1
00:00:01,320 --> 00:00:04,400
Speaker 1: It's dangerous to ask people for advice on who you

2
00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:05,200
Speaker 1: should marry.

3
00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:06,800
Speaker 2: Oh, like, what.

4
00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:09,639
Speaker 1: Do you think? Is he the one? Guys? Like, I

5
00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:11,799
Speaker 1: know he lives in my attic and we just met

6
00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:15,640
Speaker 1: last week. But he's kind of cute and like the leachy.

7
00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:18,200
Speaker 2: Drifter type of Oh what to meet cute.

8
00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:22,759
Speaker 1: Next thing you know, you're standing at the altar with

9
00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:23,360
Speaker 1: that drifter.

10
00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:23,799
Speaker 2: Wow.

11
00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:27,440
Speaker 1: Okay, sure he's only there for the buffet, but it

12
00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:31,920
Speaker 1: doesn't matter. You're in love and all your close friends

13
00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:34,760
Speaker 1: who warned you not to do it, yeah, weren't invited.

14
00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:37,280
Speaker 2: Oh no, you can't tell people who to marry.

15
00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:37,840
Speaker 1: That's right.

16
00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:40,519
Speaker 2: You just get prepared for the divorce eventually.

17
00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:43,360
Speaker 1: But what if you're dealing with a divorce attorney who's

18
00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:47,600
Speaker 1: seen thousands and thousands of cases over her career, and

19
00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:50,839
Speaker 1: she says she could tell you the top careers of

20
00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:54,440
Speaker 1: people that you should avoid unless you want the marriage

21
00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:58,600
Speaker 1: to fail. Stop it, And surprisingly hot drifter isn't on there.

22
00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:01,520
Speaker 2: Oh well, you know, love can overcome anything.

23
00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:05,200
Speaker 1: It shocks us well. One divorce lawyer named Catherine Leonard

24
00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:07,880
Speaker 1: recently posted on TikTok a list of the top five

25
00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:13,240
Speaker 1: professions women should avoid in a spouse all right. As

26
00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:15,720
Speaker 1: you can imagine, not only did it get millions of views,

27
00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:17,760
Speaker 1: but it got a lot of comments too, because it's

28
00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:20,960
Speaker 1: a little bit controversial. Oh, I'm gonna play it for you.

29
00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:21,600
Speaker 1: Here it goes.

30
00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:25,600
Speaker 3: The top five professions of husbands that women should avoid,

31
00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:33,400
Speaker 3: in no particular order, firemen, police officer, military, surgeon, and pilot.

32
00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,280
Speaker 3: If you look at these professions, what do they all

33
00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:40,080
Speaker 3: have in common? The men in these professions, they're gods

34
00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:43,360
Speaker 3: in their profession right. They are treated with a tremendous

35
00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:45,839
Speaker 3: amount of respect, and they have a lot of responsibility,

36
00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:49,240
Speaker 3: and they tend to be very narcissistic and very controlling.

37
00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:52,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, did that hurt? Did that hurt a little bit?

38
00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:55,919
Speaker 2: If you were, I'm sorry.

39
00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:59,720
Speaker 1: I think a lot of our listeners are probably like

40
00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:04,320
Speaker 1: the man, because a lot of people could either be

41
00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:06,480
Speaker 1: married to one of those professions right now, or they

42
00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:07,600
Speaker 1: are that profession.

43
00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:10,400
Speaker 4: The only one that I heard that I would argue

44
00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:11,400
Speaker 4: against this firefighter.

45
00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:15,160
Speaker 1: Don't defend the firefighters just because you buy their calendars

46
00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:18,520
Speaker 1: every year. But I know what you're all thinking. You

47
00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:21,919
Speaker 1: want to know about the women that guys should be avoiding.

48
00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:25,320
Speaker 1: I wasn't thinking I think a lot of the guys

49
00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:31,600
Speaker 1: were thinking, let's make this fair. The lawyer did go

50
00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:34,760
Speaker 1: back on TikTok a few days later and posted another video,

51
00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:38,040
Speaker 1: which got millions of views and comments about the other

52
00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:38,880
Speaker 1: side of things.

53
00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:42,000
Speaker 4: If she just names the same five professions, I'm going

54
00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:47,279
Speaker 4: to be very disappointed.

55
00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:48,720
Speaker 1: Let's hear what she has to say.

56
00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:51,200
Speaker 5: There are some common professions that I see in women.

57
00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:53,680
Speaker 5: The most common one that I see as teacher. The

58
00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:56,960
Speaker 5: second most common is nurse. But those cases are not

59
00:02:57,200 --> 00:03:01,639
Speaker 5: cases where the female is really difficult or litigious or

60
00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:04,000
Speaker 5: anything like that. They're just kind of run of the

61
00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:08,760
Speaker 5: mill cases. The most common profession that I see in

62
00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:12,160
Speaker 5: the female parties in my divorces, and this is over

63
00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:17,920
Speaker 5: thirteen years of cases. Oh my god, I'm so nervous

64
00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:21,320
Speaker 5: is stay at home mom.

65
00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:26,120
Speaker 1: That's kind of crazy that she said that.

66
00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:27,560
Speaker 4: I thought she was going to say a lawyer, and

67
00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:29,440
Speaker 4: that's why she was upset because she was a lawyer.

