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Speaker 2: As your girl Lex Peen and is your girl dragging

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Speaker 2: a call La.

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Speaker 3: We haven't seen y'all since last year, and we're coming

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Speaker 3: back in a big way.

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Speaker 1: What we're on our motherfucking road. Hey, you're you're what's good?

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Speaker 1: You gotta okay? So I've been saying here, So it's him,

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Speaker 1: fuck out of here, Fuck out of here, bitch. Yeah

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Speaker 1: that ass. Oh you got me fucked up? Sons? Oh

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Speaker 1: you did that? Go out of here? Oh? Oh oh

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Speaker 1: oh oh, oh oh oh oh. Y'all know, first of all,

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Speaker 1: I love the West Coast. We always have a time.

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Speaker 1: Last year we had our show out there and y'all

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Speaker 1: was the lead. We have the best crowd every so

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Speaker 1: I can't wait to see y'all again. I know y'all

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Speaker 1: gonna turn up for us, and we're coming out there

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Speaker 1: again for the Netflix Festival.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Netflix is a joke Fest. May tenth will be

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Speaker 3: at the Miracle Theater at seven thirty pm. I'm telling

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Speaker 3: you get your tickets right now. This is a show

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Speaker 3: you are not going to want to miss. So what

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Speaker 3: you're gonna do is go to Netflix is.

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Speaker 1: A joke dot com.

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Speaker 3: Get your tickets. May tenth, Poor Minds seven point thirty, it's.

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Speaker 1: Gonna be leaked.

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Speaker 2: We gonna be there.

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Speaker 1: Y'all need to be there, period, And y'all know we're

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Speaker 1: gonna have some special guest slide through. Just wait and

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Speaker 1: see what sup y'all is your girl Lex Pete, It's

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Speaker 1: your girl Dre and the call and you are tuned

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Speaker 1: into a new episode of Poor Mine, where a drunk

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Speaker 1: Mine speaks sober thoughts. We gotta guess today, We gotta

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Speaker 1: guess today. Let me tell you something.

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Speaker 3: There is nothing better than a Poor Mine's episode when

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Speaker 3: we have the rap girly zone, Like I'm so excited,

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Speaker 3: we got dreamsy and about it. Yes, I'm so excited

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Speaker 3: for this episode because you came in with a lot

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Speaker 1: I flew in for this, like you don't like I'm

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Speaker 1: not here for no other reason. Oh my god, let

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Speaker 1: me here. So let me ask you this. How are

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Speaker 1: you doing? I'm good. Yeah, I got off the flight,

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Speaker 1: so I'm a little a little, a little tired. I'm good.

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Speaker 1: I'm having a good day.

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Speaker 3: Yes, well you look amazing, Tea, so we gonna.

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Speaker 1: Are you flying out tomorrow. I was, but I linked

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Speaker 1: up with a couple of people that's like, no, I

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Speaker 1: I just start to look here too, because I know

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Speaker 1: she was yeah yeah, but she was like, you're finna

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Speaker 1: have so much fun on that today. Don't talk about

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Speaker 1: the Bitch Dove remix in the second. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So, but I want to start off from the beginning

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Speaker 3: because we do have a lot of listeners, you know,

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Speaker 3: that are new, oh, you know, and we'd like to

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Speaker 3: introduce the girls to them. So let's start from the beginning.

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Speaker 3: Where are you originally from?

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Speaker 1: I'm from Chicago.

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Speaker 3: You're from Chicago? Oh so you was like, yeah, I

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Speaker 3: had a moment. Can I take Can I tell you something?

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Speaker 1: You real music?

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Speaker 3: I had a moment right now. I'm from Orange, Texas.

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Speaker 3: I am a country girl. I don't know nothing about nothing,

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Speaker 3: like for fun. When I grow up, we used to

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Speaker 3: up Okay, but like recently, like probably like what was

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Speaker 3: It was like three years ago, like three years ago,

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Speaker 3: I need to be on YouTube because you know, we

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Speaker 1: Stream on YouTube and it would be like Chicago Gang Wars.

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Speaker 1: I like, who was watching this? She I was like

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Speaker 3: Then I want to go to Chicago with like someone

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Speaker 1: For me growing up, it was just like I was

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Speaker 1: I got jazz being, I got something. So I joined everything,

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Speaker 1: and writing, so like you was in the band. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And that's why I mused my music teacher. She taught

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Speaker 1: She taught me how to scat, how to sing, and

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Speaker 1: I used to sing at the House of Blues. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So I played the saxophone. But I was awful. I

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Speaker 3: Because my dad played the saxophone so and he like

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Speaker 3: And then like literally my senior year, my mom bought

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Speaker 1: Your mama say?

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Speaker 3: She she never found out, never found out, and she

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Speaker 3: never asked you what happened to and a lot. I said,

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Speaker 1: She believed me. Oh my god, up in jail, she

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Speaker 1: ain't gonna see this. Still smoking crapy. We slots of

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Speaker 1: I thought that you started writing music when you were

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Speaker 1: like nine. Yeah, so how did you realize that you

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Speaker 1: And I had a homeboy that that was like rapping

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Speaker 1: We did a song together. We performed it at homecoming.

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Speaker 1: and just just be fast. Yeah, one day we had

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Speaker 1: Will Man. Shout out to Will. He was trying to

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so he had a camera. I was rapping.

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Speaker 1: My homegirl was on the dance scene. We like, let's

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Speaker 1: some drill music. And it went up like it went crazy.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't even a drill song. It was a drill beat.

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Speaker 1: But it was called Eliz Bitch Aloud. That was my

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Speaker 1: first song. It had got like fifty thousand views in

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Speaker 1: and that's in high school. Yeah, time, next thing, you know,

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Speaker 1: it was just like rappers in the city. That was

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Speaker 1: like King Louis, you know, yeah, come, I was in

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Speaker 1: but I'm tuned in. I found out everything.

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Speaker 3: But so tell me about the moment when you realize,

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Speaker 3: you know what, I need to take this seriously, Like

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Speaker 3: I'm good at this.

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Speaker 1: For real, for real. I think when I went to college.

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Speaker 1: I went to college I ain't gonna get into the

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Speaker 1: whole story. But I went to college and I had

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Speaker 1: gotten some beef with artists in my city. We's watching

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Speaker 1: everything good. But at the time it was a disc

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Speaker 1: hell nah, Like I called my daddy, like I'm finna

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Speaker 1: drop out. I gotta go get active, like I caught him,

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Speaker 1: like cause I was like a month in in college.

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Speaker 1: So when you think about that and you put that

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so the record recently went platinum? Right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: It's I don't know if I had a feeling of something,

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Speaker 1: about bitch Dug yeah, I'm about to spend about the

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Speaker 1: seet a big I'm not gonna lie. When you dropped

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Speaker 3: So but I think the backstory about the song, I

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Speaker 1: And the real backstory behind it. It really wasn't like

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Speaker 6: So in honor of big dreams from the shot you

431
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Speaker 6: know I'm black.

432
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Speaker 1: It's here.

433
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Speaker 6: This one is called bitch duh all right, So we

434
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Speaker 6: have some repers out of tequila. We have some passion

435
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Speaker 6: fruit lacorse, some peach la course, so we got the

436
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Speaker 6: girls boost up. We got a little pineapple juice, lime

437
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Speaker 6: juice and a gave and that thing gardnership with a

438
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Speaker 6: mint sprick and a fresh pineapple.

439
00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:06,080
Speaker 1: So cheers y'all. Bitch dues, I love it. My word's

440
00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:10,040
Speaker 1: gonna be slurm. I oh you go, y'all want to

441
00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:14,679
Speaker 1: take a shot? Birthday? That's my birthday. Technically we can

442
00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:17,480
Speaker 1: take a shot technically both my birthday. So we're gonna

443
00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:19,400
Speaker 1: get into this conversation while top four up the shots.

444
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:21,720
Speaker 1: What y'all was talking about earlier with y'all sons, what

445
00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:23,760
Speaker 1: y'all know, I'm not really into the sign, but y'all

446
00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:26,520
Speaker 1: was so okay. So yeah, So basically we was talking

447
00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:29,760
Speaker 1: about how because she was saying she's a march erie

448
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:33,040
Speaker 1: and like when she be meeting April eries, she'd be like,

449
00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:35,600
Speaker 1: I don't really know, I don't really vibe with just

450
00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:38,959
Speaker 1: like that, and I even like I'm on the cusp

451
00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:41,879
Speaker 1: of almost being an aries. My birthday is April twenty second.

452
00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:45,280
Speaker 1: I think tourist season started on like the twenties, but

453
00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:49,639
Speaker 1: with April Toris, I'll be vibing with April Torists like

454
00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:54,760
Speaker 1: I funk with them. But the main one. One of

455
00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:56,720
Speaker 1: my best friends is a may tourist too, but I

456
00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:58,960
Speaker 1: feel like we you know who my best friend is.

457
00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:02,320
Speaker 1: We so defer and I feel the same way about

458
00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:05,600
Speaker 1: like you being a Leo like July a Leos August

459
00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:08,240
Speaker 1: not your fee you but you say you don't fuck

460
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:14,160
Speaker 1: with And we were talking about men because the men

461
00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:17,600
Speaker 1: aries is something else, like so do you like aries

462
00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:23,639
Speaker 1: though at all? In general? I love Aries. I just

463
00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:27,320
Speaker 1: you know how you know yourself, and it's like, oh,

464
00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:29,040
Speaker 1: I know I take it there with you, and I

465
00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:30,600
Speaker 1: know you will probably take it there with me, so

466
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:33,520
Speaker 1: I gotta keep my I gotta keep it cute with area.

467
00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:36,800
Speaker 1: But I understand Aries, and I know I'm a lot

468
00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:38,920
Speaker 1: to deal with, so I can only have so many

469
00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:41,560
Speaker 1: areas around me that Aries is a lie. We fired

470
00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:45,360
Speaker 1: sign too much fire, We're gonna burn down. Look Leo. Yeah.

471
00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 3: The thing about Leo is I'm on the custom of

472
00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:51,760
Speaker 3: being a virgo, so I know I'm loud.

473
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:54,600
Speaker 1: I love attention. I'm never gonna say that.

474
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:56,840
Speaker 3: But I am not a Leo that I don't never

475
00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:59,040
Speaker 3: I've never had to do the most to get attention.

476
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:01,399
Speaker 3: There's a different between. I think a lot of Leos,

477
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:04,600
Speaker 3: especially July Leos, they be doing the most and doing

478
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:07,880
Speaker 3: a lot. I've never been that girl. I just get attention.

479
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 3: I don't have to try. That's just what I do.

480
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 3: So I think a lot of times with the July Leos,

481
00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:14,160
Speaker 3: I'll be like, you're doing too much.

482
00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 1: That's about April areas, yeah, or they be doing too well,

483
00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:22,119
Speaker 1: they do too much. And then also like Aries is

484
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 1: like fiery hustlers, passionate, we go getters, like I'll be

485
00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:29,160
Speaker 1: seeing some of the other areas and it gives lazy,

486
00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 1: it gives and it be like, baby, you don't represent

487
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:35,320
Speaker 1: the sign, right, like you ain't doing it right, and

488
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:39,040
Speaker 1: I'd be like when you April, okay and see that.

489
00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:41,640
Speaker 1: I feel about may tauruses like I feel like may

490
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:48,560
Speaker 1: touristes them bitches, is mean, they mean, they boring, It's fun.

491
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:54,680
Speaker 1: My sister not born though. They aggressive. I'm just thinking

492
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 1: about my sister. So when I'm like, I'm trying to decide,

493
00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:01,320
Speaker 1: they aggressive, they always mad, they be ready to fight

494
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:06,119
Speaker 1: to my sister gonna fight. It was not now, but

495
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:08,360
Speaker 1: she used to fight. My sister used to fight. Maybe

496
00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:14,160
Speaker 1: because I know friend fight. She don't play. She always

497
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:22,919
Speaker 1: very about bitch. I keep my commentary real like, and

498
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 1: I be more so the one to be like, it's

499
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:28,120
Speaker 1: not that serious, like you just need to calm down,

500
00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:30,960
Speaker 1: look that person whatever. But she'd be like, no, bye,

501
00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 1: b she be ready like a dungeon dress. No no, no,

502
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 1: she a maid toys. Oh you April, and I'm April.

503
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:45,160
Speaker 3: So talking about a different Yeah, That's why I wanted

504
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:46,919
Speaker 3: to talk about like the friendships and stuff. So my

505
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 3: first topic today, I wanted to talk about an enemy

506
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 3: of my friend is my enemy too. So I wanted

507
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 3: to talk about this though from like kind of a

508
00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:59,960
Speaker 3: different perspective because us being in the industry that we're in,

509
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 3: and sometimes we work with people, right, yeah, we're I

510
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 3: won't say like we're best friends, but we're associates, Like

511
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:10,960
Speaker 3: we're cool. I'm on your side. So it gets a

512
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:14,439
Speaker 3: little messy because if this girl that I've been working

513
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 3: with for years and then I've been working with this

514
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:19,520
Speaker 3: girl for years and we cool and then y'all start beefing,

515
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 3: it's kind of like where do I stand?

516
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:22,720
Speaker 1: Who side do I be on?

517
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:26,639
Speaker 3: So it's like, is an enemy of your friend gotta

518
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 3: be your enemy too?

519
00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 1: I don't feel like, no, I don't think that because

520
00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 1: one thing about me, I'm so blunt and like straightforward.

521
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:40,399
Speaker 1: I have situations like that where two of my friends

522
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,600
Speaker 1: is beefing and it's like, I hope you don't think

523
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:45,159
Speaker 1: I'm in the cohut for you. I think it's not.

524
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:46,919
Speaker 1: I don't got nothing to do with it. And then

525
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:49,159
Speaker 1: it depends on the type of relationship you got with

526
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 1: that person. Like industry shit and real friendship is just

527
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 1: totally different. Like if my best friend is beefing with

528
00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:59,359
Speaker 1: a bitch and I don't got no relationship with that girl,

529
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 1: know what, then we got the same shit going on.

530
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 1: But if it's somebody that I've been cool with for

531
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 1: like years and it's one of my best friends and

532
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:12,480
Speaker 1: I'm cool with her for years, I'm gonna have to

533
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 1: do some investigating, just like because I know you, and

534
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 1: I know you and I know how you get sometimes

535
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 1: I know how you get, And what I would try

536
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 1: to do is be the mediator for the situation. I

537
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,200
Speaker 1: am the media, I am nephew, but when it comes

538
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:29,360
Speaker 1: to me, they can't talk to mediate nothing with me,

539
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,640
Speaker 1: but with everybody else, I'll be like, but I know,

540
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:37,159
Speaker 1: I know you all set boundaries though, so like, Okay,

541
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 1: you're still cool with both of them, but you're like, okay, beach,

542
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 1: like y'all cannot like each other. But don't talk about

543
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 1: her to me. You don't talk about her to me,

544
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:46,120
Speaker 1: Like I don't want to hear about anything. I don't

545
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,919
Speaker 1: even think people should be comfortable talking to me about

546
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:52,960
Speaker 1: my friend because they know, like I'm not a yes man,

547
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:55,800
Speaker 1: Like I'm gonna say something. Even if you do talk

548
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 1: negative about my friend and you just speaking your truth,

549
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, I'm still gonna tell you,

550
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:03,919
Speaker 1: like I don't think so like I don't think she

551
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 1: I think you tripping like I think you overthinking that.

552
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:08,119
Speaker 1: I try to give you another perspective of how to

553
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:10,120
Speaker 1: look at it. But at the end of that, I'm

554
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 1: not gonna involve myself too much into that shit, especially

555
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:15,359
Speaker 1: with industry shit, because I was just thinking about that

556
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,919
Speaker 1: about one of my industry friends. Now I'm like, this

557
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:21,879
Speaker 1: bitch gonna go to war with everybody, Like I can't

558
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:23,639
Speaker 1: do that. You know what I'm saying. I got this

559
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:26,399
Speaker 1: my job, but I'm standing with you. You know what

560
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:28,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying, But I'm not. Don't expect me to jump

561
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: in out of your shit.

562
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:31,400
Speaker 3: And that's what I wanted to ask you though, because

563
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 3: how do you handle that? Like in the industry, especially now,

564
00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 3: there's so much wrap beef going on.

565
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 1: With the I'm with the guy every other day.

566
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:42,480
Speaker 3: Every other day I wake up and somebody in this

567
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 3: this person, somebody that tweeted this person, and so how

568
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 3: does it feel? Because I know, like we like to

569
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:53,240
Speaker 3: be real, honest people. As women, we try to stand

570
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:56,679
Speaker 3: on business and be truth be truthful and honest.

571
00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 1: But sometimes it's like in the industry, sometimes you can't.

572
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:01,719
Speaker 3: Really do that all the way because you gotta keep

573
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:04,680
Speaker 3: your mouth shut about certain things because it's your job

574
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:07,160
Speaker 3: and you don't want to, you know, mess up things.

575
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 1: So how do you navigate that space? I just be

576
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:13,240
Speaker 1: I'm first of all, I'm a loner anyway. Yeah, if

577
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:15,480
Speaker 1: you ain't noticed, like I fuck with like a lot

578
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,119
Speaker 1: of the girls. But it's it's very much so a

579
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:21,959
Speaker 1: respect of your pain. And that's it unless we built

580
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 1: a real vibes where it's like I talk to you

581
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 1: on a regular basis. You know my personal business. I

582
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,640
Speaker 1: know your personal business. If you fight, I fight, you swing,

583
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,360
Speaker 1: I swing. If it's not that type of relationship, these

584
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:35,640
Speaker 1: bitches ain't finna come fight my ra bet right, Oh

585
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 1: that's true. Ain't nobody finnah jump in my rabbi. So

586
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But I do pay attention

587
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 1: to stuff. I try not to like get into it.

588
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 1: But it's just like that's your business. We've grown, yeah

589
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 1: in high school number but it's just like a thing.

590
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 1: And I don't know y'all for real, for real, let's

591
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 1: be real. But I feel like it you ever like

592
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 1: a pressure though, like I guess with some of the

593
00:28:57,040 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 1: beag artists to like peek aside, that's all it's say.

594
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 1: It feels like very pick a side nowadays.

595
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 2: It does.

596
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 1: It feels like in the rap game right now with

597
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 1: the women, it's like you have I'm not gonna say

598
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 1: to two people, but you got two people. That's very popular.

599
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:13,400
Speaker 1: And then it seems like a lot of people are

600
00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 1: like picking size. Do you ever feel the pressure to

601
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 1: do that? No, not at all. That's good. Yeah, I don't.

