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Speaker 1: The Nicki Glaser Podcast. Glaser, here's Nikki. Hello, Here, I

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Speaker 1: am Sneak Glazer Podcast. Welcome to the show. We're back

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Speaker 1: in America. In the past couple of weeks, we have

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Speaker 1: been on tour Anya and I in Europe. We went

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Speaker 1: to eight cities. Let me just go through them for you. Berlin, Vienna, London, Munich, wos, Oslo, Stockholm, Amsterdam, Helsinki,

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Speaker 1: tel Aviv.

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Speaker 2: Done nine cities, layover in Istanbul.

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Speaker 3: Where's done?

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Speaker 1: Uh? Tel Aviv?

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Speaker 2: Wait?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm sure there's I'm sure there's a done somewhere

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Speaker 1: in Arizona.

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Speaker 3: In France.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 1: Well, Brian Franzi's here, he's in Los Angeles, and Noah

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Speaker 1: is in Arizona. And Anya's back in New York. I'm

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Speaker 1: in Saint Louis. I got in last night from Tel Aviv.

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Speaker 1: Left it at nine am is when our car picked

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Speaker 1: us up, and we landed at eleven pm Saint Louis time.

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Speaker 1: That was a twenty twenty one hour journey plus the

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Speaker 1: car ride to my house, So twenty one and a

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Speaker 1: half hours full full stop. Yeah, you know, but that's

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Speaker 1: like that's international travel. Baby. You just like lose a

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Speaker 1: day of your life. And then you lose like fourteen

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Speaker 1: days like recovering on schedule. But I think I'm back

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Speaker 1: you landing at night, Yes, I think I'm good. Like

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Speaker 1: I'm not even getting you landing at night. And then

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Speaker 1: I just like stayed up a little bit. I watched

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Speaker 1: a little bit of Sarah Silverman's new stand up special,

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Speaker 1: I played a little guitar, I ate a little food,

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Speaker 1: and then I just peacefully went to bed around midnight,

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Speaker 1: midnight and a half, and then woke up this morning.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be back on schedule, because what

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Speaker 1: a great excuse just sleep all day and like not

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Speaker 1: really have to do anything so I might still happen.

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Speaker 3: I feel like this happens sometimes, where the day you

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Speaker 3: get back, or the two days you get back, you

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Speaker 3: feel like I'm back on schedule, and three days later

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Speaker 3: you can't stay awake during the.

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Speaker 1: Delusional Yeah, I can see that happening, because there's no

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Speaker 1: way that my body really is adjusted. My mind might be,

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Speaker 1: or maybe my body is in my mind.

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Speaker 4: Is it?

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Speaker 1: We shall see. I just lose it during this episode.

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Speaker 1: How are you feeling, Anya?

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Speaker 2: I got sick on the flight home, but I'm feeling

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Speaker 2: much better now. I was in hell for a couple.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know how many days we've been home.

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Speaker 1: Two days.

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Speaker 2: I was like, how do I have like strepped throat

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Speaker 2: of COVID? But I'm covid neggie and I'm strappy neggy.

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Speaker 2: So I think it was just a cold and probably

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Speaker 2: just stress, like being a little run down, and I'm

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Speaker 2: feeling so much better.

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Speaker 1: So run down. We were non stop. Baby, it was

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Speaker 1: like go go go. I don't know how Chris was

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Speaker 1: another level of go go go. I he is constantly

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Speaker 1: going out. He was always sightseeing. Noah, this weekend went

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Speaker 1: to you were the Grand Canyon? Yeah? Yeah, South Rim?

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Speaker 1: How far? How far is that? It's about five hours

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Speaker 1: from where we live. Oh, that's like not too bad. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's like me driving a Kansas city. That's not that's

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Speaker 1: not so bad. And you get to see like the

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Speaker 1: biggest hole in the world. And so you went but

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Speaker 1: light mids.

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Speaker 5: Something stupid that I learned from this trip place. Yes,

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Speaker 5: so I so we went to the North Rim three

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Speaker 5: years ago, and now we went to the South Rim.

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Speaker 5: I thought the South Rim meant it's like at like

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Speaker 5: towards the bottom of the Grand Canyon.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, who would it? But it's not it's like the

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Speaker 1: other side. Oh wait, like I've met right, but you

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Speaker 1: got even.

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Speaker 3: Like the bottom of it.

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Speaker 5: Not all Like I knew we weren't going to be

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Speaker 5: all the way at the Colorado River, but I thought

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Speaker 5: it was like lower.

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Speaker 1: Than where we were before when we were at the north,

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Speaker 1: because it would be south like into the core of

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Speaker 1: the earth, as opposed to like a cross the way. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so that's the thing I wanted at the age of Okay.

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Speaker 2: That's all right, Okay, it's not safe space.

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Speaker 1: Yeah it is. Yeah, the Green Canyon is spectacular and

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Speaker 1: very people but like didn't Yeah, I've been there a

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Speaker 1: few times, I think, but it is. You went hiking

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Speaker 1: for five hours and that just listening to that sentence

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Speaker 1: felt like a hike to me. It was brutal to

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Speaker 1: hear that. And Curson the other day said she went

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Speaker 1: on a three and a half hour hike. I go,

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Speaker 1: who is hiking this long? And are you bringing food

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Speaker 1: with you and a sleeping bag? That's so long?

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Speaker 3: That's part of the joy of the hike is you

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Speaker 3: bring a little sandwich and then when you get to

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Speaker 3: a point of interest, you sit there and you eat

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Speaker 3: a nice picnic.

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Speaker 1: I love sitting and eating and talking and it does

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Speaker 1: not happen enough in my life with my boyfriend is

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Speaker 1: not like we would on you you will test to this.

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Speaker 1: We would sit down for a meal. When I travel,

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Speaker 1: all I want to do is have meals and talk

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Speaker 1: and like sit in like a square and like watch

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Speaker 1: people like people watch not active things, you know, like

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Speaker 1: watch other people be active and or that's just the

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Speaker 1: reward for like all the sight seeing that you have

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Speaker 1: to do so you can go, oh, I went to

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Speaker 1: this place, even though there's a Google image that you

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Speaker 1: could show your family and they would still think that

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Speaker 1: you went there, and it doesn't really prove anything. Like

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Speaker 1: we went to the Dead Sea for two seconds and

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Speaker 1: Annie was like, I just want to jump in to

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Speaker 1: say I've been. It's like, what is the difference between

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Speaker 1: this and not going? Nothing? There's no difference.

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Speaker 4: I mean, that's not going except one one key difference

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Speaker 4: lying a burning vagina. No one told me that your

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Speaker 4: vagina burns or can burn so much.

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Speaker 1: We got in.

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Speaker 2: First of all, we get into the Dead Sea and

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Speaker 2: Nikki immediately like slams her shin into a rock that

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Speaker 2: no one.

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Speaker 1: Tells the camera. There's a huge rock and Chris and

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Speaker 1: I both jam are like it's bloody and and it's

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Speaker 1: gonna leave. It's gonna leave a scar, you know when

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Speaker 1: you're waiting, and so matta over here. Yeah, so that's

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Speaker 1: like sharp rocks. So anyone walking in is going to

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Speaker 1: hit their kind of like shuffling ahead because you don't

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Speaker 1: really know what's the sand flash at the dead sea

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Speaker 1: also right, it's like more salt. Yet you can get

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Speaker 1: it if you get wait, it's more salt than what

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Speaker 1: water than water. It's it's more salt than water. You

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Speaker 1: have salt and it's like, yeah, no ship, okay, no,

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Speaker 1: I get what you're saying. It's more like it has

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Speaker 1: more salt in it than water in it. Yes, so

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Speaker 1: it's like what you gargle with when you have canker source.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you get it a little bit in your eye.

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Speaker 2: One guy, well, one sad older man who looked like

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Speaker 2: he had been beaten down, was walking back in and

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Speaker 2: he just looked at me and goes and be careful

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Speaker 2: of the droplets.

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Speaker 1: And I was like the droplets. He's like, yes, be

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, I'm not gonna get anat And right

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Speaker 2: at that moment, the sea like spits into my eye.

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Speaker 1: It's almost like burbling.

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Speaker 2: And a droplet went in my eye and I was like, fuck, screaming.

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Speaker 2: My vagina's on fire.

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Speaker 1: My eye is now going to fall out of my head.

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Speaker 2: And I'm just like I look like a fire and

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Speaker 2: I'm like I'm out, I'm done.

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Speaker 1: I feel anything down there. I think I'm numb. I know,

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Speaker 1: you just have a different looked into buying testosterone because

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Speaker 1: I have no sex drive.

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Speaker 3: It's just put That's why they call it the burning bush.

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Speaker 1: Do you ever have no sex drive?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on with me. I used

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Speaker 1: to be so so horny all the time, wanting sex

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Speaker 1: all the time. It's the most fun thing you can

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Speaker 1: possibly do, besides sitting in a square and eating with

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Speaker 1: your friends and talking about people passing by. And now

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Speaker 1: it is it's It's obviously feels good when I do it,

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Speaker 1: but it is not on my mind at all, And

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Speaker 1: it has nothing to do with my partner, who I

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Speaker 1: couldn't be more tried to do. What's going on? I don't.

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Speaker 1: I can't. I can't understand it, and it won't go

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Speaker 1: away or it won't come back. That's I needed to

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Speaker 1: come back. It is something that I care about a lot,

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Speaker 1: and it's like, but it's interesting because it's almost like

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Speaker 1: when I go when I say I wish I cared

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Speaker 1: about cooking, or I wish I cared about home design,

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Speaker 1: but I don't, And Chris always goes like, why do

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Speaker 1: you want something that you don't like, that you don't

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Speaker 1: care about? And that's how sex feels now, Like the

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Speaker 1: idea of wanting it feels stupid because I don't want it.

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Speaker 1: So like, I'm not why do I want this thing

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Speaker 1: that I don't want because it brings me closer with

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Speaker 1: my partner because it used to be a fun thing

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Speaker 1: don't even masturbate anymore. I don't do anything. It's it's

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Speaker 1: I don't feel I don't know what's going. It's so strange.

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Speaker 1: But I'm reading about people wanting to have sex.

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Speaker 3: I'm just like, oh God, there's no advice that can

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Speaker 3: be given either. Everything that anyone would suggest you be

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Speaker 3: it wouldn't work.

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Speaker 1: I'm looking at for supplements. It's well, I think it is.

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Speaker 1: I think I have to I need testosterone. So I

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Speaker 1: was like looking online, like testosterone for women. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I bought some stuff on Amazon today. Who knows if

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Speaker 1: it's gonna work.

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Speaker 2: Or if you tried Osha Ganda. We're gonna get a

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Speaker 2: bunch of DMS about Oshua Ganda. But I think that

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Speaker 2: that's stuff. Gosh yeah, uh overall Chris wears those I'll

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Speaker 2: be horned up again Hashwa Ganda.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I think I have some of that in

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Speaker 1: my cabinet actually, because at some point someone had suggested

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Speaker 3: But you have only one one really short fire away

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Speaker 3: to get horned up for your boyfriend, and that is

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Speaker 3: you gotta break up. Yeah, so horny for months months,

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Speaker 3: not wrong, get back together, bang it out, or get

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Speaker 3: into a really intense fight or something at the very least,

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Speaker 3: and then I don't want that.

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Speaker 1: No, but you're not wrong about the breaking up thing.

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Speaker 1: You're not wrong like when we get back together that

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Speaker 1: that's always like you want what you can't have all

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Speaker 1: the time. But I also have been saying like whenever

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Speaker 1: we break up, I always lose weight really quickly because

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Speaker 1: I'm just like so sad and like stressed out. So

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Speaker 1: I just need it for both of those things. I

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Speaker 1: would like to drop a little bit before I film

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Speaker 1: off Boy Island, and I would like to get horn

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Speaker 1: again before a Boy Island. It's nice to bring that

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Speaker 1: to the island quote unquote island. Yeah, I need it

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Speaker 1: all back. So breaking up seriously might and music sounds better.

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Speaker 1: I mean, Taylor Shift does a new song out called

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Speaker 1: You're Losing Me, and man, I would love to like

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Speaker 1: be able to relate to that song. There have been

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Speaker 1: times that I have been able to can't now stable relationship.

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Speaker 1: God damn it.

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Speaker 2: Well I think this is why. Like I was shocked

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Speaker 1: where everyone's being very respectful, and like, somehow you have

441
00:19:56,720 --> 00:19:58,560
Speaker 1: to make it about you. That's what I think was

442
00:19:58,560 --> 00:19:59,680
Speaker 1: going on. We have to go to break but I

443
00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:01,720
Speaker 1: wanted to a little bit more about Jerusalem when we

444
00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:08,560
Speaker 1: get back. All right, So we go to the Dead

445
00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:10,960
Speaker 1: Sea and then Anya leaves because she has to be

446
00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:12,640
Speaker 1: at the show's earlier. We have a show that night

447
00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:15,679
Speaker 1: and then we go Chris and I go to we

448
00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:17,720
Speaker 1: all go to Jerusalem. We have a nice lunch. That

449
00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:18,360
Speaker 1: was nice lunch.

450
00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:23,399
Speaker 2: It was so fucking delicious, like the best homess Israeli salad.

451
00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:25,320
Speaker 2: I was like, this is insane and it was just

452
00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:26,879
Speaker 2: a hole in the wall place and one of the

453
00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:29,840
Speaker 2: few places that was open. But yeah, that was one

454
00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:31,920
Speaker 2: of the best meals of the trip for me. That's

455
00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:35,320
Speaker 2: spicy sauce. Oh oh, it was so good.

456
00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:39,679
Speaker 1: And then Chris and I walked around like churches and

457
00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:43,000
Speaker 1: just you walk around and it's like it's very tunney,

458
00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:46,280
Speaker 1: you know, it's like old timey and the buildings are

459
00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:49,560
Speaker 1: like so old and it's very you know, tight narrow

460
00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:54,000
Speaker 1: corridors with tons of people selling shit from China, like

461
00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:57,640
Speaker 1: nothing is actually like made there. There's like and there's

462
00:20:57,840 --> 00:21:01,159
Speaker 1: candies like out like imagine candy that you find it

463
00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:03,760
Speaker 1: like the sweet factory or I don't know what are

464
00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:06,800
Speaker 1: some candie places in them all, but they're just open air.

