> 00:59:28,240
Speaker 1: PCH blasting Couple's Therapy. I said, no gifts, no other podcasts,

1329
00:59:28,360 --> 00:59:29,560
Speaker 1: no other music. One.

1330
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 3: I see you in public, and I see you listening

1331
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:35,760
Speaker 3: to another podcast, I'm gonna slap the phone and or

1332
00:59:36,120 --> 00:59:39,240
Speaker 3: player out of your hands. And or player and or

1333
00:59:39,480 --> 00:59:41,280
Speaker 3: player I can get in the sewer.

1334
00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 1: That's gonna give some advice. You're going down the PCH.

1335
00:59:43,760 --> 00:59:46,160
Speaker 1: You have one of these two podcasts on. You're also

1336
00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:49,720
Speaker 1: actively writing a negative review of another podcast.

1337
00:59:50,760 --> 00:59:51,960
Speaker 3: Absolutely, what a way.

1338
00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:55,120
Speaker 1: To cruise into the ocean, just die writing a negative

1339
00:59:55,160 --> 00:59:58,120
Speaker 1: podcast for someone else's or yes, writing a negative review

1340
00:59:58,160 --> 01:00:01,120
Speaker 1: for another podcast. We have to play the game. Gift

1341
01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:03,400
Speaker 1: you a curse. I'm gonna name three things. You're gonna

1342
01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:04,800
Speaker 1: tell me if there are a gift or a curse,

1343
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:07,560
Speaker 1: and why? Then I'll tell you if you're right or wrong,

1344
01:00:07,600 --> 01:00:10,680
Speaker 1: because there are correct answers, and you two have to agree.

1345
01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:14,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're the count of three together. Okay. I was

1346
01:00:14,360 --> 01:00:16,520
Speaker 3: gonna say, you could say whether it's a gift or

1347
01:00:16,600 --> 01:00:19,520
Speaker 3: curse or and we'll go back and forth, and then

1348
01:00:19,520 --> 01:00:23,200
Speaker 3: the other person has to say, why, what do you

1349
01:00:23,240 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 3: want your partner's choices? Oh, defend your I defend here.

1350
01:00:27,360 --> 01:00:30,120
Speaker 4: Okay, so we'll collaborate then, Okay we can because I said,

1351
01:00:30,160 --> 01:00:31,840
Speaker 4: you're making the game longer and Bridger has a heart out.

1352
01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:35,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, brain is bacon? Okay.

1353
01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:38,160
Speaker 1: Number one This is from a listener named Hannah. Hannah

1354
01:00:38,200 --> 01:00:41,160
Speaker 1: suggested gift or a curse When you order a burger

1355
01:00:41,360 --> 01:00:43,840
Speaker 1: or sandwich at a dining restaurant and they give you

1356
01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:47,400
Speaker 1: a small prepackaged bag of chips in lieu of fries.

1357
01:00:48,640 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 3: Curse? Why who I can go buy myself a bag

1358
01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:57,840
Speaker 3: of chips anywhere, literally anywhere. You could walk into any

1359
01:00:57,920 --> 01:01:04,520
Speaker 3: store coconuts, You can walk a hmv H and they

1360
01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:08,720
Speaker 3: got chips at the counter. You can get a fast fashion. Yeah,

1361
01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:12,520
Speaker 3: I don't go out to a sit down restaurant a

1362
01:01:13,200 --> 01:01:14,800
Speaker 3: prepackaged bag of bag.

1363
01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:16,560
Speaker 4: It's a back of cap cod Get out of here.

1364
01:01:16,600 --> 01:01:17,560
Speaker 3: What are my new vau race?

1365
01:01:17,680 --> 01:01:18,440
Speaker 4: What a costco?

1366
01:01:19,320 --> 01:01:19,880
Speaker 3: Get out of here?

1367
01:01:23,160 --> 01:01:27,040
Speaker 1: Of course it's a curse, even if it's not prepackaged.

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01:01:27,080 --> 01:01:29,640
Speaker 1: Do not give me a chip with a hamburger at

1369
01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:32,200
Speaker 1: your restaurant. Do you think you think you have a

1370
01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:36,240
Speaker 1: a professional kitchen? Have the fryer put some French fries

1371
01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:36,600
Speaker 1: in there?

1372
01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:38,200
Speaker 4: How do you buy an air friar if you ain't

1373
01:01:38,200 --> 01:01:40,200
Speaker 4: got time for grief? I don't care what I want

1374
01:01:40,240 --> 01:01:40,720
Speaker 4: the French fries.

1375
01:01:40,840 --> 01:01:43,360
Speaker 1: I do not want to see a potato chip at

1376
01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:44,000
Speaker 1: a rest rand.

1377
01:01:44,080 --> 01:01:46,400
Speaker 3: Do you know what you're giving me a potato chip

1378
01:01:46,600 --> 01:01:50,560
Speaker 3: with that hamburger? You're probably doing something sinister in the back.

1379
01:01:52,520 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 3: You're stealing wages from your kitchen staff. I'm gonna say

1380
01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:59,240
Speaker 3: that right now. If you are serving potato chips with

1381
01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:01,600
Speaker 3: your hamburger. If if you go to a restaurant and

1382
01:02:01,680 --> 01:02:03,960
Speaker 3: that's what they serve you. I need you person to

1383
01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:07,320
Speaker 3: write a negative Yelp review of that restaurant and then

1384
01:02:07,480 --> 01:02:11,200
Speaker 3: report them absolutely to whatever the body is that like

1385
01:02:11,440 --> 01:02:18,880
Speaker 3: checks in, sins, arrest the owner, just the top it's

1386
01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:21,360
Speaker 3: a top down. It's a top down. Issues is whoever

1387
01:02:21,480 --> 01:02:23,680
Speaker 3: owns the place, the manager, maybe.

1388
01:02:23,680 --> 01:02:27,680
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe the chef. If the chef decided that's on

1389
01:02:27,760 --> 01:02:31,120
Speaker 1: the menu, no ship, no chef.

