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Speaker 1: Wake that ass up in the morning.

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Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club Morning, everybody is DJ Envy just hilarious,

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Speaker 2: Charlamagne the God. We are the Breakfast Club law la

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Speaker 2: Rosa feeling and for Jess And we got a special

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Speaker 2: guest in the building, Capitol p horsh Is Williams.

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Speaker 1: Welcome.

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Speaker 3: What's good.

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Speaker 1: How are you feeling?

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Speaker 3: I'm feeling good. I was just saying, come in here

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Speaker 3: this time of the morning, this is it, this is

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Speaker 3: nine ten, this is good.

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Speaker 1: You can do that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, when I was guest hosting with y'all. Yeah, but

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Speaker 3: I love.

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Speaker 1: You, I love you like your sister.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I love me a good Lauren Lauren.

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Speaker 4: Yes, Lauren's are special people.

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Speaker 3: They really are. I was just saying this morning, how

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Speaker 3: many I have? My assister is Lauren? Lauren? We have

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Speaker 3: another stylus Lauren. It's just Lauren's everywhere.

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Speaker 5: Lauren's everywhere.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Rich Honey giving Rich back on Housewives.

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Speaker 5: Yes, who would have.

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Speaker 3: Thought three years away from the show and now I'm back.

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Speaker 3: It's really exciting to be honest with you. You know,

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Speaker 3: like each season when it comes, you never know what

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Speaker 3: to expect. Like, am I excited? I mean it's like,

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Speaker 3: you know, it feels like a job. But being away

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Speaker 3: three years and coming back is really good for me

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Speaker 3: because I get to see everybody who I had not

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Speaker 3: seen on the show. You know, the fans are back,

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Speaker 3: Housewife fans are back, and I don't know, it's just

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Speaker 3: a big turn of events, you know, Like when I

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Speaker 3: first decided to come back to the show, I was

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Speaker 3: like happily married, Like, oh, I'm about to really show

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Speaker 3: out storyline, gonna be extra popping Valentine's photo and was

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Speaker 3: downhill from okay, you're gobout to have a documented Instagram post,

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Speaker 3: But yeah, it was. It was. It was like that.

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Speaker 3: But as life is, you know, turn of events, it's

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Speaker 3: not always perfect. And so by the time we started filming,

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Speaker 3: that's when the real storyline started.

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Speaker 6: Souse. You get a lot of money for you. It's

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Speaker 6: not like you need to be.

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Speaker 3: God has you know what it's God has really been

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Speaker 3: good to me. Three years away.

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Speaker 1: From God really good.

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Speaker 3: Okay, inspired off, but no, you know, I have a

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Speaker 3: certain relationship with my fans. I've been doing a show

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Speaker 3: for ten years and they're really not fans. I call

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Speaker 3: them supporters because they've been with me through everything a divorce,

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Speaker 3: giving birth to polar on TV like ups and downs

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Speaker 3: of life, and so, you know, I really felt like

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Speaker 3: at the time, it was gonna be great to share

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Speaker 3: my life, my happily married life. You know. But I

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Speaker 3: one thing about me and my fans do respect, I'm transparent.

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Speaker 3: So even though it didn't turn out the story that

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Speaker 3: I wanted to share, I still was open with what

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Speaker 3: I had.

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Speaker 7: I would saying before you walked in and your team

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Speaker 7: wanted me to tell you to don't forget your coat,

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Speaker 7: pull it down.

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Speaker 4: It shifts up.

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Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, but before you walked in, I was saying

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Speaker 7: that I've never met you before, but from Instagram to

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Speaker 7: the show, you just seem like my homegirl, Like I

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Speaker 7: want to drink with you, I want to party with you.

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Speaker 7: I know so much about you because you are very transparent.

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Speaker 7: I remember when you did The Family, The Family.

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Speaker 3: Serious Family.

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Speaker 7: It was kind of similar where you were so excited

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Speaker 7: to show things and then it just went left and out.

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Speaker 4: We're here with the marriage stuff.

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Speaker 3: I tend to put different mixes in the suit. Maybe

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Speaker 3: I can't cook because why would I have put my

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Speaker 3: fiance and my baby daddy on the same show. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: but it makes for great TV. I mean, even the

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Speaker 3: time I had away from TV my system, I will

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Speaker 3: always say, damn, we wish it was cameras here, you

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Speaker 3: know what I mean, Because it's just some people are

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Speaker 3: person to use my life as a testimony. So even

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Speaker 3: though it's difficult for people to show their lives and

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Speaker 3: talk about it, I get healing from it, you know,

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Speaker 3: from meeting people to say I can relate to that,

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Speaker 3: or I made some crazy mistakes in love too, or

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Speaker 3: I believe the Negro one time too, like girl. That

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Speaker 3: all helps you process things.

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Speaker 5: Let's let's I want to know, let's start with the divorce.

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Speaker 2: Rightmatically, people people assumed it was infidelity. But you know,

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Speaker 2: in the first episode you talk about you would go

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Speaker 2: to the airport and you would always get pulled to

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Speaker 2: this and you got to the point he was like,

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Speaker 2: why the hell do we keep getting pulled to the.

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Speaker 3: Side, right right, right side. No, No, it doesn't benefit

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Speaker 3: me at all for him to be locked up mentally

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Speaker 3: and financially, it doesn't benefit me. You know, just because

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Speaker 3: you're going through a divorce doesn't mean you hate someone.

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Speaker 3: I hate actions, I hate lies, I hate a lot

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Speaker 3: of characteristics. But I love the person, you know, and

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Speaker 3: I would never wish harm on anybody. And at the

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Speaker 3: way out of it. I'm sure he'll be fine, you know.

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Speaker 3: And I pray for him his family, and I hope

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Speaker 3: they all figure it out.

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Speaker 1: But did you call it? But I called him? Got you?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: They do. They get around you that whole reural tight,

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Speaker 3: that whole real real tight. But that's also me. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I love love, and when I meet someone I'm a cancer.

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Speaker 3: And when I meet someone who reciprocates that, nothing else

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Speaker 3: really matters. It's how you make me feel. I'm very intentional.

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Speaker 3: So if your intentions to towards me feel authentic and

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Speaker 3: it feels real, I'm gonna trust that. And that's just

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Speaker 3: how I live my life experience.

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Speaker 1: I do want to say, it'll Portia.

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Speaker 6: You are beautiful, mean, so I can see why a

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Speaker 6: man would want to be in this country illegally to

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Speaker 1: So do you feel like do you feel like it's

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Speaker 3: I think it's the country's fault. I think he's having

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Speaker 3: a whole issue that started before I was even born

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Speaker 3: that unfortunately, it's just come to the ship then hit

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Speaker 3: the fan. It just is what it is.

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Speaker 4: So where is it at right now?

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Speaker 7: Because last the last reports were like he's detained, the

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Speaker 7: citizenship was denied, Like, so where is he physically, and

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Speaker 7: like what is like what's happening right now?

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Speaker 3: So I only know as much as you guys know

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Speaker 3: and as much as what's online. As far as I know,

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Speaker 3: they've been posting that he's still being detained. So in Georgia,

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Speaker 3: I'm not sure. I haven't looked into it that much.

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Speaker 3: I just know I'm trying to finish my divorce and

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Speaker 3: I can't do with that if I don't have a

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Speaker 3: person to divorce.

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Speaker 5: Really we need to to be in court.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, you know, he wanted to have our last

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Speaker 3: court day, which was just a couple of weeks a

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Speaker 3: week ago. He asked for it to be in person.

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Speaker 3: I didn't want it to be in person because I

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Speaker 3: knew this whole thing, you know, when I got enlightened

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Speaker 3: peculiar situation with the United States of America, and so

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Speaker 3: it wasn't gonna benefit me or him for it to

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Speaker 3: be in person. We had already done a year's worth

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Speaker 3: of the divorce over zoom, so why in person? Why

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Speaker 3: are you fighting for that?

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Speaker 4: But showed up looking just like that too.

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Speaker 3: You know you got to get in that last look.

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Speaker 1: Divorce.

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Speaker 5: Now you also fouled that he didn't want you to

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Speaker 5: record in the house.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, so I did. It was your house, yes,

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Speaker 3: our house. So I mean, I know He's explained it

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Speaker 3: a thousand different ways online. He has documented our entire

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Speaker 3: divorce on The Simon Show online and then I have

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Speaker 3: the housewives, I suppose. But yeah, there is paperwork in

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Speaker 3: place that would make it a marital property fifty to

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Speaker 3: fifty split. Outside of that being enforced, it is a

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Speaker 3: pre marital property or whatever. But you know, I am

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Speaker 3: on the other side of this, Like we've been divorcing now,

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Speaker 3: through this process for a whole year, and you know,

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Speaker 3: I've emotionally it's caught up with what I had to do.

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Speaker 3: So like, emotionally, I feel like I'm ready to be

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Speaker 3: But you know, here comes a reality show. So here's

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Speaker 3: the part of my life where it gets interesting. I'm

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Speaker 3: done with the divorce, but I had to deal with

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Speaker 3: it all the darkness on camera.

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Speaker 5: It comes right back.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and so now it has to come back. So

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Speaker 3: now I have to be super preyed up. I have

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Speaker 3: to be super vigilant of who's around me, of energies.

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Speaker 3: I have to be very protective of my piece at

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Speaker 3: this point because I know what I'm getting into more

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Speaker 7: And girl, this is your season, Like I mean, you've

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Speaker 7: always been like you, Kenya, Niini, Candy, y'all are the

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Speaker 7: know that Kenya eventually exits, Ninni's not there, Candy's not there,

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Speaker 7: So it's like we are looking for you to bring

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Speaker 7: what's the daily mantra with filming? Because these girls are

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Speaker 7: not They're not was gonna give you that protected piece

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Speaker 7: that you're talking about? Well no, because I just met

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Speaker 7: a couple of them, So I was like, what so

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Speaker 7: you know, for me, I came back into this kind

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Speaker 7: of feeling brand new, not gonna lie, like three years

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Speaker 7: is a really long time from having cameras in your

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Speaker 7: life on a daily basis. I was looking into the

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Speaker 3: I was getting stumbling over words. It was like brand

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Speaker 3: new Porsche all over again. And then I just said,

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Speaker 3: you know what, I talked to the producer. So this

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Speaker 3: was collaborative me coming back. A big part of me

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Speaker 3: coming back was collaborative. We had conversations my husband or

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Speaker 3: be and how I asked them to be was completely honest.