465
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:10,240
Speaker 1: It's almost like, yeah, like peat rings, but it's like

466
00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:12,280
Speaker 1: a whole thing of them, like they're apples, you know,

467
00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:15,040
Speaker 1: and they're just out and there's pigeons flying around shitting everywhere.

468
00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:17,760
Speaker 1: It's like, I can't even believe that people would buy.

469
00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:22,600
Speaker 1: But and also I felt like a whore being there

470
00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:25,280
Speaker 1: because I was getting a lot of attention from the

471
00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,959
Speaker 1: vender men who Chris didn't even notice, but they were

472
00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 1: all like hello, like they would say it to me

473
00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:32,080
Speaker 1: on the slide when I walked by, and I just

474
00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:35,800
Speaker 1: felt like I was disrespecting something by being a woman

475
00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:39,480
Speaker 1: in shorts. I just felt like I should be covered up,

476
00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:41,679
Speaker 1: and then I was mad about wanting to be covered up.

477
00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:44,119
Speaker 1: It was the same ire I felt when I went

478
00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:47,160
Speaker 1: to a golf course in Cabo with Andrew and they

479
00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:50,280
Speaker 1: immediately reprimanded me and said that I needed a collared shirt.

480
00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:53,359
Speaker 1: And I go, this is the fucking patriarchy. Women don't

481
00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:55,399
Speaker 1: own as many collared shirts. This is something just to

482
00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:57,359
Speaker 1: keep us out and to make your like, am I

483
00:21:57,359 --> 00:21:59,480
Speaker 1: gonna be a better golfer because a fucking collared shirt?

484
00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:01,840
Speaker 1: And what makes you think you're better? Why do you

485
00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:02,359
Speaker 1: need colors?

486
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:02,600
Speaker 3: Like?

487
00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:05,120
Speaker 1: Dress codes are so dumb to me and I don't

488
00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 1: respect them, and it makes it makes me furious. Does

489
00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:12,080
Speaker 1: that ignite anything in you? Guys? When did you feel

490
00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:13,800
Speaker 1: that way on you when you were not allowed to

491
00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:16,560
Speaker 1: be on the side of the where the men were

492
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:17,880
Speaker 1: kin I didn't or not or.

493
00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:20,399
Speaker 2: I didn't go to that, so I didn't experience that.

494
00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:23,240
Speaker 2: I was kind of in my own blissful little like

495
00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:25,840
Speaker 2: whatever cloud.

496
00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:28,600
Speaker 1: Of oh this is so cool. It was like a juice.

497
00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:32,400
Speaker 2: Gy and like enjoying the walk, but I enjoyed watching

498
00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:36,880
Speaker 2: you get angry, because then it was like this, this

499
00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:40,840
Speaker 2: is stuff I'm not noticing, you know, right.

500
00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:45,200
Speaker 1: You didn't notice like, well, you were dressed in pants, oh,

501
00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:47,840
Speaker 1: and like a long shirt. I made the mistake of

502
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:50,840
Speaker 1: wearing like cut off shorts, right, And I just didn't

503
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:53,040
Speaker 1: know any better. I didn't know. Chris said that we

504
00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:54,560
Speaker 1: were getting ready, he was like, you might want to

505
00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:57,359
Speaker 1: bring something to cover up your arms, and immediately I

506
00:22:57,400 --> 00:22:58,720
Speaker 1: was just like, then I don't want to go there.

507
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:02,000
Speaker 1: Like I was like, I don't respect anything that tells

508
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:04,159
Speaker 1: me to cover up. I don't care because there's a

509
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 1: point where it's like I get it, like it's someone's religion.

510
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:12,280
Speaker 1: I don't believe in that, and I don't respect it,

511
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:15,800
Speaker 1: and I think its purpose is to suppress, to oppress women,

512
00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:20,160
Speaker 1: and so I don't have to feel okay about head

513
00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:22,920
Speaker 1: scarfs or whatever. And I know this is like you're

514
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:26,760
Speaker 1: islamophobic or whatever. It's like, no, I don't. I just

515
00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:29,879
Speaker 1: don't like religion, and I don't like I don't like

516
00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:32,440
Speaker 1: women being covered up. I just, of course, as there's

517
00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:33,960
Speaker 1: any times I get it.

518
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:38,440
Speaker 5: As you're an American visiting another place and seeing their

519
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:42,360
Speaker 5: culture and like not imposing your will on someone else's culture.

520
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:44,480
Speaker 1: That's how I felt. I did feel like I was

521
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,680
Speaker 1: imposing my I felt really I felt like I don't

522
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:48,960
Speaker 1: want to be there and I and I but I

523
00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:53,159
Speaker 1: also someone's culture. I don't think it's about culture. I

524
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:56,000
Speaker 1: think it's about oppression of women. I don't think it's

525
00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:59,399
Speaker 1: like we just like this because I don't think women

526
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:02,600
Speaker 1: actually to be covered up. I think it's that's my opinion.

527
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:06,280
Speaker 1: I think that if you might like sometimes I do

528
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:09,359
Speaker 1: wish I could wear a thing over my face and head.

529
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 1: But I we're getting into rocky territory that I'm not

530
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:17,119
Speaker 1: smart enough to debate. But I'm just saying I don't

531
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:20,119
Speaker 1: respect oppression of women and I don't need to.

532
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:23,200
Speaker 2: And it made you uncomfortable, yeah.

533
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 1: It made yeah, and it made me feel and it

534
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:26,679
Speaker 1: made me feel bad. I did feel bad that I

535
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:28,879
Speaker 1: felt like, I don't ever want any to make anyone

536
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:31,160
Speaker 1: feel uncomfortable. And I felt like I saw the women

537
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:33,080
Speaker 1: looking at me, like there was this one woman. I

538
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 1: caught her eyes and she was looking me up and down,

539
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:38,399
Speaker 1: and I felt disgusting, and I felt so bad about

540
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 1: who I was and that that she I was making

541
00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 1: her uncomfortable. So there was a part of me being like,

542
00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:48,240
Speaker 1: I'm not respecting their space and their culture, and that's

543
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 1: not was not my intention, but I don't respect that

544
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 1: part of it, to be honest with you, was.

545
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:57,080
Speaker 3: There no one else dressed like you? You're the only one.

546
00:24:57,440 --> 00:25:00,399
Speaker 2: No, No, there are lots of uh West, Yeah, but

547
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:01,159
Speaker 2: I think.

548
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 1: Not like no, not wearing cut off shorts. I didn't know,

549
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 1: because when you're in Tel Aviv, it's all I mean.

550
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 1: I was dressed modestly for tel Aviv, right, but then Jerusalem,

551
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:14,479
Speaker 1: I didn't know what it would be like and I

552
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:18,160
Speaker 1: just don't. Yeah, I just felt it felt like going

553
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 1: to I made a joke about it was like going

554
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:24,440
Speaker 1: to your grandma's house. You have to you can't touch anything.

555
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 1: You feel weird in every space, like you might like

556
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 1: ruin something by touching it. Things kind of smell a

557
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 1: little different, like there's it smells like church everywhere, and

558
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,440
Speaker 1: you feel like you're dressed like a whore, and she

559
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:38,679
Speaker 1: tells you to put some clothes on, you know, Like

560
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 1: it just felt like I felt shamed, and I felt shameful,

561
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:45,280
Speaker 1: and I felt bad that I could have been disrespecting

562
00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:48,439
Speaker 1: these people who are like God. And there was you know,

563
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 1: I was obsessed with not coming off like an American

564
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:53,879
Speaker 1: who was just like, ah, it's my way or the highway.

565
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 1: That's not how I'm that's not what I'm saying. I

566
00:25:56,720 --> 00:26:01,160
Speaker 1: just don't like being told I can't do something because

567
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 1: of a woman, right, or because of anything. And I

568
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:07,159
Speaker 1: just don't feel in telling me and not allowing me

569
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 1: to have that opinion, because then that makes me a

570
00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:15,159
Speaker 1: racist or a phobic of some kind of culture. It

571
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:18,159
Speaker 1: seems like a cop out for people to protect these

572
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 1: things that need to be we need to get rid

573
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 1: of them.

574
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 3: I feel perhaps you should have listened to your instinct

575
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,879
Speaker 3: at the beginning when it was like, well, if I

576
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,760
Speaker 3: have to do that, then I don't want to go exactly.

577
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 1: But when you're right, I should have listened to that.

578
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 1: But I am glad I saw it because it is.

579
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:41,200
Speaker 1: I mean we were like at the church where Jesus

580
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,960
Speaker 1: is like supposed to be like underneath it or something

581
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 1: like that.

582
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:45,919
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, he's.

583
00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:49,960
Speaker 1: Supposed to be like buried underneath What does that? I

584
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 1: don't know. I guess he was there. I guess I

585
00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 1: was walking away around.

586
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 3: All I know is that he was in the cave,

587
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 3: and then on Easter he came out of the cave,

588
00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,679
Speaker 3: and then nobody talks about or at least I feel

589
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 3: like where he ended happen? Yeah, what happens after that?

590
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 3: Was that three Heaven?

591
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:06,719
Speaker 1: What creamatorium? Did he end up?

592
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:11,159
Speaker 2: And there's nobody it disappeared because he Christ disappeared?

593
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:14,439
Speaker 1: Oh yes, what was Chris talking about? He said he

594
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 1: was underneath all the bricks and stuff. He was under

595
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 1: because people can everybody kissing this like like little there

596
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 1: was this like area that was like almost had water

597
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 1: on it, and the women were wiping it down and

598
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:27,399
Speaker 1: then kissing it and then being it done again and

599
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 1: kissing it. Sepulcher, I don't know the Holy.

600
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 3: Jesus warning, I just got horned.

601
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 1: I don't need testosterone when you hear the word, so

602
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:40,439
Speaker 1: we need to hear Brian's theory.

603
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 5: My theory about about why Nikki is losing her sex drive.

604
00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:47,159
Speaker 1: I started but didn't finish.

605
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:52,880
Speaker 3: Yes, armstairs armchair psychoanalyze Nikki is with no professional experience whatsoever.

606
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 3: I have two theories.

607
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 1: Yeah.

608
00:27:54,920 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 3: Theory number one is that potentially you equate horniness or

609
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 3: you will quit horniness with anxiety, Like there's an overlap

610
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:10,159
Speaker 3: of anxiety and horniness, So you need to manufacture some

611
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 3: anxiety in your relationship in order to get horny.

612
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:17,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not not true. That's a good point. When

613
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:20,639
Speaker 1: we were driving to the Dead Sea, Chris said he

614
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 1: had been there before, and I go, what slut did

615
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,640
Speaker 1: you go there with? Just jokingly, you know, just because

616
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 1: I knew that when he was like over there last time,

617
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:31,880
Speaker 1: he was kind of dating some women, and so I said,

618
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:34,120
Speaker 1: what skank did you bring there? And he was like, oh,

619
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:36,119
Speaker 1: she's a nice girl actually, And I was like wait really,

620
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 1: And so he's showing me pictures of them, and there

621
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 1: was a picture where she was like kissing his cheek

622
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 1: and stuff, like they were like a couple back then,

623
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 1: and it was like exactly five years ago to like

624
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 1: the day almost, and I was just like then, I

625
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 1: looked up in my calendar like, what was I doing

626
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 1: that day? And I'm like, oh, I was texting with

627
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 1: some guy who fucking didn't like me, and I was

628
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 1: because all that day was I went to the day

629
00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 1: in my photos and it was just screenshot of texts

630
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: from this guy in me sending them to Noah and

631
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 1: Anya being like, do you think he likes it? He

632
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 1: was like on our radio show that day and like

633
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 1: we had a vibe, but then he was like giving

634
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 1: me the run around, So it was like, it was funny.

635
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 1: I always like to see, like what I was doing

636
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 1: the day of you're not wrong, so that actually when

637
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 1: I saw this girl and she was not a slipt

638
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 1: she was like, so she wasn't a slut. I was

639
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 1: saying slut in a funny way, like because I was

640
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 1: feeling like a slut that day, and I just like

641
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 1: to it's just funny for me. It was to be

642
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 1: like one of these women who thinks anyone their boyfriend

643
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 1: was with before was just a whore, Like that's just

644
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 1: it's like a funny Chris laughs because obviously I don't

645
00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:38,000
Speaker 1: think that at all. But she was actually really nice

646
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 1: and He's like, she's one of the only people I've

647
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 1: dated I think in the past ten years besides you

648
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:44,400
Speaker 1: that it's like a real person. He was like, she's

649
00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 1: like a person you would like bring home to your family.

650
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 1: She wasn't just like you know, a fling kind of thing.

651
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 1: And and that really ignited something in me. There was

652
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 1: like something I did. I was like, okay, like because

653
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 1: I was jealous and I was excited that like there

654
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:01,880
Speaker 1: was so much else out there who like once, like

655
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 1: I could tell she like kind of was falling in

656
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 1: love with him on that trip, Like they were having

657
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:09,240
Speaker 1: like they were mutting each other up and like floating

658
00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 1: around and she looks so good in a swimsuit and

659
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 1: he looked really cute, and he was just doing certain things.

660
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, he liked her and she liked him,

661
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 1: and so it got me a little bit aroused. Yeah,

662
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 1: so maybe that's true. It's connected.

663
00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:21,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

664
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 3: Now all you got to do is figure out how

665
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 3: you can you manufacture that on the fly.

666
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:28,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, just he sees the pull up pictures of him

667
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 1: and his auxes like having fun or like I just

668
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 1: need to feel some sort of threat of like I'm

669
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 1: gonna lose him, like the breakup threat you're saying, Like

670
00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:41,200
Speaker 1: I like when he like will be like comment on

671
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 1: a girl on TV or something, or just show interest

672
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 1: in someone else, or I just want to hear about

673
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I've always been open about like I like

674
00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 1: to hear about his like past stuff because it gets

675
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 1: me riled up and it doesn't get me like angry.

676
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 1: And Noah even would talked about the subject because she

677
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 1: sent me a text about the song the Taylor Swift

678
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:07,240
Speaker 1: song all of the Girls You've Loved Before? Oh yeah,

679
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 1: And it's a song that Taylor Swift released that's a

680
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 1: vault track from the Lover album, which it's a new release,

681
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 1: and it's about all of the women that the guy

682
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 1: she's with currently, not Matt Healey, but the guy Joe,

683
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 1: who she was with. I think it's about Joe. I

684
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 1: assume it was. How like every girl from his past

685
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 1: led her him to her? Is that what you got

686
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 1: from I?

