1 00:00:01,720 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: This is from CC on Steve Harvey FM CEC says, 2 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 1: I'm in a great relationship and I love my boyfriend, 3 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 1: but I can't seem to warm up to his family, 4 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 1: and I feel awful about it. They haven't done anything wrong, 5 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:18,959 Speaker 1: they just irritate me in ways I can't explain. What 6 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 1: really throws me is how close they all are constant 7 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 1: affection and family first energy that I didn't grow up with. 8 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 1: And I sometimes wonder if I'm just feeling jealous or 9 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: out of place. I don't want this to turn into 10 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 1: resentment or cause problems in my relationship, but I also 11 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 1: can't ignore how uncomfortable I feel. Why would I be 12 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 1: bothered by people who haven't actually done anything to me? 13 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 2: And how do I get past it? Because you friend this? 14 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 3: Because you you're the problem. 15 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:51,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're a hater problem. 16 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 3: But they're so close, loving, affectionate towards love, and you 17 00:00:57,320 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 3: say it yourself. You can't even explain why you just 18 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 3: hating because of something internal in you. 19 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 2: If she didn't grow up used to it, yeah. 20 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:13,400 Speaker 3: Dang, what you do now you're looking at it? You 21 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:15,480 Speaker 3: can't get along with them. 22 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 2: Constant affection and family first energy is what bothers. 23 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:25,119 Speaker 3: You. Yeah, you that little monkey that's online right now, 24 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 3: that all the monkeys doing like. 25 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 2: Punch you wow, bully and punch. Yeah. 26 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 3: I've never been more concerned about a monkey and my life. 27 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 2: The whole world is fascinating. It was on the news. 28 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 2: Everything all right, we have time for another one, Steve. 29 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 1: This is from Chanie on Steve Harvey f M. Chanie says, 30 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 1: I'm in my early thirties and I'm already completely burnt out. 31 00:01:57,560 --> 00:02:00,040 Speaker 1: At first, I thought it was just my company, but 32 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 1: the more I sit with it, the more I think 33 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 1: it's the entire field. I'm in, the constant pressure to 34 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 1: be quote on and to produce more, earn more, achieve more, 35 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:14,119 Speaker 1: and it feels endless. I'm not in a total crisis, 36 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:17,559 Speaker 1: but I can feel myself slipping into an unhealthy headspace, 37 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:20,919 Speaker 1: and I don't want to ignore it. I'm craving some 38 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 1: kind of reset, maybe a solo weekend away, or even 39 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: just a way to unplug and breathe. 40 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 2: Are you listening, Okay? What is going on in the darkness? 41 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:32,639 Speaker 2: I heard it. 42 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 3: I already got my answer. 43 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 1: She just wants to know how does she reset when 44 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,919 Speaker 1: the problem feels bigger than one bad week. 45 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 3: You in the wrong job. You've made a bad career choice. 46 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 3: You're not happy. So what you want me to do? 47 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:51,639 Speaker 2: Help her? 48 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 3: Why don't you get another job? 49 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 2: Well, maybe she's not that simple. Yeah, no, it is 50 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 2: that simple. See that was wrong with y'all. 51 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 3: No ya here, y'all go. 52 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 2: Maybe she needs therapy, Maybe she need a new job. 53 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 2: Let her need some therapy. 54 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:14,240 Speaker 3: She don't need no therapy. She need a new job. 55 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:18,399 Speaker 2: She says. She can feel herself slipping into an unhealthy headspace. 56 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 3: Job. That ain't therapy, that's a new job. 57 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:27,920 Speaker 2: Unhealthy heads all jogs. 58 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 3: Y'all make me sick. Hey, listen to. 59 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 2: Me, don't boy, let me ask you. Let me say this, Steve. 60 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 1: Boy, Uh yeah what I said, he said. 61 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 2: But listen, Steve, Yeah, I didn't say that. 62 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 1: You're just readyremy here an. 63 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 2: You're a little instigator, that's what you are. Go ahead 64 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 2: or just little okay, she she says. 65 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: To produce what she says, the cot see, but you 66 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: heard everything else. The constant pressure to be on to 67 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 1: produce more, to earn more, achieve more. It feels endless. 68 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 1: Isn't that how jobs are these days? Wherever she goes, 69 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 1: even she does get a new job. 70 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 2: You need you need a job down at the beach, 71 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:18,279 Speaker 2: the light guard. 72 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 3: Now you need to go down to Key Wesson, be 73 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 3: a waitress at one of them lodges and you know, 74 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:27,039 Speaker 3: make margaritas and all this here. You you don't want 75 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 3: no pressure. 76 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 2: You're in the wrong job. 77 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 3: I had a job like that. Lincoln Electric got quit. 78 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 1: Okay, we'll have more of it. 79 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 2: That caused all of that. You're listening to the Steve 80 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:45,679 Speaker 2: Harvey Morning Show.