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Speaker 3: I asked them, can I break the fourth wall? Fourth

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Speaker 3: wall on reality TV is saying I'm late because I

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Speaker 3: had to feel my momm in house because it's to

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Speaker 3: see some desists on my crib. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: So I told them, I said, listen, the only way

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Speaker 3: I can do this is to just speak my truth

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Speaker 3: and be one hundred percent honest. You can edit what

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Speaker 3: you gotta do later. But for me to get through

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Speaker 3: this at this dark time and losing like my person,

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Speaker 3: I have to be as honest as I possibly can,

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Speaker 3: and they agree to that, and I feel like they

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Speaker 3: stuck with that. You know, I gotta see the show,

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Speaker 3: but I feel like they stuck to letting me just

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Speaker 3: live authentically.

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Speaker 1: You see the first episode.

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Speaker 3: I did see the first episode.

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Speaker 5: I did, what did you think?

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Speaker 2: Because I feel like they got you walking into BSh

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Speaker 2: Like they showed this whole grand thing and you're working

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Speaker 4: Yeah girls, Yeah, It's like, why does she say that?

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Speaker 3: So she I mean, listen her. Real Housewives of Atlanta

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Speaker 3: with that enough to say who stole? Who stole what?

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Speaker 3: No, that's what I'm trying to tell you. So this season,

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Speaker 5: And that's the end from the start.

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Speaker 3: No, no, it really, it really wasn't like she felt

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Speaker 3: She come in and thinking I ain't gonna make it

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Speaker 2: So y'all make up because you because during that little party,

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Speaker 5: But during that party, I think she.

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Speaker 3: And I argue a lot. But I don't know if

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Speaker 3: when when why can want to cuss so much? This morning?

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Speaker 4: Isn't this outbit? I feel like.

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Speaker 3: Not when people with people. When women used to come

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Speaker 3: about each other week Kei key, and yes we argue,

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Speaker 3: but it's not enough to break sisterhoods.

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Speaker 1: Gotcha?

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Speaker 6: I saw a doctor Simone would more call you a

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Speaker 5: Capital pe know, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I couldn't really understand what she was saying. I think

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Speaker 3: I think Simon is full of it, just like that

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Speaker 3: you're on reality TV, right, she's an obgy n She

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Speaker 3: individually you start it's reaching and coming at bitches who

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Speaker 3: they try to deflect and come to you. I never

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Speaker 5: I've never even met her.

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Speaker 3: But I have never met her.

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Speaker 7: I will say I think a lot even if you've

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Speaker 7: of seasons of her houses of Atlanta, and we all

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Speaker 4: I don't think you give me you mean girl.

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Speaker 3: I think me.

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Speaker 4: I definitely get with a bit like you can you can.

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Speaker 3: You hold your own if you knuck them my buck?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you definitely do.

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Speaker 3: But that's the old porch. I take that back. I

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Speaker 3: don't do that no more, right, La, We're not going

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Speaker 3: to see that.

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Speaker 4: I've been looking forward to somebody.

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Speaker 1: That's actually, of God, it's exactly yourself.

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Speaker 3: You have to defend yourself that that was a guy.

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Speaker 6: Now.

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Speaker 3: I think mean girl is when you have a cast

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Speaker 3: member who had a deaf in their family and you

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Speaker 3: are still hard on them. Sometimes you gotta know when

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Speaker 3: Simon does not have that sense at all. I just

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I didn't get Me and Girl from the first episod.

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Speaker 1: I got late.

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Speaker 5: He was late, I was late.

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Speaker 3: I was late. Try not to be late. But again, logistics,

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Speaker 3: behind the scenes, things that you will see and things

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Speaker 3: you don't know. I had to film at my mom's

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Speaker 3: And that was on a Friday in the rain.

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Speaker 4: So wait, before we go to your question.

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Speaker 7: You're talking about filming at your mom's house in the house,

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Speaker 7: because I saw online that you So you weren't awarded

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Speaker 7: so possession of the house, so I was, But you

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Speaker 7: still can't film there.

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Speaker 3: So I was, so no, here's the thing I could film.

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Speaker 3: I could do what I want in my house. I

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Speaker 3: can film like a whole porn on my house. I

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Speaker 3: can do what I want, right, I know, I ain't

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Speaker 3: had nothing in a while, so I just have to

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Speaker 3: think about it. But Okay, so I could do what

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Speaker 3: I want in my house. However, he sent the cease

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Speaker 3: they don't want to play with that. So I needed

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Speaker 3: have to worry about him harassing them with legal things.

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Speaker 6: Right, but can he send anything legally being that he's

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Speaker 6: here illegally.

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Speaker 3: I'm not an immigration attorney, but if he has.

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Speaker 5: An attorney, he can send with it.

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Speaker 1: I would think everything he sends his snlling void.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but bro, I'm sure don't want to fight that

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Speaker 5: less help South.

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Speaker 6: I want to ask you about this some old thing

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Speaker 6: because she said I think she was if I'm not mistaken,

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Speaker 1: She was saying that Phaedri left her show to come

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Speaker 7: Yeah, because they freaking back, so it's like now the

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Speaker 7: reunion of them as a friend. She was basically saying,

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Speaker 7: freaking Frank and over there to check was whack. Like, Okay,

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Speaker 7: that happened everyone, because I was going to ask you

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Speaker 7: that because Faeder comes in later in the season, I'm like,

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Speaker 7: was that switch?

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Speaker 4: Because what did you need the friend or like, did

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Speaker 4: this the money?

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Speaker 3: We always need fed I don't give it. Damn we

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Speaker 3: always need the legends of Real Housewives of Atlanta. There's

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Speaker 3: just certain situations as to where we can't have some

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Speaker 3: of them back. But if there was, where there's a will,

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Speaker 3: there's a way. I wanted to have Fader back. The

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Speaker 3: cast wanted Faeder back, and Bravo wanted her back in

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Speaker 3: her home on Housewives.

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Speaker 7: So what's Faedria's Bravo, just check over your own Housewives

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Speaker 7: looking like because she left.

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Speaker 4: The whole other show was.

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Speaker 3: She'd have made that check? You cash it already? You

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Speaker 3: worry about to check? You than I already?

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Speaker 4: Cast?

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Speaker 3: She like cash that check? She coming to get this check?

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Speaker 1: Heard you?

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Speaker 7: That answered your question? Checks everywhere? You said the checks everywhere?

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, everywhell Now.

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Speaker 1: How tight are you?

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Speaker 5: And Drew Drew?

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Speaker 3: You know what Drew is? Some people you just realize, Okay,

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Speaker 3: you're just a little Is she still an ambassador of

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Speaker 3: go naked hair? Absolutely? Lenan okay hair now hair and

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Speaker 3: put my hair on people's head and then they think

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Speaker 3: they're me, Like that's what I can't do, Like that's

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Speaker 3: what we not gonna do. You don't become Porschit by

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Speaker 3: wearing Porsio's hair. You need to just enjoy my hair,

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Speaker 3: take it out when it's dirty, and put it in

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Speaker 3: back in when it's clean. You know, like you can't

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Speaker 3: just like all that she is. She's the okay person.

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Speaker 3: I think for a lot of her friends, I think

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Speaker 3: they love her. I think they trust her. I think

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Speaker 3: if you're not her friend, you shouldn't trust her and

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Speaker 3: you shouldn't be around her.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 7: So with you saying you shouldn't trust her, you shouldn't

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Speaker 7: be around her, and she is not wearing goneked hair anymore.

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Speaker 7: You were not at all, And I saw it kind

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Speaker 7: of in the first episode. You're not happy about the

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Speaker 7: allegations that she might be uh in a relationship or

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Speaker 7: whatever with Dennist.

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Speaker 3: Your ex see is why I like Breakfast Club. You

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Speaker 3: ask the question that need to be answered. Okay. So

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Speaker 3: here's the thing on the show. I don't know how

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Speaker 3: it's gonna come off again, because it's just the show

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Speaker 3: has to sensationalize things, right, So how good is it

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Speaker 3: for me to be going through a divorce and I'm

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Speaker 3: still jealous about my baby daddy? That's bs right, So

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Speaker 3: in real life, she actually was trying to film with

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Speaker 3: him behind my back, and when he's a.

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Speaker 5: Music producer, right, That's what I said on the shows, that.

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Speaker 3: She's whatever he says he is, Yes, he is, he

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Speaker 3: my back and that's just not cool. Come on with

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Speaker 3: him on Housewive. So it's just not cool, right. It

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Speaker 3: then also there was a go naked photoshoot she was

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Speaker 3: have to prove everything. Some of them fits, it's not

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Speaker 3: not be given the look. So I would like to

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Speaker 3: ask the owner of the company be a part of

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Speaker 3: any of that. So when those two things were happening

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Speaker 3: behind my back on My business, with my business on

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Speaker 3: my show, Yeah, I have a problem with you.

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Speaker 2: So you didn't know Drew was recording with you with Dennis.

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Speaker 2: You didn't know anything. You didn't know that they were speaking.

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Speaker 2: You didn't know that they were That's what they.

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Speaker 4: Said on the episode.

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Speaker 3: I didn't know any of that.

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Speaker 5: So in that episode, what's so funny?

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Speaker 3: I saw the episode and she was like, she asked him,

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Speaker 3: and I said yes, and she talked to me and

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Speaker 3: I say yes, and I'm like, that's just not true.