687
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 3: No?

688
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, And how like these guys that we've dated in

689
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:33,959
Speaker 5: the past, we kind of made them better for the

690
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 5: next person, and she could be the one that they

691
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 5: end up with.

692
00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 1: Yes, every dead End Street legistrates to me. Now You're

693
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 1: all I need. I'm so thankful for all of the

694
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 1: girls love before. But I love you she throws that

695
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:53,520
Speaker 1: one out of the shoos, but I love you more.

696
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 1: She like has to wait at the end, and that's

697
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:58,479
Speaker 1: kind of like I like that part because you are.

698
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:02,320
Speaker 1: It's such a good song. So yeah, maybe you're right

699
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:04,200
Speaker 1: it's connected to anxiety.

700
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 3: Number two, I have a sh okay. That's kind of

701
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 3: theories Pillars Number two is, uh, maybe you know how

702
00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 3: you talk about how you perform better when you're being watched, Yes,

703
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:19,360
Speaker 3: when you get when you go through a breakup, you

704
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:21,320
Speaker 3: kind of, even though maybe it's not true, you kind

705
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 3: of have this aura about your life that you're being

706
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 3: watched or you wish your ex was watching everything you do.

707
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 3: So once you get broken up with, you probably perform

708
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 3: your entire life at a heightened level because of the

709
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 3: opportunity for your ex to potentially see that.

710
00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 1: Yes, that's exciting you. You you go into this mode

711
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 1: of like if he were to see I need to

712
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 1: be thriving right now, and you just immediately start living

713
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 1: like that, like I can't. I don't go into like

714
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,760
Speaker 1: I'm sad, I'm gonna cry all day. I go into like,

715
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 1: let's get the next going. Let's not the next guy,

716
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 1: but like let's switch it up let's like, let's have

717
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 1: let's have life again. So yeah, that might be connected.

718
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 1: And the voyeuristic thing of like someone could be watching.

719
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 1: Even though I'm not someone who like likes to have

720
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 1: sex and have people watching, I think that is really

721
00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 1: grosses me out. I would you would think that I

722
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:23,800
Speaker 1: would be someone that would be into that, but I

723
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 1: am not.

724
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 3: Yeah. Oh, you break up and then all of a sudden,

725
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:31,520
Speaker 3: you're like constantly kayaking yeah, the direct messages you on Instagram,

726
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 3: Like I didn't know you kayaking? Oh yeah, kayak all

727
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 3: the time? You didn't know that.

728
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 1: Yes, I think about that all the time.

729
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:42,000
Speaker 2: Like, you know, after the initial grief period, everybody kind

730
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 2: of gets their shit together when they get broken up

731
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 2: with That's when people or when they have affairs, they

732
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 2: start working out, they take up that project they were

733
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 2: putting off forever. I made my first album during a breakup,

734
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 2: like to get out of a depression, and I started

735
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 2: a record label and I started recording. I assembled a

736
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,680
Speaker 2: band and I began recording all in a twenty four

737
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 2: hour period of being completely bedrond and depressed for weeks, right,

738
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:07,720
Speaker 2: and I was just like I'm done with this shit.

739
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:10,800
Speaker 2: And then I had a label and a po box

740
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 2: and a band and like a date on the books

741
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:14,280
Speaker 2: to start recording.

742
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 1: Yes, I think that happens a lot. Like when I

743
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 1: lose a job or I lose something. It puts me

744
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:24,840
Speaker 1: into action mode of like, Okay, fill up that space

745
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 1: that that was taking up, prove to them that I'm

746
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 1: not that I can do things that like it puts

747
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:33,239
Speaker 1: you in action. This is suppressing to me being in

748
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:37,799
Speaker 1: a solid relationship. I don't like it because then I

749
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:40,280
Speaker 1: want to start a band, I want to do things

750
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:43,919
Speaker 1: that are thrilling that like make that I want to

751
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 1: take up kayaking. Well I don't really, but I wish

752
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 1: I was the kind of the person that wanted to.

753
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 1: I want to do those things. So being in a relationship,

754
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: I wish I did realize on this trip that Chris

755
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:56,840
Speaker 1: and I have different goals on vacation. We like to

756
00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:59,960
Speaker 1: do different things. And I would feel a lot of

757
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 1: guilts when I didn't want to do the things that

758
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 1: he wanted to do, because in my mind, he is thinking,

759
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:11,279
Speaker 1: I want to share these experiences with someone and she's not.

760
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:15,719
Speaker 1: She doesn't like this stuff, and you certainly don't want

761
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 1: to fake it. And because then I was having a

762
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:21,320
Speaker 1: little bit of them, this thing that I used to

763
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 1: have with my mom. It's so funny how our relationships

764
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:27,160
Speaker 1: reflect exactly how we had these same things in our childhood.

765
00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:31,480
Speaker 1: My mom used to when she's horrible to shop with

766
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:33,919
Speaker 1: because she can't get out of a store. She'll check

767
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 1: out and then on the way out we would have

768
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 1: to We would literally flank her so that she couldn't

769
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 1: see the racks on the way out, because she would

770
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 1: find something on the way and go, wait, hold, let

771
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 1: me just look at these shorts. Well look at these

772
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 1: Well if this is these are, oh, well, that's like

773
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:49,959
Speaker 1: she Then we couldn't get out of the fucking store.

774
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:53,360
Speaker 1: So I always hated chopping with my mom because it

775
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:55,239
Speaker 1: would take so long. I would be so bored in like.

776
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 6: The women's casual section, Like it was always just like

777
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:02,360
Speaker 6: boring women's you know, in Lord and Taylor or whatever,

778
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:06,799
Speaker 6: or Value City wherever we would be, and and my

779
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:07,839
Speaker 6: mom always used.

780
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:09,880
Speaker 1: To be like, all right, Nick, we get it. You

781
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:12,280
Speaker 1: want to go, And I go like I'm not doing anything.

782
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm just standing here like I didn't know

783
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:17,759
Speaker 1: what to do with my body. Two, because I knew

784
00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:19,920
Speaker 1: I would make her mad. If I showed that I

785
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 1: was bored, so I wouldn't. I wouldn't ever like complain

786
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 1: about it, because that was not gonna work. My mom

787
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:26,879
Speaker 1: would only get like really mad if you got mad

788
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,760
Speaker 1: at her. That didn't solve anything. I tried that obviously

789
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:32,439
Speaker 1: for years. So the next thing would be just wait

790
00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:34,959
Speaker 1: it out, just get through it. You know, like she's

791
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 1: looking at racks of clothing, just wait, and so me

792
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 1: just standing there, she'd be like, I get it, Nick,

793
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 1: I just hear the recks, Like, okay, I'm going as

794
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: fast as I can. I get it. You're miserable. And

795
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:48,840
Speaker 1: I go, I don't know what I'm doing, Like what,

796
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 1: and she be like your arms are crossed. We get it.

797
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:53,799
Speaker 1: And I'd go like, I don't know how to stand mom,

798
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 1: to let you know that I don't care take your time.

799
00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:59,640
Speaker 1: And so I Chris does not have that attitude with

800
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:01,840
Speaker 1: me that my mom used to have of like, we

801
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 1: get it, you're trying to send a bad mood. But

802
00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 1: like I fell into that in Jerusalem because I wanted

803
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 1: to leave. I got I was upset that we were

804
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 1: no longer in a section that I could even were.

805
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:13,440
Speaker 1: We were in the women's casual section again, except that

806
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 1: it was the men's casual and you're not allowed to

807
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 1: be there as a woman. I felt like I was

808
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 1: in the wrong section. I didn't want to be there anymore.

809
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:23,719
Speaker 1: I wanted to leave, but I also didn't want him

810
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:26,400
Speaker 1: to sense that I wanted to leave. So I was

811
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 1: trying to do the thing where it's like, what do

812
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 1: you do with your body when you don't care whether

813
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 1: or not you got your boyfriend's looking.

814
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:42,360
Speaker 3: At postcard would know that he wanted.

815
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:46,080
Speaker 1: To an impression of someone praying do you ever do that?

816
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:50,440
Speaker 1: Where you go you're so like I remember one time

817
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 1: I really liked this guy and I found out he

818
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 1: had a girlfriend. It was like the second I found

819
00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 1: out he had a girlfriend, right, and I had been

820
00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:00,400
Speaker 1: waiting and hoping so badly he didn't have one, and

821
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:03,960
Speaker 1: then he says, he says, you know, oh, yeah, we

822
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:06,279
Speaker 1: have a dog, and I was just I mean, I

823
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 1: had had a crush on this guy for weeks and

824
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 1: I had not asked him anything about his personal life

825
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,239
Speaker 1: because I did not want to know that he had

826
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 1: a girlfriend, which I thought he probably had. But like,

827
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 1: I could live in this denial area where it was

828
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 1: like I could still I can't fantasize at night about

829
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 1: this guy anymore if he has a girlfriend. But my

830
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 1: best part of my life at that time in my

831
00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 1: life was going to sleep because I would just fantasize

832
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 1: about us being together. So it was he was going

833
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:30,279
Speaker 1: to steal if he had a girlfriend. It was going

834
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:34,880
Speaker 1: to steal the hope and the fantasy. And he says,

835
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 1: we have a dog. So I've told this on this

836
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:39,919
Speaker 1: podcast before, but he says, we yeah, we have a dog,

837
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:41,440
Speaker 1: and I'm you know, I have a joke about it.

838
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 1: But I was like, please live in a group home

839
00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 1: or with your mom or like some kind of like

840
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,719
Speaker 1: maybe this is an insane asylum where you guys have

841
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 1: like a dog at the you know, front desk or

842
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:52,560
Speaker 1: something anything other than a girlfriend. And of course he

843
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:54,880
Speaker 1: goes through his phone and he's like and we're in

844
00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 1: a group of people and he hands me the phone

845
00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:00,760
Speaker 1: to see his dog, and I had to call search

846
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 1: the recesses of my brain to go how does one

847
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 1: respond to seeing a girlfriend of if like Brian Franjie

848
00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 1: were to show me this is my girlfriend and my dog,

849
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 1: how would I act right if I wasn't in love

850
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 1: secretly in love with this person.

851
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 3: Like, and I couldn't shit fo.

852
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, oh god damn it. And that's exactly

853
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 1: what am I gonna jug off to tonight. Yeah that's

854
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 1: a classic girlfriend dog response. But I just remember getting

855
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:42,280
Speaker 1: the phone and just goingh like I need who doesn't

856
00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 1: say something when you see someone's dog for the first time,

857
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 1: someone who you've been like cordial with for a while.

858
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 1: I wanted to say nice dog, but me and his girlfriend.

859
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 1: When I said it, that would have been my like,

860
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:54,200
Speaker 1: that would have been a win for me to be like,

861
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 1: oh my god, what a cute dog and be talking

862
00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:58,319
Speaker 1: about the girl like I know it's in my head.

863
00:39:58,320 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 1: It's like when I'm someone's rude to me at Starbar

864
00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 1: and I go have a good one and they don't

865
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 1: know that I mean death.

866
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:07,800
Speaker 2: May you're just really honest.

867
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:14,439
Speaker 1: I'm a bad liar. Who's that Billie Eilish song? Yeah?

868
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 1: Maybe I am. I I definitely know I'm a bad liar.

869
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:21,239
Speaker 1: Oh my eyes darted around all over the place. I

870
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 1: start like getting sweat my asshole Titans, I can't suck

871
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:30,480
Speaker 1: up any dead water. Yeah, I'm not a good liar.

872
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:32,919
Speaker 1: I don't think I'm what a great quality to happen.

873
00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:36,600
Speaker 1: I like that. I can't lie. I just get quiet.

874
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:39,280
Speaker 1: And that's why I didn't say anything. I was just like, oh,

875
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 1: but I just remember this, like and that was what

876
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:44,919
Speaker 1: I was trying to do in Jerusalem, was like how

877
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 1: does one stand when they're okay being somewhere? And I

878
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:50,000
Speaker 1: couldn't figure it out.

879
00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:51,040
Speaker 2: I couldn't do it.

880
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 1: I was just Chris quickly got the memo of like, Okay,

881
00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:56,400
Speaker 1: we can go. I was like, no, no, no, we

882
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 1: can keep It's fine, and like it's like I'm lying, no,

883
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 1: I want to go, babe, I want to go. But

884
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:04,160
Speaker 1: I did feel I did feel like, Noah, you had

885
00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 1: a little that you said, maybe don't want to get

886
00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 1: into it on your trip of like maybe AVI could

887
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:11,240
Speaker 1: be having a better time with someone else.

888
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:14,799
Speaker 5: Yeah, someone who can like hike fourteen miles with him

889
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 5: and then camp for three days and then go back up.

890
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:21,279
Speaker 1: But what would you tell me about this circumstance of like,

891
00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 1: I want I feel like Chris wants a better travel

892
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:26,719
Speaker 1: companion than I can give him. Because he never said that,

893
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:30,440
Speaker 1: by the way, never once indicated it. He if I

894
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:33,239
Speaker 1: ever wanted to stay in he would be fine with it.

895
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:38,920
Speaker 1: But there's only so much of that that someone can take,

896
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:40,920
Speaker 1: and then eventually they want a divorce even though we're

897
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:42,440
Speaker 1: not married, and that's my fear.

898
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:45,440
Speaker 5: So this is something that Aviy and I had a

899
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 5: conversation about also as we like did a deep briefing

900
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 5: of our trip, and you just, first of all, you

901
00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 5: learn as you go, So you have these trips and

902
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 5: you realize how you each like to travel, and then

903
00:41:57,719 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 5: you just have to like meet in the middle. I

904
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 5: told him, I never going to be like your friend

905
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 5: Mike and go hiking with you for like five days

906
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,440
Speaker 5: and come out looking like we've been like bush whacked

907
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:08,839
Speaker 5: or something like. It's just it's just not gonna happen.

908
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:09,680
Speaker 5: I'm not gonna it's.

909
00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 1: Also not gonna suck your dick at a court, yeah

910
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 1: exactly with him exactly. You're not gonna give you a

911
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:21,400
Speaker 1: handy when you go back to the hotel. Yeah.