1390
01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:31,800
Speaker 3: Don't you hate.

1391
01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 4: I don't really like this trend of like hip cool

1392
01:02:34,560 --> 01:02:36,560
Speaker 4: restaurants being like made potato chips.

1393
01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:37,520
Speaker 3: I don't like it.

1394
01:02:37,680 --> 01:02:39,760
Speaker 4: And I'm also like they never had a good I'm

1395
01:02:39,960 --> 01:02:41,600
Speaker 4: a good homemade potato chip first of all.

1396
01:02:41,640 --> 01:02:45,600
Speaker 3: One first of all, and that it's also like if

1397
01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:47,640
Speaker 3: I wanted chips, I got it, a butt take a bait,

1398
01:02:48,360 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 3: I would drive. I would drive to the Pringles factory.

1399
01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:55,280
Speaker 4: Also six seven dollars because again these are trying to

1400
01:02:55,280 --> 01:02:58,720
Speaker 4: be cute. They're gonna charge you six or seven bucksa.

1401
01:02:59,160 --> 01:03:01,960
Speaker 1: No, read dollars for a family sized bag at Ralph's.

1402
01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:05,040
Speaker 1: Thank you, I will, but now that okay, Actually I'm

1403
01:03:05,120 --> 01:03:07,000
Speaker 1: not going to point out the exception to the rule,

1404
01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:11,200
Speaker 1: because there is one in my life. Tokyo Fried Chicken

1405
01:03:11,280 --> 01:03:13,560
Speaker 1: in Monterey Park. They do have a good potato chip,

1406
01:03:13,840 --> 01:03:16,120
Speaker 1: but I would still be happier with the French fry.

1407
01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:19,560
Speaker 1: So ultimately it is a homemade chip, so.

1408
01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:23,680
Speaker 3: They'd I just want to say, the sample size of

1409
01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:26,840
Speaker 3: all restaurants in the world, you have chosen a single restaurant.

1410
01:03:26,880 --> 01:03:30,240
Speaker 3: So I'm going to say that is statistically not useful.

1411
01:03:30,480 --> 01:03:34,280
Speaker 1: Right, Absolutely, we're worthless in this conversation. Okay, you got

1412
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:36,280
Speaker 1: that one right. I'm glad we're all on the same

1413
01:03:36,320 --> 01:03:40,919
Speaker 1: page with that. Okay, Number two Jennifer the listener, Jennifer has.

1414
01:03:40,840 --> 01:03:43,000
Speaker 3: Written in Jennifer gift curse.

1415
01:03:43,960 --> 01:03:47,120
Speaker 1: That's what I'm gonna type that in for a later game, Jennifer,

1416
01:03:47,760 --> 01:03:51,200
Speaker 1: somebody's gonna have to answer to me. Jennifer the name

1417
01:03:51,920 --> 01:03:54,960
Speaker 1: gift or a curse. Future guests is going to happen

1418
01:03:54,960 --> 01:03:58,640
Speaker 1: to pick that. Um oh, and I'll write you two

1419
01:03:58,720 --> 01:04:02,600
Speaker 1: as the people who suggest it. Jennifer the listener has

1420
01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:06,200
Speaker 1: written in gift or a curse, winking at someone slash

1421
01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:07,439
Speaker 1: someone winking at.

1422
01:04:07,400 --> 01:04:11,040
Speaker 3: You, curse, why get out of here.

1423
01:04:11,480 --> 01:04:15,120
Speaker 4: Also, you're saying someone the winking like you have a

1424
01:04:15,160 --> 01:04:19,400
Speaker 4: specify relationship. So I'm gonna say, like, whenever someone winks.

1425
01:04:19,520 --> 01:04:25,200
Speaker 4: It's immediately sexual, it's secretive, it's nefarious. It implies, it

1426
01:04:25,320 --> 01:04:29,000
Speaker 4: implies secrets. Okay, it implies lies, it implies a hidden agenda.

1427
01:04:29,520 --> 01:04:32,160
Speaker 4: And if we're just like out and around and stuff,

1428
01:04:32,760 --> 01:04:34,600
Speaker 4: and then someone's like a wink, like, don't worry.

1429
01:04:34,400 --> 01:04:40,080
Speaker 3: I got you wink. No no, no, no, no stamp,

1430
01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:42,320
Speaker 3: what are you Dennis the menace? I don't need this.

1431
01:04:42,480 --> 01:04:44,320
Speaker 3: I don't need your little wink while you play a

1432
01:04:44,440 --> 01:04:47,240
Speaker 3: trick on me. I don't need your little like like

1433
01:04:47,440 --> 01:04:48,040
Speaker 3: chic cannery.

1434
01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:50,760
Speaker 4: When are we wink? When are we winking? What's the

1435
01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:54,440
Speaker 4: context of the wink? I mean, I'm just trying to

1436
01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:55,880
Speaker 4: think of when someone would wink like every day. I'm

1437
01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:57,880
Speaker 4: then like and again, and I got your situation. Sometime

1438
01:04:57,920 --> 01:04:59,600
Speaker 4: I was like, let's say you're like out and like,

1439
01:04:59,720 --> 01:05:03,680
Speaker 4: you know, a cool barista you because because it's like

1440
01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:04,840
Speaker 4: I got you as.

1441
01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:06,720
Speaker 3: An extra ounce in your glass.

1442
01:05:06,480 --> 01:05:11,240
Speaker 4: Extra pump foam or something. But it's like what now,

1443
01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:13,800
Speaker 4: that's all I can say. I'm like so grossed out

1444
01:05:13,840 --> 01:05:14,240
Speaker 4: by a wink.

1445
01:05:15,640 --> 01:05:18,520
Speaker 3: Oh, I hate to hear it.

1446
01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:24,240
Speaker 1: It's a gift, it's sexual, it's secretive, it's nefarious. Something's

1447
01:05:24,280 --> 01:05:25,680
Speaker 1: going on. You said all of these things.

1448
01:05:26,200 --> 01:05:28,160
Speaker 3: They're all wonderful things with the wink.

