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<v Speaker 1>like a girl that appreciates a nice broke dude from

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<v Speaker 1>time to time. Katie, who's on the phone to do

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update right now, loves broke dudes. Wow, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up, Katie? How are you? Hey, guys you're at

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<v Speaker 1>We'll get to how much you like broke guys in

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<v Speaker 1>just a second, But first, tell us about the broke

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<v Speaker 1>guy that you went on a date with. What's his name?

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Gabriel. Gabriel all right, and how did

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<v Speaker 1>you meet him? We met on a dating app, not

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<v Speaker 1>to pay for dating app. Obviously true. It was that

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<v Speaker 1>like part of his like profile that he said he

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<v Speaker 1>was a broke dude. No, not like that's not the

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<v Speaker 1>central factor of the story. Oh, okay, do you guys know, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's just what I chose to highlight on from our email.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about your date with Gabriel we had a

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<v Speaker 1>great date. I mean, and honestly, like I've I've been

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<v Speaker 1>on and off dating apps for the last year, like

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<v Speaker 1>a few like Bumble, Tinder, Okay, Jupid. I've really tried

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, and some have been really bad, but some

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<v Speaker 1>have been good. And Gabe, this one, my hand, was

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<v Speaker 1>actually one of the best I've ever had. I've never

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<v Speaker 1>felt like I've met someone online and really really really

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<v Speaker 1>like them. Oh yeah, so sweet. Yeah, it sucks even

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<v Speaker 1>more that you're not going to call back now exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why I wanted to talk to you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about the date and why I keep calling

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<v Speaker 1>him a broke guy. You should probably explain that. Yeah. So,

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<v Speaker 1>so we met at a restaurant and it's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>funny because we sat down and he looked really nervous,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've done this a lot in the last year,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's kind of just like it doesn't really work

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<v Speaker 1>me up anymore. And I like looked at him and

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<v Speaker 1>just said, you don't have to be nervous, And I thought, maybe,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, maybe he doesn't do this a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe he I intimidated him, maybe he thought I was

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<v Speaker 1>pretty I don't know, but either way. I just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of wanted to let him know that it was cool

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<v Speaker 1>and like it's okay, like, no no pressure, this is

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<v Speaker 1>just fun, right, did that help? Well? He said that

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't that, and it was something else, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I asked him what he was talking about, and he said,

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest, I just don't think I can afford

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<v Speaker 1>the food here, So that's your broke jokes thing whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I laughed at him and left. No, no, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>laughed because I was not expecting that, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>I told him, wow, why you're a breath of fresh here,

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<v Speaker 1>because honestly, like I love that you are honest? All right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I was not expecting him to say that,

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<v Speaker 1>And it wasn't a turn off to me. It was

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<v Speaker 1>too expensive, and I appreciated dishonesty. I've done that before,

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<v Speaker 1>like I've definitely looked up menu, was ahead of time

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<v Speaker 1>and changed plans rightly. So what did you guys do?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you leave or did you offer to pay for

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<v Speaker 1>the meal? So I said, well, let's just get out

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<v Speaker 1>here and go somewhere else. And you know, he was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of worried and so are you sure? Is it okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, yes, what are you fine, let's go,

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<v Speaker 1>and it wanted to be weird uncomfortable, so we left

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<v Speaker 1>and just went down the street and grabbed some euros

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<v Speaker 1>and beers at this little hole in the wall placed perfect. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was you know, it's great. I don't care where

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<v Speaker 1>we are. I just wanted, you know, meet someone and

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<v Speaker 1>talk to them. And it was super fun and the

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<v Speaker 1>honesty must have made you feel comfortable with him too, totally,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was like, you know, without having this kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like fine dining atmosphere around as it was better

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<v Speaker 1>I think in a casual setting. So that was great

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<v Speaker 1>and so did he drop his nervousness after that when

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<v Speaker 1>you guys went to the europlace totally and we talked

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<v Speaker 1>like nothing felt like formal or surfacing or superficial. We

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<v Speaker 1>talked about like a lot more and I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>we were really connecting and it was so refreshing. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, you sound like you were so jaded

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<v Speaker 1>before this man came along, and he like renewed your

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<v Speaker 1>spirit in like the hope for love. Yes, I always

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<v Speaker 1>have zero expectation, which is why you're never nervous, because

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<v Speaker 1>he got nothing to lose exactly, that's how Yep, that's