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Speaker 3: Like I genuinely didn't know. Look at the end of

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Speaker 3: the day, like I told Shemiya, if Drew and Dennis

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Speaker 3: baby hare for like, I'm happy with you. I think

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00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:04,760
Speaker 3: she's a great parent. I think if him and her

443
00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:07,119
Speaker 3: were to get together and you know, they could have

444
00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:10,600
Speaker 3: a solid relationship, that's good too. Just don't screw me

445
00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:12,639
Speaker 3: where you asked me to come back to be She

446
00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:15,280
Speaker 3: had been asking me to come back the Housewives, and

447
00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:17,600
Speaker 3: when I came back, this is what you had way

448
00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:20,399
Speaker 3: on me, this wack storyline that y'all came up with.

449
00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:23,520
Speaker 6: Oh you're saying, if it was real, you wouldn't have

450
00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:24,760
Speaker 6: a problem with of course not.

451
00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:28,280
Speaker 3: I've never got Listen, everybody knows Dennis and I have

452
00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:31,920
Speaker 3: a great coparent relationship and it is strictly because his

453
00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:34,560
Speaker 3: personal life is his personal life and mine is mine.

454
00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:36,040
Speaker 2: So he didn't say nothing to you at all either.

455
00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:37,359
Speaker 2: You found out on the show, So y'all didn't have

456
00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:37,880
Speaker 2: no conversation.

457
00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:39,720
Speaker 3: No, he ain't gonna tell me because he could benefit

458
00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:41,520
Speaker 3: off me finding out on the show.

459
00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:47,560
Speaker 7: That one he went on, I thought you and Dennis

460
00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:49,160
Speaker 7: was homies though to the point where like he would

461
00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:50,680
Speaker 7: have called you, like, yo, p this is what's happened,

462
00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:53,240
Speaker 7: Like y'all seem like y'all have that really like a friendship.

463
00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:54,840
Speaker 4: Still No, not about.

464
00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:57,320
Speaker 3: His personal life. Oh wow, yeah, not about his personal life.

465
00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:59,840
Speaker 3: Now I found he is the one who called it

466
00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,359
Speaker 3: invited me to her birthday party. That's when I was like,

467
00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:04,919
Speaker 3: that's a little pig care onlier. I like, why are

468
00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:06,720
Speaker 3: you inviting me to her birthday party? You know? I

469
00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:08,359
Speaker 3: called her and I was like, oh I can't come,

470
00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:10,760
Speaker 3: you know. I was like, but Dennis inviting? Oh yeah,

471
00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:14,160
Speaker 3: I forgot to tell you about Dennis. Yeah, we're working together.

472
00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:17,400
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, like you still love Dennis? Cool?

473
00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:21,240
Speaker 3: Yes? Yeah, not like you know, please don't take that

474
00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:23,439
Speaker 3: SoundBite like that. I mean yes, And then that's my

475
00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:27,000
Speaker 3: daughter's father and I want the absolute best for him.

476
00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:28,800
Speaker 1: But do you love him like still let him sweat

477
00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:29,440
Speaker 1: on you type?

478
00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:31,960
Speaker 5: She just said, sling hot dogs on me.

479
00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:40,280
Speaker 3: No, now I can't even I and you know, this

480
00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:42,440
Speaker 3: has been a period of time. I've been divorcing a year,

481
00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:45,080
Speaker 3: you know, and a lot of people move fast even

482
00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:47,800
Speaker 3: in their divorce time. I just don't see him in

483
00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:51,160
Speaker 3: that way. I just don't. And I think because it's

484
00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:53,879
Speaker 3: because of polar You don't play with that.

485
00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:54,840
Speaker 1: You know.

486
00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:58,399
Speaker 3: I'm already going through a divorce and she's already you know,

487
00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:01,800
Speaker 3: losing someone who she called the stepdad, pop Pye, etc.

488
00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:04,000
Speaker 3: I don't want to play with her seeing me and

489
00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:06,520
Speaker 3: her father be in a relationship and then break up.

490
00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:10,080
Speaker 3: That's not responsible for me. So the love I have

491
00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:13,600
Speaker 3: for her just causes me not even to be attracted

492
00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:16,240
Speaker 3: to him in that way at all, because I just don't.

493
00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:19,000
Speaker 3: We have so many ups and downs, our relationship can

494
00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:21,200
Speaker 3: be toxic at times, and I just don't want to

495
00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:22,399
Speaker 3: enter into that space for him.

496
00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:24,280
Speaker 5: You have a great relationship parents and cole parents, and.

497
00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:26,000
Speaker 3: We have a good co parents. From what I am

498
00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:28,600
Speaker 3: single right now, So we go see how it works

499
00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 3: out when I get somebody.

500
00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:31,920
Speaker 6: Is that hard to find somebody? Little porst you because

501
00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:33,040
Speaker 6: you are so high profile?

502
00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:35,560
Speaker 1: Yeah? For you? Because your high profile you on.

503
00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:37,520
Speaker 6: TV, people may not want to be, they may not

504
00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 6: want their life involved in that.

505
00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:44,119
Speaker 3: True, So certain caliber of people do I do tend

506
00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:47,879
Speaker 3: to attract a lot of opportunists. So yes, the people

507
00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:50,280
Speaker 3: who probably aren't opportunists, who are in their own lane,

508
00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:52,679
Speaker 3: doing their own thing and don't want to party anything

509
00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:55,560
Speaker 3: I have going on, probably tend to skew away from

510
00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:59,480
Speaker 3: trying to date me, which is the downside of being

511
00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:03,720
Speaker 3: a real reality star. But I just feel like at

512
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 3: the end of the day, right now, I can't even

513
00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,480
Speaker 3: think about that, Like I can't even imagine me like

514
00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:11,320
Speaker 3: being with someone else right now because I still have

515
00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:15,440
Speaker 3: the energy of my husband around me. So when that's done,

516
00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:19,200
Speaker 3: I think maybe the atmosphere will be like her King

517
00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:26,280
Speaker 3: is coming. Not an African huh? I love African man.

518
00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:28,720
Speaker 4: I was gonna say, because you know, I was just

519
00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:29,960
Speaker 4: back in January.

520
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:34,679
Speaker 3: Girl, you got that girl, you know how to follow somebody?

521
00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:38,119
Speaker 7: Girl back there was a video of you and the

522
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:40,640
Speaker 7: Nigerian guy. I don't know how you say his name

523
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:45,959
Speaker 7: for rock, So that's not bab no no.

524
00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:49,360
Speaker 3: So the culture in Nigeria, you know, Nigeria is a

525
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:52,560
Speaker 3: great place. First of all, everybody should visit Nigeria. But

526
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 3: when you are from outside of Nigeria and you come

527
00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:58,879
Speaker 3: to Nigeria, it's best to have a host who is there,

528
00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:03,880
Speaker 3: who knows everywhere you need to go. Bucket cannot be saved.

529
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 3: Sometimes places in Nigeria may not be as safe sometimes

530
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:09,720
Speaker 3: for women on their own. So when I took Phedra,

531
00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 3: I had a host. He was our host. So yes,

532
00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:14,159
Speaker 3: I knew. At the end of the day, when I

533
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 3: saw on the blogs, I was like, I can't help

534
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 3: them thinking that because I am with him for breakfast,

535
00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:20,480
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be with him at dinners, We're gonna go

536
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,639
Speaker 3: to loungers, We're at all the clubs because he is

537
00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:24,640
Speaker 3: the person who is showing me around everywhere.

538
00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:26,400
Speaker 4: And it was a kiss on the cheek too.

539
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:28,439
Speaker 3: He kissed all his friends on the cheek. He had

540
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:29,840
Speaker 3: a lot of friends he was kissing on cheek.

541
00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:31,239
Speaker 4: I'm just saying that's why the people was like, oh,

542
00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 4: this is her mean.

543
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:34,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know, I'm not that young anymore. I

544
00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:36,240
Speaker 3: can't really be the type of girl that see you

545
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:38,800
Speaker 3: with other women, like once I lock on you, we're

546
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:42,360
Speaker 3: locked in. So you know, he's still young and he's

547
00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 3: still doing his thing. He's one of the big guys

548
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,080
Speaker 3: out there, but I don't share.

549
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 7: It's interesting to see that narrative because I think at

550
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:52,200
Speaker 7: one point, especially when we first met Dennis on the show,

551
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:53,800
Speaker 7: they tried to make it seem like you were just

552
00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:57,840
Speaker 7: like this, careless, like dating whoever, whenever, whatever, type of person.

553
00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:00,360
Speaker 7: And it sounds like now you as a mom and

554
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:02,199
Speaker 7: where you are now, it's like a lot more protective

555
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:03,680
Speaker 7: of your space, especially because of your kids.

556
00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 4: So I'm interested to see how that plays out on

557
00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 4: the show.

558
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 3: You know, it's unfortunate. We want women to be soft,

559
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:09,880
Speaker 3: we want women to be open to love. We want

560
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 3: women to love love and give men a chance. But

561
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 3: the women who do that we get beat on drag. Yeah,

562
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:17,159
Speaker 3: you know, everybody's upset with like a j Lo or

563
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:20,840
Speaker 3: Kim Kardashian or Elizabeth Taylor. But we want men who

564
00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 3: treat us well, with women who are gonna love us

565
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:24,880
Speaker 3: and who we believe we can love back. But why

566
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,200
Speaker 3: isn't why are we empowered to be able to walk

567
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:28,160
Speaker 3: away if it's not right?

568
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:28,480
Speaker 4: Right?

569
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:30,359
Speaker 3: So wouldn't that mean I would be dating or be

570
00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:33,760
Speaker 3: with multiple people over my life? So you know, it's

571
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:35,919
Speaker 3: it's rough as a woman out here. You just have

572
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 3: to have thick skin and trust yourself and make good decisions.

573
00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 3: If I was dating somebody and that was my guy,

574
00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 3: trust me. Everybody knows I will claim him, post him,

575
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:46,879
Speaker 3: and all of that make you sick about it.