602
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 1: I haven't. I don't know these people. Like at the

603
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:26,520
Speaker 1: end of the day, I'm a I ad marry y'all work,

604
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 1: but I don't know y'all. I'm not finna get the

605
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:31,960
Speaker 1: fuck hunting. I don't know you. I don't even know

606
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 1: what y'all got going on. That's what people need to

607
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 1: man their business. That's part of maturity and growing up. Yeah,

608
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:39,200
Speaker 1: so immature and thinking they got to pick a side

609
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:42,240
Speaker 1: on certain stuff. Now, if it's something that I feel

610
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 1: strongly about and like it's just something that just rubbed

611
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 1: me wrong, it's like, I don't fuck with shit like that.

612
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: I'm a sad naturally. That ain't nobody fena pressure me

613
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 1: to pick.

614
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 5: No.

615
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you pick.

616
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 3: A side behind closed doors of like who we resonate with,

617
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 3: cause you can you can see some shit you be like.

618
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:00,560
Speaker 1: Man, that's some whole ass shit. And I'm not talking

619
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:01,320
Speaker 1: about with the rap beef.

620
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 3: I'm just meaning in general, like, if you are watching

621
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 3: a reality show, right and you see two characters on

622
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:09,800
Speaker 3: the reality show get into it, you're gonna naturally pick

623
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 3: a side.

624
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 1: You don't know these people either, but.

625
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 3: You're gonna be like, you know what, this person A

626
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 3: was wrong and person B is right. So I feel

627
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 3: like even with the rap be's going on with the

628
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 3: men and the women, you kind of naturally lean towards

629
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 3: the side because you'd be like, yeah, they're right, because

630
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 3: you was being kind of a hole on some shit.

631
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 2: I don't know.

632
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:29,560
Speaker 1: I disagree because I feel like if you give people

633
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 1: enough time, naturally, I feel like it always be both

634
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 1: sides do something that I'd be like, it's questionable, y'all,

635
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 1: both questionable. So I'm never like navigating towards one side

636
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 1: more than the other, cause I feel like people are people. Yeah,

637
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 1: everybody be doing fucked up shit, everybody be doing weird sheit.

638
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:48,520
Speaker 1: I mean, sometimes some people can seem real at times,

639
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 1: like I don't know, it's just all about perspective and

640
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:52,760
Speaker 1: we don't know what be going on before it scenes.

641
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 1: It's so much to go on behind the scenes that

642
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 1: people don't even know about that I'll be hearing about it.

643
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Speaker 1: I'd be like, look, this ain't my motherfucking business, right

644
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Speaker 1: telling me because I'm not, Oh my god, say well,

645
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Speaker 1: I'm not picking off side, I'm not picking out side tonight.

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Speaker 1: But I can have an opinion on something and still

647
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Speaker 1: be like that ain't my business, though, yeah, my business.

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Speaker 1: Tell me.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you something, because you're a Chicago girl.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you something. And I know we're not

651
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Speaker 3: supposed to say this and speak his name. This is

652
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Speaker 3: when I knew I was missed.

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Speaker 1: Speak who named? Don't speaking? When Track of the Closet

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Speaker 3: he was can But.

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Speaker 1: What I'm saying is this is when I knew I

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Speaker 3: That's what it taught me to be another people business

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Speaker 3: Rosie the nosy neighbor.

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Speaker 1: So you're blaming I go for this. I was born.

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670
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674
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Speaker 3: know thee tea. Yeah, And that's why I say, I

676
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Speaker 3: know you be hearing so much shit.

677
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Speaker 1: And I know you be like here, but I like.

678
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Speaker 3: That about you because I'm not gonna lie see you

679
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00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:42,440
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682
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 3: like some big drama like that. Cause I'm like, I'm like,

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684
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686
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687
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688
00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 3: but certain male rappers. I'd be like, oh, het it

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690
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:07,680
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Speaker 1: I promise that I really be in my own world.

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Speaker 1: I be the same way I be responding to people

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Speaker 1: sometimes cause they just be having me fucked up. It's

739
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:15,879
Speaker 1: not that I necessarily think you right, but it's like yeah,

740
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 1: like you said, like bitch, what are you? And then

741
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:20,719
Speaker 1: some people on the internet will get on in the

742
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 1: middle of something and not see the full thing, and

743
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744
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Speaker 1: and it's just like now you got people judging me

745
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Speaker 1: that I ain't even asked to be in this, and

746
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:32,240
Speaker 1: it's like I gotta clear it up because it's gonna

747
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 1: keep trickling down, and it's like not so many people

748
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 1: DM and U twet's it's so irritating. But but honestly,

749
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 1: I I really be thinking this shit kind of fun.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I do be a little entertained, Like

751
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:46,880
Speaker 1: I'll be getting dragged on Twitter every day. Somebody tweeted

752
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:49,400
Speaker 1: that the other day. They was like, they said.

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00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 3: That next peak girl from Poor Minds always getting dragged.

754
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Speaker 1: I said, period. I loved because I'm gonna wake up

755
00:35:57,480 --> 00:35:59,959
Speaker 1: the next morning like hey y'all, good morning, like nothing.

756
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 1: They be dragging me too, because I feel like we

757
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:05,200
Speaker 1: both say things on Twitter and we be being so

758
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:07,760
Speaker 1: and serious. But it'll be stuff that will go viral.

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Speaker 1: Litter will get you fuck it won't get your up.

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Speaker 1: But like I agree with you, when it comes to

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Speaker 1: industry sheet, I don't really care, Like if it's somebody

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00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:18,799
Speaker 1: that's like an industry friend or somebody that like came

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Speaker 1: on the show, we don't really keeck it like that whatever,

764
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:23,400
Speaker 1: but we cool. That's fine. But when it comes to

765
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Speaker 1: my real friends, I absolutely feel like the enemy of

766
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 1: mind bitch should be an enemy of yours. I feel

767
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 1: that way, yes, I do, because I don't think it's

768
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 1: a way to play neutral in real friendship. It depends

769
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:42,239
Speaker 1: is you a petty person? I don't think so you

770
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 1: gotta be real with yourself like you look at I

771
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:52,279
Speaker 1: wanted you to tell Can you tell me? Can you

772
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 1: give me an example of how I've been petty? And

773
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:56,360
Speaker 1: for your course? So, first of all, you hold grudges,

774
00:36:56,400 --> 00:37:01,160
Speaker 1: so I know you petty, But do you know that No?

775
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:02,839
Speaker 1: But this is the thing, let me ask. I'm gonna

776
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 1: ask Lexs because Leg's been my friend for so long.

777
00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 1: What when I stop being friends with somebody? What have

778
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,719
Speaker 1: I done to them? Like? What if I ever in

779
00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:14,080
Speaker 1: retaliation instead of just letting the friendship go, Like I'm petty?

780
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:17,400
Speaker 1: What you feel like you do? Even you letting stuff

781
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:20,359
Speaker 1: go and do and sometimes that's petty. Sometimes let it go. Yeah,

782
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:22,040
Speaker 1: when you just be like I don't want to deal

783
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 1: with it no more, Sometimes that's petty. Sometimes you need

784
00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:26,799
Speaker 1: to be the bigger person and go ahead on if

785
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:29,440
Speaker 1: that's your friends, if you want to continue the friendship,

786
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 1: if that's your friend. If you're a person that just

787
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:33,759
Speaker 1: cut off all your friends every time you get an

788
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:37,239
Speaker 1: attitude or when she don't go on your way, you're petty? Yes,

789
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 1: because I don't think that's petty. I think that's me

790
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 1: being like this no longer. It hurts me, like I

791
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 1: don't want to continue to be friends with you because

792
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:48,319
Speaker 1: we don't see eye to eye. We not cool no more.

793
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:51,480
Speaker 1: You don't align our values, don't the line what we want,

794
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:55,240
Speaker 1: don't align our friendship does not work for me anymore.

795
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:57,799
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna let this go. I don't think that's

796
00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 1: being petty though. If that's a real friend, it takes

797
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 1: some communication for y'all to do that. If you're just

798
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 1: the person to cut somebody off like that, I think

799
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 1: that's petty. Now let me let me add my two cents.

800
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:11,319
Speaker 1: Because it also depends on what they did to you, right,

801
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 1: That's how many times they did it to you. Okay,

802
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:15,480
Speaker 1: So I forgive people.

803
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:18,839
Speaker 3: So let's not talk about like But like I said,

804
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 3: you asked me what you have done do Peddy in

805
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 3: the past. Now, we have been through a lot in

806
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:28,839
Speaker 3: our friendship, but there have been times where you were

807
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 3: ready to cut me off over some small ass ship.

808
00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 3: Are things that you didn't like it to friendship to you,

809
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:42,360
Speaker 3: but to you. But what I'm saying is we're still friends.

810
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 1: For We're still friends because I was like, bitch, I

811
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Speaker 1: love you you you bitch go, I'm not talking you

812
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:54,760
Speaker 1: no more. I'll be back because I love you down, bitch.

813
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 3: You can be mad all you want, but I have

814
00:38:56,960 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 3: seen people you know do you wrong. But sometimes there

815
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:04,359
Speaker 3: have been situations, even with me and you, like you

816
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:05,840
Speaker 3: were been patty, There's been times.

817
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:07,840
Speaker 1: When we would get into it. You subbing me online

818
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 1: about me. I just blocked my best friend because girl

819
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:16,360
Speaker 1: to day girl suthering me online. I'm I hate that.

820
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 1: I hate that, dreasy. I did that one time. Number one.

821
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:26,799
Speaker 1: It was literally one time and we've been friends for

822
00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:31,399
Speaker 1: eight years, but les be antagonizing me. So you tell

823
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:35,080
Speaker 1: you on Twitter, she will tweet sheet and it will

824
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 1: be directed towards me. No, it wasn't.

825
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:41,880
Speaker 3: Now a God when that ship happened, like you felt

826
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 3: some type.

827
00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 1: Of way even trying to make this about us right

828
00:39:44,920 --> 00:40:00,120
Speaker 1: now because we okay, So I'm not gonging up on you,

829
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 1: so let's chat. It was one time she went out

830
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Speaker 1: with one of her friends and they hung with a

831
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Speaker 1: bitch that like she know, I kind of low. He

832
00:40:10,239 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 1: was in like some weird why y'a. I was into

833
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:15,600
Speaker 1: it while me and her was not getting along and

834
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 1: the man, that's when I sub tweeted her if she

835
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:20,120
Speaker 1: want to talk about the subteet. You didn't you just

836
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:23,680
Speaker 1: text her why did she post that beach on her sore?

837
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:30,799
Speaker 1: And she reposted it? But at the time exactly drunk girl,

838
00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:32,320
Speaker 1: I was like, when I tweeted it.

839
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Speaker 3: Let me tell you though, my close friend, close friend.

840
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 3: Me and her a close friends, and she's close friends

841
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:42,200
Speaker 3: with the other girl. So when I showed up to

842
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 3: her birthday, I didn't know that girl was gonna be there. Right,

843
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 3: you didn't have to repost up exactly, But did I

844
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:53,799
Speaker 3: not admit that? Didst in that moment though, I said,

845
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:55,680
Speaker 3: you know what, Drea, looking back on it, I shouldn't

846
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:57,280
Speaker 3: have got to forget.

847
00:40:57,400 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 1: But while she brought up the sub tweeting just now,

848
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 1: because the fuck, why wouldn't I my point? But give

849
00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:11,279
Speaker 1: the backstory, you will say, but we always say this,

850
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:12,200
Speaker 1: you have had growth.

851
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:14,440
Speaker 3: But I think you know you're petty you used to be.

852
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:16,879
Speaker 3: Now I don't think you're petty. I don't think you're

853
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:18,839
Speaker 3: petty now, you've had a lot of growth. I think

854
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 3: I'm petty with a cause because we're talking about.

855
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:27,239
Speaker 1: A cause. Because that was a cause. I had a

856
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 1: reason to be petty. Okay, like becauna be off in traffic.

857
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:33,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna cut you back. I had we ganggang on

858
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:34,960
Speaker 1: the same Now.

859
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:37,480
Speaker 3: Okay, but I do feel like I'm not gonna lie

860
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 3: as I grow I used to kind of be like, oh,

861
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 3: I can be neutral and try to be honestly. Now

862
00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:46,560
Speaker 3: I have sold my My friends circle is so tiny,

863
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 3: so it's like, if you really don't like my friends,

864
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:51,239
Speaker 3: these are the people that I chosen my life, and.

865
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:53,920
Speaker 1: We have a lot of the same moral values. We

866
00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 1: get along.

867
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 3: So I feel like, to a certain extent, at this point,

868
00:41:58,800 --> 00:42:01,279
Speaker 3: my friends are kind of a reflection of me. So

869
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 3: when we were younger, that's saying a bird of a

870
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 3: feather flought together didn't make sense.

871
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 1: To me because I had friends who were like wiling

872
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: and then like maybe I was wild and they wasn't

873
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:11,680
Speaker 1: doing the same thing that I was doing. But now

874
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:15,280
Speaker 1: I'm about to be thirty five this year, I'm auntie.

875
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 1: Everybody around me.

876
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:19,279
Speaker 3: Is a reflection of who I am, truly, and it's

877
00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:22,359
Speaker 3: a testament of who I've grown into. So if you're

878
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:25,640
Speaker 3: an enemy of my friend, you probably are enemy of

879
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 3: me because we don't have the same core values. Because

880
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:30,040
Speaker 3: now at this point in my life, the people around me,

881
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:35,040
Speaker 3: they don't move weird, they're not they don't have bad intentions. Now,

882
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 3: I will probably do something tomorrow that hurts my friend's feelings. Listen,

883
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 3: hear me out, because I'm not I'm not perfect. I'm

884
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 3: not Is it intentional though, Alon hunger, but I'm ready.

885
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:54,880
Speaker 3: Is it intentional? I'm a human and maybe.

886
00:42:54,719 --> 00:43:03,160
Speaker 1: I's intentional when you go intentionally to hurt someone, No,

887
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 1: I would say that, like my friend that I just

888
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 1: blocked the only reason, like it's certain friends, why did

889
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:12,239
Speaker 1: you block her for? Yeah? She was so sweeting mean

890
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:17,400
Speaker 1: and it's a lot of yeah, but yeah, it's a

891
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 1: lot of things that I'm just not gonna get into, right.

892
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:24,360
Speaker 1: But like I've had friends that I cut off and

893
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, bitch, you can't come back. Yeah, she's

894
00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 1: one of the friends. It's like, you can always come back,

895
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:32,800
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But it's just like the

896
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:37,319
Speaker 1: way where I'm at mentally right now, we're not Yeah,

897
00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:39,400
Speaker 1: we're not aligning, and it's but but it's just the

898
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:43,280
Speaker 1: fact that she's I know this person don't have bad intentions,

899
00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:45,399
Speaker 1: And that's what makes me keep the dole a little

900
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:48,120
Speaker 1: crack because it's like, you'll be doing weird ship, but

901
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 1: you don't have you don't want to hurt me, Like,

902
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:54,319
Speaker 1: I don't get that in my my bones, my body

903
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 1: at I don't feel that, Like I don't feel like

904
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:58,560
Speaker 1: she's the hater. I don't feel like nothing. I just

905
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:01,799
Speaker 1: feel like we emotionally too, Like you said you were

906
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 1: like super emotional and she like get the fuck out, Like, yeah,

907
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 1: we kind of like for like I have another friend

908
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:10,840
Speaker 1: like yeah, Like I feel like we just kind of

909
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:14,080
Speaker 1: went through that recently, like we I don't feel like

910
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 1: she be trying to hurt me or like do fucked

911
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:20,399
Speaker 1: up shit for real, We just right now in two

912
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:22,960
Speaker 1: different places. Yeah, And I feel like we have kind

913
00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 1: of like we've been on each other since we were teenagers,

914
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 1: so it's almost kind of like a shift as we've

915
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,040
Speaker 1: became adults and now that we're in our thirties, Like

916
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:33,400
Speaker 1: I just think a lot of things have changed and

917
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 1: we just don't align.

918
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, but that was the same thing I told you,

919
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 3: even with y'all's friendship, I was like, I don't think

920
00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:44,239
Speaker 3: she's doing this intentionally. I think when somebody is out

921
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:46,759
Speaker 3: intentionally to hurt you, those are the people you need

922
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 3: to be afraid of it and cut off. Like that girl,

923
00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:51,759
Speaker 3: you moved out here with Everything she did was intentional,

924
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:54,719
Speaker 3: and she was intentional, and she was out to get

925
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 3: you because she was a hater. She couldn't keep up

926
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 3: with the bad bitch that you are and that you

927
00:44:58,760 --> 00:44:59,200
Speaker 3: had going on.

928
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 1: She was to dim your light and she couldn't take

929
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:03,960
Speaker 1: the girl. She couldn't take.

930
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 3: I've always been able to take drag because I love it. Bitch,

931
00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:10,120
Speaker 3: my friends shine. We all shine this time. Y'all love

932
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 3: her down.

933
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 1: I love the way y'all love my friend. I've been

934
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:14,799
Speaker 1: seeing her in this light. I was waiting on y'all

935
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:16,360
Speaker 1: to care so for me.

936
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:20,400
Speaker 3: I know, yes, I've hurt my friend's feelings, but wasn't intentional.

937
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 3: Absolutely not Like I said, I'll probably hurt your feelings tomorrow.

938
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 1: But it's never careful that you keep saying that. You know,

939
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:28,880
Speaker 1: I'm just speaking like.

940
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:37,520
Speaker 3: Giving I'm giving you a warning and I'm just playing

941
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 3: I was. I'm just saying hypothetically, b we've been doing great.

942
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:43,239
Speaker 3: We haven't got into it.

943
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 2: In life until tomorrow.

944
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:50,239
Speaker 1: Tomorrow tomorrow one. The last time y'all got into it.

945
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's been a long time. It was

946
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:57,920
Speaker 1: about over years because I was wondering, like doing business,

947
00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 1: and it was like it was like almost summer of

948
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 1: last year. Yeah, that was the last time we got

949
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 1: into it. Was it about the podcast? No, are you

950
00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:09,839
Speaker 1: gonna get into it about the podcast? It's always real

951
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:13,200
Speaker 1: life she like real she that we don't ever talk

952
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:13,960
Speaker 1: about on the show.

953
00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:16,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think with us, we like we are

954
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:21,680
Speaker 3: literally family though, so it just be like it always

955
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 3: works itself out some way, shape or form because we

956
00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:26,279
Speaker 3: love each other and the love is there. I think

957
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 3: whenever you have a friendship or relationship family, you can

958
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 3: tell the difference between real love and people that's just

959
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:33,600
Speaker 3: doing it for a show.

960
00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 1: Because I think in the industry.

