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Speaker 1: sah dot com. Brooke and Jebels Second date Update. I
Speaker 1: like a girl that appreciates a nice broke dude from
Speaker 1: time to time. Katie, who's on the phone to do
Speaker 1: a second date update right now, loves broke dudes. Wow, Yeah,
Speaker 1: what's up, Katie? How are you? Hey, guys you're at
Speaker 1: We'll get to how much you like broke guys in
Speaker 1: just a second, But first, tell us about the broke
Speaker 1: guy that you went on a date with. What's his name?
Speaker 1: His name is Gabriel. Gabriel all right, and how did
Speaker 1: you meet him? We met on a dating app, not
Speaker 1: to pay for dating app. Obviously true. It was that
Speaker 1: like part of his like profile that he said he
Speaker 1: was a broke dude. No, not like that's not the
Speaker 1: central factor of the story. Oh, okay, do you guys know, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's just what I chose to highlight on from our email.
Speaker 1: Tell us about your date with Gabriel we had a
Speaker 1: great date. I mean, and honestly, like I've I've been
Speaker 1: on and off dating apps for the last year, like
Speaker 1: a few like Bumble, Tinder, Okay, Jupid. I've really tried
Speaker 1: a lot, and some have been really bad, but some
Speaker 1: have been good. And Gabe, this one, my hand, was
Speaker 1: actually one of the best I've ever had. I've never
Speaker 1: felt like I've met someone online and really really really
Speaker 1: like them. Oh yeah, so sweet. Yeah, it sucks even
Speaker 1: more that you're not going to call back now exactly.
Speaker 1: And that's why I wanted to talk to you guys.
Speaker 1: Tell us about the date and why I keep calling
Speaker 1: him a broke guy. You should probably explain that. Yeah. So,
Speaker 1: so we met at a restaurant and it's kind of
Speaker 1: funny because we sat down and he looked really nervous,
Speaker 1: and I've done this a lot in the last year,
Speaker 1: and it's kind of just like it doesn't really work
Speaker 1: me up anymore. And I like looked at him and
Speaker 1: just said, you don't have to be nervous, And I thought, maybe,
Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe he doesn't do this a lot,
Speaker 1: Maybe he I intimidated him, maybe he thought I was
Speaker 1: pretty I don't know, but either way. I just kind
Speaker 1: of wanted to let him know that it was cool
Speaker 1: and like it's okay, like, no no pressure, this is
Speaker 1: just fun, right, did that help? Well? He said that
Speaker 1: it wasn't that, and it was something else, and so
Speaker 1: I asked him what he was talking about, and he said,
Speaker 1: to be honest, I just don't think I can afford
Speaker 1: the food here, So that's your broke jokes thing whatever.
Speaker 1: I laughed at him and left. No, no, no, I
Speaker 1: laughed because I was not expecting that, and I just
Speaker 1: I told him, wow, why you're a breath of fresh here,
Speaker 1: because honestly, like I love that you are honest? All right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I was not expecting him to say that,
Speaker 1: And it wasn't a turn off to me. It was
Speaker 1: too expensive, and I appreciated dishonesty. I've done that before,
Speaker 1: like I've definitely looked up menu, was ahead of time
Speaker 1: and changed plans rightly. So what did you guys do?
Speaker 1: Did you leave or did you offer to pay for
Speaker 1: the meal? So I said, well, let's just get out
Speaker 1: here and go somewhere else. And you know, he was
Speaker 1: kind of worried and so are you sure? Is it okay?
Speaker 1: And I said, yes, what are you fine, let's go,
Speaker 1: and it wanted to be weird uncomfortable, so we left
Speaker 1: and just went down the street and grabbed some euros
Speaker 1: and beers at this little hole in the wall placed perfect. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was you know, it's great. I don't care where
Speaker 1: we are. I just wanted, you know, meet someone and
Speaker 1: talk to them. And it was super fun and the
Speaker 1: honesty must have made you feel comfortable with him too, totally,
Speaker 1: and it was like, you know, without having this kind
Speaker 1: of like fine dining atmosphere around as it was better
Speaker 1: I think in a casual setting. So that was great
Speaker 1: and so did he drop his nervousness after that when
Speaker 1: you guys went to the europlace totally and we talked
Speaker 1: like nothing felt like formal or surfacing or superficial. We
Speaker 1: talked about like a lot more and I felt like
Speaker 1: we were really connecting and it was so refreshing. Okay,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, you sound like you were so jaded
Speaker 1: before this man came along, and he like renewed your
Speaker 1: spirit in like the hope for love. Yes, I always
Speaker 1: have zero expectation, which is why you're never nervous, because
Speaker 1: he got nothing to lose exactly, that's how Yep, that's
Speaker 1: exactly what I do. And so at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, I kind of like was joking with him
Speaker 1: and I was like, do you want to die in
Speaker 1: dash here too? And he thought it was funny and
Speaker 1: we laughed and did you guys actually dine and dash? Though? No,
Speaker 1: we didn't, damn we just you know, we ended the
Speaker 1: day normally. He gave me a hug and I have
Speaker 1: not hurt him him since, like, except for a text
Speaker 1: dot night saying thanks to the date. Okay, and what
Speaker 1: do you think went wrong? Why do you think he's
Speaker 1: not wanting to go out again? I don't know, like
Speaker 1: I said, just being able to be honest with each other,
Speaker 1: changing the place like going to someone and more casual.