1449
01:05:28,600 --> 01:05:30,880
Speaker 1: A wink at the restaurant winking at me and knows

1450
01:05:30,920 --> 01:05:34,920
Speaker 1: I'm getting a little something extra and there's something sexual implied,

1451
01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:37,640
Speaker 1: which why not. I'm at the restaurant. We're having a

1452
01:05:37,800 --> 01:05:43,400
Speaker 1: flirtatious experience. The flight attendant is winking at me, a

1453
01:05:43,600 --> 01:05:45,920
Speaker 1: stranger and winking at me.

1454
01:05:46,040 --> 01:05:49,080
Speaker 3: Now I'm the threat level is high and my heart

1455
01:05:49,160 --> 01:05:54,560
Speaker 3: is pounding. I love a wink. You know, Bridger, you

1456
01:05:54,760 --> 01:05:58,240
Speaker 3: order a hamburger, She's like, hay inseet of fries. I

1457
01:05:58,320 --> 01:06:03,160
Speaker 3: brought you some chips and she winks at you. That's

1458
01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:05,160
Speaker 3: the wink. That's what the wink is.

1459
01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:09,720
Speaker 1: Society collapses in that moment. That but that situation. No

1460
01:06:09,760 --> 01:06:12,280
Speaker 1: one ever winks when they bring chips instead of fries.

1461
01:06:12,480 --> 01:06:13,800
Speaker 1: They're begging for forgiveness.

1462
01:06:14,320 --> 01:06:16,520
Speaker 3: Well, it's very we do things a little differently here.

1463
01:06:17,000 --> 01:06:18,760
Speaker 3: You know, we're not like the other restaurants.

1464
01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:21,560
Speaker 4: And it's like, could you be like every other restaurant?

1465
01:06:22,640 --> 01:06:24,560
Speaker 4: Oh my god, a wink, Richard, that means you like

1466
01:06:24,600 --> 01:06:25,400
Speaker 4: to flirt with disaster.

1467
01:06:29,800 --> 01:06:32,680
Speaker 3: I am on the Oh I knew it. Andy, I

1468
01:06:33,080 --> 01:06:34,040
Speaker 3: did you need to step up?

1469
01:06:34,200 --> 01:06:37,080
Speaker 1: Okay, you got one so far out of two. Actually,

1470
01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:40,440
Speaker 1: I'm going to I don't mean back pedaling, do I

1471
01:06:40,520 --> 01:06:41,360
Speaker 1: hear in the distance?

1472
01:06:41,720 --> 01:06:43,760
Speaker 3: No, no, I say that, I don't mean to overpower you.

1473
01:06:44,480 --> 01:06:46,200
Speaker 3: I don't mean to say that like it's it's a

1474
01:06:47,120 --> 01:06:50,640
Speaker 3: fight of egos, it's a battle of wills or the

1475
01:06:50,680 --> 01:06:54,440
Speaker 3: fact that there's two of us to have interesting. We're correct,

1476
01:06:54,800 --> 01:06:56,919
Speaker 3: and I think you need to change.

1477
01:06:57,320 --> 01:07:01,600
Speaker 1: But what you forget is I'm currently host of the podcast,

1478
01:07:01,680 --> 01:07:04,400
Speaker 1: which has the power of at least ten people. So

1479
01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:09,280
Speaker 1: I'm over I'm able to overpower at least ten guests.

1480
01:07:09,400 --> 01:07:11,800
Speaker 3: But what if we overpowered you that became the host.

1481
01:07:11,960 --> 01:07:13,120
Speaker 3: Oh now, I would be.

1482
01:07:13,160 --> 01:07:16,520
Speaker 1: Happy with that, to have the podcast commandeered. Has that

1483
01:07:16,600 --> 01:07:17,360
Speaker 1: ever happened before?

1484
01:07:18,520 --> 01:07:25,400
Speaker 3: I said no gifts? This is Naomi Paragans and time outside.

1485
01:07:26,600 --> 01:07:29,959
Speaker 3: It's already been a day and it's noon. The weather

1486
01:07:30,080 --> 01:07:36,080
Speaker 3: it's ninety degrees. Cammy, that's that's my bridge. That's enough.

1487
01:07:37,560 --> 01:07:40,280
Speaker 1: You've cut the legs out from underneath the show. We're

1488
01:07:40,280 --> 01:07:43,080
Speaker 1: gonna have to cancel it. Everybody sees me now they

1489
01:07:43,120 --> 01:07:48,280
Speaker 1: surrounded my spiders. Okay, one more you have one more chance?

1490
01:07:48,360 --> 01:07:50,200
Speaker 3: Yes, absolutely, Okay, Andy, we can bring this back. Look

1491
01:07:50,200 --> 01:07:51,480
Speaker 3: at me. We have to be on the same tree

1492
01:07:51,480 --> 01:07:51,800
Speaker 3: as zero.

1493
01:07:52,200 --> 01:07:54,800
Speaker 1: A listener named Amy has written in Gift or a

1494
01:07:54,880 --> 01:07:58,800
Speaker 1: Curse Disney DJ Night a dance party for adults to

1495
01:07:58,960 --> 01:08:01,360
Speaker 1: drink and dance to their favorite Disney tunes.

1496
01:08:01,520 --> 01:08:02,320
Speaker 3: Gift or a curse?

1497
01:08:03,160 --> 01:08:03,520
Speaker 1: Curse.

1498
01:08:04,640 --> 01:08:06,640
Speaker 3: Oh, you're gonna say gift. You pause for a moment.

1499
01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:09,520
Speaker 4: Anything that's a gift for him. It's a gift for

1500
01:08:09,600 --> 01:08:14,920
Speaker 4: a Disney Those people should not get a gift. Okay, then,

1501
01:08:15,040 --> 01:08:18,120
Speaker 4: so we're gonna say curse. Yeah, gonna say curse, curse

1502
01:08:18,280 --> 01:08:19,519
Speaker 4: Disney DJ Knight with.