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<v Speaker 1>exactly what I do. And so at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the day, I kind of like was joking with him

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, do you want to die in

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<v Speaker 1>dash here too? And he thought it was funny and

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<v Speaker 1>we laughed and did you guys actually dine and dash? Though? No,

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't, damn we just you know, we ended the

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<v Speaker 1>day normally. He gave me a hug and I have

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<v Speaker 1>not hurt him him since, like, except for a text

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<v Speaker 1>dot night saying thanks to the date. Okay, and what

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<v Speaker 1>do you think went wrong? Why do you think he's

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<v Speaker 1>not wanting to go out again? I don't know, like

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<v Speaker 1>I said, just being able to be honest with each other,

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<v Speaker 1>changing the place like going to someone and more casual.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that it was kind of fun and chill

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<v Speaker 1>and there was no hard feelings, no reason to feel

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassed or weird. I thought it was really really actually,

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<v Speaker 1>he's like again, one of the best days I've had

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<v Speaker 1>in a long time. I think it's straight. He's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back either, yeah, because you sound awesome on

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<v Speaker 1>the day, thank you. I thought it was all right,

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<v Speaker 1>Well we'll try to figure it out. We'll play a

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<v Speaker 1>song and then come back and call him and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second day up date. Okay, great, thank you, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>hang on looking jubil in the morning. Hey, Katie, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's gotta be frustrating because you said you went out

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<v Speaker 1>on one of the greatest dates in your whole life,

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<v Speaker 1>and now the dude's not calling you back. That's I

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<v Speaker 1>just I was just thinking about it's gonna be frustrating

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<v Speaker 1>because clearly you had a very different experience if you

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<v Speaker 1>think about it. I mean maybe, yeah, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know why. I mean, I don't know either. You

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<v Speaker 1>sound cool, especially, you know because you told us how

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<v Speaker 1>you guys went out to a restaurant that was too

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<v Speaker 1>expensive for him, and he actually told you that, and

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<v Speaker 1>you still were like, let's get out of here and

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<v Speaker 1>go someplace cheaper. That's very understanding. As a dude, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>be like, oh, that's awesome. She doesn't care if I

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<v Speaker 1>have money or whatever. I can just be myself really good.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know why you're not getting a call

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<v Speaker 1>back either, but I'm gonna call him now. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't have enough money, so maybe he's just saving

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<v Speaker 1>up money so he can take you on a better

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<v Speaker 1>date next time, Like olive garden. Wow, maybe take you

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<v Speaker 1>to the gas station, buy you a Voss water. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he's saving up for a Voss water that's the fancy

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<v Speaker 1>one in a glass bottle. You know. Hey, you guys joke,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's actually really romantic. If that was the case,

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<v Speaker 1>I absolutely think that you should go to the gas

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<v Speaker 1>station with him. I would I would go to a

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<v Speaker 1>gas station. I just want to see him again. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call him right now and see if we

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<v Speaker 1>can figure out why he's not getting back to you. Okay, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, I gotta speak to Gabriel. This

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<v Speaker 1>is Gabriel, Gabriel, how are you man? This is Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>from the radio show Brooke and Jewel in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Call him from where Brooke and Jewel in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a radio show. Oh um? Okay, okay. Any idea

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<v Speaker 1>why a radio show is calling you? Or do you

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<v Speaker 1>get radio show is calling you? No? I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Where are you guys calling? Kay? I'm calling you today

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<v Speaker 1>because we got an email about you from somebody who

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<v Speaker 1>listens to our show about me. Yes, her name is Katie.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, weird, weird? Do you know Katie. You remember Katie. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we went on a date. Yes, Yeah, that's exactly why

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<v Speaker 1>we're calling. We do a segment called the second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where if you go out on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody and then end up not calling them back after,

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<v Speaker 1>they can email us to get you on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and ask what happened? Slow down for a second. Why

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<v Speaker 1>why isn't she calling me? Why isn't she just asked

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<v Speaker 1>me herself? Well, because apparently she's tried to get a

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<v Speaker 1>hold of you, but you won't text her back or

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<v Speaker 1>call her back. So that's why she hasn't asked you herself,

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<v Speaker 1>because you won't respond to her. Yeah, pretty good reason,

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<v Speaker 1>the whole point behind what we're doing right now. I

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<v Speaker 1>get that. But she conducted a radio station. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean how else? I mean, she didn't have any other

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<v Speaker 1>way to get a hold of you, and she also

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<v Speaker 1>know what's going on. So bizarre. Okay, did you wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you like Katie? She was nice? Yeah, she seems

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<v Speaker 1>like a nice person. You know. She said that the

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<v Speaker 1>date she went on with you is one of the

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<v Speaker 1>best dates she's ever been on in her entire life.