68
00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:33,640
Speaker 6: Is that because of like a perception thing. I know

69
00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:36,880
Speaker 6: some people don't realize how unbelievably hard it is to

70
00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:39,360
Speaker 6: say home mom. Like guys will be like, oh, you

71
00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:41,880
Speaker 6: just get to stay home all day with k I.

72
00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:44,080
Speaker 4: Also see like friends of mine that are stay at

73
00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:46,960
Speaker 4: home moms. You've kind of lost your identity in some way.

74
00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:49,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, your job is like the household. Yeah, and

75
00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:52,520
Speaker 1: they get to go out and go on you.

76
00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:55,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not fair.

77
00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:55,560
Speaker 1: I don't know.

78
00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:57,520
Speaker 6: I got kids to take care of. Well.

79
00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:01,080
Speaker 1: Actually, the lawyer went on to explain why she thinks

80
00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:02,160
Speaker 1: that this is true.

81
00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:04,720
Speaker 2: Oh why I stay at home moms get divorced so much.

82
00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:07,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, she defends why she believes that's the case. Let's listen.

83
00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:09,839
Speaker 5: I know y'all are going to hate me, but let

84
00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:13,640
Speaker 5: me explain why. Number One, when you're divorcing a stay

85
00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:18,120
Speaker 5: at home mom, they are paralyzed with fear, and rightfully so,

86
00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:20,760
Speaker 5: because their whole life is going to change. They are

87
00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:23,000
Speaker 5: going to have to go back to the workforce, they're

88
00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:26,120
Speaker 5: going to have to possibly move, their finances are about

89
00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:28,160
Speaker 5: to be very different. There's lots of things that they

90
00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:32,360
Speaker 5: don't know financially about what's going on, and so they

91
00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:35,240
Speaker 5: tend to stick their head in the sand. Install and

92
00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:38,320
Speaker 5: so the case has become very contested and very expensive.

93
00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:41,960
Speaker 5: The second reason that I see that stay at home

94
00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:45,520
Speaker 5: moms end up being the most common profession in a

95
00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:48,599
Speaker 5: divorce is that I think there's a tendency, and this

96
00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:52,480
Speaker 5: is completely my opinion, just based on my observations. They

97
00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,320
Speaker 5: tend to focus so much on the children and the

98
00:04:55,400 --> 00:05:00,560
Speaker 5: husband focuses so much on career that first of all,

99
00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:04,920
Speaker 5: they don't feel appreciated by one another. But the husband

100
00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:08,560
Speaker 5: starts feeling like an ATM and the wife becomes completely

101
00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:11,839
Speaker 5: focused on the children, and they tend to grow apart.

102
00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:14,000
Speaker 5: So I think that's why it's the most common. That's

103
00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:17,600
Speaker 5: not hate, just an observation. It's probably my last TikTok.

104
00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:24,159
Speaker 4: Oh. Yeah, at home moms are coming after her.

105
00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:28,080
Speaker 1: I couldn't understand why this went so viral. Yeah, because

106
00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:29,800
Speaker 1: I'm sure a lot of people hear this and get

107
00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:31,159
Speaker 1: instantly upset about it.

108
00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:31,880
Speaker 2: You know.

109
00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:34,680
Speaker 4: It's it's interesting as a mom myself, like I often

110
00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:36,960
Speaker 4: feel really guilty for I mean, you have mom guilt

111
00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:39,000
Speaker 4: no matter what you do, Like really guilty for working

112
00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:40,720
Speaker 4: so much and not being with my kids enough. But

113
00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:42,719
Speaker 4: then I look at the other side, I'm like, could

114
00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:45,360
Speaker 4: I actually stay home with my kids twenty four to seven?

115
00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:48,240
Speaker 2: I don't think I'd be here at mom I don't.

116
00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:51,240
Speaker 6: That's why I don't a lot.

117
00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:55,360
Speaker 1: It's not her advice, but it's almost like her advice

118
00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:59,520
Speaker 1: to moms is stop focusing so much on your kids.

119
00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:01,120
Speaker 1: Stop working so much.

120
00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:03,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, it sucks because I've always wanted a wife, but

121
00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:06,040
Speaker 6: I've always wanted to be the provider where my wife

122
00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:08,000
Speaker 6: doesn't have to work. I want her to be able

123
00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,039
Speaker 6: to do whatever she wants and take care of the kids.

124
00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:11,560
Speaker 2: Say that until you're now.

125
00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:16,760
Speaker 1: Well. The easiest way to avoid all that is just

126
00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:17,560
Speaker 1: don't get married.

127
00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:20,359
Speaker 2: I'm doing on that.

128
00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:22,440
Speaker 1: Yes, that's what I've learned.

129
00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:24,000
Speaker 2: Everyone listening.

130
00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:27,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm divorced her, don't have kids from the divilorce.

131
00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:28,679
Speaker 5: That's true.

132
00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:30,360
Speaker 1: There's a lot of things you could take away, but

133
00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:32,240
Speaker 1: I want to know what our listeners have to say. Texting,

134
00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:36,520
Speaker 1: Do you agree with her? Do you disagree?

135
00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:38,960
Speaker 2: Are you a stay at home mom currently filing?

136
00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:42,160
Speaker 1: Or do you want to stay at home husband with

137
00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:43,919
Speaker 1: you because we both stay.

138
00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:47,000
Speaker 2: At home that'll be helpy with your kids. Do you

139
00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:48,680
Speaker 2: want to be a stay at home dad with you?

140
00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:49,359
Speaker 6: Take care of me?

141
00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:53,000
Speaker 1: You're the child Phone taps coming up next