961
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,759
Speaker 3: Of like the Rap Beast too, y'all don't really like

962
00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 3: each other. Y'all just trying to link up because it

963
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:43,080
Speaker 3: looks good. A lot of these podcasts, y'all not really

964
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:45,000
Speaker 3: friends in real life. Y'all just want a friendship because

965
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 3: it looks good.

966
00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 1: So that's the difference between poor Minds and a lot

967
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:52,680
Speaker 1: of these podcasts. This is a real friendship. So I

968
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 1: me and Dre and I Faith were friends for real

969
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:57,399
Speaker 1: and friends. You're gonna get into it just like y'all

970
00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:01,160
Speaker 1: argue with y'all niggas, so I knew. I do. Gotta

971
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 1: put a point here though when you say it, like

972
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:05,879
Speaker 1: it's not always about like if the love is there,

973
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:08,879
Speaker 1: then everything work outs. Love is not always enough. It's

974
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 1: not like for relationships, friends that ships everything. I could

975
00:47:12,239 --> 00:47:14,120
Speaker 1: give you all the love in the world, but if

976
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:16,799
Speaker 1: we just don't understand each other and we don't click,

977
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:19,800
Speaker 1: we don't need to be around each other. I agree.

978
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:23,920
Speaker 1: And it guys too, though, like you gotta want to

979
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:25,759
Speaker 1: Like if me and you trying to be friends with

980
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:28,840
Speaker 1: each other, we want to continue our friendship, you gotta

981
00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:30,279
Speaker 1: want to work it out as much as I want

982
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:32,640
Speaker 1: exact work it out. And sometimes they don't be even

983
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:34,800
Speaker 1: side it. It'd be like you want to still be

984
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 1: my friend, or I want to still be your friend,

985
00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:39,320
Speaker 1: but you kind of off me. Or it could be

986
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:42,879
Speaker 1: like you keep trying and trying and trying, and it's

987
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 1: like I don't know when I turn thirty, y'all. Like

988
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:49,799
Speaker 1: at midnight, I'm telling Loud, I didn't we just talk

989
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:54,440
Speaker 1: about we did talk, Like it just dawned on me

990
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 1: that I don't really give a fuck, Like I really

991
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 1: don't care about a lot of shit that I be

992
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:03,400
Speaker 1: trying to care about just because I care about the

993
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:06,960
Speaker 1: person and I'm just a good person. But it's like,

994
00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:09,440
Speaker 1: in order for me to give you that energy, it

995
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:11,799
Speaker 1: has to be worth it for me too. I can't

996
00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:14,880
Speaker 1: just drain myself given given, given to you. I want to,

997
00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:17,320
Speaker 1: but it's like after a while, it's like I'm just

998
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:20,279
Speaker 1: really selfish right now, and I don't feel bad about it. Shit,

999
00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 1: Like I kind of feel a little bit bad, but

1000
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:26,280
Speaker 1: I don't really care because it's just like I feel

1001
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:28,239
Speaker 1: better with one life and.

1002
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:28,719
Speaker 2: This is for you.

1003
00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:31,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I be stressing myself out trying to make

1004
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 1: sure everybody look at me like the hero dude, like

1005
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 1: nobody ever think like damn, let me check on dreads.

1006
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 1: I wonder she's good mentally, like what nobody, nobody, nobody.

1007
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:43,840
Speaker 1: Everybody always asks how can I help? How can I

1008
00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:46,719
Speaker 1: give it? I already got boundaries with stuff like that,

1009
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:49,800
Speaker 1: so I don't let it over like stimulate me. But

1010
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:52,399
Speaker 1: it do get to a point where it's like, damn,

1011
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:54,640
Speaker 1: I start looking around like it ain't that I don't

1012
00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 1: want to do for you no more. But I need

1013
00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:58,960
Speaker 1: to start putting that energy to myself. And I think

1014
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:02,359
Speaker 1: once you start changing people around you start looking at

1015
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 1: you like you acting different, and they start acting different

1016
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 1: towards you, when really it's like I really didn't even

1017
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:10,720
Speaker 1: have to overextend myself for you. That was just a favor,

1018
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 1: but now I got to do it for myself and

1019
00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:14,719
Speaker 1: you don't want to return the favor to me. So cool.

1020
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:17,000
Speaker 1: I'd rather be like to myself type shit.

1021
00:49:17,080 --> 00:49:20,120
Speaker 3: But it weeds out the people too, So dude, that's

1022
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 3: that's perfect good.

1023
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 1: I'm glad you know what a question too, because I

1024
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 1: feel like I've talked about these before, Like turning thirty

1025
00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:31,080
Speaker 1: is such a pivotal pivotal point, but I feel like

1026
00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 1: people don't really talk about because I don't know if

1027
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:35,399
Speaker 1: you could relate to these. But I feel like your

1028
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:40,880
Speaker 1: late twenties like twenty six, so twenty nine, you'll be

1029
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 1: going through it, girl, twenty nine. When you turn thirty,

1030
00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:47,640
Speaker 1: it's like, oh my god, it's a new.

1031
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 2: Air like relief.

1032
00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:51,600
Speaker 1: You feel nude and like it feels like life just

1033
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:53,600
Speaker 1: kind of get better. And it's not to say that

1034
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:55,440
Speaker 1: you're not gonna still because I'm about to turn I'm

1035
00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:58,359
Speaker 1: turning thirty three, so it's not to say that you're

1036
00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:01,239
Speaker 1: not gonna still go through sit in your thirties, but

1037
00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:03,440
Speaker 1: I feel like that was the last three.

1038
00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:04,520
Speaker 2: Four years of your twenties.

1039
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:07,120
Speaker 1: It whooped, yo, God be testing it whooped your ass

1040
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:08,719
Speaker 1: so bad by the time you thought you like, I

1041
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:11,600
Speaker 1: ain't got t shit. Yeah, I ain't got tak oh

1042
00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:14,920
Speaker 1: y'all on that, I'm going the other way, like it's simple,

1043
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:17,040
Speaker 1: though it be that simple, and we don't be understanding,

1044
00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 1: like it's just as simple as being like I don't

1045
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 1: even want to deal with that, yop, and you ain't

1046
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 1: gonna deal with it. But we be putting ourselves in

1047
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:25,359
Speaker 1: a positions be like why the fuck is life so hard?

1048
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:27,480
Speaker 1: Because why are you still you making it all right?

1049
00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:31,160
Speaker 1: Just remove yourself it'd be so hard. But now it's

1050
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:33,160
Speaker 1: hard for me to remove myself from people too, cause

1051
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:35,719
Speaker 1: I'm so used to being so loyal, Like, no, we're

1052
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:38,040
Speaker 1: gonna figure this out and we have to talk it out,

1053
00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 1: and we have, but now it's just like baby, I

1054
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:42,399
Speaker 1: ain't even got baby. I gotta wake up at seven

1055
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:44,520
Speaker 1: am and go to the gym. I gotta be at

1056
00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:46,560
Speaker 1: a meeting by this time. By the time I get

1057
00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 1: up the studio on tag, I gotta go to bed.

1058
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:49,640
Speaker 1: I ain't got time to go back and forth with you,

1059
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:54,360
Speaker 1: and I got it's too much going on. It's like

1060
00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:57,640
Speaker 1: I gotta focus on me. Unless you have a niggahood,

1061
00:50:57,640 --> 00:50:59,719
Speaker 1: then you gotta deal with all that shit. Lord.

1062
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,240
Speaker 3: So that's why I said healthy relationships are so important.

1063
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 3: We talk about this all the time because a healthy

1064
00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:07,680
Speaker 3: relationship is not gonna hinder you, it's gonna get you.

1065
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:09,239
Speaker 1: It's gonna help push there.

1066
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 3: Because I feel like even with friendships, like me having

1067
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:13,680
Speaker 3: the healthy friendships that I do now, but I had

1068
00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 3: to take accountability for what I was doing.

1069
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:19,320
Speaker 1: So it's like all my friendships push me and motivate me.

1070
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:22,720
Speaker 3: Like you know, me and my friends, all my friends,

1071
00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:26,239
Speaker 3: we have conversations about what we're working on, what we're doing,

1072
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:29,000
Speaker 3: what we eating, what work out we doing today, Oh

1073
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:30,640
Speaker 3: oh I try this new meditation thing.

1074
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:32,800
Speaker 1: Like it's always positive things.

1075
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:35,759
Speaker 3: Literally, my conversations are completely different than they were when

1076
00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 3: I was twenty nine, Like some of it just turns

1077
00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:38,640
Speaker 3: on and snaps in your head.

1078
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:42,120
Speaker 1: You dirty. So going back to our original topic, because

1079
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:44,359
Speaker 1: I feel like we always just get all the way off.

1080
00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 1: So a friend of your friend, enemy of your friend

1081
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:55,719
Speaker 1: is your enemy. It's no, yes, I used to feel

1082
00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:58,080
Speaker 1: like I could play both sides. Now I used to

1083
00:51:58,120 --> 00:51:58,480
Speaker 1: feel like no.

1084
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:00,680
Speaker 3: But honestly, where I'm at, like, oh, that's why I

1085
00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:07,239
Speaker 3: sub Sweety Shoe. But no, I feel like now not

1086
00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:10,719
Speaker 3: necessarily an enemy, but we don't have nothing to talk about.

1087
00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:14,320
Speaker 1: What you think, Dreaz when you put it like what

1088
00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:18,280
Speaker 1: you said, when you like, you gotta really narrow you, okay,

1089
00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:20,840
Speaker 1: enemy of your friend gotta be if you really narrowed

1090
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,560
Speaker 1: your circle down, and you're like, I ain't no way

1091
00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:26,200
Speaker 1: in here. We not on the same mexical pet like,

1092
00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:28,480
Speaker 1: but I ain't gonna lie. I still got some ghetto

1093
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:31,440
Speaker 1: ass friends that ain't well. I'm at that I love

1094
00:52:31,640 --> 00:52:34,759
Speaker 1: so much that it's like I know they might make

1095
00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:37,640
Speaker 1: a whole bunch of enemies, and I can't let all

1096
00:52:37,680 --> 00:52:39,680
Speaker 1: them enemies be my enemies because I know how my

1097
00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:42,640
Speaker 1: friend is, you know what I'm saying. Like, so it

1098
00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:45,760
Speaker 1: just depends on what it is. Like it's certain beefs

1099
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:48,799
Speaker 1: and shit where it's like a nigga dad, somebody got

1100
00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:51,759
Speaker 1: beat up, some money got stolen, somebody fuck somebody man,

1101
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 1: shit like that. I don't play those games. If it's

1102
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:56,839
Speaker 1: some shit, well, my friend probably popped off on your

1103
00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:58,560
Speaker 1: ass because she got smart at the mouth or you

1104
00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:02,359
Speaker 1: got smartest. It's like that's how she is sometimes. Don't

1105
00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:05,320
Speaker 1: mind her. She's just like that sometimes. But I'm not

1106
00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:07,279
Speaker 1: gonna be like, yeah, a bit, you should have never

1107
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:09,600
Speaker 1: said something back to her when she told you shut

1108
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:11,399
Speaker 1: the fuck up. I'm not doing that. Like I tell

1109
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:12,920
Speaker 1: my friend to my friend, you ain't have to go

1110
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 1: tell her relax, like yeah, So it just depends on

1111
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:20,279
Speaker 1: what it is, who it is, and what's going on. Yeah,

1112
00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:22,640
Speaker 1: what's going on. That's fair, see when I think of it, though,

1113
00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 1: because I'm not a person to just say something like

1114
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:27,359
Speaker 1: I'm not necessarily gonna say something to the person. I'm

1115
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:29,399
Speaker 1: just not gonna like if I know my friend don't

1116
00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:31,319
Speaker 1: like you, if I see you, it's gonna be like hey,

1117
00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:35,880
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna just keep going. I go about my business.

1118
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:37,920
Speaker 1: It's not gonna be rude. It's just like hey, girl up.

1119
00:53:37,960 --> 00:53:41,480
Speaker 1: But it's not gonna go no further than it's not given.

1120
00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:44,319
Speaker 1: First of all, I got my core friend group. It's

1121
00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:47,080
Speaker 1: not giving like, oh, I'm gonna start kicking it with

1122
00:53:47,160 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 1: her even right, No, it's not giving like I'm this

1123
00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:53,080
Speaker 1: link up is real too, I'm not gonna post on

1124
00:53:53,200 --> 00:54:01,239
Speaker 1: my story. I'm not. I'm not, but it ain't no beef.

1125
00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:07,560
Speaker 1: It's just like, yeah, but it's like I have the

1126
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:08,720
Speaker 1: conversation with my friends.

1127
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:11,279
Speaker 3: She was like being kind of like Switzerland in the

1128
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:14,840
Speaker 3: situation and wasn't getting involved either, but she kind of

1129
00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:17,799
Speaker 3: like admitted like she was like she was probably doing

1130
00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:19,760
Speaker 3: that to be petty, like she tagged you to be petty,

1131
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:22,319
Speaker 3: and looking back on I'm like, bitch, you're that's weird

1132
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:23,879
Speaker 3: for you to kind of like use me to try

1133
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:26,799
Speaker 3: to do something like that was weird. But in the moment,

1134
00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:28,640
Speaker 3: I was just like, oh, whatever, like we cool. It

1135
00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:29,319
Speaker 3: ain't no beef.

1136
00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:31,800
Speaker 1: You didn't think y'all was cool. You was okay with

1137
00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 1: being you no but each other for a while. Now

1138
00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:41,640
Speaker 1: it's time. No, that's not I'm that friend. I'd be like,

1139
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:44,320
Speaker 1: you ain't got a cap about it, just beal so

1140
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:51,440
Speaker 1: you were thirty, I know. Anyway, Now, trying to get

1141
00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:55,399
Speaker 1: into the second topic, Okay, it's sober dating. I wanted

1142
00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:57,560
Speaker 1: to talk about sober dating because obviously all of us

1143
00:54:57,640 --> 00:55:00,160
Speaker 1: is not sober right now. So I have seen his

1144
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:02,960
Speaker 1: post online the other day and it basically has said like,

1145
00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:06,399
Speaker 1: I feel like people should try sober dating, like going

1146
00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:09,319
Speaker 1: on dates with a person for like a few months, y'all,

1147
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:12,520
Speaker 1: not drinking, y'all, not getting high, y'all, not doing anything,

1148
00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:15,840
Speaker 1: just like enjoying each other in your natural state and

1149
00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:17,920
Speaker 1: seeing if you really like this person and if you

1150
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:20,040
Speaker 1: really fuck with this person, and it'll tell you more

1151
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:22,520
Speaker 1: if y'all are really aligned and if y'all are made

1152
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:26,880
Speaker 1: for each other versus, you know, going on dates drinking,

1153
00:55:27,080 --> 00:55:31,440
Speaker 1: being high, because you're not really getting the real version

1154
00:55:31,520 --> 00:55:33,960
Speaker 1: of this person. You getting a version of like, oh,

1155
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:36,600
Speaker 1: we both under the influence. I really like this version

1156
00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:41,000
Speaker 1: drunk in love. I like that, But at the same time,

1157
00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 1: I kind of want to see how you act off

1158
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 1: the liquor, Like, Okay, we go on a date and

1159
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:49,520
Speaker 1: you ain't got no limits on your liquor. I done

1160
00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:53,200
Speaker 1: been in a relationship where with a fucking alcoholic and

1161
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:56,640
Speaker 1: I didn't know because I knew because when we was

1162
00:55:56,680 --> 00:56:00,239
Speaker 1: going out he was getting crazy lit and I'm just like,

1163
00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:02,800
Speaker 1: I'm thinking, we having a good time. But those be

1164
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:06,040
Speaker 1: the early signs, like oh no, it's a real issue, you.

1165
00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:06,640
Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying.

1166
00:56:07,040 --> 00:56:08,799
Speaker 1: So like, if you go out with and again, y'all,

1167
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:10,520
Speaker 1: and he gets drunk and sell on the first night.

1168
00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:13,160
Speaker 1: It's like, thank you for thank you for your thank you.

1169
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:16,520
Speaker 1: I will never see you again. So but I do

1170
00:56:16,760 --> 00:56:20,200
Speaker 1: like the sober data idea. But I feel like, why

1171
00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:20,920
Speaker 1: so serious?

1172
00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:27,640
Speaker 3: I feel I'm not gonna lie so serious. I feel

1173
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:29,759
Speaker 3: this because I'm not gonna lie. I do feel like

1174
00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 3: I'm alone because I feel like, yeah, when you are drunk,

1175
00:56:37,200 --> 00:56:39,680
Speaker 3: of course you get a little more lenient.

1176
00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:43,640
Speaker 1: You know, but a little. But it's a bad part, right, No,

1177
00:56:43,960 --> 00:56:45,240
Speaker 1: you probably could be more honest.

1178
00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:49,080
Speaker 3: But exactly the poor minds is a drunk mind speaks

1179
00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:51,400
Speaker 3: sober thoughts. I don't care what happens, what's going on

1180
00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 3: when you drunk, that real comes out. So a lot

1181
00:56:54,520 --> 00:56:56,560
Speaker 3: of times you can get information out of somebody that

1182
00:56:56,640 --> 00:56:59,520
Speaker 3: you know, you know what I'm saying.

1183
00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:01,840
Speaker 1: I mean to know this. He'd be like, you know what,

1184
00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:05,760
Speaker 1: I don't like when women don't do this. And Nigga

1185
00:57:05,960 --> 00:57:08,240
Speaker 1: was he I'm I'm going fifty to fifty on the bills,

1186
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:12,239
Speaker 1: because he was probably gonna be like yeah, because a

1187
00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:16,360
Speaker 1: nigga be like, yeah, girl, I'll pay your run what

1188
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:18,760
Speaker 1: you want. I'll buy you shana, I'll buy you the

1189
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 1: know you know what you need your bad when you

1190
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 1: get drunk. Yeah, I betch today. I'm glad we out here.

1191
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:31,760
Speaker 1: He telling the truth. Thank you, thanks hundred dollars. Where

1192
00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 1: y'all port? Can I tell y'all something? Can I be

1193
00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 1: honest right now? Yeah?

1194
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:39,480
Speaker 3: I found out n when I went on my first

1195
00:57:39,560 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 3: day with my boyfriend. Now he because we had finished

1196
00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:45,400
Speaker 3: a Poor Minds episode and we were going on our

1197
00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:48,040
Speaker 3: first date. He said when I got in the uber

1198
00:57:48,080 --> 00:57:49,640
Speaker 3: because he came picked me up in a little uber.

1199
00:57:49,680 --> 00:57:51,360
Speaker 1: But like he said, I'm not gonna lie, babe. We

1200
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:53,560
Speaker 1: had this conversation yesterday. He said, when you got in

1201
00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:56,840
Speaker 1: the car. I was like, damn, this bitch drunk. And

1202
00:57:57,000 --> 00:57:59,800
Speaker 1: he said he was kind of like, oh, like she

1203
00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:02,720
Speaker 1: you were was drunk on the first day. I remember

1204
00:58:02,880 --> 00:58:08,680
Speaker 1: now she loved me. She was like I gotta go

1205
00:58:08,720 --> 00:58:09,880
Speaker 1: on this date with this nigga.