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<v Speaker 1>That's wow, that's that's sweet. Yeah, no pressure or anything. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and she can't think of any reason why you wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with her again. Did she do

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<v Speaker 1>something wrong on your date? You know, she just has

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a unique view on how life works, and

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't really my thing a unique view on how

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<v Speaker 1>life works. Can you explain that a little bit more

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<v Speaker 1>for us? You know, it's it's kind of embarrassing. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if I should okay, embarrassing for her? You

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<v Speaker 1>think it might be okay, Well, she's prepared to hear

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<v Speaker 1>whatever you have to say. I mean, that's part of

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<v Speaker 1>the deal when you do this with the show, is

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<v Speaker 1>you know you might hear something you don't want to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>So and how could her life you be embarrassing? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. It's her thing, it's not my thing. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if it's embarrassing to her. Why don't you

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<v Speaker 1>give it a shot and see, Yeah, we'll tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>She just wants to know, all right. Well, look, she

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned during the date that she's a virgin. But when

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<v Speaker 1>she told me, I was shocked. I mean I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>sure how to react. Okay, so what just too much pressure?

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<v Speaker 1>Knowing that she's a virgin. I think I should clarify

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<v Speaker 1>exactly what she said. Okay, she said she was a

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<v Speaker 1>reimagined vision remained imagined virgin, right, And I was confused, like, oh, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>are you are you you know, born again? Are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you religious? And and she said no, no, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like that. It's just that after every hook up

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<v Speaker 1>with a guy, I reimagined myself as a virgin. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>so she's having sex on the regular but just imagining

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<v Speaker 1>herself as a virgin afterwards. That that is my understanding. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>so according to like a doctor, he would say that

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<v Speaker 1>she is not a virgin. But she said that, Look,

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking to the wrong guy about this. But all

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<v Speaker 1>I know is she said that she imagines herself as

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<v Speaker 1>a virgin and that she's waiting for the right guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, okay, so am I the next person to

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<v Speaker 1>be with this reimagined virgin? You could take somebody's imaginary

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<v Speaker 1>virginity but a pressure, Yeah, I've never heard of that before.

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<v Speaker 1>I had never heard of it either. You said, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not the right guy to ask about it. But I

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<v Speaker 1>do know the woman that we should ask about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and her name is Katie. Don't you think we should

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<v Speaker 1>ask her. Yeah, I mean, I've already talked to her

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<v Speaker 1>about it, So if you're curious, I'm sure she would

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you about it. And I'm very curious. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't we just all talk to her about it

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<v Speaker 1>right now? Because she's on the other line listening and

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<v Speaker 1>wants to talk to you. What. Yeah? What yep, Katie?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah wait, I'm wait, she's on the other line. Yes, Katie,

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<v Speaker 1>say hi to Gabriel. Hi Gabe, Hi, Hey Katie, Hi Gabe.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just a little surprised that you feel this way.

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<v Speaker 1>I had no idea and I you didn't say anything

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<v Speaker 1>during the date. What am I supposed to say? You

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<v Speaker 1>said you were reimagined virgin. I didn't know what to

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<v Speaker 1>say at the moment. I just don't understand why you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't ask me about it, or or say that it

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<v Speaker 1>bothered you or that you thought it was weird. It's not.

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<v Speaker 1>I could have explained to you everything about it, Like

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<v Speaker 1>it's not even just me. This is a movement. So

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<v Speaker 1>this reimagined virgin thing isn't something you came up with

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<v Speaker 1>on your own, Katie. No, of course not. And is it? Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it just because like, are you feeling guilty after

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<v Speaker 1>you have you know, like one night stands or something,

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<v Speaker 1>and so you want to pretend like it didn't happen. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's nothing about guilt or shame. It's it's just about

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<v Speaker 1>feeling like the person you're with is well, making actually

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<v Speaker 1>your relationship with the person you're with and the moment

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<v Speaker 1>special and everything's new. You know, there's nothing, no past

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<v Speaker 1>experiences kind of to compare to others. But you can't

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<v Speaker 1>just like erase your past like it doesn't like life

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't work like that, right, you were obviously when you