Speaker 1: I thought that it was kind of fun and chill
Speaker 1: and there was no hard feelings, no reason to feel
Speaker 1: embarrassed or weird. I thought it was really really actually,
Speaker 1: he's like again, one of the best days I've had
Speaker 1: in a long time. I think it's straight. He's not
Speaker 1: calling you back either, yeah, because you sound awesome on
Speaker 1: the day, thank you. I thought it was all right,
Speaker 1: Well we'll try to figure it out. We'll play a
Speaker 1: song and then come back and call him and get
Speaker 1: your second day up date. Okay, great, thank you, Yeah,
Speaker 1: hang on looking jubil in the morning. Hey, Katie, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's gotta be frustrating because you said you went out
Speaker 1: on one of the greatest dates in your whole life,
Speaker 1: and now the dude's not calling you back. That's I
Speaker 1: just I was just thinking about it's gonna be frustrating
Speaker 1: because clearly you had a very different experience if you
Speaker 1: think about it. I mean maybe, yeah, you know, I
Speaker 1: don't know why. I mean, I don't know either. You
Speaker 1: sound cool, especially, you know because you told us how
Speaker 1: you guys went out to a restaurant that was too
Speaker 1: expensive for him, and he actually told you that, and
Speaker 1: you still were like, let's get out of here and
Speaker 1: go someplace cheaper. That's very understanding. As a dude, I'd
Speaker 1: be like, oh, that's awesome. She doesn't care if I
Speaker 1: have money or whatever. I can just be myself really good.
Speaker 1: So I don't know why you're not getting a call
Speaker 1: back either, but I'm gonna call him now. You know,
Speaker 1: he didn't have enough money, so maybe he's just saving
Speaker 1: up money so he can take you on a better
Speaker 1: date next time, Like olive garden. Wow, maybe take you
Speaker 1: to the gas station, buy you a Voss water. Maybe
Speaker 1: he's saving up for a Voss water that's the fancy
Speaker 1: one in a glass bottle. You know. Hey, you guys joke,
Speaker 1: but that's actually really romantic. If that was the case,
Speaker 1: I absolutely think that you should go to the gas
Speaker 1: station with him. I would I would go to a
Speaker 1: gas station. I just want to see him again. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call him right now and see if we
Speaker 1: can figure out why he's not getting back to you. Okay, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, I gotta speak to Gabriel. This
Speaker 1: is Gabriel, Gabriel, how are you man? This is Jewel
Speaker 1: from the radio show Brooke and Jewel in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Call him from where Brooke and Jewel in the Morning.
Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Oh um? Okay, okay. Any idea
Speaker 1: why a radio show is calling you? Or do you
Speaker 1: get radio show is calling you? No? I have no idea.
Speaker 1: Where are you guys calling? Kay? I'm calling you today
Speaker 1: because we got an email about you from somebody who
Speaker 1: listens to our show about me. Yes, her name is Katie.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, weird, weird? Do you know Katie. You remember Katie. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: we went on a date. Yes, Yeah, that's exactly why
Speaker 1: we're calling. We do a segment called the second Date Update.
Speaker 1: That's where if you go out on a date with
Speaker 1: somebody and then end up not calling them back after,
Speaker 1: they can email us to get you on the phone
Speaker 1: and ask what happened? Slow down for a second. Why
Speaker 1: why isn't she calling me? Why isn't she just asked
Speaker 1: me herself? Well, because apparently she's tried to get a
Speaker 1: hold of you, but you won't text her back or
Speaker 1: call her back. So that's why she hasn't asked you herself,
Speaker 1: because you won't respond to her. Yeah, pretty good reason,
Speaker 1: the whole point behind what we're doing right now. I
Speaker 1: get that. But she conducted a radio station. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean how else? I mean, she didn't have any other
Speaker 1: way to get a hold of you, and she also
Speaker 1: know what's going on. So bizarre. Okay, did you wait?