912
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 5: So yeah, so we just have to like meet in

913
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:26,360
Speaker 5: the middle. And you know, he has even though he

914
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:29,279
Speaker 5: denies that he had any expectations of what we were

915
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 5: going to do, he kind of did and we weren't

916
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:35,759
Speaker 5: able to do what he was expecting. And you know,

917
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 5: both of us, we just have to like take ownership

918
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:44,399
Speaker 5: of you know, where I get frustrated and I don't

919
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 5: want to you know, I just kind of like huff

920
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 5: and puff and don't want to do something. I have

921
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:48,879
Speaker 5: to be a little bit more open and he has

922
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:52,400
Speaker 5: to not put these expectations on me. And you know,

923
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:54,760
Speaker 5: the more I realize is like he can have trips

924
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 5: with his guy friends or his friends and do all

925
00:42:57,560 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 5: these things and be happy in that way, and we

926
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:02,560
Speaker 5: can have our trips where we both bond and have

927
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:04,360
Speaker 5: a good time in our own way, where there's no

928
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 5: imposition of expectations on each other.

929
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:13,520
Speaker 1: That's a nice, a nice compromise because I feel like

930
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 1: I always just want to give in to what he

931
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 1: wants to do, and then that's not gonna be fun

932
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:23,400
Speaker 1: because I'm going to end up building resentment. But I

933
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:25,359
Speaker 1: also feel like if I always do what I do

934
00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 1: and I don't give it's like I'm not always going

935
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:31,319
Speaker 1: to give into what he does. I do say, hey, babe,

936
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:32,719
Speaker 1: I can't do this anymore. I'm going to go back.

937
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:34,360
Speaker 1: I like to I need a nap before the show.

938
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:38,080
Speaker 1: But I do feel like I miss out on certain things,

939
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 1: and I feel like enough of those things add up

940
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:43,319
Speaker 1: that he'll start building resentment. But guess what, it's none

941
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:45,359
Speaker 1: of my fucking business if he does, and he can

942
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:47,319
Speaker 1: tell me if he does, and if he doesn't tell me,

943
00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 1: then that's you know, then that's also his business. Like

944
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:54,439
Speaker 1: I can't control what he feels, and I can't jump

945
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:56,760
Speaker 1: to conclusions about how he is feeling.

946
00:43:57,160 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 3: What you're doing is much better than the alternative, which

947
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:02,840
Speaker 3: is a lot of people will just become their partner

948
00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 3: and all of a sudden they're like, I love hiking.

949
00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:06,799
Speaker 3: I hike all the time. I mean, you have all

950
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:08,840
Speaker 3: these new clothes and stuff. Then you break up and

951
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 3: you never hike again. Yeah, it's like what happened to

952
00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 3: the hiking? And it's like, oh uh, I guess I

953
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 3: just got over it.

954
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 1: I still did things, a lot of things I didn't

955
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 1: want to do. Let me just say, because I know,

956
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:22,799
Speaker 1: because I want to be the type of person who

957
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 1: does want to walk around Vienna, and this is your part.

958
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:27,680
Speaker 1: You're showing you stuff. Do you regret doing a lot

959
00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 1: of those things? No, no, I don't because he did

960
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:33,320
Speaker 1: show me a lot of cool things. But I still

961
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:37,839
Speaker 1: don't get the allure of travel. I still don't get it.

962
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 1: I don't you see one old building. You kind of

963
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:46,920
Speaker 1: seen them all, like you've seen one cathedral, or like

964
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 1: I think virtual reality headsets are going to really open

965
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:53,840
Speaker 1: up a world to me that is going to accomplish

966
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:56,000
Speaker 1: exactly what I feel like in all these places, which

967
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:58,319
Speaker 1: is like I just see something with my eyes. I

968
00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:00,720
Speaker 1: don't have anything tangible from it that I can remember

969
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:03,400
Speaker 1: or reflect on. I just get to this is just

970
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:06,759
Speaker 1: bragging rights, and it feels as pointless as I do

971
00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:13,120
Speaker 1: believe sports are. Because sports, I also feel like god sports, Yeah,

972
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:16,160
Speaker 1: well I get listen. I'm jealous that people want to

973
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:18,399
Speaker 1: travel and love traveling. I wish I felt this way

974
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 1: about it, But I feel the same way about sports.

975
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:22,680
Speaker 1: I wish that I got excited about a World Series

976
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 1: that I know in next season is going to mean

977
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 1: nothing anymore, and it's just going to be It's going

978
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:32,240
Speaker 1: to be forgotten, and now all that matters is this moment,

979
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:34,800
Speaker 1: and when they fail in this moment, everyone's going to

980
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:36,759
Speaker 1: be mad at them and not even give a shit

981
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 1: about what they accomplished before.

982
00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 3: You know, like life is that life.

983
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:47,359
Speaker 1: To fly places and stay, spend twenty hours on a

984
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 1: plane and go through customs and lug luggage and wait

985
00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:55,600
Speaker 1: for luggage and exchange money and have to figure out

986
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 1: the rates and go eat foods that you don't really

987
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 1: like and have to drink you don't that doesn't taste

988
00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 1: the same as the Starbucks where you like and the

989
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:06,200
Speaker 1: Starbucks that you like. Like, these are the things that

990
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:08,960
Speaker 1: I lab Yeah.

991
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:11,880
Speaker 3: Well you're gonna have are your memories and people. You

992
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:14,400
Speaker 3: got it. You gotta just unless you have Alzheimer's.

993
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:18,720
Speaker 1: Remember, best memories are laughing with friends in a sedentary position.

994
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 1: It's my best memories, our dinners and laughs. What was

995
00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 1: your aunt.

996
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:29,840
Speaker 2: Of the last two weeks' great? What are some visions

997
00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 2: in your head that pass through when you think of

998
00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 2: the last two weeks in Europe and beyond?

999
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 1: Getting to go to bed at night. Yeah, I love

1000
00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 1: that and having the day be done. That's always what

1001
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:42,839
Speaker 1: I look forward to. The walk to the car. Noah

1002
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:45,680
Speaker 1: said it before, like the hike is the best. It

1003
00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 1: was that you know what the best part of the

1004
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:49,320
Speaker 1: hike is when you see your car, Like I like

1005
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:53,440
Speaker 1: seeing my bed, that going back to my hotel with

1006
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:55,439
Speaker 1: my boyfriend, getting to sleep in a bed next to him,

1007
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:57,640
Speaker 1: getting to be on our phones and look at all

1008
00:46:57,680 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 1: the things that happened on Reddit that day and laugh

1009
00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:01,600
Speaker 1: with each other and go hey, like did you see this,

1010
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 1: and then hold up my phone and Chris kind of

1011
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:06,400
Speaker 1: looks at it and it's like like that's Those are

1012
00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 1: my favorite things. The nice hotels, the and then eating

1013
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:12,960
Speaker 1: all the meals I had. Chris and I had a

1014
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:15,879
Speaker 1: really good meal in Tel Aviv. Anya and I had

1015
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 1: some really just getting coffee with Anya or tea with Anya,

1016
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 1: like having girl talks. Getting the massages, even though that

1017
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:24,360
Speaker 1: was not that comfortable. The massages that we got in

1018
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:30,240
Speaker 1: where uh hell sink Stockholm, hell Sinky, yes, hell Sinky,

1019
00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:32,880
Speaker 1: heaven floaty, that was my life.

1020
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 2: The best massage was the Fue massage in Amsterdam in

1021
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:38,880
Speaker 2: a row God.

1022
00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:43,879
Speaker 1: It was amazing Tibetan massage and that was so good.

1023
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:46,680
Speaker 1: It's like I've had the best. I can't go back.

1024
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:48,600
Speaker 1: And then we go we them were like we're getting

1025
00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:51,440
Speaker 1: messages everywhere we go. We go to Helsinki and these

1026
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:52,560
Speaker 1: Thai women.

1027
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:55,640
Speaker 2: Put us in our room together and then I want to.

1028
00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:58,280
Speaker 1: Put massage because I do not want to be intimate.

1029
00:47:58,360 --> 00:48:00,760
Speaker 1: I just like feet. I don't want to get totally undressed.

1030
00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 1: I don't want them touching my whole body. I realize

1031
00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:08,920
Speaker 1: I have good, like traumatic response to a full body massage.

1032
00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:15,759
Speaker 2: I don't like you should as you should, as you shut.

1033
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:18,920
Speaker 1: No, I don't know that I should. I don't know

1034
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 1: what the fuck happened to me, but I just do not.

1035
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 1: I feel deeply uncomfortable the whole time. Sometimes I fall

1036
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:27,200
Speaker 1: asleep and I wake up and I'm like startled that

1037
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 1: someone's touching me. And then I'm like, oh, I just

1038
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:31,640
Speaker 1: slept through so much of the money I spent, and

1039
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 1: I didn't even feel how good that felt. Then I

1040
00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:36,120
Speaker 1: start feeling guilt, and then they start beating you up

1041
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:39,400
Speaker 1: at the end, just they're just so mad at you.

1042
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 2: And they let her take your clothes off, and you

1043
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 2: didn't let her massage your hair, which is your phobia.

1044
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 1: You were like no hair, no hair, no hair, and

1045
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 1: then she They always laugh when I say no hair,

1046
00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:52,200
Speaker 1: and then no head, no head. But they definitely were

1047
00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:53,759
Speaker 1: doing some stuff to me I did not care for.

1048
00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:57,760
Speaker 1: I didn't like that massage, and I'm a pushover.

1049
00:48:57,880 --> 00:48:59,600
Speaker 2: I let them take all my clothes off. The next

1050
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:03,080
Speaker 2: thing I know, I'm like, okay, fine, and then I'm

1051
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:06,880
Speaker 2: right next to my best friend, completely naked and a

1052
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 2: tie woman is grabbing both arms behind my body. I'm

1053
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:13,920
Speaker 2: on my stomach, I'm three feet above Nikki naked as

1054
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:16,359
Speaker 2: a jayber, and I'm just like, I don't want this.

1055
00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:19,920
Speaker 1: Oh, I would never mind being naked around you. Are

1056
00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:22,600
Speaker 1: you honest like that? Well, I've never seen you naked.

1057
00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:24,800
Speaker 1: I don't, Yes, you have, but I don't want. I

1058
00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:27,279
Speaker 1: shall just be like greased up and nude like.

1059
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:30,759
Speaker 2: And then she drives me and then pulls me up again,

1060
00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 2: and I'm like ah, and I'm like in a gross position,

1061
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:37,399
Speaker 2: like completely naked. I might as well be hovering over

1062
00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:40,239
Speaker 2: Nikki's body completely naked. That's how close I was.

1063
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:44,960
Speaker 1: You didn't see that? No, I was just like, please, please,

1064
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 1: letter be asleep. Oh I wasn't the whole time. I'm

1065
00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:51,240
Speaker 1: just fuming because this massage is so light and so fast,

1066
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:52,520
Speaker 1: fast and light, the.

1067
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 2: Fucking athletic and naked and painful.

1068
00:49:57,640 --> 00:49:59,919
Speaker 1: Wasn't she like rubbing her vagina on your like heel?

1069
00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 3: Oh?

1070
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:03,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, she starts and she's like, take off your clothes

1071
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:07,279
Speaker 2: and then her entire vulva is on my heel.

1072
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:13,480
Speaker 1: I think I would have liked that. It was more

1073
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:17,640
Speaker 1: giving me mine was just light and fast, too fast,

1074
00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:19,719
Speaker 1: and I just kept I thought she was warming me up,

1075
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:21,480
Speaker 1: because you know sometimes when they're doing a massage, they

1076
00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 1: warm you up, and so they just do it like

1077
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:25,640
Speaker 1: fast and light. And then the warm up was like

1078
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:28,800
Speaker 1: fifteen and it's like, oh no. She then she switches

1079
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:30,920
Speaker 1: legs and I'm like, maybe she's warming the other other

1080
00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 1: one up too, and then she'll go back to that

1081
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:35,719
Speaker 1: one I know that was. Do you know why I

1082
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:38,719
Speaker 1: think they hit you because they hate you because I'm

1083
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:41,520
Speaker 1: a dumb white bitch that's coming in and they don't

1084
00:50:41,560 --> 00:50:43,919
Speaker 1: want to be doing this. I don't think most people

1085
00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 1: working and maybe I'm wrong. This is another way I

1086
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 1: can get canceled on this podcast today about racial insensitivity.

1087
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:53,360
Speaker 1: But I do believe most people working at Chinese and

1088
00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:57,400
Speaker 1: Time massage places, it's a family business and they're kind

1089
00:50:57,440 --> 00:51:00,760
Speaker 1: of like, not it's not their passion to miss people,

1090
00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:02,840
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? But you know what's worse

1091
00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:06,480
Speaker 1: than someone who's it's not their passion to massage someone

1092
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:09,160
Speaker 1: who is it is their passion to massage. That bugs

1093
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:11,879
Speaker 1: me too. I've gone to a lot of white men

1094
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:15,360
Speaker 1: whose passion is massage, and it does not feel comfortable.

1095
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 1: I do not like that either. That gets too sensual.

1096
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:20,279
Speaker 1: One guy made me I told you. I think I

1097
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:22,000
Speaker 1: told HI about this. In Saint Louis, I went to

1098
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:24,600
Speaker 1: a guy and he made me do a post mortem

1099
00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 1: about the massage. After I got dressed, he came back

1100
00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 1: in and was like, now you, I wanted you to

1101
00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:31,040
Speaker 1: think about while you're getting dressed what you liked and

1102
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:33,320
Speaker 1: what you didn't like, and I really want some feedback.

1103
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:35,439
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I want to get the fuck out

1104
00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 1: of here because I didn't like any of it, and

1105
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:39,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to come up with a lie for

1106
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 1: you about what you can what I did like, it

1107
00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:42,360
Speaker 1: was terrible.

1108
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 3: I was supposed to be a relaxing massage.

1109
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:46,040
Speaker 1: I should have told him the feedback. Yes, it was

1110
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:49,239
Speaker 1: supposed to be amazing, like an expensive massage too. I

1111
00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 1: mean this guy was a white guy that went to scan.

1112
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:54,160
Speaker 3: I just wasn't a family business relaxing then giving someone

1113
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:55,640
Speaker 3: feedback on their work.

1114
00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 1: Oh my god. And I'm not let me just say,

1115
00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:00,280
Speaker 1: I don't think everyone that works in a a Asian

1116
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:03,920
Speaker 1: massage like a family run, like a massage place where

1117
00:52:03,960 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 1: you go in in everyone's Asian. I don't think all

1118
00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:09,920
Speaker 1: of those people are indentured servants, but I think some

1119
00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:12,319
Speaker 1: of them are, and I don't think they all want

1120
00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:14,799
Speaker 1: to be doing it, and I could be wrong, but

1121
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 1: do you ever get that sense on you?