1206
00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:10,160
Speaker 5: Y'all.

1207
00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:13,640
Speaker 1: I'm so oh my god, you was drunk before you

1208
00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:19,800
Speaker 1: want two episodes? You left and I went on my day.

1209
00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:21,720
Speaker 3: I got ready here, then I went and I got

1210
00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:24,640
Speaker 3: home suber for me. So he was like, he said,

1211
00:58:24,880 --> 00:58:26,120
Speaker 3: you got in the car. I was like, damn, this

1212
00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:28,800
Speaker 3: bitch drunk. He was like, she fue no, so she

1213
00:58:29,240 --> 00:58:33,480
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying something some don't know. He

1214
00:58:33,560 --> 00:58:36,120
Speaker 3: didn't because my time, like, oh but he is. He

1215
00:58:36,440 --> 00:58:37,440
Speaker 3: kind of strickted a little bit.

1216
00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 1: That's what I want somebody he just told me. He

1217
00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 1: was like yeah, yeah.

1218
00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:45,720
Speaker 3: He was like yeah, he was a good drunk. And

1219
00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god. I got so embarrassed, y'all.

1220
00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:49,960
Speaker 3: Like we was at dinner yesterday and I was like,

1221
00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:50,720
Speaker 3: oh my good.

1222
00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:52,440
Speaker 1: Do you not know y'all?

1223
00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:53,560
Speaker 2: Lem you know what?

1224
00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:56,400
Speaker 1: But I'm not a sloppy drunk. I was just being

1225
00:58:56,400 --> 00:59:02,480
Speaker 1: a little chatty and I'll be like, I'm like, where

1226
00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:08,960
Speaker 1: are we finna go after that loud anyway? So but

1227
00:59:09,360 --> 00:59:11,920
Speaker 1: get real, you know what. I think he liked it

1228
00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:14,080
Speaker 1: a little bit. He was like, oh damn, this bit drunk.

1229
00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:17,400
Speaker 1: You liked it because you can't back. But I do

1230
00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:19,680
Speaker 1: think it's him dropped off on this corner right.

1231
00:59:19,960 --> 00:59:22,080
Speaker 3: Oh my god. I never knew that he thought that

1232
00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:24,240
Speaker 3: on our first day because I'm like, oh, I'm killing shit.

1233
00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:28,600
Speaker 1: I'm killing you. But you drunk, I like fun drunk

1234
00:59:29,360 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 1: drunk you are. I'm never the drunk. I'm never crying.

1235
00:59:32,200 --> 00:59:34,680
Speaker 1: I'm never like, oh my god, I never ready to fight.

1236
00:59:34,960 --> 00:59:37,200
Speaker 1: I'm literally that drunk that's just turning up. I'm a

1237
00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:39,920
Speaker 1: fun drunk to yeah, so I am too, and then

1238
00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:42,040
Speaker 1: I'll be like, all of a sudden, I love you.

1239
00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 1: I love you. Oh my god, I know that type

1240
00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:49,200
Speaker 1: of drunk. She's gonna be like, y'all, I'm so like,

1241
00:59:49,320 --> 00:59:52,440
Speaker 1: get off. I just have to let y'all know that.

1242
00:59:52,640 --> 00:59:56,080
Speaker 1: Y'all just means so much to me. And I wouldn't

1243
00:59:56,120 --> 00:59:58,960
Speaker 1: be here like I love you, girl. I'd be like,

1244
00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:06,440
Speaker 1: that's me. She I'm trying. That's off. Shrooms make me emotional,

1245
01:00:07,280 --> 01:00:11,200
Speaker 1: rooms make you. Yeah. I had called my friend when

1246
01:00:11,240 --> 01:00:13,520
Speaker 1: it was her birthday. I had just took a shrimp

1247
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:15,520
Speaker 1: and it was like my first time, and next thing

1248
01:00:15,520 --> 01:00:18,680
Speaker 1: I know, I start breaking down crying. She is you okay.

1249
01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:23,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, because you've been through think like, really,

1250
01:00:23,360 --> 01:00:26,480
Speaker 1: it's really your birthday, Like we gotta celebrate life. She's

1251
01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:33,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, because I know she's finna cut. She cuts

1252
01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:37,440
Speaker 1: up on that liquor. M I'm a fun time but

1253
01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:43,240
Speaker 1: at the end of the night, cry everything. Why I

1254
01:00:43,360 --> 01:00:47,120
Speaker 1: have fun, but we're gonna cry, But I respect that

1255
01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:49,280
Speaker 1: you wait till the end of the night. I wait,

1256
01:00:49,480 --> 01:00:51,880
Speaker 1: she wait till we get home. She gonna wait, she

1257
01:00:51,960 --> 01:00:56,640
Speaker 1: gonna she give me that holl the club. I'll be like, damn,

1258
01:00:56,760 --> 01:01:01,320
Speaker 1: let me call this little you got teen, I'd be like,

1259
01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:05,800
Speaker 1: let's got Why are you crying? I need an because

1260
01:01:05,840 --> 01:01:08,920
Speaker 1: y'all making me cry up so good. She's gonna get

1261
01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:10,880
Speaker 1: you a girl, I swear to God Reazy, I'm a

1262
01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:14,120
Speaker 1: great time when I'm drunk, like we yeah, we all

1263
01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:16,200
Speaker 1: have a good time. But when we get home, beach,

1264
01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:18,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna grab your hands. That's what she's gonna do.

1265
01:01:20,720 --> 01:01:23,760
Speaker 1: And I'll be like, and just the time, and then

1266
01:01:23,840 --> 01:01:27,120
Speaker 1: her hands this being so you already be she'd be like,

1267
01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 1: I feel like a finger. Like yes, she gonna be like,

1268
01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:37,240
Speaker 1: I just want you to know, Like, I know we

1269
01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:39,360
Speaker 1: drunk right now, that's how I start.

1270
01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:42,400
Speaker 3: I know we drunk, but friend, that's what she said.

1271
01:01:42,680 --> 01:01:45,880
Speaker 3: But no, you know what I think sober dating. If

1272
01:01:45,920 --> 01:01:47,720
Speaker 3: I would have dated sober, I'll say this, I know

1273
01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:50,480
Speaker 3: how to date drinking now in my thirties, but I

1274
01:01:50,560 --> 01:01:53,560
Speaker 3: think sober dating in my twenties would have saved me

1275
01:01:53,640 --> 01:01:53,960
Speaker 3: a lot.

1276
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Speaker 1: Bro we would have been married by now.

1277
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Speaker 3: Say I would have known how to navigate it properly.

1278
01:01:59,840 --> 01:02:01,479
Speaker 3: But because you go on the first day with a nigga,

1279
01:02:01,520 --> 01:02:03,440
Speaker 3: y'all get drunk, y'all hav any good time? These are

1280
01:02:03,720 --> 01:02:08,360
Speaker 3: lies and you missed and everything because you're drunk. Yeah,

1281
01:02:09,960 --> 01:02:13,080
Speaker 3: look pretty pink bubble gum. And I think I'm not

1282
01:02:13,160 --> 01:02:14,800
Speaker 3: gonna lie to you. I didn't have control over my

1283
01:02:14,920 --> 01:02:15,880
Speaker 3: drinking in my twenties.

1284
01:02:16,280 --> 01:02:18,680
Speaker 1: I didn't either. I didn't know my limits. Now i'd

1285
01:02:18,680 --> 01:02:21,360
Speaker 1: be like, okay, I'm not gonna lie to y'all. I

1286
01:02:21,400 --> 01:02:24,200
Speaker 1: had an incident recently on set and I got to

1287
01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:27,960
Speaker 1: goddamn drunk and talking a test for that. Since then,

1288
01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:32,760
Speaker 1: I've been like this, Hey, I know my limits. You know.

1289
01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:35,440
Speaker 3: I let myself go that day a little bit. But

1290
01:02:35,680 --> 01:02:38,080
Speaker 3: I think it's all about knowing your limits. Get a

1291
01:02:38,120 --> 01:02:41,800
Speaker 3: little tipsy, get loose, have fun, but don't take shit

1292
01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:42,200
Speaker 3: too far.

1293
01:02:42,280 --> 01:02:44,640
Speaker 1: You want know to you try. So, y'all think drinking

1294
01:02:44,680 --> 01:02:48,640
Speaker 1: on the first date is fine, Yeah, getting to know

1295
01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:50,960
Speaker 1: the person. The first thing I'm doing on to date

1296
01:02:51,040 --> 01:02:56,640
Speaker 1: is getna drink. I felt a bitch done dry. I

1297
01:02:56,800 --> 01:02:59,000
Speaker 1: have for a good time, hopefully a long time, but

1298
01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:01,400
Speaker 1: just in case, I want to feel good walking up

1299
01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:04,960
Speaker 1: this mom my day with my boyfriend.

1300
01:03:05,080 --> 01:03:06,960
Speaker 3: Like, I'm glad it worked out because at the end

1301
01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:08,680
Speaker 3: of the day, like I know how to carry myself.

1302
01:03:09,080 --> 01:03:11,560
Speaker 1: So he knew I was a little like I think,

1303
01:03:11,640 --> 01:03:14,520
Speaker 1: cause he was like, I smelled it on you, Like, yeah,

1304
01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:19,480
Speaker 1: I don't like smelling. Yeah, I was like smelling on people.

1305
01:03:19,560 --> 01:03:22,080
Speaker 1: I'll be smelling on niggas sometimes and it'd be mixed

1306
01:03:22,120 --> 01:03:26,160
Speaker 1: with Backwoods, not back Yeah. I was just to say,

1307
01:03:26,200 --> 01:03:28,640
Speaker 1: and they thought that colade on, that's like what you

1308
01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:33,960
Speaker 1: back was and Baccarat is crazy, Bacara is nothing. Hold On,

1309
01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:39,960
Speaker 1: that wasn't Vakara a little bit? Like he needed to

1310
01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:44,120
Speaker 1: make a phone called wood And I ain't gonna lie.

1311
01:03:44,520 --> 01:03:47,440
Speaker 1: If the nigga come here and spell like Backwoods, it's like,

1312
01:03:47,560 --> 01:03:53,720
Speaker 1: day am I a baby? But but if you put

1313
01:03:53,880 --> 01:03:55,960
Speaker 1: some whiskey and vodka on top of that, it's like

1314
01:03:56,040 --> 01:03:58,400
Speaker 1: get your ass in the shower. Yeah, I don't want to,

1315
01:03:59,440 --> 01:04:01,280
Speaker 1: you know, But that's why I said.

1316
01:04:01,440 --> 01:04:03,120
Speaker 3: I know I was drunk on our first day, but

1317
01:04:03,200 --> 01:04:05,040
Speaker 3: I know how to carry myself. So it's like even

1318
01:04:05,080 --> 01:04:07,520
Speaker 3: though I was drunk, like he had a good motherfucking time. Yeah,

1319
01:04:07,680 --> 01:04:08,840
Speaker 3: conversation on flow.

1320
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Speaker 1: And I'm not drunk. How you gonna tell him he

1321
01:04:13,760 --> 01:04:16,640
Speaker 1: had a good time because he's still here. I mean,

1322
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Speaker 3: but I love a good pillow to lay my head

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Speaker 3: seen something today that kind of was like it made

1354
01:05:54,560 --> 01:05:55,280
Speaker 3: me think a little bit.

1355
01:05:55,680 --> 01:05:56,560
Speaker 1: Somebody was like.

1356
01:05:58,080 --> 01:06:02,560
Speaker 3: Asking for consent kills the vibe. What I know what

1357
01:06:02,680 --> 01:06:04,040
Speaker 3: you're thinking, I know what y'all thinking.

1358
01:06:04,080 --> 01:06:05,880
Speaker 1: But somebody was like, yes, if I'm on a date

1359
01:06:05,920 --> 01:06:08,840
Speaker 1: with somebody and like looking at them being like can

1360
01:06:08,920 --> 01:06:11,920
Speaker 1: I kiss you? It kills the vibe versus somebody just

1361
01:06:13,760 --> 01:06:15,480
Speaker 1: so I wanted to. But like, that's what I'm saying,

1362
01:06:15,520 --> 01:06:20,160
Speaker 1: So do y'all feel like consent kills the vibe, like

1363
01:06:20,840 --> 01:06:22,800
Speaker 1: can I do this? Can I do that? They'd be

1364
01:06:22,960 --> 01:06:26,400
Speaker 1: like that kills the vibe? I do you feel like

1365
01:06:26,440 --> 01:06:28,600
Speaker 1: it kills the vibe? Okay, dre what you think? I mean?

1366
01:06:28,680 --> 01:06:33,360
Speaker 1: I feel like in what contexts, like if you gonna

1367
01:06:33,480 --> 01:06:34,760
Speaker 1: ask me, can you kiss me?

1368
01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:35,080
Speaker 5: Then?

1369
01:06:35,240 --> 01:06:37,520
Speaker 1: Like if we feeling each other, you can tell if

1370
01:06:37,520 --> 01:06:40,240
Speaker 1: I'm giving you the googly eyes? Give Google eyes? What

1371
01:06:40,320 --> 01:06:46,439
Speaker 1: the google eys look like? Like this? We can wait?

1372
01:06:49,840 --> 01:06:53,720
Speaker 1: You look homey? Just seen the FAA plate walk by

1373
01:06:54,960 --> 01:06:59,760
Speaker 1: and I probably did. But like, if you're feeling the vibe,

1374
01:07:00,680 --> 01:07:03,920
Speaker 1: like go in for the kids, you don't have to ask, boy.

1375
01:07:04,040 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 1: But like, if you're trying to put your hand up

1376
01:07:05,560 --> 01:07:08,360
Speaker 1: by dress, don't just do the eggs you got? That's

1377
01:07:08,360 --> 01:07:11,960
Speaker 1: a little race. Can I slid my hand up your dress? No,

1378
01:07:12,320 --> 01:07:16,960
Speaker 1: don't ask. I feel like I should grab your hand

1379
01:07:17,080 --> 01:07:19,960
Speaker 1: or something and put it on my thigh. Like I

1380
01:07:20,080 --> 01:07:23,400
Speaker 1: feel like you just know the vibe and then you

1381
01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:26,240
Speaker 1: know when you forcing it. But I think some niggas

1382
01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:29,680
Speaker 1: don't care about forcing it. If we be on they don't.

1383
01:07:30,440 --> 01:07:34,479
Speaker 1: But I think you should tread lightly, like just work

1384
01:07:34,560 --> 01:07:36,560
Speaker 1: your way up to it. If you you know they

1385
01:07:36,680 --> 01:07:39,560
Speaker 1: touched the little chin or something. She's smiling back. Okay,

1386
01:07:39,680 --> 01:07:42,320
Speaker 1: cool that maybe you could go in for a kiss

1387
01:07:42,360 --> 01:07:44,560
Speaker 1: or something. If you're touching her waist, then she ain't

1388
01:07:44,640 --> 01:07:47,160
Speaker 1: moving your hand. You slide down a little bit. If

1389
01:07:47,200 --> 01:07:49,040
Speaker 1: she pull that ship back up, you know they ain't

1390
01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:52,600
Speaker 1: ain't the time and she don't say nothing, just working way,

1391
01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:54,640
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. You gentle with the ship,

1392
01:07:54,720 --> 01:07:58,400
Speaker 1: but I don't touch her waist and she like moving

1393
01:07:58,440 --> 01:08:01,560
Speaker 1: away because I will. I would definitely move if I

1394
01:08:01,680 --> 01:08:04,800
Speaker 1: don't want to be like r like why are you

1395
01:08:04,960 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 1: doing this? Don't lie? I felt. I used to feel

1396
01:08:08,800 --> 01:08:09,080
Speaker 1: that way.

1397
01:08:09,320 --> 01:08:11,400
Speaker 3: So I used to feel like asking for consent does

1398
01:08:11,480 --> 01:08:14,440
Speaker 3: kind of like killed five right until I had a

1399
01:08:14,560 --> 01:08:18,639
Speaker 3: man asked me for consent and it was the sexiest thing. Ever,

1400
01:08:19,080 --> 01:08:21,800
Speaker 3: how he said exactly, it was how he said it

1401
01:08:21,840 --> 01:08:24,679
Speaker 3: because we were literally this is the god dated last.

1402
01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:28,040
Speaker 1: Year I told you about, and we had went out.

1403
01:08:28,120 --> 01:08:28,920
Speaker 1: First date was fun.

1404
01:08:29,000 --> 01:08:30,639
Speaker 3: We went to a baseball game, We had a good time,

1405
01:08:30,680 --> 01:08:31,760
Speaker 3: went to an Astros game.

1406
01:08:31,920 --> 01:08:34,840
Speaker 1: We got really lit. He was not being touchy feeted

1407
01:08:34,840 --> 01:08:36,840
Speaker 1: with me at all. So by the time we got

1408
01:08:36,880 --> 01:08:38,960
Speaker 1: to his house, you know, we're taking shots and stuff

1409
01:08:39,040 --> 01:08:41,040
Speaker 1: and like he poured me a last shot and he

1410
01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:42,960
Speaker 1: like looked me in my eyes and he was like,

1411
01:08:43,760 --> 01:08:47,960
Speaker 1: can I taste you? And I was like, I liked

1412
01:08:48,040 --> 01:08:50,680
Speaker 1: it like that, Oh, I liked it a lot. And

1413
01:08:50,720 --> 01:08:55,400
Speaker 1: guess what he was doing. So I feel like, yes,

1414
01:08:55,640 --> 01:08:58,680
Speaker 1: that is a way to ask for consent, but just

1415
01:08:58,800 --> 01:09:02,120
Speaker 1: make it a vibe. I had never had somebody ask

1416
01:09:02,200 --> 01:09:04,200
Speaker 1: me for consent like that, and I was like, because

1417
01:09:04,240 --> 01:09:05,800
Speaker 1: usually I've got a man be like, oh, can I

1418
01:09:05,880 --> 01:09:07,680
Speaker 1: kiss you? Not be like no, not yet, I'm not

1419
01:09:07,800 --> 01:09:10,800
Speaker 1: there yet. But luckily he was feeling you. I mean

1420
01:09:10,880 --> 01:09:12,960
Speaker 1: luckily he was feeling him. Yeah, let that be a

1421
01:09:13,040 --> 01:09:15,479
Speaker 1: nigga accent for consent and that you was trying to get.