1503
01:08:21,800 --> 01:08:24,479
Speaker 3: There shouldn't be Disney Knights. There should be DJ Nights,

1504
01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:27,880
Speaker 3: and certainly there shouldn't be the center of the Venn

1505
01:08:27,920 --> 01:08:31,240
Speaker 3: diagram of those two things. They should not exist at

1506
01:08:31,280 --> 01:08:33,760
Speaker 3: all on this earth. I'm going to say, Okay, Andy

1507
01:08:33,880 --> 01:08:39,400
Speaker 3: running Yeah, yeah, I'm running against Adam Shift.

1508
01:08:39,640 --> 01:08:43,360
Speaker 1: All right, and my last what's his opinion on this issue?

1509
01:08:43,640 --> 01:08:46,479
Speaker 3: He probably loves DJ Knights. Oh yeah, that's a real

1510
01:08:46,560 --> 01:08:48,320
Speaker 3: that's a real glad hent yea for him. He goes

1511
01:08:48,320 --> 01:08:50,920
Speaker 3: around there, shaking hands, giving a handful of m B

1512
01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:54,160
Speaker 3: m A, just going crazy. Yeah, the most plastic man

1513
01:08:54,200 --> 01:08:54,800
Speaker 3: I've ever met.

1514
01:08:56,640 --> 01:09:00,680
Speaker 1: So you're saying curse. Yeah, I would love to disagree here.

1515
01:09:01,560 --> 01:09:05,080
Speaker 1: There's no way I can defend this thing. There was

1516
01:09:05,240 --> 01:09:06,519
Speaker 1: no First of all, what.

1517
01:09:06,560 --> 01:09:13,160
Speaker 3: Are we dancing to? What Disney song? Well? The remixes?

1518
01:09:14,240 --> 01:09:18,559
Speaker 3: If you're dancing, you gotta get the remixed And when

1519
01:09:18,600 --> 01:09:21,280
Speaker 3: they do song on the South stuff, you really it's like,

1520
01:09:21,520 --> 01:09:23,280
Speaker 3: why did they not go back into the fault?

1521
01:09:25,479 --> 01:09:26,760
Speaker 4: And what's it's glow.

1522
01:09:31,600 --> 01:09:31,720
Speaker 3: Now?

1523
01:09:31,800 --> 01:09:34,160
Speaker 1: And you're like winning me over to the Disney DJ night.

1524
01:09:34,240 --> 01:09:35,360
Speaker 1: I want to be dancing to that.

1525
01:09:35,600 --> 01:09:38,200
Speaker 3: Oh god, I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. No, it's

1526
01:09:38,240 --> 01:09:39,920
Speaker 3: a curse. I mean, what is a DJ night?

1527
01:09:40,040 --> 01:09:41,880
Speaker 1: Is that not just a dance night?

1528
01:09:42,680 --> 01:09:44,400
Speaker 3: But I guess when they bring a DJ into the

1529
01:09:44,439 --> 01:09:47,519
Speaker 3: Disney space, but they're divorce it from Disney.

1530
01:09:48,000 --> 01:09:51,040
Speaker 1: What is just a simple this DJ night here at

1531
01:09:51,040 --> 01:09:51,360
Speaker 1: the club?

1532
01:09:51,439 --> 01:09:53,840
Speaker 3: Is it a TV show where people go to a club.

1533
01:09:53,880 --> 01:09:55,639
Speaker 3: I've never been one in real life, but I see

1534
01:09:55,640 --> 01:09:56,360
Speaker 3: TV shows.

1535
01:09:56,120 --> 01:09:57,880
Speaker 4: Are people that are a club and TV show there's

1536
01:09:57,880 --> 01:10:01,720
Speaker 4: always twenty people trying to make it look like the background.

1537
01:10:02,120 --> 01:10:05,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like it's well Land. You can see everyone

1538
01:10:05,920 --> 01:10:06,679
Speaker 3: doing everything.

1539
01:10:07,320 --> 01:10:09,599
Speaker 1: I just saw mission impossible to move the new movie

1540
01:10:10,320 --> 01:10:14,479
Speaker 1: clearly a COVID production. Because there's a giant, glitzy dance party.

1541
01:10:15,200 --> 01:10:18,200
Speaker 1: There are nine people at that part. It could not

1542
01:10:18,320 --> 01:10:19,760
Speaker 1: be real dance.

1543
01:10:19,960 --> 01:10:21,400
Speaker 3: Oh I wish I would have been invited. I would

1544
01:10:21,400 --> 01:10:24,360
Speaker 3: have gone to that one. That sounds like people. I

1545
01:10:24,479 --> 01:10:27,639
Speaker 3: am surprised. I'm surprised. I'm surprised.

1546
01:10:27,680 --> 01:10:30,400
Speaker 4: Tom said, didn't say bring me in a hundred extra interesting.

1547
01:10:30,479 --> 01:10:32,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, he kind of gets. He's a man who gets

1548
01:10:32,200 --> 01:10:32,719
Speaker 1: what he wants.

1549
01:10:32,920 --> 01:10:34,479
Speaker 3: He gets what he wants it. I believe he knows

1550
01:10:34,520 --> 01:10:39,760
Speaker 3: that he can't ever be sick. Right, He's like, this

1551
01:10:39,840 --> 01:10:41,559
Speaker 3: is this is not fault, the Zena's fault.

1552
01:10:41,680 --> 01:10:43,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, Zenus said these people were too low tone to

1553
01:10:44,040 --> 01:10:44,439
Speaker 4: be in here.

1554
01:10:44,640 --> 01:10:45,120
Speaker 3: Get them out.

1555
01:10:46,560 --> 01:10:48,639
Speaker 1: You two got two out of three. Did I say

1556
01:10:48,680 --> 01:10:49,680
Speaker 1: anything about Disney Night?

1557
01:10:49,720 --> 01:10:50,200
Speaker 3: I think it's a.

1558
01:10:51,320 --> 01:10:54,960
Speaker 4: Into it like that, Like, are you do you like

1559
01:10:55,520 --> 01:10:57,360
Speaker 4: dancing clubbing scenarios in general?