576
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 1: Whatever relationship don't have to be public either.

577
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 3: Though it doesn't. It doesn't, but you know, I don't know.

578
00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:53,400
Speaker 3: I guess it's the cancer in me or the Nigerian

579
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,399
Speaker 3: and me like I'm loud with it, like if I

580
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 3: love you, I want everybody to know, you know. So

581
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,440
Speaker 3: I'm really gonna have talk to me therapist because I

582
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 3: think my next one should be quiet.

583
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:05,040
Speaker 6: You said something that was interesting. You said that you

584
00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 6: can't get the energy of Simon off you. What makes

585
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 6: you get the energy of a person off you? Like

586
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:14,320
Speaker 6: Lauren got said. Your sister got to say she could.

587
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 3: She could. But you know, this divorce, it's gonna take

588
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:21,200
Speaker 3: some time. It's gonna take time to the public. Our

589
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 3: relationship was so sensationalized that I don't think they saw

590
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:28,680
Speaker 3: it as a real relationship. But I genuinely did love

591
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:32,200
Speaker 3: my husband and I had all kind of plans. If

592
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 3: you have ever been married on a long term relationship,

593
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:38,800
Speaker 3: everything you do you're considering that person. They're a part

594
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 3: of it. So everything I'm still doing, I'm having to

595
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:43,920
Speaker 3: piece him out of it, you know. And I'm still

596
00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:46,119
Speaker 3: in our home. I would like to redecorate or do whatever,

597
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 3: but I gotta still wait to see what's gonna happen

598
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 3: with that. He and I stop talking about Simon. This

599
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 3: is not true. You're wrong this.

600
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 1: We don't even know what is I don't know that.

601
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 4: What is it say?

602
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 3: Can't be real.

603
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 1: They just hand me that I havennoyed.

604
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 3: Wow, okay, so Lauren, look at that.

605
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 4: What is happening?

606
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:25,120
Speaker 3: We need to you need to call. You need to call. Yeah, sorry,

607
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 3: I'm just playing.

608
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 1: I made that up.

609
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:36,640
Speaker 3: What excuse me?

610
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,639
Speaker 1: What does it say? What does it say that.

611
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 3: I was let it go?

612
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:46,639
Speaker 1: I'll let it go.

613
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:46,879
Speaker 3: There.

614
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 1: You said you.

615
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,399
Speaker 5: Let me tell you what scared?

616
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:57,120
Speaker 3: I really didn't know what to say.

617
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 2: Where Charlemagne put together? Let me tell you before the interview,

618
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:02,400
Speaker 2: he didn't.

619
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 4: Tell none of us, right, I thought it was something

620
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 4: with me.

621
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:05,639
Speaker 2: Just see him laughing at giggling, so we knew he

622
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 2: was up to something. But he even planned it because

623
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 2: he had somebody walking in the letter, says the Poorscha, Yo.

624
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:18,960
Speaker 7: Right now, it's not funny one that got him. I

625
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 7: kept it just in case because I thought he was

626
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,040
Speaker 7: gonna do something to me. I knew he was playing something.

627
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 1: What is this for?

628
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,120
Speaker 4: I was gonna throw it at him, at him way

629
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 4: too much.

630
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:30,400
Speaker 3: Man than half and throw play too much? Played, too much?

631
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:37,080
Speaker 3: You play? I want to mess up your face. This

632
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:40,680
Speaker 3: is I don't know, this is this? You know people online,

633
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 3: of course they're making Joe's like, oh you know she

634
00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:46,439
Speaker 3: called or whatever. This is like a person who I

635
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 3: have shared a life with. I don't want nothing to

636
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 3: happen to him. I don't want I didn't want him

637
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 3: to part it. Like at the end of the day,

638
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:56,879
Speaker 3: this ship scared me. Was like, mister mental health, just

639
00:27:56,880 --> 00:28:05,679
Speaker 3: threw you off. Something happened to somebody, because you look

640
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:06,879
Speaker 3: like you were about to cry.

641
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, all right.

642
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,200
Speaker 6: There was a lot of men that were happy that

643
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:14,720
Speaker 6: he that that happened to him, though there were yes,

644
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:16,720
Speaker 6: because how do you feel about you?

645
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 3: And that's the scary part about being online, like going

646
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:23,640
Speaker 3: in on a personality that people actually like. You don't

647
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:26,439
Speaker 3: know who could have done anything, you know what? You

648
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 3: just don't know. But honestly, I don't think anybody did

649
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 3: anything to him. I think that sometimes actions just kind of.

650
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 6: End up where it is, were you up said that

651
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:37,639
Speaker 6: he didn't tell you that he was facing all of this,

652
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 6: or that he'd been dealing with this for years?

653
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 3: I mean, fould for a divorce, you know. I just

654
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 3: feel like in any relationship, especially mine, I thought we

655
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 3: had the best communication, Like, I was so proud of

656
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 3: how we communicated, Like that's a part of what made

657
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 3: me trust him. I have been harmed by men in

658
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 3: my past and in many ways, and so it's hard

659
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 3: for me to trust. It's hard for me to like

660
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,840
Speaker 3: truly love, and so people will look at him and

661
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 3: look at me and be like, I don't understand the correlation.

662
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 3: It must be the money. Wow, I already had a

663
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 3: lot of the stuff that I have now.

664
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 6: Then.

665
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 3: Anyway, it was meeting someone who really saw you for you,

666
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 3: who you can talk to, who was a man of

667
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 3: their word. He always did things that I felt made

668
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 3: him trustworthy. For me, if somebody said something and they

669
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 3: do it, say it, do it, say it, do it,

670
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 3: why would I think I would have never believed any

671
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 3: of this stuff. Like I stood ten toes down to

672
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:36,600
Speaker 3: the very very end. But you know, I worked very

673
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 3: hard in my life for what I have. I worked

674
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 3: to protect my daughter's future, her financial future, her emotional future, everything,

675
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 3: and at the time I needed to do that in

676
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 3: order to protect that, not saying it couldn't have been

677
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 3: turned around if we had better communication, but at that

678
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 3: time I had to do it.

679
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:57,320
Speaker 1: If he would have told you what the situation was,

680
00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:58,640
Speaker 1: you would do I begged.

681
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 3: I begged to tell me. I literally begged that. My

682
00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 3: sister saim right here, she knows nothing could have made

683
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 3: me leave Signon. He was my person and he probably is.

684
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 3: He's just not honest enough to stand next to me. Yeah,

685
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 3: I can love him from afar.

686
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 5: So I have a conversation why why he didn't say.

687
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, if you're the type of person I mean,

688
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 3: if you if you're not telling even yourself the truth,

689
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 3: how are you gonna tell me?

690
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 4: What was the timeline? You said?

691
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 7: You begged, so, like, how many before you file for divorce?

692
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 7: How long was it that you were like trying to

693
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 7: have these conversations, trying to get out of him, trying

694
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:39,600
Speaker 7: to be like, yo, I want to know what's happening,

695
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 7: Like I want to save this, I want to figure

696
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 7: it out.

697
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 3: Well, I didn't just it was the accumulation of things.

698
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 3: It wasn't just oh I found out that you could

699
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 3: be deported, because at the end of the day, I

700
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 3: was telling my people, I could take the kids wherever

701
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:52,960
Speaker 3: he is, Like I'm a writer or die, I can

702
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 3: take them wherever you are. I love to travel anyway.

703
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 3: We love the travel. It's not necessary for him to

704
00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:00,960
Speaker 3: be here. And honestly, I thought we had enough money

705
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 3: where we could live in Dubai. We could live wherever.

706
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 3: So being important wasn't a that the deal breaker. It

707
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 3: was the other things about his past that I didn't

708
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 3: know about. It was things I was beginning to be

709
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 3: involved in that could have had me clink, Clint, you

710
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. So I just felt like this

711
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 3: is something I need to do until maybe this will

712
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 3: trigger you. Sometimes women or men will file for divorce

713
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:27,080
Speaker 3: to trigger the truth out of their spouse because for

714
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 3: whatever reason, they don't think they can tell them. But

715
00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 3: you almost want to say, well, you lose me if

716
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 3: you don't. You'll lose me if you don't tell me.

717
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 3: And in this case, it still wasn't enough. Oh.

718
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 1: So when you first initially filed, it was you just

719
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 1: wanted him to tell you the truth.

720
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 3: I just wanted the truth I wanted. I wanted to

721
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 3: know what was happening. You can figure out from my

722
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 3: first marriage, I learned that a partnership is something that

723
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 3: you can take for life. You know that with your

724
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:53,720
Speaker 3: wife and with your wife, if you have a partner

725
00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 3: standing next to you can fight and deal with anything.

726
00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 3: Forget love, just the fact that both of you guys

727
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 3: are in the midst of it together. But as soon

728
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 3: as I realized in my first marriage that I was

729
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 3: not a partner, I was underneath I was with someone

730
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:10,959
Speaker 3: who wasn't gonna be everything I needed them to be

731
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 3: as a partner or see me as a partner. I

732
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:15,080
Speaker 3: knew that in this relationship I wasn't gonna do that.

733
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 3: I would never have gotten married again if I thought

734
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 3: him and I were not best friends, side by side partners.

735
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 3: I honestly wish in a different realm I could be

736
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 3: sitting here fighting for him as I was supposed to

737
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 3: fighting him. You know, a divorce is like a death

738
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 3: in the family, and for me, who wants to experience that?

739
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 2: But now I would to go Kenny Moore, the fact

740
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 2: that she was taking off the show What are your

741
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 2: thoughts on that whole incident that happened.