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<v Speaker 1>get in bed with somebody else, not virgin, like if

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<v Speaker 1>you've had a lot of experience and that's not a

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<v Speaker 1>bad thing. Well maybe that's the situation for you, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's not how I feel because I'm a reimagined virgin.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you act all like scared and timid during

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<v Speaker 1>it or like what's the It's not really about acting here,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's just being with someone without feeling like you

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<v Speaker 1>have to be a certain way, like remembering how your

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<v Speaker 1>last partner like to do things, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>It's like discovering everything together sexually. Right, Okay, that's not

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<v Speaker 1>a bad message. Weird label yeah, weird label. Yeah, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are getting messed. I still am kind of

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<v Speaker 1>at a loss, Like I don't see how someone can

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't go through and think that they're reimagined virgin. Yeah, Katie,

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<v Speaker 1>why why reimagine yourself as a virgin? Why not just

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<v Speaker 1>go I've been with ten people, but now I'm with

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<v Speaker 1>you because I just said that when I do give

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<v Speaker 1>myself to someone, I'm hoping that that person is going

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<v Speaker 1>to be my fervor person. And if they're not my

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<v Speaker 1>fervor person, then I can just wipe sy clean to

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<v Speaker 1>forget about them and reimagine myself a virgin. Again. That

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<v Speaker 1>is convenient virginity very convenient. Means don't have to hold

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<v Speaker 1>out or anything for that one. See. See that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. It's such a that's a big responsibility. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how I feel about that. Yeah, but game,

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't you just reimagine yourself as a virgin and then

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<v Speaker 1>it's too reimagine virgins together? What you're describing sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>two people just doing a lot of drugs and not

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<v Speaker 1>remembering anything. Actually, actually and she does, but with me,

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<v Speaker 1>it means that she wants to be with me. Forever,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not ready to have that commitment yet. Yeah. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's actually the opposite. There's no responsibility because, like I

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<v Speaker 1>just said, if it doesn't work out, I am able

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<v Speaker 1>to just wipe that py clean. You know. I do

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<v Speaker 1>see the pluses, but it still sounds weird to me. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well maybe it sounds weird to you because you've never

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<v Speaker 1>tried it. I haven't. I'm going to do that. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to reimagine myself a version right now. Yeah you can.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no religious connection, no religious affiliations. Age doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyone can do it. People you've been with, doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>Like who cares the number? Right? Done? I'm a virgin. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are laughing about this, but thousands of people

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<v Speaker 1>are doing this and it's it's not weird at all. Thousands.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we're just off. Gabriel, would you like to

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<v Speaker 1>learn more about reimagined virginity and go on a second

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<v Speaker 1>date with Katie? Will pay for it. Katie, Look, you

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<v Speaker 1>are a nice person. I am not interested in another day.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh the reimagined virgin thing is just too weird, too weird,

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<v Speaker 1>or Katie, you can look at it this way he's

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<v Speaker 1>respecting your reimagined virginity and doesn't want to take that

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<v Speaker 1>from you. Okay, I guess, um, Gabe, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>respecting my reimagined virginity. Yeah, you're welcome. It's too bad, Gabriel,

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<v Speaker 1>because I feel like Katie the Virgin could have taught

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<v Speaker 1>you a thing or two. Nine two says, can I

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<v Speaker 1>be a reimagined a millionaire? Sure you can imagine yourself anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess. Talking about today's second day update, if you

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<v Speaker 1>missed it, Katie wasn't getting a call back from this

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<v Speaker 1>dude named Gabriel, and when we called him, we found

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<v Speaker 1>out why. She mentioned during her date that she is

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<v Speaker 1>a reimagined virgin. Never heard anything like that before, but

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<v Speaker 1>she explained it to us. That's not religious or anything,

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<v Speaker 1>but after she hook up with the guy, she just

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<v Speaker 1>reimagines herself a virgin again to keep things new and exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>So no matter what, she's always a virgin until the

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<v Speaker 1>person she marries, and then she won't be a virgin.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what she said. He thought the idea was extremely

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<v Speaker 1>weird and didn't want the responsibility of taking somebody's reimagined

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<v Speaker 1>virginity too much pressure. There responsibilities, so no second date

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<v Speaker 1>for them. Remember if you want to do a second day,

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<v Speaker 1>to update all you through his email and we will

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<v Speaker 1>call the person who didn't call you back. Young Jeffrey's

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<v Speaker 1>song of the week is coming up at eight ten,

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