1422
01:09:15,640 --> 01:09:18,519
Speaker 1: But he can I teat you? No, baby, Like that

1423
01:09:18,600 --> 01:09:22,040
Speaker 1: could completely turn you. So it's like you gotta go

1424
01:09:22,160 --> 01:09:25,280
Speaker 1: with the vibes, like if she feeling you, is she

1425
01:09:25,439 --> 01:09:27,760
Speaker 1: touching you back? Like? Is that you can't? I don't know.

1426
01:09:28,080 --> 01:09:29,880
Speaker 1: That was risky for him to not touch you the

1427
01:09:29,920 --> 01:09:32,640
Speaker 1: whole night and they asked you, like, can I teach you?

1428
01:09:32,760 --> 01:09:34,719
Speaker 1: I honestly probably would have thought he was a little creepy.

1429
01:09:35,200 --> 01:09:38,800
Speaker 1: I didn't. I not creepy, but it just would have

1430
01:09:38,840 --> 01:09:40,519
Speaker 1: been like, so, you ain't touched me all night, now

1431
01:09:40,520 --> 01:09:42,040
Speaker 1: you want to eat my pussy? Well, see, I think

1432
01:09:42,080 --> 01:09:43,880
Speaker 1: it was like by the time we got to the house,

1433
01:09:43,960 --> 01:09:46,120
Speaker 1: what if he was trying to just be respectful though, Yeah,

1434
01:09:46,160 --> 01:09:47,880
Speaker 1: you want to go straight to eat my pussy? You

1435
01:09:47,920 --> 01:09:53,560
Speaker 1: want to ask? You don't want to, like, and I

1436
01:09:53,600 --> 01:10:01,160
Speaker 1: was letting that. Did it fall out? If that's before

1437
01:10:01,240 --> 01:10:03,880
Speaker 1: our first day. We were on the phone a lot,

1438
01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:05,960
Speaker 1: so we had had conversations, Like we were comfortable with

1439
01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:08,840
Speaker 1: each other. He obviously knew about my show and stuff.

1440
01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:11,519
Speaker 3: So I think it was like a level of comfort

1441
01:10:11,560 --> 01:10:13,519
Speaker 3: there as well, because i'mn't even men at his house

1442
01:10:13,560 --> 01:10:16,760
Speaker 3: if I was uncomfortable, because I think that's another thing too.

1443
01:10:17,040 --> 01:10:19,240
Speaker 3: I'm not victim blaming or anything like that, but it's

1444
01:10:19,280 --> 01:10:21,880
Speaker 3: like if you don't feel comfortable with a man, don't

1445
01:10:21,920 --> 01:10:23,040
Speaker 3: be at his house at all.

1446
01:10:23,320 --> 01:10:25,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I was in this man's house, Like I

1447
01:10:25,920 --> 01:10:27,200
Speaker 1: was very comfortable at that time.

1448
01:10:27,320 --> 01:10:29,400
Speaker 3: Like I had put on his T shirt. You know,

1449
01:10:29,479 --> 01:10:31,599
Speaker 3: I had my little drawers on, little booty hanging out.

1450
01:10:31,600 --> 01:10:34,679
Speaker 3: I'm walking to the bathroom and shit, I'm like and lucky.

1451
01:10:34,840 --> 01:10:38,120
Speaker 1: It can be cute because maybe it's like he didn't

1452
01:10:38,120 --> 01:10:39,840
Speaker 1: want to touch you the whole night because he wants

1453
01:10:39,840 --> 01:10:43,040
Speaker 1: to be like super respectful. Yeah, it was like a buildup,

1454
01:10:43,720 --> 01:10:45,360
Speaker 1: like yeah, because I think also.

1455
01:10:45,280 --> 01:10:48,680
Speaker 3: Two women with us, we are very touchy philly. So

1456
01:10:48,840 --> 01:10:51,160
Speaker 3: the whole night I'm laughing. I'm touching on his leg,

1457
01:10:51,400 --> 01:10:52,840
Speaker 3: you know, I'm like grabbing his arm.

1458
01:10:52,960 --> 01:10:55,040
Speaker 1: We laughing. So that's how the vibes was going at night.

1459
01:10:55,280 --> 01:10:57,599
Speaker 1: Are you ended up in his T shirt? Because I'm

1460
01:10:57,600 --> 01:11:04,080
Speaker 1: a freak, Oops, goes my shirt. My skirt up off

1461
01:11:04,120 --> 01:11:11,439
Speaker 1: of my girl in his T shirt right off?

1462
01:11:11,760 --> 01:11:13,479
Speaker 3: So I think there is a way to ask for

1463
01:11:13,560 --> 01:11:16,280
Speaker 3: concent but I agree with you, it's all about the vibes,

1464
01:11:16,320 --> 01:11:19,439
Speaker 3: like reading the rum. Yeah, y'all gonna be reading the

1465
01:11:19,520 --> 01:11:21,640
Speaker 3: room like you can tell when a woman wants you.

1466
01:11:21,960 --> 01:11:25,920
Speaker 1: And I think you could ask when a girl drunk too. Yeah, yeah,

1467
01:11:26,000 --> 01:11:28,200
Speaker 1: because sometimes girls can be drunk and you think they

1468
01:11:28,280 --> 01:11:30,280
Speaker 1: give me no advise, but they might not be giving

1469
01:11:30,280 --> 01:11:33,000
Speaker 1: you the vibes. Just be sure. And that's when I

1470
01:11:33,040 --> 01:11:35,439
Speaker 1: think niggas take advantage. And I mean when you be

1471
01:11:35,479 --> 01:11:37,479
Speaker 1: a little drunk, and then that's when they be trying

1472
01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:40,760
Speaker 1: to weird ass. That's why I said sometimes to me, no,

1473
01:11:40,960 --> 01:11:43,240
Speaker 1: you need to ask for consent, because it'd be giving

1474
01:11:43,400 --> 01:11:46,240
Speaker 1: ripey if you don't. I went on a date like

1475
01:11:47,120 --> 01:11:51,080
Speaker 1: last month, and I had like I was a little

1476
01:11:51,120 --> 01:11:54,000
Speaker 1: lit and I fell asleep, but I woke up and

1477
01:11:54,080 --> 01:11:56,320
Speaker 1: I was like, I had a pillow under my head,

1478
01:11:56,439 --> 01:11:59,519
Speaker 1: I was tucked in, I had water on the side,

1479
01:11:59,560 --> 01:12:02,559
Speaker 1: and was like yeah, and then he was checking out

1480
01:12:02,600 --> 01:12:04,120
Speaker 1: the room, like are you okay? Like he didn't put

1481
01:12:04,160 --> 01:12:06,600
Speaker 1: me in his bed. He don't do nothing. Yeah, like

1482
01:12:06,960 --> 01:12:10,760
Speaker 1: the second third day, I don't know he was doing it,

1483
01:12:11,360 --> 01:12:14,080
Speaker 1: but it was just a fact. But he wasn't stressed,

1484
01:12:14,120 --> 01:12:17,519
Speaker 1: and I still didn't do nothing with him. I'm celebing

1485
01:12:17,600 --> 01:12:21,000
Speaker 1: right now. For the record, Oh good, long it's been

1486
01:12:21,120 --> 01:12:23,519
Speaker 1: like two months. That's a long time. That's a long time.

1487
01:12:23,600 --> 01:12:27,880
Speaker 3: It's really not that long. But no, it's like too much.

1488
01:12:27,960 --> 01:12:30,880
Speaker 3: But honestly, I can't speak for you, because you know,

1489
01:12:30,960 --> 01:12:32,599
Speaker 3: I don't know you that well. But for me, if

1490
01:12:32,640 --> 01:12:34,559
Speaker 3: I'm going too much without sex, that's a long time,

1491
01:12:34,680 --> 01:12:36,479
Speaker 3: especially if you're a person who enjoyed sex.

1492
01:12:36,720 --> 01:12:39,240
Speaker 1: The long it's I went without having sexy six months,

1493
01:12:39,400 --> 01:12:42,760
Speaker 1: but I think with our generation that's a long time.

1494
01:12:42,920 --> 01:12:45,800
Speaker 1: That's why I applause. Six months two months is a

1495
01:12:45,840 --> 01:12:49,640
Speaker 1: long time because like our generation is like overly sexualized.

1496
01:12:49,680 --> 01:12:51,160
Speaker 3: Well, I don't even think it's that. I just think

1497
01:12:51,200 --> 01:12:56,200
Speaker 3: we're humans and we like physical touch. It's not it's inhumane. Actually,

1498
01:12:56,520 --> 01:12:58,640
Speaker 3: I'm not saying not to have sex, but like to

1499
01:12:58,800 --> 01:13:01,240
Speaker 3: not have any type of physical touch or somebody being

1500
01:13:01,360 --> 01:13:01,720
Speaker 3: next to you.

1501
01:13:01,920 --> 01:13:04,639
Speaker 1: No, you will get I still lay up, I get

1502
01:13:04,760 --> 01:13:08,479
Speaker 1: touched stuff like that. But as far as like especially

1503
01:13:08,640 --> 01:13:11,559
Speaker 1: like in this new like era I mean or whatever,

1504
01:13:11,720 --> 01:13:14,120
Speaker 1: I'm really like, i feel like I'm so pure right

1505
01:13:14,120 --> 01:13:16,080
Speaker 1: now and I'm starting over and it's like I believe

1506
01:13:16,120 --> 01:13:19,679
Speaker 1: in soulitizing, yes, and it's just like I just don't.

1507
01:13:20,600 --> 01:13:24,160
Speaker 1: And it's like a nigga gotta really applied pressure. Like

1508
01:13:24,280 --> 01:13:26,120
Speaker 1: I feel like when you give it up so early

1509
01:13:26,320 --> 01:13:29,000
Speaker 1: the way the generation is now, they move so fast,

1510
01:13:29,479 --> 01:13:31,840
Speaker 1: they just want to see what it what it's like,

1511
01:13:32,120 --> 01:13:34,599
Speaker 1: and then they gone, It's like, no, I'm gonna forever

1512
01:13:34,800 --> 01:13:38,639
Speaker 1: be a mystery of tease until you damn that knocking

1513
01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:41,479
Speaker 1: my dough down, right, Like I just want that energy.

1514
01:13:41,560 --> 01:13:43,320
Speaker 1: If I don't get that energy, I'm not I'm cool.

1515
01:13:43,400 --> 01:13:45,880
Speaker 1: Like it's like because then you're fuck and then after

1516
01:13:45,960 --> 01:13:48,720
Speaker 1: that you'll feel it's like, then, what so it was

1517
01:13:48,800 --> 01:13:51,280
Speaker 1: a spiritual decision that you made? You was like, I'm

1518
01:13:51,400 --> 01:13:55,400
Speaker 1: just gonna chill right now. Spirit is it spiritual? Is

1519
01:13:55,479 --> 01:13:58,200
Speaker 1: that spiritual? Well, I mean I'm saying, like, what was

1520
01:13:58,240 --> 01:13:59,920
Speaker 1: your reasoning for why you was like, Okay, I'm just

1521
01:14:00,520 --> 01:14:04,439
Speaker 1: I just I just I just feel like this ship,

1522
01:14:05,479 --> 01:14:09,559
Speaker 1: this shit ain't free, But it ain't the spiritual aligning

1523
01:14:09,640 --> 01:14:12,759
Speaker 1: because your spirit is who you are at your essence.

1524
01:14:12,880 --> 01:14:14,920
Speaker 1: I just don't want to give myself out.

1525
01:14:15,280 --> 01:14:18,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's okay with saying that's that is a spiritual

1526
01:14:18,840 --> 01:14:22,560
Speaker 3: reason because it doesn't align with, oh, what you have

1527
01:14:22,720 --> 01:14:25,240
Speaker 3: going on. So when I say it spiritual aligning doesn't

1528
01:14:25,240 --> 01:14:27,240
Speaker 3: necessarily mean it's like for a religious reason.

1529
01:14:27,640 --> 01:14:29,960
Speaker 1: It means like this doesn't align with my path and

1530
01:14:30,040 --> 01:14:33,240
Speaker 1: what I want. Yeah, I guess my spirit within you

1531
01:14:33,360 --> 01:14:36,960
Speaker 1: it's telling you this doesn't align with what my body

1532
01:14:37,120 --> 01:14:39,240
Speaker 1: needs and what it wants. Or you need to meet

1533
01:14:39,280 --> 01:14:42,160
Speaker 1: somebody that you feel like deserved. Like you said, this

1534
01:14:42,280 --> 01:14:44,280
Speaker 1: shit ain't free, like it needs to be a nigga

1535
01:14:44,280 --> 01:14:47,120
Speaker 1: who deserves all of it. It's not even a financial

1536
01:14:47,240 --> 01:14:49,800
Speaker 1: thing either. I think, first of all, I've been in

1537
01:14:49,800 --> 01:14:52,840
Speaker 1: a relationship for like the past five six years, So like,

1538
01:14:53,080 --> 01:14:55,080
Speaker 1: this is my first time like really going out in

1539
01:14:55,240 --> 01:14:58,200
Speaker 1: data and it's moving so fast. I'm seeing how people

1540
01:14:58,360 --> 01:15:01,320
Speaker 1: is like this increases danger. I really don't even want

1541
01:15:01,360 --> 01:15:03,200
Speaker 1: to be in this shit, but it's like I see

1542
01:15:03,240 --> 01:15:07,680
Speaker 1: how fast faced and dirty it is. It's like if

1543
01:15:07,720 --> 01:15:10,200
Speaker 1: I'm a I want to date. I want to get

1544
01:15:10,200 --> 01:15:11,800
Speaker 1: to know people, but I really want a nigga to

1545
01:15:11,960 --> 01:15:15,240
Speaker 1: really fuck with me mentally and like me mentally before

1546
01:15:15,240 --> 01:15:16,840
Speaker 1: we get to that part, because I know the pussy

1547
01:15:16,880 --> 01:15:19,799
Speaker 1: good like that ain't perrid that ain't that ain't the problem.

1548
01:15:19,960 --> 01:15:22,479
Speaker 1: The problem is I'm not mentally connected on it. So

1549
01:15:22,600 --> 01:15:25,040
Speaker 1: it's okay, wait, do you feel like you real quick? Well,

1550
01:15:25,040 --> 01:15:28,920
Speaker 1: I want to ask. No, I'm interested. So, like, okay,

1551
01:15:29,080 --> 01:15:31,160
Speaker 1: you was in a relationship for five six years. Do

1552
01:15:31,240 --> 01:15:34,200
Speaker 1: you feel like you could possibly get back with your ex?

1553
01:15:34,320 --> 01:15:37,519
Speaker 1: Do you not want to know just over that situation?

1554
01:15:39,439 --> 01:15:39,479
Speaker 5: No?

1555
01:15:39,760 --> 01:15:42,160
Speaker 1: I feel like at first one, like when the breakup

1556
01:15:42,280 --> 01:15:45,280
Speaker 1: was fresh and everything, I was feeling like we could

1557
01:15:45,280 --> 01:15:47,120
Speaker 1: have worked it out. But then when you like really

1558
01:15:47,200 --> 01:15:50,000
Speaker 1: step back from a situation, you really start thinking about

1559
01:15:50,000 --> 01:15:52,760
Speaker 1: It's like, do you really want to sign up for

1560
01:15:52,840 --> 01:15:55,000
Speaker 1: this type of man? You know what I'm saying, Like,

1561
01:15:55,200 --> 01:15:57,360
Speaker 1: even when I let it go and I let him

1562
01:15:57,360 --> 01:15:59,880
Speaker 1: do his own thing, even the fact are you playing

1563
01:16:00,040 --> 01:16:03,439
Speaker 1: both sides still, you know what I'm saying, It's just

1564
01:16:03,560 --> 01:16:07,720
Speaker 1: like you're not somebody to brag on. That's somebody they

1565
01:16:07,760 --> 01:16:09,720
Speaker 1: can have that issue. I don't want that, I know.

1566
01:16:10,120 --> 01:16:12,519
Speaker 1: And even though it's like it's my comfort zone, I

1567
01:16:12,880 --> 01:16:15,200
Speaker 1: know I could do better. I know, I know I

1568
01:16:15,320 --> 01:16:19,120
Speaker 1: deserve better. So it's just like I really don't like wholeheartedly.

1569
01:16:19,240 --> 01:16:22,120
Speaker 1: I think I dodged the bullet. And that's why I

1570
01:16:22,200 --> 01:16:24,160
Speaker 1: said we're gonna take this shot. And this is about

1571
01:16:24,200 --> 01:16:26,680
Speaker 1: to be a little Patreon satement because that's what I

1572
01:16:26,920 --> 01:16:28,200
Speaker 1: do want to talk about that a little bit, because

1573
01:16:28,200 --> 01:16:29,920
Speaker 1: I think we've all kind of been in relationships that

1574
01:16:30,040 --> 01:16:32,880
Speaker 1: we felt like, you know what I'm saying, Okay, so

1575
01:16:32,920 --> 01:16:34,719
Speaker 1: we don't we gonna take it. We're gonna take a shot.

1576
01:16:34,800 --> 01:16:37,519
Speaker 1: You want your shot, you got your shot. Uh, So

1577
01:16:37,600 --> 01:16:46,680
Speaker 1: we're gonna to grow, grow, grow, and your birthday let's go. Well,

1578
01:16:46,680 --> 01:16:50,240
Speaker 1: I'm thirty plus, y'all early thirties. I mean we're still thirty.

1579
01:16:50,320 --> 01:16:58,000
Speaker 1: I'm not thirty plus, baby, I'm thirty thirty three mm hmm. Okay,

1580
01:16:58,720 --> 01:17:02,120
Speaker 1: now I cannot take a whole shut that's all right,

1581
01:17:02,200 --> 01:17:04,559
Speaker 1: It's okay, just sit in you know, you know. Okay,

1582
01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:15,040
Speaker 1: So y'all make sure y'all share the content, like subscribe,

1583
01:17:15,320 --> 01:17:16,559
Speaker 1: follow all that good stuff.

1584
01:17:16,560 --> 01:17:18,760
Speaker 3: And let me say this before we close off. Y'all,

1585
01:17:19,240 --> 01:17:22,799
Speaker 3: there is one Twitter account that is connected to poor Minds.

1586
01:17:22,840 --> 01:17:27,439
Speaker 3: It's p oh, you are underscore in my nds. Y'all

1587
01:17:27,479 --> 01:17:30,559
Speaker 3: are tagging the wrong poor Minds page. If you see

1588
01:17:30,640 --> 01:17:33,360
Speaker 3: at poor minds with no underscore, that is at fake page,

1589
01:17:33,439 --> 01:17:34,559
Speaker 3: do not follow that page.

1590
01:17:34,600 --> 01:17:34,840
Speaker 1: Okay.