Speaker 1: Do you like Katie? She was nice? Yeah, she seems
Speaker 1: like a nice person. You know. She said that the
Speaker 1: date she went on with you is one of the
Speaker 1: best dates she's ever been on in her entire life.
Speaker 1: That's wow, that's that's sweet. Yeah, no pressure or anything. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and she can't think of any reason why you wouldn't
Speaker 1: want to go out with her again. Did she do
Speaker 1: something wrong on your date? You know, she just has
Speaker 1: kind of a unique view on how life works, and
Speaker 1: I wasn't really my thing a unique view on how
Speaker 1: life works. Can you explain that a little bit more
Speaker 1: for us? You know, it's it's kind of embarrassing. I
Speaker 1: don't know if I should okay, embarrassing for her? You
Speaker 1: think it might be okay, Well, she's prepared to hear
Speaker 1: whatever you have to say. I mean, that's part of
Speaker 1: the deal when you do this with the show, is
Speaker 1: you know you might hear something you don't want to hear.
Speaker 1: So and how could her life you be embarrassing? I
Speaker 1: don't know. It's her thing, it's not my thing. I
Speaker 1: don't know if it's embarrassing to her. Why don't you
Speaker 1: give it a shot and see, Yeah, we'll tell you.
Speaker 1: She just wants to know, all right. Well, look, she
Speaker 1: mentioned during the date that she's a virgin. But when
Speaker 1: she told me, I was shocked. I mean I wasn't
Speaker 1: sure how to react. Okay, so what just too much pressure?
Speaker 1: Knowing that she's a virgin. I think I should clarify
Speaker 1: exactly what she said. Okay, she said she was a
Speaker 1: reimagined vision remained imagined virgin, right, And I was confused, like, oh, sorry,
Speaker 1: are you are you you know, born again? Are you?
Speaker 1: Are you religious? And and she said no, no, it's
Speaker 1: not like that. It's just that after every hook up
Speaker 1: with a guy, I reimagined myself as a virgin. Wait,
Speaker 1: so she's having sex on the regular but just imagining
Speaker 1: herself as a virgin afterwards. That that is my understanding. Yes,
Speaker 1: so according to like a doctor, he would say that
Speaker 1: she is not a virgin. But she said that, Look,
Speaker 1: you're talking to the wrong guy about this. But all
Speaker 1: I know is she said that she imagines herself as
Speaker 1: a virgin and that she's waiting for the right guy.
Speaker 1: I thought, okay, so am I the next person to
Speaker 1: be with this reimagined virgin? You could take somebody's imaginary
Speaker 1: virginity but a pressure, Yeah, I've never heard of that before.
Speaker 1: I had never heard of it either. You said, you're
Speaker 1: not the right guy to ask about it. But I
Speaker 1: do know the woman that we should ask about it,
Speaker 1: and her name is Katie. Don't you think we should
Speaker 1: ask her. Yeah, I mean, I've already talked to her
Speaker 1: about it, So if you're curious, I'm sure she would
Speaker 1: talk to you about it. And I'm very curious. You know,
Speaker 1: why don't we just all talk to her about it
Speaker 1: right now? Because she's on the other line listening and
Speaker 1: wants to talk to you. What. Yeah? What yep, Katie?
Speaker 1: Yeah wait, I'm wait, she's on the other line. Yes, Katie,
Speaker 1: say hi to Gabriel. Hi Gabe, Hi, Hey Katie, Hi Gabe.
Speaker 1: I'm just a little surprised that you feel this way.
Speaker 1: I had no idea and I you didn't say anything
Speaker 1: during the date. What am I supposed to say? You
Speaker 1: said you were reimagined virgin. I didn't know what to
Speaker 1: say at the moment. I just don't understand why you
Speaker 1: didn't ask me about it, or or say that it
Speaker 1: bothered you or that you thought it was weird. It's not.
Speaker 1: I could have explained to you everything about it, Like
Speaker 1: it's not even just me. This is a movement. So
Speaker 1: this reimagined virgin thing isn't something you came up with
Speaker 1: on your own, Katie. No, of course not. And is it? Wait?
Speaker 1: Is it just because like, are you feeling guilty after
Speaker 1: you have you know, like one night stands or something,
Speaker 1: and so you want to pretend like it didn't happen. No, No,
Speaker 1: it's nothing about guilt or shame. It's it's just about
Speaker 1: feeling like the person you're with is well, making actually
Speaker 1: your relationship with the person you're with and the moment
Speaker 1: special and everything's new. You know, there's nothing, no past
Speaker 1: experiences kind of to compare to others. But you can't
Speaker 1: just like erase your past like it doesn't like life
Speaker 1: doesn't work like that, right, you were obviously when you
Speaker 1: get in bed with somebody else, not virgin, like if
Speaker 1: you've had a lot of experience and that's not a
Speaker 1: bad thing. Well maybe that's the situation for you, but
Speaker 1: that's not how I feel because I'm a reimagined virgin.