1122
00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:18,440
Speaker 2: Which is why I like to tip a lot.

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00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:21,880
Speaker 1: Yes, Okay, we gotta go to break, but let's do

1124
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:25,720
Speaker 1: redd it dump when we come back. And I'm wondering

1125
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:27,799
Speaker 1: if I have anything else to say that will could

1126
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:32,400
Speaker 1: get this podcast canceled. Well, well, cher, I'll come up

1127
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:36,759
Speaker 1: with something. We'll be right back after this, all right,

1128
00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:39,120
Speaker 1: so let's do redd it dump before we get into

1129
00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:40,280
Speaker 1: that succession finale.

1130
00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:42,000
Speaker 2: I can't talk about it.

1131
00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:45,279
Speaker 1: I won't say anything. Okay, almost anything, can I just

1132
00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:53,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna for myself. So you haven't watched it behind, okay, well,

1133
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:56,160
Speaker 1: I will not say anything, but this is not This

1134
00:52:56,200 --> 00:52:57,920
Speaker 1: will not be a spoiler. We didn't need the spoiler.

1135
00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:09,600
Speaker 1: Horn take it back, okay, thank you. It's like, yeah,

1136
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:14,680
Speaker 1: it was great. I will say that I am Satis five,

1137
00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:19,920
Speaker 1: to quote d from Clueless, I am Satis five. And

1138
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:25,520
Speaker 1: I will also say that I could. I didn't get

1139
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:27,560
Speaker 1: to watch it live when I was in Israel. I tried,

1140
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 1: it didn't work, and I had. I watched as soon

1141
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:35,480
Speaker 1: as I landed in Newark with Chris, and we on

1142
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:38,359
Speaker 1: our layover, we went through had to you know, get

1143
00:53:38,400 --> 00:53:41,200
Speaker 1: our bags, recheck them. I got clear, so I just

1144
00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 1: zipped through. Chris has to get in the TSA line.

1145
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:46,000
Speaker 1: He doesn't even have TSA pre it didn't print on

1146
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:47,480
Speaker 1: his things. So he's in the line for an hour.

1147
00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:50,040
Speaker 1: All we're looking forward to. All we want to do

1148
00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 1: is watch is. We can't wait because we have three

1149
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 1: our late layover, so we're watching it at Gate seventy

1150
00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:56,000
Speaker 1: one in Newark and we're just like and then we

1151
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:57,880
Speaker 1: had to board our flight and then we watched the

1152
00:53:58,040 --> 00:54:02,040
Speaker 1: last of it on the plane home, and it was

1153
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:06,600
Speaker 1: what it's it was. It was awesome and I loved it.

1154
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:10,239
Speaker 1: And I have read like a million things about it

1155
00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 1: since then, and it's become kind of my whole, you know,

1156
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:18,400
Speaker 1: purpose in life is dissecting it. And yeah, and I

1157
00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:21,839
Speaker 1: just I I saw a lot of theories about how

1158
00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:24,560
Speaker 1: the show would end. One in particular, a bestie set

1159
00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:28,040
Speaker 1: me and you didn't see that, did you want YOUA?

1160
00:54:28,080 --> 00:54:29,879
Speaker 1: I didn't show you that one? Now, Okay, I want

1161
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:31,480
Speaker 1: to just say that one was right on the money.

1162
00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 1: Good job to that person who sent me that theory, and.

1163
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:38,960
Speaker 3: The best acting ever stuck the landing. The whole series

1164
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:39,680
Speaker 3: stuck the landing.

1165
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:42,640
Speaker 1: I would say that. And you know, it was funny

1166
00:54:42,640 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 1: because I was reading if you watch Succession, you watch

1167
00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:47,759
Speaker 1: Game of Thrones, and there was this meme that was

1168
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:49,880
Speaker 1: really funny that was like if it's if we know

1169
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:53,360
Speaker 1: HBO how they end their you know best series, And

1170
00:54:53,400 --> 00:54:55,840
Speaker 1: it showed that Greg, who's this kind of ridiculous character,

1171
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:58,560
Speaker 1: was obviously going to become the king because didn't that

1172
00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:00,000
Speaker 1: isn't that how a Game of Thrones ended?

1173
00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:01,480
Speaker 2: Is this a spoiler alert?

1174
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:01,640
Speaker 4: No?

1175
00:55:02,080 --> 00:55:06,400
Speaker 1: No, I'm not. You think I'm not stupid. No, okay,

1176
00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:08,880
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not kidding. But Greg is certainly not

1177
00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:09,279
Speaker 1: the king.

1178
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:11,400
Speaker 2: Oh oh, because I've heard that theory.

1179
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:14,120
Speaker 1: Okay, No, that's for people who don't know what they're

1180
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:17,120
Speaker 1: talking about. There's no way Craig could become the king.

1181
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:19,359
Speaker 1: There's no way. But if they were, that was kind

1182
00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 1: of a joke circulating of like they've they've botched it

1183
00:55:23,360 --> 00:55:26,000
Speaker 1: so bad on the Game of Thrones.

1184
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:29,120
Speaker 3: No. Yes, if Succession ended like Game of Thrones, then

1185
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:31,360
Speaker 3: the main had to come back from the dead. You

1186
00:55:31,360 --> 00:55:34,239
Speaker 3: would have set the whole town on fire and then

1187
00:55:34,280 --> 00:55:36,799
Speaker 3: all the characters that you thought were good would start

1188
00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:39,399
Speaker 3: having sex with each other then die in a collapsed wall.

1189
00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 1: Wait were you when it.

1190
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:46,279
Speaker 3: Ended? Did you worry? Were you like.

1191
00:55:46,320 --> 00:55:48,360
Speaker 1: Ready to just turn off the TV? Or were you like,

1192
00:55:48,440 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 1: I guess I'm going to see this through, like and

1193
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:53,320
Speaker 1: it was this And it wasn't just the last episode.

1194
00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:55,480
Speaker 1: I mean I think the whole last two seasons from

1195
00:55:55,520 --> 00:55:59,160
Speaker 1: what Greg from what Chris says, were so bad that

1196
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:01,880
Speaker 1: it was like everyone couldn't believe it.

1197
00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 3: It's you know what. I was just rushed. And I

1198
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:09,239
Speaker 3: blame you know, Bennieff and Weiss, the co showrunners and

1199
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:12,000
Speaker 3: co creators, because rat they they didn't want to do

1200
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:14,239
Speaker 3: it anymore. They were like, we can wrap this up

1201
00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:16,120
Speaker 3: in twelve episodes, and it's like, what the fuck are

1202
00:56:16,160 --> 00:56:18,759
Speaker 3: you talking about. You've got two entire books to get through.

1203
00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:21,200
Speaker 3: You can't wrap it up in twelve episodes. But rather

1204
00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:23,759
Speaker 3: than do what people with other franchises do, which is

1205
00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:26,400
Speaker 3: just say, you know what, I'm gonna hand this off

1206
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:28,839
Speaker 3: to other showrunners and they can do it for as

1207
00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:31,279
Speaker 3: long as they want, they were like, we're gonna wrap

1208
00:56:31,320 --> 00:56:33,839
Speaker 3: it up ourselves, and I mean, I just I feel

1209
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:35,480
Speaker 3: like if they handed it off, it could have gone

1210
00:56:35,520 --> 00:56:38,000
Speaker 3: for another five seasons and instead of it being rushed

1211
00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:41,759
Speaker 3: and all the characters undermined and ending with a stupid

1212
00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:45,879
Speaker 3: conflagration of nonsense, it would have been good. It could

1213
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:47,799
Speaker 3: also become like Walking Dead, where it went on for

1214
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:49,959
Speaker 3: way too long and then like the later seasons were shit.

1215
00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:52,279
Speaker 3: But I do feel like it had a better chance

1216
00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:54,640
Speaker 3: of succeeding because Benieff and Weiss were like, we're gonna

1217
00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:56,960
Speaker 3: go do Star Wars now, we don't want to do

1218
00:56:57,160 --> 00:56:58,560
Speaker 3: more Game of runs.

1219
00:56:58,640 --> 00:56:59,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, they were.

1220
00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:01,800
Speaker 3: All the actors. The actors didn't want to do it

1221
00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:03,120
Speaker 3: anymore either, Like the.

1222
00:57:03,040 --> 00:57:05,160
Speaker 1: Fuck, why would you not want to do this show

1223
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:06,759
Speaker 1: that is like the best show because it's I guess

1224
00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:08,200
Speaker 1: it's a lot of work, and it's a lot of

1225
00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:11,279
Speaker 1: cold and in a lot of makeup, and like in

1226
00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 1: these really weird locations, like in Russia and like just

1227
00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:17,720
Speaker 1: being not that Russia's weird, but like here we go again,

1228
00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:20,160
Speaker 1: but like just being in places far from their family,

1229
00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:23,120
Speaker 1: like on the like shooting of show sucks kind.

1230
00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:24,800
Speaker 3: Of a lot of imagine you do it for ten

1231
00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:25,560
Speaker 3: years in the.

1232
00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:28,040
Speaker 1: Dark, I mean lead coffee cup on set and it's

1233
00:57:28,080 --> 00:57:31,280
Speaker 1: the biggest fucking plot line the whole show. But no

1234
00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:34,400
Speaker 1: succession ended perfectly. My only thing is I'm going through

1235
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:37,160
Speaker 1: a morning period of my favorite thing that I've had

1236
00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:39,640
Speaker 1: this year is gone away, and I need a new thing.

1237
00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 1: And on the girl's chat, they're like, I love the

1238
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:46,080
Speaker 1: show made, I'm just doing a Carlisle Maid was so good.

1239
00:57:46,360 --> 00:57:49,240
Speaker 1: There's no show on Netflix that will replace this for me.

1240
00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 1: So if you have any ideas of a book, the

1241
00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:55,280
Speaker 1: books are the only thing that will do do what

1242
00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:57,480
Speaker 1: this show did to me in terms of like how

1243
00:57:57,520 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 1: immersed I got in it. Maybe the show Six Feet

1244
00:57:59,920 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 1: Up Under, maybe The Wire. I know the shows that

1245
00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:04,040
Speaker 1: I could get into that would give me the same

1246
00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:06,000
Speaker 1: kind of thrill I already did mad Men. I'm probably

1247
00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:08,760
Speaker 1: going to start that again. Let me just say Gemstones,

1248
00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:09,680
Speaker 1: that's coming back.

1249
00:58:09,760 --> 00:58:11,800
Speaker 2: I think you'd like the Americans.

1250
00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:13,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe the Americans.

1251
00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:14,400
Speaker 2: Really well done.

1252
00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:18,720
Speaker 1: I watched The Whale okay on the way home.

1253
00:58:18,840 --> 00:58:21,360
Speaker 2: I can't believe it. I thought you'd never watch that.

1254
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 1: Well, Chris and I. Chris gave me two options, Grand

1255
00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:29,440
Speaker 1: Budapest Hotel or The Whale, and I want to do

1256
00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:33,880
Speaker 1: the choice, Sofa's choice because.

1257
00:58:35,240 --> 00:58:37,840
Speaker 2: The whole movie the Grand Budapest Hotel.

1258
00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 1: I saw it.

1259
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:44,640
Speaker 2: I didn't understand a single.

1260
00:58:44,880 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 1: Thing, really, in a lot of circumstances, not a single thing.

1261
00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:56,400
Speaker 1: I didn't either. I watched it.

1262
00:58:56,520 --> 00:58:58,040
Speaker 2: I didn't understand a damn thing.

1263
00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:04,480
Speaker 1: Glad that Yeah, I don't know. Maybe he's Dog's one.

1264
00:59:05,000 --> 00:59:06,320
Speaker 1: I saw the dog cartoon.

1265
00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:08,040
Speaker 3: It's Wes Anderson.

1266
00:59:08,120 --> 00:59:11,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it is twenty fourteen film twenty fourteen that

1267
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:14,320
Speaker 1: could have been known last was it just a second ago?

1268
00:59:14,480 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm confusing it. Sorry, I'm confusing it with the

1269
00:59:16,760 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 2: one in France or something.

1270
00:59:19,400 --> 00:59:22,760
Speaker 1: I really fucked up. I don't know what I'm talking about.

1271
00:59:23,680 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 3: The whale.

1272
00:59:24,800 --> 00:59:30,360
Speaker 1: The whale sucks. It sucked every I would rather watch

1273
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:36,560
Speaker 1: Free Willie. How is Brendan Fraser's performance great? Amazing? Right, Okay,

1274
00:59:36,680 --> 00:59:40,520
Speaker 1: he's great, but this movie is not Oscar worthy. Give

1275
00:59:40,600 --> 00:59:44,920
Speaker 1: me a fucking break. He's choking on a HOGI every three,

1276
00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:49,560
Speaker 1: he's pounding his chest, he's wheezing. It is porn for

1277
00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:54,360
Speaker 1: people who like, like hate fat people. And Lindy West

1278
00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 1: wrote an amazing piece that I've obviously been inspired by

1279
00:59:57,800 --> 01:00:01,400
Speaker 1: and have watched this with a discerning eye. But Lindy

1280
01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:05,919
Speaker 1: West is fat activist and she's incredible, a great writer.

1281
01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:08,480
Speaker 1: But she hated the movie. And I read her piece

1282
01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:11,160
Speaker 1: before I saw it, and I already read everything about

1283
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:13,360
Speaker 1: it that hated it, So I was already set up

1284
01:00:13,400 --> 01:00:16,680
Speaker 1: to hate this. But it was an eye roll fiesta.

1285
01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:20,760
Speaker 1: It was just it was just fat gore Like it

1286
01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:23,120
Speaker 1: was just like anyone who just wants to believe that

1287
01:00:23,160 --> 01:00:26,240
Speaker 1: fat people are just so disgusting. Like it was just

1288
01:00:27,360 --> 01:00:32,400
Speaker 1: it didn't deal with it as a addiction, which it

1289
01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:35,040
Speaker 1: clearly is as much as I wanted it to. Everyone's

1290
01:00:35,120 --> 01:00:36,840
Speaker 1: just mad at him the whole time. It was a

1291
01:00:36,920 --> 01:00:38,760
Speaker 1: cheap movie to make because he doesn't leave his home.