742
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 3: On the whole incident that happened, I think it is

743
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 3: I think it just went too far. I feel like

744
00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 3: Kenya came back this season and she definitely well not

745
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 3: even the season, because I don't know what she was

746
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 3: doing the past three because I didn't see it. But

747
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 3: the king Ya that I saw this season was not

748
00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 3: wanting beef and drama too much. She really wasn't on

749
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 3: too much of that, Like you can even see that

750
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 3: in the first episode. She really kind of chilled with it,

751
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:09,200
Speaker 3: not her normal self, and I just felt like mixed

752
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 3: with the newbie and some things that were set that

753
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 3: were dangerous from the newbie, I felt like Kenya then

754
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:21,480
Speaker 3: decided to be even more dangerous. But I do feel

755
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:23,800
Speaker 3: like there's a space where there could be a conversation

756
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 3: with her and Bravo. I feel like there could be

757
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 3: a conversation with her and brit and hopefully they can

758
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 3: figure something out by next season.

759
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 6: What happened on when y'all shot the Upshaws because we

760
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 6: had Ninia up here, Yeah, and she said you blocked

761
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 6: her from being on the Upshaws.

762
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 3: No, she did it.

763
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 1: She did the show, you wouldn't do it with her, So.

764
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 3: No, it's not that I wouldn't do it with her.

765
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 3: So I signed on to do the Upshaws and I

766
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 3: had just filed I think could have even been a

767
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 3: week and a half prior, so you know how you

768
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 3: sign up. So mind y'all, when I filed for divorce,

769
00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:59,719
Speaker 3: I did not know I was filing for divorce. I

770
00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 3: was happily in love with my husband, like we were

771
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 3: good Valentine's Day. We had a horrible argument. Things got

772
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 3: really nasty, and I knew something was about to hit

773
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 3: the fan, but I did not know. So when it happened,

774
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 3: I had already signed up to do the show, and

775
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:18,239
Speaker 3: I really couldn't cancel at that point. So when I

776
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 3: got there, I just was sitting in the green room

777
00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 3: or the waiting area, and I just like start breaking down.

778
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:28,279
Speaker 3: Oh man, I just start breaking down. And then I

779
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:30,360
Speaker 3: started and then she was in the room next to me,

780
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:34,200
Speaker 3: and I heard just hearing her voice broke me down

781
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 3: because I just felt you and when you're going through

782
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:39,400
Speaker 3: the worce. She just felt so alone. And here I

783
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:41,719
Speaker 3: am just a foul coming out of my room. I mean,

784
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 3: I could barely put on makeup, and now here I

785
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 3: am on a set with strangers, I don't have anybody.

786
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 3: Just hearing her voice just it was just too familiar.

787
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 3: And you know, I had not talked to her. I

788
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:55,800
Speaker 3: didn't know how I could face her. I didn't know

789
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 3: how could face anybody. So it genuinely wasn't me saying no,

790
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:01,840
Speaker 3: I don't work this person or that person whomever. Because

791
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 3: I agreed to it. I just wasn't capable of doing

792
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:08,760
Speaker 3: it that day mentally and emotionally, I could not gather

793
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 3: myself at all. So when I spoke to them, they

794
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 3: were like, you know, I understand you're not gonna be

795
00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:17,360
Speaker 3: able to act as a housewife today. They ended up

796
00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:19,399
Speaker 3: letting me go home, and then they said we'll fill

797
00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 3: you in. We'll fill in your spot with Cynthia. And

798
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 3: then after that, in true Nini fashion, she just turned

799
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:30,440
Speaker 3: it into something about herself and and genuinely wasn't about her.

800
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:33,359
Speaker 3: It was about me, you know what I'm saying. Like

801
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 3: her actions of like taking Simon's side and hanging out

802
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:40,440
Speaker 3: with him with women or whatever they were doing, it

803
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 3: just really was null and void to me. I just

804
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 3: would have wanted a friends. So it you know, for

805
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 3: her to turn in and make it like I tried

806
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:50,240
Speaker 3: to block her money or whatever. Me block Nini's money,

807
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:53,360
Speaker 3: how like Nini's a star. I can't block your money,

808
00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 3: just like nobody can block mine. I don't give damn

809
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:58,320
Speaker 3: who you are, so it's to me, it's just unfortunate.

810
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:00,360
Speaker 3: I'm too grown. I'm sure y'all can see I'm a

811
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:03,360
Speaker 3: different Porstchra if I was another portion of reading her

812
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:06,319
Speaker 3: and her wig or whatever, but I don't feel that way.

813
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 3: Like I feel like we've grown people. Girl. You know

814
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 3: how it is to go through a divorce. You know

815
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 3: exactly what emotions I could have been feeling. So all

816
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:15,839
Speaker 3: the extra ness is just not needed. I only won

817
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 3: real well.

818
00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:18,719
Speaker 6: She said, she said that Porsche wasn't here for her, right,

819
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 6: Porsche wasn't there for her when she was going through

820
00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 6: what she was grieving.

821
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:25,000
Speaker 3: That's not true. I was out of town and flew

822
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 3: in for her husband's funeral. No, I'm there for my friends.

823
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 3: I was. I don't think she said that, And if

824
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 3: she said that, I think she will retract that because

825
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 3: that's just not true. I'm always there for her, maybe

826
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 3: even more than she was there for me. I didn't

827
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:38,239
Speaker 3: get a phone call from her when I got what

828
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 3: she saw on the news about my divorce. You know,

829
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 3: she was with him, which is fine because in a

830
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:46,360
Speaker 3: divorce you're gonna pick aside. You're gonna pick aside. And

831
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:48,359
Speaker 3: we had a lot of friends as a couple. I'm

832
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 3: an introvert, but as a couple, we were extroverts. We

833
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 3: were out there, we had you know, we would hang

834
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:56,839
Speaker 3: out with couples and travel with couples. But you know,

835
00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 3: and so then when it breaks up, you can't I

836
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,399
Speaker 3: can't judge if she wanted to go over there. Who knows.

837
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:04,120
Speaker 3: She may think he right and I'm wrong. It is

838
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 3: what it is.

839
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 5: How was your relationship? I know she is your best friend,

840
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:08,440
Speaker 5: but how was that dynamic?

841
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 1: Right?

842
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:10,880
Speaker 2: Because you know I've seen on the show she was

843
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:13,040
Speaker 2: like your ex or your husband, your ex husband, I

844
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:13,720
Speaker 2: should say.

845
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 5: Text her. How is it that it still stays in

846
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 5: the system. That gotta be a problem.

847
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:21,399
Speaker 3: I don't know where that text came from to her

848
00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:25,319
Speaker 3: or her calling him bro, I don't know. I don't know.

849
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:29,239
Speaker 3: But at that time of going through a divorce, how

850
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 3: don't you have the mind space to think about it

851
00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 3: like you really think I'm gonna go home and think

852
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:36,440
Speaker 3: about huh. Why was he texting her and congratulating her

853
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:40,360
Speaker 3: and she called him bro like, no, you are literally

854
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 3: just walking through life like you are getting up, going

855
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 3: through your day. And honestly, a part of the show

856
00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 3: is work, y'all, Like it's worked. So I'm clocked in.

857
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 3: I'm not sitting there, you know, thinking she's trying to

858
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 3: do anything to me, thinking anything behind any of it.

859
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:55,360
Speaker 2: I don't think she was trying to do I just

860
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 2: it just got to be a constant reminded like I'm

861
00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 2: trying to get my own space, like leave that on

862
00:37:58,719 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 2: the other side, you know.

863
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:01,799
Speaker 3: But on a show that's about my life, so I

864
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:04,320
Speaker 3: am expecting them to talk about it. I am expecting

865
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 3: them to ask me about my divorce and him and

866
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:09,400
Speaker 3: I am expecting that. So that was totally fine.

867
00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 7: Are y'all like at this point, what are are you

868
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 7: and Smia as close as we've always known y'all to be,

869
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 7: because the first episode kind of gives that, you know,

870
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,759
Speaker 7: Shemi is now coming into herself on the show, and

871
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 7: there might be a.

872
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:22,040
Speaker 4: Little bit of tension because of that. There was a

873
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:22,760
Speaker 4: moment where.

874
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:24,799
Speaker 7: She's like, Okay, like, this is my new car. Girl,

875
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:26,839
Speaker 7: get to the left. It's not about you right now. Yeah,

876
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:28,840
Speaker 7: that was a little weird. I was like, woo, I

877
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:32,240
Speaker 7: never really seen that from Shemiah, and yeah.

878
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 3: It was weird. But also, you know, it's the whole environment.

879
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:39,239
Speaker 3: I mean, in true housewife fashion, who doesn't love to

880
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 3: talk crap about the person who's late and make them

881
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,359
Speaker 3: look bad or whatever. No one knew the reason while

882
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 3: I was really late. I mean I didn't get to

883
00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:47,840
Speaker 3: tell her till we were in the closet while I

884
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:49,840
Speaker 3: was late, and at the end of the day, I

885
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:52,360
Speaker 3: did walk up while she was enjoying her car. But

886
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:54,879
Speaker 3: in my brain as my best friend, I'm like, oh,

887
00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 3: we both about to work on the car. Like, but

888
00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 3: you finally did it, like you got that Rolls Royce Like,

889
00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 3: so I thought. You know how you go to a

890
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 3: party and you're like, I don't want to miss them

891
00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 3: getting a birthday song. I don't want to miss them

892
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 3: cutting the cake.

893
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:06,440
Speaker 4: Yeah.

894
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 3: So the production was trying to tell me Portia, hold on,

895
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:11,400
Speaker 3: don't walk up to her while she's doing I said, no, no, no, no,

896
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:12,880
Speaker 3: I want to. I do want to miss her getting

897
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 3: her car. But I can see how it came off, like,

898
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:19,200
Speaker 3: of course the other girl, she's walking in her moment,

899
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 3: walking in her moment, that's my friend. Like I root

900
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:26,360
Speaker 3: for her regardless. I mean when I didn't have or

901
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:28,879
Speaker 3: when she didn't have whatever, Like I want the best

902
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:30,720
Speaker 3: for her. I'm happy for everything that she has.