1560
01:10:57,439 --> 01:11:00,719
Speaker 1: I do not. I have never been to a dance club.

1561
01:11:01,240 --> 01:11:02,400
Speaker 1: I've never danced at a club.

1562
01:11:02,400 --> 01:11:05,040
Speaker 3: I love dancing. Have you ever been a shirtless with

1563
01:11:05,280 --> 01:11:06,320
Speaker 3: foam all around?

1564
01:11:06,560 --> 01:11:06,720
Speaker 2: Oh?

1565
01:11:07,000 --> 01:11:07,519
Speaker 3: The dream.

1566
01:11:09,160 --> 01:11:11,760
Speaker 1: I'm clearly someone who's always in that scenario. I'm going

1567
01:11:11,760 --> 01:11:12,759
Speaker 1: straight from this recording.

1568
01:11:13,080 --> 01:11:17,080
Speaker 4: Well, considering you're you like a wink very much that

1569
01:11:17,160 --> 01:11:19,679
Speaker 4: you want a club setting. If you like winking, you're

1570
01:11:19,760 --> 01:11:20,720
Speaker 4: doing God knows what.

1571
01:11:22,160 --> 01:11:24,519
Speaker 3: I swear. I do love to dance.

1572
01:11:24,560 --> 01:11:26,479
Speaker 1: I never get an opportunity, but it's because I don't

1573
01:11:26,479 --> 01:11:28,120
Speaker 1: want to go to a club. But I would probably

1574
01:11:28,120 --> 01:11:29,400
Speaker 1: have the time of my life at a club. Let's

1575
01:11:29,400 --> 01:11:29,800
Speaker 1: be honest.

1576
01:11:30,000 --> 01:11:32,439
Speaker 3: With a club sandwich just like two pieces of bread

1577
01:11:32,479 --> 01:11:33,320
Speaker 3: with sweat and foaming.

1578
01:11:33,479 --> 01:11:36,479
Speaker 1: No, well that would you would get a wink with

1579
01:11:36,560 --> 01:11:37,120
Speaker 1: that as well?

1580
01:11:37,240 --> 01:11:39,000
Speaker 4: I think, well, you know they have like because I

1581
01:11:39,040 --> 01:11:40,280
Speaker 4: was gonna say my thing was that I wish it

1582
01:11:40,360 --> 01:11:41,960
Speaker 4: was more like I wish it was outdoors.

1583
01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:43,519
Speaker 3: I wish they were during the day.

1584
01:11:44,120 --> 01:11:46,040
Speaker 4: And I don't even even for COVID reasons as much

1585
01:11:46,040 --> 01:11:48,160
Speaker 4: as like I think I associate clubbing with you know,

1586
01:11:48,200 --> 01:11:52,600
Speaker 4: it's like it's like two am. We're in a warehouse nowhere,

1587
01:11:52,880 --> 01:11:55,280
Speaker 4: Like it's got like there's a lot you have to

1588
01:11:55,360 --> 01:11:58,759
Speaker 4: do to get to that place, both emotionally and physically.

1589
01:11:59,360 --> 01:12:01,519
Speaker 4: And I'm like, what, you should just make a dance

1590
01:12:01,560 --> 01:12:03,280
Speaker 4: fundy to park me all out here and it's like

1591
01:12:03,400 --> 01:12:05,240
Speaker 4: two PM, and I feel like it would be so

1592
01:12:05,360 --> 01:12:07,320
Speaker 4: much easier to partake of like a dance time.

1593
01:12:07,439 --> 01:12:08,200
Speaker 3: You make a good point.

1594
01:12:08,240 --> 01:12:10,719
Speaker 1: I feel like I could do a nice six thirty club.

1595
01:12:12,560 --> 01:12:15,160
Speaker 1: That's when I would be having a great time. After that,

1596
01:12:15,240 --> 01:12:16,679
Speaker 1: I'm getting a little sleepy.

1597
01:12:16,920 --> 01:12:19,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, ye, little sleepy club in DC.

1598
01:12:22,880 --> 01:12:24,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, with the six thirty c get me at the

1599
01:12:24,680 --> 01:12:25,479
Speaker 1: six thirty club.

1600
01:12:25,560 --> 01:12:28,600
Speaker 3: I will be all over the place. If you got

1601
01:12:28,640 --> 01:12:32,559
Speaker 3: two out of three, congratulations, not bad, not three, but sure, Andy,

1602
01:12:32,640 --> 01:12:33,840
Speaker 3: we did it. We're a team.

1603
01:12:34,240 --> 01:12:38,320
Speaker 1: We are truly married husband and wife team. Okay, this

1604
01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:41,400
Speaker 1: is the final segment of the podcast. It's called I

1605
01:12:41,479 --> 01:12:45,479
Speaker 1: said no emails. Listen to those birds people right into

1606
01:12:45,520 --> 01:12:46,920
Speaker 1: I said no gifts at gmail dot com.

1607
01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:48,519
Speaker 3: They have questions, we answer.

1608
01:12:48,720 --> 01:12:51,439
Speaker 1: It's a service I should be you know, people should

1609
01:12:51,520 --> 01:12:53,479
Speaker 1: just be pouring money into my wallet at this point

1610
01:12:53,520 --> 01:12:55,080
Speaker 1: for the things I'm doing for the community.

1611
01:12:55,439 --> 01:12:58,240
Speaker 3: Bridger, have you ever found someone has double dip that

1612
01:12:58,280 --> 01:13:01,599
Speaker 3: they've sent you a question that we sent another podcast? Oh?

1613
01:13:01,720 --> 01:13:09,000
Speaker 1: Interesting, somebody who's just spamming a question to every Oh.

1614
01:13:11,120 --> 01:13:13,280
Speaker 4: Answered on both and it was like, oh, you got

1615
01:13:13,400 --> 01:13:15,080
Speaker 4: to write back what you get your answer from somebody

1616
01:13:15,080 --> 01:13:17,080
Speaker 4: and go, hey, did you buy my submissions?