1292
01:00:38,800 --> 01:00:40,960
Speaker 1: It never leaves a home. There were some interesting like

1293
01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:44,600
Speaker 1: characters that appeared, and like the I'm just tired of

1294
01:00:44,640 --> 01:00:47,520
Speaker 1: the plotline of the Braddy daughter. Can we please give

1295
01:00:47,600 --> 01:00:50,200
Speaker 1: this up? Of like the daughter who's just like no, dad,

1296
01:00:50,360 --> 01:00:53,080
Speaker 1: you suck and like I'm not doing that fuck you,

1297
01:00:53,280 --> 01:00:56,200
Speaker 1: like I can't anymore. Just how about we get a

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Speaker 1: cooperative daughter, a daughter who are all teenage daughters like this,

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Speaker 1: I mean, the must be I was kind of county

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01:01:01,400 --> 01:01:04,160
Speaker 1: when I was like that, but it's not interesting anymore.

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01:01:04,480 --> 01:01:07,360
Speaker 1: And also like I.

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Speaker 3: Guess get it. You don't want to watch me eat

1303
01:01:09,040 --> 01:01:10,200
Speaker 3: my sandwiches anymore.

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01:01:10,440 --> 01:01:13,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like it's me being fat phobic. That

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01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:15,920
Speaker 1: is not the case here. I thought it was. I

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01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:21,000
Speaker 1: thought it was mean spirited. I thought it it didn't

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01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:24,840
Speaker 1: get into like the I just it just didn't do.

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01:01:25,640 --> 01:01:28,240
Speaker 1: Episodes of Intervention or My six hundred Pound Life are

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01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:30,560
Speaker 1: much more interesting than the show if you really want

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01:01:30,600 --> 01:01:34,440
Speaker 1: to know what the pain of like the fat person's

1311
01:01:34,960 --> 01:01:39,080
Speaker 1: you know, the person who's about to die from being fat.

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01:01:39,280 --> 01:01:41,280
Speaker 1: Existence is like it's just like this was.

1313
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Speaker 3: So is this just a thing that brought Brendan Frasier

1314
01:01:44,480 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 3: back or is there something?

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01:01:45,400 --> 01:01:48,000
Speaker 2: Yes, No, I think it was this The Affair kind

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01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:49,720
Speaker 2: of started his career back.

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01:01:49,760 --> 01:01:53,680
Speaker 1: He was really great in the Affair. He's amazing. Every

1318
01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 1: performance was great in this except the woman that was

1319
01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:58,560
Speaker 1: his friend who was just like mad all the time,

1320
01:01:59,000 --> 01:01:59,959
Speaker 1: just like stumping around.

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01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:02,000
Speaker 7: It was just if you've seen it, you'll know what

1322
01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:05,520
Speaker 7: I'm talking about. She's just like stop doing that, don't

1323
01:02:05,560 --> 01:02:08,320
Speaker 7: don't eat that, don't do that. Oh fuck you get

1324
01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:10,520
Speaker 7: out of here. Like she's just mad all the time.

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Speaker 1: There and Darnarnofsky that one movie he did, The Mother

1326
01:02:15,560 --> 01:02:18,680
Speaker 1: where they like crack a baby in half of the ending,

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01:02:18,720 --> 01:02:21,440
Speaker 1: it's just like it was awful. I mean that that

1328
01:02:21,520 --> 01:02:24,400
Speaker 1: movie was actually interesting, but it ends it's the same movie.

1329
01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:27,480
Speaker 1: It really is kind of the same movie. Okay, final thought,

1330
01:02:27,560 --> 01:02:32,400
Speaker 1: Let's get to reddit dump. This is your redit dump.

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01:02:33,640 --> 01:02:38,000
Speaker 1: Alrighty Okay, I saved some good stuff. Let's get to it.

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Speaker 2: Um.

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01:02:41,760 --> 01:02:44,360
Speaker 1: Okay. This is from ask Reddit. It says, what are

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01:02:44,400 --> 01:02:47,600
Speaker 1: some girl secrets guys don't know about?

1335
01:02:48,440 --> 01:02:50,160
Speaker 2: What?

1336
01:02:50,160 --> 01:02:52,680
Speaker 1: What are some girls secrets that guys don't know about? Okay?

1337
01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:55,520
Speaker 1: Someone said, selecting the right tampon is a gamble every time.

1338
01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:57,320
Speaker 1: Too small for the flow and you can feel it.

1339
01:02:57,360 --> 01:02:59,280
Speaker 1: Try to fall out as you walk because it's heavy.

1340
01:02:59,520 --> 01:03:01,400
Speaker 1: Two big for the flow, and you'll be faced with

1341
01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:05,120
Speaker 1: pulling out a particularly dry wad. Oh so painful. Yeah,

1342
01:03:05,120 --> 01:03:06,320
Speaker 1: that's a girl's secret for sure.

1343
01:03:06,760 --> 01:03:09,080
Speaker 3: Sure, But that guys don't know about.

1344
01:03:09,840 --> 01:03:10,560
Speaker 1: You don't know about that?

1345
01:03:10,720 --> 01:03:12,959
Speaker 3: I guess I don't. I don't don't. Yeah, I don't

1346
01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:16,440
Speaker 3: know about that. No, how to do that? Guys would

1347
01:03:16,480 --> 01:03:18,560
Speaker 3: love to know or something. It's just the guys have

1348
01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 3: no idea about.

1349
01:03:20,120 --> 01:03:23,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess that's that's it. Yeah, girls, secrets like

1350
01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:26,520
Speaker 1: just things that are happening in our bodies and our

1351
01:03:26,960 --> 01:03:29,720
Speaker 1: hearts and our pussies that you have no clue about

1352
01:03:30,320 --> 01:03:33,160
Speaker 1: how to do a silent fart. I mean everyone should

1353
01:03:33,200 --> 01:03:34,880
Speaker 1: be able to figure that one out. But you found

1354
01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:35,600
Speaker 1: that out way too.

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Speaker 2: Late, right, No, No, I've I know how to do

1356
01:03:38,160 --> 01:03:41,040
Speaker 2: those since I was doing those your whole life, probably

1357
01:03:41,280 --> 01:03:45,000
Speaker 2: well maybe like in my teens. I was like, oh, amazing.

1358
01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:48,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, they don't always work that way because sometimes

1359
01:03:48,240 --> 01:03:52,160
Speaker 1: your asshole is like, nope, yeah, this is an inside job.

1360
01:03:52,480 --> 01:03:54,560
Speaker 3: I took a forty week seminar, and.

1361
01:03:55,520 --> 01:03:57,160
Speaker 1: You know you know what it is, right Brian, you

1362
01:03:57,200 --> 01:03:58,840
Speaker 1: just pull your.

1363
01:03:58,760 --> 01:04:03,400
Speaker 3: Oh sure, sure, yeah, I guess not that that is

1364
01:04:03,440 --> 01:04:03,840
Speaker 3: a secret.

1365
01:04:03,880 --> 01:04:08,080
Speaker 2: I think men don't know how men how often women

1366
01:04:08,240 --> 01:04:10,160
Speaker 2: are getting something done to their face.

1367
01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:12,320
Speaker 1: But I don't know if that's a secret.

1368
01:04:12,360 --> 01:04:15,479
Speaker 2: But I think many more women are doing many more

1369
01:04:15,520 --> 01:04:17,440
Speaker 2: things than you have any idea about.

1370
01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:22,360
Speaker 1: Same with makeup. Just go google Blake Lively's notes. Everyone

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01:04:22,480 --> 01:04:25,080
Speaker 1: just do that, because I'm so tired of her being

1372
01:04:25,120 --> 01:04:31,280
Speaker 1: like lauded as the just natural beauty. Just see what's

1373
01:04:31,360 --> 01:04:34,400
Speaker 1: what's happened throughout the years, and and and don't ever

1374
01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:38,439
Speaker 1: compare anyone to her, because they're all, Yeah, I think

1375
01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:40,600
Speaker 1: that's another thing. And I'm not outing her. It's a

1376
01:04:40,680 --> 01:04:45,919
Speaker 1: very clear nose job. I see those jobs everywhere I can.

1377
01:04:46,200 --> 01:04:50,960
Speaker 1: I'm so good at spotting them now, you guess, because yeah,

1378
01:04:51,040 --> 01:04:53,200
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna get one pretty soon. I just

1379
01:04:53,280 --> 01:04:55,880
Speaker 1: love them. I think they're I think they're like, I'm

1380
01:04:55,920 --> 01:04:59,160
Speaker 1: starting to look at them like a cool haircut. Like

1381
01:04:59,240 --> 01:05:01,680
Speaker 1: that's how shame it should be. It shouldn't be something

1382
01:05:01,720 --> 01:05:03,680
Speaker 1: that shameful. You want to fix your fucking nose because

1383
01:05:03,680 --> 01:05:05,400
Speaker 1: you want to look better. Why is it okay to

1384
01:05:05,440 --> 01:05:07,120
Speaker 1: wear makeup to look better? Why is it okay to

1385
01:05:07,120 --> 01:05:08,520
Speaker 1: cut your hair to look better? Why is it okay

1386
01:05:08,520 --> 01:05:10,200
Speaker 1: to get your roots done to look better? But it's

1387
01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:12,320
Speaker 1: somehow you have to lie about having a nose job.

1388
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:14,360
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie about mine, because you will be

1389
01:05:14,400 --> 01:05:16,680
Speaker 1: able to tell. I didn't like how Jennifer Gray lost

1390
01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:19,240
Speaker 1: her whole career because she got a nose job, because

1391
01:05:19,240 --> 01:05:22,760
Speaker 1: everyone was so mad at her and disappointed, and it

1392
01:05:23,520 --> 01:05:26,280
Speaker 1: was almost like it wasn't because she wasn't cute anymore

1393
01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:29,320
Speaker 1: or a good actress. Anymore, or we liked you so

1394
01:05:29,400 --> 01:05:31,760
Speaker 1: much better when you looked like this. It was honestly

1395
01:05:31,800 --> 01:05:34,640
Speaker 1: like we're gonna punish you because we know you've done

1396
01:05:34,640 --> 01:05:35,560
Speaker 1: something that's vain.

1397
01:05:36,240 --> 01:05:38,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a different time now. I feel like people

1398
01:05:39,800 --> 01:05:44,480
Speaker 2: wouldn't care at all. It would reward her, Okay.

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01:05:44,480 --> 01:05:46,680
Speaker 3: The thing was that it made her look unique, and

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01:05:46,720 --> 01:05:48,440
Speaker 3: then when she did the nose job, she no longer

1401
01:05:48,520 --> 01:05:51,440
Speaker 3: had the unique look that the people were looking for.

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01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:53,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe that's it, but I really feel like it

1403
01:05:53,840 --> 01:05:56,960
Speaker 1: was a shame based like ostracization because it was so

1404
01:05:57,040 --> 01:06:01,760
Speaker 1: obvious she did and everyone else does. Very ain't work. Okay,

1405
01:06:01,800 --> 01:06:05,760
Speaker 1: this is one for Anya. This girl said, our vaginas

1406
01:06:05,760 --> 01:06:08,320
Speaker 1: are so acidic they can bleach underwear. A lot of

1407
01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:10,840
Speaker 1: girls who own black panties will know what I'm talking about.

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01:06:10,880 --> 01:06:14,640
Speaker 2: Oh, I've never bleached way before. I don't think mine

1409
01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:18,120
Speaker 2: bleach is it? But maybe I'm just not noticing. I

1410
01:06:18,160 --> 01:06:21,640
Speaker 2: know that, Like when I do those boric acid suppository

1411
01:06:21,680 --> 01:06:25,840
Speaker 2: here's a secret. Women sometimes use these boric acid suppositories

1412
01:06:25,880 --> 01:06:28,240
Speaker 2: that are great if you're prone to yeast infections, are

1413
01:06:28,520 --> 01:06:31,240
Speaker 2: you know, just to have that not so fresh feeling.

1414
01:06:32,040 --> 01:06:35,480
Speaker 2: And there's a great company that makes them and when

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01:06:35,520 --> 01:06:37,400
Speaker 2: I have used those and then I wake up.

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01:06:37,400 --> 01:06:39,680
Speaker 1: I've never told me about this. Oh, I've never heard

1417
01:06:39,720 --> 01:06:40,920
Speaker 1: of a boor because you don't.

1418
01:06:40,680 --> 01:06:42,800
Speaker 2: Have yeast, you're not prone to that stuff. But I

1419
01:06:42,800 --> 01:06:44,200
Speaker 2: would tell you in a heartbeat.

1420
01:06:43,880 --> 01:06:45,760
Speaker 1: If you had a East infection. Okay, so you do.

1421
01:06:45,920 --> 01:06:48,880
Speaker 1: You've wrote up them myself. I've never even heard you

1422
01:06:48,920 --> 01:06:51,320
Speaker 1: tell other like we've been in conversations. Yes, and then

1423
01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:54,520
Speaker 1: I talk about it a lot. Okay, yeah, Okay.

1424
01:06:54,760 --> 01:06:58,360
Speaker 2: Boric acid suppositories they kill them fast. They kill a

1425
01:06:58,400 --> 01:07:00,920
Speaker 2: East infection fast and just clear things up. If you're

1426
01:07:00,920 --> 01:07:05,800
Speaker 2: feeling weird anyway in the morning, however, the suppository will have,

1427
01:07:05,880 --> 01:07:09,480
Speaker 2: like you know, come apart. And boric acid, by the way,

1428
01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:14,200
Speaker 2: is fatal if you ingest it orally just saying don't

1429
01:07:14,280 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 2: let your dogs or kiss or anything like near your underwear.

1430
01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:17,560
Speaker 3: Go down on you.

1431
01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:20,520
Speaker 2: It will disintegrate your underwear the stuff.

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01:07:20,720 --> 01:07:22,240
Speaker 1: That's what I learned. I was like, why do I

1433
01:07:22,320 --> 01:07:26,080
Speaker 1: underwear have holes in the crotch, And it's because of that. Yeah,

1434
01:07:26,120 --> 01:07:29,320
Speaker 1: the word acid might have given that away. Okay, if

1435
01:07:29,360 --> 01:07:31,880
Speaker 1: you have long hair, you will deaf be pulling hair

1436
01:07:31,920 --> 01:07:35,400
Speaker 1: out of your butt crack after you shall oh okay, Oh,

1437
01:07:35,440 --> 01:07:37,760
Speaker 1: that happens all the time. You found like a long hair.