903
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:33,839
Speaker 7: So so now that you so, now that you guys

904
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:36,440
Speaker 7: have gone through the season or whatever, is the relationship

905
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 7: still the same though, because it's just a very like

906
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:40,920
Speaker 7: what conversations do y'all have after a moment like that?

907
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:42,280
Speaker 4: Because I've never seen that dynamic.

908
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 3: Well, you have to understand, like I just said, I

909
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:48,440
Speaker 3: was oblivious to how the narrative was being painted.

910
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:50,680
Speaker 4: Oh so that's what conversation happening right now.

911
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 3: I knew I was late, but I knew I was

912
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,360
Speaker 3: late because I filmed in Duluth and there was a

913
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 3: camera crew with me one like I was just somewhere

914
00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 3: lilligagg and I was working, and and I knew that

915
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:02,839
Speaker 3: when I got there, I didn't want to miss her

916
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 3: big moment because I got there just in time. So

917
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:09,439
Speaker 3: I didn't understand that I now see the narrative of oh,

918
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:12,080
Speaker 3: portion being late trying to steal her moment why on

919
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:16,319
Speaker 3: earth would I bring my friend to the show or

920
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 3: encourage the show to bring her in this moment as

921
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 3: the main character and not be happy.

922
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:25,760
Speaker 4: For Yeah, that's what it's given that.

923
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 3: We're gonna see what, We're gonna see what, we're gonna

924
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 3: see what it gives.

925
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 2: But even with Kelly, that's name Kelly, Kelly in front,

926
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 2: I feel like the.

927
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 1: Punch bag.

928
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 4: But she's the She's the girl this like that.

929
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:44,680
Speaker 3: It's her season, so she and not even just on

930
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:47,640
Speaker 3: that girl or Queen of show whatever. I like those accolades,

931
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 3: but no, no, but it's like I feel like, at

932
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:58,879
Speaker 3: the end of the day, I'm a bet you're gonna

933
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:00,960
Speaker 3: have to come and come it the top dog. I mean,

934
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:02,799
Speaker 3: I'm sure they're gonna come make Kenya just like they did.

935
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 3: They're gonna come at Pedra. You gotta come at the Ogs.

936
00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 3: It is what it is. It's just the name of

937
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 3: the game. It's just I feel like in TV it's

938
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:16,239
Speaker 3: hard because you have your reality of what's happening in

939
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:19,720
Speaker 3: real time, then you film it and then you probably

940
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 3: get over it, and then you watch it again and

941
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 3: some things could be hurtful. The editing could be hurtful.

942
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:27,880
Speaker 3: Things could look dismissed. If things can look like what

943
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 3: it's not really is, so have you had.

944
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 7: To call her and do what you just did and

945
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:33,759
Speaker 7: be like yo, taking accountability. I didn't even know it

946
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:35,879
Speaker 7: could come off that way. I apologize if it did,

947
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 7: Like are y'all doing that at this point because you're

948
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:39,600
Speaker 7: watching it back. Mainly, it wasn't that big of a

949
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:42,359
Speaker 7: deal to she or I gotcha, It really wasn't. Maybe

950
00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:44,239
Speaker 7: it was by the time she got to her confessional

951
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 7: and they started asking her to probe and questions, But

952
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 7: at the time, there was no feeling, no bad vibe

953
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:52,320
Speaker 7: about me being like, this is my friend.

954
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:54,320
Speaker 3: She knows exactly where I'm filming at. You know, I

955
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:56,680
Speaker 3: can't feel with my crib. You know, she know what's

956
00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 3: being blocked over here. I'm just trying. I'm just happy

957
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 3: that they still in my ass at the end of

958
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 3: the day, because how you filming a housewife without house

959
00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 3: So I'm just thankful and grateful to Bravo and to

960
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:10,120
Speaker 3: all the other girls were stepping up. I'm glad that

961
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 3: her moment was so huge. I love that the way

962
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 3: they showed it, they really showcased her. I love that

963
00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 3: because on an ensemble cast. The worst thing is to

964
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:21,839
Speaker 3: be just the main character on your own. You want

965
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 3: everybody to hold their own weight, and I feel like

966
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:27,799
Speaker 3: she carries her own weight. Kelly does, brit does, all

967
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:29,720
Speaker 3: the girls do? So please Shine?

968
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:30,960
Speaker 1: Do you watch every episode?

969
00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 5: Do you watch the episodes or.

970
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:34,200
Speaker 3: You just someone have to? I have to, But this

971
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:36,440
Speaker 3: season I probably won't watch all of them because a

972
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 3: lot is some darker moments a little bit.

973
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:39,719
Speaker 5: You said you have to.

974
00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 3: We used to when we did blogs, right, but now

975
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:46,840
Speaker 3: unless I'm doing press and if it's if I know

976
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:49,239
Speaker 3: it's a light episode, I'll watch it. But I really

977
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:52,560
Speaker 3: don't want to see myself with the flashbacks and the

978
00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 3: tears and some of the things I've already healed from.

979
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 6: You know, you said you like seeing the ol g's

980
00:42:57,520 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 6: on the show. Would you welcome Meanie Beck?

981
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:03,080
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I would walk on her back. I mean,

982
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:06,319
Speaker 3: it ain't gonna look like I'm welcoming her back. Let

983
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 3: me get this straight. We gonna have a time in

984
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:13,120
Speaker 3: the beginning, but I'm for what's good for the show.

985
00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:17,040
Speaker 3: But I just feel like, realistically, as much as we

986
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 3: all love Nini and I mean miss Nani, realistically, you

987
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 3: just can't sue a network. You cannot say things about

988
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:29,880
Speaker 3: Andy Cohen that are that damaging and expect that bridge

989
00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:34,439
Speaker 3: to still be standing. So unfortunately, I just don't know

990
00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 3: if she can cross that and come back.

991
00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 5: I just have one question, when did Porsche's confidence change?

992
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:42,360
Speaker 5: What was that moment?

993
00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 3: Right?

994
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 2: Because when we first seen you on the show, your

995
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:46,840
Speaker 2: confidence level wasn't as high as it is now. You

996
00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:49,319
Speaker 2: weren't as comfortable as in your skin. You wasn't ready

997
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:51,359
Speaker 2: to clap back. And then there was a change where

998
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:53,440
Speaker 2: it was like porstion it and changing. It's like middle

999
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:55,360
Speaker 2: finger to everybody. Right, when did that happen?

1000
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:58,800
Speaker 3: I think that happened when I gave birth to a human,

1001
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 3: you know, and I had to be someone that she

1002
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 3: can look up to. I could not be weak. When

1003
00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 3: you become a mother, you have this natural instinct to

1004
00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:11,839
Speaker 3: be protective. Your heart is outside of your body. Most

1005
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:14,759
Speaker 3: delicate thing that could kill you is right there that

1006
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:17,200
Speaker 3: you have to protect. So if you protect your child,

1007
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 3: you now know I gotta protect me. So I'm super

1008
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 3: protective of me for polar So when I say it

1009
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:26,880
Speaker 3: comes to my mental health, like you talk about all

1010
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 3: the time, I put me first. I love my daughter.

1011
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:31,719
Speaker 3: I love my family, and when I was married, I

1012
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 3: loved my husband. But I put me first. I put

1013
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:38,920
Speaker 3: my mentality first, and I protect my piece, my energy first.

1014
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:41,360
Speaker 3: Because if I'm good and I'm making sure I have

1015
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:44,959
Speaker 3: the right synergy around me, the right atmosphere, the right

1016
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 3: people around me, then I know my daughter is gonna

1017
00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 3: be good. My whole life is for Polar. So what

1018
00:44:51,120 --> 00:44:54,080
Speaker 3: you see now is just me growing the fuck up.

1019
00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:56,839
Speaker 3: I'm forty four years old at this point, capital pee,

1020
00:44:57,080 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 3: capital p and I make my own money, and I finally,

1021
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 3: as a people person, decided to celebrate myself. Like even

1022
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:07,560
Speaker 3: in my downtimes, I still try to think about what

1023
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:10,320
Speaker 3: I have accomplished. A lot of times as a reality start,

1024
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 3: we get talked about, Oh, she just a reality starts,

1025
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:15,280
Speaker 3: shein't got a tentent, she whatever. I'm a multitude of things.

1026
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:17,280
Speaker 3: I have done a lot of things in my life

1027
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 3: to arrive where I am and have the status that

1028
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 3: I have, so I now can accept it from me.

1029
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:24,480
Speaker 3: So that's pretty much where the confidence comes from.

1030
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 7: I got one more show question because I know you

1031
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:28,239
Speaker 7: also are acting too. That lifetime situation we want to

1032
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 7: talk about. But Kenya, so I know she's not going

1033
00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 7: to finish out the season because of what happened with

1034
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 7: her and Brittany, but they were saying that she could

1035
00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:37,520
Speaker 7: come back put potentially season seventeen.

1036
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:39,960
Speaker 3: Who said that, I thought.

1037
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:43,200
Speaker 7: That she was only suspend different the rest of the scene.

1038
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:46,560
Speaker 7: I thought she was only suspended for season sixteen and

1039
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 7: could potentially come back for seventeen.

1040
00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:52,239
Speaker 3: Though I would hope that's true, I just can't see.

1041
00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:55,760
Speaker 3: I'm in one hundred percent agreement with her not being here.

1042
00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:57,719
Speaker 3: I would love for her to be at the reunion.

1043
00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:00,840
Speaker 3: I'm for what's best for the show, and I loved

1044
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:03,360
Speaker 3: where Kenya was going. She's not that happy with me

1045
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 3: right now, you know, but that's okay. I've always been

1046
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 3: that tape. I don't give damn how you feel about

1047
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:10,279
Speaker 3: me if I'm always going to speak the truth, So

1048
00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:13,440
Speaker 3: you know, I feel like at this moment, no matter what,

1049
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 3: I feel like, it would be good for Kenya to

1050
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:19,799
Speaker 3: be the reunion. And I feel like she is very articulate,

1051
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:22,319
Speaker 3: and she can speak to britt and she can speak

1052
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:24,280
Speaker 3: to the cast, and she can speak to the fans,

1053
00:46:24,719 --> 00:46:26,799
Speaker 3: and she can find her way back next season. So

1054
00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 3: I think that that could be a true statement.