1591
01:17:35,240 --> 01:17:38,640
Speaker 3: They blocked me Andrea and the poor Minds page on

1592
01:17:38,680 --> 01:17:44,840
Speaker 3: both so we only have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok.

1593
01:17:45,200 --> 01:17:48,000
Speaker 1: It is p oh you are underscore in my nds,

1594
01:17:48,120 --> 01:17:51,240
Speaker 1: all right, And we got a hell a fake Facebook page.

1595
01:17:51,680 --> 01:17:55,000
Speaker 1: The Facebook page our face. The crazy thing is our

1596
01:17:55,120 --> 01:17:58,120
Speaker 1: Facebook page actually have the least amount of follow So

1597
01:17:58,160 --> 01:18:00,680
Speaker 1: if you're on Facebook, the one that's our got the

1598
01:18:00,800 --> 01:18:03,120
Speaker 1: least amount of fob, but one that's not us it's

1599
01:18:03,200 --> 01:18:04,799
Speaker 1: got like two hundred and fifty thousand.

1600
01:18:05,560 --> 01:18:07,240
Speaker 3: Make if you actually look at the content, because the

1601
01:18:07,320 --> 01:18:10,400
Speaker 3: caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English because

1602
01:18:10,439 --> 01:18:11,280
Speaker 3: their captains.

1603
01:18:11,000 --> 01:18:14,160
Speaker 1: Are like Bumba Claude? Should men? Should men pay bill?

1604
01:18:15,360 --> 01:18:19,800
Speaker 1: Should men pay bill? Yes? No? Check answer below block

1605
01:18:19,880 --> 01:18:24,639
Speaker 1: block pull pull poy Like that's literally what the captions?

1606
01:18:24,840 --> 01:18:29,759
Speaker 1: I'm like you what that dgs bumba claudemba Claude. Okay,

1607
01:18:29,840 --> 01:18:35,080
Speaker 1: So now it's time to get into the bow bow

1608
01:18:36,240 --> 01:18:38,960
Speaker 1: bow bow about bow Okay.

1609
01:18:39,600 --> 01:18:41,920
Speaker 3: So Bapa, the week is whatever you've been jamming this week, dre,

1610
01:18:42,080 --> 01:18:43,040
Speaker 3: What you've been jamming this week?

1611
01:18:43,880 --> 01:18:46,280
Speaker 1: So yeah, I've been listening to Proud of Them by

1612
01:18:46,439 --> 01:18:49,080
Speaker 1: Gunna and off Sea. It's about I love that song

1613
01:18:50,320 --> 01:18:52,439
Speaker 1: part of them. I'll be working out to that song

1614
01:18:52,720 --> 01:18:54,080
Speaker 1: you do. Let me tell y'all something.

1615
01:18:55,000 --> 01:18:57,679
Speaker 3: Gunna is on a fire run right now, as quiet

1616
01:18:57,720 --> 01:18:59,880
Speaker 3: as it's kept, I think that Gunna is a true

1617
01:19:00,080 --> 01:19:02,280
Speaker 3: artists and this is what artistry is about. I knew

1618
01:19:02,320 --> 01:19:04,400
Speaker 3: Gunna was special with that album with the green on it.

1619
01:19:04,439 --> 01:19:06,200
Speaker 3: Remember I used to jam that you used to get

1620
01:19:06,640 --> 01:19:09,400
Speaker 3: a journy. Oh my god, that was such a Was

1621
01:19:09,439 --> 01:19:10,439
Speaker 3: that the one with Little Baby?

1622
01:19:12,479 --> 01:19:12,679
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1623
01:19:12,960 --> 01:19:14,960
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no no, that was the deluxe version

1624
01:19:15,000 --> 01:19:20,799
Speaker 3: I think. But come on now, Gunna is an artist.

1625
01:19:21,040 --> 01:19:23,880
Speaker 3: That's why, y'all. He cannot be stopped. Y'all can be

1626
01:19:24,040 --> 01:19:26,760
Speaker 3: mad about this and x y Z. I don't know

1627
01:19:26,800 --> 01:19:28,840
Speaker 3: what's going on with that trial. I don't care. But

1628
01:19:30,160 --> 01:19:32,840
Speaker 3: Thugga is an artist and he signed him for a reason.

1629
01:19:33,760 --> 01:19:39,280
Speaker 3: Is a genius, and he signed you gotta respect the craft.

1630
01:19:39,400 --> 01:19:41,920
Speaker 3: So that's a good bop of the week. What you've

1631
01:19:41,920 --> 01:19:42,439
Speaker 3: been listening to?

1632
01:19:44,760 --> 01:19:47,680
Speaker 1: Man? Of course I'm listening to We Don't Trust You?

1633
01:19:50,080 --> 01:19:53,280
Speaker 1: Which one like the original or like because he dropped

1634
01:19:53,320 --> 01:19:56,600
Speaker 1: the whole another? I know I'm on both right now.

1635
01:19:56,640 --> 01:20:00,519
Speaker 1: I'm still trying to get into the deluxe Okay, but yeah,

1636
01:20:01,120 --> 01:20:06,479
Speaker 1: future he did. Brison got his new album out, Yes

1637
01:20:06,560 --> 01:20:10,439
Speaker 1: he does think about it what I did finish getting

1638
01:20:10,520 --> 01:20:14,600
Speaker 1: through it. But I'm I'm a big fan, So I

1639
01:20:14,720 --> 01:20:18,439
Speaker 1: love Brison. Those you gotta Dope ass album out and

1640
01:20:18,560 --> 01:20:21,760
Speaker 1: boss many love Man, he'd be eating it up. Yeah,

1641
01:20:21,760 --> 01:20:25,960
Speaker 1: I love you. Got y'all get a song and we

1642
01:20:26,200 --> 01:20:28,200
Speaker 1: of course we bumping Bitch the remix.

1643
01:20:28,720 --> 01:20:32,360
Speaker 3: The remix that all was about to say, so bitch

1644
01:20:32,520 --> 01:20:34,479
Speaker 3: the let me tell you something. Of course you you

1645
01:20:35,320 --> 01:20:38,320
Speaker 3: ate on the track per usual, but the way look

1646
01:20:38,400 --> 01:20:42,280
Speaker 3: he and Ken the Man slid the captions I have

1647
01:20:42,600 --> 01:20:45,160
Speaker 3: you know, I got the captions say, yeah.

1648
01:20:45,840 --> 01:20:49,360
Speaker 1: Lets me picture with the let me take the turn,

1649
01:20:50,479 --> 01:20:53,160
Speaker 1: let me pull up my my notes real quick, so

1650
01:20:53,320 --> 01:20:56,240
Speaker 1: real quick. And B is on that too. Yeah on fire,

1651
01:20:56,479 --> 01:20:58,320
Speaker 1: I love I love me some being U.

1652
01:20:58,800 --> 01:21:00,840
Speaker 3: B is on the song because when it dropped, I

1653
01:21:00,840 --> 01:21:02,160
Speaker 3: couldn't wait because I was like, let me listen to

1654
01:21:02,200 --> 01:21:03,160
Speaker 3: what my nieces got to say.

1655
01:21:04,120 --> 01:21:09,040
Speaker 1: And Lakia, they both my nieces, okay, so real quick.

1656
01:21:09,160 --> 01:21:11,920
Speaker 3: My bop of the week is uh, Ken the Man

1657
01:21:12,160 --> 01:21:16,160
Speaker 3: the Pussy song. Yeah, it's fire, And I feel like

1658
01:21:16,360 --> 01:21:18,599
Speaker 3: one thing about Ken is she gonna give you them bars.

1659
01:21:18,920 --> 01:21:24,000
Speaker 1: I love him. Ken is really out wrapping everybody. Oh,

1660
01:21:24,600 --> 01:21:29,719
Speaker 1: I love Ken. I'm not gonna my my my quotes.

1661
01:21:30,640 --> 01:21:33,479
Speaker 3: Ken the Man said, gave that bitch my maid number.

1662
01:21:33,840 --> 01:21:35,479
Speaker 3: Use it with yr dusty ass.

1663
01:21:36,479 --> 01:21:40,240
Speaker 1: Ken. But she said that I was in the book

1664
01:21:40,280 --> 01:21:43,439
Speaker 1: with her too. I was like, that's how he's supposed

1665
01:21:43,479 --> 01:21:46,800
Speaker 1: to come, Okay, Lakia said, I don't wait.

1666
01:21:47,120 --> 01:21:51,920
Speaker 3: My patience little like my way. My patience is little

1667
01:21:52,080 --> 01:21:57,200
Speaker 3: like my way. Like I love the fact like I'm

1668
01:21:57,320 --> 01:22:00,800
Speaker 3: telling you because of my patience even got no, I

1669
01:22:00,800 --> 01:22:03,360
Speaker 3: don't got I don't If I don't have a waste,

1670
01:22:03,360 --> 01:22:06,160
Speaker 3: why would you think I had page got for you

1671
01:22:06,520 --> 01:22:08,680
Speaker 3: if I don't have time for this, so.

1672
01:22:08,880 --> 01:22:13,120
Speaker 1: I would say this, bitch, it's about thank you. I

1673
01:22:13,200 --> 01:22:16,640
Speaker 1: think the remix was very I love the remix. It

1674
01:22:16,800 --> 01:22:20,760
Speaker 1: was cute. It's very it's very cute. And I picked

1675
01:22:20,800 --> 01:22:23,960
Speaker 1: all the girls who being out with it was all organic.

1676
01:22:25,080 --> 01:22:27,760
Speaker 1: You ate you ate that? Yeah, I have Sweety on

1677
01:22:27,840 --> 01:22:32,040
Speaker 1: there too. I'm gonna do it. We're gonna do our

1678
01:22:32,120 --> 01:22:32,880
Speaker 1: own separate song.

1679
01:22:33,000 --> 01:22:35,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, if you were sweet, you know because I went

1680
01:22:35,320 --> 01:22:37,360
Speaker 3: on Okay, so I got dragged on Twitter. I always

1681
01:22:37,360 --> 01:22:40,400
Speaker 3: get dragged on Twitter because I was like, how fucking

1682
01:22:40,479 --> 01:22:43,439
Speaker 3: dare y'all? I hate when people say, sweet, you need

1683
01:22:43,520 --> 01:22:47,360
Speaker 3: to stop rapping. No, Rich Civiti's was my ship.

1684
01:22:47,560 --> 01:22:51,400
Speaker 1: I'm not that our song. First of all, I'm doing

1685
01:22:51,560 --> 01:22:59,920
Speaker 1: rich Ship. I'm pretty to the time.

1686
01:23:00,439 --> 01:23:04,759
Speaker 4: Give me use your minds the way I'm a water side.

1687
01:23:07,479 --> 01:23:10,599
Speaker 1: She hate that song. I love that song. I put

1688
01:23:10,640 --> 01:23:13,280
Speaker 1: that ass like the soundtrack to like this little video

1689
01:23:13,400 --> 01:23:17,000
Speaker 1: I posted on Instagram and it like went viral Instagram

1690
01:23:17,120 --> 01:23:20,479
Speaker 1: and Twitter, and she reposted it on her yeah page.

1691
01:23:20,600 --> 01:23:24,519
Speaker 1: So I love Sweetie, y'all. This is what I There's

1692
01:23:24,560 --> 01:23:28,880
Speaker 1: a lane for everybody. It is if you're not a

1693
01:23:28,920 --> 01:23:32,120
Speaker 1: pretty girl. I'm sorry, you're not gonna get it a

1694
01:23:32,160 --> 01:23:33,160
Speaker 1: few ugly you want.

1695
01:23:35,520 --> 01:23:38,880
Speaker 3: It'd be a certain type of woman and man that

1696
01:23:39,000 --> 01:23:39,840
Speaker 3: hates on her music.

1697
01:23:39,880 --> 01:23:42,080
Speaker 1: It's not meant to be deep. She's not about to

1698
01:23:42,160 --> 01:23:47,559
Speaker 1: give you this exactly. And I love that understands her brand,

1699
01:23:47,760 --> 01:23:50,559
Speaker 1: like I would hate the fact. I would hate if,

1700
01:23:50,640 --> 01:23:53,880
Speaker 1: y'all if Sweetie tried to go bar for bar lyrical

1701
01:23:54,040 --> 01:23:56,280
Speaker 1: with everybody, like I would hate that for her, Like,

1702
01:23:56,400 --> 01:23:58,439
Speaker 1: it's so perfect for her brand. She knows she a

1703
01:23:58,479 --> 01:24:00,240
Speaker 1: pretty bitch. She knows she ain't got to do too much,

1704
01:24:00,280 --> 01:24:02,679
Speaker 1: and she knows she makes VABs for the pretty girls.

1705
01:24:02,920 --> 01:24:05,200
Speaker 1: It's like when you speak to your brand, you can't

1706
01:24:05,280 --> 01:24:07,680
Speaker 1: lose because it's like you don't know yourself. That's when

1707
01:24:07,760 --> 01:24:09,040
Speaker 1: it gets crazy. She knows.

1708
01:24:10,439 --> 01:24:12,280
Speaker 3: I think it's a lot of people that hate people.

1709
01:24:12,320 --> 01:24:15,000
Speaker 3: But in real life, Sweety go outside and people love

1710
01:24:15,080 --> 01:24:16,559
Speaker 3: her down and that's what I feel.

1711
01:24:16,600 --> 01:24:19,320
Speaker 1: We y'all need to get offline and go outside. That's

1712
01:24:19,520 --> 01:24:22,479
Speaker 1: really what it is. Go touch grass because on the

1713
01:24:22,600 --> 01:24:24,680
Speaker 1: internet it be seeming like that. Then you go out

1714
01:24:24,720 --> 01:24:26,519
Speaker 1: to these shows and it be like, bitch, you said

1715
01:24:26,560 --> 01:24:29,280
Speaker 1: what because girl, they don't be because they checking me

1716
01:24:29,400 --> 01:24:32,559
Speaker 1: right now, I'm running right now. I'm telling you exactly.

1717
01:24:33,000 --> 01:24:33,879
Speaker 1: Shout out, sweetie.

1718
01:24:34,120 --> 01:24:34,639
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.

1719
01:24:35,439 --> 01:24:37,799
Speaker 1: So now it's time to get into our favorite segment

1720
01:24:37,880 --> 01:24:39,479
Speaker 1: of the show, which is pour your heart out. So

1721
01:24:39,520 --> 01:24:41,479
Speaker 1: if you have any questions that you want to send

1722
01:24:41,560 --> 01:24:44,160
Speaker 1: in to us, send them to ask poor Minds at

1723
01:24:44,280 --> 01:24:46,960
Speaker 1: gmail dot com. That's a s kp oh you are

1724
01:24:47,160 --> 01:24:52,640
Speaker 1: in my nds at gmail dot com. Give us your questions,

1725
01:24:52,760 --> 01:24:57,160
Speaker 1: give us your testimony because sometimes we be fucking y'all life.

1726
01:24:57,360 --> 01:25:01,080
Speaker 3: A And can I say this before we start stretch

1727
01:25:01,640 --> 01:25:04,160
Speaker 3: dre zy, this has been one of my favorite episodes.

1728
01:25:04,160 --> 01:25:07,040
Speaker 1: I really really love you. Thank you no, because I

1729
01:25:07,240 --> 01:25:09,040
Speaker 1: love people that like we could just kick back and

1730
01:25:09,080 --> 01:25:11,600
Speaker 1: feel like this is girl talk. Yeah for real, Like

1731
01:25:11,800 --> 01:25:13,479
Speaker 1: I'm shure, like you know, I don't even know how

1732
01:25:13,520 --> 01:25:17,320
Speaker 1: long we've been talking. We just talking about the meat

1733
01:25:17,360 --> 01:25:20,040
Speaker 1: in the middle is like a Patreon episode, so y'all

1734
01:25:20,040 --> 01:25:22,720
Speaker 1: go start up for Patreon. But this has been fun.

1735
01:25:22,800 --> 01:25:24,840
Speaker 1: I like when people can just like be their selves

1736
01:25:24,880 --> 01:25:27,040
Speaker 1: and connected. This is good. So I don't know a

1737
01:25:27,120 --> 01:25:30,680
Speaker 1: lot of interviews, I'm just yeah, are you I am?

1738
01:25:31,080 --> 01:25:35,200
Speaker 1: I'm just being myself. Yeah, we're with you, Okay, it's

1739
01:25:35,320 --> 01:25:38,320
Speaker 1: already two hours and it's about to be three because

1740
01:25:38,600 --> 01:25:43,360
Speaker 1: it's not I got the timer. So the real episode is, oh, okay,

1741
01:25:43,439 --> 01:25:45,080
Speaker 1: go ahead, let me shut up, go ahead, let me

1742
01:25:45,080 --> 01:25:47,880
Speaker 1: mym be in here. Read it, Drew read. I am

1743
01:25:47,880 --> 01:25:48,760
Speaker 1: about the speed read?

1744
01:25:50,040 --> 01:25:50,639
Speaker 2: Are you a ready?

1745
01:25:50,840 --> 01:25:53,640
Speaker 1: Were ready? We're gonna listen. You got your f y

1746
01:25:53,800 --> 01:25:58,960
Speaker 1: M time you and wait? How long? How quick?

1747
01:25:59,080 --> 01:25:59,799
Speaker 2: Thirty seconds?

1748
01:26:01,400 --> 01:26:03,760
Speaker 1: You're not going to do that in thirty sex, I cand,

1749
01:26:03,920 --> 01:26:06,439
Speaker 1: but we need to understand what you're saying. Don't be

1750
01:26:06,520 --> 01:26:09,080
Speaker 1: like I think I can do it in thirty seconds,

1751
01:26:09,160 --> 01:26:13,680
Speaker 1: forty five seconds? Okay, you're sixty? Are you ready? Hold on?

1752
01:26:13,760 --> 01:26:13,920
Speaker 2: Wait?