1438
01:07:37,800 --> 01:07:41,000
Speaker 1: Sometimes it like does a tournique around my clit, like

1439
01:07:41,040 --> 01:07:43,840
Speaker 1: it's like it's spun around it, and I like tug

1440
01:07:43,880 --> 01:07:47,240
Speaker 1: a hair and it'll like tug my vagina. Okay, this

1441
01:07:47,360 --> 01:07:49,320
Speaker 1: is another one, no clue. When our periods end, we

1442
01:07:49,360 --> 01:07:50,880
Speaker 1: often just kind of go fuck it, I'm done with

1443
01:07:50,920 --> 01:07:52,600
Speaker 1: this and decide it's done when it's about to end.

1444
01:07:52,640 --> 01:07:55,040
Speaker 1: That's really funny. We do do that. There's no like

1445
01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:58,080
Speaker 1: you don't get like something a seed doesn't pop in fallout,

1446
01:07:58,160 --> 01:08:01,760
Speaker 1: you go it's over a flag that would be up.

1447
01:08:02,200 --> 01:08:07,040
Speaker 3: There's nothing.

1448
01:08:07,320 --> 01:08:10,480
Speaker 1: It just you just kind of you take a gamble.

1449
01:08:10,680 --> 01:08:14,400
Speaker 1: You you almost just hope it's over, and so you

1450
01:08:14,400 --> 01:08:16,360
Speaker 1: you send a message to your vagina like we're done

1451
01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:19,600
Speaker 1: by going I'm gonna free ball it. Yeah, nothing, just

1452
01:08:19,600 --> 01:08:22,120
Speaker 1: to send a message like we're done, like to almost

1453
01:08:22,400 --> 01:08:24,559
Speaker 1: will it. And then you ruin your underwear and then

1454
01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:25,000
Speaker 1: a day and a.

1455
01:08:25,040 --> 01:08:28,679
Speaker 2: Half later it's like, JK, here's a little pink spotty.

1456
01:08:28,800 --> 01:08:33,040
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it comes back. We sometimes get a random

1457
01:08:33,080 --> 01:08:34,680
Speaker 1: pain in the boob and wonder if we're getting a

1458
01:08:34,720 --> 01:08:37,000
Speaker 1: heart attack. I think that's like a pain in my heart.

1459
01:08:38,960 --> 01:08:40,639
Speaker 1: I don't get it. I get it in my heart

1460
01:08:40,680 --> 01:08:43,160
Speaker 1: where you like have to freeze because you're like, if

1461
01:08:43,160 --> 01:08:47,080
Speaker 1: I move again, it's gonna do it. That's a man thing.

1462
01:08:47,320 --> 01:08:48,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, it must be a harm.

1463
01:08:51,160 --> 01:08:55,719
Speaker 3: Nothing or it's heartburn, it's pectorals, a lot of things.

1464
01:08:55,920 --> 01:08:56,240
Speaker 2: I hate it.

1465
01:08:56,280 --> 01:09:01,880
Speaker 1: Okay. This is one from me I R L. And

1466
01:09:01,920 --> 01:09:04,880
Speaker 1: it says does that sense for in real life? It

1467
01:09:04,920 --> 01:09:07,439
Speaker 1: says people who keep their phone silent twenty four to

1468
01:09:07,439 --> 01:09:09,639
Speaker 1: seven are so done with life. It's like a meme

1469
01:09:09,680 --> 01:09:10,320
Speaker 1: that says that.

1470
01:09:11,760 --> 01:09:12,000
Speaker 4: I do.

1471
01:09:13,760 --> 01:09:17,439
Speaker 1: Who what do you mean by we're done with life?

1472
01:09:17,439 --> 01:09:22,840
Speaker 3: We're a lie phone silent I'm fighting tooth.

1473
01:09:23,320 --> 01:09:26,160
Speaker 1: I don't need any alert on my phone because it's

1474
01:09:26,160 --> 01:09:29,920
Speaker 1: in my hand all the fucking time. I don't need it.

1475
01:09:30,479 --> 01:09:33,080
Speaker 1: That is why it's not in it, I would like

1476
01:09:33,120 --> 01:09:35,160
Speaker 1: to say, because I don't want to be bothered by it.

1477
01:09:35,479 --> 01:09:37,760
Speaker 1: And I have it on focus mode a lot because

1478
01:09:37,760 --> 01:09:39,439
Speaker 1: I or silent mode because I don't want to be

1479
01:09:39,439 --> 01:09:41,840
Speaker 1: bothered by it while it's in my hand or while

1480
01:09:41,880 --> 01:09:48,120
Speaker 1: I'm like watching a video on it. Someone who's better

1481
01:09:48,160 --> 01:09:51,519
Speaker 1: than me of like, reads books a lot, not on

1482
01:09:51,560 --> 01:09:56,040
Speaker 1: their phone. All my books are on my phone. Okay,

1483
01:09:58,720 --> 01:10:00,479
Speaker 1: men have read it. What is the some thing women

1484
01:10:00,560 --> 01:10:02,479
Speaker 1: hate about their bodies that you actually love?

1485
01:10:02,560 --> 01:10:02,720
Speaker 2: Oh?

1486
01:10:02,880 --> 01:10:05,439
Speaker 1: Bestie sent me this to share because she was like,

1487
01:10:05,479 --> 01:10:08,200
Speaker 1: maybe this would be good for other people to hear.

1488
01:10:08,479 --> 01:10:10,599
Speaker 2: Wait, men are asking what.

1489
01:10:10,600 --> 01:10:13,320
Speaker 1: This is for asking? This is asking men. Men have

1490
01:10:13,400 --> 01:10:15,120
Speaker 1: read it. What is something that women hate about their

1491
01:10:15,120 --> 01:10:16,240
Speaker 1: bodies that you actually love?

1492
01:10:16,640 --> 01:10:16,760
Speaker 3: Oh?

1493
01:10:17,120 --> 01:10:19,599
Speaker 1: Okay, this guy wrote a fucking oh you do.

1494
01:10:19,720 --> 01:10:24,919
Speaker 2: Okay, they're asses, their tits, they're vaginas.

1495
01:10:24,680 --> 01:10:30,120
Speaker 3: Jennifer Gray's nose, Blake Lively's old nose.

1496
01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:34,360
Speaker 1: Okay. Uh, this guy goes this. These are all guys.

1497
01:10:34,439 --> 01:10:36,880
Speaker 1: This reminds me kind of guys who like wear shirts

1498
01:10:36,880 --> 01:10:39,679
Speaker 1: that say feminist af and like try to get laid

1499
01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:43,400
Speaker 1: by liking things that women feel bad about themselves about.

1500
01:10:43,800 --> 01:10:46,439
Speaker 1: I actually love a women's arm fit hair. It's like

1501
01:10:46,600 --> 01:10:50,960
Speaker 1: fucking sexy give But then there are guys that like it,

1502
01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:54,000
Speaker 1: so like I can't judge them like like it.

1503
01:10:54,560 --> 01:10:57,479
Speaker 3: I like it, but don't go broadcasting it because you

1504
01:10:57,520 --> 01:10:58,559
Speaker 3: want to get some poon.

1505
01:10:59,120 --> 01:11:01,519
Speaker 1: Well, let me just say, this girl asked, So this

1506
01:11:01,560 --> 01:11:05,080
Speaker 1: isn't asking. Okay. This guy said, everything that has to

1507
01:11:05,080 --> 01:11:07,360
Speaker 1: do with getting older, oh, give me a fucking break.

1508
01:11:07,520 --> 01:11:09,200
Speaker 1: When my wife and I got married, we were obviously

1509
01:11:09,280 --> 01:11:11,599
Speaker 1: younger in our twenties, although never thin, I was more slender.

1510
01:11:11,640 --> 01:11:14,000
Speaker 1: My wife five nine has legs for days and just

1511
01:11:14,040 --> 01:11:16,240
Speaker 1: a bang and body. Now I'm not as thin, same

1512
01:11:16,240 --> 01:11:18,240
Speaker 1: as her. We have two kids, blah blah blah whatever,

1513
01:11:18,280 --> 01:11:20,479
Speaker 1: he says. She has more of a tummy now, bigger boobs,

1514
01:11:20,520 --> 01:11:22,080
Speaker 1: maybe doesn't shave like she used to, or where it

1515
01:11:22,120 --> 01:11:24,720
Speaker 1: can be lingerie outfits randomly, But I wouldn't trade it

1516
01:11:24,760 --> 01:11:27,000
Speaker 1: for the world. We've grown older together and I honestly

1517
01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:28,920
Speaker 1: couldn't find anything in this world that still turns me

1518
01:11:28,920 --> 01:11:31,280
Speaker 1: on as a certain way. My wife runs her fingers

1519
01:11:31,320 --> 01:11:33,680
Speaker 1: down my back or how she looked naked, and it's

1520
01:11:33,720 --> 01:11:36,720
Speaker 1: because she's mine. Not in a positive, possessive, sexist way.

1521
01:11:36,760 --> 01:11:38,519
Speaker 1: But I'm the luckiest guy in the world that this

1522
01:11:38,560 --> 01:11:40,360
Speaker 1: beautiful woman wants to spend the rest of her life

1523
01:11:40,360 --> 01:11:42,360
Speaker 1: with me and have sex with me. Hopefully this isn't

1524
01:11:42,400 --> 01:11:45,679
Speaker 1: too long winded. It kind of was, but it is sweet.

1525
01:11:46,280 --> 01:11:48,559
Speaker 3: But I'm also just looking.

1526
01:11:49,720 --> 01:11:53,000
Speaker 1: You're right, I know, And he's hoping his wife like

1527
01:11:53,080 --> 01:11:56,519
Speaker 1: stumbles upon this and she's like, is this you are

1528
01:11:56,600 --> 01:12:01,640
Speaker 1: you okay, jackpot or My ex girlfriend always complained, this

1529
01:12:01,680 --> 01:12:03,599
Speaker 1: is a different guy. My ex girlfriend always complained about

1530
01:12:03,600 --> 01:12:05,759
Speaker 1: the size of her cheeks and how she looked like Quako,

1531
01:12:05,880 --> 01:12:08,160
Speaker 1: a character from an old Mexican TV series. For me,

1532
01:12:08,240 --> 01:12:10,400
Speaker 1: she looked gorgeous. I love to kiss and caress her

1533
01:12:10,439 --> 01:12:11,320
Speaker 1: cute round face.

1534
01:12:11,600 --> 01:12:12,200
Speaker 2: That's sweet.

1535
01:12:12,520 --> 01:12:16,240
Speaker 1: That's uneven. Breast adds character and makes paying attention to

1536
01:12:16,240 --> 01:12:17,760
Speaker 1: each one a separate adventure.

1537
01:12:19,960 --> 01:12:21,080
Speaker 3: That guy's a serial killer.

1538
01:12:21,160 --> 01:12:24,880
Speaker 1: I think my wife was very self conscious about her

1539
01:12:24,920 --> 01:12:28,519
Speaker 1: inverted nipples, but I adore them. Someone says, it's you

1540
01:12:28,560 --> 01:12:31,280
Speaker 1: feel better. I have one, one of each Indian and Audi,

1541
01:12:31,320 --> 01:12:33,759
Speaker 1: and it makes me so self conscious. Same my kids.

1542
01:12:34,040 --> 01:12:36,559
Speaker 1: I've never heard of it either, but apparently it's a thing.

1543
01:12:36,760 --> 01:12:37,920
Speaker 2: An inverted nipple.

1544
01:12:38,640 --> 01:12:39,479
Speaker 1: Yes, I have one.

1545
01:12:39,600 --> 01:12:41,800
Speaker 2: It's nothing big. I didn't even know I had it

1546
01:12:41,960 --> 01:12:44,680
Speaker 2: until like three years ago, and then a doctor was like,

1547
01:12:44,720 --> 01:12:45,640
Speaker 2: have you always had this?

1548
01:12:45,720 --> 01:12:46,280
Speaker 1: I'm like, what.

1549
01:12:46,880 --> 01:12:48,559
Speaker 2: It just looks like a finger if you took your

1550
01:12:48,560 --> 01:12:51,040
Speaker 2: fingernail and pressed it hard into your nipple. That's what

1551
01:12:51,040 --> 01:12:51,519
Speaker 2: it looks like.

1552
01:12:52,320 --> 01:12:54,160
Speaker 1: It just looks like one has a nipple. But you

1553
01:12:54,240 --> 01:12:57,519
Speaker 1: never noticed that. I never noticed that, Like that it

1554
01:12:57,560 --> 01:12:58,400
Speaker 1: was different than the other.

1555
01:12:58,760 --> 01:13:01,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I never noticed it. Literally just looks like if

1556
01:13:01,439 --> 01:13:03,679
Speaker 2: you took your thumb and pressed it for thirty seconds

1557
01:13:03,720 --> 01:13:05,639
Speaker 2: into your nipple, Like would you even notice that?

1558
01:13:05,680 --> 01:13:06,920
Speaker 3: And it's like that all the time.

1559
01:13:07,160 --> 01:13:09,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, my nipples like stick out.

1560
01:13:10,200 --> 01:13:12,080
Speaker 2: Okay, perfect pussy and.

1561
01:13:12,280 --> 01:13:15,360
Speaker 1: No I don't have a perfect pussy and I don't

1562
01:13:15,360 --> 01:13:17,679
Speaker 1: have perfect nibbles. But I'm just saying, like, I don't

1563
01:13:17,760 --> 01:13:20,200
Speaker 1: understand what it. Inverted nipple looks like I should google

1564
01:13:20,200 --> 01:13:23,160
Speaker 1: one hold on list Okay, inverted.

1565
01:13:22,600 --> 01:13:24,719
Speaker 2: But they're going to show you the most extreme one.

1566
01:13:24,960 --> 01:13:29,840
Speaker 1: Right right, I'm all all on extreme and in my mind, okay,

1567
01:13:31,080 --> 01:13:37,120
Speaker 1: I see it looks like a belly button kind of

1568
01:13:37,960 --> 01:13:38,639
Speaker 1: what's the one?

1569
01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:40,080
Speaker 2: Is it the first one you're looking at?