1055
00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 4: She not was you right now? I thought you were

1056
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:31,360
Speaker 4: doing better this season.

1057
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:34,280
Speaker 3: She didn't like when I said that when I compared

1058
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 3: her to Britt and I said they were similar, And

1059
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 3: I said they were similar, but I meant because they're

1060
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:44,000
Speaker 3: both fabulous. They're both to me speak their mind, like

1061
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:46,920
Speaker 3: you know, she when you don't like somebody, you don't

1062
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:49,879
Speaker 3: want to be compared to them. So got you. But whatever, girl,

1063
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 3: I got hell. I got to talk about you. You a

1064
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:53,200
Speaker 3: part of the show. Don't you want to be talked

1065
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 3: about it.

1066
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 7: It's kind of crazy though I didn't even think about

1067
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:57,040
Speaker 7: the reunion, like the fact that she won't even be

1068
00:46:57,160 --> 00:46:57,600
Speaker 7: on the race.

1069
00:46:57,680 --> 00:47:01,319
Speaker 3: He said that it's possible. I'm still hopeful. I'm still

1070
00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 3: hopeful she is. She's still a big part of the show.

1071
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:07,240
Speaker 3: She's not the show. She didn't make or break the season.

1072
00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:11,000
Speaker 3: But Kenya is a person who I've been doing this

1073
00:47:11,080 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 3: with for a very long time, and for once we

1074
00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:16,840
Speaker 3: were possibly about to have a season of not being foes.

1075
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:19,799
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Fader, I have to say

1076
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:23,399
Speaker 3: when Faeder came in, she helped to elevate the show

1077
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 3: as well and keep us where we needed to be

1078
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:27,600
Speaker 3: because everybody been wanting to see her. She's been gone

1079
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:30,479
Speaker 3: the whole time Candy been gone, so you know, it's

1080
00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:31,919
Speaker 3: people wanted her back.

1081
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 7: And Candy has been really upset about how Kenya has

1082
00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:37,319
Speaker 7: been treated by the network. She's been very vocal about that.

1083
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 7: And then Fader coming back. I don't know if Candy's

1084
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 7: too excited about that as well too. But do you

1085
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:43,719
Speaker 7: feel like the network protects you guys the way that

1086
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 7: they shuld Because that's what Candy saying, is like the

1087
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 7: network didn't protect one of their stars, which is I still.

1088
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 3: Work for the network, so I don't share certain sentiments. Okay,

1089
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 3: let's be clear, all right, I'm saying that I think

1090
00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:59,839
Speaker 3: Kenya deserves an opportunity, and an opportunity can be given

1091
00:47:59,840 --> 00:48:02,080
Speaker 3: to anyone. You can always say no. She can say

1092
00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:05,280
Speaker 3: whatever she wants to say to Britt, the cast, the crew,

1093
00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 3: and whoever, and they can say no. But I believe

1094
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:10,279
Speaker 3: she deserves that opportunity. I ain't say a damn thing

1095
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:11,920
Speaker 3: about the network. Love the network.

1096
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:16,279
Speaker 6: Talk about all this money you're getting pamped by port.

1097
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,239
Speaker 1: Go Naked Hair, the Lifetime movie.

1098
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:22,480
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's Detective Ebony Williams and the upcoming Lifetime movie

1099
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 7: Single Black Female three the final Chapter.

1100
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:27,400
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, that was That was big for me. I

1101
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 3: always want to be in a Lifetime movie. I am

1102
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:34,480
Speaker 3: obsess with Lifetime and I am amongst the cast of

1103
00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:37,360
Speaker 3: great women who've been They had two other movies. This

1104
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:40,320
Speaker 3: is the third installment, the last one, and I played detective.

1105
00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 3: I look totally different in this movie. I even stopped

1106
00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:45,319
Speaker 3: doing botox for this movie. I did. I was like,

1107
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:47,000
Speaker 3: you know what, I'm not doing any boat talks. I

1108
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:48,359
Speaker 3: want my whole face to movie.

1109
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 7: I gotta look at the trailer right now. No, no,

1110
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:54,560
Speaker 7: you look good, all right, but in.

1111
00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:56,640
Speaker 3: The trailer because I know when you saw times in there,

1112
00:48:57,280 --> 00:49:01,840
Speaker 3: every freaking line speed, I got all of it. Because

1113
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:05,279
Speaker 3: the my raw is so different from who I am,

1114
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 3: Like I'm an alcoholic, I'm a bit of a stalker.

1115
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:10,200
Speaker 3: Like you know, I ain't gonna say who else what

1116
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:12,719
Speaker 3: else I've done in that movie, But I think it's

1117
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 3: gonna be a good look for me in the acting

1118
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:17,920
Speaker 3: world because it's totally different from me playing myself and

1119
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 3: a lot of other things that I've done before.

1120
00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:22,480
Speaker 1: You turned out a lot of acting roles, Yes.

1121
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:27,239
Speaker 3: I have, because I also have well what am I

1122
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:28,839
Speaker 3: My mom told me how to claim that no more.

1123
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:30,880
Speaker 3: But I'm one of those people who start something and

1124
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:32,919
Speaker 3: I don't finish it a lot of time. So I'll

1125
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:36,000
Speaker 3: like hyper focus on something and then all of a sudden,

1126
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,359
Speaker 3: I'll hyper focus on something else. So at a certain

1127
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 3: point in my life, I was really hyper focused on acting.

1128
00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:43,840
Speaker 3: I was going on stage plays with Fox, going on tour,

1129
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 3: I've done movies, I've done a lot of voiceovers. And

1130
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:49,440
Speaker 3: then I was like, oh, I just want to concentrate

1131
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 3: on don Nigga hair and panmpered. I don't want to

1132
00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:54,120
Speaker 3: do anything outside. I'm a businesswoman. And now I'm like,

1133
00:49:54,200 --> 00:49:56,400
Speaker 3: you know what, it's time to pivot and back into

1134
00:49:56,440 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 3: that because I can naturally do it. Like I'm the type.

1135
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:01,440
Speaker 3: I've a photographic memory. I can literally read the script

1136
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:05,120
Speaker 3: that night and it'll be in my mind the next day, imprinted.

1137
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 6: I got one last question, will a Nigerian man get

1138
00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:09,920
Speaker 6: another shot or do you feel like the stereotype is

1139
00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:11,080
Speaker 6: true and all of them are scammers?

1140
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 1: Now, so you've just done well.

1141
00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:15,920
Speaker 3: I am Nigerian so and I don't know what you

1142
00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:18,160
Speaker 3: mean by all of them a scammers. I mean we

1143
00:50:18,200 --> 00:50:21,760
Speaker 3: live in the United States, which is the biggest scam.

1144
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:24,920
Speaker 3: I mean, our entire government is scam and a fraud

1145
00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:27,680
Speaker 3: and taking advantage of people. So I feel like when

1146
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:30,799
Speaker 3: it comes to Nigerians, of course I would date another one,

1147
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:33,160
Speaker 3: you know, I would. I would marry another one. I

1148
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:35,160
Speaker 3: want to love and marry who is going to be

1149
00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:37,600
Speaker 3: honest and love me. I'm not ready to get married.

1150
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:40,680
Speaker 3: I'm not rushing into none of that. I mean unless

1151
00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 3: I say you say that.

1152
00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:44,440
Speaker 4: Now last see by the end of the season, being like,

1153
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:45,680
Speaker 4: oh of pusse you got a new ring.

1154
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 1: You would get married again?

1155
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:52,479
Speaker 3: I would. I would get married again. Why of course,

1156
00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 3: So just because of him, I can't get married again.

1157
00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:58,239
Speaker 3: I can't enjoy the comfort and the security of being

1158
00:50:58,320 --> 00:51:01,480
Speaker 3: I love being married, being a called somebody's wife. I

1159
00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:04,560
Speaker 3: love waking up every morning sitting at your feet, asking

1160
00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:07,080
Speaker 3: you what you need me to do? Like. I just

1161
00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:09,279
Speaker 3: love that that's in me. I'm a Southern girl, and

1162
00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:12,239
Speaker 3: I think that's probably why Nigerian men and like men

1163
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:16,200
Speaker 3: of wealth like me because I am very submissive, and

1164
00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:18,799
Speaker 3: I'm very loving, and I'm very even though I'm all that,

1165
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:22,359
Speaker 3: I am bost bitch. I can shift that a bit

1166
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:23,160
Speaker 3: for my man.

1167
00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 1: Do they have to have wealth?

1168
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:25,759
Speaker 4: You know?

1169
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 3: I was thinking about that. I was thinking about that,

1170
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:31,239
Speaker 3: and I think if I didn't have a daughter, they

1171
00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:33,719
Speaker 3: don't have to have wealth. They do have to have

1172
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 3: self So you need to be self sufficient. You need

1173
00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 3: to have your own business about yourself. And you need

1174
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:40,279
Speaker 3: to be able to come in here if I get

1175
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:42,919
Speaker 3: pregnant and provide for our child. So no, I don't

1176
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:47,400
Speaker 3: want to know completely man who's building from scratch. But no,

1177
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 3: he doesn't have to be wealthy. What is wealth? Are

1178
00:51:49,160 --> 00:51:50,880
Speaker 3: any of these men really wealthy? Is any of the

1179
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:53,920
Speaker 3: money really real? Like? We don't really know? I know

1180
00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:56,319
Speaker 3: one thing about it. I am a wealthy woman. I

1181
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:57,759
Speaker 3: am a probably a rich man.

1182
00:51:57,920 --> 00:51:59,960
Speaker 5: I'm all my shit is probably a rich man.