1617
01:13:17,120 --> 01:13:20,080
Speaker 1: Well, what was the gist of the question. Should we

1618
01:13:20,160 --> 01:13:21,400
Speaker 1: mention it. Are they going to be thrilled that they're

1619
01:13:21,400 --> 01:13:24,960
Speaker 1: getting it onto another podcast? Oh yeah, definitely not that

1620
01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:25,799
Speaker 1: we don't remember.

1621
01:13:29,000 --> 01:13:30,600
Speaker 3: Wow. I need to be on the lookout for them,

1622
01:13:30,800 --> 01:13:32,040
Speaker 3: to be able to look out because these people are

1623
01:13:32,080 --> 01:13:32,800
Speaker 3: out here, they're desperate.

1624
01:13:32,880 --> 01:13:35,640
Speaker 1: There needs to be a podcast watchdog. It's just like

1625
01:13:35,760 --> 01:13:40,040
Speaker 1: keeping an eye out for these spammers double dippers. Okay

1626
01:13:40,160 --> 01:13:42,559
Speaker 1: this h let's get into this, This says dear mister

1627
01:13:42,680 --> 01:13:46,679
Speaker 1: gift mastery. Oh. I have always been a big traveler,

1628
01:13:47,000 --> 01:13:49,040
Speaker 1: and one of my favorite parts of any trip was

1629
01:13:49,160 --> 01:13:52,479
Speaker 1: the thrill of seeking out the perfect gift for each

1630
01:13:52,560 --> 01:13:55,320
Speaker 1: of my loved ones. I'm not talking Kitchie souvenirs. I

1631
01:13:55,439 --> 01:13:58,760
Speaker 1: always put real thought, time, and effort into personalizing each

1632
01:13:58,840 --> 01:14:02,120
Speaker 1: gift for my close and family. However, since I began

1633
01:14:02,200 --> 01:14:08,360
Speaker 1: working for the United Nations, Okay, we get it, traveling

1634
01:14:08,400 --> 01:14:10,920
Speaker 1: has become more of something I do for work rather

1635
01:14:11,040 --> 01:14:13,920
Speaker 1: than pleasure, and now it feels like a real chore

1636
01:14:14,000 --> 01:14:16,160
Speaker 1: to spend all the time and luggage space that buying

1637
01:14:16,200 --> 01:14:21,439
Speaker 1: gifts requires. We've got more email to go. Recently, I

1638
01:14:21,520 --> 01:14:23,439
Speaker 1: came home for a visit after a stint living in

1639
01:14:23,600 --> 01:14:26,639
Speaker 1: three different countries and traveling to seven more and all

1640
01:14:26,680 --> 01:14:29,080
Speaker 1: I managed to drag back with me was some Swiss

1641
01:14:29,200 --> 01:14:32,240
Speaker 1: chocolate for my nieces and nephews and a rosary from Turin,

1642
01:14:32,320 --> 01:14:36,560
Speaker 1: Italy for my obsessively Catholic father. It wasn't until I

1643
01:14:36,720 --> 01:14:39,840
Speaker 1: arrived that I suddenly and surprisingly felt very disappointed in

1644
01:14:39,920 --> 01:14:42,960
Speaker 1: myself for not trying harder this time around. What is

1645
01:14:43,000 --> 01:14:46,160
Speaker 1: your advice to me or tips you have for helping

1646
01:14:46,240 --> 01:14:48,519
Speaker 1: to strike a balance in my life. I'm afraid of

1647
01:14:48,600 --> 01:14:51,160
Speaker 1: losing my title as the cool aunt and instead of

1648
01:14:51,960 --> 01:14:54,479
Speaker 1: having to accept the no less accurate but somewhat less

1649
01:14:54,520 --> 01:14:57,280
Speaker 1: prestigious title of aunt who drinks a lot and is

1650
01:14:57,360 --> 01:15:01,440
Speaker 1: never around. Sincerely, and there's no name here, It's just sincerely,

1651
01:15:01,520 --> 01:15:06,479
Speaker 1: your favorite international civil servant. This person is rubbing our faces?

1652
01:15:06,720 --> 01:15:07,000
Speaker 3: Really?

1653
01:15:07,600 --> 01:15:08,479
Speaker 1: Remember of the UN?

1654
01:15:08,680 --> 01:15:08,880
Speaker 2: Is this?

1655
01:15:09,080 --> 01:15:12,400
Speaker 3: I want name? Especially boutros Golly himself.

1656
01:15:12,680 --> 01:15:14,880
Speaker 4: One who actually gets to you know what I mean?

1657
01:15:14,920 --> 01:15:16,960
Speaker 4: Because like a lot of these governments are at the

1658
01:15:17,040 --> 01:15:18,120
Speaker 4: desk in.

1659
01:15:18,280 --> 01:15:23,000
Speaker 1: Seven countries, is an assassin hired by the UN who.

1660
01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:26,600
Speaker 3: Loves this podcast? Interesting? So you mean like a CIA

1661
01:15:26,960 --> 01:15:31,760
Speaker 3: person who got a job and it's reporting back to

1662
01:15:32,000 --> 01:15:34,280
Speaker 3: uh whoever's in charge.

1663
01:15:34,640 --> 01:15:37,800
Speaker 4: Okay, here's my first suggestion though, here's something that I did,

1664
01:15:38,600 --> 01:15:39,960
Speaker 4: and I feel like it would be even better now

1665
01:15:39,960 --> 01:15:41,680
Speaker 4: because I did this over a decade ago when I

1666
01:15:41,760 --> 01:15:46,000
Speaker 4: was traveling. Ship it back to your home. Oh, you

1667
01:15:46,120 --> 01:15:48,760
Speaker 4: go into a store, you see acutie moment. There are

1668
01:15:48,840 --> 01:15:50,600
Speaker 4: places that will ship stuff for you.

1669
01:15:51,600 --> 01:15:53,040
Speaker 1: The store itself will ship it.