1753
01:26:14,120 --> 01:26:21,639
Speaker 1: One eight seven six, all right? Five four three two one,

1754
01:26:21,880 --> 01:26:23,639
Speaker 1: and I go. I'm gonna try to keep this short

1755
01:26:23,640 --> 01:26:25,400
Speaker 1: and sweet because I know this is how you like

1756
01:26:25,479 --> 01:26:27,680
Speaker 1: to get down. So basically, I have this friend who

1757
01:26:27,720 --> 01:26:29,720
Speaker 1: I met first year of college two years ago. She

1758
01:26:29,800 --> 01:26:32,400
Speaker 1: has recently got into a relationship and it became serious,

1759
01:26:32,600 --> 01:26:34,720
Speaker 1: which I was very supportive of until she told me

1760
01:26:34,800 --> 01:26:37,080
Speaker 1: that they will bump hiss, and from my perspective, he

1761
01:26:37,120 --> 01:26:40,320
Speaker 1: gave very much mental abuse. I would like to express

1762
01:26:40,439 --> 01:26:42,560
Speaker 1: my opinion to her, which I have tried to not

1763
01:26:42,760 --> 01:26:45,240
Speaker 1: to because I know women in those type of situations

1764
01:26:45,600 --> 01:26:47,800
Speaker 1: don't like hearing that they are in dangerous places and

1765
01:26:47,880 --> 01:26:50,839
Speaker 1: can't see that for themselves. I've noticed that her boyfriend

1766
01:26:50,880 --> 01:26:52,680
Speaker 1: does not like me, and every time she says she

1767
01:26:52,800 --> 01:26:54,760
Speaker 1: is hanging out with me, he would literally want to

1768
01:26:54,880 --> 01:26:57,439
Speaker 1: end a relationship with her. For example, she said that

1769
01:26:57,520 --> 01:26:59,720
Speaker 1: her boyfriend would say every time we hang out that

1770
01:26:59,800 --> 01:27:01,400
Speaker 1: he thinks I'm going to try to get her to

1771
01:27:01,479 --> 01:27:03,320
Speaker 1: cheat or find a new man. But we have been

1772
01:27:03,560 --> 01:27:05,400
Speaker 1: in and out of an environment where I will be

1773
01:27:05,439 --> 01:27:07,439
Speaker 1: able to do that if I was that type of friend.

1774
01:27:07,880 --> 01:27:10,479
Speaker 1: I also said that once, your boyfriend doesn't even know me,

1775
01:27:11,040 --> 01:27:14,200
Speaker 1: why is she saying stuff like Her response is, oh,

1776
01:27:14,280 --> 01:27:16,960
Speaker 1: he knows you trust me. I have never met him before,

1777
01:27:17,120 --> 01:27:20,240
Speaker 1: no id, nor have I said one word to him

1778
01:27:20,560 --> 01:27:22,639
Speaker 1: at all, So I'm confused, like, what is she saying

1779
01:27:22,720 --> 01:27:26,040
Speaker 1: that makes him feel like I'm not me? You ready,

1780
01:27:26,080 --> 01:27:29,240
Speaker 1: the whole day I'm reading it, she says that damn

1781
01:27:29,720 --> 01:27:31,720
Speaker 1: she says that she and cheated on him before, and

1782
01:27:31,840 --> 01:27:33,599
Speaker 1: I feel like she says stuff to him that makes

1783
01:27:33,640 --> 01:27:36,120
Speaker 1: it seem like I was involved with her cheating. This

1784
01:27:36,240 --> 01:27:38,680
Speaker 1: is the brief context of the story. It's more to it,

1785
01:27:38,800 --> 01:27:40,479
Speaker 1: but I wanted to keep it short as I can.

1786
01:27:40,600 --> 01:27:42,640
Speaker 1: So my question is should I bring up this to

1787
01:27:42,720 --> 01:27:45,120
Speaker 1: her or end our friendship or should I not say

1788
01:27:45,200 --> 01:27:47,799
Speaker 1: nothing to leave it be ps. I'm from Houston, Texas,

1789
01:27:47,840 --> 01:27:50,320
Speaker 1: but I moved to Jersey for college. So y'all I

1790
01:27:50,439 --> 01:27:53,120
Speaker 1: need a plan. How long was that ninety seconds? I

1791
01:27:53,280 --> 01:27:56,759
Speaker 1: told you needed sixty? That's all right, you read fans.

1792
01:27:57,160 --> 01:27:58,240
Speaker 2: I was freaking.

1793
01:28:00,160 --> 01:28:05,840
Speaker 1: To the man, bitch of the bath. So first of all,

1794
01:28:07,439 --> 01:28:09,559
Speaker 1: stop if a.

1795
01:28:09,680 --> 01:28:13,240
Speaker 3: Man does not like you, If your friend is daddy

1796
01:28:13,280 --> 01:28:15,840
Speaker 3: a man and he doesn't like you, she's pillow talking

1797
01:28:15,880 --> 01:28:18,720
Speaker 3: to him about you, because that man don't know you

1798
01:28:18,840 --> 01:28:21,439
Speaker 3: from a can of paint. Now, I will say, there

1799
01:28:21,520 --> 01:28:26,000
Speaker 3: are situations that are there are situations that are different

1800
01:28:26,080 --> 01:28:28,000
Speaker 3: where men get judged you. But let me tell you something.

1801
01:28:29,680 --> 01:28:33,879
Speaker 3: I have never dated a man that didn't like my friends.

1802
01:28:34,280 --> 01:28:36,120
Speaker 3: And when I did date a man that didn't like

1803
01:28:36,200 --> 01:28:38,240
Speaker 3: my friends, it's because I'm not gonna always being a

1804
01:28:38,320 --> 01:28:40,880
Speaker 3: chatty patty. And I was saying too many things that

1805
01:28:40,960 --> 01:28:44,280
Speaker 3: I probably shouldn't have said. So I feel like, in

1806
01:28:44,400 --> 01:28:48,479
Speaker 3: this situation for me, are you wrong speaking to your

1807
01:28:48,640 --> 01:28:49,519
Speaker 3: man about what?

1808
01:28:49,960 --> 01:28:50,160
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1809
01:28:50,760 --> 01:28:53,800
Speaker 3: Because if my friends tell me, girl, I went outside

1810
01:28:53,880 --> 01:28:55,800
Speaker 3: tonight and I got drunk and I met this ball

1811
01:28:55,840 --> 01:28:56,240
Speaker 3: of nigga.

1812
01:28:56,320 --> 01:29:00,400
Speaker 1: He flew me out. You know that's different. That's tea exactly.

1813
01:29:00,479 --> 01:29:04,080
Speaker 1: But girls be doing that like girl, Like just example, Yeah,

1814
01:29:04,439 --> 01:29:06,560
Speaker 1: Drea got flew out to Miami with this nigga and

1815
01:29:06,600 --> 01:29:08,719
Speaker 1: she keep bragging me about it. Like, girl, these niggas

1816
01:29:08,840 --> 01:29:11,400
Speaker 1: just fucking you. Like, so you're telling this to your man,

1817
01:29:11,840 --> 01:29:13,320
Speaker 1: you low key hating because you wish you.

1818
01:29:13,439 --> 01:29:17,160
Speaker 3: Was outside and he's looking at your best friend like mmmm,

1819
01:29:17,600 --> 01:29:19,719
Speaker 3: But that's what we happen to stop pill off talking

1820
01:29:19,760 --> 01:29:20,760
Speaker 3: to your nigga when.

1821
01:29:20,680 --> 01:29:21,479
Speaker 1: I talk to Drea.

1822
01:29:22,080 --> 01:29:24,280
Speaker 3: I'm not telling my nigga when I put off talk

1823
01:29:24,360 --> 01:29:26,360
Speaker 3: with my man, I'm not telling Drea when my nigga

1824
01:29:26,439 --> 01:29:29,160
Speaker 3: tells me stop doing that. If I have a private

1825
01:29:29,240 --> 01:29:31,960
Speaker 3: conversation with people, it doesn't need to be repeated. So

1826
01:29:32,400 --> 01:29:36,240
Speaker 3: to me, that's just my personal opinion. The reason that

1827
01:29:36,520 --> 01:29:38,479
Speaker 3: man feels some way about you is because it's some

1828
01:29:38,560 --> 01:29:42,519
Speaker 3: conversations going on about you. Because she's saying her friend

1829
01:29:42,600 --> 01:29:46,280
Speaker 3: is being weird to her too. Her friend is kind

1830
01:29:46,320 --> 01:29:46,800
Speaker 3: of being like.

1831
01:29:47,120 --> 01:29:51,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, of course I feel the same way. Yeah, she definitely.

1832
01:29:51,280 --> 01:29:54,960
Speaker 1: I mean the friend is definitely talking. But I also

1833
01:29:55,000 --> 01:29:57,479
Speaker 1: feel like niggas be lurking and stuff, so they keep

1834
01:29:57,560 --> 01:30:01,599
Speaker 1: shit and they already have they judgment about a certain friends.

1835
01:30:01,680 --> 01:30:05,120
Speaker 1: But my thing is, I don't tell me if I'm wrong.

1836
01:30:05,720 --> 01:30:11,320
Speaker 1: When shit get like crazy and my friends relationships, I

1837
01:30:11,520 --> 01:30:15,800
Speaker 1: kind of step back because it's nothing you can do

1838
01:30:16,400 --> 01:30:18,560
Speaker 1: to tell a woman that is in love with a

1839
01:30:18,760 --> 01:30:21,400
Speaker 1: man that she needs to leave. She's either gonna look

1840
01:30:21,439 --> 01:30:24,559
Speaker 1: at you like you're crazy, like you're jealous, or she's

1841
01:30:24,600 --> 01:30:27,479
Speaker 1: gonna stop talking to you. It's nothing you can do.

1842
01:30:28,000 --> 01:30:30,479
Speaker 1: You can give them encouraging words. You can talk to

1843
01:30:30,560 --> 01:30:32,599
Speaker 1: them and try to, you know, tell them about your

1844
01:30:32,760 --> 01:30:34,280
Speaker 1: And that's the other thing I like to do. I

1845
01:30:34,439 --> 01:30:37,320
Speaker 1: like to use myself as an example so you don't

1846
01:30:37,360 --> 01:30:39,559
Speaker 1: feel bad, bit y'all. Crucify myself, bitch. When I went

1847
01:30:39,600 --> 01:30:41,599
Speaker 1: through this shit, the nigga dragged me through the mud.

1848
01:30:41,680 --> 01:30:43,960
Speaker 1: Did it that way? You don't feel no type of way,

1849
01:30:44,000 --> 01:30:45,439
Speaker 1: and you take that, have a way you want to

1850
01:30:45,479 --> 01:30:49,000
Speaker 1: take that. I'm always be here for you. If it

1851
01:30:49,080 --> 01:30:53,679
Speaker 1: gets completely out of control, I might have to remove myself.

1852
01:30:54,400 --> 01:30:56,360
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because it's still nothing I

1853
01:30:56,400 --> 01:30:58,360
Speaker 1: can do, even if I knock at you'all door and

1854
01:30:58,479 --> 01:30:59,880
Speaker 1: drag you out the house, bitch, if you want to go,

1855
01:31:00,120 --> 01:31:02,800
Speaker 1: you gonna go back back. So don't stress yourself out.

1856
01:31:02,800 --> 01:31:04,200
Speaker 1: And that's why I say I'm going through this right

1857
01:31:04,280 --> 01:31:07,519
Speaker 1: now with my best friend and it's literally kind of

1858
01:31:07,560 --> 01:31:09,280
Speaker 1: the same thing. And it's like about a nigga, and

1859
01:31:09,320 --> 01:31:11,479
Speaker 1: it's like, as much as I want to fight for

1860
01:31:11,560 --> 01:31:14,960
Speaker 1: our friendship, girl, when you done, when you see this

1861
01:31:15,240 --> 01:31:17,560
Speaker 1: red flax, for yourself, you'll be back, you know what

1862
01:31:17,600 --> 01:31:19,680
Speaker 1: I'm saying. And I'll be here with open arms, right

1863
01:31:19,840 --> 01:31:21,600
Speaker 1: But I'm not putting myself in.

1864
01:31:21,920 --> 01:31:26,720
Speaker 3: I only give advice whenever I'm asked that par That's

1865
01:31:26,760 --> 01:31:28,960
Speaker 3: something that I learned too. Sometimes I'm like, like in

1866
01:31:29,040 --> 01:31:31,800
Speaker 3: my opinion when I wasn't asked and it was like

1867
01:31:31,960 --> 01:31:35,400
Speaker 3: it came off wrong, and I'm just like m and

1868
01:31:35,479 --> 01:31:37,400
Speaker 3: I'm not an a I told you so, ass bitch.

1869
01:31:37,439 --> 01:31:38,559
Speaker 1: I'm not like that at all.

1870
01:31:39,040 --> 01:31:41,400
Speaker 3: I'll just be like I'm here whatever shit fucks up,

1871
01:31:41,439 --> 01:31:43,559
Speaker 3: like I'm here because I get it because I've been there.

1872
01:31:44,080 --> 01:31:49,880
Speaker 3: So I think with this situation, you just gotta decide how.

1873
01:31:49,840 --> 01:31:53,599
Speaker 1: You want to move forward. I fairly give my advice

1874
01:31:53,760 --> 01:31:58,599
Speaker 1: even when I'm asked about nigga, I don't know because

1875
01:31:58,600 --> 01:31:59,920
Speaker 1: I feel like women are gonna do what they want

1876
01:32:00,080 --> 01:32:02,519
Speaker 1: to do exactly, like once you shaw meet that you

1877
01:32:02,640 --> 01:32:05,400
Speaker 1: are really committed to, like not be in any situation

1878
01:32:05,520 --> 01:32:06,960
Speaker 1: no more. You really don't want to deal with this

1879
01:32:07,080 --> 01:32:11,439
Speaker 1: nigga no word? Then I'll give my opinion. Yeah, I

1880
01:32:11,560 --> 01:32:13,080
Speaker 1: just feel like you gotta let people do what they

1881
01:32:13,120 --> 01:32:16,880
Speaker 1: want to do. You all right? Question number two.

1882
01:32:17,400 --> 01:32:19,680
Speaker 3: I'm not being time, y'all know I need hooked on

1883
01:32:19,880 --> 01:32:23,880
Speaker 3: find it Okay, Hey, my name is Monesha. I'm writing

1884
01:32:23,920 --> 01:32:26,280
Speaker 3: y'all because I need some advice for real. Okay, So

1885
01:32:26,400 --> 01:32:29,240
Speaker 3: I've been married for eight years. You shouldn't have been

1886
01:32:29,240 --> 01:32:31,000
Speaker 3: writing us anyway. We ain't never been married.

1887
01:32:31,600 --> 01:32:32,800
Speaker 1: You already going wrong.

1888
01:32:33,560 --> 01:32:37,240
Speaker 3: And I've caught my husband texting the same sex like

1889
01:32:37,479 --> 01:32:42,800
Speaker 3: three different years, Like they were texting sexually, like send

1890
01:32:42,880 --> 01:32:43,919
Speaker 3: pics and videos.

1891
01:32:44,280 --> 01:32:46,240
Speaker 1: He told me he did it just to get a nut.

1892
01:32:46,720 --> 01:32:49,519
Speaker 1: I'm so confused. I love this man to death. Ugh,

1893
01:32:49,760 --> 01:32:52,120
Speaker 1: I just need help. I want my marriage to work.

1894
01:32:52,200 --> 01:32:54,640
Speaker 1: But ugh, I just need one on one talk or

1895
01:32:54,680 --> 01:32:57,880
Speaker 1: something because I'm going crazy over here. My heart is broken.

1896
01:32:58,160 --> 01:33:00,160
Speaker 1: Please help. Just need a friend to talk. Why do

1897
01:33:00,280 --> 01:33:01,519
Speaker 1: y'all pick these questions for.

1898
01:33:03,760 --> 01:33:03,800
Speaker 5: No?

1899
01:33:04,000 --> 01:33:10,799
Speaker 1: Because no, but like es, this is why certain friends

1900
01:33:10,880 --> 01:33:13,599
Speaker 1: don't come to me for advice, because if you come

1901
01:33:13,680 --> 01:33:15,679
Speaker 1: sit next to me and say some stupid ass ship

1902
01:33:15,840 --> 01:33:22,639
Speaker 1: like this, I'm gonna look at you like bitch, your

1903
01:33:22,720 --> 01:33:26,960
Speaker 1: dumb ass. You the perfect pig. But why you even know?

1904
01:33:27,600 --> 01:33:30,320
Speaker 1: I need enough from time to tell you said same sex,

1905
01:33:30,680 --> 01:33:36,120
Speaker 1: he's sexual? She said same No, no, no, no, I'm

1906
01:33:36,200 --> 01:33:41,519
Speaker 1: just like I didn't hear it the same way either.

1907
01:33:41,520 --> 01:33:45,040
Speaker 1: I thought he mean, like, wait, same no? Yeah, I

1908
01:33:45,120 --> 01:33:47,880
Speaker 1: thought she said no. But why would she say same sex?

1909
01:33:48,000 --> 01:33:49,679
Speaker 1: That should be odd. I haven't read it again.

1910
01:33:50,160 --> 01:33:54,320
Speaker 3: I've caught my husband texting the same sex like three

1911
01:33:54,400 --> 01:33:55,120
Speaker 3: different years.

1912
01:33:55,439 --> 01:33:58,000
Speaker 1: When I think the same sex, the same sex me

1913
01:33:58,120 --> 01:34:09,040
Speaker 1: and way I call my husband texting, she put, but

1914
01:34:09,479 --> 01:34:11,439
Speaker 1: he don't give her a little bit too much. I

1915
01:34:11,479 --> 01:34:14,840
Speaker 1: don't care sex ex. If you texting somebody the nut,

1916
01:34:14,960 --> 01:34:18,800
Speaker 1: that's not me. Boy, fuck you, I don't care. I

1917
01:34:18,840 --> 01:34:22,600
Speaker 1: don't care if it's the same sex, but it's the

1918
01:34:22,720 --> 01:34:26,080
Speaker 1: same sex, let me tell you that's I don't care.

1919
01:34:26,160 --> 01:34:29,240
Speaker 1: Because if you're texting the same sex the same ex,

1920
01:34:29,479 --> 01:34:33,160
Speaker 1: you gotta go. It don't matter either way, it's nutting

1921
01:34:33,240 --> 01:34:37,880
Speaker 1: off of somebody because she said that. He said, let

1922
01:34:37,960 --> 01:34:40,120
Speaker 1: me let me. He told me he did it just

1923
01:34:40,160 --> 01:34:43,120
Speaker 1: to get a nut. I don't care if you're texting

1924
01:34:43,160 --> 01:34:46,320
Speaker 1: the same sex or ex. You nutting off for somebody

1925
01:34:46,400 --> 01:34:49,120
Speaker 1: that's not me. What if he was addicted to give

1926
01:34:49,160 --> 01:34:53,879
Speaker 1: a damn ho Nia, I said porn. Bye, you're adicted

1927
01:34:53,920 --> 01:34:56,799
Speaker 1: the porn. I don't need you addicted to nothing but me. Baby,

1928
01:34:57,600 --> 01:35:01,200
Speaker 1: you gotta go, same set, same ex. I don't know

1929
01:35:01,280 --> 01:35:03,160
Speaker 1: what you meant, whole nigga, but you need to run.

1930
01:35:03,280 --> 01:35:06,360
Speaker 1: Monies the same sex. You really got to run because

1931
01:35:06,520 --> 01:35:11,800
Speaker 1: I'm not the same ex. I'm not neither one. It

1932
01:35:11,920 --> 01:35:12,280
Speaker 1: was given.