1570
01:13:40,200 --> 01:13:43,559
Speaker 3: Oh? Okay, okay, yes, there's one of top doctors that

1571
01:13:43,600 --> 01:13:45,400
Speaker 3: looks like it would it's not too extreme.

1572
01:13:46,320 --> 01:13:52,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, wait, this doesn't look like mine. No, these are intense.

1573
01:13:52,960 --> 01:13:55,559
Speaker 2: Mine is just a very slight literally like if you

1574
01:13:55,600 --> 01:13:57,040
Speaker 2: took your nail and just put it in there.

1575
01:13:57,040 --> 01:13:59,080
Speaker 1: I don't even think Matt would notice. So you never

1576
01:13:59,200 --> 01:14:01,040
Speaker 1: noticed that it was than the other one. You will

1577
01:14:01,080 --> 01:14:04,880
Speaker 1: never notice that, okay, okay, well then great, cellulate. Someone said, Cellulate,

1578
01:14:04,920 --> 01:14:06,679
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck what kind of phone she got?

1579
01:14:07,120 --> 01:14:13,720
Speaker 3: What oun sell you? He's gotta sell sell you light.

1580
01:14:13,800 --> 01:14:14,439
Speaker 3: I don't give a.

1581
01:14:17,439 --> 01:14:20,360
Speaker 1: I hate that guy. But also Cellulate, do you guys

1582
01:14:20,360 --> 01:14:22,720
Speaker 1: care about cellulate? I think they. I think they do.

1583
01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:25,679
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think it's the greatest looking thing.

1584
01:14:27,920 --> 01:14:29,760
Speaker 3: But it's not there.

1585
01:14:29,800 --> 01:14:35,040
Speaker 1: I guess exactly. It's not. It's you want to one, right.

1586
01:14:35,160 --> 01:14:36,680
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sure it is to some people, but

1587
01:14:36,680 --> 01:14:38,320
Speaker 1: I don't think it's like gonna make you leave your

1588
01:14:38,320 --> 01:14:40,400
Speaker 1: wife if she did. I don't think it's the biggest deal.

1589
01:14:40,560 --> 01:14:44,160
Speaker 3: Harry Pitts and cellulite and missed the line breasts.

1590
01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:48,040
Speaker 1: Someone said, I love sleepy, set back bedroom eyes, and

1591
01:14:48,080 --> 01:14:50,160
Speaker 1: I love boyish clothes on girls so hot. I also

1592
01:14:50,200 --> 01:14:52,760
Speaker 1: like when a woman has a deeper voice. God, it's hot.

1593
01:14:53,240 --> 01:14:53,600
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1594
01:14:54,400 --> 01:14:56,240
Speaker 1: My wife's boob. She hates them with the passion. I

1595
01:14:56,280 --> 01:15:00,080
Speaker 1: cannot figure out why they are perfect. Okay, so oh,

1596
01:15:00,160 --> 01:15:02,960
Speaker 1: it's just a bunch I'm trying to think of. I

1597
01:15:03,000 --> 01:15:05,479
Speaker 1: will say the boyish clothes thing, it's all I want

1598
01:15:05,479 --> 01:15:08,360
Speaker 1: to wear is boy clothes. I don't I want to

1599
01:15:08,360 --> 01:15:12,439
Speaker 1: wear clothes that fit comfortably, don't constantly make me feel fat.

1600
01:15:12,760 --> 01:15:16,519
Speaker 1: Being a girl and wearing jeans is hell, Okay, why

1601
01:15:16,520 --> 01:15:19,840
Speaker 1: do we always feel fat? Because jeans are styled to

1602
01:15:19,880 --> 01:15:22,160
Speaker 1: be tight on us that is the style and it's

1603
01:15:22,200 --> 01:15:23,840
Speaker 1: not always the style. And I know men are like, well,

1604
01:15:23,840 --> 01:15:25,720
Speaker 1: why don't you wear more comfortably because they're not as

1605
01:15:25,760 --> 01:15:28,200
Speaker 1: attractive as they're more comfortable. They're not the style that

1606
01:15:28,200 --> 01:15:30,479
Speaker 1: are in. Jeans are supposed to be snug, So if

1607
01:15:30,520 --> 01:15:33,759
Speaker 1: you gain a pound, you feel fat because the jeans,

1608
01:15:34,120 --> 01:15:36,080
Speaker 1: the jeans are supposed to Like when I go to

1609
01:15:36,160 --> 01:15:38,920
Speaker 1: my stylist, jeans are supposed to be hard to get into.

1610
01:15:38,920 --> 01:15:41,040
Speaker 1: You're supposed to have to like, hop that's like a

1611
01:15:41,080 --> 01:15:44,080
Speaker 1: feet jean that fits, so when it doesn't fit, if

1612
01:15:44,160 --> 01:15:46,760
Speaker 1: you just have a little water weight or something. That's

1613
01:15:46,760 --> 01:15:49,599
Speaker 1: why women constantly feel fat. It's because all your clothes

1614
01:15:49,640 --> 01:15:52,080
Speaker 1: are so goddamn tight and men have a little bit,

1615
01:15:52,160 --> 01:15:54,479
Speaker 1: they have so much more room. And I've been more

1616
01:15:54,560 --> 01:15:57,439
Speaker 1: wearing baggy or stuff lately. And Chris got me a sweat.

1617
01:15:57,640 --> 01:16:00,360
Speaker 1: Chris Like, the best thing I've done is tell Chris, like,

1618
01:16:00,680 --> 01:16:02,640
Speaker 1: will you go find me like a shirt that you

1619
01:16:02,680 --> 01:16:05,840
Speaker 1: think would look good on me? And then he goes

1620
01:16:05,840 --> 01:16:08,799
Speaker 1: shopping and I get a new shirt, and he's excited

1621
01:16:08,840 --> 01:16:13,320
Speaker 1: about it, and he tries to buy stuff that I'll like,

1622
01:16:13,479 --> 01:16:15,800
Speaker 1: so he buys them bigger, and so then I get

1623
01:16:15,840 --> 01:16:18,479
Speaker 1: to wear bigger clothes, clothes that are probably less attractive

1624
01:16:18,479 --> 01:16:20,880
Speaker 1: to my boyfriend because they are bigger, because they're more

1625
01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:23,320
Speaker 1: like boy clothes, But because he bought them, he is

1626
01:16:23,360 --> 01:16:26,920
Speaker 1: attracted to me in it, when when maybe never really the.

1627
01:16:26,920 --> 01:16:30,200
Speaker 3: Opposite I think. I mean, I I do think that

1628
01:16:30,439 --> 01:16:33,599
Speaker 3: a tight jean looks good, but I really like a

1629
01:16:33,640 --> 01:16:37,960
Speaker 3: baggy casual girl. Oh do you really do? And I

1630
01:16:38,040 --> 01:16:39,720
Speaker 3: love when I can see her armfit hair.

1631
01:16:40,560 --> 01:16:41,200
Speaker 1: I'm just kidding.

1632
01:16:41,240 --> 01:16:44,960
Speaker 5: No, I get t shirt also.

1633
01:16:45,160 --> 01:16:49,519
Speaker 1: What Oh yeah, he is right and it's tight as hell. Wait, Noah,

1634
01:16:49,560 --> 01:16:52,599
Speaker 1: you said recently on a girl. I don't know where

1635
01:16:52,600 --> 01:16:54,200
Speaker 1: it was, but you said that. You were like, I

1636
01:16:54,240 --> 01:16:57,479
Speaker 1: don't know how to dress anymore. You were talking about that.

1637
01:16:57,560 --> 01:16:58,720
Speaker 1: It was so funny to me.

1638
01:16:59,040 --> 01:17:01,320
Speaker 5: I don't know how to I don't Aviy and I

1639
01:17:01,360 --> 01:17:04,960
Speaker 5: we do this totally subconsciously. When we don't see each

1640
01:17:04,960 --> 01:17:06,639
Speaker 5: other in the morning getting ready, we end up wearing

1641
01:17:06,640 --> 01:17:08,839
Speaker 5: the same exact things.

1642
01:17:08,320 --> 01:17:11,639
Speaker 1: Exact the exactually works. We both go shopping at ARII

1643
01:17:11,800 --> 01:17:17,960
Speaker 1: now from all clothes. Yes, it's it is confusing when

1644
01:17:18,000 --> 01:17:21,680
Speaker 1: you are on the precipice of forty, you're like, you

1645
01:17:21,760 --> 01:17:26,240
Speaker 1: can't do things. You do need to start changing, Like

1646
01:17:26,360 --> 01:17:30,840
Speaker 1: I am getting ready for a total wardrobe overhaul of

1647
01:17:30,920 --> 01:17:33,599
Speaker 1: like no more, and all I really want to wear

1648
01:17:33,640 --> 01:17:35,800
Speaker 1: is Lulu Lemon. I mean, it's really all that feels

1649
01:17:35,800 --> 01:17:39,200
Speaker 1: comfortable you switch to. It's just it doesn't look as

1650
01:17:39,240 --> 01:17:43,720
Speaker 1: good as a put together outfit. But I'm feeling I'm

1651
01:17:43,720 --> 01:17:46,360
Speaker 1: feeling just as confounded by like what is cute? And

1652
01:17:46,400 --> 01:17:49,080
Speaker 1: do I care about what's cute? Am I wearing cute stuff?

1653
01:17:49,080 --> 01:17:52,000
Speaker 1: Who am I trying to win over? When I look cute?

1654
01:17:52,200 --> 01:17:52,639
Speaker 3: My mom?

1655
01:17:53,080 --> 01:17:54,920
Speaker 1: I like my mom to go you look cute? I

1656
01:17:54,960 --> 01:17:58,040
Speaker 1: do like that, but like, what else does that get me?

1657
01:17:58,160 --> 01:17:58,280
Speaker 3: Like?

1658
01:17:58,400 --> 01:18:01,479
Speaker 1: I don't. I'm not trying to get late anymore. I

1659
01:18:01,479 --> 01:18:03,280
Speaker 1: don't even want, you know, like I do like when

1660
01:18:03,360 --> 01:18:05,800
Speaker 1: Chris thinks I look cute, so sometimes I dress up

1661
01:18:05,800 --> 01:18:07,800
Speaker 1: for him. But what is more disappointing than when you

1662
01:18:07,880 --> 01:18:10,120
Speaker 1: dress up and the person you're dressing up board doesn't

1663
01:18:10,120 --> 01:18:13,920
Speaker 1: say anything. Maybe nothing in the whole world feels that bad.

1664
01:18:13,960 --> 01:18:16,200
Speaker 3: So I don't even like to do that.

1665
01:18:16,760 --> 01:18:19,080
Speaker 1: Which I'll probably have on Thursday. But yes, it's that

1666
01:18:19,600 --> 01:18:20,439
Speaker 1: is the truth.

1667
01:18:20,479 --> 01:18:24,439
Speaker 2: Our experiment I did recently was I thought, I'll just

1668
01:18:24,479 --> 01:18:26,960
Speaker 2: wear a half shirt and see if I can get

1669
01:18:27,000 --> 01:18:30,320
Speaker 2: Math's attention. And I did put on like a little

1670
01:18:30,439 --> 01:18:32,439
Speaker 2: I never wear half shirts or skimpy tops.

1671
01:18:32,439 --> 01:18:33,920
Speaker 1: That I did this one day, and I was like,

1672
01:18:34,280 --> 01:18:35,360
Speaker 1: that's all it took.

1673
01:18:35,840 --> 01:18:39,880
Speaker 2: Like I walked downstairs and he immediately like starts pawing

1674
01:18:39,920 --> 01:18:41,960
Speaker 2: me or what God, my nose is running so bad.

1675
01:18:41,960 --> 01:18:44,360
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. Yeah snot coming out of my nose

1676
01:18:44,360 --> 01:18:46,400
Speaker 2: as I'm telling you a story about how sexy I looked.

1677
01:18:48,479 --> 01:18:51,720
Speaker 2: Then he like completely got into me, and I was like, oh,

1678
01:18:51,760 --> 01:18:53,920
Speaker 2: it's that easy, so I'm gonna do that.

1679
01:18:53,960 --> 01:18:57,160
Speaker 1: I were sometimes I just my favorite trick is to

1680
01:18:58,280 --> 01:19:00,920
Speaker 1: come out wearing like something new and then and just

1681
01:19:00,960 --> 01:19:03,400
Speaker 1: be casual, like just take out a tit and just

1682
01:19:03,479 --> 01:19:05,320
Speaker 1: tuck up the tuck up your shirt so that it's

1683
01:19:05,360 --> 01:19:07,800
Speaker 1: like your tit is hanging out. We'll just open in

1684
01:19:07,840 --> 01:19:10,360
Speaker 1: the air or like pull it down, pull your tank

1685
01:19:10,400 --> 01:19:13,000
Speaker 1: top down so it's just like exposed, and then just

1686
01:19:13,000 --> 01:19:15,760
Speaker 1: have a normal conversation and wait until they see it.

1687
01:19:15,760 --> 01:19:17,720
Speaker 1: It's almost this trend that's going on where there's like

1688
01:19:18,479 --> 01:19:20,120
Speaker 1: a girl will show her mom her phone and she

1689
01:19:20,120 --> 01:19:22,240
Speaker 1: has like baby hands and she's like tapping it and

1690
01:19:22,240 --> 01:19:25,760
Speaker 1: the mom like doesn't see the little and she assert

1691
01:19:25,880 --> 01:19:28,200
Speaker 1: it out. All right, guys, let's go. This is the

1692
01:19:28,280 --> 01:19:30,240
Speaker 1: end of the podcast. Thank you so much for listening.

1693
01:19:30,600 --> 01:19:35,840
Speaker 1: Anya feel better, simple and yeah, great show. We'll see

1694
01:19:35,840 --> 01:19:39,000
Speaker 1: you tomorrow on the podcast. On my birthday is when

1695
01:19:39,000 --> 01:19:41,680
Speaker 1: it will air. Let's not make a big deal out

1696
01:19:41,680 --> 01:19:45,800
Speaker 1: of everyone. Yeah, it's not a big deal. It's get

1697
01:19:46,840 --> 01:19:49,759
Speaker 1: It's just another time around the fucking sun or the globe.

1698
01:19:49,760 --> 01:19:52,200
Speaker 1: I don't know which one it is. Thank you for

1699
01:19:52,280 --> 01:19:59,599
Speaker 1: listening to the show. Uh Dopeka, and just wear boy clothes.