1670
01:15:53,200 --> 01:15:54,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's got to be big enough. You don't mean

1671
01:15:54,760 --> 01:15:58,040
Speaker 4: and obviously, but you're paying up front for that, right basically, like, hey,

1672
01:15:58,160 --> 01:15:59,720
Speaker 4: can you you know, package that up and send it

1673
01:15:59,760 --> 01:16:01,720
Speaker 4: to me, because a lot of places have online stores, right,

1674
01:16:01,800 --> 01:16:03,200
Speaker 4: so that's the same thing that they would be doing,

1675
01:16:03,520 --> 01:16:06,160
Speaker 4: So you're basically placing an online order in person. You

1676
01:16:06,160 --> 01:16:07,560
Speaker 4: see what I'm saying, because you get in there, you

1677
01:16:07,600 --> 01:16:08,840
Speaker 4: see something cute and you're like, well, I don't want

1678
01:16:08,840 --> 01:16:10,400
Speaker 4: to lug this, I don't want to cry, but get

1679
01:16:10,400 --> 01:16:11,960
Speaker 4: it back to the house and then you know, have

1680
01:16:13,080 --> 01:16:14,599
Speaker 4: you know that way when I get home and then

1681
01:16:14,600 --> 01:16:15,840
Speaker 4: I go visit everybody.

1682
01:16:15,560 --> 01:16:16,320
Speaker 3: And I have stuff waiting.

1683
01:16:16,360 --> 01:16:18,040
Speaker 1: And this has been an option in the past for you.

1684
01:16:18,479 --> 01:16:22,960
Speaker 4: Yes, absolutely, thinkers think about the online world we live

1685
01:16:23,000 --> 01:16:25,880
Speaker 4: in now. Yes, she's the Amazon like anything you want

1686
01:16:26,120 --> 01:16:28,720
Speaker 4: and you can go into like especially look this international

1687
01:16:28,760 --> 01:16:29,439
Speaker 4: civil servant.

1688
01:16:29,600 --> 01:16:31,360
Speaker 3: Okay, they're going into top notch places.

1689
01:16:31,439 --> 01:16:34,080
Speaker 1: They're giving you this what's her name in that Netflix

1690
01:16:34,160 --> 01:16:38,720
Speaker 1: show Emily and Pari? Yes, which, by the way, isn't

1691
01:16:38,720 --> 01:16:41,639
Speaker 1: It wasn't the title supposed to be Amilee on Prairie

1692
01:16:41,800 --> 01:16:43,519
Speaker 1: or something where I was supposed to rhyme and then

1693
01:16:43,600 --> 01:16:45,280
Speaker 1: nobody got it, so it was just Emily in Paris.

1694
01:16:45,840 --> 01:16:48,160
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that was a bad idea

1695
01:16:48,160 --> 01:16:48,599
Speaker 1: on their part.

1696
01:16:48,680 --> 01:16:50,920
Speaker 3: And also it doesn't really sound like Parer. Emily and

1697
01:16:51,000 --> 01:16:52,519
Speaker 3: Parie does not sound it should be like.

1698
01:16:53,479 --> 01:16:55,639
Speaker 1: It should have been amilely. But the name is already

1699
01:16:55,680 --> 01:16:58,360
Speaker 1: taken by a famous movie a Mari and Peri.

1700
01:16:58,640 --> 01:17:00,400
Speaker 3: I could not think of a single name that has

1701
01:17:00,560 --> 01:17:03,759
Speaker 3: made a made a name. I don't know Marie, Marie

1702
01:17:03,800 --> 01:17:10,920
Speaker 3: and Perrie. No, uh uh, you just did Ted Sarandas' job.

1703
01:17:11,520 --> 01:17:14,320
Speaker 3: Give Bridger three hundred and ninety million dollars.

1704
01:17:16,720 --> 01:17:19,280
Speaker 1: Who's the guy who's right above Ted? There's another guy

1705
01:17:19,439 --> 01:17:23,439
Speaker 1: who is a name I know more often too, I

1706
01:17:23,560 --> 01:17:28,320
Speaker 1: know Rare Doom. Honestly, you have any idea who number

1707
01:17:28,360 --> 01:17:28,680
Speaker 1: one is it?

1708
01:17:28,800 --> 01:17:40,080
Speaker 3: Netflix? Reed, Hastings, Harris, Yes, Killerson, I have. Oh sorry,

1709
01:17:40,120 --> 01:17:41,360
Speaker 3: I didn't know if you were done because I have

1710
01:17:41,479 --> 01:17:47,880
Speaker 3: a different take. I have a different take. Lady, Look cool,

1711
01:17:48,040 --> 01:17:50,200
Speaker 3: you ain't the cool ant just because you brought back

1712
01:17:50,240 --> 01:17:53,280
Speaker 3: a cuckoo clock from Switzerland. All right, you're not a

1713
01:17:53,360 --> 01:17:56,080
Speaker 3: cool ant for that. They're like, oh this is cool,

1714
01:17:56,240 --> 01:17:58,320
Speaker 3: this is nice, thank you, and then they go back

1715
01:17:58,320 --> 01:18:00,560
Speaker 3: to playing their switch or something. You want to be

1716
01:18:00,680 --> 01:18:03,320
Speaker 3: the cool aunt get them drugs.

1717
01:18:05,120 --> 01:18:07,839
Speaker 1: Now you're saying sorry, you saying to be clear. Smuggle

1718
01:18:07,920 --> 01:18:08,759
Speaker 1: them from another country.

1719
01:18:08,800 --> 01:18:14,280
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you smuggle. You stepped on American drugs. Don't

1720
01:18:14,280 --> 01:18:17,400
Speaker 3: get them like pain from America. It's gonna be stepped

1721
01:18:17,400 --> 01:18:21,760
Speaker 3: on a baby powder fent andel in your body. Yeah

1722
01:18:21,840 --> 01:18:22,240
Speaker 3: you want some.

1723
01:18:22,800 --> 01:18:24,719
Speaker 4: You want this to be international, Auntie full of grace.

1724
01:18:24,920 --> 01:18:28,920
Speaker 4: Yeah you said you said, smuggle it back for the kids.