1183
00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:03,000
Speaker 3: I am like all my stuff is legit. You can

1184
00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:04,759
Speaker 3: check my bank accounts. It is what it is. You

1185
00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:08,040
Speaker 3: can see where it came from. A taxes not a man.

1186
00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 3: I gave bird hol On. I ain't got to look

1187
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:18,239
Speaker 3: for a rich man, a rich man, I'm what I'm

1188
00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 3: what I'm looking for. It's just in a male version,

1189
00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 3: so you know, But I do I like this new

1190
00:52:23,960 --> 00:52:30,520
Speaker 3: conversation of like Dolly Parton, oh rp to her, but

1191
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:34,279
Speaker 3: I liked her relationship. Like they were separated a lot

1192
00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:37,479
Speaker 3: of the time. It's in space physically, but they kept

1193
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:39,480
Speaker 3: their relationship strong. Like I don't feel like I have

1194
00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:40,760
Speaker 3: to live with my husband.

1195
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:42,520
Speaker 4: Shirlie Roth does that too, Yeah.

1196
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:44,760
Speaker 3: Shela Brown, and I loved when she told us that,

1197
00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:46,959
Speaker 3: I don't think it has to be traditional. I feel

1198
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 3: like my next relationship will not be traditional, be a

1199
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:51,920
Speaker 3: little bit open.

1200
00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 4: Oh you would do an open relations really.

1201
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:59,040
Speaker 7: Not with another female, so you could go and have

1202
00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:00,680
Speaker 7: another man, But he can't have another woman.

1203
00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:04,440
Speaker 3: I haven't found one who's gonna allow. If you don't want,

1204
00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 3: let me know. But no, they don't allow that. They

1205
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:08,080
Speaker 3: don't allow that. I just mean as far as like

1206
00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:10,840
Speaker 3: your tradition of him having to be in the house, gotcha.

1207
00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:12,400
Speaker 3: I honestly could be in the house with just my

1208
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:14,200
Speaker 3: baby and be good and then we come and.

1209
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:16,680
Speaker 5: Visit my house to break some time.

1210
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:17,000
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1211
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:19,360
Speaker 3: And like I always used to kind of tease with

1212
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:23,080
Speaker 3: even my husband, I'd be like, we could have separate bedrooms,

1213
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:25,960
Speaker 3: Like why not? Why not have separate just think about it,

1214
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 3: why not have separate living spaces? And then when you

1215
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 3: want to meet in the middle, you mean the middle,

1216
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:32,319
Speaker 3: and if you don't, you can comfortably go in your room,

1217
00:53:32,360 --> 00:53:37,319
Speaker 3: pass gas, sleep, you know, not watch your makeup like.

1218
00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:39,600
Speaker 7: Houses though, I mean, you have enough rooms in your

1219
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:40,920
Speaker 7: house to be able to do that.

1220
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:43,160
Speaker 4: So why y'all didn't just do it?

1221
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:45,040
Speaker 3: Because I also like to be under people.

1222
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:50,600
Speaker 4: That's also confused because I watch yo, me and my man.

1223
00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:53,720
Speaker 3: So I'm sitting here like, yol what I was talking about.

1224
00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:56,240
Speaker 3: More so when we got well, he already was old.

1225
00:53:56,920 --> 00:53:59,000
Speaker 3: I was when we got older. Y'all all ready we'll old.

1226
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:01,880
Speaker 1: But I don't know what you want.

1227
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:05,959
Speaker 3: I could be with a husband and him not living

1228
00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:08,160
Speaker 3: in my house. I think that's possible. Maybe I'm just

1229
00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:11,400
Speaker 3: talking about a businessman who travels a whole lot and

1230
00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:15,759
Speaker 3: least race. No, I'm not gonna tell him he can

1231
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:17,719
Speaker 3: have a girlfriend. But do I I mean do I

1232
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:19,279
Speaker 3: got eyes on every single thing?

1233
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 1: No, So cheating, don't get caught?

1234
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:24,200
Speaker 3: Basically what you say no, because then that's also saying

1235
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 3: it's okay to cheat. So I'm not gonna say it's

1236
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:29,319
Speaker 3: okay for anybody to cheat. I would love sexually, let

1237
00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:31,439
Speaker 3: me tell you this right now. And being a woman

1238
00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:34,239
Speaker 3: who's about to be super single after this divorce. I

1239
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:36,320
Speaker 3: am not about having sex with a lot of people,

1240
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:39,960
Speaker 3: and no one should. I am a big advocate for women.

1241
00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:42,960
Speaker 3: Pick your one person, okay, now, whether it's you have

1242
00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:46,319
Speaker 3: a relationship with him or not, situationship, whatever, Pick your

1243
00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:50,279
Speaker 3: one sexual partner. Get tested, make sure you know what

1244
00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:52,879
Speaker 3: he's doing. Make sure his health is important to him,

1245
00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:55,200
Speaker 3: not just that he going to get tests for you

1246
00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:57,040
Speaker 3: to see that he wants to make sure that his

1247
00:54:57,160 --> 00:55:00,440
Speaker 3: body is healthy, and that he also hasn't te with

1248
00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 3: who he spreads. It's penis with if you meet someone

1249
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:05,879
Speaker 3: like that, stick with them and then just date everybody else.

1250
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 7: But the issue comes in because I be there too.

1251
00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:10,000
Speaker 7: But then you stick with that on one person and

1252
00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:11,719
Speaker 7: you be trying date the other people, and then it's like, now,

1253
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:13,839
Speaker 7: in this person, you develop the feelings and you compare them.

1254
00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:16,640
Speaker 3: Y'all have to be scared together. Meet you somebody who's

1255
00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 3: scared together. I am actually scared of these streets. I

1256
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:22,440
Speaker 3: am not looking forward to being single out here and being.

1257
00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:23,760
Speaker 4: Tested in special health wise.

1258
00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:27,440
Speaker 3: Health Wise, I mean, Atlanta is number three in the

1259
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:30,680
Speaker 3: AIDS department, and who knows what other diseases is out

1260
00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:32,799
Speaker 3: there that we all you know, the people got out there,

1261
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:36,239
Speaker 3: the other people got But no, I think sexually have

1262
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:39,680
Speaker 3: one partner and get tested with that partner. That's it.

1263
00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:41,239
Speaker 6: I don't think there's anything wrong with you're saying, but

1264
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:43,000
Speaker 6: you have to tell the other people that you're dating

1265
00:55:43,239 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 6: that they not get in those fects.

1266
00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:48,520
Speaker 3: No you're not.

1267
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:51,359
Speaker 6: You think they dating y'all just because they want to date, y'all,

1268
00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:57,279
Speaker 6: Or you think y'all.

1269
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:56,680
Speaker 3: Just people do that. That's just today that people do

1270
00:55:56,920 --> 00:55:58,360
Speaker 3: take us out just to be in our presence.

1271
00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 7: People, But what know they be hating but what they

1272
00:56:06,480 --> 00:56:08,480
Speaker 7: don't what y'all men don't like to understand. And I

1273
00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:10,080
Speaker 7: think y'all get it, but y'all overlooked because you want

1274
00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:11,440
Speaker 7: to feel good about your own selves and that's your

1275
00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:14,920
Speaker 7: own thing. We do compartmentalize, y'all. Like we have people

1276
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 7: we call, hey, I just want to eat, have a

1277
00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:19,600
Speaker 7: good time. Hey, travel buddy. But you still I have

1278
00:56:19,640 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 7: friends that travel with men that don't have sex with them.

1279
00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:25,080
Speaker 7: And men.

1280
00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:27,839
Speaker 3: We did not say that the intention of sex isn't

1281
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:30,320
Speaker 3: there for him exactly, not saying that he doesn't want

1282
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:34,320
Speaker 3: thee but all men who are are in a space

1283
00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:36,600
Speaker 3: to take care of a woman and make sure she's

1284
00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:39,880
Speaker 3: good and not not require sex. And when you were

1285
00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:43,279
Speaker 3: brown share they just last. It may last for you know,

1286
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:45,640
Speaker 3: it's a good time, not a long time. So maybe

1287
00:56:45,640 --> 00:56:50,760
Speaker 3: like a little one year relationships.

1288
00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:50,719
Speaker 1: Looking for a company.

1289
00:56:54,520 --> 00:56:56,399
Speaker 3: I really want to be attracted to him, like I

1290
00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:59,080
Speaker 3: really want to be, like I want to be really

1291
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:06,920
Speaker 3: attracted to him. What I need and you want to

1292
00:57:08,040 --> 00:57:12,279
Speaker 3: I want you This morning when I was saying like

1293
00:57:12,680 --> 00:57:15,879
Speaker 3: I feel bad feeling like no from everything from your

1294
00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:17,440
Speaker 3: look to how you dress it, I want to be like,

1295
00:57:17,520 --> 00:57:20,880
Speaker 3: oh my god, about my next working you told me

1296
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:22,880
Speaker 3: to you just lay down, you just want to kiss him.

1297
00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:24,760
Speaker 3: You could just want to like I'm gonna look at your.

1298
00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:26,400
Speaker 7: Guys.

1299
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:27,919
Speaker 3: Yes, that's what we want.

1300
00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:30,880
Speaker 7: He told me you got to basically pick and choo.

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Speaker 7: So like, if you can't dress his dress him up.

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Speaker 7: And I'm like, no, that's true. Dress him up.

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Speaker 3: Behold on, don't dress them up to you marry him.

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Speaker 1: You want your wife to be like that in it, baby.

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Speaker 3: Dress him up, put a filter on him, do all

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Speaker 3: of that, and then you let him take it all.

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Speaker 2: Jesus Christ, Porsche, Ladies and gentlemen, real housewives of the

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Speaker 2: man that comes on this Sunday and peakop and we

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Speaker 2: appreciate you for stopping. Yes, Porscha Williams, it's the Breakfast

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Speaker 2: Club Good Morning, wake.

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Speaker 1: That ass up Earth in the morning at Breakfast Club

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