1933
01:35:12,320 --> 01:35:12,960
Speaker 2: You need to go.

1934
01:35:13,720 --> 01:35:14,839
Speaker 1: It was given my wisha.

1935
01:35:15,120 --> 01:35:18,000
Speaker 2: You can get the hell on you in Mama. I

1936
01:35:18,040 --> 01:35:18,479
Speaker 2: don't like.

1937
01:35:23,400 --> 01:35:28,280
Speaker 1: Dear diary. I found out my nigga messed with the

1938
01:35:28,320 --> 01:35:32,880
Speaker 1: same sex and the same Her name is Moniesa, but

1939
01:35:32,920 --> 01:35:37,519
Speaker 1: we're gonna call her moment rubbing toes together and maybe

1940
01:35:37,960 --> 01:35:40,240
Speaker 1: let me tell you the thing about Let me tell

1941
01:35:40,280 --> 01:35:42,160
Speaker 1: you what it is about love, because I'm a love girl.

1942
01:35:42,240 --> 01:35:43,880
Speaker 1: Let me give you all some advice for real, for real.

1943
01:35:44,160 --> 01:35:46,920
Speaker 1: That was a good like little bit sound track though,

1944
01:35:47,720 --> 01:35:49,360
Speaker 1: then I'll be honest that I say these, I'll be

1945
01:35:49,439 --> 01:35:51,960
Speaker 1: playing it when I write in my journal. You don't

1946
01:35:52,640 --> 01:36:01,120
Speaker 1: I do right? People like that's delusion. You know what's yes,

1947
01:36:01,479 --> 01:36:04,639
Speaker 1: why you open your notebooks and you right, Yeah, you're delusional.

1948
01:36:04,720 --> 01:36:07,919
Speaker 1: You think you are living through I love about crazy.

1949
01:36:10,320 --> 01:36:14,640
Speaker 1: Really felt like we vibe, we're vibing. The one thing

1950
01:36:14,720 --> 01:36:20,120
Speaker 1: I love about dray Dray to the to the Andrea

1951
01:36:21,280 --> 01:36:25,559
Speaker 1: is Andrea, and Andre and Andrea. I thought we was vibing,

1952
01:36:25,640 --> 01:36:28,760
Speaker 1: but you just made me I really dove vib I'd

1953
01:36:28,800 --> 01:36:31,560
Speaker 1: be like, you're diary, but me a my walking in

1954
01:36:31,680 --> 01:36:33,920
Speaker 1: room and I see that, and I hear that, I'm

1955
01:36:34,080 --> 01:36:37,440
Speaker 1: have my feet up off. You're delusional.

1956
01:36:37,560 --> 01:36:40,559
Speaker 3: The thing about that's so funny is because like, don't

1957
01:36:40,560 --> 01:36:43,200
Speaker 3: get me wrong, Drey is a beautiful girl, funny and

1958
01:36:43,280 --> 01:36:43,560
Speaker 3: this and that.

1959
01:36:43,720 --> 01:36:48,479
Speaker 1: But Dreya is a weird though, but I to be

1960
01:36:48,680 --> 01:36:49,240
Speaker 1: my friend.

1961
01:36:49,720 --> 01:36:52,040
Speaker 3: You're somewhat of a weird though you think I'm weird.

1962
01:36:52,320 --> 01:36:55,560
Speaker 3: I'm strange, openly, y'all know that about me.

1963
01:36:55,960 --> 01:36:58,799
Speaker 1: I got weird friends. Dre we like a little weirdness.

1964
01:36:59,040 --> 01:36:59,479
Speaker 1: You're weird.

1965
01:37:00,120 --> 01:37:00,920
Speaker 2: What makes me with you?

1966
01:37:01,080 --> 01:37:04,880
Speaker 3: Because you like me like I love I'm a super

1967
01:37:04,920 --> 01:37:07,479
Speaker 3: into like comics and stuff like I like the Marvel movies.

1968
01:37:08,000 --> 01:37:09,880
Speaker 1: I like, you know, like X Men, X Me.

1969
01:37:10,040 --> 01:37:15,040
Speaker 3: I love x Men and spider Man, John Wick all

1970
01:37:15,080 --> 01:37:17,240
Speaker 3: this stuff. So Dre's not really into Marvel, but I

1971
01:37:17,640 --> 01:37:19,600
Speaker 3: I drug her to see like Black Panthers with me

1972
01:37:19,640 --> 01:37:20,200
Speaker 3: a long time ago.

1973
01:37:20,280 --> 01:37:27,240
Speaker 1: She was like this, Oh my god. She enjoyed it.

1974
01:37:27,800 --> 01:37:28,960
Speaker 1: I know, I say you like that.

1975
01:37:29,400 --> 01:37:29,439
Speaker 5: You.

1976
01:37:32,600 --> 01:37:34,960
Speaker 1: I also really like sheets that I think people think

1977
01:37:35,080 --> 01:37:36,960
Speaker 1: that I'm not into. That's what I'm saying, Like, like,

1978
01:37:37,080 --> 01:37:41,400
Speaker 1: what like I like Marvel movies. I like, I'm really

1979
01:37:41,479 --> 01:37:44,320
Speaker 1: into x Men too. Yeah, but I love X Men.

1980
01:37:44,479 --> 01:37:46,880
Speaker 1: I love x Men. I know everything about wood Beren

1981
01:37:46,960 --> 01:37:49,920
Speaker 1: And my dad had like a comic My dad actually

1982
01:37:50,000 --> 01:37:52,040
Speaker 1: had a comic collection when he died and he lifted

1983
01:37:52,120 --> 01:37:57,760
Speaker 1: to me. So like I got like about twenty like

1984
01:37:58,880 --> 01:37:59,759
Speaker 1: a movie buff.

1985
01:38:00,280 --> 01:38:02,479
Speaker 3: Like my friend, my best friend Lauren. She thinks that's

1986
01:38:02,520 --> 01:38:04,080
Speaker 3: so weird about me. Like I could see an actor,

1987
01:38:04,320 --> 01:38:06,040
Speaker 3: I know his name, I know the movies he's been in.

1988
01:38:06,360 --> 01:38:07,719
Speaker 3: That's just that's something.

1989
01:38:08,200 --> 01:38:10,760
Speaker 1: Go ahead, Well, I know something. I'm into my Fia

1990
01:38:11,200 --> 01:38:14,800
Speaker 1: documentaries and movies like The Godfather type ship everything. John

1991
01:38:14,880 --> 01:38:19,240
Speaker 1: Gottie I know everything about like the mafia. Yeah, I

1992
01:38:19,560 --> 01:38:22,839
Speaker 1: just saw what's the word the godfather?

1993
01:38:23,840 --> 01:38:24,240
Speaker 2: Godfather?

1994
01:38:24,439 --> 01:38:30,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, with our scarf. I just can I tell y'all

1995
01:38:31,000 --> 01:38:33,599
Speaker 1: something to I know everything about the mafia, like because

1996
01:38:33,600 --> 01:38:35,960
Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with how they move, Like they move very

1997
01:38:36,000 --> 01:38:39,519
Speaker 1: strategic and you know who's it's a little evil. But like,

1998
01:38:40,240 --> 01:38:42,400
Speaker 1: if you take the principles from me and not take

1999
01:38:42,520 --> 01:38:47,000
Speaker 1: like the evil, they staying on business and it really

2000
01:38:47,040 --> 01:38:49,200
Speaker 1: can help you build the empire if that's what you

2001
01:38:49,280 --> 01:38:52,200
Speaker 1: want for you to take. Right when you're interested in something,

2002
01:38:52,240 --> 01:39:06,400
Speaker 1: it's all about the viewpoint of it. Okay, drazy what

2003
01:39:06,520 --> 01:39:09,040
Speaker 1: you got coming up? What you got going on? Y'all?

2004
01:39:09,200 --> 01:39:13,080
Speaker 3: This has been absolutely okay. Okay, I'm about to bring

2005
01:39:13,120 --> 01:39:15,160
Speaker 3: it in. I'm about to really in. Okay, that's our birthday.

2006
01:39:15,439 --> 01:39:17,960
Speaker 3: It's our birthday. So let me say this. This has

2007
01:39:18,040 --> 01:39:20,320
Speaker 3: been one of the funnest episodes. We have talked about

2008
01:39:20,360 --> 01:39:22,920
Speaker 3: a bunch of crazy shit. And let me tell you, Drezy,

2009
01:39:23,000 --> 01:39:26,280
Speaker 3: I love you Donald. You have the best sense of humor.

2010
01:39:27,000 --> 01:39:28,680
Speaker 1: And we have been up here a while and we

2011
01:39:28,760 --> 01:39:32,000
Speaker 1: done talked about everything, and this is like three hours. Yeah,

2012
01:39:32,080 --> 01:39:34,360
Speaker 1: So if y'all are not a Patreon. Remember please go

2013
01:39:34,479 --> 01:39:38,559
Speaker 1: sign up for Patreon. There was a lot of Jersey.

2014
01:39:38,680 --> 01:39:41,400
Speaker 1: What you're coming up? What you got going on? They

2015
01:39:41,479 --> 01:39:45,080
Speaker 1: can plug in with. I'm working on my independent album

2016
01:39:45,160 --> 01:39:48,400
Speaker 1: right now. It's coming so and yeah, my no singles

2017
01:39:48,439 --> 01:39:50,600
Speaker 1: coming so on, bitch the remix out now. This is

2018
01:39:50,640 --> 01:39:53,400
Speaker 1: gonna be my biggest year. Yeah, real Like, I'm staying

2019
01:39:53,479 --> 01:39:58,320
Speaker 1: consistent and I'm dropping ship. So let's love that for you, okay,

2020
01:39:58,680 --> 01:40:01,080
Speaker 1: and y'all know check out music Beauty. She just dropped

2021
01:40:01,120 --> 01:40:05,160
Speaker 1: the new what is it, the Red Collection? Yes, the

2022
01:40:05,280 --> 01:40:08,640
Speaker 1: Red Collection with Beauty and y'all. Make sure y'all will

2023
01:40:08,680 --> 01:40:11,439
Speaker 1: get that e book that's online as well, and we'll

2024
01:40:11,439 --> 01:40:16,040
Speaker 1: see y'all next week. By what's up, y'all? It's Dreezy

2025
01:40:16,120 --> 01:40:19,360
Speaker 1: in the honeys and we're ready to tear down tonight.

2026
01:40:19,760 --> 01:40:29,880
Speaker 1: Period taken away? Seen that ship, dree You like that?

2027
01:40:35,000 --> 01:40:40,720
Speaker 1: Don't pick up the phone like I used to take

2028
01:40:40,800 --> 01:40:45,439
Speaker 1: your personal all the things that I used to do.

2029
01:40:46,640 --> 01:41:07,040
Speaker 1: You don't worry about me. Oh oh, you don't know me.

2030
01:41:07,520 --> 01:41:07,640
Speaker 5: Now.

2031
01:41:07,760 --> 01:41:12,320
Speaker 4: You know you're gonna need mono and I ain't stressing

2032
01:41:12,439 --> 01:41:16,240
Speaker 4: better Doug, okay, because I was sure and I gave

2033
01:41:16,400 --> 01:41:25,520
Speaker 4: you Marna, Marna, you search If you never find another love, Marla,

2034
01:41:27,400 --> 01:41:28,920
Speaker 4: you're gonna miss me.

2035
01:41:29,680 --> 01:41:32,519
Speaker 1: I ain't got time while you sit around and play

2036
01:41:32,640 --> 01:41:44,120
Speaker 1: with my mine. O had I heard about that other say? Oh?

2037
01:41:45,040 --> 01:41:48,960
Speaker 5: I just needed time to clear my mind, rest myself.

2038
01:41:51,920 --> 01:41:57,920
Speaker 5: You taken the care holds men't. I will still be

2039
01:41:58,120 --> 01:41:58,960
Speaker 5: right there.

2040
01:41:58,960 --> 01:42:02,920
Speaker 1: With that in love you how I used to do?

2041
01:42:05,600 --> 01:42:09,720
Speaker 1: You know what you don't know? Now?

2042
01:42:09,840 --> 01:42:14,280
Speaker 4: You know you're gonna miss mallow And no you' stressing

2043
01:42:14,439 --> 01:42:17,600
Speaker 4: bottle dug one thing because I was true when I

2044
01:42:17,840 --> 01:42:19,639
Speaker 4: gave you mill.

2045
01:42:23,520 --> 01:42:31,040
Speaker 1: I don't know another love line. Well, you're gonna miss me?

2046
01:42:32,320 --> 01:42:37,479
Speaker 1: What sell the way doing different song? We did not

2047
01:42:37,640 --> 01:42:40,760
Speaker 1: eating you didn't eat word.

2048
01:42:43,240 --> 01:42:51,799
Speaker 4: I guess it clearly now because you are gone playing

2049
01:42:51,920 --> 01:42:54,080
Speaker 4: around with the raggedy helpers.

2050
01:42:54,800 --> 01:43:07,840
Speaker 1: Yeah period, Yeah, listen, this is your finally up in

2051
01:43:08,080 --> 01:43:19,320
Speaker 1: my eyes. Woo that ship hoppy. We don't need no practice.

2052
01:43:21,479 --> 01:43:25,000
Speaker 1: Come on, y'all, y'all know this all. I don't want

2053
01:43:25,040 --> 01:43:25,560
Speaker 1: to be with you.

2054
01:43:26,479 --> 01:43:27,800
Speaker 2: Hey ho.

2055
01:43:29,439 --> 01:43:38,679
Speaker 1: Ho ho ho Come.

2056
01:43:44,080 --> 01:43:48,080
Speaker 7: You already, come on, come on, yeah, take the bar.

2057
01:43:48,320 --> 01:43:52,040
Speaker 1: No chemistry was crazy from the get go. Neither one

2058
01:43:52,160 --> 01:43:57,080
Speaker 1: of us knew I we didn't build nothing up and

2059
01:43:57,200 --> 01:44:02,360
Speaker 1: not because can. I'm like, please take some time. People

2060
01:44:02,439 --> 01:44:06,080
Speaker 1: swollen off, hastive face said, we can't see that now

2061
01:44:06,400 --> 01:44:09,519
Speaker 1: times the bottle. They ain't see that we did that. Yes,

2062
01:44:09,800 --> 01:44:12,840
Speaker 1: it's so true that, yes we go through that. Yeah

2063
01:44:13,040 --> 01:44:13,560
Speaker 1: we got it.

2064
01:44:13,720 --> 01:44:17,320
Speaker 7: Shall ye let me we've been too song to line

2065
01:44:17,600 --> 01:44:22,840
Speaker 7: and be out your baby and not be waiting nothing

2066
01:44:22,880 --> 01:44:23,960
Speaker 7: until you get home.

2067
01:44:24,479 --> 01:44:29,360
Speaker 5: I can't sleep without your baby, and anybody who.

2068
01:44:29,360 --> 01:44:32,840
Speaker 7: Ever loves you know just want to feel too hard

2069
01:44:32,960 --> 01:44:35,160
Speaker 7: to fake it, nothing can replace it.

2070
01:44:35,479 --> 01:44:39,080
Speaker 1: And caught already Yo, if you just can't be without you,

2071
01:44:41,760 --> 01:44:42,080
Speaker 1: come on.

2072
01:44:42,600 --> 01:44:44,920
Speaker 4: I got a question for you to see how already

2073
01:44:45,160 --> 01:44:45,879
Speaker 4: none he answer?

2074
01:44:46,840 --> 01:44:49,400
Speaker 1: Still, I want to ask you what the line? No

2075
01:44:49,960 --> 01:44:53,280
Speaker 1: make me cry, No, do something behind my back end

2076
01:44:53,320 --> 01:45:00,840
Speaker 1: and try to run up. Baby, My up is only

2077
01:45:01,080 --> 01:45:06,280
Speaker 1: of love. I've been faithful. I'm a real and with

2078
01:45:06,520 --> 01:45:11,040
Speaker 1: less you are waste of the deal to and I

2079
01:45:11,160 --> 01:45:15,439
Speaker 1: can't be with that. You be round and I'll be

2080
01:45:15,560 --> 01:45:19,559
Speaker 1: waiting up until you get home. Hit me with nothing,

2081
01:45:20,600 --> 01:45:24,120
Speaker 1: and anybody who's every love you know just want to

2082
01:45:24,240 --> 01:45:26,200
Speaker 1: feel too hard to take it.

2083
01:45:26,720 --> 01:45:27,840
Speaker 7: Nothing can replace it.

2084
01:45:28,360 --> 01:45:32,519
Speaker 1: God, you are oh on my feet to be May

2085
01:45:35,200 --> 01:45:40,160
Speaker 1: see this is real talk. I'm always said no matter

2086
01:45:40,360 --> 01:45:44,519
Speaker 1: what good to bad of a rod day every day,

2087
01:45:48,280 --> 01:45:51,200
Speaker 1: no love. And I don't believe it's say for you

2088
01:45:51,800 --> 01:45:57,840
Speaker 1: know you gotta hard deep dad, you know. And it's

2089
01:45:57,920 --> 01:46:02,360
Speaker 1: a rule me seeing you put your hands.

2090
01:46:02,040 --> 01:46:08,759
Speaker 4: On laden fellas, le say, let thee put your hands

2091
01:46:08,840 --> 01:46:10,400
Speaker 4: of hands of fellows.

2092
01:46:10,520 --> 01:46:13,639
Speaker 1: Letty, No, he's not your love amount his eyes.

2093
01:46:13,960 --> 01:46:14,360
Speaker 2: It's ten.

2094
01:46:14,800 --> 01:46:19,280
Speaker 1: Me been too shot for too long, yo, I'm being

2095
01:46:19,320 --> 01:46:22,320
Speaker 1: to hit that. No, I'm care for all. Be waiting up,

2096
01:46:22,960 --> 01:46:28,760
Speaker 1: get home. I was like, oh wait, we'll pull you home.

2097
01:46:30,240 --> 01:46:33,080
Speaker 1: Too hard to fake it, nothing can replace it.

2098
01:46:33,560 --> 01:46:39,200
Speaker 7: Caught already you. If you say't be with your baby, hi,

2099
01:47:02,640 --> 01:47:03,519
Speaker 7: that'd be my mama.

2100
01:47:03,880 --> 01:47:09,920
Speaker 1: My mama looking at her mouth, she'd be like, hey, hey,

2101
01:47:11,880 --> 01:47:15,800
Speaker 1: come give it this motherfucker remote. God damn it. Shout

2102
01:47:15,840 --> 01:47:19,479
Speaker 1: out to Drasey in the motherfucking building like a baby's rigs.

2103
01:47:19,600 --> 01:47:22,400
Speaker 1: I told you we ate, but I take the better song.