1725
01:18:29,080 --> 01:18:31,639
Speaker 3: Yes, if you if you're not a mule, you ain't cool.

1726
01:18:33,040 --> 01:18:33,439
Speaker 3: There we go.

1727
01:18:34,080 --> 01:18:37,120
Speaker 1: I feel like that's that's the new, like wine o'clock

1728
01:18:37,280 --> 01:18:38,160
Speaker 1: in every ant's home.

1729
01:18:38,800 --> 01:18:41,920
Speaker 3: If you mule, you ain't cool, You go to TJ Max.

1730
01:18:41,960 --> 01:18:44,720
Speaker 3: Get a sign that says if you ate able, you

1731
01:18:44,840 --> 01:18:46,960
Speaker 3: hate good God, I love that crusttit.

1732
01:18:49,320 --> 01:18:51,080
Speaker 1: Well, then I mean we don't. Why would we say

1733
01:18:51,080 --> 01:18:56,799
Speaker 1: anymore on this? We can't go any further, civil servant,

1734
01:18:57,439 --> 01:18:58,840
Speaker 1: you've received your aunts.

1735
01:18:59,120 --> 01:19:02,679
Speaker 3: Civil servant, serve thyself. Yes, go forth.

1736
01:19:03,520 --> 01:19:05,519
Speaker 1: Wow you too, I've got an actual piece of art

1737
01:19:05,560 --> 01:19:08,519
Speaker 1: I can display. Not an easy thing to come by,

1738
01:19:09,000 --> 01:19:11,800
Speaker 1: not in this economy, not in this economy, not in

1739
01:19:11,920 --> 01:19:15,320
Speaker 1: this culture. You know, there's no We're not getting art

1740
01:19:15,400 --> 01:19:19,080
Speaker 1: for cheap anymore. I'm so happy to have it. I'm

1741
01:19:19,120 --> 01:19:21,759
Speaker 1: so happy you two could come here. The listener should

1742
01:19:21,760 --> 01:19:25,920
Speaker 1: go listen to your podcast, you know, do it every other.

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01:19:25,960 --> 01:19:28,519
Speaker 3: Every every other day.

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01:19:28,560 --> 01:19:30,240
Speaker 4: Actually, So you're gonna listen to I said New Gifts,

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01:19:30,240 --> 01:19:31,479
Speaker 4: then you're gonna listen to a couple of therapies. Then

1746
01:19:31,479 --> 01:19:33,240
Speaker 4: you're gonna listen to the same episode of I said

1747
01:19:33,320 --> 01:19:35,400
Speaker 4: New Gifts until the new one comes out, is what

1748
01:19:35,439 --> 01:19:36,400
Speaker 4: I'm telling your alternate.

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01:19:36,520 --> 01:19:39,400
Speaker 3: Exactly, So downloaded four or five times, depending on when

1750
01:19:39,400 --> 01:19:40,040
Speaker 3: you start in the week.

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01:19:40,200 --> 01:19:42,599
Speaker 1: Yes, exactly, and again, what do what else do they

1752
01:19:42,640 --> 01:19:46,000
Speaker 1: have to do? Take out the garbage, cat, litter the cat.

1753
01:19:46,400 --> 01:19:47,599
Speaker 3: When you're watching the dishes.

1754
01:19:47,840 --> 01:19:49,479
Speaker 4: When you just want to hear someone, you want to hear,

1755
01:19:49,560 --> 01:19:51,080
Speaker 4: when you want to engage, you want to hear the

1756
01:19:51,200 --> 01:19:53,160
Speaker 4: sounds of people. But you don't want to have to

1757
01:19:53,200 --> 01:19:54,400
Speaker 4: stare at the TV screen.

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01:19:55,000 --> 01:19:57,680
Speaker 1: The Dream, the Dream. Thank you for being here, you too,

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01:19:57,800 --> 01:20:01,040
Speaker 1: thank you very much for having us listener. The podcast

1760
01:20:01,200 --> 01:20:01,599
Speaker 1: is over.

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01:20:02,280 --> 01:20:02,800
Speaker 3: It's over.

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01:20:02,960 --> 01:20:05,760
Speaker 1: It's over, it's over. I don't have anything left to say.

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01:20:06,600 --> 01:20:15,160
Speaker 1: Move on, I love you, goodbye, I said, No Gifts

1764
01:20:15,240 --> 01:20:18,400
Speaker 1: is an exactly right production. It's produced by our dear

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01:20:18,479 --> 01:20:22,000
Speaker 1: friend Annalise Nelson, and it's beautifully mixed by Ben Holliday.

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01:20:22,280 --> 01:20:25,720
Speaker 1: And we couldn't do it without our guest booker, Patrick Kottner.

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01:20:26,040 --> 01:20:29,879
Speaker 1: The theme song, of course, could only come from miracle

1768
01:20:29,960 --> 01:20:33,840
Speaker 1: worker Amy Mann. You must follow the show on Instagram

1769
01:20:33,960 --> 01:20:35,720
Speaker 1: at I said no Gifts. I don't want to hear

1770
01:20:35,760 --> 01:20:38,200
Speaker 1: any excuses. That's where you get to see pictures of

1771
01:20:38,240 --> 01:20:40,439
Speaker 1: all these gorgeous gifts I'm getting. And don't you want

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01:20:40,479 --> 01:20:41,599
Speaker 1: to see pictures of the gifts?

1773
01:20:43,560 --> 01:20:45,360
Speaker 3: The line why did you hear?

1774
01:20:47,920 --> 01:20:50,559
Speaker 2: Thuna man myself perfectly clear.

1775
01:20:51,880 --> 01:20:52,479
Speaker 3: When you're a.

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01:20:52,520 --> 01:20:58,800
Speaker 2: Guest to me, you gotta come to me empty. And

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01:21:00,400 --> 01:21:06,200
Speaker 2: I said, no, guest, your presence is presents enough. I

1778
01:21:06,720 --> 01:21:11,360
Speaker 2: already had too much stuff, So how do you dare

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01:21:11,479 --> 01:21:13,080
Speaker 2: to surbey me