Speaker 1: So do you act all like scared and timid during
Speaker 1: it or like what's the It's not really about acting here,
Speaker 1: and it's just being with someone without feeling like you
Speaker 1: have to be a certain way, like remembering how your
Speaker 1: last partner like to do things, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: It's like discovering everything together sexually. Right, Okay, that's not
Speaker 1: a bad message. Weird label yeah, weird label. Yeah, maybe
Speaker 1: you guys are getting messed. I still am kind of
Speaker 1: at a loss, Like I don't see how someone can
Speaker 1: couldn't go through and think that they're reimagined virgin. Yeah, Katie,
Speaker 1: why why reimagine yourself as a virgin? Why not just
Speaker 1: go I've been with ten people, but now I'm with
Speaker 1: you because I just said that when I do give
Speaker 1: myself to someone, I'm hoping that that person is going
Speaker 1: to be my fervor person. And if they're not my
Speaker 1: fervor person, then I can just wipe sy clean to
Speaker 1: forget about them and reimagine myself a virgin. Again. That
Speaker 1: is convenient virginity very convenient. Means don't have to hold
Speaker 1: out or anything for that one. See. See that's what
Speaker 1: I mean. It's such a that's a big responsibility. I
Speaker 1: don't know how I feel about that. Yeah, but game,
Speaker 1: couldn't you just reimagine yourself as a virgin and then
Speaker 1: it's too reimagine virgins together? What you're describing sounds like
Speaker 1: two people just doing a lot of drugs and not
Speaker 1: remembering anything. Actually, actually and she does, but with me,
Speaker 1: it means that she wants to be with me. Forever,
Speaker 1: and I'm not ready to have that commitment yet. Yeah. No,
Speaker 1: it's actually the opposite. There's no responsibility because, like I
Speaker 1: just said, if it doesn't work out, I am able
Speaker 1: to just wipe that py clean. You know. I do
Speaker 1: see the pluses, but it still sounds weird to me. Okay,
Speaker 1: well maybe it sounds weird to you because you've never
Speaker 1: tried it. I haven't. I'm going to do that. I'm
Speaker 1: going to reimagine myself a version right now. Yeah you can.
Speaker 1: There's no religious connection, no religious affiliations. Age doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: Anyone can do it. People you've been with, doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: Like who cares the number? Right? Done? I'm a virgin. Okay,
Speaker 1: you guys are laughing about this, but thousands of people
Speaker 1: are doing this and it's it's not weird at all. Thousands.
Speaker 1: You know, we're just off. Gabriel, would you like to
Speaker 1: learn more about reimagined virginity and go on a second
Speaker 1: date with Katie? Will pay for it. Katie, Look, you
Speaker 1: are a nice person. I am not interested in another day.
Speaker 1: Oh the reimagined virgin thing is just too weird, too weird,
Speaker 1: or Katie, you can look at it this way he's
Speaker 1: respecting your reimagined virginity and doesn't want to take that
Speaker 1: from you. Okay, I guess, um, Gabe, thank you for
Speaker 1: respecting my reimagined virginity. Yeah, you're welcome. It's too bad, Gabriel,
Speaker 1: because I feel like Katie the Virgin could have taught
Speaker 1: you a thing or two. Nine two says, can I
Speaker 1: be a reimagined a millionaire? Sure you can imagine yourself anything.
Speaker 1: I guess. Talking about today's second day update, if you
Speaker 1: missed it, Katie wasn't getting a call back from this
Speaker 1: dude named Gabriel, and when we called him, we found
Speaker 1: out why. She mentioned during her date that she is
Speaker 1: a reimagined virgin. Never heard anything like that before, but
Speaker 1: she explained it to us. That's not religious or anything,
Speaker 1: but after she hook up with the guy, she just
Speaker 1: reimagines herself a virgin again to keep things new and exciting.
Speaker 1: So no matter what, she's always a virgin until the
Speaker 1: person she marries, and then she won't be a virgin.
Speaker 1: That's what she said. He thought the idea was extremely
Speaker 1: weird and didn't want the responsibility of taking somebody's reimagined
Speaker 1: virginity too much pressure. There responsibilities, so no second date
Speaker 1: for them. Remember if you want to do a second day,
Speaker 1: to update all you through his email and we will
Speaker 1: call the person who didn't call you back. Young Jeffrey's
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